Musings of a Blogger

There was a man

2015-06-24T10:53:00.001-07:00

He is not worth writing or remembering but just apt for mentioning over drinks.

I exactly don't know how his story began, what he did and how he did? (if at all he did do something), to become such a dud! Dumb and dead too, or a fine fakery artist! Schemer he surely was and a manipulator of the manipulative system.

Where do I start... appearance, attitude, abilities, adolescence, or approach towards life and all of these? There's no beginning and no end, neither an opening nor a closure; so I better allow the narrative to remain so.

In life we can't think of taking a pause and put a comma at inconvenient times and places only to start afresh at the place and time of our choosing, it is strictly not done.

Either you are constantly moving forward or consistently looking for excuses to blame others for not rekindling the fire, that diminishing flame in you.

Sleep-Story

2014-12-24T10:07:00.003-08:00

Can one say with confidence that he/she has been a good sleeper!

Well, it depends on who is the respondent to such a query.

There is no need to define sleep and the benefits or pleasure it gives to all the living beings. There has been a lot of research on the subject with credible positive results of sleep. This narration just covers the personal experiences, as remembered and recollected while staying awake or being in a semi-sleep state. I know sleep is a routine matter of the body taking rest, but there are some sleepy issues that I either observed or experienced, mostly the later.

I don't remember how I slept during most of my early childhood years but certainly remember and recollect the issues with sleep during my high school and afterwards. These experiences with sleep must be more or less the same with everyone.

There was a time when the eyelids used to fall down after 8 PM as if the gravity is acting specifically on them or as if they were made of lead. Over the years as one grows old, the body goes into the state of sleep but the sleep keeps on evading the body leaving the mind to wander and ponder.

I remember waking up each day was an insurmountable trouble every morning, the battles between the mind and body to avoid attending the Physical Training (PT) period used to be epic with tricks from hiding under the cot, pulled-down mosquito net, in the locked-in cupboard and even washroom. Even the draw of running along with the girls couldn't motivate enough. I vividly remember sleeping without an interruption for full 18 hours in the dormitory on a holiday, skipping all meals. Those were the days of growing up in which even the examinations wouldn't have any negative effect on having a sound night's sleep. Sleep was such a favourite pastime that it got endorsed so in the school scrap/autograph books.

College was a different story with no change to the earthshaking-inertia to wake up early in the morning, except on a couple of occasions where meeting a romantic commitment used to take preference. The duration of night's sleep reduced as friends increased and more after I was presented with a motorbike. On one occasion my mother almost alerted the fire brigade when I didn't wake up to open the door despite repeated pressing of doorbell, calling and shouting and numerous phone calls to the landline after she returned from her evening walk. The difference here was only during exams, during which the oil in the lamps used to burn well beyond midnight to make good the whole year spent wandering. Sleep, despite the tensions of career was still sound and peaceful.

Come 'Military Training', here I was made to experience the real deprivation of sleep and also the importance of a hitherto fore matter-of-fact thing called sleep. The body and I realised some astonishing facts about sleep, that it needs no permission or preparation, place or peace - it just takes you over. Can anyone believe that you can sleep while walking, sleep with eyes open, sleep doing drill, doze-off on a potty, sleep in rain even with water drenched boots and soaking wet outfit!! There was a time when the only basic physiological need was sleep, sleep in the class, sleep through the demonstration, sleep on the bicycle, sleep in the bus, sleep through the guest lectures, sleep in the AC cinema..... all that was happening was sleep, sleep, sleep and more sleep. The trick was not getting caught to avoid punishments and night 'toughening' fall-ins by seniors. One incident which comes my mind was, in one of my class-sleep sessions the instructor asked to repeat the last sentence, to my surprise I did repeat and repeated correctly and got saved. My mind was probably ON while the body felt sleepy like Abhimanyu.

The story of sleep is too long to be covered in few paragraphs without making the reader fall asleep, hence I shall try to reduce my sleep-story to minimum narrative.

The sleep deprivation felt in the academy became a habit and got reduced to feeling content with a few hours of night sleep and many power-naps of 8-10 minutes during the day with a 1/2 hour siesta on sundays/holidays and some lucky days. The body clock was set to wake up without alarm at a particular time each morning, (I noticed a funny thing here that I wake up the same time each night at the same time and between 50 to 59 minutes of that hour). During the active and operational requirements I realised the extremities of body-tolerance wrt sleep. One can stay awake beyond 72 hours with the help of water, chocolates and occasional cigarettes as the sleepless hours progress. There were times when the whole nights were spent in snow and rain shivering with cold and numb limbs, sitting in a tactical position waiting for the mercenary dogs, only moving the fingers to be able to operate the weapon, radio and night vision device.

There were times pleasant too like the short nap after the morning physical exercises and especially the afternoon nap (THE SIESTA). I willingly did forego sleep to ride the motorcycle on traffic-free roads and on more than half-a-dozen occasions to drive 1000s of kilometers non-stop for 42 hrs and beyond.

With all kinds of experimentation with sleep my habit has settled to sleeping only for four hours at a stretch. And as part of that habit here I am awake at 2 AM and typing these lines.

Watching my sleeping wife's pretty face and postures is the perk.

Don't Dare To Demote Sleep To A Lazy Man's Pastime But At The Same Time Don't Wait Till The Ultimate-Sleep To Enjoy The Little Pleasures Of Life, If Need Be, Sacrifice Sleep To Catch The Small And Invaluable Moments Of Life.

e-Junk

2014-12-17T20:14:00.003-08:00

How many times have you read the same message or seen the same image in various media? Social media is slowly becoming more of a botheration than a source of information or entertainment. Unregulated or content posted without verification and self censor is becoming threat even to the security of individuals and society.

I wonder how a company like WatsApp could be making money without even displaying any advertisement. By selling the data about people and their behaviour? Quite possible. Just yesterday Home Minister mentioned about creation of a new agency to monitor the cyber content. There is an organisation (NTRO), already functioning in this domain, which could have been suitably enabled. It is typical of our method of governance that we keep creating new setups.

The 'Digital Junk' is ever-increasing. It is an art to keep the digital-self clean and clear of clutter.

Baksheesh & Inaam

2012-11-23T10:43:00.001-08:00

Kings are gone, but their practices are haunting India.

Come festival season or any perceived favour in the course of routine performance of any task, the ‘Baksheeh’ lurks around to embarrass you and remind that one isn’t as pauper as the seeker and neither as rich as the king to not mind parting the sum in that form. It becomes more painful when ‘Baksheesh’ is demanded as a right rather than received as a reward. People are so used to ‘Baksheesh & Inaam’, that they demand one even if they haven’t done anything extraordinary and even if the task performed is purely part of their duty and responsibility.

Government too has institutionalised this attitude of the ruler and the ruled among its employees by granting yearly bonus on some occasions. The kingdom continues, servitude and slavery institutionalised with no addition to efficiency.

Buy any big-ticket product, gatekeeper awaits ‘Baksheesh’.
Your wife delivers a child undergoing painful labour, everyone from hospital ward boy to your driver become expectant of and entitled to ‘Baksheesh’.
Answer your door bell before and after a major festival, every second person demands ‘Baksheesh’.
The list is looooooong.

Even if you don’t want to, the workers expect an ‘Inaam’ from you. One can’t just give any sum as ‘Baksheesh or Inaam’ and get-away with it easily… there are RATES which you have to adhere or be ready to receive ugly looks, lowered standard of service or just refusal to accept ‘Baksheesh’ as a display of character, self-respect and defiance. Other names to ‘Baksheesh & Inaam’ are… “Khushi se & Chai paani”.

There is no escape from this ritual in this part of the world. One can’t equate it with either bribing or begging, but can merely justify it as a convenience fee… aren’t we spoiled by those ‘Maharajas’ of the yore! I hate it, like I love it…. when I have to give and receive respectively.

Under the Carpet

2012-11-22T10:08:00.001-08:00

This post has got nothing to do with the most famous pass time of our political class and the second nature of the babus, hiding the facts and trying to present the irrelevant as the most important issue to the general public. It is about the most common occurrence in our houses.

“Anything which is not used for six months need not be purchased.”

The above statement should amply explain that I am referring to the habit of a household to keep on accumulating things which it seldom uses. We normally doesn’t realise how many once-used or unwanted and unessential things lie in our houses. We realise these useless things lying around, when we change our house or move to a different town.

Our memory too fails us in reminding that the thing which we go to purchase when required is already lying in some forgotten corner of the house. And even when we spot the thing, we might hesitate to dispose it thinking that that might be of some use sometime in future… which might never come.

Some websites offer us the opportunity to get rid off unwanted stuff, but our nature of holding things for some or the other reason including sentimental, holds us back from doing so. Some cultures or counter-cultures practice frugal living… I too think its time to do that to save money, effort and space in the house.

But I might not do so, because the fun of finding an unexpected thing lying in a corner of the house is nothing less than an exiting ‘DISCOVERY’.

Waking Up Early

2012-11-20T17:41:00.000-08:00

Since a couple of years I have been waking up at an exact time of the day everyday, which can qualify to be called 'early', the time of writing and posting these lines is no reference to the time of the day.

So, what is 'waking up early', is it a sign of disciplined living, a sign of ageing, indication of the previous day or night which was peaceful, a sign of adjusted and tuned body clock, just a habit, compulsion or need to attend to some task, or due to some tension, stress or disease condition! But whatever may be the reason, I realised it is good in more than one way.

You can enjoy life more than others, cause sleeping is such a waste of time (though sleeping used to be my favourite thing once).
Watch TV without disturbance from and or giving-away to the pressure of other members of the family.
Enjoy the play of colours and light in the morning sky.
Have a good walk in the calm surroundings, pure air and birds singing along.
Peacefully ponder on the not so peaceful thoughts criss-crossing your mind.
Be prepared to face the day in a more relaxed manner.
Lastly, retain the 'Right to Sleep' right away if you don't feel like doing any of the above...

I choose to sleep again today....!

Shouting is not sensible

2012-11-20T11:10:00.000-08:00

The Editor-in-Chief and News anchor for the news channel ‘TIMES NOW’ Mr Arnab Goswami maybe a very knowledgeable person, but he sure is one irritating and intimidating character. The news channel may have many viewers and it has managed to get those many number of people feeling repulsive whenever this man is seen on the screen.

Why does he SHOUT? Does he think that shouting is a quality and class act of presentation and the only way for attracting more TRPs! He may be having good understanding about the political issues, he definitely has a gift of gibber-jabber but he surely is and becomes irksome on some occasions. I have rarely seen him let the panellist on any discussion complete their points of view.

‘TIMES NOW’ belongs to the group that publishes the English newspaper ‘Times of India’, which is nothing but a popular and colourful tabloid in my view. The music on the TV channel too plays as if it is always readying the nation and the viewer for a war.

The channel surely needs a different theme, a change in presentation pattern and a good pleasant background music… a minimum to retain the viewers, if they can’t change their STAR ANCHOR!

Doodling

2012-11-20T09:41:00.001-08:00

Doodling is a decent word describing idleness, what does one do if there is nothing more important to do or has some time to wail away! In the past one just slept, watched TV, read or do petty tasks and attend to odds which get left out in the otherwise busy routine.

But with the city living and change in life styles it is far less expensive and convenient to seek entertainment and engagement on the internet. Social interaction may not be the aim always, the inherent human dumbness makes people to get fully engaged on social sites. The old timers and the uninitiated may call this addiction, but it is not. It is far more educative and informative, only if one knows and consciously engages in productive net surfing.

Multi-tasking is one thing which everyone must do to maximise and optimise the time and resources available in our immediate sphere of day-to-day living environment.

SUBSTANDARD AS A STANDARD

2012-03-30T06:38:00.000-07:00

Accepting anything 'Substandard as a Standard' has become a norm in India, any act, product, or service falling into the categorisation of "SUBSTANDARD" is sure to escape the attention of even the most critical of the eyes as the Substandardness is so ingrained in our thought, deed, action and psyche that it is a status Non-Grata in the Indian scheme of things.

National psyche is so tuned to accept Substandard that there is no system, administrative delivery mechanism, which raises an eyebrow for consistent delivery of atrocious quality of service. Indian Standards have over the years become a synonym for Substandard approach.

The all pervasive attitudes of "Chalta Hai and Jugaad" have ruined the moral fibre of the people. "Substandard as a Standard" is such an 'arrogant engulfing Black Hole', that there seems to be no escape from its trap at this point of time.

It seems that Substandardness has creeped into social etiquette affecting one and all with a feeling given to foreigners that the whole country is committed to the cause of Substandard like no other, even urgency to remove poverty, fight corruption, implementation of systems reform and issues of national security seem secondary. The condition in the country leaves us with a question that, 'Do we really understand what a Standard is!!'

Take the case of Indian made equipment or Made for India goods, here even multinational firms have learnt the tricks-of-the-trade and seems to have adopted well to the Indian Standards while producing goods meant for domestic consumption. Shoes especially the sports shoes are available in different sizes of intermediate foot length, height, width in most parts of the world except India. From Farm equipment, Military hardware, research and development institutes, organisation of a sports event to hospital services the Standard is nowhere to be seen. The sense of quality is just not there in the industry in India there by increasing the craze for imported goods. Everyone claims that their product is of 'international standard' without specifying or even probably understanding what does that world standard mean and its relevance to Indian realities. The substandardness in services is so much so that even the individuals with ill begotten money stash it away in foreign banks.

Indian indigenous capacity is ingeniously incapable to conceive or deliver anything of Standard.

It is not a harsh statement or said due to inferior feeling but a hard fact and out-of-frustration of inability to get a Standard product or service despite being willing to pay an extra amount for quality. Just look around you and be true to yourself without nationalistic fervour then you will come to know what kind of Substandard environment we all are living or accepted to live in and of any India made item and its Standard. Public transport(rail and road), the quality of roads, safety systems offered in our cars, preparedness for all types of unforeseen circumstances including war, matters of international relations, hospitals, medicines, postal service, electrical department, police, municipal governing bodies, schools (Private and government alike), research institutes and from soap to space including the food we get to buy is all Substandard. Here I have no intention to type some more issues of Substandard attitude of our society towards meeting or even thinking about the needs of differentlyabled, aged people, women and children. May be we are not taught during formal learning or upbringing to demand quality, our genetic setup too must have got modified to accept Substandard as a Standard.

The only Standard in India is Substandard... Live it, Love it, Loathe it but Lump it up.

It all comes to accepting Substandard stuff, the core question is... why nobody demands? why nobody questions? its an unsolved puzzle! Social activists and other nice hearted people with concern, for quality of life talk off big issues leaving the small but nagging issues neglected. The Substandard has become an omnipresent thing missed even by the 24x7 story hungry media. Maybe we all have accepted and resigned to the reality that there is no escape from Substandard as Standard. Maybe there is mental peace and calmness for soul in accepting and resigning without giving a fight and let things as they are where they are... by doing this we all Indians are a hundred thousand steps closer to attaining 'Nirvana'. Then one must not complain about anything and might jolly well accept the state of affairs as they are.

One wonders what the BIS or ISI is doing or has been doing to improve the Standards in the country, it seems grossly ill-prepared to cover all the concerns of quality and standards by the citizens in all the spheres of their life.

Lokpal Bill, whenever it sees the light of the day will also be delivered Substandardly. Bring it on... I am loving it. We have to include the Standards in the curriculum of education lest the children will grow up on the culture of Substandard and assuming the Substandard as a Standard will deliver to the society in a Substandard way when they are at a position to affect and execute.

Some trivia... 'Who is India's satellite and spacecraft manufacturer?' (we all know the answer, then try...) 'Who is India's leading manufacturer of safety pins and nail cutters?' (I bet no one knows the answer). Made in xyz country retains quality and no sooner its technology is transferred and it becomes Made in India it becomes Substandard. Lest we forget 'IST' the famous Indian Standard Time.

Accept the fact that India has Alchemical properties to convert any thing into Substandard, with an Eternal Patent to the formula of Substandardness.

If not confirming to any Standard gives us absolute freedom to be Indians, then so be it!

No Substandard comments Oops... No Standard comments will be accepted.

The silence of honest men seems somehow more dishonest than the lies of the dishonest.

On Free Speech

2012-02-03T12:18:00.000-08:00

I have a long awaited query and an unanswered question, still open for answers... "Is Democracy and too much Freedom a bane for India?"

Are we stumbling as a group of people living in a nation, which is formed by default on various societal, structural and systematic fault lines. The issues which come up each day in the national media are mostly trivial issues and provide comic relief to the majority of sane and discerning grey cells.

It is painful to see the freedom of the country, achieved with so many pains and sacrifice of many generations, going down the drain on pointless and petty issues. Democracy seems to be fast becoming the 'Demonstration of the Crazy'.

The situation even after so many decades of self-rule is failing to trigger a serious introspection in the administrative quarters those yield power and have the capability or responsibility to show a saner path. This is fuelling the support to strong views of state control, but who in the state in these situations can be trusted? or capable to do the 'tight-rope-walk' of allowing 'Free Expression' and ensuring free space available for 'Fair Expression', I wonder, the answer is none!

It is true that discretionary power and discerning capability about the decisions made are best left to the individual. Provided even the strongest of the strong views are kept to oneself and not try to impose or enforce on others against their will. Certainly the state is not expected to play a role in these decisions and try to censor what to see, whom to love, whom to pray and what to read? But, these are all the side-effects of electoral politics, which people fail to understand and allow themselves to be exploited. The state too is run by the individuals elected resultant of this political system which likes to play to the gallery. These leaders of men are also found to be cynical to the core on more than one occasions.

The state must concentrate on important issues and the issues of culture are better left for the time and society to decide. No one could stop invasion of our society by foreign religions, language, goods, culture, system, spread of consumerism, invasion of technology and even new festivities... Change can't be restricted with regressive and forceful impositions by a section of people, the majority of people will automatically stay away from something that is unpleasant or impractical in the current societal settings.

The state shouldn't decide and mustn't allow any disruption to anything(legally allowed) that is done at the individual level, more so, when it is an expression of art.

I also hoard a contrary opinion, that 'There can't be and shouldn't be anything that is absolutely free', "Lest it will become obsolete and will be abused obsessively".

The last para is open to discussion and debate in a different media...

In response and responsible reply to Sanjay Chetia's article.

CHILDREN ARE FLOWERS - TREAT THEM TENDER

2011-11-14T03:27:00.001-08:00

We all are children at heart, Never grow-up...

Keep doing things that you like most and give you happiness.

How I yearn to be a child again...

Missing childhood & being a child.

Children and their needs are commonly not taken seriously. The actions are termed either as childish, immature or kiddish. The actions and initiative of children also get restricted often with the excuse that "Do it when you grow-up" or "Your time has not come" and mostly "Stop! Don't do it", the children are not slaves they also deserve an explanation and reason for each command and direction of elders. No Nation can develop in an all round manner by neglecting the needs of children. The Human Development Index often covers only the measurable and tangible 'statistical facts' missing a lot of intangible things that go in making a child turn into a better human. Even the most learned and educated parents too try to rub on a child their experience and essence of life as understood by them.

There is no denying the fact that the foundations laid in the childhood will see the child in good stead in the life ahead, but foundations at the cost of losing the 'Joy of Growing-up', stifling the child with only academic skills and not aiming at all round development is highly criminal. A typical high school child's day starts with interrupted sleep to prepare to attend the school early in the morning to continued classes and tuition in the late evening, thus leaving no time to play and pursue other activities. The plight of the child in grades appearing a Year-end Public Exam and boarders is further worrisome. No wonder the stress levels and poor-result oriented suicides are on a rise. The eagerness of parents to provide the best of education to their children and lack of sincere and quality Government schools have lead to unprecedented mushrooming of a variety of schools....Premium Pre-school, Play School, Private School, Chain Public School, Charity Institutes, International School, Gurukul, Madrasa, Autonomous University, Deemed University...(Gender Specific Schools)...what not and what may!

The availability of a wide variety of educational institutes would've been good if they all showed some sincerity and maintained standards rather than aiming to make money. Most schools across all sections and varieties only barring a handful don't have adequate amenities like...clean toilets, safe drinking water, play grounds, gymnasium, swimming pool, laboratories, libraries, medical emergency handling equipment, planed fire escapes with equipment and trained qualified dedicated professionals among the least and last requirements. Most schools are run in hired residential complexes converted into classrooms. The list of under prepared schools is surprisingly exhaustive with a licensing system in place. The system as usual and as ever has been hood-winked by the influential businessmen seeking school permits.

Government schools are mostly an apology to the schooling system and the situation is more grave than it is thought to be with most of the children having access to the education only by means of a Government school. The RTE Bill (Right to Education part of 'Sarva Siksha Abyan') passed without improving the capability and capacity is doing no good than adding to already confused state of affairs. The menace of teacher absenteeism in all Government schools mostly in remote areas is counter-productive all the good the Government wants to do in the education sector as reforms.

The scholastic way of preparing children for life is the most skewed approach of all methods of preparing a child for greater responsibilities in life. The whole environment from parents, family to the society is only giving importance and recognition to the marks or grades obtained in the formal education. Emphasis on scores leads to immoral activities and practices at a very tender age. The other options for taking-up a different and alternate career other than the popular trio of 'Doctor-Engineer-Government Employee' are still at a nascent stage having less acceptability as a viable livelihood means. The few options available in Vocational and alternate occupations are still looked down upon fearing societal scrutiny and peer pressure. Parents can't be totally blamed for pushing their children through the beaten path as there are inevitable comparisons drawn measuring the success based on pay packets, Government job, software job and the associated status of the post in the society. The degree attained or obtained also becomes a benchmark in demanding and denying dowry. Girls do higher studies to find a prospective groom with heavy pay packet or foreign job. In the bargain there remains no difference in 'Studying and Education'.

All the above situations kill the independent thought process in the children of taking up different options available to pursue a career. Here it is pertinent to mention that a mid-career shift and change of career is seen as a taboo in India, most young men take up the most convenient career and settle in that career for life, even if they realise at a later stage that it is no longer enjoyable to continue. The system as a whole doesn't allow a child to evolve into a thinking human being, he remains just a contributor to the GDP and does no value addition to the society and country. The induced and infused orthodox approach and thinking towards a career options is evident in the research capabilities of our universities and lack of real scientific temperament in the society. The same set of individuals perform and achieve splendid results under a different system and set of conditions in many foreign countries. I have less exposure to other systems of education but strongly feel that something is still not right and much needs to be done in our scheme of things for children to make them understand life in the right perspective.

Talking of other aspects in growing-up of a child apart from education are many more issues routinely ignored by all. Parents should not pamper their children or be overbearingly protective in bringing them up. Parents don't prepare children for the uncertainties of life, they hide bitter facts about the complex journey of life and relationships leading to children becoming weak individuals seeking support in terms of unreliable friends, falling prey to bad habits, early psychological break-downs and making them meek individuals. The over protective attitude coupled with confusion due to exposure various elements through social media contacts may either lead a child to adopting radical ideas or falling prey to unsocial elements and their activities. Parents must always ensure that their wards are aware of the right path of doing things, be present as guide and correct when necessary.

I must also mention the other enemies of childhood here, Child Labour, Abusive Parents, Sexual Abuse (sexual awareness is still an untouchable aspect with most boys and girls approaching puberty and young people their acts of promiscuity with out having proper understanding). Trying to create 'Child Prodigy' of 'One Act Wonder Kids' had almost taken an alarming situation in the recent past. Fashion Industry is another culprit in inducing children especially young girls to the odds and adult things early in life.

Most of us don't take the responsibility of parent as an important aspect of life than treat it as mere accident or vocational hazard of being married. Parents must plan and produce children when they are ready for it and just not for the heck of it or fun of it. Indian parents spend family holidays and free time either sleeping, watching TV or visiting relatives and roaming around religious places. The same amount of family holiday time could be well spent in introducing children to the aspects of life not taught as part of curriculum in schools. visiting museums, historical places, industrial trips, village communities, adventure activities and eco-tourism are just few among the suggested activities.

An important aspect of humans as per my understanding is pertinent to understand and follow in this perspective.

"A human seldom changes after 13 years of age...change he will only for a short duration under influence of either or OR combined effect of

1. Death of a near and dear one,

2. Under financial burden and

3. Ill-health".

It is needless to say that a child has to be moulded and prepared for life much before we all think and allow him or her enjoy childhood before that... A DELICATE BALANCE TO ACHIEVE THOUGH!

Soldier mostly unknown & routinely forgotten!

2011-08-18T02:43:00.000-07:00

Soldier mostly unknown & routinely forgotten!

Entrapment

The title may sound misleading but I am sure of attributing some meaning to it by the end of this piece of writing. I am not talking of a war hero or who died a hero's death in any action (be it against external enemy or internal insurgents) but of those who are alive and kicking, true in every sense of it!

Soldiers are solitary individuals (I won´t say souls because of negative connotations), lonely posts, mountains, forests, flowers, brooks, glaciers, deserts and all the areas without a whisper of human life appeal to him as his own. Those are the areas where one can truly be an "I am I".

Soldiers are simple beings happy to get basic facilities and joys of life. Their humble backgrounds keep them grounded close to reality always. They are alienated from many walks of life due to the long periods of separation from immediate family, friends and society. But with improvement in communication facilities they are not insulated from the changes in the society. Soldier misses many aspects of life which are taken for granted like, coming home each evening to share with dear wife & children, many social occasions, fashion changes, elections, and changing the course of things around by mere presence. The services do prepare a man for these rigorous by seasoning, conditioning, insulating or sometimes just keeping you busy. An interesting point is of `Rum & Cigarette Allowance´, it was introduced by the British at subsidised rates to keep the soldiers amused and away from the daily happenings around. It still is doing its bit!

Travel always teaches a man many things by providing opportunities of first-hand experience of many regions, cultures, languages, systems and builds tolerance thus making a man mature in his outlook of life. The profession of arms is a great equaliser; soldiers forget caste, language, colour, religion by intermingling and making thick friends for life. Uniform obliterates the importance given to individuals on acquired skills in the society, all are comrades first and specialists later.

Soldiers are mostly misunderstood by the civil society, there is a major misconception that there is no work unless there is war. Even family members cannot understand the real grind which he undergoes as part of routine. The concept of maintaining standing professional armies is as ancient as human history, but choosing soldiering as a long term career option is only as old as the nation state form of governance. It is a national requirement to have an army for peaceful progress of the nation without interruptions, be it voluntary or conscripted. Soldiers are coolly forgotten and remembered only during dire situations. No nation can progress without a strong army and routinely forgetting the contribution of soldiers. Army, Navy and Air force are all the same for the conditions of a soldier only with little difference in culture.

Soldiering is not an easy job; it involves apart from physical requirements various skills. He needs to always update his awareness about ever evolving military tactics and technical advancements, know well of the type of terrain of operations, implications of changing Geo-political scenarios, innovative ways of out-smarting the enemy. The change & adaptability is continuous in the life of soldiers with changing work place, environment, job nature, level of responsibility, operational demands by topping it all is understanding the demanding boss. A soldier is a student for life his learning curve is up always, more so in case of preparing for and leading a well adjusted post-retirement life.

Soldiers retire relatively young compared to his civil counterparts with emerging responsibilities at the family front. All the skills of a soldier could be better utilised for progress of the nation with right kind of post-retirement avenues. The problems continue while in service also with the regular apathy of government officials and ever increasing red tape. He is taken for granted by all in not responding timely, being fully aware of his limited leave period.

The real sense of being a soldier is best understood by none other than the soldier himself. One has to be a soldier to understand one.

Once a soldier will remain a soldier for life, with all that openness, straightforwardness and yet a child at heart (Dil to batcha hai!). No one can understand the simple pleasures of life like a hot water bath after 90days, seeing lights after months of dark nights, a working mobile to speak home, the lovely letters from near ones and many more SIMPLE PLEASURES are only enjoyed by soldiers... one needs to maintain an immaculate image in the societal glare & temptations for the larger community of soldiers.

"In a play, everyone wants to be a soldier but reality shuns him as a lesser brother of fate!" - Gurucharan Singh Bais(Bhai).

An Independent Nation under Seize!

2011-08-15T03:49:00.000-07:00

An Independent Nation under Seize!

Independent and Seize mentality! don't get confused I am not referring to the Youngest Nation in the world, "South Sudan" which became Independent on July 9th 2001 but want to mention about the present day "India" which became Independent 64 years back and celebrating it´s 65th Independence day today the 15th August of 2011.

We `The Independent Indians´ are very good at Scaring the Clown in all walks of our life. The days preceding the Independence Day are spent building-up the Tempo of the Nation in the form of preparations by Police, Armed Forces, Intelligence Agencies and Administration not in Nationalistic fervour but FEAR! yes fear and caution of many unwanted incidents of violence leading to creation of a Seize mentality among all. Think of all the negative effect it has on the minds of young children.

The peaceful days of celebrations are over! are they really over or we are becoming too over cautious as a society and nation? There would be reports of terrorist attacks at all places, important roads and places are closed for people, entry restricted to public places, people thoroughly searched for banned objects in the most expected manner, many travel plans amended or cancelled due to rescheduling, people avoiding markets & cinemas, even the security forces restrict their administrative movement thus reducing their footfalls in insurgent infested areas also, all this adds to a fearful peace and calm in the society rather than creating conducive atmosphere for joyous and pleasant Independence Day celebrations.

The crowds joining any flag hoisting ceremony be it at Delhi Red fort, schools, government offices, cantonments and even residents´welfare associations all across the country is either nominated, detailed and seldom enthusiastic & voluntary! People prefer to update a status message on social web sites and watch TV programmes than physically be part of the celebrations, we must do an introspection as to the reasons of this kind of disassociation to one of the important days of the country.

The reasons probably are.....I must mention at the cost of being cynical---------

The life of a common man has not changed in all these years of Independence.
`Tryst with Destiny´ has remained just a zephyr.
India is a developing country, or develoooooooooooooping country till eternity.
64 years are not less to change the course of things in a country. Countries ravaged in world wars, attacked with nuclear bombs, torn by historic differences and tsunamis are up and ahead of us in all terms.
The Fruits of Development & Open Economy are still to reach all levels of the society.
The policies of the state are yet to become INCLUSIVE in all true sense and sincerity.
The governance does not recognise the need to have strong, well equipped, well paid, well integrated Armed forces which need to be put to use judiciously. National apathy in understanding the losses suffered by the service personnel and their family members.
Existence of Big fat unresponsive Bureaucracy.
Plan for extravagance of Nuclear weapons & Moon mission, when millions are still poor, illiterate and unemployed.
Despots ruling under the garb of Democracy.
Demonstrations and destruction both by ethical and petty causes.
Family dramas of first political family and Political dharmas of political parties.
Insurgencies, statehood demands and external supports.
Feudal societal system and VIP culture.

Poor Common man still doesn't know why and what actual independence means.

True that we are Great Nation of Great People with undying spirit to move on with life, in the midst of Mythical Unity in Diversity!

Here we are celebrating the Independence Day to give an Independent Nation to the Children of Independence.....

Musings of a Blogger

2011-07-31T18:06:00.000-07:00

Oh! here I am at last QWERTYing away my first blog. I've although written comments on a few Blog posts earlier, this is my first publication. Let me start by dealing with the meaning of my title; "MUSINGS OF A BLOGGER"

Musings = A period of thinking carefully & of course deliberately too (Completed by telling people about it).

Blogger = A person giving out record of his experience, opinion on a website through internet.

Here, I must ponder a little on why do people BLOG! It is the nature of humans to feel important, the need to be heard is the driving force for blogs. This may not be the only aim but it certainly is the basic and common trigger for blogs. It in someway is like maintaining a diary for few addicted bloggers. But the importance of blogging will certainly reduce with availability of other avenues for people to express, like Facebook, Twitter, Google+, Google Buzz, Foursquare, good old Orkut etc., Every experience is unique in it's own way and reactions/feelings to any given situation with the given variables & circumstances are also one of their kind. People would like to share these in various forms, blogging is one of THOSE.

Now, let us see what are those "THOSE",

- Sharing with a colleague at work place, provided the mental and personal wavelengths match!

- Discuss with your friend, I mean close enough to talk any rubbish.

- Just let ought a sign of sigh on Twitter, as the word limit doesn't allow you the lavish expression of thoughts.

- Leave a post on the Facebook wall, with friend list including all (Family, Friends, Colleagues, Foes).

- Join a political or social service organisation and vent out your ideas through various means on hapless and helpless civilians.

- Write a letter(I miss that simple document these days) to a person who is willing to receive that crap and reply with equal patience.

- Letter or email again to any newspaper column, not being sure of it's fate of publishing.

- Print pamphlets, posters to distribute among people, very rare act of desperation to be heard!!!

- Publish or rather buy a whole page of a popular newspaper, not uncommon these days as many sponsored acts of shamelessness getting official support of political parties.

- BLOGGING is one of THOSE... with the following advantages:-

+ We can type any lenght.

+ Publish it to prowl on hapless netizens instantaneously.

+ Write on what ever we want whenever & wherever we desire...

+ It's not charging you anything.

- The list of THOSE(both the means to fulfill the need to be heard and advantages of blogging) can continue limited to one's imagination only........

I, for my part too is writing this to get out of my boredom... or else what can explain this insomniac act of typing(QWERTYing) a silly blog at 4am in the morning in Africa!!!!

Having said that, it doesn't absolve the responsibility of the readers and my right to some decent return comments....