Marc's Blog.

An Announcement

2011-05-20T02:28:00.000+01:00

The next few sentences are going to be really bloody hard, so if you don't know me, or my domestic situation, feel free to ignore them. For the rest of you that are reading on, it is with abject despondency that I announce the passing of Horatio Pyewackett Caractacus Fearns. After a long illness and much surgery (which ultimately proved unsuccessful) his condition worsened to such an extent that it left us with no other option than to have him put to sleep. This happened at 10:25 on Wednesday 18th May.

He died - as he lived - with great style. Despite the overdose of anasthetic that was neccessary to end his life (and the pain and difficulty that he ultimately found in walking) he tried to escape the vet's table (he hated vets) and attempted a somnambulant run for it. I'm so proud. He eventually died peacefully in my arms being stroked by both myself and by the person he loved more than anything or anyone else in the world, my wife Briony. He died well. He had been suffering for the previous few days, we had to put an end to that. Sadly, his illness was incurable.

Obviously I'm going to miss my brilliant little boy. He was warm-hearted, affectionate, bright, and very very hairy. He was also beautiful.

I'm an agnostic. But I know that if there were a heaven or some sort of afterlife then somewhere, my cat would be out there walking on foil. Still, we've always got this:

So long Li'l' Boy, I'll miss you more than you'll ever know.

This is Byron.

2011-03-25T22:18:00.001+00:00

My wife and I decided not to tell many people about the pregnancy. While Byron is our first child, this was not our first pregnancy and we didn’t fancy having something go wrong and then have to go through the depressing task of informing everyone. We’ve done that before and it was quite upsetting so soon after what – to us – was a painful and tragic event. If you didn’t know that we were expecting a baby, the chances are that you hadn’t seen us during the pregnancy. We really only told people who would have noticed anyway. Oh, and grandparents and doctors, we told them. That seemed only sensible.

For the first nine months the pregnancy was relatively straightforward, with only a couple of minor scares along the way. After nine months though, things became more complicated as our child seemed curiously reluctant to leave the warm, comfortable environment that he was dozing in (no one knows from where he might have inherited that trait). We had multiple stretch and sweeps (men: don’t ask, don’t google), we tried stretching and walking a lot, we tried bouncing on a giant ball (I fell off) we even tried reflexology. The reflexologist told us that most of the overdue mothers-to-be that she worked with gave birth within a couple of days of seeing her. A week later we went to York Maternity Unit to have labour induced.

We were there for about a day and had failed to induce labour, so the decision was made to break the waters and to chemically start the contractions. It was then that we discovered that contractions are, in fact, somewhat painful and, after a brief discussion we decided to amend our birth plan and go for an epidural. A decision which Briony announced to the midwife and much of the rest of North Yorkshire by bellowing “I WANT AN EPIDURAL! I WANT AN EPIDURAL!”. They administered the epidural. After about ten hours of labour it became apparent that the cervix wasn’t opening quickly enough and Byron’s heart rate became erratic. It was clear that we needed to get him out there and then and the decision was made to have an emergency caesarean section. Ten minutes later we were in the operating theatre.

There is very little in life that prepares you for the experience of watching your wife and unborn child undergoing major surgery and I knew that I needed to put my natural squeamishness aside and remain calm and positive and try to be a comfort to my anxious wife, who would be conscious throughout.

There is absolutely nothing in life that prepares you for the moment during pre-op that yet another surgeon wearing a cap and scrubs enters the theatre and it turns out that he’s your hapless husband (the one with the fear of blood). I tried to reassure Briony that I wouldn’t be performing any of the surgery myself – not even the minor bits – but she seemed a little unconvinced. I fancy that she expected to wake from her weird and terrifying dream at any moment. She did not.

They erected a screen and between Briony and I and the area where they were performing surgery and commenced proceedings. We were quite happy staying up at the head end and chattered amongst ourselves rather than listen to the team saying things like “incision” and “forceps”. I began to wonder if they’d ever considered referring to their instruments and procedures by using less intimidating code-words. I know I’d have been much happier if I’d been listening to “banana…trousers…hand me the wobbly-spoon” coming from the other side of the screen. Soon though, my thoughts were interrupted, as the surgeons called for the midwife, who was handed a purple baby and tore past us into the next room. He wasn’t breathing. Fortunately for Briony, she couldn’t see into the next room where (unfortunately for me) I was able to watch the midwives clearing his airways and attempting to resuscitate him. Eventually after what seemed like many minutes - but was probably only twenty or thirty seconds – they were successful and he began to scream. That was the best sound I have ever heard, and probably ever will hear.

The midwives set to work cleaning him up and, while the surgeons carried on with their work, they then asked if I’d like to go and see my son. But there was a problem. I could already see my son and I was quite close enough. In fact, I realised that I’d been slowly backing away.

Many people talk about how universally beautiful babies are and I’ve never really agreed: Sure there are beautiful babies, but there are also average looking babies and ugly babies. My son, however, was in a whole new category called Run For Your Lives! He was bright red with thick dark hair, a wonky nose, uneven ears, what appeared to be a black eye and a completely square head. It looked like Frankenstein’s monster had sired a child that had just taken part in a particularly gruelling and arduous prize-fight. I moved tentatively toward it. Him! I mean him, doing my level best not to display any fear. “Don’t worry”, said the midwife, sensing my discomfort, “that’s just swelling. It will go down quite quickly.”
“So he won’t grow up with a square head then?”
“No.”
“Oh, thank god. His head looks like the classic movie version of Frankenstein’s monster”.
“Yes! That’s who he reminds me of.”

She handed me the baby and I took him over to show Briony (who was still being worked on). “Look, that’s your son”, I said to Briony who was regarding him with some suspicion, “Don’t worry, the swelling will go down”. She smiled.

I sat next to her cradling my son in my arms; a child who was only by that point several minutes old and had already – in his short life – been almost strangled to death by an umbilical cord that was wrapped four times around his neck, been savagely beaten and bruised by the forceps that were necessary to extract him in a hurry and almost rejected by a cruel and monstrous father for not fulfilling some sort of arbitrary aesthetic criteria. As I looked down at my son and he looked up at me, I knew that any child that could survive all that would be robust enough to survive anything (including having me for a parent). I told him not to worry and that it would all get better from now on. And it will.

I’d very much like to thank the team at York Hospital and in particular the many midwives for whom nothing has been too much trouble. Midwives are amazing - and are fuelled entirely by biscuits - and, if it weren’t for them (and the surgical team) my son wouldn’t be alive today. I’m very glad he is. I’d also like to thank Briony who was amazing all through pregnancy and labour and is right now doing very well at early motherhood. Mother and baby are expected to return home tomorrow.

For fans of facts - or if you want to play Baby Top Trumps against us - here is some data.

Name: Byron Sebastian Fearns
Born: 24th March 2011, 2:08am.
Weight: 8lb 13oz (or 4 kilograms)
Time in labour: Bloody ages. A very, very long time.
Hair colour: Black.
Eye colour: Green.
Length: Long.
Feet: Larger than those of any other human baby. So large that everyone who sees them says “Blimey!”
Hobbies: Sleeping, sleeping and sleeping.
Number of staples in mother: 17
Favourite bird: Owls.
Days late: 14
Health: Absolutely fine.

And here are some pictures (now that the swelling’s gone down a bit).

Byron with idiot. He's about half an hour old here. Byron, obviously.

Dear Vanity Fair...

2011-03-04T22:50:00.000+00:00

Blimey! It's been rather a while since I blogged. I blame 7 Reasons, which takes up most of my writing time, but is excellent fun. Anyway, this evening I wrote a letter to the editors of Vanity Fair about something on their website which, as it both amused and flummoxed me, I thought I'd post here. Perhaps someone out there on the other side of this screen (yes that's you, the reader) will have - or be able to speculate fancifully about - the answer to my question.

Dear Editor(s),

I have a question about your website. Why does your Follow Us box contain a blank speech bubble? I have been staring at it for several minutes now and can think of no earthly explanation as to why it's there. A blank speech bubble has no apparent association with any of the various media mentioned in the box's text (Twitter, Facebook,Tumblr or your podcast via iTunes) so what is its purpose? Unless it was put there to visually convey a message along the lines of shut up and look at our stuff, its inclusion is perplexing.

I have attached a screen capture of the box so that you too may stare at it in bewilderment.

I would be grateful if you could furnish me with an explanation of its presence as I fear that it may cause me to lose sleep or - even worse - discuss it at length with friends and relations. Yours sincerely,

Marc Fearns

Art

2010-08-26T20:18:00.001+01:00

Wow! I haven't posted here for ages. I thought I'd pop in and post a picture I made for 7 Reasons. It's called Stupid Stupid Stupid and here it is:

(Click on it to see it in its correct size)

Now you may be wondering why I made a picture of a hairless cat wearing Crocs balancing on a green lampshade. Well you can find out here.

Something I Found In The Bathroom

2010-07-08T15:14:00.000+01:00

Ever wondered what the severed head of a ginger child stuck on the body of a swan with an anchor attached to it and surrounded by a wreath would look like? Wonder no more:

I'm staying out of the bathroom from now on.

Change

2010-04-24T22:16:00.001+01:00

Anyone else sick of the word change yet? I was going to play around with the Lib Dem posters too, but they already use the word change in them and I got rather bored of seeing it.

Please politicians - of all parties - stop saying "change". Say something else. Say "serendipitous" or "marmalade". Say "lumbago". You will not get more votes just by saying "change". Hopefully.

Missing: Men With Sandwich Boards

2010-04-10T16:16:00.000+01:00

Whatever happened to men with sandwich boards? When did you last see a man wearing them? Have you ever seen a man wearing them? Where have they gone to?

I see people carrying placards around our city centres advertising businesses. I see people standing outside shops and bars with placards that point toward them. What I don't see, however, are men with sandwich boards advertising things. I can't remember the last time I saw one. Has the held-aloft-placard been proven a more successful marketing tool than the sandwich board while I wasn't paying attention? Has the sandwich board become a relic of another age like the daguerreotype or the Jacquard loom? Has anyone else even noticed their disappearance?

I think we should be told.

A Letter to the Wood Pigeons.

2010-04-03T14:44:00.003+01:00

Dear Wood Pigeons,

For thousands of years, humankind has gazed enviously skyward, marvelling at birds and their capacity for flight. In fact, in terms of what they wish they could achieve, unassisted flight comes second only to invisibility in the imagination of most humans. I often speculate on what I would do if I could fly. Liberated from the monetary and bureaucratic constraints that hamper human travel, I would certainly want to explore new and exotic places, and would love to experience the freedom of unrestricted movement in three dimensions, unfettered by the chains of gravity. I would use the power of flight to better my knowledge of geography and landscape too, and would probably marvel at the altered perspective on both natural and man-made features that the ability to fly would accord me.

In the town that I live - York - we have one of the wonders of the medieval world; York Minster. As a man, I can only climb to the top of the tower using an internal staircase; but as birds, you are free to explore all of the features and details of the exterior - and interior - of this magnificent building. And I know that you know of York Minster, because you can see it from where you're sitting right now.

So, that's what I would do with flight if I had the gift. So what is it that you use it for? Where to start?

You use the wondrous power of flight to gain access to my roof - the area of it directly above my bed - from where you uproariously and insistently bellow "coo coooo coo cu cu" from dawn to late-afternoon. You also use your peculiar avian talent to swoop down and shit on my garden gate, accurately covering it in your excrement with astounding consistency, up to four times per day. To you, the gift of flight is an instrument that you use to terrorise my cat, who is now afraid to go into the garden. You use your flying power to access next door's lovely maple tree, which you are tearing to pieces with astonishing rapidity, and when you tire of flying, you use your spare time to sit about. Look! Here you are lounging on my garden furniture.

Wood Pigeons, this is not good enough. You clearly lack ambition. The power that you could be using for your own enlightenment and betterment, you are squandering on the petty torment of man and cat. Wood pigeons, rise up, realise that your great talent can propel you to a richer, more illuminated and fulfilled existence and then fuck off and leave us alone! Yours sincerely,

Marc Fearns

Irony.

2010-04-01T16:06:00.008+01:00

I've just been to see Kick-Ass. It's hilarious, feel free to go and see it. During this film about an ineffectual superhero I came up with a new definition of irony:

irony n. (pl. -ies) laughing at a film portrayal of a man who overestimates his own strength and is far punier than he imagines, then discovering that you can't unscrew the cap on your bottle of sparkling water.

I had to take it home after the film. I still can't get the top off. It's on my desk right now, taunting me; mocking me. It's my new arch-enemy.

***************Update***************

Briony has just returned home and has opened the bottle for me. It is no longer my arch-enemy; she is.

Wife-or-Cat Sound.

2010-03-24T01:35:00.004+00:00

I invented a new game earlier: It's called Wife-or-Cat Sound. It's not as good as Red Trousers, but then what is?

To play Wife-or-Cat Sound you will need three things: A wife - don't worry if you don't have one one of these, any other person will do - a cat - don't worry if you don't have one of these either, another animal (or even a second person will suffice) - and a bathroom.

Draw yourself a bath, then disrobe and get into it. When you have completed your usual bathing routine, stay in the bath. While you're lying there, listen to the noises emanating from the rest of the house (or flat, or wherever it is that you live). When you hear a sound, try to discern - in the first half second of hearing it - whether it is a Wife-or-Cat Sound (it's surprisingly difficult - I attributed the noise of the cat's scratching-post to my wife more than once).

Wife-or-Cat Sound has a points-based scoring system. Award yourself five points for correctly-attributed sounds and take five points away for incorrectly-attributed sounds. The winner is the person who realises that they should get out of the bath and go to the pub.

Fairytale of New York

2010-03-21T20:58:00.000+00:00

Drunken singing is not as easy as you might expect. Shane MacGowan makes it look effortlessly easy, but he's an expert; he performs drunk all of the time. Look what happens when this amateur attempts it though. It's just not as slick, somehow.

John Pienaar Impersonates a Turkey

2010-03-14T04:28:00.004+00:00

Strange... 5Live just keeps suggesting posts for me. Here's another one I heard in the bath.

A...er...y'know...Video

2010-03-08T13:54:00.003+00:00

Errr...Help!

2010-02-28T19:22:00.003+00:00

I just checked my mobile and found a text message on it from 14:30:

Did you get my text hun ? Im waitin for you at yours but need to get back before four ! X

I'll resist criticising the woeful spelling and punctuation and concentrate on the message itself. I don't know who it's from, the number isn't in my phone and I don't recognise it. This means that the person possibly sent the text to the wrong number. The sender seems unsure as to whether I have received a prior text (I haven't) so it's possible that the sender is a serial wrong-numberer.

The sender is, according to the text, in my house. I have scoured the house. There are no additional strange people here. Again, this points to a wrong number.

The texter addresses me as "hun" - I assume that this is an abbreviation of honey, not a war-film related pet-name - and ends the message with a kiss (a capital one). From this, I can only deduce that the sender is a woman.

The general tone of the text is both intriguing and revealing; the woman is, according to her, waiting at mine, but needs to hurry away within an hour and a half. This screams extramarital assignation, which is odd, as I'm not involved in any illicit dalliances.

There are two possible conclusions that can be drawn here. Either this is a wrong number, or I'm having an affair that I'm not aware of.

I'm not sure what to do now. Should I ignore the message? Should I reply? If I send a reply, what should it be? Please advise me via the comments section. I will act upon the best advice.

Bye Bye Blue Bear

2010-02-24T20:49:00.003+00:00

Sometimes, as an adult, you have to be mature, grown up, and responsible. You are obligated to be dutiful and conscientious. You may not like it, but that's the way it is. You may have to make sacrifices for the next generation and, no matter how hard it is - how great your forfeiture - you'll probably not be thanked, or even recognised, for it.

So it is today; with moist eye and heavy heart, it is time for me to say goodbye to the Blue Bear (as I have come to call him). So long, old chum. It's been a great couple of weeks since we bought you in anticipation of my nephew's birth. If my sister hadn't given birth twelve days late, our parting would never have been as hard as this. Bye Bye Blue Bear, I hope Benjamin takes good care of you.

Mad Men

2010-02-17T00:36:00.002+00:00

My obsession with Mad Men is seemingly boundless and now I'm in it, courtesy of this excellent site. You too can "Mad Men yourself". Feel free to send me the results and I'll add them to the post.

The Emperor Constantine. Eboracum. AD 2010.

2010-01-25T19:54:00.002+00:00

Always Funny.

Caption Competition

2010-01-19T23:43:00.001+00:00

I recently won Sarah Canterbury's caption competition. Inspired by this win, and by this excellent piece of work by Ceci Masters, I have decided to hold a caption competition of my own.

The winner will be decided when I get tired of laughing at this picture, which may be never.

Ironside

2010-01-17T21:25:00.006+00:00

In the late '60s, a new detective show came from America - Ironside. It's mainly remembered for its brilliant Quincy Jones theme tune and for starring Raymond Burr as the eponymous wheelchair-bound hero.

The '60s were truly another time. The character's name was Ironside and he was in a wheelchair. How did they get away with that, even then? Ironside was hugely successful and ran for many series. What else could we have watched in the '60s and '70s? Here are a few of the less successful shows from that era you may be unaware of.

Defoe (1972/3): A series about a detective with hearing difficulties.

Classic Episode: Loose Lips Sink Ships.
A corrupt Navy officer and his accomplice plot to fire a torpedo at a U.S. aircraft carrier which is in harbour. Fortunately, Defoe is able to lipread them discussing the plot and raises the alarm, causing the ship to be evacuated.

Classic Quote
Baddie: "Curse you Defoe, why couldn't you have minded your own business?"
Defoe: "Half past two."

Miss Ingham Investigates (1978): A show about an unmarried amputee policewoman.

Classic Episode: Disarming Silence
Miss Ingham disarms a bomb and receives a big round of applause. She then becomes upset for no reason. Silly Woman.

Classic Quote
Inspector James: "Hold him, Ingham!"
Miss Ingham: "I'll put him in handcuff, sir"

CSI Clopse (1979): A drama set in Clopse, Massachussets featuring Kent Sewell, one-eyed forensic scientist.

Classic Episode: Out Of His Depth
A frustrating case in which the hero can see the solution on the desk in front of him but can't quite put his finger on it.

Classic Quote
Police Dog-Handler "This is my dog, Patch."
Kent Sewell: "This is my man-patch."

King Rider (1968): An early precursor to Knight Rider featuring one-eared crime-fighter, Vincent King, and his talking van, Gogh.

Classic Episode: Some Flowers.
King is asked by the U.S. Government to infiltrate a lab and investigate a technician believed to be a Soviet spy. He is unmasked rather quickly as his lab goggles keep falling off.

Classic Quote
King: "You've got to be subtle here."
Gogh: "I understand Vincent, I won't make a spectacle of myself."

Lean (1966) Featuring an eponymous Private-Eye with one leg shorter than the other.

Classic Episode: Lapland
A child runs away from home but, as he is not allowed to cross the road, keeps running round the block. Lean is the ideal man to catch him.

Classic Quote
Lean: I've brought disgrace to the good name of my family and my city. I'll leave after nightfall."
Mayor: I'll be there to make sure you slope off, Lean".

The A-A-A-A-A Team (1980): A gang of do-gooding stuttering ex-marines on the run from the a-a-a-a-authorities.

Classic Episode: Pizza The Action
The A-A-A-A-A Team phone for a pizza before spending the remaining thirty seconds building an armoured car.

Classic Quote
Farmer: "We've only got two minutes to save the dam."
Bannibal: "No talking!"

This is not a definitive list, by the way. If you know of any shows that I've missed here, feel free to add them using the comments section.

Brilliant Christmas Present.

2009-12-27T21:47:00.001+00:00

One of the great things I got for Christmas was a series of cycle manufacturers' adverts from a 1920s cycling magazine. Enjoy them.

(If you click on them they become bigger)

Christmas Cracker Joke Fail

2009-12-25T18:33:00.002+00:00

Merry Christmas everyone.

Christmas Wish List

2009-12-15T21:18:00.000+00:00

I'm not greedy when it comes to Christmas. In fact, my Christmas list has only one item on it.

It's a five foot long model of a prehistoric amphibian. He's called John. The Yorkshire Museum are selling him on ebay. If you don't live near enough to collect John, don't worry, because I do. I've measured the upstairs landing and there's room for him there.

I promise that I won't play with him until Christmas Day, and will write you a nice thank-you letter on Boxing Day. Thanks in advance for your generosity, and for enabling me to give John a home.

What John might look like on the upstairs landing.

Pink. Not always a good colour.

2009-12-11T00:50:00.001+00:00

A Guest Post by Hester Made (up)*

2009-12-08T12:00:00.002+00:00

When Marc invited me to write for his blog, five days ago, I was intrigued by the invitation. I’ve never appeared on the internet proper. Of course I’ve appeared on the website of the newspaper I write for, The Late-Afternoon Push, but I’ve never appeared on a blog before, I had to ask my daughters what they were. “What the hell,” I thought, “you only live once.”

I agreed to write a guest piece and began to consider the numerous subtle and important differences between writing for a blog and writing my regular column for The Push. Having brainstormed for an hour, and having disregarded many spurious and silly notions, I realised that I had two main areas of concern.

Firstly, the blog’s logo is large, contains pseudo-Soviet imagery and is red. Would it clash with my hair? I soon realised that this was beyond my control.

Secondly, the page colour is grey. On Loose Women this week they stated that grey is unflattering so I knew that I would have to choose my writing-outfit carefully. I went through my wardrobe. Disregarding a pink floral dress, a blue trouser suit, a green wizard’s-hat and a bust of W.G. Grace, I settled on an old pair of jeans.

Now these jeans have seen better days. Push readers will know that they’re a bit frayed, but their fit is like no other jean. I was concerned that they might not last for the five days until I began writing and knew I would have to take measures to ensure that they would.

I put my best foot forward and began to pace up and down in the garden. It was then that I had a flash of inspiration. I knew, having considered frozen food at great length – I may even have written about it – that freezing things preserves them, so I headed off to the garage.

As regular readers of my Late-Afternoon Push column will recall, our freezer is kept in the garage. This does not cause any problems though, as the car is kept on the patio, the garden furniture in the attic, the random loft-boxes in the dining room, the dining table in the conservatory, the hat-stand, pot plant and welcome-mat in the living room and my husband in the shed, which is locked (from the inside).

I put the jeans in a watertight plastic bag (not daft, me) and placed them in the freezer on top of the frozen broccoli, between the Findus Crispy Pancakes and Arctic Roll.

It was there that they lay, until five minutes ago, when the time came to write my 400-500 word post. I went into the garage, opened the freezer, and there they were. It took a couple of minutes to put them on and they feel a bit chilly, but I’m sure you’ll agree they’re lovely. Same time next week?

*Hester Made (up) is a fictional character and in no way represents any columnist from the York Evening Press, especially not Julian Cole, as he is quite good.

Adnormal?

2009-12-05T19:18:00.001+00:00

One of the things I've learned about recently, while building a website, is advertising. I've learned that a lot of internet advertising (ads by Google, for example) is contextual. Google use the words that are on the page to determine which advert to place there. Today, I wrote about dancing, and dancing related adverts appeared on that page within seconds. Another popular form of advertising is behavioural targeting, as used by Facebook, in which contextual advertising is further refined by using data from the user's past click-stream (ads that they have clicked on).

These are all adverts that have been targeted specifically at me. I am perplexed. Does anyone else have an advert profile as strange as mine?

To see the picture in its full size, click on it.