<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:blogger='http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6369801069677001329</id><updated>2024-08-31T00:27:13.875-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Random Ramblings</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bleedinghearts415.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6369801069677001329/posts/default?redirect=false'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bleedinghearts415.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Annonymous</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03054436249608251707</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_wU8489OZ-9k/SOlTh8zkFaI/AAAAAAAAABc/VkZT03G46UY/S220/fLORIDA+134.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>1</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6369801069677001329.post-632317352035901504</id><published>2011-01-09T00:38:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2011-01-09T00:38:05.154-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I define myself</title><content type='html'>&lt;span xmlns=&#39;&#39;&gt;&lt;p&gt;     No one says it better than Jessica Simpson in her song, &quot;I Belong to Me&quot;. I am my very own person, defined by who I am, who I was before I met you, and who I will be for the rest of my life. Who I am is not about who I am when I am in public or who you want me to be, but it is who I am when I am with my closest friends. I cannot change who I am for a person, and even if I could, I would not, and could not, really. When I look into myself, no matter who I am with or what kind of airs I am putting on, I cannot change myself because it is so much deeper than that. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;     I want to be loved for who I am and who I &lt;em&gt;can&lt;/em&gt; be, not for who you want me to be to who you &lt;em&gt;think&lt;/em&gt; I can be. I want to define myself; I do not want to let someone else tell me who I am. Let me be who I am and help me to be all IO can be, but don&#39;t take away my identity. If you truly love someone than you accept who they are and you want them to be true to themselves. Love don&#39;t mean changing who you are to be who somebody wants you to be. Nobody&#39;s got to belong to nobody I belong to me, I don&#39;t belong to you, my heart is my possession, I&#39;ll be my own reflection.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bleedinghearts415.blogspot.com/feeds/632317352035901504/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/6369801069677001329/632317352035901504' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6369801069677001329/posts/default/632317352035901504'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6369801069677001329/posts/default/632317352035901504'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bleedinghearts415.blogspot.com/2011/01/i-define-myself.html' title='I define myself'/><author><name>Annonymous</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03054436249608251707</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_wU8489OZ-9k/SOlTh8zkFaI/AAAAAAAAABc/VkZT03G46UY/S220/fLORIDA+134.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>