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Thank God you are MAN !!

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Thu, 15 Jan 2009 15:38:00 +0000

Singapore True Story

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Mon, 30 Jun 2008 18:13:00 +0000

A certain rich businessman had a beautiful daughter, who fell in love with a guy who was a cleaner. When the girl's father came to know about their love, he did not like it at all, and so began to protest about it.

Now it happened that the two lovers decided to leave their homes for a happy future. The girl's father started searching for the two lovers but could not find them.. At last, he accepted their love and asked them to come back home in a local newspaper.Her father said 'If you both come back I will allow you to marry. I accept that you love each other truly.

' So in this way, their love won and they returned home.

The couple went to town to shop for the wedding dress.He was dressed in a white shirt that! day. While he was crossing the road to the other side to get some drinks for his fiancee, a car came and hit him and he died on the spot. The girl lost her senses. It was only after some time that she recovered from her shocked. The funeral and cremation was the very next day as he had died horribly.

Two nights later, the girl's mother had a dream in which she saw an old lady. The old lady asked her mother to wash the blood stains of the guy from her daughter's dress as soon as possible. But her mother ignored the dream.

The next night her father had the same dream, he also ignored it.

Then when the girl had the same dream the next night,she woke up in fear and told her mother about the dream. Her mother asked her to wash the clothes which have blood stains immediately.

She washed the stains but some remained. Next night she again had the same dream she again washed the stains but some still remained!!!

Next night she again had the same dream and this time the old lady gave her a last warning to wash the blood stain, or else something terrible will happen. This time the girl tried her best to wash the stains,and the clothes nearly tore, but some stains still remained.

She was very tired. In the late evening the same day while she was alone at home, someone knocked the door. When she opened the door she saw the same old lady in her dream standing at her door. She got very scared and fainted The old lady woke her up... and gave her a blue object, which shocked the girl.. She asked 'What is this...?'

The old lady replied... 'Aiyaa……..try DYNAMO Liquid Soap... just a dab and it will remove all stubborn stains !!!' ...........

Gotcha !!!!

I know how you all are feeling now... I have been through this too. But don't look at me like that leh...... Just enjoy it.

Cheers

Aven

Water & Cups Story

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Thu, 29 May 2008 08:18:00 +0000

A group of working adults got together to visit their University lecturer.

The Lecturer was happy to see them.

Conversation soon turned into complaints about stress in work and life.
The Lecturer just smiled and went to the kitchen to get an assortment of
cups - some porcelain, some plastic, some glass, some plain looking
and some looked rather expensive and exquisite.

The Lecturer offered his former students the cups to get drinks for hemselves.

When all the students had a cup in hand with water, the Lecturer spoke:
"If you noticed, all the nice looking, expensive cups were taken up,
leaving behind the plain and cheap ones. While it is normal that you only
want the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and
stress. What all you wanted was water, not the cup, but we
unconsciously went for the better cups."

"Just like in life, if Life is Water, then the jobs, money and position in society are the cups. They are just tools to hold/maintain Life, but the quality of Life doesn't change."

"If we only concentrate on the cup, we won't have time to enjoy/taste the water in it."

It is about time that we need to enjoy of WATER !!

B®ink Of Collapse

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Thu, 29 May 2008 08:10:00 +0000

27 May 2008 Tues ~ After my routine tuesday training, my Sifu gather us to have some discussion. Mainly about the coming C'ship but there is a special case today. Well, not quite as expected that I got a little problem with the class. I skip all the details here. All the sudden I felt my patience, endurance have reach a limit.

When people did bad things towards me, I'll just sigh and 'Suan Le Bah'. Never mind, I can do it. Nevermind, she's my junior. Nevermind, maybe she busy, Nevermind, little boys class should be noisy. Nevermind, nevermind, nevermind, nevermind..... This time I do mind. Why can't other do the opposite. I just wonder why other just need to be that calculative on doing things. Seldom for me to make complains. I don't know how to express myself now, maybe all those 'Negative Energy' that lays dormant and slumber all the while just receive a wake up call.

I need to channel it away now. I've make a promise not to fight anymore so the channel is closed. One of the channel option is closed. I'll find my ways. So I'll punish myself to write 100 words of nevermind today.

This is some form of SELF ABUSE. Please Don't TRY this at HOME!!

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A Beautiful Present

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Tue, 27 May 2008 03:44:00 +0000

25 May 08 Sun ~ Yeah.. Here I am after some slumber moment and lazy to write. It Sunday again and I'm as busy as usual. As out PTNP C'ship is approaching, the training become packed. All teams were squeeze inside the hall. Wow, I really can't take care all of them coz train teams need certain of attention for each team. I have about 9 teams, lucky that I got some assistant to help me out a little.

All goes well but not much progress especially my Power Rangers and Power Puff Girls team ( children team ). They really drains me out completely. Lastly the training over, and some members stay back to have some extra mile in Sparring. Really happy that they take effort to stay back and learn more. In martial art there are no short cut, not like studies, just read it and scores. In martial art, everthing is done little by little, gains through experience & experience is time consuming. Talents alone is not enough. I do have talented students but most of them just stop in the middle and gone with the wind and yet those who have perserverance stays on and eventually become better skills in some ways. Talents only give you extra boost and not permanent. For those who achieve better skill is just another stories of Rabbit Vs Little Turtle.

Sunday class is really such a hectic day. From 6.30 am in the morning to 8.00 pm in night only with little rest in afternoon. 2 of my stay back for some target training. I teach them some 'front side jep' and 'back kick. One of them miss the target and landed on my stomach Ouch... Well, after we packed up our things we have some chat. We touch about what going on around us, why a student of mine suddenly stop TKD even though he luv TKD very much. Maybe is just some attitude that matters. When talk about this, I explain to my student about her attitude problems also. There is a point when she make me mad. I explained to her how I handle the problems in order to prevent further damages to our relationship. Relationship needs time to build and yet easyly broken if either of the party back off.

I really mad and sad by the behaviour of not being responsible toward the action done. The consequences from the action taken is not taken into account. this is not the way of doin things I said. 'I have the every right to mad at you and don't bother you anymore' I said. 'But in this way non of the party will benefits from this type of action I taken'".... " Eventually you will leave our family and both also loose" I opts to consult some advise from my friends from various age group on how they see things.

So I believe I've taken the best approach for to FORGIVE first pending the appology from my student. FORGIVENESS is the best present after all. After all my lecture, my student admited and applogies to me. Well, forgive and forget is the next things. We chat on untill the time past so fast it's already Monday 12.09 am... Really hope they learn from my lecture They bade me goodnight and went home. I ask them to give me a call after arrived home but 20 minutes past no a ring. I'm worried and her mother said they didn't arrived home yet and I drive out to search them. Lucky that they arrived home minutes later and went to have some DaPau ( take away ) to eat... Phew....

Forgive and Forget,

Live Ur Live without REGRET,

The more you GIVE, the more you GET,

Thats the Live I pledge and BET......
Aven

Life And People

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Thu, 17 Apr 2008 07:59:00 +0000

Life is liked a box of chocolate, you do not know what you will get in the next.

If the chocolate is not inside your mouth, you wouldn't know how was the taste.

Sweet, bitter,.....whatever....only you can felt it and taste it once you choose it.

Different people have different say on it too.

Never try never know in life.

........do you like chocolate ........

People are liked tea bags, you have only to put them into hot water before you can know how strong they are.

we are packaged in all kinds of shapes and sizes to suite the different taste buds. Some TEA are sweet while others are
bitter. But one thing TEA need is hot water. We need hot water to bring out the flavor and aroma.

Different TEA taste differently.

........do you get your's cup of TEA in life........

5th Grade Math Quiz ( Try It Out )

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Wed, 16 Apr 2008 11:05:00 +0000

This quiz really crack my brain. It been a long time since I have to dig deep into my brain to solve maths. It feels great and I'm like flashed back to SECONDARY SCHOOL when you got ' The Urge To Solve' the question. The question goes like this

There are 7 girls in a bus.
Each girl has 7 backpacks.
In each backpack, there are 7 big cats.
For every big cat there are 7 little cats.

Question: How many legs are there in the bus?

Do put your answers in comments, let's see who's the 1st.

Happy Solving
Aven

Behind The Hazel Eyes

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Tue, 15 Apr 2008 06:11:00 +0000

Seems like just yesterday
You were a part of me
I used to stand so tall
I used to be so strong
Your arms around me tight
Everything, it felt so right
Unbreakable, like nothin' could go wrong
Now I can't breathe
No, I can't sleep
I'm barely hanging on

Here I am, once again
I'm torn into pieces
Can't deny it, can't pretend
Just thought you were the one
Broken up, deep inside
But you won't get to see the tears I cry
Behind these hazel eyes

I told you everything
Opened up and let you in
You made me feel alright
For once in my life
Now all that's left of me
Is what I pretend to be
So together, but so broken up inside'
Cause I can't breathe
No, I can't sleep
I'm barely hangin' on

Here I am, once again
I'm torn into pieces
Can't deny it, can't pretend
Just thought you were the one
Broken up, deep inside
But you won't get to see the tears I cry
Behind these hazel eyes

Swallow me then spit me out
For hating you, I blame myself
Seeing you it kills me now
No, I don't cry on the outside
Anymore...

Here I am, once again
I'm torn into pieces
Can't deny it, can't pretend
Just thought you were the one
Broken up, deep inside
But you won't get to see the tears
I cryBehind these hazel eyes

Here I am, once again
I'm torn into pieces
Can't deny it, can't pretend
ust thought you were the one
Broken up, deep inside
But you won't get to see the tears I cry
Behind these hazel eyes

My 1st Foot Massage

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Sun, 13 Apr 2008 20:35:00 +0000

14th April 2008 -- It is been quite some time I abandone my blog . Well, I'm back. Sunday just passes an hour ago, so just wanna write sometime about my 1st time having my FOOT MASSAGE. The stories goes like this,

Once upon a time ( Errmm.. I mean yesterday ), a once a little boy Aven received a sms from his once a little girl Huey. It reads "Aven, 2nite wanna go 4 foot massage or not?" They have chat to wee hours a night before and did mention about having foot massage, just that poor little Aven didn't realised prophecy came so fast on the next day. "Well, when will be JUDGEMENT DAY?" he replied. It will be about 9.30 pm after the LAST SUPPER

( Errmm.. Last Dinner ).

After the Sunday class ends, little Aven went home and prepare himself to embrace the coming event. "I've to make myself full", so he have 'Taugeh Ayam' for dinner. The clock ticks to 9.30pm. The time is here, let's get going. Off he go toward Taman Book Bak he once familiar but poor little Aven were lost .... in that Resident Evil ( errm.. Resident Area ). Where is the FIELD Huey mention about. He keep on moving yet, still ended in the same place.

Poor little Aven looks up to the sky and yelled "Hey, can you help me ?!!!" ....Do.. Doot.. Doo.. Dooot... Something wisper beside his ears 'Turn left, then turn right and at the end of the road you'll see the FIELD, turn left again, arrived at a juntion turn left again." There he saw Angel Huey at the 3rd block. They ride on the Pumpkin Car , toward the destination, near the Pasir Putih McDonald.. Hey .. 'Mana itu McDonald , gulung tikar liao?'

They saw their Final Destination, hastily Aven make a U-Turn and woot.. What The HELL the NO ENTRY sign doing here?.. Don't bother about it, there is no turning back now , Angel Huey said. They walk toward the Final Destination and they saw the servant of hell welcoming them. "Which service you want want?" said the devils. Well, both of them took the full 1 hour session. Woot.. got to pay for it RM 48.00.

They were ordered to dip our feet into a bowl of boiling porridge like substance. The nightmare begin after that. Those devils began to crushed those tender feets of poor Huey and Aven. Even the Angel yelled out in PAIN.. Aduh sakit...Ouch.. Ouch..!!! Little Aven din't feel much of the pain... He goes steady..Those devils complained about those DEAD SKIN that Aven possess and it is kind of hard to get him in PAIN. They need some devices to induce more pain next time. Time in hell sure passed fast. One hour passed, although is HELL but both of them seems to enjoys it.. LOL Feels so good.

The night still young , so they go to 'Chiang Jiang' to yumcha. Some little small chat, some coffee & tea , back home they went. What a nice day.

The End

Gosh... I'm sucks in story telling. ROFL while writting this. Sorry for all those gramma etc etc mistake. My English sucks too. Huey if you are reading this, do give some feed back.... HeHe.. Cheers

5" Feets In The Air !!

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Sun, 09 Mar 2008 15:25:00 +0000

08Mac08 ~ Today I so happy because I still perform A High Flying Side Kick ( 5" Feets High ) . Actually I didn't intended to do it because I also hav not tried before when I was young. Last time the max height was about my shoulder level but now this time is my lips level. Hmm.. some more that attempt was years back. My boys and girl were stay back to practice flying side kick. Then Weng wanna try fly (High Sidekick).

When I see them perform few time I'm like 'Beh Tahan' and have some the urged to FLY too... Wahaha.... Ok.. just some simple stretching bout 10 times & OFF I go... Woot, shoulder level, just a easy clearance. I said, hmm.. Let's try higher today,. I stacked 5 boxes ( each about 1 feet high ) and here I FLY again... Voila!! Clearance .. Yes !! Yes !! Yes !!

It always feels good when you still can performs all those difficult techniques in front of your students. Well, I just don't like to talk, ACTION speaks it LAUD... I always teased my young student why can't they DO it? If OLD man FLIES, YOUNG man FLIES too... rite? LOL

After the class ended, I went out for dinner at Moven Peak. I pick Mun up, and meet up with Meow Meow, Chee Sum & Yen there. Wow.. There is General Election Live Telecast there too. All the suddenr we all felt sp patriotic and want to know the Malaysia more. Then I give Meow to see my TKD clip and what she said was " Wei, you think you still YOUNG ahh??" Aouch.....

GoodLuck Malaysia
Cheers
Aven

One Sunday Story

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Mon, 03 Mar 2008 20:04:00 +0000

~~ One Sunday's Sto®Ÿ ~~

02Mac08 ( Sun ) ~ As usual I wake up early, pick up Ying ( My Asst ) and went to Kampar for my class. not much conversation that morning. I forget to write something about a new student of mine in Kampar. Something seem not right with this new student. When I ask him something, he just keep quite and mum. When I ask his mother, she said he is like that. The only word from him is 'Taekwon' & Yes,Sir.

I suspect he have this autism. I ask my student Pui San, she said he don't speak in class as well. When I ask him to do a stretching, he was in pain and crying but make no sound at all. No sniffing either ( U can see all those tears flowing down but he is like no reaction ).... Quite a challenge to have this kind of student. Well, I explained the situation to his mother, she know what is going on and ask me if he is suitable to learn TKD. Well, it is up to him ( if he can endure all the training hardship ), I said. This is a situation about either he give up or I give him up. Just that who come 1st. I'll try my best to teach.

I drove back to Main Gym for another class ( extra class for the Black Belt Grading ). Some weird feeling came over when I see lean my palm on the Gear knob. My ex-gf used to hold my hand this way, well no MORE now . I do miss those 'In Relationship' feeling, especialy there is some else sitting beside me . Failed Realtionship hurts and it still hurting . This remind me of Apple & me. Both of us pledge to get a BF and a GF this year.. Hahaha... All the best to Apple ( if you read this )

Half way back to Ipoh, I asked Ying if she can drive . Well, Ok she said.Good, i said. It feels so good having someone else to drive.. HeHe. It just a straight road with just 2 turns. Ying quite steady in straigh road LOL.When we almost reached Poi Lam, I ask her to turn to a resident area ( for her to practise driving ). Hai, she still not very good in controling the clutch and chocked the car when doing some reversed. I guess is like 5 mins or so choking when practising reverse.

The main gym class went well. Finished at 2.45 pm, so I bought a New York cheese cake from Secret Recepies . My Menglembu class stars at 4.00 pm. I forget that I ask those SMK M'lembu student to come over to practise 'Sports Day Demo' that day. Wow.. I think there is about 70+ student that day, so crowded and no more space to walk around. I have 6 new students that day too... Bon Business !! ( Sang Yi Hing Long ) .

My student start own warm up and Lisa ask me about the T-Shirt. Then I ask her when is her birthday . 23 Feb she said. I wanted to give her the cheese cake as a present that day but eventually I forget .Aiyak.. Nevermind, maybe next week.

7.45 pm ~ Finally my class over. From 6.45 am to 7.45 pm is like a 12 hrs job but I enjoy it. Really really enjoying my class. All my little children really energetic can channel great amout of strengh I needed when I am down and in blues. Time to head home. My siter got her 7% bonus from the NUBE so she belanja us to a Japanese restaurant ( celebrate my Birthday as well ) . My Ex GF went along too. Have some mixed feeling on this. The food and atmosphere was nice . My sister's kid is going berserk, running around. Lucky that we are in a special room so won't interfere other people. There goes my Sunday.

Cheers & looking forward for next Sunday !

Sessi Perkataan Berlawan ( Malay Language )

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Thu, 28 Feb 2008 18:55:00 +0000

This is some kind of jokes in malay language. For those who don't know malay, I guess you just don't know what it is all about. I still recall I have this 'PERKATAAN BERLAWAN' lesson but I just don't know this lesson can goes into this extend... I guess it would be fun to have this kind of real situation .. Yeah ~

Sessi Perkataan Berlawan

Murid : Selamat pagi, Cikgu!

Cikgu : (Menengking) Mengapa selamat pagi sahaja?
Petang dan malam awak doakan saya tak selamat?
Murid : Selamat pagi, petang dan malam Cikgu!

Cikgu : Panjang sangat! Tak pernah dibuat oleh
orang! Kata selamat sejahtera! Senang dan penuh
bermakna.Lagipun ucapan ini meliputi semua
masa dan keadaan.
Murid : Selamat sejahtera Cikgu!

Cikgu : Sama-sama, duduk! Dengar sini baik-baik.
Hari ini Cikgu nak uji kamu semua tentang perkataan
berlawan. Bila Cikgu sebutkan perkataannya,
kamu semua mesti menjawab dengan cepat, lawan bagi
perkataan-perkataan itu, faham?
Murid : Faham, Cikgu!

Cikgu : Saya tak mahu ada apa-apa gangguan.
Murid : (senyap)

Cikgu : Pandai!
Murid : Bodoh!

Cikgu : Tinggi!
Murid : Rendah!

Cikgu : Jauh!
Murid : Dekat!

Cikgu : Keadilan!
Murid : UMNO!

Cikgu : Salah!
Murid : Betul!

Cikgu : Bodoh!

Murid : Pandai!

Cikgu : Bukan!
Murid : Ya!

Cikgu : Oh Tuhan!
Murid : Oh Hamba!

Cikgu : Dengar ini!
Murid : Dengar itu!

Cikgu : Diam!
Murid : Bising!

Cikgu : Itu bukan pertanyaan, bodoh!
Murid : Ini ialah jawapan, pandai!

Cikgu : Mati aku!
Murid : Hidup kami!

Cikgu : Rotan baru tau!
Murid : Akar lama tak tau!

Cikgu : Malas aku ajar kamu!
Murid : Rajin kami belajar Cikgu!

Cikgu : Kamu gila!
Murid : Kami siuman!

Cikgu : Cukup! Cukup!
Murid : Kurang! Kurang!

Cikgu : Sudah! Sudah!
Murid : Belum! Belum!

Cikgu : Mengapa kamu semua bodoh sangat?
Murid : Sebab saya seorang pandai

Call For Lonely Souls

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Wed, 27 Feb 2008 19:34:00 +0000

14Feb08 ~ Just another day for me. Me, Weng, Shan & Yee drank alot last night after our "Low Shang" dinner @ Sg. Siput. We went to STAIRWAY after that, but the environment there is just too noisy. We have a bucket of Heineken , and have have our Valentine's Day countdown there. 3 of us were single and available ( exclude weng ), so we toast it all. Since we have decided earlier to get drunk that night, we went home to my house to continue. I get them my Red Wine, Tiger Beer and Baileys Irish Cream. Voila~! Yee really can't hold on and the 1st one to lied down on my bean bag and fall asleep. Left me, shan & weng chit chating. We talk about careers, money, love and stuff.. The night seem so long that day...

On the Valentine's Day itself, I buy a boquet of flowers to Sammi. 5 tulips & 7 roses . Lucky that still can order the flowers and deliver to Sammi's office. Haiz.. Just don't know why, altough we have separated, yet I still buy her flowers. ( Meow ~ Meow, if you are reading this now, I guess you are *@#$% me right now ) HaHa.. I bought her a nice hand bag too.. Haiz.. I called her our that night to have 'Hor Hee' noodles. Then just drive her back home.

Ok.. It was 9.30 pm and the calls for Lonely Souls have been roaring laud . Here's the Lonely Souls ~ Me, Yee, Ying ( altough attached ), Shan & Loong..Cheers.. We sang whole night and even extend the hours till 2 am if not mistaken. Shan & I really blow the mic out screaming. The best part is we really screamed to the top of our voice in this song 'Numb ~ Linkin Park'

Wow.. Then I have a duet with Chooi Ying singing '真的爱你 ~ Beyond' I really enjoyed that song and singing with Ying . Since I don't know much chinese I just sang. Chooi Shan also recorded our duet in her MP4. I bought Chooi Ying & Chooi Shan a box of chocolate . Altough there were bitter in my hears, I do hope to get some chocolate to sweeten things up. My wish granted, I received a box of chocolate back . Not bad..

I just not that bad being single that day. Wishing all lonely souls out there a HAPPY DAY !

Cheers

Time Shall Tell

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Wed, 27 Feb 2008 14:00:00 +0000

Once upon a time there was an island where all the feelings lived; happiness , sadness , knowledge , and all the others, including love .

One day it was announced to all of the feelings that the island was going to sink to the bottom of the ocean. So all the feelings prepared their boats to leave. Love was the only one that stayed. She wanted to preserve the island paradise until the last possible moment. When the island was almost totally under, Love decided it was time to leave. She began looking for someone to ask for help.

Just then Richness was passing by in a grand boat. Love asked, "Richness, Can I come with you on your boat?"
Richness answered, " I'm sorry, but there is a lot of silver and gold on my boat and there would be no room for you anywhere."

Then Love decided to ask Vanity for help who was passing in a beautiful vessel.
Love cried out, "Vanity, help me please."

"I can't help you", Vanity said, "You are all wet and will damage my beautiful boat."

Next, Love saw Sadness passing by.
Love said, "Sadness, please let me go with you."
Sadness answered, "Love, I'm sorry, but, I just need to be alone now."

Then, Love saw Happiness.

Love cried out, " Happiness, please take me with you."
But Happiness was so overjoyed that he didn't hear Love calling to him. Love began to cry.

Then, she heard a voice say, "Come Love, I will take you with me." It was an elder. Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that she forgot to ask the elder his name. When they arrived on land the elder went on his way. Love realized how much she owed the elder.

Love then found Knowledge and asked, "Who was it that helped me?"
"It was Time ", Knowledge answered.
"But why did Time help me when no one else would?", Love asked.

Knowledge smiled and with deep wisdom and sincerity, answered,

"Because only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is."

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Sun, 03 Feb 2008 15:34:00 +0000

02Feb2008 -- I set this date for my TKD 'Sau Gong' BBQ party alltough still have class the next day. Most of my senior and my assistant instructor join the crowd. It is raining whole night, so we have to move the BBQ stove inside our car porch. All those boys just sit still and didnt' budge while some of my girls get dirty to start up the fire. Those boys really need to get some KICK from me. I was busy with preparing salad but still have to start the fire.

9.30 pm-- Finally everything is ready. To my surprise my salad were so 'LAKU' and need to make another bowl. HaHa.. This time the BBQ is a little different. I bought a steel pan so that they can grill some hotdogs, pork etc etc. And guess what, Chooi Shan also bring her mother along to join the fun. When everyone were stuffed and full, my bro suggest to have some game.

Here our Group Photos.. Haiz, Kang Huai & kang Yong already gone home.

11.00 pm ++ Game Time. So what the game name? It is called 'UNLUCKY LUCKY DRAW'. Sounds funny rite? Yah.. So we have some specialty for this game.

A barrel of 'All Mixed Drinks' ingredient = Sunquick, Sarsi, Liquour, Soy Bean, anything that can be drink all mixed in.

Hotdogs stuffed with 'Cili Padi' => Yeah !!

Balloons

I guess the best part of the games is when one's draw number 8 [Mini Game]. All players need to put 2 hands on floor and watches me to blow off a balloon. Those of lift his hand away when the baloon explode will need to take a full cup of the MIXTURE. Walau... Really a emotional torture when to open the eyes wide and predicting when the ballon blown off.

12.00 am -- All my student went up to my room. I wanna show them all the photos I've taken to them. So were still kids when joining my class. Now they are grown up. Time really flies. This 'SauGong' is an anual event for me for the last 10 years ++. What is missing this year is I don't make 'Kuih Kapit' with my students this year. Usually they will come to make 'Kuih Kapit' at my home when there is 'SauGong' celebration.

Such a good celebration. I almost forget to give my asst 'angpow'.

Truth About Money

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Fri, 01 Feb 2008 04:34:00 +0000

The truth is that many of these beliefs and attitudes that some people have about money are nothing but inaccurate generalizations and excuses that keep them from living a truly ahappy and wealthy life.In order to truly align your mind to wealth creation, you mustdebunk these negative myths and really look at the facts.

Myth: Having a lot of money will change you (into a bad person).

Fact: Money is a personality magnifier. It brings out the true person within you. If you are a selfish and nasty person by nature, having money will make you even more nasty and selfish. However, if you are a kind, generous and loving person deep down inside, money will magnify your goodness.

Myth: Money isn't everything.

Fact: This is the top excuse given by poor people who are in denial. The truth is that everything is money.Without money, you cannot maximize other important values such as family, career, health, spirituality and relationships.

Myth: Money will make you less spiritual

Fact: If you are by nature a spiritual person, having money willallow you to touch more lives and help you do more of god's work. In fact, the wealthiest people in the world are extremely spiritual. Not having to worry about money anymore allows many of the rich to focus on the more important things in life.Many truly wealthy people believe they don't own their money. They are just custodians of God's wealth.

Myth: Rich people are materialistic. They worship money.

Fact: It is the people who lack money who worship it. Who works all day, year after year in a job which they hate, just for the money? Who are those who constantly sacrifice their health and family tomake more money?In fact, the rich rarely work because of money. They work because of passion and a sense of personal mission. Bill Gates, Warren Buffett, George Lucas, Michael Jordan & Steve Jobs certainly don't work for money...they don't need to.

Myth: To have more money, I will be depriving others of it.

Fact: When you become rich, you actually create more wealth for other people. Wealth multiplies into more wealth.Bill Gates is the richest man in the world because he has createdthe most value in people's lives through the creation of Microsoftand Windows.Because of his invention, so many more millionaires have beencreated as a result. Think about it, if Microsoft Windows, Word and Excel did not exist, would you have been able to create as much wealth as you have today?

Myth: Money is the 'root of all evil'.

Fact: The lack of money is the root of all evil. The number onecause of murder, cheating, stealing, lying is poverty (the lack ofmoney).Get your beliefs and attitudes right and you will start to attract more of it into your life!

Cheers & Happy Chinese New Year !!

Life Of A Tomato

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Thu, 24 Jan 2008 15:40:00 +0000

Shark is lurking around..

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Thu, 24 Jan 2008 15:20:00 +0000

19 Jan 2008 - I got one missed call from my student. It was late at night so i didn't return call. He called me again the next day. He have problems he said and need some money. Ok. We shall talk about it later tonight.
He said that his father owned money from a few Ah Long (Loan Shark)and was in dire state and need to become fugitive. Wow. It was quite some of money, All I can offer is little. I really felt the pain he endured because this is what happened to me before. Beside some money support, I do give him morale and advise to what should do. Help him to calculated all the cash flow and it really take a lot of effort to have things turn back around. He should take another part-time job too. His paycheck alone, is just a tiny part. He bare the responsibility not toward his father side but is to her mother and his siblings.
I've said to him he should have enough money to cushion him, his mum and siblings should there be another downfall. As this stuff happened before, the trend is it will happened again I said.
Some of his TKD member also lend him some money, even tough they know each other for bout 2 years ++. I explained to him to valued and cherish this, as this is what we called true friends that he found in TKD. Even his buddies were hesitate to get involved.
I do ask him to differentiate true friends and bad friends. I ask him who are there who visited you when you landed in hospital after a car accident. TKD friends he said. Wow... it really a long story I've said and explained to him....... Just too many to be said it all here.

All the best for him.
Cheers

P/S: For my student who read this, do ask me what lesson he learned. It is really a point for us to ponder. I guess I explain better in words than writting.

Talking about 5Sc1 Reunion Party

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Sat, 19 Jan 2008 02:34:00 +0000

Hai... This year 2nd 5Sc1 Reunion I wanna go try out to be more IT based. I do hope my classmate give a positive and actively involved. Cheers.

Quote : Never Done Before Does Not Mean Can't Be Done !

5Sc1 Reunion Party

Hosted by: Aven
Date and time: Saturday, February 09, 2008 at 8:15 PM
Location name: Taman Shatin, Perak, Malaysia
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Narrow Escape -- Lucky :)

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 08:09:00 +0000

18 Jan 2008 3.00 pm -- Master Dang gave me a call today to collect the uniforms I've ordered. Glad that the parcel came in time for this coming grading test. I drove to Ipoh town and meet up Master Dang @ Mr Yong's office. OK.. All goods we loaded in my bonnet, Ciao !! Back home now. Almost forget that I need to pay some of my bills.

On my way back, I pass by Old Town to 'DaPou' coffee ( Always got nagged by my EX for that ) and she'll nagged me for parking at yellow line. Since the take away take a few mnutes, I just park at yellow line. When I came out, I saw the Municipal Office few feets away from my car. Gosh, sure KENA SAMAN again.. Yellow Line Parking summone = RM 40.00. But he seem going straight to a Mercedes E320 and issue the summone. LUCKY ...! maybe it is because of my Proton HERO ( Wira ) . Must summone the rich guy 1st, I'm a poor guy lah...Hahahaha....
Bang!!! Door shut.. Engine started and off I go.. Luckly escape..!! Yeah !!

My Friday Class

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 02:46:00 +0000

I always Luv friday. Why because I've my class later at night. There are someone who keep saying that I put too much attention to my class. Wei.. This is my bowl of rice woh.. To have such a class is really a GIFT to me. One thing that that upset me is I was unable to conduct my class in Menglembu Hall like I used to for the past 14 years. Why. It was my mistake and now the Hall is being occupied by others. Well, I have moved my fridays training section to other hall. Altough the hall have ample space but the feeling is not the same. Some more and sometimes it does feel spooky in this hall. What can I say, CLASS GOESS ON!!

Back To Future

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Wed, 16 Jan 2008 17:42:00 +0000

16Jan2008 -- This stories continue from the Rainbow post. My uncle was unable to get discharged yesterday, so he called me up to pick him at 11 am. When I reached the hospital, I pass by the Emergency Room. I got some flashed back. A memory of my grandma who admitted to GH. The way she being lifted & push to the emergency room is very much alive at that point. She stay @ hospital for 2 days, the very last 2 days. I MISS MY GRANDMA !!

Well, Ohh Badi.. Ohh Bada.. Life Goes..! Just a few feet away, I saw 2 ladies hugging and crying in front of the emergency room entrance. Something bad happened. Those tears just can't stop flowing. I reached 5th Floor, to my Uncle ward. As I expected, still pending the discharged letter signed by the MO. I waited from 11.00am + till 3.30 pm. Just wondering maybe it is just so hard to get a signature. Hmm.. you can put too much of expectation in GH. If you got the money, go to private hospital. While waiting there, I do admire the Ipoh City view from the hospital ward until I saw a flaw. Ipoh is surround by limestone which makes Ipoh have a good FengSui. In this picture show, the once admired limestone hills now looks like a DECAYING TOOTH due to the limestone quarry nearby. I wonder if it would be complete gone in let say 10 years time..?

After so much time wasted, I decided to head back home and come back in 6.00 pm+.. Then back at home, the phone rang again. "OK.. Comfirmed that the MO signed the discharged form" Over and Out. After all those tedious waiting, off we go. I go and 'belanja' my Uncle 6 at a local Kopitiam.

®@inbow

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Tue, 15 Jan 2008 14:53:00 +0000

®@inbow

Can you see the ®@inbow? It was afternoon at about 6.00 pm. I'm on my way to General Hospital to pick my uncle who discharged today. Just some coincidence that I saw a FULL RAINBOW ( unbroken ). I guess the back it is still so bright so kind of hard to see it. I can't take a full view shot of it b'coz my Digicam is just a LauYa camera (hope to buy Nikon 40x soon) There was some myth that there were golds at the end of the rainbow. I guess it still works with fairy tales. Science ruins all the Fun.... I wonder if the little leprechaun is unemployed becoz of that.

No Appetite

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Mon, 14 Jan 2008 20:45:00 +0000

12 Jan 2007 ( Fri ) -- I loose my appetite these few days. I just wonder why. I skip my breakfast, lunch and only have my dinner but I dun feel hungry at all. On Wednesday, me, Chee Sum, Yen and a few friends ( joining us later) of CS went to Yeolde English for dinner. I thought I can have better appetite dining but I was wrong. I was hungry at that moment so I ordered a Seafood Spaghetti. Then the food came, but it is like S**T. I wonder if sometin wrong with me, but honestly the food is tasteless. So i just put the spaghetti aside ( 90% still there ) as a silence protest. When CS friend who came later order their food, i ask the waiter to take my spaghetti back and complained to him. At least he came again later after a conversation with the chef and make an apologies and want to replace the dish for me. Haiz... I say i don't need leh, I loose my appetite liao.

Then today after my class, I supposed to be hungry as usually but not today. My students and I go to a Mamak stall for sometin to eat, then again I order a Fried Rice with a fried Egg. I forget to tell him not to add chilies ( No Spicy stuff in the Rice ). Haiz... One spoon also like eating burned charcoal. Wow... after some sorting out the chilies, I still cannot finished the meal. I used to be not like that. 80% left over.

Hopefully have a better meal tomorrow.

The Taste Of Blood ( My Long Gone Feeling )

noreply@blogger.com (Aven) — Mon, 14 Jan 2008 20:23:00 +0000

The Taste Of Blood ( My Long Gone Feeling )

08 Jan 2007 -- I went training as usualy but today training have a little fight. 5 rounds. After a few round I sense some weird taste in my mouth.
"A taste so familiar but long gone" .

Hmm... Well It's blood after a punch to my mouth and tears a little chunk in my lips. It's been quite sometime since the last time I've this kind of taste. Don't worry, I'm not crazy or someting. It is just that the feeling of getting in a fight that have been long gone inside me. I stamped the blood in my uniforms well if does bring back some old memories of bleeding non-stop in the middle of a fight. It was a fight between a gold and silver. I've never met an equal match like this before. Both of us a just agile and flexible. I lose the bout but I'm HAPPY to have him in this fight. I can say it was cool. While I'm writing, the little pain is still there.

Welcome back " MY PAIN !! " I will accept you as part of me and enjoy the feeling you give to me..
I shall live through it .