Thinker vs Doer

Hency Talks #12

2020-08-22T22:18:00.000+05:30

"I hardly Call People"

I was never a loner. I always liked talking to people. I always had friends. My phone was always filled with calls and messages. But now, things have changed. I don't know what exactly has happened. But now, I hardly call people. I hardly do chit chat. I almost never send those forwarded jokes. Have I matured? Have I gone into hiding? Have I become an introvert? I don't know. But I have certainly found my peace in this change. I get more time for myself now. I don't need people to keep me busy. I don't even get bored. I like being with myself. I have realized that I used to waste too much of my time on people. Not all, but many of them were just timepass bonds. They needed me at that point, and maybe, even I needed them. But there was nothing deep about us. Maybe we both found validation in each other. Maybe, we were just talking regularly to convince ourselves that we have friends around us. I know that's a cynical look back at the past. But looking at how I am still very comfortable in my life without so many conversations and people, I guess there was something not so pure about those past equations.

Yes, another important thing is that all of us have grown busy in our lives and we hardly get time for the calls and texts. But that's a half honest argument as when you really want to make time, you do make that time somehow. So maybe, we all have realized that being alone is not that bad. There is peace in reflecting on things on our own, without daily gossips and talks. Maybe, we all reach a stage in life when we get more comfortable with solitude. Our souls grow deeper. Our heart starts to understand emotions better. Maybe, that's life seeping in deep within us, whispering that now you are living it more, more intimately. So yes, I don't talk more now. But I am happy. And I hope now you know why I hardly call you up. It's not about you. It's not your fault. It's just me experiencing life in its new shade, the darker, calmer shade.

Hency Talks #11

2020-07-28T15:43:00.001+05:30

"Heart Talk"

At times, I feel lost in this world. I feel as if I don't belong here. People have made their life only about money and success. Everyone is just running a race. Everyone is just using everyone else to reach that spot, the top spot. And here I am, I am living my life at such a low speed, with too many pauses to feel things more, and with too much time to just sit back and relax. I always think that I have enough. I mean, I don't need too much to live, to be happy. I don't want to become like them and keep running this endless race all my life.

I want to experience things more intimately. I want to invest my time in some people and live their emotions too. I want to belong to something here, not money, not a job, but something that will live on even after my death. I want to experience life in all its beauty and deepness. People here are just doing small talk with everyone else and think they are in touch. But I find these small talks so empty, just a waste of time. Come and sit with me under the stars one night. We will talk about life, emotions, world, stars, feelings, and love. Let's talk, really, really talk. Let's feel each other's vibes. Let's make something out of this time that we have together. Let's allow our souls to speak to each other. That's what I want, deepness. I am tired of this "Hi, hello, how are you?"

Hency Talks #10

2020-07-26T16:13:00.002+05:30

"Do you Feel the same ?"

They all teach you how to live a perfect life. Especially the motivational speakers, ah! they will make you feel like a loser if you are not utilizing every second available for some "productive" work. They want you to become an efficient, focused, and successful robot. But is life really just about being successful? Is it just about being productive? Why can't we just waste our time? Why can't we enjoy the nothingness in life? Why can't we be just lost? I mean, why everything has to be measured in how much money we make, how much we study, and how much work we get done? We are humans with a very fragile heart. We wander. We think. We feel. We get lost. And I am here to tell you that it's okay to be lost for a while. It's perfectly fine to shut everyone and everything out and do absolutely nothing productive.

I am not asking you to be less focused or less productive. Please burn all the oil inside for the light that you are seeking. But if you feel that you have no clue where your life is going and you are feeling all lost, then please don't feel guilty. You are allowed to be lost and helpless. You are allowed to break into a million pieces out of weakness and battering. It's okay, trust me. Take a break. Leave everything, and just breathe. Just feel life. Just feel the beauty in the nothingness of life. It's okay to not worry about that exam. It's okay to let the work take a pause. It's okay to tell that person that you won't be available for a few days. It's okay to scream to the world that you are tired in your soul and you are taking a break. It's okay to go on a journey to find your purpose, to find yourself. It's okay to disappoint people. It's okay to break a few aching bonds. It's okay to let go.

Look, it's you who accepted this slavery of daily routine. So it's you who can say that I am breaking my chains and I am flying away. It's your right. It's what your soul screams at the night when you turn in bed, feeling restless and angry. Just embrace it. Just let it go. Live more. And yes, Big hug.

Hency Talks #9

2020-07-24T12:24:00.001+05:30

"Loneliness is a Bliss"

We often complain about being lonely. We see people post pictures with their friends, laughing, smiling, and going all hearts and emojis in their comments. We think that they are having the perfect life, and we are just alone, doing nothing. This thought that others are having fun while I have no one, only this thought makes so many people feel so sad. Many people lose their spark. They believe that they can never be part of any cool gang. They kill their own self-respect, their own belief in their abilities. And social media makes it worse. The posts and pics make you feel like a loser as if you are doing nothing worthwhile. Are you getting me? We are made to feel alone even when we are not. We are made to feel like a loser even when we are not. And you know the worse part? We allow it to affect us.

What is it? You don't have many friends. But what's wrong with that? You are very choosy about people. You are too real to post pics with fake snakes. How can it make you any less cool? You don't go to many group outings. You are not in those birthday posts and videos. So what? You share your life with very few and special people. You have grown out of that stupid rat race of the number of friends or number of likes on a post. You are actually awesome. But since you watch their online game, you think you are just not living it up. Please stop. Loneliness is a bliss. It gives your soul time and space to grow. Surrounding yourself with too many people all the time won't help you become a deep and better person. You have to have that time alone, that time when you feel empty. Only an empty heart can absorb the beauty of life. A heart with too many people and things will just kiss the surface. It takes an alone, empty heart to kiss the soul. Stop with this belief that a crowd around you means you are awesome.

Spend some time with yourself. Think about life, emotions, reasons, people, mistakes, and dreams. Go deeper into things, your feelings, your desires. Become a person full of thoughts, not just a person with many friends online.

You have one life. Live a real one.

Hency Talks #8

2020-07-21T11:16:00.001+05:30

"People change and People leave!"

We all have been there. We all have felt that pain. When we finally trust that person, when we become totally convinced in our hearts that this person won't leave, that person breaks our hearts. That person can be anyone, your best friend, classmate, a family member, your loved ones, anyone can be! We are left with shock and disbelief. It takes us time to even accept what has just happened. We just can't accept that a person who said so many sweet things to us, who promised the moon, can betray us just like that. It shakes you, your trust in people. You go back to the chats, to the conversations, in which you were promised that forever, that never-ending support. It makes your blood boil, looking back at everything as just lies and deceit. You start to doubt every single thing that was said and done to you. You feel disgusted that you lived a lie all that time. You feel terrible that you were just used and played. That hurt, that shock, doesn't just leave you, especially in your moments of silence and solitude.

Don't trust a person blindly. I repeat Don't ! Always keep that space in which you prepare your soul for that heartbreak, for that betrayal. The hell falls upon you when you never had that space. Atleast you will be prepared, so it might lesser your pains, your expectations, your hopes.You were so convinced in your stupid heart about that "forever" that when that mirror breaks, you are just left with your broken pieces in that broken mirror. So, be a good person. Trust people who have earned your trust. But even with them, always keep that emotional space that will enable you to see the truth when it will hit you. Most people live a lie because they are just too close to a person to see the naked truth or to hear the screaming hints.

I have tortured myself for their fault after they left me heartbroken. I have spent my days and nights wondering what exactly went wrong. It's such a helpless feeling that at times you are almost ready to soak in all that anger and forgive that person even without an apology. You try to wash over their sins because it gets too painful to accept that reality. I have taken steps, such that I don't allow people to hurt and come close with me emotionally. I don't want over-friendliness with people. I maintain a limit in everything. Now, I have made myself a little brutal in my heart. I will bury you the moment you break my heart. There will be no fights, no arguments, no patch up, no coming back.

Hency Talks #7

2020-07-17T15:51:00.001+05:30

"I am good !"

What is sadness? Is it about the absence of a smile on your face? Is it about that you don't crack jokes, laugh, or post funny memes all day? Absolutely not. Sadness has nothing to do with what we show to the world. Sadness is about our soul. Most sad people show off a happy life. They smile, they joke, they laugh, and they share funny things online. You look at them, and you will feel nothing wrong. And even if you ask them "Are you fine," they will just say "I am good." That's how complicated and simple sadness is. And like most things that are not visible to us, we fail to understand sadness as well. We take it as some sort of personality trait, like hey this person is always a sad soul. We don't even acknowledge that sadness is a condition and not a personality type. Nobody wants to be sad. Nobody wants to suffer that pain, daily. But we all are blamed to be sad, and this adds to the mess. In fact, this becomes more frustrating than the sadness itself, this fact that people are laughing at your pain, your sadness.

Sadness makes the uncried tears keep piling up inside. It gets so heavy that your soul yearns to burst into tears and screams. You joke more because you are scared to talk about the deep things. They tell you to be strong. So you act all strong. You hide, you fake, you ignore, and you run. You try to run so far away from the painful reality that you feel lost now. You have no clue how to start clearing this mess. You want help. But whom can you trust? You don't want to trouble your family. So you don't tell them. Your friends act all busy, so you give them space. Your lover always thinks you demand too much and overthink, so you don't bang your head on that wall. So all you are left with is you.

And that's why sadness is the most intimate emotion. You feel it in the core of your heart, on every inch of your soul. You feel sadness in your tears that slip out and those that keep dripping inside. You have felt the anxiety it brings, the breathlessness, the burning skin, the numbness. Sadness is more sad because only you know how it feels.

Hency Talks #6

2020-07-15T23:14:00.001+05:30

"Selfish ? Yes I am !"

We all talk about love being a selfless emotion. We all hail people for being selfless. It's a very romantic and pure emotion, Yes. Love can be of various forms love to your parents, love to your best friend, love to your classmates or roommates, love to your childhood , college friends, love to your bus-mates, love to your enemies , Oops! it can be even of hate here, but lets be positive and there are many more forms that love exist. But when you live in a practical world full of flawed people, you have to look at things how they affect you, not how they sound. The opposite of selfless is selfish. And we all think that being selfless is good and being selfish is bad. But is it? Good for whom? Good for you? Or good for others? I have tried being both. I was a selfless person, in my childhood or in my early teens. I used to think that being selfish would make me lose people and I would be known as a bad person. So I used to make sure that other's smile becomes my mission. I never used to ask my friends for the same favors that I used to do them. I never used to compare and ask for more. And I was pretty happy to be that good person.

But with time, I realized that I was just allowing myself to be used by manipulative people who doesn't even care about me. They were shamelessly using me by just giving me a tag of "wow, you selfless human! You are very good girl !" But what that label did for me? Nothing. I was lied to. I was used. I was taken for granted. I was hurt. And I was always expected to take every shit, silently. Why? Because I was a selfless person. There were times when people used to expect that even if we treat her badly, she don't mind, she never feels bad. Even few of them mocked about me, be nice in-front of me and talked bad back of me. Even after doing so much they used to still call me a bad and selfish person. When there's any need they would remember me, when they feel alone they remember me, when they are in trouble they remember me, when they are low, they remember me, but when I need, there's no one around me except my parents. The moment I demanded the same respect, the same priority, the same efforts, I was told "Hey, you have changed." Yes, I have changed. I don't want to be this stupid person you can use as a toy and then throw it off. I can't be a use n throw pen, when ever you feel like you will use and when your work is done you will throw me out. I am a human. I have feelings. I compare, and I get hurt when I see that I deserve better. When I see I don't get the same priority, same respect, same good vibes that I provide you. It matters to me that I was there in your bad times, but in my hour of need, all you had were excuses.

I feel proud of myself that I am not selfless anymore. Yes you heard it right ! I feel proud of myself that I am selfish. If thinking about me and my happiness is selfish, then I am happy to be Selfish!

I demand equality in all relationships. You want my time, emotions, efforts, honesty, and loyalty? Well, I would give you that but only if you give me back the same things with the same intensity. Otherwise, to hell with you. I have stopped selling my soul for borrowed love. I can't fake anything, all my emotions are natural. I deserve more. I deserve to feel special, to feel respected. After all I love myself ! If this makes me selfish, then bloody hell I am.

Hency Talks #5

2020-07-12T12:22:00.000+05:30

"Decrease the volume of NOISE

and Increase the volume of LIFE"

There is so much going on around us that most of us are just lost. This new age of social media has made us slaves of excessive randomness. We see too much. We hear too much. But most of it does not make any sense. We just keep going with the flow. You hold your mobile and just keep scrolling for hours and hours. You started at something and now you are at something else. And if tomorrow I ask you what you did yesterday, then you won't have anything. You would just say "I don't know. I was just surfing the internet." And end up getting sad that you haven't done anything productive, and this life-cycle repeats. It just forms a pattern. I am not saying that always study or work. But seriously? You got to have some focus in life. You got to know what you want to do, what you want to experience, what your goals are, and how you are going to get there. You stay online all the time, and then you consume so much random stuff that messes up with your brain and peace and even disturbs you within.

We get a lot of news, live updates and all the information that is happening around the world through Internet. But when we look on the otherside, The Internet is full of toxic people. There are trolls who love to make you feel terrible and worthless. The influencers are so plastic that all they want is to make you a copy of their "perfect" human model. The pretty pictures with a perfect face, perfect body, and perfect clothes make you feel insecure for no reason. The "my daddy got money" cool people show off their fancy labels, and you suddenly feel worthless and poor. This is what you consume the whole day. You dive into a pool of golden shit that makes you feel worthless about your existence. You are not doing what you should be doing for your goals, your dreams. How is this not a slow poison for your peace? You are creating your own hell. Even I was also the one who was surfing in the Internet with random stuffs. I went online for getting news updates and I end up wasting an hour in the random memes, surfing pictures and all that. And I didn't even realize how hours passed away doing some random things.

My advice?

Cut down on your time on randomness. Don't debate in comments online. Delete, unfollow, or block people who make you feel worthless. Enjoy, have fun, spend time on reading, watching, cooking, investing in your hobbies, spend time with your loved ones,exploring new stuffs and do everything that you want to do. But make it focused. Consume the content that you want to become or be reflected by. Even random memes are great. I don't say that don't surf the internet, don't chat with your friends, don't spend time in Instagram,Facebook and all that stuffs, you can spend and you should. Look everyone wants to get entertained, After all, everyone loves socializing right ? And want to look around what all is happening around. But, choose them. And put a clock on everything you do. You have limited time on earth. Don't run around like a headless chicken.

Think, realize, focus, and live !

Hency Talks #4

2020-07-09T12:19:00.000+05:30

"A Pure soul in this soulless World"

I overthink, and I know it. I am not normal like most people here. I am different. I am weird. I am crazy sometimes.I may even act immature and childish sometimes, and I know that. I have seen enough life to know how people are. They are so practical. They think with their brain. They make friends for needs. They are selfish about their goals. They don't feel too much. But I, I think from my heart. I care about people. I never make friends for any work or need. I always try to help people, be kind. And I am able to do all that because I have a heart that's too pure to become selfish. I have got a soul that's always looking to soothe other souls, not use them. And when you have such a heart, such a soul, then you feel things that others can't. And when you feel too much, you think too much. So much, that it becomes a part of you. It doesn't feel abnormal anymore. You know only that way to live.

So when something happens, I know that I am gonna think about it, a lot, a hell lot. At that time, I might react all cool, and like I don't care. But deep in my heart, I know that it will be on my mind for a long, long time. You know, when things matter to you, when people matter to you, then you can't leave things as they are. You can't just turn around and say, oh that's okay. I don't care this person betrayed me. Even I don't understand how people started thinking negative about me, all I have done is to make them happy and crack lame jokes at times and make them laugh, but in result I get hatred sometimes. If there's any fault of mine, do come and tell me not to the others, I will genuinely rectify and try to change myself. But this never happens, people just leave me alone, and they just seem like we have never ever shared any bond between us. I don't give a damn if I was used by this person. No. Hell no. How can it not matter to me? I gave it all my heart, all my soul. It mattered to me. It made my soul smile when it was going good. So today, when it has gone all bust, why won't my soul weep? Why won't my heart break into a million pieces? How can I not think about it the whole night? I will always be the person who will feel too much, who will think too much.

I know it's bad for me. I am not proud to be this soft, this vulnerable. But I know it's nothing to be ashamed of as well. I am proud to have a pure soul in this soulless world. But I am changing one thing. I am getting more and more choosy about people I allow in my life. So I will still be at my purest best with people, but those people will be very, very few. You have to earn my sweetness, my goodness.

Do find this relatable ? Yeah ?

Hency Talks #3

2020-07-05T20:53:00.000+05:30

"I didn't change, It's time that changed me"

Time has changed me. And to my surprise, I have become more patient. I react less. I absorb more. I have learned to live with silence. Earlier, so many things used to bother me. And I used to overreact. I used to feel this constant urge to take on the world. Whenever anyone did any wrong, I used to get triggered and blast off. I used to think that since I had a good heart, I could say whatever I want. But with time, I realized that it hurts me only. I waste my time and emotions on people and things that don't deserve this. I have started to put more value on my time now. I brush off so many things because I know that I could put that energy into something more important. It has taken me a lot of frustration and screams. I have burned in my veins, getting irritated with the way the world works. But eventually, I have made my peace with the world.

I no more seek to change people or things. I just float in my own space at my own pace. If I feel anyone is not vibing with me, I just take a walk. I don't force my ideas and my demands on people anymore. I just stay myself. I don't expect people to join me. It matters less to me whether I am the only one who feels a particular way. And this has made my life a calm heaven. Yes, calmness, I mean I was such a crazy mess. I used to have these thousand things running on my mind constantly. But now, I have this zen-like peace in my head. I talk to very few people on the phone. I text even fewer people. I don't meet many new people too. I think I am content with what I have and where I am going. I am happy. I know many people are doing their own crazy, happening things. But I don't even compare or bother.

In a way, I have understood life now. We don't live a common social life. We live a very personal life. The more intimately we live our life, the more peace we will bring to our souls. The more we go into the social circus, the more empty we leave our soul. So, this time has made me look inward. And, it's beautiful. Try it.

Hency Talks #2

2020-07-05T20:40:00.002+05:30

"I want to be left out alone sometimes"

It happens to me when I go totally silent. I don't talk to anyone. I don't take calls, reply to texts, or meet people. I make excuses, for everything. And it does not even have to mean that someone said or did something bad to me. I can be sad over a thing that happened years ago. Or I can be sad for a reason unknown. And I don't even know whether sadness is the right word for it. Maybe I just get tired. Maybe I just need some peace. I don't know. But I am sure that I mean no harm to anyone. I don't want to make my people feel ignored. Please understand that it has nothing to do with you. I just feel that if I talk to you at this time, I will end up hurting you. I am at my irritating worst in these times, and you don't deserve that version of me. So I get away from you to protect you, not to hurt you.

It's a very helpless feeling that you want to tell the world what exactly is eating you up, but you don't have any words. You just want to soak it all in, the sadness, the stillness, the frustration, the fire, and the anger. It just grips you. It grips you like a spirit. You don't know what has hit you. But somewhere deep, your soul knows this storm. Your heart knows that emotion. And your eyes remember that numbness. It's such an irony, I know. I understand it, but I don't understand it as well. So I have quit on deciphering it. It is what it is. I do go into that sad zone from time to time. I have tried to stop it. But I just can't. I try to stay as nice as I can to people. But if you keep pushing me, I will react in a bad way. So please forgive me for the hurt I reflect when it gets too painful for me.

But a silver lining, I get to feel things more intimately. These breaks make me realize the things that I missed in the daily madness of life. I go deeper into relationships and life. What wrong I have done and what wrong they have done to me. And after every such bout of loneliness, I end up either forgiving or deleting people. It's like a meditation, in a weird, painful way. It makes me feel sadness, but it also makes me feel things I was ignoring.

Hency Talks #1

2020-06-22T16:15:00.003+05:30

"What happens with me after a fight is ......"

It was yesterday when my mom was yelling at me for some random topic, I just got angry and boom there was a fight between my mom and me. So What happens with me after a fight is ......

I have a short temper. Sometimes, I just lose my patience, and another version of me takes over.It can be your fault or just a misunderstanding, but when I burst, all hell breaks down. And then, I don't have any control over my tongue. I end up saying super mean things, things that I don't even mean. I refuse to pause and think rationally. And until that fire of anger is burning, I don't even realize what I have done. Infact, I would be even ready to do more, say more mean things. It's only when I cool down, I look back and realize what has just happened. And then, if I have said something really wrong, I feel terrible. I feel so,so bad that I want to hide somewhere or just slap myself for being such an idiot.I keep cursing myself.I keep burning in my soul in regret.

I am a flawed person.So, I do make my share of my mistakes.And when I make them, I end up acting like a totally shitty person, a person that I look back and feel so angry at.I have this problem when I get triggered. But after I cool down, I always do realize my mistake.I always do feel genuinely sorry.And I always do go back to the person to say my heartfelt sorry.I have no ego about it.I won't even say that you said this hurtful thing to me too.No, I don't need your sorry in return of my sorry.I just feel so heavy in my heart that I want to get rid of that burden.So what matters to me is that I tell my truth and apologize with all my heart.

That's how I have lived.I know many people keep grudges. I know many people look foe revenge.But I have this heart.I have this heart that I can't be consumed by hate after a point.I would always try to make things better again.I will always try to go back to that person and apologize.There is so much mess around us. Isn't it?

So many people are dying of depression.We should all try to make it better foe others.Say a genuine sorry to someone you have hurt. Give your genuine forgiveness to someone who has realized that mistake.It's good for both of us.Both our hearts will feel lighter.Both our souls will HEAL.

Did you find it relatable?

Yeah ? So do the same thing that I have done !!!

Humans are the actual VIRUS ?

2020-06-10T15:28:00.002+05:30

Do You visit a Place called Prison For Animals that is called ZOO ?

I always wondered what it would feel like getting Caged inside the Zoo for them and now when I have like 1% idea of the PAIN we caused them due to Lockdown, I feel sorry for what they go through.

Let's eliminate our support for zoos when sanctuaries are truly the place that rescue, rehabilitate and releases the creatures. Animals do not exist for our entertainment. We created Virtual Technology but we keep forcing animals into cages for our entertainment.

They too deserve the freedom which we all are craving for RIGHT NOW! After-all, its their Home too!

I won't ever visit Zoo and Circuses.

I won't pay to take pictures with Animals.

I won't Entertain anyone that Exploits these Living Creatures.

A few days ago, after hearing this news I was just shocked , how cruel can humans be ?

In Kerala, a pregnant mother elephant was given a pineapple filled with crackers to eat. It burst into her mouth. Even while suffering in acute pain, with a bloody mouth, she did not hurt anyone in the area. She went into a river to dip her mouth in water to soothe her pain. She died standing in the river. Just imagine her helplessness that could not defend her baby inside her. Maybe, she was blaming herself to have eaten that pineapple that killed her child. Maybe, she was blaming herself that why she trusted these humans. God's own country of Godless people. We, humans, are the most pathetic creatures on earth. We think planet belongs only to humans. But this planet belongs to every single animal life. We destroy nature. We slaughter animals. We torture helpless souls for our pleasure. Sometimes, I think that we have ruined this earth enough for nature to take revenge and wipe us out.

If we remove all the ants from Earth, all living beings on Earth will survive maximum for a period of 4 years. If we remove all the insects from earth, life will sustain on Earth only for a period of 2-3 years.If we remove all the human beings from Earth, our planet will flourish.

What if Corona is the cure for Mother Earth and we are the actual VIRUS?

It is high time that we should start taking Mother nature seriously.

Your Company Will Tell Who You Are

2020-04-01T23:46:00.001+05:30

What do you observe in this following picture?

According to you it may be
1. B
2. 13
3. Overlined w
4. I M (I'm)
5. Macdonald's - m
6. And anything else you can assume.
Now
If I write A before it and C after it then what will it be?
It becomes B.

Now if I write 12 before and 14 after it then what it will be?

Obviously 13 like

So what it indicates is Your Company Will Tell Who You Are.

So surround yourself with positive people as it's better to live alone than in a bad company.

For example one person from dull student's group doesn't wanna join the group of intelligent ones because he think if he joins the group he has to study otherwise the rest of the group may laugh at him so he wants to live in the same group.
Similarly if one person from intelligent's group doesn't wanna join dumb's group because he thinks that they will not study with him and never let him study.

Group represent us in 90% cases but rest of the 10% we are defined according to us.
Similarly people judges us on the basis of our group.

Now Suppose if you join group in which all the girl's are drunkard. Will your Parents allow you to join that group?
Even if you and your parents know that you will not drink but your parents will not allow you to join that group!!!

So basically I wanna say that in practical life in 90% cases our group represent us!!!

Getting ANGRY? Here is the Pro TIP

2020-03-30T00:16:00.003+05:30

I get annoyed for every small things in my life!
"If you too get angry, read this beautiful story from Buddha's teaching, that i came across. I bet it will surely change your mood now."

One day Buddha was walking through a village.A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him, "You have no right teaching others", he shouted.. "You are as stupid as everyone else.You are nothing but fake."

Buddha was not upset by these insults.Instead he asked the young man, "Tell me, if you buy a gift for someone and that person does not take it, to whom does the gift belong?"

The man was surprised to be asked such a strange question and answered, "It would belong to me because I bought the gift."

The Buddha smiled and said, "That is correct.And it is exactly the same with your anger.If you become angry with me and I do not get insulted,then the anger falls back on you.If you want to stop hurting yourself,you must get rid of your anger and become loving instead.When you hate others,you yourself become unhappy.But when you love others",The Buddha smiled "everyone is happy."

So from this what did we learn folks ?

Of course, we need to stop hurting ourselves and start loving ourselves.If we love ourselves, then we will love other people too.

A few lines from Jackson Kiddard -

Anything that annoys you is teaching you Patience.
Anyone who abandons you is teaching you how to stand-up on your own feet.
Anything that angers you is teaching you forgiveness and compassion.
Anything that has power over you is teaching you how to take your power back.
Anything you hate is teaching you unconditional love.
Anything you fear is teaching you courage to overcome your fear.
Anything you can't control is teaching you how to let go.

CORONAVIRUS - Myths Vs Facts

2020-03-19T00:50:00.000+05:30

The novel coronavirus disease (COVID-19) has spread to atleast 100 countries around the world.
Here are some of the myths.

Myth 1 :
Use of masks (Surgical and N-95) are a must to protect yourself.

Fact:
Surgical masks are not recommended even by WHO for people who are healthy.It's for people who have cough, as it will prevent infection, which is in the droplet, from spreading. It also helps in preventing people from touching their face regularly.If the mask gets soiled or moist, it should be changed. You should know how to wear it properly and wash your hands before wearing it.

Myth 2 :
Exposure to the sun for 2-3 hours, drinking hot water and regular gargles will help in protecting against the virus.

Fact:
There is no data available to prove this.Daily exposure to the sun is unlikely to protect you.

Myth 3 :
Using sanitisers is as good as washing your hands.

Fact:
Sanitisers are useful when you're travelling and there is no access to soap and water.But it is always preferable to wash your hands with soap and water. Sanitisers are made of chemicals which kill the virus but the chemical stays on your palms.Once you are back home,you must wash your hands even if you have used a sanitiser.

Myth 4 :
COVID-19 is an airborne infection

Fact:
It is not an airborne virus in the true sense.It is a droplet infection; it can go about a meter when a person coughs.If you are in close contact with an infected person,chances of the virus depositing on your face are high. Droplets can settle on a surface and the virus can survive for a few hours.

Myth 5 :
Virus doesn't survive in hot climate.Increase in temperature will kill the virus.

Fact:
This infection is taking place in tropical countries.There are cases being reported from Singapore,Thailand. So it isn't true.It is however likely that the transmission of the infection come down to some extent with increase in temperature.

Myth 6 :
Alcohol consumption will help.

Fact:
There is no scientific evidence to say so.

Myth 7 :
Home Remedies such as use of garlic,honey,lemon,cloves etc.. are helpful.

Fact:
There is not enough evidence to show that these are useful.

Myth 8 :
Avoid packed food, especially imported ones.

Fact:
Most packed food products are processed and packaged properly.The virus will not survive for that long.It is not a very hardy virus that can survive for months.

Myth 9 :
Virus can survive forever on metal.

Fact:
It depends on the humidity and the temperature. If the virus is indoors and on a metal surface, then it can survive for 8-10 hours.But generally it survives for 3-4 hours.Rise in temperature is likely to decrease the chance of the virus transmission in the outside environment.

Myth 10 :
The sale of meat and poultry products has plummeted, as these are considered unsafe.

Fact:
It's important to understand that it is a virus which jumped species. It started from animals and has now become a human virus with the ability to stretch from one individual to another through coughing and close contact. Not eating non-veg or eggs will not protect you because it is not getting transmitted from meat or meat products.

What is your WHY?

2019-06-14T18:16:00.002+05:30

Go back to the time where this all started.That's where you'll find the answers.Because the dream never changed,just the goals to get there did.
It's interesting how the brain works.It's interesting how life works.It's pushes you in the right direction by giving you the lessons but it doesn't tell you the answers.It wants you to find the answers yourself.
For me , there's always one dream that reoccurs and I'm not sure what it means.Even though,I know it's telling me something.I always find myself in a school setting .Whether it is reading a book or answering a question or whatever.I'm doing something different each time but every time,I'm not prepared at all but I try to figure it out before the bell rings.It's quite interesting if you ask me because I graduated from school a long time ago so I'm no longer in that setting today.However , my subconscious is using that setting to tell me something.What's interesting is middle/high school is where it all began for me.That's where I began my blogging journey.And that's the connection into my life today.The answers you seek today is the same answers when you first started.The dream never changed,just the goals to get there did.Don't forget your why.It's why you're here today.It's why you've gotten this far.It's why you're still fighting.It's why you're going to get there.
Remember:
The day you plant the seed is not the day you eat the fruit.Be patient.Be humble.Keep moving forward and know that all this hard work you're putting in day in and day out will produce the results you've been looking for.Your time is coming.Do not give up.If it doesn't happen today,there's always tomorrow.Have patience.Have faith.Be practical.Believe in yourself more. You've worked so hard thus far.Keep pushing for more.You have what it takes.You always have.Keep the mindset sharp.Keep your eyes on the prize.Enjoy the journey that life has taken you.Enjoy the ups and downs.Look forward for more because it's coming.Just keep putting yourself in those places and you'll continue to see where life takes you.

How to solve PROBLEMS ?

What the majority does .....
Try --> Fail --> Try --> Fail --> Try --> Fail --> QUIT

What you should actually do....
Try --> Fail --> Analyze --> Adjust --> Try........continues until you solve.
Don't quit.Instead,learn from your failures, strategize,and keep trying.

Surround yourself with dreamers and the doers,the believers and thinkers,but most of all,surround yourself with those who see the greatness within you,even when you don't see it yourself.
As an individual ,it may feel lonely on the road to success.But it doesn't have to be that way.Don't neglect your loved ones,friends,or family while chasing your dreams.Let them be apart of that journey even though they may not understand.Help them understand.Even though you think you're doing it all for yourself,most likely you're doing all of this for them.
Why do you want to be successful ? Keep it real with yourself. There are some things that isn't for everyone.May be It's going to be hardest things you'll pursue in your lifetime.Even though it's hard,don't be afraid to give it a shot.You just never know what you're good at unless you try.Not everything in life is meant to be easy.The higher the risk,the higher reward.But be honest with yourself because that's the only competition you'll have everyday which is yourself.Know your why, know yourself, and leverage that to your advantage!
Fame is fool's gold.But you can gain notoriety by being the best at whatever you are skilled/talented at whether it be a nurse,carpenter,painter or a master mechanic.Concentrate on what makes you crazy excited and peaceful at the same time.The earliest time possible is what I recommend to accomplish maximum skill and pleasure from whatever path(s) you choose.Searching fame wrong way.........Feeling grateful and serving others it's a Joy.
"If you are looking for fame to define you,you'll never be happy" - The World.

The Rule of 72
A simple formula to see how long it will take your money or investment to double in value :
72/Interest Rate = Time to double your investment.
Always double your money.Invest for the long term,not the short term.Have more patience and discipline.Always do your homework before investing.If it sounds too good to be true,most likely it is too good to be true.

Last but not the least.....Figure out your gift and don't be afraid to use it.It's going to require some trial and error so go try things.Find what feels natural to you.Find what excites you.Do more of those things because it will get you closer to where you want to go.What you're looking for is in your natural talents.

When Life Throws A Curve Ball

2019-06-12T16:03:00.000+05:30

OUCH ! Feel It.Grieve It.Be kind To Yourself
Take tiny steps forward
Remember: Fear and Doubt is part of the Process
So you gotta have FAITH.

Life likes to throw you curve balls when you least expect it.Just remember life doesn't give you something you can't handle.Have Faith.It will pass.Sometimes in life everything goes smoothly,And sometimes unexpected happens,The important thing is knowing how to turn problems into opportunities.We all have our own problems that we need to deal with.No one is perfect.Take it one day at a time. Instead of asking why is this happening to me? Ask yourself,What is this teaching me?
And what can I learn from this to become better.Appreciate what life is teaching you because that's going to help you along the way.We were given a gift and that is life itself.Everyday is a blessing in disguise.
Everyday you get 24 Hours, 1,400 Minutes , 86,400 Seconds .This time is Nonrefundable and Non-renewable.Be very selective on how you use your time.Spending in Non-Educational TV,Going out Excessively,To much Social media,Complaining Or Investing in Networking,Learning a Skill,Reading a book,Building an Income Source.So use your time wisely.Once it's gone,you don't get it back.
Some People want it to happen,Some wish it would happen,Others make it happen.(-Michael Jordan)
Anything is possible.You can achieve whatever it is that you call your true passion.If it's important enough to you,you'll find a way to make it work.Stick to one thing and try your best to be the very best at it.You got this! 💥 Aspire to insure before you expire 💥
What I'm trying to explain is When you do something new first people laugh at you,Then they challenge you,then they appreciate you,Then they set you as an Example.
Haters are going to hate.They always critique at first.Don't worry about what they think of you.Don't worry about what other people are doing.It's none of their business and it's none of their business.They're just pushing their own insecurities onto you because they wish they had the courage to do it themselves.Keep doing you.They'll continue to watch while you continue to do.

Growth Vs Fixed Mindset

GROWTH MINDSET
"Failure is an opportunity to grow"
"I can learn to do anything I want"
"Challenges help me to grow"
" I like to try new things"
"I'm inspired by the success of others"
"Feedback is constructive"

FIXED MINDSET

"Failure is the limit of my abilities"
"I'm either good at it or I'm not"
"I don't like to be challenges"
"I stick to what I know"
"When I'm frustrated,I give up"
"Feedback and criticism are personal

Get your mind right.The way you see life determines everything.If you're not in a good place,this will affect everything everything else in your life.It affects your mood,your motivation,the decisions you make,the energy you put out,the things you say,the things you feel,etc.It all starts from within and works it's way out.Be aware of this so you can change your mindset for the better.Putting the blame on others doesn't solve the real problem and sometimes that problem is you.
Everyone has their own story.....And different way of telling their story..Some are like A Safety Box,If you don't know the password? You don't deserve their story.They will only tell their story to the people that they trust.Some are like A Message in the Bottle,They tell their story on the internet....Anonymously,No one knows their real identity,On social media:Long caption with a
fake-name account,Sometimes,people don't know or even don't care,Hence their story will remain unknown or will be forgotten :( Some are like A Peeled Onion, the more you know about their story,the sadder you get.Their stories are mostly,sad stories...Share their story little by little,afraid if it'll be too much for those who listen...Honestly, They've been dying to tell someone about their story,But they are afraid of being judged by others :( and Some are like A Jack in the Box :)

A conversation between a Master and his student

Master : A fight is going on inside me....It's a terrible fight and it is between two Wolves.One is Evil.He is Anger , Envy , Sorrow , Regret , Greed , Arrogance , Self-Pity , Guilt , Resentment , Inferiority , Lies , False Pride,Superiority.......The other is Good .He is Joy, Peace , Love , Hope , Serenity , Humility , Kindness , Benevolence , Empathy , Generosity , Truth ,Compassion....and Faith.

The same fight is going on inside you.And inside every other person , too.

Student : Which wolf will win? Master!
Master : The one you feed.

Moral: We all go through it each and everyday....So make sure that you feed the right one.

Remember,most of your stress comes from the way you respond,not the way life is.Adjust your attitude,and all the extra stress is gone.

Do You Know Your Value?

2019-06-09T16:46:00.000+05:30

There was a conversation between a father and a son.
Son: Father?
Father: Yeah?
Son: What is the value of my life?
Father: Son,Take this rock,And go sell it at a market.If anybody asks the price,rise two fingers and don't say anything.
Son: The boy then went to the market.
Lady: How much is this rock? I want to put it in my garden.
(the boy didn't say anything and raise up two fingers........)
Lady: 2$ ? I'll take it......
(and the boy went home and told his father.................)
Son:A Lady wanted to buy that rock for 2$.
Father: Son! I want you to take this rock to a museum,If anybody wants to buy it,rise two fingers and don't say anything.
(the boy then went to museum.....Man in the museum wants to buy the rock.The boy didn't say a word and put up two figures and the man..........)
Man: 200$ ? I'll take it.
(son comes home.........)
Son: Father, a man wants to buy this rock for 200$.
Father: Son,The last place I want you to take this rock is to a precious stone store.Show it to the owner and If he asks the price,rise two fingers and don't say anything.
(the boy then went to the precious stone store......He showed the rock to the owner.)
Owner: Where did you find this stone? It is one of the most rarest stones of the world......... I must have it !!How would you sell it for ?
(the boy put up two figures......)
Owner: I will take it for 200,000$
(son comes home.......)
Son: Father,there is a man who wants to buy the rock for 200,000$.
Father: Son,do you know the value of your life now?
You see it doesn't matter where you come from,where you were born,the color of your skin or how much money you have.....It matters where you decide to place yourself with and how you chose to carry yourself.You may have lived you whole life thinking you were a 2$ stone,you may have lived your whole life surrounded by people that saw your worth only for 2$,but everybody has a diamond inside them and we can choose to surround ourselves with people.....that see our value and see our diamond inside us..........
We can chose to put ourselves in a market or put ourselves in a precious stone store!And you can also choose to see the value in other people,you can help other people see the diamond inside of them.Choose the people you surround yourself with wisely.They can make all the difference in your life.

Let's take another Scenario, A bar of iron costs 5$, made into horseshoes it's worth 12$,made into needles it's worth 3500$,made into balance springs for watches,it's worth 300,000$.Your own value is determined also by what you are able to make of yourself.
"Our job in this life time is not to shape ourselves into some ideal we imagine we ought to be,but to find out who we already are and become it."(-Wayne Dyer)
When everything is going right, we don't notice.But when things fall apart, we react.May be the key to happiness is just noticing.What I'm trying to say is don't focus too much on the negative that you forget about the big picture i.e. the positive around you.
Bad News,Life doesn't always give you what you want.
Good News,It will give you what you believe in.
Don't stop believing.Life is only as good as your own belief system.If you think life is good,life is good.If you think life is bad,life is bad.Keep fighting for what you believe in and let the nonbelievers live life their way.Keep doing because life is good.Change your mindset.Change your life.

Do you love stories? If yes,So here is one......

Once upon a time,there was a farmer and he bought 2 water bottles .(Assume it a kind of pot)But unfortunately,one of them had a big hole in bottom of it.The farmer used both of these bottles to put water and brought them to his town.But the broken bottle leaked continually so that it made him feel useless.And the other bottle,to have been feeling proud,used to make tease of him every time when he spilled water.One day,the broken bottle couldn't stand it anymore and asked the farmer to throw himself away.However,the farmer smiled,with saying "Did you see the road in our town recently?"
They went back down to the road and there were many beautiful flowers. "Do you see that?" The water that you spilled so far has grown these plants.
Even though we have some bad points,we don't need to stay sad and depressed all the time.Because we also can offer help to others using our flaws.Cheer up! Life is Good!

A Quick Recap!
Try not to over-complicate things.We are only here for short time.Once this day is over,It's gone forever.The space in our mind is too valuable and precious for us to fill it with nonsense.So free your mind of nonsense.Don't be afraid to start over.It's a chance to build something better this time.Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do and that's starting over again.Life is an experiment in which you may fail or succeed.Explore more,Expect less.

LIVE . EXPLORE . LEARN . EXPERIENCE . REPEAT.

What's Your PURPOSE?

2019-05-28T19:08:00.000+05:30

What fascinates me is that hardly anyone is wondering what we're actually doing on this planet.May be because the ones who do strive for truth go insane or sound mad......haha....I'm just kidding.But the most accepted the work-eat-entertainment-sleep cycle as life and have no desires for a deeper understanding of our purpose in this universe.We were all put on this earth for a reason.We were meant to make the decisions up until this point that led us to this very day.Keep Learning about yourself and just try your best at whatever it is in life that you want to do.Everyone is special in their own way.Learn from each other because you won't be able to experience everything yourself.
Guys according to me I don't think we were given a purpose,I think we make it.I am not gonna get hung up trying to explain why I am.I'm just am.Maybe it's not any more complicated than that."Get busy living,or get busy doing".
Someday,everything will make perfect sense.So for now,laugh at the confusion,smile through the tears,be strong and keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason.(John Mayer)
You'll never really know what the future may turn out to be.It could be entirely different than what you imagined.But at least you know what's important to you now and what's worth fighting for at the moment.Those are the things that will shape your future and you have to believe that you'll definitely get there one day.Believing isn't the only thing,be ready to put some incredible hard work to make it happen.Keep your head up.You got this!"The journey is inside not outside"
You only get 24 hours a day so spend it wisely.Know well to manage your priorities/activities.If important and urgent DO IT NOW,important but not urgent PLAN IT,not important but urgent DELEGATE,not important and not urgent DROP IT.
Effort builds character.Work hard and love yourself for putting in the effort.It's not easy to put in work day in and day out.But if you can do it,bring yourself up instead of bringing yourself down.If it doesn't happen today,that's Ok. There's always tomorrow.Be patient.Nobody gives a damn about the hard work,in the end the only thing that matter's is RESULTS.
Success always hugs you in private.....but failure always slaps you in the public!that's life!
Psychology says,Never be afraid to try something new because life gets boring when you stay within the limits of what you already knew;No matter how much it hurts now,someday you will look back and realize your struggles changed your life for the better;When you focus on problems,you will have more problems.When you focus on possibilities,you will have more opportunities.
The most motivational thing:
365
1.01 = 37.8
365
0.99 = 0.03
The difference between giving it 101% vs 99% every day.Life compounds.

50 people were asked to enter a room filled with balloons.They had an unexpected surprise.
Wanna know more about it?
Once a group of 50 people were attending a seminar.Suddenly ,the speaker stopped and decided to do a group activity.He started giving each person a balloon.Each one was asked to write his/her name on it using a pen.Then all the balloons were collected and put in another room.
Now these delegates were let in the room and were asked to find the balloon which had their name written.Within 5 minutes everyone was frantically searching for their name,colliding with each other,pushing around others and there was utter chaos.
At the end of 5 minutes,no one could find their own balloon.Now each one was asked to randomly collect a balloon and give it to the person whose name was written on it.
Within minutes,everyone had their own balloon.
The speaker began---"Exactly this is happening in our lives.Everyone is frantically looking for happiness all around,not knowing where it is.
Happiness lies in the happiness of others.Give them their happiness;you will get your happiness.This is the purpose of human life!!"

Attention ! Attention ! Attention !

2019-05-26T18:07:00.001+05:30

Your attention is most important.You become a master of your life when you learn how to control where your attention goes.Value what you give your energy and time to.Where you spend your time most determines what things you learn,what habits you form and what successes you'll achieve.Bury your head in books so you can learn and gain knowledge and perspective.Be practical.You know the saying,"use it or lose it".Spend time putting that knowledge to good use.Control your emotions when things upset you.Your reaction is everything.Feel it,understand it,and let it go.It's not worth the hassle.You have better things to do with your time and energy.Spend it on something useful and beneficial to your life. Control your emotions or they will control you.Sometimes what we think can't be done is all in your head.We simply made it up.Change your mindset to believe and find it in yourself to make it happen.Surround yourself with people who are rooting for you .A little encouragement goes a long way.You can do this.Don't quit!
The people you need in your life:
1.THE PUSHER - A pusher is someone who pushes you to be the best you can be.They make you question life,your choices,your directions.
2.THE LOYAL CONFIDENT - This is the person who loves you and will always be there to hear what's on your mind,the good,bad and ugly.
3.THE ENERGIZER - Energizers are those people who have an infectious zest for life.Not only are they optimistic but they encourage you to dream big.Energizes leave you laughing,inspired and filled with amazing positive energy.
4.THE MENTOR - A mentor is someone who has already done what you are trying to do and is successful.They can guide you down the path letting you know what has worked and failed for them.Helping you avoid any mistakes that might slow you down.

No one has control over your life.You control your life and you control your destiny.Don't let one failure determine the course of your success.Keep pushing forward.Give it your all.Let doors close so others can open.Have faith in whatever you believe.Whether it is God,a higher being,and/or destiny.I believe that life is already on its course and you just need to keep living your life.If you believe that there's more to life then you'll continue to seek more.Know yourself and follow your gut.Life is guiding you to your purpose but nothing is handed to us without hard work and effort.Life needs to know that you'll do whatever it takes and in return, you'll get what you want.You don't have to believe me,believe what feels true to you and do what's right for you.It's your life so believe what you want to believe and do what you want to do.
You know what guys I sometimes hate having plan B.Because I am setting myself up for failure,when I am thinking of the plan B....I am doubting myself.When ever we are planning for our pan we doubt ourselves if our plan A fails in case so we make a plan B......a protective layer.So what ever energy we are putting in plan A is subdivided into two plans.....
Always have a plan on how you're going to succeed.If you don't have one,find one.If you can't find one,make one.You need to know where you're going at all times otherwise you'll just be wasting time.Once you've figured it out,stick to the plan.If you're not willing to take risks and seek it out until end the your plan isn't good enough.You should find another plan that works for you.Tat you believe in 100%.Do what feels right for you.Believe in yourself.Believe in your plan.Never doubt yourself.If you don't believe in it,who will?No one but yourself.
You can't change the past.You can only change how you adapt to it in the present.
Don't spend your precious life waiting in the wrong lines.Don't waste time complaining.Spend more time being grateful that you get a chance to experience life for what it is and to do what you want to do.There's more to life than meets the eye.We haven't begone to experience everything in life yet.Keep investing and loving yourself to allow greatness to come out of you.You only live once in this life time so might as well make the best of it by practicing gratitude and helping others do the same.So we should use Gratitude as fuel instead of putting Complaints on pedestal...So crucial to be grateful,even for the smallest things.Negativity is a plague that ruins every aspect of our life!Never forget that it's our choice in which line we go stand!To me, the sad part is you get nothing out of complaining except more pain.Time is precious,Exactly don't waste your time doing things you don't like without purpose.Take actions to reach your goal at some point.You control YOUR life✌

So your attention is just like watering to plants daily.Lets take 3 plants where one is your dreams,next your fears and next is your insecurities.When we water daily to our fears and insecurities we get nothing out but just disappointment and dissatisfaction.Whereas if we water daily to our dreams consistently we would definitely get good results ultimately,our plant grows and we get fruits that get ripe day by day by maintaining our consistency in watering plants as well as other aspects of nature supports us in our journey and finally our fruits are ready to pluck that tastes so sweet that we forget our sacrifices.Because the fruit of hard work always taste's sweet.
DRIVE YOUR ATTENTION TOWARDS RIGHT DIRECTION AND TO THE RIGHT PLACE.

Did You Ever THOUGHT ?

2019-05-24T00:10:00.000+05:30

Today I am gonna discuss about just a basic thought that I think along with me many people also have but they don't realize the reason behind it.So let's explore and dig in deeper to find the reason!

Did you ever realized in your life that at first we use to go to first and then second and eventually we did not even realize that we completed our class 10th,12th boards.It's just like,we have just now only joined school.At once it completed with a couple of time.The big question is HOW?

Another scenario,Did you hear anytime your parents telling,"pata hi nhi chala bacche kab badhe hogaye"(Translation -We hardly realized,when our children have grown up so big and older).Even I heard my elder brother telling,"college ke 4 saal pata hi nhi chala kab khatam hogaye"(Translation - I hardly realized when my college,my engineering four years got completed,it's just like a fraction,a couple of time).Old people telling,"Mere 70-80 saal ki zindigi ek pal me hi nikal gayi"(Translation - My 70-80 years of life completed just in a moment)They all mean the same that life is passing away in the twinkling of an eye with out even realization to us.

These are just Ironical,WHY?

Because every day we work so hard,we go to school/college,we eat,we bath,we fight,we drive,we laugh,we sleep.But still after 10-15 years we fell like nothing has happened.Like everything went very fast.Before letting you guys to know the reason.........the magic...........the secret behind this thought process,I want you guys to answer me a couple of questions:

1.What your mother has cooked 3 days before?

2.Which junk food or food from outside you have ordered the last time?

3.A special question to all the boys,3 days before how many boys you have talked face-to-face and how many girls you have talked face-to-face?Similarly my dear lovely girls,3 days before how many boys you have talked face-to-face and how many girls you have talked face-to-face?(exact count in numbers)

Probably majority of you might have answered the 2nd or 3rd question.Because they are unique.As everyday our mom cooks food so daily the routine is same;but suddenly if we eat something from outside we remember it because it is something different that our daily routine.(Like for instance,I ate momos last Wednesday😁).Similarly daily I talk with girls but suddenly when I talk with boys it's different than what I do.(just take for instance,I talked today with Pooja(in case of boys),I talked with Sunil(in case of girls)....these names are just for reference,an example..may be something.....in your case😅)

Our mind is just like Thanos. It is very clever and smart.It forms a pattern.A routine like for a student go to school/college,comeback,sleep,eat,tution,homework,study,sleep again get up morning continues for 10-12 years and so on........... Similarly mother gets up,cooks food,looks after children,husband and household chores,office works and........similarly father....and the pattern goes on.Once a pattern is formed then our mind copy's it and paste's it ,copy-paste,copy-paste.......continues.But if we encounter a unique thing then our mind pattern/loop breaks.Just take the example of an engineering student whose 4 years completed/passed away.If you ask them which year of engineering is most memorable?Majority of people will tell first year because our life pattern breaks;class 12th boards,JEE Mains/Advanced....and in 1st year we get hostel life,mess food,new friends,driving license,girlfriend/boyfriend,bunking classes....even negative sides are also there (smoking,alcohol) but lets not focus over there...Always look into the positive side...then the perspective to see life will also change....Ok let's come back to our main point....But when it repeats in 2nd or 3rd or 4th years then we don't get more memories.

MORAL:We all have one life,then from now,10-15,50-100 years we shouldn't think like "we didn't realize how these many years passed away"We want our life's every moment to live fully.Learn something,make memories that we remember always.So try to break this pattern.So this pattern breaks by some small-small things,like in-short by exploring new domains like go and cook food one day,instead of playing pubg go and play football,getup early and surprise your family by going for a morning walk,instead of liking your neighbour friend's photo in instagram go and meet him and come.Start learning a new course like photography,Take the first step.

One of my friend what she is to do is take the camera to all the places,and capture the good moments and record it.After four years she has 368GB of material memes,videos,photos.Similarly you can also write down in diaries(I know no one writes in this present digital and modern world) or take photos,voice recordings.......so on.You won't be realizing now,but you will definitely realize after four years.Also remember not just capturing every moment but try to live every moment enjoy it to the fullest!

A long life may not be good enough,but a good life is long enough.

So what are you gonna try new today tell me in the comment section below.

Be LIMITLESS - If something doesn't work one way ,Do it another way!

2019-05-21T23:56:00.000+05:30

Just because everyone is doing it doesn't mean you have to do it.Figure out your own path so that you can help others along the way to do the same.Discover your passion and your purpose.Be the best at it and live that you design for yourself.It's not going to be easy so get your mind right,have discipline,have patience,and have accountability for your actions and inactions. If you choose to do something ,go for it with all you got otherwise you're wasting your time.If you don't give it your all,you will always lose to the person who is.Believe in your dream and do everything you can to make it a reality.I rather be doing that than doing what everyone is doing.Not to say it's bad thing,moreso that life isn't meant for me.If you feel the same,create a different path.Don't settle.That's what I call being in the rat race And it get's worse the longer you are in it.There's so much than just being stuck in a cubicle for the entire life and not solving problems and making people happy and ultimately you get sad and depressed deep inside.
People always tell that success comes to those who chooses the harder path but what if we choose the smarter and easier path!so lets make a history by choosing something different than the crowd.😉
There's more to life that meets the eye.You're always one decision away from an entirely different life.Give it a try!Experience life to the fullest by doing what your heart desires.Learn from it and do it all over again.
While you are thinking about it,The other guy is doing it!
Every morning don't lay in bed and let the day go by.Get up and execute to make your dreams a reality.Don't say you're gonna do this and that.Just shut up and do it!Habits don't happen overnight so form this habit now.Repeat it over and over until it's a normal routine.Have discipline.Habits can be easily broken if you're not consistent with your efforts.This was me for way too long hahaha ....just sitting there talking about all the ideas I had.Then when I saw it........I'd talk about how I had that idea too....What a shame and a waste of time that was back then.Lessons learned though✌
We all serve some purpose in this lifetime.Some discover it earlier and some discover it later in their lives.Continue to invest in yourself.You know what you're capable of .You know what you're good at and what you're not.Continue to push forward and do things that make your life happy and enjoyable.
The opportunity we have today to do what we love is incredible.Only if you take that risk to do it.Don't follow the status quo if you were meant to stand out.Let the world know you're here for a reason.To serve your purpose in life whatever it is that you want to do.The goal should always be to do whatever you want,when you want,where you want,and how you want.Keep pushing forward!
The goal is to enjoy the process,those who keep learning have reached success no matter what level they are on.Everyone will never be free.....only those that push and drive harder than everyone else....only those that are willing to sacrifice and make the tough decisions.One more most important thing is No matter what age,what job you have,what period of life you're in.ALWAYS go for your dreams and passions.And on top of that,surround yourself with people who do motivate you to follow any and every dream you have!Life should never be controlled by our fears.
Equality -"Until everyone is free,no one is free".Let that sink for a movement🤔.We all have a responsibility to make change in this world,no matter how big or small.
So my small gesture to everyone reading this ,you are powerful,you are significant and I wish you a happy day and asking you to smile☺️ and be grateful for everything you have in life.

BELIEF-an article of faith

2019-05-16T10:55:00.002+05:30

Tags : Belief,faith,confidence,hope,idea,assumption,acceptance

Belief is very important with anything you do in your life.You have to really believe in what you're

trying to accomplish ,believe that you can achieve success some day,and believe in yourself when no one else does.Once you have that belief ,feeling is everything.
Imagine that it's already happening to you.Have gratitude and know what it feels like to have freedom to do whatever you want when you accomplish your goals and dreams.It's amazing to imagine something in your life happening before it happens and manifesting it.Love your life for it's the life you designed for yourself and love the people in it because it makes life so much enjoyable.Without the people,there would be no one to celebrate with and have great experiences with.

There's more to life than meets the eye.You're always one decision away from an entirely different life. Give it a try while you're still young.What do you have to lose but all to gain?Experience life to the fullest by doing what your heart desires.Learn from it and do it all over again.
"Everybody wants a change,but nobody wants to work out.
Everybody wants muscle,but nobody want to train.
We don't realize that the process of training ourselves,the process of conditioning ourselves actually feels incredible,once you get that initial momentum.
You gotta decide you're gonna commit to mastery.
The only thing that's gonna make you happy,my friend,in this year or any other,is to step up."(Tony Robbins)
That is so true.Everyone wants to be rich or successful but almost nobody wants the sacrifices that it requires , well folks you can't have your cake and eat it too😉 First you need to find your purpose and desire.Let that fuel your drive.How bad do you really want it!!🔥

As you progress in your journey, new challenges will be waiting for you.It doesn't get easier from hear on out,it actually gets harder.What got you here won't get you there.Doing the same things over and over won't get you different results.You'll need to think deeper and push yourself harder than you've ever done before.Be discipline and form good habits consistently in order to program your subconscious mind to do what you want it to do.We are able to adapt and do anything that we put our minds to.If an egg is broken by outside force life ends,But if it's broken by inside force life begins."Great things happen from deep inside";I actually did this when I was small child.....My grandma use to have chickens....and I observed how the baby chickens come out of the egg....by cracking it...so I remember I decided to help and the little baby chicken died!I was so mad because I helped.....Until my grandma told me: You can not help him..he needs to do it himself to be strong on the outside!So I cried!But I learned something new.
Your mindset is the key to determine your success.You need to let go of temporary liabilities and focus on investing in yourself and your future for long term happiness - your financial independence.
Believe in yourself and you can win the world!!

I love this!Chess is an amazing game that can be applied to life,business,or almost anything really.For example my father always made this comparison,before you move a piece,think,in life before you speak,think.....
Figure out what you want to do in life and do just that.Everyone is different with their own thing,pay no attention to that.Comparing won't do you any good.Focus on your thing and what you excel at.Do what feels right to you.Be grateful and have fun while doing it.Be happy,Life's too short Believe in yourself and in your dreams.😊

MOTHER - just like a flower each one is Beautiful & Unique

2019-05-11T15:34:00.000+05:30

There is one relationship in this life which hands down scores above all other known relationships in this world.Wondering which one? Don't scratch your head too much guys as that undemanding,effortless relationship is none other than that of a mother,which is truly priceless in terms of her abundant and countless love,dedication,and devotion towards her family.The word Mother stands for Magnificent Outstanding Tender Honorable Extraordinary Remarkable.
To acknowledge the presence of all mothers around the globe, Mother's day is celebrated in many countries of the world .This is truly a special day for the mothers who are mostly underrated in this male-dominated society.
The most beautiful and dignified soul we all have or had in our lives - 'Mother','Mom','Maa','Amaa',the words sound similar across most languages and evoke the same warmth and love.She is the one who is less than God for her child.Perhaps it's well said that the physical presence of God was not possible everywhere because of which He created this idol called 'Mom'-goddess of multitasking.
"She is not a Doctor,But she cures all my pain.She is not an engineer,but she fixes everything that is wrong.She is not a philosopher,but she taught me purpose of life.She is not god,But she made me experience heaven in her presence.A person with the ability to detect a lie,hear the smallest noises, a person who does the work of many for free, a shoulder to cry on, a super hero.......... and she is my mother" 💖

"It may be possible to gild pure gold,but who can make his mother more beautiful"(Mahatma Gandhi)

Everything in nature bespeaks the mother.The sun is the mother of earth and gives it it's nourishment of heat;it never leaves the universe at night until it has put the earth to sleep to the song of the sea and the hymn of birds and brooks.And this earth is the mother of trees and flowers .It produces them,nurses them, and weans them.The trees and flowers become kind mothers of their great fruits and seeds.And the mother,the prototype of all existence,is the eternal spirit,full of beauty and love.
Mother's Day is an occasion which is celebrated on second sunday in the month of May in various parts of the world to express respect,honor,and love towards mothers.This day is an event to honor the contribution of mothers,acknowledge the efforts of maternal bonds and the role of mothers in our society.It is a day which makes people remember the importance and significance of mothers in their life and is observed as a day to give special emphasis to motherly figures around the world.
Yes, tomorrow is Mother's day and you know what ,when I open my phone I see lots of people posting pictures along with their mother with a fancy hashtags(#) through different social media platforms be it whatsapp,facebook ,instagram,snapchat ...........I know just like birthday we need a special day to celebrate and show our love to our mother but what about the rest 364 days .Don't get me wrong guys, what I am trying to say is that a mother showers her love and sacrifices for us through out the year ,similarly in a single day we can't return or pay-back everything ,right ? I am not telling that you shouldn't post a picture.As pictures are nothing but capturing the moment.Instead of posing a picture for a single day and making feel special for a single day ,try to make her feel special everyday and celebrate everyday as Mother's day.No matter how "BUSY" a person's day may be!If they "REALLY CARE",they'll always find time for their Mother.Respect and honor every mother be it's your own mother, someone else's mother,or mother earth,protect them! love them!be grateful!and yes don't forget to thank god 😊 , As a mother is just like a flower Every one is Beautiful and Unique in their own way!! Try to spend your time more with your loved ones ,with your family. Because we never know what might happen tomorrow!

Dear,

mom who has lost a child

child who has lost a mom

woman struggling with infertility

sweet one in a broken relationship

adoptive mom

foster mom

birth mom

dad who has to be the mom,too

sister/brother who takes care of their sibling's and family

mom of a difficult kid

mom of a child with health issues

mom who feels like she's failing

You are not forgotten,you are not alone

As tomorrow is mother's day a salute and tribute to all the mothers and our mother earth

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY.