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noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Tue, 19 Oct 2010 10:37:00 +0000

Where do I begin?

Today is 19th October 2010.

Life has been pretty alright up till now.

I am content.

I have been through a lot for the past years.

I have learnt to control my emotions and not take my partner for granted.

As of today, we are working out our issues and slowly but surely, we’re getting better.

I have been busy with work but I am happy.

New environment, new colleagues, new outlook to things in life….

I am happy.

be happy

noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Tue, 27 Apr 2010 03:17:00 +0000

i'm happy.

happier now than i was.

things don't go as planned all the time but it's alright.

we're better now and it's better to forget the past and move on.

till then... have a good life ahead :D

i was calm.

noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Thu, 18 Feb 2010 05:22:00 +0000

I may not be the kindest person or the most patience person in the whole wide world.

But I love you.

Take all the time you need.

I love you.

"Take the first step in faith.

You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step."

—Martin Luther King, Jr.

I'll take that first step in faith.

I have faith in us.

I don't have to see the whole staircase but I'll take that first step.

Because I love you.

:)

noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 04:59:00 +0000

Feeling alright today :)

At the moment...heh..

Here's a little bit of inspiration to make your day fun, fabulous and full of joy.

"The secret of happiness is not doing what one likes to do, but in liking what one has to do.” 

—Sir James M. Barrie

Life's about sacrifices right?

And relationship's about give and take?

Compromising?

...hmmmm...

Understanding....and the list goes on...

He puts up with my yoyo emotions, my temper, insecurities and at times uncertainties...

I too should give him some space and let him be when he wants to..

Thing is, it's not that I don't want to...

Tho most of the time he's clean, there are other times that he goes to the extremes.

Like when he said he's gonna be at his relatives, when he actually met up with his ex, in his words to confront her for the things she did to me...well, that was way in the past but...I, myself, dont do such things.

If my ex calls(not that i picked it up. I never do), I let him know.

When my exes msgs...he knows....

I share with him everything.

Coz he's my priority and my partner.

No secrets.

But things that he comes up with...

1. The meeting up with the Ex,

2. Taking pics of random women,

3. Exchanging number with waitress at a pub after he had a lil arguement with me coz I didnt let him go out with a male friend who just broke up with his gf and adamant on meeting my bf alone and bugged him for weeks...if it's that urgent, why can't they just talk over the phone n if it's serious, then meet up? Something fishy, right? It's not like I dont know this friend of his and the gf! Best part was he saved that pinoy's number in his phone under a different name.

How I come to know abt all the above is by CHANCE/RANDOM!!

1. I said, she was telling stuffs to me abt their r'ship, well, the bitch blurted it out of coz!

Think she'll keep the meeting a secret?

Hell NO!

2. Random! Totally random! I was on his computer and wanted to upload my pics on the then friendster.

Lo and behold...pics of women at places where we go to...and yeah a few, right after he just sent me to WORK. Yeah, outside my workplace.

3. He told me to go have a rest and we'll meet the next day and resolve the problem.

Don't think abt the problem and sleep.

He was VERY CALM.

I felt something was amiss...went to his place and he wasnt in.

I dont know why I did this but I called his voicemail and heard a woman's voice....guess what I heard at the background? I heard his voice!

My thoughts was that his friend couldnt find him and called his mobile...and when the part I heard his voice, that's when his friend Joshua found him...

BUT NO!!!!

Here's the thing.

He switched off his phone coz he doesnt want me to keep on calling him.

The pinoy waitress called his number to leave a missed call.

I got her number, I heard her voice.

Over the 8 years with him, I've forgave the things he put me thru.

I put him thru shit too...but I realised I did all those stupid things coz he made me miserable to begin with.

On the onset, he's a nice guy.

But everyone has a flaw.

I live with this and he lives with mine.

But we should work something out that actually makes each other happy, right?

So, he made me mad, I react.

Not the best of ways but I did.

He put up with it(my reaction) and since he has his ways of stepping back or something, I should let him.

I am hesitant coz everytime he stepped back, he did something.

Everytime I wanna trust him, it's ruined.

I mean for the past few days, he said he's with family.

It's been five years since they've been away.

I amidst all the things he put me thru, was with him always.

But for a long holiday and Sunday being Valentines day and he didnt even bother to do anything with me.

I have the right to be sad, right?

The late replies to my messages, him hesitant to call me unless I ask him to coz my calls to him are, well, unanswered.

I was sad.

I was mad.

I was unsure.

But I love him.

Am I stupid?

I don't know.....

Back to sacrifices, give and take, compromising, understanding and perhaps trust.

I'll give this another chance.

I hope he's got good explanations.

If he doesn't it's ok.

I'll just know where I stand.

I'll just better myself, learn to be happy on my own and live life the way I should.

I deserve it.

So for now, I'll be smiling the whole day today coz it's easier than replaying all the bad memories :)

Till the next post!

Thank you for reading :)

I need to be ok

noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 17:48:00 +0000

when we got back together,

i told myself not to repeat the same mistake

i've learnt that if i pushed you away,

you wont know ur way back

so many times you said that you're afraid that i might still hate you

but would i reconciled if i do?

we said our sorries, you hugged and you kissed me....

why do all that and promised this will be a better one than the last?

that we'll work it out somehow?

when all u do now is to run as far away from me?

i do...

i do hate it when you're with ur family

my calls go unanswered,

my messages replied an hr or two late...

and u stop making plans to spend time with me :(

it is different when u see me after work

you see me just for dinner before u head home

what's so wrong with me wanting more?

i want a date,

it doesnt necessarily be romantic

but

a day out and not when u're after work

but a day out in town, just US

it's a long holiday this week...

u not only got no plans for this week....

but you've got no plans for us..

do i have to continue enduring this pain for scraps of affection from you?

i know myself better

take care of myself

if he loves me, he loves me

if he wants me, he wants me

question now is do i want him treating me this way?

just take care of myself and be happy

when i am happy, things will be ok......

now go sleep :)

i want to ramble

noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 12:20:00 +0000

so many things to say

i just don't know anymore

at times, i'm ok

at times, the anxiety is just killing me

the fights are all so childish now

sometimes, i'm ok and he's the unreasonable one

at times he's ok and i'm the irrational one

but it's all my fault

i made us like this

what should i do?

i hate being the one to initiate everything

from messages to phone calls and now our dates

i don't know

things are very intense right now

it's time i take care of myself

focus on myself

it's me time

Prioritse Work, Money, Family

Once you're back on track, see if he's worth it.

One day at a time.

Do not call him.

I'll be ok. :)

14 more days to a new job, a new ME.

Things to do;

Monday - 15/02/2010

Watch TV
Play some games online
Sleep early, I'll need to get use to waking up at 6am soon
Stay positive :)

Tomorrow will be a better day :)

I'll be ok :)

2010 - Feb

noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 05:55:00 +0000

Emotions have been yoyo-ing...

We're both just so different.

When I'm calm, he gets riled up.

He does the things that he disliked in me.

How do I change and be better when he's turning into the "UGLY ME"?

I love him and knows that he loves me.

But why are we like this?

8910August2009......

noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Tue, 11 Aug 2009 19:06:00 +0000

Infidelity isn’t pretty in marriages or otherwise. Some might even say it is to be expected by either man OR woman. Expected or not, it isn’t a pleasant experience but strength you didn’t know you even had is a beautiful thing – and so is love despite it all.

the distance.....

noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 05:53:00 +0000

it's amazing that after all these years, there are still bits and pieces of each other's past that we dont know of....
last saturday was spent walking around.....
we covered quite a distance
reminds me of when we were younger......walking up n down orchard road to fort canning and back..... :)
only this time, we covered the whole of hortpark.

the weather was awesome.....very breezy n perfect for a day out.
i had fun sitting around pretty landscape and just catching up with my boyfriend.
simple things like this being in each other's company and cracking stupid jokes and just be ourselves. i realised that he's the only one that i'm always at ease with. the one who treats me with so much love even on days where i'm an utter bitch. the one who forgives the minute i said sorry, the one who'll forgive instantly without dramas...i love h/a/b/i/b m/a/n/s/o/o/r :)

after exploring hortpark, we took a walk on the alexandra link bridge...

it was a lovely walk....after the long walk on the bridge, we took the bus and headed for Sentosa...hehe....
cinderella reached home before midnight. :p
thank you, sweetheart for sending me back again :)
and only after i had my shower did i realised how sore my feet were!!!
like duh.....we practically walked the whole day!!!....
with the right companion, you tend to not feel bored/tired and what-have-yous....
woke up slightly late on Sunday n met up with my honeybunny again...this time we headed to Pastamania since they're now HALAL, for the yummy linguine....i had the meatballs pasta n chose the spicy chicken
they were alright tho my fav wld be the one home cooked by yours truly...hehe...
we went to the one at Hougang Mall, and on the way to the mall, i was greeted by a very delicious aromatic smell of dam briyani.
found out that shaik sabri has opened up a briyani stall there.
will buy it one day....yummy briyani!
after our meal, we headed down to Punggol park and just chilled there.
it's been 7 years and yes, my bf and i are the park ppl.
we love to just chill out at the park and have good conversations.
i'm kinda contemplating buying the nasi briyani later and have it for dinner with my sayang...but the calories that we'll be consuming...arrghhh.....oh well, we've still got the badminton and running and swimming sessions and....lol...
oh well, till the next update.....

How Smart Is Your Right Foot?

noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Thu, 12 Feb 2009 05:47:00 +0000

Try this!!!

Trust me, it takes only few seconds.

This is so funny that it will boggle your mind.

And, you will keep trying it at least 50 more times to see if you can outsmart your foot. But you can't!!!

1. While sitting at your desk, lift your right foot off the floor and make clockwise circles with it.

2. Now, while doing this, draw the number "6" in the air with your right hand..

Your foot will change direction!!!

And there is nothing you can do about it.
Share this with your friends...

I'm sure they'll find this interesting too!!! ....hehe....

Hello Sunshine!!!

noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Tue, 10 Feb 2009 05:57:00 +0000

Tuesday, 10 February 2009

I'm still here....Alhamdulilah.

I've been busy with lotsa projects and alot of positive things going on.

I'm kinda overwhelmed by the ongoings.

But, shall perservere for my future.

The love of my life and I are breezing thru 2009 like old love birds.

Been spending more time with each other and exporing new things together.

He has indeed taught me that,
"A loving heart is the truest wisdom."

I am thankful to Allah for all the lessons he made me go thru to appreciate the love ones around me.

Those who always stood by my side no matter what and a loving significant other who still cares for me irregardless. Alhamdulilah.

Indeed, it is true that, Allah (swt) will never burden you with more than you can bear.

THE PLAN

noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Fri, 16 Jan 2009 07:17:00 +0000

it has been a very busy week for both my sweetheart n I
him with his classes and I with never ending appointments

but the time that we spent with each other nowadays are much more meaningful

distance makes the heart grow fonder

i've been a very good girl

and he's been rewarding me generously with his time and effort

i'm blessed

we started our new year on a right note

it has been going on well, Alhamdulilah.

alot of things have been planned and we're excited to undertake them for our most anticipated future

after much consideration n weighing out the pros n cons, we've decided to meet up with Abg Z
who is Abg Z?
Soon you'll know....

the meeting was pleasant and boy, Singapore is indeed super duper small!!!

during the meeting, we found out that Abg Z and hubster had previously been in correspondence due to the nature of their job and to make it more interesting, they are both from the same unit for their reservist camp!!!

our meeting with Abg Z and his lovely wife ended till past wee hrs of the am

there's so much to talk and share

we were both very happy with their hospitality and the advice that they shared

last night, we met up with S in town

a kind and an awesome chap....can't wait for the follow-up meeting set next monday!!!!

lots more thing lined up for us tonight right thru the weekend......

i am super excited!!!

will be going to expo later to WORK ;s

kind darling's nice enough to accompany me :)

things lined up this weekend;
friday @ expo
sat - complete the pending websites

sun - meeting with wann at TS

mon - meeting with S at BktBtk

tues - complete assignment

wed - meeting with Y frm GBG

thurs - assignment

friday - assignment

sat - ??

sun - ??

ok...i'm tired already :)

will try to update soon and as much as I can....

till then...toodlesss

to tell or not to tell.....

noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Fri, 09 Jan 2009 06:54:00 +0000

...just a lil update...

hmmmphhh....hehe....

but i seriously need to lose the weight for this!!!

arrghhhh!!!!

on another note, come the 23rd, it'll be our 7th yr.....n i'm excited for a lot of things.

Insya'Allah, project A - Z can be achieved!

AMIN!!!

GREAT MONDAY!

noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 11:14:00 +0000

My sweetheart took half day leave today and spent the rest of the day with me.

It was nice walking around town on a working day and doing things that we seldom do.

We had our lunch at Puncak followed by a trip down to Borders.
Got ourselves a lil something for a lil 'project' that he'd like to take up and for us to do.....for memory sake....and then off we went to a lil special place to just be ourselves and enjoy each other's company.

We've both grown over the past years and lotsa changes that takes place....but I'm thankful to God that our feelings, love and respect for one another will forever remains.

Sayang, thank you. :)

HAPPY 2009!!!

noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Thu, 01 Jan 2009 15:33:00 +0000

Hello peeps!!!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

2007 was a painful yet meaningful year for me.

I welcomed 2008 with my beloved youngest sister and friends.

2008 has been kind to me.

It was challenging but rewarding as well.
This year, my baby sister was again with me and we both ushered in 2009 together with our own beloved sweethearts......

Initially, we thought of celebrating the New Year either at the Marina Bay or Marina Barrage but the fact that the place are gonna be jammed packed with ppl we decided that we rather spend quality time with each other.
Also my sweetheart has recently picked up a hobby and he wanted to try capture the images of the fireworks, thus the location - Mount Faber.

While waiting for the countdown n fireworks to start we decided to play scrabble that K brought.

At the same time, we feast on beef steak goreng n sup tulang2 frm the Famous beach road stall.
Thank you, Vef n K :)

We played a couple of rounds and the winner is.......

Soon after, the fireworks began.......We were able to watch the fireworks from 4 different venues at the same time. The Marina Bay's, Vivo city's, Sentosa's, Mount Faber's and even the random flares frm some ship/boat....
I gotta say that The Mount Faber's got the prettiest fireworks but the one at Marina Bay's was super worth it! It was the longest and if I'm not wrong it was reported to last for a full 8 minutes long!!!
Fireworks are amazing...my absolute favourite for any occassion....heh...it was just awesome being on mount faber with all the fireworks shooting up n colouring the sky with it's sparkles....
The best thing in life are indeed FREE!!!
Here's a pic of my baby's in action.....
I didnt manage to capture the beautiful fireworks coz I was too mesmerised by the beauty and was in awe. H, however, managed to capture beautiful pics. I guess, I shall just wait for the end product when he shows it to me later this week.....I've had a tiring day.....
I had an amazing evening/morning today.....
I hope 2009 will be as amazing as 2008 and meaningful for me.
A new journey, a new chapter.....

Hasyir's birthday.....

noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Mon, 29 Dec 2008 18:49:00 +0000

HASYIR'S BIRTHDAY!!!

It was 7yrs ago when my bf and I got together at my sister's wedding.
I kinda invited him n Yusof aka Joe aka Spaggie...haha..was kinda surprised when they both turned up.
From that day onwards, the bf n I are inseparable. (:
The year that we got together, Durra & Hasyir were born - April and Dec 2002 respectively.
These two darlings so far...are amongst my favourite ;p

Durra's my best girlfriend and Hasyir's my sweetheart. Hasyir's a darling. Very patience, very sweet, a very understanding son/nephew/ grandson. I love Hasyir!

Technically, I love them all but these two, have a special place in my heart.

Last Eid al-Adha, were spent at home.
My sister's family came over to my eldest brother's and we decided to celebrate Hasyir's belated 6th birthday. (psst...my bf n I have been together for SIX YEARS!!!)
We werent able to celebrate with him on the actual day coz he was away with his parents on a holiday in KL. And we decided to throw this suprise party for him on Eid coz it was our turn (my brother's family, my younger sister and I) to leave for a week work cum vacation in KL.

Anyways, lotsa things happened on that night.....I shall let the pics speak for itself :)

to be continued.....

still here...hehe...

noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Fri, 26 Dec 2008 19:27:00 +0000

lotsa been happening (:

i'm super lazy.....lazy to update...hehe...

will be back ;)

so....stay tuned?

Forgiven...

noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Mon, 01 Dec 2008 19:19:00 +0000

"It is in forgiving that we are forgiven"

Say: 'O My servants who have transgressed against your own souls:do not despair of God's mercy,for God forgives all sins.It is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful.'Qur'an (39:53)

ps: my friend, i've forgiven you since long time ago.

no one else but you....

noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Sun, 30 Nov 2008 11:15:00 +0000

my sat started out horribly wrong!!!
nothing seems right...
i realised that i wasnt being to fair to those who matters most so i decided to shrug if off my shoulders n move on with things

my boyfriend's amazing....i am guilty of venting my frustrations at him
but he's always there, ever knowing how to calm me down
he was extremely sweet yesterday

he picked me up for dinner
and the first thing he did was to give me a big bear hug
it lasted for a good 10 mins

i was a cry baby
i wept on his shoulders
smudging my mascara n make-up
but i felt good right away...

thank you, sweetheart
YOU'RE THE BEST!

we then went to the nearby restaurant
we had sushi this time
the place was nice...the sashimis were awesome
as usual i didnt take any pic coz i was too hungry... ;p

after dinner we head over to newyork newyork! for dessert!!!
yeah, we both have sweet tooth...
this time round, the boyfriend ordered the mudpie and i had the chocolate lake or something....

the mudpie was nice but nothing beats the one frm Hard Rock Cafe or even NYDC...
but it was alright
my chocolate lake is basically some fried banana fritters, (or goreng pisang - the one fried with tepung adabi) with fresh strawberries floating on a thick chocolate sauce topped with vanilla ice-cream....i-screammmm!!!!.......SINFUL!!!!
it was super sinful!!!
but for the price that we paid, i could have 5 plates of it if i were to just do it at home
bananas & strawberries with chocolate can n will never go wrong!!
but i gotta watch the calories tho...hehe...

after desserts, we went shopping
i was looking out for toys for my nephew's 6th birthday
the boyfriend and i kinda sealed the deal....hehe...after i invited him over to my sister's wedding
well, my nephew's age always reminds me of how long i've been with my sweetheart
while i was busy shopping around, my sweetheart gave me a lil suprise....
he got for me a cute lil bear...and it's none other than the....

TENDERHEART BEAR!!!!

how appropriate!!
and since i nicknamed my boyfriend Bibi - short for habibi as in my lover in arabic- i'm gonna nickname the bear BEBE....hehe....lolx
this bear best describes my boyfriend
he said, "everytime you're down, hug him and think of me..."
now everybody!!....say...."AWWWWWW...."
hehehe...upon further inspection....lolx...inspection sia....haha...
i realised that Bibi and Bebe both have some similarities.....apart from being caring and kind...hehe...
LOOK BELOW haha...i'm evil!!!....lolx
oh well, after he gave me this gift, he brought me to someplace special to chill....
all in all, i had an amazing evening
we're back to what we used to be
the feeling's just awesome and this is the reason why i fall in love with him in the first place
Alhamdulilah, we both realised our mistakes and are putting in efforts to make this relationship works!
There's only one thing I gotta say....

mid-week wednesday....

noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Wed, 26 Nov 2008 12:20:00 +0000

baby took leave today so that we both could spend some time with each other and at the same time check out stuffs related to our future needs
yeah, it's abt time that we stop procastinating and get down to getting and being informed of stuffs that matters

intially, we're supposed to meet up early in the morning so that we could have breakfast before my meeting with the officials at SPH with regards to work
BUT
yours truly, woke up LATE!!!
Very LATE!

my appt with the SPH guys was at 10.30am but i was up only at 10am....yikes!!!
for the first time, after sooooooooo LONG...(read:school days) i took a freakin quick shower...haha...
unfortunately, i was 10 mins late for the appt :(
but all's good...met up with my sweetheart n thankfully he wasn't mad or anything...
well, he has never been mad at me or what not....he's a sweetheart!
he does get annoyed...lol...he's human but always forgiving - tho STUBBORN...but that's why i love him!

After SPH, the boyfriend and I went to FORK & SPOON at Toa Payoh for our lunch
he had some jap bento set while i had my favourite tom yam ban mian
the thing that i love abt this place is that everything's HALAL!!! (didnt take any pics coz we're both super duper hungy lar... ;p)

after lunch we took the lift to the 3rd floor and began our main plan for being there
those in the know, you'd know where we went to and for what purpose....hehe...
the design for the latest installment was awesome...very nicely done but we both dont quite fancy the location proposed
it was an exciting experience.... :)...lol...
we then went to the 1st floor to make some enquiries
we were told of our options
we decided not to rush and weigh out our options first
before we left told to apply/submit the HLE so that we'd have a rough idea of the range *&^% that we could afford :)

next, baby i went jalan2 round the neighbourhood
i used to grow up around the area n i'm sad that the famous nasi padang stall that has a row of halal food stalls being replaced by the usual kopitiam!
don't we have too many of those already?
i'm missing my rojak bandung, yong tau foo - their chili sause is awesome!!
the chicken rice stall....all GONE!!

in d end we decided to lepak at DeliFrance
since we've kinda just had our lunch, we decided to pig out on the desert instead
i would love to have their Lasagnes au Boeuf but...arrghh... i just had my lunch!!!
so we forgo Lasagnes au Boeuf n had the desserts instead!
my sweetheart ordered Mousse de Chocolat

it's actually Luxurious chocolate mousse coated with a layer of chocolate sauce, and a sprinkling of chocolate feeillentine
and i had the sinful Profiteroles au Chocolat
which is Vanilla ice cream in choux pastry, served with chocolate sauce.

here's the pic from the site vs the one on my plate...hehe...

it was freaking yummilicious!!!
SUPER SINFUL!!!
and i finished it off with a cup of warm mocha....HEAVEN!
the boyfriend n i discussed abt things and we managed to agree on alot that's on the list...
i'm very excited...hehe...
after a few hrs at DeliFrance we decided to chill elsewhere....decide to do something that we haven't for a while now...heh....we went karaoke-ing....
i could never sing to save my life....haha...and the only song that i can sing n it's passable are the songs frm KRU...hahaha....lawak..lawak....he on the other hand...not bad....
NOT BAD means VERY GOOD!!!
i had some vids of him singing but he made me promise that if i ever made it public, he'll stop singing me my lullabys n the cuban pete shoulder shimmy thingy...hehehe...
BUT i managed to steal a pic of him doing his THANG...lol...

i heart him....
i went back at 11.30pm
we did a lot of things today and i'm very tired....
really can't wait to see him again this Sat!!!!....haiz...the torture!
i'm gonna end this post with this mandatory couple pic
Dearest, sweetheart.....I LOVE YOU!

the little package....

noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Sun, 23 Nov 2008 15:41:00 +0000

i started off my day by meeting up my sweetheart at centerpoint
he had his exam at kaplan....yes of all days, on a SUNDAY!!
i have a feeling he'll do well for this paper....well, he's been getting As for his assignments n past papers, so I wasn't too worried for him

after we met, we decided to catch at movie at the cathay
we took a stroll instead of taking the bus....heh...we've lotsa calories to burn...eh
we talked abt anything n everything under the sun
i've always loved his company
his wit, his sense of humor...hehe...his presence...

we had our lunch at one of the restaurant there...kinda forgot the name of the place but the food was good
the portion was great for the price that we paid for...heh...
we will definitely go there again

after lunch we caught the latest Bond movie....
yeah, we're that SLOW...haha...we've been so busy!
Quantum of Solace (?)

personally, I've never been a fan of the James Bond movie after Sean Connery and this one, well... Judi Dench is better than ever and Daniel Craig, what can I say?, again excellent
he's still one nasty-ass dude, with the kind of rough-edged style that the 007 franchise hasn't seen since the glory days of Sean Connery, but the disappointing part was Olga Kurylenko
she's darn pretty but forgettable, unfortunately
it was said that the plot flows organically from the last instalment....I should have watched that first before purchasing the tix to this one

next, sweetheart n i decided to go to Sim Lim Square to check out the name card printing shop for their rates and some printers for work but unfortunately, the printing shop's closed and we decided to head back to my place after surveying the prices of the printers on offer

back at my place, we quickly get down to work
i've decided that he's the best person to take up the position as an editor for my web portal
he's amazing!!
his ideas and creativity...he's awesome!

seeing him hard at work, typing out proposals and coming out with creative ideas....
i've decided to give him his little gift that i got over the net..heh..how romantic...lol..
remember the post that i wrote abt the lil pkg?

well, here's the GIFT!!!.....hehehehehe...

in case you're wondering, the big boy is my gift that i received from GOD and the t-shirt, is THE GIFT that i got him...:p
my sweetheart looks darn HAPPY, isnt he...lol....
YEAH! He HEART me & my dad!!!.....hahaha...
full name sia...
well, that's not all
to be fair, i've made one for myself too!!
TTAAAAAAADAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!

n I look damn sexy wearing this lor....hahaha....
YUP...I HEART HIM TOO!!!
FULL NAME IS A MUST!
takut salah orang...hehe...
yeah, designed this myself...pfft...like it's so difficult like dat...heh..
and the best part is that you could design the back also...here's ours.... with the one and only....forever, Insya'Allah.
i've had an amazing week....can't wait for what it has in store for me next....
till next time, toodles ya'll.......

beesayyyyyyy......

noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Fri, 21 Nov 2008 11:02:00 +0000

BUSY!
lotsa things been happening!!!!
very the excited!
too many good things, it's been amazing
VERY EXCITED!!!
I vair happy GIRL! :D

anyways, a few weeks ago, the gorgeous couple, ashraf sinclair and bunga citra lestari finally tied the knot amidst numerous controversies...hehe...finally dah halal pun
i'm very happy whenever i receive news abt couples getting married
it's a wonderful journey that one finally embark on together with the love of their life

i fell in love with a duet that bunga sang during apm2008 with faizal tahir originally sung by ari lasso
well, i actually fell in love with faizal's vocal but well, that's how i got to know abt this bunga n ashraf person...lol..
anyways, i find it very sweet that ashraf tried to sing this popular song with his wife during their wedding

pic coutesy of Oh Bulan.com
so schweet!!! it is so obvious in the pic that ashraf's nervous..haha..
anyways, here's the song that they sang during their reception/dinner and the same song that i fell in love with....
Aku & Dirimu

AWESOME! I LOIKE!!

(hmm...will the boyfriend sing on our wedding day?....mmmm)

lunch date

noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 07:25:00 +0000

just came back frm my lunch date with my sweetheart
it's been a long time since we lunched at Puncak -Far East Plaza
we had our usual beef kueh teow goreng with cockles and fried wanton/yu char kuey sotong combo....YUMMY!!!!...
back in the days, we frequent this place on a quite regular basis
and i really love the cheap good food there...and surprisingly, the food still taste the same after all these years
going there reminds me of our courtship days...heh...
n it feels like so yesterday...so yesterday...lalalalala.....
after lunch, we jln2 around Far East before sweetheart rushes back to work
I bought some portuguese egg tarts from the lil pushcarts on the ground level of Far East Plaza

egg tarts or some called it egg custard tart basically consist of an outer pastry crust, filled with egg custard and baked
the one that i bought, consists of custard in a crème brûlée-like consistency caramelized fashion in a puff pastry case
it was delicious
i forgot the name of the stall tho but the kids enjoyed it as much as i did
the pastry is kinda mix of crispy, soft moist and a lil flaky - very nice
i like the pastry crispy n the custard....super delish!
it's not toooooo sweet just the right consistency
i could perhaps ask the boyfriend to get me some the next time he comes for a visit and if the pushcart is still there
alrighty...that's it for today...get back to work...hmmph...

A neat little package....

noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 15:42:00 +0000

i realised that it is so damn freaking difficult being in a relationship.
it's not just abt you.
i know he's content at times with me just telling him wat to do...heh...but i'm not that kinda girl.
UNFORTUNATELY!
i agree that at times it can be used to my own advantage but if it's too often, heh...i might as well be in a relationship with myself! ;p
see, no matter what, he's gotta give his input in whatever decisions we make that concerns us.
so you can imagine the conflict of opinions and disagreements that we have frm time to time but being with him, he has taught me that it is ok to have different views.
it is ok for me to have different opinions and it is ok for me not to agree with his ideas.
thing is, since i want his inputs, i too have to be ok when his ideas n ideals differs from mine....yikes...hehe....
acceptance, respect and tolerance
he is not perfect and i need to realise that neither am i and i am blessed to be with someone like him. :)
his willingness to listen and the effort he has put in the past mths, makes me appreciate his existence in my life
we've been together for so long and been thru the ups, downs n what have yous....we've realised that apart from all the above, efforts has to be put in by both parties esp when it comes to emotional pampering....hehe....
so YES, my boyfriend has been pampering me these days :D .... just like during our courtship/honeymoon period...hah...
he has stood by me thru the trying times and difficult days
he's always there reaching out when i feel like letting go
the support, the encouragements filled with love never fail to spur me on to push myself further to achieve success
we're gonna be embarking on a new journey together
my eldest brother has given his blessing to have my sweetheart be a part of our company after ng his work to contribute ideas in our projects.....i'm super excited!!!
back to pampering...i'm starting to have a bad habit of shopping online n I SHOP ALOT!!!
from apparels to facial products and recently, i got hooked on a website and decided to get something kinda mushy/tacky for the dearest sweetheart....heh...
and i'm amazed at their awesome prompt service coz the CUSTOMISED item arrives a day after I've placed the order :) efficient eh!
i will reveal the lil surprise only after my sweetheart receives the gift
for now....this lil package arrives this morning....
a reward for my sweetheart for being such a darling! ;p

i cannot wait to surprise/pass him this gift....hehehe....
of course i'll put it in a nicer packaging :)
oh well, gonna go to bed now.....got a lunch date to go to tmrw!
can't wait to see my sweetheart! :)

my happy FOOD!

noreply@blogger.com (HE and SHE) — Mon, 17 Nov 2008 10:24:00 +0000

Well, Sunday did not turn out quite as planned but I had a nice day anyway.
Started out my day feeling quite bummed out but as always happy food comes to the rescue!
People have different ways of dealing with their emotional upheavals.
Some will go for runs and others turn to food.
I used to either run or kick targets-back in NYP when I’m feeling down, the act of ‘running’ is a form of an escape for me to leave my problems behind and kicking targets, well I vent out all my frustrations by kicking the targets...heh...
But over the years, I got lazy :p
VERY lazy….hehe…
Instead, I started to turn to comfort food.
My happy FOOD!

Some will raid their well-stocked cabinets for junk food – think peanut butter, cookies, chips and ice-cream in every imaginable flavor.
Mine will either be ice-creams or a cup of cold milk with cornflakes, topped with lotsa almonds or walnuts and a sinful drizzle of chocolate syrup ….YUMMM!!!…

But yesterday, the boyfriend decided to be a darling and paid me a visit knowin I was feeling crappy - in an attempt to cheer me up! :)

He thought of bring me out for dinner but I just had mine since his visit was kinda pleasant suprise.

So instead, we bought Durra & Akmal out to Gelare for the super awesome cookies & cream ice-cream topped with Oreos and the delicious waffles soaked in hot chocolate, served with chocolate overload & wild berries ice-cream!

Talk about HAPPY FOOD!!! ...haha...
Made me VERY HAPPY indeed!!! (:
Luckily, I've had my dinner....or I'd have 2nd round of that sinful waffles with ice-cream!!!
We had a great time.
The kids were happy n they were cracking jokes all round.
I think they had fun with the boyfriend around...hehe...
We kinda ended the evening with our favourite peppermint milk tea with pearl.
Akmal made me promise to bring them out again to TIMEZONE the next time round.
The boyfriend cheered me up and I couldn't ask for more.

Yup, Vef....6 years on and I still love him...hehe...
More good things to come, Insya'Allah!