Greetings perverati and kinky friends,

I wanted to do a wrap-up post touching on last Saturday’s Vox Erotic Radio Show.  If you weren’t able to catch it live, do check out the archived podcast to hear the interview Ms Cecilia and I did with Mrs. Claudia and her husband Ronnie. 

Cecilia and I started the show out wishing each other a “Happy 10th Anniversary”…this past weekend marked the 10th show she and I have done on TalkShoe!  We discussed the way our show has evolved since episode one and we are happy to say, the show is moving in exactly the direction we had hoped it would thus far.  Our goal has always been to bring our listeners interesting, entertaining, relevant, sexy, sometimes funny and kinky content as well as introduce you to various folks who embrace their sexuality and perhaps offer an alternative way of looking at what it means to be a sexual being in the world today.  We also encourage listeners and fans of Vox Erotic to send us your thoughts, comments and suggestions for material you’d like to hear covered on future shows. 

Later in Saturday’s show, we were joined by Mrs. Claudia and Ronnie for an enlightening discourse on femdom relationships.  Mrs. Claudia and Ronnie have a long history together but their marriage didn’t start out as a femdom one right off.  Mrs. Claudia shared that it was Ronnie’s idea initially to engage in a female-led relationship.  However, we learned that things didn’t flow quite so effortlessly in those beginning stages as the couple attempted to transition from a “traditional” marriage to a femdom one.  Claudia made a very poignant revelation in that when she approached the concept of dominating her mate from the mindset of, “I’ll do this because he wants me to”, there was a lack of authenticity in the dynamic.  It was only when she embraced the notion of female domination from a perspective of what worked about it for her,  things finally fell into place.  We also discussed the ways many submissive males are misguided in their notions of what it means to engage in a relationship with a female dominant.  Ronnie pointed out that he had spent much time online purusing femdom-oriented porn and even visited pro-dommes in an attempt to live out his fantasies.  In reality, this served to reinforce that what he was looking for was based on a murky concept of female domination and in the end he was unable to achieve the kind of submission and surrender he was truly seeking.  Today, Claudia and Ronnie enjoy a loving, fulfilling and genuine D/s relationship and they’ve never looked back since. 

Listen to or download the entire, unedited interview on Vox Erotic Radio: Show #10.

Vox Erotic Show #10 Listener’s Companion:

• Miz Ava expresses her heartfelt concern over what ever happend to the once swarthy and sensual Andy Garcia:  Is Andy still hot or not?  The general consensus was that indeed, Mr. Garcia has seen better days…
• Relinquished pointed out that it might be a good idea to go easy on Mr. Garcia, since one never knows who might be listening to the Vox Erotic Show. 
• Miz Ava confirmed her reservation in hell by bringing up this news story regarding a homoerotic rendering of “The Last Supper”.  (hey, it’s not like I created the painting…I’m just reporting the news!)
• Ms Cecilia opened up a discussion based on a “study” that states adults who enjoy being spanked are in fact, deviants who probably were spanked and punished corporally as children.
• Simple fetish or psychodramatic catharsis?  Miz Ava ponders this theme while talking about the French Grand Prix President who was forced to resign from his post because of a kinky video featuring him engaging in “nazi-like” sadomasochistic acts with a bunch of prostitutes.  Everything was going along so smoothly until he started branding swastika’s on the bare bottoms of the whore’s…(ok, ok, that’s me embellishing…we don’t *really* know if there was any branding involved, but Grand Prix Perv did require everyone dress in Nazi uniform). 
• The quoteable Mrs. Claudia:  “Most women, whether FemDom or not, do not want a inanimate object to order around 24/7 and use for only sex…. For me there are days where the last thing I want to do is give a command. Usually on those days I want to be cuddled and told over and over how wonderful and beautiful I am. How I am my husbands whole world and he couldn’t imagine living without me.  I am human; I cry, laugh, get angry, get sick, and get PMS. I am the whole package, not a male created FemDom written about for other subs to read and jack off to.”   (quoted directly from her blog,  Starting A FemDom Marriage.) 
• Another gem from Mrs. Claudia:  “When submission is truly brought out in a man they become modern day knights. They lose their resentment and stop taking life for granted….The macho man who treats women like dirt is actually the pathetic, weak man.”  
• Claudia discusses the femdom community forum she has recently launched and her goal to reach out and educate the kink community on the realities vs. the fantasies of what it means to participate in a female-led relationship. 
• Mrs. Claudia’s paid membership site can be located here.  The photos and videos are real-time depictions of Claudia and Ronnie engaging in various BDSM exchanges and activities. 
• Claudia and Ronnie will both be presenting at the upcoming DomCon in Los Angeles. 
• For those interested in getting a fresh, authentic perspective on D/s and femdom, Mrs. Claudia recommends reading the works of her friend and mentor, Ms Rika. 
• Cecilia and Ava announce next week’s guests, Sylvanus and Mina, a male dominant and female submissive in a real-time D/s relationship. 

That’s all for now…much kinky love,

Miz Ava

Hello perverati…

Just a quick note to let listeners know that the Vox Erotic Radio show will not air this Saturday.  Mistress Cecilia and I are going to take a bit of a Easter weekend holiday break and will return Saturday, March 29 with Ms Tara as our next guest Mistress.  The interview originally slated for this Saturday with Marcello has been rescheduled for Saturday, April 5.  I will also be on hiatus this Friday from the Verbal Penetration Radio Show. 

I will still be available for phone sessions over the weekend on Friday after 6pm EST and on  Saturday from mid-afternoon on.  Please note that between now and the end of April, I will primarily be available for phone sessions on the weekends and on some weekday evenings per appointments. 

In other news, LDW has launched an innovative and inspirational “morning wake-up call” service.  Be sure to check out Wake Up Sexy and make arrangements to be aroused from your slumbering subconscious by the Mistress of your dreams.  Hell, I’m even feeling inclined to get one of these delicious ladies to call and wake me up in the morning…especially when I’ve pulled yet an another all-nighter cramming to get a paper done for school!  What a beautiful way to wake up…

And a special congratulations to the winners of the annual Sissy School Pagent!  This year’s star-studded sissy elite are as follows:

800-356-6169

Hello perverati,

It seems like time is slipping away lately…so much is going on and before I know it–poof–another week is gone!

The Vox Erotic Radio Show is truly progressing wonderfully.  I can’t express how much I enjoy working with Ms Cecilia on this project.  It almost seems as though destiny might have been pulling some strings in the background on this one.

Last night on VE Radio,  we were joined by Mistress Sarah, who shared with us her experiences with chastity and orgasm denial, even revealing that she too, has delved into these areas on a personal level.  Ms Sarah told us that it has always been important for her to be able to experience the very things she expects her submissives to endure for her.  Ms Sarah is also a very spiritual woman and while her style of domination is certainly one that is at times intense; she is the kind of Mistress  who will truly capture your mind, body and soul.  If you missed the live show, you can go right to the Vox Erotic Show page and listen to or download the podcast.

In other news, the “Turn Miz Ava On” story contest has come to a close and now it’s time to vote for the entry you think is the sexiest.  To find out how to participate in the poll, go here .  The poll will run through the end of the month and the winner will receive their story recorded by me in an MP3 audio.

Recently, I came across the blog of Marcello called Sexual Eccentricity.  Marcello is a very thoughtful, sensual, submissive gentleman who’s delightful insights and musings on the role BDSM plays in his life have captured my attention (oh, that and his “half-nekkid Thursday’s photo series). ;)  Look for Marcello be the guest interview on Vox Erotic Radio in just a couple of weeks.

And finally, I’d like to announce a new segment Cecilia and I are going to be rolling out on Vox Erotic Radio.  We would like to take time each week to share listener’s questions on all things related to kink, sexuality, relationships, etc.  We will be your “sexual anthropologists” and help you “dig” to the root of your concern and offer advice during the show.  You can call in live or, if you prefer, you can email either of us with your question or area of concern.  We understand that some issues are rather intimate ones, and if you email us, we will keep your identity anonymous or refer to you in whichever name you choose to sign off your letter.  So, we invite you to approach us with your questions!

I will be updating my spring/summer schedule for phone sessions shortly, as the semester winds down.  Please be aware that I will not be available during  most of the day this week Monday-Thursday.  I will however, be available Tuesday after 5pm and Wednesday after 6pm EST. I should also be around in the mid-afternoon this Thursday.  Email me if you would like to work on setting an appointment.

Until next time…much kinky love,

Miz Ava

sexy_msava@yahoo.com

800-356-6169

Hello perverati!

Just a quick note to let you all know what’s in store for this Saturday’s Vox Erotic Radio show.

Ms Heather will be joining us as our guest Mistress and for an interview. Ms Heather is the star of the Fabulous Friday Flashback Show and a fan favorite here at LDW. What a treat it will be to talk with her about her different projects, her most memorable clients and why she is so damn good at being the sassy little brat you can’t get enough of!

Many of you have been asking me for months if I will ever revive the Truth or Dare game that was previously hosted in the Community Kink Chat. Well, after much consideration and collaboration with Ms Cecilia, we are going to bring the game back and play a modified version live on the air on Vox Erotic Radio! That’s right…on this weekend’s show, Truth or Dare returns and you know what that means: opportunities aplenty for bold souls to act out random acts of silliness and humiliation. Those of you who have played the game with me when it was a hosted chat event know that I do not mess around…if you come to play this Saturday on the radio show, be prepared to be played hard. Given that the game will be played in the live medium, know that there will be dares specifically assigned that must be acted out on the air or before the show ends. Of course, for those of you too chicken to take dares from Ms Cecilia or I, we’ll have some probing “truth” questions as well. For the dares that require any kind of picture or written proof, they must be sent to Cecilia or I before the end of the radio show and those items will then be put up in my Erotic Humiliation Blog, which will now also serve as a place to showcase my most daring, naughty pets, as well as featuring monthly assignments and tasks.

I’ll be on Cock Radio tonight at 9pm EST too and will talk more about the Saturday show there as well. Remember Vox Erotic Radio begins at 10pm EST on TalkShoe on Saturday.

Until then,

Much kinky love…

Miz Ava

sexy_msava@yahoo.com

800-356-6169

Hello perverati and kinky friends…

I’d like to give you a sneak peak at what’s in store for this Saturday’s upcoming Vox Erotic Radio Show. Ms Cecilia and I will be interviewing the decadent “dicktator”, Mistress Cassandra. Mistress Cassandra is one of our colleagues at LDW and is known for her wicked ways and affinity for keeping her boy toys locked in cock cages. We are so looking forward to hearing about the innovative and deviant styles of cock control she implements. If you haven’t already checked out Ms Cassandra’s blog, it is a must-read!

We’re also going to introduce a new game this weekend, called “Please Your Mistress”. The way this will work is we will be opening up the phone lines and recruiting several listeners to compete to please the Mistress(es). We then will present one or two different scenarios, mostly with a femdom or kink flavor, and give each competitor a minute or so to come up with the best, most winning lines in an attempt to impress the Mistresses. The catch is, (you know there had to be one!) competitors must use two keywords given by me or Ms Cecilia in their “speech”. Each competitor will have different keywords to use; so being able to think creatively and on your feet will be in your favor. This game will be a lot of fun and remember, to play this one, you will need to call into the show when the segment for Please Your Mistress is announced.

I’m also working on creating a TG Spotlight segment with my dear friend Stephanie Marie. Stephanie Marie is very involved both socially and politically in the transgendered community and recently attended an event that she will share about with us on the air.

Again, many thanks to all of the supporters of the new Vox Erotic Radio Show….Ms Cecilia and I are so enjoying working together and look forward to bringing you many, many episodes!

And in case you’ve been living under a rock for the last week, you will want to check out the new social networking site Ms Ally created, called The Kink Space. It’s very much like My Space, only this medium will cater to adults who enjoy the taste of all things kink. If you haven’t yet, go set up your profile page there and join in the naughty fun with fellow kink community members and LDW Mistresses!

That’s all for the moment…

Your phone sex guide,

Miz Ava

800-356-6169

sexy_msava@yahoo.com

Hello perverati!

Saturday’s Vox Erotic Show was simply fantabulous! Ms Cecilia and I are truly getting into a nice groove here and there was lots to talk about during this latest broadcast. We opened with a new little segment called, “Kinky Caller of the Week”. Ms Cecilia shared a glimpse into a recent call she had took in which her cute little sissy client engaged in a game of “cat and mouse” with her, before becoming completely feminized. Apparently, “Carla” likes to tempt fate and continually insists to Ms Cecilia that there is no way she will fall under her hypnotic spell. Which of course, as we all know, is pure hogwash! Hell, even I fall under Ms Cecilia’s spell whenever I hear her dreamy, sensual voice.

I mentioned a new client I had a session with over the weekend who was a bit of a puzzle at first. He was extremely nice and approached me at the beginning of the session by explaining his girlfriend was fucking around on him with his friend. He admitted it turned him on to think of the two of them together like that, so I began to explore cuckold possibilities with him. Yet, that didn’t seem to quite fit for him and he then proceeded to tell me about his friend’s sexy mother whom he had been fantasizing about for some time. So, now I am thinking…”Ahhh, he is into the whole MILF fetish then!”

Well, not quite.

After a bit more prodding and digging around within this client’s psyche, the real story unfolded. This gentleman was much more interested in exploring fantasies revolving around engaging in some hot bisexual love with his male friend, (the same friend who is fucking his girlfriend behind his back). It had little to do with pursuing the cuckold dynamic; he just thought his friend was really good looking and enjoyed imagining what it would be like to get down and dirty with him.

It’s fascinating the way phone sex sessions sometimes take turns in unexpected directions.

Also, on Saturday’s Vox Erotic Radio Show, Ms Cecilia and I interviewed Ms Julia, who then hung around for a while as our guest Mistress. Ms Julia talked with us about her love of books, words, shopping, and cooking. She also engaged the listeners in a lively discussion about language, meaning, and naming in relation to sexual terminology. We talked a bit more about the myth of the “wicked” woman and some misconceptions about what it means to be a femdomme. It’s more than evident Ms Julia is a class-act, and truly a woman of great intellect. It was a great pleasure to have her join us on last Saturday’s show.

There was another round of the “Guess The Mistress” game, with which was a lot of fun to test our listeners knowledge and awareness of the diverse personalities of the LDW Mistresses. Speaking of which, Princess Lilah later called into the show as well and kept the audience enthralled with her depictions of some of the phone sessions she had recently had. Princess Lilah is a darling….she embodies that mixture of coy and saucy all rolled into one. Such a treat to have her join Cecilia and I as well!

After some “Sex In The News” reporting, Ms Cecilia and I wrapped the show up by reminding listeners about the “Name Our Show” contest, Cecilia’s Strange Sex Sunday Chats in the Kink Chatroom, the new Kink Space website, and the “Turn Miz Ava On” story contest. The second entry in my story contest can be read here on my Kink Space journal page.

That’s all for the Vox Erotic Radio review for this week. We look forwarding to bringing you more intelligent and erotic material next Saturday beginning at 10pm EST. Also, be sure to check the listings on Cock Radio for the replay of last weekend’s show.
Much kinky love,

Miz Ava

800-356-6169

sexy_msava@yahoo.com

The four Mistresses whose blogs have been officially “pimped” for quotes to be presented in the Guess The Mistress game for Saturday’s Vox Erotic Show are:

• Mistress Brooke
• Ms Courtney
• Ms Rose
• Mistress Taylor
  

The excerpts Ms Cecilia and I will be reading from won’t be any more than a week or two old; typically we draw from posts no deeper than the first page or two of the Mistress’ blog.

On Friday’s VP Radio Show, I talked about reopening a writing contest I originally began in my Yahoo group at the end of last year. It started out as a story/essay contest and then it got put on back burner as life got a little hectic. I’d also like it if there were more entries to play with for this challenge. So, what I want to do is invite everyone to participate by submitting either a short story (fictional or based on real experiences) to me. Maximum word count is 1000. The premise of this contest is to write something you think I’d find erotic. Over the next couple weeks, I will post the stories I receive anonymously, meaning no one will know who the author is besides me and the author. I am also going to be reading excerpts from the stories on the radio show. Deadline for turning your work in will be March 9. After that, I will create a poll and everyone from the perverati, to radio fans to the LDW Mistresses will be encouraged to cast a vote for what they think is the hottest story. The winner will receive an Mp3 recording of their written piece from me.

All stories will be posted on the Community Kink Social Network Site. Entry #1 can be located here.

Don’t forget, tomorrow’s Vox Erotic Radio co-hosted by Ms Cecilia and myself begins at 10pm EST and Mistress Julia will be joining us! If you are unfamiliar with the Talk Shoe site, simply join us in Community Kink Chat and we will direct you from there.

Much kinky love,

Miz Ava

800-356-6169

sexy_msava@yahoo.com

Happy Valentine’s Day, perverati! I hope yours was filled with much kink and deviant decadence.

Tomorrow night on the Verbal Penetration Show on Cock Radio, I’d like to spend some time talking with you about the mythology of the “wicked” woman. (think: Jezebel, Eve, Delilah, Sharon Stone in “Basic Instinct”, Catwoman, Anne Bancroft in “The Graduate”,etc.) Meet me in The Kink Chatroom and be prepared to discuss:

• What the allure of such a woman?
• What would make a man want to pursue a so-called “bad girl”?
• Why would an otherwise decent, upstanding male be so willing to have his world corrupted by the sultry yet shameless femme fatale?
• Is it purely an erotic thing? Or is it something more?
• Who do you think were some of the baddest vixen/villan/femme fatale’s in cinematic or television history?

Verbal Penetration starts at 9pm EST on Cock Radio.

Additionally, Mistress Cecilia and I have a special treat for you on this Saturday’s upcoming Vox Erotic Radio show. Be prepared to meet Mistress Julia, a super-smart, sensual and erotic woman of many tempestuous talents. Vox Erotic Radio starts at 10pm EST, and remember, if you are listening to the live show, you can call in and talk with Julia, Cecilia and myself during the broadcast. And a very special thank you to the fans of the new radio show; your feedback and comments are so appreciated by both Cecilia and I.

Much kinky love,

Miz Ava

800-356-6169

sexy_msava@yahoo.com

At long last, Ms Cecilia and I have finally found the new, permanent home for our co-hosted radio show!

February 9 marked the long-awaited premiere of our brand new live show titled �??Vox Erotic Radio�??.  This program now airs every Saturday at 10pm EST on Talk Shoe.    Talk Shoe is a website that can be used to generate live, interactive content for internet radio shows and podcasts.   Vox Erotic Radio can be listened to as a live stream each week directly from the Talk Shoe website or as a re-broadcast on Cock Radio following the initial live show (check Cock Radio website for show time listings).  If you�??re able to tune in to the live stream of Vox Erotic Radio, you also have the option of calling in to the show and interacting on the air with your two lovely show hosts. 

The debut show featured a real-time interview with both Ms Ceclia and I doing a bit of a Q&A segment with each other.   We wanted to offer the listeners a chance to get to know each of us as individuals and also as a radio duo.  Later, we engaged our listeners in a new game called �??Guess The Mistress�?? which proved to be a lot of fun and provoked some bouts of hysteria and laughter when the listeners were challenged.  The �??Kink/Sex in the News�?? segment will generally be presented toward the last half of the show and live listeners will also have opportunities to call in to the program at various intervals throughout the broadcast.

Please note that in order to call into the show, new listeners will need to register a user name at the Talk Shoe website.  The live stream of show will not be accessible to unregistered listeners under the age of 18.

We are also asking for your ideas on what to name this new radio show.  For the time being, Cecilia and I are going with the title Vox Erotic Radio, but feel as though there could be a better name to attach to this endeavor.  Over the next two weeks, we are going to be holding a contest…so if you have a name you think might be good for the show, please let us know.  You can present your suggestions right here in the blog comment section.   If we use your idea, you will win a free personalized MP3 audio featuring both Ms Cecilia and I.  So far, some of the suggestions I’ve received are:

• Saturday Night Kink With Miz Ava and Ms Cecliia
• Kink Talk With Ms Cecilia and Miz Ava
• The Mistress Zone
• Fluid Intimacy With Miz Ava and Ms Cecilia
• Verbal Intercourse
• Saturday Night Orgy
• Kink Zone
• Share The Passion With Miz A and Ms C
• Getting Sexy With Ms C and Miz A
• Not Exactly Love
• Tongue Tied

So far so good…but I want more!  We’ll run the contest for about two weeks from now.

All the best, all the time….

Your phone sex guide,

Miz Ava