Loves

Cemburu Kaum Lelaki Mengikut Horoskop

2009-12-10T14:42:00.003+08:00

Love,love,love

2009-06-24T14:32:00.001+08:00

"One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: That word is love." - Sophocles

"Attention is the most basic form of love; through it we bless and are blessed." - John Tarrant

"We love because it's the only true adventure." - Nikki Giovanni

"Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness." - Oliver Wendell Holmes

"Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it." - Robert Mitchum

"Love stretches your heart and makes you big inside." - Margaret Walker

"Love has no awareness of merit or demerit; it has no scale... Love loves; this is its nature." - Howard Thurman

"Love is like war: Easy to begin but hard to end." - Anonymous

"Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other." - Rainer Maria Rilke

"Where love is, no room is too small." - Talmud

"Loves makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place." - Zora Neale Hurston

"Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired." - Mark Twain

"Love is more than three words mumbled before bedtime. Love is sustained by action, a pattern of devotion in the things we do for each other every day." - Nicholas Sparks

"To love is to receive a glimpse of heaven." - Karen Sunde

"A love song is just a caress set to music." - Sigmund Romberg

"Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit." - Peter Ustinov

"Love is like a violin. The music may stop now and then, but the strings remain forever." - unknown

"Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence." - Erich Fromm

sweet marriage life..

2008-01-09T00:42:00.000+08:00

haih..dah lama x nulih blog ni..rase mcm dah malas dah..bosan..bosan..aku nak cube bnda lain slain hidup bolei x..ade x sesape yang boleh cadangkan selain hidup dan mati,ape yg kite bolei buat???

First love

2007-09-04T17:42:00.000+08:00

~~~~~LOVE~~~~~LOVE~~~~~LOVE~~~~~LOVE~~~~~LOVE~~~~~LOVE~~~~~LOVE~~~~

I ne'er was struck before that hour

With love so sudden and so sweet

Her face it bloomed like a sweet flower

And stole my heart away complete

My face turned pale, a deadly pale

My legs refused to walk away,

And when she looked what could I ail

My life and all seemed turned to clay

And then my blood rushed to my face

And took my eyesight quite away

The trees and bushes round the place

Seemed midnight at noonday

I could not see a single thing,

Words from my eyes did start

They spoke as chords do from the string,

And blood burnt round my heart

Are flowers the winter's choice

Is love's bed always snow

She seemed to hear my silent voice

Not love appeals to know

I never saw so sweet a face

As that I stood before

My heart has left its dwelling place

And can return no more

~~~~~LOVE~~~~~LOVE~~~~~LOVE~~~~~LOVE~~~~~LOVE~~~~~LOVE~~~~~LOVE~~~~

List of Top Ten Flirting Tips

2007-09-04T17:23:00.000+08:00

Here are top ten Flirting Tipz for you....

Flirting is an attitude:

A good flirt is self-confident and not afraid to take risks. Be enthusiastic and positive, it works!

Start a conversation: The best opening line is saying hello.Talk about the surroundings, ask a question, ask for help, state an opinion.

Have fun:

Be playful, light-hearted and spontaneous. Show your vulnerability.

Use props:

Never leave home without a prop. Props are natural conversation starters. They encourage conversation and others will be compelled to start talking to you. Great props include: dogs, kids, unusual jewelry, a irresistable scent, a sweatshirt with your favorite passion, interesting ties, hats, or an interesting book or newspaper.

Be the host:

Change your behavior from the role of guest to host. You are not the passive person in waiting, but rather the welcome committee.

Make the first move: Move closer to the person you want to meet. Say hello!

Listen:

You have two ears and one mouth because you should listen twice as much as you speak. Listening is a true art. Your flirting partner will be drawn to you. Everyone loves to be heard.

Eye contact:

Make eye contact, but please look your partner in the eye gently (no more than 2-4 seconds) and then glance away.Don?t stare ? it?s a turn off.

Compliment:

Compliment your flirting partner. The best compliments have the element of surprise. The "flirtee" will know that you really noticed them.Remember, your compliments must be honest, sincere and genuine. When you receive a compliment the best response is merely, Thank You!

Smile:

It is contagious. It will make you so much more approachable. A smile lights up your face and draws people to you. You will be a people magnet.

GUDLUCK!!!

KOREAN MUVIES

2007-09-03T22:27:00.000+08:00

I really like this muvie.....i dunno why..but it really make me cry....so so so sad...believe me..

sad..sad..sad..

Love and Life Follow Birthday

2007-09-03T22:04:00.000+08:00

Jom Tengok...!!!Let us check it out !!!

Is your birthday day 1 of the month?

Your Life:

You are very curious and dedicative. When you are interested in something, everything else has to wait. This is your quality. But if you learn to be more patient and complete what you have started, you will be successful in life.
Your Love:

You believe in love at first sight. You won’t wait to learn more about the person. Vise versa, people who fail to impress you will hardly get a chance to be your friend. Your emotion is on the extreme. You can only love or hate, nothing in between and this often shows in your _expression. Try not to end a relationship in a quarrel.

Is your birthday day 2 of the month?
Your Life

You have great common sense but usually fail to follow through. This might happens because you are too busy with your mission and shut yourself from the outside world. You are clever and profound so there’s a slight chance for self-control problem.
Your Love

Your love progress slowly, and quietly. You seem to be contented with your unrequited love. Your are a romantic and loyal lover

Is your birthday day 3 of the month?
Your Life:

Although you are innocent and romantic but your _expression often mislead others that you are an active, fun loving kid. Because of your double personality, it’s hard for others to really know the real you. You are careful and patient.

Your Love:

Your love is the greatest which often surprises others. No one can bring you to light when you are in love. Your confidence might lead you to the track your parents disagree.

Is your birthday day 4 of the month?

Your Life:

You usually think before acting which makes your life quite easy. But you often are the one who give yourself a hard time by being paranoid. People might not truly understand you but you are really nice to be around. You are cheerful and friendly.
Your Love:

Still water runs deep, that’s what you are. You always surprise others with your new character when you are in love. Your love trap often comes unexpectedly and your love life is full of surprises.

Is your birthday day 5 of the month?

Your Life:

Although you are on the quiet side, but you enjoy excitement and changes. Routine is something you cannot stand. Because of your extreme confidence, you hardly ask others for opinion. You believe in leading your own life, and you have got the gift in doing so.
Your Love:

Nothing can stop you from making progress in your love life. Once you are in love, you feel the ownership of your lover. A third party can only makes your jealousy becomes worse.

Is your birthday day 6 of the month?
Your Life:

You are generous with people in need, sometimes to an extreme that people find you nosey. Your hidden courage and dedication often surprise others. Your imagination is extremely unique.
Your Love:

Your love life is on the smooth track because it grows from friendship. Although you may not make a sweet lover but your sincerity bring happiness to your couple.

Is your birthday day 7 of the month?

Your Life:

You are sensitive to changes around you but your feeling is hardly expressed. You hate exaggerations. Under your quiet personality, you are rather stubborn and self-centered. These qualities are the force behind your extreme persistence.
Your Love:

You have enormous courage to please your lover. Your relationship often progress quickly.

Is your birthday day 8 of the month?
Your Life:

You have pleasant and friendly personality. People look u to your wit and imagination. You are unpredictable and hardly complete what you started, which sometimes create negative impact to people around you.
Your Love:

Falling in love becomes your routine. Most of the time you are lucky. You fascinate people with good taste but you never have enough with one. Although your love progresses very fast, it never lasts.

Is your birthday day 9 of the month?
Your Life:

You often have problem in promoting yourself, just because you don’t know how to express your true self. On the other hand, you don’t really care what they think. This is why people misunderstand you until they really get a chance to learn about your pleasant personality.Opposite sex find you mysterious and worth searching. Your wit is remarkable but sometimes you are too fast to follow.
Your Love:

You won’t reveal your feeling even after dreaming about the same guy over and over. Your first love lasts forever. You are responsible to the feeling of your lover. The chance to betray your lover is none. You have luck with children.

Is your birthday day 10 of the month?
Your Life:

You are very capable. If you are a woman, you have high chance to be a renowned workingwoman. If you are a man, your path to fame and honor is near. As an innovator, you are not a good follower. You are good in implementing your imagination and share it with others. You are always well dressed.
Your Love:

You often lose your love ones from being too jealous. You always feel like you own the person you fall in love with and that often blows your relationship.

Is your birthday day 11 of the month?
Your Life

You are gracious, elegant and prudent. People admire your qualities and some even become jealous of you. You are realistic, flexible and adaptable. You are remarkably kind and moral person.
Your Love

You are willing to sacrifice yourself for the one you love. Your lover will always have your gentleness, care and loyalty. You will always be happy to hand around the one you love.

Is your birthday day 12 of the month?
Your Life:

You are friendly, humorous and full of energy. You are open-minded and do not care for minor details. Your weak point is your hot temper.
Your Love:

You are willing to start off in one-sided love affairs because you strongly believe that you will eventually win his/her heart. On the other hand, once you are together, you always want to do things your way, which is often the fire starter. You usually run in and out of love quickly.

Is your birthday day 13 of the month?
Your Life:

You are sincere and easy going. Flattering and charming around are not your style. You care so much for freedom that often leads you to the difficult path. Because of your sincerity, most people find you easy to be around although you are sometimes too straightforward.
Your Love:

Your gentleness, care and sincerity make you an attractive person. Eventhough you don’t intend to be charming, but you naturally are, especially in the eyes of opposite sex.

Is your birthday day 14 of the month?
Your Life:

You are so confident that sometimes you forget about the people around you. If you have to be in one of the two teams, you will choose to be in the winning team. On the other hand, you are kind and caring but above all, you care for your own benefits. Your imagination is unique and often gets implemented shortly after it comes across.
Your Love:

You will not get soft with the one you don’t really like, no matter how hard he/she tries. But once you feel for someone you have chosen, there’s no getting back.

Is your birthday day 15 of the month?
Your Life:

You are outgoing and love to be at the center of attention. From the outside, you may seem flashy, flirty, and tricky but your true self is strong, full of hope to be the leader. When you fail to convince someone, you will get frustrated, and perhaps let your temper shows.
Your Love:

You are emotional. Many can win your heart at once, but not for long. This is why you hardly win a decent relationship

Is your birthday day 16 of the month?
Your Life:

You always follow the good and the right instead of listening to your heart. Another word, you are a perfectionist. You care for every word people say about you. You often seen isolated while you are, by nature, curious and a dreamer who is ready to get over the edge to make your dream comes true.
Your Love:

You often fall in love with a person who is much different from you, in age and other aspects. Your relationship grows on friendship. Love at fist sight is not your style

Is your birthday day 17 of the month?
Your Life:

You neither want to be interfered nor have the desire to mess with others’ life. But you are friendly and occasionally a party animal. You are always in a circle of friends. You often do things in your own way that occasionally go beyond the acceptable limit. People may find you childish and not very attractive in that sense.
Your Love:

Your fun-loving character attracts opposite sex. Many of those are great.You often find yourself trapped among a few great guys while you have to choose only one.

Is your birthday day 18 of the month?
Your Life:

At first glance, people think you are quiet type of person. Actually you are cheerful, but conditionally. You will show your joyful character only in good mood. One the other hand, when you are moody, no one would dare to be around. Because of your emotion fluctuation and frank character, some find you hard to be around.
Your Love:

You hardly show your feeling towards opposite sex no matter how much you like him/her. Your partner also has similar character so your love affairs often take quite a while to flourish. Time tells it all. Your sincerity makes you very attractive.

Is your birthday day 19 of the month?
Your Life:

You are great in managing everything in your life and this is how you gain respect from others. Because of this quality, you sometimes feel that you are better than the rest. Extreme confidence might lead you to the wrong path. You are a free bird and want to lead your own life.
Your Love:

You love life is rather different from others’. When you are in love, nothing can stop you. You may often fight with your partner but, soon after that, you will make up in a way that surprises others.

Is your birthday day 20 of the month?
Your Life:

You are prudent, circumspect and take things seriously. Before you make any move, you will think of a few alternatives that might take a while. You are patient, imaginative and target oriented. You value friendship more than anything else.
Your Love:

You usually study your partner carefully before making any move. You never demand anything beyond the natural quality of that person. Your sincerity doesn’t bring excitement in your love life but it brings deeply grown relationship

Is your birthday day 21 of the month?
Your Life:

You are curious and a true follower. You can please someone so much that it seem like you are trying to charm that person. You hide your disagreement under your smiling face. This is a charming quality of yours.
Your Love:

You are quite unlucky in love. You are loved by someone you don’t like while your dream man is so far away. Your love life is occasionally under turbulence. Sometimes you don’t have the clear view of the guy in your heart.

Is your birthday day 22 of the month?
Your Life:

You have the boss character, but not a leader. Most people look up to you for your capability and confidence although they find you quite stubborn. You should listen more to others. You are a unique and charming individual.
Your Love:

You hardly take the moderate track. You either love or hate someone. Whom you call friends are the chosen ones. If any of them betray you, you won’t let them get away without having hard time.

Is your birthday day 23 of the month?

Your Life:

You never live your life in the way others want you to. You are an independent individual who loves challenges and excitement. You are ready to face with the result of your decision. You are usually the one your friends count on.
Your Love:

Because you love excitements, you occasionally get involved in forbidden love affairs. You may fall in love with a married person and no one can stop you from making progress. You are very charming, although you might not realize it

Is your birthday day 24 of the month?
Your Life:

You are very optimistic and that’s why you always enjoy life. You are gifted in entertaining others. Your friends love and trust you. You’ll be the first they come to when they are in need of someone to speak their heart out.
Your Love:

Sometimes you fall in love just because you want to be in love, not that you really like that person. You always be seen as a sweet couple but you can’t really get over your love ones from past. Your partner is usually crazy about you because you are remarkably charming and romantic

Is your birthday day 25 of the month?
Your Life:

You are a warrior. No obstacle can stop you from reaching your goal. You always keep yourself busy. This quality plus your responsibility will eventually bring you success.
Your Love:

You adore your partner as the number one priority. You value your love onemore than yourself. Your love is the greatest of all and your have potentialto get married young

Is your birthday day 26 of the month?
Your Life:

You are always curious and responsive to changes. Routine life is not the way you choose to live. Travelling is your favorite hobby because excitement is what you are after.
Your Love:

You will not stand being around the one you dislike. Your love comes and goes quickly. You can be deeply in love but soon after you will be looking around for the next one.

Is your birthday day 27 of the month?
Your Life:

You are sensitive and vulnerable. Tears often run down your cheeks even when the matter is not that bad. This might be the result from being to pessimistic. You might seem cold on the shell, but your inner self is a kind loving person.
Your Love:

You will be elegantly dressed, no matter how casually dressed your date may be. You are emanding in love and sometimes to an unacceptable extend.

Is your birthday day 28 of the month?
Your Life:

You are a capable person but you usually underestimate your own ability. This is the cause of missing numbers of opportunity to step forward. If you try to give yourself a chance, you can be successful in life. Try to see things on the bright side and you will be happier than ever.
Your Love:

You are quite unlucky in love. The one in your arm is not the one in your heart. Your love has so many ups and downs. You often chicken out before seeing any progress in love.

Is your birthday day 29 of the month?
Your Life:
You can trust your sixth sense. Life is exciting so routine job is not your interest. You have great ideas and fantastic imagination. You often feel tired of things and people around you.
Your Love:

You can tell what’s in the mind of another person just from looking into his/her eyes. You are paranoid and jealous and these are the cause of fights between you and your lover.Sometimes the thing you believe in is just your imagination.

Is your birthday day 30 of the month?
Your Life:

You are always surrounded by a circle of friends. You are friendly and fun to be with. Though you occasionally disappoint them by being stubborn, but over all, they love your qualities.
Your Love:

You want to have full control of your love and that’s not a nice way to treat your partner. You take your time in saying yes to his wedding proposal or if you are a man, you will not propose anyone until you are certainly confident which might take ages.

Is your birthday day 31 of the month?
Your Life:

Your emotion is hard to predict. You can be sad this minute and happy in the next. People might find it difficult to follow your emotion and understand you. You tend to take things seriously.
Your Love:

You take your time to study a person before falling in love. Once you decide that he or she is the one, no one can stop you from making progress, even your partner.

Unlucky In Love

2007-09-03T21:26:00.000+08:00

Sent by someone:

Dear love...

I have been dating this guy for about two months now and I would like to take things to the next level with him. However, he has expressed to me that he is not looking for a relationship, but enjoys the time that we spend together and does not want that to end. He also says that it is possible that we could become more committed in the future.
But, I feel like the more time we spend together, the more attached I become. I enjoy the time that we spend together as well and would like for it to continue. We have a good time together and seem to have a good connection, but things aren't going that way.
Should I stick around and continue to enjoy the good times or just move on?

--Unlucky In Love

Dear Unlucky In Love,

**When you're looking for someone to become serious with, you need to devote all your attention to the task. If you've got someone who you enjoy being with, but is taking you away from your main goal, it's a distraction.

I would approach your situation in a casual way. Continue to go out on dates with him, maybe once or twice a month. In the meantime, start looking for someone else who has the same long-term goals as you do.

If he changes his mind, great! If not, you'll still get to enjoy the time with him, and hopefully develop a great friendship you can maintain long-term...Gud luck...!!***

Cant Attract Anyone?

2007-09-02T13:33:00.000+08:00

Dear Love....

I'm not the prettiest girl, but I'm not the ugliest either. Men never even look at me, they don't ask me out, and I haven't even had a date for a year. When I did date, I was always the one asking the men out. They accepted, but they always expect something in return. So, how do I get over being such a loser with men? -Can't Attract Anyone

Dear Can't Attract Anyone....

Well, first, you probably need a bit of attitude adjustment. No ONE wants to be around someone who is so down on themselves. You can feel it on the inside, but DO NOT let it show on the outside.

I know after lacking attention for such a long period of time it can be difficult to not give into the negative feelings. The best way to handle a problem though is to figure out how to fix it.

If you feel your looks are the problem, then change them. Go out and get an awesome new hair color and style. Go to a few different make up stores and get a free make over done.

I recommend more than one, that way you can compare different styles and see what you like best. After about three you can see a pattern emerge and a style that you prefer.

Next, consider jazzing up your wardrobe. Mix and match things you already have. Dress up a little more than normal. For example, high heels with your jeans; skirts instead of shorts. Once you've got your new "look" sewn up, it's time to work on your social situation.

If you're not getting asked out, chances are you're not around enough people or situations to get asked out. Join a few social clubs in your area where you can meet new people.

If you are shy, practice your skills online first with an online dating service. Go out to more public places like art shows, special exhibits, etc.

The point is to go places where people are supposed to talk with each other. If you can follow these tips you will find a dramatic increase in your social life.

~~~~Well...Gud Luck...!!!!~~~~

Berdebar ke nak berbual dgn si dia?Lets start conversation

2007-09-02T13:20:00.000+08:00

When you're meeting or talking on the phone with someone for the first time things can be a bit awkward. Handle any potential unwanted silences with this handy list of conversation starters! If you have a question or comment not listed below, add it to our list using the link below!
How was your day?

You look really nice, where did you get (item in question)?
How was work or school?
What movies have you seen recently? How did you like them?
If in their car or home, find an item of interest and comment about it.
What did you do this weekend (week)?Ask if they saw a favorite TV show or sporting event.
Ask about a local current event. (Did you see 'item in question.')
What sports do you play or like?
Have you been to (a local restaurant).
Where are you from?
Where did you go to school/college?
Have you read any good books lately?
What do you normally do for fun?
Do you like (an interest of yours)?

Love Songs

2007-09-01T19:37:00.000+08:00

When You Say Nothing At All...

It's amazing how you can speak right to my heart
Without saying a word you can light up the dark
Try as I may I can never explain
What I hear when you don't say a thing

The smile on your face let's me know that you need me
There's a truth in your eyes saying you'll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you'll catch me wherever I fall
You say it best, when you say nothing at all

All day long I can hear people talking out loud (oh…)
But when you hold me near (oh, hold me near)
You drown out the crowd (drown out crowd)
Try as they may, they can never defy
What's been said between your heart and mine

The smile on your face let me know that you need me
There's a truth in your eyes saying you'll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you'll catch me wherever I fall
You say it best, when you say nothing at all…oh

Oh, the smile on your face let's I know that you need me
There's a truth in your eyes saying you'll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you'll catch me wherever I fall
You say it best, when you say nothing at all

You say it best, when you say nothing at all
You say it best, when you say nothing at all
(The smile on your face)
You say it best, when you say nothing at all
(The truth in your eyes)
(The touch of your hand)
You say it best, when you say nothing at all
(Let me know that you need me)
You say it best, when you say nothing at all (nothing at all)
You say it best, when you say nothing at all (nothing at all)
You say it best, when you say nothing at all (nothing at all)

Never Say Goodbye....I Really Love Thiz Song.....

This is a lyric of an OST from the korean drama My Girl, I love it very much but i don't know what it means. So i hope any helpful, kind person could help me to romanize it or translate it into english because i can't understand Korean. Thank you very much in advance.

It really remembered me to Mira AND Nobita...hehehhe...both my lovely sis n bro.. =p

Mario & Nesty - Never Say Goodbye

Yea, Whats going on, 2006 Mario and Nesty
brand new classic
ride with us its about two guys and hot girls
yo keep it up keep it up
two step with me come on
lets do it do it do it like this

1,2 baby clap ur hands
Everybody lets go ha ha ha
I want yall ledies clap again
Let me hear u say wut wut
우리 단둘이 its my story
또 너의 맘이 흠이 내 눈가의 눈물이
너와의 시간은 너무나도 길어 너무 길어
따뜻한 나의 맘으로 돌아오길 빌어
the ghetto 너의 맘이 끌리는 대로 넌 그대로
Never say goodbye so get up

If you go away
You will see me cry
Don´t you let me go
baby Don´t you let me down
늘 함께 있어도 더 가깝지 않은
어떤 의미도 없는 진부한 사랑
Don´t you let me go
baby Don´t you let me down

You never say goodbye
한동안 멍하니 우두커니 앉아
다시 생각했지만
멈출순 없겠어
온통 그대 생각
할수 밖에 없는 내 자신이 미워
Don´t you let me go
baby don´t you let me down

And we the best aint no need to stress
Mario and nasty aint on need to impress
Yo! 너의 맘을 받아 나의 맘은 변치않아
허나 맘 텅 빈채로 비워두진 않아
Call it a fling or a love thing
I don´t care I can handle any drama that you bring
밤 꼭 세워 맘 꼭 사랑으로 채워
with out u im etter no one could do it better
Mario right tight errnight that´s right

I am still in love with you hey
내 맘을 절대 이해 못한다고
I am still in love with you hey
Let me hear you say hey hey hey

Yo check it 니가 나를 떠난다고
오직 이세상에 너란 여자 하나라고
꿋꿋이 남자답게 포기하진 않아
only u 오직하나 only u 잊진않아
baby 1,2,3,4 I got the mic check

If you go away
You will see me cry
Don´t you let me go
baby don´t you let me down
늘 함께 있어도 더 가깝지 않은
어떤 의미도 없는 진부한 사랑
Don´t you let me go
babt don´t you let me down

You never say goodbye
한동안 멍하니 우두커니 앉아
다시 생각했지만
멈출순 없겠어
온통 그대 생각
할수 밖에 없는 내 자신이 미워 (X2)
Don´t you let me go
baby don´t you let me down

1,2 baby clap ur hands
Everybody lets go ha ha ha
I want yall ladies clap again
Let me hear u say hey hey hey

사랑도 변치않아 나의 맘도 변치않아
나의 꿈을 잃진 않아 절대 포긴 없다
Ill logic real toxic switch quicker than tiptonic
hetero sexual the kids flow is incredible
사랑도 변치않아 나의 맘도 변치않아
나의 꿈을 잃진 않아 절대 포긴 없다 Yea-

Watak Wanita Melalui Zodiak

2007-09-01T19:13:00.000+08:00

WANITA API

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*Dilahirkan sebagai pemimpin
*Mempunyai kekuatan diri dan biasanya enggan menerima pendapat orang lain walaupun ianya benar.
*Seorang yang artistik dan sukar dijangka,tetapi biasanya romantis dan tidak pemalu.
*Mempunyai personaliti suka menguasai dan mendominasi tetapi boleh mengimbangi sifat-sifat ini dengan sikap yang pemurah,mesra dan menunjukkan sifat yang mendalam terhadap sesuatu yang disukainya.
*Suka berterus terang dan tidak berselindung menyebabkan orang yang dikasihi mersa sedih dan terhiris.
*Jujur dan mahu hubungan peribadi berjalan dengan lancar.Wanita api harus diberikan ruang yang cukup luas untuk menjadikan perhubungan itu terus berkesan.*Tidak keberatan untuk beralih arah jika berasa tertekan.

WANITA TANAH

Wanita tanah dilahirkan di bawah zodiakTaurus(21 April-20Mei),Virgo(24Ogos-23 September) danCapricon(22 Disember-20 Januari).
*seorang yang boleh dijangka,berwibawa dan praktikal.
*Penyabar dan bertolak ansur,mempunyai kehendak dalaman dari segi emosi dan material.
*Semangat produktif dan gigih yang disertai dengan siksp berhati-hati menjadikan wanita tanah berkemampuan mencapai kejayaan dalam perniagaan.
*Kebijaksanaan dan kepintaran yang diperolehi sering tersembunyi oleh air muka semulajadi yang pendiam dan tenang.
*Sifat marah yang terkawal serta keperluan untuk keteguhan dan kawalan sering terbawa-bawa dalam perhubungan yang amat konservatif,serius dan sederhana.
*Tidak mudah menunjukkan sifat penyayang tetapi wanita tanah adalah seorang kekasih yang setia dan berwibawa.

FoR sURE eVERYone Like THIS songsSS....!!!

WANITA ANGIN

Mereka ini lahir di bawah lambangGemini(22 Mei-21 Jun),Libra(24 September-23 Oktober) danAquarius(21 Januari-19 Februari).
*Berterus terang,berminda aktif dan gemar mencari kepelbagaian dalam setiap aspek kehidupan.
*Berfikiran terbuka,mempunyai daya imaginasi dan inovatif,bagi mereka segalanya boleh dicapai.
*Bergaya,tenang dan tidak cerewet serta mempunyai keinginan semulajadi untuk mengamalkan sikap diplomasi dan saling bekerjasama bersungguh-sungguh.
*Sanggup mengorbankan kehendak atau idea mereka sendiri demi mencapai keharmonian dan mengelakkan perselisihan atau konflik.
*sentiasa gigih untuk mendapatkan cinta yang terunggul,untuk berkonfrantasi.*Kurang cenderung untuk menyampaikan perasaan sebenar yang terpendam dalam hati mereka.
*Dikenali dan diingati kerana sifat romantis dan manja.

WANITA AIR

Wanita air terdiri daripada mereka yang lahir di bawah zodiakCancer(22 Jun-23 Julai),Scorpio(24 Oktober-22 November) danPisces(20 Februari-20 Mac).
*Mempunyai sifat semulajadi untuk berkembang maju.
*Mereka ini dipandu oleh perasaan hati dan mempunyai sifat mudah bersimpati,berdaya imaginatif,sentimental,mempunyai perasaan yang berubah-ubah dan berhati-hati.
*Tenang dan mudah tersentuh oleh emosi orang-orang yang berada disekeliling dan cepat mengeluarkan air mata dalam sebarang situasi yang menyedihkan.
*Mudah mengikut rentak emosi orang lain dan juga diri sendiri.

NASIHAT YANG. AMAT BERGUNA UNTUK WANITA & UNTUK PENGETAHUAN KAUM LELAKI JUGA!!!

*Untuk membentuk bibir yang menawan, ucapkan kata-kata kebaikan.

*Untuk mendapatkan mata yang indah, carilah kebaikan pada setiap orang yang anda jumpai.

*Untuk mendapatkan bentuk badan yang langsing,berbagilah makanan dengan mereka yang kelaparan.

*Untuk mendapatkan rambut yang indah, mintalah seorang anak kecil untuk menyisirnya dengan jemarinya setiap hari.

*Untuk mendapatkan sikap tubuh yang indah, berjalanlah dengan segala ilmu pengetahuan, dan anda tidak akan pernah berjalan sendirian.

Manusia, jauh melebihi segala ciptaan lain, perlu senantiasa berubah, diperbaharui, dibentuk kembali,dan diampuni. Jadi, jangan pernah kecilkan seseorang dari hati anda. Apabila anda sudah melakukan semuanya itu, ingatlah senantiasa. Jika suatu ketika anda memerlukan pertolongan, akan senantiasa ada tangan terhulur.Dan dengan bertambahnya usia anda, anda akan semakin mensyukuri telah diberi dua tangan, satu untuk menolong diri anda sendiri dan satu lagi untuk menolong orang lain.

*Kecantikan wanita bukan terletak pada pakaian yang dikenakannya, bukan pada bentuk tubuhnya, atau cara dia menyisir rambutnya.

*Kecantikan wanita terdapat pada matanya, cara dia memandang dunia.Karena di matanyalah terletak gerbang menuju ke setiap hati manusia, di mana cinta dapat berkembang.

*Kecantikan wanita bukan pada kehalusan wajahnya.Tetapi kecantikan yang murni, terpancar pada jiwanya,yang dengan penuh kasih memberikan perhatian dan cinta yang dia berikan.Dan kecantikan itu akan tumbuh sepanjang waktu

Perkara Yang Tidak Disukai Suami

2007-09-01T18:44:00.000+08:00

Perkara-perkara Yang Tidak Disukai Suami

Menggangu suami dengan menelefon dia terlampau selalu sangat dan selalu dimasa yang salah. ie. " hello abang ada meeting ker tu, sorry la cuma nak cakap.. malam nih kita masak sardine jer .. ok tak "
Terlalu suka mengemas rumah / mengalihkan barang sampai suami tak jumpa barang-barang yang disimpan beliau.. ie. “kita dah simpan screw drebar tu kat dalam stor, entah la kat atas shelf mana satu..”
Memperkecil suami dihadapan orang lain antara sedar dan tidak. Walaupun ianya benar ie. “hubby i tu kan kan.. siang ikan pun dia tak tau.. bla bla bla "
Mengambil muka surat atau bahagian tertentu dari surat khabar dan menyusun surat khabar dengan cara yang amat salah.. sampai tidak dijumpa mana-mana seksyen yang hendak dibaca. ie. “bang, sport section tu ayang dah buat bungkus belacan..”
Memotong mana-mana bahagian majalah dan juga suratkhabar atau apa-apa bahagian dari mana-mana printed matter sampai berlubang sana sini dan sisuami tak sempat baca/tengok ie. “eh.. kita suka la news pasal new peti ais tu.. kita dah potong simpan …”
Tidak memberi arahan/instruction yang jelas kepada suami bila menyuruh dia membeli sesuatu dan kemudian memarahkan/menyalahkan suami. ie. “saya kata beli susu cair dan gula melaka, apsal awak beli susu pekat dan gula pasir … kan lain tu”
Membuat temujanji dan aktiviti sosial tanpa mendapat persetujuan suami terlebih dahulu ie. “i dah confirm malam Jumaat nih nak dinner kat rumah cik minah, you tak ada program tahlil kat mana mana kan ?? “
Bercakap/bersembang di telefon dengan kawan-kawan sewaktu malam selepas 10 pm bilamana nak beristirehat dan ber… ber…. ie. ” pot pet pot pet pot pet pot pet pot pet pot ..”
Menjemput tetamu atau sesiapa sahaja datang kerumah tanpa izin suami. ie. “malam nih i jemput lina dan anum datang dinner rumah sebab hubby dia orang outstation, ok kan kan kan “
Mengambil masa yang cukup lama bila bersiap macam pengantin bila nak keluar kemana-mana dan membuatkan suami tertunggu dan terus tertidur. ie. ” sorry la i tak tau baju kurung mana nak pakai la so kena pilih betul betul ..”
Berpakaian kusut masai dengan t-shirt terkoyak dan kain batik lusuh dan rambut tak terurus serupa langsuyar dan muka tak bermekap serupa mayat dirumah… tapi cukup segak dan cun bila nak keluar rumah. ie. “.. oh baju-baju cantik tu cuma untuk ke kenduri kawin dan dinner jer, kat rumah pakai jeans koyak pun ok kan bang ..”
Dengan sengaja atau tidak sengaja terlupa menyuruh maid atau diri sendiri membasuh atau mensterika baju atau seluar yang telah dipilih untuk dipakai dihari berkenaan. ie. ” eh baju tu masih berendam dalam besen lagi.. nak pakai jugak ke baju basah tu..”
Dengan sengaja atau tidak sengaja menyebelahi anak anak bila suami sedang hot dengan budak budak tu.. ie. “.. eh biarlah budak budak tu pergi slumber party, bukan nak tinggal rumah kawan dia tu seminggu..”
Tidak suka mandi dan bersiap awal pada hari cuti dan hanya bersiap bila nak dekat asar sahaja. ie. “....nak mandi buat apa awal awal bukan nak pergi jalan jalan mana pun..”
Suka melengah lengah kan masa bila nak bersolat berjemaah atau beribadat dengan melencong ke dapur, bilik budak budak atau buat benda benda lain. ie. “.. awak solatlah dulu, saya nak abiskan memasak nih..”
Sengaja melengahkan untuk masuk tidur tanpa sebab-sebab yang munasabah. ie. “.. you tidurlah dulu, i nak habiskan tengok drama nih dulu then nak kacau tepung siap siap untuk breakfast dan nak masukkan pakain dalam laundry then kemudian nak tanam padi belakang rumah then nak menuai sekali…..”

Kepada semua isteri2 dan bakal isteri tu pandai2 la ambik hati suami, jangan bagi chance langsung untuk diorang cari alasan…

Love Mengikut Bulan....

2007-08-31T18:20:00.000+08:00

January

Mudah jatuh cinta
Mudah melupakan perasaan cinta terhadap orang yang dicintai sekiranya dikhianati
Pandai mengambil hati pasangannya
Selalu berdiam diri ketika bertemu dengan pasangannya
Bersikap romantik tapi tidak pandai memperlihatkannya
Sikap cemburu yang tinggi terhadap pasangannya tapi tidak kisah sekirannya pasangannya cemburu terhadapnya
Bakal jadi seorang bapa atau ibu yang penyayang
Ramai kenalan, sedikit pemalu dan bersungguh-sungguh bila melakukan kerja

February

Sukar untuk jatuh cinta
Amat hormat kepada pasangan
Amat suka memikat pasangan
Jujur dan berterus terang dalam perhubungan
Sentiasa nekad untuk bersama dengan pasangannya
Sangat romantik pada dalaman dan bukan pada luaran(hanya pasangannya yang tahu)
Patuh kepada pasangannya dan selalu menjaga hati pasangan
Amat menjaga penampilan diri dan pasangannya

March

Mudah menawan hati pasangannya
Sentiasa ingin didampingi oleh pasangannya
Sangat pemalu dalam meluahkan isi hati
Sangat baik dalam menjaga perhubungan.- Amat sukar melupakan pasangan yang dicintai
Perasaan cemburu yang minima
Sangat manja dan sering ingin dimanjai pasangannya
Mudah memilih pasangan tanpa berfikir dengan waras
Sentiasa mengharapkan keistimewaan dari pasangan

April

Individu yang amat sukar untuk jatuh cinta
Selalu memendam perasaan terhadap individu yang dicintai
Sukar dan malu dalam meluahkan isi hati
Sentiasa ingin diberi perhatian
Amat cemburu dalam perhubungan
Kesetiaan teguh terhadap pasangannya
Emosi cepat terusik dan mudah terluka
Sentiasa menjaga hati pasangan dan pandai memujuk
Romantik dan terlalu romantik
Sukar melupakan pasangan walaupun dilukai
Sukar berlaku curang dan amat menyayangi pasangan

May

Amat mudah jatuh cinta
Baik dan jujur dalam perhubungan
Pandai menarik hati pasangan
Perasaan cinta yang mendalam
Mudah untuk di pujuk
Mudah menerima cinta seseorang
Pilihan yang tepat dalam berpasangan
Nekad untuk menjaga hubungan yang baik
Pandai mengatur hidup pasangan (bukan Queen Control atau King Control)
Suka mengangankan sesuatu yang indah bersama pasangan
Sentiasa dahagakan kasih sayang dari pasangan tapi tak pandai memperlihatkan
Ambil berat dalam menjaga hubungan

June

Amat pandai menjaga hati pasangan sekiranya dia perempuan
Sukar melukai dan memahami hati pasangan
Mudah jatuh hati tapi terlalu memilih
Cerewet dalam hubungan
Selalu beremosi
Mudah merajuk dan mudah di pujuk
Selalu melindungi pasangan dari kritikan atau umpatan orang
Elok untuk menjadi Ibu yang baik
Dahagakan pujian dari pasangan

July

Amat suka didampingi pasangan
Sukar dimengerti oleh pasangan
Sentiasa menjaga maruah diri, pasangan dan perhubungan
Amat mudah dipujuk dan berterus terang
Amat menghargai kesetiaan pasangan
Mengambil berat dan mengasihi pasangan
Berkebolehan untuk meluahkan isi hati terhadap individu yang dicintai
Mudah terluka dan lambat untuk pulih
Suka merajuk dan dipujuk
Setia terhadap pasangan
Suka mendengar dan tidak suka membantah
Cemburu terhadap pasangan
Suka menilai dan menjaga perhubungan

August

Pandai memujuk pasangan
Suka memimpin pasangan
Romantik, Pengasih dan Penyayang
Kelam kabut dalam perhubungan
Sangat sensitif
Mudah meluahkan kata cinta pada sesiapa yang berkenan

September

Bersopan dalam hubungan
Bertolak ansur terhadap pasangan
Suka mengkritik pasangan
Sangat prihatin terhadap pasangan
Sangat sensitif dan emosi
Pandai memahami pasangan
Kurang menunjukkan perasaannya terhadap pasangan
Sukar melupakan sekiranya hati terluka
Mudah simpati dengan perasaan dan masalah pasangan
Pandai menyimpan perasaan
Suka berterus terang jika perkara itu tak disetujuinya

October

Amat suka berkomunikasi dengan pasangan
Suka disayangi dan menyayangi pasangan
Sopan terhadap pasangan
Jujur dan jarang berpura-pura dengan pasangan
Mudah terluka hati sekiranya pasangan ada melakukan kesalahan terhadapnya
Emosi yang mudah terusik
Pengasih, Penyayang terhadap pasangan
Cemburu dan terlalu cemburu
Romantik
Memahami pasangan

November

Cermat dan teliti dalam menjaga perhubungan
Amat berahsia dengan pasangan dan sesiapa
Agak degil dan kuat pendirian
Mudah ambil berat terhadap pasangan
Emosi yang mendalam
Perangai tidak dapat diramal terhadap pasangan

Disember

Pemurah terhadap perhubungan
Mudah jatuh cinta dalam masa yang sama
Tergesa-gesa dalam perhubungan
Suka didampingi oleh pasangan
Benci bila dikongkong
Berbakat untuk kahwin lebih dari satu (Utk Lelaki)
Suka mempengaruhi pasangan

The 3 Deadly Mistakes Women Make With Men Without EVER Realizing It...

2007-08-31T18:04:00.000+08:00

Through research and personal experience some author, there found that these 3 mistakes are responsible for more failed dates and relationships with men than any other factors. Here they are:

Mistake 1: Leading A Man To Think You Are "Needy" And "Insecure"

Did you know that there are 6 ways you can set off a man's "Insecurity Alert" and make him think twice about pursuing a relationship with you?
Sadly, even confident women often "accidentally" give off one of these signs... and just one can kill the chance of a man asking you on a second date.
As you read through these signals men pick up on as "needy" and unattractive, ask yourself if YOU have ever been guilty of committing one of these deadly mistakes:

Talking or saying nasty things about your past boyfriends:

Saying bad things about men you have been involved with actually reflects the negatively back on YOU. It makes a man worry you are carrying around "baggage" that HE will have to deal with should he become involved with you.
Speaking negatively about other women:

When women call other women names like "slut", "bitch", and "crazy", it is anything but impressive to a man you are attracted you. Women will often do this when they see a good looking, desirable woman, especially if they feel their man might be attracted to her. This just makes a man think you are trying to cover up your own insecurities, and looking for validation and attention. Not good.
Too much physical contact, especially in public:

If you are constantly hanging on a man or touching him too much he'll start to see it as clingy behavior... but you'll never hear about this from him. It's far better to save your touches for short and infrequent moments that will surprise and enchant him.

Mistake 2: Appealing To His "Sexual" Side Instead Of His Emotional Side

Men are out for far more than just sex... and a woman who knows how to fulfill a man EMOTIONALLY and SEXUALLY will be the woman who captures a man's heart... and gets that same fulfillment for HERSELF. In a moment, I'll show you how you can learn to do just that...

Many women make the mistake of thinking that men are primarily driven by sex alone... and think if they can attract a man SEXUALLY they will be able to attract him EMOTIONALLY as well.

Mistake 3: Not Knowing How To Size Up A Man's "Relationship Potential"

A lot of women will decide whether or not they should put energy into building a relationship with a man based on ATTRACTION.
Yes, attraction is important. But it can also be DANGEROUS.
When we feel a strong sense of attraction for someone, it can cause us to override our logic and ignore our instincts... leading us to overlook potential partner's deadly faults that could spell trouble down the road.
If you've ever found yourself stuck in a relationship that is dragging you down, this is probably why.
It's important to be able to size a guy up and spot any "warning signs" of a future bad relationship FAST... so you don't waste any of your time or emotional energy on someone who isn't right for you... or who will leave you heartbroken. Fortunately this is a fairly easy thing to do, and I'd like to show you how...

Secret how to keeping a great guy

2007-08-31T17:42:00.000+08:00

The thing that stood in your way is that Men aren't easy to understand, and this is the main PROBLEM , and when you find a good man, he doesn't come with an "instruction manual".

Most women don't "get" men. Your friends who try to comfort and encourage you have good intentions. They're just trying to make you feel better.

Just because your girlfriends told you it wasn't your fault, or that he was just "a jerk", doesn't mean that they understood the problem (or that they understand men at all, for that matter).

But they're also accidentally making the situation WORSE.
They're trying to blame the situation on HIM, instead of trying to help YOU understand how to KEEP a great guy around.

This situation is MOST dangerous when you meet a really GREAT GUY, but you don't know how to catch him or keep him. Let's face it, great guys are hard to find... and when you do find one, you can't afford to lose him because you made a dumb mistake.

You can't afford to throw away a good six months, a year... or even LONGER... and risk losing what could be a valuable relationship... just because you didn't know how to handle a particular situation.
Well, there is some good news here... I personally believe that there IS something you can do about it.

You CAN learn how to understand men and get them to be open up and understand you. You can learn how to CATCH that great guy, and how to KEEP him.
And how do I know this?
Because I AM a guy. And I've been in all the situations I just mentioned to you... from the OTHER side.
I've seen it from a man's perspective. I've been in those difficult "places" in dating, relationships, and love.
After years and years of experiencing these types of situations and hearing about them from my female friends, I decided to DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT...

LoVe iS CiNtA

2007-08-30T17:47:00.000+08:00

Cinta itu perasaan jiwa semulajadi.Ia adalah fitrah yang menjadi
salah satu sifat manusia.Ia wujud bila hati tertarik kepada yang
dicintainya itu penuh emosi dan gembira kerana itu.

Dalam memenuhi keperluan untuk puas dalam cinta,manusia menghadapi
krisis nilai.Insan yang mula jatuh cinta akan bersungguh untuk
mencapai kepuasan dalam cinta itu. Ada yang menjadi buta dan kabur
nilai akibat bercinta. Tapi bagi yang bijaksana mereka mendambakan
cara yang sesuai dan mulia untuk memenuhi keperluan cintanya itu.
Insan sebegini ingin hidup yang bersih dan penuh taqwa.

Sifat Cinta
Cinta itu suci,mahal dan tinggi tarafnya.Sifat cinta itu
sempurna.Jika tidak,cinta akan cacat.Itulah cinta sebenar cinta.

Cinta Wujud Sejak Dilahirkan
Rasa cinta sedia wujud di dalam jiwa manusia sejak manusia itu lahir
ke dunia.Cuma manusia akan melalui tahap-tahap kelahiran cinta
bermula dari cinta kepada belaian ibu,membawa kepada cinta
kepadakekasih dan akhirnya setelah puas mencari cinta suci,maka akan
cinta kepada Tuhan Wujudnya cinta itu tidak dapat dilihat tapi dapat
dirasa dan cinta sebenar cinta itu suci murni serta putih bersih.

Aku Suke Sangat-sangat-sangat-sangat Lagu Niey...Korang Dengar pun AKAN SUKE.. kIUT Suara Die...

Cinta Bersedia
Bila sampai masanya di setiap tahap-tahap cinta,maka Tuhan
menjadikan manusia itu bersedia menerima cinta itu.Pada mulanya jiwa
itu bersedia menerima cinta,lantas sedia pula untuk berkongsi rasa
kewujudan dengan dikasihi.Sedia untuk mengikat setia serta saling
memahami.Setia untuk dipertanggungjawapk an kerana cinta.Sedia untuk
menyerah diri pada yang dicintai.

Cinta Itu Indah
Walaupun kewujudan cinta tidak bisa dilihat,tetapi cinta itu indah
dan cantik.Cantiknya itu tulin dan tidak ia bertopeng.Bukan saja ia
cantik malah suci murni,bercahaya gemerlap dan putih bersih.

Cinta Itu Mengharap Balasan
Cinta antara manusia itu berkehendak kepada jodoh atau pasangan,dari
diri yang punya persamaan,dari diri yang asalnya satu.Bila dapat
yang dicari,bermakna cinta itu menganggap telah bertemu yang paling
sesuai dan secucuk dengan jiwanya,untuk bersatu kembali.Kehendak itu
timbal balik sifatnya kerana manusia dalam bercinta tidak hanya
menerima tapi juga menerima.

Cinta Itu Menakluki
Sifat cinta itu ingin menguasai.Dia mahu yang dikasihinya itu hanya
khusus untuk dirinya.Dia tidak mahu ianya dikongsi dengan orang
lain. Sifat ini menuntut hak untuk mencintai dan dicintai.Tapi, dalam
pada ingin menakluki,ia juga ingin ditakluki sepenuhnya.

Cinta Itu Mengetahui
Pada asasnya sebenarnya cinta itu mengetahui.Orang yang bercinta
tahu siapa yang patut dicintainya. Cinta tidak perlu bertanya.Manusia
boleh jatuh cinta tanpa membaca ilmiah atau novel tentang
cinta.Mereka tahu apa yang perlu dilakukan.Tapi, cinta cuma tahu
bercinta.Ia tidak tahu akan peraturan cinta jika tiada diberikan
panduan.

Cinta Itu Hidup
Cinta adalah ibarat manusia,boleh berputik,lalu mekar serta boleh
layu dan gugur.Cinta itu punya deria dan perasaan.Cinta mendengar
cinta,berkata cinta,melihat cinta.Cinta ada segala-galanya. Sayang,
benci,cemburu, gembira,sedih, tenang,tertekan, ketawa dan menangis.
Cinta itu hidup sampai satu ketika ia akan menemui mati.Tapi ramai
orang berharap agar cinta itu kekal selagi dia masih hidup dan tetap
hidup walaupun telah mati.

Cinta Itu Suci
Sebagaimana yang banyak dikatakan orang,cinta itu suci.Sucinya cinta
bukan bermakna ia tidak mengharap balasan. Cinta mengharap balasan
cinta.Sucinya cinta bermakna ia tidak bernoda dan tidak pula berdosa
Itulah sifat asal cinta,ia suci bagaikan anak yang baru lahir.Mereka
yang kenal erti cinta akan cuba mengekalkan cinta itu sesuci
mungkin. Mengekalkan cinta suci bermakna menjauhkan ia dari godaan
nafsu yang tidak ada batasan.Kerana nafsulah cinta suci jadi bernoda
dan berdosa.

Cinta Itu Mempesona
Cinta itu bukan saja indah,tapi mempersonakan. Ia bukan kerana cinta
itu nakal sifatnya tapi kerana ia suci dan bersih.Ia adalah
sebagaimana anda melihat pada anak kecil yang comel dan bersih.Dia
senyum pada anda dan merapati anda. Anda terpesona kerana bukan saja
ianya comel,tapi kerana dia adalah insan yang tidak berdosa.Kerana
sifat cinta yang mempersona ini selalunya manusia itu berbuat silap
bila bercinta.Apa saja yang dilakukan oleh
kekasihnya.. .mempersonakanny a dan nampak cantik serta betul walaupun
itu adalah satu dosa dan akan menodai cinta itu sendiri. Itulah juga
yang menyebabkan orang yang bercinta itu walaupun seorang yang
bijaksana,akan menjadi bodoh kerana pesona cinta.Akal itu mampu
dikalahkan oleh nafsu.Nafsu itu tidak bisa dikalahkan melainkan jika
anda sentiasa ingat kepada Tuhan Maha Pencipta.

Apakah itu Bukti Cinta?
Cinta perlukan bukti.Ramai orang percaya bahawa bukti cinta itu
ialah mengorbankan atau menyerahkan apa saja yang kekasih anda
mahu.Mereka percaya jika itu tidak berlaku,maka cinta itu tidak
tinggi nilainya.

Sebenarnya anggapan itu tidak tepat.Jika anda beri semua yang dia
mahu,apakah yang tinggal pada anda? Benarkah dia cinta pada anda
bila dia mahukan pengorbanan anda?

Cinta sejati tidak memusnahkan atau merosakkan diri kekasih yang
dicintai. Malah ia menjaga agar kekasih tetap suci dan selamat
sebagaimana sucinya cinta itu sendiri

“Janganlah hendaknya kecintaan anda terhadap sesuatu itu membuatkan
anda menjadi lupa dan kebencian anda terhadap sesuatu itu membuatkan
anda menjadi hancur”
- Saidina Umar Ibnul Khattab -

Cinta Vs SuKa

2007-08-30T17:03:00.000+08:00

CINTA KE ATAU SUKE???

Di hadapan orang yang kita cinta, hati kita akan berdegup kencang…Tapi di depan orang yang kita suka, hati kita akan gembira…

Jikalau kita lihat di dalam mata orang yang kita cinta, kita akan kaku…Tapi jikalau kita melihat ke dalam mata orang yang kita suka, kita akan tersenyum…

Di depan orang yang kita cinta, lidah kelu untuk berkata-kata…Di depan orang yang kita suka, lidah bebas berkata apa sahaja…

Di depan orang yang kita cinta, kita menjadi malu…Di depan orang yang kita suka, kita akan tunjukkan imej yang sebenar…

Kita tidak boleh merenung mata orang yang kita cinta…Tepi kita selalu merenung mata orang yang kita suka…

Bila orang yang kita cinta menangis, kita akan turut menangis…Bila orang yang kita suka menangis, kita akan turut membuat dia gembira…

Di depan orang yang kita cinta, musim sentiasa berbunga-bunga…Di depan orang yang kita suka, musim itu cuma berangin sahaja…

Perasaan cinta bermula dari mata.Perasaan suka bermula dari telinga…Jadi, jikalau kita berhenti menyukai seseorang yang kita suka…Umpama kita membuang telinga kitaTapi jika kita cuba menutup mata Cinta berbuah menjadi airmata
Setiap orang yang akan mengalami ini dalam hidup mereka,Cuma fikirkanlah bersama-sama siapa yang anda cinta.

Tetapi, hakikatnyaCinta kepada Allah swtAdalah lebih hakiki dan abadi...

LoVe Is CiNTa
AKU sUke LaGU neh......hIgH Rate SeLeCTed..so TouChIng...

What gift we suggest to a lovely couple?

2007-08-30T16:09:00.000+08:00

Yes it is that time for think out again…what should you give him/her ??.. .
The time of year to stress yourself out from the impending pressure of the gift exchange or gift of special day....
Well have no worries, Love Blogito is here to save the day with gift ideas for that special man or woman in your life....

Let us check it out !!!

Loving presents for ladies:

Bear
Chocolate
Set Bodyshop
A bouquet of Flowers
Cake....specially Lovely Secret Receipes.....
Jewelry
Wallet/purse
Cloth
Lovely card
Wrist watch
Parfume
Lovely Keychain
Set Mp3
Engraved Frame
Set of Lovely Songs or her Favourite Songs
A Weekend Away - completely planned and scheduled by you!

Gifts For Guys:

Wallet
Vintage T-Shirts
Wrist Watched
Tie
Set Parfume
Fog-Free Shaving Mirror
Vintage T-Shirts
Exclusive Ball Pen
Lovely card
IPod- or even more exciting the Video IPod
Video Camcorder - the man in your life will be very excited thinking of all the things he can do with it.

Remember it is not how much you spend, but how much thought and love you put into the gift. Good luck with your gift giving this special day soon!

~Perspektif Cinta Dalam Islam~

2007-08-29T11:02:00.000+08:00

Realiti sebuah tragedi .
Asy - Syaqi bersyair :
نظرة فابتسامة فسلام فكلام فموعد فلقاء و قال الشاعر : و ما الحب إلا نظرة اثر نظرة تزيد نموا إن تزده لجاجا .
Maksudnya :
1. Main mata dan senyum lirik sebagai agenda pertama dalam aksi mengorat . Sekiranya ada response , pasangan semakin bertindak .
2. Bersahut suara dan saling hubung - menghubungi melalui surat , telefon dan sebagainya . Kesempatan ini akan digunakan oleh kedua - dua pihak untuk berbuat sesuatu agar hubungan semakin erat termasuk penggunaan mentera .
3. Merancang pertemuan ( dating ) di tempat - tempat umum untuk meluahkan perasaan masing - masing . Bungaan ayat diluahkan demi memaut hati pasangan .
Contohnye lah........:
a . Lautan api sanggupku harungi .
b . Kalau tak percaya belahlah dada .
c . Berkorban apa saja , sanggup sehidup semati .
d . Sanggupku serahkan tubuh demi cinta .
4. Tatkala kemesraan kian bersemi , pasangan bercinta teramat sukar untuk tidak ‘ menyentuh ’ antara satu sama lain . Tindakan minima , mereka akan bersentuhan bahu dan berpegangan tangan ketika berjalan .Tindakan mereka lebih berani apabila mereka beraksi di tempat sunyi seperti kelab istirehat , kelab malam , di tepi pantai dan seumpamanya .
5. Sentuhan demi sentuhan disiri pertemuan berikutnya akan mematikan rasa malu yang ada pada pasangan tersebut . Nokhtah inilah bermula sebuah cinta bernoda . Palitan kotor dan lumuran jijik melingkari cinta mereka . Namun pasangan sebegini sering beralasan sekadar ‘ ringan - ringan ’
6. Sentuhan mula dilakukan dilakukan di bahagian yang paling biasa seperti mengurai rambut dan mengusap tangan . Fenomena yang dianggap biasa ini jarang dibantah oleh pihak gadis .
7. Akhirnya rentetan sebuah realiti membawa satu tragedi hina dek rangsangan nafsu rambang .Begitulah gelumang cinta penuh noda lakonan muda mudi yang tidak berpedoman . Nafsu dan syahwat menjadi kriteria utama hidup mereka

CINTA MUDA MUDI ( REMAJA )

Mengharungi zaman modern skang niey ,banyak mencetus komunikasi berani antara manusia . Sopan susila , adat budaya dan adab bangsa kian diketepikan . Susila barat , budaya hippies dan adat rimba dibangga - banggakan sebagai trend dunia terkini.

Muda mudi adalah agensi yang terlalu ketara membantu penguatkuasaan gejala keruntuhan moral . Pergaulan bebas menjadi slogan perjuangan mereka . Hidup mereka hanyut ke tengah gelombang ganas yang membunuh aqidah .

Realiti ini suatu tragedi yang mencuit perasaan .Cinta dikalangan muda mudi turut tercemar oleh wabak jijik yang bermaharajalela . Kadang-kadang, seringkali percintaan antara mereka berakhir dengan kekecewaan dan maksiat yang keji . Betul x???

Gejala bohsia dan bohjan yang melanda negara kita hari ini , satu realiti yang mencemaskan . Nafsu mengatasi malu . Inilah bahana cinta nafsu yang tidak dibendung , malah ada pihak yang sengaja mencurah minyak di atas api yang sedang marak . Pencerobohan konsert Salem cool , Scorpion , Micheal Jackson , Inul Daratista dan lainnya ke negara kita tanpa restu dari orang yang beriman telah cukup membuktikan jenis minyak yang mereka curah ke atas api nafsu remaja yang sedang marak...

2007-08-29T10:24:00.000+08:00

Talking With Her Ex-Boyfriend

Question 1 :
"A friend and I recently started talking about getting together. She has just removed herself from a bad relationship. She complained to me about how her ex-boyfriend made her feel like dirt. The weird thing is she still wants to talk to him. She even told me that if we get serious she doesn’t want to stop talking to him. She says he has become a very good friend. I am concerned because she has left her ex-boyfriend before and dated another man, and eventually went back to her ex-boyfriend. Am I being insecure?"

**No you are not being insecure. You are being realistic. She has shown a pattern of using men as a placeholder for her ex-boyfriend. Nobody wants or deserves to be a placeholder.
If he makes her feel like dirt she should want to distance herself from him instead of keeping him close. Communicating with her verbally abusive ex-boyfriend should be off limits if she wants to date you. She obviously feels there is a chance of them getting back together, and that is why she wants to keep lines of communication open.**

My Bestfren's Boyfriend

Question 2 :
My best friend’s boyfriend is a jerk. He makes fun of her and says mean things to her all the time. When they are around each other they usually fight. He is always making her cry and hurting her feelings. They broke up several weeks ago and she was devastated. Then he called her back crying the same night and they got back together! I’m trying to make her see that he’s not going change and they need to break up, but she can’t seem to see it. What can I do to help or make her feel better?

**Unfortunately your best friend is blinded by love. There really isn’t too much you can do to change her mind. You want her to be happy, but she isn’t when she is with him. Let her know you are concerned, and you hate to see her so upset all of the time. Make sure you stay supportive and helpful, and avoid being confrontational. Hopefully she will realize he is a jerk as time goes on. **

Blinded By Love

Question 3:
I was involved in a three year relationship that ended one year ago. Now we are talking again and both agree we belong together. He has told me I am the “love of his life”, and I truly feel the same way. He has told me he wants to take it slow, and I agree.
Recently he had a falling out with his roommates and decided to move out. The problem is he has moved in with a friend he used to mess around with. He says they are just friends now and nothing is going on. Well, they both sleep together in the same bed at night. He swears up and down that there is nothing between them and that two friends can sleep in the same bed and not mess around. It is a one bedroom apartment, and there is a living room with a couch he could sleep on. Am I being blinded by love on this one?

**Yes you are being blinded by love. Living in the same apartment and sleeping in the same bed with an ex-lover is unacceptable. There is a good chance something is going on between them. If you are the “love of his life” he should be staying with you. Move on to someone new.**

How To Break Up

2007-08-29T09:36:00.000+08:00

You really want out of your relationship but you aren’t quite sure how to do the deed. Here are some tips and tricks on how to end that unwanted relationship smoothly.

Take Some Notes
Figure out why you want to break up. There are probably plenty of reasons, get out a pen and write them down. Now that you have all your reasons go through them and take out anything that might truly offend your partner in the heat of the moment. Telling your boyfriend he has bad breath on top of your other reasons isn’t going to help the situation. Now that you have your list of reasons prepared, take some time to memorize it so you are ready when the time comes.

Set Aside Some Time
Make sure you set aside at least 45 minutes for your break up. If you have only been dating for a few months less time may be appropriate. You don’t want to try and break off a five year relationship in five minutes. Be courteous and set aside ample time to discuss your reasons for breaking up and to answer any questions he or she might have.

Your Mistakes
Your soon to be ex will be feeling very discouraged after hearing all your reasons for breaking up. Do not forget to include your mistakes and shortcomings in the relationship. There certainly are things you could have done better. You don’t want him or her to feel like everything was their fault. Be honest with yourself and admit to your mistakes.

Do It In Person
Never breakup with someone over the phone, through text-message, or over email. It is disrespectful and cowardly. You want to make sure you are some place private, nobody wants to go through something like this in public or in front of friends. You would prefer to have “the talk” at their apartment or home. You want to be able to leave if things get out of hand, and you won’t have that option at your place.

Follow Through
After the break up is complete, follow through. Don’t call your ex the next day or invite them over to hang out. Leave them alone and give them some time to heal. Don’t decide the next day you want to get back together with your ex. You are disrespecting your ex as well as the relationship by changing your mind so quickly. If you had valid reasons for breaking up, they would not have disappeared overnight. The lesson here is don’t break up unless you really mean it. Pulling someone in and out of a relationship is cruel and unnecessary.

Be Prepared
Be prepared for an emotional reaction. You should be ready to deal with anger, crying, begging, insults, or any combination of those emotions. It can be a difficult and traumatic experience for the person you are breaking up with, you should expect them to act accordingly. Stay calm and firm about your reasons and let them know it is really over. Be compassionate and understanding, but do not give in to any begging or crying. Do not retaliate or get into a screaming match if he or she becomes upset. Stay calm and rational at all costs.

Signs Of Cheating !!!

2007-08-28T17:05:00.000+08:00

Do you ever wonder if your partner is "cheating" on you?

Do you have a sneaking suspicion he is sneaking around? It can be difficult discovering whether or not your mate is cheating. Here are 5 warning signs to be on the lookout for..!!!

Defensive Attitude
Your girlfriend gets very defensive whenever you ask innocent questions about where she has been or who she was talking to. People who are feeling nervous about their cheating will become defensive of normally routine questions and immediately start making accusations themselves. A example would be an innocent question followed by a defensive response:

(Innocent Question) : “Hey, who called you when we were at dinner?”
(Defensive Response) : “Why do you always have to ask so many questions? Mind your own business.”

No Conversation
You try to start a conversation with your boyfriend but all you get is one word answers or “not now”. He is cold to you and could care less about your concerns or emotions. He has no interest in talking to you about anything. This is a good sign he isn’t interested in you anymore and might be looking elsewhere for conversation.

Bad Moods
Your girlfriend always seems happy when leaving to go to work or leaving to go anywhere without you. Whenever you two are spending time together she seems miserable and depressed. She never wants to go anywhere with you, she would rather stay home or go out by herself. Constant bad moods whenever you are around is a sure sign something might be going on behind your back.

Too Many Lies
You are always catching your girlfriend in lies. She says she went to the office to catch up on work, but you find out from a friend she was at the mall. Lies represent a lack of trust and commitment on her part. If the lies keep piling up, you should be concerned she is trying to hide something from you

New Clothes
Your boyfriend buys a bunch of new clothes and starts concerning himself more and more with his appearance. You notice him taking longer than usual to get ready before work, or meticulously adjusting his hair before he “goes out with his friends”. He is constantly checking his appearance whenever he is getting ready to leave the house without you. He is trying to look good for someone, and it isn’t you.

Check it out now !!!

100 Languages " I LOVE U"

2007-08-28T15:53:00.000+08:00

How to say I Love You in 100 Languages ???

English - I love you

Arabic - Ana behibak (to male)

Arabic - Ana behibek (to female)

Afrikaans - Ek het jou lief

Albanian - Te dua
Armenian - Yes kez sirumem

Bambara - M'bi fe

Bengali - Ami tomake bhalobashi

Belarusian - Ya tabe kahayu

Bisaya - Nahigugma ako kanimo
Bulgarian - Obicham te

Cambodian - Soro lahn nhee ah

Cantonese Chinese - Ngo oiy ney a

Catalan - T'estimo

Chinese - Wo ai ni

Cherokee - Tsi ge yu i

Cheyenne - Ne mohotatse

Chichewa - Ndimakukonda

Corsican - Ti tengu caru (to male)

Creol - Mi aime jou

Croatian - Volim te

Czech - Miluji te

Danish - Jeg Elsker Dig

Dutch - Ik hou van jou

Elvish - Amin mela lle

Esperanto - Mi amas vin

Estonian - Ma armastan sind

Ethiopian - Afgreki'

Faroese - Eg elski teg

Farsi - Doset daram
Filipino - Mahal kita

Finnish - Mina rakastan sinua

French - Je t'aime, Je t'adore

Gaelic - Ta gra agam ort

Georgian - Mikvarhar

German - Ich liebe dich

Greek - S'agapo

Gujarati - Hoo thunay prem karoo choo

Hiligaynon - Palangga ko ikaw

Hawaiian - Aloha Au Ia`oe
Hindi - Hum Tumhe Pyar Karte hae

Hmong - Kuv hlub koj

Hopi - Nu' umi unangwa'ta

Hungarian - Szeretlek

Hebrew to male: "ani ohev otcha" (said by male)

"Ohevet ot'cha" (said by female)

Icelandic - Eg elska tig

Ilonggo- Palangga ko ikaw

Indonesian - Saya cinta padamu

Inuit - Negligevapse

Irish - Taim i' ngra leat

Italian - Ti amo

Japanese - Aishiteru ....atau...or.... Anata ga daisuki desu

Kannada - Naanu ninna preetisuttene

Kapampangan - Kaluguran daka

Kiswahili - Nakupenda

Konkani - Tu magel moga cho

Korean - Sarang Heyo...atau..or... Nanun tangshinul sarang hamnida

Latin - Te amo

Latvian - Es tevi miilu

Lebanese - Bahibak

Lithuanian - Tave myliu

Luxembourgeois - Ech hun dech gi

Macedonian - Te Sakam

Malay - Saya cintakan mu / Aku cinta padamu

Malayalam - Njan Ninne Premikunnu
Maltese - Inhobbok Mandarin

Marathi - Me tula prem karto

Mohawk - Kanbhik

Moroccan - Ana moajaba bik

Nahuatl- Ni mits neki

Navaho - Ayor anosh'ni

Norwegian - Jeg Elsker Deg

Pandacan - Syota na kita!!

Pangasinan - Inaru Taka
Papiamento - Mi ta stimabo

Persian - Doo-set daaram

Pig Latin - Iay ovlay ouyay

Polish - Kocham Ciebie

Portuguese - Eu te amo

Romanian - Te iubesc
Russian - Ya tebya liubliu

Scot Gaelic - Tha gra\dh agam ort

Serbian - Volim te

Setswana - Ke a go rata

Sindhi - Maa tokhe pyar kendo ahyan

Sioux - Techihhila

Slovak - Lu`bim ta

Slovenian - Ljubim te

Spanish - Te quiero / Te amo

Swahili - Ninapenda wewe

Swedish - Jag alskar dig

Swiss-German - Ich lieb Di

Surinam - Mi lobi joe

Tagalog - Mahal kita
Taiwanese - Wa ga ei li
Tahitian - Ua Here Vau Ia Oe

Tamil - Nan unnai kathalikaraen

Telugu - Nenu ninnu premistunnanu
Thai - Chan rak khun (to male)
Thai - Phom rak khun (to female)
Thai - (informal) Rak te
Turkish - Seni Seviyorum

Ukrainian - Ya tebe kahayu

Urdu - mai aap say pyaar karta hoo

Vietnamese - Anh ye^u em (to female)

Vietnamese - Em ye^u anh (to male)

Welsh - 'Rwy'n dy garu di

Yiddish - Ikh hob dikh

Yoruba - Mo ni fe

PETANDA DIE ADALAH JODOHMU...

2007-08-27T13:05:00.000+08:00

Tahu tak bile kite terjumpe seseorang dan berpasangan dengannya,ada tak terdetik dalam hati kamu yang dia adalah My Mr.Right,My Soulmate and Soul....???

Hanya dengan menatap mata dan mendengar suaranya,kita akan merasakan getaran dan seolah ingin hidup bersamanyer???
Then, let us see apakah ada petanda lainnya agar seseorang dapat merasakan bahawa si dia adalah jodoh ( soulmate) kita atau bukan???

PETANDA PERTAMA :
Salah satu kriteria yang menentukan sesuainya dia atau tidak,sebagai jodoh kamu atau bukan,adalah kemampuannya bersikap bersahaja di depan kamu. Cuba sekarang perhatikan apa gerak gerinya,cara berpakaian,gaya rambutnya,caranya berbicara serta gelak tawanya,mengesankan apa adanya?apakah ucapannya slalu tampak spontan dan tidak dibuat-buat?Jika tidak,maaf,dia bukan jodoh kamu.

PETANDA KEDUA :
Rahsia sepasang kekasih agar dapat memiliki usia hubungan yang panjang adalah dengan adanya saling kerjasama. Kamu dan dia dapat saling membantu samaada dlm perkara remeh ataupun masalah besar.Paling penting adalah kamu berdua selalu dapat melalui sgala aspek khidupan secara bersama-sama. Dan semuanya terasa amat menyenangkan meskipun tanpa harus melibatkan orang lain. Apakah kamu pernah merasakan perkara tersebut?? Jika ya,maka selamat....mungkin dia la pendamping hidup kamu...

PETANDA KETIGA :
Ada deria batiniah membuat hati kamu berdua dapat selalu saling tahu.Dan bila kamu atau si dia dapat membaca fikiran kamu dan menduga reaksi serta perasaannya satu sama lainnya pada situasi tertentu. Maka ..dia lah sebenarnya destinasi kebahagiaan kamu..

PETANDA KEEMPAT:
Ketika bersamanya,perasaan kamu amat selesa,dan berasa tenang tanpa perasaan tertekan. Walaupun berjam-jam,berhari-hari bersamanya takkan merasa bosan...ini lah petanda kelak kamu akan saling terikat..

PETANDA KELIMA:
Dia tidak terlalu peduli dengan masa lalu keluarga kamu dan tidak peduli masa lalu kamu dengan kekasih sebelumnya terdahulu.Dia juga tidak malu-malu menceritakan masa lalunya..kalaulah mcm ni,bermakna si dia memang dah bersedia menerima kamu apa adanya...

PETANDA KEENAM:
Setiap orang memiliki kekurangan dan kamu tidak malu-malu memperlihatkan padanya,bahkan saat kamu tampil "buruk" didepannya,misalnya baru bangun tidur atau saat kamu sakit,tak mandi 2 hari,atau kamu menceritakan sejujur-jujurnya kelemahan kamu pada si dia....MEMANG kamu diciptakan dan ditakdirkan bersama dengannya...

PETANDA KETUJUH:
Dia slalu ada bersama kamu tak kira apa jua pun situasi kamu ,samada suka dan duka,dalam semua keadaan,ingatlah sewaktu kita susah,ada tak si dia orang pertama bersama kita? Apakah dia tahu kita sedang sakit atau tidak...?hmm..Jikalau ya, si dia lah yang akan sentiasa berada dengan mu pada masa hadapan..

PETANDA KELAPAN :
Bila rahsia kamu lebih selamat di tangannya berbanding teman-temanmu yang lain.Adakah kamu merasa sudah tidak dapat menyimpan ape-ape rahsia darinya,maka berbahagialah..kerana pasangan sejati kamu telah ditemukan...

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LoVe iS CiNtA

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What gift we suggest to a lovely couple?

~~~Perspektif Cinta Dalam Islam~~~

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Signs Of Cheating !!!

100 Languages " I LOVE U"

PETANDA DIE ADALAH JODOHMU...

~Perspektif Cinta Dalam Islam~