Bittersweet taste of LOVE, is like a cup of TEA

Will you spend your life with someone you don't love?

2011-12-22T12:36:00.000+08:00

Someone once said, once you pass a certain age, you would prefer to be with someone "YOU DON'T HATE."

Another certain someone said,
"I am looking for someone who can complement me in my life. When I do something, she can complement me, make it better. If I don't do something, she is able to do it."

They are not wrong, they are being realistic. I admire them for that. Call me childish. Call me naive. However, I just can't see myself being with someone for material things/goals or stability in life. Would a person be really happy, if they had to spend their life with someone they don't love?

Some will say that, as time passes by, one will fall in love with another if they are always together. That love will grow on you. Really?

But what if before you fall in love with the person you don't hate, you met someone that you really love? What happens then? Aren't you indirectly using someone for your own goal? Isn't it a little selfish?

Then again, someone asked me, what is love?

I can't define love, it is something that has to be felt, experienced. But, one thing is for sure, when you love someone, it is because of who the person is, not what he/she has. And love is definitely not the absence of hate.

The question here is, will you spend the rest of your life with someone you don't love?

Heal Your Heart

2011-11-21T11:08:00.001+08:00

Recently, I chatted with an Australian Asian girl. This basically what she told me.

"I was with this guy for more than a year. I loved him, but he cheated on me more than once. It was because he was insecure and needed recognition all the time. Finally, it was too much to take, so I ended it with him. But even after that, I still loved him. Even now. I'm not an ugly person, I think I look better than average. And there are guys who went after me. But I still couldn't forget him. I went out with a few guys, went partying and got drunk, and there was a guy who was really sweet to me. We went out for a while but I had to end it because... You know? I couldn't forget my ex, and that guy ended being very hurt."

What that girl had to go through with her cheating ex is really sad. But there is no excuse to use another person. Don't get me wrong, that girl is very nice and she admitted what she did was wrong. She tried to make it right.

When you choose to be with a person for the wrong reasons, not only you are running away from your problems, you are hurting another individual with your actions. At the same time, you do not realise that you are hurting yourself too. The past will haunt you, everything you do with that rebound will remind you of him/her. And the pain would always be there.

The only way to recover from previous relationship is to cry it out. Take all the time you need. Do the things you love. Go out with your friends. Splurge on yourself.

Heal your heart. And when you are finally ready, you will be able to love freely.

Money vs Love

2011-11-07T06:27:00.001+08:00

Maybe Love would stand a chance if the world wasn't so materialistic.

Maybe there would be lesser divorce... And more happy people...

*****

Jordy Towers - "Money Money" & "Don't Say It's Over"

"I don't want money, money... If I can't have love..."

*****

Which would you rather have? Money? Or Love?

For me, the choice is obvious ain't it? Because, you can work your whole life, earn all the money in the world. But, once you let her/him slip away, you may not get her/him back regardless of how much you have.

Money can't buy true love.

Wish You Were Here

2011-10-28T23:51:00.004+08:00

He was a boy with big dreams and ambition...
Now he is a money-oriented man who forgot his dreams...

I fell in love with that boy...
and out of love with that man...

Reality and materialism...
outweighs LOVE...

I guess, everyone has to wake up sometime...
Still, I wished that boy was still here...

♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

I can be tough

I can be strong

But with you, it's not like that at all

There's a girl

who gives a shit

behind this wall
You've just walked through it

And I remember all those crazy things you said
You left them running through my head
You're always there, you're everywhere
But right now I wish you were here.
All those crazy things we did
Didn't think about it, just went with it
You're always there, you're everywhere
But right now I wish you were here

Damn, Damn, Damn,
What I'd do to have you
here, here, here
I wish you were here.
Damn, Damn, Damn
What I'd do to have you
near, near, near
I wish you were here.

I love the way you are
It's who I am, don't have to try hard
We always say, say like it is
And the truth is that I really miss

All those crazy things you said
You left them running through my head
You're always there, you're everywhere
But right now I wish you were here.
All those crazy things we did
Didn't think about it, just went with it
You're always there, you're everywhere
But right now I wish you were here

[Chorus:]
Damn, Damn, Damn,
What I'd do to have you
here, here, here
I wish you were here.
Damn, Damn, Damn
What I'd do to have you
near, near, near
I wish you were here.

[Bridge:]
No, I don't wanna let go
I just wanna let you know
That I never wanna let go

(let go let go let go let go)

No, I don't wanna let go
I just wanna let you know
That I never wanna let go

(let go let go let go let go let go let go let go)

Damn, Damn, Damn,
What I'd do to have you
here, here, here
I wish you were here (I wish you were)
Damn, Damn, Damn
What I'd do to have you
near, near, near
I wish you were here.

Damn, Damn, Damn,
What I'd do to have you
here, here, here
I wish you were here.
Damn, Damn, Damn
What I'd do to have you
near, near, near
I wish you were here.

♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

For those of you who said that I am emo, here's a picture of me, emo-ing ↓

"Letting go of someone you LOVE is hard,

but holding on to someone who doesn't feel the same is harder"

Simple, but true

2011-10-24T23:40:00.003+08:00

Hence, there is no reason to "suddenly" fall out of love with someone...

If you are brave enough to fall in Love

2011-10-21T07:46:00.000+08:00

You are brave enough to let it go, when there is nothing left to hold on to...

There is no "WHY"

2011-10-18T12:07:00.001+08:00

Honestly, people go for looks, someway or another. It's always, "Hey, that guy/ girl is cute" and almost never "Hey, that guy/ girl seems to have an amazing personality even though he/ she is ugly".

But when you love someone, there is no reason "why". You won't be able to notice how hard, or how fast you are falling for him/ her. That is why even though he may be a douche, or she may be a cheating whore, but you can't stop yourself from loving him/ her. And that is LOVE.

Food For Thought

2011-10-13T00:17:00.001+08:00

- Love will find you when you least expects it.

Hope everyone is well and happy- (",)

What Are Words...?

2011-10-04T02:18:00.001+08:00

What are words, if you don't really mean them?

What are promises, if you don't intend to keep them?

What is love?

I guess most of you know this song. It is very touching and I have seen people posting this video on Facebook. But, I was surprised that many did not know the story behind the song. So, for those of you who did not know, here is the story:-

Chris Medina's fiancee met with a car accident 2 months before their wedding. She was brain damaged, and she was in a wheelchair (as seen on American Idol). If you have watched that season (Season 10 or Year 2011), he speaks of her with love regardless of her disabilities. That brings so much more meaning to the song (which he had written especially for her).

It is a simple song, yet you can feel so much love, so much sincerity in it.

What Are Words - Chris Medina
Anywhere you are, I am near
Anywhere you go, I'll be there
Anytime you whisper my name, you'll see
How every single promise I keep
Cuz what kind of guy would I be
If I was to leave when you need me most

What are words
If you really don't mean them
When you say them
What are words
If they're only for good times
Then they don't
When it's love
Yeah, you say them out loud
Those words, They never go away
They live on, even when we're gone

And I know an angel was sent just for me
And I know I'm meant to be where I am
And I'm gonna be
Standing right beside her tonight
And I'm gonna be by your side
I would never leave when she needs me most

What are words
If you really don't mean them
When you say them
What are words
If they're only for good times
Then they don't
When it's love
Yeah, you say them out loud
Those words, They never go away
They live on, even when we're gone

Anywhere you are, I am near
Anywhere you go, I'll be there
And I'm gonna be here forever more
Every single promise I keep
Cuz what kind of guy would I be
If I was to leave when you need me most

I'm forever keeping my angel close

Chris and Juliana

(before her accident)

"LOVE is not finding someone to live with, It's finding someone you can't live without. Even during any hardship, LOVE will shine through."

A Romantic Place to Be...

2011-09-24T00:00:00.000+08:00

I have been pretty busy lately. Hence, I attached pictures for your viewing pleasure with no caption whatsoever. It is a romantic place to be with your girlfriend/boyfriend especially at night.

Colmar Tropicale

Bukit Tinggi

French Village

Japanese Village

Miss ya'll!!

Sorry, but I want you back

2011-08-01T21:27:00.001+08:00

This is a true story ...
(as every story posted, duh!)

A friend of mine, let's call him, Joker. Had a huge fight with his girlfriend, resulting to a break-up. Girlfriend puts down her pride and apologises to him, asking for him to give their relationship another chance. Joker accepts. The next day, another argument came up. And Joker decides that he needs a break from all these arguments.
(emphasis on "a break from all these arguments")

Joker persuades girlfriend to pursue a degree while having a break from each other, assuring her that he won't be with another.

After a month, this Joker got together with ANOTHER girl.

When I asked him, he tried dismissing the topic by either avoiding or changing the topic. After another month, this Joker texted me, asking, "How to tell someone that you still love her?".

Couldn't stop laughing.

Anyway...

How do you get her back?
Answer : A whole lot of patience. Respecting her space and understanding her needs. She'll probably get you back for all the hurt and pain, drain your wallet, take up your time, but in the end, if she still loves you, she'll be back in your arms. Besides, you have swept her off her feet before. But it is going to take A WHOLE LOT, and I mean A WHOLE LOT of patience.

Destiny - B.U.L.L.S.H.I.T

2011-07-05T15:25:00.001+08:00

"If it is meant to be, they will always find their way back, because it is DESTINY... If they don't come back, then it is never meant to be in the first place"

WHAT UTTER BULLSHIT!

IN MY HUMBLE OPINION, this sentence is to cheat the other party into believing that they will EVENTUALLY be together because of destiny...

How many of you has let a person go, and got them back?
How many couples in the world has ever let a person go and after a few years apart, through destiny, meet again and then live happily ever after?

Reality is, when you release a bird, you can expect that it will never come back. Agree?

I DO NOT BELIEVE in destiny, what I believe is that you have to go after what you wanted. You have to choose which path to take, you have to fight for it! NOT rely on whether or not it is "destiny".

Do you sit around and wait for a cow to shit gold bars for you because it is your destiny to be successful?
And when you realised that all you ever picked up from that cow is just dung and not gold bars, you blame that it isn't your destiny to be a millionaire?

"Rigggghhhhtttt..........."

Why don't I believe in destiny?
-Because I refuse to believe that God would ever create a murderer, for example. The person is a murderer for the choices he made, not because God made his destiny so. Understand?

The same applies for relationships.
You don't just let it be.
Or as the Chinese saying goes,"顺其自然" (Go with the flow)

So, if you ever, EVER let a person go, it is YOUR choice to make.
If you refused to put in effort, to hold onto that special someone, or to fight for that someone, it is YOU to be blamed, NOT destiny.

True story : R let the only girl he loved, leave. And all he feels for about 3 years, is remorse. Because the girl, is going to marry someone else. -Good luck, R! That's all I can say...

Way to go with the flow! -please note the sarcasm

Just because...

2011-06-27T17:57:00.002+08:00

Just because I'm no longer with Max (I refuse to use the word "Single" because that word seems to give an impression that I'm "available" to be dated), I AM NOT AVAILABLE!!

If I said I will NOT suit you, I don't want you to wait and I don't want a relationship,
it means I WILL NEVER BE WITH YOU!!!
It also means, DO NOT WAIT FOR ME!!! I DO NOT WANT A RELATIONSHIP! I DO NOT WANT TO BE MORE THAN FRIENDS! EVER!

How much more blunt do you want me to be?

Honestly, til now, though my pride doesn't allow me to admit, there's only ONE and ONLY ONE person who has my heart, I only have a heart and it belongs wholly and exclusively to someONE else.

= Please understand that I respect you as a friend, and I do not want to insult or hurt you =
= I'm sorry that you are hurting now, but it is better to be clear now than when the wounds gets deeper =

Dear Guy(s), DO NOT DO THIS IN A CLUB!

2011-06-17T06:39:00.001+08:00

Here is a few tips on what you should NOT do in a club!

Scene 1 :
Guy : "Hi, I'm Kelvin, I think you are FUCKING adorable! What's your name? Where are you from?"

My response : "Hi" *points at both my friends and waves goodbye*

Tip :

Firstly, there are 2 guy friends standing there, and you didn't bother to introduce yourself to them FIRST!

Secondly, DO NOT refer me as FUCKING adorable, I FUCKING hate people who says that, you FUCKING numb-nut!

******

Scene 2 :
Guy :"Hi, are you left-handed?"

Me : *thinks... wtf?* "No!"

Guy : "Well, I'm left-handed, that makes me special and you're not... Hi, I'm Alex, you are from?"

Me : "Penang! *waves and smiles politely and points at friends"

Guy : "Oh, are they your friends? Why don't you introduce me?"

Me : "This is Jim, this is BB"

Guy : *shakes hand with Jim and BB* "So, what's your name?"

Me : "Cher"

Guy : "With the S or C?"

Me : "With the C" *smiles and waves goodbye*

Tip :

WTH is wrong with you?! "I'm special and you're not"?
Is that even a pick-up line?

But, at least you had the courtesy to be-friend my friends.

*urgh, I hate guys with the name "Alex"*

******

Scene 3:
*creep keeps dancing closer and closer*

Me : *almost went behind the bar*

Creep : "Don't be afraid of me"

Me : *awkward smile and thinks, yeah, right, you creep* "I'm not used to strangers!"

Creep : "Where are your friends?"

Me : "Toilet! They'll be back soon!"

*friend comes back*

Me : "These are my friends, kthxbai!"

Tip :
Firstly, you act like a creep, you didn't introduce yourself, and your first word is "Don't be afraid of me"?

Yeah, right... creep...

******

Scene 4 :

Bartender : "Hi, where are you from?"

Me : "Penang!"

Bartender : "Batu Ferringhi?"

Me : "No! It's more in the rural areas, outskirts, I don't think you know"

Bartender : "I'm from Perlis, I know!"

Me : *crappity crap! Busted! Changes topic* "So, you stay here now?"

Bartender : "Yeah, for 2 years!"

Me : "Cool..."

Tip :
Bartender was sweet, but please, do not ask where am I from, I am afraid of stalkers. Ask where do I school, ask if I enjoy the music, make small talks first!

On the side note : The bartender was nice enough to treat me a drink... ;D

******

Each time a guy approaches me, my friends kept asking the same question, "Is that your friend?"

Heck, no! But, here is an applause for dumb bravery. *claps*

P/S : If you are reading this, please do not fall for me, I do not want to hurt you again. I'm not ready for a relationship. I am so so sorry.

Rage! Fury!

2011-06-08T04:56:00.000+08:00

ALL THIS WHILE HE HAD SHORT TERM RELATIONSHIPS, BUT HE HAD A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP WITH ME!!! BECAUSE I MADE THE SACRIFICES!!! WHY WOULDN'T HE EVEN TRY WORKING AT OUR RELATIONSHIP!!!! *inserts profanities*

Rawrrrrrrrr~

Okay... I'm over the rage phase and/or blaming him for everything...
I think(?) We are talking again, as friends though. Afterall, I am "THE BEST BABY".

P/S : I'll try my best to be a good friend. Though I'm the "best baby", I really suck at the "friends" department. =S

Dreamt a dream of him

2011-05-21T03:15:00.002+08:00

Super random post
*****************
Just woke up from a dream. It felt surreal...

It goes something like this:-

I was asleep when he gave me a kiss on the cheek... And he is saying that he did miss me, but he is having the time of his life now... Getting drunk... Getting girls... Going to clubs... And he can start smoking again... Thanks to me, for leaving him...

It feels like he was sarcastically blaming me, though.. =S.

So, pathetic, huh? Still dreaming of him eventhough it ended. A guy recently asked me, "Are you still thinking of him?".
Well, of course I am, I spent 1/5 of my life with him. It'll probably take another year to forget. Or 4.
******************

ミズ ♥ mizu

2011-05-14T05:46:00.000+08:00

I couldn't sleep well for the past few days. I probably hurt him with my actions... As I switched on the computer, I saw pictures that I didn't have the heart to delete. Looking at his pictures, it made me smile a little.

I remembered how much I liked looking at him while he was asleep. He looks really horrible... with a really horrible sleeping pose and drooling all over the pillowcase, or sometimes, my hair... And I always used that to make fun of him when he woke up. I remembered how much I liked the way his hair looks right out of the shower, or while swimming...

I remembered how I knew he was going to be angry before he got angry... and how much I liked understanding him more than he understood himself. What I didn't like was, he didn't or maybe couldn't understand me...

There were so many memories of him. And I had never imagined spending my life with anyone else but him. Still couldn't...
Though there were many bad memories I couldn't forget even if I wanted to(it is easier to forgive, but not forget), but he also left many happy memories... which are now... well, MEMORIES...

I miss you

♫ Miss you so bad ♫

Dump the whore

2011-05-12T20:25:00.000+08:00

Does that sound familiar to you? From where I come from, guys always "comfort" their "bros" with that phrase; "Dump that whore, we'll find you A NEW ONE".(What? A new one freshly baked from the oven?)

Facts:
1. Guy who usually say that is either single, his girlfriend is ugly or his girlfriend don't freaking care about him except when he gives her money(she probably has a spare "ATM" elsewhere too)

2. Guys who usually say that, will forget "bros" when he finally gets a girlfriend, or when his girlfriend actually has some time to entertain him. Guys like this, usually prefer to butt-kiss his girlfriend than hangout with "bros"(he'll probably lick her feet too). You won't be able to see his shadow when he's with his girl.

So, yeah! "Bros over Hoes" only apply with a clause;- when guy has no girl.

HAVE A NICE DAY!

Enfin...

2011-05-12T09:07:00.000+08:00

Note: Regarding my earlier post, "Motto", he said "You make me LOOK so bad", instead of "You made me feel really bad". That is when I realised, he thought only of himself. And when I asked, if I made any false statement. His only reply was, "I'm sorry, I do not know what to say. Sorry for being a bad boyfriend".(This is what he ALWAYS say). I have always highlighted his strengths because I accepted his weaknesses. I guess, this also made him feel like he is better than me and he shouldn't try to put any effort in this relationship, which is basically my fault for pampering him.

A relationship is already broken when one party stops trying. He admitted, he stopped trying. And I am tired of being the only one trying to adjust to the CHANGES HE WANTED. Changes which he expects me to deal with without considering my feelings. His choice was very clear; FRIENDS COMES FIRST. I am learning to let go. My heart aches that there is no words to describe. Tears had already run dry.

However, I wish him all the best. I wish that he plays hard enough before having a new relationship because you will hurt the girl with your FALSE PROMISES of the future. (It can be forgiven, but not forgotten) Though, a new relationship is always sweeter than maintaining an old one.

But, I still believe in love. I still believe there is someone out there who would really love me and place me above himself.

So, I hope everyone out there who is single, please believe that love will come your way and do not give up.
There is always someone for everyone. Look harder.

Mukashii Kara desu

2011-05-08T22:03:00.000+08:00

"It is hard to pretend to love someone when you don't.
But... it is harder to pretend to NOT love someone when you do."

And I realised this is especially true when I tried forcing Max out of my life. I tried to blame all my frustrations in life on him. Only to realise that, he is everywhere I go. I can force him out of my life. But, I couldn't force him out of my heart...

Motto!! もっと！！

2011-05-03T03:02:00.001+08:00

Motto means MORE!!!

Everyone wants more!!!

Here is a true story:
Guy goes to work and occasionally finishes work around 7pm or 8pm, yet he never fails to accompany his girlfriend EVERYDAY!! but... the girlfriend wants him to accompany her MORE!! How much more? I do not know...

My Story : Did not meet boyfriend for 5 months because he chose to go for holiday with his friends; TWICE! Because boyfriend wants to play MORE!!

***************

Guy brings girlfriend for sushi king 3 days in a row ($100+ each meal), buys a $1000+ handbag, frequently buys flower... but... the girlfriend says he rather spend money on his car rather than her... She wants MORE!! How much more? I do not know...

My Story : Occasionally, we go Dutch (a.k.a "AA" style). Occasionally, I pay. But I spend on him for his birthdays is MORE than what I spend on myself. Because neither of us are working yet. And because he is spending too much. NOT on me, but on himself.

People ALWAYS take things for granted... People always wants MORE!!!! Please wake up, silly girls. You don't know how lucky you are.
And I really HATE people who ASSUMES that I am a pampered, bratty girlfriend because my boyfriend buys me everything I want, HE DOESN'T. I buy my OWN clothes, my OWN shoes, my OWN gadgets with my puny allowances, can? Keep your mouth shut, if you know nuts!

Sorry. I can't feel love.

2011-05-02T02:06:00.000+08:00

The reason I was away for so long was because I do not want to preach or blog about love when I can not feel love. I do not want to be a hypocrite because I am surrounded by TOO MANY hypocrites and/or fake & pretentious beings. The truth is, I can not feel anything, anymore.

Even as I typed, I do not feel upset or angry, or anything, for that matter. I didn't feel anything when Max promised to video call me but then went out for "Happy Hour" with his friends (which in the past, I would feel really disappointed). I don't know if I would feel anything even if I lost Max right now.

Maybe I had my hopes too high up. Maybe I had too much to expect. Maybe I felt too happy. Maybe I felt under-appreciated. Maybe being disappointed again and again makes a person numb. I don't know how I feel about Max. I don't know if I love him or that I am used to having him around (although he wasn't physically/literally around for these few years).

And since I couldn't feel love, I don't want to preach about love and/or relationships. I just need some time alone to figure out how I feel.

Well, at least Max could say, "Hello, my pretty lady" to his all female friends and I wouldn't mind. *shrugs*

Easy Lazy Pork Chop

2011-02-13T02:47:00.004+08:00

I was sleeping halfway, when I realized that I have not posted this recipe. So, here I am, writing a recipe... of pork chops... instead of sleeping... So that people like you, can buy ingredients early in the morning... *yawn*

Ingredients:-

500g minced pork chop (or according to how much you want to eat, or just ask the selfish, I mean sell pork-er?... how much is needed for two persons)
a can of button mushrooms (or other pricey button mushrooms)
onions
garlic
oyster sauce
corn flour
1 egg (beaten) - fuhhh...!! Sound like a cookbook
writer...
broccoli
frozen fries

Step 1 : Marinating the pork:-
Put the following into a bowl :-

FINELY(if you do not like garlic, like me, make sure you chop them finely until you can no longer see them unless you are using a microscope) chopped garlic- 1 clove,
chopped onions- approximately 1 hugeass onion size is enough...
the egg which was brutally beaten up by you
a tablespoon of cornflour
a tablespoon of oyster sauce

and mix with the pork... And leave it for few hours... Maybe 2? =S
(Make sure the minced pork can stick together so that it will be in 1 piece when you fry it...If it is wet and soggy, add cornflour or add more pork)

Step 2 : Frying the pork

Put butter into the frying pan (use slow fire, so that the butter won't get burnt)
Equally divide the amount of pork chop
Put half of the pork chop into the pan (make it stick together...either in a oblong shape like what you usually have in restaurants or in a HEART SHAPE)
Fry the pork until BROWNISH

Step 3 : Preparing sauce

Put butter into the frying pan (use slow fire, so that the butter won't get burnt)
Put thinly sliced button mushroom into pan (as thin as you usually eat in restaurants)
Put SLICED onions (Previously, you are supposed to use
CHOPPED ONIONS. But for the sauce, use SLICED onions - and the amount of onions is...whatever amount you like)
Mix a bowl of water with a teaspoon of cornflour and a tablespoon of oyster sauce
Once the button mushrooms are brownish, (I said BROWNISH, NOT BLACKISH, ok?), pour the bowl of mixture consisting cornflour, water and oyster sauce

If the sauce is not thick enough, add cornflour. If not salty enough, put oyster sauce. If not enough sauce, add water.

Side dishes : Fries & Broccoli

How to prepare broccoli :-

(assuming I do not need to prepare "HOW TO FRY FRIES")

Boil broccoli until it is cook (which means it is in a nice bright
green colour and soft to chew)
Take the broccoli out of the hot water
Mix broccoli with butter while broccoli is still hot

SERVE:

Put the fried pork on the plate
Pour sauce over pork
Put fries at the side
Put broccoli at the side
SERVE!

EXTRA STUFFS:

Add a can of Campbell's Mushroom soup, and you'll have another dish... ;D

Why can't I give exact quantities? - because I learn cooking by "Trial & Error", not by following recipe books... I add whatever I want and how much I want...
Why do I use minced pork? - because there is no tenderizing needed! Which means, less work!
Why put garlic & onions if I don't like it? - garlic & onions somehow is the best & cheapest way to make food smell nice... AND eliminate bad pork smell (especially if you bought an old pork from the dishonest sell pork-er)
Why put oyster sauce? - because you can use oyster sauce in ANY other dishes... You can buy "Worcestershire sauce" or "Lea &Perrins" which smells a lot more fragrant, but if you RARELY cook, what's the point in buying?

HAVE A LOVELY VALENTINE'S DAY!

The Pork Place

2011-02-10T22:48:00.002+08:00

Hey, guys! - and girls...

Have you been planning for V- day??
Where to celebrate... What to buy...?

Well, if you're in Selangor/ KL, I have a place to recommend...

- The Pork Place-

Well, the name says it all... If you love pork, this place offers pork in most of its dishes...
Most of all, it is quiet... Where you can whisper sweet nothings in her ear...
(unless you have a noisy group of uncivilized pigs next to your table, to which I suggest you slaughter them and serve while piping hot)

Anyway......

I wouldn't recommend the "Pork Shoulder" because it costs RM45 and there is no fragrant smell, to which I suspect, they didn't marinate the pork... But if you're not a picky eater, the cream sauce which was served with the pork shoulder... smells & tastes gooood......(note the extra "oo"s)

I wouldn't recommend the "Katsu Ciabatta"(RM23) either... the cooking and preparation is waaaaayyyy too simple... A waste of ~~tastebuds~~ time, I'd say...

However, the "Pork Belly spaghetti"(RM24) is a better choice... It might be a little pricey compared to other western restaurants, but it is very fragrant... Smells like... like... heaven... If, heaven have a smell... It'd probably smell like that...(I'm exaggerating... It does not taste like heaven, I do not know what heaven tastes like...but it is a fragrant taste of cream which will melt in your mouth) AND most importantly... they serve it with a generous amount of PORK!

Apologies for the non- existent pictures... I have been downgraded from a lousy phone to a barely usable phone... and hence... no pictures... =(You'd just have to take my word for it... =S

"The Pork Place" is located at "IOI boulevard"... And MAYBE... after the meal, you can enjoy a mug of beer with her while listening to a band at "The Palette, IOI boulevard", located just BEHIND "The Pork Place"...

FML story: I am not celebrating V-day this year......... AGAIN!!!

P/S : I promise to post a "Easy Lazy Pork Chop Recipe" on the 12th of February... Just in case you want to prepare something special for him/her instead... ;D

Damned! You're just like my mum!

2011-01-17T10:52:00.000+08:00

Girls... Does it sound familiar?
Fret not! If your boyfriend constantly tells you how alike you are with his mum, take it as a compliment... Because you are probably "The One" for him...

The same goes for guys... If your girlfriend said you remind her of her dad, you are "The One" for her too...

In the beginning, people usually choose someone who is totally opposite of what their parents are... Probably because of the rebellious nature that humans have...

But, sooner or later, they will find comfort being with someone who resembles their parents, without realizing it consciously...

Basically, people always choose someone who resembles their parent because of the warmth and familiarity they grew in, I guess... People also prefer going places and/or meeting faces which they are familiar with... I guess this is also why daughter-in-laws and mother-in-laws generally don't get along, because they're too alike...?

Anyway, I am speaking in general... Of course, there are people who choose their life partner differently...
But if he/she says that you remind him/her of his mum/her dad, it is something you should be happy about...

.........Be glad, and say, "Thanks, I love you too".........