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New Home for The Dating Blog

2009-07-10T05:56:00.000-07:00

The Dating Blog has moved! We're now located at www.msdatingconsultant.com
and I think you'll going to love it. Check it out and let us know what you think.

Internet Dating Author at Writers in the Sky

2009-07-06T06:53:00.001-07:00

Thanks to Yvonne Perry for having me as a guest on her Writers in the Sky blog yesterday! It was a blast. Yvonne is a wonderful interviewer and has done a lot over the years for writers. I am grateful to know her.

Kevin Jonas Engaged

2009-07-02T05:44:00.000-07:00

Congratulations to Kevin Jonas! He just got engaged to his girlfriend Danielle Deleasa yesterday.

Apparently he surprised her by "showing up at her doorstep in New Jersey early Wednesday morning and dropping down to his knee to ask her to marry him. Presented with a cushion-cut diamond ring that Jonas designed with Jacob & Co."

Nice form, man! Very sweet.

Bradley Cooper and Renee Zellweger Go Out

2009-07-02T05:37:00.000-07:00

As if Bradley Cooper hadn't made himself clear about the fact that he and Jen Aniston are just friends, now he's been spotted out with Renee Zellweger.

I figure that there is one of several reasons for this:

he's playing the field
he's just pals with a lot of gals
he's got a secret romance that he doesn't want anyone to know about so he's seen with these other chicks instead
he's trying to promote his latest movie
he likes being in the tabloids

Or something like that. If you're Jen Aniston these days, either you are blowing off all the tabloid coverage or are ticked that you are constantly being upstaged. Oh the Hollywood life!

Melissa Rycroft Getting Married

2009-06-30T05:52:00.000-07:00

People reports that Bachelor and Dancing With the Stars alum Melissa Rycroft is getting married. She's been dating beau Tye Strickland for "on and off" for over two years.

Nick Lachey and Vanessa Minnillo Break Up

2009-06-28T03:42:00.000-07:00

Can't say this is too much of a surprise: Nick Lachey and Vanessa Minnillo have broken up.

They both seem like nice people and certainly dated for a long time (by Hollywood standards anyhow!) but she was a rebound girl for him. Dontcha think?

Bradley Cooper and Jen Aniston: Just Friends?

2009-06-27T15:26:00.000-07:00

You know, Jennifer Aniston cannot catch a break when it comes to guys. First, it's the up and down thing with John Mayer (or should I say break up to make up thing?) Then it's this latest rumor with Bradley Cooper.

Then met on the set of He's Just Not That Into You. They flirted at a party. They had dinner. But when asked if the two are dating, he says:

"She's a friend of mine. Simply, simply, just a friend."

Now, they could be trying to keep things quiet until they get more serious. But given Jen's romantic history, I don't think this is the case. So I wonder, WHAT is the deal with these guys she's dating? Or is it her? Does she expect too much from a relationship? Sabotage the thing before it can even get off the ground?

What do you think?

Matthew McConaughey to Be a Daddy Again

2009-06-26T08:23:00.000-07:00

Congratulations to Matthew McConaughey and his girlfriend Camila Alves! The two are expecting their second child together.

They have an 11-month old son Levi, and when announcing the new baby said that they "pulled off the greatest miracle in the world one more time."

Congratulations to the happy couple! That's great news indeed.

How Simon Proposed to Alex

2009-06-25T08:14:00.001-07:00

I'm a fan of The Real Housewives of New York, so when I noticed Alex McCord and other celebs talking about how they were proposed to, it certainly caught my eye.

Alex said:

"We were on a nude beach and I rolled over on top of her and said, 'Nothing would make me more happy than if you would spend the rest of your life with me.'" McCord added: "And I remember I said something really inane like, 'Oh, that sounds good.' "

I'm not sure what bothers me more about that statement.... that they were at a nude beach and he rolled on top of her, or that she used the word "inane." Seriously, don't you love the Van Kempens? I think Simon might be my favorite on the show. I'm just saying!

If you're looking for a way to pop the question, you should check out my article for tips to do it up right!

Jon and Kate Gosselin File for Divorce

2009-06-22T14:19:00.000-07:00

It's over. After much speculation, Jon and Kate Gosselin have filed divorce papers today for a legal split at the Bucks County Courthouse in Reading, Pa., Monday afternoon.

Our hearts go out to the entire family.

Online Dating Tee: You Looked So Much Better on Your Profile

2009-06-22T08:59:00.000-07:00

Here's a fun dating shirt you might have missed. The next time you walk into a date, save yourself some time by wearing this:

Various colors and styles available.

Bethenny Frankel in Love

2009-06-22T07:15:00.000-07:00

How much do we love Bethenny Frankel? She's definitely a favorite on the Real Housewives of New York City. When we last saw her (on the finale) she seemed to still be single. But lo' and behold, she says she's in love!

Bethenny's new man is Jason Hoppy. She told People Magazine that, "I’m pretty much certain I’m going to spend the rest of my life with him … I’m really happy.”

So sweet! And we couldn't be happier for her.

Bradley Whitford and Jane Kaczmarek File for Divorce

2009-06-20T06:34:00.000-07:00

Boy was I sorry to hear this news. I'm a huge fan of both Bradley Whitford and Jane Kaczmarek. They're both from Wisconsin, and somehow they really seemed to have their heads in the right place. They are both great actors, too.

They've been married for 16 years, and are now filing for divorce. So sad. We wish them the best going forward.

Ain't Love Grand: Quote from Mignon McLaughlin

2009-06-18T05:43:00.000-07:00

"A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person."

—Mignon McLaughlin

Billy Joel Splits From His Wife

2009-06-17T18:38:00.000-07:00

You know, I really like Billy Joel. He's just one of those guys that you just want to see happy. So that's why it was a shame to hear that he and his wife were splitting.

Granted, there is a huge age difference between the two (he's 60 and she's 27) and sometimes that's hard to pull off. We wish both of them luck as they move on to a new phase in their lives.

How to Meet New People

2009-06-16T08:28:00.000-07:00

Meeting new people can be a challenging thing for singles, especially if most of your pals are married. The good news is that there are more ways to discover new people than ever before. Here are nine of them.

Prepare Your Place for Your Date's First Visit

2009-06-12T13:57:00.000-07:00

The first time you have a date over, you might worry about what to wear or which meal to make. But the state of your house or apartment is equally as important when it comes to the impression you'll make. Here are a few points to consider before having your date over for the first time.

Best Place for Singles to Live

2009-06-12T05:45:00.000-07:00

Just caught this article about the best places for singles to live. I love articles like this, but I also know that even if you don't live in one of these cities, you shouldn't get discouraged.

For example, the city I live in wasn't even on this list, and yet I managed to meet several coffee dates while I was single. I also feel that my city offers a lot in terms of activities. I think a lot of it depends on attitude. Don't you?

Coffee Date Do's and Don'ts

2009-06-10T08:47:00.001-07:00

Coffee dates are the perfect way to meet someone for the first time. Find out how to make the most of your time with these tips.

If the thought of meeting someone new sets your stomach turning and palms sweating, take heart. First meetings can be as easy as sitting down for a cup of coffee. Rather than setting up a full-blown first date, meet your date for coffee instead and limit the time you spend together. This will help with nerves and also let you figure out if you'd like a "real" date with your match. Here are some additional tips.

4th of July Date Ideas

2009-06-10T06:59:00.000-07:00

Independence Day is the perfect time to have a date with your love interest. See a fireworks display, go to a movie, or play with sparklers, among other ideas.

Fourth of July is a day to celebrate the freedoms that the United States offers. But it's also a good day to go on a date. There are plenty of activities that can keep the conversation going between you and your love match. Here are just a few ideas.

Image: sxc.hu.

Kansas City Examiner Review of Internet Dating is Not Like Ordering a Pizza

2009-06-08T06:20:00.001-07:00

Thanks to Angie Rayfield for reviewing my book, Internet Dating is Not Like Ordering a Pizza. Be sure to check out her review!

Finding a Date on Facebook

2009-06-03T06:16:00.000-07:00

Meeting people through Facebook is a cross between getting set up by friends and online dating.

Facebook can be a great place to meet someone new. You'll get introduced to single people through your friend's profiles, and get to know them by posting on their walls or commenting on their photos. You can easily get a sense of someone's personality by reading their profile and finding out about their likes and hobbies.

Here are a few strategies to help you find singles on Facebook.

Love Lessons From Your Puppy

2009-06-03T06:02:00.001-07:00

How to get closer to your mate? Take a few clues from your puppy!

Dogs are known for their loving and loyal ways, but they can also teach a few lessons in love as well. Taking a cue from some of your dog's habits may show you a few new ways to bond with your partner.

Image: CB

First Date Don'ts for Women

2009-06-02T10:03:00.000-07:00

Should you pay for a first date? Talk about where the relationship is going? Here are some first date tips especially for women.

If you're not getting asked out for a second date, maybe your first date etiquette is to blame. Many women don't realize that while you're looking at your date and wondering if he'd be a good husband, he's getting bored because you're not part of the conversation. Translation? He won't ask you out for a second round.

The key to a great first date is simply focusing on the moment and paying attention to your man. Here are some more tips for making your first date the best it can possibly be.

First Date Don'ts for Men

2009-06-01T13:21:00.000-07:00

Dread the thought of a first date? Don't! Instead, prepare ahead of time so you can more easily talk and ask the right questions.

You never have a second chance to make a first impression. On a first date, you'll be judged on the things you say and how you act, so it's a good idea to refresh your knowledge of great conversation tips. Here are a few things you'll want to avoid on a first date.