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Bombshell Beauty Series of eBooks is Complete

2013-08-23T09:26:00.000-07:00

Thanks to everyone who has read, and shared with their friends, my series of eBooks. I really appreciate your support, as I toe my way into something new. The final novella in the series was published this week; along with Bombshell Blogroll (#1) and Redirect (#2), Permalink is available for $0.99 your Nook and Kindle. Click here for links to purchase!

If you've read the books, I'd love to hear what you think - rate and review on either Amazon.com or BarnesandNoble.com. The books are also lendable, so feel free to lend them to your friends and family!

Plus Size Style - Everyday Bombshell

2013-08-22T05:00:00.000-07:00

This post contains affiliate links for Gwynnie Bee.

Land's End has never, really, been on my radar. To be honest, I usually get Land's End confused with L.L. Bean. To me, they both fall under that outdoorsy Eddie-Bauer umbrella of clothes that are not quite stylish. (If you're a fan of these stores, don't yell at me...I'm about to admit I was wrong, ok?)

So when I was choosing items for my Gwynnie Bee Closet (that's what they call the online queue for the items you want them to send you), I was shocked to click on this cute dress and then find out it was from Land's End:

Image from GwynnieBee.com

I loved this fit and flare dress in the chevron print. LOVED it. It fit perfectly and was so flattering. The waist line was just above my own natural waist, without being an empire-style (which I am really not into right now). I wore the dress twice, once casually and once a little dressier for work.

Casual Look - with a flower headband

Dressier look with a floral pin

I gave some serious thought to buying this dress through the Gwynnie Bee purchase option (you can buy items that you have at home with you at a discounted price), but thought I should probably not be so impulsive when a ton of other cute items are on their way to me.

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Plus Size Style- Everyday Bombshell

2013-08-20T05:00:00.000-07:00

This post contains 2 affiliate links for Gwynnie Bee.

I received my first package from Gwynnie Bee last Monday- and it was as thrilling as I'd hoped upon receipt. I was thinking about making a video of myself opening up each package from here on out and sharing my initial impressions of what I receive. Is that something you would be interested in seeing? If so, let me know in the comments.

Anyway, back to the first package. I received two dresses and a blazer-which you will see in subsequent posts. But the first thing I opened, and the first thing I wore, was this Vicky Tiel Jersey Wrap Dress:

Image from GwynnieBee.com

I'd never heard of Vicky Tiel before, so I did a little research (i.e. typed her name in Google) and found out that she designs for the Home Shopping Network. I'm a QVC fan, myself, so no wonder she was unfamiliar.

The print on this dress is incredibly vibrant - as you can see in the close-up shot with my necklace. When I first unwrapped the dress, my first thought was, "Whoa, that's a print!" It's a little too primary for my taste (although I realize green and black are not technically primary colors - you get the gist of what I'm saying). I wanted to ground the print a little, which is why I chose a heavy black neclase and black wedge sandals.

This dress is one of the very few true wrap dresses I've ever worn, and I felt like it was legitamately scaled to a plus size body because the hole for the wrap was higher on the torso than they sometimes can be. This made for a really flattering placement of the sash.

I loved the flutter sleeves, which surprised me. I hate those trendy 'cold-shoulder' sleeves that are inexplicably all over plus size clothes right now but these flutters were very feminine. I also liked the high-low hem on the skirt. It wasn't obnoxious, just a nice touch.

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Battle of the Body Shapers

2013-08-14T08:06:00.000-07:00

For every body, there is a shaper on the market that can lift, separate and smooth whatever it is you have going on. I notoriously (and vocally) dislike most shapers, especially Spanx. My issues with Spanx are the cost (too high) the comfort (too low) and the results they produce on my body (not enough to justify the cost or the comfort issues). So I've been testing three body shaping alternatives to Spanx over the past month.

I prefer shaping camis because they allow me to wear my own bra (as opposed to smushing my cleavage down) and because they allow for easy access when using the restroom. Because I am not coordinated enough to deal with that little slit in full body suits. You know what I'm talking about.

Let me say a few things before I get into the reviews. One, the opinions below reflect how these shapers worked on my body. Your body is different and you might have a different experience with them. If so, let me know in the comments so other readers can see a different perspective. For reference, I'm 6"1' and wear a size 18/20 (or 2X) at most retailers.

Two, I'm not an avid body shaper wearer. I have lumps and rolls, but prefer to mask them with the cut of my clothes - not body shapers. So I'm no expert. I don't expect a body shaper to make my size 18 frame suddenly look like a 14. I do expect them to smooth over my rolls while allowing me to breathe comfortably for 8 hours with minimal sweating. Too much to ask? We shall see!

The Contender: Torsette Camisole from Full Beauty*
Cost: $34.99
Size: 1X (per sizing chart online waist: 34-37.5" hips: 42.5-46")
Construction: 92% Nylon, 8% Spandex

*This product was provided to me for review by Full Beauty

Pros

Light, breathable material was soft on the skin and didn't make me feel like a stuffed sausage.
Long length makes this a good option for taller women, like myself - although I don't think it would be a problem for petite ladies, either.
Did a great job smoothing back fat.

Cons

Created armpit fat on me because the garment was very short from shoulder to bust.
No banded bottom, so the garment rolled up.
Very light smoothing over the torso, so my stomach roll was still in full effect.

Verdict: This is a good option for summer when you're looking for light smoothing that won't make you sweaty. If back fat is a main concern, this is a terrific option. I would wear this with pants or a skirt, rather than a dress, to minimize issues with it rolling up.

The Contender: Smooth Vixen Body Briefer by Rhonda Shear Intimates*
Cost: $25
Size: 1X (per sizing chart online: waist 37-39", hips 46-48")
Construction: 92% Nylon, 7% Spandex, 1% Cotton

*This product was provided to me for review by Rhonda Shear Intimates

Pros

Provides medium slimming through tummy and rear end
Handled back fat well
Good option for petite women

Cons

Scratchy fabric.
Was tiny...very, very tiny despite the fact that the measurements on the website's size chart were actually larger than the Comfort Choice measurements.
Too short for my torso.
The legs were even tighter and tinier than the rest of the garment.

The Verdict: Admittedly, it's hard to get a really accurate read on this body shaper because it was too small for me. The size chart is a major issue for this garment because it's wildly inaccurate. This might be a good option for a petite woman, but I recommend sizing up.

The Contender: Maidenform Dream Torsette from Avenue

Cost: $34.99

Size: 2XL (per sizing chart online: dress size 18/20, 45-50" waist)

Construction: 80% Nylon, 20% Elastene

I bought this one myself

Pros:

Seams along the sides provide good support in torso
Banded bottom keeps garment from rolling up
Soft fabric
Medium to strong slimming
Very wide straps

Cons:

Seams are visible under very tight or shear fabrics
Sizing chart is somewhat confusing
Very wide straps

The Verdict: For me, this shaper was the all-around best. I think it would work for a variety of shapes and heights. The wide straps can be a pro or a con, depending on what type of bra and clothing you're wearing with this garment. I ordered a size 2X knowing very well that I wear a size 18/20 in Avenue's clothes - but for someone who is less familiar, the chart could be more clear.

There you go - a few alternatives to Spanx. What do you think about body shapers? Do you wear them? Love them/loathe them? What's your go-to style and brand?

Plus Size Style- Everyday Bombshell

2013-08-14T06:24:00.000-07:00

I got my hair cut (again)! Shorter and shorter it goes, though I think this is the limit. Not much left to do than a Beyoncé-style pixie cut which...ain't happenin'. For as much as I love having long hair - and I'm sure I will again - this shorter, kicky style feels fresh and fun. Dan's not quite on the same page (he's a classic "I like long hair" kind of guy) but I know he likes the fact that I feel spunkier.

Not sure why I don't look happier in this shot...

I sure feel happy today!

I know this necklace doesn't 'match' my outfit, but

I think it 'goes.' I especially like having a

pop of color up near my face.

These shoes make the outfit for me - too bad they're

a 6" wedge that will probably only make it to lunch time.

Unless I break an ankle, in which case they won't make

that long!

Have owned this bracelet for over a year and have never worn it.

I bought it at Camp Fireside's gift shop while visiting

friends there over the 4th in 2012. Random!

The Outfit:

Gray and raspberry dress- gift from LucieLu
Necklace - Patina
Purple belt - came with a dress from Old Navy
Leather bracelet - Camp Fireside
Floral wedges - Free Press by way of Nordstrom Rack

New Partnership with Gwynnie Bee

2013-08-13T06:28:00.000-07:00

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I'm excited to announce a new partnership that I'm launching with Gwynnie Bee. If you're unfamiliar with the company, the closest analogy I can come up with is that Gwynnie Bee is like the Netflix of plus size clothing. It's the ultimate plus size clothing exchange - a veritable revolving closet door that lets you try on new styles, or colors, or designers without having to make the commitment of a purchase.

I first started hearing about Gwynnie Bee from some of my favorite, most-trusted bloggers like Kimberly, Tina, Reah and Amanda. The fact that these women were raving about the service got my attention. So I looked into subscribing...and then didn't.

My logic at the time was this: Why would I spend money to rent clothes instead of buying them? I don't part with my clothing dollars thoughtlessly, and I couldn't wrap my mind around spending money...to not own something. (Forget about the fact that I'm an avid Netflix subscriber...I wasn't drawing the parallel at the time!)

Fast forward a few months and here's where I am:

Bored out of my mind with my closet
Disappointed by the last few clothing purchases I've made - both online and in-store
Wanting to expand the designers that I wear, but unsure about sizing and quality in lines I'm not familiar with

That's when Gwynnie Bee made sense to me. I want to experiment more - both with trends and my core style. I want to become familiar with plus size designers that are new-to-me so I can support the community with future purchases outside of my go-to retailers. I want to infuse what's in my closet with the life of a few new items - without shelling out a ton of money on trendy or seasonal pieces.

If you're right there with me, give the free 30-day trial with Gwynnie Bee a try. See how it goes and share your experience with me.

If you're not ready yet, I get it (see previous comment about not signing up right away, either). Gwynnie Bee is providing me with a free membership for the next few months so I can tell you about my experience with the service. I'll be honest with you about what I like and what I think needs to be improved. If absolutely nothing else, I hope you'll enjoy seeing the new outfits I put together with my clothes and what arrives from Gwynnie Bee!

Casting Call- Twin Cities Plus Size Models

2013-08-12T07:57:00.000-07:00

Happy Monday, Bombshells! Hope you had a great weekend and are geared up for the week ahead. If you're a plus size woman who currently is a model, or would like to dip your toes into plus size modeling, I've got a great opportunity for you.

Luxe Bridal's plus size wedding gowns will be featured in the Twin Cities Bridal Show's runway show. This is a pretty big deal because for the past few years, the runway show refused to include plus size wedding gowns in their lineup. They've finally seen the light and are creating a more inclusive, exciting experience for the Twin Cities brides who attend the show.

I was there last year, as a live model for Luxe. This was an innovative way that the boutique's owner, Shayna Clute, came up with for creating a lot of buzz about her boutique while also providing something special for the plus size brides who were visiting the bridal fair.

Getting glammed up by Laura Westrem Artistry

Modeling on a mini-runway in the Luxe booth.

Like I said, I had a really fun time and met some terrific people at the show. And it was also really gratifying to see the plus size brides - many of whom had that look on their face that said, "My excitement over wedding planning is diminishing because I don't see any dresses that will fit me" - light up when they came across the Luxe booth.

If you're interested, here's the information you'll need for the Twin Cities Bridal Show casting call:

New Twin Cities Bridal Show - Show Fashion Show at the RiverCentre - St. Paul, MN on September 22, 2013 and March 2, 2014 and We are looking for 10 female plus size models size 12-24 height 5'7" to 5'9". Opportunity gives access to photographs and video. Pay for the Twin Cities Bridal Show is $100. The casting call will be on Wednesday August 14, 2013 from 6:00PM to 8:00PM at the Hilton Minneapolis Airport, 3800 American Boulevard East, Bloomington, MN 55425. To RSVP for the casting call, please contact Bruce Vassar one of The Wedding Guys at bruce@theweddingguys.com

And check out Luxe Bridal's blog for lots of helpful information on wedding planning and plus size wedding fashions.

Plus Size Style - Everyday Bombshell

2013-08-06T16:55:00.000-07:00

If you follow me on my author Facebook page, you know I'm working hard on writing the last installment of the Bombshell Beauty series of eBooks. There are a few different ways I get myself in the right mental frame of mind to write - music plays a big role, and so does where I do the writing. I've been writing a lot about one particular character and realized that today, I dressed like her!

I haven't worn this City Chic tunic much this summer -

I'm still not quite sure it's me.

I love this inexpensive statement necklace. It adds the perfect

touch of my favorite color.

When I don't know which gold earrings to grab,

I usually go for this pair from Lia Sophia.

The Outfit:

Tunic - City Chic

Leggings - Lane Bryant

Belt - gifted from Torrid

Sandals - Via Spiga

Bracelet - Macy's

Necklace - Len Druskin

Earrings - Lia Sophia

As Seen on Twin Cities Live - DIY Beauty Solutions from Pinterest

2013-08-01T14:38:00.000-07:00

Today's segment on Twin Cities Live goes down as one of my favorites. We had lots of laughs while creating some do it yourself solutions for beauty issues like quick-drying your manicure, making an olive oil and lemon scrub, and pinch hitting for eyeliner.

Wow! Gotta love still shots!!

I wanted to wear something bright and summery, but sometimes light colors don't read well on TV. So I paired my chevron-print yellow sundress with a nautical striped shrug. The overall effect was just what I was going for.

The Outfit:

Yellow sundress- Wal-Mart

Striped cardigan - Forever 21+

Cuff bracelet- Forever 21

Platform sandals (can't see them, but they're there!) - Via Spiga by way of Nordstrom Rack

Plus Size Style - Everyday Bombshell

2013-07-26T06:58:00.000-07:00

Looks, guys! Something you haven't seen in...wow. A long time.

Me! In a skirt! Not a dress!

These Franco Sarto wedges were such a great find

at Norstrom Rack - $5!

Awkward angle, but I wanted to give you a close-up

of this flower pin. I love it.

Hope you guys have a great weekend, ahead!

The Outfit

Striped tee-shirt - Old Navy

Coral silk skirt - Talbots

Wedges - Franco Sarto

Pink flower pin - Lily Star boutique (at Rosedale Mall)

Plus Size Style- Everyday Bombshell

2013-07-22T17:33:00.000-07:00

Entirely by accident, Wal-Mart of all stores has become the unofficial sponsor of my casual summer wardrobe. This is the fourth dress I've picked up from one of my least favorite places on earth - entirely by happenstance. I had to stop at Wal-Mart in a small town near our vacation home at the beginning of the month...and I came out with a pizza, a gallon of water, windshield wipers and this dress.

Worn to a casual summer BBQ at a friend's house.

The necklace is kind of funny - it says Best. My friend Jackie

has one that says Friends. It's a grown-up BFF necklace!

The Outfit:

Strapless dress- Wal-Mart

Black belt- Gap Outlet

BFF necklace - Jewel Kade

Platform sandals - Via Spiga

Floral bag- Kate Spade

As Seen on Twin Cities Live - Pretty Now, Pretty Later

2013-07-16T18:04:00.000-07:00

I was on Twin Cities Live today, talking about a few of my absolute favorite products. The segment concept was this: Products that will make you look great now, and even better later. So short term and long term results.

I showcased products from some of my all-time favorite brands, like Epitome Skincare, Greenbody Greenplanet, and dpHUE. Each of these brands holds a revered spot in my beauty aresenal for living up to their product claims, being MN-based beauty companies AND female owned companies.

For some reason, I fumbled the word "peptides" during our chat. Do you ever do that? Totally mispronounce a word you use all the time? Anyway.... Elizabeth and I got up such a good chat that we didn't get to talk about the last two products I'd brought with me. They're my long term and fast-fixes for dealing with acne.

AcneFree 24 Hour Acne Clearing System for Sensitive Skin

This product line is comparable to Pro-Activ....I swear! My husband has acne and he used Pro-Active, obtaining great results with his skin. But he wanted something that was less expensive and more readily available than the specialty Pro-Activ system - and started using AcneFree's system. It's a fraction of the cost, is available at Wal-Mart, Target and Wal-greens - and works like crazy! I don't have acne but when a blemish pops up, I reach for this three-step system and see results within days.

Sigma E25 Blending Brush

When I do get a blemish, covering it up is the first order of business. And I always used to go about it all wrong...I'd dip my finger into concealer and try to pat it onto the spot. Or I'd load up a flat concealer brush and try to tap the product onto my skin. But after watching this video by makeup artist Lisa Eldridge, I started using her method. Gently swirl concealer on with a blending brush and then carefully diffuse the edges. Such a difference! I like the E 25 Blending Brush by Sigma Beauty because their quality rivals the industry standard for brushes (Mac) but the price point is great. Plus this blending brush has the perfect amount of bristles loosely packed into the head. (And it's also another MN-based company!).

For the show, I wore a maxi dress from Wal-Mart; a striped cropped cardigan from Forever 21; a beaded necklace from Mark; and sandals from Via Spiga.

View more of my Twin Cities beauty segments here.

Ask Bombshell Beauty

2013-07-10T07:47:00.000-07:00

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I received a really great question from Bombshell reader, Hanna. She emailed:

Hey, love your blog and style... I work as a lighting technician in the broadcasting/tv/film industry, which isn't exactly a desk job, I work hard with mostly men, but one thing I struggle with is still having a feminine style while wearing something that I can work in. So any advice for the plus size girls that don't have a desk job or maybe just out volunteering for the day and want to be stylish...

In college, I majored in Theater (a surprisingly useful degree, even if you don't wind up working in the industry!) and spent a semester crawling around in the catwalks above a stage at the University of MN, adjusting lights and filters. Clothes had to be practical, functional and not get in the way of work. That meant:

No dresses
Nothing low-cut or low-rise
Flat shoes with a rubber sole
No dangly accessories that could snag on equipment

If you have a non-desk job with a dress code similar to this, here's how I would play up your feminine side while staying work appropriate.

Stretchy Tops that Cinch Your Waist
In an active job, it's important that your clothes move with you. But that doesn't have to translate into boring tee shirts or oversized cotton tunics. Choose stretchy fabrics with details that accent your waist - this will highlight your Bombshell curves.

The Knot Front Stripe Top from eShakti creates a curvy, feminine silhouette at the waist while calling attention to your pretty face - thanks to the plunging neckline, which features a built-in cami for extra coverage.

Peplum is still a big trend this season, and it works really well on plus size figures. I like the Mirror Print Peplum Top from City Chic because it features wide straps that will accommodate an everyday bra - and the neckline is open but not too bare.

A fitted top pairs well with loose-fitting pants, like the Knit Waist Capri from Maurices. I think the drawstrings at the end of the capris are a cute detail, too. I, often, dislike pants that have a tie at the waist - so I usually just tuck the strings into the top of the waistband. Does anyone else do that, too?

Tops with Built-in Details
If it's a challenge to accessorize your outfits - it won't work to have long necklaces getting stuck on machinery or a wristful of bracelets snagging on equipment - then wear tops that create the illusion of accessories.

The Betty Bib Top from Sealed with a Kiss Designs is not only comfortable - seriously, their shirts are so soft - but it's adorable. I love the polka dot inset!

I think embroidery is such a pretty, summery way to infuse a top with visual interest. I like this one from eShakti because the gathers right under the bust help define curves.

Flowing tops work best with fitted pants - and in my opinion, the best plus size denim is still being created by Lane Bryant. I'm a fan of the Straight Leg Jeans with T3 Technology because the fabric isn't stiff - it moves with you. And the higher waist ensures that bending over won't reveal anything extra!

Now Available: Redirect (#2 in the Bombshell Beauty Series)

2013-06-28T07:26:00.000-07:00

The second installment of the Bombshell Beauty Series is available...and would make great reading this weekend! Everyone I've hear from (which I love, by the way!) has told me what a quick read it was, and that the cliffhanger has them anxiously awaiting the final installment.

If you need to get caught up on the adventures of plus size blogger, Elizabeth Weston, and her work/life/love - start with Bombshell Blogroll ($1.99, Amazon & Barnes and Noble). Then download Redirect ($0.99 for a limited time, Amazon & Barnes and Noble) to continue her story.

Connect with me on my official website: www.sarabartlett.net to stay up on the latest news regarding book releases and more. You can also join me to talk about books, inspiration and more on my author Facebook page. And finally, if you're on GoodReads - let's connect there, too!

To get you started on Redirect, here's Chapter 1 in its entirety:

This is a work of fiction. Names, characters, places and incidents are products of the author’s imagination or are used fictitiously and are not to be construed as real. Any resemblance to actual events, locales, organizations or persons, living or dead, is entirely coincidental.
Copyright © 2013 Sara Bartlett All rights reserved

CHAPTER 1

Elizabeth Weston stood in the empty living room, keys in hand, watching the sun come up over Mears Park. She’d spent her last night in the downtown St. Paul apartment, sleeping on an air mattress with a Snuggie blanket. The place she’d called home for the past five years was now empty. This had been her first big-girl apartment, no roommate - the one she’d rented after landing a job at Everyday Electronics. She’d thrown countless dinner parties with her friends, watched a million movies from the couch with her boyfriend, and had written her very first blog post for Bombshell Beauty within this apartment. And now, it was time to leave.

Elizabeth picked up her overnight bag and a tote that contained the rolled-up mattress, Snuggie and her favorite pillow. She set keys to the front door and mailbox on the kitchen counter and, with one last look at her home, stepped out into the hallway. The door shut behind her, loud and final.

I feel sadder than I expected to, Elizabeth thought, as she trudged to the elevator and pressed the Down button. As she waited for the elevator car to arrive on her floor, she heard another door in the hallway slam shut. A moment later her neighbor, David, joined her in the elevator lobby.

“Heading out for a long weekend?” David fumbled with his keys and a reusable grocery bag. He was dressed in his summertime uniform of cargo shorts and tee shirt with the sleeves cut off.

Elizabeth remembered how odd he had seemed when she’d first moved in. They shared a wall–his living room and her bedroom–and Elizabeth had become accustomed to hearing episodes of Golden Girls blaring from his side each afternoon. Over the years, they’d exchanged pleasantries and holiday cookies, but David kept to himself for the most part.

“I’m moving out,” Elizabeth replied.

David looked up, surprised. “Moving out? Where are you going?”

“I took a new job in Ohio.”

David digested the news, frowning down at Elizabeth. “What if the new tenant is loud? Or thinks I’m loud? What if she complains about every little sound? Or what if she blasts rap music at odd hours?” David slowly worked himself up over a tenant that didn’t exist.

“I’m sure it’ll be fine,” Elizabeth said, reassuringly. “You weren’t too sure about me when I moved in, and I turned out okay. Right?”

David nodded, begrudgingly. “We had a few tense moments your first week–all that hammering and picture hanging.”

“I’ll bet you’ll have one week of the new tenant moving furniture, and then she’ll be quiet as a mouse.”

The elevator arrived with a cheerful double ding, and they stepped inside. David pressed the button for the first floor, and Elizabeth reached over to press the button for the basement level. They rode down in silence. The doors slid open at the first floor and David ambled off the elevator. He turned to Elizabeth.

“Good luck in Ohio.”

“Thanks, David. Good luck with the new neighbor.”

The doors slid shut. Elizabeth rode down to the basement and walked through the underground parking garage to her Ford Explorer. She opened the hatchback and crammed the air-mattress into the one free millimeter of space left inside the vehicle. A moving truck was already on its way to Ohio with most of her belongings, but she’d packed her wardrobe, shoes, and accessories into the car she’d drive herself. Today was Thursday, and the moving truck was scheduled to arrive at her new house on Tuesday.

I can live without a couch and TV for five days, Elizabeth reasoned. I cannot live without clothes and shoes.

Elizabeth slammed the hatchback shut, climbed behind the wheel and fastened her seat belt. She eased the car out of the garage and took one last lap around her neighborhood. Then she turned the car toward the on-ramp for I-94 East and merged with traffic.

“Ohio, here I come.”

Elizabeth spent the first 90 minutes of her 10-hour drive in silence. She thought about everything that had happened over the past month to get her to this point. The Plus Style Blogger Conference had set everything in motion, although Elizabeth had to admit the changes that had occurred were overdue and completely necessary.

Her job as Director of Brand Integration at Everyday Electronics had been a terrific opportunity, and she had learned a lot over the past five years. But she’d lost her passion for the work, and had begun to feel trapped. She knew it was time to go when they’d offered her a huge promotion and instead of jumping at the chance, she’d balked at the required move to Montana.

“I still maintain that opening a design studio in the middle of Montana is wacko,” Elizabeth muttered to herself.

And breaking up with Matt, well, it hadn’t gone the way she’d intended. But again, it was a completely necessary move. For both of them. Their relationship was beyond unhealthy. And for as much as Matt didn’t make Elizabeth happy, it seemed unlikely that she really made him happy either. Their long-term relationship was more of a habit than a love connection.

Not that Matt agreed. Elizabeth sighed, remembering the final blow-out that had splintered their relationship and sent each of them going their separate ways. Surprisingly, it had not been the night of Plus Style’s shopping event at their Mall of America store. It should have been, since Elizabeth had arranged to meet up with Josh after the event…and it turned out both men were sitting at the exact same bar in the exact same restaurant. Talk about unfortunate timing. She hadn’t been back to Crave since then because she was so embarrassed by the scene they’d caused at the restaurant.

As the hazy, late July morning began to clear under the bright rays of Minnesota sunshine, she flipped open the glove compartment and pulled out a pair of sunglasses. She slipped them over her eyes before remembering they were the pair she’d bought with Josh during the Plus Style Blogger Conference. Josh…Elizabeth shook her head. That was a whole other situation. One that couldn’t have gone anywhere until the relationship with Matt was resolved.

After the embarrassing fight with Josh and Matt at Crave, Elizabeth had realized that she wasn’t handling her relationship with Matt with the dignity and decisiveness that they both deserved. So she let Matt cool off for a couple of days before calling and asking him to get coffee with her.

Elizabeth arrived early at the coffee shop around the corner from her apartment. She’d wanted to get situated and mentally prepare herself for the conversation. So she was surprised to find Matt already seated at a corner table, an Americano in front of him and a mug of peppermint tea waiting for her.

“Hey,” Elizabeth said, slinging her purse over the back of the seat and sitting down.

“Hi,” Matt replied glumly.

“I’m sorry about what happened the other night. That wasn’t fair to you.”

Elizabeth apologized simply and genuinely. Though there had been months and months of Matt not treating her right, this was about what she had done to him.

Matt nodded. “Who was that guy?”

“His name is Josh. He works for Plus Style and we met at the blogger conference.” Elizabeth took a sip of tea. “We hit it off.”

“What does that mean?” Matt ran a hand through his hair, irritated. “Are you cheating on me with him?”

“No.” Elizabeth searched for the right words. “We have chemistry and we like each other. But we’re not having a relationship.”

She thought briefly about the two drunken kisses that she and Josh had shared at the conference and wondered if she should own up to them.

No, she decided. Matt will focus on the kiss and won’t hear what really matters.

“So what’s going on, then?” Matt asked. “With us. With you two.”

Elizabeth wrapped both hands around the hot mug of tea. “I think you and I should break up, Matt.”

Matt gulped the Americano, his face turning red as the hot liquid seared his throat. He set the coffee cup down on the table very gingerly, as though he was taking great care not to slam it down.

“No.” His expression fell somewhere between miserable and defiant. “We’re not breaking up.”

“Matt,” Elizabeth reasoned, leaning forward and placing one hand on his arm. “That’s not something you get to decide, on your own. We’re both in this relationship. And I’m ready to end it.”

“We’ve been together for a long time, Elizabeth.” Matt‘s teeth were clenched tightly. “You don’t just end a relationship after five years. Especially when no one has done anything wrong.”

“When no one has done anything wrong?” Elizabeth exclaimed. She looked around, realizing that her voice was carrying. “I just told you that I have feelings for someone else.”

“You’ll get over it,” Matt interrupted. He shrugged. “And I’ll forgive you.”

With a deep sigh, Elizabeth looked out the coffee shop window. Outside, the neighborhood was coming alive. A group of volunteers had converged on Mears Park to plant flowers, while a bus pulled up at the stop across the street. People streamed off the bus and began to head in every direction.

“Matt, I like someone else. If you and I had a healthy relationship, I wouldn’t like anyone but you. And if we had a healthy relationship –,” Elizabeth held up one hand as Matt opened his mouth to interrupt her. “If we had a healthy relationship, you wouldn’t treat me badly.”

“I treat you badly?” Matt hissed, his wide set eyes bugging out. “I treat you badly? Oh that’s rich.”

“You make me feel insignificant. Like nothing I say or do or think matters. Whether it’s something you do in response to the way I treat you, I don’t know.”

Elizabeth looked down, unable to maintain eye contact. “If it is then I’m sorry for not making you happier. And if it’s not- if that’s just the way you are-then there’s nothing I can do about it.” Matt stared at Elizabeth in shocked silence. “I don’t want to rehash every little thing that’s ever happened in our relationship, Matt. I just want to move on. I want both of us to be happier than we are together.”

Elizabeth waited for Matt to say something, anything. She knew that he needed a little longer than the average person to respond when confronted with feelings.

Matt picked up his coffee cup and brought it to his lips, pausing before taking another drink. “I never thought you would be the one to break up with me.”

Elizabeth laughed out loud as she recalled Matt’s last words to her. It was just so perfectly, awfully him. She’d picked up her purse and walked out of the coffee shop without a backward glance. They hadn’t spoken since. She had packed up a small box of his personal belongings that were at her apartment, and mailed it to him. Several days later, she’d received a small box of her personal items from him. And that was it.

Landing the new job with Plus Style was almost as cut and dried, too. The groundwork had been put down during the blogger conference. Then the opportunity to meet with the VP of Brand and Marketing presented itself during the Plus Style Shopping Event at Mall of America. Before botching things with Matt and Josh, Elizabeth had spent a good 40 minutes talking to Lewis Chandler about her experience with brand development and integration, and the gaps that Plus Style was looking to fill within their team.

At the end of the following week, Elizabeth flew out to Ohio and met with the rest of the brand and marketing team to see if she would be a good fit with them. The meeting had gone extremely well, and within days Elizabeth had put her two weeks’ notice in with Everyday Electronics. Because of her high position within the company, Everyday Electronics let her go immediately, which left Elizabeth with enough free time to find a new place to live in Ohio and get packed up. She almost couldn’t believe how easily everything was coming together.

Elizabeth had found a cute little house to rent in historic German Village, an urban neighborhood near Columbus that felt a lot like her close-knit neighborhood in St. Paul. It would be her first house and Elizabeth was excited at the prospect of exploring the more domestic side of herself. She would need to find some new hobbies until she was able to make some friends in Ohio.

Elizabeth’s cell phone rang and she glanced in her rear view mirror before reaching for the device.

“Hello?”

“Are you here yet?”

“Hey Samantha.” Elizabeth grinned at the sound of her friend’s voice. “You know I’m not getting there until tonight, right?”

Samantha Stevens sighed impatiently. “I know. I just thought maybe you’d decided to leave last night instead of this morning. And that you drove all night and were already here.”

One bonus in moving from Minnesota to Ohio was that Elizabeth’s new home was just a few hours away from her long-distance friend, Samantha Stevens. Samantha lived in Indiana, just two hours from Columbus. Samantha had invited Elizabeth to spend the weekend at her house before driving into Columbus. The timing worked out perfectly because Elizabeth’s rental house wasn’t available until Sunday, the first of August.

“Nope,” Elizabeth replied. “I’m still on track to get to your house tonight around 5:00.”

“How’s the drive, so far?”

“So far, so good. Not many cars on the road, but I expect that’ll change once more and more people get up and head to work.”

“Drive carefully and I’ll see you when you get here,” Samantha said. “Oh wait!”

Elizabeth pulled the phone back up to her ear. “What?”

“I have a surprise for you. A good one.”

“Any hints?” Elizabeth tried to think of what the surprise could be.

“Not a single one. You’ll just have to see when you get here.”

“Now I really can’t wait to get there,” Elizabeth laughed. “See you in a few hours!”

The rest of the drive to Indiana was quiet–it was a pretty straight shot from the Twin Cities, and Elizabeth made good time the whole way. A mile from Samantha’s house, she pulled into a gas station to fill up. She touched up her makeup in the flickering fluorescent lights of the gas station bathroom, then spritzed on a touch of floral-scented perfume. A quick hair fluff later, she was on her way.

Elizabeth consulted the address Samantha had given her and read the house numbers down the block. When she located the right one, Elizabeth pulled her car into the driveway of a tidy, brown, ranch-style house. Flower beds exploded with color and hanging baskets of plants flanked either side of the front door.

I’ll have to ask Samantha for some planting tips, Elizabeth thought as she put the car in park and unbuckled her seat belt.

The front door swung open and Samantha stepped onto the porch. She was barefoot and dressed casually in a pair of plaid Bermuda shorts and a tank top. Her long blonde hair hung loose down her back, and she held a huge glass of wine in one hand.

“It’s about damn time,” she called from the steps. “We started happy hour without you.”

“We?” Elizabeth asked, stepping out of the car. “You and Steve?”

Steve was Samantha’s boyfriend; they shared the house together. Elizabeth was looking forward to meeting him.

“Nope, not Steve,” Samantha teased, looking over her shoulder. “It’s-“

“It’s me!” Anna Porter exclaimed, pushing her way past Samantha. “Surprise!”

Anna’s red hair swung in a silky bob around her beaming face. She pushed up the strap of her tropical-printed maxi dress.

“Anna?” Elizabeth shrieked. “What the hell are you doing here?”

“Couldn’t let you two have a reunion without me, now could I?” Anna drawled.

Elizabeth strode up the steps and wrapped an arm around each friend, pulling them in for a group hug.

“This is the best surprise, ever.”

“Grab your bag and let’s get this sleepover started,” Samantha instructed.

Elizabeth pulled her overnight bag from the car and followed her friends inside Samantha’s house.

“Your house is adorable!” Elizabeth exclaimed. “I love this. Show me around.”

Samantha walked Elizabeth through her house, pointing out each room and a few of her favorite things. They walked through Samantha and Steve’s bedroom, tastefully decorated in shades of Tiffany blue, white, and brown, before Samantha paused dramatically in front of a door just off the master bathroom.

“And this….is the best room in the house,” she announced. Samantha swung the door open to reveal the most amazing walk-in closet Elizabeth had ever seen. Racks of clothes and shoes lined the room, wall to wall. A huge dresser stood in the center of the room, underneath a chandelier, its drawers cracked open to reveal jewelry and scarves.

“Holy crap,” Elizabeth breathed, drifting into the room. “You have so many clothes, Samantha!”

“Girl, this is amazing,” Anna sighed. “Wow.”

“This was Steve’s gift to me for our last anniversary,” Samantha confided. “It’s how I knew we were forever. I mean, what kind of guy spends hours at Ikea planning the perfect dressing room for his girlfriend?”

“Your perfect match, that’s who,” Elizabeth replied. Lucky guy, lucky girl.

“When do we get to meet Steve?” Anna asked. “I’ve been here for two hours already and not a peep from him.”

“He works from home, in the basement office, so he’s here.” Samantha glanced at her watch. It was just about 5:30. “He said he would come up and cook us dinner around 6:00.”

“And he cooks? He really is perfect for you!” Anna laughed.

Samantha was the type who would rather keep purses in the oven than turn it on and cook something.

The girls headed back into Samantha’s cozy living room and settled down with glasses of wine for a little girl talk.

“How’s Mark doing?” Elizabeth asked Anna.

“He’s good. He’s heading out on a boy’s weekend with his buddies tomorrow. We’re both trying to squeeze in our last hurrahs before baby.”

“Wait, what?” Samantha leaned forward on the couch. “Should you be drinking?”

“I’m not pregnant, yet,” Anna confirmed, patting Samantha’s arm. “But we’re ready to start really trying- tracking ovulation and all that fun stuff.”

“That’s exciting,” Elizabeth said, raising her glass. “Cheers to babies and ovulation and last hurrahs with friends.”

“Amen to that!” Anna exclaimed. “I told Mark that if I have to stop drinking for 9 months, he does too.”

“I think that’s fair. You have to go through enough as it is to carry the baby,” Samantha said. “The least he can do is be at your beck and call and quit boozing until you can, too.”

“It’ll probably be longer than 9 months,” Elizabeth added. “If you breast feed afterward.”

“Oh lord,” Anna sighed. “I didn’t even think of that, y’all.”

“You should probably have another glass of wine right now.”

All three women laughed.

“Hey guys.” Steve emerged from the basement, pulling a pair of horn-rimmed glasses from his face and rubbing his eyes. Steve was a handsome guy in his mid-thirties, with an easy-going smile that softened as his light blue eyes landed on Samantha.

“Hi honey, come meet my friends.” Samantha beckoned Steve into the living room.

Steve shook Elizabeth’s hand, then turned to Anna.

“Thanks for having us, Steve.” Anna leaned forward to shake his hand. “Nothing like two extra women invading the house, huh?”

“For as much as Samantha talks about the two of you,” Steve grinned, “I’m happy to finally be able to meet you. Are you guys getting hungry? I was going to fire up the grill for burgers and some veggies.”

“Thanks, honey!” Samantha shouted as he walked into the kitchen. The sliding glass door that led to their back patio slid open and shut as Steve went outside to start the grill.

“He is adorable,” Elizabeth said.

“I think so,” Samantha grinned, happily.

“Speaking of adorable boys,” Anna prompted, “how is Josh doing?”

Samantha and Anna looked at Elizabeth expectantly. She shrugged.

“I don’t know.”

Her friends exchanged puzzled looks.

“What do you mean you don’t know?” Samantha asked, knitting her brows together. “You broke up with Matt. You’re moving to Ohio-“

“To work at the same company that Josh does-“Anna interjected.

“And you don’t know how he’s doing?” Samantha was perplexed.

Elizabeth took a sip of wine. “No, I don’t. We haven’t spoken since the blow up at Crave last month.”

“But – I thought you did all of these things so you could be together,” Anna said. “I’m so confused.”

“I didn’t break up with Matt and take the new job because of Josh,” Elizabeth corrected. “They were the right things for me to do, for myself.”

“Ok, but still,” Samantha said. “What happened?”

“To be honest, nothing.”

Elizabeth tucked her feet up under her. “At Crave, Josh told me that I needed to sort everything out with Matt before we spoke again. But when I called to tell him that I’d broken up with Matt, Josh wouldn’t take my phone call. I left a message, which he never returned.”

“He just never called you back?” Samantha asked. “That doesn’t sound like the same guy who was all about you a few weeks before.”

“I thought I would see him and, maybe, we could talk when I interviewed with the Brand and Marketing team at Plus Style the following week. But I never saw him. When Lewis walked me around the office and introduced me to the team, we went by Josh’s desk but he wasn’t there. I sent him an email, letting him know that I’d taken the job and when I would be moving but again–nothing.”

“That’s a real jerk thing to do,” Anna fumed. “The least he could do is reply back to you. Even if he’s suddenly decided that he doesn’t want to smooch you, he should be man enough to say it.”

“I’ve started having second thoughts about him, too,” Elizabeth admitted. “Everything just seems so complicated, and now that we’re co-workers that adds another layer to it.”

“Do you guys have the same manager?” Samantha asked.

Elizabeth shook her head. “No. Josh reports to the Director of Social Media.“

“Louise McGarrity, right?” Anna was always good with names.

“That’s right. Louise and I report to the same manager.”

“So you’re technically Josh’s superior,” Samantha grinned. “I like that.”

Anna sniffed the air. “Whatever Steve is cooking is starting to smell so good.” Elizabeth’s stomach rumbled, loudly.

“Was that your tummy?” Anna asked with a whoop.

“I guess it thinks that dinner smells good, too,” Elizabeth laughed.

“Let’s go grab plates and eat outside.” Samantha stood up and led the girls into the kitchen. “But we are so coming back to this conversation.”

They didn’t make it back to the conversation about Josh again until the next afternoon. Elizabeth had just begun to think they might let her off the hook completely until Anna brought it up while they were out shopping.

“You should get a really fantastic outfit to wear on your first day of work,” she suggested, as they picked through the racks of Forever 21’s plus size section. “What’s their dress code?”

“It’s business casual, for the most part.”

“Do you have to wear clothes from Plus Style?” Samantha wondered. She pulled a lipstick red mini dress off a rack and held it up against herself.

“That’s really cute, “Elizabeth commented, nodding at the dress. “Maybe with some leggings or tights underneath?”

“That’s what I was thinking.” Samantha added it to her growing pile of items to try on.

“We don’t have to wear exclusively Plus Style clothes, although we get a nice enough discount that I can see a shopping spree in my future,” Elizabeth said, addressing Samantha’s question. “It would be fun to get something new for the first day.”

“Perfect!” Anna exclaimed. “I love having something specific to shop for, even if it’s not for me. We need an outfit that says, “Hey new corporate co-workers, I’m totally cool and capable. Oh, hey there Josh. How’s it going? Yeah, I’m really sexy in a corporate, work-appropriate kind of way.”

Elizabeth and Samantha started laughing.

“That’s a pretty tall order for one outfit,” Samantha pointed out.

“I know, y’all. That’s why we’ve got to start digging.”

“You said last night that you were having second thoughts about Josh,” Samantha said. “One question about that.”

“It’s never just one question with you.” Elizabeth shot Samantha a wry look.

“Ok, firstquestion. Do you still like him?”

Elizabeth paused. She thought about how much fun they’d had during the conference. He made her feel alive and pretty and sexy. They laughed a lot together, and never seemed to run out of things to talk about. They would spend hours in front of their computers, chatting over Skype, taking turns sharing and listening. That was a nice change. And he was a good kisser. A great kisser, she thought to herself, recalling the long, slow burn of the last kiss they’d shared.

“Look at that face!” Anna exclaimed, pointing at Elizabeth. “That’s the face of a woman who is having saucy thoughts.” Elizabeth flushed pink.

“Elizabeth?” Samantha prodded her side with a clothes hanger. “Are you having saucy thoughts about Josh?”

“Maybe,” Elizabeth admitted, not meeting Samantha’s look. “Ok fine–yes.”

“Did you guys kiss?” Anna asked eagerly.

Elizabeth said nothing.

“Oh my god, you did! And you didn’t say anything?”

“It was a completely drunken pair of kisses.“

“You kissed twice!” Anna whooped. A cluster of teenagers in the next section looked over at the three women. Anna lowered her voice. “It was at Josh’s house after the Plus Style dinner, wasn’t it?”

Elizabeth nodded.

Samantha shook her head. “I knew it. You were taking way too long in the bathroom when he went to look for you.”

“They were, quite possibly, the best kisses I’ve had in years,” Elizabeth admitted.

“So what are you going to do?” Samantha asked.

Elizabeth sighed. “I guess I’ll find out on Monday, when I get to work.”

Walking Tall

2013-06-27T07:20:00.000-07:00

I lucked out big time at Nordstrom Rack earlier this week...scoring three pair of shoes for $19.90. Not each. Total. Two of the pair were only $5! Here's one of them, and let me tell you - they are TALL shoes.

Floral peep-toe wedges by Free Press

These wedges have a 6" heel, which combined by my natural height (I'm 6' tall) pushes me into WBNBA territory. Except for the fact that I am not exactly graceful in flats...and these heels are really testing my coordination. Accomodations I've had to make while wearing these very tall shoes:

Kissing Dan goodbye this morning was very strange, as I was a few inches taller than him - for the first time, ever.
Had to take them off to drive my car
Had to adjust my office chair
Small steps - although I'm walking tall, my stride is shorter.

Despite these adjustments, I'm feeling pretty sassy and I kind of like towering over everyone. Even more than usual. Do you have a pair of shoes that instantly give you a kick when you put them on?

Realia by Jen Sample Sale - TODAY!

2013-06-26T08:36:00.000-07:00

I've long been a fan of the jewelry created by Minnesota designed Realia by Jen. Her pieces are elegant and chic - but modern. I have several that I love to wear. They're the kind of items that garner compliments and second glances. And although Realia by Jen jewelry is a great value any day of the week, today it's on super sale! Here are the details:

Plus Size Style- Everyday Bombshell

2013-06-24T18:01:00.000-07:00

This is a friendship edition of Everyday Bombshell, because my good friend Jenn and I switched outfits. Jenn came over to my place on Saturday for an at-home spa morning. We tried out one another's favorite spa treatments, did our nails, sipped champagne and talked about all the stuff women like to talk about.

Once we were all glammed up, Jenn thought I needed to try on her dress-a maxi dress that she had picked up at Target. It fit me perfectly, so we headed to my closet to find something for her to wear. She picked out a dress I bought from Corset Boutique in Edina...and it looked great on her!

The swap! We have such different body types,

so it was cool to see how our clothes fit one another.

I just so happened to have a necklace that matched the color-

block on Jenn's Target dress, perfectly!

Jenn's shoes...this girl rarely wears flats so I had to

document it.

Love her Michael Kors bag.

And she's always got a great pair of sunglasses

stashed in that bag.

As plus size women, Jenn and I both discovered that neither one of us had EVER swapped clothes with a friend before. In high school and college, we were both bigger than our friends. It was really fun and kind of novel to swap clothes with a friend, now.

Do you have friends with whom you swap clothes?

Ask Sara: Curvy Confidence

2013-06-11T06:50:00.000-07:00

Today's video answers another question that was posted on my Facebook page: How to have confidence on a not-so-great day? Check out my response, and leave your own in the comments.

Plus Size Style- Everyday Bombshell

2013-06-04T07:37:00.000-07:00

It's hard to believe that I'm still layering cotton cardigans over every single outfit...but it's still (STILL!) cold here in St. Paul. Oh well. Maybe by August I can peel off some layers, but until then I'm still wearing my everyday uniform of belted dress and cardigan.

Now that is a cheery smile first thing in the morning!

Not sure what I'm so excited about.

My hairstylist gave me highlights last week.

The jury is still out...

The Outfit:
Ikat print dress- Wal-Mart
Green cardigan - Avenue
Belt - Gap Outlet
Black beaded necklace- Mark
Ballet flats- Designershoes.com

Save 15% at Madison Plus Select

2013-05-30T06:52:00.000-07:00

I love to pass along a great deal, and I've got one for you from Madison Plus Select. Between now and July 31, 2013 save 15% off your order - use the coupon code BOMBSHELL. MPS is a terrific spot to find a well-edited selection of plus size clothing that combines current trends with quality fabrics and designs.

Betty Tea Length Skirt by Stefanie Bezaire

The Madison Plus Select Blog breaks down the latest trends in plus size fashion - and includes interviews with plus size designers, models and bloggers. There are lots of pictures of real women looking great in their plus size style - so inspirational!

Electric Pink Slim Cut Jeans by Greater Than Brand

When shopping at Madison Plus Select, I usually click right over to What's New page. Aimee Cheshire is the CEO of Madison Plus, and I got to know her a few years ago when we were both at a couple of events sponsored by Lane Bryant. She's a stylish woman with a great eye for what will work on a plus size figure, so I trust what she chooses to feature on Madison Plus Select. .

Galaxy Fit and Flare Dress by Cult of California

I love that Madison Plus Select isn't just one thing or another - it's a resource for researching plus size trends, getting the inside scoop on the plus size fashion industry and shopping for the latest styles from up and coming, independent plus size designers. .

I want to try out the colored denim trend. What trends are you thinking of giving a try this season?

Photo credit: MadisonPlusSelect.com

Plus Size Style - Everyday Bombshell

2013-05-29T09:45:00.000-07:00

Last Friday, Dan threw a surprise book launch party for me to celebrate publishing Bombshell Blogroll. I knew we were going out to dinner to celebrate, but had no idea he would stage a BBQ at my in-laws house and invite a few of our friends to join us.

My good friend, Jackie, made this amazing cake.

Dan also invited my parents to come as one big part of the surprise. They drove up to Minnesota from Des Moines...and I had no clue.

My parents printed out paper covers of the book, so I could

have an official book signing.

And finally, Dan gave a very sweet speech that made me cry.

Of course.

It was such a fun evening and I really appreciate having such supportive friends and family. Now about my outfit...I found this sun dress at Wal-Mart. Which, normally I am morally opposed to shopping at Wal-Mart thanks to their shady business practices. But alas, I was swayed by the fact that it fit perfectly (size 16/18), filled a gap in my closet (I owned nothing yellow) and was insanely cheap (less than $10). Combined, my moral high horse rode off into the sunset with out me. Oh well.

The Outfit:

Yellow Dress - Wal-mart (in-store, not online)

Black ruffled shrug- Lane Bryant

Earrings - Guatemala

Necklace- Jewel Kade

Black belt - Gap Outlet

Black Leather Sandals (I know you can't see them!) - Nordstrom Rack

As Seen on Twin Cities Live- DIY Pedicure

2013-05-21T06:28:00.000-07:00

I joined Elizabeth Ries and Chris Eggert on Twin Cities Live, yesterday, to show Chris how to give himself the ultimate Man-icure/Pedicure - at home, using ingredients that can be found in most households. We had a lot of fun, a lot of laughs...and Chris said his feet felt softer at the end of the segment.

I wore one of my favorite dresses- the LucieLu Party Dress in mint and gray (from a few seasons ago). I paired it with jade earrings that I picked up in Guatemala, a cocktail ring that Dan bought me for my birthday a couple years ago, and a pair of black kitten heels.

Click here to view the segment.

My New Novel Available Today

2013-05-20T08:07:00.000-07:00

I'm so excited to share some news with you guys...my new novel is available, today!

Bombshell Blogroll is the first in a series of 3 novellas - it follows the life of plus size blogger, Elizabeth Weston, as she navigates the blogosphere, her day job and (of course!) her love life. Here's a short synopsis:

Elizabeth Weston never thought her little blog, Bombshell Beauty, would be much more than a hobby. But when she gets invited to Plus Style's blogger conference, she gets more than she bargained for: a nemesis in the form of a bratty blogger; a possible job opportunity with the foremost plus size retailer in the country; and a really cute guy who completely shakes up her love life.

With nothing but her wits and a closet full of fabulous clothes, Elizabeth tries to decide where exactly she wants to go - in life and in love.

First in the Bombshell Beauty Series of novellas.

Loosely inspired by a few of the fun experiences that I've had thanks to this blog, Bombshell Blogroll is a work of fiction along the lines of Confessions of a Shopaholic or Something Borrowed. It's the first of three novellas that tell Elizabeth's story, and each of them will be released over the course of this summer - right in time for those long holiday weekends.

The eBook is for sale on Amazon for just $0.99 I hope you'll check- it out!

My Fuerza Story

2013-05-15T11:05:00.000-07:00

Last week, Sealed with a Kiss Designs contacted me to talk about a new collaboration they're launching with plus size supermodel, Rosie Mercado. The collection is called Fuerza, which is Spanish for 'strength'. SWAK asked me to share with about what Fuerza means to me, or to tell them a story about when I had to tap into my own Fuerza.

I told them about my trip to Guatemala last year with the non-profit organization, Common Hope. It was such an intense, incredible week of my life- one during which I had to draw on many sources of strength. It changed my life in so many ways and taught me a lot about the strength within. Click here to read my story, and stories from other friends in the plus size industry (like Aimee of Madison Plus and Maddy of Plus Model Magazine) - plus SWAK customers. You can even submit your own story of Fuerza to the site.

I haven't tried on any of the clothes from Rosie's Fuerza collection, yet, so I can't tell you how they fit. But they look great on the website! A few of my early favorites include:

Plus Size Style- Everyday Bombshell

2013-05-10T06:40:00.000-07:00

I had one of those moments a couple weeks ago where I realized that I'd completely forgotten about one of my favorite plus size retailers - City Chic. I wore a lot of City Chic clothes after meeting their executive team at the Curvy Revolution back in 2010. I liked the quality of the clothing, the fresh trendy styles and the fact that their sales are frequent and fantastic.

And that's exactly how I came to add this pretty, emerald green dress to my wardrobe - on sale for $17. And the best part? Free shipping both ways, so shopping online with City Chic is a total no-brainer. Love that.

The Outfit:
Green ruffle dress- City Chic
Black cardigan - Avenue
Jeweled buckle belt - Gap Outlet
Teardrop necklace- Patinastores.com
Missoni-print flats- Report