Sunny Bug

Tori should be my friend

2012-01-11T21:42:00.000-05:00

This is me and my best friend.

We are a ~~lot~~ little crazy. By crazy I mean, she thinks Josh Duhamel is her future husband. We've googled mansions in Mexico to buy and move into and home school our kids. We would open a party planning/bakery business...if money grew on trees. We've been friends for 22 years...and that is crazy because in our delusional minds, we are only 29-ish.

So as she is about to go off and marry Josh Duhamel, I realized I needed to plan her wedding...and then I realized I would need help. The first person who came to mind...Tori Spelling. And then it hit me - I need to be friends with Tori Spelling.

Here are my top 10 reasons why Tori and I should be friends:

1. We love planning parties. It's all about the details people...and if you've seen her show, you'll know what I mean. I get it Tori, I really do.

2. Tori has a pet pig. I WANT a pet pig. I would name it bacon.

3. I have a little obsession with estate sales and vintage. My dream is to open a shop in a little vacation town about 2 hours from my home. Tori opened her own store, InvenTori with all of her vintage, thrift and estate sale finds. I need a cool name to call my shop. Elizventory isn't exactly working for me. A couple of weeks back, Tori pulls up into her driveway with a trunk load of stuff...when Dean asks about it, she replied {something like}, "Oh, I had to stop and get {whatever} and then I stopped by a couple of estate sales." I have had this EXACT same conversation with my husband.

4. She's a crafty momma and blogs about all things family, cooking, and crafts. Helloooo...Tori, we'd have a ton to talk about when it comes to blogging.

5. Ok, 90210. Tori should totally be my friend because I wanted to be Kelly Taylor...but ONLY because of the Dylan situation. {btw - I read about how he was mean to you, so I would totally break up with him!} Kelly and Donna were BFF's. Yes, I know Tori isn't Donna...this is just a blog post that is clearly sounding more ridiculous as I continue.

6. She's totally living her dream. I so admire that. I'm sure not every second is perfect, but as a working mom to three little ones, she sure encourages me to keep putting one foot in front of the other...even when on less than 4 hours of sleep.

Ok, so that's only 6 reasons...if I continue then I would sound like a creepy creeper and I swear, I'm not. So, Tori...one last final note: You've replaced Martha from the #1 spot of women I admire. You rock.

Tori & Dean: Home Sweet Hollywood {the show}
EdiTorial {the blog}
InvenTori {the store}
Tori's Books

xo

Dear thief.

2012-01-10T22:11:00.001-05:00

Dear person who robbed me,

There are three things I am absolutely afraid of:

snakes
clowns
death

Yesterday, YOU added a 4th fear: YOU stole from me. You violated me, entered my vehicle {the SAME vehicle that had my child was in only 2 minutes before}, and took an extension of my life.

My laptop is gone. Yep, you took a brand new laptop that didn't belong to you. I hope you are proud of yourself.

Might I also add that you took a year's worth of memories...all of my pictures are gone. My videos of my kids achievements and special days - gone. My work, both professional and everything Sunny Bug...gone.

I am beyond angry because I worked hard for the money that I used to pay for my laptop. There were many months of saving, working, spending time away from my family...all in an attempt to save and buy this for myself.

You robbed me of time, energy, security, and emotion.

Yesterday I had to explain to my children there are people like YOU in this world and I had to explain that YOU not only violated me, you also committed a CRIME in a parking lot of a preschool. A PRESCHOOL with babies and young children. No, you didn't just pick a local store...instead, you went to a place where parents carefully select caregivers to love and protect their children and you creeped in the parking lot. Just like the books these children read, you are the troll who lives under the bridge and make people afraid.

I am a firm believer of what comes around goes around. You did not ruin me. You took something of value...but you also taught me a lesson. You lit a fire within me and today I am a different person.

If by chance you were able to break past my security, you will probably see a lot of things Sunny Bug related. If you were curious, you might have even stopped by to check this out.

So congrats on being a low-life crook. Congrats on stealing property from a selfless person and a hard-working parent...a parent who has struggled to make ends meet for her family. I hope you enjoy my, I mean your new computer.

I didn't sleep much last night because every single noise I heard reminded me that YOU stole from me. But after this letter, I'm moving on {well, besides completely cooperating with the ongoing investigation}. Life goes on.

Sincerely,
Stronger.

p.s. My dad is a cop. Good luck with that.

Project: Organized...No excuses!

2012-01-08T01:40:00.000-05:00

One week ago I was making big plans. Huge.

I had resolved to NOT make resolutions...

Instead I was on a goal setting mission...although not before I said, "cheers!", sipped a little Champagne and then politely asked for a diet Coke because 12:01 was clearly past my bedtime.

Omgosh...the hubs had a bad picture taking night...thanks to a crazy head cold!

The next day, I went right to work planning and over the next seven days I implemented Project: Organize.

You know when you're having one of those mornings when you're trying to rush out the door and you suddenly remembered you forgot to brush your teeth? And as you are frantically wiping the toothpaste off your face you realized you forgot to put mascara on...

Then you grab the necessities: phone, purse, coat, lunch...keys?

Where's my keys??

And then you call your husband because you are determined he ~~hid/stole~~ took your keys and you're determined to really give him a piece of your mind...only to end up getting ~~screened~~ his voicemail.

So then you run around looking for the keys and semi give up because you're convinced you'll just have to wait until the hubs answers his phone {which btw, you are really going to tell him off - first for not answering and then because the keys are LOST!}

So you decide to wait a minute before calling again, so you grab your morning diet Coke/Pepsi out of the refrigerator and only then do you discover your keys sitting on the shelf...right where your lunch was.

THIS {or some similar situation} has happened to me more times than I can count over the last two months.

My world is disorganized. On the exterior everything seems put together, but clearly I am NOT.

Around 12:05 on January 1st, I decided there would be NO excuses. I WOULD get my world organized.

My coupons were a wreck and I needed a system that worked for me.
It took a couple of days, but now I'm ready!

BTW: I only cut coupons I will USE.
I don't need 87 cans of cat food...my dogs would bite me.

While shopping for my new coupon binder, calendar, desk organizing supplies...
I came across THIS beautiful display of Martha Stewart home office supplies. It took my breath away.
I will be back!

Project: Organize will include appliance upgrades...
I discovered THIS ((double oven!!)) and it's now on my 2012 wish list!

Today my multi-purpose {craft, office, toy, etc} room received a new addition:
another wall unit for storage. The 3rd piece completed the set.

The secret to this storage area doesn't include expensive custom storage...these are from Lowe's and range from $150 - $200 apiece. We bought one at a time over the years and I LOVE them because they hide everything!

I'm also in the process of scheduling all of the medical {non-fun} appointments. Kiddo was first on the list for her annual physical. When the doctor asked if she was able to draw a person with all of the parts in the right place...I told her about this recent piece of artwork...

"This year my goal is to learn how to skateboard...
so I can be in a contest with my name on a skateboard flag.
I'm going to wear a skirt so everyone knows I'm a girl...NOT a boy." - Riley {age 5}

Only 51 more weeks to go. I'd say we are off to a decent start.

Did you have any resolutions this year? Goals? Please share...I'd love to know what's getting accomplished this year.

Happy weekend to YOU!

Best of 2011

2012-01-01T23:06:00.001-05:00

A year ago, I declared I would put 2010 behind me and move on from what had to have been the most horrible year of my life. I may have had a smile on my face but inside I was dealing with loss, guilt, fear, sadness, and uncertainty. By the end of 2010, I was more than ready to jump into 2011...and that's exactly what I did.

I embraced my family, friends, and began to enjoy life again. I found strength and rediscovered myself. I became determined, set goals, and slowly began to feel genuine happiness. I had a good year and I can't wait to see what 2012 has in store.

So, in honor of a great 2011...I thought I'd share some of my Sunny Bug highlights. Enjoy!

1. Self-discovery. I stepped out of my comfort zone of posting about crafts and desserts and decided to share more about myself. I'm the first to admit I am not perfect, but I do love my imperfect life.

Pieces of Me
Dear Me
Crazy {texts to the hubs}
5110 days
I'm blank because

2. New desserts. In real life...I eat frosting right out of the can. I also make lots {& lots} of desserts. I try to take cool pictures and I always try to share them on Sunny Bug. Here are some of the 2011 sweet treats that made the top of the list.

Bliss {PB cookies}
Banana Ice Cream
S'more Pie
Chocolate Break-up {Very Berry Ice Cream}
Rainbow Cupcakes
Cupcakes {in a cup}
Cake Pops

3. Life happens. Good, bad, and the funny...I shared a little bit of everything. Here are some of my 2011 highlights.

Meet my niece {sweet baby face}
Remembering 9-11
What exactly is a "sunny bug"?
I'm a momma of a teen...13 candles
My baby is a big girl! 5 years.
What if...?

4. I also made a few new crafty things in 2011...

DIY Fancy Nancy Party
DIY Paper Wall Art
DIY Day of the Dead pumpkin skull
Pinterest is my interior decorator!

Last but not least...in 2012, I ~~finally~~ launched my etsy site: Miss Vintage Boutique and began my obsession with Pinterest.

Before I sign off...I'd like to send out a HUGE thanks to all of you. I wish you all health, happiness, and I hope you have an amazing 2012!

Happy New Year!

Fancy Nancy Party {DIY}

2011-12-29T00:04:00.000-05:00

What do you call a momma who manages {barely} to squeeze a party in right between three birthdays, a ballet recital, and Christmas...?

Completely crazy.

...and this wasn't just any party. It was a Fancy Nancy tea party, of course.
We love Fancy Nancy at our house. We have all of the books. We {by we, I mean ME} read them every night before bed. Sometime around August, my youngest declared THIS birthday would be a Fancy Nancy birthday and we {as in ME} would wave a magic momma wand and **poof** make a fancy tea party appear exactly ONE week before Christmas. Oh, and **poof** I would go pick the magic money leaves off of my magic money tree growing in the back yard to make all of this magically happen.

So, of course...just like magic, we had a party. On a budget. **POOF**

Fancy invitations were inspired by the gazillions of ideas online. Googling "Fancy Nancy invitations" generated over 156,000 results on google. Seriously.

We made our invitations with this image printed on pink card stock. I found the {free} Fancy Nancy font here and here. I cut out each teapot and used pink glitter glue for sparkle. I also printed the names of each guest and used a circle punch to cut out and attached with a twine-like ribbon.

For the Fancy tea party, I used all of my dessert platters, cake plates, and stands I had collected over the years. I borrowed the tea pot and teacups from my fancy friends. I used extra teacups as decorations and filled them with vintage pearl necklaces...this IS a fancy party so pearls were necessary. {wink}

The table was decorated with one hot pink top sheet for the table cloth and six white pillow cases {all with different trim edging} and dyed them all pink. I used the pillow cases as chair covers. {tutorial coming soon}and a black and white table runner to make everything look extra fancy. The best part: these were ALL bought at the local thrift store for a fancy grand total of $10.

I found a super easy tissue paper flower tutorial {thanks, Martha!}which I used to make the Fancy decorations. I bought the tissue paper at the dollar store. I WILL find any excuse to make these again!

No party is complete without snacks...

There was a little lesson on how to be fancy...and how to drink tea with a fancy pinkie finger.

All of the guests received a fancy tutu to wear. I found the tutu-tutorial {say that fast 5 times!} here.

Yep, that would be my kiddo in the middle {black skirt with her tongue stickin' out. Lovely.

...call me crazy, but I'd host a party like this everyday if I could wear a tiara.

Oh...I was serious about the tiara.

Happy Day to ME!

2011-12-12T22:34:00.000-05:00

Yep, TODAY is my Birthday.

For the first time {in a few years} I'm not having a mini-birthday-crisis...I'm not standing in front of the mirror making crazy faces in a bad attempt to make my wrinkles disappear. I'm not counting grey hairs and trying to convince myself that the grey hair I do find are actually sparkly blond. I'm also not looking back at old high school pictures to remember what my real hair color is...and if I was, sparkly blond wouldn't even be an option! And the last thing I'm NOT doing today is pinching my waist to gauge my weight...I mean I have had a few too many pieces of cake over the past 2 weeks. I don't care...not today.

My cake...from the hubs. Death by ~~Calories~~ Chocolate.

But since it is my Birthday...I'm sharing a few {yes, a few!} of my Birthday wishes/wants...courtesy of Pinterest.

source

Next year, my birthday falls on 12/12/12...and I KNOW this must mean something magical. So, I have exactly 365 days to perfect this magical cake...

source

This year, I have a couple of things I want to accomplish...

#1: Finally, FINALLY invest in a blog designer. I wish I had the time to figure it all out by myself, but until I do - I need to find a designer who can really capture the true essence of Sunny Bug.

{If you or someone you know is a blog designer, please leave me a comment or email me!}

#2: Kick my Etsy shop ~ Miss Vintage Boutique ~ up a few notches. I'm thrilled with the progress I've made so far, but I really want to do more.

{If you have any Etsy business building tips or resources, please send them my way.}

Happy Monday to YOU!
xo

5 Years

2011-12-10T01:41:00.000-05:00

Five years ago my life changed in a way I never expected.

On the morning of December 10th, my otherwise normal pregnancy had turned into a frightening, sudden delivery. My 2nd daughter was on her way and her momma was not prepared for what was about to happen.

The room was bright, people moved fast. I was wheeled into the room and lifted onto the table. Everyone seemed to talk at once and the man next to me was trying to explain anesthesia. I was being put "under" because it was urgent. My baby needed help. Dave wasn't there, my arms were strapped down. I was trying to get up and I couldn't move.

The only thing I remember saying {loudly} was, "Where's my husband? Where is he?" The man kept talking, and all I could manage to tell him was, "STOP!" I wasn't being put under during my baby's delivery. I was going to be there to see her. I needed to see her.

In walked Dave in full scrubs. He looked scared. He sat next to me and we waited. I also heard the doctor explain to the anaesthesiologist that I was stable enough to say awake. My baby was on her way - there was no time.

The room was spinning and Dave stayed close. I didn't talk...I just listened. I needed to hear her cry. I prayed. My eyes closed and I waited.

I couldn't feel anything...time seemed to just stop.

...and then I saw her. They carried her to a warming table on the side of the room and I arched my neck as far as it would reach to see her. She was blue. She wasn't crying. They moved fast.

I looked at Dave and he was focused on her. We waited.

...and then she cried. She cried LOUD. I took a deep breath and hot tears streamed down my face.

She was going to be fine.

Five years ago, I became a momma again. On that day, my daughters met and my oldest held her sister for the very first time. On that day, my family became complete. My entire world was complete. I had everything I could have ever wanted.

Today my baby turns five. Today she thinks she an official 'big girl'.

Happy Birthday Riley. Mommy loves you. xoxo

p.s. You will always, ALWAYS be my baby.

DIY Paper Canvas Wall Art {tutorial}

2011-12-02T00:42:00.001-05:00

What: Paper Canvas Wall Art {aka: a super easy, inexpensive, completely customizable masterpiece!}

Why: To make your space YOURS and earn DIY bragging points as friends & family visit during the holidays OR make one {or a few} and give as gifts!

When: NOW. Besides shopping for supplies, this project can be completely finished within one hour {add another hour for drying time}.

How: Read below.

Ready, set, go!

Paper {any kind *should* work...although I advise using something with weight so the Mod Podge doesn't rip it during application} I used decorative paper from Paper Source.

Mod Podge

Canvas - any size you want {I bought a 10-pack from Michaels and used a 40% off coupon. I paid about $12 total.}

Scissors

Old {clean} paint brush

Pencil

Step 1:

Measure & cut paper to cover canvas.

Be sure to include enough paper to cover the sides.

Step 2:

Using paint brush, cover canvas {front} with a thin layer of Mod Podge.

Center and press canvas onto paper {shown} and carefully flip canvas with paper to smooth any wrinkles.

Step 3:

Draw and cut diagonal line from corner of canvas.

Step 4:

Cut-out section {shown}. This eliminates unnecessary paper and will allow the Mod Podge to dry quicker - leaving edges looking clean and finished.

Here's a closer look...

{don't forget to add a little Mod Podge when you fold up the finished (B) side.}

Step 5:
Allow to dry and trim off paper edges.

Step 6:
Flip canvas over and cover top and edges with a thin, even coat of Mod Podge.

Step 7:
Smooth any wrinkles and allow plenty of time to dry.

Step 8:
Hang it up!
I used thumbtacks {I'm too lazy to get the hammer & nails!}

I paid about $25 in project supplies...and I still have 6 canvases and Mod Podge left over to make MORE.

Go ahead...make one as a gift. Or for yourself. Feel free to link up your project so I can see your masterpiece!

xo
I'm linking up with...

I'm blank because...

2011-11-30T22:14:00.000-05:00

One of my all-time favorite bloggers, Ashley {she's Little Miss Momma} recently posted "I'm blank because..." and encouraged readers to share their own version.

Here's mine. Enjoy.

I'm wierd because...
I like to vacuum.
I have strange food-related word hang-ups {yoke, loaf, minced, etc...}
When I like something, I stick with it {especially food-related}.
I cry when I'm happy, sad, proud, angry, etc.
I hate paying full price...for anything.
I worry a lot when I really shouldn't.
I dream in color.

I'm a bad wife/momma because...
I don't always know what to say when things are too difficult.
I wish I had more time to give everyone their own individual attention.
I haven't seemed to find the right life/work/wife/momma balance and I get frustrated.
I crave alone time {sometimes} and get cranky when that doesn't happen.

I'm a good wife/momma because...
I love unconditionally.
I encourage creativity.
We've created our own version of normal...and nothing makes me happier.
I appologize when I'm wrong. And I mean it.
I love with my whole self.

I'm sad because...
My friend is sick and I can't make her better. I wish I could.
I miss my grandpa.
I wish I had more time do get things done.
I wish my sister lived closer.
My oldest daughter is starting to seek independence and it's killing me.
I still hold onto guilt about quitting my job and creating stress in my household {but I'm working on this...}

I'm happy because...
There will be a lot of celebrations over the next few weeks.
I've accomplished more this year than I could have ever expected.
My kids are happy.
My youngest LOVES school and is in a better place today compared to last year at this time.
My girls have the best daddy in the world.

I'm excited for...
Seeing both girls in their upcoming dance recital. My tiny dancer will be on the stage for her first time!
2012. Setting goals. New outlooks. I love new beginnings.
April. St. Thomas. My entire family. A wedding.
...possibilities.
Hope.

How-to "Shop" for Creative Inspiration

2011-11-28T00:20:00.000-05:00

Lately, my inspiration has been in the form of surfing Pinterest. Yep, I'm a faithful Pinterest ~~addict~~ participant and I have all of my little boards all neatly organized with projects, ideas, and crafting possibilities right at my fingertips...just waiting for me to make. {waiting is the key word here!}

Problem is...besides being a visual person, I'm also a tactile person. I'm the kind of person who likes to see and feel things in real life. I need to examine things up close, feel fabrics, explore construction.

Pinterest is GREAT for "pinning" ideas, but sometimes I miss the creative process in being completely surrounded by inspiration. I need that 360 degree view of design and inspiration. Sometimes it is necessary to get away from the computer and venture out into the world. YES, in order for me to get the ideas moving...I must shop!

How to shop for inspiration:

Step 1: Go to directly to the source of inspiration & creativity.

Getting the creativity process flowing shouldn't be a difficult...especially if you live close to stores or shops with amazing creative talent.

Sometimes the best spots are gift shops or coffee houses featuring local artists. Ikea and Paper Source are also great because they specialize in design elements and strategically place their products for shoppers to visualize how they can be used.

My absolute favorite place to "shop" for inspiration is Anthropologie. It's also a main source for creativity for many others...just google anthro-inspired crafts and you'll see what I mean.

Kiddo is dreaming up all kinds of ideas...

There are excellent tutorials online for anthropologie-inspired crafts and projects...but when you are right there in the store, you will find yourself completely surrounded by endless possibilities.

Step two: Avoid feeling overwhelmed & focus on what appeals to you.

It's hard to walk into a store like Anthropologie without feeling the urge to buy up everything in there. If you are a creative person, use this opportunity to hone in on what calls to you. Do you sew? Paint? Craft? Restore?

When you are at a store, you can pick things up and look more closely at their details. Pay attention to how things are constructed and techniques that are used. When we are looking at things online, we miss out on the "hands-on" opportunity we get by seeing it in REAL life.

Step three: Be inspired.

On my last visit to Anthropologie, I was captivated by this wall-to-wall fabric garland hung from the ceiling...

Since I'm in the process of planning a Fancy Nancy birthday tea party for my youngest, this simple design element seemed like a doable option for inexpensive {fancy} decorations.

Step four: Make a wish list.

This summer, the hubs and I worked on redecorating our kitchen and family room. Since we are ~~ALWAYS~~ on a budget, splurging on things are not always an option for me. Just walking into stores can completely frustrate me because I want to buy everything...and clearly I cannot. So, I make a wish list of those things I would LOVE to have and work into my own design at home. {no, I can't make everything I see!}

Here's what I added to my wish list...

I love both of these vases...
but that crimson flower is screaming for me to bring it home!

Step five: Consider DIY options.

How many times have you walked into a store/home/anywhere and saw something you LOVED and said, "Oh, I can make that!"? I'm guilty of it...in fact, I have a triple digit list of projects I want to make because I saw something somewhere and convinced myself that I WILL MAKE IT.

I'll admit...some actually get made. Some get bought.

I brought my daughter {a crafting fashionista in the making!} along with me on my last Anthro-trip and this time, she was the one making the DIY vow. Here are some of the finds she added to her to-do list...

fabric covered letters

button hair pins

fabric 'button' paper clips

...and I'm determined to make some of these sewing kits for a couple of beginners I know:

Note: remember, be inspired. We can't claim these ideas as our own so be sure to give credit where credit is due.

So, now that we are in full-on Holiday mode - I ~~need to~~ MUST be creatively inspired. I'd love to know how you find inspiration. Where do you find your source of creativity?

Do any of you have anthro-inspired projects you made and posted on your own site? Please share and leave a link so I can check them out.

Happy Monday! I hope you have a great week!

xo

13 Candles

2011-11-25T00:09:00.000-05:00

Today is my daughter's 13th birthday.

A daughter is someone

you laugh with,

dream with...
and love

with all your heart.

{unknown}

I know today is a HUGE day for her...but for me, its bittersweet. I look at this amazing young woman and I cannot help remembering when her big blue eyes looked back at me for the very first time.

yes...I am one tired momma!

Dear Caitlin,
The day you were born was one of the happiest days of my life. At that very moment, my life became so much better and I absolutely cannot think of anything better than being a mom.

Over the years,

I've loved every single moment we spent together
talking, laughing, dreaming...{shopping...}

I hope you will always remember...

I know I've said this at least a million times...I love you Caitlin! xo

I love you because you are...

kind
loving
thoughtful
appreciative
generous
sensitive
funny

You make me so proud because you...

work hard
have goals
think of others
try your best
never give up

Keep dreaming, exploring, asking questions, creating, and just being YOU.

Happy Birthday baby girl. I hope you remember this day for the rest of your life.

{yes...I cried the entire time I wrote this!}

Now...let's SHOP!

xo Mommy

thankful.

2011-11-23T23:38:00.001-05:00

Being thankful.

On Thanksgiving Day, I seem to find myself looking around at my girls, Dave, my parents and sisters and knowing that no matter what, they are the ones who will always love me and be there for me...even in the worse of times. In these moments, I am usually surrounded by complete chaos: dinner cooking, conversation, football, kids playing...and I see the faces of the people I love and I absolutely cannot imagine my life without them.

Today I am thankful for...

The strength of my marriage and the foundation of love, trust, laughter, and support we have built over the past 14 years. He is the love of my life.

My girls. These two {completely opposite} girls teach me more in one day than most adults. I love watching them grow and learn. I listen to their dreams and their wishes. Their view of the world is built upon loving and caring for others. They are accepting and empathetic. I truly believe they will change the world by just being them.

My sisters. These three amazing women make me laugh until me cheeks hurt. I am so grateful to have witnessed the birth of my first niece and watch my youngest sister become a mom. She has overcome challenges and has become a strong independent woman. My oldest sister had the wedding of her dreams this year and watching her walk down the aisle with our dad was a moment I will never forget. I was beyond happy for both of them. My middle sister lives in WA {I'm in MI} and we try our hardest to stay connected as she plans her 2012 wedding. When she is "home" visiting us, I just want time to freeze - I never want to say goodbye. I love her energy and her laughter. She is full of life and wears her emotions on her sleeve. I miss her every day.

The rest of the crew. My extended family is loud, kind of sarcastic, opinionated, and solid. Over the years cousins married, others moved, babies were born...but through happy times and sad, we are family. I can't forget my in-laws...I hope they know how much I appreciate them and their value of family. We hug, laugh, celebrate, and have each others back.

Friends...my extended family. One is like a 4th sister, one has encouraged me to become a better version of myself, another challenges me to believe in myself, and there's a trio who I value their insight, experience, and quirkiness. I love each of you as family...I'm so grateful you are a part of my life. Thank you for allowing us to be a part of yours.

I also can't forget the friends I've reconnected with...you are the ones who many, many moons ago sat in a hotel bathroom talking for hours...or trying to dance like Janet Jackson...or mastering our grilled cheese sandwich skills...or spending a whole summer at the beach trying to flirt with boys. We made dreams about our future and shared our most deepest secrets. I am grateful of our friendship then and so thankful now we can pick right back up where we left off. You have no idea how much I missed you!

This post wouldn't be complete without acknowledging my gratitude to those of you who I "met" here. I am always so amazed by the support and encouragement from those who lead a creative life via blogging. You are my inspiration. Thank you for sharing, supporting, and connecting...

Tomorrow I will look around and see the faces of those I love and think about those who are also celebrating with their own families. You are always in my thoughts and heart. Thank you for being you. My life is so much better because of each of you.

Happy Turkey Day to YOU.

National Recycle Day

2011-11-14T21:26:00.000-05:00

This week I'm stepping WAY out of my comfort and doing a series of videos for the Elmer's Glue Classroom Recycling Video Diary Challenge to celebrate National Recycling Day.

Elmer's and Flip Video teamed up for a day of all things recycling. I'm a participating in an effort to raise awareness AND to help win some extra money for my daughter's class. So, the more videos...the more chances we have to win.

No biggie, right? Well...

While I'm a huge advocate for reuse ~ reduce ~ recycle I'm completely freaking out about all of the Flip Cam recording. I'm not exactly loving being in front of a live...motion camera. Ugh.

I honestly have no problem with public speaking...but seeing myself? Gak.

BUT regardless of how competitive I am {oh yes, I'll be uploading like a maniac!} I will NOT be re-watching these less-than-fabulous video uploads of myself.

So, be prepared {I'm apologizing in advance!}...if you follow Sunny Bug on facebook I'll be uploading all day with our National Recycling Day (11/15) projects. {On the positive side...at least I'm not singing! Oh, and no teasing...because I know a singing video exists and I will post it! Consider yourself warned!} *wink*

So tell me...do YOU recycle? What about your child's school? What creative ways are they promoting going "green"?

What if...?

2011-11-12T09:00:00.022-05:00

My parents divorced when I was four.

My youngest daughter is the exact age I was when my world forever changed. I can still remember that night my mom and I left our home and I said goodbye to my dad. I remember wearing my favorite red hoodie and I was clenching my pillow. It was dark and he told me I was going with my mom to stay at my grandma's house.

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He hugged me and that was it.

I had absolutely no idea what was happening...or why.

Less than two years from that night, my relationship with my dad was dwindling away. When I asked about the growing distance between us, I was told that it would be easier for me this way. My mom had remarried and {as it was explained to me}, I had a new family now. My dad also had a new family - he had remarried and he and his new wife were expecting. My weekend visits became fewer and farther in-between and calls eventually stopped altogether.

I was maybe 7 or 8 when I saw him for the last time.

Throughout the years, I silently struggled with loosing him and not having him in my life...although in retrospect, he was the one who let me go. As a child, I tried to understand and I also tried figuring out where I fit in with my new family. My mom now had two little girls {my younger sisters are 6 and 7 years younger than me} and my step dad and I didn't exactly have an ideal connection. At the time I remember thinking, "He isn't MY dad!" I was just too young {and hurt/angry/disappointed} and couldn't make all of the pieces fit together.

Over the years, my {step}dad (I refer to him as my dad and have for years now) and I formed a bond that I cherish and hold close to my heart. He is the one who cheered me on during talent shows, came to all of the high school basketball games to watch my halftime pom-pom dance, and listened as I cried when my heart was crushed by my first boyfriend. He was the one my husband asked permission from to marry me and he is also the one who shares his birthday {and middle name} with my oldest daughter.

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I've often been asked about my "real" dad and my rehearsed response is quick and typically includes something like, "I wouldn't recognize him if I ran right into him."

...and then I did.

I saw him and I recognized him.

Tonight.

It was a completely random 'grocery store checkout lane moment'. I was sorting out my coupons and a familiar man walked by me and for a brief moment we glanced at each other. I was stunned and completely froze.

The store was spinning around me and my mind was racing...but the only thought that stuck with me was - that was HIM.

He walked by pushing a cart and he looked exactly as I had remembered. I turned around and he was turning back to look also...

At the very same time, my 4 year old was pulling on my purse repeating, "Mom...mommy...mom..." and I was instantly yanked back into the moment. She was over shopping and bugging for candy and the cashier was ready for me to pay and all I could think about was "what if?".

What if that man was my dad...?

I turned around to see if he was still there but he was gone.

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I called my mom as soon as I got into my car. After I told her what store I was at and what he was wearing and what he looked like there was just a long pause. She agreed, it completely fit the description and it was probably him. I told her I looked for him before I left because I wanted to know for sure...and then she asked, "Well... if it was him, what would you have done?"

I didn't answer...because I didn't know.

It's been almost 30 years since I last spoke to him. If it was him - did he even recognize me...or did he recognize my little girl who looks just like me when I was her age? I wondered if he still remembered that night I said goodbye.

I guess I will {still} never know.

Planning a beach {bridal} party!

2011-11-08T00:39:00.001-05:00

I love planning parties! In fact, if I could convince the hubs to renew our vows I would be in full-on wedding renewal planning RIGHT NOW. But since he’s not playing along, I’m focusing on a party that is just as exciting!

((drum roll please)) My sister is getting married in St. Thomas in April 2012 AND there's a bridal shower that need to be planned AND I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t beyond excited to start working on it!

Flowers, sand and shells...OH MY!

Since she's getting married in the Virgin Islands, we’re going to try to bring the feel (and look) of the tropics to Michigan...in February. This means we need LOTS of flowers!

Now, in St. Thomas flowers are EVERYWHERE. But…in Michigan, a tropical beach-themed bridal shower in February isn't exactly the ideal month for finding beautiful tropical flowers...actually we will probably be knee-deep in snow! So we've been chatting and planning long distance (oh, yea…I’m in MI and she’s in WA) but we aren’t letting the distance get in the way. We’ve been using online flowers as inspiration and of course since we are on a budget, we also need cheap flowers! Thankfully technology has kept us connected!

Besides the flowers we have a few other projects in the works, but I would love to know if you have any ideas we could incorporate into her bridal shower…

Did you have a destination wedding? How did you plan your shower? Did you tie it in with your destination theme? Please share…

Wordless Wednesday: 10 pounds

2011-11-02T20:06:00.000-04:00

Wordless Wednesday are always hard for me...because I always feel inclined to add words. However, in this case, this Wordless Wednesday really speaks for itself...


This is what 10 lbs. of Halloween candy looks like!

In other SWEET news, my new friend Summer Jo over at Believing Boldly is hosting 30 Days of Desserts and my DIY Peanut Butter Cup s is featured today.

I'm so excited to be a part of her 30 Days of Desserts {this shouldn't be a big surprise...since I love dessert!} because I LOVE meeting new blog friends AND Summer Jo is a fellow SITS girl. {SITS is awesome, btw!} If you are a blogger, their site is definitely worth checking out!

Do YOU have a dessert you would like to feature?? Head over to Believing Boldly and let her know!

Now...any ideas of what I should do with all of this candy?

Day of the Dead {DIY pumpkin skull}

2011-10-31T23:37:00.001-04:00

Okay...Day of the Dead. Día de los Muertos.

According to Wikipedia, the Day of the Dead (holiday), "Focuses on gatherings of family and friends to pray for and remember friends and family members who have died. It is particularly celebrated in Mexico, where it attains the quality of a National Holiday."

This is my official 'stepping out of my comfort zone' post. Death, the thought of death, dying, etc...it all freaks me out. I don't think about it. It makes me sad.

I remember an episode of 90210 (the original Brenda-Kelly-Dylan show) when Andrea and her husband Jessie address their religious differences - she's Jewish and he's Catholic. Because of his Hispanic heritage, the episode featured the significance of Day of the Dead and ultimately Andrea shows her support for this celebration. This was the first time I heard about Day of the Dead...and there was Andrea headed to the cemetery with her husband's family...to celebrate. At night. There were candles...and skulls. Decorated "skulls". Elaborately decorated skulls.

After I went a little glitter pumpkin crazy...I decided to try my own Día de los Muertos "skull". I used a pumpkin though (since I don't have any spare skulls laying around).

You can make one too...

1 left over Halloween pumpkin

Craft paint

Lots of Day of the Dead inspiration

I'm loving my new pumpkin skull...but I'm still not sure about all that other stuff (including cemeteries, etc.)

xo

Glitter Pumpkin {tutorial}

2011-10-30T23:06:00.005-04:00

Once upon a time, there was a mom who would watch reruns of Martha Stewart shows on the weekend while folding laundry. She would watch Martha meticulously decorate rooms with ease, prepare for a dinner party without fret, and craft away like she had at least 12 more hours in her day than any other woman on the planet. She also did all of this as if money grew happily on one of her farms...which were {of course} completely maintained by her while looking ever so stylish and stress free.

This mom loved Martha and wanted to be just like her. She wanted that extra time to decorate, cook, and craft...she also wanted the resources to do it too. Martha must have know this because it wasn't long before she waved her magic wand and *POOF* her craft supplies were in all of the stores.

One day the mom watched a Martha Halloween special and this particular show featured beautiful glittered pumpkins. It was an easy craft requiring only glue and Martha's special glitter dust. The mom vowed to add a glitter pumpkin to the top of her project to-do list...until she went to the store {with a 40% off coupon of course} to get the special glitter and learned the glitter was way out of her craft budget and the coupon excluded all of Martha's products. The mom went home defeated and pumpkin sat there...waiting to be decorated.

The days carried on and Halloween Day was right around the corner. The mom gave up on her glitter pumpkin and hopes of being the domestic goddess she dreamed she would become. She went about her days as usual...making cereal, cleaning up messes, and putting away toys. During one of her daily clean-ups, she came across a bottle of glitter fabric paint. There it was...just sitting there waiting to be used. At that moment, the mom was on a glitter pumpkin crafting mission!

Glitter Pumpkin

Supplies Needed:

One pumpkin (I used the "pie pumpkin" size)

Glitter fabric paint (there are lots of other glitter paints that would work)

Craft-size paintbrush

Small container or paper plate

Glitter Pumpkin {how-to}

Squeeze a generous amount of glitter paint into container (or paper plate) and start painting a heavy coat of glitter paint onto clean (dry) pumpkin.
Optional: I used a spice container to prop the pumpkin up so I could paint the underside.
Once completely covered - allow to dry (tacky is dry enough)
Completely cover with another heavy coat of glitter paint. Allow to dry.
Continue step 4 until you reach your desired glitter-ness (yes, glitter-ness) In this case, MORE is better.
Dry completely.

That's it.

When the mom finished her glitter pumpkin, she sat back and admired it. Her dream came true and she managed to save a few bucks in the process {the whole project cost under $5!}.

On this day, the mom learned something about herself. She knew she would never be Martha...instead she would be an amazing version of herself. She would craft...and there will be glitter. Lots and lots of glitter!

I'm linking up to...

One step foward {sort of}

2011-10-27T09:00:00.003-04:00

I've been a crabby, cranky momma. {You can read all about it here...and here.}

After my less-than-fabulous weekend camping trip, I made an honest effort to put my best foot forward and shake off all of my negative crabby thoughts and focus on the good.

I had some quiet time...so I downloaded all of my pictures from the weekend and came across this one:

THIS made me laugh! Geez, I was in rare form. In my defense, it was cold {even with the fire, hat, and winter coat!} and I was lacking many hours of sleep.

I also unpacked a little gift my mother-in-law bought for me while we were out shopping. She's so sweet and she absolutely knows how to bring a big 'ole smile to my face.

These stainless steel CUPCAKE measuring spoons are so cute...and 100% functional. I'm totally breaking in these pretties over the weekend! {I've got lots of Halloween goodies to make!} I can't wait!

So yes, one step forward.

{Note: I would have loved to end here...but nooooo. I've got more. Read on for more nonsense!}

I can officially cross off "What does a kidney stone attack feel like?" from my list of Life Questions. Yep, now I know.

So, two steps back?

Apparently I'm dancing...best foot forward? One step forward, two steps back. Maybe I should just try-out for DWTS...but wait, I'm not a star. I guess Wii Just Dance will have to work until the star stuff happens.

Until then...I want to know: Have YOU been attacked by kidney stones? Did you change your diet? Did they come back? I'd love feedback since WebMD freaks me out.

xo

Sunday (FUNday)...on Monday

2011-10-24T23:33:00.001-04:00

Sunday FUNday #3 almost didn't happen. In fact, my whole idea for Sunday FUNday is to highlight some of the fun things {projects, desserts, whatever} that happened over the course of the week.

Unfortunately, last week...my highlights included a crazy work-related deadline, crabby kids, insomnia, and a weekend family camping trip...in October. In Michigan. Hello...last week, it rained ALL week and it was COLD. Not cold-ish...COLD. Chilly. Wet. COLD.

After a looooong week at work, we headed to our favorite camping location...a little town about 30 minutes north of Port Huron. {now, put up your left hand and make the Michigan "mitten"...we were on the shore of the thumb, just below the knuckle bend.}

Lake Huron shoreline...if you squint your eyes you can sometimes see Canada.

We loaded up the kiddos plus one more, my nephew Alex, and we were on our way. First stop, Port Huron for dinner at Applebees. I was easing into the calm of the weekend...our drinks arrived at the table and within 30 seconds, I had an full glass of lemonade spilled on my lap...down my legs and in my purse. I took very deep breath and spent the next 15 minutes in the bathroom with my leg propped under the hand dryer.

At this point, I said {yes, outloud}, "things can only get better, right?"

Night #1: Since we waited until COLD October to camp, we decided to rent cabins instead of hauling our travel trailer. These are beautiful cabins - minus plumbing...although the bathrooms & showers are nearby. Really, all went well...that is until I realized how incredibly quiet it was...that night I heard all of the bumps, wind, creeks, kids talking in their sleep and the hubs snoring. I finally grabbed my phone and plugged in my headphones and listened to my zen/spa music. That worked great until the rain song came on...that's about the time I realized I had to "GO". This would mean, coat, boots, walking...alone. In the dark.

The next morning I woke up {after maybe 3 hours of sleep} to crabby kids. Fun, fun times, I tell ya!

So we went to our favorite place {and future city where we hope to retire to}...Lextington.

We visited my favorite antique shop, strolled through the downtown shopping district, and ate lunch at one of Lexington's original buildings, Cadillac House. We also learned about "George" the resident ghost of Cadillac House.

While waiting for our food, Caitlin {my oldest} saw one of her favorite Lexington things...

Yes, it's a pink Hummer. We first noticed it 3 years ago and she hasn't forgot about it...in fact she's now decided her first car WILL be a pink Hummer.

Lexington has a little bit of everything...I wish we would have made the trip sooner this year because a lot of the seasonal shops were closed up for the year. I must go back soon.

After our nice afternoon of window shopping, my youngest was clearly overtired and the next 6 hours were pretty much miserable. I'll spare you the details.

Night #2: Same as the first, but this time around my youngest would NOT sleep. She eventually ended up in bed with us and I was stuck between snoring hubs and Riley who was sleep-whining. I mean really? Whining while sleeping? Come on! So yes, I was in the middle of a snoring/whining sandwich. YUCK! YUCK! YUCK!

Sunday {supposed to be FUNday} was YUCKday. I was in a delusional sleepless daze. I was so OVER camping. I was over snoring husbands, whining kids, arguing kids, cold weather...etc.

I couldn't wait to get home...I wanted to get into my jammies and crawl into my bed. And because I have the World's Best Hubs, I was able to do just that.

The rest of Sunday FUNday was sleep-day. I guess they can't all be FUNday...but I think I deserve one...soon! :)

Happy Monday! xo

Appreciation...

2011-10-19T23:03:00.000-04:00

Transition. I'm sure you've heard me talk about it before.
My family, myself, my life...there's been a lot of transition over the past 18 months.

A year ago, I returned to work after a short leave.
My little one started "big kid school" {or preschool to the rest of us!}
It was a big transition for her and I certainly wasn't prepared for what followed.

She cried.
Pleaded with me to not leave her.
She was angry.
She had meltdowns.
She just couldn't transition. She refused to.

It broke my heart seeing how unhappy she was and of course I blamed myself. I've been a working mom since my oldest was little and my 'short leave' was only 5 months long. However, it was long enough for my little one to not want to let me go. I would have done anything to make the situation better. For almost 7 months I dreaded school days. I cried when she wasn't looking. I was broken. My little girl was miserable and I couldn't fix it.

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And then one day...the crying stopped. She looked forward to the next day.
She was happy. She laughed, told me stories about her day, and talked about her friends.
Transition.

Along the way, I confided in the teachers and the preschool directors. I shared my concerns, my fears...I felt like a horrible mom. They listened. They were patient and they promised to work with her. They literally stood by her and their support was more than I could ever expected. What they don't know is, their support and encouragement to her indirectly supported AND encouraged me.

Today she runs into the front door of her school, laughing and ready to start her day. Before bed each night she talks about what she's going to wear and what friends she's going to play with.

Last week, kiddo's "big kid school" celebrated their 6th anniversary and more than ever I felt a need to express my appreciation to everyone who stood by her {and me} over the past year.

So I made cake truffles...for teachers ONLY. {No sharing with kids.}

Note: I really wanted to make 'lizard" cake pops {since they are the Leapin' Lizards!}, but I ran out of time. I will return to this idea sometime soon...but for now, I focused on chocolate, purple & sprinkles.

I know saying "thanks" is small in comparison...but really, my gratitude is enormous. Thank you for being there for my kiddo. She means the world to me and ALL of you helped us get through those bad days.

Congratulations Leapin' Lizards! Happy 6th Anniversary!

I hope you guys liked the treat! xo

Words: today was just a bad day.

2011-10-17T23:08:00.000-04:00


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Ah, Monday.
I'm not usually a Monday hater...

I suppose today was just one of those days
and I usually have no problem finding the right words to express how I'm feeling
but today, I just couldn't do it.

In the meantime, I'm trying to remember this...

Handlettering Cite

And this too...


Love Life {a beautiful site, amazing artist, & lots of creativity}

So I'm keeping this close to my heart...

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Because everything WILL be alright.

Sunday {FUNday}

2011-10-17T00:13:00.000-04:00

Part I

As I write this {it's 1:27 am EST late Saturday...early Sunday} I'm watching the Yahoo! streaming concert celebrating the Clinton Foundation: A Decade of a Difference. I'm a longtime supporter of the Clinton Foundation and this concert was absolutely amazing...my favorite was Lady Gaga. If you didn't get a chance to watch, check this out.

So yes, it's way past my bedtime and we have a full day of FUN stuff planned for Sunday. Problem is: my little kiddo is not feeling good and actually asked to take a nap {3 times in fact!} today. This is coming from a little one who keeps me on my toes all.day.long. So, Sunday FUNday is TBD.

I'm headed to bed...we'll see how she feels in the morning.

Part II

Good news: kiddo is on the mend.

Sunday FUNday wrapped up a weekend filled with new technology. I officially have a pre-teen with a cell phone...and my kiddo has a momma with a NEW iPhone 4s. We are like two crazy girls jumping up and down with our new little toys.

Note: Although she has a phone, the hubs and I also created a "phone contract" for her to follow. Things like, homework first, chores first, phone stays out of room over night, no Internet (it's completely blocked), no phone at meals, and random text audits. We know it's fun for her to have, but we also know the responsibility that comes along with it. This was a big step for us as parents...one we didn't take lightly.

Today, we had a mini girls day and had lunch with a fabulous friend and her two amazing daughters! {p.s. My kiddos LOVE Kris. She's one of those people who has the ability to bring out the best in people. Her laugh is contagious and she wears her heart on her sleeve.}

So...who took this? Kris? Sisso?

We ate at one of our favorite places...

I've talked about LA Cafe before...they host the annual Peacefest event that I took part in when I first started out in the craft selling business. I love this place...check out their facebook page here.

Today we chatted... and laughed...and caught up. I wish I could have made time stop for the rest of the afternoon - I genuinely missed Kris and her girls...and I know my kiddos missed them too. I declared that we MUST meet up more often.

It's moments like this that make me smile and cherish friendships. {This big, crazy budda makes me smile too!}

It's also moments like this which remind me to indulge more in the things that make me happy...my girls, laughter with friends, and taking the time to really just enjoy my time.

...and of course, seeing my girls with big 'ole smiles just melts my heart.

I hope you had a great Sunday FUNday too.

xo

So, what exactly is a "sunny bug"?

2011-10-12T00:45:00.000-04:00

If I had a FAQ section of my blog, the number one topic I would cover is:

My very first Sunny Bug logo...

"What is Sunny Bug?"

"So, who is Sunny Bug?"

"You are a crafter...but I don't see any 'sunny bug' crafts...I don't get it."

"Wait, you bake too...{lots of cake pops} and the only "bug" you featured was a lady bug. I still don't get it."

So here it goes...

My blog name, Sunny Bug {world}, has been my little secret. I mean it's not some big gianormous secret...it's just something close to me and at the time of my blog's launch made sense to me.

As you may have read...I am a creative person. I dream in color, I dance and sing and play. I'm completely inspired by the world around me and I'm completely in my element when I am creating something. I write, draw, paint, sew, bake {and decorate those baked goodies}...I make things, I redecorate my home with thrifty finds, I dream up jewelry ideas...I'm a vintage shopper and {try} to translate my creative self with my own style.

So what does this all mean?

It means the world around ME makes me a better person...and my life wouldn't be anything without my girls. They are my everything and of course, they are my whole world. {and yes, they are still my world even when they are arguing about who made the meanest-meany face first...for the bazillionith time in 30 minutes!}

Here's my Sunny Bug formula:

Caitlin {Rae} as in "ray of sun" = Sunny

Riley {June} as in "june bug" = Bug

Sunny Bug.

Sunny Bug has become my creative philosophy and way of life as a momma, a wife, and a sarcastic chic who likes funky jewelry, a friend/sister/daughter/dreamer.

When I first started my little Sunny Bug blog, I wasn't concerned about branding, promoting, or even making an income from it. If anything I hoped to maybe someday grow 'lil Sunny Bug into one of those super-awesome-I wanna be like THEM-blogs.

I just wanted to share ideas and projects and inspire others to tap into their inner creativity.

So inspire I will {hope to} do...or try my very hardest to do since I do have two 'sunny bugs' who sometimes make me bonkers and result in me grabbing a spoon and eating frosting right out of the can.

Creepy Painted Pumpkins

2011-10-10T22:03:00.000-04:00

There are exactly three things I do NOT like and are at the very top of my "things I'm afraid of" list...

1. Snakes

2. Clowns

3. Creepy, old masks {think Saw movie and the tricycle}

I'm the only one in my house who has no fear of spiders or bugs...but put any of the above three dislikes in viewing distance of me and I will push you toward it and run. I've warned my own kids...they are on their own when it comes to clowns. If I see a snake, I will run like you have never seen me run before. If you show up with a creepy mask on and try to scare me, you will probably get hit in your mask wearing face. {and I'm a pretty peaceful person...but NOT in this case.} Consider yourself warned.

I now have a 4th item. Creepy, hairy, scary-face painted pumpkins.

No thank you.

Even creepier...these were on display in the middle of the produce section of my local grocery store.

...for the ridiculous price of $3.99! Really? And yes, I'm pretty sure I looked like a complete fool trying to get good picture taking lighting of these weird, scary faces. I don't care. I will NOT be paying for these...and even if I was a teensy bit inspired to make my own version of painted pumpkins, mine will NOT look scary. Mine will also be without hair since these look like they ate a troll right out of the 80's.

The creepy, over-priced pumpkins were displayed next to these...

Listen, hairless, non-scary pumpkin dude...you took the words right out of my mouth. Whoa!