Bouncing Back from Bankruptcy

On My Way Back

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Mon, 18 Oct 2010 17:08:00 +0000

Life has been more than crazy, this is my first post in ages. Will be reposting soon. Sigh,,,

Using My Time for Good Instead of Sulking.....

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 14:05:00 +0000

One upside to the craziness of my "new" schedule is I have been able to do things like install a new closet system at home. I only have one small clothes closet and it was in desperate need of a face lift. Nothing fancy, just a Rubbermaid one from Lowes. I actually used the closet planning guide from Martha Stewart's web site and then got the Rubbermaid components for about 1/3 the price. I bought the components before the craziness of work happened. The components have been sitting on my bedroom floor for almost a month and I kept tripping over them. I think I was more tired of stubbing my toes than really motivated to organize the closet, but I'm happy I did do it.

Despite me having these manic mood swings about work, I decided to use some of my peppier energy to do things like re-organize and de-clutter my closet. I also trolled through my tee shirt collection, finally tossing out those old stained t-shirts that really don't fit. I did keep a couple to use as house rags, but the rest, trash can city. Did I really need that Oktoberfest 1984 T shirt that I never liked to begin with? I got a bag together of clothes to go to Goodwill. Right now I just don't see me losing those 25 pounds I gained during the BK to fit back into those pants. Let someone else use them, they were just taking up space in my house.

I also went through my dresser and purged socks, undies, and etc. Everything that was left was refolded and put back neatly. At least when I open my sock drawer, I will see neatly organized socks! In an odd way, it was very satisfying to tidy up my things. I still have to make some headway through my desk (which has become a disaster area), and the bathroom vanity.

No matter what happens, at least I feel a bit more organized!

When It Rains, It Pours

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Mon, 28 Jun 2010 01:14:00 +0000

At the end of May I hurt my back and my neck. Nothing major thank goodness, but enough to send me to the doctor a few times, to physical therapy and to the massage therapist. Cost to me, about $1000. One of the pets decided it would be fun to break it's leg. Seriously, the pet broke his leg. Cost to the vet for X rays, casting, meds, $500. I'm lucky that the dog did not need orthopedic surgery. My primary vet (that I am slowly losing confidence in) sent me to a specialist muttering something about pins and screws. I was having night sweats, surgery would have been a around $1,000. The specialist told me the dog could get by on a cast and lots of crate rest. Where did this money come from. My now depleted E fund.

What happens next, my boss holds a meeting to tell the staff that the business will be changing, one partner leaving, and everyone's hours cut, mine included. Actually, as I posted earlier, the office is on the brink of shutting down unless plans, B, C, D somehow come to fruition.

I knew there was a reason I never put that application in for the FHA loan.

The good news of the past month.

I have pretty much recovered from my neck and back issue, the dogs leg has healed, and while I have no
E-fund anymore, I am at least current on all my financial obligations.

I still want to spend most of my free time huddled under the pillows watching Grey's Anatomy re-runs.

More on what's happening later

Still here

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Mon, 28 Jun 2010 01:08:00 +0000

I've not deserted this blog, but things have gone just head over tip. Sigh, So I did the only thing I do well, which was to hide behind pillows and go why, why me-AGAIN.

Pretty much this past month, my office has been in the process of trying to find a new business partner. Seems one of the partners decided he wanted out, like ASAP. What does this mean, it means my job is in serious jeopardy. There is a very good chance our business will shut down.

And my bank account is really low due to some odd circumstances. It is way too much for me to go into right now, but I will post about it this week..

Did I lose all my readers or is it feedburner?

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Fri, 21 May 2010 18:51:00 +0000

Humm, seems that I lot over half my readership? Is it me or is it feedburner? Or both?

Chickening Out For Right Now

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Thu, 20 May 2010 18:39:00 +0000

One goal I had post BK was to qualify for credit again. Why many of you may ask when you filed Bankruptcy? Well, for a couple reasons. The big one is if I can get credit at reasonable rates and not have issues again, it's one of my ways that I will have bounced back. I was able to get a car loan, albeit at a slightly higher (well much higher) rate than I would have liked and I do now have a credit card.

I've been waffling in my decision to go forth with the application for the FHA rehab loan. I have all my paperwork that I know they will need, but I have not yet made that final leap. Why, well I'm not 100% sure. The lender is either going to say yes or say no. I guess it's because I'm going through one of my I- doubt -myself- phases. I'm feeling a bit down about life, work, both full and part time~ things just feel so stagnant and not like all is good and smooth, but all is sludgy. Is sludgy a word? And when I feel this way, I don't take rejection well at all. Right now I don't want to get "rejected" even though I know it is a possibility with the FHA loan.

Sooo what is Betty to do? Well I'm going to allow myself a few more days of self pity and then I am going to take out that extensive to do list of home repairs and remind myself that I simply can not do them by my lonesome or even do many of them with a friend or helper bee. These are home repairs that really can't be put aside much longer. I'm hoping this will motivate me to put in the application, cross my fingers, light a candle and hope for the best!

I Joined the 1990's

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Tue, 18 May 2010 17:20:00 +0000

And got cable. Yup, not just cable, but internet and phone as well. What drove me to this, well, it was a $42 basic home phone bill (I use a calling card at 2c per minute for Long Distance) and a one year offer for a triple package for $55, no install fee, and unlimited local and long distance phone.

I ported over my phone number, I like the one I have and I have had cable TV for just over a week. And I'm really wondering if it's worth it. I've gotten so used to NOT watching a lot of TV. I read, watch DVDs, etc. Before the switch to all digital TV I got about 10 stations (some digital, some not) after the switch only 2, I even lost some of the digitial stations I had. My house is located in a bit of a dead zone, I can't even get mobile phone reception where I am, I have to go about 1/4 mile away to get any bars. I guess I should consider myself lucky that I even had two TV stations.

Even though this is not my TV watching season, I thought I'd try it out. Except that I spent a lot of time channel surfing 70 some odd channels going Crud, nothing on TV. I did watch about 30 minutes of an Undateable Marathon and wondered why I did (BECAUSE IT WAS ON).

Oh well, I've already made a note for my 2011 things to do list to review the cable package and maybe get rid of it or reduce it when it comes up for renewal.

Dropped the Phone Bill by Half

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Mon, 17 May 2010 14:00:00 +0000

A few weeks ago I complained that I had an outrageous phone bill, partly due to the increased amount of text messages. I stuck to my promise and only texted when neccessary and my phone bill dropped by half. Sweet!

New Home for Poochie

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Thu, 06 May 2010 16:13:00 +0000

Last week I took Poochie for her placement evaluation. The tester was very nice and we went over a boat load of paperwork for her eventual placement. I know from past experience that whomever will be adopting her will also do a boat load of paperwork as well.

Poochie goes to a temporary home on Friday then gets delivered to her new owners on Saturday. She will get another pre-placement physical and hopefully she will settle into her new home just fine.

Despite the issues between Poochie and my own older dog, I will miss her, but I know that she will be someones puppy princess, which is what she deserves. I think my elderly freind would be happy knowing Poochie was in a home where she could have all that love.

The End of The Local Market

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Wed, 05 May 2010 13:53:00 +0000

I've posted before about the local market in the small town where I work. It was the store that charged $7.99 for a jar of mayo you could buy for $3.00 at the larger grocery store. It was the type of place that did a booming lunch business at the deli counter and stocked the items that you would would need to fill some gaps and save yourself a trip to "town" for things like a jar of mayo or TP. The sad part of the story was the slow demise of the store. The owners of the store used to stock name brand items and over the past few months they moved to generic brands. The deli counter slowly dropped it's choices of sides, salads, etc. The shelves got emptier and emptier and finally, they had a going out of business sign posted and closed their doors last week.

It now gives the small town I work in one less place to get lunch, we now have 3 instead of 4, and for the locals who would need that gallon of milk, jar of $7.99 mayo, it means a 14 mile round trip to the nearest grocery store. Try as I might to support a local market, it was hard for me to even buy the breakroom snacks at the local market. We pretty much only keep coffee and tea supplies and some snacks for the office, but at the end the market was not even stocking drinkable tea bags. It was cheaper for me to stop by the grocery store and get a bag of breakroom supplies and snacks for the same price as a can of one step above generic coffee. A sign of the times I guess...

Don't People Ever CALL anymore?

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Tue, 04 May 2010 16:03:00 +0000

I got my mobile phone bill and almost choked. It was $100. Like I have not had a bill that high since last year when I had to call into work from the UK (and work reimbursed me for all the calls). Granted part of this bill was an outgoing call I made to a friend in Italy, but most of the overage charges have been to text messages. Last fall I upgraded my calling plan and it worked fine for me. I was keeping within my minutes and life was good.

UNTIL-most of my friends became text addicts. I mean they text all the flipping time, even when they don't even need to. I'd get two or three texts for something that a 10 second phone call could cover. I've fallen into the habit of responding to these texts, sometimes with those silly emoticons and abbreviations. you know, :) :( ;) C U L8r.

I know I'm showing my age, but do we really need to document every movement with a text? I've made a promise to myself to really restrict my texting to the absolute minimum and then it will only be a response if need be. I'm going back to phone calls.....and yes, I still hand write letters too!

Do You Buffet?

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Thu, 29 Apr 2010 16:23:00 +0000

I have somehow been sucked into a weekly lunch "date" with friends at the local Chinese Restaurant all you can eat buffet. We somehow went from diner food/pizza/ sandwiches to going to this buffet almost every week. The cost per person with a drink for lunch is $5.80, a bit more if you have a beer or glass of wine.

The buffet is incredible mundane, lots of drab chicken dishes, lots of typical "American" dishes-mac and cheese, pizza, onion rings, potatoes, a small sushi bar, one to two vegetable dishes (usually cabbage or green beans), fried rice in an interesting neon color, vegetable lo mein that has almost no veg in it, a large dessert bar with tons of canned and fresh fruit and jello. If you are lucky, there is a beef dish or two, sometimes none, occasionally something like a meatloaf. The soups are egg drop, wonton and hot and sour. When we first started to go, the variety of foods offered was better, more Chinese, less American. I guess more people were eating the macaroni and cheese rather than the dan dan noodles. When we first started to go, the resteraunt was fairly empty, now even at 1:30 PM, it's half to 3/4 full of patrons ranging from high school kids to retirees.

Why do I keep going back? Well, for what ever reasons, my two friends like the place and for me, it's not about the food, it's about the company. Plus it's a "cheap date" so to speak. You can't get a extra value meal from Micky D's for that price. We do live in an area that has limited ethnic food choices and both these gals are not adventurous eaters either. They think chicken with cashews is exotic. I pretty much have the same food each week, soup, a salad, steamed dumplings, an egg roll, some veg and I'll rotate my choice of chicken dishes. I never see a tofu dish or anything spicy (my preferences). You can see into the kitchen and it looks like the restaurant makes it's own dumplings, egg rolls, spring rolls and wontons. I wonder if there is a Chinese food supplier that supplies the items that are deep fried and or soup stocks and sells it to these places...

A New Home For Poochie?

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Tue, 27 Apr 2010 17:28:00 +0000

I have been fostering a dog (for lack of a better term) that belonged to my now deceased elderly friend. I have had issues with this dog, (who is very sweet), not getting along with my old dog (who is also very sweet, except to Poochie). Both dogs, well, HATE each other. It's more than Dog Whisperer issues, it's out and out hate and I've already had a few incidents between the two girls, despite me trying to exercise good canine control.

I've been juggling the two dogs for almost two years. I've been looking for a home for Poochie for the past 18 months when it became apparent my elderly friend was never going to be able to have a pet again due to her chronic health issues. The local breed rescue that I had been trying to work with got some new staff. Actually, they got back an older staffer who was very good at her job. She found Poochie's file and called me over the weekend. Poochie goes for an evaluation on Thursday, they have a potential home!

So keep your fingers crossed. Poochie would do so much better and be the Puppy Princess she was before she came to me.

Trying to Spend Money, But Can't!

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Mon, 26 Apr 2010 18:14:00 +0000

I have this extensive To Do list of projects around my small house. This past week, I gave myself permission to work on two of them. One project was to install some flooring in my bathroom, the other was to put in a new closet system.

I did my research on products,etc, trucked off to Home Depot and bought my materials. The bathroom flooring was a breeze. I used a product called Allure vinyl flooring. It's a floating floor and the pattern I chose was a tile pattern. It took me longer to remove the toilet and sink and re-install the toilet and sink than it did to lay the new flooring. BIG pat on my back to me, I now have flooring instead of sub floor!

The next project was to put in a new closet system ($100). The people I bought my house from used this funky piece of furniture, not quite an armoire, not quite a free standing closet in the closet to store clothes. I've been using a basic plastic shelving unit to store all my folded clothes. I found a system at Home Depot that had both shelves and rods to put hangers on, it was not wire, I am trying to avoid wire, it's a manufactured wood product. I put together enough IKEA furniture in my time to decorate a show room. I thought this should be fairly easy to do. Like a half an afternoon project. How wrong I was!

The closet system, well, even for a "manufactured" product.. sucked. No other word. I used a rubber mallet as detailed in the instructions to tap in some hardware parts. Said mallet cracked the veneer. When I went to use a screw driver to tighten up some bolts, it caused the part being tightened up fall out of the shelf, a huge chunk of particle board just broke off. Nothing about this unit seemed sturdy or strong. I decided this was a waste of my time and money. I had no way of taking all the bits of hardware out of the shelves, so I loaded up the parts, bits and pieces, and took the whole thing back to Home Depot. I got a full refund and I spent the better part of the afternoon going to and from the store and attempting to put the piece together.

Ah well, right now all my clothes are packed in laundry baskets and garbage bags. I had to dismantle the plastic shelving before I could start on the new system. I will have to go back to square one and figure out what I want to do. It may be a wire system after all.....

A Mini Rant for Monday

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Mon, 19 Apr 2010 14:59:00 +0000

I was going to have today's post be about me needing to get a spine and a new job, but instead it's about a mini rant on my weekend job. In my last post, I stated that my schedule was going to change in a few weeks. I was fine with that, we had the new schedule to go into effect the weekend that starts on April 30th. Imagine my surprise when I walked into the "staff room" on Friday after turning out a few horses,only to find my co-worker there. Unexpectedly there at work according to my weekend boss.

I gave him a WTF look and he gave me the same look back. Later in the AM, we had a little chat. According to my weekend boss, my co-worker came back early. My response was "you had a conversation with me, did you not make it clear to her when you had your conversation with her that expected the new schedule to start in two weeks?" I honestly don't know if he just forgot and told her to come in this weekend or WHATEVER. He claims she just decided to "show up". It does wildly annoy me since I will be losing two days of pay that I was planning on having. I made sure I told him that the early change to my schedule did not make me very happy. I was polite about it, but made sure I got my point across. Yeah it's whiny, I know, but the MO of my co-worker has been to pretty much do what she wants in terms of her schedule-leave and come back when it suits her and walk all over my weekend boss and dammed the other staff who are covering her hours. GRRR

My co-worker stayed on Friday and was mildly annoying. She's been gone for almost 5 months and we have had some changes in the facility. Had I known she was going to be coming back, I would have followed up with my weekend boss to make sure he spent some time with her to go over the new changes. None of these changes are earth shattering, but they are changes that she needs to know about. I know she would need to be brought up to speed on them. She spent most of the day going, oh this is new about every fifteen minutes. We also have a feed chart on the wall, it's missing a few animals since horses come in and horses come out or feed needs change. For almost an hour she followed me around the facility harping on the feed chart. I told her I'd make sure a new and current one would be posted by Monday (when she was going to work again). I finally gave in to the annoying chatter, sat down and started re-writing the chart just to SHUT HER UP.

That and the fact it was a damp chilly weekend did not make Betty a happy camper. I am so glad it's Monday!

Weekend Work Updates

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Thu, 08 Apr 2010 16:35:00 +0000

My weekend job is dependant on the return of my injured co-worker. I was hired to be a temporary replacement. She had major surgery on her foot and was to be non weight bearing for a minimum of 4 months, if not 5 months, she is coming to the end of that time period.

I got a call from my weekend boss who stated that said co-worker wants to come back a couple days a week, which means I'm out some weekend work. I was expecting to go back to my summer schedule of two days every two weeks, which barely cut the mustard money wise, especially since I had some work obligations and family obligations that seemed to occur on my scheduled weekends. Instead, I'm only losing 4 days a month, which is not so bad! It means I can have a full day off at home and my weekend boss gave me first crack at what days I wanted. I set up a schedule with him that is a win win for both of us (maybe not for my co-worker, but TFB right now). I still work Fridays and Saturdays, get Sundays off and he gets Monday facility coverage. Since he tries to take off Mondays and one afternoon a week, this works out well for him. With the departure of said co-worker, he was having to work on Mondays. Given the fact said co-worker is probably returning to work earlier than she is supposed to and probably won't be that mobile, I don't think he is really willing to drop me back down as he did last year. I found out after the fact there were some issues with her limited mobility,the animals and facility, not wanting to yell I TOLD YOU SO, I merely nodded and said, "oh sorry to hear that."

This new schedule will start in a couple weeks. I have more notice this year than I did last year (which was all of 4 days) and I'm keeping a majority of my days. Having Sundays off works well for me. I like the concept of "sleeping in" on Sunday and it gives me a respectable amount of time off before I start my weekday job. It also gives me much needed time to work on my list of home DIY projects that are long overdue. My yard has turned into a dust bowl and needs serious work, which I have put on the top of my list for this year. No slacking!

Said co-worker and I have also swapped days when one of us has needed a weekend day off or had a project or two to do. That makes it a win win for both of us and less of a worry for the boss man.

I'm happy with the fact I'll be keeping a majority of my hours. It is allowing me to delay getting a spine and getting a full time position again-which is the subject for another post.

My Fault and My Ruined Monday.

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Mon, 05 Apr 2010 16:27:00 +0000

So my Monday went from nice and wonderful to crappy and stressful in about 5 seconds. And it was my fault. I made an error with a client that I did not catch, but they did and needless to say, they are not happy, nor is my boss, nor am I.

CRUD. I hate it when mistakes happen and I hate it even more when I should have caught this. No freaking excuse on my part. This particular client is a bit picky and yes, my boss is justifiably mad at me. All I can do is admit my error and admit to the client it was my error and hope they don't rip me a new one.

Let's hope this is not the start to my week.....I do think Mercury goes retrograde later this week...

Cleaned Up The Blog Roll

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Tue, 30 Mar 2010 17:41:00 +0000

I added a few blogs, deleted a few blogs and updated my fiscal progress. That's the best I can do on a miserable rainy day!

Sometimes You Just Have to Put It On The Table.

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Mon, 29 Mar 2010 16:25:00 +0000

If you have been reading my blog, you know that I have two jobs. My weekday job that was at one time, full time and now three quarter time and my weekend job that "picks up the slack" so to speak. I got this job just a few weeks after my hours were reduced at my full time job. I was hired to fill in for someone who got injured and could not work. I knew then and still know now that my days are contingent upon this persons return to her old schedule. My boss also would like to keep me on at his facility since I can contribute more to his operation than turning out horses and mucking out stalls. For the most part, I don't care who does what when I'm not at the facility, I don't oversee the other workers, I have no managerial duties so to speak. If I did, I'd of fired a couple people like last year. I like to get to my weekend job, get settled, do my work for three days and then go home. I have to travel to my weekend job, I like to use Thursday evenings as "me time", other than checking the schedule, I like to crash, maybe eat a pizza and drink a beer and watch cable TV for a few hours. Such is the exciting life I lead.

Except for last weekend. I got to the facility and it was a mess. I mean a real mess. Like a mess that should have been dealt with by the staff that was on duty that day. Of course, the boss was away, so the mice played. I walked into the facilities office to check messages, looked at the weekend schedule, and do a quick check of the facility. I also noticed that a lot of the daily house keeping chores were not done and not done for umm, two to three days, the exact amount of time the boss was out of town. Most of those chores are not difficult or time consuming and considering there was not a lot of "extra" work to be done at the facility I was wondering why the daily chores were not done. Most of these chores revolved around the guest lounge and common areas that need to be kept clean neat and tidy all the time. These are the "public faces" of the facility and all of us are required to make sure they look presentable. The people who pay money to use our facility don't make a huge mess, in fact, they are pretty tidy and if the staff on duty keeps up with the chores, the public areas look more than presentable. We had a program scheduled for the weekend and the public areas of the facility needed to be extra spiffy.

Needless to say I was not happy to find out Thursday evening that I had to spend a good two hours cleaning up these areas since I knew that I would not have the time on Friday to do so. My weekend boss was away and despite leaving him a couple phone messages, two texts and a hand written note, he did not get back to me until the middle of the week.

I point blank told him I did not appreciate the fact that he had all this staff on duty who seemed incapable of doing the basic chores, yet somehow I managed to do all the chores and then some without the benefit of extra staff (which I knew a head of time we would be short help) and oh yes, did I mention that the public face of his facility looked like crap? Yes, my words, looked like crap. I gave him a blow by blow description of what was NOT done that should have been done. What triggered my unusual outburst was the phone call I got (actually three phone calls) from the weekday person wanting to "touch base" about the facility. Which in her speak means "here-are-my-excuses-for-not-doing-the-work". The weekday person was trying to shift the blame to the other staffer. In my opinion, both of them need a sharp prod with a very sharp stick on a regular basis. When prodded, they do more than acceptable work, when not prodded, they slack off.

My weekend boss and I have a good working relationship. I don't bother him with the BS stuff, not my style, but this really irritated me. Busy weekend, no extra help and a lot of unexpected work, two staffers who probably sat in the lounge watching cable or playing on the computer and got paid for it. I was not very happy to roll in to the office and then have to do someones work and not get paid for it. I told my boss that consider Thursday evenings "me time" even when I get to the facility early. It did not make me a happy camper to have to do the chores, and it made me an even unhappier camper to find out that there was extra staff on both Wednesday and Thursday.

He did apologize and say he would talk to those people, but I really wonder if he will. He's a non confrontational type of guy and may just gloss it over. Oh well, at least I told him my feelings on this matter and I will wait and see what happens next week. At least, he should put a little extra in the pay packet.!

Why I Love My Local Ford Dealer

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 14:26:00 +0000

I am the first to admit I love my Escape. It's a vehicle I wanted and worked hard to get post BK. My old car was a 1999 Saturn Station wagon that gave me many years of service and over 232,000 miles. It started to die a very expensive death at the end of it's life and that slow decline corresponded to my BK filing. In fact, my transmission blew up on my way back from my 341 hearing costing me the remaining $300 in my checking account and my next paycheck. Was it fate or just the universe testing me? I knew as soon as I could I needed to replace the Saturn that gave me many years of trouble free service.

Needless to say. I decided on a new to me car from a dealer instead of temporary clunker since my past experience with clunkers was not good. I've had the Escape for two years now and it's chugging along. I take it in for oil changes approximately every 5,000 miles. I've been taking it to one of the two local Ford dealerships for the past 10 months. I was going to a local oil change shop that was increasingly trying to sell you additional services and fluid changes. The service department at the new dealership has been great, does more than the 21 point inspection of the vehicle during the oil change and does it for less than $35. The other Ford dealership seemed to be only interested in making a buck. Each time I would take the car in for an oil change (they offered a $25 oil change) I would get a laundry list of much needed repairs. What drove me over the edge was taking the Escape in for an ABS sensor repair (Estimated cost $400 if new parts were needed) and getting an estimate for $1200 worth of "work". Plus the snotty attitude of the mechanic and the patronizing attitude of the service manager when I said No was annoying. I guess they saw a female with a car and saw $$$$ signs.

The other Ford Dealership that I now go to is much more straight up and honest. Instead of insisting on all these services, they check and re-check during the oil change and talk to you like a person and not a bank account. This oil change was no exception. I had the service and instead of insisting on the full 80,000 mile service, they told me that all looked good and would recommend a radiator flush and fill sometime in the next few months. They said all looked good and probably would be fine, but it did not hurt to do the flush and fill later this spring. I'll plan and budget that for in the upcoming couple months. When the Escape had some problems this past fall, I logged onto a Ford Escape Forum researched the site and found what looked like my problem with my Escape. When I went to the dealership, I told them what I was feeling/hearing in the car, what I found on the forum and left the Escape for the diagnostic test. The service manager listened to me and what I found. He thought maybe the back end of the Escape was shot, but he also looked up on same forum my problem and low and behold, instead of a new back end, all I needed was a repair of a frozen joint of some sort. He did not assume my Escape needed a new back end, He did not dismiss my input, he thought it might a bad rear end on the Escape, but he was open to looking at the forum and also looking at my Escape with my eyes. He told me my type repair was the first he had done on an Escape at his shop and he was glad I told him about the Forum. The repair was under $200 (including the oil change) and this dealership now has my business as long as I have my Escape. This dealership is in the business of repairing cars and maintaining good customer relationships no matter your age or gender.

I did treat the car to a spring cleaning on Saturday inside and out. My car has been freshly serviced and freshly washed. Good way to start the spring!

Things That Make Me Laugh

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Sat, 20 Mar 2010 19:32:00 +0000

I pulled my credit reports and scores this week to do my annual check. My FICO score is about the same as it was last year, not great at 635, but at least it has not gone down. I had hoped it would go up a bit more, like at least to 650. My Advantage score is 785, what ever that means and supposedly am a Prime candidate, what ever that means. I'm getting ready to process an application for an FHA loan to get some money for some much needed work on my house. I thought this would be a good time to double check my file before it gets pulled by a lender so I can clean up any discrepancies.

I did have to laugh at a couple items that were listed on the report as an "explanation" for my low scores.

• Your report shows one or more bankruptcy filings. Bankruptcies can remain on file for up to 10 years, depending on the chapter filed, and have a negative impact on your credit score. Ah Duh, I filed Bankruptcy, I expect to find this on the report!

• The average loan amount across open, recently reported real estate accounts, such as a mortgage, is too low. Having low loan amounts has a negative impact on your credit score. Too Low? I mean my mortgage was small to begin with, I did not buy a McMansion!

I did find one discrepancy, which was an account I had in collections was discharged in the BK filing. It is still listed as active in two of the three credit agencies and not on the third. I'm filing a paper dispute as I hear they work better than an electronic one. I have no idea if this is true or not, but I thought, hey, it's only two stamps. I even cleaned up some personal information, employers names spelled wrong, corrected some start dates, eliminated some old duplicate mailing addresses.

I've said this before. Even with the Bankruptcy, it's better to have correct negative information than incorrect negative information on the account.

When was the last time you looked at your credit reports?

Why I Have A Costco Membership

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Fri, 19 Mar 2010 14:32:00 +0000

I have been a member of Costco, (then Price Club) since 1992. When I first joined, you had to show proof of belonging to a qualifying organization. In my case, I worked in a school district so I was allowed to become a Costco member. My then boyfriend had to be added to my account as an extra card holder since he worked for a small company that was not on the Price Club list. It cost $35 a year to be a member and my renewal this year was $50. In 18 years the dues have gone up $15 and I have NO complaints about that. I do believe that I do save the cost of the membership with my shopping at Costco over the year.

When I lived in Northern Virginia and the Costco opened at Pentagon City, it was like MAGIC. It sold beer and wine, had a great selection of items and and best of all, was close to my home, actually on my way to and from home. I would stop there at least 3x a week.

When I moved back to New England, Costco became a destination shop. The closest one to home is 20 miles away. I would have to plan my shopping trips. For someone who dislikes the grocery store experience, Costco has been a sanity saver. I have my list of items I can buy in bulk. Depending on the time of day, I can be in and out of Costco in less than 30 minutes. I do my best to avoid the store on the weekends-way too many people and screaming children.

My visit to Costco yesterday was a bit pricey $132 in the warehouse-this included my yearly renewal and a new pair of sneakers that I wanted, but did not need right now, $55 in the optical department for new lenses (needed) and $32 at the gas pump. I saved about 30% on the cost of my contacts (I've checked out 1800 contacts and other vendors), the gas is always 10c-15c per gallon cheaper than most local gas stations, and I'm well stocked up on garbage bags.

Even though I have limited storage space, I still shop at Costco for my paper goods (tissues, TP, paper towels), rice, cereal,juices, soda water, cleaning supplies, laundry detergent, contacts, gas, et al. I know if I read all the circulars I could probably find the better deals at the chain stores, but honestly, I don't do that sort of shopping. I would lose my freaking mind if I had to spend my time going from Wal Mart to K-Mart to Target to Costco to Stop and Shop to Shaws all in the name of saving a few dollars on the basics. I find shopping to be a neccessary evil most of the time and if I can get my purchases at a reasonable price and fast, I do.

What I don't buy at Costco are most of the frozen pre-prepared foods. While having a huge box of frozen pizzas may be tempting for those days that I don't feel like cooking, the listed fat grams on most boxes alone are enough to make me run to a cardiologist. I prefer non frozen chicken breast over frozen chicken breast pieces. I make my own burgers from ground beef, I don't use pre-made patties and as much as I like peas, having a 5 pound bag of frozen peas in the freezer would pretty much take up all my freezer space. I can see if people have families that these items can be a time saver and even a money saver. I'd rather pop a frozen pizza in the oven for $5 than get the same size in take out for $10.

What can make Costco a waste a money is if you don't shop wisely. If you have a small family, or like me are single, sometimes these bulk items can go to waste. I happen to love salads and will eat a whole bag of salad mix in a few days. Even if I miss a day or two and the tail end gets a bit mushy, the cost of the salad from Costco is still less than half for half the amount at the grocery store. BUT if you are not a salad eater, only use the product for one meal and then let the rest of it rot, you are better off buying a bag of lettuce at the grocery store. Not everyone needs a 3 lb jar of mayo, you will probably be better off getting your mayo from your local grocery store.

Plus you can't beat the $1.50 for the hot dog and soda as a great quick lunch or snack...:)

Contest at Fabulously Broke

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 15:25:00 +0000

Yes, you can win one of 4 $25 gift cards at one of my favorite blogs-Fabulously Broke in the City. Click here to go to that post. She has a fab site full of great information as well! Please check out the site and enter the contest!

Chair is Ready!

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 20:49:00 +0000

I got a call this morning. My chair has been repaired! Yeah. The total cost was $205.32. Worth it I think. I am looking forward to sitting back in my chair.

Finally A Mystery Shop I Can Do!

noreply@blogger.com (Bouncing Back) — Sat, 13 Mar 2010 21:34:00 +0000

I've been a mystery shopper for a couple years. The problem is when you live in the sticks, there are not too many decent shops. There is one, however, for a vet clinic. I shopped it last year and I will shop it agin. The pet in question needs an exam and I need to save some $$$. The shop will pay for the cost of the visit. I've booked the shop and am pleased it is a "useful" shop.