<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:openSearch="http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/" xmlns:blogger="http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008" xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss" xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0" version="2.0"><channel><atom:id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2727349708927193602</atom:id><lastBuildDate>Fri, 08 Nov 2024 15:04:51 +0000</lastBuildDate><category>Arkadelphia High School 1992 Class Reunion</category><category>Lists</category><category>Poetry</category><category>Updates</category><title>The Articulate Ramblings of the Attorney-at-Mom</title><description>(YOU CAN CALL ME CAROLINE)&lt;br&gt;&#xa;&#xa;On Life. Love. Motherhood. And Work.</description><link>http://attorneyatmom.blogspot.com/</link><managingEditor>noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)</managingEditor><generator>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>8</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2727349708927193602.post-7861214395406807481</guid><pubDate>Sun, 28 Jun 2015 18:19:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2015-06-28T13:19:26.037-05:00</atom:updated><title>Obergefell v. Hodges -- Thomas Dissent -- Quotes</title><description>&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot; style=&quot;text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;JUSTICE
THOMAS, with whom JUSTICE SCALIA joins, dissenting.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;[T]he
majority invokes our Constitution in the name of a “liberty” that the Framers
would not have recognized, to the detriment of the liberty they sought to
protect. Along the way, it rejects the idea—captured in our Declaration of
Independence—that human dignity is innate and suggests instead that it comes
from the Government. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;By
straying from the text of the Constitution, substantive due process exalts
judges at the expense of the People from whom they derive their authority.
Petitioners &amp;nbsp;. . . ask nine judges on
this Court to enshrine their definition of marriage in the Federal Constitution
and thus put it beyond the reach of the normal democratic process for the
entire Nation. That a “bare majority” of this Court, is able to grant this wish,
wiping out with a stroke of the keyboard the results of the political process
in over 30 States, based on a provision that guarantees only “due process” is
but further evidence of the danger of substantive due process.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;Even
assuming that the “liberty” in those Clauses encompasses something more than
freedom from physical restraint, it would not include the types of rights
claimed by the majority. In the American legal tradition, liberty has long been
understood as individual freedom from governmental action, not as a right to a
particular governmental entitlement. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;“[L]iberty in the eighteenth century was
thought of much more in relation to ‘negative liberty’; that is, freedom from,
not freedom to, freedom from a number of social and political evils, including
arbitrary government power.” J. Reid, The Concept of Liberty in the Age of the
American Revolution 56 (1988). &amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;Or as
one scholar put it in 1776, “[T]he common idea of liberty is merely negative,
and is only the absence of restraint.” R. Hey, Observations on the Nature of
Civil Liberty and the Principles of Government §13, p. 8 (1776) (Hey). &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;Whether
we define “liberty” as locomotion or freedom from governmental action more
broadly, petitioners have in no way been deprived of it.&amp;nbsp; Petitioners cannot claim, under the most
plausible definition of “liberty,” that they have been imprisoned or physically
restrained by the States for participating in same-sex relationships. To the
contrary, they have been able to cohabitate and raise their children in peace.
They have been able to hold civil marriage ceremonies in States that recognize
same-sex marriages and private religious ceremonies in all States. They have
been able to travel freely around the country, making their homes where they
please. Far from being incarcerated or physically restrained, petitioners have
been left alone to order their lives as they see fit.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;To
the extent that the Framers would have recognized a natural right to marriage
that fell within the broader definition of liberty, it would not have included
a right to governmental recognition and benefits. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;Petitioners’
misconception of liberty carries over into their discussion of our precedents
identifying a right to marry, not one of which has expanded the concept of
“liberty” beyond the concept of negative liberty. Those precedents all involved
absolute prohibitions on private actions associated with marriage. &lt;i&gt;Loving v. Virginia&lt;/i&gt;, 388 U. S. 1 (1967),
for example, involved a couple who was criminally prosecuted for marrying in
the District of Columbia and cohabiting in Virginia.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;“[L]iberty”
is not lost, nor can it be found in the way petitioners seek. As a
philosophical matter, liberty is only freedom from governmental action, not an
entitlement to governmental benefits. And as a constitutional matter, it is
likely even narrower than that, encompassing only freedom from physical
restraint and imprisonment. The majority’s “better informed understanding of
how constitutional imperatives define . . . liberty,” . . . runs headlong into
the reality that our Constitution is a “collection of ‘Thou shalt nots,’”), not
“Thou shalt provides.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;Although
men, in forming a civil society, “give up all the power necessary to the ends
for which they unite into society, to the majority of the community,” they
reserve the authority to exercise natural liberty within the bounds of laws
established by that society. To protect that liberty from arbitrary
interference, they establish a process by which that society can adopt and
enforce its laws. In our country, that process is primarily representative
government at the state level, with the Federal Constitution serving as a
backstop for that process. As a general matter, when the States act through
their representative governments or by popular vote, the liberty of their
residents is fully vindicated. This is no less true when some residents
disagree with the result; indeed, it seems difficult to imagine any law on
which all residents of a State would agree. &amp;nbsp;What matters is that the process established
by those who created the society has been honored.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;That
process has been honored here. The definition of marriage has been the subject
of heated debate in the States. Legislatures have repeatedly taken up the
matter on behalf of the People, and 35 States have put the question to the
People themselves. In 32 of those 35 States, the People have opted to retain
the traditional definition of marriage. That petitioners disagree with the
result of that process does not make it any less legitimate. Their civil
liberty has been vindicated.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;Aside
from undermining the political processes that protect our liberty, the
majority’s decision threatens the religious liberty our Nation has long sought
to protect.&amp;nbsp; The history of religious
liberty in our country is familiar: Many of the earliest immigrants to America
came seeking freedom to practice their religion without restraint. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;In
our society, marriage is not simply a governmental institution; it is a
religious institution as well. &amp;nbsp;Today’s decision
might change the former, but it cannot change the latter. It appears all but
inevitable that the two will come into conflict, particularly as individuals
and churches are confronted with demands to participate in and endorse civil
marriages between same-sex couples.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;Although
our Constitution provides some protection against such governmental
restrictions on religious practices, the People have long elected to afford
broader protections than this Court’s constitutional precedents mandate. Had
the majority allowed the definition of marriage to be left to the political
process—as the Constitution requires—the People could have considered the
religious liberty implications of deviating from the traditional definition as
part of their deliberative process. Instead, the majority’s decision
short-circuits that process, with potentially ruinous consequences for
religious liberty.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;[T]he
Constitution contains no “dignity” Clause, and even if it did, the government
would be incapable of bestowing dignity.&amp;nbsp;
Human dignity has long been understood in this country to be innate.
When the Framers proclaimed in the Declaration of Independence that “all men
are created equal” and “endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights,”
they referred to a vision of mankind in which all humans are created in the
image of God and therefore of inherent worth. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;The
corollary of that principle is that human dignity cannot be taken away by the
government. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;The
government cannot bestow dignity, and it cannot take it away.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;Our
Constitution—like the Declaration of Independence before it—was predicated on a
simple truth: One’s liberty, not to mention one’s dignity, was something to be
shielded from—not provided by—the State. Today’s decision casts that truth
aside. In its haste to reach a desired result, the majority misapplies a clause
focused on “due process” to afford substantive rights, disregards the most
plausible understanding of the “liberty” protected by that clause, and distorts
the principles on which this Nation was founded. Its decision will have
inestimable consequences for our Constitution and our society. &amp;nbsp;I respectfully dissent.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12pt;&quot;&gt;JUSTICE ALITO, with whom JUSTICE SCALIA and JUSTICE THOMAS join, dissenting.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12pt;&quot;&gt;Until the federal courts intervened, the American people were engaged in a debate about whether their States should recognize same-sex marriage.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;The question in these cases, however, is not what States should do about same-sex marriage but whether the Constitution answers that question for them. It does not. The Constitution leaves that question to be decided by the people of each State.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12pt;&quot;&gt;Our Nation was founded upon the principle that every person has the unalienable right to liberty, but liberty is a term of many meanings.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12pt;&quot;&gt;To prevent five unelected Justices from imposing their personal vision of liberty upon the American people, the Court has held that “liberty” under the Due Process Clause should be understood to protect only those rights that are “‘deeply rooted in this Nation’s history and tradition.’”&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;And it is beyond dispute that the right to same-sex marriage is not among those rights.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;Nor is the right to same-sex marriage deeply rooted in the traditions of other nations.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12pt;&quot;&gt;For today’s majority, it does not matter that the right to same-sex marriage lacks deep roots or even that it is contrary to long-established tradition. The Justices in the majority claim the authority to confer constitutional protection upon that right simply because they believe that it is fundamental.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12pt;&quot;&gt;The Members of this Court have the authority and the responsibility to interpret and apply the Constitution. Thus, if the Constitution contained a provision guaranteeing the right to marry a person of the same sex, it would be our duty to enforce that right.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;But the Constitution simply does not speak to the issue of same-sex marriage. In our system of government, ultimate sovereignty rests with the people, and the people have the right to control their own destiny. Any change on a question so fundamental should be made by the people through their elected officials.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12pt;&quot;&gt;The system of federalism established by our Constitution provides a way for people with different beliefs to live together in a single nation. If the issue of same-sex marriage had been left to the people of the States, it is likely that some States would recognize same-sex marriage and others would not. It is also possible that some States would tie recognition to protection for conscience rights.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;The majority today makes that impossible. By imposing its own views on the entire country, the majority facilitates the marginalization of the many Americans who have traditional ideas. Recalling the harsh treatment of gays and lesbians in the past, some may think that turnabout is fair play. But if that sentiment prevails, the Nation will experience bitter and lasting wounds.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12pt;&quot;&gt;Today’s decision will also have a fundamental effect on this Court and its ability to uphold the rule of law. If a bare majority of Justices can invent a new right and impose that right on the rest of the country, the only real limit on what future majorities will be able to do is their own sense of what those with political power and cultural influence are willing to tolerate. Even enthusiastic supporters of same-sex marriage should worry about the scope of the power that today’s majority claims.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12pt;&quot;&gt;Most Americans—understandably—will cheer or lament today’s decision because of their views on the issue of same-sex marriage. But all Americans, whatever their thinking on that issue, should worry about what the majority’s claim of power portends.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;CHIEF JUSTICE ROBERTS, with whom JUSTICE SCALIA and
JUSTICE THOMAS join, dissenting.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;This Court is not a legislature. Whether same-sex
marriage is a good idea should be of no concern to us. Under the Constitution,
judges have power to say what the law is, not what it should be. The people who
ratified the Constitution authorized courts to exercise “neither force nor will
but merely judgment.” &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;Although the policy arguments for extending marriage
to same-sex couples may be compelling, the legal arguments for requiring such
an extension are not. The fundamental right to marry does not include a right
to make State change its definition of marriage. And a State’s decision to
maintain the meaning of marriage that has persisted in every culture throughout
human history can hardly be called irrational. In short, our Constitution does
not enact any one theory of marriage. The people of a State are free to expand
marriage . . . or to retain the historic definition.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;Today, however, the Court takes the extraordinary step
of ordering every State to license and recognize same-remarriage. Many people
will rejoice at this decision, and I begrudge none their celebration. But for
those who believe in a government of laws, not of men, the majority’s approach
is deeply disheartening. Supporters of same-remarriage have achieved
considerable success persuading their fellow citizens—through the democratic
process—to adopt their view. That ends today. Five lawyers have closed the
debate and enacted their own vision of marriages a matter of constitutional
law. &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;Stealing this issue from the people will for many cast a cloud over
same-sex marriage, making a dramatic social change that much more difficult to
accept.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;The majority’s decision is an act of will, not legal
judgment. The right it announces has no basis in the Constitution or this
Court’s precedent. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;Just who do we think we are?&amp;nbsp; It can be tempting for judges to confuse our
own preferences with the requirements of the law. But as this Court has been
reminded throughout our history, the Constitution “is made for people of
fundamentally differing views.” &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;The majority today neglects that restrained conception
of the judicial role. It seizes for itself a question the Constitution leaves
to the people, at a time when the people are engaged in a vibrant debate on
that question. And it answers that question based not on neutral principles of
constitutional law, but on its own “understanding of what freedom is and must
become.” &amp;nbsp;&lt;b&gt;I have no choice but to
dissent.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;Understand well what this dissent is about: &amp;nbsp;It is not
about whether, in my judgment, the institution of marriage should be changed to
include same-sex couples. It is instead about whether, in our democratic
republic, that decision should rest with the people acting through their
elected representatives, or with five lawyers who happen to hold commissions
authorizing them to resolve legal disputes according to law. The Constitution
leaves no doubt about the answer.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;This universal definition of marriage as the union of amen
and a woman is no historical coincidence. Marriage did not come about as a
result of a political movement, discovery, disease, war, religious doctrine, or
any other moving force of world history—and certainly not as a result of a
prehistoric decision to exclude gays and lesbians. It arose in the nature of
things to meet a vital need:&amp;nbsp; ensuring
that children are conceived by a mother and father committed to raising them in
the stable conditions of a lifelong relationship. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;Therefore, for the good of children and society,
sexual relations that can lead to procreation should occur only between a man
and a woman committed to a lasting bond.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;In his first American dictionary, Noah Webster defined
marriage as “the legal union of a man and woman &lt;i&gt;for life&lt;/i&gt;,” which served the purposes of “preventing the promiscuous
intercourse of the sexes . . . promoting domestic felicity, and . . . securing
the maintenance and education of children.” &amp;nbsp;An influential 19th-century treatise defined
marriage as “a civil status, existing in one man and one woman legally united
for life for those civil and social purposes which are based in the distinction
of sex.” &amp;nbsp;The first edition of Black’s
Law Dictionary defined marriage as “the civil status of one man and one woman
united in law &lt;i&gt;for life&lt;/i&gt;.” &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: orange;&quot;&gt;Editorial notes from Caroline: &amp;nbsp;for life is mentioned in most of the definitions provided in the dissent by Chief Justice Roberts, yet nearly 50% of heterosexual marriages end in divorce. &amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;The majority purports to identify four “principles and
traditions” in this Court’s due process precedents that support a fundamental
right for same-sex couples to marry. &amp;nbsp;In
reality, however, the majority’s approach has no basis in principle or
tradition, except for the unprincipled tradition of judicial policymaking . . .
.&amp;nbsp;Stripped of its shiny rhetorical
gloss, the majority’s argument is that the Due Process Clause gives same-sex
couples a fundamental right to marry because it will be good for them and for
society. If I were a legislator, I would certainly consider that view as a
matter of social policy. But as a judge, I find the majority’s position
indefensible as a matter of constitutional law.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;A Petitioners’ “fundamental right” claim falls into
the most sensitive category of constitutional adjudication. Petitioners do not
contend that their States’ marriage laws violate an enumerated constitutional
right, such as the freedom of speech protected by the First Amendment. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;They argue instead that the laws violate a right
implied by the Fourteenth Amendment’s requirement that “liberty” may not be
deprived without “due process of law.” This Court has interpreted the Due Process
Clause to include a “substantive” component that protects certain liberty
interests against state deprivation “no matter what process is provided.” &amp;nbsp;The theory is that some liberties are “so
rooted in the traditions and conscience of our people as to be ranked as
fundamental,” and therefore cannot be deprived without compelling
justification. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;By empowering judges to elevate their own policy
judgments to the status of constitutionally protected “liberty,” the Lochner
line of cases left “no alternative to regarding the court as a . . . legislative
chamber.”&amp;nbsp; Eventually, the Court
recognized its error and vowednot to repeat it. “The doctrine that . . . due
process authorizes courts to hold laws unconstitutional when they believe the
legislature has acted unwisely,” we later explained, “has long since been
discarded. We have returned to the original constitutional proposition that
courts do not substitute their social and economic beliefs for the judgment of
legislative bodies, who are elected to pass laws.” &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;Rejecting Lochner does not require disavowing the doctrine
of implied fundamental rights, and this Court has not done so. But to avoid
repeating Lochner’s error of converting personal preferences into
constitutional mandates, our modern substantive due process cases have stressed
the need for “judicial self-restraint.” &amp;nbsp;Our
precedents have required that implied fundamental rights be “objectively,
deeply rooted in this Nation’s history and tradition,” and “implicit in the
concept of ordered liberty, such that neither liberty nor justice would exist
if they were sacrificed.” &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;The only way to ensure restraint in this delicate
enterprise is “continual insistence upon respect for the teachings of history,
solid recognition of the basic values that underlie our society, and wise
appreciation of the great roles [of] the doctrines of federalism and separation
of powers.” &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;The majority’s driving themes are that marriage is desirable
and petitioners desire it. The opinion describes the “transcendent importance”
of marriage and repeatedly insists that petitioners do not seek to “demean,”
“devalue,”“denigrate,” or “disrespect” the institution. &amp;nbsp;Nobody disputes those points. Indeed, the
compelling personal accounts of petitioners and others like them are likely a
primary reason why many Americans have changed their minds about whether
same-sex couples should be allowed to marry. As a matter of constitutional law,
however, the sincerity of petitioners’ wishes is not relevant.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;In Loving, the Court held that racial restrictions on
the right to marry lacked a compelling justification. In Zablocki, restrictions
based on child support debts did not suffice. In Turner, restrictions based on
status as a prisoner were deemed impermissible.&amp;nbsp;
None of the laws at issue in those cases purported to change the core
definition of marriage as the union of a man and a woman. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;These precedents say nothing at all about a right to
make a State change its definition of marriage, which is the right petitioners
actually seek here. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;Unlike criminal laws banning contraceptives and sodomy,
the marriage laws at issue here involve no government intrusion. They create no
crime and impose no punishment. Same-sex couples remain free to live together, to
engage in intimate conduct, and to raise their families as they see fit. &amp;nbsp;No one is “condemned to live in loneliness” by
the laws challenged in these cases—no one. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;[T]he privacy cases provide no support for the majority’s
position, because petitioners do not seek privacy. Quite the opposite, they
seek public recognition of their relationships, along with corresponding
government benefits. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;To be fair, the majority does not suggest that its
individual autonomy right is entirely unconstrained. The constraints it sets
are precisely those that accord with its own “reasoned judgment,” informed by
its “new insight” into the “nature of injustice,” which was invisible to all who
came before but has become clear “as we learn [the] meaning” of liberty. &amp;nbsp;The truth is that today’s decision rests on
nothing more than the majority’s own conviction that same-sex couples should be
allowed to marry because they want to, and that “it would disparage their
choices and diminish their personhood to deny them this right.” &amp;nbsp;Whatever force that belief may have as a
matter of moral philosophy, it has no more basis in the Constitution than did
the naked policy preferences adopted in Lochner. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;One immediate question invited by the majority’s
position is whether States may retain the definition of marriage as a union of
two people. &amp;nbsp;Although the majority
randomly inserts the adjective “two” in various places, it offers no reason at
all why the two-person element of the core definition of marriage may be
preserved while the man-woman element may not. Indeed, from the standpoint of
history and tradition, a leap from opposite-sex marriage to same-sex marriage
is much greater than one from a two-person union to plural unions, which have
deep roots in some cultures around the world. If the majority is willing to
take the big leap, it is hard to see how it can say no to the shorter one.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;If a same-sex couple has the constitutional right to
marry because their children would otherwise “suffer the stigma of knowing their
families are somehow lesser,” why wouldn’t the same reasoning apply to a family
of three or more persons raising children? If not having the opportunity to
marry “serves to disrespect and subordinate” gay and lesbian couples, why
wouldn’t the same “imposition of this disability,” serve to disrespect and
subordinate people who find fulfillment in polyamorous relationships? &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;The majority’s understanding of due process lays out a
tantalizing vision of the future for Members of this Court: &amp;nbsp;If an unvarying social institution enduring
over all of recorded history cannot inhibit judicial policymaking, what can?
But this approach is dangerous for the rule of law. The purpose of insisting
that implied fundamental rights have roots in the history and tradition of our people
is to ensure that when unelected judges strike down democratically enacted
laws, they do so based on something more than their own beliefs. The Court
today not only overlooks our country’s entire history and tradition but
actively repudiates it, preferring to live only in the heady days of the here
and now. &amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;[T[he marriage laws at issue here do not violate the Equal
Protection Clause, because distinguishing between opposite-sex and same-sex
couples is rationally related to the States’ “legitimate state interest” in
“preserving the traditional institution of marriage.” &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12pt;&quot;&gt;Those who founded our country would not recognize the
majority’s conception of the judicial role. They after all risked their lives
and fortunes for the precious right to govern themselves. They would never have
imagined yielding that right on a question of social policy to unaccountable
and unelected judges. And they certainly would not have been satisfied by a
system empowering judges to override policy judgments so long as they do so
after “a quite extensive discussion.” In our democracy, debate about the
content of the law is not an exhaustion requirement to be checked off before
courts can impose their will. “Surely the Constitution does not put either the legislative
branch or the executive branch in the position of a television quiz show
contestant so that when a given period of time has elapsed and a problem
remains unresolved by them, the federal judiciary may press a buzzer and take
its turn at fashioning a solution.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;The Court’s accumulation of power does not occur in a
vacuum. It comes at the expense of the people. &amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12pt;&quot;&gt;When decisions are reached through democratic means, some
people will inevitably be disappointed with the results. But those whose views
do not prevail at least know that they have had their say, and accordingly
are—in the tradition of our political culture—reconciled to the result of a
fair and honest debate. In addition, they can gear up to raise the issue later,
hoping to persuade enough on the winning side to think again. “That is exactly
how our system of government is supposed to work.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;But today the Court puts a stop to all that. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;By deciding this question under the Constitution, the
Court removes it from the realm of democratic decision. There will be
consequences to shutting down the political process on an issue of such
profound public significance. Closing debate tends to close minds. People
denied a voice are less likely to accept the ruling of a court on an issue that
does not seem to be the sort of thing courts usually decide. As a thoughtful
commentator observed about another issue, “The political process was moving . .
. , not swiftly enough for advocates of quick, complete change, but
majoritarian institutions were listening and acting. Heavy-handed judicial
intervention was difficult to justify and appears to have provoked, not
resolved, conflict.” &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;[H]owever heartened the proponents of same-sex
marriage might be on this day, it is worth acknowledging what they have lost,
and lost forever: &amp;nbsp;the opportunity to win
the true acceptance that comes from persuading their fellow citizens of the
justice of their cause. And they lose this just when the winds of change were
freshening at their backs.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;If you are among the many Americans—of whatever sexual
orientation—who favor expanding same-sex marriage, by all means celebrate
today’s decision. Celebrate the achievement of a desired goal. Celebrate the
opportunity for a new expression of commitment to a partner. Celebrate the
availability of new benefits. But do not celebrate the Constitution. &amp;nbsp;It had nothing to do with it.&amp;nbsp; I respectfully dissent.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;Held: &lt;/b&gt;The Fourteenth Amendment requires a State to
license a marriage between two people of the same sex and to recognize a
marriage between two people of the same sex when their marriage was lawfully
licensed and performed out-of-State.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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KENNEDY delivered the opinion of the Court.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;The Constitution promises liberty to all within its
reach, a liberty that includes certain specific rights that allow persons,
within a lawful realm, to define and express their identity. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;Rising from the most basic human needs, marriage is
essential to our most profound hopes and aspirations. The centrality of
marriage to the human condition makes it unsurprising that the institution has
existed for millennia and across civilizations. Since the dawn of history,
marriage has transformed strangers into relatives, binding families and
societies together. Confucius taught that marriage lies at the foundation of
government. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;The ancient origins of marriage confirm its
centrality, but it has not stood in isolation from developments in law and
society. The history of marriage is one of both continuity and change. That
institution—even as confined to opposite-sex relations—has evolved over time.
For example, marriage was once viewed as an arrangement by the couple’s parents
based on political, religious, and financial concerns; but by the time of the
Nation’s founding it was understood to be a voluntary contract between a man
and a woman.&amp;nbsp; As the role and status of
women changed, the institution further evolved. Under the centuries-old
doctrine of coverture, a married man and woman were treated by the State as a single,
male-dominated legal entity. As women gained legal, political, and property
rights, and as society began to understand that women have their own equal
dignity, the law of coverture was abandoned.&amp;nbsp;
These and other developments in the institution of marriage over the
past centuries were not mere superficial changes.&amp;nbsp; Rather, they worked deep transformations in
its structure, affecting aspects of marriage long viewed by many as essential. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;Two Terms ago, in &lt;i&gt;United States v. Windsor&lt;/i&gt;, 570 U. S.
___ (2013), this Court invalidated DOMA to the extent it barred the Federal
Government from treating same-sex marriages as valid even when they were lawful
in the State where they were licensed. DOMA, the Court held, impermissibly
disparaged those same-sex couples “who wanted to affirm their commitment to one
another before their children, their family, their friends, and their
community.” &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;Under the Due Process Clause of the Fourteenth
Amendment, no State shall “deprive any person of life, liberty, or property,
without due process of law.” The fundamental liberties protected by this Clause
include most of the rights enumerated in the Bill of Rights.&amp;nbsp; In addition these liberties extend to certain
personal choices central to individual dignity and autonomy, including intimate
choices that define personal identity and beliefs. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;The nature of injustice is that we may not always see
it in our own times. The generations that wrote and ratified the Bill of Rights
and the Fourteenth Amendment did not presume to know the extent of freedom in
all of its dimensions, and so they entrusted to future generations a charter
protecting the right of all persons to enjoy liberty as we learn its meaning.
When new insight reveals discord between the Constitution’s central protections
and a received legal stricture, a claim to liberty must be addressed.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;Applying these established tenets, the Court has long
held the right to marry is protected by the Constitution. In &lt;i&gt;Loving v. Virginia&lt;/i&gt;, 388 U. S. 1, 12
(1967), which invalidated bans on interracial unions, a unanimous Court held
marriage is “one of the vital personal rights essential to the orderly pursuit
of happiness by free men.” The Court reaffirmed that holding in &lt;i&gt;Zablocki v. Redhail&lt;/i&gt;, 434 U. S. 374, 384
(1978), which held the right to marry was burdened by a law prohibiting fathers
who were behind on child support from marrying. The Court again applied this
principle in &lt;i&gt;Turner v. Safley&lt;/i&gt;, 482 U.
S. 78, 95 (1987), which held the right to marry was abridged by regulations
limiting the privilege of prison inmates to marry. Over time and in other
contexts, the Court has reiterated that the right to marry is fundamental under
the Due Process Clause. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;This analysis compels the conclusion that same-sex
couples may exercise the right to marry. The four principles and traditions to
be discussed demonstrate that the reasons marriage is fundamental under the
Constitution apply with equal force to same-sex couples.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;A first premise of the Court’s relevant precedents is
that the right to personal choice regarding marriage is inherent in the concept
of individual autonomy. &lt;/b&gt;This abiding connection between marriage and liberty is
why Loving invalidated interracial marriage bans under the Due Process
Clause.&amp;nbsp; Like choices concerning
contraception, family relationships, procreation, and child rearing, all of
which are protected by the Constitution, decisions concerning marriage are
among the most intimate that an individual can make.&amp;nbsp; Indeed, the Court has noted it would be
contradictory “to recognize a right of privacy with respect to other matters of
family life and not with respect to the decision to enter the relationship that
is the foundation of the family in our society.” &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12pt;&quot;&gt;Choices about marriage shape an individual’s
destiny.&amp;nbsp; As the Supreme Judicial Court
of Massachusetts has explained, because “it&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;fulfils&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;yearnings for security,
safe haven, and connection that&amp;nbsp;express our common humanity, civil marriage is
an esteemed institution, and the decision whether and whom to marry is among
life’s momentous acts of self-definition.” &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;The nature of marriage is that, through its enduring
bond, two persons together can find other freedoms, such as expression,
intimacy, and spirituality. This is true for all persons, whatever their sexual
orientation.&amp;nbsp; There is dignity in the
bond between two men or two women who seek to marry and in their autonomy to
make such profound choices. &lt;i&gt;Cf. Loving, supra&lt;/i&gt;, at 12 (“[T]he freedom to marry,
or not marry, a person of another race resides with the individual and cannot
be infringed by the State”).&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;A second principle in this Court’s jurisprudence is
that the right to marry is fundamental because it supports a two-person union
unlike any other in its importance to the committed individuals. &lt;/b&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;Suggesting that marriage is a right “older than the
Bill of Rights,” &lt;i&gt;Griswold&lt;/i&gt; described marriage this way: “Marriage is a coming
together for better or for worse, hopefully enduring, and intimate to the
degree of being sacred. It is an association that promotes a way of life, not
causes; a harmony in living, not political faiths; a bilateral loyalty, not
commercial or social projects. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;Marriage responds to the universal fear that a lonely
person might call out only to find no one there. It offers the hope of
companionship and understanding and assurance that while both still live there
will be someone to care for the other.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;A third basis for protecting the right to marry is
that it safeguards children and families and thus draws meaning from related
rights of child rearing, procreation, and education. &lt;/b&gt;The Court has recognized
these connections by describing the varied rights as a unified whole: “[T]he
right to ‘marry, establish a home and bring up children’ is a central part of
the liberty protected by the Due Process Clause.” &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;Under the laws of the several States, some of
marriage’s protections for children and families are material. But marriage
also confers more profound benefits. By giving recognition and legal structure
to their parents’ relationship, marriage allows children “to understand the
integrity and closeness of their own family and its concord with other families
in their community and in their daily lives.” Marriage also affords the
permanency and stability important to children’s best interests. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;As all parties agree, many same-sex couples provide loving
and nurturing homes to their children, whether biological or adopted.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12pt;&quot;&gt;Excluding same-sex couples from marriage thus
conflicts with a central premise of the right to marry. Without the
recognition, stability, and predictability marriage offers, their children
suffer the stigma of knowing their families are somehow lesser. They also
suffer the significant material costs of being raised by unmarried parents, relegated
through no fault of their own to a more difficult and uncertain family life.
The marriage laws at issue here thus harm and humiliate the children of
same-sex couples.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;That is not to say the right to marry is less
meaningful for those who do not or cannot have children. An ability, desire, or
promise to procreate is not and has not been a prerequisite for a valid
marriage in any State. In light of precedent protecting the right of a married
couple not to procreate, it cannot be said the Court or the States have
conditioned the right to marry on the capacity or commitment to procreate. The
constitutional marriage right has many aspects, of which childbearing is only
one.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;Fourth and finally, this Court’s cases and the
Nation’s traditions make clear that marriage is a keystone of our social order.
&lt;/b&gt;Alexis de Tocqueville recognized this truth on his travels through the United
States almost two centuries ago:&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;i&gt;“There is certainly no country in the world where the
tie of marriage is so much respected as in America . . . [W]hen the American
retires from the turmoil of public life to the bosom of his family, he finds in
it the image of order and of peace . . . . [H]e afterwards carries [that image]
with him into public affairs.” &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;Marriage is “the foundation of the family and of
society, without which there would be neither civilization nor progress.” &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;Marriage remains a building block of our national
community. &amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12pt;&quot;&gt;For that reason, just as a couple vows to support each
other, so does society pledge to support the couple, offering symbolic
recognition and material benefits to protect and nourish the union. Indeed,
while the States are in general free to vary the benefits they confer on all
married couples, they have throughout our history made marriage the basis for
an expanding list of governmental rights, benefits, and responsibilities. These
aspects of marital status include: taxation; inheritance and property rights;
rules of intestate succession; spousal privilege in the law of evidence;
hospital access; medical decision making authority; adoption rights; the rights
and benefits of survivors; birth and death certificates; professional ethics
rules; campaign finance restrictions; workers’ compensation benefits; health
insurance; and child custody, support, and visitation rules.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;Same-sex couples are consigned to an instability many
opposite-sex couples would deem intolerable in their own lives. As the State
itself makes marriage all the more precious by the significance it attaches to
it, exclusion from that status has the effect of teaching that gays and
lesbians are unequal in important respects. It demeans gays and lesbians for
the State to lock them out of a central institution of the Nation’s society.
Same-sex couples, too, may aspire to the transcendent purposes of marriage and
seek fulfillment in its highest meaning.&amp;nbsp;
The limitation of marriage to opposite-sex couples may long have seemed
natural and just, but its inconsistency with the central meaning of the
fundamental right to marry is now manifest. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;The right to marry is fundamental as a matter of
history and tradition, but rights come not from ancient sources alone. They
rise, too, from a better informed understanding of how constitutional
imperatives define a liberty that remains urgent in our own era. Many who deem
same-sex marriage to be wrong reach that conclusion based on decent and
honorable religious or philosophical premises, and neither they nor their
beliefs are disparaged here.&amp;nbsp; But when
that sincere, personal opposition becomes enacted law and public policy, the
necessary consequence is to put the imprimatur of the State itself on an
exclusion that soon demeans or stigmatizes those whose own liberty is then
denied. Under the Constitution, same-sex couples seek in marriage the same
legal treatment as opposite-sex couples, and it would disparage their choices
and diminish their personhood to deny them this right.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;The right of same-sex couples to marry that is part of
the liberty promised by the Fourteenth Amendment is derived, too, from that
Amendment’s guarantee of the equal protection of the laws. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;In interpreting the Equal Protection Clause, the Court
has recognized that new insights and societal understandings can reveal
unjustified inequality within our most fundamental institutions that once
passed unnoticed and unchallenged.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;These considerations lead to the conclusion that the
right to marry is a fundamental right inherent in the liberty of the person,
and under the Due Process and Equal Protection Clauses of the Fourteenth
Amendment couples of the same-sex may not be deprived of that right and that
liberty. The Court now holds that same-sex couples may exercise the fundamental
right to marry. No longer may this liberty be denied to them. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;The dynamic of our constitutional system is that
individuals need not await legislative action before asserting a fundamental
right. The Nation’s courts are open to injured individuals who come to them to
vindicate their own direct, personal stake in our basic charter. An individual
can invoke a right to constitutional protection when he or she is harmed, even
if the broader public disagrees and even if the legislature refuses to act. The
idea of the Constitution “was to withdraw certain subjects from the
vicissitudes of political controversy, to place them beyond the reach of
majorities and officials and to establish them as legal principles to be
applied by the courts.” &amp;nbsp;This is why
“fundamental rights may not be submitted to a vote; they depend on the outcome
of no elections.” &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;The petitioners’ stories make clear the urgency of the
issue they present to the Court. James Obergefell now asks whether Ohio can
erase his marriage to John Arthur for all time. April DeBoer and Jayne Rowse
now ask whether Michigan may continue to deny them the certainty and stability
all mothers desire to protect their children, and for them and their children
the childhood years will pass all too soon. &amp;nbsp;Ijpe DeKoe and Thomas Kostura now ask whether
Tennessee can deny to one who has served this Nation the basic dignity of
recognizing his New York marriage. Properly presented with the petitioners’
cases, the Court has a duty to address these claims and answer these questions.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;The respondents also argue allowing same-sex couples to
wed will harm marriage as an institution by leading to fewer opposite-sex
marriages. This may occur, the respondents contend, because licensing same-sex
marriage severs the connection between natural procreation and marriage. That
argument, however, rests on a counterintuitive view of opposite-sex couple’s
decision making processes regarding marriage and parenthood. Decisions about
whether to marry and raise children are based on many personal, romantic, and
practical considerations; and it is unrealistic to conclude that an
opposite-sex couple would choose not to marry simply because same-sex couples
may do so. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;Finally, it must be emphasized that religions, and
those who adhere to religious doctrines, may continue to advocate with utmost,
sincere conviction that, by divine precepts, same-sex marriage should not be
condoned. The First Amendment ensures that religious organizations and persons
are given proper protection as they seek to teach the principles that are so
fulfilling and so central to their lives and faiths, and to their own deep aspirations
to continue the family structure they have long revered. The same is true of
those who oppose same-sex marriage for other reasons. In turn, those who
believe allowing same-sex marriage is proper or indeed essential, whether as a
matter of religious conviction or secular belief, may engage those who disagree
with their view in an open and searching debate. The Constitution, however,
does not permit the State to bar same-sex couples from marriage on the same
terms as accorded to couples of the opposite sex.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;These cases also present the question whether the
Constitution requires States to recognize same-sex marriages validly performed
out of State. As made clear by the case of Obergefell and Arthur, and by that
of DeKoe and Kostura, the recognition bans inflict substantial and continuing harm
on same-sex couples.&amp;nbsp; Being married in
one State but having that valid marriage denied in another is one of “the most
perplexing and distressing complication[s]” in the law of domestic relations. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;The Court, in this decision, holds same-sex couples
may exercise the fundamental right to marry in all States. It follows that the
Court also must hold—and it now does hold—that there is no lawful basis for a
State to refuse to recognize a lawful same-sex marriage performed in another
State on the ground of its same-sex character.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.0pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;No union is more profound than marriage, for it
embodies the highest ideals of love, fidelity, devotion, sacrifice, and family.
In forming a marital union, two people become something greater than once they
were. As some of the petitioners in these cases demonstrate, marriage embodies
a love that may endure even past death. It would misunderstand these men and
women to say they disrespect the idea of marriage. Their plea is that they do
respect it, respect it so deeply that they seek to find its fulfillment for
themselves. Their hope is not to be condemned to live in loneliness, excluded
from one of civilization’s oldest institutions. They ask for equal dignity in
the eyes of the law. The Constitution grants them that right.&amp;nbsp; The judgment of the Court of Appeals for the
Sixth Circuit is reversed.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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style=&quot;clear: both;&quot;&gt;5) &amp;nbsp;I started knitting.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEilKz6L07FkArrhIKpFw9ynbgCGyGu5KfoBnPWRTrrX9qSTdGFZg6SIhMX1jia4r-QNbYTEebYz8T0lgP_p2KeVwhAeXBy98b894HZaGDZgtetyscQ33wh8taM0dVRAXmv_DphPYHIdqERE/s640/blogger-image--1346061031.jpg&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEilKz6L07FkArrhIKpFw9ynbgCGyGu5KfoBnPWRTrrX9qSTdGFZg6SIhMX1jia4r-QNbYTEebYz8T0lgP_p2KeVwhAeXBy98b894HZaGDZgtetyscQ33wh8taM0dVRAXmv_DphPYHIdqERE/s640/blogger-image--1346061031.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both;&quot;&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both;&quot;&gt;4) &amp;nbsp;I became a grandmother two twin girls, Astrid &amp;amp; Arielle.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both;&quot;&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both;&quot;&gt;&lt;font color=&quot;#000000&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHx58I7QipjnBZSMfBVsYq3z1uZJ0ToszkeN-Mwf9FYMy6iRijaEhnrdjIooAYXT-eyClIcjymwTRG5WIcogF6R37cQzjgF0khguGLv-suLx8ZKCT9kX7mlkeNaqpWj7KLXuMy5IHi2kkf/s640/blogger-image-1696661550.jpg&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHx58I7QipjnBZSMfBVsYq3z1uZJ0ToszkeN-Mwf9FYMy6iRijaEhnrdjIooAYXT-eyClIcjymwTRG5WIcogF6R37cQzjgF0khguGLv-suLx8ZKCT9kX7mlkeNaqpWj7KLXuMy5IHi2kkf/s640/blogger-image-1696661550.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; 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imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5eig4OwXivBbcfjiYK-ljsFFIG57qSgmqH2o5WkbIQ1YEHpG7Y2xn5oCGAcP8-rp1B87KjASTBV8RPpoIr9SszJzNkOoydkYSQnOHXpDmT8q8C5B6TWYcf8kP4_QnIy9yidgQjC9JPkSV/s640/blogger-image-1965160322.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both;&quot;&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both;&quot;&gt;2) &amp;nbsp;Stephen started a new job at the Riverfront Steakhouse in North Little Rock.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both;&quot;&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both;&quot;&gt;1) &amp;nbsp;We celebrated 7 years -- of marriage, and serenity.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both;&quot;&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both;&quot;&gt;Life is pretty good.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;Hope you enjoy the RSS, but I would love to hear from you.  So give us a click, will ya?&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://attorneyatmom.blogspot.com/2014/09/two-years-without-blogging-almost.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Caroline)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEilKz6L07FkArrhIKpFw9ynbgCGyGu5KfoBnPWRTrrX9qSTdGFZg6SIhMX1jia4r-QNbYTEebYz8T0lgP_p2KeVwhAeXBy98b894HZaGDZgtetyscQ33wh8taM0dVRAXmv_DphPYHIdqERE/s72-c/blogger-image--1346061031.jpg" height="72" width="72"/></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2727349708927193602.post-2325603002448799842</guid><pubDate>Sat, 23 Jun 2012 13:58:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-06-23T09:00:16.365-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Arkadelphia High School 1992 Class Reunion</category><title>20 Years Out</title><description>Stephen, the Bitlet and I are heading to my 20 year reunion.  Where did the time go?  At least the Bitlet is ready for adventure!&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot;style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjiVg1ekz-FKSsh15mOYo2MLCADwal2bC2NJf0YySsWcndhV-nhE34Mbci_DP9UgURt-QEzBWYNhyphenhyphenO0aghOvKXMtbptcV2dODNBWSta6cVUvox9csFrS39XJDdYVhEjSMA__m6a0FTwQCoY/s640/blogger-image--50963326.jpg&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjiVg1ekz-FKSsh15mOYo2MLCADwal2bC2NJf0YySsWcndhV-nhE34Mbci_DP9UgURt-QEzBWYNhyphenhyphenO0aghOvKXMtbptcV2dODNBWSta6cVUvox9csFrS39XJDdYVhEjSMA__m6a0FTwQCoY/s640/blogger-image--50963326.jpg&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;Hope you enjoy the RSS, but I would love to hear from you.  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Picture Collage First Effort</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiY__Eygyci0iqOlogPe7v-cRdH-BR1pJruK1VMEo7mT9hKD4PPydauZtosI3yMv1F15o7XVOrmKf4PIMjRnwTqYopiVuIR4O5_Zt5L8MlLWUtLv0e71n-UBKkZ1zZrFBRTadXz2CFkq8zq/s1600-h/Page1%25255B5%25255D.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;background-image: none; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px&quot; title=&quot;Page1&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;Page1&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhdOclQTvTNic58hdIORS16A7S-hpqAxd-keXKd7jYiFtdrcwZnrpypJ_OjRpxTjc8dWhDtBXsRW_o0EnlD1HJeZZkkJs5AyxRaz01I0ilvVf5WbADAo3Twv2ESaIOuuSD5aJPtObHybH_B/?imgmax=800&quot; width=&quot;364&quot; height=&quot;484&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p align=&quot;justify&quot;&gt;Before the Bitlet was born in 2009, my husband and I did not know whether we would have a girl or boy.&amp;#160; When she was born, I made a very primitive collage to post on my Myspace blog to announce her arrival.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p align=&quot;justify&quot;&gt;It was VERY primitive. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p align=&quot;justify&quot;&gt;Since then, I have never really considered making another collage—until I came across these pictures of the Bitlet in which she showed me her happy face . . . and surprised face . . . and sad face . . . and angry face . . . and sleepy face.&amp;#160; I immediately concluded that I just had to make another collage.&amp;#160; &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p align=&quot;justify&quot;&gt;So, off to Google I went with “photo collage maker.”&amp;#160; The first few sites I looked at were just . . . boring.&amp;#160; Then I came across &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.picturecollagesoftware.com&quot;&gt;Picture Collage Maker&lt;/a&gt; and decided to check it out.&amp;#160; It had a free trial, and seemed to have a LOT of templates to it.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p align=&quot;justify&quot;&gt;After downloading it, I immediately opened it and started scanning through the options.&amp;#160; One thing that I really liked about it was the fact that it had tons of templates, but it also had a template wizard – it made me feel like I could get very creative, very easily, with minimal effort on my part.&amp;#160; &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p align=&quot;justify&quot;&gt;I have a three-year-old kid, a full time job, and other commitments – not a whole lot of time there to get creative. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p align=&quot;justify&quot;&gt;After checking out the features included in my free download of the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.picturecollagesoftware.com&quot;&gt;Picture Collage Maker&lt;/a&gt; software, I decided to follow the link to download more templates from the internet.&amp;#160; And immediately proceeded to download every single template I could see, wondering how in the heck I had never heard of the software before?&amp;#160; There were templates for pretty much any occasion I could think of – anniversaries, new babies, birthdays, special events, adventures, holidays, and special interest templates for sports, travel, and pets.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p align=&quot;justify&quot;&gt;I also loved the fact that the software is not just about making cute collages to post pretty much everywhere.&amp;#160; There are calendar templates with colors ranging from the light and pastel to the dark and romantic.&amp;#160; Instead of buying greeting cards, I could design my own and give my friends and family a visual update of the Bitlet’s development.&amp;#160; She changes so quickly!!&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p align=&quot;justify&quot;&gt;For the most part, truly, I am content to take pictures when the mood strikes, share the photos I particularly enjoy, and archive the rest to preserve my memories.&amp;#160; I think that is true for most people.&amp;#160; Collage design will probably never be the norm for me.&amp;#160; I think the designers of &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.picturecollagesoftware.com&quot;&gt;Picture Collage Maker&lt;/a&gt; know that, which is why the calendar and greeting card (and scrapbooking) features are such a nice touch.&amp;#160; &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p align=&quot;justify&quot;&gt;I am looking forward to experimenting with the software – it is easy to use and attractive, but it also allows me to mix up my pictures a little, instead of just doing bulk uploads with no real emphasis on any given picture.&amp;#160; &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p align=&quot;justify&quot;&gt;And if you know of other sites that offer free templates, please do tell!&amp;#160; &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;Hope you enjoy the RSS, but I would love to hear from you.  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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;Starting Over...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;© Tatum&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;I’m trying to find something to base my life upon,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;Something in this strange world that goes on and on.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;As the years go by and time fades away,&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;What used to be &quot;good days&quot; are now filled with dismay.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;Tomorrow comes, and then again, it goes,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;And my ambition to become something more, grows and grows.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;Around the corner, yet miles away,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;The life I want now, gets closer each day.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;All I&#39;ve ever wanted was something to live for,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;I don’t want to be this little person anymore.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;I’ve been basing my life upon what others think,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;I wish I could go back and redo everything, every time an eye would blink.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;I&#39;ve fought to become who I am and what I want to be,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;I have to remind myself that one day, I will be free.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;Free from the rules I followed as a child,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;When everything was a game and life was so mild.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;Now times have changed and I realize nothing is fair,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;And sometimes it seems like nobody even cares.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;It’s like no one pays attention to what I feel is best for me,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;And what I think about the way some things should be.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;I understand now, that I’m pretty much on my own,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;And I know a lot of what I can do will never be known.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;All the time, I think about everything I can’t say, what I have to keep in,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;And by doing this, my thoughts only get more complicated and deepen.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;Soon I hope to find out who I am, and what I am meant to become,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;I want to know where I’m going, I don’t need to be reminded of where I came from.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;Source: Starting Over, Change Poem http://www.familyfriendpoems.com/poem/starting-over#ixzz1qp57iudT&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &#39;Trebuchet MS&#39;, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;www.FamilyFriendPoems.com&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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