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Rockstar Status: Standing in the Face of No Agreement (what does that mean?)

Steph — Fri, 17 May 2013 04:12:53 +0000

One of the sweetest, hardest, most bewildering, most rewarding lessons you can learn is how to stand in the face of no agreement. Standing in no agreement means that you have no agreement from outside sources that what you are intending is valid or going to come true. There aren’t people (or even one) saying, “Yeah! You’re going to get that job/loving partner/admission to grad school.” You don’t even have your own assurance. Your own eyes can’t see how it is going to manifest. But you stand. You are standing in the face of ‘no agreement’ about your intention.

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Will negative emotions jack up your vibration? Here’s my answer.

Steph — Thu, 16 May 2013 04:01:27 +0000

In the 7 Miracles Project, we believe all things are already ours.

You may ask, but why is it taking so long? Why is it so hard right now? If I have negative emotions, am I jacking up my vibration? What do I do with my emotions of sadness, loss, confusion, frustration, failure, shame?

Part of our journey is going through phases of contrast, meaning, you will produce results that are in opposition to your heart’s desires. When we go through contrast (having to go without) we expand. We actually grow in places we never normally would so that …

How the heck does your brain hardwire itself? Plus, 2 tools to help rewire better thoughts.

Steph — Sat, 11 May 2013 03:51:56 +0000

Anytime you start a new program, you will begin with a bang and then can slide into feeling stuck, unmotivated, or bewildered. Seems like EVERYBODY ELSE is creating all these awesome miracles and you aren’t seeing anything close to it. Maybe you have skipped some of the practice exercises and you are making yourself wrong for that.

First, it’s important to know that even if you had NOT signed up for the 7 Miracles Project and you didn’t know a single one of these tools, you would be a powerful miracle maker. Your destiny and your identity as a beautiful, …

What to say to someone when you’re cleaning up your integrity

Steph — Wed, 08 May 2013 03:35:08 +0000

Hello loves! Just wanted to thank you again for your support from yesterday as I shared openly about my recent loss of a friendship and the new miracle I am creating as a stand for pure love. You guys get it, and you are incredible!

Jean asked a great question about cleaning up (from the video, Your integrity: The mac daddy of creation). She asked: “Can you give an example of a conversation you would have with someone when you are out of integrity? Aside from an apology, what else is good to say?”

Well yes, I can! Because I …

Your INTEGRITY: The mac daddy of creation

Steph — Tue, 07 May 2013 03:09:00 +0000

Register for 7 Miracles in May to get an mp3 of the 90-minute workshop and the workbook which has all the classnotes and worksheets for the coming month. Only $39 bucks.…

Join me for 7 Miracles in May

Steph — Sun, 28 Apr 2013 18:39:00 +0000

Enrollment is open all month! Sign up HERE.
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Unwrapped

Steph — Fri, 05 Apr 2013 20:16:32 +0000

Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this, too, was a gift.

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20 Difficult Truths About Love + Relationships from a Life Coach

Steph — Thu, 07 Mar 2013 22:30:49 +0000

The vagaries of love and despair keep our lives in high drama, don’t they? And man! if we could just figure out how to crack the code on healthy, peaceful coupling, we’d have it made. Many times, my clients come to me in the midst of a tangled, painful relationship that has gone septic, or they are in heartbreak hell and trying to conduct a postmortem on the relationship.

I have a naturally optimistic view of love, relationships, and the abundant opportunities …

Midnight ride.

Steph — Mon, 11 Feb 2013 00:56:32 +0000

Sunday, February 10, 2013
California

It’s midnight. The road beneath me is black and the lane reflectors tick past me like pulsing flash bulbs. The ambient glow of my headlights pushes a half circle of warm light in front of my car. 12:03, it’s officially Monday morning.

I drive to kiss my daughters good-night after a six-hour flight from frigid New York. My heart beats warm inside me, swelling with love for them. I can’t wait to kiss their soft cheeks and squeeze them close. Even as teenagers, the girls are sweet and kind.

I remember fearing this stage when …

Hell Yes | Hell No { for the gentlemen }

Steph — Sun, 18 Nov 2012 19:25:04 +0000

Many times, clients will come into my practice and, though they don’t know each other, there will be the same general issue going on with all of them. Sometimes the main problem is lack of faith in themselves, or unresolved anger from the past, or spiritual malaise. During one patch of time in 2011, the trend was repeat heartbreak from choosing crappy partners. Both the guys and the girls in my practice seemed to be struggling with this. One Saturday I sat down and thought,”If I could give them …