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Effectiveness of Therapy

2012-06-30T00:09:00.000+05:30

Advice by: Hank Butch
Place: Shanghai, China

How to make therapy effectively count for you?

Therapy sessions lasting for an hour couple of times a week won’t start to suddenly do wonders for you. It is you who need to put your learning from those sessions into practice in your day to day life.

a. Regularity in meals, daily exercise and a good 7 hours of sleep will start to put you in the right state of mind to treat your emotional state. This is the first step. Skipping this step will only bring you more irritability and dampen your confidence than therapy is not working.

b. As mentioned before, your therapist will carve out a way for you after consulting you. But he plays only a part in your recovery. What you contribute actively through your actions is more important.

c. Your counseling sessions aren’t just a weekly chore that you have to complete. Don’t just go there because you’ve been told to do so or just because you’ve paid for it. Endure through the resistance if you have any, but be sure to open yourself up to your therapist. At no cost should you skip your meetings with your therapist. Be committed to following the activities your therapist asks you to perform during the days between two sessions

d. Remember that your therapist can help you best only if you are completely honest and truthful about your problems with him. Drop all sort of inhibitions. Being rather open will do you more good than being closed.

Is therapy making any progress for you?

When you ask yourself this question, remember that your expectations shouldn’t seek instant results. What you definitely can answer instantly in your first couple of sessions is whether your therapist is suitable for you or he is not.

Also remember, the recovery is associated with emotional lows, moments of irritation, spurts of anger and other such negativity. What you need to answer for yourself after about a month is whether you are seeing a positive change in your overall life.

Here are some questions you can answer to test how far you have evolved:

a. Has my life seen a change in the positive direction?

b. Am I being able to cope up better at work than before?

c. Are my relationships in my family tending to improve?

d. Socially, am I being able to react openly and exhibit myself confidently?

e. Are my goals set by my therapist with me being met one by one?

f. Am I more aware of myself and do I have clarity over my actions?

If you can answer even 3 of these questions in the positive, well, you are tending towards improvement. But don’t get discouraged if you aren’t improving. You aren’t in a competition! Take your issues and answers to these questions to your therapist and discuss. Remember to have a wider outlook towards your entire life and surroundings – if there’s some positive vibe you feel, pat yourself and keep going!

When should you quit therapy?

As your situation improves with time, your bond with your therapist will naturally grow stronger. It would be hard for you to give up your sessions with your therapist after such a fruitful association. So as long as there are no financial hurdles or other commitments preventing you from going for your sessions, it may seem tough for you to call it quits.

The right time for you to get away from therapy is when you personally feel that you have achieved the goals you had set for yourself. It is quite normal for you to see your therapist for a couple of follow up sessions after you have stopped your regular counseling sessions. However, at no cost should you engage yourself into a situation where you make visits to your therapist an indefinite habit. Stay firm on that and be aware of your actions!

Financials about therapy

Therapy is among the relatively expensive treatments, since it calls for some serious amount of time and attention from a specialist.

Few people know, but insurance companies have provisions to cover some limited costs for therapy and counseling. If you are really having a crunch for funding your therapy, you can look out for social centers, young therapists or interns at an agency to keep your costs low.

Be sure to ask if you can pay per sitting and also about possible negotiations if you engage for a longer period of time.

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What is Counseling Like?

2012-06-29T23:44:00.001+05:30

Advice by: Hank Butch
Place: Shanghai, China

What are therapy and counseling sessions like?

You may have to attend your sessions either at hospitals your therapist’s clinic. Sometimes, therapists do pay you a home visit, but that generally is a more expensive proposition. You can expect these sessions to last for about an hour and they can range from as often as bi-weekly basis to about bi-monthly basis depending upon the treatment and your therapist’s approach.

Your first couple of sessions with your therapist most likely would be that where he tries to educate himself about your problems and your history. You too on the other hand should evaluate your session with him. You should try to clarify to him exactly what you are willing to achieve through therapy, so that you can both work together towards that goal as a team.

During the first couple of sessions, you must measure your level of comfort and trust with your therapist. So basically you have to know whether:

-- you are being able to undilutedly share your thoughts and feelings with him

-- you are comfortable sharing personal and private information with him

a. When you start off with your first session, there are chances that you might not feel the right click with your therapists. You must absolutely not settle for it if you aren’t feeling the required level of comfort with your therapist. Move on immediately and look out for another therapist

b. Expect a significant amount of personal contribution to healing yourself through therapy. This isn’t like any other illness where the doctor would work on your body or give you pills to alleviate pain. Your therapist will guide you through the relief, but you will need to actively play a good enough part to pull yourself out.

c. Attending counseling sessions with your therapists doesn’t mean that the time you spend there would be pain relieving always. Do expect negative feelings and thoughts from the past to come up that will hurt you. However, it is a process of healing. You must communicate to your therapist what you are feeling and what is troubling you. Not only will he guide you through his routine methods, but he communicating with him will educate him better about your state of affairs.

d. There are chances that the hospital or your therapist’s clinic might not give you the required level of comfort to open up completely and be yourself. If such a problem persists, do raise it with your therapist.

How long does therapy last?

This is a very relative question to be addressed. Some people who either have a grave problem can go on for close to about 3-4 months, while others with relatively less complex issues may even wrap up within a month. The other factor that can limit your length of therapy is the cost associated with it and how long you can endure that cost. You, however, must set a maximum time period for yourself, which is also reasonable. Setting such a goal helps you from falling into the same loop over and over again. It is not to pressurize yourself and can be modified as your treatment progresses.

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Types of Therapy

2012-06-29T23:37:00.000+05:30

Advice by: Hank Butch
Place: Shanghai, China

What are the different kinds of therapy?

There are multiple types of therapy and multiple approaches to solving your problems. It would be inappropriate to say that a particular type of therapy works wonders, whereas another one is worthy of being discarded. What is most important is that you feel at ease when you undergo treatment. And as mentioned earlier, it all boils down to the bond between you and your therapist. Now, here are a few types based on the problem you are facing.

a. Individual Therapy

If you are facing trouble with yourself, lack of confidence is pulling you down, depression is harming your day to day life, or even if there are negative thoughts continuously riding your mind, you should take to Individual Therapy.

b. Family Therapy

If you notice that there is loss of harmony and repetitive conflicts in your family, Family Therapy is suitable for treating all the members of your family. It doesn’t matter whether it is one single individual at the root of it, or more people who are part of the quarrel. The idea is that everyone in the family together forms one unit, so it is ideal for everyone to attend.

c. Group Therapy

This type of therapy is best when there are people of the same age group, or same profession, or people with some common link are facing similar issues. It gives you a comforting feeling to realize there are more people like you who too are down with problems that are similar to yours. The struggle through this therapy provides inspiration and ideas that people can borrow from one another.

d. Marriage / Relationship Therapy

When couples in a committed relationship or a marriage are having a tough time to work out their differences, it is worthwhile to try visiting a therapist together. Both individuals need to accept the challenge and should be willing to give the relationship whatever it needs to make it work.

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How to Find a Therapist

2012-06-29T03:05:00.000+05:30

Advice by: Hank Butch
Place: Shanghai, China

How to Find a Therapist to Heal Yourself?

It is only understated that therapy and counseling can be effective for treating your disturbed mental state. Choosing the right therapist is the first step towards making you feel better and changing your perspective towards life’s problems.

So what really is a Good Therapist?

To begin with, your therapist needs to be experienced. An experienced therapist will ensure that you can trust him and will make you feel he is the right person to open up yourself to. However, beyond just being someone who listens to you, he’ll help you overcome thoughts that pull you down and will motivate you to respond positively in tough situations of life. That said, a therapist isn’t a magician after all! The remaining part of the battle to ensure you come out of your grief depends on how you add to your own progress and how sincerely you participate in relieving yourself from the trauma.

How do you go about finding the right therapist?

It takes quite a while to find the right therapist. Sometimes recommendations from your folks and friends might be useful. However, it is essential that your therapist is someone who makes you feel comfortable to talk quite openly about all your issues. There should be a level of trust that you have in your therapist so that he can ease your process of recovery faster. You can start off with a couple of sessions initially to get a sense of comfort and understanding of what you are in for. If you don’t find yourself building a trustworthy and comfortable bond with your therapist, it’s useless to move ahead. Therefore, it would be a good idea to clarify as many doubts as you can before getting in for a session, since each session might be fairly expensive.

Some basic answers you answer before zeroing in on your therapist

1. How experienced is your therapist?

A therapist who is experienced and specialized to treat your problem will tend to facilitate your recovery much faster. If your depression, trauma or disorder is his area of specialization, he is better suited to treat you because he has carved out the right way through years of experience.

2. What is the mode of treatment and exercises involved?

This will give you an idea what you can expect when you go in for treatment and also give you a time-frame for which the treatment may last. Some exercises or methods might seem uncomfortable when you just hear of them, but you needn’t have a preconceived notion.

3. Are there any past references about your therapist that you can gather either online or from close friends?

This background check and performance review of your therapist can help you filter ones who would be not really worth paying for and spending time with. Unless any of your folks take a real hard stand against a certain therapist or you come across any serious bad reviews online, do not form a bias. Answer the first 2 questions by getting yourself involved.

4. How do your first couple of meetings feel?

If you notice a positive change or a positive reinforcement in the first couple of meetings, you can safely continue ahead with your treatment. In case there is a lack of comfort or anything about the treatment that’s making you feel too pressurized, it is best to walk away. Answering a few of the following questions will give you a direction to judge this in the best possible way:

a. Do you feel your therapist is supportive and you have a sense of bond building up that allows you to open up?

b. Do you feel that after you open up to your therapist, he really understands your problems and doesn’t just listen to you for the sake of it?

c. Do you feel any discomfort when you discuss your issues or do you feel he is judging you?

d. Is there a sense of comfort in trusting your therapist to the extent that you will be able to disclose private and intimate information? e. Are you being able to be absolutely yourself without any sort of pretence?

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Misconceptions about Therapy

2012-06-29T02:56:00.007+05:30

Advice by: Hank Butch
Place: Shanghai, China

Misconceptions about Therapy

1. Therapy is for people who have lost their mind

Yes! It’s true that therapy is for people who have gone crazy. Most of us who are facing issues in life tend to live in denial, though to the outer world we quite clearly appear crazy. It takes self-realization to accept that one needs someone to show the right way out of a downward spiraling life. It requires one to lay a fair amount of trust in that one therapist who can possibly restore normalcy and happiness through his expert methods and knowledge.

2. Therapy is for whiners and complainers

True again! At the outset it might seem that a certain category of people continue to whine all their lives and need to be treated. However, there are some of us who won’t whine, but will live in denial thinking that no real issue exists. What we don’t realize is that somewhere this issue we live unaware of ultimately stunts our growth, progress and happiness. It requires one to take a hard look at one’s life and further accepting responsibility for one’s state of affairs.

3. I’m tough and smart to take care of my own issues! Someone like me doesn’t need a therapist!

It often hurts our ego to accept that someone is going to treat our mental issues. It might make us feel that are we so dumb? Are we so weak that we need to resort to therapy? Well, how intelligent you are and how tough you are has got nothing to do with this really. A therapist has a third-person’s perspective of your life and a broader outlook. He’ll lay down your life slit wide open from his angle and then allow you to make choices that suit you best.

4. Therapists will keep raking up issues about my background

No doubt about it! However, it is simply wrong to say that therapy is all about digging out issues from the past, people you grew up with and people you were associated with. When you walk in, you are a complete stranger to a therapist. Understand your journey till the present gives him a background and better equips him to understand the cause of your problems. The main focus then lies on solving your problem without your past being raked up!

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Oral Medication or Therapy

2012-06-29T02:51:00.002+05:30

Advice by: Hank Butch
Place: Shanghai, China

Oral Medication or Therapy?

Let us first understand that emotional problems and mental traumas have multiple causes. It could be a break-up, a divorce, death of a loved one, financial distress or some other form of mental torture. There possibly can’t be one magical Master Pill that can suddenly rid everyone of such problems.

Medication can definitely take your mind off something for a bit or put you off to sleep. That doesn’t mean it is the cure. And oh god, beware of the side-effects too! A therapist can dissect your life to see your problems, understand the symptoms and thereby wisely suggest a way out. It can be tough and will make you feel uneasy to go to a therapist, that’s for sure! However, the odds of lifting yourself from the ditch you’ve fallen into are way higher if you take to therapy as a treatment.

The solutions and methods that a therapist can provide are significantly more effective and life-transforming than medication. Not only will you see a change in yourself, but you will make sure that the cure remains for a lifetime.

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Does Therapy Help

2012-06-29T02:43:00.000+05:30

Advice by: Hank Butch
Place: Shanghai, China

Why & How Does Therapy Help?

When you have an outlet to clear a rusted mind, a large part of your heartache gets taken care of almost instantly. A supportive and understanding therapist heals you by giving you the opportunity to voice your concerns and issues. Even if a therapist does it as a part of his profession, it definitely does make you feel cared for by someone who truly understands you.

You may then think that it would be rather easier speaking about your problems to your own folks. Why a therapist? Well, our folks are simply people who love us and stand by us in our difficult times. They aren’t professionals who can actually get to the underlying cause of your problems. But, a therapist is a trained expert who can counsel you to overcome your problems by getting to the real root cause of it. This is extremely essential when no amount of effort at home seems to help.

A common misconception is that only people who have a psychological problem are the ones who visit a therapist. However, you must educate yourself that there are a large number of people who take to therapy for day-to-day life issues too. It could simply be stress at work, lack of self-confidence or relationship quarrels. Therapy seems to bring about an improved quality of life for such people. If there are more serious concerns, therapy definitely is a highly viable option to heal yourself.

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Catching A Cheating Husband

2012-02-18T01:03:00.006+05:30

Advice by: Fredrick Carter
Place: San Antonio, Texas, USA

If you haven't read about the signs of cheating in relationships, then it would be a good idea that you do read it once at least. It gives you an in-depth insight into how most human beings cheat in relationships.

Irrespective of being a husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend, most human beings tend to leak out the age old classic signs of cheating. More specifically, to catch a cheating husband, here are the most significant signs to look for.

Cheating Husband: Signs of Cheating

#11 Sign to Catch a Cheating Husband
Strange statements in a Strained Marriage
As a couple, you two have been quarreling, but you make it up to him. However, it irritates him that he has to stay with you after you've made up. He can't be the obvious villain by calling off the marriage himself. Here are typical statements that most cheating husbands use:

-- I really care for you, but I don’t think I love you the same way!

-- I think our marriage is not the same as before…

-- Will we always be good friends if things don’t work out between us?

All these words are a result of skewed thinking. Your cheating husband starts to believe that the other woman understands him better, the new passion between them is more exciting and that they think alike on a lot of issues.

#12 Sign to Catch a Cheating Husband
Dull Sex Life
The action and thrill of a sex life that ought to exist between a couple is now almost dead between you two. A cheating husband might not even cuddle for that matter. And any move on your part will be negated by your husband for ridiculous reasons. Chances are that his sexual needs are being satisfied elsewhere and his guilt is tossing around your sex life.

#13 Sign to Catch a Cheating Husband
Car Clues
A cheating husband’s car can throw up numerous clues. The seat next to him has been moved, there is unknown hair in the car, the number of miles the car has driven just doesn’t add up correctly, the radio station is not the usual and the car is cleaner than he usually keeps it! The car might even smell of a different perfume that the other woman was wearing. Maybe your husband’s making the car smell better with a freshener to impress her!

#14 Sign to Catch a Cheating Husband
Hair, Perfume & Lipstick Clues
You’ll mostly find the other woman’s hair on your husband's shirt, on the car seat, his laptop, his bag and maybe his work stuff. If you promptly question him about that strand of hair, he will fumble in his reply, appear surprised for a second or maybe he’ll start getting defensive. You may even notice a ladies perfume off his clothes that you never wear.

#15 Sign to Catch a Cheating Husband
Finance & Expense Indicators
If you go through his credit card statement, you will notice your cheating husband has spent on things you've never seen. You might even find controversial items listed - gifts for women or dinners & lunches on days he was busy at work. Also, do check if your husband's phone bills are being mailed to his office or he is simply getting them by email to keep them off you.

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Catch A Cheating Husband: 15 Classic Signs

2012-02-18T00:50:00.004+05:30

Advice by: Fredrick Carter
Place: San Antonio, Texas, USA

If you haven't read about the signs of cheating in relationships, then it would be a good idea that you do read it once at least. It gives you an in-depth insight into how most human beings cheat in relationships.

Irrespective of being man, woman, boyfriend, girlfriend or spouse, most human beings tend to leak out the age old classic signs of cheating! More specifically, to catch a cheating husband, here are the most significant signs to look for.

Catch A Cheating Husband: Top Signs

#6 Sign to Catch A Cheating Husband
New Techniques in Bed
There is a good possibility that your husband actually wants to spruce up your sex life and is looking up websites or magazines for it. But if you notice that the amazing moves from his side keep coming in too frequently, it could very well be that he’s learning them from his new found lady love.

#7 Sign to Catch A Cheating Husband
Short-tempered and Irritable Behaviour
When you question your husband about the possibility of her cheating in the relationship, about his unusual behavior and questionable actions, he will get worried that you are checking up on him or that you have discovered something. He will start to act irritated about the questioning, become defensive about his schedules and will lose his cool in the guilt of infidelity. Don’t be surprised if you he starts calling you insecure and possessive!

#8 Sign to Catch A Cheating Husband
Accusation of You Cheating on Him
You might be shocked when your cheating husband accuses you of being infidel. As his affair grows further, the tension builds between you two. It leads to lack of communication and affection. This makes him believe that the reason there is such a lull in your marriage is because you too are probably cheating on him.

#9 Sign to Catch A Cheating Husband
Overtime at Work and Busy Schedules
You and your husband won’t go out that often as before. He might start leaving earlier and getting back later. It very well might be that he is trying to make something work for you and the kids. It would be a good idea to randomly check on his movements one day. Maybe the extra meetings, extra long hours and the business dinners aren’t that real!

#10 Sign to Catch A Cheating Husband
New Personality Traits
As he starts experiencing new things in his affair, you will notice that your cheating husband is a changed man. He will start using catchy phrases that he didn’t use before, watch different kind of television shows, change his taste of music, read stuff that he didn’t read before or even dress up like never before.

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15 Signs of A Cheating Husband

2012-02-18T00:42:00.004+05:30

Advice by: Fredrick Carter
Place: San Antonio, Texas, USA

If you haven't read about the signs of cheating in relationships, then it would be a good idea that you do read it once at least. It gives you an in-depth insight into how most human beings cheat in relationships.

Irrespective of being man, woman, boyfriend, girlfriend or spouse, most human beings tend to leak out the age old classic signs of cheating! However, more specifically, here are the signs of a cheating husband.

Signs of A Cheating Husband

#1 Sign of A Cheating Husband
Personal Grooming
There is nothing wrong with taking care of your looks, but if the transition is too sudden, he probably is doing it to impress another woman. A cheating husband will start hitting the gym, get himself a new haircut and might even go in for some new outfits. He might start chewing on mint and will wear a deodorant regularly too!

#2 Sign of A Cheating Husband
Your Sixth Sense Suspicions & Intuitions
You will subconsciously spot some signs that will lead you to believe that something’s wrong. It’s time to keep your other senses wide awake to notice your husband’s activities. However, make sure you are calm and don’t over react unless you have hard proof. You may enter into a mature peaceful conversation, but do expect your husband to lie if he’s cheating on you.

#3 Sign of A Cheating Husband
Overflow of Affection towards You
In the early stages of the affair, a cheating husband will have feelings of guilt and he’ll want to make up in his subconscious mind. Your husband will shower you with extra love and extra pleasure. You might not question the sudden overflow of affection from him, but it would be wise to uncover the reason behind it.

#4 Sign of A Cheating Husband
Secretive Actions & New Found Love for Privacy
A cheating husband will have the call list on his phone empty and will be more possessive about his cell phone. If he gets calls from her when you are around, he might walk away, speak in a low tone, tell her that he’ll call later or might even hang up saying it’s a wrong number. He will start spending more time on the computer and his email inbox will be cleaned up to wash off clues. You’ll be lucky enough if you find a secret email account set up by him. Also, if you could get an itemized telephone bill, you might come across unknown numbers, repeated calls to those numbers and odd calling hours too.

#5 Sign of A Cheating Husband
Emotional Distance
When a husband and wife share their thoughts, their feelings, their emotions and their day’s routine lesser with each other, it’s a warning sign that he is getting his emotional fix elsewhere. The emotional distance will also lead you both to kiss and hug lesser and there’ll be a lack of “I love you…”

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Catching A Cheating Wife

2012-02-16T23:43:00.009+05:30

Advice by: Fredrick Carter
Place: San Antonio, Texas, USA

If you haven't read about the signs of cheating in relationships, then it would be a good idea that you do read it once at least. It gives you an in-depth insight into how most human beings cheat in relationships.

Irrespective of being a husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend, most human beings tend to leak out the age old classic signs of cheating. More specifically, to catch a cheating wife, here are the most significant signs to look for.

Cheating Wife: Signs of Cheating

#10 Sign to Catch a Cheating Wife
Signals from the Computer & Cell Phone
A cheating wife will start spending a longer time on the computer and will be possessive about her mobile phone. If you can somehow track your wife's computer usage, it could throw up a lot of clues. In the case of her mobile phone, try to get a call log from the service provider – You’ll probably find frequent calls and calls during odd hours to a particular number. She’ll speak softly on the phone and she’ll hang up calls unusually and quickly.

#11 Sign to Catch a Cheating Wife
Staying Aloof from You & Busy in her Life
When your wife is cheating on you, she will want space for herself and will want to be left alone often. She won’t be excited to go out on dates like before. Instead she might want to spend the evenings with her girlfriends or probably even sleepover at one of her friend’s. If your wife is a working professional, she’ll come up with excuses of long working hours and odd schedules. But you probably should track down her movements just randomly one day.

#12 Sign to Catch a Cheating Wife
Clues from her Car
A cheating wife will try to keep the car clean of all the mess that probably was lying back there for months. Another important indicator is that the miles traveled by your wife's car will not match with her daily travel. It means that your wife is probably taking off to some other location that clearly isn’t where she claims to be going to.

#13 Sign to Catch a Cheating Wife
Impulsive & Irritable Behavior
When you question your wife about the possibility of her cheating in the relationship, her unusual behavior and questionable actions, she will tend to lose her cool, behave impulsive and irritable too. A cheating wife might even become suspicious about you and start questioning you about your behavior to deflect the topic from her. This is an outcome of the guilt within her and a defense mechanism to protect herself from the possible blame of ruining the marriage.

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Catch a Cheating Wife: 13 Classic Signs

2012-02-16T23:30:00.005+05:30

Advice by: Fredrick Carter
Place: San Antonio, Texas, USA

If you haven't read about the signs of cheating in relationships, then it would be a good idea that you do read it once at least. It gives you an in-depth insight into how most human beings cheat in relationships.

Irrespective of being man, woman, boyfriend, girlfriend or spouse, most human beings tend to leak out the age old classic signs of cheating! More specifically, to catch a cheating wife, here are the most significant signs to look for.

Catch A Cheating Wife: Top Signs

#5 Sign to Catch A Cheating Wife
Grows Less Dependent
Check if your wife used to depend on you for going shopping, for finding out some details about some place or even buying the grocery and suddenly she no longer nags you about any of it. Her lack of dependence on you for no good reason means that there is someone else taking your place.

#6 Sign to Catch A Cheating Wife
Starts Being Secretive & Maintains A Low Profile
A cheating wife will try to maintain a low profile and not speak much about her day to you. Her call list on her phone will be empty, her inbox will be empty too and you’ll be lucky if you catch a secret email account she set up and never told you about. Once in a while you’ll find her hanging up a call awkwardly saying it’s a wrong number or probably something on the lines of “Can I call you later?”

#7 Sign to Catch A Cheating Wife
Most of Your Conversations will be focused on you
If your wife is cheating on you, it is but obvious she doesn’t have enough to tell you about her day. So the tables are turned on you and it’ll be you speaking about your day, your afternoon, your work and your night. When things were fine earlier, it’d actually been her yapping away – that’s a sign of cheating to look out for!

#8 Sign to Catch A Cheating Wife
Finance & Expenses Indicators
You might notice on the credit card a splurge in her expenses for a ton of trivial things, dinners, lunches and purchase of items that you never even saw! Her cell phone bills are either sent to her by email or mailed to her office address, so that you never come across any.

#9 Sign to Catch A Cheating Wife
Sparkless Sex Life
She’ll come up with ridiculous reasons to avoid sex. You will notice a lack of physical intimacy even in terms of just cuddling up or kissing each other good bye. On the other side of a dry sex life with you, there are chances that her own sex life is spruced up somewhere else. Signs for noticing that could be hickies on her body, scratches on her back & her arms and completely new moves from her side while having sex with you.

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13 Signs of A Cheating Wife

2012-02-16T23:18:00.006+05:30

Advice by: Fredrick Carter
Place: San Antonio, Texas, USA

If you haven't read about the signs of cheating in relationships, then it would be a good idea that you do read it once at least. It gives you an in-depth insight into how most human beings cheat in relationships.

Irrespective of being man, woman, boyfriend, girlfriend or spouse, most human beings tend to leak out the age old classic signs of cheating! However, more specifically, here are the signs of a cheating wife.

Signs of A Cheating Wife

#1 Sign of A Cheating Wife
Personal Grooming
If you notice a sudden change in your wife’s grooming habits and the time spent on her personal upkeep goes up, then it might indicate she’s getting ready to impress another man. She’ll start exercising, dieting and working out to lose weight. She’ll ensure her nails and hair are perfectly done. Her clothing will be different than her usual. She’ll take care of her skin, buy new underwear and use a lot of perfume among a host of other things to make herself more desirable.

#2 Sign of A Cheating Wife
Emotional Distance
She’ll share her day, her emotional thoughts and her feelings with you noticeably lesser than before. The reason is that she probably has found somebody else to confide in and bond with.

#3 Sign of A Cheating Wife
Overflow of Affection towards You
In the early stages of the affair, she’ll have feelings of guilt running through her mind. To compensate for it, your wife will shower you with extra love and extra pleasure. You might not question the sudden overflow of affection from her, but it would be wise to uncover the reason behind it.

#4 Sign of A Cheating Wife
Overlooking Your Blunders
You will notice that your wife will go from being finicky and highly particular about little things to overlooking all those things that drive her mad. Basically, it implies that she really doesn’t care as much about what you do as she did before.

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20 Signs of Cheating in A Relationship - 4

2012-02-15T01:33:00.004+05:30

Advice by: Fredrick Carter
Place: San Antonio, Texas, USA

Men or women, boyfriends or girlfriends, husbands or wives – everyone will give out the most typical signs of cheating in a relationship. It doesn’t take you a Ph.D. to figure out these signs if you are attentive enough. It all starts with your gut feeling and then this huge list of 20 signs below can confirm the fact that your boyfriend, girlfriend, spouse, partner, husband, wife or whoever it is, is cheating on you.

However, before you begin, here is a caution for you.
Caution: If you are someone who really trusts your partner a lot, you will tend to overlook these signs of cheating. However, if you are suspicious, you will read into things that probably don’t even exist. It would be wise to exercise caution such that neither do you wake up with a shock one day, nor do you make your mate’s life living hell with your insecurities and suspicion!

Signs of Cheating in A Relationship

#16 Sign of Cheating in A Relationship
You will get to hear reasons for work or some other obligations that are causing your partner to get late or canceling things with you.

#17 Sign of Cheating in A Relationship
You will notice a faint smell of some scent, cologne or perfume from your partner. Your mate will head straight to the shower after getting home at times.

#18 Sign of Cheating in A Relationship
Sometimes you might find hair that belongs neither to your partner nor you on their clothing, work stuff or in the car. It is an obvious indication of something really wrong. Worst would be that your partner is dumb enough to come back home with a hickey.

#19 Sign of Cheating in A Relationship
Your partner will be dumbfounded or mumble some stupid reason when you confront them with unusual telephone numbers on the bill, unexplainable transactions on the credit card and useless purchases of certain things that you probably haven’t even seen.

#20 Sign of Cheating in A Relationship
Your partner will sometimes not answer a call from an unknown number when you are around or they might answer the call and disconnect it saying it’s from a wrong number.

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20 Signs of Cheating in A Relationship - 3

2012-02-13T03:05:00.006+05:30

Advice by: Fredrick Carter
Place: San Antonio, Texas, USA

Signs of Cheating in A Relationship

#11 Sign of Cheating in A Relationship
You two will have lesser sex. There will be lack of interest, distraction and lack of love-making. Your partner might also make excuses to avoid doing it. You will kiss each other lesser, even if it is only a goodbye kiss.

#12 Sign of Cheating in A Relationship
You could possibly get a new nickname from your partner. Your partner might have a slip of tongue and refer to you by the name of the person with whom the affair probably on!

#13 Sign of Cheating in A Relationship
If you start to question your mate about their schedule, whereabouts and people around them, you will notice that your mate will get defensive. You will be probably accused of not being able to trust them and being insecure. It might often lead to tiffs between the two of you.

#14 Sign of Cheating in A Relationship
Your family members and close friends will notice there is some sort of discomfort between you both. This is something that even you might notice, but the external world will be able to recognize just because they know you as a couple so well.

#15 Sign of Cheating in A Relationship
The passwords that you once knew are now changed. There is excessive activity on the computer or the mobile phone late nights. The screen gets shut down when you walk in, the inbox has no messages and the last dialed and received calls on the cell phone are deleted.

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2012-02-13T02:06:00.011+05:30

Advice by: Fredrick Carter
Place: San Antonio, Texas, USA

Signs of Cheating in Relationships

#6 Sign of Cheating in A Relationship
When both of you are interacting, your partner will mention repetitive criticism about the specific person with whom the affair is going on or maybe that type of people. A person cheating in a relationship does this to reinforce a feeling of security in you that nothing is going on. However, it is only a sort of fake security being impressed on you.

#7 Sign of Cheating in A Relationship
You will find that you don’t receive as many compliments and the sweet talks between you reduce. Your partner starts criticizing you for little things that seemed cute at one point. Whereas, if you pass comments or give suggestions, however minor they are, will flare up into quarrels. The amount of times your mate says, “I love you…” will be drastically low or almost zero! Instead you might just hear things like “Take care!”

#8 Sign of Cheating in A Relationship
There will be a loss of comfort at your partner’s end being around you. The bathroom doors will close, the bedroom might be locked, the study room might be private and sometimes you two might even sleep separately at nights. There will be a new found necessity of privacy and space from your partner, which will cause them to distance themselves from you.

#9 Sign of Cheating in A Relationship
Don’t be surprised if you are the one who gets frowned at and accused of being unfaithful or having an affair. It will generally be in the form of an outburst towards you without any basis to it.

#10 Sign of Cheating in A Relationship
The amount of time you both spend together as a couple will reduce. Even when you two are together, your partner will seem distracted or find more interest in doing something else. You will cuddle up less, hug each other lesser and you will get a feeling of being alienated from your partner. Even emotionally, you will find there is a huge distance between you two.

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20 Signs of Cheating in A Relationship - 1

2012-02-13T01:05:00.011+05:30

Advice by: Fredrick Carter
Place: San Antonio, Texas, USA

Signs of Cheating in A Relationship

#1 Sign of Cheating in A Relationship
A cheating spouse or partner will give you an unusually large amount of attention. It builds up because of the subconscious feelings of guilt of having an affair. This attention will tend to reduce as the affair moves ahead. Some cheaters load their partners with gifts, some talk more lovingly than they ever do, some start taking up your responsibilities and so on.

#2 Sign of Cheating in A Relationship
A cheating partner’s routine habits, attitude and perspective towards things will change for no good reason. One example could be that your partner starts giving more attention to their physical appearance, their body shape by hitting the gym, their style of dressing and things like that. You might also find that a cheating partner starts holding views that are quite opposite to their earlier views.

#3 Sign of Cheating in A Relationship
You will notice that your cheating mate picks fights with you for petty issues or sometimes for no good reason at all and also doesn't make up for it. The person may even express disgust about carrying the relationship further with you. At times, you might hear statements on the lines of, “We will always be good friends even if this thing doesn’t work out between us!”

#4 Sign of Cheating in A Relationship
As the affair outside your strained marriage or relationship gets more serious, your partner will start behaving very moody. A cheater on one hand will be having a great time when not with you and when with you, their response towards you will be cold. You will also notice a loss of considerate feelings towards you.

#5 Sign of Cheating in A Relationship
Your mate’s taste in things such as food, music, movies, television, computer activities, etc will see a sudden change… This new grown interest would be because of the association with the person your partner’s having an affair with. Another sign of a cheater would be that they start using certain new catchy lines/words and finds new ways of being humorous.

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American Sex Life

2011-09-08T23:18:00.016+05:30

Compiled by: Cohen Jenkins
Place: Yonkers, New York

This survey takes you through the sex life of Americans describing various facts, issues and statistics. The entire data is compiled from surveys conducted by universities, condom companies and government agencies and is completely unbiased. It tries to show the picture for the entire nation of USA as accurately as possible. A complete entertainer of a survey which has growing popularity and curiosity lately on social forums and platforms, it brings you some amazing and some shocking revelations.

Find out where you stand as an individual man, woman, girl, boy, boyfriend, girlfriend, teenager, husband, wife or partner... And if you are American too, then find out where you stand as an American!

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1. What is the average age for Americans to lose their Virginity?
Ans: 16 - 17 years
Girls tend to lose their virginity to elder guys whereas boys lose theirs to younger girls.
The world average is 17.5 or something like that! Americans bring that average down you see!

2. At what age do Americans start to get sexually active?
Ans: 15.5 years
Well, this doesn't mean they keep having frequent full-blown sessions of sex. It is only that they start getting involved in kissing and making out.

3. How many Americans have Premarital Encounters?
Ans: Almost a 100%!
This isn’t very surprising because it has been that way for many decades. The only difference is that in the 1950s, the average age used to be 20.5 years and now it is under 17.

4. What is the number of partners Americans have through their lifetime?
Ans: Little under 6 partners per person
American men: 7
American women: 4
If you belong to one of the big American cities, the figures might seem surprisingly low! But we are talking of the average of the entire country of America including the smaller towns too!

Surveys indicate that almost close to 20% American males and about 5% American females do have an excess of 20 partners!

5. What is the Frequency of Sex for Americans?
Ans: Married American couples have sex 2-3 times a week.
As per age groups:
-- The span between 18-29 years is the most active and the frequency is about 3.3 times per week.
-- From 30-39, it is about between 2.5-3 times a week.
-- People beyond 40 years will have a frequency between 1.5-2 times a week.

6. How often do American couples actually indulge in Foreplay?
Ans: About 70% of the times
That is depressingly low. Americans between 18-25 years of age are the most active when it comes to foreplay. This could possibly be because an average American lives a fast paced life compared to Europeans who have indulge in foreplaying more often.

7. What is the Length of Foreplay between American couples?
Ans: Close to about 20 minutes!
That’s pretty close to the world average too, which is about 19.5 minutes.

8. What is the Length of Intercourse between American couples?
Ans: The length of intercourse largely depends on experience, sexual position, ability of the man to control, etc.

The average for the entire population of the country is around 7 minutes which is on the higher side as compared to a lot of other countries!

However surveys have reported some Americans who last all the way up to 15 minutes! The average seems to be relatively way lower than that because the most active population is between 18-29 years and that’s the age gap where men don’t last long enough!

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Indian Sex Life

2011-06-30T23:49:00.015+05:30

Compiled by: Dr. Srivatsa
Place: Bombay, India

This survey takes you through the sex life of Indians describing various facts, issues and statistics. The entire data is completely unbiased and tries to show the real picture as brought out by credible survey agencies. A complete entertainer of a survey which has growing popularity and curiosity throughout the country, it brings to you some amazing and some shocking revelations.

Find out where you stand as a man, woman, girl, boy, boyfriend, girlfriend, teenager, husband, wife or partner... And if you are Indian too, then find out where you stand as an Indian!

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1. What is the average age Indians would lose their Virginity at?
Ans: 18.5 - 22.8 years
The range is wide but really speaking it would be closer to 22.8.
Now, boy! Isn't that really late considering the world average is 17.4 or something like that...

2. What is the average age an Indian has had some sort of Sexual Experience?
Ans: 17.4 - 18.5 years
Well, it doesn't mean they keep having frequent sex. Its only that they have had just those few shots at it.

3. How many Indians have Premarital Encounters?
Ans: 1 in every 3 Indians
Delhi, Mumbai, Chennai, Bangalore & Kolkata have close to 2 out of every 3. Averaging it over smaller cities like Hyderabad, Pune, Ahmedabad, Lucknow, Chandigarh, Mangalore, etc. makes it 1 out of 3.

4. What is the number of people with whom Indians have had some sort of a physical encounter before marriage?
Ans: Between 2 - 3
Sounds unreal, right? I mean, really?!

5. What is the Frequency of Sex that Indians have?
Ans: 3 times a week
That's a bloody high number!

6. How many Indians actually indulge in Foreplay?
Ans: More than 96%
Wow! Now that's interesting...

7. What is the Length of Foreplay between Indian couples?
Ans: A modest 7-9 mins
Now that is actually below average!

8. What is the Length of Intercourse between an Indian couple?
Ans: The length of intercourse largely depends on experience, sexual position, ability of the man to control, etc. Accordingly it can last anywhere between 3 to 15 minutes. For an urban Indian who has sex on a working day and is pressed for time, the answer would be 3-5 minutes.

The genetic make up of Indians makes them smaller in size than Africans, Americans & Europeans. And very honestly, Indians also lack that kind of stamina (I mean see where Indians are at the Olympics!). Where all other factors are similar, Indians last lesser than people from other continents.

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What Men Find Attractive In A Woman’s Body

2011-06-22T23:36:00.002+05:30

Advice by: Serena Powell
Place: Bradford, UK

In a fascinating research conducted at the University of Southern California, a group of 126 men in the age gap of 18-36 years were quizzed to find out what men find attractive in a woman’s body. The results of this survey end the constant female curiosity about what appeals men in the female body.

Surprisingly the results show that these men, who passed through the 2 day long exercise, did not answer in favor of the girls considered conventionally sexy. The ladies can read below and decide for themselves.

1. A Woman’s Hair
You can get away with a slightly off figure at times, but bad hair texture and less hair volume can completely turn men off. A woman’s hair symbolizes her feminism and her beauty. Long hair exposing the neck can be really intoxicating to a male mind and mid-length hair styled well seems chic. Avoid really short hair because you are actually chopping off a part of your feminism. Visit your salon at least once in couple of months and a clinic if you have hair related problems.

2. A Woman’s Lips
Pouting lips serve as an excitation for guys. Since evolution made us walk upright on two legs, the genitalia lost visibility while facing each other. Therefore, female lips are perceived as the female genitalia. Accentuating your lips with the right shades and gloss can seem very sexy.

3. A Woman’s Breasts
Men go crazy at anything that is visually stimulating. What more than a woman’s breast then can serve as an opening to this stimulation! So if you notice men’s magazines, you’ll find how much focus and emphasis is laid on the breasts. The key for women here is that you don’t need to worry about your shape as much, but try wearing sizes that is one size smaller than your real size.

4. A Woman’s Eyes
Your eyes can make him fall in love with you. If you are looking to make a long-term impression on a guy, too much facial make-up isn’t the way to go really. You would wake up with him in bed some morning and he’d probably be turned off seeing the morning you. But if you lack in this department, keeping it light, natural and well-groomed can do the trick. Thick eyelashes, eye-liners and minimal eye-shadow work the best.

5. A Woman’s Smile
A smile can speak your intention more than what your words can convey. A smile could be friendly, inviting, sexy, flirty, and snobbish. It can even throw around attitude. When a man thinks about you when he is alone, he visualizes your smile. His hormones of attraction are released with that picture of you. His thoughts are set on the emotion and intention conveyed through your smile. So, practice the smile you want in front of the mirror after brushing your teeth every morning.

6. A Woman’s Hips and her Waist
There are no “perfect” sizes as some may assume for your hips and waist. But what’s essential is that you maintain a good waist-to-hips ratio. It should fall in the category of 0.65-0.75 to seem appealing. To draw more attention, wearing heels and having a sexy gait can have eyeballs glued to your behind.

7. A Woman’s Legs
At puberty, a girl’s legs start growing in length due to a hormonal flow through her body. Biologically it sends a signal to the opposite sex of her growing sexual maturity and indicates to men that the woman now can bear offspring. Slender athletic legs can work wonders. Try using skirts and shorts that are short in length and tone on your legs. A small tip: Use the stairs and avoid the elevator!

For every girl reading this, there is a man out there who suits her. However, if these are features what men find attractive in a woman’s body, then being a girl, I am personally confident every woman can be attractive. Just keep in mind that your man will treat you just the way you portray yourself to him. Stay beautiful...

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What Women Want in A Man's Looks

2011-06-22T23:25:00.002+05:30

Advice by: Demario
Place: Long Beach, Washington, USA

This article is for all men out there who need to know a few basic things about their looks when they are out there looking for women. You don't need to be a Brad Pitt or George Clooney, but you do need to follow some guidelines. The following that you'll read is based on reviews from 5 experts who have either conducted research or surveys on this topic. The most common advice from all 5 of them finds a mention below.

Close to 98% of women look for guys having strong and confident personalities, who carry themselves well and have a commanding voice when they speak. The remaining 2% of women who look for guys purely based on their looks are the ones who have self-related problems and a low self-esteem. Such relationships are seldom worthwhile because they are hollow without any strong basis to it.

That is the reason you see a lot of average looking men have really hot women by their side. How they manage to do that is no mystery. Carrying yourself confidently and taking care of certain basic, but essential things make a world of a difference. You'll understand as you read further.

1. Dressing Sense
You should always dress in a way that suits your physical body structure. Also, make sure that you dress suitably for the situation. From your female buddies, take opinions and try to put them into practice.

2. Carrying Yourself
Walk upright with your stomach in and chest out always. Don't stoop while walking, don't bounce or have any sort of a funny gait. Raise your chin a bit and look up while you walk. You don't need to march, but you do need to take control of your body, your arms and your legs.

3. Overall Physical Body
You should make it a point to work out regularly. Its not essential that you have the perfectly sculpted body of a Greek God. But a fit you radiates an energetic and confident personality which does attract a lot of attention. It also commands respect and shows your masculinity. Beyond that, it helps you have strong psychological state of mind, which speaks more than words.

4. Dental Hygiene
This can be a complete turn-off if not addressed duly. Make it a point to brush twice, floss once in every 4-5 days and rinse your mouth regularly. It is more of a preventive tip because bad breath automatically takes women miles away from you. If your teeth require cleaning from stains, do go and see your dentist.

5. Clean Hands & Nails
Hands that are messy with dirt, oil, grease and nails that aren't trimmed send signals to a woman's subconscious mind that you are careless and you just don't bother about yourself. It makes their subconscious mind believe that a careless man like that won't take good care of them if he can't take simple care of himself. Make sure you wash your hands regularly, use sanitizers if needed and keep your nails trimmed.

6. Facial Expressions
When in the company of the woman you are trying to impress, always have a relaxed face. Don't stress your facial muscles, don't rub or keep touching your face and don't raise your brows in disappointment. Wear a smile wherever you can, whether you are ordering food at a restaurant, asking for help at a store or even saying goodbye to someone! Be as pleasant as you can!

7. Individuality
Have a personality of your own. Don't try too hard to copy someone. If you do really like a shirt, which makes you feel comfortable, then wear it often without bothering too much. If there is a certain pair of sports shoes that you feel great wearing, wear them! Your individuality shows that you believe in yourself, which comes across as highly attractive and prospective to not just women, but employers too! Your perfect style is your preference, be yourself!

This explains why even the most average looking men manage to get the hottest girls. Most of them who manage this, almost close to 30% of them that is, are brought up that way. Such are the traits of males with an alpha nature. Its naturally in-built in them to carry off such an appearance. For the rest, it doesn't take much of an effort, but only the right knowledge and a strong urge to follow the rules!

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How to French Kiss

2011-06-18T01:20:00.026+05:30

Advice by: Cristina
Place: Launceston, Australia

A French kiss is a type of kiss where you open your mouth and your tongue flickers and brushes against your partner's tongue during the act.

If you have not read, how to kiss before this, then you are recommended to read that first. It will teach you how you should lead yourself into a kiss, tell you about the signs to look for before kissing and give you a quick check-list that will indicate if a kiss is imminent with your partner.

How to French kiss…

Step 1
Once you make contact for a kiss, open your mouth and brush your tongue against your partner’s lips. This gives your partner an indication that you want to go in for a French kiss. However, if your partner doesn’t respond back with their tongue, it is better to save the French kiss for another time.

Step 2
If a French kiss is imminent, gently slide your tongue into your partner’s mouth. Don’t be forceful.

Step 3
Your partner will also react in the same way. Brush your tongues against each other’s for the moment.

Step 4
After about 8-10 seconds, pull back your tongue into your mouth and allow both yourselves to breathe.

Step 5
Repeat the French kiss yet another time if you both liked it. This time you can push your tongue deeper into your partner’s mouth.

Step 6
Then alternate the French kiss with a lip lock for a couple of times and finally end it with a few smooches.

A French kiss is rather liberal and is almost a foreplay leading to physical intimacy. These are just guidelines to help you. It is recommended that you rather gauge the feel of the moment and let yourself act accordingly. A large part of what you do also depends on how your partner responds to your activity. So, dwell in the moment and enjoy yourself.

Well anyhow, after you have kissed, you may cuddle up together or hold hands. Gaze into each other’s eyes and keep the moment charged up by engaging in some sort of physical contact. This will turn out to be one of the most romantic moments you share with your partner if you do it well. It will almost be like you are taken into a different world… a feeling that will stay with you for years to come!

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THE ULTIMATE KISSING GUIDE: TABLE OF CONTENTS

1. When is the Right Time to Kiss

2. The Basics of Kissing

3. How to Smooch & How to Lock Lips

4. How to French Kiss

5. Top 15 Places for a First Kiss

6. 21 Most Romantic Places to Kiss - 1

7. 21 Most Romantic Places to Kiss - 2

8. 21 Most Romantic Places to Kiss - 3

9. Mistakes that Make You A Bad Kisser

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How to Flirt Effectively

2011-06-17T23:59:00.004+05:30

E-Guide by: Melinda Cox

Place: Miami, USA

As a human being, you flirt naturally in daily life more often than you realize. This guide is designed to improve your natural flirting instinct. It is suitable for guys and girls of all ages because flirting is nothing but just a developed social skill. Flirting can lead to friendship, dating and eventually even a romantic relationship.

This is The Fastest Guide to Flirting. In this guide you will learn the most effective “activities” and “tips” to help you master the art of flirting. There are many guides available online that will give you tips on How to Flirt. Here we have compiled the best “tips” from everywhere! Using these tips and activities will teach you how to flirt with anyone effectively and at a much faster speed. Patiently read and follow till the end if you want to charm the opposite sex whenever you feel like doing it!

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THE FASTEST GUIDE TO FLIRTING: TABLE OF CONTENTS

1. The Fastest Guide to Flirting

2. Best Places to Flirt

3. Who Should You Flirt With

4. How to Start Flirting

5. Signs of Flirting in Girls

6. Signs of Flirting in Guys

7. Tips for Flirting With Guys

8. Tips for Flirting With Girls

9. Flirting Warnings

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The Ultimate Kissing Guide

2011-06-16T00:39:00.039+05:30

Advice by: Cristina Carhill
Place: Launceston, Australia

Here is The Ultimate Kissing Guide by Cristina Carhill. Whether you are new to kissing or if you have been kissing for ages, this guide will surely enhance your kissing act!

It takes you from taking the first baby steps to kissing right up to becoming a passionate and an irresistible kisser. The guide gives you brilliant ideas for experiencing the most romantic kissing moments as well as the places that would be best for your first kiss.

Cristina has also compiled some of the best videos from around the web that teach you how to kiss someone in a fun way!

THE ULTIMATE KISSING GUIDE: TABLE OF CONTENTS

1. When is the Right Time to Kiss

2. The Basics of Kissing

3. How to Smooch & How to Lock Lips

4. How to French Kiss

5. Top 15 Places for a First Kiss

6. 21 Most Romantic Places to Kiss - 1

7. 21 Most Romantic Places to Kiss - 2

8. 21 Most Romantic Places to Kiss - 3

9. Mistakes that Make You A Bad Kisser

KISSING VIDEO TUTORIALS: TABLE OF CONTENTS

1. How to Kiss -- The Basics

2. Tips for Your First Kiss

3. How to Kiss Your Date Goodnight

4. How to Smooch Like A Pro

5. Putting a Lot of Kisses Together

6. How to Initiate a French Kiss

7. How to Kiss Creatively

8. How to Kiss with Passion

Please go carefully through each and every chapter of The Ultimate Kissing Guide because each of it has something or the other that you will be able to relate to. You will be able to pick up some worthwhile kissing tips as well from each topic too. So go ahead, enjoy and have a great time kissing!

37 Gifts for Women

2011-06-06T01:00:00.004+05:30

Gift Ideas by: Brendita Carton
Place: San Antonio, Texas

How confusing and difficult it gets at times when it comes to choosing gifts for women! Knowing a woman’s personality, her interests and her favorite things can make it easy to choose the perfect gift for women. But almost all women are so mysterious that we barely can be sure of one single thing that would make her melt… it could be the simplest little inexpensive thing that can do the trick and at times you may really need to spend to pamper her! Here’s a list of 37 gift ideas that we think would make beautiful gifts for women!

8. Jewelry – Necklace with pendant, Earrings, Bracelet, etc
Jewelry and accessories are generally quite safe to gift to a woman. If she is really fond of loading herself up with accessories and jewelry, you could go ahead and buy anything right from a necklace to earrings and bracelets, etc. Even if she isn’t quite like the women who are crazy about such things, studded earrings would be a good idea because they aren’t very flamboyant, yet look pretty on most women! A heart shaped pendant or earrings could feel quite romantic!

9. A Compilation of Romantic Songs or Movies
Romantic songs and movies are a great way to make her mind wander into a dreamland where she thinks about the two of you! And each time she pulls out the disc to play it, she should see your beautiful compliments written for her… That would set the perfect mood for her even before she starts to listen to those songs!

10. A Makeup Kit
You could go for a full-blown make up kit that she can use at home or a little one that she can carry around in her purse. She will definitely admire this gift and she’ll love experimenting and trying new styles. There are a ton of things you could choose from – face color, eye liners, eye shadow, brushes of different kinds, mineral foundations for the face, light make up stuff, travel make up kit, naked make up stuff… Just walk into a store and ask the ladies to help you choose the perfect thing!

11. A Scarf, Shawl or Throw
Scarves, shawls and throws make almost all women look cute. There’s something about winter that makes women dress up to seem utterly sweet. Even if your woman has a huge collection, she still would adore one more addition to her wardrobe! But make it special… Don’t just give it to her, put it around her, give her a peck on her cheek and hold her close to show some love. Appreciate her and tell her she looks pretty! It’s her special day; you need to make her feel it!

12. Wrist Watch
A wrist watch apart from just being an instrument showing time does quite a lot more – It is an important accessory for a girl, it adds to her style quotient and it can add to her collection of watches that could specifically suit certain outfits that she wears or certain occasions for that matter. Wrist watches can be chosen based on what feature you wish to add to your woman’s wrist – trendy, sleek, oversized, large dials, glossy & reflective, stylish straps, modern designs, posh & expensive looks, designer themes! Have something in mind before you walk into a store, else you are sure to confuse yourself… But do hunt through at least 2-3 stores to pick the best!

13. A Pair of Shoes
Now we all know how crazy women are about shoes – the glee that appears on her face and the twinkle in her eyes when she looks at a pair of pretty footwear is worth a million bucks! If it seems a bit embarrassing for you to walk into a women’s footwear store, take help from a female friend or simply walk in with another guy – that would probably reduce your discomfort. But do find out in advance what shoe size she wears so that you get her the right size! Do a little research about the kind of footwear she likes, what she’s comfortable wearing and stuff like that.

The essence lies in being unconventional, unusual and adding elements of surprise when you buy gifts for women. These gifts for women will make them melt, will make them squeak with surprise, reward you with a tight hug & lots of kisses and make them fall in love with you forever! Be creative, know your lady and think out of the box!

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