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Call Dad on Father's Day

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Fri, 14 Jun 2013 03:10:00 +0000

In celebration of Father's Day, I am opening our weekend with a tribute for my father/ daddy. KEEP CALM and CALL DAD. Even at this point in my life being married for 9 years, I still look up to my father. I find it wise to ask for his guidance and wisdom on things I'm not sure of. We literally call my dad if my husband and I are in great need for some advice and moral support. The idea that he will always be there for us is very calming...

One of the things I want to share here are the inspiring words by my mother-in-law. Before she went back to America in 2008, she left some words of comfort for her son, my husband... "Dolf, you still have a father in Enchie's dad." Though it may not be the same having your real father around, but the thought of my dad being present to be a father figure to my other half made it easier for my husband to cope after losing his dad.

Both our parents are there to be good examples. But both have different parts and characteristics to portray. Just like our moms who balances everything at home, our dads are the ones we can get inspiration from on building a strong foundation for the family. Their firm decision- making, their love for sports, their endless adventures and principles in life...

To all the dads in the world... Happy Father's Day!!!

The Man of Steel Has Returned

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Thu, 13 Jun 2013 04:49:00 +0000

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First off, like everyone else, I grew up watching Christopher Reeve as Superman. After his series of movies, no other Superman movie impressed me as much. With high hopes, a movie worth watching... the Man of Steel didn't fail to meet my expectations as a movie lover.

I'll make my views about The Man of Steel precise. This post is not a review. I"ll simply share the awesome parts of the movie that I really liked. Scenes and characters that made it different from the rest.

Please be warned...

Spoilers.

Costume Design:
All hail that they've finally ditched Superman's manly red trunks :D

The costume design was very simple but it's simplicity will stun you as Superman shows off his moves and muscles. It added life to the fight scenes, it made the character look intimidating. The combination of deep red and dark blue was perfect. The cape showed great elegance and power as it waves with the wind.

Also see: Superman costume gets a makeover

The rest of the cast especially the villains got the same treatment with their costumes. In Filipino term, we call it "astig!" awesome or cool...

Story:

The best part of the new Superman movie is the story line. Superman's life before and and when he became "Superman". The Man of Steel concentrated in the core of Superman's identity both as an alien to planet earth and his adaptation as human. For the first time, I was able to understand the roots of Superman, the reasons for his whole his existence.

Humanity and being a Being of this world/ Philosophical: There were lines spoken that was filled with wisdom. And talk about one's principles put to a test.

Jonathan Kent (Kevin Costner): "You're not just anyone. One day, you're going to have to make a choice. You have to decide what kind of man you want to grow up to be. Whoever that man is, good character or bad, it's going to change the world"

On Love and Hope:

It wasn't just a love story. I like the fact that they gave a new take on Lois Lane's contributions to in the life of Superman. You will find a firm and brave Lois in this movie. She was there to give hope as to what the S symbol means. She showed great respect on the true identity of Clark Kent and also as Superman. Their relationship flourished through the hardships and battles they both encountered. For me, the most important part, is that Lois knows that Clark and Superman are one and the same.

Fatherly Image:

The role of Russell Crowe and Kevin Costner were both very strong. Their characters both have weight in this movie. If we're to talk about family love in general, both fathers had their ways of showing love, support and compassion, to a point that they sacrificed their lives for him. They taught him values like patience, loyalty, trust, love and being hopeful that later on changed the world and that made Superman a man on his own. It's huge for me that the makers of this movie concentrated on the parental aspect as well.

Henry Cavill as the Man of Steel:
Who would know that the son (Albert Mondego) of the Count of Monte Cristo will grow up as Superman. He carried it with such power and humility. I just learned that he was suppose to star in Superman Returns back in 2006. But with the change of director, it didn't push through. I guess it's a blessing to have given him more time to prepare and give justice "again" to the role of Superman. He did a great job.

Years have come, rumors and talks on the next Superman has been trending... I just thought that it wouldn't be as good just like the 2006 flick with Brandon Routh. The table turned when finally, Christopher Nolan took the job for the story and as the producer for the Man of Steel.

Nolan known for Inception, The Dark Knight trilogy and The Prestige worked with the director of 300, Sucker Punch, Watchmen Zack Snyder. With these two amazing artists together, there's no doubt that the next Superman flick was made to be another work of art. An epic. And yes, the Man of Steel has returned. As what a friend of ours said "Finally, a Superman movie we truly deserve."- JSP

Also see: Rotten Tomatoes on The Man of Steel

Other source: http://www.imdb.com (quotation from the movie)

Our 9th In Marriage

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Wed, 05 Jun 2013 05:09:00 +0000

First, let me count the no. of years we've been together. That's 4 years of dating and 9 years bonded by the sacredness of marriage... 13 years. My husband doesn't like counting, but we still tend to have a glimpse back from the time we first met. It's fun.

Our anniversary was celebrated with a simple feast, quality time spent with family and friends... 9 years ago, I got married to the most important person in my life. He brought me out of my box as a person and showed me the fun side life can offer. He accepted me for who I am, we clicked and from then on, we both knew that we were meant for each other, decided to marry and have a family.

Within the 4 years of dating, we never really danced or at least had an opportunity to sway in each other's arms. Our wedding gave us our first dance. It is true that while in the arms of the person whom you'll share your life with makes you melt slowly, feeling that I'm being loved even more.

9 years ago, we celebrated with our close friends. People who we now consider as family. Everytime we're all together, we treat each other with laughter, never a dull moment with these guys.

9 years after, we are still having fun. This time, with our loved ones. Each were blessed with happiness and special people who embraces us with so much love and unforgettable memories. We share that with each other as well. Life's lessons, pulling inspiration from one another, seeking advices, enjoying the food we love the most and dreams we're about to live.

Our 9th year anniversary was celebrated with our close friends... Since the very beginning, our friends was already around. If we're to talk about true friendship and love. This is the kind of relationship we have with them.

We don't really spend too much on such occasion, but we still do find simple ways to honor this special moment in our lives. Our celebration was extended with dinner in one of the oldest restaurants in Manila, Barrio Fiesta.

And one extraordinary thing we did this year... we have gifts for each other.

Both gifts are considered to be as essentials. What an excuse right? Anyway, we seldom buy stuff for ourselves lately, because we're saving for something bigger. But what the heck! while will I turn down a Cath Kidston bag that was ordered all the way from London. The iRig I know is going to be useful for his music, my husband likes to mix and record using his Apple gadgets.

This year's celebration is as simple like our previous anniversaries but extraordinarily fun because we had our friends around and gifts to open. But over- all, it's the lessons learned, our growth as partners and the solid foundation that we are continuing to build for our children that makes up this whole journey.

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Thu, 30 May 2013 14:17:00 +0000

Source: r-eindeer.tumblr.com via Ecoelle on Pinterest

Looking forward to a lovely weekend with family and friends.

Enjoy your weekend everyone!

Why We Fell In Love With Subic

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Thu, 30 May 2013 03:26:00 +0000

For the past 2 years, we have been in and out of the Subic Freeport Zone. Here are the reasons why we fell in love with Subic...

1. Good Roads

Now that SCTEX is already open, driving to Subic is smoother and easier. The usual 3 hour drive which most consider as a long, "exhausting" drive, has become a regular that we don't even bother about the traveling time and the stress of long road trips.

2. Perfect Accommodation: Forestview Residences
Location: El Kabayo Road Subic Bay Freeport Zone Philippines

Forestview has housed us for the past 2 years. It met our needs as a traveling family. Forestview offers villas that has 3 air-conditioned bedrooms, a kitchen, dining room, living room, clean bathrooms and covered parking for your car. With 24- hour security, clean surroundings, green environment and a very nice management.

Forestview Residences Facebook

3. What Will Keep You Busy in Subic

I'm talking about activities outside Zoobic, Ocean Adventure, Tree Top Adventure etc. One of the things my family loves to do is to explore. Our April visit was when my husband and I went on a date trip. We took advantage of the free time without the kids. We drove around the streets of Subic, places we've never been to. We discovered a lot of hidden beaches, and I'm talking about nice affordable beach resorts. Along the way, we saw some monkeys. Though tourists are allowed to feed them, please be careful because these animals came from their natural habitat, consider them wild.

We were lucky to see soldiers assemble some equipments at the Subic International Airport in preparation for the Balikatan Joint Exercise for 2013.

Malls in Subic. Sm Olongapo and a nice place to visit in Subic is the Harbor Point Mall.

Strolling around Habor Point gave us a beachy- relaxed malling experience. Everyone's wearing flip flops and light clothing. It felt so homey. On a busy weekend, the place is filled with both tourists and residents of Olongapo.

4. Duty Free Shops and The Subic Bay Yacht Club

When in Subic, it is always a must to go duty free shopping. Most of the time, I shop for imported chocolates, toiletries that we don't have in our place and stuff that came in cheaper in Subic than in Manila. We were able to visit the Subic Bay Yacht Club because we were invited to an event.

5. Food Adventure

On road trips, I still bring home-cooked food. Usually on the first day, good for breakfast and lunch. The remainder of our stay is often spent eating out. Like every place in the world, there will always be the presence of famous restaurants. Meat Plus has always been a tourist destination. But other than that, if you explore some more, you will find other food havens that will make your adventure unforgettable.

This summer, we made 3 discoveries:

Cafe Balooga Habor Point Mall
the Coca- Cola Soda Fountain inside Royal Duty Free
7-11 store in front of the Subic Bay Yacht Club

Aside from the one in Subic, please let me know if there's a 7-11 somewhere else in the Philippines that has an area where their customers can sit, relax and enjoy their refreshments by a lagoon.

When it comes to food discoveries, I go for anything to eat that will make me happy and satisfied... I never limit myself to the famous ones and most especially to expensive restaurants. One of the things I enjoyed this summer was eating halo-halo beach side at the Camayan Beach resort and having tea while getting pampered in a spa. And speaking of spas...

6. Subic is also a Stress- free Zone

You will find a great no. of spas that also offers home services and are open up to 12 midnight.

7. Blue- Green Waters

Subic is known as a beach destination. Even driving around the place, you will enjoy taking a refreshing glimpse of it's blue- green sea.

Subic has almost everything you need if you're looking for a great location for the family that's why we love it. We never get bored of it.

Please check out some related links. Please bear... I'm having trouble linking posts coming from my blog site.

Beachin Around Subic- http://xtraordinarymom.blogspot.com/2012/05/beachin-around-subic.html
Zoobic Safari- http://xtraordinarymom.blogspot.com/2012/04/zoobic-safari.html
SubicViaSCTEX-http://xtraordinarymom.blogspot.com/2012/04/smooth-ride-to-subic-via-sctex.html
Meat Plus- http://frommomachie.blogspot.com/2012/05/meat-plus-restaurant-subic-bay.html
Café Balooga- http://frommomachie.blogspot.com/2013/04/cafe-balooga.html

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Fri, 24 May 2013 02:05:00 +0000

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Have a great, great weekend everyone!

Mother's Day 2013

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Thu, 23 May 2013 09:44:00 +0000

There will always be---
Pink Flowers.

Sharing a Delicious, Rich Chocolate Cake.

Receiving a Simple, Meaningful, Heartwarming message from my husband...

And a Beautiful Family that makes my womanhood and motherhood complete and extraordinarily perfect. The lovely reasons why we also celebrate life on Mother's day, the inspirations and purpose I live with each day God blesses us with.

Life In Capones

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Thu, 02 May 2013 04:18:00 +0000

Last time I island- hopped was when I was 10 years old. My Auntie would take me and brother with her every time she would go to the beach. As a kid, it was one of the good memories I had. I can still remember getting pricked by a sea urchin. It was really great to be able to experience to go to an isolated island again. Isolated, because even with tourists around, the people of Zambales was able to control the crowd and they were able to maintain the original feel of a deserted island in the middle of the ocean.

I went to our balcony around 4am in the morning. I just thought of having some "me time". When I got out, I saw the moon shining over the islands of Camara and Capones. When I went to bed the night before everything was dark at that very same spot. This has got to be one of the treats I enjoyed during our stay in Zambales. The moon served like a spot light over the islands. The sky was clear and the stars were shining brightly as well.

After my short sight-seeing of the moon over the islands, at 6am, I went to the reception area to reserve a boat for our island hop. With our experience, it's best to go island hopping early in the morning. The water is calm and it's safe to get a healthy exposure with the sun. After our reservation, I had our breakfast packed so we can eat at the island. At 7am, our boat was ready and waiting.

The boat was equipped with life vests both for adults, kids and even for a 1- year old. Our boat ride went smoothly. In the middle of the ocean, we saw through the crystal blue green water, enjoyed looking at corals and fishes.

Capones Island

Breakfast in Capones

We chose Capones because the beach area is bigger than in Camara, with lesser visitors also because most would prefer Anawangin Cove. When we arrived in Capones, there were tourists around. Most of them, slept at the island. When our boat man told us about tourists sleeping, camping over at the island, I feared that we might end up with trash everywhere. I'm really happy that they kept the place clean.

Me and my sister Les

One of the things we enjoyed in Capones was the clear water that housed some shells, corals, crabs and small fishes. It was quite an experience for my kids. My youngest son, played with sand for the very first time... swam in sea water. My eldest went snorkeling with his dad. It's wonderful to see my children love nature.

Like I mentioned earlier, there were tourists but the beach remained the same. Everyone had their own spots to enjoy.

The sand was white and fine. But near the water, you'll find shells small stones.

For me, it's instant paradise. I don't even have to fly some place, beat a number of people for a spot. Define beach, adventure and fun all together, here in Zambales, we have an untouched treasure. Let's take care of it, respect and preserve the beauty of the famous islands of Zambales.

Island Hopping:

Camara, Capones, Anawangin Cove: Php3,500

Camara only: Php 1,100

Capones only: Php 1,300

You can stay on these islands for as long as you want during the day and even overnight. It is important to make clear arrangements with the resort management and boat man before going.
Bring umbrellas, tents or anything for cover.
Bring lots of drinking water.
Food is allowed, but make sure to bring your excess/ trash back with you.
Fishing, snorkeling is by request. Ask your resort management with regards to this matter.
Ask your boat man about the famous lighthouse in Capones.
Going to San Antonio Zambales

Sleek Looking Television Set Up

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Thu, 02 May 2013 03:23:00 +0000

T.V. Mounts? Not only they make your room stylish, but most of all they're considered as space savers. Since we bought our LED TV, we have been contemplating on buying a durable t.v. mount. As of the moment, we thought that our 32" t.v. is good if we place it on a regular t.v. stand. But just recently, my husband and I decided to invest on a much bigger and more advanced television set. With that, we are greatly considering of hooking it up on the wall, so we can turn our living room to an instant entertainment area.

A flat screen TV just doesn't look right when it isn't properly mounted or placed on a high quality stand. There are tons of these types of stands online, but most of them are not going to handle the weight of a high quality flat screen television.

You can Shop Standsandmounts.com for flat screen TV Mounts that are cheap but also have a lot of sturdiness built inside. They are even organized by different sizes of televisions so you know exactly which one will work for your home. These are quality wall mounts made from superior grade materials. You can find slim fit TV mounts, arm TV mounts, ceiling mounts and even different flat screen TV stands.

These offer a particular style and grace that you're also not going to find at other places. This is the ultimate for home entertainment systems that must be organized and wire free. Many businesses also use StandsandMounts.com because of the prices and variety. If you are trying to set up a unique space, take a look at the different types of mounts that you can buy and use in your restaurant.

There are ceiling mounts made for posh spaces that hang from steel wires, cable of handling all types of TV weight and making a stable yet different look for your interior. In addition, the slim fit TV wall mounts are perfect for home entertainment systems that want a sleek look with no wires showing. StandsandMounts.com is the perfect place to go to get mounts quickly as well with fast shipping.

Maternity Gifts and Ideas

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Sat, 13 Apr 2013 07:01:00 +0000

In a few weeks, I will be attending a baby shower of a friend of mine. It is going to be my first event. It always excites me when it comes to Baby Shower Ideas . As much as possible, I want it to be extraordinarily colorful and it doesn't have to be wrapped in a box. I learned this from a close friend of mine in college. It was quite a learning because I make the celebrant/s happy and excited.

For the baby shower I'm going to attend to I plan to give a gift basket containing baby clothes in different colors. Baby clothes nowadays comes in all colors both for a baby boy and a girl. A blue shirt might suggest that it's a for a baby boy, but the additional ruffles makes it feminine. The cut and print on the clothing greatly matters. Now, blue can also be as girly as the shade of pink. Pink can be mixed with blue, green or brown to make it more boyish.

For our mommy friends, usually we give baby showers when mommy is at her 8th or 9th month. It's not too late to gift her with Pregnancy Clothing . A cute shirt can come in handy even after giving birth.

Apparently, maternity cut clothing has been a trend lately. Personally, it's one of the things I enjoy throughout my pregnancy. Even with a bulging tummy, we moms can still be fashionable. And we can use these clothes over and over again. When buying maternity clothes, take note of the structure and design of the clothing. Then, imagine yourself in it without the big tummy. This particular shirt above can go with denim shorts, skinny jeans and a chic looking pair of flats.

AirPlay Your Favorites

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Fri, 12 Apr 2013 04:16:00 +0000

The latest addition that will make our Apple experience more fun. Actually, we bought our Apple TV a few months ago. We use it to play movies, documentaries, music, games and to view our latest pictures using our television. Online, we go to Youtube to watch the latest episodes of our favorite tv series.

Apple TV will make Apple entertainment more unbelievably fun. Through wireless streaming, you can now enjoy your favorites from your Mac, iPod, iPhone and iPad in a much bigger screen. Setting up is fast and easy. Simply attach your Apple gadget and Apple TV to the same Wi-Fi network, and AirPlay will automatically appear. Choose the application you want to use then AirPlay will stream from your Apple gadget to your HDTV.

It's like a specialized tv show, play whatever you want. Anyone in the room can view, play and listen with you.
If you have external speakers...

AirPlay technology is built into speakers, receivers, and stereo systems from manufacturers like Denon, Marantz, B&W, JBL, and iHome. source

Gaming. This has got to be one of the purposes why we got Apple TV. Since we're so much into gaming apps, being able to view our play on HDTV makes it more exciting and entertaining for the whole family.

Colorful and exciting, because we can view it on HDTV. 3 Fs Family, Fun and Friends not only because we now have a great option for viewing, but also because we can now share our favorites with the people around us. Relaxing, because I can already set some relaxing music and graphics on a much bigger screen with surround sound.

High In Sky Eye

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Thu, 11 Apr 2013 07:13:00 +0000

During the recent holiday (Araw ng Kagitingan) we went on an out of town trip to Tagaytay City with some guests from Cebu. The highlight of our trip was to experience the tallest ferris wheel in the country called Sky Eye. Last time we visited Tagaytay, that was 2 months ago, I remember seeing the whole grounds still being developed. It used to be the horseback riding park beside Taal Vista Hotel. Now, it is called the Sky Ranch. As of the moment, there is a small amusement park and food stalls already open to the public.

Here are the details:

Entrance Fee Sky Ranch: Php100 (20% discount for Senior Citizens and PWD)
Sky Eye Fee: Php150 (Infants below 9 months are free of charge).
Loop Ride: Php250

Most of the rides are at Php50

The main attraction at Sky Ranch is Sky Eye which over looks the whole Taal Lake. We went around 9 in the morning, the sun was out but not too hot, the summer breeze in Tagaytay is still cool. But I advise to bring umbrella and sunglasses, because once it hits 10am- onwards, it is going to be scorching hot.

My sister and Mikee

Night visit at the Sky Ranch is also something to look forward to. I have seen images of the Sky Eye beautifully lit at night. Though there won't be any view of the Taal Volcano, the cool breeze and the warm lights of Sky Eye is an attraction already. I always thought that the Giant Wheel in Star City is the tallest. Sky Eye took the seat at (207 ft) with 32 air-conditioned gondolas making it the tallest in the country.

View from our gondola: The peaceful Taal Volcano.

They say that a gondola can house 4 people. Based on our experience, maximum of 3 would be better. When we saw the other passengers getting off their gondolas, one problem we noticed was the difficulty of going down.

Considering that the wheel is continuously moving, it is dangerous if someone's foot will get caught at the bar in the middle of the gondola. Leg room is going to be a problem if they'll proceed with 4. We insisted that we ride by 2s or 3s. It's a good thing that the person managing the ride was very open for the adjustment we wanted, thank you.

The timing of our visit was perfect. Over-all, our guests had fun. After the 10- minute ride in Sky Eye, they freshened up some more with buko juice from a nearby food station. It was an experience for them to ride the tallest ferris wheel in the country. It is worth sharing to their fellow Cebuanos.

As for me, I'm happy that I was able to ride Sky Eye. I just love how such ride makes me feel so relaxed, as if I wanna own one.

The What Ifs On My Next Cellphone

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Thu, 11 Apr 2013 03:33:00 +0000

For the past years, I have been contemplating if I should get a new cellphone. With the new iPhone and Samsung Galaxy, it sure makes owning a cellphone more colorful and exciting. In terms of functionality, I'm already fine with what I have as of the moment. But to be honest, it does gets into me, the urge of getting the latest in terms in cellphone technology... But then again, the question is do I need it? There 's only one thing that's blocking my urge to get a new phone.

*The fast turnover of gadgets, which makes your old one outdated. Unlike before, I'm talking about the trend 10 years ago, even with the change of time and technology, we get to keep our old ones. We have an option to give it or sell it for a good price. Now, the value depreciates as fast as the turn over. It's too much.

Here are my what ifs just in case I finally shift to an updated cellphone.

If I get to choose between Apple and Samsung... my mind is not made up yet.

If I get to choose to dress- up my cellphone, I would really like to glam it up, at least a fancy looking protective cover.

If I finally get to choose the right phone for me... most definitely, I'll be on a hunt for a reliable store that sell phone accessories that will also include a wide range of galaxy s3 accessories .

I do have plans on getting a newly cellphone, it's the right timing I'm closely waiting for to execute the plan.

My Partner This Summer: Jacobs' Tote

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Sun, 07 Apr 2013 12:35:00 +0000

It's been awhile since I posted something about the things I love... one in particular are tote bags. I saw the beauty of totes in the middle of my motherhood. Having a child around, I always thought that a baby bag came as "a must". Throughout my journey as a mother, I've learned and practised how to fit and organize my personal stuff and my children's needs in one bag, which I call the "mommy bag". From then on, I was always on the look for large totes more than satchels and purses.

When it comes to bags, I am very particular with space, durability and structure of the bag.

1. Space, because I am sharing it with my kids and I want everything to be in place.

2. Having children means carrying all sorts. Light to heavy I must say.

3. Structure. Even if my bag contains diapers, bottles, small toys etc. the next thing I would want is for my bag to look good, that people wouldn't even think of the craziness inside it.

For this year, I made an early hunt. Aside from the idea that summer was fast approaching and I need a summer bag, it also served as somewhat a form of reward for myself. So I went online and searched. At first, I was looking into getting my third Longchamp. I almost did, but I didn't see the point they all look the same hehehe! With other brands and designers few stuff caught my eyes, but nothing really to it. Then I had a bag conversation with my sister that led us looking into Marc Jacobs. So yeah "why didn't I think of MJ".

The final decision was to buy Marc Jacobs. Here in the Philippines, fake items are being sold everywhere. I have to double check if there are "fake" Marc Jacobs being sold, from the name of the bag and the design. I just saw 1 MJ fake item that's being sold rampantly. I took note of it and made sure that I wouldn't be getting the very same design of the fake item.

First thing I did was to search via Google for Marc Jacobs Totes. Then it led me to the Marc Jacobs online store which showed the line of totes they have available. I immediately saw what I liked, from the size, the color, the structure and with the description, I know it's durable.

I want the real deal to go straight to http://www.marcjacobs.com They were on sale at that time. Lucky! but shipping is another story. I have to ask my in -laws a big, big, big favor if I can have it shipped in GA and have the bag sent once someone's bound to visit Manila. My in- laws were very nice to lend me a hand.

When it finally arrived at our place in GA, my sister- in-law sent me pictures unboxing the bag. At first, it looked small like really small. It looked plain blue, I was expecting it to be darker. The thrill with online shopping, you'll never know until you get to hold the item in person.

It took 3 days for the item to be delivered :D In the box was the receipt, a paper bag and the bag itself was in a safe plastic wrapper. A few weeks later, we were surprised by a relative from GA and I got really excited when she mentioned that I have a bag with her... Could it be? Maybe... Yes it is!

To compare: it's as big as a large Le Pliage. The handle is just right as a hand bag and enough to throw it around the shoulders. Tote with PVC handles, base and Jacobs logo embossed front pocket. Nickel MJ logo rivets and zip top closure. The color is navy blue and I so adore that it can look midnight black and... it's easy to clean! This bag is perfect as a "mommy bag". There are other bags that came in different colors and designs. I chose this bag because so far, I haven't seen anybody toting it around here in Manila. It's simple. The designer's name is up front but it's not too loud and it goes well with everything. It's plainly extraordinary.

First hit at the beach this month, I have MJ as my official partner for summer 2013!

Note To Self:

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Fri, 05 Apr 2013 12:36:00 +0000

Early today, I came across this post of my cousin Jordz.

I'm not going to hide it. If there's one thing that's preventing my life from being perfect, it's this feeling of being helpless when I'm placed on a spot where/ when I'm not given a chance to defend myself or a situation where I can't even explain.

I end up holding on to that moment for a very long time. I end up ranting and yapping about it over and over again. I even came to a point when I was called pathetic. I shrug it off, thinking that I'm not the only person who gets into these kind of situations. I'm not as daring like others who can handle confrontations. I keep my mouth shut as much as possible. But when blogging came in, though it helped me release my feelings, I did said a lot of negative things, especially every time I was provoked or pushed. I know, it's rude, it's bad and even "sickening". But don't worry, I pondered upon it. I thought that this is something hard to swallow. Really, I've been "yapping" for quite sometime. It's a good thing that it's the other way around---found inspiration in it and told myself that it's time to stop, let go, let the situation be and move on.

I don't need to worry on what others will think of me, it's important to carry-on, be myself, be truthful and of course be sensitive to those around me.

To those whom I've hurt, I'm very sorry, I'm sorry that I used blogging as a way to pour out some negative thoughts.

Moving on!

It's A Hermit Crab!

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Wed, 03 Apr 2013 10:21:00 +0000

One of the things I enjoy doing at the beach is getting decorative sea shells by the shore.

This time, I accidentally grabbed a live shell. As I was going through our bucket, I got startled when a small shell started moving. There I saw the shell crawled its way under the pile. When I searched for it, something came out... it's a Hermit Crab!

How I wish I'm still at the beach so I can return it. In relation to this story, in Sm Megamall, there's a store that sell Hermit Crabs which are way bigger than what I found. They call it "Lucky Hermits". I've always been curious about it, but never had the intention of buying one.

If it's considered to be as a "lucky crab" I'm gonna grab onto that thought. Because here I have a hermit crab that accidentally landed in my bucket of shells. It's something positive, it might just bring all the good vibes in, it's alive and I'm gonna take care of it.

Nature's Treatment

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Wed, 03 Apr 2013 09:30:00 +0000

In my food blog, I mentioned that I was busy preparing for a short getaway. That I can't find the right location but at the same time, praying that my husband was also on the look. Just after making that post, my husband told me that he was able to make arrangements with the help of a friend. Since Holy Week is the only time my husband is available, we took the risk and agreed to book for our vacation on a Good Friday.

Holy Week, usually in practice, we spend this occasion to ponder on our spirituality. It may seem a bit off to go out on this day, in reality, we have no choice but to grab the opportunity. My parents even tried to convince us not to go, or at least move the date of our vacation. Deep inside me, I thought... I trust that God will not let anything bad to happen. Along the way, we prayed for His blanket of protection.

On our first day at the resort, we didn't do much activities. We relaxed and used the quiet beach resort as a place to meditate and appreciate God's creations once again.

One of the blessings we received was the location of our room. Our balcony overlooks the entire beach area and of course, we were graced with a lovely sunset.

I went to bed that evening with the ocean view totally dark. I woke up in the middle of the night and decided to go and relax at the balcony. When I went out, I saw one of the most fascinating things about nature. The moon was literally shining over the islands of Camara and Capones. This sight was extraordinary for me. The light's reflection on the ocean? I was served with a perfect view for some "me time" and meditation.

Thought that we go out of the ordinary things we do in the beach. We continued with our activities and went to an island. It was the highlight of our vacation. Though the island is a known tourist spot, even with other beach goers around, the place still looks isolated and it was very beautiful.

We didn't spend so much, a 2-3 hour trip from Manila, nice scenery along the way... plus, we got high- class treatment from nature itself.

School Is Over!

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Mon, 18 Mar 2013 04:43:00 +0000

Last Friday was my son's last day in school. Come to think of it, it relaxes me a little that I will not be waking up early for the next 2 months. For the past 3 years, since my son started to attend school, I noticed that even if he is on vacation, he still gets bored at home. When he entered primary school, I made it a point to prepare a line of activities for him. Things that will keep him busy and productive in the house. This year, my husband and I have decided to enroll him to summer school. Well that is, with our son's consent.

We've coordinated with the school as early as this month. This summer, the school is going to offer various lessons on arts and crafts, math, reading, language and "I think" music. My son is a hard core student when it comes to numbers. So since he's already good in Math, we're looking into enhancing his reading skills and/ or language and an additional of arts & crafts. These activities will surely prepare him for the next years and steps in school as he grows. Some students prefer a private tutor.

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When it comes to a more physical activity, over the weekend, my husband and I took time to set- up the humongous swimming pool of my parents. I like the pool because the size is just right for the children to swim without the fear of them getting into an accident. At the same time, it's big enough for someone to learn how to swim. Even if we don't go to the beach as much this summer, at least there's an available place with a swimming pool we can go to enjoy a sunny day.

A Good Cup of Our Favorite Moments

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Fri, 01 Mar 2013 03:49:00 +0000

Last month I got a surprise visit from a very close of mine. Our small get together was spent with our friend Karen as well. It's been aw long time since Ate Rina's last visit to the Philippines. Last time I was with her was back in 2009. I was the only one available then to meet up with her and her husband. Since I stay at home 24/7, for every friend who comes home from another country, it has always been me whom they look up to when it comes to organizing reunions.

Well, ever since we were teenagers, when it comes to gatherings, I really like to participate and share my ideas on how we can spend an occasion.

Hectic schedule here and there, but another friend was able to make it. Karen. As always...

It's the 3 of us again!

The picture above was taken in 2008.

We started our beautiful afternoon with some catching- up. When Ate Rina saw my younger sisters, she got overwhelmed with how they've grown. She even thought that my youngest sister Les is still in high school. But actually, my youngest sister is already graduating from college soon. Which changed our topic on how we were during the times when we were looking for a good school for college. VeritasPrep is very famous when it comes to preparation for college, especially for elite schools.

This year, most of my friends are pretty busy, mostly because of work. Some of us have babies to attend to and other events in our calendars. The least that I was able to come up with was a small afternoon gathering at our place. My parents' house has always been the ideal meeting place for us even as kids. My parents has become my friends' guardians too. We had dinner, talked about things from "then" and "now". The highlight of our evening was about ghost stories from our old houses. It sure is nice to see my friends again. Whether if someone's back to visit or whoever are here in the Philippines, a relaxing time spent with them is greatly considered as the cream on top of a good cup of our favorite moments.

Trip Down To Taal Lake

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Tue, 19 Feb 2013 06:23:00 +0000

It's not our first time to get a closer glimpse of the Taal Volcano, but it is our first time to be back again after 10 years. After hearing mass at the Carmel Church in Lipa Batangas, we decided to go to Tagaytay via Talisay. But before heading up to Tagaytay City, we went around Talisay for the kids to have a closer look at the Taal Volcano.

My son Frankie has always been fond of seeing a real volcano. One of the things he only see and read about in books and on television. The closest he can ever relate to with is the Taal Volcano. Even if he have seen it several times, he makes us feel that each visit we make to Tagaytay it's always his first.

With so much excitement, he'll start asking, "are we going to see the volcano?", "are we going to see the volcano?" Over the weekend, Frankie was able to take a closer look of the beautiful Taal Volcano. He was very happy. As a matter of fact, he was overwhelmed how big it is as we went closer.

The Taal Lake was peaceful. We can smell the fresh breeze coming from the lake itself. Base on my observation, the fish pens are not crowded anymore. Makes the whole lake look cleaner. We wanted to go in a resort and spend some time by the shore of the lake, but we weren't prepared, maybe on our next visit.

As for me, I am very satisfied and happy that I'm able to take my children out on adventures like these. It's a simple trip but we get to bond, it's educational and fun. I can't wait for our camping trip.

Finding Inspiration: Miranda Kerr's Definition of Grace

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Tue, 19 Feb 2013 03:24:00 +0000

When I read her definition of what "grace" is, I knew I need to share it not just to make a point, but also to spread on what being graceful is all about both inside and out. Good if we can all apply it in our daily living.

On Good Manners:

One of the things I'm very particular of, and I've been very quiet about are issues towards those who have money but who aren't fully aware of what etiquette is. "For me", base on what I've experienced, I can say that having money, doesn't follow that a person also have good manners. Hard truth, in reality, we can't just walk to a person and tell him or her "hey, mind your manners". A well-mannered person never bash on somebody else. A well-mannered person always look for the good in everything. A well- mannered person knows when to speak and knows when to remain silent.

Grace is often described as being elegant, merciful and kind. I made this blog post because something in the past was trashed over me. I wasn't able to give a feedback thinking that it is such a waste. But I knew that there will come a time that I'll be writing about it still...

In my experience, I have been bashed by those who talks about "grace" or being "graceful" all the times.

Where is grace when a person loves to look for mistakes on other person's work in life, a fault- finder. Where's grace when a person gets upliftment by feeding on a person's imperfections.

Where is grace if you like taking advantage of other people and giving them false hopes and beliefs of who you truly are.

Where is grace in all that?

On Forgiveness & Faith

It's so sad how I was looked down upon so much. How people can be so mean so that they can gain self- confidence. At first, it kinda bugs me, but looking at my mother, who's entire life is being spent as a stay at home mom. Like me, people likes to look down on her. But she gets through everything as if nothing happened.

I don't understand what some people have against housewives... really? What do we have that you loathe the most?

My mom's strength is my strength. The thought that I/ we have nothing to lose makes me/ us stronger. I was taught to forgive instantly. What's important now is to take care of my family and to have dignity. We do react... sometimes we get angry. But in the end, we gain nothing from it, better to search for inspiration instead.

On Gratitude

This entry is important to me, because after months of being silent, I'm able to share my thoughts and feelings through the words of a person who doesn't even know me. A person who's oceans away from me, a person whose world is far different from me. Even with that, she was able to share a meaningful take on what "grace" is.

Miranda Kerr is a role model to me. A mother, a wife, a successful model but she reflects a humble "Being" to the people and you will feel that she's being truthful. Her definition was very inspiring. It is something worth thinking everyday in life to become a better person and to do good towards the people that surrounds us.

“Grace is gratitude, surrender, faith, forgiveness, good manners and understanding.”- Miranda Kerr

What He Loves The Most

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Tue, 19 Feb 2013 02:36:00 +0000

If there are men who are into things like cars, bicycles, gadgets like cameras, or an over-all collector, my husband on the other hand, is a guitar man. Even before we met, music has been part of my other half's life. We met through my brother who plays bass for my husband's band back then.

I want to share part of his life as a music lover because as he goes along his journey, there were stories or experiences that inspired/ inspires him not as just as person, but as a family man. When we were preparing for our wedding, I had a personal talk with him as to what we want for each other as we grow old together. From me, the only thing I asked was for him to continue his music. Our first years as a couple was a bit of a struggle. It's normal to make adjustments, especially financially. One of the first source of income we had was when he had private lessons on Jazz music. It paid our bills, milk and diapers for our baby, and groceries.

Two of his most loved guitars that helped us go through those moments are his Ibanez AS80 (which I call the"sexy guitar" because of it's curves) and the Ibanez AF120. These were gifts from his dad during his visit in America in 2001.

I've seen, heard and felt both guitars play. It was very soothing to the ears. Of course if the player is good, it's sounds like as if the sound is putting the person into deep relaxation. Another story behind these guitars was when my late father- in-law had a stroke. For a son, the feeling is devastating. When it happened, my husband who was my boyfriend then, was in a hospital in GA taking care of his dad. He gave me a call and shared to me what he has done. That he has given up everything to the Lord, that for every note he's going to play, it is offered to The ONE above.

It was one of the most touching things I've heard in my life and it was the most moving too. Even up to now, I hold on to that experience of my husband. It's one of the inspirations that motivates me. Surrender, wait for nothing in return it will make you a better person. It the following years, he would always play music for everyone, even my family. It's been years since he bought a guitar. I even asked him one time on when he plan to add another to his collection. He told me that, he not the person "who just buy guitars". For him, he'll know if it's the one, first thing he'll do is to try it.

A worthy guitar that can go in line with the others? Every time we would go out, one of my husband's stops are guitar shops. Any musicians reading this? I'm sure you know what I'm talking about. There's a famous shop here in the Philippines called Audiophile. It's a guitar shop that sell Ibanez guitars. In every mall we go to, Audiophile is a must to visit. As a matter of fact, as a frequent buyer and visitor my husband was able to make friends.

During our visit in Audiophile shop in Cubao, an acoustic guitar got my attention. From the looks of it, it sure is beautiful. The moment my husband went inside and asked for the guitar if he can try it, I knew that it's "the one" guitar he has been waiting for. And so my husband tried it and he was blown away by it's performance and added features. It's an acoustic- electric guitar. He seldom see things that he really wants, but once he finds something worthy of his money, consider it sold! But this time, he asked for my permission. It was being sold for almost Php17,000. So I said yeah, buy it. I'll be happy to see you happy. For me, it's the thought the he has been working so hard and everyone truly deserves a reward at the end of the day. Only, it took years for him to get that "worthy" reward for himself.

Let's face facts first. As much as I wanted to spend Php 17,000, as a housewife, I can't just let go of that kind of amount. For Christmas this year, he told me that when he asked permission to buy it and I said yes to the Ibanez Montage, it was already the biggest Christmas present for him. So there you go, a gift that was well- appreciated by the person I love the most.

While unboxing his Ibanez Montage, I told him, that he should display his beautiful guitars. It can be a source of inspiration to his everyday life, to me and even his children. Actually, he would put our kids to sleep just playing his guitar. Mikee our baby and Frankie our eldest son, would smile at him, the next thing you know, both are already fast asleep.

For display, we decided to hang it first like the ones in guitar shops. The Ibanez Montage is the one on the left with the tag. And right beside it is the famous vintage Ibanez 1973 "Lawsuit Guitar" which my husband bought from a friend who needed financial help at that time. Later on, the Ibanez AS80 and AS120 will join the display.

Every guitar has a story. I'm so grateful that I became part of his journey as a musician. I'm happy to have met such an artist. Music, it feeds ones soul with love and passion...

An Early Preparation for SY 2013-2014

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Fri, 15 Feb 2013 02:44:00 +0000

In school, I grew up having a tutor. It helped me cope with the advance lessons I get. Some might think that having a tutor means that the person is poor in academics. That's partly true but, for me, as a parent, I believe that having a tutor for my kid helps boosts his knowledge in various subjects. As early as January, my son's school registrar handed me the enrollment form for the coming school year. And time sure flies by so fast. I mean, I thought we just enrolled him for school. Now, the school year is ending and we have to prepare for a new one.

Part of the preparation was to look for a good tutor. Since my son's previous teacher left to pursue her studies, we are now in search for a reliable teacher. At Tutorspree they offer the best way to find high quality private tutors for every subject. We noticed that for the past summers, even if I give my son activities at home to do, we still end with so much time unused. My husband and I talked to him and asked if he wants to do a few sessions with an activity he loves. With a quick yes, we will enroll him to a summer class of his chosen interest.

With the summer school activities, a good tutor and of course our family bonding, I can say that our son is ready to face another fun year in school.

A Quick Time Out--- We Head For Tagaytay

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Tue, 05 Feb 2013 06:32:00 +0000

The beginning of 2013 was pretty hectic for us, especially for me. It's school work and hangover from the holidays that's been bugging me. Plus, 2 weeks after the new year my youngest son got terribly sick. To sum it up, the first month of 2013 was pressuring. We all want our kids to recover fast and of course, we don't want them to get sick. Through the years of being a full time mom, I've learned a lot of things everytime my little ones would get sick. As much as possible, I stay away from hospitals and do home treatments with the help of our family doctor. But with the recent situation with Mikee, I "almost" gave up and thought of bringing him in a hospital. It was very draining.

We were able to solve the health issue by changing and adjusting my son's milk in-take and diet. Thank God that good results came out immediately.

Once my son got better, we decided to go to Tagaytay to relax. My husband went on leave and as an additional blessing, a relative from GA came to visit us. Tagaytay City has always been our quick getaway destination. We never get tired of it. We love the cool climate, clean air, the view of the good 'ol Taal Volcano and tempting restaurants.

Our first stop for the day was Paseo de Sta. Rosa. It was a beautiful morning to go for a relaxing stroll around the area. When we got there, most of the shops were still closed, few were already open. We window shopped a bit looking for nice things that we can purchase on our way back from Tagaytay.

In Tagaytay, we first visited our favorite place. The Taal Vista Hotel. Chillaxing with a great view, windy morning and photo fun moments with my family.

Then, we had lunch in RSM where we also spent time with our Tita from GA, Perry and his family. We enjoyed so much Filipino dishes. There's Kare-kare, Signature Bulalo of Tagayatay, Lumpiang Sariwa, Pancit Malabon and Crispy Pata. For dessert, we feasted on Leche Flan, Buko Pandan and Ice cream for this kids.

The view from the second of RSM Restaurant was spectacular. We've been in and out of RSM Tagaytay but it was just recently when we found out that they have a second floor. Anyway, aside from the great view, we were also enjoying the cool breeze and acapella songs from the musicians of RSM.

File Your Taxes Today!

noreply@blogger.com (Enchie) — Mon, 04 Feb 2013 12:44:00 +0000

When it comes to taxes everyone needs to take note of the process with regards to filing our taxes. Sometimes, due to the load of work we have, we tend to forget or at least, be aware of the recent changes or updates on tax laws. Here in our country, in the private sector, it's the company who's handling the processing of the employee's taxes. If you're going to look, yes, it's not really a problem. But what about those who have businesses and those who handle the filing of their taxes themselves? Like what I've mentioned earlier, those with a busy schedule tend to forget or disregard issues when it comes to their taxes.

In other countries, e-files is already available so that the citizens can file their taxes immediately and clear things in case the have some concerns with the process. An irs form was made available for each state. The irs form is a tax form needed to file your federal and state taxes. There is also a guide that will walk you through your tax return so you don't need to know which tax forms to file. Here are the irs FAQ.