Curled up in his arms, we watched TV together, him laughing into my hair at the funny bits and occasionally kissing my neck with a light peck. Lazy Sundays are the best, when you don’t have to worry about doing work or answering emails. The kitchen was torn apart from making lunch and our clothes were strewn all over the bedroom floor from the night before and we just didn’t care. All that mattered at the moment was his hand on my breast, slowly and softly pinching my nipple occasionally as we lounged together

“I wish I didn’t have to leave,” he breathed into my ear, biting it gently.

“Mmmmm,” I moaned and stretched, not want to think of him leaving. Not wanting it to be Monday again. The weekend had played out like a fantasy and I had the bite marks to prove it.

His hand wandered between my legs and I parted them slightly, allowing him full access to my already-wet pussy. Or maybe still-wet pussy. I don’t know. We had played so hard and both orgasmed so many times in the past two days that it was hard to keep track.

“Naughty girl,” he said with a smile, a finger in me, exploring my wetness. “So hot and wet already. Naughty, naughty girl.”

“You make me that way,” I breathed back, his finger feeling glorious in me and already making me squirm. The man has talent with those fingers, enough to make me greedily want to cum all over them again. And again. And again.

He plunged a second finger in, this time moving faster. Fuck, how can I be so close to cumming already? Me, the girl who always finds herself hard-pressed to get off with a new guy, especially when he’s not rubbing my clit. But he fingers me harder and faster, all the while holding me tight from behind and telling me what a naughty, dirty slut I am.

Three fingers now and I’m gasping. My pussy is drenched and his hard cock is pressed against my back.

“You want to cum for me?” he grunts into my ear. “You want to cum all over my fingers you fucking slut?”

“Oh god yes,” I say, barely able to form works.

“You’re a naughty little whore. Say it.”

“I’m a naughty…little…whore…”

“Tell me how much you want to cum. Beg me.” Faster, harder, deeper, his fingers pump my pussy and he bites my shoulder.

“Oh please, oh god, please. I want to cum all over your fingers. Don’t stop, don’t stop, don’t stop.”

“Do it. Cum for me.”

“Dont…stop…”

He doesn’t. And I’m cumming. Hard and loud, I’m cumming all over his fingers, writhing in his arms.

“Mmmm.” He wraps his arms around me. “You’re beautiful when you cum.”

It’s been what, five minutes? Ten maybe? Give me a minute and I’ll be ready to go again, wanting him deep in my mouth or my pussy, spurting hot cum all over my tits. But for now, it’s nice snuggled here with him, his arms protective around me. If only lazy Sundays never had to end.

The picture above is with permission from The Upper Floor, and awesome site if you love domination and discipline.

It’s only one week until Valentine’s Day. Have you picked up a gift for your sweetheart yet? And have you picked up something for romancing yourself a little?

I have the perfect gift option for you: Icicles No. 12

Erotic Toy Town offered me this Pipedream Products item to review, and how could I resist? It’s a beautiful dildo shaped like a rose in one of the materials I love most: glass. I know, girls. Glass sounds scarey. But it’s really not. It’s hard and cool and smooth and wonderful. And this one is so pretty you can almost leave it setting out on your coffee table and your guests wouldn’t even notice!

Again, I love glass dildos and Icicles is the best manufacturer out there, at least that I’ve come across. So let’s take a look at this product and whether or not it is right for you for Valentine’s Day…or any day you want a little romance in your life!

About the Product:

Icicles No. 12 is a clear, pink glass product that is around and 7.5 inches long, most of which is insertable. It has the wider flared based, so you can use it anally as well as in your pussy, but if you’ve never had a glass toy before, go slow, no matter what hole you choose to violate! Glass doesn’t have any “give” like a plastic-based product, so it feels really hard in you.

Because it’s make of glass, this product is safe and hypoallergenic. It can be cleaned with just about any regular toy cleaner, or you can boil it. You can even put it in the dishwasher for sanitation. Just make sure you empty your dishwasher before your roommate gets home.

Icicles No. 12 is on sale right now with Erotic Toy Town for $36.99, so it’s a pretty sweet deal.

Pros:

I can’t tell you guys how much I love the glass. My pussy is downright addicted to the feeling of a cool glass toy inserted deeeeep inside me. It might not vibrate or pulse, but the glass more than makes up for it.

The beautiful design is definitely a pro as well. I’m not brave enough to leave it setting out, but the design makes it a perfect romantic but naughty gift. I would swoon if a man bought me this toy. Who needs a dozen roses when you have one rose that will give you a dozen orgasms? Hehe *naughty grin* And I have to say, the packaging is nice as well. Even though this toy won’t break the bank, it has a real luxury feel.

The shape of this specific Icicles is wonderful as well, at least in my opinion. I reviewed a few glass toys in the past, and some are just better than others, though I do enjoy all of them. I love the bulb created by the flower on this end, because it kind of mimics the head of a real penis. The smaller bulbs on the shaft feel super nice as well.

In addition to being easy to clean, you can also heat it or stick it in the freezer for some fun temperature play. Yum.

Cons:

The biggest con to this toy is the same thing I really like about it – it’s made of glass. With a glass toy, rough play can be a little dangerous. I like it rough, but in the wrong position, slamming this glass cock into your pussy is going to hurt. So proceed with caution!

I would have liked if it came with some kind of bag for storage. I think the packaging is classy, but it also bulky and a bit inconvenient. Or maybe I’m just lazy. :-p

Seriously, those are the only cons I can really think of. I mean, I guess the fact that it’s not a vibrating toy is a turn off to some, but I like some plain dildos as well.

Conclusion:

Should you pick up this sex toy? ABSOLUTELY. I think Icicles No. 12 has claimed my heart as “favorite glass dildo,” a title previously held by the Turquoise Twister. This is pretty much the perfect sex toy for Valentine’s Day, so definitely consider picking it up for yourself or your sweetie.

A big fat thank you to Erotic Toy Town for sending me this sex toy to review! While you’re checking out Icicles No. 12, you can also check out other Icicles dildos and more toys to make this Valentine’s Day even more special!

I’m an avid online dater, and I’ve found a lot of cool guys that way. I’ve also had my fair share of run-ins with creeps. Today, I have a great guest post for you guys about online dating from Brianna with Best Adult Dating Sites. I definitely agree with all of her points, and even though this post is written with ladies in mind, guys – please be equally careful. ~Rori

We’ve all seen those ads.  You know…the ones showcasing the happy couples who smile, laugh and tell the story of how their picture-perfect romances began with a click of the mouse.  And as you sit there watching in envy, the horror sets in that you are spending a Friday night alone in front of the TV, shoveling unhealthy amounts of Ben & Jerry’s down your throat…so you can’t help but think, “Maybe online dating isn’t such a bad idea.”  But before you let the marketing tactics of the online dating industry get the best of you and send you running for your laptop, there are a few things that you need to know…

Online dating is a great method of meeting your match in today’s busy, hectic world.  However, there are crazies out there who use online dating as a means to hurt others who actually have the right intentions.  So that you don’t wind up in a situation that could leave you swearing off dating forever and heading to the convent, be sure to check out the following safety rules for online dating:

Safety Rule #1:  Don’t give away too much.  Okay, this is a tip you might’ve heard with conventional dating…but with internet dating, it’s just as important…especially when applied to the information you disclose.  It can be hard to resist when you’re communicating with a guy on the web who has a profile pic that looks like it fell out of a magazine, but if he asks you for personal info too soon, resist you must.  There’s no telling if that ‘hot guy’ is really who he says he is, so for that reason, when filling out your dating profile and interacting with fellow cyber singles, never give out the following details:  last name, home address, place of employment, phone number or financial material.

Safety Rule #2:  Take it slow.  When you find yourself clicking with an online match, it can be very thrilling and the excitement of meeting this person can take over…but if you rush into things with a guy you met on the net, you run the risk of running into some serious danger.  Once you’ve spent enough time through an online dating service getting to know a guy and you trust that he is legit, then it is okay to reveal more about yourself.  Then wait until you’re completely comfortable and confident that the guy is not a crazed, lunatic murderer topping America’s Most Wanted List before you plan a safe first date.

Safety Rule #3:  Plan a safe first date.  The time has come for your very first date with your online Prince Charming so you’re raiding your closet, you’ve spent a month’s rent on a hot new pair of shoes, and you’re maxing out your credit card on all the latest skin treatments at the beauty salon.  But as you’re crossing items off your first date prep list that will have your guy falling in love the minute he feasts his eyes on you, have you considered how to make it a safe first date?  Well, before you head out the door, don’t forget a spritz of perfume…and these first date safety tips:

• Whether you think he’s Prince Charming or not, tell him not to worry about picking you up in his horse-drawn carriage and hop in your own chariot.  For the first few meetings, never rely on transportation from your online man and be sure to hold your first dates in crowded, public places.
• It’s a given that you’re going to give your best gal-pal the scoop on your new guy…so don’t forget to fill her in on his name and where you plan on going with him.  Keep your cell phone handy throughout the date and call your friend upon your arrival home to let her know that you made it safely…and to dish about the date, of course!
• While on your date, it is important to remain observant—and not just observant of your date’s devastatingly good jawline or eyes that happen to be bluer than the Caribbean Sea—be aware of what is going on around you.  Keep an eye on your belongings and no matter how badly you think that Cosmopolitan is going to help calm your nerves, it is best to forgo the alcohol for the first few dates.

Safety Rule #4:  Listen to your gut.  Think back on all of the idiots that make up your dating history.  Don’t you always wish that you had listened to your intuition when it told you they were losers who weren’t worthy of your time?  Well, when it comes to online dating, your safety is your number one priority so it is imperative to always listen to that gut feeling.  If at any point during your online quest for love should a cyber-suitor make you feel the slightest bit uncomfortable, don’t be afraid to bow out, cut communication and tell the creep goodbye!

Brianna Phillips is a guest post author who enjoys writing about safe online dating.  In addition, Brianna also owns Best Adult Dating Sites where she offers advice on dating and relationships to online singles. 

You take the good…that I have some interesting dates planned this weekend, that I have an awesome new sex toy to tell you all about, that I have new posts coming VERY soon, I PROMISE….

You take the bad…that the flu has been attempting to kill me, that last week I’ve had to completely wipe my computer and reinstall Windows, that I have the sucky task of rejecting someone who I think really likes me…

And then you have the facts of life.

Bounce that Dick from Jenna Marbles, one of my YouTube favorites. I seriously can’t stop laughing.

“Sorry that was racist, I’m bad at rap songs…Ha! No I’m not! I’m fucking awesome and shit!”

Seriously, how can you not be laughing right now?

I feel like it’s been forever since I’ve written about my life. I love giving advice and writing reviews and such here on Between My Sheets, but let’s be honest; one of the reasons I started this site was that I needed an outlet to just…well…talk.

Or write. Whatever.

Tonight, I need that outlet.

I feel like I’m a really, really weird place right now in terms of relationship status. I really liked the guy I was seeing earlier this fall, but it’s been a long time since he’s replied to any of my texts. I heard from him a few times then suddenly…nothing. I’m kinda done with that BS. I deserve better than someone who’s only going to call me every few months.

So since then…went out with an older dom who was nice, but there was really no common ground there. We both felt it. Our date was awkward at best, and even though I think he’s a nice person, we had nothing to talk about and our lifestyles outside of D/s are super different.

I also went out with a few vanilla guys. The first was pretty much the exact opposite of the dom I met. We have TONS in common, but I don’t know…just didn’t feel the spark. I didn’t feel submissive to him at all. He was from a vanilla dating site, and while I am definitely open to dating someone more on the vanilla side of things, I still have to feel that submissive spark. The awkward part of things, though, was that he was really into me. He kept trying to kiss me and hold my hand in the middle of dinner and such, and just didn’t get the hint at all. It was actually really annoying. If a girl tells you she’s not into PDA, that’s a good sign that she doesn’t want you to keep trying to kiss her at the bar. It was super awkward to tell him I wasn’t interested in a third date.

So then a met up with another vanilla guy. I’m kind of on the fence about him. We’ve been on two dates, and they were both nice. Not earth-shattering, but fun for sure. I wasn’t sure whether or not he was into me…and I’m still not sure. We went out last Thursday and the date ended in a kiss (that he initiated). I texted him over the weekend, but didn’t hear back. So not sure it he’s interested or not. I thought the kiss was really nice, but maybe he didn’t feel the same! This guy’s definitely not a dom in the whips and chains sense, but I think he’s dominant enough (in a vanilla way) that I can be happy.

There is another guy. I know, I know, pimpin’! I’ve been out with him once, and we have plans to go out again…over a week from now. We had fun, but there are a lot of life-ish things in the way. Our schedules clash. He lives kinda far away. He wants to settle down in the middle of the city (I want to move farther away eventually). He doesn’t have a car (public transportation is possible, but it takes a long time). He comes from a different culture (not a big deal to me, but a harder sell to my family, and they’re important to me). We have a lot in common and had a good time on our first date, but…we’ll see.

I’m strangely okay with not being in a relationship, but I don’t know that I’m okay with that, if that makes sense. Like, I feel happy with my life and my career is crazy successful right now, but I worry sometimes that if I don’t focus on my love life too, I’ll get caught up in my career and never really find true love. I know, I know, you just have to let it happen, you can’t force love. But at the same time, if I’m not getting out there and meeting people, it’s not going to happen at all. I don’t want to someday look back on my life and be sad that I never found time for love.

So I’m not really okay with being okay, as weird as that sounds.

We’ll see, I guess. Hopefully, there will be some sparks in my future. I miss being in love.

The sexy guys from Paris Intimates wrote an awesome guest post a few months ago about blow jobs, so when they offered another post for you guys, I jumped at the chance to publish it! This time, we’re talking about rope bondage. If you’re a beginner, this is a good post for you!

It’s a beautiful thing when sex and art combine. If you follow Rori’s Beautiful Bondage tumblr, you’ve probably felt a mixture of awe and jealousy when viewing photographs of expert rope tying. Rope play is one of the most graceful and artistic forms of sexual expression out there, but the level of skill involved can sometimes be intimidating. Don’t let yourself be dissuaded! With this guide to knot-tying know-how you’ll be earning your rope play merit badge in no time.

A Bit of Background

The most predominant form of rope bondage is shibari, a traditional Japanese form of bondage. Shibari owes its roots to hojojitsu, a medieval form of torture and restraint. Eventually, the rope tying techniques originally used by the Japanese military to torture (and even kill!) captives slowly made their way into the bedroom. As they did, the art form became even more refined, with several masters dedicating their lives to the creation and perfection of new and traditional techniques. Today, rope tying supplies and information are available to shibari enthusiasts all over the world.

Where to Start

The first thing you’ll need when attempting shibari is the right attitude. Remember when you were a child and felt like the world was collapsing around you as you tried in vain to tie your sneakers? Now you lace up without even thinking about it. The same is true to shibari. Don’t get hung up on making your designs perfectly symmetrical or copying a photograph knot for knot. Shibari takes practice, but that practice should be fun. Don’t psych yourself out.

Gear Up!

The two most important things you’ll need to get knotty are a willing partner and professional rope. Don’t try shibari with the first rope you found at Home Depot, as many can cause abrasions or even splintering to the skin. Ropes made specifically for shibari are constructed with a blend of silk that allows for varying pressure and limited pinching or discomfort to the skin. Make sure your partner is truly invested in the process as intricate ties can take time and require a great deal of patience. Shibari isn’t a technique to try for your next 15-minute quickie.

It’s Tie Time

The best tie to attempt first is a basic wrist tie. Follow this easy tutorial to learn how create this simple knot. Beginning with a simple tie like this is best for a few reasons. For one, it allows you to get used to tying without being frustrated by complicated designs. It also allows your partner to grow accustomed to the feel of the rope. The basic wrist tie can be used to bind your partner into positions you’re already familiar with and allows you to play with a variety of positions. As you develop more skill, you can move on to more complicated ties like the tortoise shell or even ties than incorporate suspension. You’ll have to learn the basic ties first.

Professional photographs can make rope play look as intimidating as it is arousing, but you don’t need to relegate yourself to the realm of wistful onlookers. With the right attitude and enough practice you can earn your stripes (and maybe even an impressive reputation) with shibari. Start practicing now and who knows – you could find yourself roped in to some exciting sessions all winter long.

Awesome rope tips, boys! Thanks for the guest post! The picture used (with permission) as part of this post is from Hogtied, an awesome kinky rope play porn site that I highly recommend checking out! ~Rori

This year the 12 Naughty Days of Christmas is completely BDSM-themed. It’s an advent calendar for doms and subs! Don’t worry; there are activities for both couples and those who are single, so no matter what your relationship status, you can have a little sexy fun this holiday season.

One of the most exciting BDSM-related activities in my opinion is something I’m going to call “The Countdown.” You’ll see The Countdown manifest itself in a number of ways, but the main idea is that you’re making your sub wait for something he or she wants. It can be orgasm control, release from pain, and more.

It’s about pushing limits and learning restraint.

I’m going to list off a bunch of Countdown activities you can try, and many of them can be modified to work whether you’re a couple or you’re a single sub/dom. Ready to work on your patience?

The Oral Sex Countdown: Most subs loves pleasuring their dom. When your sub is going down on you, pull him/her back (by the hair is a sex way to do that) and make your sub beg. They have to convince you as you count down that they deserve to pleasure you with their tongue.

The Reverse Oral Sex Countdown: A reverse of the above countdown is to (consensually) force your sub to perform oral. If you’re a male dom, push your sub’s face on your cock, forcing him or her to deepthroat until you count down to zero. If you’re female, facesit.

The Spanking Countdown: Come up with a number of spanks your sub deserves and make him or her countdown as you administer them. (I love spanking, and counting makes it even better.)

The Orgasm Countdown: As you’re fucking and your sub gets close to orgasm, make him or her hold off until you count down to zero. If you can control your own orgasm to time it perfectly, you can cum together, which feels awesome.

The Quick Orgasm Countdown: This is a fun countdown if your sub is pestering you for sex and you’re busy or not in the mood or if you only have a few minutes to play. Start counting down slowly and tell your sub to start masturbating. They can orgasm – but only if they do before you get to zero!

Share some of your countdown ideas by leaving a comment below. And make sure to stop back later this week for the final day of our Naughty Days countdown – my pick for Top Sex Toy of 2011!

If you want to play more, check out the rest of the 12 Naughty Days of Christmas posts!

This year the 12 Naughty Days of Christmas is completely BDSM-themed. It’s an advent calendar for doms and subs! Don’t worry; there are activities for both couples and those who are single, so no matter what your relationship status, you can have a little sexy fun this holiday season.

Domination and submission doesn’t always have to be physical. In fact, some of the best activities for D/s couples (and all couples in general) are non-physical, giving you a chance to connect on an emotional or intellectual level.

For D/s couples, one of the best activities I can recommend is to come up with some rules. So today, your challenge is just that – to develop 5 Golden Rules.

For couples: The “golden rule” is to do unto others as you would have them do unto you. This doesn’t really work for D/s couples. Could you imagine giving your dom a swat on the behind every time your craving a spanking?? Instead, work together to come up with five rules that do work for you. These rules are going to be different for every couple, depending on your dynamics. Here are some things to consider:

• Rules that help you achieve your goals

For example, if you’re a sub trying to lose weight, one of your rules might be that you need to exercise every day before your dom gets home from work or if you’re a dom with a sub who’s trying to find a job, one of your rules might be that you and your sub review job openings every night before bed and discuss which ones are a good fit so you can apply the next day.

• Rules about communication

Communication is important in any relationship. One of my favorite rules is “never go to bed angry at one another,” but your communication rules could take on a more D/s spin too. For example, maybe one of your rules could be that your sub has to crawl on his/her knees to you and ask for a spanking when craving one, not misbehave.

• Rules about housework and other responsibilities

Who’s in charge of the chores around the house? What about family responsibilities if you have children? Who pays the bills? Both the dom and the sub in a relationship need to take on responsibilities to make a relationship work.

• Rules about body and orgasm control

Part of a D/s relationship for most couples is for the dom to take physical control of his sub. Many subs have to ask permission to orgasm or can’t masturbate without their dom’s permission. Some couples do complete power exchange, where the sub has to act for permission for everything, from going to the store to using the bathroom. Do what works for the two of you.

• Rules specific to problems you’ve had in the past

If you’ve had problems in your relationship, perhaps you can create rules to help avoid problems in the future. For example, if you’ve fought over seeing your ex, maybe one of your rules is that you have to only hang out with exes when you’re both there. Rules can be for both of you, not just the sub!

• Kinky rules

Rules can be serious, but they can also be a lot of kinky fun too! Don’t be afraid to add a little kink to your list as well, beyond body/orgasm control. For example, maybe you have to wake up your dom with a blow job at least once a week. Or maybe your sub has to make you come with his tongue or fingers before he gets to fuck you. Don’t put too much pressure on kinky rules, or sex won’t be fun anymore. If they’re “broken” have equally fun punishments – the dom who doesn’t get his wake-up blow job might have free reign to wake you up instead with some rough face-fucking!

Make your five rules work for you! This isn’t by far an exhaustive list of all the types of rules you can write together – the important thing is that you work together to come up with a list that makes sense for your relationship.

For single subs: You might not have a dom, but you can still make some rules to give your life some structure. You can hold yourself responsible for the rules you create, or you can even start a blog and turn to your readers for support. Some of the same above types of rules still apply. It depends what makes sense for your life. For example, you might create a rule that you have to complete all of the chores around the house before you’re allowed to turn on the TV at night. Or you can create a rule that you’ll push yourself to explore your sexuality by masturbating at least X number of times per week. Or you can create a rules that if you want to eat dessert, you have to be wearing your largest (and most uncomfortable) butt plug. Get creative!

For single doms: Just because you’re not a sub doesn’t mean you can’t have rules for yourself as well. Think about what you want in life and sit down to write out some rules for yourself. Ofter, we’re dating or pursuing the wrong people, and that’s why we’re not happy. So, for example, let’s say politics are important to you. One of your rules might be to stop dating men uneducated and to only date subs who can speak intelligently about their political beliefs (even if they don’t agree with you!). Or let’s say that you really dislike children. One of your rules might be to only date women who aren’t interested in starting a family someday. Rules are about discovering what you want and making a commitment to yourself to go after those things! Of course, you can have some kinky rules too – all doms are allowed to have some sexy fun too!

If you want to play more, check out the rest of the 12 Naughty Days of Christmas posts!

As of today, I hit a million pageviews on Between My Sheets!

To be transparent, I haven’t recorded stats since the very beginning. I started tracking sometime in 2009. So I don’t have the *official* stats, but I’m counting today as my million view day. And that’s a fantastic way to end 2011.

Over the past year, especially, I’ve been so thankful for all of you. Every time someone signs up from my mailing list, follows me on Twitter, or likes my Facebook page, I get a smile on my face. Your comments help me more than you can know and your emails brighten my day. You guys are totally worth all the work I put into this blog, a million times over.

So thank you, thank you, thank you.

And to say thank you one more time, I have a $50 Gift Certificate to give away so you can pick up some awesome sex toys from Eden Fantasys* – and entering to win is really easy.

All you have to do is leave a comment using the below comment box. Your comment must contain:

1. A real email address in the “email” box (this will never be displayed or shared with anyone)
2. The title or link to your favorite post on Between My Sheets

Want a second entry? Leave a second comment with the item on Eden Fantasys you plan to buy if you win the $50! Again, you must use a valid email address, since that’s how I’ll contact the winner.

Want a third entry? Tweet about this contest or share it on your blog and leave a third comment with the link to your post.

That’s it – three ways you can enter to win! Hurry – the winner will be chosen on January 11th, so you have to enter quickly if you want a change at that $50 prize.

The small print:

• You must be 18+ or of legal age in your location to enter, since the prize is an adult product.
• Comments on this post will be closed on Jan. 11, 2012, so you must enter before then.
• You can leave other comments on this post, but they won’t be counted for this giveaway unless they contain the above information.
• The winner will be chosen using Random.org.
• Void where prohibited.

*This is not sponsored by Eden Fantasies. I just like that site for sex toy shopping.