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2017-10-20T17:33:00.000-07:00

camping activites have been experiencing asurge in popularity in korea, but leaving the comfort of home can be difficult for some. a new vacation trend of caravan camping attemptsto combine the best of both worlds. our paul yi shows us how koreans are discoveringthe great outdoors in style. with the advancing spring-like weather bringingback milder temperatures, many families are taking the weekend off to go camping. this campground in gapyeong county is packedwith cars and tents, but camping equipment is a cumbersome and often costly investmentfor most korean households. "all together with the tent, it cost aroundthree million won, or about 27-hundred u.s.

dollars. but being outdoors with the family and havinga fun time seemed like the better choice." in order to attract new tourists, rental caravanssites have been cropping up on the east coast. it's fast becoming one of the most popularvacation getaways with air conditioning and warm, cozy beds. "it's our first time using a camping car. we came to give our kids a great experienceand it's been so comfortable. it's like you just moved your house here." it's also a family activity that won't breakthe bank.

new caravan rentals cost around 200 to 300thousand won, or an average of 230 u.s. dollars per day. "to popularize a new camping culture, we introducedhigh-end camping cars. it's doing well now." there are currently around 3-hundred-ninetyof these recreational vehicles, or rv campgrounds across the country, with 80 of them in gangwonprovince alone. it's also attracting the attention of localofficials who see it as a boost to the regional economy. "there are many large campgrounds in gangwonprovince. these rental campsites have been establishedto provide a camping experience which many

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car rentals from sydney,camping culture is becoming one of the fastestgrowing activities for the country's leisure industry. one that's gotten ever-more inviting. paul yi, arirang news

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2017-10-18T17:33:00.000-07:00

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2017-10-17T17:33:00.000-07:00

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2017-10-16T17:33:00.000-07:00

hi, i'm mark edgington from l j hooker at gosford and i would like to introduce you to 38 barkala street, lisarow located in a quite cul de sac and convenient to the railway, ourimbah campus shopping centers, beaches, hospitals restaurants and only a few minutes fromthe main gateway, north and south 38 barkala is perfect for commuters,students and those seeking that delicate balance between cosmopolitan and quietlifestyles sent on two levels dual living quarters

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car rentals from sydney airport

2017-10-14T17:33:00.000-07:00

things to watch out for when you rent a car just like the website www.nissan360.com. the big thing is what level of damage you have to pay if something happens.you don't really want to wait till you're at the car rental desk to find that out. you wanna know when you're booking. most of our competitors have a $3,000 excess, ours is much much lower. for our top cover, it's only a little bit more to get a zero excess whereas most other companies are threefour five times that amount to get the equivalent cover. and that is our point of difference. the other thing is, i mean there's alot of extrasinvolve where you get to the counter and and there is a credit card surcharges, registration recovery fees. what's that? i don't know what that is. i have been working in the business for thirty and i still can't explain what it is. you gotta watch out for these little extras and we try and not to have these little extras. we try and go - ok online it says that's what you going to pay,

that's what you going to pay. other people they've got good quality cars but we've got great quality cars. you know the worse thing that we possibly want is someone to be stuck on the side of the road saying - my car's broken down and we just don't get that telephonecall. they've all got all the airbags, all the safety gears

car rentals from sydney airport,all that stuff which we buy. ifyou book a corolla or tarago or a rav you get a corolla, a tarago or a rav. when we serve you at the counter, the car is just meters away and away we go and they walk pass when they walk in, they can see a line of corollas. one of them has got their name on it. and the big joke when they come in they go - oh! i'll have a white one, thanks!

car rental from sydney

2017-10-13T17:33:00.000-07:00

what's up guys? today i'm gonna suprise people as an uber driver. my uber profile is a guy called ming and i'm gonna drive a prius. let's go surprise people, shall we? ok. did you call uber? yeah i'm your uber driver. im batman nice to meet you!

is this for real? i was expecting a prius well, this is my prius. i don't think anyone is gonna believe me! i'm your uber driver i'm getting close where are you at exactly i'm at the starbucks okay, i will be there in just a minute.

excuse me? did you call uber? get in, i am your driver! seriously?! is it fine if i just like squish your like. yeah, it's fine, you can see whatever you want. hey nice to meet you. i'm at panera bread

oh yeah i see it hold on i'm coming just come outside alright, sky. umm yeah, i was looking for a prius. i'm your uber driver! this is so crazy! have you been in a lamborghini before. it's my first time is there any guns installed?

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car rental from sydney to melbourne

2017-10-12T17:33:00.000-07:00

no birds...it's family owned and started in australia. a great deal because not only are we cheap but we've got great quality cars. forinternational travelers they've all heard of bondi beach, just down the road from our sydney city branch.we are close to the airport. they will come into town they find us and off they go, takes one or two minutes to book online. when we serve you at the counter, the car is just meters away. for our top cover, it's only a little bit more to get zero excess where most of the company's are three four five times that amount to get equivalent cover. our special that we run is the seven day special $25 a day. we try and make itstraight forward with our six branches

car rental from sydney to melbourne,in perth and sydney, the car is where theoffice is. what you see is what you get.

there is no credit card surcharge. there is no registration recovery, premium location, airport fee. we try and go - okay - online, it says thatâ€™s what youâ€™re going pay. thatâ€™s what you going to pay!

car rental from sydney to gold coast

2017-10-11T17:33:00.000-07:00

finally, the boots and jeans kind of weather. leticia: we are getting pumped up. if you are looking for a fun halloween party for your entire family, there is one in elk grove tonight benefiting children in the sacramento

region. the founder joins us to talk about the big event and the fun in store. what have you brought with you this morning? we have rapunzel, we have aerial -- ariel.

leticia: nice characters here. this is such a fun party you have in store. tell us what's going on in elk grove. for people who want something different to do, we are emphasizing the superhero theme. we don't have anything scary.

all caps of people coming. people can take pictures with them. we are also showing "the avengers" and "the nightmare before christmas," doing fun halloween things. leticia: for people who do not know about your organization,

you dress up in costume year-round to help children in the community. we do a therapeutic thing. we go to where kids are really traumatized, kids with cancer, kids who have been taken out of their homes, and we teach kids to find the hero within them so

they can get through this, give them a sense of self efficacy to get through these traumas. leticia: year-round, people can be superheroes, and you want people to know this is a fun and family-friendly event. absolutely. leticia: details of where this

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2017-10-10T17:33:00.000-07:00

tell us your name, who you are clinton aka cliff. i think it started off as clifton. as you can see, this isn't my first time on a plane. *laughs* i've done this before so i'm ready to go back the way i was about 3 hours a go. lion singing: all of the lights *chris imitating disco music*

disco. disco. disco. just received some new res denim gear. res denim are a melbourne based denim brand. and they've been sponsoring us for a while now. we got brand new gear for the band members and the crew for us to be able to rock on stage. l-fresh the lion & band performing the song "takeover (feat. mirrah)" how'd you feel man? awesome! i had a good set up. comfortable on stage.

smashed it. we killed it man. we love l-fresh the lion. wooooo! this is my tent backstage and look what i have inside. woah, woah woah. a sleeping dj. so i've just dropped off the hire car. i'm back at melbourne airport. we road tripped from... well actually, we flew in. 6am flight. picked up the van. drove in about one-and-a-half hours to two hours.

played a show. drove back one-and-a-half to two hours and dropped off the car so i'm walking back to the hotel now. everyone's probably chillin. i'm still out here working but i'm looking forward to my bed. it's been an eventful day bendigo. you're amazing. canberra tomorrow and then bunbury after that. tell us about the end of the day, man.

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exhausted it's um i don't even want to think about how long we've been awake for. yeah, it's the end of a very long day but a very good day, that's for sure.

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2017-10-09T17:33:00.000-07:00

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2017-10-06T17:33:00.000-07:00

the 9 nobirds well that's interesting, you guys know the secret already, it's actually a bit anticlimactic it's the whole thing of no frills so.... no-birds is a great deal because not only are we cheap but we've got great quality cars and that's really the no bird philosophy which retests has come fromour dad who started it all so.... he's this drum heading to us. bayswater started when our father who started the company. he started renting out the cars from our family home in bayswater which is a suburb in perth. we started with bayswater car rental and now most people know us as nobirds car rentals so.... it's evolved. it's not rent a bomb, it's what people demand nowadays and secondary to that the price, the price is just cheaper than anybody else.

our main fleet is corolla. we peak at about 3000 in summer. i suppose for what we do as well our size with family owned australian business. and we've got another brother, he's in perth, we've got four branches in perth so it's a bit of a handful at times for him. we treat the staff like our extended family

car rental from sydney airport,and our customers as well. we can tell the staff, serve the client like it was your brother or your mother. i've got four kids, three of we'll see, we'll see if there's another generation, if there's interest i suppose. he's got my back, i've got his back and we try and have our customer's back.

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2017-10-05T17:33:00.000-07:00

hi, i'm mike reifeiss owner and operator of aall in limo service. been in business for 8 years in san diegoand temecula based. primarily run wine tours, brew tours bachelorette parties, weddings andnights on the town. it's a fun and affordable way to getfrom point a and point b safely and have fun while you're doing it. if youwere to hire us for a wine tasting tour we'd pick you up in san diego, take you to temecula, stop at a couple differentwineries, have lunch, and than head back to san diego.

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2017-10-04T17:33:00.000-07:00

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2017-10-03T17:33:00.000-07:00

standby! quiet please on the floor â€“ standby! [technicians quietly chat] >> hold it, hold it >> five four three [music] >> letâ€™s all raise our glasses to our guest of honourmiss emily kimberly

[applause] >> oh! >> emily! we are all looking forwardto having you grace us with your presence for many years to come. [whistles] >> thank you gordon,i cannot tell yâ€™all how deeply moved i am.

i never in my wildest dreams imagined that i would be the object of so much genuine affection. >> oh-ohh.. >> it makes it all the more difficult for me to saywhat i'm now going to say. yes. i do feel it's time to set the record straight. you see, i didn't come here just as an administrator, dr. brewster. i came to this hospital to settle an old score

>> what score? >> now you all know that my father was a brilliant man he built this hospital. what you don't know is that to his family he was an unmerciful tyrant an absolute dodo bird. >> oh no not live >> get her back to the prompter >>... drove my mother, his wife, to - to drink in fact she, uh, she went riding one time and lost all her teeth

>> what?! what? >> .. son edward became a recluse, and the oldest daughter, the pretty one, the charming one became pregrant when she was fifteen years old and was driven out of the house. in fact, she was so terrified that she would, uh, that, uh, that, that, that the baby daughter would bear the stigma of illegitimacy thatshe, she - she decided to change her name and she contracted a disfiguring disease after moving to tangiers which is where she raised the, the, the little girl as her sister.

but her one ambition in life >> any preference to shots on this one, rita? >> ..was to become a nurse, so she returned to the states and joined the staff right here at southwest general. >> uh! >> when she worked here, she knew she had to speak out wherever she saw injustice and inhumanity god save us - you do understand that, don't you, dr. brewster?

>> i never laid a hand on her! >> yes you did. and she was shunned by all you nurses, too... >> give me something, one,i donâ€™t need backs two and three, go left and right >> .. what do you call it.. >> no, two go left three go right! >> ..to you doctors who found her outspokenness threatening

but she was deeply deeply deeply deeply deeply deeply loved by her brother >> her brother? >> it was this brother who, on the day of her death, swore to the good lord above that he would follow in her footstepsand, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and just

just, just, just, just, just, just, just, just >> don't don't don't don't don't panic >> just owe it all up to her. but on her terms. >> god here come the terms >> as a woman and just as proud to be a woman as she ever was. for i am not emily kimberly

the daughter of dwayne and alma kimberly no iâ€™m not i'm edward kimberly the reckless brother of my sister anthea [screams] >> holy christ! >> it's a phoney!

>> ..iâ€™m edward kimberly who has finally vindicated his sister's good name. i'm edward kimberly. edward kimberly. and i'm not mentally ill >> i'll be damned >> .. but proud and lucky, and strong enough to be the woman that was the best part of my manhood. the best part of myself.

>> that is one nutty hospital >> i knew there was a reason she didnâ€™t like me

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2017-10-02T17:33:00.000-07:00

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2017-09-30T17:33:00.000-07:00

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2017-05-04T11:20:00.000-07:00

a rich man lives in a big city near the sea.he has got three daughters and three sons. one daughter is called 'beauty' because sheis very beautiful. the other two daughters are called rosalindand hortensia. they are lazy and unfriendly.they like going out and having fun. they both want to find a rich husband.they do not like beauty because she is beautiful.

wemen sex, beauty has got long red hair.she is kind and friendly. she likes staying at home and reading books.she also likes playing the piano. beauty's father is a merchant.one day he loses all his money because his ship is lost at sea.'my dear children,' he says sadly, 'i haven't

got much money.we're poor. we must leave this big house and go and live in the country.''oh, dear!' say the two sisters. 'we're poor - this is terrible!''what bad luck!' say the three brothers. 'we have to work now,' says beauty's father.'work?' say the two sisters. 'no, we don't want to work! and we don't want to live inthe country.' they start to cry. beauty is sad but she says, 'let's not cry!we can work and be happy without money.' the family goes to the country and lives ina small house. beauty gets up at four o'clock every morningto clean the house and cook. then she washes the family's clothes in theriver.

the three brothers work in the country.rosalind and hortensia do not work. they do nothing all day.they sleep all morning and walk in the woods in the afternoon.'i'm unhappy,' says rosalind. 'i don't like the country because there's nothing to do.''we can't go to the theatre and wear nice clothes,' says hortensia. 'and we haven'tgot any friends.' 'look at beauty,' says rosalind angrily. 'sheworks and she's happy in this terrible place.' beauty's father says, 'dear beauty, you worka lot and you're always happy. you're a wonderful daughter.'a year later beauty's father gets an important letter.he calls his six children and says, 'listen

to this letter:'you ship is here. it is not lost at sea!please come to the port. everyone is happy. 'this is wonderful news!'say the three sons. 'yes,' says their father, 'the ship with mygoods is in the port.' 'we're rich again!' says rosalind. 'we canbuy beautiful clothes.' 'we can go back to our big house in the city,'says hortensia. 'i must go to the port today,' says her fatherhappily. 'oh, father,' says hortensia, 'bring me somenew clothes and new hats.' 'yes,' says rosalind, 'and some new shoesand jewels.'

beauty's father looks at her and says, 'whatdo you want, beauty?' 'please don't spend your money, father,' saysbeauty. 'just bring me a rose.' beauty's father gets to the port and findshis ship. but there are no goods on it - it is empty!'what bad luck!' he says angrily. 'i must go home and tell the children the bad news.'on the way home he crosses a big forest. it is snowing and windy. he is lost.'where am i?' he thinks. 'where can i go? i'm very cold and tired.'he hears some wolves and he is afraid. suddenly he sees a big castle in the forest.and there are lights in the windows. 'oh, good!' he thinks. 'perhaps the peoplein the castle can help me.'

he takes his horse to the stable near thecastle. he knocks on the big door of the castle butno one answers. he waits outside the door. then he opens thedoor and goes inside. he sees a big hall with a fireplace. thereis a long table with a lot of food on it. he is cold and sits near the fireplace.'how strange,' he thinks, 'there's no one here.'he is hungry and sits down at the table and starts to eat.then he is sleepy. he finds a warm, comfortable bed and falls asleep.the next morning he finds some new clothes near his bed.'how nice! new clothes!' he thinks. 'a kind

person lives in this castle.'he looks out of the window and is surprised. 'it's not snowing and it's a beautiful day!'he thinks. 'and there are flowers in the garden.' he gets dressed and goes to the hall. thereare biscuits, chocolate and milk on the long table.he sits down and says, 'thank you for this lovely breakfast.' he looks round but seesno one. he eats and decides to go home. he goes tothe stable and gets his horse. in the garden he sees some roses.'beauty wants a rose,' he thinks. he takes a lovely one.suddenly he hears a terrible noise. he turns round and sees an ugly monster.chapter three - the beast

'you're a bad man!' cries the beast angrily.'you come to my castle and i save your life. you eat here and you sleep here.and then you take one of my beautiful roses. for this you must die!'beauty's father starts to cry. oh, sir, i'm sorry! you're very kind.please don't be angry with me. this rose is for one of my daughters.''my name is not "sir'' - it is beast. please call me by my name.you talk about your daughters. then one of your daughters must die in your place.''oh, no!' says beauty's father. 'they're young and they don't want to die.''then you must come back here and die,' says the beast. 'i can wait three months. do youagree to come back?'

beauty's father agrees to come back.'my daughters must not die,' he thinks. 'i want to go home and see my children for thelast time.' before beauty's father leaves the castle thebeast talks to him. 'i'm not had,' says the beast. 'go back toyour bedroom. there is a big chest there. fill it with everything you want and it isyours.' beauty's father fills the chest with a lotof gold. then he gets on his horse and goes home.when he is at home he gives the rose to beauty. 'take this rose, beauty,' he says sadly. 'letme tell you about my terrible adventure.' he tells his children about the empty shipin the port, the castle in the forest and

the beast.rosalind and hortensia are angry with beauty. they say, 'father must die because you likeroses, beauty!' 'no,' says beauty, 'father is not going todie. i'm going to the beast's castle!' 'no, dear sister,' say her three brothers.'we're going to his castle and we're going to kill him!''no, that's not possible,' says their father. 'the beast is very big and strong. i'm old- i must go and die. but beauty does not agree. she decides togo to the beast's castle. 'no, father,' she says, 'you must not go.i want to go!' 'never, my dear beauty!' says her father.'i'm not afraid,' says beauty. 'you must live

and look after my brothers and sisters. theyneed you.' beauty's father thinks for a moment. thenhe says sadly, 'alright, beauty. you can go.' beauty's brothers are very sad, but hortensiaand rosalind are not. the next morning beauty and her father goto the beast's castle. inside the castle they see a long table witha lot of good food on it. beauty and her father are not hungry, butthey sit down and eat. suddenly they hear a loud noise.'what's that terrible noise?' asks beauty. 'the beast is coming,' says her father.beauty sees the beast's ugly face and she is terrified'oh, this beast is really terrible!' she thinks.

the beast looks at her and says, 'you're abrave girl.' 'i'm very sorry about the rose from your garden...,'says beauty quietly. the beast looks at beauty's father and says,'you must go away tomorrow. and don't come back! do you understand?'beauty's father looks at the beast and then at his daughter.'oh, beauty,' he says, 'please go home! let me stay here!''no, father,' says beauty. 'we must be brave. we're both tired - let's go and sleep now.tomorrow morning you can go home to my brothers and sisters.'that night beauty has a dream. in her dream a good fairy says,'you're a good girl, beauty. and you've got

a kind heart.you want to save your father's life. you're going to be very happy one day.'chapter four - life at the castle the next morning beauty's father leaves thecastle. he is crying. 'don't cry, father,' says beauty. 'remember,i love you.' 'goodbye, dear beauty,' says her father.beauty is terrified. 'the beast is going to eat me tonight,' she thinks.'i want to enjoy my last day. i'm going to visit the garden of the castle.'she goes to see the big garden and she is surprised. it is a beautiful garden with alot of lovely flowers. then she goes to see the big castle. she looksin all the rooms.

on one door she sees this sign: beauty's roomshe opens the door and sees a lovely room. there is a nice bed and a mirror on the wall.beauty looks round and thinks, 'there's a piano and a lot of books for me.how strange! perhaps the beast doesn't want to eat me tonight.'she takes a book and starts to read it. suddenly she sees these words on the pages:welcome, beauty! you're the queen here. tell me everything you want.'i only want to see my poor father,' says beauty.suddenly she sees her father in the mirror on the wall.he is very sad. she also sees her home and hortensia and rosalind. they are happy withoutbeauty.

'the beast is kind to me,' she thinks. 'whyam i afraid of him?' at 12 o'clock she has lunch. after lunch shegoes to her room. 'what a beautiful piano!' thinks beauty. 'iwant to play it.' she plays some wonderful music on the piano.then she looks at all the books in her room. some of them have got pictures and othershave not. she takes a book about flowers and looks atthe pictures of different flowers. then she sees pictures of roses of all colours. 'now i want to go to the garden and look atthe lovely roses,' she thinks. she goes to the garden and stays there allafternoon. she looks at the flowers and feels

happy.at dinner time she sits down at the long table and then she hears the beast coming. she isterrified. 'beauty, can i sit here with you?' asks thebeast. 'you're the lord of the castle,' says beauty.'and you're the queen,' says the beast. 'can i ask you a question?''yes, of course,' says beauty quietly. 'am i very ugly?' asks the beast.beauty does not know what to say. she looks at him and thinks for a moment.'well, yes you are!' says beauty. 'but you're kind and polite.'the beast looks at beauty and smiles. 'you're right, i'm terribly ugly but i'm kind.this is your home now, beauty. please don't

be sad!''some men are handsome but they're not kind,' says beauty. 'i prefer you because you'vegot a good heart. 'thank you, beauty,' says the beast.now beauty is not afraid of the beast and she eats a big dinner.the beast looks at her and asks a question. do you want to marry me, beauty?'what a question! beauty is terrified. 'what can i say?' thinks beauty.she is silent for a moment and then she says, 'no, i'm sorry i don't want to marry you.'the beast is angry and beauty is afraid. then he goes out of the room and says, 'goodbye,beauty.' chapter five - the magic ringbeauty spends three months at the beautiful

castle. every day she reads books and playsthe piano. she walks everywhere in the big garden. shelikes the tall trees and the flowers of different colours.she puts beautiful flowers in the rooms of the castle. sometimes she makes perfume fromthe flowers. but the days are long and she is often lonely.beauty often thinks about her father, her sisters and her brothers.'i want to see my father again,' she thinks sadly. 'and i want to see my home again too.'the beast goes to see her every evening at dinner time, at nine o'clock.they talk about interesting things and are happy together. beauty is not afraid of hisugly face now.

every evening the beast asks beauty the samequestion: 'beauty, do you want to marry me?'and every evening beauty answers, 'no.' one day beauty says, 'why do you ask me thesame question every evening?' 'because i hope to hear a different answer,'says the beast. 'i'm sorry, i don't want to marry you,' saysbeauty. the beast is very sad.'but i'm always going to be your friend,' she says.'you're a wonderful friend,' says the beast. 'and you are too,' says beauty smiling.'i know i'm terribly ugly,' says the beast. 'but i love you a lot. i'm very happy withyou. please, don't leave me!'

beauty's face becomes red and she is quietfor a moment. 'in the mirror of my room,' says beauty, 'isee my poor father. he's sad and lonely. he thinks i'm dead. mysisters are married and my brothers are away. i want to see my father for the last time.can i go and see him, please?' 'yes, you can go and see your father,' saysthe beast. 'but i'm going to be very sad without you.''oh, thank you!' says beauty happily. 'please don't be sad, beast. i'm going to come backin a week.' 'alright,' says the beast. 'you can visityour father tomorrow morning. but remember, you must come back in a week.before you come back put this ring on a table

near your bed. it's a magic ring. goodbye,beauty.' chapter six - the sisters' planthe next morning beauty wakes up in her bedroom in her father's house. she gets up and goesdownstairs. when her father sees her he cries, 'beauty,is that you? how wonderful! my daughter is well and she's here!'beauty is very happy and hugs her father. 'get dressed quickly and then tell me aboutthe beast!' says her father happily. she goes to her room and finds a chest fullof beautiful clothes. 'this is a present from the beast!' says beauty to her father.he's very nice and gives me presents every day.' she chooses some lovely clothes.'i want to give these lovely clothes to rosalind

and hortensia,' she says.when she says this the chest disappears! 'the beast is watching you,' says beauty'sfather. 'these beautiful clothes are for you and not for your sisters.'suddenly the chest comes back again. that morning rosalind and hortensia come tovisit their sister. they are both very unhappy. 'oh, beauty,' says rosalind, 'i'm unhappy.''why are you unhappy, rosalind?' asks beauty. 'oh, it's a long story,' says rosalind.'please tell me,' says beauty. 'my husband is handsome and he spends allday in front of a mirror. he never looks at me or talks to me.''oh, dear, that's a big problem,' says beauty. hortensia says, 'my husband is very clever,but he doesn't like anyone, and no one likes

him.''i can never invite my friends to lunch or dinner because he doesn't like them.''we've got a lot of problems with our husbands,' they say.'my poor sisters!' says beauty. 'i'm very sorry.''tell us about the beast,' says hortensia. oh, the beast is not a bad man,' says beauty.'he's very kind. i live in his beautiful castle and i'm the queen.i don't work. i read, play the piano and walk in the garden.every evening the beast comes to see me at dinner and we talk about a lot of things.it's wonderful.' the two sisters are very angry and they goto the garden.

'beauty wears lovely clothes and shoes,' saysrosalind. 'she's like a queen. she's very happy. why is she lucky? and whyare we unlucky?' 'you're right, rosalind,' says hortensia.'we're not very lucky. but maybe we can be lucky! beauty has to returnto the beast in a week, or he's going to get angry and eat her!''then we must keep her here,' says rosalind. 'then the beast is going to get angry.'during the week the two sisters are kind to beauty. they talk and laugh with her.they walk together in the country. beauty is happy with her sisters.'rosalind and hortensia love me,' she thinks. 'they're good sisters and i love them a lot.'at the end of the week beauty says, 'i must

go back to the beast's castle.' but her sistersstart to cry. 'oh, beauty,' says rosalind, 'please staywith us another week. we need you.' 'yes, beauty,' says hortensia, 'please don'tleave us. we have fun with you and we love you.''yes,' says rosalind, 'stay with us! we can do a lot of things together.'beauty does not know what to do. she decides to stay another week.chapter seven - the dream the beast is going to be very sad withoutme,' beauty thinks. 'but i want to stay with my family for a fewmore days. then i'm going to go back to him.' beauty thinks about the beast. she misseshim.

ten days later beauty dreams about the beast.in her dream the beast is on the grass in the garden of the castle.and he's going to die! 'beauty, whispers the beast, 'today is thetenth day and you're not here. i can't live without you. i can't eat or drink.'beauty wakes up and thinks, 'the poor beast is going to die without me! i must go backto him.' she takes the ring and puts it on a tablenear her bed. 'the beast is ugly but he's very kind,' shethinks. 'why don't i marry him? i'm happy with him.my sisters have handsome, clever husbands - but they're not happy.'beauty falls asleep and the next morning she

wakes up at the beast's castle.today i'm going to wear a beautiful dress,' beauty thinks.at nine o'clock in the evening she goes to dinner and waits for the beast. but he doesn'tcome to see her. 'what's happening?' beauty thinks. 'where'sthe beast? why isn't he here?' 'beast!' she cries. 'beast, where are you!answer me!' she opens the doors of all the rooms and lookseverywhere in the castle. but she cannot find him.suddenly she remembers her dream. she runs to the garden and sees the beast on the grass.'oh, no!' she cries. 'is he dead?' she listens to his heart and it is beating. 'good! he'snot dead!' she thinks.

she gets some cold water from the river andwets his face. the beast slowly opens his eyes.'beauty,' he whispers, 'i'm dying... but i'm happy because you're here.''no, beast,' cries beauty. 'don't die! you must live and become my husband. i love youand i can't live without you.' chapter eight - the princesuddenly all the lights of the castle and the garden, turn on.there are beautiful fireworks in the sky. beauty is surprised and looks at the castle.then she turns round and looks at the beast. what a surprise! she sees a handsome youngman. 'thank you, beauty,' says the young man. 'thespell is broken!'

'but where is the beast?' asks beauty. 'iam the beast!' says the prince. 'i don't understand,' says beauty. 'who areyou?' 'i'm a prince and this is my castle,' saysthe young man. 'sometimes a bad witch puts a spell on a princeand only true love can break the spell. now i know your love is true.'the prince takes her hand and says, 'do you want to marry me, beauty?'beauty looks at the handsome prince and says, 'yes, i do!'beauty and the prince go to the castle. when she opens the door she is surprised.'my family! you're all here!' cries beauty. she is happy when she sees her family. theytalk and laugh together.

suddenly she sees the good fairy from herdream. 'beauty,' says the good fairy, 'you've gota kind heart and you're going to marry the prince and become a princess!'then the good fairy looks at beauty's two sisters.'you're both bad, lazy and unkind,' says the fairy. 'you don't love anyone!'the fairy says some magic words and suddenly rosalind and hortensia become statues.'oh, no!' cries beauty. 'my sisters are statues!' 'your sisters have got hearts of stone,' saysthe fairy. 'now they can't move, but they can see andhear everything. when they understand their mistakes they canbecome rosalind and hortensia again.'

the next day beauty and the prince get married.everyone dances and sings in the castle.

it is a happy day. people give flowers tobeauty and the prince. the prince sees tears in beauty's eyes andsays, 'don't cry, my beauty. we're going to be very happy together!'

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hare krishna hare krishna krishna krishna hare hare| hare rama hare rama rama rama hare hare|| we shall now talk of the principles behindthe social system of varnashrama. first i 'll tell you something about the fallof a living entity and his original spiritual nature original swabhava.ok. kã¥ã±ã«a has got loving propensities with

no sex life, his pleasure potency, ã‡rã©matã© rã¤dhã¤rã¤ã«ã©.similarly, because we are part and parcel of kã¥ã±ã«a, we have also got this lovingpropensity. so this is svabhava. kã¥ã±ã«a's name is acyuta. he never fallsdown. but we are prone to fall down, to be under the material nature... prakã¥teã¹ kriyamã¤ã«ã¤ni.we are now under the influence of prakã¥ti.

prakã¥teã¹ kriyamã¤ã«ã¤ni guã«aiã¹ karmã¤ã«isarvaã§aã¹ [bg. 3.27]. prakã¥ti's composed of three qualities, goodness,passion and ignorance. so we capture one of the qualities. that is the cause, kã¤raã«aã guã«a-sanga [bg. 13.22]. kã¤raã«aã guã«a-sanga guã«a-saã¬ga. means associating with differentquality. guna-saã¬ga asya jã©vasya, of the living entity. that is the cause. one canask: "if the living entity is as good as god, why one living entity hashas become dog, andone living entity has become god, demigod, brahmã¤?"the reason is guã«a-saã¬ga asya. asya jã©vasya guã«a-saã¬ga. because he's associating witha particular guã«a. sattva-guã«a, rajo-guã«a, tamo-guã«a.

those who are captured by the sattva-guã«a,sattva-guã«a, they are intelligent. they have got knowledge. just like brã¤hmaã«a. and thosewho are captured by the rajo-guã«a, they are busy in material activities. and those whohave captured tamo-guã«a, they are lazy and sleepy. that's all. these are the symptoms.tamo-guã«a means they're very lazy and sleepy. rajo-guã«a means very active, but active likemonkey. just like monkey's very active, but they're all dangerous. you'll never see inactive.whenever it will sit down, it will make gat gat gat. some noise. so you mean, our original swabhava is lost as we have come in contact with the modes.yes. that is also called material prakriti

while we were originally non-material or spiritualmeans aprakrita. hm hum.. guã«a means quality, mode. so prã¤kã¥ta meansthis material prakã¥ti, and spiritual means aprã¤kã¥ta.so the prã¤kã¥ta-guã«a. so long we are in this material world, infected by the materialqualities, sattva-guã«a, rajo-guã«a, tamo-guã«a, that is prã¤kã¥ta life, not aprã¤kã¥ta. so as i understand, if we want to get backto our original swabhava spiritual nature, we need to get above the modes of materialnature. precisely. its all about getting back to ouroriginal swabhava. but owing to gunas it gets

covered. thatâ€™s why we are talking aboutthe gunas first. i see.. we have to go above the gunas right?yes. but first we have to come to mode of goodness.hmhm. the material world is conducted by three modesâ€”the modes of goodness, modes of passion, and modesof ignorance. so one has to come to the platform of themodes of goodness. by training, it is possible. but there are two kinds of training trainingprocess. just like if you want to go up, there aretwo vehicles or process.

suppose you have to go one hundred steps.you go by step by step or take the process of lift. within a second, you come up.so the bhakti-yoga process is like that. bhakti-yoga process means if you take to this process,then immediately, very quickly, within a second, you come to the top floor. otherwise, youhave to go by step by step, one step, two step. although both the process leading tothe target, to the topmost floor, the one is very slow and the other is very quick,immediate. just like another example: if there is fog. you have got experience, sometimesthere is fog. you cannot see even a person one yard off from you. so there are so manyprocesses to take precaution in the fog. but somehow or other, if the sun is little strong,immediately, the fog is over. so similarly,

to purify ourself one process is scheduled: tapasã¤ brahmacaryeã«aã§amena ca damena ca [sb 6.1.13]. undergoing tapasya, austerity, brahmacaryeã«a... brahmacaryeã«ameans controlling sex indulgence or sex impulse. brahmacarya means practically no sex life.tapasã¤ brahmacaryeã«a ã§amena, damena [sb 6.1.13], by controlling the senses, by controllingthe mind. tyã¤gena, by giving up in charity. another process means this kã¥ã±ã«a consciousness.ã§ã¥ã«vatã¤ã sva-kathã¤ã¹ kã¥ã±ã«aã¹ puã«ya-ã§ravaã«a-kã©rtanaã¹hã¥dy antaã¹ stho hy abhadrã¤ã«i vidhunoti suhã¥t satã¤m[sb 1.2.17] simply by this process,

abhadreã±u, naã±ã¶a-prã¤yeã±u, all the dirtythings within heart, being almost cleansed, you come to the stage of goodness.so simply by hearing about kã¥ã±ã«a, you are promoted immediately to the platform of goodness. so what are the symptoms of goodness? kã¤ma-lobhã¤dayaã§ca ye. so to become kã¥ã±ã«a conscious means immediatelyâ€”thatis the testâ€”immediately he will become free from lust and greediness. therefore we advise our students, "voluntarily,you try or you become free from these things: illicit sex, intoxication, meat-eating, andgambling." because indulging in these four things, you'll remain in darkness.so voluntarily you have to try to give up

these bad habits, and at the same time, tomaintain yourself on the platform, you have to chant sixteen rounds: hare kã¥ã±ã«a, harekã¥ã±ã«a, kã¥ã±ã«a kã¥ã±ã«a, hare hare/ hare rã¤ma, hare rã¤ma, rã¤ma rã¤ma, hare hare.this is the process. then the result will be this: ceta etair anã¤viddham. so therefore by this process, ã§ã¥ã«vatã¤ã sva-kathã¤ã¹ kã¥ã±ã«aã¹puã«ya-ã§ravaã«a-kã©rtanaã¹ hã¥dy antaã¹ stho hy abhadrã¤ã«ividhunoti suhã¥t satã¤m [sb 1.2.17]naã±ã¶a-prã¤yeã±v abhadreã±u nityaã bhã¤gavata-sevayã¤...[sb 1.2.18]

this is the process. nityam, daily. or twenty-fourhours. twenty-four hours. by studying ã‡rã©mad-bhã¤gavatam or associating with devotees, bhã¤gavata-sevayã¤...bhakti, bhagavaty uttama-ã§loke bhaktir bhavati naiã±ã¶hikã©.then the supreme personality of godhead, bhagavaty uttama-ã§loke, bhaktir bhavati naiã±ã¶hikã©,devotional service becomes strong and fixed up. when you are able to stop this pinching inyour heart by these two modes of material nature, passion and greediness-tadã¤ cetaetair anã¤viddhaã sthitaã sattve prasã©dati-prasã©dati, then you become joyful. that is the stageof joyfulness. brahma-bhã¼taã¹ prasannã¤tmã¤

so the next stage is brahma-bhã¼ta [sb 4.30.20].so brahma-bhã¼ta stage means na ã§ocati na kã¤ã¬kã±ati. then you will be able to see everyone on thespiritual platform. paã«ã²itã¤ã¹ sama-darã§inaã¹ [bg. 5.18]. then you are learned. samaã¹ sarveã±u bhã¼teã±u mad-bhaktiã labhateparã¤m [bg. 18.54]. then real, pure devotional service begins. then we become completelyfit to serve kã¥ã±ã«a. kã¥ã±ã«a accepts your service at that time.aaha.. if we follow the rules and regulations givenby spiritual master, ã§ã¤stra, then gradually, graduallybut, we should be very cautious that mã¤yã¤

may not attack us.because she is always ready to attack. rajas-tamo-bhã¤vã¤ã¹ [sb 1.2.19].even in goodness also, mã¤yã¤, mayathere is mã¤yã¤.therefore in the material platform, even goodness is not pure.aaha.. therefore there is another stage, which iscalled ã§uddha-sattva. hmhm.goodness is sattva, sattva-guã«a. there is another stage, transcendental stage, whichis called ã§uddha-sattva. sattvaã viã§uddhaã vã¤sudeva-ã§abditam.that is called vã¤sudeva stage, and in the vã¤sudeva stage, vã¤sudeva, kã¥ã±ã«a, appears.you can see kã¥ã±ã«a.

we can see?yes. these are the processes. we can see krishna at the vasudeva stage?yes. interesting. when you come to the pure state of sattva-guã«a,that is transcendental stage, spiritual life. pure sattva-guã«a means there is no more attackof the other two guã«as. that is pure, ã§uddha-sattva. that is called ã§uddha-sattva, pure goodness.in that stage one can understand what is kã¥ã±ã«a. so, sattvaã viã§uddhaã vã¤sudeva sarve,that stage is called vã¤sudeva. vã¤sudeva means that vã¤sudeva, kã¥ã±ã«a, appears. that'swhy kã¥ã±ã«a's father's name was vasudeva.

i see.. ! i see.. ! this is so encouraging. yes.you can see krishna. but prabhuji, why areyou stressing so muchto come to the mode of goodness if we want to go to shuddha satva, the pure mode of goodness?one has to become brahmana. then he can understand the spiritual life.brahmana! yes. brahmana. the vedic culture means everyone is giventhe chance to become first-class brã¤hmaã«a. that is called brahminical culture. everyoneis given. because without becoming a brã¤hmaã«a, nobody can understand what is god.

brã¤hmaã«as, they are interested for spiritualadvancement of life. kã±atriyas are not so much interested, neither the vaiã§yas, andwhat to speak of the ã§ã¼dras. and in the kali-yuga almost everyone is a ã§ã¼dra.so how they can be interested? therefore training should be given how to become brã¤hmaã«a.then he'll be interested. otherwise, nobody is interested. so one must be a brahmana.. a first classman. but we are after love of god. please tellme about that. what is the secret to learning to love god?secret of learning god?

learning to love.yes. the secretâ€”that he must be a first-class man. otherwise he does not understand whatis god, and what to speak of loving him. but why become a brahmin? brã¤hmaã«a means there is chance of understandingbrahman. brahma jã¤nã¤ti iti brã¤hmaã«a. and this human life is meant for inquiring aboutbrahman. athã¤to brahma jijã¯ã¤sã¤. remember?yes. brahmana means satva-guna. thatâ€™s why weare talking of satva-guna. oh ho.. brahmana means satva gune.yes. but why stick to the sattva-guã«a principle?what is the problem with the tamo guna or

rajo guna?because otherwise it will take very very long time. so therefore the process is to bring fromthe tamo-guã«a to rajo-guã«a, and from rajo-guã«a to sattva-guã«a, and then surpass sattva-guã«a.that is spiritual platform. this is the way. so those who are trying to come to the platformof spiritual realization, god realization, they must stick to the sattva-guã«a principle.otherwise it will take very, very long time.therefore in the bhagavad-gã©tã¤ you will find the statement, bahã¼nã¤ã janmanã¤m antejã¯ã¤navã¤n mã¤ã prapadyate: [bg. 7.19]"after many, many births, when one is actually wise..."wise means in the sattva-guã«a platform. "then

he surrenders to kã¥ã±ã«a." then the beginningof spiritual life is there, and he may finish this course of spiritual understanding evenin this life, simply by understanding kã¥ã±ã«a. janma karma me divyaã yo jã¤nã¤ti tattvataã¹,tyaktvã¤ dehaã punar janma naiti mã¤m eti kaunteya... [bg. 4.9].everything is there,described. does it make sense to you? yes. prabhuji, it makes sense. and i understandthe importance of coming to the platform of satva-guna. i never knew how important itis to come to satva-guna. in other words to become a brahmana. as i understand, comingto satva-guna and becoming a brahmana is not about the classes its about understandingthe spiritual truth the spiritual knowledge.

yes. exactly. a brahmana can understand. othersits difficult for them. prabhuji, you say that everyone must be giventraining to become a brahmin. but some say that those who are not born in brahmana familiesthey are not brahmanas. what's right version? oh you are talking about the smarta-vidhi. according to smã¤rta-vidhi, unless one changeshis body, he cannot be purified. that impression is going on in india, that unless one is bornin hindu family or born in brã¤hmaã«a family, kã±atriya, he cannot accept ..he cannot beaccepted as brã¤hmaã«a, kã±atriya, vaiã§ya, ã§ã¼dra, like that. but according to vedicliterature, that is not sanctioned. it is... to become a son of brã¤hmaã«a and to havethe privilege of becoming a brã¤hmaã«a, certainly

there is. just like a boy born in a medicalman's family, so he has got a chance, better chance, to become a medical man. similarly,a boy born in a brã¤hmaã«a family, he has got better chance to become a brã¤hmaã«a.or a boy born in kã±atriya family or vaiã§ya family, he has got better chance. but thatdoes not mean simply by taking birth in a brã¤hmaã«a family or kã±atriya family, onebecomes kã±atriya or brã¤hmaã«a. no. he has to acquire the qualities. that is stated inbhagavad-gã©tã¤. cã¤tur-varã«yaã mayã¤ sã¥ã±ã¶aã guã«a-karma-vibhã¤gaã§aã¹ [bg. 4.13]. andthe qualification of brã¤hmaã«a is also stated there: satyaã ã§amaã¹ damaã¹ ã§aucaã titikã±ã¤ã¤rjavam ã¤stikyam, jã¯ã¤naã vijã¯ã¤naã brahma-karma svabhã¤va-jam. these are thecharacteristics of brã¤hmaã«a. similarly,

there are characteristics of kã±atriya, vaiã§ya,ã§ã¼dra. we are discussing bhagavad-gã©tã¤. in the bhagavad-gã©tã¤ at least, there isno such statement that a man becomes brã¤hmaã«a simply being born in a brã¤hmaã«a family ora man becomes ã§ã¼dra simply by becoming born in a ã§ã¼dra family. guã«a-karma-vibhã¤gaã§aã¹.this is also confirmed in the ã‡rã©mad-bhã¤gavatam. in the ã‡rã©mad-bhã¤gavatam, ã‡rã© nã¤radamuni instructs mahã¤rã¤ja yudhiã±ã¶hira: yasya yal lakã±aã«aã proktaã puã so varã«ã¤bhivyaã¯jakam yad anyatrã¤pi dã¥ã§yetatat tenaiva vinirdiã§et [sb 7.11.35]nã¤rada muni said that if the symptoms or

characteristics of a certain status of socialorder is found in other family... for example, if a ã§ã¼dra-born boy is inclined to acceptbrahmanism or vedic culture, he should be given the chance. that is accepted in thepã¤ã¯carã¤triki-vidhi. just like these boys, european and american boys and girls, theyare, according to our ã§ã¤stra, they are less than ã§ã¼dras, or you can call them caã«ã²ã¤las.but they are being elevated to the status of the brã¤hmaã«a qualities by this kã¥ã±ã«aconsciousness process. it doesn't matter. otherwise, for someone like a shudra, even diksha is not offered.our sanã¤tana gosvã¤mã© gives direction in the hari-bhakti-vilã¤sa that one man can becomea brã¤hmaã«a by regular regular process of

dã©kã±ã¤.dã©kã±ã¤, this initiation, cannot be offered to a ã§ã¼dra.diksha cannot be offered to shudra. really? yes. but prabhuji, in this age, kali-yuga, it is the statement of the ã§ã¤stras that in thekali-yuga most of the population are ã§ã¼dras. kalau ã§ã¼drã¤ sambhavã¤ã¹. how can they beinitiated? yes. true. but, this initiation is offered not according tothe vedic rules, because it is very difficult to find out aqualified brã¤hmaã«a.

dã©kã±ã¤ is offered to a qualified brã¤hmaã«a.but in iskcon everyone gets diksha! how is that?true. therefore this dã©kã±ã¤ is offered accordingto pã¤ã¯carã¤triki-vidhi. thats what i m saying.that is recommended in this age. aaahaa interesting !.. i never knew that.yes. srila prabhupada'sspiritual master inauguratedthis pã¤ã¯carã¤triki-vidhi, and we are following his footsteps as told by srila prabhupada.anyone who is inclined to devote his life for kã¥ã±ã«a, he should be accepted as brã¤hmaã«a.of course, he should be trained up. not that these boys and girls are being initiatedall of a sudden.

no.they are trained up for six months, one year, then they are offered hari-nã¤ma.and when they are qualified actually in chanting hare kã¥ã±ã«a mantra, at least sixteen roundsdaily, when we see, one year at least, that he is doing his duties, following the regulativeprinciples... then.oh i understand that coming to satva-guna or becoming brahmana is important. and thateveryone should be trained as a brahmana. but how do we transcend to shuddha satva gunaand get perfection of life? how do we see krishna? face to face?yes, so how to make perfect, perfection of life, siddhi?

so manuã±yã¤ã«ã¤ã sahasreã±u kaã§cid yatatisiddhaye [bg. 7.3]. the siddhi means when one takes to the daiva-varã«ã¤ã§rama principles. the four orders, social orders and spiritualorders these orders are made for kã¥ã±ã«a realization.to understand kã¥ã±ã«a. vedaiã§ ca sarvair aham eva vedyaã¹ [bg. 15.15].those who want to understand krishna, they come to the principle of this vedic systemof varã«ã¤ã§rama. that is the process of siddhi. therefore kã¥ã±ã«a says... manuã±yã¤ã«ã¤ã sahasreã±u [bg. 7.3], ...means not ordinary men. those who are situated in this daiva-varã«ã¤ã§rama,qualified brã¤hmaã«a, kã±atriya, vaiã§ya,

ã§ã¼dra... so it doesn't matter in whatever guã«a orstatus of life we are. if all of us take to kã¥ã±ã«a consciousness, then our life is successful,mutual cooperation. so therefore kã¥ã±ã«a says, manuã±yã¤ã«ã¤ã sahasreã±u kaã§cid yatatisiddhaye [bg. 7.3]. and yatatã¤m api siddhã¤nã¤m [bg. 7.3]. thosewho are engaged in the four orders or varã«a and ã¤ã§rama, out of them, yatatã¤m api siddhã¤nã¤m.those who are actually in the position of a brã¤hmaã«a, actually in the position ofa kã±atriya, siddhã¤nã¤m... they are called siddha.actually following the rules and regulationof brã¤hmaã«as, kã±atriya, vaiã§ya, ã§ã¼dra, they are called siddha.kaã§cin mã¤ã vetti tattvataã¹.

to understand kã¥ã±ã«a we have to chant hisholy name first, ã¤di. then gradually, kã¥ã±ã«a's qualities, kã¥ã±ã«a's form, kã¥ã±ã«a's pastimes,kã¥ã±ã«a's entourage and everything will be revealed.ataã¹ ã§rã©-kã¥ã±ã«a-nã¤mã¤di. nã¤mã¤di means his holy name, hare kã¥ã±ã«a. ataã¹ ã§rã©-kã¥ã±ã«a-nã¤mã¤di na bhaved grã¤hyam indriyaiã¹sevonmukhe hi jihvã¤dau svayam eva sphuraty adaã¹[cc. madhya 17.136] if we take to this devotional service, thenthis chanting, this vibration of the holy name of kã¥ã±ã«a, very simple method, if weaccept this

and if they prosecute the routine work, graduallythey will understand what is kã¥ã±ã«a. and yei kã¥ã±ã«a-tattva-vettã¤ sei guru haya [cc.madhya 8.128]. one has to learn the science of kã¥ã±ã«a,bhagavad-gã©tã¤, as it is. then he becomes a spiritual master. therefore one who has understood kã¥ã±ã«aby this process of chanting hare kã¥ã±ã«a mantra, svayam eva sphuraty adaã¹, kã¥ã±ã«areveals to them. teã±ã¤ã satata-yuktã¤nã¤ã bhajatã¤ã prã©ti-pã¼rvakam, buddhi-yogaã dadã¤mi tam [bg. 10.10]. kã¥ã±ã«ais situated in everyone's heart.

as soon as one takes to kã¥ã±ã«a consciousness, kã¥ã±ã«a helps him. if he comes forward onestep, kã¥ã±ã«a comes forward ten steps. therefore if we learn about kã¥ã±ã«a, beingsituated in the daiva-varã«ã¤ã§rama or having acquired the real qualities of brã¤hmaã«a,higher or transcendental qualities... brã¤hmaã«a qualities means brahma jã¤nã¤tiiti brã¤hmaã«aã¹. that is nirã¤kã¤ra, of course, butyou have to transcend the position of brã¤hmaã«a and become a vaiã±ã«ava.then you will understand the kã¥ã±ã«a's form, kã¥ã±ã«a's qualities, kã¥ã±ã«a's pastimes.sevonmukhe hi jihvã¤dau svayam eva sphuraty adaã¹ [brs. 1.2.234].

premã¤ã¯jana-cchurita-bhakti-vilocanenasantaã¹ sadaiva hã¥dayeã±u vilokayanti yaã ã§yã¤masundaram acintya-guã«a-svarã¼paã govindam ã¤di-puruã±aã tam ahaã bhajã¤mi [bs. 5.38]kã¥ã±ã«a is ã‡yã¤masundara, but one who has advanced his love of kã¥ã±ã«a, premã¤ã¯jana-cchurita-bhakti,he can see kã¥ã±ã«a every moment, everywhere. anyone can elevate himself to that stage ofseeing kã¥ã±ã«a every moment by this kã¥ã±ã«a consciousness movement. therefore kã¥ã±ã«asays, manuã±yã¤ã«ã¤ã sahasreã±ukaã§cid yatati siddhaye yatatã¤m api siddhã¤nã¤ã kaã§cin mã¤ã vetti tattvataã¹ [bg. 7.3]so we have to understand kã¥ã±ã«a tattvataã¹,

in truth, by this kã¥ã±ã«a consciousness movement.therefore kã¥ã±ã«a says... manuã±yã¤ã«ã¤ã sahasreã±u [bg. 7.3], ...means not ordinarymen. those who are situated in this daiva-varã«ã¤ã§rama, qualified brã¤hmaã«a, kã±atriya, vaiã§ya,ã§ã¼dra... so therefore,we are trying to establish daiva-varã«ã¤ã§rama, as it is instructed by the gosvã¤mã©s, byhari-bhakti-vilã¤sa, by our spiritual master. may not be very perfect, but we are tryingour best to introduce this daiva-varã«ã¤ã§rama. so our this movement invites everyone, becauseit is kã¥ã±ã«a consciousness. ã‡ã¥ã«vatã¤ã sva-kathã¤ã¹ kã¥ã±ã«aã¹ puã«ya-ã§ravaã«a-kã©rtanaã¹.if you please come and hear about kã¥ã±ã«a, then kã¥ã±ã«a becomes favorably disposed that"now this soul, this individual soul is now

inclined to hear about me." so he gives facilities.what is that facility? the facility is that within our heart there are so many dirty things.therefore, we cannot understand kã¥ã±ã«a. so kã¥ã±ã«a helps in washing the dirty matterwithin our heart. ã‡ã¥ã«vatã¤ã sva-kathã¤ã¹ kã¥ã±ã«aã¹ puã«ya-ã§ravaã«a-kã©rtanaã¹, hã¥dyantaã¹ stho abhadrã¤ã«i [sb 1.2.17]. abhadrã¤ã«i. abhadrã¤ã«i means especially this raja-guã«aand tama-guã«a, this is abhadrã¤ã«i. and sattva-guã«a is bhadrã¤ã«i. therefore, those who are onthe platform of sattva-guã«a, goodness, they are gentlemen. before coming to the platformof sattva-guã«a, nobody can be gentleman. gentleman means cool-headed, who can understandthings as they are. he is called gentleman. so this abhadrã¤ã«i, in this human society,because these abhadrani, raja-guã«a and tama-guã«a,

has increased, practically we can say thereis no gentlemen. there is no gentlemen. because they cannot understand what is life, whatis the value of life. just like the animal cannot understand what is the value of life.animals, they are generally in tama-guã«a, and some animals in raja-guã«a. so the formula is, caitanya mahã¤prabhu givesthis formula that if you hear hare kã¥ã±ã«a mantra, then ceto-darpaã«a-mã¤rjanam [cc.antya 20.12], then kã¥ã±ã«a will help you in washing the abominable things, raja-guã«aand tama-guã«a. the raja-guã«a and tama-guã«a, if it is washed, then you become situatedin sattva-guã«a. you are promoted. but if you are promoted directly to kã¥ã±ã«aconsciousness, then you transcend all this

all the three qualities, tama-guã«a, raja-guã«a,and sattva-guã«a. that is also stated by kã¥ã±ã«a, sa guã«ã¤n samatã©tyaitã¤n brahma-bhã¼yã¤yakalpate [bg. 14.26]. who? mã¤ã ca 'vyabhicã¤riã«a bhakti-yogena yaã¹ sevate. avyabhicã¤reã«a,not mixed quality, pure. these boys, european and american boys, people admire because theyhave been given immediately lift to the position of transcendental life. so,sa guã«ã¤n samatã©tyaitan[bg. 14.26]. they have been helped to jump over the transcendental platform. how? viddhi-bhakti,avyabhicã¤riã«i-bhakti. avyabhicã¤riã«i-bhakti. vyabhicã¤riã«i means some day i do something,some day i do not do that. that is called vyabhicã¤riã«i, not fixed up.but if you follow regularly the rules and regulation, viddhi-bhakti, to rise early inthe morning, to offer maã¬gala-ã¤rati, then

read granthas, chant hare kã¥ã±ã«a, then dressthe deity, then again offer something, in this way that there is regular routine work,that is called viddhi-bhakti. viddhi, viddhi means he must, he cannot neglect it. justlike your legislative assembly is called vidhansabha(?). vidhansabha means whatever is enacted there,you must follow. that is the state order. similarly, there are rules and regulationwhich one must follow. then viddhi-bhakti. as soon as he accepts these rules and regulationand offers kã¥ã±ã«a service under that rules and regulation, immediately he is in the transcendentalplatform, immediately. sattva-guã«a is good so far material considerationis there, but that is not perfect. sattva-guã«a means the quality of brã¤hmaã«a.now the brahminical qualification is now fallen.

they are not so very strict following thebrahminical principles. so there is chance of falling down. but if you keep yourselfon the transcendental platform, aprakã¥ti, that is, beyond the material world, then thereis no falldown. brahma-bhuyã¤ya kalpate. prabhuji, if a vaishnava is on a transcendental platform, then why do we see some devoteesslip or fall down? falldown there is, if you are neglectful,but generally there is no chance of falldown. sa guã«ã¤n samatã©tyaitã¤n brahma-bhã¼yã¤yakalpate. so you have to situate yourself in the brahman platform. brahman platform meanspure, uncontaminated by the material qualities. that is called brahman platform. brahma-bhutaã¹prasannã¤tmã¤ [bg. 18.54]. there are many

such statements. but prabhuji, why is varnashrama necessaryat all in this? well as stated in the eighteenth chapter ofbhagavad-gã©tã¤, sva-karmaã«ã¤ tam abhyarcya: one has to worship the supreme personalityof godhead by one's occupational duties. this necessitates accepting the principle of four varã«as and four ã¤ã§ramas. hmhm. why should the lord get satisfied byvarnashrama? because varnashrama is his order prabhu! andour soul purpose is to obey his orders. thatâ€™s why. everything has to be done according tothe principles given in the scriptures. specially

the occupational duty.this is explained in bhagavad-gã©tã¤. cã¤tur-varã«yaã mayã¤ sã¥ã±ã¶aã guã«a-karma-vibhã¤gaã§aã¹:"thefour castes are created by the supreme personality of godhead according to the material modesof nature and the particular duties discharged in those modes." a person who is situated in the mode of goodnessis certainly more intelligent than others. therefore he can practice the brahminicalactivitiesâ€”namely speaking the truth, controlling the senses, controlling the mind, remainingalways clean, practicing tolerance, having full knowledge about one's self-identity,and understanding devotional service. in this way, if he engages himself in the loving serviceof the lord as an actual brã¤hmaã«a, his aim

to achieve the final interest of life is attained. similarly, the kã±atriya's duties are to giveprotection to the citizens, to give all his possessions in charity, to be strictly vedicin the management of state affairs and to be unafraid to fight whenever there is anattack by enemies. in this way, a kã±atriya can satisfy the supreme personality of godheadby his occupational duties. similarly, a vaiã§ya can satisfy the supreme godhead by properly executing his occupationaldutiesâ€”engaging himself in producing foodstuffs, giving protection to cows, and trading ifnecessary when there is an excess of agricultural production.

similarly, because ã§ã¼dras do not have ampleintelligence, they should simply engage as workers to serve the higher statuses of sociallife. i now understand. the system of varnashrama is so good that it accommodates people ofall the modes. and thus everyone can get the opportunity to satisfy god. but prabhuji,the question may be raised that since the lord is supposed to be worshiped by greatdemigods like lord brahmã¤, lord ã‡iva and others, how can an ordinary human being onthis planet serve him? this is clearly explained by pã¥thu mahã¤rã¤jaby the use of the word yathã¤dhikã¤ra, "according to one's ability." if one sincerely executeshis occupational duty, that will be sufficient.

one does not need to become like lord brahmã¤,lord ã‡iva, indra, lord caitanya or rã¤mã¤nujã¤cã¤rya, whose capabilities are certainly far far aboveours. does that mean that anyone can be successful in devotional service?anyone can become successful in devotional service provided he displays no duplicity.no duplicity. yes. no duplicity.it is explained here that one must be very frank and open-minded (amã¤yinaã¹). to besituated in a lower status of life is not a disqualification for success in devotionalservice. the only qualification is that whether one is a brã¤hmaã«a, kã±atriya, vaiã§ya orã§ã¼dra, he must be open, frank and free from

reservations. then, by performing his particularoccupational duty under the guidance of a proper spiritual master, he can achieve thehighest success in life. as confirmed by the lord himself, striyo vaiã§yã¤stathã¤ ã§ã¼drã¤s te 'pi yã¤nti parã¤ã gatim (bg. 9.32). it does not matter what one is,whether a brã¤hmaã«a, kã±atriya, vaiã§ya, ã§ã¼dra or a degraded woman. if one engageshimself seriously in devotional service, working with body, mind and intelligence, he is sureto be successful in going back home, back to godhead. is it true that our advancement in devotionalservices... is it influenced bya lot by our past karma, how many sinful activities wehave committed? i mean in the past?

no, no, no. bhakti is not under karma. bhaktiis under your good will. if you accept to surrender to kã¥ã±ã«a, you can do that withoutbeing checked by anything else. simply you have to will, "yes, kã¥ã±ã«a. you are askingme. so long i did not do. from this day i do." that will depend upon you.not that if i was more sinful, i would make less advancement than somebody who is morepious. is it not like that? whatever you may be, simply surrender andeverything is finished. ahaã tvã¤ã sarva-pã¤pebhyo mokã±ayiã±... [bg. 18.66]. even if you aresinful, kã¥ã±ã«a will give you release, "all right. you have surrendered. that's all right."that is wanted. if you reserve something and cheat kã¥ã±ã«a, "now i am surrendering," kã¥ã±ã«ais very intelligent. "you have still reservation.

no." so its clear to me that the body should beengaged in service according to our status of status in varnashrama. but what about themind and words? congratulations!oh thank you prabhuji.. thank you so much.. so kind of you. but may i ask what was itfor? because you have asked a very very good question!!oh anytime prabhuji please.. hmm.. donâ€™t be too much exited and listenyes yes yes i m .. i m attentive. please go on prabhuji.body words and mind all should be engaged in krishnas satisfaction.everyone's aim should be to satisfy the supreme

personality of godhead byengaging his mind in thinking always of kã¥ã±ã«a, his words in always offering prayers to thelord or preaching about the glories of the lord,and his body in executing the service required to satisfy the lord. and remember as far as duties of body areconcerned, in executing the prescribed duties of life,no one is higher or lower; there are such divisions as "higher" and "lower," but sincethere is actually a common interestâ€”to satisfy the supreme personality of godheadâ€”thereare no distinctions between them. ah ha.. yes because there is common interest

so therefore nobody is higher and lower becauseeveryone is trying to achieve that common interest according to his ability. yes.yes. what about the four processes like glorifying,hearing, remembering and worshiping the lord? where do they fit?if realization of the absolute truth is the ultimate aim of life, it must be carried outby all means. in any one of the above-mentioned castes and orders of life, the four processes,namely glorifying, hearing, remembering and worshiping, are general occupations. withoutthese principles of life, no one can exist. ã„ã§rama means where there is bhagavad-bhajana. it doesn't matter whether one is sannyã¤sã©or one is gã¥hastha or a brahmacã¤rã©. the

main principle is bhagavad-bhajana.therefore this daivi varnashrama system is an important principle. infact, this is compulsory regulation for becoming human being. without varã«ã¤ã§rama institutionthere is no recognition of human being. without being trained up in the varã«ã¤ã§rama systemthere is no question of becoming human being. so actually it is not by birth as human beingbut by culture. janmanã¤ jã¤yate ã§ã¼draã¹ saã skã¤rã¤d bhaved dvijaã¹. you mean those not in varnashrama are notconsidered human beings! why? see,

when the destiny of the people are to be controlled,there must be very, very intelligent man. that is vedic civilization. there is standardaims and objects on which the people should be trained up. that is varã«ã¤ã§rama-dharma.viã±ã«ur ã¤rã¤dhanam. worshiping viã±ã«u. this is the ultimate aim. so the whole society is divided into brã¤hmaã«a,kã±atriya, vaiã§ya, ã§ã¼dra, and brahmacã¤rã©, gã¥hastha, vã¤naprastha, sannyã¤saâ€”departmentalâ€”andthey are trained up. but the aim is viã±ã«ur ã¤rã¤dhanam. but they have no idea at the present moment.viã±ã«ur ã¤rã¤dhanam, he has no knowledge. but the civilization begins on this point.human being means he's meant for viã±ã«ur

ã¤rã¤dhanam. otherwise what is the differencebetween dogs and human beings? aaha aaha. i see. i see. advancement of civilization means to understandviã±ã«u, how to please him, how to go back to him, go to the spiritual world. this isadvancement of civilization. yad gatvã¤ na nivartante tad dhã¤ma paramaã mama [bg. 15.6]. but you said that varnashrama is a slow method.then how is it that you are now advocating varnashrama in the lift process of bhakti? good question again. listen to this carefully. as long as one is under the control of materialnature, his occupational duty is different

from that of a person not under such control. one's real dharma, or occupational duty, isdescribed in ã‡rã©mad-bhã¤gavatam (dharmaã tu sã¤kã±ã¤d bhagavat-praã«ã©tam [sb 6.3.19]). the real dharma is that which is advised inbhagavad-gã©tã¤: sarva-dharmã¤n parityajya mã¤m ekaã ã§araã«aã vraja [bg. 18.66]. one's real dharma, or occupational duty, isexplained by ã‡rã© caitanya mahã¤prabhu. jã©vera 'svarã¼pa' haya-kã¥ã±ã«era 'nitya-dã¤sa':[cc. madhya 20.108] every living being is an eternal servant of kã¥ã±ã«a. that is one'sreal occupational duty. prabhuji, i thought that the sva-dharma or

occupational duty never changes. and now yousay that it does. can you explain it more please? sure. you see, sva means "own." sva-dharmam: "one's own occupation."so according to vedic civilization, everyone has his own sva-dharma. sva-dharma means "own occupation."actually dharma means which you cannot give up. so because we have got body and soul, twodifferent things, we are combination, body and soul.

so actually sva-dharma means the occupationof the soul. butbecause in the material condition we do not understand what i amâ€”whether i am this bodyor i am soul. but so long one is in the bodily concept oflife, so one has got different occupational duty according to the conception of the body.so the nature is being conducted by three modes of nature.therefore, according to one's nature there is occupational duty. that is scientific division. so, sva-dharma. sva-dharma means the division,the brã¤hmaã«a division, the kã±atriya division, the vaiã§ya division and the ã§ã¼dra division.

sva-dharma, sva-dharma means so long one isin the bodily concept of life, this sva-dharma means this brã¤hmaã«a, kã±atriya, vaiã§ya,ã§ã¼dra. this is sva-dharma. so, and real sva-dharma is spiritual sva-dharma. in the spiritual. so so when you go deep intothe matter, when you understand that "i am not this body; i am soul," then that is realsva-dharma. and what is the occupation of that sva-dharma? that is to be engaged in the service of thelord. jã©vera svarã¼pa haya nitya-kã¥ã±ã«a-dã¤sa [cc. madhya 20.108-109]. actually that issva-dharma. every soul is eternally servant of kã¥ã±ã«a. that is spiritual sva-dharma.and material sva-dharma means this brã¤hmaã«a,

kã±atriya, vaiã§ya, ã§ã¼dra. therefore the sva-dharma changes. sva-dharmachanges as soon as one is elevated to the spiritual platform.that is explained in the bhagavad-gã©tã¤. sa guã«ã¤n samatã©tyaitã¤n brahma-bhã¼yã¤yakalpate [bg. 14.26]. who? brahma-bhã¼yã¤ya kalpate. one who isengaged in devotional service. prabhuji, what should we follow? so so far we are concerned, kã¥ã±ã«a conscious,so long our bodily concept of life is not completely eradicated, we must follow thesva-dharma of the body. brã¤hmaã«a, kã±atriya, vaiã§ya, ã§ã¼dra, ity ã¤di. but when actuallyadvanced, that is mahã¤-bhã¤gavata.

we should not imitate that, but our processis the more we advance in kã¥ã±ã«a consciousness, we become transcendental to this bodily conceptof life, brã¤hmaã«a, kã±atriya, vaiã§ya, ã§ã¼dra. but kã¥ã±ã«a says: mã¤ã ca yo 'vyabhicã¤reã«abhakti-yogena sevate sa guã«ã¤n samatã©tyaitã¤nbrahma-bhã¼yã¤ya kalpate [bg. 14.26]so anyone who engages himself without any reservation to the service of the lord, heis not within the category of these eight varã«ã¤ã§rama-dharma. he's transcendental.sa brahma-bhã¼yã¤ya kalpate. so as a kã¥ã±ã«a consciousness person, he can act like anythingby the order of kã¥ã±ã«a. he can act as a

brã¤hmaã«a, he can act as a ã§ã¼dra, becausehis main business is to carry out kã¥ã±ã«a's order. he's no longer within the categoryof this sva-dharma. remember bhagavad gita? arjun does not wantto fight because he thinks that its sinful. andso kã¥ã±ã«a asking arjuna, that "if you are thinking in the bodily concept of life, thenalso..." means "first of all, when i have ordered, i have sanctioned, you can work itbeyond the bodily concept of life. but if you are thinking that you are in the bodilyconcept of life, then, as a kã±atriya, it is your duty to fight." kã¥ã±ã«a is tryingto put arjuna in the dilemma, "this way or that way, you must have to fight. if you thinkthat you are not in bodily concept of life,

then it is my order, 'you must fight.' ifyou think that you are in bodily concept of life, then you are a kã±atriya, you must fight.both ways you have to fight." this is kã¥ã±ã«a's conclusion. haribol ! haribol!! prbhuji, its so beautifulto understand it. it makes so much sense! specially in the context of bhagavad gita.yes. yes. i m glad you understand it. sure i do. and thank you for explaining.thank prabhupada. i m just repeating. yes. jay jay prabhupada.! jay prabhupada!!dancing!â now since you have done with your dancing performance, shall we move ahead?or do you have anything to ask? prabhuji, in the slow process the candidateworks according to varnashrama and even in

the fast bhakti process, the worker on bodilyplatform, works in varnashrama. then what is the difference between the two?oh ! you mean what is the difference between a karmi and a bhakta.aa.. ya ya. the karmi and a bhakta are both acting invarnashrama. but there is a vast difference. ok lets take the same case of arjun again.so here, in the beginning, arjuna, he's thinking in terms of his blunt senses. but the samething he will do. ã„tyantikam, atã©ndriya, purified senses. just try to understand. thisis kã¥ã±ã«a consciousness. arjuna is now thinking, yad rã¤jya-sukha-lobhena [bg. 1.44], "forthe matter of getting kingdom and sense gratification, i am going to kill my kinsmen. so it is greatsin." that's a fact. if the warfare in the

kurukã±etra battlefield was for arjuna's sensesatisfaction, then it was a great sin. but actually, it is not being done for arjuna'ssatisfaction. it is done for kã¥ã±ã«a's satisfaction. so therefore the conclusion should be thatwhatever we do, if we do it for our own sense satisfaction, that is mahã¤-pã¤pam, sinfulactivities. but if we do the same thing for kã¥ã±ã«a's satisfaction, that is spiritualadvancement. this is the difference. . a karmã© is working for his own satisfactionand a devotee is working for kã¥ã±ã«a's satisfaction. although two things are similar, externallyit appears the same thing, but there is great difference. whatever you do for your own satisfaction,for the satisfaction of your whims, that is mahã¤-pã¤pa, great sin. the same thing, whenyou do for kã¥ã±ã«a, that is opening your

path to liberation, back to home, back togodhead. this is difference. you have to change yourconsciousness. what you are doing? forwhom you are doing? for yourself or for kã¥ã±ã«a? this is kã¥ã±ã«a consciousness. and that isthe perfection of life. in whatever position you are, whatever you are doing, it doesn'tmatter. that is confirmed in the ã‡rã©mad-bhã¤gavatam, ataã¹ pumbhir dvija-ã§reã±ã¶havarã«ã¤ã§rama-vibhã¤gaã§aã¹ svanuã±ã¶hitasya dharmasyasaã siddhiã hari-toã±aã«am [sb 1.2.13]hari-toã±aã«am means to satisfy the supreme lord, hari. that is perfection. it doesn'tmatter what you are doing. varã«ã¤ã§rama-vibhã¤gaã§aã¹. oh i understand now.. whatever i do, i just

have to do it for krishna, thats itâ€¦ thenits â€¦ no! not whatever!, only that which is prescribedto you as your duty according to your guna! varnashrama.karma does not mean any karma! karma means according to your position in varnashrama! first of all, "whatever doing," it does notmean whatever nonsense you are doing, that will be accepted. no. varã«ã¤ã§rama-vibhã¤gaã§aã¹.according to vedic civilization, there is division of varã«aso activities must be done according to the varã«ã¤ã§rama prescription. a brã¤hmaã«a is ordered to do like this. satyaã¹ã§amo damas titikã±a ã¤rjavam.

you should practice this.a kã±atriya should practice this. and a vaiã§ya should practice this.so therefore it is called varã«ã¤ã§ramaâ€”the prescribed duties are already there. and when they act the duties of that particularposition, brã¤hmaã«a, kã±atriya, for the satisfaction of kã¥ã±ã«a, that is perfection of life.it doesn't matter whether you are a ã§ã¼dra or you are a brã¤hmaã«a, but if you act forthe satisfaction of kã¥ã±ã«a according to the prescription of your position, then yourlife is perfect. that is wanted. the whole human civilization should be based on thisprinciple. there must be division.

and they should be trained, everyone, to satisfykã¥ã±ã«a. varã«ã¤ã§rama-vibhã¤gaã§aã¹. svanuã±ã¶hitasya dharmasya saã siddhiã hari-toã±aã«am [sb1.2.13]. did you get it? yes. prabhuji. i did. karma in bodily conceptmeans according to varnashrama and not any karma.yes. make this point clear! otherwise you will end up doing vikarma and that will bea sorry state. vikarma? what is vikarma?yes, listen as i tell you about karma, akarma and vikarma and what you should be doing.yes, please. just like we have got in our institution specifiedduties for each and every member, and they

are doing, and if... they take it seriously,every one of them, that it is the order and duty. "my guru mahã¤rã¤ja has specified thisduty upon me. so it is my duty." kã¤ryam. kã¤ryam means "it is my duty. i must do it."so anã¤ã§ritaã¹ karma-phalaã kã¤ryaã karma karoti... that he is trained up. accordingto varã«ã¤ã§rama-dharma, that is trained up. a brahmacã¤rã©, from the very beginning of his life, he is trained to act only for guru.that is brahmacã¤rã©. it is said in the ã§ã¤stra... in bhagavad-gã©tã¤,in ã‡rã©mad-bhã¤gavatam you will find the duty of brahmacã¤rã©, the duty of gã¥hastha,the duty of vã¤naprastha, the duty of sannyã¤sa. everything is there.

so brahmacã¤rã©-karma, gã¥hastha-karma, vã¤naprastha-karma, sannyã¤sa-karma, then brã¤hmaã«a's karma,then kã±atriya's karma, vaiã§ya's karma, ã§ã¼dra's karma. the society which knows perfectly wellall these different karmas, that is perfect society, that is human society. that is very essential, the varã«ã¤ã§rama-dharma.because we must have the aim of life. at the present moment there is no aim of life.the aim of life is sense gratification. that's all. indriya-tã¥pti. that is forbidden inthe ã§ã¤stras. nã¼naã pramattaã¹ kurute vikarma [sb 5.5.4]. kiã karmeti kiã vikarmeti willbe described. so karma and vikarma, prescribed duties according

to qualification, position, occupation, thatis called karma. and just opposite, it is called vikarma. it is the tendency of materialistic life toact vikarma, forbidden karma. that is explained by ã…ã±abhadeva in ã‡rã©mad-bhã¤gavatam, nã¼naã pramattaã¹ kurute vikarma yad indriya-prã©taya ã¤pã¥ã«oti [sb 5.5.4]. nã¼naã pramattaã¹ kurute vikarma: [sb 5.5.4]"all people, being mad, they are committing all sinful activities." they do not know whatis sinful activity. they think everything is all right. no. nature will take accountof everything and he will give you a next body.if you infect some disease and the after result,

you must suffer from that disease. this isnature's law. therefore we should be very careful to take instruction from bhagavad-gã©tã¤, and makeour life successful, following the rules and regulation as it is prescribed there.otherwise we are animals. therefore ã§ã¤stra says that "this human formof life is gotten after many, many births," labdhvã¤ su-durlabham. su-durlabham. durlabhammeans very rare to be obtained, and again addition, su, "very, very."so we should not waste our this human form of life whimsically. it is a great loss. itis a great loss. but people are not educated how much importantthis human form of life.

kaumã¤ra, from the very beginning of life,kaumã¤ra. kaumã¤ra means from fifth year to tenth year, five years. within these fiveyears, education must begin. and especially dharmã¤n bhã¤gavatã¤n. bhã¤gavata-dharma means to understand kã¥ã±ã«a, to understandthe supreme personality of godhead. although india is the land of spiritual culture,our small children, they go to school, colleges, but he has no connection with bhagavad-gã©tã¤.he has no connection with bhagavad-gã©tã¤. they are simply trained up for sense gratification.in western countries alsoâ€”for sense gratification. which is to be suppressed, sense gratification,that education is given. they do not know what is karma and what is vikarma. now, whenthe students become disobedient and they create

riots and set fire in the buses, then theylament. but why you have educated the students like that? who is responsible for this? therascals, they do they do not know. here is kã¥ã±ã«a prescribing. kiã karma kimakarmeti kavayo 'py atra mohitã¤ã¹. even learned men, they become bewildered. tat te karmapravakã±yã¤mi. so in this bewildered condition, baffled condition of the society, we should consult kã¥ã±ã«a.kã¥ã±ã«a is ready to give you advice, as he was ready five thousand years ago to giveadvice to arjuna. that instruction is still current. it is notthat it is finished with the arjuna and kã¥ã±ã«a, no. you can take also the same advice fromkã¥ã±ã«a and mold your life. that is wanted.

so kurute vikarma, we are trained up simply to act, opposite direction. instead of doinggood work, we are educated to do bad work, just the opposite. and that is not good. thatis the advice of ã…ã±abhadeva. nã¼naã pramattaã¹. what is that bad work? bad work means sense gratification. that's all. anything you dofor the satisfaction of your sense, that is bad work. and anything you do for satisfactionof kã¥ã±ã«a, that is good work. this is the division of bad work and good work. the samething, if you do for your personal satisfaction, it is bad work. and the same thing, if youdo for the satisfaction of kã¥ã±ã«a, that is good work. we must first of all learn this.just like arjuna was thinking in the beginning

that "fighting and killing is not good, especiallyfighting with the family members and killing them. no, no, i cannot do that."but work.badwork. he was thinking it was bad. but same thing he did. when he understood bhagavad-gã©tã¤,he did not do anything else, because he was a fighter, he was a warrior. in the beginninghe was refusing because he was trying to satisfy his senses. "oh, it is very good. i thinkit is... i think..." what you are? you are always misguided if you think like that. butthe same arjuna, when understood bhagavad-gã©tã¤... kã¥ã±ã«a inquired from him, "now what is yourdecision?" now, kariã±ye vacanaã tava [bg. 18.73]. "yes, now i have decided." so whatis that vacanaã tava? kã¥ã±ã«a asked him to fight. so same fighting, how he becamegood now? because kã¥ã±ã«a wanted it. a good

work.so this should be our motto of life, that you should act if kã¥ã±ã«a is pleased. thisis good work. that is confirmed in many places in ã‡rã©mad-bhã¤gavatam.ataã¹ pumbhir dvija-ã§reã±ã¶hã¤ varã«ã¤ã§rama-vibhã¤gaã§aã¹. again this varã«ã¤ã§rama. svanuã±ã¶hitasyadharmasya. svanuã±ã¶hitasya dharmasya. now, mark this word, dharma. a brã¤hmaã«a's actionas a brã¤hmaã«a, that is dharma. and brã¤hmaã«a is not fighting; that is his dharma. so dharmamay be different according to position. similarly, a kã±atriya is fighting and killingin the battle, but he is still not killing. this has to be... not general, generalization,"oh, killing is bad." killing is bad for one who is not destined,who is not meant for killing. and places.

everything should be in terms of ã§ã¤stra,not whimsically manufacture something. no. yaã¹ ã§ã¤stra-vidhim utsã¥jyavartate kã¤ma-kã¤rataã¹ na sa siddhim avã¤pnotina sukhaã na parã¤ã gatim [bg. 16.23]this is the injunction. so ataã¹ pumbhir dvija-ã§reã±ã¶hã¤ varã«ã¤ã§rama-vibhã¤gaã§aã¹. everyone hasgot particular type of occupational duty according to varã«a and ã¤ã§rama. so whether it is perfect or not, that test is svanuã±ã¶hitasya dharmasya saã siddhirhari-toã±aã«am [sb 1.2.13]. just like arjuna was a kã±atriya. his perfectionas kã±atriya was because he pleased kã¥ã±ã«a.

saã siddhir hari-toã±aã«am [sb 1.2.13]. thatis wanted. so this kã¥ã±ã«a consciousness movement is presenting the most scientificway of life. it is not a whimsical concoction of a human brain. the basic principle is bhagavad-gã©tã¤and ã§ã¤stra, ã‡rã©mad-bhã¤gavatam. prabhuji, what is akarma? you told me aboutkarma and vikarma. but what is akarma? yes, so,karma means to gain some profit. . vikarma is punishable.karma means you have to enjoy the result, fruitive result. that is called karma. andvikarma means punishable, pã¤pa. and akarma means you do something, but you are neitherpunishable nor rewardable. and that is bhakti, or satisfying kã¥ã±ã«a.there is no result. there is result; ultimate

result is go back to home, back... but thematerial... materially, if you expect some material profit by becoming a devotee, thatis not possible. that is not possible. mã¤ã ca yo 'vyabhicã¤reã«a bhakti-yogena sevate[bg. 14.26]. then you become above all the resultant action of karma.so tyakta-karma. sannyã¤sã© means tyakta-karmã¤ã«as tyakta-svajana-bã¤ndhavã¤ã¹. you cannot giveup karma if you live with your relatives, svajana, and bã¤ndhavã¤ã¹, society, friendshipand love. if you live, then you cannot give up karma. you have to do, either karma orvikarma. but if you become sannyã¤sã©, then you become akarma. whatever you do, it isfor kã¥ã±ã«a, and there is no reaction. yajã¯ã¤rthe karmaã«o 'nyatra karma-bandhanaã¹.bandhanaã¹ means bondage.

karma is ba karma is bandhanaã¹. vikarma isbandhanaã¹, but akarma is not bandhanaã¹. so we have to act for kã¥ã±ã«a. so actually when we say karma for a bhakta,it actually means akarma. right? yes. because he is supposed to be doing hiskarma for krishna's satisfaction only. we

have to do only what krishna orders and alsodo it for him alone. both are necessary. does it make sense to you?yes. yes perfect sense. yes, means donâ€™t do things whimsically which is not krishnasorder and donâ€™t do it for anybody else apart from krishna.yes.

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was completely possible that i have theability to do that most grocery your life will never get asbig as you are even if your scrawny little bastard ok i guarantee you he didnot have the ability and if you are a person know that youdid a pretty good tential ross nutcracker tonight you're lookingright now you can though that ok is possible leading up to some ridiculous level butyou can add a lot of muscle uh... as a natural air intentionallyburning calories director size holy not cool not submitted by cardio

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this october 6, 2016 regularmeeting of the fairfax county school board will now come toorder. please rise for the pledge ofallegiance, a moment of silence and the performance of thenational anthem by the sandburg

girls sexually, middle school choralettes underthe direction of jeanne crowley. i pledge allegiance to theflag of the united states of america and to the republic forwhich it stands, one nation, under god, indivisible, withliberty and justice for all.

oh say can you seeby the dawn's early light? what so proudly we hailed atthe twilight's last gleaming? whose bright stripes and bright starsthrough the perilous fight o'er the ramparts we watchedwere so gallantly streaming and the rockets red glarethe bombs bursting in air gave proof through the nightthat our flag was still thereo say does that star-spangled banner yet wave? o'er the land of the freeand the home of the brave

that was a beautiful job. thank you so much for joining ushere tonight. well done. so madam clerk, we have alreadycertified the closed meeting compliance. and next we will go toannouncements. a few announcements before webegin tonight's meeting. if you would like to receive acopy of the agenda or item being discussed that information is onthe table by the auditorium

entrance. tonight's agenda is available onschool board and boarddocs. the meeting is streamed liveonline. select school board from thefulmen you then click on the watch live button on the schoolboard meetings webpage. please turn off or silence yourcell phone. i call on ms. chu forannouncements. thank you, chair.

the board will be recognizingspecial occasions. i apologize if my voice getshoarse. the board held a closed meetingearlier this evening and october is national dyslexiaawareness month. dyslexia is a language-basedlearning disability that results in people having difficultieslearning to read, spell, write, and pronounce words. recognizing the markers ofdyslexia and intervening early helps to provide opportunitiesfor future success.

over the next several months theoffice of special education instruction in collaborationwith the instructional services will be offering severalopportunities to help raise awareness about dyslexia. on friday, october 21, theparent resource center will host a dyslexia open house from 10:00to 1:00. on december 7, january 11, andjanuary 25, there will be additional workshops aboutdyslexia at the parent resource center.

these workshops will highlightstrategies to support reading, writing and math at home andstrategies to work with schools to support students withdyslexia. please check our fcps website tofind additional resources, including, "clues to dyslexia,"which highlights both the strengths and difficultiesstudents with dyslexia exhibit at each stage of theireducation. the school board will formallyrecognize national dyslexia month this month.

in addition national school lunch week promotes excitementabout the benefits of students consuming wholesome, healthyschool lunches of fresh fruits and veggies, whole grains andmilk. the national school lunchprogram is dedicated to the health and well being of ournation's children and joined through the years by many otherexcellence child nutrition programs. there is a continued need fornutrition education and

awareness. the school board encourages allresidents to become aware of their children and their ownnutrition habits for a more healthy citizenry. the school board will recognizeteen read week, going beyond the traditional book, explorepoetry, audio books, books about music and school and locallibrary. read for the fun of it,encourages teens to escape daily routines.

fantasy novels, science fiction,travel books or tales of adventures. teen read week has been observedsince 1998 to-game teens to read for fun and to use resources atthe libraries. teens who read for fun havebetter test scores. the school board encourages allstudents to take advantage of the resources in their schooland public library and become life-long readers and learners. october 7-8 we will celebratemental health awareness week.

nami and participants areraising awareness for mental health awareness week. each year this organizationworks tonight stigma, provide support, educate the public andadvocate for equal care. nami believes that mentalillness issues are important to highlight year around but thisis a time to come together to improve the lives of tens ofmillions of americans with mental illness. this year's theme is i am stigmafree.

being stigma free means learningabout and educating others on mental illness, focusing onconnecting to see each other as individuals not a diagnosis andtaking action of mental health issues. that is all. thank you, ms. chu. we turn to item 1.04. palchik.

yes, it is my honor torecognize national school bus safety week. we have been back at school amonth in the community. we have big yellow school busesout there. these buses and drivers are thefirst contact for many of our students as we head back toschool especially kindergartens and new students. our bus drivers and fabulousteam keep our students safe each and every day.

it is all of our jobs to helpensure they are safe so please remember to follow the law, becourteous and respectful and patient when school buses arepicking up and dropping off children. with that being said, i wouldlike to announce that the week of october 17-21 hasbeen designated as national school bus safety week. based on the theme, be smart, beseen, i wait in a safe place! the week focuses on studentsafety when waiting for and

boarding a school bus. school bus safety is an issuefor all citizens of fairfax county, who need to be aware oflaws requiring them to stop and wait behind a school bus when itis loading and unloading student riders. the major responsibility forschool bus safety in fairfax county rests firmly in the handsof our school bus drivers and attendants, who daily transportmore than 141,000 students in over 1,600 school buses on morethan 6,500 separate routes

traveling nearly 17 millionoperational miles each year. it is a great honor andprivilege to invite the staff from our facilities andtransportation, this will be our very first photo of theremodeled dais. i will hand this over to ourphotographer to please direct us for our photo. thank you. madam chair, we probably onlyhad a handful of some of our transportation staff tonight.

you know they get up very, veryearly hours in the morning to transport our students. just wanted to point that out. yes, thank you. we appreciate them very, verymuch. if anyone from any busdriver, any staff is here, please join us for a photo. all right. thank you for everybody'spatience while we did that for

the first time in our newconfiguration. we turn to item 2.01, citizenparticipation. the next order of business iscitizen participation. speakers are requested to limittheir remarks to not more than three minutes. the school board will not hearstatements involving issues scheduled for public hears suchas capital improvement program, budget or boundaries. complaints regarding individualstudents or school-based

employees should be directed tothe appropriate school principal or other school official. speakers should refrain fromusing personally identifiable information in connection with astudent. speakers are expected to delivertheir remarks with the decor rum proper for the conduct of thepublic's business. tonight 10 citizens have signedup to address the board. i'm going to call the firstthree names so the two following can be prepared.

we start with monique baroudi,followed by bethany kozma to be followed by beatrice bearry. i created a video for thismeeting but you choose to censor it. by doing so you proved my point. you say you value publicengagement and yet you refuse to engage the public on the topicof gender identity. my video clip started. myvideo started with a clip from

may of 2015, the policy 1450 waspassed, the changes were passed. there was a room full of peoplebegging to be heard. since you passed this policywithout a single pup forum. just weeks after it was broughtup as new business. 10 people get to address thisboard every two weeks for three minutes on a topic of yourchoosing. and even then you decide if itaddresses the topic closely enough for your tastes. there is no discussion, noacknowledgement, no exchange of

ideas. my next clip shows mrs. schultzrecognizing the fact that this topic generated more public discourse thanany other in the history of fcps yet you didn't choose to give any of them a voice. my next clip showed ms. pattyreed, commenting on the hundreds and hundreds of e-mails she hasreceived. she said and i quote, theprocess used to pass this policy

was troubling and embarrassing. the no change memo on the agendatonight exists because of a virginia state code that requires this boardto review and update each one of its policies at least every fiveyears. policy 2601, the students rightand responsibilities, which was updated to include genderidentity language is part of that no-change memo. i'm trying to make the case it shouldn't be. another section of that same virginia codesays that each

local school board should ensurepolicies are developed giving consideration to the views ofparents, teachers and concerned citizens. have you done that or justpushing your own agenda. ms. mclaughlin said at the lastmeeting it is concerning that citizens think this board istone deaf. words without action are simplythat. empty words.

if this board is truly committedto public engagement prove it. plan a town hall or a publicforum. create a task force, take asurvey. this board has taken oncontroversial issues in the past and shown a commitment to makingdecisions about later high school start times, half daymondays, with years of public forum and studies. even the post labor day startwarranted a start of fcps. why do you refuse to-game thepublic on this issue?

i again urge you to repeal thechanges to policy 1450 in the students rights andresponsibilities handbook and start down a path of truecommunity engagement for all of your stakeholders. bethany kozma to be followed bybeatrice bearry. i come to speak about suicideprevention. the most important advocates ofstudents in danger of suicide are parents. keeping silent doesn't helpanyone.

in high school as a predator'svictim i kept silent. had i spoken up perhaps i wouldhave helped prevent that predator from sexuallyassaulting again. i felt like it was my fault, itwasn't. for some victims of rape andsexual assault and thoughts of suicide are real. i told some of my peers i wantedto forget about it. i thought i could contain it. i was wrong.

predators, even high school boyswill not stop with one victim especially if they realize theycan get away with it without any consequences. a few years later this samepredator victimized another girl i knew very well. since then i vowed never to keepquiet again. as a fairfax county resident,mother and advocate i will not be silenced. i must stand up for not only mydaughters but other girls.

as the majority of electedschool board members are women, my story should resonate with atleast one or two of you. statistically speaking 1 of 6women are victims of rape and sexual assault and malesdominate the crime statistics. you may have heard of horriblestories of girls committing suicide after indecent photosare on the internet. imagine how they will endangergirls facilities and be protected under your policy. policy 1450 seems innocuous, therepercussions are far reaching.

do you want a boy or man to seeor photograph you undressing or naked in one of the bathroom orlocker rooms. no up with should be bullied orbelittled, yet what about women or girls sexually victimized orfeel discriminated against because they have no safe place. all are ill served in thenondiscrimination clause. why are you allowing andpromoting predators to hide under transgender votes. you are charged with ensuringthe safety of all students.

how could anyone think allowingbiological boys into biological girls facilities are promotingsafety? it is a recipe for victimizationof girls. i urge you to listen to parentsand involve us in a suicide prevention plan. please repeal policy 1450 andprotect our children. [ applause ]next beatrice bearry, alice guo to be followed by johnkochka. i have two girls attendingfairfax county public schools.

i would like to start my threeminutes by sending our most sincere and heartfeltcondolences to connor rose's family. he took his own life. suicide is a shocking event. for some parents their teenssuffer silently and parents never know. some parents like me know theirchild suffers with great anxiety.

at times my daughter is crippledby her worries. ella was in first grade when shebegan having panic attacks. i was called to remove herbecause she was disrupting the kids in the classroom. i give kudos to the schoolknowing that the person who could help the most is herparents. ella is seen as different by theother children because she isn't in all their classes, sometimesher anxiety increases and she has to deal the classroom andthis calls attention to her.

i imagine children with genderidentity issues and confusion can feel like ella, some maysuffer from anxiety and depression because of theconfusion they experience. i believe the fundamentaldignity of each human beings and they all have rights. all of us have the right to feelsafe, comfortable, accepted and loved. your family is where you gainyour identity. fairfax county school boards,the board, say you foster a

culture of caring and familiesplay a fundamental role in children's education. i don't think that is so whenyou ask my daughters to share their bathrooms and locker roomwith boys. my child has special needs andhas high stress about sharing her bathroom with a boy. do the parents of these childrenwant them to endure more stress and anxiety allowing them to usean opposite sex bathroom. when one of these children thinkthey can't handle it anymore,

when he or she takes their ownlife because of this stress or anxiety who will bear the burdenof the blame? will it be you? i'm asking the decision based onevery child's dignity and rights. every child deserves to be safein their school and school activity they attend. parents or as you call us stakeholders are paramount and the board should not overridethinking they know best.

if my child has to share abathroom with a boy, i should be informed. if my child has to be in a roomin a school-sponsored event with a boy, i should be informed. make an environment whereeveryone thrives in a safety, healthy, rich environment. my children deserve to feel safeand respected. the decisions you have madebehind closed doors is unfair. i say shame on you school boardmembers.

and i hope no parent has tostand up here to tell you your misguided decisions caused thedeath of their child. i ask you to repeal. alice guo to be followed byjohn kochka and vanessa poynter. welcome. good evening. i'm here today to talk aboutsuicide prevention. roughly 90% of rapes arecommitted to females by males with one in six femalessuffering sexual assault.

why is the school board creatinga hostile learning environment by allowing males into femalelocker rooms and bathrooms? based on national statisticsthere is a relatively large group of sexual assaultsurvivors and roughly 7,000 young girls in fairfax countyschools are survivors, they carry trauma, severe dis tressand roughly 1,000 of these girls macon template suicide withhundreds already attempting suicide. so i want to hear about yoursuicide prevention for them.

many other survivors live infear, silence and distress. your policy can silence theirfear, silence and distress. you are sending a strong messageto these girls that they do not matter. your policy is also slappingtheir bruised faces that to feel fear and anxiety about a maleusing their bathroom is somewhat bigotry and wrong and yourpolicy is instead forcing them to live with it and be contentwith whatever the cost, whatever the depression and whatever theintense suffering.

so i want to hear your suicideprevention. survivors of sexual assaults arenot political activists. they often live in shame, guiltand depression. they need our help to pull themback to life, not push them over the cliff. so why is the board trying totorment these girls with a harmful and controversialexperiment that is not backed up by science, that has never beenimplemented anywhere on its own accord throughout 8,000 years ofwritten human history.

again, one in six females suffersexual assault. so where is your human empathyfor a plight of is suffering of this relatively large group? the simple solution to theirsuffering, their depression, their problem is to repealpolicy 1450. right now. john kochka to be followed byvanessa poynter. i'm john kochka and i yieldmy name to nina kamara. good evening to you all.

my name is nina kamara. i am so honored to be here thisevening to talk about suicide prevention and sex education. i work very hard to support myfamily. i work 16 hours a day most ofthe time. but at least i find it importantfor me to be here for my voice to be heard. in most cases i understand thatmaybe parents voices are not heard all the time and they arenot included when making

decisions and as a parent of thefairfax county school i'm interested in this topic. most of the kids suffering fromsuicide, they are kids who thought their voice are notheard. when they suffer traumaticexperience. and it is the responsibility ofus parents and you as important personnel here present in thisevening program to help this situation to prevent mishapsfrom not happening again. i have a daughter who is in thesixth grade, who is 11 years

old.and as an elementary school student i'm pleading that sexeducation should not be introduced in the elementaryschool. for some of the reasons i'mgoing to give. when we came to fairfax county icame because i understand they have the best schools and i'mproud for my daughter to be in fairfax county. based on that sex is really niceto be educated for students, but i want to believe that it is notfor elementary.

because when you look at theelementary school, most of the kids in the elementary schoolare below 13 years old. they are kids. they should be treated as kids. they should not be treated asyouth or adults. so educating them about sex, ithink gives them a negative emotional impact, giving themmore responsibility to think of making good and bad choices. as an african-american from westafrica, my culture and religion

and the values i practice doesnot permit my daughter to be taught sex education in schoolat the tender age. as an african-american in myculture we see kids below the age of 13 should be treated askids. you can teach them about familylife education. excuse me. could you please wrap up. your three minutes are over. you teach them about familylife education where there are

limitations to that. you can't go beyond because ofthe negative impact it creates most times on kids. so for me my daughter i amgetting out by not signing any documents coming from the schoolfor sex education. i would not want her to begiving the responsibility. for those parents who don't knowwhoa is in these classes i'm really concerned and i'm pleading. thank you very much.

thank you very much for yourtestimony. would you provide the clerk withyour name so she will have it? thank you so much. vanessa poynter to be followedby huina gao. good evening board members. representative chu. chairman evans. superintendent garza. faculty and staff, neighbors andfriends.

first a kind thank you for theopportunity to speak with you tonight and share a few of mythoughts. i count it a privilege to havegrown up within the fairfax county public school system. in fact, i'm nostalgic lookingat the stage where i performed as a middle schooler here atluther jackson. currently the cdc maintains thatsuicide among adolescent teens is the second leading cause ofdeath in the 15-24 age bracket. suicide among our nation's youthis real and it is a terrible,

terrible thing. i understand the dire need we asa school system, community and culture need to pay attention towith regard to social and emotional well being and youthmental health. i support a policy thatimplemented strong prevention and risk assessment program forteachers and students. however, i am concerned aboutthe manner in which the board intends to do so with regard toparent rights. i am not yet a parent.

i'm a masters level earlychildhood development and early intervention. i spend a lot of time with youngchildren but a lot of my team is spent behind the scenesadvocating for and cheering for students. the code of virginia onlyrequires parents to be notified if their adolescence teenconnects with a staff member when suicide is imminent. they have to know if their childis being identified or

monitored, if their child isbeing screened and the right to know when their child is beenassessed. it frightens me these aremissing pieces in your guidelines. this is a concern becausesuicide prevention begins with family life that is safe, secureand stable. in a recent discussion of familylife education the policy making power with which the board hasbeen entrusted appears abused. the kras in which it was writtenand discusses, hardly an

advisory community as stated onthe fcps website and the oversight of parents rights. these are indications that theboard may be violating the authority in the eyes of itscommunity. i fear this new policy may onlycontinue that trend. our children, your fellowstudents, your sons and daughters all deserve ourstrongest support and such strength comes from an honestthriving school community and the active involvement of theirparents.

thank you for your time. i call on huina gao to befollowed by patrina mosley and bonnie burkhardt. i'm huina gao. i have two children in fairfaxcounty schools. first of all, i would like tothank the school board for creating a nurturing environmentfor my children to grow and second i'm speaking tonightbecause i want to voice some concerns related to the overallwell being of students regarding

the forthcoming regulationsimplements gender identity to the nondiscrimination policy andstudents rights and responsibilities which isstrangely being approved with the claim of no change when itclearly has changed and appears to be violating the state law. i was here two mont ago andlistening to testimony of i was touched. no student should be subjectedto bully or denied education opportunity.

when it becomes to schoolregulations we need to set emotion aside. i'm deeply concerned over theimplications and consequences in the regulatory changes set tocome. i do not feel comfortable tohave my children in the locker room or bathroom with anyone ofthe biological opposite gender. for my childrens safety andprivacy and the modesty that is ingrained in our culture. this policy will subject mychildren to the same

discrimination the school boardforbids to jentder dis foric no student should be subjectedto harassment, bullies, their height, their weight, their lookand their issues with gender. i'm speaking from the bottom ofmy heart because when i grew up i used to be teased by myclassmates simply because i sweat a lot. i was called smelly skunk. it was such, if i was such agirl now in fairfax county, may i request the school to reducethe room temperature by five

degree so i wouldn't sweat atall and wouldn't become the targets of the bully. however, the important thing isi don't believe the ability of providing such accommodation hasanything to do with lack of inclusion. maybe the key to tackle thesmelly skunk situation is not the room temperature itself. but the understanding of humanbody dimpss and emphasis on character education and morecounseling service for children

with special needs. dear school board members, youare in charge of developing school regulations. i'm imploring each of you,please do not create more problems by precipitating aflawed implementation. let's decompose issues ratherthan compounding them. don't make an ill intention ldpolicy as a nightmare. call for the conscious rps ofnot gobbling the liquor to quench the thirst.

patrina mosley and bonnieburkhardt. is patrina mosley here? i'm here to address the topic of suicide prevention with threechildren i know. the eighth grade fle teachesabout age sex, not the normal mean one couple enjoys intimacyor which you make a baby, it is the primary method in which oneguy rapes another guy. i knew an eighth grade boy whowas raped by a high schooler. he cried to his mother, i didn'tknow you could do that to a guy.

he department have the flelesson. let's say he did have thatlesson after he was raped. other guys would say, i didn'tknow you could do it to a guy. the boy would stare at theirfaces with absolute horror. after parental support andcounseling he started his sophomore year by committingsuicide. 90% of rape victims are girls. a girl i know was raped by herfather. then her brother started to rapeher.

school is the only sanctuaryaway of the horrors of home. how would she feel if atransgendered boy showed in the bathroom. her brother could say he istransgendered. she suffers from bulimia. another fifth grade girl becamean incest victim. her older sisters started her onillegal drugs to cope. drug overdoses are a slow formof suicide. keep these schools as sanctuarysfor children.

provide them someone to confidein and who can help them. now, picture a woman holding herbaby boy in her lap, screaming, as she tries to piece togetherthe bloody fragments of his skull in a feeble attempt to seehim one last time. out of one side of the math youtalk about suicide prevention and you teach age sex and rapetechniques in school. what harm could that possiblycause? you decide. paul karpe.

hi. my name is paul karpe. i was a special ed teacherbefore i retired from fairfax county. 31 of those years have been infairfax county. followed retirement i have beensubbing on a daily basis for long-term. the board needs to understandthat all retired teachers are certified in their-- areas.

most of us have a masters degreeor two. some of us have a ph.d.by hiring a fairfax county retiree you are getting abargain in the classroom because you have hired a pro. when retirees are in theclassroom you are getting a professional. we already have the experiencein the classroom, know how to deal with inappropriatebehaviors and know fairfax county public schools policiesand procedures as they say, been

there, done that. in all the years i have beenteaching i have never seen employees treated this badly. we were told our pay would becut. all subs had their pay decrease. fairfax county employees willreceive $15. d.c.'s minimum wage was upcreased to $15. how degrading for the retiredfairfax county teacher who chooses to sub and faces a 34%pay cut from $22.20 to $15.33.

not to slight the regular subs,but retirees are the subs with many, many years of experiencein the classroom. we are have the only in of thesubject matter and ability to execute a plan and improvise ifit is necessary. even when we sub out of ourdiscipline, we have decades of classroom savvy to engage thestudent in their curriculum. several times when i subbedthere were no lesson plans left by the classroom teacher orminimal. i had to use my many years ofexperience to spontaneously

generate a learning experiencefor the 30 students for the 7 1/2 hours. could a less experienced sub,one with 60 credits or a non-teacher done that? by eliminating retiree track thecounty is insulting us, you have lumped us in the same cart garywith those with only 60 credits. the county school bus driversare paid more, $18.82 an hour. a retiree's salary would nothave been decimated. you would have increased it tokeep the experienced pool of

retirees. does the county assume retireeswill sub for $15.33? most importantly, will thoseretirees sub long-term for $21.91 an hour? i have done long-term subsapproximately 10 times. whoa. sum up. just wrap up. that would be fine.

i apologize for mispronouncesyour name. that's okay. nobody gets it right. i wanted to say, by the way, mydog walkers charge $15 a visit which constitutes a 20-minutewalk. when they walk three dogs theymake $45 an hour. it is more than a retiredfairfax county teacher and they don't even have a degree. we turn to item 2.02, studentrepresentative matters.

thank you ms. honorablechair. i want to thank our speakers tor for coming to talk about these difficult issues. when i follow citizenparticipation it is heart because everything is stillringing in my head. on two fridays ago i had thegreat fortune of attending the-- the sidewalks around theschool were completely covered in images of peace and kindnessand what it means to be a good

citizen. i would like to thank thegroveton staff, students and teachers for committing to theculture our county has been supporting. thank you for grovetoncontinuing this. groveton has been a part offairfax county 100 schools in supporting talk for peace. getting to know thisorganization and its founder have been a great experience.

in addition, on september 26,the superintendent student advisory council had its firstmeeting where we discussed mental health including suicideprevention. the school environment,bullying, harassment and student health and wellness. they have been carefully truckd.c. strur chured on the agenda. this year i'm make it it mymission to visit all the high school and second dare schools. i was able to meet withchantilly high school and

wonderful career and technicalopportunities. i just wanted to recognize chantillie high school for its wonderful education and supportof its students. in addition, one of the pillarschools of the school, diversity, i came to see isextremely well represented and cherished by its own students. there are a handful oftransgendered students and i have seen case by case basiswhere administration are able to care for such students andmaintain a caring culture within

their community. i will be making many moreschool visits. but i would like to take notethus far i have seen students take it upon themselves tocreate the caring culture. they don't react to change inlegislation something they neat to research into, they adapt tothe 21st century change and social changes we areexperiencing. i very much love the communitythere. in addition as mental healthawareness week is upon us and i

see many citizens are passionateabout suicide prevention and awareness, attend theconversation fairfax high school october 29, well known speakerwill be discussing these issues. finally, as i mentioned at lastmeeting the 2016-2017 student leadership development programas well as the application for the fairfax county countystudent human rights commission are open. any students interested inleadership opportunities i encourage you to go on line andcheck out these applications.

turn to item 3.01, this is theportion of the meeting where the board will confirm any actiondiscussed in the closed meeting. these issues may include actionregarding student disciplinary matters. board members have discussed theindividual case and at this time will make the motion to confirmthe recommended action. i call on mrs. schultz for themotion. i move to grant the schoolreassignment appeal of a student

charged with a serious crimerelated to an incident that occurred in the community andmodify the disciplinary decision of the division superintendent. do i have a second? seconded by mrs. corbettsanders. all in favor raise your hands. that is unanimous. we turn to 3.02, appointment ofinterim superintendent.

strauss for amotion. thank you, i move to appointmr. steve lockard as actingsuperintendent on an interim basis effective on the last dayof employment of the current division superintendent whilethe school board conducts its search for and until it appointsa new superintendent. >> do i have a second? mrs. strauss.

would you like to speak to yourmotion? yes. dr. steve lockard is a skilledcollaborative administrator who understands how our schoolsystem works. he is a champion for studentsand assures student achievement is at the forefront ofeverything we do. the board is grateful he iswilling to lead. he joined fcps as deputysuperintendent may 2014.

he was deputy superintendent offrederick county schools in maryland, associatesuperintendent for elementary schools and in his distant passhe was a director, principal, assistant principal and mostimportant at all, a teacher. he is a father of three kids. that also counts. the board is fortunate to havesomeone with his expertise and vision and we sincerely lookforward to our interim, we don't look forward to the interimsituation we are going through,

but as we find ourselves in thisposition we are very grateful lockard will help us. fortunately, dr. lockard willnot be alone. we have a strong team. we are grateful for karen, yourappointing of many new folks sitting over here as well asmany seasoned people. so that our cabinet and ourleadership team are very strong. so we go through the search in aperiod of strength.

thank you dr. garza. the school board is great fallsdr. lockard for agreeing to beour interim superintendent. we shall all work very hardtogether, all of us. school board, the studentrepresentative, our team, all of our teachers and our principals. corbett sanders wouldyou like to your second? i have been consistentlyimpressed by the leadership

skills he has demonstrated aswell as he is a proven consensus builder, collaborator andthoughtful listener with a deliberate management style thati think will be important as he has a steady hand on the till aswe go forward. certainly he represents the bestof dr. garza's ability ofidentifying and cultivating top talent. so i'm very excited about thisappointment. mclaughlin.

well, i'm just going to saythis, not only do i fully agree with the wonderful words ofsupport for dr. lockard, wecould be here several hours if we wanted to extoll not only ourconfidence and trust in dr. lockard but our appreciationfor dr. garza in assembling sucha great team. the work we have in front of us,another closed session after this business meeting, i wouldsay dr. lockard it has been atrue pleasure getting to work

with you these past two and ahalf years. we wish we weren't needing tocall upon you, we recognize you are going truly help us continuethe great work dr. garza has putin motion these past three years. that is what has me most excitedabout this chance to work with you in a new position. so thank you. hines.

we will be confident to go tothe public while we do the unthinkable in replacing dr. lockard does not begin histerm tonight. that will come later as we getcloser to the unfortunate departure of dr. thank you for thatclarification. before calling for the vote iwill say briefly as sorry as i am that dr. garza is leaving us,i am very much looking parted to

continuing to work with dr. lockard when dr. garza doesmove on. i know the two of you willcollaborate over the next weeks to make a smooth transition forthat time and i know dr. garzahas left us in very strong shape and dr. lockhart has a greatteam to work with as well. i'm going to call for the vote.

lockhart, i'm going give youextra time if you would like to come up to the podium after thevote. with that, all those in favorof let me see if i'm supposed to reread the motion here. all those in favor of the motionto appoint steve lockard as acting division superintendenton an interim basis according to the terms and conditionsdiscussed in closed session and effective on the last day ofemployment on the current superintendent while the schoolboard search for and until it

appointed a new superintendent. all in favor raise your hand. thank you chairman evans,members of the school board, dr. thank you, dr. garza, for theopportunity you provided for me to come here to fairfax countypublic schools, the incredible learning i have gained workingwith you and all you have done for the students, staff andcommunity of fcps. i am sorry to see you leave us.

i know i'm better for theopportunity and thankful for the experience for serving on yourleadership team. so thank you very much. thank you to our school boardfor your support and confidence. i'm truly humbled and honored bythe challenge and responsibility in front of me. you have my commitment and myword that you will get everything i have during thistime as interim superintendent and continuing the importantwork that the board, dr.

garzaand the entire fcps community has begun. i'm committed to working withour school board, local and state leaders, parents,students, communities, school division staff as we continue tobe responsive to needs, open to improvements and continuallystrive to best serve our i will continue to stay focusedon the priority work advocating for our teachers, theircompensation and the budget needs of this incredible schoolsystem.

i look forward to helping ourdivision stay on the path of our strategic plan and helping allof our students realize their full potential and attributes ofportrait of a graduate. strauss you mentioned theincredible leadership team, i am so thankful to have theopportunity to work with a dedicated and talented group ofprofessionals. because of that team i know i'mgoing be able to hit the ground running. although literally running maytake me a bit longer, but we

will hit the ground running. certainly we will work toward aseamless transition during the board's search for a newsuperintendent. >> thank you dr. lockard andcongratulations. we turn to the consent agenda. robert rules provides severalitems approved by a single motion. many items have gone throughboard review, documentation,

have been provided to all boardmembers and the public in advance. 4.01, guidelines school boardrecognition of teams, ensembles. 4 prnt 012, policy 2613, studentdres code, policy 2630, use and parking of private motorvehicles on school property. voluntary uniforms in publicschools policy 5105, authority to enter into contractualagreements and policy 2620, students with physicallyaggressive or violent behavior

as detailed in the agenda item. 4 ppt 03, award the contract forthe chiller replacement at chantilly high school to thelowest responsive and responsible builder, sting raywelding, llc, $858,000 and authorize famts and trmsservices to execute and administer the contract onbehalf of the school board. 4 prnt 04, award a contract forthe whim oaks elementary school renovation and additions projectto the lowest responsive and responsible bidder dlrks 17.263and authorize facilities and

transportation services toexecute, deliver and administer the contract on behalf of theschool board. 4.05. is there any objection toapproving the consent agenda? >> one of the speakers pointedout there were some confusion in policy 2601, referencing thepolicy. this regulation is-- i do havean objection to including that item in the consent agenda. you would like to pull anitem off of the consent agenda?

i this so. the policy refers to theregulation. this regulation has been reviewsand there have been no changes. one of the speakers werereferring to sr and r had no changes. that creates confusion. point of order, madamchairman. i'm going to ask our clerkwhether at this time it can be pulled off the consent agenda.

could you turn on yourmicrophone. oh, you don't have a microphone. it has to be done before. i see. i understand that. since there is an allowance foran objection i would raise it. in that case if a boardmember has an objection do we take a vote on the consentagenda? we move one item.

okay. i will remove that one item andso we will, seeing no objection to the consent agenda withoutthat item, the consent agenda is moved and then we will take aseparate vote on adopting policy 2601 rights and responsibilitiesof students. point of order, i'm sorrymadam chair, i'm not sure i agree. if our rules say that items maybe removed at the request of any board member prior to themeeting.

i don't think we have an item ofremoving that option. what may happen is someonevoices their objection and what do we do if there is anobjection? do we have to vote? we have to vote anyway. i think we probably need aparliamentary ruling on this. i mean, i think we have arule for a reason. if we just allow people to--someone at the board table to pull it off we should change therule if we are not going follow

you need a microphone. the strategic governancemanual says an item has to be pulled before the meetingbegins. what happens if someoneobjects to the consent agenda? then you can continue. you need a majority vote to passit. so do we vote on the consentagenda? we need a parliamentaryruling on how we proceed if one board member objects to theconsent agenda after we have

started the meeting. may i very quickly point out,i'm not certain the reference the individual constituent wasreferring to regulation. i don't see in the reference toregulation all of these specifically. in section two. which one was it? section two of policy 2601,it says this regulation. can i offer a suggestion andi don't know if this is

possible. hang on, ms. corbett sanders. i just consulted robertsrules of order. i'm reading from the 11thedition, page 361, regarding consent calendars and consentagendas. the matters are taken up inorder unless objected to, in which case they are restored toif ordinary process where they are placed in line for regularconsideration on the regular

agenda. so mr. wilson's objectionwould place it in the regular order which means it is anaction item? it is new business. it could be placed either newbusiness or as an action item. that sup to the chair. >> i see. what we will do is make this anaction item and vote on it after

we have approved the consentagenda. i'm seeing no other objection toany item on the consent agenda. now the vote is on policy 2601,rights and responsibilities of >> i have a question. i believe that the issue is the2601 is the policy. it is not the regulation. i think the error andmisunderstanding is someone thinking this is the studentrights and responsibilities. h this is a policy that saysthere will be an sr and r.

this is not a vote on thecontent of the sr and r. >> no. it is still an action item. rather than consent item. >> i know. what i'm saying is whether ornot people thought this was the actual vote on the con tepts ofthe sr and r, it is not. >> i move we change section two. this policy has been reviewed.

>> i'm sorry. what is your motion. >> to substitute regulation withpolicy. this policy has been reviewedand no changes at this time. >> i second that. >> all in favor of that motion,raise your hand. so that motion passes. new business. the following are new businessagenda items.

there is not a vote but actionis scheduled at a future meeting. 5-01, award a contract to thevisitor side bleacher replacement at stuart highschool and execute andadminister the contract on behalf of the school board. 5-02, award a contract to southlakes to the low es responsible bidder and authorize thedivision superintendent or staupt superintendent offacilities and transportation

services to execute, deliver andadminister the contract on 5-03, authorize the divisionsuperintendent or the assistant superintendent department offacilities and transportation services who may act without theother to negotiate, execute and administer a lease agreement forbus parking to serve the school division's needs in bring speeldincluding all lease documentation in consultationwith legal counsel for the school division. 5-04, adopt suicide preventionrisk assessment policies

detailed in the agenda item. 5-05, adopt newly revised 2016fairfax county purchasing resolution previously adopted bythe board of supervisors subject to the conditions in the agendaitem. we turn to superintendentsmatters. i call on dr. >> thank you, madam chairman,members of the board. the virginia department ofeducation released graduation rates for the 2016 school year.

our graduation exceeds. 96 prnt 2 students graduated ontime. we lead the state in theseparticular items. another celebration is i'm veryproud to report that yet again we have seen an increase ins.a.t. scores for our students,which is not always the case across the nation. in some states we are seeinglagging s.a.t. scores.

that is not the case in fcps. we, again, surpassed state andnational averages on all areas in our overall composite scoreincreased three points. we are already very high. our overall composite score was1672. with last year's being 1669. we are very proud of springfieldestates elementary school for being named an exemplary highperforming school in the national blue ribbon program bythe u.s. department of

education. you all know that is a rigorousprocess to be selected as a blue ribbon school. one of 329 schools named to theprogram for this year across the nation. springfield estates wasrecognized for its academic excellence and closingachievement gaps among the various student groupsdemonstrating all students can achieve in classrooms.

we are going to be working withthe school to schedule a celebration at that school. i know the board members willlook forward to visiting the school and celebrate with allthe wonderful staff there. as was pointed out earlier, ourmental health and wellness october 29, saturday, 8:00 a.m. we have 50 breakout sessions andkeynote speakers. it is going be a wonderfulconference. i'm so very pleased with yourappointment of steve lockhart

as the interim superintendent. he is an intelligent, thoughtfulleader and he cares and he always wants to do the rightthing. he will do a great job workingwith our strong leadership team as you work to find a newsuperintendent. commit to working closely withyou, with dr. lockhart, with theleadership team to ensure for a smooth transition. thank you, madam chair.

>> thank you, dr. next is board committee reports. hynes for a report on the audit committee. the audit committee whichconsists of four school board members and two highly qualifiedcitizen members met on september 28 and our agenda was to followup on previous audits and get a status of current auditengagements, the audit committee considered proposed office ofthe auditor general metrics and work plan.

the next meeting of the auditcommittee is october 26. the last wednesday of everymonth. it is open to the public andvideotaped for those who can't make it. all the papers related areposted online. derenak kaufaxfor a report on the skip committee. thank you, madam chairman. the full skill board metyesterday october 5.

and we discussed how county andschool staff work together to integrate the one fairfaxrussian into their work. there will be meetings set upbetween county and staff to begin. ongoing school and county staffhow we can accommodate more children in preschool programsand extensionive conversation about the tiered system ofapproach. we are working on a county andschool combined basis to improve school attendance in fairfaxcounty.

the action plan for this tieredimprovement system was approved with the caveat a small workinggroup would further refine the tier one interventions. the skip group is meeting, tothe public, there are two school board members myself and ms. mclaughlin and two county boardof supervisors and many, many heads of organizations aroundthe county. because we are a big group ithink it has taken some time, but there is a lot of good solidwork being done there.

it is extensive. so what i'm going to be doing isi'm going to be asking the chair and the clerk, i will add theattachments so you can peruse on your own and see. if there are things, of course,for future policy changes ms. mclaughlin and i would bringthat up. a lot of it is staff to staffwork and the things we are doing are the things i think thisboard really cares about and it is happening.

it is slowly, but it ishappening. i want to be sure you have allthat information out there. next on the agenda is boardmatters. hynes. i will pass tonight. i will also pass. hough. thank you to all those whocame out to my office hours in the sully district yesterday.

i look forward to being in mournin a couple of weeks. -- in mount vernon in a coupleof weeks. yes, i want to recognize ms. hubbard from west potomac highschool who was recognized by the white house for her avidprogram. big applause for her as well asi want to thank the county staff for all of their hard work whichmade the opening of the new mount vernon team center at theoriginal mount vernon high school a grand suchk this pastsaturday.

>> mrs. >> i met with the leadership ofthe t.j. partnership group. read a little bit of our visiongoing forward. quote from mike skulneck-- as we collectivelyenvised when the t.j. renovationbegan the new facility should serve as a hub for the wholecommunity, available to everyone in the county to inspire orexpand a passion for stem. t.j. is a public resource and welook forward as the construction

dust settles to provide oursupport. the partnership fund, in orderto broaden the impact and reach of the programs beyond thestudent body. it is important now that thet.j. renovation is nearing theend, somewhere in sight, we return to our original visionwhen we began this renovation so we can find, seek more ways toshare the facility, the resources that the school hasand the wonderful partnerships and ideas that students come upwith at t.j.

it is a place not just for thestudents who go to school every day within the walls, it is aplace for all of us to partner, to learn and to excite all ofour students about stem and research. mark skulnik and extending theuse of the wonderful resources available at thomas jefferson. >> ms. >> just briefly in honor ofdyslexia awareness month i wanted to use an opportunity toexpress my appreciation to the

tremendous advocates who helpedcreate decoding dyslexia virginia advocacy group infairfax county who have done a masterful job of helping toeducate not only the school board, but to communicate andwork with dr. garza and many ofher staff and really helping fairfax county schoolsunderstand the prevalence of dyslexia among our students andhow we can continue to improve their educational success and soit is just hats off again to dr. garza in your tenure here youreally helped us move this

school system in a greatdirection and helping those students and their families andi know from working closely with the advocates, they very muchappreciate that while we-- it is a journey and we continuewith a school system of our size to get it right each and everytime, you have helped set the tone from the very top. i know they would want me toexpress my appreciation, especially since we honored ithere tonight. mr.

wilson. >> thank you, madam chairman. first just a heads up, i amplanning to have office hours this month tentatively it is foroctober 26 at 10:30 a.m. at thecentreville regional library. i will send an e-mail to convertthat date and time. i want to say thanks to membersof our community who have come out the last several meetingsand expressed continued concern about the issues surrounding thetransgender issue that is

bubbling through our courtsystems and captivated much of our country and particularly ourschool systems. and i am thinking that perhapswe have a way to engage the public more and provide someupdate in terms of the school board's actions or perhaps noactions on the implementation of regulations. i think some of the commentsthat were reflected tonight perhaps reflected somemisunderstanding as to where we are as a school system on thisschool board on the issue of

gender identity. so i am going to discuss thatwith my fellow board members and see whether or not we can bringthat as a forum topic somehow we can engage with the public moreon that topic. derenak kaufax. >> thank you. as dr. garza mentioned i want toextend my congratulations to the teachers, staff and principal atspringfield estates elementary

school by being named by theu.s. department of education as a 2016 blue ribbon award winner. this is based on overallacademic excellence. blue ribbon schools prove allschools can achieve at high levels. as a parent of two children kwhoattended springfield estates i know they worked hard to becomethis exemplary school. congratulations. lockhart, we are happy youaccepted this opportunity when

garza moves on. we look forward to working withyou in this role. and finally, i just want toextend my sympathy to the family and friends of connor juaros. i'm sending prayers of healingduring this very difficult time. mcelveen. hopefully you having a cast on and limping is not a sign ofthings to come. we wish you the best in yourrecovery and all you will do for

our system. with that, this meeting isadjourned. we are going to into closedmeeting. the board will make a motion togo into closed meeting to discuss performance of specificemployees pursuant to to code 2-2, to consult with legalcouncil regarding legal matters requiring legal advice regardingpersonnel matters, 2.28711.

do i have a motion? all in favor.

raise your hands. we now go into closed session.

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bills and it's crazy to your calls from thecountry and then is huge much percentage of republicans began to believeit and then bad nonverbal elements on our hearts so i believe it is crazy theory that eight more sold in twothousand election for a while a majority of your colleagues believe thatin new york katharine these constantly anything well i think i think a global his are gonnabelieve what they want to believe regardless

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and then he seems so distraught means like truly disrespectful to the kids in you know i don't really didn't like it mademe feel uncomfortable and you know that he's parent like pull towards the side and saidyet on the media that is did notice that until the parents pointed out so conquered lugar whom here is the people who recognizess hawkers in the first place all the kids network year was their reaction he

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now and another thing that i love always ginarobinson the woman who questions fifteen years old and have two kids and she's talking about how how much penismade her a comfortable combat buchanan is before political are anyway alright uh... spend the next starring uh... until high school softball coaches areuh... facing accusations that they were harassing a lesbian student uh... it's allege that day went to the lesbian student's mom

and revealed the girls sexuality and they also kicked off the softball teamso we have another video about this story and what you guys to check it out and outwill show commentary on it a kilgore high schools softball player saysshe was outed by her coaches to her own mother now her mother is suing those coaches andthe school district the texas civil rights project file civilsuit in federal court on the family that happened monday

tonight both mother and daughter telltaletomy sevens lemons and why they're now seeking damages that had softball coach and assistant coachthe assistant athletic director and the school district are all day in the lawsuit claiming they allviolated now seventeen-year-olds skylights constitutional rights to privacy softeningon pattern program we spoke with five provides relationis that the other media levels that's a little more what i have seen we're told sky camehere to the far ballfield back in march of two thousand nine to meet with our other teammates

the coaches came in and dismissed the restof the team will often goes on to say the coaches led her to the in the locker roomnearby lock the door behind them and historical wrapping her threatening her questioning her about an alleged sexual relationshipwith her and another thing that student hits they had gone out of hand there was no one there for her sky and otherparts of that the time she was unaware her daughter was seen another girl but barbara says she was more upset at the way the situation was handled whereare my contract you have a hard world in on

on the carpet according to the lawsuit barbara filed three different complaints withthe district it claims the coaches continued out skiesother students an employee's so barbara out of office weaker the it they recorded here can't commit suicide over it and if we don't want to continue with ourchildren

to decide today she said we got to do somechanging to keep what happened to them from happening to any other student later livingston gail sheehy said all right so i'd feel like they do storieslike this all the time you know school administrators are teachers were either discriminating againsta student's other harassing gay students you know you want to talk about nanny state a look at these high schools where you haveadministrators all up in the students business stoner business it's not of god damn businesswhat this girl sexuality is

your guard down softball coach so it's are you hearing stuff like this andreally irritates me my theory olive skin is that they are coaches are curry waiters i think the lives of the design ho alone and gossipy and a good way to tell other teachersthey couldn't wait to tell everybody by how do you know that somebody going the only evidence

story that early on in all this fallout rejected that they have reached drives me crazy right uh... now any air adding her name he twentydifferent ways is is wrong again only slight issue i have is that the moms also made today out of her to her parents right apparently she's fine with it so that part these last few minutes

well now i complain sympathize with the mothershe's upset at the way the two co-chairs put her into a locker room and they startedquestioning her interrogating her about her sexuality i would be irate if someone do that'smy child that's unacceptable and they're also end of the mom is also upsetthat they're going around gossiping about it with other teachers then you know other students i would be upset about that as well and youknow act sign it or leave you with and by the way if i were pants i would

fluid on teachers admittedly i go back to your conference whateverlies in being over this issue are circling around their sex life as a partisan who would you say yes but man the girl boy who of you did see toit et cetera got those very important not to figures might argue to you whose alaska ever really sought not mean that that i think that's a good wayto handle it and i'd love to see their reaction

to it but i'm i'd argue would be the outreach of course they would be outragedand you know what's interesting about this story we don't know if this is one hundredpercent sure this is what the girls mothers alleging she says that the first thing they did isthey went to police and when police went to the school to investigate the situation they found out what happened and they allegedlylaughed about it and left so on at first they wanted to oppress charges

on the coaches and now they're on basicallyholding that entire school and accountable the administrators in everything for not doingsomething about the situation which i think i i think it she should do i think this is crazy serious can be treated like this j i'd feellike it if this keeps happening again and again allthroughout the country and for some reason administrators think theycan do it and get away with it without silly no consequences

and we did that story about constant smcmillana million times during this year's uh... you know program cell i'd love that that parent is fightingback in another thing that love is that she was an outrage that her daughter sexualitybut i was a little worried about that you know she would find out their daughterslesbian and then it would cause a rift in their relationship but she seems to be okaywith it how final results or they say we've got uh...eddie's about as cops mario kart come out to be a sculptor like hooked into the that nato who has a historyof the first-floor scotia who's you know that's

awesome are enlisted one more story before we takea break and your our topic is the point so uh... kelsey grammer and camille grammarare divorcing okay the reason whether divorcing is because kelsey grammer had a show on broadwaywhile he was flying to new york uh... out of l_a_ he fell in love with the flight attendantout her name is kate walsh and now he plans on divorcing camille so hecan mary-kate nal during you know the divorce proceedingsact kelsey grammer agreed to give camille grammar thirty thousand dollars

they do not have a pre-nuptial agreement camino thirty million all when i say thirty thousand dollars magical you undesirable ahead or it doesn't go keratin catalysed aside thirty million dollars so commute camera look at that amount andlack shes like nina

fifty million dollars and sell now you know they're duking it outover this money and i think it ac of course the question of whether or not shedeserves the fifteen fifty million dollars is an interesting conversation to have butwhat i find even more interesting is a fact that he plans on marrying this womankate walsh he does not plan on getting a pre-nuptialagreement all swamped so many different ways story first uh... i'll i'll bet you fellow duringthe flight

big no no how what she uses no yes indeed says southside class uh... cyo i was told on the side of the divorce thirtymillion isn't enough dogs and somebody like who's married although there were twenty andi a deputy by the nato the light at the end of it twenty eight grade kids

he's only if you saw has been a little whilethey behaved exceed years pierced here you go to a close like he sheor he marry them policeman davis in the charlie it's brighton through the million dollars is not enough but crazy talk yeah i i agree with you onthat thirty million dollars is a rediculously high amount of money it's so much money idon't even know i'll if i would be able to spend thirty million dollars but you know i think the only thing that camillehas on our side is not thirteen years of marriage

i don't think is a joke i think that's a pretty uh... long-time especially in celebrity standardsand another thing to take into consideration is uh... camille married him when he had analcohol problem and she claims that she helped in uh... basically find sobriety ging cakeis alcohol addiction i don't know if you yeah i don't know if that's true that's what she'sclaiming sonya in it's true care k he because a lot of wife's help their husbands with alcohol

and some causes otherwise they don't get paidan extra twenty million dollars for right etc outlook x_-thirty has a long time hereyou had a celebrity users like ninety six years of marriage i hit that i'm doing a raunchy didn't know how long shewill get a gigantic enough all i'm saying is that i don't see the need for that an extra twentymillion dollars his neck nicci he lost the anyway because the commentsi have read over the next one so that i thought

screwy he he's he has a comment you know to a disaster and he says you know kelsey grammer also uh... major concern always leave jobless is awesome come on sunday recall somesaying darker charlotte were ken walsh will be his fourth wife so uh... that's a greatexample of his family values you know what the once

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(inspirational music) - [narrator] good morning,this is faith in our hometown, brought to you as acommunity service, and sponsored by mercyhospital, joplin. and now, here's yourhost, father jay friedel.

demand sex, - good morning and welcometo faith in our hometown, our local show here inthe greater joplin area where we get a changeto talk about faith and the things that aregoing on in our lives,

and how those thingsintersect for those of us living here in thegreater joplin area. my guest this morning isgoing to be clarke clayton, who works for lifechoices health network. one of the thingsthat we're going to be talking about thismorning is going to be one of those things thatyou get to educate about all the time, clarke, which is, the prevalence of pornographyand the way that it kind of

has filtered in to our society. something that used to bea situation where you would have to sneak to a seedyarea of town and do the walk of shame, now, isjust done with a few clicks of a button, and it's rightthere in front of everybody. and because of itsprevalence, it is really changing the landscapea great deal. so, we're gonna betalking a little bit about what we might doabout some of that,

and how we might speak tothe people here in our area. we'll be right back after thismercy minute, don't go away. (uplifting music) - [narrator] find outhow a mercy doctor can take care of you. at mercy, your lifeis our life's work. quality, safety, and anexceptional patient experience. mercy is gratefulto be recognized as one of the top 15 healthsystems in the united states.

- so, welcome back. again, my guest thismorning is clarke clayton, who's with lifechoices health network. and clarke, i'm just gonnahave you introduce yourself, and talk a little bitabout the work that you do for life choices, and thework that life choices does, especially where itconcerns this area, and our conversationthis morning about how do we kind of warn peopleabout some of the dangers

that we've unknowinglygot ourselves into. - well, we're asexual health clinic. we also go intothe schools and do sex ed relationship educationin 15 school districts. our three cliniclocations, we have two in joplin, and wehave one in carthage. we offer a full range ofsexual health services. we're really there to beable to minister to anyone who may be experiencinga sexual health crisis.

- and one of the crisesis that, i think that at least you and i can agree on, is the ubiquitousness ofporn in our culture today. it's just, it's rewiringyoung men's brains, especially young men,and nobody's even aware that in some waysthat it's happening. so, when you go in, i knowthat the message just can't be, don't, it's bad for you, becausewell, everybody expects us to say things like that, don't,that it might be bad for ya.

what's your approach whenyou go into the schools and when you starttalking about this? - yeah, well we, certainlyfor our culture, we have to reframe it outsideof just having a moral argumentthat it's wrong. we have to come atit with scientific, research-based informationthat helps educate young people that really their futurerelationship health is at stake if they give themselves to this.

because, hidden withinporn are latent messages, beliefs, values, and if someof that learned behavior happens very early inadolescence, it will shape behavior for therest of their lives. - yeah, it's kinda like,i always used to say you can't go kind of worshipingat a particular church without slowly getting someof that stuff to sink in. in that regard, they'rekind of going to their different spot andtaking their values and their

cues in a different way thanis probably helpful for them. now, again, let's goahead and just take the moral argument to theside, because yes, we could probably both agree,we're both church goers, i will just point blank saythis is not about god not wanting people toenjoy their bodies, this is not about god notwanting people to have sexual relationshipswith one another. let's face it, i thinkhe designed us that way,

to want to do that. why did somebody look atsomebody else and suddenly go, oh my gosh, you'reattractive, i think i might want to spend the restof my life with you? it's part of themystery of life, and we should rejoicein it, and we should build up healthy relationshipswithin the parameters that we all thinkthat they should be. and i know that we'regonna define those

parameters differently, andso i'm not even gonna try to do that on a showlike today, okay. but what i do think is true,is that there is a lot of scientific evidence, notbecause we don't want people to appreciate who they are,or revel in their sexuality, but the way thatsociety, or the way that, i shouldn't say society, butthe way that certain parameters of society, have triedto frame that argument, that anything goes, and thatthis isn't harmful for you,

and watch everything,and it's all wonderful. it's really selling everybodykind of a bill of goods. - yeah, that's exactly right. specifically, pornhas pretty much become modern day sex educationfor young people simply because ofits accessibility. you give your kid a cellphone for christmas, you're pretty much handingthem porn, unless you have put the right softwarein place, and the right

kind of monitoring ability,access is just so simple. the average age of firstexposure to porn in the u.s. right now iseleven, and that's a very conservative kind of basis. and if that exposure continues,it will certainly create very warped ideasabout human sexuality. - yeah, i think again,dealing with my students when i was full-time atthe university in de kalb, when i was dealingfull-time with my students,

they just had no idea thatslowly they were just giving themselves over to allkinds of images and stuff that were gonna create allkinds of problems for them when they wereactually trying to successfully navigatea real relationship. my point for them was,don't watch it because i don't think it's healthy forya, don't watch it because, or don't get into it, becauseyou have no idea how that's gonna effect your abilityto relate into the future.

- that's right, couple ofthe beliefs and messages that porn has, specifically,that will teach young men about sex, is that a, sex shouldbe accessible at any time, because porn is accessibleat any time, and so they bring then,into a relationship, that i should be ableto demand sex as much as i become accustomed to,because of my demand for porn. it's also gonna teach youngmen that women are really just to be dominatedand used, because

that's how womenare treated in porn. it will also give him themessage that sex is really just about his pleasure,and, honestly, that's when the porn scene's over,is when he's done. and then, it also kind oflays in this thought that whenever i grow boredwith a certain person, and a certain activity,then i can just move on to something else that'sa little more exciting. - yeah, and those are aall messages that i think

that have already takenroot in the culture, at least as far as i can see it. i mean, those arethe things that my college students strugglewith all the time. and i think of one particularstudent, and this is way back a long time ago, so,nobody at missouri southern, everybody relax, but, one ofmy student was in the middle of trying to navigate a newrelationship, and he was just so scared that he was gonna messit up because he was so used

to the hookup culturethat suddenly, when he did find somebody he wasreally interested in, he almost messed it up severaltimes in the first few months because he was just so used tomoving on to the next person, he was so used to not beingdisciplined, so used to that message of, well i should beable to do this anytime i want, and when he was actuallystarting to navigate a relationship that reallystarted to matter to him, he was scared to deathhe was gonna mess it up.

and without some othercounter-coaching, i really think hewoulda messed it up. now, gloriously, i gottasay they been married now for several years, but imean, it really took a lot of unlearning of somepretty unhealthy behavior that made the relationshippossible, ya know. - absolutely, it can even effect the intimacy within therelationship because, if you think about it, if thisearly exposure is happening,

and it's typically accompaniedwith self-pleasure, then really what the individual isdoing is conditioning their mind and theirbody to experiencesexuality in isolation. right, so that arousal state,and that release state, is something that is happeningvery privately, so that if they move into a relationshipwhere sexual activity is introduced, it can beincredibly uncomfortable and even anxiety-producing. and so, a lot of, especiallymillennials, just find

relationships in general tobe very awkward experiences, because it's a whole loteasier just to seclude yourself in your dorm room, to secludeyourself in your apartment, and just utilize porn foryour sexual lifestyle. you can still havefriends, you can still have relationships,but, because that's been the environment thatsexuality has been cultivated, it becomes a very private issue. - yeah, and again, whatso many people are saying

that they're hungry for isrelationship, but in this great age of freedom, we'vekind of tripped people up to be able to excel at theirrelationship, because of what we've touted as freedomthat everybody should have, to be able to watchwhatever they want, and do whatever they want, inthe privacy of their own home. i mean, it's just,i'll never forget when i was in high schooland one of the priests that was teaching ussaid, masturbation

is really a social act,and we all just laughed. we thought, what do youmean it's a social act. but what he was saying was,is that even that choice to isolate and to do thatis effecting, in terms of the way you actually encounterand live out relationships. which, i mean, it was ashocking thought to me as a 17-year-old, that thatreally was in some ways a social act, and it wastied in with all those other things that i wanted interms of life, and love,

and relationships, andall those things, but yet, that i was kind of in themiddle of maybe messing it up because i was thinkingsomething else. - yeah, well they know formstudies that individuals who are heavily involved inporn rate less satisfaction in their relationships,rate being less in love with their partner,are far more critical of their partner's appearance,and are far more critical of their partner'ssexual performance.

it basically elevates astandard of expectation that simply can'tbe lived up to. because, at the end of theday, porn is all a sham. it's a complete hoax,it's all fabricated, it's all one big lie,that when you consume it to that level, itcreates an expectation that you want toexperience personally that another person just isn'tgonna be able to deliver. - yeah, it's a greatchallenge in terms of wanting

a relationship, but yetthinking that, as something else that has been considerednow the norm, is actually tripping you up in the waythat you're gonna do that. and that's even withoutsomebody like me coming in and saying, well then,where's your soul, in the middle of all that too. this is just the, what weknow about what happens to the physiology of a personand the way it is happening. one of my friends who's asex-addictions therapist

in the st. louis area, hetalks about the fact that, and he's showed me a fewthings on the rewiring of a human brain, that actually,adolescent brains especially, in their developmental stages, are very prone to beingable to be rewired. and he showed me someof the mechanisms of how that actually takesover physiologically, and nobody is warning anybody. - yeah, it's thoseneuroplasticityyears from around

age 11, 12, through 21, to 22, when our brains aretotally pliable. often times, we talk aboutteen reckless behavior, they're just notmaking good decisions. it's because it's duringthat time in their life that their brains are mostopen to new experiences. and so, it's a wonderfulgift god has for us, but we have to be able tounderstand that where we're drawing that informationfrom can have a

huge impact forwhere we go in life. to give you a little exampleof what this looks like practically is,individuals that are addicted to porn, andare actually experiencing physiological effectsfrom that addiction. - hang on just asecond, i'm gonna interrupt you for just a second. we're gonna comeback, we're gonna start with that rightafter this break.

we'll be right back, thisis faith in our hometown. - [narrator] you're watchingfaith in our hometown, on ksn tv, brought to youas a community service, my guest this morning,again, is clarke clayton, with life choiceshealth network. we were talking a littlebit before the break. i want you to goback right to where you left off, in terms of that. - yeah, so, scientificstudies have shown

one of out every threeyoung men, 18 to 25, are now experiencingsome form of erectile dysfunctiondue to porn use. this has to do with therewiring of the brain. when these individualscome to this realization, oh my gosh, i can'tsexually perform, and they want to recover, theywant to rehab from this, the research tellsus that if the man is over the age of 30 andcompletely cuts cold turkey,

stops watching porn,stops masturbating, on average, he's gonnaexperience a return of full sexual performancein about 30 days. if individuals under theage of 30, same kinda deal, stop watching porn,stop masturbating, on average, it's takinghim about six months. and you go, wait a second,why is it that the old guys can recover five timesfaster than the young guys. and it actually haseverything to do with

the type of porn theywere initially exposed to during those neuroplasticityyears of adolescence. if you're over the ageof 30, that introduction to porn was likely a magazine. pretty boring, right? whereas, if you'reunder the age of 30, typically that first exposurewas gonna be high-def, high speed internetporn, unending novelty, a far more powerful andinsidious type of media.

- yeah, and it, again,it just gets its hooks in in a way thateverybody would swear, no, it's not gonna happen tome, or what's the big harm, or you're being aprude, or whatever. and unfortunately, it'sthe nature of the beast, because of the wayit works on those, the way that the brainfires, that gets everybody in the trouble that they're in. - i actually had, just a fewmonths ago, an 18-year-old

young man come to the clinicthinking he had some kind of an sti, because he wasn'table to get an erection. he'd never experienced thisbefore, it was very bizarre to him, he had no ideawhat was going on. i just asked him, i said,do you watch a lot of porn. he kinda shuffled arounda little bit, and he goes, well yeah, almost like, whodoesn't watch a lot of porn. i was just able to explainto him, well, it kinda sounds like what you're describingis that your brain no longer

is attuned to being ableto be aroused in that type of a setting, becauseit's been so conditioned that arousal is onlysomething that happens with you and yourdigital device. and that's very, very true. it's not that these individualscan't achieve an erection, because if they wereto go to their room, if they were to shut theirdoor, if they were to pull out their laptop, theywould instantly be aroused.

it's this ulteriortype of relationship that involves another person,that actually involves physical touch with anotherperson, that involves eye contact with anotherperson, that involves emotional vulnerabilitywith another person, that all of a sudden,their brain's going, i dunno what we're doing here, this is completelyuncomfortable, this is foreign territory to me,i don't know how to react,

i don't know how to respond. - yeah, you know, it's scary when i stopand i think about, 'cause i just think about allof the kids that i deal with. and again, our catholicschool kids, or catholic kids, are no more immune than anyother group in the world, in terms of stumbling overall this stuff and using it. and as a result, and let'sface it, there is a certain amount of experimentationthat is, quote, "normal,"

when you are young to figure out where am i in all this,and what does it all mean. and i understand all that, butit's just trying to get that other message out therethat says, but this stuff isn't stuff to be toyedaround with, because it is so insidious, and it can getyou so fast that, you know, i just want 'em to be ableto, you know, for those that are gonna to marry, i want'em to be able to be happy. i want 'em to beable to be faithful.

i want 'em to be ableto thoroughly enjoy that aspect of theirlives together. and i want that for them,i want them to be able to be good at it, to succeedat it, to revel in it. and to have that truly bea component, or a piece of, the blessing of what theirmarriage is supposed to be. and that's what ireally want for them. and at the whole time, i'mtrying to also, back here, say, but be carefulover here because,

this stuff can bite you so fast. - yeah, and again, ifyou think about it, if this research data istrue, this exposure to porn is happening in mostpeople's lives before puberty is actually kindof in full swing. and so, if this informationis kind of already been embedded, and then theirbodies begin to change, and hormones kind ofcome in to the picture, and this desire to expressthemselves sexually,

well, if their first exposureto sexuality has happened on a digital platformthrough pornography, then naturally, that firstformat for sexual expression for them is likely also goingto happen on a digital format. and so, in the studies, they'vebeen able to determine the primary influencing factor forsexting among youth culture, youth sending explicitimages of themselves naked, to another person over theirmobile device, the one form of media that's influencingthat more than anything else,

more than the moviesthey watch, more than the music they listen to,is the presence of porn. and it has to do with that,well, sexuality is something that happens digitally and so,as i awaken to my sexuality, it's something i'm going tobegin to practice digitally. - and again, the mystery of a human relationship isnot pixels on a screen. that's where the fallacy is. it's that that's all just fake.

it's all removed fromreality, and yet, that it's so prevalent thatpeople get sucked into it so fast that they don't evenknow what they're getting sucked into before it's,in some ways, too late, and some damage hasalready been done. so how do we counteract this? how do we counteract the damage? how do we do someof those things? - well first off, ithink there has to be

a social recognitionthat pornography is a significant healthconcern, it's a significant cultural concern. and, we've heard foryears, and years, and years from the porn industry that a,it's art, it's entertainment, it's free speech, it's allof these types of things. and yet, what they'renot telling you, is that half of all humantrafficked victims in the u.s. have been forced to make porn.

well, that takes it out ofthe realm of free enterprise. this makes it an issueof human slavery. in fact, researchersare now suspecting that porn is actuallythe leading cause of human trafficking inthe united states. and the average age of the human traffickedvictim is 12-years-old. so, if we can get thatmessage out there. if communities canunderstand that

our acceptance ofthis, or at least, our treating thisas a non-issue, is actually a dismissalthat human trafficking, that sex trafficking,is a non-issue. if we can bring that tolight, then we might actually be able to see achange in culture in terms of attitudeand behavior. - yeah, and to get peopleto realize that they're, you know, well who's it hurting.

well, it was hurtinga lot of people. even when it wasmade, in most cases. - absolutely. - i think of even someof the sites where people are doing thingsbecause somebody offers them a couple hundred bucks,well, it's, in some ways, the oldest game in theworld of, i'm gonna hit your vulnerabilities and i'm gonnaentice you in to do this because you need the money.

and somebody slides youthis money, and then you can do this, and we canall say it was a quid pro quo, it was just an exchange ofservices, and nobody got hurt. well, did reallynobody get hurt? and, is really nobody elsegetting hurt in the interim, with it being plastered all over the internet foreverybody to see? and again, the answer to that is that it's not avictimless crime.

some people argue whetherit's a crime or not, but certainly thebuying and selling of human beings iscertainly a moral issue. - and, whether it's legal, ornot, doesn't mean it's right. again, i don't necessarilyexpect all kids to get that part of the argument, but i thinkthe argument, that i think in some ways they can get,is do you wanna relate to a screen the rest of yourlife, because i mean, there's lots of otherstudies out right now

that millennials are waiting, they're not having as much sex. well the reason why they'renot having any sex is because they are, in some ways,just doing it with a computer screen in their room. while some people arerejoicing in the one statistic, i don't know that that'sa lot to rejoice in, because really, we're enslavinga new generation in a way that they wouldnever have conceived

in the name of freedom,and free speech. - and the fallout from thatis, fewer relationships, fewer long lastingrelationships, fewer marriages, fewer families, and you beginto see the systemic breakdown of communitybecause, no one knows how to relate toeach other anymore. - it's kind of a shamebecause really we so often, churches get a bad rap forwanting to, quote, quote "ruin everybody's fun," but,the way i look at it is,

really, in so many ways,we're trying not to ruin everybody's fun, but tosave their fun for something that's real rather thansomething that is artificial. - that's exactly right,any commercialized, any commercialization ofsex is really just the commodification of usinganother person for sex. it's a dehumanizing practice,i would even say it goes so far to be anti-human. and anytime you denysomeone else's humanity,

you end up denying your own. - yeah, and it's justthat great slippery slope that when you startdoing it in one area, pretty soon you startdoing it in another area. pretty soon you'refalling down into this pit and you don't even know thatthat's where you've hit. well, clarke, thanks forbeing with us this morning. we'll be right back afterthis mercy minute to wrap up. don't go away.

- if there's a familyhistory of breast cancer, especially breastcancer at an early age, that's a very high riskfactor for breast cancer and those patients shouldhave early surveillance, and should be awareof some of the signs and symptoms ofearly breast cancer. other risk factors would include maintaining an optimal weight. if one carries excessweight, that increases

baseline estrogenlevels, and that seems to increase the riskof breast cancer. those would be themain risk factors. - well thanks for joining us this morning forfaith in our hometown. again, our guest this morning,and our thanks to you, clarke, clarke clayton fromlife choices health network. life choices has alwaysbeen involved with the sexual health ofthe whole community,

and this is one of thosewhere you guys are fighting a very important battle,and that is for the sexual health of our youngpeople, especially in light of the fact that porn has becomeso prevalent in our society, and literally, it'srewiring the brains of so many of our youngpeople to where they don't even realizethat their ability to have a good, healthy relationshipis being imperiled by some of the stuffthat's kind of become

so accessible, andcrept into our homes. again, we're not abouttrying to spoil people's fun, or their sexual lives,but really what we're trying to do is tosave them for them. so, we need to continueto pay attention, and we continue to need thisto be an issue for us. this is a matter offaith in our hometown. thanks for joining us.

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now that you are familiar with the optionsavailable for sessioning your horse, as well as the basic functions of the energy bar,i'm going to take you through a month of sessioning with a few different horses so that you canget an idea of what it would be like to session horses at various levels in their training.afterwards, i will discuss popular methods of training as well as some helpful tips.

age effects, before i begin sessioning i would like todiscuss a few things that can affect your horse's training speed and progress. a horse's learning speed is affected by primarilyby two things: genetics and age. some horses are more willing than others and will learnmore quickly. this is often referred to as

their trainability. this is a genetic trait,and like any genetic trait selective breeding can improve or worsen it. age is the secondfactor. the earlier you begin working with a horse, the quicker they will learn. if theyare used to people, and being handled by people, they won't be as resistant to training. ageeffects learning during ground and green training and has no effect on discipline training.a common misconception is that the intelligence trait effects a horse's training speed. thisis not true; a horse with higher intelligence will not learn more quickly than a horse withlow intelligence. however, a horse's temperament will have an effect on how quickly it learns.a foul-tempered or high-strung horse with higher trainability will not learn as quicklyas an even-tempered, willing horse who has

slightly lower trainability. now that you're more familiar with what does,and does not effect a horse's training speed, i'll begin sessioning. to get to the sessioning area i can eitherscroll down bob's page or i can use the "sessioning" link to jump quickly down to the appropriatearea. since i'll be doing groundwork with bob iam going to take this opportunity to hide the discipline training options by clickingon the "x" placed above them. now i can't accidentally click a discipline option. hidingthe discipline options in this way can be a very good way to help prevent against unintentionalclicks that could result in an injury to a

young horse not prepared for discipline training.when i decide to begin discipline training i can click the "+" sign and expand thediscipline options to full again. first things first. before i can do too muchwith bob i have to get him used to his halter. so i'll start by clicking on the "introducehalter" task in the ground training section. pay special attention to bob's energy baras i do this. well, it's very obvious that bob wants nothing to do with me or the halter,and as you can see his energy has dropped quite a bit. since i'm new to bob and bobis new to me, i'm going to quit training after this first session since it took a lot outof him and i am unfamiliar with how much stress he can handle. you'll notice now that his"time worked today" is 10 minutes because

i used one session, and i have gone from 10available sessions down to 9. note that because i began training with 30 days remaining bob's"days sessioned this month" has not changed from zero. as soon as i begin working himwith 29 days remaining, his "days sessioned this month" will begin to tally. since istill have several sessions available to me i'll take this opportunity to groom bob. aswe discussed in part 1, you'll notice that grooming requires no energy from bob, butstill requires a session to complete each grooming task. each time i perform a groomingtask bob's time worked increases by 10 minutes and i lose another session. bob has no beenhandled for 40 minutes and i have used 4 sessions. i still have 6 left, but i would like to continuetraining bob, so i'm going to click on the

"next day" button and begin a new day. you can see that i now have 29 days left availableto me and my sessions have been reset to 10. bob was rather tuckered out from yesterday'ssessioning and today he has started with less than full energy. this is nothing to be alarmedabout and can happen from time to time. i'll keep it light today and only try introducingthe halter to bob once. you can tell by his reaction that he is still not very pleasedwith the halter, and his energy has dropped a good deal. i'll spend a few more sessionsand groom bob, as i do not feel it would be wise to continue training him today. bob has now been handled for 1 hour and 10minutes. i have used 7 sessions, and his "days

worked this month" has changed to 1. thereisn't much else for me to do with bob today, so i'm going to click the "next day" buttonand begin a new day. now you can see that i have 28 days remainingand my sessions have reset to 10. bob had a good rest last night and his energyis full. i'll attempt to introduce the halter to him again and see how he handles it. well,he's still very shy about it, but today he didn't expend quite as much energy as he didthe day before. i think he can handle another training session with the halter so i'm goingto try introducing him to him once more. still shy, but he is making progress. i'm goingto play it safe and stop training for today, as bob's energy is now a bit low.

as i'm sure you've realized from these fewdays of sessioning bob, energy loss is not static. even for the same task, bob lost moreenergy during some training sessions than he did others. depending on the horse's reaction they canlose less or more energy, so it is wise to keep an eye on their energy bar to make sureyou don't push them too far. this is something you will develop a feel for with practice,so don't feel intimidated if you over-exert your horse a few times by accident. now that you've been able to watch me sessionbob a few times, i'll jump forward to the end of the month and we'll see how he hasprogressed.

well, it's the end of the game month and bobhas made some progress. due to his age it has been rather slow, but he is a little lessworried about the halter and as you can see from his reaction he is beginning to inspectit and take some interest in our training sessions. my grooming sessions have also paid off andbob's coat condition has gone from good to excellent. the next horse i'll be working with is milly.she is a 6 year old mare who has finished her groundwork and is ready to move on tobasic under-saddle training. she's accustomed to being handled from the ground, is comfortablewearing tack and being driven on the long

reins. since being ridden is new to her, i'llbegin by simply trying to get her moving out at a walk by selecting the "train to walkout" task in the under-saddle basics section. all right, well, she's unsure about this andhas decided her best plan of action would be to not move forward. this request has takenquite a bit out of her, so i'm going to call it on training for this game day. i'm notconcerned about grooming at this time, so i'll go ahead and proceed to the next dayand resume training milly. you can see from her reaction that she israther confused and unsure of what she should be doing. the stress of carrying a rider,as well as the presentation of this new task is wearing her out quite a bit. i do not believeshe can handle another session of training

today, so i'm going to proceed to the nextday. since milly is old enough to handle the weightof a rider and more stressful activity, i can break up her training routine with variousexercises to help improve her fitness. as i mentioned in part 1, these exercises requirevarying levels of energy to complete depending upon how strenuous the activity is and thecurrent fitness of the horse. milly is not very fit right now, so i'm going to startwith something that isn't too strenuous: lunging on the flat. this exercise took a lot outof her, so it will be all i do for today. milly may not be able to do a lot right now,but once her fitness improves she'll be able to handle more activity.

now that you've seen me train milly under-saddlea few times, as well as demonstrate exercising, i'm going to skip ahead to the end of themonth and we'll see how milly has progressed. the going with milly has been a bit slow.her temperament isn't the best and she did begin under-saddle training at age 6, so shehas her age working against her. despite this, i was able to make some progress. milly madean effort to move out during some of our training sessions and i as able to improve her fitnessa little with some light exercising. it may seem like training can take a longtime but remember what i talked about in the beginning of this video. selective breedingcan be used to improve trainability as well as temperament within your herd. so don'tfeel discouraged if you begin with a horse

that isn't the swiftest of learners. when your horse is mature enough to be startedunder-saddle, you can also begin exercising it. exercising your horse and improving itsfitness can increase your horse's energy and enable him to handle more training and exercisingeach day. however, it is important to note that a fitter horse will also be able to putmore effort into his work, and because of this, he will expend more energy. remember! the energy your horse expends isnot static. bill is the last horse i will be trainingfor this tutorial. he has mastered his groundwork and has a great understanding of the basicsunder-saddle. today i'll be beginning his

more specialized discipline training. i'veopted to train bill for dressage, and i've done research into the discipline so i knowwhat will be expected of him. on this first day i'm going to work a biton improving bill's gaits. by working on his walk, trot and canter i will help to improvehis way of going which will be beneficial in the dressage ring. you can tell by bill's reactions that he isunsure of what i want, but in time he will become familiar with my more refined cues.i'll finish off the day by working bill over some cavalletti, which will help improve hisfitness ratings. you'll notice from this day of training that bill has used far less energythan the previous horses i have handled. he's

more fit and better able to handle the stressof work, so he can handle more sessions. note though that practicing the walk, trot andcanter is not nearly as intensive as many of the other discipline options, so rememberto always be careful and pay attention to how much energy each task is requiring fromyour horse. on this second day i will continue workingon bill's gaits and followup his training with a quick sessions over the cavalletti. since i've already spent a few sessions workingon bill's gaits i'm going to move on to some other tasks. i think today i'll practice thereinback and some basic leg yielding exercises that will help to prepare him for the moredifficult maneuvers he'll be performing later.

you can tell by his reactions that he is strugglingwith even these basic maneuvers and it will be some time before he understands and isable to skillfully perform every maneuver required for dressage. now that you've seen me session bill severaltimes as i work on preparing him for dressage, i'll skip ahead to the end of the month anddiscuss his progress. well, i've sessioned bill for 30 game daysand he has made quite a bit of progress. i was able to introduce him to many dressagemaneuvers and i broke up his training with different exercises to help improve his fitnessso that he is able to more easily perform his job.

as you can see, his fitness ratings have improvedquite a bit. there are several important things to rememberwhen you begin training your horse for a discipline or for a specific class. first and most importantly: don't rush! unlikeground and basic under-saddle training, discipline training is a much more involved and lengthyendeavor and while it may be tempting to rush through your horse's discipline training,take a moment and consider what that means. when horses in real life begin in beginnerlevel competition they are still new to their work and would not have mastered the basics,nor have they touched upon the more complex tasks that will be asked of them later. equine-ranchis no different. fully training your horse

to his maximum in discipline training is beforeyou even begin in beginner competition is unfair and unrealistic. your horse does notneed to even be competent in his discipline training before he begins showing; he needonly have a basic idea of what is required of him. remember! horses in beginner are beginners.this holds the same through all the competition ranks. intermediate horses will be a bit olderand have more knowledge, horses in advanced level competition will be even more fluent,expert horses will be adept and higher ranked horses will be masters. this is very importantto remember, as it keeps the playing field fair, more realistic and it will get yourhorse into the show ring much quicker. secondly, don't forget to do your research.if you're unfamiliar with a discipline or

class, do some research into what is requiredfrom horses for that class or discipline. remember that equine-ranch is based aroundrealism; there is nothing obscure about the requirements for a class. also, don't forget to exercise your horse.if you're wanting to get into showing with your horses, you'll need to remember to exercisethem. training is important for each discipline but, as in real life, an unfit horse willstruggle to compete with a fit horse. you'll want to try to get your horse up to his peakfitness so that he can better perform his job. now that you've seen several examples of sessioninghorses at various levels in their training

i would like to discuss, and show examplesof, the two most popular methods players use for training their horses. first, you can simply transition between horsesusing the "next" or "previous" button on your horse's page. clicking one of thesebuttons will take you to the next or previous horse in the barn or pasture. you do not needto have a bunch of tabs open to utilize this method. however, all the horses you are workingwith must be in the same barn for this method to be effective. because if they are not,you will have to skip between barns trying to session all of your horses. if you havea large ranch it can also make it more difficult to keep track of your horses and their training,particularly if you start moving your horses

between barns. to get the most out of thismethod, you will want to keep all of the horses you session in the same barn so that you canswitch through them more easily. the second method is referred to as "tabtraining." this method utilizes browser tabs to efficiently maneuver between horses.often, horses kept in training are bookmarked or simply opened in their own individual tab.the player will then train a horse and either click the next tab available or use a shortcut,usually ctrl-tab in most browsers, to quickly jump to the next tab and train the next horse.the player's ranch page is kept open in another tab so that "next day" can be clickedwithout having to leave any of the horse's pages.

the pros of using the "tab training" methodcan be argued, and really depend upon your personal preference. but generally it makesit easier to keep horses sorted and you do not have to worry about horses being in differentbarns since you'll be cycling through tabs. you are also able to pick the order of yourhorses by moving their tabs around. the cons of this method are that you willneed to have multiple tabs open at a time. for large training projects this can causea great deal of clutter, and some computers may struggle to open many tabs at once. mostimportantly, you will need to be sure that you pay close attention to that "next day"button. it is not uncommon for a player using the "tab training" method to forget toclick "next day" and accidentally exhaust

a horse, so be careful. i've talked about the two most popular methodsfor training, but it is always best to find what works for you personally. everyone hastheir own preference, and there is no right or wrong method. do what is most comfortablefor you.