Courtesy Ramsiel, Love&Light World

Dear Angels,

“I am preparing to move soon. The same house keeps popping up for the last year in my search.  Is this a sign of my next home or is this a test of my priorities?”  Dominique, San Diego

Hi Dominique,

You are ready for change, for adventure, for fun. Change is whispering in your ear “Com’on…” You are leaving behind your old life to make room for an exciting new chapter.

You are ready to rebirth yourself, inviting in new friends, a new home, and most of all life itself. You have spent long enough in our world of limitation. You are at the most wonderful place of releasing the controlling rules of the past and opening to a whole new world. Something so much better is arriving shortly. Be open. Expect to be delighted with new experiences and if that includes a home, and it does, then expect it. See it. Whether it’s the home you keep seeing or whether that home just represents a new start, you are about embark on a new path. Welcome these miracles into your life. You are ripe and ready, but first as you make ready to dawn a new day, you have to walk through the night, the darkness.

In order to release the old patterns of limitation that we all carry, we have to walk away from what no longer works. The old rules no longer matter in the same way. It’s not that you become an anarchist, but rather that you listen to your own heart and follow the path of loving acceptance. No longer must you follow the ideas of another but rather listen to your own heartbeat and follow that road. It is on this road that you meet the Wizard to create your new life.

In this sense it is a test of your priorities.  If you are determined to create a new life for yourself, you are and you will.

Courtesy Ramsiel, Love&Light World

Dear Angels,

“Will my ex come back to me in the future, wanting to be with me?”  Olivia, Salisbury, MD

Dear Olivia,

You are both extraordinary people in your own way.  You seem to be a woman of accomplishment.  Someone who stands tall, knows who she is and is able to make her way in the world, all the while doing your best to trust in the Unseen while creating fun in your life.

Your ex works on being present and for that reason, is not so sure he believes in commitment.  Or attachment, as in marriage. Detachment is his game but instead of seeing it through the eyes of Love, he sees detachment as a way to avoid commitment. Two different things.  He sees the two of you as having ongoing issues which from his viewpoint, prevent a “healthy” relationship.

He sees you as being totally heartbroken and unable to keep your balance all the while thinking you have mastered life. He would like to be married some day, but when I ask with you, I am sorry to say I get a definitive no. Could I be wrong? Of course. 

My suggestion is to pay attention to your differences while maintaining your understanding that we are all the same. You are at a place in your spiritual evolution where letting go is part of your path. In releasing him to follow his own path, you will enable him to find his own light.  It is not something anyone can do for us. 

Courtesy Ramsiel, Love&Light World

Dear Angels,

“I have recently hooked up on Face Book with an old college friend, now married. Greg and I knew each other some 30+ years ago and have been communicating like crazy since our FB reunion. It feels like we have a very strong soul connection, or am I imagining that? I dream of him night after night and wake up a lot. He seems to be right there on my mind  This is just so unusual for me.”  Joyce, Charlestown, IN

Dear Joyce,

You seem to be someone who works on herself spiritually.  You’re not afraid of your time alone, unlike many who must be with someone.  You are on your search still to find the inner meaning of life but you’re beginning to entertain the idea that maybe you don’t have to isolate yourself to do so. You are beginning to change.

Greg showed up because for the first time in a very long time,  you were actually thinking it might be nice to have a guy in your life. At the same time you are wise enough to realize that you have to give up some of your control to allow the time and space for someone to appear.   Smart lady.  What you have done is manifest an interest that is inaccessible. He’s married but feels comfortable enough at a distance.

Greg was playing around on Face Book because he’s not happy in his relationship. He would love to begin a new relationship yet he is not thinking about divorce.  He’s in a place where his hopes are dashed and a roll in a new bed would help him not notice.

You have been dreaming of him for two reasons. The first is he is imagining jumping into bed with the old college you. The second is that his wife is an intelligent woman who likes to maintain a tight control over him. She can feel his pull away from her;  he can imagine how much fun it would be to connect with the old you.

The question for you is, are you willing to be a diversion?  I don’t know about soul connection.  Seems more like lust as a way out of introspection. Or perhaps a missed opportunity. But was it?

Courtesy Ramsiel, Love&Light World

Dear Angels,

“Does my Dad, Keith, who has passed over, have a message for me?”  Katie, Melbourne, Victoria

Dear Katie,

I don’t usually answer anything about the deceased on this blog, but your Dad started to talk as I was reading your question.  He was/is so spiritually aligned and so loving, that I began to get goosebumps up and down my legs and arms – a sure acknowledgment that the deceased are with us.

Your Dad is clear.  He sees you as the spiritually aligned being that you are. He wants to congratulate you on the rock-solid baseline in your chosen path to the Divine.  What you want to create in life, you have already created within. Don’t be afraid to listen to your heart and follow your dream.  You are prepared and ready.  Your Dad is still here as your protector as you are for others.

There are times to move forward and time to slow down.  You are prepared.  Whatever it is you have chosen to dream, now is the time. The forces of the universe are behind you.  What can slow you down is your difficulty in letting go or perhaps your fear of standing up and being counted. If you hang on longer, your vision will become dimmed and without merit unless you share who you are and your abilities.

Trust that an ending always brings a beginning. The beginning is an opening to something so much better than what you think is finished.  Now you have the opportunity to trust the Light within to guide you by allowing yourself to swallow your fear and move forward in your life with what really matters to you.

It is time to share your gifts that you have worked so hard to polish.

Courtesy Ramsiel, Love&Light World

Dear Angels,

“Will my boyfriend, Roger, marry me?”  Chrissy, Ocean Beach, MD

Hi Chrissy,

What your angels are showing me that you are a young woman of competence. You have a charisma and a joy that attracts others. If you decide to go into some kind of business, you can lead others just by being yourself.  Your challenge is you’ve been sitting back as if you’re on vacation.   You’ve been coasting, having fun, not exerting yourself.  That will end shortly and perhaps abruptly indicating it is time to pull yourself together.

Your boyfriend, Roger, is someone who can make most anything he is interested in happen in the world.  He is also someone who is accomplished not just in the ways of the world, but spiritually as well.  It seems he would like to be married and would be a fair and solid husband.  He sees you as a beautiful woman who is able to make things happen using her feminine wiles. He also sees you as someone who would make a fine mother to his children.

Will Roger ask you? I think the answer is yes.  Do notice that something is going to happen shortly that will bump you out of your comfort zone however.

Courtesy Ramsiel, Love&Light World

Dear Angels,

“I believe that angels are all around us, but from what I understand, angels are messengers of God and they do only what He tells them to, at least that’s what I was told.  They are ministering spirits sent by God.  If I ask an angel to help me with something, will they?  I guess as long as it’s the will of God for the highest good.”  Ray, San Diego, CA

Hi Ray,

You have approached this question from a traditional religious outlook.  The answer from my non-traditional viewpoint is “Yes,”  the angels do their best to help you if it’s for the highest good of all concerned. Angels are said to be the messengers of God. But what if God is not quite what you thought? What if God is in everything and everyone, even you? What if angels are an energy of unconditional love that we have named angel(s)? What if we have given them a form when they live in the spirit world, a world without form.

Our challenge in our physical world of time and space is that in the world of the angels, there is no time and space.  They fly free. They live on a plane of existence charged with unconditional love. Think of what we call heaven.

The angelic energy does need to be asked to help you because you are a powerful creator of your own life in spite of what you think. There is no push from the angels, but rather a gentle nudging.  Asking indicates your willingness to be open. Just the same way you ask specifically for answers here, you must ask the angels.

Do know, Ray, that your angels are always with you.  It  is up to you to activate their healing energy. Like you, I ask for what I need help with for my highest good. I also add, may this or something better happen; and thank you. I “turn on” my angels before I do any reading or anything of importance for me as well.

One more thought.  The more you practice, the easier it gets. Initially I didn’t feel the angelic energy. Gradually the subtlety of the vibration of Light became clear to me. It will for you as  well.  If you want more information on the “how-to’s” of connecting, go back a month or two into the archives on this blog and you’ll find specific directions.

Courtesy Ramsiel, Love&Light World

For years I have said to myself when passing the bum on the street, “You are God.” For me this statement didn’t mean that you are the God, but rather that your body contains a part of Source.

Recently I changed my thought to, “You are God in a body.”  This feels a little different. For me this is an acknowledgment of  our physicality and at the same time the essence of  a supreme being, the energy of The Energy  within. Suppose that you and I are God in a body?  If this is true, why are we living as we do?

My friend emailed,  “What does this mean exactly?  How is it that we are God in a body but that we don’t know we are?  Is it one of those mysterious questions that can never be answered?”

Perhaps the answer depends on how you see God, if you do.  For me, I see God as the divinity within every animate and inanimate object.  How is that possible you might inquire?  I can’t answer that. It’s simply a inner knowing as an intuitive woman of strong, non-traditional faith.  I am not a church or temple goer. I don’t profess any special powers but rather practice living from my heart.  The answer to everything seems to be in my heart center. It’s a simple formula I have created unknowingly.   My unspoken guideline is, “Would I do this, say this, be this with one of my beloved children?”  If not, I’m off. 

There seems to be a presence in our universe of unconditional love that many call God.  This presence never leaves us, although in our bodies on our planet of contrast, we often feel “alone and separated” as “A Course in Miracles” drums into our heads.

What if the choice is always a decision to act and speak from our ego-mind or from the unconditional love of our heart? If unconditional love is the pipeline to God or perhaps is God, then we are always connected.  We are given the opportunity every minute to choose to lead with love.

As much as my ego allows, I am choosing to love you not because I am magnanimous and want to overlook your faults, but rather because what you think of as faults, I see as missteps and not as you.  For me, you are God masquerading as a human being.

Yesterday I heard an interesting story from a man who had had several memorable out-of-body experiences. He shared that when he was two, he remembered seeing his body in his crib.  He was in a state of bliss above his body. His mother came to check on him and was startled to see that he wasn’t crying, his normal state of awakening from a nap.  Instead he was smiling. He heard her speak to him in a language unknown to him. What he saw was his mother wrapped in a yellow fuzzy energy that he knew was a communication of unconditional love.  He felt so loved that he can recreate that picture for himself even today at sixty.

What if this love that I am calling God, is with you always?  What if your whole purpose of being born into a physical body with all of its vulnerability, is to live your life full out, remembering with every breath that you are the creator with The Creator? 

If this is true, are you willing to live from your heart to create the life of your dreams?

Courtesy Ramsiel, Love&Light World

Dear Angels,

“Should I stop seeing Salvador?   I feel he is the one for me, but on the other hand, I feel he blames me for a lot of what’s happened to him, although I wasn’t even in the picture at the time.”  Olga, Miami, FL

Dear Olga,

Are you familiar with the  red cross-bar that comes across the railroad or trolley tracks when a train is approaching? Reading your question created an immediate picture of that barrier.  If Salvador is blaming you today when you are not married, do you really think it will be better with everyday living?  Everything is magnified with day in-day out living together.  He is not willing to look at his part so you are the willing recipient.   When he loses his job, it will be your fault. When he finds another woman to play with, it will be your fault. When he doesn’t support your children, it will be your fault.

Salvador is intriguing for you because he represents a man who knows his way in the world. He seems to know how to make money and I would guess, he’s pretty sexy as well. Looking into a continued relationship however, he will be the boss. His decisions will be unfair and leave you hurting  As the sexual fire dies down, you might very well find yourself stuck with a man who is stubborn and impossibly difficult seeing only with his eyes and not yours.

Courtesy Ramsiel, Love&Light World

Dear Angels,

“I demonstrate my mediumship once a month in front of a small crowd of about 50 people.  Lately, I feel I have a block.  I can’t seem to bring in or feel spirit.  Please help.”   Dermot, Bangor, IR

Dear Dermot,

Your angels are clear with your answer. You have already arrived. You are a master already. You are here to enrich the lives of others through your own inner knowing. It is time to express yourself, to allow yourself to feel confident in what comes to you psychically.

What’s holding you back? You will laugh as you shake your head knowing there is truth in this.  Notice if you are holding back, not allowing in some way. Notice if your mind is blocking you from receiving what is in front of your face. Perhaps you have become afraid of seeing too much, or of a negative experience to be shared with a client. 

It is your need to control what comes through you as opposed to what you used to do where you just allowed Spirit to speak through you, that is creating this block.  As you align yourself and those in the room in the Light before your session, you will create a safety net. Look to see if something happened that pulled up old fear that made you think you had to maintain a tight control of the situation.  As you well know, linear thinking blocks the Love of Spirit.

You are going through the motions as we say here in the States.  You are fooling yourself in thinking you are allowing. Instead you are controlling what comes through you. Better instead that you set up the initial protocol that protects both you and the audience. Ahead of time talk with your guides and angels and explain what you want:  the protection and the direct knowing and allow your angels to monitor your performance.  Then you can relax and allow yourself to receive what is still there but your linear mind refuses to let through.

Courtesy Ramsiel, Love&Light World

Dear Angels,

“I am dating a man I adore but his job is to travel for weeks at a time. He told me I should find another man to find a stable relationship. Tomorrow I am going to meet a new guy who wants a long-term relationship. I am tired of dating. I am 35, single mother who need support…

My question is:  when am I going to find Mr. Right and be relaxed knowing he is completely attracted to me and doesn’t want to lose me? Do I let him lead the way and the speed of the relationship? Is there something I am doing to drive away men?”  Linda, San Diego, CA

Dear Linda,

What I’m feeling is a general unrest within you, as if you feel you are not enough in yourself, when in fact, the exact opposite is true.  Your fears of being alone and unsupported emotionally and perhaps fiscally, are overrunning you and scaring away potential mates. You are creating misunderstandings  and destroying your relationships because of your need to be filled up.

When I ask how the men in your life respond to your energy, what I see is their initial intrigue dispels because of your intense sense of having lost out on life.  Instead of using your intelligence and your own emotional strength which you don’t think you own, to create your own stability, you tend to lean heavily on the man in your life. Then he feels manipulated and loses interest.

Your angels’ guidance is for you to understand that what you want in a man must show up in you first. It is from what appears to be nothing, the Void,  that everything is created, even us.  It is becoming comfortable within ourselves and our creations in life that allows us to attract someone who wants to join us and not save us.