LOVE MAINTENANCE AND TREATMENT

TYPES OF LOVE

2010-09-10T07:32:00.004+01:00

There are four types of love:
1. AGAPE
This is the unconditional love of God to mankind.It is this love that made God to give us his only begotten son to come and die for our sins.
2. PHILOS
This is also refered to as brotherly or sisterly love.It exists between close friends.This love is when you as a boy loves your girlfriend as you love your own sister and she loves you as she loves her own brother.This type of love does not hurt,it is from the heart,it is unbreakable because it does not end.
3. STORGE
This is the love that exists among family members;father and son,mother and son,mother and daughter,father and daughter,brother and sister,father and mother.This love is unbreakable because you are born with it and it is in your blood.
4. EROS
This is also refered to as erotic love,romantic love,sexual love,infatuation,lust.This type of love involves sexual intercourse.Sometimes this type of love is dangerous because it is selfish,it hurts and it ends.

DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AND INFATUATION

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1. LOVE is the feeling of great affection for someone,while,INFATUATION is the feeling of great affection for someone's body.
2. LOVE is after the partner's heart,while,INFATUATION is after the partner's body.
3. LOVE cares,while,INFATUATION does not care.
4. LOVE is careful,while,INFATUATION is careless.
5. LOVE tolerates,while,INFATUATION does not tolerate.
6. LOVE understands,while,INFATUATION does not understand.
7. LOVE considers,while,INFATUATION does not consider.
8. LOVE is patient,while,INFATUATION is not patient.
9. LOVE is kind,while,INFATUATION is wicked.
10. LOVE sacrifices,while,INFATUATION does not sacrifice.
11. LOVE is selfless,while,INFATUATION is selfish.
12. LOVE does not pretend,while,INFATUATION pretends.
13. LOVE does not hurt,while,INFATUATION hurts.
14. In LOVE there is no heartbreak,while,in INFATUATION there is heartbreak.
15. LOVE does not end,while,INFATUATION always ends.

VIRGINITY IS NOT LACK OF OPPORTUNITY

2010-09-08T08:13:00.004+01:00

WHO IS A VIRGIN?
A virgin is any boy/man or girl/woman that has not had sex for the first time.
It is not easy to see a boy or girl of above 12yrs that is a virgin today.It is only by the grace of God that a person becomes a virgin before marriage these days.
If someone does what you can not do,you commend the person and not criticizing him/her.
Many people insist today that virginity is lack of opportunity just because they were not given the grace to become virgins.

ADVANTAGES OF VIRGINITY
Virginity has many advantages: a virgin is closest to God than any other human being on earth because he/she is not yet defiled,he/she is still as God created him/her.Anything that he/she asks God and God did not do it for him/her then it is not the will of God.
If you are a virgin reading this post,do not be discouraged by criticizers because you are blessed,keep being a virgin that you are because you have nothing to lose but a lot to gain.

THE EASIEST OF ALL GOD'S COMMANDMENT,"THOU SHALL NOT COMMIT FORNICATION"

2010-09-07T20:14:00.001+01:00

"Thou shall not commit fornication" is the easiest of all God's commandments,why? because it is the only commandment with alternative and limit.
God did not say that you should not have sex but He said that you should zip-up and wait until you get married,then you can have sex to your satisfaction for the rest of your life with your spouse.
SO COME TO THINK OF IT,DO YOU THINK IT IS DIFFICULT TO WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE?

TIPS ON HOW TO KNOW THAT YOUR GIRLFRIEND LOVES YOU.

2010-08-24T18:15:00.001+01:00

1. She will always like to be with you.
2. She will always call to hear your voice when you are not together.
3. She will always be around you when you are sick.
4. She will care for you.
5. She will never support you to lavish your money.
6. She will always advice you on what is best for you.
7. She will never be happy to see you not looking smart.
8. When you are angry she will always find a way to make you happy.
9. She will never hesitate to introduce you to her friends.
10. She will not be ashamed of you.
11. When you are provoked by someone and you want to fight,she must do everything possible within her power to calm you down and prevent you from fighting.
12. She will be ready to cope with you in bad times.
E.t.c

TIPS ON HOW TO KNOW THAT YOUR BOYFRIEND LOVES YOU.

2010-08-24T16:44:00.001+01:00

1. He will always want to be with you.
2. He will always call to hear your voice when you are not together.
3. He will care about you.
4. He will trust and believe.
5. He will heed to your advice.
6. He will respect you.
7. If you ask him of something that he is in the position to do,he will never hesitate to do it for you.
8. He will always carry your interest in mind.
9. He will always advice you politely.
10. He will not hide his feelings from you.
11. He will always like you to accompany him to occasions or decent parties.
12. He must not hesitate to introduce you to his friends.
13. He will never be ashamed of you.
14. He must not make sex a priority in your relationship.
E.t.c

HOW TO IDENTIFY REAL LOVE,TO AVOID HEARTBREAK (for the girls).

2010-08-22T19:02:00.001+01:00

1. Love is patient and kind.
2. Love is not jealous or boastful.
3. Love is not arrogant or rude.
4. Love does not insist on its own way,ie,it is not selfish.
5. Love is not irritable or resentful.
6. Love does not rejoice at wrong,but rejoices in the right.
7. Love is caring.
8. Love bears all things,believes all things,hopes all things,endures all things.
9. Love never ends.
To identify a love relationship,sex must never be a priority in the relationship.As human beings,you might fall into the temptation of having sex,but it shouldn't be the basis of the relationship.
If you realy want your man to respect you,starve him of your body,if he realy loves you,he will cope.
If you make yourself so common to your man,to be using you anytime he wants,just as a rag,one day,he might get fed up with you and that's what leads to HEARTBREAK.
If i should advice you,i will tell you to 'ZIP UP' to avoid HEARTBREAK.The one that LOVES you must cope and stay,but the one that INFATUATES you will go,making way for the one that LOVES you.

21 WAYS TO LOVE YOUR WIFE

2010-08-22T17:55:00.001+01:00

1. Call her by her favourite pet-name and give her a hug and a kiss before getting out of bed.
2. Smile when you look at her.Tell her how beautiful she is on her dress.
3. Call her during the day to say you miss her.
4. Play her favourite music and invite her to cuddle with you on the sofa while you listen.
5. Ask about her day and how things go.
6. Wash her back while she is in the tub or shower.
7. Dry her back while she is in the tub or shower.
8. Put a love note in her lunch or purse.
9. As a surprise,pick her up after work.
10. Tell her how much you enjoy talking with her.
11. Tell her,in front of your children,what a wonderful mother she is.
12. Slip your arm around her as you sit together in an occasion.
13. Ask her for a date to be enjoyed without the children.
14. Get up minutes earlier and ask her to join you for a chat while you sip a hot tea or drink.
15. Before you fall asleep at night,wrap your arm around her and whisper words of love.
16. Ask her opinion about a recent news report or sermon at church and appreciate her contributions.
17. Give her a hug for no reason at all.
18. Complement her in front of her friends and siblings.
19. Use endearing words with her often.Never be harsh on her.
20. When you are out socially,wink or blow a kiss at her.
21. Thank God for the eve of your life.

21 WAYS TO LOVE YOUR HUSBAND

2010-08-21T18:44:00.001+01:00

1. Discover his favourite pet name and call him by that.
2. Allow him exercise his authority as the head of the family.Like Sarah,call him,"my lord"
3. Do not challenge him when he is hurt.
4. Be silent when he is angry.You can go back to him in his sober moment with apology and explain why you behaved the way that annoyed him.
5. Be quick to say,"i am sorry dear,darling,daddy...(as the case may be)" when ever you offend him.Pettingly,insist on his forgiveness and kiss him when he does so.
6. Speak good of him before his friends and siblings.
7. Honour his mother even when she does not reciprocate.Do not ever report her to him.
8. Insist that he buys gifts for his parents and so be sure that he will do the same for your own parents.
9. Surprise him with his favourite dish especially when he has not enough money at hand.
10. Do not allow maids or servant to serve him food when you are at home.You may lose him to them.
11. Give him a warm reception with an embrace when he returns.collect his luggage and help to undress him.
12. Smile when you look at him and give him occasional pecks when you are out socially.
13. Praise him before your children.
14. Wash his back while he is in the tub or shower.
15. Put a love note in his lunch or purse.
16. Phone and tell him that you miss him.
17. Dial his number and on hearing,"hello!" just tell him,"i love you darling!"
18. If he is a public figure or a politician gently wake him at the early hours of the morning and romance him to the point of demand.He will not be enticed by any other woman that day.
19. Tell him how lucky you are to have him as your husband.If you make him a king he will make you a queen.
20. Give him a hug for no reason at all.
21. Thank God for the Adam of your life.

DEFINITION OF LOVE

2010-08-21T17:31:00.001+01:00

Love,according to Oxford Advanced Learner's Dictionary,is 1. a strong feeling of deep affection for somebody or something.
2. Sexual affection or passion.
3. Great enjoyment of something.e.t.c