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noreply@blogger.com (elizabeth) — Tue, 28 Jul 2009 10:30:00 -0700

3 Sure Shot Ways to Get a Girl - You'll Laugh to Yourself at How Easy it Is

If you haven't ever noticed, girls think guys have bad intentions from the get go. Most women have been hurt in a relationship before, and have put up a wall toward men that doesn't allow them to get that close, especially in the beginning. It takes special skill these days in order to get a girl to like you. But, it is actually pretty easy. You just have to know what to do.
Below is a list of 3 easy ways to get a girl:

1. It may seem rude, but try talking to one of her friends before talking to her. This is easy, especially if you haven't gotten up the nerve to approach her directly. When you talk to her friends, make sure you do not come off too flirty. You can start by just asking a simple question about something in general. By talking to one or all of her friends, she will develop an automatic interest in you and begin to notice you. She is going to end up asking her friends, "who was that guy you were talking to?".

2. Smile when the girl you like looks in your direction. If she catches you just looking at her without smiling when she looks back at you, she could end up getting a little freaked out by your strange behavior. People who never smile come off as seeming a bit strange and demented. Those are characteristics that will not get a girl. Smiling makes people much more comfortable and more likely to approach you. Think of smiling at the girl as means of an ice breaker. If you are too shy to smile directly at her, then let her catch you smiling and laughing with a friend. Appearing as if you are in a good mood possessing a positive attitude will triple your chances of her approaching you.

3. Try to be sensitive. Do not be afraid about how others will view you if you appear to be a nice guy. Not all mean have to be jerks. Unfortunately, a lot of them think acting macho qualifies them as a real man. That same macho behavior is what causes women to label them as jerks as well as other names that are much too explicit to list here. Seeming cocky and rude may be a winner with the guys, but when it comes to winning a girl's heart, you have to bring your sensitive side to life. As much as guys do not want to admit it, they all have a sensitive side.
Women are naturally very sensitive creatures which is why they get along with other women so well. You can ask any girl what she wants in a guy, and she is guaranteed to say something like, "I want a guy who is sensitive and funny". Oh yeah, another thing guys aren't aware of is that girls do not care about looks that much when it comes to personality.
Have a sensitive side you are not afraid to show off and you will win her heart forever
REFERENCE: Nick_Travis

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noreply@blogger.com (elizabeth) — Thu, 16 Jul 2009 10:14:00 -0700

How to Seduce a Woman Who Already Has a Boyfriend - 2 Killer Methods You Must Know

1. Concentrate on His Dispersion
There is an old saying from war that goes something like "You must show dispersion, and as your enemy begins to attack that dispersion, you must focus all your efforts on his own dispersion as he blindly attacks yours."
Okay, those aren't even close to the exact words, but let me explain the latter part of the quote as it is very relevant in this situation.
Dispersion is a weakness. What most men tend to do is try and out-do the woman's boyfriend at things he is already really good at. For example, let's say her boyfriend knows how to show her an exciting time when they go out together. Most men will try and give her a even more exciting time when they are out together. They try and attack the boyfriend's strengths and end up looking like a try-hard.
Instead, you need to identify the weak points in their relationship. Where does he lack (you will no doubt find many areas if you look closely) and what areas does she seem to what more of?
Another example: If he sucks at having genuine, deep conversations with her. She's probably missing that intense emotional connection.
What you would want to do is focus your efforts on weak points like these and her exactly what she's craving. Women are ALWAYS going to be comparing other guys with the one they're currently with. It is almost inevitable.
By subtly doing this you will work your way into her mind as a man who can fulfill her more than the one she's currently with.
2. Never Tell Her Bluntly
This is a warning: It does not matter how awesome of a guy you think (even she thinks) you

could be for her. If you outright tell her your true feelings she will be gone...and fast.
The reason is because she will immediately thrust in a moral position, and she'll know that she now has to pick you or him. Unfortunately, when people are given these situations they choose the easiest, most comfortable option. And in this case it would be going back to her boyfriend who she is already with.
In my opinion, go out and find a sexier, more exciting woman that's single. There are tons of them out there. It's the beauty of the dating game ;-)

REFERENCE: Shawn_Jaksim

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noreply@blogger.com (elizabeth) — Thu, 16 Jul 2009 10:08:00 -0700

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noreply@blogger.com (elizabeth) — Thu, 16 Jul 2009 09:03:00 -0700

What Do Guys Look For in Girls? - 5 Major Qualities They Find Attractive

What do guys look for in girls you may ask? The best way to know is to get a guy's perspective. Listed below are five major qualities that guys find attractive in a girl. Be sure to take note of what you have or not have and cultivate what you already have while trying to develop what you don't.
1 - Self-confidence. This is on top of the list of the qualities that guys look for in girls. The simple reason is that they would not want to assure you all the time that you are worthy of compliments. You need to see yourself the way others see you without being arrogant.
2 - Able to laugh at jokes. Men generally do not want to be in the company of a boring serious type of girl. They want their girls to be able to laugh with them when they crack jokes. They often get attracted to girls who smile a lot and are fun-loving.
3 - Can be one of the guys. Some men want their girls who can just be one of the guys. They dislike uptight and totally rigid girls who can't even lay back and relax and be interested in sports. They don't like girls who take care of their shoes first before attending to their guy's needs. In fact, some guys would want their girls to show their natural beauty by wearing no or less makeup.
4 - Smart. They do not need IQ's of geniuses to qualify as a girlfriend material but just enough brains for them to be proud of. They want to be able to introduce their girlfriends to their family without the fear of their disapproval. They want someone who has enough common sense that understands and listens to them.
5 - Neat. Who would want girls who can't even take care of themselves? Even if you are not the campus' belle, if you are neat and tidy, guys will find you attractive.
There are actually many qualities that men look for in their girls. But the above mentioned are far more important and means the most to them.

REFERENCE: Sarah_Nichols_Smith

How to Tell If He Likes You - 4 Indicators of Interest

So you have met someone and almost instantly you feel the attraction. How to tell if he likes you in return? Of course it is never easy trying to read into someone's actions because all you can do is to presume. However, sometimes guys can be easy to read and once in a while you will notice small change in the way he treats you. For others, it may seem unnoticeable but for you it means something.
He asks if you have a boyfriend.
Sure he may sound so cool and casual about asking you if you have a boyfriend or not but deep down inside him, he may be hoping that you would answer the latter and keep the hope in him alive. If you do answer him that you do not have anyone at the moment, he may clearly state his disbelief. You always have to take note of his expression and body language. The usual reaction of a person with a hidden meaning to that question he just asked you will tense up but will be relieved when your answer meets their expectation.
He asks what type of guy you are looking for in a date.
Every once in a while when a guy asks you what are the qualities you look for in a date, he might be planning his way ahead to be the exact guy you are looking for. Unless he is interested, he is in no position to ask you the kind of guys you date. How to tell if he likes you? This is certainly one indication that he does.
He constantly does you favors or volunteer for them.
If the guy is interested in you, no matter what favor you ask as long as they can do it, they will never hesitate to accomplish them for you. He does not mind driving you around (that is if he has a car), he will accompany you almost anywhere you go and he will volunteer to help you with stuffs. He will go at whatever length he can to be of assistance and this is just his way of expressing his interest in you.
He wants to celebrate special occasions with you.
Valentine's Day is near and he invited you ahead of time to celebrate with him. What kind of gesture is that if not an expression that he is interested in you?
These are just clues and indications to help you gain knowledge on how to tell if he likes you. It is better to have

REFERENCE: Sarah_Nichols_Smith