Life is a gift

Clipix Organize Online Life

2012-02-24T01:00:00.001+07:00

I love traveling and making DIY goods. While I was browsing the internet and found an interesting article about those two things then I bookmark it. After all this time I thought back to the article and want to read it again, but I often forgot which article I mean. The number of bookmarks in my web browser list that are not well organized make me had a hard time to finding the articles that I'm looking for. That was my experience before I knew Clipix. Clipix is an online bookmark organizer.

After I tried clipix, I can say that Clipix has many advantages which I have never found in other tools. Here are the advantages about Clipix in my opinion:

Clipix is a free online tool.
Easy to signup.
If you already have facebook or twitter account then you can sign up with one of them, if you don't have then you can signup with your email account. No need to fill many input form, just input your email address, password and check mark the agreement of Term and Conditions.
Easy to organize bookmark.
Just drag the "Clip" button into your address bar on your web browser then click it when you want to bookmark, after that you will see pop up options. You can choose which image as the thumbnail and which category you want to put it.
The list of clipboards is literally endless.
Multiboards and Syncboards are awesome interface features. With Multiboards, you can group multiple clipboards by category to stay better organized. Syncboards allow you to clip collaboratively with your friends or family. When anyone adds a clip to syncboard, everyone else you collaborate with will see it in real-time.
All of your board and account settings are customizable. You can even reorganize how your clips are ordered within a board.
There are plenty of tools to help you share your clips including an iphone app that allows for internet clips as well as photos you take with your phone. You have access to your account on the go.
There are privacy setting which let you choose whether you want your clips to be private or public.

With clipix I can bookmark many things, such as movies, videos, books, gift ideas, shopping list, restaurants, designs, architectures, etc. The picture bellow is how clipix work:

Those are my experience using Clipix and I feel addicted with it, how about you? Want to join just visit www.clipix.com. Oh.. almost forget about the awesome clipix video, spend a little time to watch it!

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Depress, make us hate this life

2012-02-06T03:56:00.000+07:00

Every one has their own problem and realize it that we made our problem by ourself.
This life fucking hard...
Why I have to born in this world to make this stupid fucking project.
I'm crying and too much tired with this problem.
I need and have to finish it.
I know only God who can help my problem and solve it.
Problem...problem...problem....
Feel want to die or disappear from this world.
Why I have to choose this?
Why I have to be like this?
Depress, make me hate this life.
Every single step that I pass was hard and hard, should it is harder and more harder than before?
Life is a gift but this is big responsibility and hard to handle.
How to drive this box arrive safety in the direction?
Surely this box will arrive to the direction but a lot of scratch because a long the way of this journey full of hurdle.
Help me to finish this stupid fucking project.
I want to goal it.
I'm tired.

Nothing like him

2012-01-16T12:15:00.000+07:00

Why like this? Why I can't forget him? Today I feel missing my x so much, I look at his pictures, damn... still I never bored look at him. Why it is like this? We didn't say break, but he just left me. I feel I didn't let him go too, he is still alive, yesterday I added his fb account with my second id. He accepted it, maybe because he don't know that was me. I can't believe if he left me because he don't like me anymore because I read on his fb sometime hi told it is pain. Yes, my x left me because he is sick, really sick. He was diagnose with brain tumor. I think he was thinking that there is no life after, i think he think that he will gonna die. Why he don't want just enjoy be with me? Is he really love me like I love him like stupid like this? I don't know anything about him now, I just saw his newest pictures, I see he is little bit skinny than before. But I saw too that he is still doing his activity like before. Maybe you have question, why I don't try to find him? The answer is simple, I know where he live but my money still not enough to go there. I'm dreaming if I can meet him now. He is very far with me, time different is 15 hours, you can count how far he is with me now. I saw he is still single too.

Really I feel betrayal my bf now, but I'm not sure with my bf too. I know my bf love me but to be with him small chance. And when I saw my bf photos, I feel my x is better than him for everything. I was have relationship with my x only for 3 months and with my bf already 7 months now, but why that 3 months can't be replace with this 7 months. I don't tell to my bf that I still love my x, still hope my x will back too, but here in my heart and mind I still love my x too much. I know it is my problem, I was love my x too much and I was told to my self that stop to search anyone, he is the one that you looking for. I think my soul don't want betrayal my commitment now, or my soul don't want love too much like I was love him, or my soul don't want replace him. I want he can recover be with me or not be with me. I love my MA. MA is his initial and my bf is DAS. I want to forget my x but when I try to forget him then I remember him more. It will past a year after he left me, still hope that he will back to me. He is sweet memory and strong feeling for me, nothing like him. I can't hurt my bf feeling, I tried to leave him because I don't want to hide my feeling for my x, but when I asked him to leave he is become sick and like crazy boy. Ehm... now feel complicated. I feel my life was perfect with my x, and my x told like that too, hope his pain only test for us, I want him say hi to me again. I want my x comeback to me again. I want him....nothing like him.

After broke up why it is hard to live without relationship?

2012-01-13T19:58:00.000+07:00

Now I feel it is hard to live alone after broke up, I really missing him and feel jealous when I saw other couple happy. Still my bf is the one that I was talking about. Because of him I realize that to live alone without relationship is hard and pain. Maybe this is the reason why mostly women can't stay longer to be single when she ever have bf. I think to have new bf after xbf can cure the pain and easy to forget the memories with xbf. I see it is different in men, when they already love a women then he will hard to forget and find new gf after he broke up. It is odd too, when a woman married and her husband pass away or been divorced, a woman can stay alone till she dead but mostly a man can't be single for long time after he married then he been divorced or his wife pass away.

It is complicated but some men judge his xgf so easy to forget their memories but he hard to forget it and hard to find new one. I don't how to call this situation but I think it is depend on emotional of the person. For me, after I broke up then I can't live alone for long time, I usually give up to find new bf after broke up about 2 months (it is maximum times I can stay single after broke up). I feel I tried everything to pass the sadness and the loneliness. Sometimes there is a someone come to my life and the we like each other then we become bf-gf, sometimes no one come but I tried to search someone through internet. Yeah I did love cyber, I know it is crazy but sometime I get someone who want to listen me and can made me forget my x. It is enough to erase the pain, after I'm fine to be in single then I just enjoy to be single. It is hard when my friends who have couple asked me to go with them, really like forever alone.

I never doing sex with all my x, but why it is so hard and pain when he left me. How about they who lost their virginity with their bf then their bf leave her like trash? How pain full of that? With my bf now, I did little bit far than with all x bf before, with my bf now feel more emotional and full of desire, both feeling same but both try to keep virginity. It is sound stupid but it is our commitment, we already in relationship for 7 months but we didn't show both property or even doing sex. We did something sound like sex too but without touching, we did to release our desire which sometime burn us. Yeah.. we did like chat sex or phone sex, but we never show our private property. We only kiss through phone we didn't kiss in real too, we both dreaming to do that but not dare to touch each other. Sometime we both also crazy, so hard to control our desire, we want to see each other property, I can to keep mine secret but it seem he want to show but when he will show I said to him, don't show to me till you marry me.

For us it is important to keep both virginity because we think if we won't marry then we didn't lose any but if we will marry then he can be mine and I'm his. It is really hard but we try. I feel this is better but everything is up to you in relationship. Because everything is your responsible, everything you did is your risk but I choose to decrease risk.

I don't know if my bf will be my husband or not, but with him really I feel to much test, emotion and desire. Hope can keep our commitment till the time answer what we should to do. Miss him now, he is back to his country, only can see his text 1 or 2 times a day. Why hard to leave when I feel love him, I don't like if he will leave when I'm in love with him like other xbf who left me when I was so mad on them because it was so hurt and pain.

I was posted romantic thing in my friend's blog

2012-01-11T23:59:00.001+07:00

Yea... I was posted romantic thing in my friend's blog, I hope the post that I wrote will hit her blog a lot but unfortunately it is only hits a little. Maybe I had to post something more romantic like kissing subject, but I'm afraid she won't like it. I think every blogger know how to hit their blogs, they usually use hot topic, but my friend so pure, she don't want to talk about hot things. Her blog talk about travel and she only like to talk about travel, but sometime she also talk other thing when she is mad. Hohoho...

Today I remember my post which I wrote in my friend blog, the title is Romantic proposal on photography shot. I was planned to use this title for my blog, but when my friend asked me to post something in her blog then I wrote it there. I hope my post will hit her blog at least with 100 visitor for only 1 title like my post which talk about kissing but it didn't like as my hope. So maybe I will think other subject but not pornography subject (I don't like it too) which can hit her traffic more. Actually her traffic not very terrible, 1 day more than 100 visitors (for real blogger maybe it is terrible but for me it is quit good rating) but she want to know how if she can get more visitors, like what will happen into her net income etc.

A few months ago I joined traffic gain website and I quite active there, it was effective to increase my traffic and I suggest this website to my friend too but she said this website only hit her domain name not other post, so people come to blog but not read anything. Then I suggest other website with same plan but she said it is tired to wait for clicking. Hahaha. Yeah.. she is right, real visitor who really interest with our post is better than visitors who only want to get traffic. I'm tired to clicking like her too, I only visit the website to gaining visitors sometime when I'm not busy or in bored. But really I like my friend's blog, maybe her English as bad as mine but she chooses very good topics and pictures.

I hope I can create other post for my friend which can hit her blog traffic a lot as mine soon.

The reasons why your boyfriend have not applied you

2012-01-06T17:52:00.000+07:00

After a long relationship with him, it is not wrong if you expect that he will take you to get married. The only problem is sometimes he makes you wait too long until you asks him to marry you. When you are ready to enter the next level, but he has not moved to invite you for marry, maybe you can see the reason behind it all.

1. Phobias
Maybe there's nothing to worry about when he asks you to be his lover. But marriage is another issue for him. Marriage is essentially a lifetime often frightened him, because marriage is the culmination of a commitment. That concern is not because he did not really love you, but due to the temporary fear. There is still a chance he'll change his mind.

However, women often become too tired of waiting and finally think that he already do not like her anymore. However, a strong commitment will help to overcome this. Get her talking, and ask what is the fear. Show him that you are committed to sharing love with each other so that time can be skipped.

2. Afraid to be lost of freedom
Many men are afraid to marry because of the shadow of the failure of a marriage that often they see on television, or from the experiences of parents and friends. Sometimes they feel afraid to be controlled by their wives, so they will not be free to do anything. Naturally, when he was worried, because no one wants to be in a marriage where there is one person who controls another person. To fix this, tell him about your dream wedding and family who want you coached with him.

3. Fear of divorce
Many young couples who were not able to uphold their commitments, so finally decided to divorce. And, couples assume that divorce can happen when you both get married. Communication plays a very important role in healthy relationships. Talk about this divorce, and say that he need not worry about this. If you can establish good communication, a sense of mutual trust, mutual understanding, and mutual commitment to your marriage life, to what to think about divorce?

4. Not ready
And mental qualities themselves before entering the gates of marriage is very necessary. The time needed to prepare for each person was different. He needs more time to prepare themselves and mental qualities to be married than women.

5. He did not want to marry you
When he is old does not ask you to marry him, then chances are he was already comfortable with the current situation, and do not want to change it. He believes that marriage can change his habits, his values, arguably his whole life, so he would not do it. One sign that you can see from his actions when he used to divert your questions about marriage. When this event is often the case, then should you decide to stay with him or not.

Still hope my x will comeback

2011-12-30T06:04:00.000+07:00

Sorry for everyone who maybe finding this post, I just want release my pain because I have bf who always like to say would leave me forever, I always let him to go when he said that, then when he left I feel hurt too. I don't thinking that he will leave as easy as that after he did hurt me but I always can accept if he really want to go because already too much fighting between us.

I did told about my bad past but he always mention those and made me feel angry and feel very bad when he in anger, I told those to him because I hope I can forget those and have a mind that those mistake was a not big mistake. And I don't like to feel these feeling which made me weak when he asked to comeback for our relationship.

I want to be strong and cold then I can leave him easy because he already hurt me too much. But always fail after he bag for forgiveness. Maybe I'm too much nice or weak or what? I feel torturing with this situation, but why I always feel like loser because I can't really kick this situation. Sometime I missed my x who diagnosed with brain tumor stage 3, I feel really lose him, I want to care him while he is sick but he choose to disappear and I can't find him now. Last time I heard that he moved to Fiji, it is so far from my place, I can't found him. When with him, I was happy. He is very patient, good looking, has good body(athletic type), tall, nice, independent, confident and has great smile, I was feel so save and very small too. I was feel very lucky when I met him. Maybe he is not the last one but I was feel so perfect and he was felt that too. We were too much happy but I feel really lose him now.

Sometimes I am crying and hope him will comeback. I felt, he is the one that I'm looking for, is enough to find other boy because he is complete me more than your expectation (it was like that). When we were talking feel like very lucky for found him. Yes it was like that, he told me that he was feel that too. I miss the time when I'm with him. It was no fight that made me too much hurt. It was like good moment in my life.

Actually I also thinking, if my x is not for me then let me forget him and have good life. But my bf now can't be like him, because he is not him. Too much fighting, too much hurting and too much crying, I never felt like this with other boys before. He did same mistakes again and again and hurt me more again and again. I want he really leave me when he decided to leave me because when together will fight always. If I compare my x with my bf, feel like my bf is nothing. My x more than my bf, I felt my x is the best one than boys which ever come to my life. I miss my x. I really hope he will comeback and healthy. Please let me to forget him if I don't have a chance to be with him again, if he is not for me. for my M : I miss you........... (T_T)

Overcome saturation in the relationship

2011-12-21T09:56:00.000+07:00

It is natural that the couple did not you ever feel as attractive as it used to be. Eits .. do not necessarily rush to find a replacement, dear! It's just a sign you are at the saturation point of a relationship really. Take a look at doing some simple things the following, for a sensation that is not less exciting with new times you are going with him first. Let's try!

Set aside time for Yourself

Perhaps you've been too often spend time with your partner. Try doing the occasional "me time", such as going to the latest spa, take a complete treatment package from head to toe. And yes, without the presence of a partner of course. If your body is pampered with a myriad of relaxation like this, you definitely will not forget when you're feeling bored with the him.

Change The Routines

If you have only two dates, this time invite your friend to double (or maybe triple) date. Play the latest DVD, prepare wine, order pizza, and enjoy! But make sure you invite friends who have similar interests with you and your partner. So everybody Will be happy then.

Find a New Place

Malls, cinemas, and restaurants to be places you've been dating? Boooring! Occasionally you may be planning a date that is more adventurous, such as to invite the couple to enjoy a series of outbound activities that test the adrenaline. Superfun guaranteed after this action, you and he will again feel the vibrations which is long gone.

Awaken Memories of the Past

Restoring the memory of early relationships may raise your vibration back to the couple. Take your time to unload the goods which had given him. You might just find a greeting card from a year ago when your spouse work out of town that read, "Hurry home, yes, honey ...". Or you remember the face of panic takes you to the hospital at the time you experience a high fever. Simple things that you realize how the he is your privilege.

Vacationing Together

Try it to plan a vacation to the beach, enjoy the beautiful sand interspersed with warm kisses while welcoming the sunset, or select the area of the city tour by exploring the uniqueness in it with a partner. See it, instead of you remember when you're bored with the relationship, excitement that you feel sure no less fun when she invites you for a first date. (Dian Puspitasari / II / Image: doc. Google)

The types of men from how they try to impress a woman

2011-12-17T04:21:00.000+07:00

Hi girls... It is good to know how the men try to impress the women. From many source like female magazine mention that each type of men has different style to impress a girl/woman that he like. Here some typical of how men impress women:

1. Classical
The man who seduced in this way still adhere to the principle of "man the hunter". So in the pursuit of love, he preferred to act as a chaser. That's why, he was not too interested in women's aggressive in stating the content of the liver.

This type uses a simple and very readable pattern when approaching someone. For example, the man who originally indifferent suddenly began diligently to show little concern. If he's caught the same signal, he will not hesitate to express love.

Flirt flagship of them: "I eat yet?" "Home office at what time?" "You're A time tonight? Can I pick?"

How to seduce like this shows that he is a man who was responsible and understand you. However, he did not like rush says "I Love You" because he wants to know you further. If his efforts to entice you succeed, he will be committed and will not let you just like that.

2. Palpable
No matter target women liked him or not, aggressive or passive, which is obviously a man who did this kind of seduction can be spelled "know what she wants". He did not like the approach that long and wordy. He also likes to show concern with concrete actions, such as sending beautiful gifts. He also likes to tell others that he likes you. He did not easily give up to get your love.

Flirt favorite of this type include: "You're so beautiful" or "I love you". What did he say, that is what is felt. Attitudes to the point it illustrates that he was a man who did not adventurous.

3. Drama
Similar to the previous type, but the difference this type of seduction men often exaggerated and flowery. Not only are the romantic attitude, his words could make you "melt" immediately.

Men of this type are usually able to convince the hearts of women with a variety of tricks that he played. For example, you buy flowers, romantic dinner, take you home, and give attention to millions of film-like drama of love.

The most good he makes seduction like this, "Daddy you're a pilot you? Heart I always fly when with you". Flirt like it was sincere from the heart. Limited only to satisfy the desires and ego have to be a man who wants a lot of women.

4. Polite
This type of seduction style men cling to much of the manners and sexual elements. Although this style tend to be unattractive and shy, but the man who launched a petition like this indicates he had never played around with love.

The he tended more to send a covert signal. Secretly stealing glances and not too comfortable when other people know his feelings. Flirt flagship: "The house we are in line yes ..." or "Yesterday I could ticket, but do not know who would be given"

Actually, the he wants you to be more aggressive, understand what he felt no need to pronounce it clearly.

The things most desired by a wife from her husband

2011-12-12T04:04:00.000+07:00

Want to know what makes women can feel completely happy? Family counselor, and author of Connect to Love, Dr. M Gary Neuman says there are five things that make women feel satisfied with the relationship, and feel happy with their partner. Women are more to be happy if their partner is able to provide these five things for him:
1. Time

The first thing most desirable women, and make him happy is spending time with her partner. Most women are happy with the relationship, spend 30 minutes every day, alone with their partner. While 24 percent of women admitted to not happy with the relationship in pairs because it only had time alone with her husband of less than five minutes each day.

Togetherness with her husband who makes women feel happy is when both are enjoying time together, without interruption Blackberry or other gadgets.

2. Appreciation

Currently, women are able to do everything. Women caring for children, as well as working and financially independent. Women feel no objection to do everything, but women also need an award from the husband. The weather was completely happy, when my husband would listen and give appreciation for what he did every day.

3. Understanding

Happiness for women, one of which is to have a partner who understands it. Even so, women also need to help their partner to can listen. Because men tend not to realize that he is a bad listener.

Therefore, there is nothing wrong if you ask for time to the husband to listen to you. Ask for 15-20 minutes to the husband, Neuman said. Women in fact entitled to a 10-hour attention from her partner, but most men are not adept at listening to their partner during that time. So, ask for a maximum of 20 minutes, so that your partner really focus on you, listen to what you want to convey.

4. Pleasure

This is one factor that is often lost and no longer perceived women, especially after having children. Job, rent a house, things are a burden and responsibility of families, making the relationship loses the element of fun.

Neuman suggests, married couples need to design routines with such a date, once a week. Although tired after work, a time to a date alone. At least, spent two hours together, at home, alone. Take advantage of this moment by talking together about that things, do not discuss about jobs, money, and children.

5. Affection
One more thing she needs to feel happy, affections. Hugs, kisses, just a surprise call from the couple said, "I Love You", simple things like this coveted female from her partner.

"Give a touch of the woman five times a day, at least 30 seconds, do it every day for one week. If a husband can do this to his wife, do not be surprised when they would feel happier with the relationship", explains Neuman.

Signs your love unrequited

2011-12-09T03:34:00.001+07:00

Currently we are exploring the relationships, the big question that arises is, "Does he/she have the same feeling?" Sometimes these questions can make us dizzy, pale, lazy and afraid for being push away. Do not be worry and afraid boys-girls because girl/boy that you are in date must give you sign. Watch correctly the sign. Well... Greg Hartley help you with the signs, Greg Hartley is a former investigator of a special unit in the United States who is also the author of the book I Can Read You Like a Book: How to Spot the Message and Emotions People Are Really Sending With Their Body Language, body language, eye contact, and touch, could be a clue that is easier for us. Hartley helps us read the four signs that we must find a date, to find out whether he could be a lover's heart.

Signs 1: Consider the distance created

"First and foremost, see how he created the distance when talking to us", said Hartley. So, if the other person at a date we do not feel comfortable to talk with close proximity, it could be a sign that he does not think a more intimate relationship. But if the opposite happens, then it shows he did not just want to know us as friends.

Signs 2: Consider the tone of his voice

If your date we speak with soft tones, according to Hartley it is a good sign. "Because he wanted us just to hear his words. Especially if he wants to share a secret, it means he is already comfortable". Then how should we respond to the situation? Hartley suggested that we stay calm, "Do not just show us the upper hand. Because sometimes it is better to make a man wonder if we have the same taste with him".

Signs 3: Notice how her posture when speaking

Masculinity own form of body language, that is the way with well-built, open shoulders with your chin perpendicular, to successfully create a strong impression. But this only happens if they were to be between men. When dealing with women, especially women who are attracted his attention, the male will be slightly bent so that his posture looks like a little circular. Hartley interpret this as a signal from the male to provide protection to women who had been invited to speak. Shoulders are slightly skewed to create a short distance, the listener, while giving the impression of protecting. "This is a positive sign that he is completely comfortable with you."

Signs 4: Always make eye contact

If your date look that we always provide shade whenever he saw us, then it is a good sign. "That means, he is really fascinated with you and ready to go into a more serious level. So, give a little smile to her happy, "Hartley suggested. For we who can read the sign, then the decision is in our hands. Choose, whether we are worthy of a date selected as a sweetheart or not. Complete this sign with the words our hearts so that the best choice out of our heads.

Stupid, idiot, and non sense girl!

2011-12-06T10:18:00.001+07:00

I still remember his words that he said yesterday, still remind in my heart and still so hurt. Like I guess he is back and asking forgiveness for what he said yesterday. But this heart still in pain and it is not easy to recover as easy as he hurt and then asking for forgiveness.
Still he blamed me that I still not understand him. I become hurt more, if he asked me to understand him then he should understand me too. He thing when call me stupid, idiot and nonsense for me is only a joke like he said. Then when he called me stupid, idiot, and nonsense girl as a joke so his love only joke too.
Then is his love only for feed his desire?
Really I felt so stupid when I heard he called me stupid, idiot, nonsense. I feel serving him is no meaning, it is my obligation but for me serving, caring and keep relation with him because I love him. But this love is not enough to care and keep this relation.
This relationship is not healthy anymore.
I'm bored, I'm bored to dream with you.
I am trying to make my heart as cold as the south term pole. I don't want this heart melt easily like common ices when I heard his sweet words.
Baby... you have to learn not hurting my heart always.
You have to learn that girl heart is not stronger like boys heart.
It is so weak till when it is getting too much hurt but always still can forgive.
You don't understand my burden, I tried to shared it with you but you heard it with 1 ear.
I feel disappointed already shared my burden with.
Yea...you are right that I only stupid, idiot and nonsense girl who love smart boy like you.
How can this heart still want to be hurt, but I don't know this heart always accept getting hurt again and again.
This blog is a space to share my burden sometime my joy, my love feeling, my hurt, etc.
I don't know why I like to write more when I'm sad.
Ok baby... I don't know if I still can accept you again.

Feels like Forever alone

2011-12-05T16:17:00.001+07:00

Feels like forever alone, yes now I i like forever alone.

Feels so hurt, actually I'm tired to have bf but I don't know why I still fall in a love with the name of bf-gf relationship.

I need hubby, tired for bf.

Bf made me get hurt a lot.

Why I need to have bf if bf can't help my problem?

Better to live alone without bf.

Bf only want me to make him happy and to share his burden but he didn't do anything when I'm in depress.

I'm tired want to run away and reach what I want to reach.

I hate him.....

Because of thinking that I had with him then I need to care relationship, spend my time and energy for keeping stupid relationship.

This is very exhausted and now I feel very tired. Waiting him....

I don't know what to do feels like lost my way.

I know I can't be happy always it must be sad time.

When I'm become old then I feel life become harder

This mind also very bad, I'm envious with some girls.

Sometime I feel why I can't be like them?

I have to be more than them, but see now I still stuck in here.

I want to fly.

Reach my highest dream.

But that only dream when I only dream it.

Still don't know which step should I take.

I need help.

Maybe God is punishing me now, because I'm bad.

Ok I will try to accept when people call me bad, idiot, stupid and nonsense, just say yes I'm.

I'm envious when I see a kids can be very happy without any burden, they don't thinking how hard is life.

They want to be adult but they don't know that to be adult is a lot of depress and burden.

Crying is not something to made you get what you want anymore but crying for adult is to decrease burden.

I don't know why God made this life.

There must be a reason.

Life is hard and it is seriously complicated.

Happy life forever alone.

Meet the candidates laws?

2011-12-01T14:58:00.000+07:00

It must be admitted that the love story continues whether or not you can be known after a meeting with the parents of her/his. One bit of attitude, it could be your relationship and even his family did not go smoothly. As a workaround, follow these tricks:

1. We met the mother-in-law, apply the 3P.
What is 3P? Yes ladies, praise, praise, and praise. No need to overdo it. You can praise her worn clothing, cooking is super yummy, or ... responded positively about their child(your lover). Simple is not it?

2. Forget all that you do not like.
No need to keep the image and certainly not to be self-centered. At the beginning of the meeting, the subject must be more about the lovers or mother. The mother likes to knit? Maybe you could like.

3. Ask questions that are safe, he is such a childhood.
Besides the answer will be interesting, you also can avoid mother of all questions that make you nervous.

4. Save a MOPs.
Yep, better known as MOPs or making out in public. Because there are many who think this is not polite. Especially if you show it in front of his parents? Guaranteed, not even hot like seeing your behavior!

5. A mother usually wants to show that he knows better character than your son.
So, when her mother was telling him about your favorite menu or even a bad habit. All you have to do is listen, agreed, and laughed. (Lidya / Cosmopolitan)

Back to his Love

2011-11-30T12:20:00.000+07:00

Ehm... After too much fighting with him then took few of time to break, I thought that he want to leave me but he back again and asking forgiveness. I don't know what I feel, still I love him but sometime I feel in doubt too. I want to leave him but when he left, I want him to comeback. I don't know what will happen in future, I thought want to be serious with him but it seems he is still not sure. I know his reason and I don't want to be angry like before because of that.

But sometime I'm tired with him. He is nice but sometime also so annoying. And honestly, I still remember my x who diagnose brain tumor. I still hope my x can recover and I know it is like hopeless because he already diagnose get brain tumor stage 3. I didn't leave and ask for break with my x, but he decides to leave me and I lost contact with him. How can I lost contact with him because it was long distance relationship. Still can't forget his smile and happy face when saw me and I don't get his eyes from my bf now.

After my x and before my bf there is a boy come to me. We were best friend, sharing and talking everything like a craps, it was nice, too much fun and never really fight with him but he is become busy and me too. Now I have bf, feel lost my best friend, with my bf feel can't share everything. Sometime I want to talk about hot news and issue with him but he is not really interest. But with my x and my best friend, it was so fun talking about hot news and all issues like politic issue.

I'm with bf but still I am missing my x and my best friend. I think that I don't have any plan with my bf, it is like enjoy life for now although we are talking about future many times but it was not our plan. He said that he don't want give any promise and don't plan anything. Yeah...Actually I become not really care with my bf but always miss him too.

This blog like my diary but not all I wrote here. Why I write in here because by writing I can be calm down when I was angry, it is better way to cold me. I was tried to reduce or remove some bad attitude. People said I'm nice, my x, my bf and my best friend told that too but I don't think so.

Miss my best friend, with him the days was lot of smile and laughing but with bf the day less of smile and laughing. Back to his love ,I don't know it is right decision or not, I didn't talk a lot about my bf to my other friend than my x. I like to keep about him, because not sure with him. I didn't get anything from my bf but I can call him baby, I miss to call baby.

Back to my bf love.... I don't know what will happen but it was a lot of cry with him.

Love lesson from K-Drama

2011-11-24T15:13:00.000+07:00

Korean drama series follows the romance was successfully tells a simple but compelling to the end of the episode. Not infrequently made you curious, could not even sleep thinking about it. Well, special for you, Cosmo present some fun love Fearless tip of the Korean drama series.

The 1st Shop of Coffee Prince

To attract female customers come to a new coffee shop, Han-kyeol decided to hire employees who were all men. On the other hand, Eun-Chan who has a very tomboyish appearance, financial difficulties and was pretending to be male to get a job at the coffee shop. Until the end of Han-kyeol'd fallen in love with him. Love Lesson: Who says women tomboyish even difficult to get her target men? Creativity, persistence and confidence are strengths that unconsciously you may have. And that's your extra points!

Princess Hours

Shin Prince demanded to be married in order to replace the throne of his father who was seriously ill. The court finally got the idea to marry Shin with an ordinary girl who is headstrong Chae-gyoung. Love Lesson: Chae-gyoung attitude that is, sincere and kind only made him admired men in the kingdom. That's what inner beauty is all about, ladies! Make him melt with sincerity and extra attention that is not made-up!

Secret Garden

Due to a misunderstanding, Joo Won, CEO of a famous department store arrogant, acquainted with Gil Ra Im, a stunt woman, until finally Joo Won liked it. Although initially Ra Im continue to reject it, but eventually the love has grown among them. Love Lesson: It turns out there is the need to know also we play hard. Yes, playing hard to get can make him curious half-dead and added eagerly pursuing you. But remember, do not be too long tide of high prices. Can-can the he was bored and looking for a target other women.

Pasta
Pasta is about a young woman who dreams of becoming an elite chef at an Italian restaurant La sphere. Yoo-Kyung Seo began his career as an assistant chef for three years ranked third in the La sphere, until he eventually became assistant pasta chef and stealing the attention of his superiors. Love Lesson: Have high ideals? Yup make it a reality. Men like women who are independent and knows what she wants. With determination like that, any man can you make to its knees. You Deserve it! (Lidya / Cosmopolitan)

I could not leave him!

2011-11-15T05:26:00.001+07:00

Why I feel I don't know what is right, sometime want to leave him but sometime don't want to leave. Then the fact that I could not leave him.

He is not everything but he is special one who don't like to leave me, he want be with me. Maybe I'm blind or too much blamed him but when he left me really miss him so much.

I don't know the feeling only on me or he feels too, but when I missed him then usually he call me.

It is always right together too much fighting, leaving too much missing.

I don't know if he is my destiny or not destiny, but he is the one who hard to leave me.

Sometime he can replace my x and my best friend but sometime he only make me depress.

I want clean but it is hard with him.

Ehm....

Love really complicated.

And still I could not leave him.

When he asks to back always I accept and I don't know why can be like this too.

Want to leave!

2011-11-14T11:36:00.001+07:00

I didn't talk to my bf since two days a go and it is going three days now. I didn't say that we are already end or other word that same meaning with it, I only said bye but without my style that I used to say when I want to leave. It is seem I'm bad, right? But I did it because he is too much annoyed. I think I'm really angry on him because I already blocked him from my fb and notice him as annoying person.

I feel he becomes not respecting me, I feel he same likes other stupid boys, I feel he is not same like before when I was meet him in first time.

Yesterday he called me but only missed call without voice, it was about 4-5 times. I don't know why he called me without voice, is he already realize that he already hurt me? Or maybe he thinks that I will comeback that is why he is not like a foolish boy likes before, before when I ever left him. Yeah..he is take it easy and ignoring my anger.

I'm bored to be gf and always fighting, I don't feel loose him too. I think to be single is better for now than crying for someone that not respect me again. I'm tired to fight for useless things, better in silent for now. If he really love me then he will say forgiveness with pure heart and understand his mistake but otherwise he is stubborn and too much dominant so better leave each other.

Before I decided to leave, he told that better leave each other etc, I didn't know it was joke or for sure, but it made me confuse what actually he want. It seems he like to leave me and make me sad, because he like if I'm crying too. He is the one who really made me frustration, he is the one who made me cried a lot, he is the one who asked my time more, and he is the one who I gave forgiven a lots.

Yeah I want to leave but still hard, I want to stay silent without contact him, I want to know what his next reaction, if he won't call then I accept that my relationship with him is end.

I don't know maybe I was take pride to my self too much but I feel I already gave him a lot, it is not kind of stuff but like attention, respect, advice, help etc but he like to say that I didn't respect him, not patient, etc and he hasn't ever give me any stuff too. Hahaha.... I feel stupid because our relationship will be 5 months in 20th of this month, yeah...I'm stupid, I think it is fact. And the fact he don't like if I called my self stupid.

Ok...let see what the next story of this complicated love.

Your sweetheart very forgetful? These the solutions!

2011-11-09T13:53:00.000+07:00

Let alone remember the date or invented the first film you watch to him or her at the beginning of a relationship, the promise of dinner he spoke just before leaving for work he had forgotten. Annoying? Sure! But you do not need too long soluble in pique because Cosmo had a surefire way to "refresh" his memory.

1. Prepare Reminder

Write down your plan later after work with a partner, such as dinner or sex session. Use sticky notes with bright colors, then put in an easy to reach, can in the bathroom, the refrigerator door, or briefcase. He's definitely going to see small objects are very eye catching.

2. Put Items In Place

If he often forgot his wallet, car keys, cell phones, or even his glasses, then you should have a place to store items needed day to day. Well, if the goods are in the same place every day, this will makes him easier to remember.

3. Visualize You and your partner eager to realize the plan to a romantic island?

Well, so that these plans do not end up a mess, make it "remember" if you and he has a purpose. Paste a picture of the island as you want it in his office, tuck a paper "We will be here!" Under the picture. Besides reminding, that image will also be motivated, darling!

4. Stay Healthy

Make sure your partner is getting enough rest, exercising regularly and eating nutritious foods for memory. Option can be raw carrots and fresh fruit. Do you know? All these things can well contribute to keep the works of his memory.

5. Refresh mind

Nagging you certainly will not efficacious for the cure to its forgetful. So try to be more patient slowly to remind him. Perhaps he often forgot because he was tired. To that end, avoid the middle of a tense of alone moment. (Lidya Irawati / Cosmopolitan)

Let me to forget him if he is not for me

2011-11-08T19:20:00.001+07:00

I don't know why I still remember him, I miss him a lot now. I feel I can't love other boys as I was love him. I was too much happy when I met him, I felt it was perfect. It hard to forget him. If I'm betrayal my bf, I said to my bf that I still remember my x because we are separated not because we hate each other but he decided to leave because he thinks there is no chance to recover from that illness. My bf was angry when I told about that but finally he understands because he also have past and he can't forget her too. I don't know what my bf plan but I'm not sure that I will have a future with him like I was so sure with my x.

Feel lose plan when my x leave me and I'm afraid that I will get same pains like before. Me and my bf have decided to have a relationship without commitment, he said just do it and enjoy it. It is made me sad because what he said made me feel no destiny with him, why should care him? Honestly, I love my bf but I still thinking other boys my x and my best friend. Sometime I'm thinking that my bf if my bf is my x or my best friend. With my x I was so happy and with my best friend was so fun but with my bf feel lots of problem because we like to fight and blame each other.

I love my bf but sometime I'm thinking why I should care him and love him more if he only wants enjoy it now. I can't only enjoy it, I want have plan but he don't want to make any plan. I'm afraid that he only want to have a fun and play me only. I ever asked to him if he serious with him or only play me but it was made me very angry. I don't know what to do, if he only want to play and to have a fun then if I still can does same why not? But sometime he asks more and i feel not comfortable. I ever ask to end relationship with my bf but he angry and said I planned that. Confuse.....

When I was sad or just fight with my bf, many times I remembered my x and my best friend. I want can run to my best friend and share my burden to him like before but everything is change now. I don't want he become far from me not long as before I accept my bf propose. Now I'm sad and thinking if my x not for me should I can forget him easily but in fact it is hard to forget him. I don't know why he is very special for me, love him like something wonderful and beautiful but I can't reach too.

I miss my bf, my x and my best friend now. Really feel bad, actually I just need a boy but it seems I have to try to taste many love. They said first love is hard to forget but is easy to forget my first for me, I was like a crazy girl when I love him but I don't know the hardest to forget is my x (I called him Mumu).

Let me to forget him if he is not for me. Mumu... where are you, how are you, are you still alive? I miss you and still hope that you will comeback or at least you will recover.

Last night I didn't know that he was calling me 9 times

2011-11-04T12:29:00.003+07:00

He called me 9 times and I didn't pick up because I was out without my mobile and it is start the fight.
If I were you I must angry too.
You are good.
I'm bad.
And I'm afraid to hurt you more but I did hurt you a lots.
Baby... I'm sorry, I still I love you and missing you always.

DAILY HABITS TO TURN THE ATTENTION OF HIM

2011-11-01T13:59:00.000+07:00

Take a look at how many times a day you look at your face in the mirror just to make up after finish? Surely the answer many times! Well ... this is reasonable, especially if you always feel less attractive. But do not automatically think of looks alone, darling! Things often do you do day-to-day, was also able to steal the attention of men, you know. What? Following leak.

Smile
Yup, a men's magazine survey revealed that woman with a beautiful smile can show that she is a nice person! Hmmm ... one thing that shows a high quality woman of your dreams, without having to show off anything.

Speaking Honestly

Be honest and be yourself shows that you are the person who can respect others. Well, this certainly is the most exciting things beyond sex appeal! Well, if previously you always try to figure the "mysterious" to attract the hearts of men coveted. Now, do not have to do it again, honey! Simply by being what it is without having to be someone else, you can make him fall in love.

The Good Listeners
This attitude turns you already do every day, you know! Such as the day he took out the week and it turns out you immediately mark it in the calendar. So, your attitude as a good listener, the end can does everything on time, right? Hmmm .. because everyone wants to be heard, so it's no wonder why men love it!

Laugh
No need to try hard to be funny all the time, because with a little sense of humor that you have seen can actually make you look more sexy and exciting! Do not be afraid to make the atmosphere drop instantly, telling stories about the funny moments that have also experienced will make him happy laugh with you.

Eye Contact
Actually had long you have the "assets" that could melt the hearts of men. Yes, women have very beautiful eyes! When talking to the him, your eyes will show an interest owned. It also reveals if you are a woman who is confident. So, just keep it up, darling! (Lidya Irawati / Cosmopolitan)

I want to reach my dreams

2011-10-29T05:45:00.001+07:00

Before my dreamed not like my today dream, I think my dream is changing when I'm become older, but all dreams are not changing but soft of dreams still same.

I feel still young, it was like yesterday but it was a few years a go. People changing they are growing old and each of them have different way to thinking and have different aim in life.

Everybody have dream but if their dream put in curve then some of people have so high dream, fairly, and other just static. This life is mystery, all people want their dream come true. Some of people could reach their dream but some of them could not reach it.

Everybody must have dream because dream is one of reason why people have spirit to life. Sometime I'm afraid what will happen on my future, is it great or just static. I want to to reach my dream. If some of other people can reach of their most great dream, why I can't reach it my dream too.

Still I want to live because of my parents, I want to make them happy because they have me and breed me. I didn't have serious reason to live if I have my other half because I didn't find him yet.

I count life so fast but so long when walking on it.

I believe there is a God, I believe a God manage and create everything.

I believe then I still have hoped.

I believe we send to this world must have a reason.

We are not in this world by accidentally but it is already provision and with this provision, God give a special right, it is to choose.

I believe God manage everything but God also give us right to choose but under control of God.

Really life is very complicated.

And I don't want miss my train.

I want to reach my dream.

Now Everything is Changing

2011-10-27T13:43:00.000+07:00

Today he said to me, now everything is changing, only will talk with me for 2 hours. I feel he becomes ignoring me now and I feel he doesn't have time for me also. Why I feel sad with that, what I am expect from him?

I don't know what he expects from me too. He likes to say that he will leave me but in fact he always comeback after leave me.

Maybe what I said is right, Together too much fighting, leaving too much missing. Maybe he were missing me when he live without me. I don't know is not easy not to care with him. I don't know when after he leaved me then come back to me again is hard to ignore him. Always I opened my hands for him. Always I feel he is not same with other but why sometime he is so annoying and like to make me angry?

Baby... I don't know why like this too. Maybe he thinks that I like if he leave and ignoring me, but I don't think that. I want when I need him then he will always there for me, and when he need me then I'm here for him, like before but for positive things. He was like that, but he was changed need me for something that I tried to control.

Everything is not same anymore, everything is changing. Yes... time is running so fast.

But I know I still love him.

This is really complicated.

Sometime I hate him, sometime I angry to him, sometime I like him, sometime I need him, sometime I love him too much, he was there always but now he not always there like before .

But I know I still love him.

I don't know why I love him.

I feel missing something without him.

Take care for you, baby...

It's hard to understand you.

I want marry when I am with you.

But I back with my aim when I am without you.

HOW TO CHANGE HIS BAD HABIT

2011-10-23T14:48:00.000+07:00

Indeed, every woman wants to have an ideal partner. Hmmm ... ideal? Yes, someone who certainly independent, have a stable mental foundation, and a great personality. But there are many men out there that suddenly altering their properties are so fascinating becomes unpleasant. Well, here Cosmo give some tips for you to handle this problem.

Often he harbored Emotions

Starting from the expression on his face that often looks annoyed even sudden lazy admonish you. Even ... behavior than when you're coming months? Hmm, most likely the he is upset at something.

All you have to do:

Men do not want to show when they're emotional, because it can be seen as a weakness. If he refuses to tell you about the problem, let him calm down. When he is calm, assured he would tell you about all the problems.

He Always Forget

First the he forgot to schedule a date with you, both he forgot to call you after they were promised, the third day he forgot your anniversary together, even forgetting your anniversary date. You are also reminded he was tired of going about things. Oh and it turns out, he's still just forgot the name of your pet dog at home.

What should you do:

Give a satire that could make him remember. Such friends, "I want to go buy a gift for her birthday party this weekend". He probably will remember if your birthday was also the same as Kate's birthday.

He's Too Sensitive

At times, you are busy with a myriad office work that piled up, until you forget to give the news to him? Well, if the lover immediately complain that you do not care, do not necessarily think of it as a possessive man, dear! This could be your spouse, including the type of men who are too sensitive.

What You Should Do:

Facing the sensitive guy, is not easy. You should not be too hard or too 'excuse' habits. For that, try deh give him the sense that you are an independent woman who can be trusted. Interspersed with intimate humor or joke every time he is in the "term" sensitive moments with you. (Lidya / FT)