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Şi, probabil, părerea generală este că<br />relaţia devine o sursă de fericire, de bucurie, de forţă, de a merge mai<br />departe, entuziasm, transformare şi alteori, o sursă de probleme, conflicte,<br />suferinţă, dezamăgiri. Natura relaţiei şi evoluţia ei sunt influentate de o<br />mulţime de factori, de la personalitatea celor doua persoane, de<br />experienţa lor de viaţă şi de capacitatea de a inţelege ceea ce trăiesc, la<br />maturitatea lor emoţională, la sistemul lor de valori şi, desigur, la modul în<br />care comunică ei.<br />Teoretic ştim că relaţia noastră este influenţată în mare măsură de<br />modul in care comunicăm cu celălalt, de limbajul verbal şi simbolic specific<br />relaţiei noastre, de modul în care ne facem înţelesi, de acurateţea<br />mesajelor emise şi receptate. Cu toate acestea, chiar dacă teoria este<br />excelent înţeleasă, nu suntem scutiti de distorsiuni în comunicare, de<br />neînţelegeri în cuplu. ”Tu ce ai înţeles? Eu altceva am spus sau am vrut să<br />spun.” Sunt fraze care pot apare frecvent în discuţiile noastre de cuplu.<br />Iată câteva idei demne de luat în seamă şi care pot aduce o mai<br />mare uşurinţă în comunicarea cu partenerul:<br />Menajarea trasaturilor vulnerabile<br />Aşa cum şi dv. aveţi probabil lucruri care vă deranjează mult, care<br />vă afecteaza, şi partenerul se poate simti deranjat sau rănit de alte lucruri.<br />Este important să descoperiţi care sunt acestea şi să-l menajaţi în acest sens.<br />Este foarte posibil ca el să se simtă mai înţeles şi mai aproape de dv. în<br />acest fel. A-i exploata însă aceste puncte vulnerabile vă poate da un<br />sentiment de putere sau de dominare pe moment, însă pe termen lung are<br />efect distructiv asupra relaţiei sau asupra imaginii lui de sine.<br />Conflictele nu sunt momente propice deciziilor<br />Este important să faceţi un efort de a nu arunca, în timpul<br />disputelor, cuvinte care dor şi în care nu credeţi; de asemenea, acelea nu<br />sunt momentele cele mai fericite de a lua decizii privind relaţia.<br />Replici pozitive<br />Partenerul nu vă poate împlini toate aşteptările pe care le aveţi de<br />la el sau de la viaţă. O parte din ele vă revin dv. să le împliniţi. Este<br />important să apreciaţi ceea ce vă oferă el, chiar dacă nu este neapărat<br />ceea ce vă doriţi, dacă vă aduce ceva frumos sau benefic în viaţă. În aceste<br />sens, este important să daţi un feed-back pozitiv faptelor sau cuvintelor<br />lui, atunci când este cazul.<br />Exprimarea sentimentelor<br />Modul în care îşi exprimă partenerul afecţiunea, intenţiile, iubirea<br />faţă de dv. nu este neapărat modul care doriţi ca el<br />s-o facă. Este demn de luat în seamă că el are aceste sentimente pentru dv.<br />şi le arată în modul lui specific. Puteţi discuta cu el, pentru a-l lăsa să<br />înţeleagă cum anume vă aşteptaţi să o facă. Mai departe depinde de el să<br />se poată plia pe ceea ce i-aţi spus, dar nu este obligat sa faca asa. Acest<br />lucru este valabil, reciproc şi pentru dv.<br />Conflictul poate deveni o sursa de evolutie pentru dv si<br />pentru cuplu<br />Cearta, conflictele pe diverse teme, ca şi cele pornite de la<br />diferenţele de personalitate pot fi un prilej de a deveni mai flexibili, de a<br />înţelege mai mult universul celuilalt, de a asimila de la celalalt o altă<br />viziune asupra lucrurilor şi de a vă îmbogăţi interior. Şi aceasta în limitele<br />demnităţii personale şi respectandu-l pe celalalt ca persoană. De<br />asemenea, este important să stabiliţi pe ce baze sau convingeri se susţine<br />relaţia dv., de ex.: dorinţa de a depăşi împreună problemele apărute,<br />dorinţa de a nu deteriora relaţia pe motive de orgoliu, dorinţa de a vă<br />cultiva şi ocroti relaţia, dorinţa de a rămâne împreună etc.<br />Smaranda GROSU<br />Psiholog psihoterapeut<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8105705646696603444-3603869523667968359?l=mariangmc.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/KekFCnuSG4-HwIGmxOd-KzolVl0/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/KekFCnuSG4-HwIGmxOd-KzolVl0/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/KekFCnuSG4-HwIGmxOd-KzolVl0/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/KekFCnuSG4-HwIGmxOd-KzolVl0/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/blogspot/IRnw/~4/YBBlrFazbeA" height="1" width="1"/>gmchttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12147588023387438208noreply@blogger.com0http://mariangmc.blogspot.com/2010/01/comunicarea-in-cuplu-cum-o-putem-imbun.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8105705646696603444.post-69345659180415992942010-01-06T06:25:00.000-08:002010-01-06T06:26:28.873-08:002010-01-06T06:26:28.873-08:00LOVE is a sweet torment.<br />Unde-i dragoste e si ceartã.<br />Fãrã mânie nu-i iubire.<br />Orice fericire are a ei nemultumire.<br />Sim. Love is full of trouble / The course of true love never did run smooth.<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8105705646696603444-6934565918041599294?l=mariangmc.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/LrAhDYcTRpwlLMfCE8PpaPdR7lA/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/LrAhDYcTRpwlLMfCE8PpaPdR7lA/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/LrAhDYcTRpwlLMfCE8PpaPdR7lA/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/LrAhDYcTRpwlLMfCE8PpaPdR7lA/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/blogspot/IRnw/~4/eW16gRIR1xk" height="1" width="1"/>gmchttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12147588023387438208noreply@blogger.com0http://mariangmc.blogspot.com/2010/01/love.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8105705646696603444.post-78378375371671644062010-01-06T06:23:00.001-08:002010-01-06T06:23:14.579-08:002010-01-06T06:23:14.579-08:00<object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/o7AZ1dqrQ2I&color1=0xb1b1b1&color2=0xcfcfcf&hl=en_US&feature=player_embedded&fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/o7AZ1dqrQ2I&color1=0xb1b1b1&color2=0xcfcfcf&hl=en_US&feature=player_embedded&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" allowScriptAccess="always" width="425" height="344"></embed></object><br />ACTIONS speak louder than words !<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8105705646696603444-8668696954718870805?l=mariangmc.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/xRE7lE-5xDwKuBJQeH-VvKoiBgM/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/xRE7lE-5xDwKuBJQeH-VvKoiBgM/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/xRE7lE-5xDwKuBJQeH-VvKoiBgM/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/xRE7lE-5xDwKuBJQeH-VvKoiBgM/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/blogspot/IRnw/~4/og_vOkQtzQo" height="1" width="1"/>gmchttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12147588023387438208noreply@blogger.com0http://mariangmc.blogspot.com/2010/01/blog-post_5359.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8105705646696603444.post-52076228177980488772010-01-06T05:56:00.001-08:002010-01-06T05:56:57.795-08:002010-01-06T05:56:57.795-08:00<div style="float: right; margin-left: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/stewartplemmons/3948494990/" title="photo sharing"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2556/3948494990_5aa3e633a5_m.jpg" alt="" style="border: solid 2px #000000;" /></a><br /><span style="font-size: 0.9em; margin-top: 0px;"><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/stewartplemmons/3948494990/">Out of Frame-Reflection. 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