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Paris Fashion Week: I Finally Went!

2026-10-04T21:42:32.506+02:00

I have always been curious about fashion shows.

You know those glamorous fashion shows you see on TV — models walking down the runway, dramatic music, beautiful clothes, photographers everywhere, people dressed up to the nines? I have watched them many times and always thought, “I wonder what it actually feels like to sit there and watch one live.”

Well… I finally found out.

Few weeks ago I happened to see an advertisement on Instagram for a Paris Fashion Week show by The Bureau Fashion Week. And this time, instead of just liking the post and moving on, I thought, Why not?

So I booked a ticket and decided to experience it with a friend.

And just like that — Paris Fashion Week was on my itinerary!

So, was it the “real” Paris Fashion Week?

Well, yes… but with an important distinction.

The big-name shows that you usually hear about during Paris Fashion Week — Chanel, Dior, Louis Vuitton and the other major fashion houses — are generally invite-only industry events. You can't normally just go online, buy a ticket and walk into one. The audience is largely made up of fashion editors, buyers, celebrities, influencers and people working within the fashion industry.

The show I attended was a different kind of experience.

The Bureau Fashion Week puts on independently produced, publicly ticketed runway shows, which means people like me — who are simply curious about fashion and don't have industry connections — can actually buy a ticket and experience a runway show in Paris. The Bureau's event takes place during Paris Fashion Week season, but it is not part of the official Fédération de la Haute Couture et de la Mode (FHCM) calendar.

And for me, that was perfect.

I even booked the Premium ticket with a reserved seat, so I wasn't standing somewhere at the back trying to see between people's heads. I had an actual seat and could sit back and enjoy the show.

And then came the runway…

The Grand Finale was held at Espace Cléry, right in the heart of Paris.

We saw five designers/brands:

Color Your Mood Design
Just Delonte
FoxFire Designs
Fransiva The Brand
Anthony Alonzi

and one more 6th designer who was a surprise and also opened the show "Kenneth Barlis"

Watching a runway show live is very different from watching one on the TV.

There is something about sitting in the audience, waiting for the lights to change, the music to start and the first model to walk onto the runway.

Suddenly you are not just looking at clothes.

You are watching the movement of the fabric, the styling, the attitude, the music, the lights and the whole choreography of the show.

And then there is the audience itself.

Everyone seems to have made an effort. People are dressed up, taking pictures, checking out each other's outfits and generally enjoying the whole fashion-week atmosphere. Of course, I had dressed up too.

I went with my red dress, black blazer, black boots and gold accessories —(suggested by ChatGPT 😊) because if you are going to your first fashion show in Paris, you might as well play along!

Honestly, it wasn't about becoming a fashion expert overnight.

It was about finally experiencing something I had been curious about for years.

I travel a lot, and I have learned that some of the best experiences happen when you stop overthinking things and simply say:

“Why not?”

I could have said, “Maybe one day I'll attend a fashion show.”

Instead, I saw an Instagram advertisement, bought a ticket, called a friend and went.

And now I can officially say:

I've been to a fashion show in Paris during Fashion Week.

Was it an exclusive invite-only show by one of the major fashion houses? No.

Was it the traditional fashion-industry experience? No.

But did I get to sit in a beautiful Paris venue, watch designers present their collections on a real runway and experience that fashion-week atmosphere for myself? Absolutely.

And sometimes, that's exactly what travelling is about — not ticking off the most prestigious version of an experience, but finding your own way to experience something you've always been curious about.

This experience has made me even more curious.

Who knows, maybe next time I will attend one of those invitation-only Paris fashion shows.

Why not dream big? There is absolutely no harm in dreaming big. After all, some of the things we once thought were impossible somehow find their way onto our reality.

You never know when the universe might decide to grant one of your wishes.

For now, I am happy to say:

Paris Fashion Week — ✔️

One more first.
One more story.
One more bucket-list item checked off the list.

And, as always…

What's next?

You can see few highlights of different designers of fashion show and me and my friend getting excited before the show here on my YouTube channel:

https://youtube.com/shorts/qEbpoNSWnLI?si=xMM7MJUMJgswHAjT

https://youtube.com/shorts/8QeLPBctnIM?si=Rzk3WsNE3tDaO9Nz

https://youtube.com/shorts/KDsVCtUqmAw?si=ef-9FJaXowoK_93g

https://youtube.com/shorts/YukLcjlmi9w?si=Z7UsRk8xJhHBpQmS

Stem Cell IV Therapy treatment in Korea

2026-09-01T12:04:28.634+02:00

If you’ve been following the world of K-beauty and biological aesthetics, you know South Korea is leading the charge in cell-level regeneration. I was very much interested in this therapy and finally During my recent trip to Seoul, I decided to experience these treatments firsthand at AMOA 640 Skin Clinic in Gangnam.

They have 2 packages plus and premium . You can read more about that here https://amoaskinclinic640.com/stem-cell-therapy/

It is expensive for sure but it has many advantages and I like to take care of myself and so for me it was worth it . It costed me around 4600 euro.

I received their Stem Cell Therapy – Plus Package, which pairs a full-body stem cell IV treatment with a facial skin booster. Here is an honest, step-by-step review of what the procedure actually looks like and what to expect!

1. The Stem Cell IV Therapy: Full-Body Cellular Renewal

The core of the systemic treatment starts with an autologous blood draw (using your body’s own cells).

The Extraction: The medical team extracted 120 mL of blood from my arm.

The Yield: This process yields approximately 300 to 400 million stem cells, which are processed and delivered back via an IV drip.

The Goal: Unlike topical treatments that only touch the surface, this high concentration of stem cells works systemically through the bloodstream to target internal healing, lower chronic inflammation, and refresh full-body cellular health.

2. The Facial Treatment: Polycaprolactone (PCL) Skin Booster

While the IV drip handled body-wide renewal, my face received a specialized PCL (Polycaprolactone) Skin Booster. Effects of this stays just for 3-4 months .

PCL is a liquid collagen stimulator. Instead of simply plumping skin temporarily like standard hyaluronic acid fillers, PCL triggers your skin’s fibroblasts to naturally synthesize new Type I and Type III collagen over several weeks.

Step-by-Step Experience:

1. Cleansing & Preparation: The aesthetician began with a deep facial cleansing and massage to prep the skin.

2. Numbing Cream: Topical numbing cream was applied across my face under cling wrap so the skin booster delivery would be completely comfortable.

3. Multi-Needle Injection (DermoShine Pro): The practitioner used an automated multi-needle injector machine (DermoShine Pro) to deliver precise, uniform doses of the PCL solution right into the dermal layer. You hear gentle suction and click sounds as tiny micro-papules of the solution enter the skin.

4. Targeted Stamp Injections: A specialized multi-pin stamp handpiece was used over micro-areas (like the cheeks and around the mouth) for even coverage.

5. Soothing & Recovery: The session wrapped up with soothing care to calm immediate post-injection redness.

Pain Level & Immediate Aftercare

Did it hurt? With the numbing cream fully set, the skin booster injections were very manageable—mostly just mild pressure and small pricks. The blood draw for the IV was quick and routine.

Immediate Post-Treatment: My face had slight localized redness and raised micro-bumps where the PCL was injected. This is completely normal and settles down within 24 to 48 hours.

Aftercare Rules: Strict sun protection (SPF 50+), intense hydration with barrier repair cream, and avoiding saunas or heavy exercise for 3 to 5 days.

Expected Results & Timeline

Because PCL and stem cell therapies work through natural tissue remodeling, results appear gradually:

Weeks 2–4: Improved hydration, smoother skin texture, and a fresh "K-beauty glow."

Months 1–3: Peak collagen synthesis from the PCL booster, creating firmer tissue, tighter pores, and better overall elasticity.

Long-Term: The systemic rejuvenation from the stem cell IV supports overall vitality and skin resilience that outlasts conventional cosmetic facials.

Final Thoughts

Combining systemic IV stem cell therapy with a localized PCL skin booster gives your skin both the raw internal signaling power and direct structural stimulation it needs to rebuild.

Celebrating Women's Privilege( women's day special)

2026-03-06T13:40:00.000+01:00

Celebrating Women's Privilege

As always, it is Women’s Day again. Social media and TV channels will be filled with the same messages and the same stories—often focusing on women’s struggles and pain. I am not saying those stories are wrong or untrue. They are important and real. But I sometimes feel we should also speak more about the positive changes happening around us and celebrate women’s success stories just as strongly.

I often find it difficult to respond when someone says “Happy Women’s Day” to me. When I look at my own life, I wonder—do I really need this wish? To be honest, I come from a very privileged background. I was born and raised in a well-to-do, educated, and modern family. I was rarely told “no” to my wishes. I received the education I wanted and even had the freedom to experiment with different paths until I discovered what truly suited me. I never had to worry about the money spent on those experiments.

I was always encouraged to speak my mind and stand up against anything I disagreed with. Even in my professional life, I have been fortunate to work with supportive bosses who appreciated my work. For all of this, I am deeply grateful. I recognize that this is a privilege.

At the same time, I see women around me who are equally educated and professionally successful, yet they are still not allowed to speak freely or spend their own hard-earned money without asking for permission. They continue to depend on approval from others for decisions about their own lives. I find that frustrating. But real change can begin only when a woman herself decides she wants it. No one can truly help you unless you are ready to change your situation.

I have also been fortunate to meet many powerful and strong women in my life. They have given me immense strength and courage to live freely and confidently.

Of course, I must start with my mother. Even though we fight and disagree often, I deeply respect and appreciate the way she built both her personal and professional life so successfully. She truly tried to be a “superwoman” all her life—and she succeeded. She balanced her family and career beautifully, rarely showing stress or dissatisfaction. She carried her responsibilities with grace and did it all with genuine happiness.

The next two women who left a strong impact on me were my bosses in India. They started their own business and made it highly successful. I was always amazed by their courage. Starting a business in IT Industry as a women in India nearly 25 years ago was not easy. They faced challenges head-on and proved that determination and belief can break barriers.

Another woman I deeply admire is my ex-husband’s grandmother. When I heard her life story, I was truly amazed. She lived through World War II, had to leave her country after Germany lost the war, and endured countless hardships while raising her family. During the war, she even had to take on dangerous tasks to survive. Yet she never expressed bitterness or regret about her life. She remained positive, cheerful, and determined to find joy wherever she could—right until the end of her life. Her resilience was extraordinary.

When I look at these powerful women around me, I feel inspired and encouraged.

I must also thank the men in my life who have always supported women’s empowerment and freedom. First and foremost, my father. He never treated us differently because we were daughters. Unfortunately, I have seen many households where girls were denied freedom, education, or financial independence. But in our home, my sister and I always enjoyed equal freedom. My father never saw us through the lens of gender—only as his children who deserved the best life and every possible opportunity.

I would also like to mention my grandfather. He was very modern in his thinking and never discriminated based on gender. He encouraged us to pursue the best education and to travel the world. He raised his three daughters the same way. To do this 60–70 years ago in Indian society was certainly not easy, which makes his mindset even more admirable.

The third man I want to acknowledge is my ex-husband. Many might be surprised to see his name here, but despite the problems that can exist between a husband and wife, I must admit that he supported me in many ways. He helped me adjust to a new country, improve my language skills, grow as a person, and he never stood in the way of my freedom.

On this Women’s Day, my wish is that every woman finds her courage, her voice, and the strength to lead her life in her own way. I hope every woman understands that her happiness lies in her own hands. Change begins only when she truly decides she wants it—because only then can support from others truly make a difference.

I wish everyone a very happy and fulfilling life.

My Dream Cherry Blossom Trip to Japan

2025-05-02T11:37:00.005+02:00

This year, I finally made it happen — my long-awaited cherry blossom trip to Japan! It’s something I’ve been dreaming about and planning for almost six years. Every year, something would come up — work, life, timing — and the dream would have to be pushed back again. But not this time.

Cherry blossom season in Japan is all about perfect timing. The blossoms don’t wait, and they bloom for such a short time that planning a trip around them can be tricky. But this year, I got lucky — and a bit strategic. One of my sister’s friends shared the latest cherry blossom forecasts with me, and that changed everything. After the third forecast, I started mapping out the cities and rough travel dates. Once the fourth forecast came out, I booked my flights. And by the fifth forecast, I had all my hotels and trains sorted. And guess what? It worked out beautifully.

I've seen cherry blossoms in Germany before — and they’re lovely — but witnessing them in Japan is something else entirely. It had been on my bucket list for so long, and now that I’ve seen it with my own eyes, I can truly say: it’s worth the wait.

One of the highlights of my trip was Aomori. The cherry blossoms there were absolutely breathtaking — like something out of a dream. It felt different, special, and magical in a way I can’t quite put into words. There’s just something about the atmosphere, the people, and the way Japan celebrates this season that makes it unforgettable.

Another beautiful surprise I experienced was seeing cherry blossoms at Mount Fuji. Honestly, I wasn’t expecting it at all — but luckily, the blossoms were still there when I visited. That view was absolutely incredible: Mount Fuji in the background and pink cherry blossoms in the foreground. It was like a scene from a postcard and truly one of those moments you never forget.

While traveling around Japan, I encountered so many kind and helpful people. Yes, the language barrier is real, but kindness goes a long way. My best friends on this trip? Translation App and my eSIM data package from Airalo — honestly, lifesavers! I don’t think I would’ve managed without them.

A few fun cultural shocks: Japanese people love to queue — and I mean for everything. Even at the train station, they wait in line so patiently. It was kind of amazing to see. And the silence! I remember coming out of a crowded train station, expecting noise and chatter, but there was nothing. Just quiet. Even on trains, everyone’s glued to their phones — no talking, no disturbance. As a tourist, it was a little surreal, but also fascinating.

People are so polite and helping. once I Gave order for my food and coffee but somehow the girl got it wrong and gave me 2 coffees. One glass black coffee and another with milk with caramel . so then I explained her again that just need a coffee with soy milk and caramel on the top. thats all. She then gave me the right coffee but then she saw that she actually charged me more because of 2 separate coffee and milk and now the price should be less. so she cancelled my first payment and then charged me again for the correct price. I was very impressed by her honesty. I am sure in any other country they would have maximum given me correct coffee again but never would have made any price change once charged.

And then there’s the train system — oh my god! Especially at Shinjuku Station and Tokyo station. I got lost, confused, and even bought the same ticket three times. Still got it wrong. That place is a maze. Finding the right exit felt like a mini adventure in itself. But hey, that’s all part of the journey, right?

Another thing I experienced was how important cash still is in Japan. So many places only accept cash! I was under the impression that Germany was the only country lagging behind when it comes to card payments — but nope, Japan too! That was a bit annoying, honestly. I mean, who wants to carry cash around all the time? In many other Asian countries, I hardly ever use cash anymore, but Japan is definitely an exception. So, a tip: make sure to always carry some cash with you when traveling there.

Now, on to something amazing — the food. Japan is an absolute food heaven for me! Sushi and ramen are two of my favorite foods, and I just loved every bite here. Whether it was a small local shop or a famous restaurant, everything tasted so fresh and delicious. I could have spent the entire trip just eating my way through the country!

But I must say, Japan is still an expensive country. Compared to Korea, I felt the costs here were quite a bit higher — especially when it came to taxis and eating out. It’s definitely not the cheapest place to travel, but honestly, for the experience you get, it’s worth every yen.

Japan truly is a fascinating country. I loved every bit of it — the food, the culture, the nature, the people. I’m already dreaming about my next visit, maybe to Osaka and Kyoto. Let’s see when that happens.

But for now, I’m just incredibly grateful that my cherry blossom dream finally came true. The universe delivered, and I couldn’t be happier. Let’s see what the rest of the year brings!

Rental Boyfriend Experience in Japan

2025-04-20T12:42:00.004+02:00

This year, I finally went on my long-awaited trip to Japan. While casually browsing travel content about Japan, I came across several YouTubers talking about the “rent a boyfriend or girlfriend” concept in Japan. Naturally, anything that’s a little unusual or out of the ordinary quickly finds its way onto my bucket list.

Curious, I started looking for websites that offer rental boyfriend services. To my surprise, there were plenty of options for renting a girlfriend, but almost nothing for boyfriends. After trying out several different keyword combinations, I eventually stumbled upon a website called Warm Relation, which provides rental boyfriend services.

The idea behind Warm Relation is simple: a male companion, known as a “cast,” gives you a dating experience for a set amount of time. It’s not physical or romantic in a traditional sense—it’s more like a wholesome first-date experience.you can always express your wishes as to what type of date experience you are looking for.

When I checked the website, two profiles caught my eye, and among them, I chose Mitsuru, mainly because his profile clearly stated that he could speak English and he is very handsome .That made the decision easy.

I emailed him to express my interest and proposed a few dates and times. Mitsuru was incredibly polite and responsive. We exchanged a few emails discussing what kind of experience I was looking for, and he thoughtfully planned the entire date based on my preferences.

From the moment we met, the experience was fantastic. As someone who is always in a leadership role—whether at home, at work, or socially—it felt refreshing to let someone else take the lead for a change. Mitsuru was attentive, thoughtful, and made sure I felt comfortable and cared for throughout.

Surprisingly, it didn’t feel like we were meeting for the first time. The conversation flowed effortlessly all evening. Not once did we face an awkward silence or wonder what to do next. His English was also good and for few times when it was difficult to find the right words we used the translation app so all worked really well.

He had reserved a table at a sushi restaurant, where we had a lovely dinner. After that, he took me to explore the vibrant nightlife of Shinjuku, something I probably wouldn’t have done alone. With him by my side, it was not only fun—it felt safe and exciting. For once, someone else took the lead, asked what I wanted, and made me feel cared for. It wasn’t about romance—it was about connection, conversation, and a bit of playfulness.”

We talked about everything under the sun, walked around hand in hand, and shared that sweet feeling of a first date. It was a magical evening.

As a solo traveler, especially in a country where language can be a barrier, this experience gave me a new way to connect with the city—through the eyes of a local, with warmth and care. It made me feel good about myself, valued, and genuinely looked after.

So yeah, I went on a date with a rental boyfriend in Tokyo, and I enjoyed it a lot. It was unique, heartwarming, and gave me a whole new way to experience the city.”

I wish such service exists in all countries .

If you ever find yourself in Tokyo and want to try something new and meaningful, I highly recommend booking a date with Mitsuru through Warm Relation. He will definitely make you feel special.

https://warmrelation.com/cast/masaki-mitsuru/

My Immersive K-Beauty Experience in Korea

2025-01-02T13:54:00.007+01:00

My Immersive K-Beauty Experience in Korea

Korea is globally renowned for its thriving beauty industry, often referred to as "K-Beauty." From innovative skincare products to cutting-edge treatments, the world is captivated by the trendsetting influence of Korean beauty practices.

Recently, K-Beauty has become a worldwide trend. Social media, K-dramas, and K-pop stars have helped make it even more popular. People from all over want to try Korean beauty products and treatments.

After watching too many K-dramas and a real big fan of Korean food and beauty ,this year i decided to go to Seoul to experience this k- beauty treatments. Here's a glimpse into my K-Beauty journey in the vibrant Gangnam district.

I been to Korea already 2 times and i am a big fan of this country. last 2 times it was just doing sightseeing, but this time I wanted to do something different. I use k-beauty products a lot. Last year I also watched many you-tubers showing their different skin care and hair and many other treatments done in Korea so I also decided to do some of these treatments.

There is no point in just following some influencers but need to do own study and research. After some research and also consulted my Korean friend in Seoul I decided to go with the SEOUL GUIDE MEDICAL company. they are government approved company specialized for foreigners to find the right clinic and right treatments. I consulted them and finally decided on three different treatments. They also provide a English translator for you at the time of treatment in the clinic.

I did these 3 treatments: Pico toning for even toning my pigmentation, scalp scaling and K-glow package for skin tightening, pore reduction and improving the texture of my skin. All my clinics were in Gangnam. It is a rich and glamorous area. It’s also full of beauty clinics. These clinics offer many treatments, from simple skincare to high-tech cosmetic procedures.

Every building on both sides of the road has at-least 3-4 clinics. You name the treatment and you have the clinic for that. The area is teeming with state-of-the-art facilities offering a range of treatments, from skincare enhancements to advanced cosmetic procedures.

One might expect such high-quality treatments in a luxurious setting to come with a hefty price tag. Surprisingly, the costs in Korea are remarkably affordable compared to similar procedures in Europe or the United States. All together I Paid around 900 euro for all the treatments.

you can watch the reviews of all my treatments here:

https://youtube.com/shorts/jFECD9CU_kk?si=LAjdL76xyfQ31cg9

https://youtube.com/shorts/IGLunxmEZHw?si=3B_BhOe00Aj3E8NT

https://youtube.com/shorts/kCeBJqrcMDw?si=ppUQ6nVXg_mgIWH7

I am really happy about my K-beauty treatment experience and hopefully can go once a year to Seoul for such treatments. Its suggested to do these treatments at-least once a year for better results. I really love doing such things and getting pampered. Next time may be will stay a bit longer and do some more treatments.

K-Beauty continues to captivate and inspire people across the globe. Whether you’re looking for high-quality treatments or a glimpse into the future of beauty, Korea is undoubtedly the place to be.

Glacier Express journey

2024-06-13T16:13:00.002+02:00

Glacier Express journey

Glacier express journey was in my bucket list since really long time and finally this year I got a chance to travel in glacier express. Let me tell you this is definitely expensive but worth to do one time.

Me and one of my friends found a good deal on glacier express website for 3 nights , 4 days for just 700 euro and we decided to go for it. our journey started in St. Moritz and ended in Zermatt in Switzerland.

The Glacier Express is one of the most famous and scenic train journeys in the world, offering a breathtaking views through the heart of the Swiss Alps. The train was designed to connect the two major mountain resorts of Zermatt and St. Moritz efficiently, traversing the scenic but challenging terrain of the Swiss Alps .

The Glacier Express travels between Zermatt and St. Moritz, covering a distance of approximately 291 kilometers (181 miles) and taking around 8 hours . The train navigates through 91 tunnels and over 291 bridges, demonstrating remarkable engineering feats in challenging alpine conditions .

We started in the morning at 9 from St. Moritz and reached around 5 in the evening to Zermatt. The train has a panoramic windows and you can experience the beauty of Alps. the views are really beautiful. just frame after frame the scenic journey. At the end I just stopped clicking photos and videos as I was not able to decide which scene is more beautiful. The best was to capture all the beauty in my eyes than in the camera.

We booked the ticket for second class but if you have money you should definitely go for the first class carriages.

The food and drinks are also served in the train for the extra price. But I must say the food was really not that impressive. Me and my friend are originally smart :) so we did not book any food in the train from the start. So we saved some money. We brought our food and drinks with us but bought some coffee and swiss special nut cake which was very delicious. But a bit expensive. any way once you are in Switzerland you should not think much about prices as they are going to be expensive.

When we reached Zermatt we also visited 2 highest mountain peaks in Europe namely Matterhorn and Gornergrat. We need to take the multiple cable cars to go to Matterhorn. The cost is 55 swiss franks with discount of Swiss travel pass. the swiss travel pass was also included in the glacier express tour package. else it would have been really expensive. the view from the top is so beautiful. i just don't have words to express its beauty.

The second mountain peak is Gornergrat. We need to take a small train from Zermatt - the train goes through the mountain showcasing scenic views .

Zermatt itself is a very small town famous for skiing and winter sports. very expensive but very beautiful.

After this trip i could give you few tips to save some money. its better to start the train journey from Chur than from St. Moritz. Also there is no need to book the glacier express on both ways but only one way and the other way you can book the cheap train as the view is going to be the same on both ways. From the cheap train also you can experience the views . So only one way glacier express experience is not a bad idea.

I am really happy that I was able to tick one more thing from my travel bucket list and experience this beautiful views and luxurious journey through Alps.

The Glacier Express remains a symbol of luxury and scenic travel, providing an unforgettable experience through one of the most beautiful and rugged regions of the world. Whether for its historical significance, engineering marvels, or simply the stunning views, it continues to be a must-visit attraction for travelers to Switzerland.

Vanuatu

2024-01-24T15:41:00.001+01:00

Vanuatu

This year started on a good note. Past 3 years I did not travel as much as I normally do. I have been to few places in the past 2 years but not many new countries. Always new cities but same countries in Europe. But this year I travelled to a small new country called Vanuatu. This is my 42^nd country. The new year started good, and I am hopeful that this year I will visit a few new countries. I feel lucky to have this opportunity to travel around the world.

I never heard the name of this country before, but my sister suggested me to travel there during my stay in Australia. I agreed immediately and started searching for this country. Vanuatu is a South Pacific Ocean nation made up of roughly 83 islands. It is a beautiful small island country. Their currency is called Vatu. The country is not very chip for the tourists, and it is always better to have cash with you when you go around.

I never saw in any country such a happy and smiling immigration officer as in Vanuatu airport. When we landed there and went through immigration, the officer smiled at us and asked about us and wished us a happy stay in his country. This one thing we experienced during our stay is that everyone is very thankful to the tourists and says often that they are thankful to us for choosing their country as a tourist destination.

People are very relaxed and always ready to help and smiling. Most of the population is Melanesian and some Polynesian. There are More than 100 local Melanesian languages and dialects are spoken; Bislama, an English-based Melanesian pidgin, is the national language and, along with English and French, is one of three official languages. They also write in a broken English e.g. True is written as Tru. Or belong is written as blong.

The main attraction for me was to go to the Tanna Volcano Day trip but unfortunately all the trips during my stay were full and I could not go there. I was very disappointed. But this means I will go there again who knows. I was then in the main city called port vila during my visit to Vanuatu. I was still able to enjoy it there. Did a few good day trips and the rest of the time just relaxed in our resort.

One day I went to 83 island distilleries for Rum tasting. The interesting thing about this rum is that it is made from sugarcane. Normally rum is made from molasses but in Vanuatu distillery they make it from locally produced sugarcane. This way the local farmers get some money. This distillery is new, only 6 years old and small. Currently they supply the rum to all the hotels and resorts on the island but soon they will export it to Australia and New Zealand too. I got to taste 6 different rums. The sugar cane rum was very smooth. In the rum production area, there was always this sweet smell of sugarcane which was very similar to the jaggary we use in India. Also, this smell made me nostalgic and took me back to the old days in Pune where we used to drink this sugarcane juice very often.

The lady who gave me the tour was very nice and friendly. Luckily, I was the only one on that day for the tour, so it was like my private tour.

We also did the bush walking tour with the tour company Vanuatu Ecotours. This was the best tour. The walk was very easy and informative. Our guide took us through pure nature, showed us different trees and fruits and took us to the house of the village chief. This chief was very nice and generous. He gave us the taste of the fresh fruits from his trees. Showed us how they really live ecofriendly. He told us to become a chief you should have many trees, pigs and chickens because if local people come to you asking for help you should be able to give them something. His garden, well it’s much bigger than the garden, was full of fruit trees and vegetables, chickens, and pigs.

One day we also did a trip to see the culture and the traditional ways the people follow in small villages or in some tribes. One can also do many day trips to nearby islands where you can go snorkeling, kayaking, or just walking on the sandy beach.

The island people are very relaxed, and they are not very rich, but they are happy and enjoying their nature and ecofriendly, sustainable lifestyle. Thanx to my sister I was able to travel to this beautiful country this year.

#31 blog post challenge for OCT.2022 #day10 Korea Impression

2022-10-10T18:10:00.000+02:00

Korea Impression

I got a chance to go to Korea to attend my Korean friend's wedding few years back. I love Korean food and so I was very happy that finally I will get to eat real Korean food 😀

My trip to Korea was excellent . In general I think people are same everywhere in the world , we all have same emotions , almost same expectations from life . I would like to talk about my experience from my friend's wedding.

The wedding was a mix of American and traditional Korean wedding rituals. So when actually the wedding ceremony started and my friend's mother stood in front of the mike to talk, she was talking in Korean. of course none of us understand the language but at that point it was not even necessary to understand the language to feel the emotions of a mother who is sending her daughter to her new house , new family. Her chocked voice , and eyes filled with tears conveyed her emotions to us even without the language. How it can be different from any mother in the world. That was really heart touching moment for all of us , her non-Korean friends.

the ceremony was beautiful . My friend wanted to have that specific venue only but the venue owner had never given that venue for any weddings before and so was reluctant to agree to this. But my friend and her family tried very hard to convince him and finally managed to get the wedding venue.

I saw the Korean wedding before only once in my favourite TV serial Gilmore Girls so that was the only reference I had . But to large extent this is how the Korean weddings are. It is very short event and people really just come , eat , give gift and go. no big , long parties, no singing-dancing.

My friend's wedding was a bit different as it was a mix of typical American and Korean styles and so was a bit longer than the normal weddings. It was also bit delayed than they originally planned and my friend told us later that they had to send the letter to guests apologizing for the delay.

She also organized another drinks/food party in the city after the actual wedding was over for all of us who came from foreign countries . It was a very nice party. We all tried different rice wines there. They were special for 4 different seasons like summer, winter etc..

We did many trips in Korea and everywhere we got so many different experiences. But one thing was always common that whenever I told I am from India the different kind of respect I saw in Korean people's eyes was really amazing.

#31 blog post challenge for OCT.2022 #day9 Bharatnatyam

2022-10-09T09:47:00.005+02:00

My Bharatnatyam Gurus

My very first Bharatnatyam guru is Klara. When I was new in Germany, I came across Klara's Indian dance performances while browsing the internet. I was pleasantly surprised to see a German girl performing Bharatnatyam, so I reached out to her to inquire if she also taught Bharatnatyam. She responded affirmatively, and I went to meet her. She resided in a small village called Tengen, which was approximately a 40-minute drive from my location. I began learning from her, visiting her house every weekend for lessons. Klara, a young and sweet girl, became not only my guru but also my friend. Her mother was equally kind, and their beautiful typical village house created a welcoming atmosphere. I genuinely enjoyed going there. Klara and her mother made me feel at home, and we developed a special bond. Klara even invited me to New Year's party with her friends in Zürich, and we occasionally had lunch at her home. However, after two years, she moved to Switzerland for her studies, and I relocated to Heidelberg, making it impossible for us to meet and continue our dance lessons.

Although I was saddened by this turn of events, I soon found a new teacher. Attending a Diwali program organized by the German-Indian Association, I witnessed a Bharatnatyam performance by a group and discovered advertisements for dance classes. I was elated and immediately joined Alexandra's dance school. I am her student since 2007 and will continue to do so for as long as I can.

Originally from Poland, Alexandra traveled to India in the 1980s to learn Bharatnatyam from Kalakeshtra. After completing her arangetram, she relocated to Germany, where she has been teaching Bharatnatyam for nearly 35 years. Learning in her class is truly an enriching experience. We discuss various topics related to Indian mythology during our sessions, and Alexandra shares her experiences as a foreign student in India, particularly in Delhi during the 1980s. We often talk about her own teachers in India. This one hour spent in class each week is the highlight of my week. Alexandra always encourages us to enjoy the dance rather than focusing solely on technique, as she believes that when we experience joy, the audience does too. I vividly remember the moments when she introduces a new dance and the music starts playing. I would often worry about the speed, thinking, "Oh no, it's too fast! I can't keep up." But Alexandra would reassure me, saying, "Anagha, don't worry about the speed. First, learn the mudras and choreography, and then you can think about the speed. Once you have mastered all the movements in your mind, the speed will come naturally." And without fail, as we near the completion of the dance, I find myself able to dance at that speed. Alexandra is not just a teacher to us; she is also a friend and sometimes even a mother figure. She takes care of all her students as if they were her family. Every year, we have a dance class gathering, where we perform for our friends and family, and all the dancers bring food for the audience. Alexandra also organizes annual dance workshops with teachers from India exclusively for us. Additionally, we have a special dinner at her home, featuring Indian cuisine. Her knowledge of India, its culture, and mythology surpasses ours. Meeting her and attending her dance classes makes me feel closer to India, a little bit.

I consider myself extremely fortunate to have such wonderful gurus, even in Germany, allowing me to pursue my passion.

Thank you Klara and Alexandra.

#31 blog post challenge for OCT.2022 #day8 Wine Hiking

2022-10-08T08:44:00.002+02:00

Wine Hiking

When I first moved to the Heidelberg area, I heard a word I had never come across before: wine hike. I was already familiar with hiking and had enjoyed plenty of trails before, but a wine hike? That definitely caught my attention.

In wine regions, these hikes are actually very common and popular events. As summer approaches and the weather gets better, various wine festivals and wine hikes start to pop up everywhere. The idea is simple but brilliant: a specified route winds through beautiful vineyards, with different wine stands set up at intervals along the way. Each stand represents a local winery, offering tastings of their wines. You walk the route, stop for a sip (or two) at each stand, and continue on to the next. There’s usually food available too, along with benches or standing tables where you can relax and soak up the atmosphere.

It’s truly a fun activity, especially with a group of friends! The hikes are typically around 8–10 km long, making them the perfect day out.

Every year, my friends and I kick off the wine hike season on the 1st of May, usually starting from Bensheim or Zwingenberg. That particular hike is quite ambitious—almost 21 km long! Of course, we never quite manage to complete the entire route, but that’s not the point. It’s all about enjoying the day, the wine, and the company. After that, the season is officially open for us, and we try to join as many wine hikes in our region as possible.

This year, I even managed to make it to Vienna for a wine hike! It was absolutely beautiful. The only difference was the local terminology: in Germany, we call it Weinschorle (wine spritzer), whereas in Vienna they simply say Spritzer. But hey, small language differences never get in the way of drinking good wine and having a great time!

At some wine hikes, you even receive a small special glass for tastings, which you can carry from stand to stand. Many people collect these glasses as souvenirs from each year. I’ve managed to collect a few myself—and each one comes with great memories.

A day spent in nature with friends, walking, chatting, and enjoying good drinks—what’s not to love about that?

And if you’re not a wine lover, don’t worry. You can still join the fun and enjoy non-alcoholic options—no judgment here! The most important thing is to have a great walk, meet wonderful people, and simply have fun.

Cheers 👍

#31 blog post challenge for OCT.2022 #day7 Mansaf

2022-10-07T08:57:00.006+02:00

Mansaf

Mansaf is a traditional Jordanian dish made of lamb cooked in a goat milk yogurt and served with rice and topped with almond slices . it is very mild taste dish. This yogurt is prepared by the boiling of sheep or goat milk. This sauce has a very distinct fermented and salty flavor. It is Jordan's national dish.

When we traveled to Jordan last year we had a unique experience of Jordanian hospitality while eating this famous dish Mansaf.

It was a day before we flew back home and me and 2 more friends wanted to eat this famous dish.

We searched one restaurant in the market area and went there. One of my friends can talk Arabic so she talked with the cook and asked how to eat this dish and ordered accordingly for us. The yogurt sauce and rice is served separately and we have to take a scoop of rice and then add the sauce and some roasted nuts on the top in each plate and eat it.

So we 3 were eating it and speaking in English and having fun. There was a young man sitting on the next table alone and eating and also looking at us every now and then. But we did not really pay much attention to him. After some time he finished his food and came to our table and spoke in very good english to us. He said Hello and asked us if we like the Mansaf . we said yes for sure. He politely asked us if he could give some more details of this dish and explained a bit more. We thanked him and he wished us good time and turned and started walking downstairs and while going down he told us by the way I have already paid for your food. We were so surprised and stunned that we could just say Thank you it is really not necessary to pay for us. But he did not give us chance to say anything more and said you all are our guests and welcome in my country. This is a Jordanian welcome to you and went out.

We 3 were really speechless. Mansaf tasted even better after that 😃In Jordan we met such nice people many times. We don't even know that young man's name but we thank him from bottom of our heart .

Travel is all about taking different experiences and I am very lucky that all of my travels till now made me rich with many beautiful, interesting experiences.

#31 blog post challenge for OCT.2022 #day6 Hotel zur Sonne

2022-10-06T09:57:00.003+02:00

Hotel zur Sonne

Hotel Sonne is the hotel and restaurant I stayed for the very first time when I came to Germany. A small family owned hotel in a small village Donaueschingen. My first job was in a small village Donaueschingen in black forest area and my company organized my accommodation in this hotel for first few months.

That was the first time I met this wonderful old couple and they became important part of my life and my first pair of parents in Germany. I don't know how our relation developed and became so loving and real that I cannot imagine how horrible my life would have been without them around me at every step of my life. This was the only couple in that small village who was able to speak English and very kind towards foreigners. I used to call them Uncle sonne and Aunty sonne. Aunty was originally from Switzerland and Uncle from Germany. they both met at hotel school in Switzerland and then fall in love with each other. When I met them they were already in their 70s but still working and managing this beautiful family hotel and restaurant. Uncle was a cook and Aunty was managing the hotel administration.

Even after I left the hotel accommodation I was still in contact with them and after few months I lost my job so I was a bit worried . I was still new in Germany and was not good in language either. That time I asked them if they know any cheap place for me to stay so I can leave my current flat and save some money. They offered me a room in their hotel with breakfast for around 150 euro . I was so happy and thankful to them. Since that day they became my real parents. They always used to check on me . if I need anything , which friends I have, with whom I go out and so on. They were taking care of me just like their own daughter.

Every Monday when restaurant was closed they both used to take me in their car and we 3 used to go on a day trip somewhere nearby . I had the best time with them. Even their children who used to live far away but they also considered me as part of their family. After when I moved to a different city , I used to visit them at least once a month and we used to even celebrate Christmas together. Every time when I used to drive from their hotel to my home, Aunty used to say Drive safe and call when you reach home. She never missed even once to say this to me 😊 I still hear in my ears her voice when I start driving.

They even introduced me to their old friends and we all used to have the best time in the evening after restaurant was closed. There I got to meet their good friend Heinrich who was a police commissioner of Rottweil that time. This old man also became my father soon and helped me to find a job. he gave my CV to the owner of one company and told me now its your job to give a good interview and get the job. I was lucky enough to get that job. I used to go everyday from Donaueschingen to Rottweil by train for my job till I find a new apartment in Rottweil . This police commissioner was so nice that he instructed his secretary to pick me up every morning from the train station and drive to the company so I do not have to wait for the bus and reach in time to the office. I still don't understand how these people believed on me so much and helped me , took care of me like their own daughter.

I feel myself really lucky to find such a wonderful people around me. I must have done something really good in my past life to meet these kind , wonderful, helping people. They trusted a girl coming from some far away country and gave her the love of a family. I really wonder how people meet from different parts of the world and get together and become a family.

These people have always a special place in my heart. Love you my adopted family and wish you the best.

#31 blog post challenge for OCT.2022 #day5

2022-10-05T07:40:00.004+02:00

परदेशी राहाताना....

लहानपणापासूनच मला परदेशाचे फार आकर्षण होत आणि २००१ मध्ये जेव्हा जर्मनीत नोकरीची संधी चालून आली तेव्हा मी लगेचच फार काही विचार न करता , जर्मनीबद्दल फारशी माहिती नसताना इकडे येण्याचा निर्णय घेतला.

गेल्या १८ वर्षात खूपच बदल झालेले बघितले , अनेक चांगले ,वाईट अनुभव ही घेतले. प्रत्येक अनुभव काहीतरी देऊन गेला.

इकडे आलेल्या प्रत्येकालाच पहिला शॉक बसतो ते म्हणजे रविवारी सगळे बंद . आधी तर शनिवारी पण सगळी दुकान दुपारी १ वाजता बंद होत असत . मग थोड्या वर्षांनी शनिवारी दुपारी ४ वाजता बंद होऊ लागली . मग रात्री ८ वाजता आणि आता काही वर्षांपूर्वी पासून बरीच सुपर मार्केट रात्री १२ वाजता बंद होतात. पण बाकीची दुकान मात्र ८ लाच बंद होतात. आणि रविवारी काहीही झालं तरी सगळं बंद. Germany is all about planning in advance त्यामुळे आलं मनात , गेले दुकानात अस इथे नाही चालत.

दुसरी खूप जाणवणारी गोष्ट म्हणजे कस्टमर सर्व्हिस . पण मी पुण्यातून आल्यामुळे मला त्याचा फारसा त्रास नाही झाला. पु. ल. नी म्हणल्याप्रमाणे दुकानातली सर्वात दुर्लक्ष करण्यासारखी गोष्ट म्हणजे कस्टमर त्याचा इकडे भरपूर अनुभव येतो. पण नंतर त्याची सुद्धा सवय होते.

अगदी नवीन असताना अर्थातच कार नव्हती आणि रोज टॅक्सीची चैन परवडण्यासारखी नव्हती तेव्हा चालणे हा एकच पर्याय होता. पुण्यातून आल्यामुळे चालण्याची सवयच नव्हती. उठ बस बाईक , रिक्षा, कार अशी सवय. पण एकदा अचानक जीम मध्ये "Maiwanderung" म्हणजेच १ मे हाईक ची जाहिरात बघितली आणि हे आहे तरी काय म्हणून नाव रजिस्टर केलं. इकडे १ मे ला सुट्टी असते आणि सगळे अबाल वृद्ध, आई बाबा, मुले कुठेतरी निसर्गाच्या सांनिध्यात हाकीइंग साठी जातात. त्या एका हाईक पासून माझ्या हायकिंग चा श्रीगणेशा झाला. आणि मग विविध गृस्प बरोबर तर कधी एकटे असे अनेक १२-१५ किलोमीटर चे हाईक केले. अगदी आलप्स मध्ये पण हायकिंग केले . आजूबाजूचा सुंदर निसर्ग ,शांत, मोकळी , शुद्ध हवा आणि नवीन नवीन लोक , त्यांच्याबरोबर चालताना विविध विषयांवर गप्पा गोष्टी आणि अर्थातच हाईक च्या शेवटी कुठल्यातरी रेस्टोरंट मध्ये किंवा मग एखाद्या बीअर गार्डन मध्ये श्रमपरिहार असा मस्त प्रोग्रॅम बहुतेक सगळ्या रविवारी चालू झाला.

जर्मनीत आल्यावर इथल्या शिस्तीची ,स्वछतेची , लाल फितीच्या संथ कारभाराची सवय व्हायला थोडा वेळ लागतोच. रविवारी शांतता पाळणे म्हणजे अगदी आपल्या घरात सुद्धा आवाज करणारे वॊशिंग मशीन , व्हॅक्युम क्लिनर न लावणे, जोरात गाणी न लावणे अश्या गोष्टी बघून जरा चक्रायलाचं होते.

आपण थोडं त्यांच्या कलाने वागलो , थोडं अडजेस्ट केले न की कधी कधी काही छान अनुभव पण येतात.

नवीन असताना जेव्हा माझा जॉब गेला आणि मी एका कंपानीत इंटरव्ह्यू द्यायला जात होते. स्टेशवर उतरले तर बस गेलेली होती आणि छोट गाव असल्यामुळे टॅक्सी पण दिसत नव्हती , चालत गेले तर नक्कीच उशीर होणार होता. पण तेव्हड्यात एक बाई तिच्या म्हाताऱ्या बाबांना सोडायला स्टेशन वर कार नी आली. मला जर्मन पण फार येत नव्हतं पण माझा काळजीयुक्त चेहेरा पाहून जवळ आली आणि काय प्रॉब्लेम आहे विचारलं. मी जेव्हा सगळी गोष्ट सांगितली तेव्हा आपणहून मला तिच्या गाडीतून कंपनी पर्यंत सोडायला आली. असे अनेक छोटे मोठे चांगले अनुभव मला आले. माझ्या जन्मदात्या आई वडिलांप्रमाणेच मला इकडे अजून ३ आई वडिलांच्या जोड्या मिळाल्या. त्या सगळ्यांनी मला भरभरून प्रेम आणि आधार दिला . त्यांची गोष्ट लिहायला बसले तर पुस्तक च तयार होईल.

परदेशी राहताना आपण आपल्या परिवारापासून दूर असतो. पण आपला नवीन परिवार आपणच बनवायचा असतो. त्यासाठी आपल्यालाच पाहिलं पाऊल उचलावं लागत. मी मुळातच माणसांमध्ये मिसळणारी , सतत नवीन अनुभवाच्या शोधात असणारी असल्यामुळे मला जिवाभावाचे मैत्र इथेही मिळाले .

मी मीटप , इंटरनेशन सारखे गृप्स जॉईन केले. आज जवळ जवळ ६ वर्ष शहरात नवीन येणाऱ्या लोकांसाठी विवीध इव्हेंट मीटप आणी इंटरनेशन च्या माध्यमातून ऑर्गनाईझ करते आहेत. त्यातून अनेक लोक जोडली , अनेक घट्ट , मदतीला धावून जाणारी माणसे जोडली गेली.

भल्या पहाटे मी फोन केल्यावर लगेच मला घेऊन इमर्जन्सीत हॉस्पिटल मध्ये घेऊन जाणारा माझा अमेरिकन मित्र असेल, किंवा मला असह्य त्रास होत असताना रविवार घरी येऊन ओषध देणारी माझी इटालियन डॉक्टर मैत्रीण असो, मला बर नाहीये हे कळल्यावर माझ्यासाठी प्रार्थना करणारी , मी कधीही न बघितलेली माझ्या इराणी मैत्रिणीची आई असो, मला नेहमीच हक्कानी कधीही घरी जाता येईल अशी माझ्या तीनही आई वडिलांची घर असो , किंवा दरवर्षी माझ्याप्रमाणेच दिवाळीची वाट बघणारी आणि माझ्या घरी दिवाळी पार्टीसाठी स्पेशल गिफ्ट घेऊन येणारी माझी जर्मन, अमेरिकन , इटालियन , इराणी आणि इतर बऱ्याच देशातील माझे मित्र मैत्रीण असो .... या सगळ्यांनी माझे आयुष्य खरंच खूप सुंदर केले आहे.

परदेशात आल्यावर घर, गाडी , पैसा वगैरे मिळतच त्यात फार काही विषेश नाही. पण अशी आजूबाजूला असेलेली जिवाभावाच्या माणसांची श्रीमंती मात्र नक्कीच सगळ्यांना नाही मिळत . मला मात्र ही श्रीमंती भरपूर मिळाली आहे आणी ही अशी श्रीमंती वाढत जाऊदे एवढीच इच्छा आहे.

#31 blog post challenge for OCT.2022 #day4 A Day at Pumpkin Exhibition

2022-10-04T09:51:00.004+02:00

A Day at Pumpkin Exhibition

Since few years I was seeing the photos of biggest pumpkin exhibition in Ludwigsburg but somehow never got a chance to go there. But this year taking the advantage of public holiday and good weather I decided to visit this place. Every year from August till December on the grounds of Ludwigsburg palace garden the biggest exhibition of pumpkins takes place.

Here we can see the vast variety of pumpkins , some small and some really big pumpkin sculptures . also wide range of edible pumpkins, decoration pumpkins , some weird looking pumpkin , pumpkin carving station and in food section all cooked with pumpkins.

As it was a public holiday in Germany , there were lot of people. I never saw such a big line to buy tickets anywhere in Germany till now. The entry fee is 10 euro. Also inside the garden at different eating counters very big line to get the food. we waited almost half an hour to get pumpkin pizza .

There was pumpkin pizza, pumpkin waffles, pumpkin ice cream, fries, chips , wine, sekt, juice and what not. All with pumpkin. But one warning pl. do not waste money in buying pumpkin sekt ( German word for bubbly wine) and juice actually Schorle(juice mixed with bubble water) that tasted really bad. We could not eat all the dishes but whatever we ate , I would say it was just ok. I would not buy that again .

But the sculptures were really impressive and overall I would say day well spent. It is definitely one time visit place.

#31 blog post challenge for OCT.2022 #day3 Pandemic Travel PCR Test Fun (Part2)

2022-10-03T08:31:00.002+02:00

Pandemic Travel PCR Test Fun (Part2)

During the pandemic, I had several interesting and amusing encounters with PCR tests and their timings. I can't even count how many times I took these tests or how much I paid for them. One such memorable experience occurred during my trip to Jordan in January 2022.

I had a fantastic trip in Jordan from December 25th, 2021, until January 6th, 2022. Finally, it was time to fly back to Germany. On January 5th, I took my test at 10:30 in the morning, and my flight was scheduled for the night of January 6th, technically making it January 7th. I thought it would be fine since the test couldn't be older than 72 hours.

I arrived at the Amman airport well in advance, but during check-in, the staff asked for my vaccine pass, which I didn't have. I informed them that as a German national, I was allowed to travel with a negative PCR test instead of a vaccine certificate. I even showed them the official website information to support my claim. Eventually, they accepted this, but when they examined my test certificate, they said it wasn't valid because the 48-hour limit would exceed by the time I reached Frankfurt. I argued that the rule stated a 72-hour limit, but they insisted it had just changed.

Feeling frustrated, I escalated the situation to the manager. They informed me that they would contact the German consulate for guidance. My passport details were sent to the consulate, and I had to wait anxiously. The time for my flight was approaching rapidly, and I feared I would miss it and have to book another one. However, around 11:40, the manager informed me that I had to take another test before I could proceed. Luckily, the test center at Amman airport was open 24 hours, so I hurried outside and paid 80 euros, even though the regular price in Jordan was only 30 euros. At that point, I was in a rush and desperate, so the cost didn't bother me much. The next hurdle came when the test center staff couldn't guarantee that I would receive the result within an hour. I panicked and explained that my flight was in 40 minutes, but I had no choice but to accept their response. At that moment, I almost lost hope of making it onto the flight.

After taking the test, I returned to the check-in counter and shared my concerns with the manager, explaining what the test center staff had told me. To my surprise, the manager remained calm and assured me, saying, "Don't worry, you'll get the result on time. I'm sure of it." I began to wonder if all this was just a ploy to extract money for the test. Miraculously, I received my negative test result within 15 minutes, and I was able to check-in immediately. I boarded the flight to Doha as the last person, rushing through passport control and security. Finally, I made it back to Frankfurt from Doha.

One positive aspect I noticed in Jordan was that whenever we needed a PCR test, a person would come to our hotel to conduct the test, which cost only 30 euros, and the results would be sent via WhatsApp within three hours. In contrast, in a so-called first-world country like Germany, PCR tests were much more expensive at almost 80 euros, took more than 24 hours to obtain results, were not available as home or hotel services, and the test centers were not open 24/7 (although I recently saw a test center open at Frankfurt airport during the night). There is some progress happening. Germany is lagging far behind in terms of digitization compared to a country like Jordan, where everything was quick, easy, and digital, with payments made through credit cards. The process was user-friendly and efficient.

Despite the challenges, I thoroughly enjoyed these experiences and am ready for new adventures

#31 blog post challenge for OCT.2022 #day2 Pandemic travel PCR Test Fun Part1

2022-10-02T11:07:00.006+02:00

Pandemic travel PCR Test Fun Part1

I have a deep passion for traveling, but the pandemic posed numerous challenges for me. I made a personal choice not to get vaccinated, and I stand firm in my reasons, regardless of others' opinions. But any way the time when i was not vaccinated and still was traveling a lot of course had to do tests all the time which is fine and i don't mind paying 80 euro for PCR test before flying . Also even doing quick tests every 2 days . I was fine with all this than taking a vaccine.

In November 2021, I embarked on a holiday trip to Cyprus. It was a marvellous vacation, and when the time came to return home, I adhered to my routine of taking a PCR test. I made sure to time it correctly, ensuring that the test was conducted 30 hours prior to my flight. Fortunately, the test result came back negative, and I was all set to fly back. However, as soon as we boarded the flight, we encountered a technical issue that prevented us from taking off. After three hours of waiting inside the airplane, we were informed that the flight was cancelled, and the airline would arrange accommodation for us in a hotel. We were assured that we would receive an email with the details of our re-booked flights. It was already late at night, around 11:30 p.m. Concerned about the validity of my PCR test until I reached Germany, I approached the staff for clarification. Unfortunately, they couldn't provide a definitive answer and promised to consult with their manager, which they never did.

The next day, I was re-booked for an early morning flight through London instead of my original direct flight. When I reached the British Airways counter in the morning, I expressed my concerns about the validity of my PCR test. The staff reassured me that it was still valid. Although I was willing to retake the test, I discovered that the test center was not open at that hour. Consequently, I proceeded with the flight, confident that my test result remained valid until I reached London.

Upon arrival at London airport, I proceeded to the next terminal for my Frankfurt flight. As I approached the check-in counter, the staff asked for my test certificate. I presented it, but they informed me that it appeared to be invalid. I promptly shared the entire story and even offered to take another test on the spot. However, they informed me that the test centre is located outside the airport premises, making it impractical. Determined to find a solution, I asked them for alternative options.

After consulting with their colleagues, they gathered around with pen and paper, meticulously calculating the various time zones involved. After careful consideration, they eventually delivered the news, "Well, you made it just in time." because I did the test in Cyprus which has different time zone than UK and then now I am in London again another time zone and then going to Frankfurt which is one hour ahead of UK so after calculating all the time differences As per UK time I will reach Germany in time and so my test result is still valid 😊 Consequently, according to UK time, my test result would still be valid upon my arrival in Germany. This realization brought me great relief and a sense of accomplishment.

In the end, everything went smoothly, and I arrived in Germany without any further issues. Throughout this journey, I have accumulated countless amusing experiences about these tests. I have lost the count of money I spent on these tests. I firmly believe that life is enriched by such diverse experiences, and I embrace each one with joy.

#31 blog post challenge for OCT.2022 #Day1 Pandemic Travel

2022-10-01T12:09:00.008+02:00

Pandemic Travel

In 2020 pandemic hit all of us and life changed completely. In 2017 I decided to see new years firework every year from a different country and also manged it till 2019 but in 2020 i was not sure if will be able to keep my promise to myself. But I was lucky and could fly to Madeira island in Portugal. it was very new style of flying or travel in general because of pandemic.

First I did a PCR test 1 day before flying . For that we had to go to Frankfurt airport as It was not available that easily anywhere else. for this I Had to take online appointment and pay online and then go to the airport for the test. but I must say all went relatively smooth considering the large number of people and everyone confused, changing rules everyday .

Going to airport with public transport , doing the test and then come back home by public transport and then fly after 1 day ....how this can show I am still negative at the time of flying was beyond my understanding but hey whatever govt. says you do . I was happy i was able to fly and celebrate new year in different country.

Few days before my travel date there was a curfew in Germany and we were not allowed to go out after 8 p.m. and my flight was early morning at 5 that means I need to take a train around 3 in the night . It was not possible to go out of house at that time so finally I decided to take a train just before 8 in the night and then stay at the airport for the whole night. No nearby hotel was allowing tourists to stay in the hotel as a govt. rule . Only business travelers were allowed. So only option was really to stay at the airport. But that was not so bad. airport had good toilets , some food stalls and free WIFI.... what more you need 😊 But one uncomfortable thing that we had to wear masks all time .

After all these small and big problems finally I flew to Madeira next day and the trip was wonderful.

Not that many tourists there so travel was smooth , hotel was great, better weather than in Germany and not so many restrictions as in Germany. So it was really nice holiday. Also I was able to do all tours like a private tour but for very cheap price.

Finally on 31st Dec. 2020 watched the best fireworks directly from the balcony of my hotel room in the sea. well it was sea view room so I had the best view. And I kept my promise made to myself to celebrate new year in new country every year even during pandemic.

I feel really grateful and blessed that I was able to travel without any health issues during that difficult time.

Join my trip

2021-12-03T17:41:00.002+01:00

Join my Trip

Since pandemic remote work possibilities have increased. I am also one of those lucky people who can work remotely.

since last year there are many restrictions on travelling and also travelling alone is not that interesting at least for me. while browsing on internet I came across a website JoinMyTrip (www.joinmytrip.com ) where you can join other people in their trips. They can be professional trip planner or any individual who like to travel with others.

I decided to join such co-working, co-living trip. This was an excellent experience. As i need to finish my holidays i decided not to work but just go for relaxing and co-living.

In co-working trips like this there is normally good internet connection and some space to work is available. we all work during the day and evening enjoy all together and weekends do some trips nearby.

we were a group of 5 people at first and 3 of them were working and 2 not. we rented a beautiful villa in Cyprus with well equipped kitchen, 4 bedrooms, 3 and half baths, swimming pool and beach just at 5 mins. walking distance. It was a perfect house. We also rented a car for the group, so it was easy go around for day trips or shopping.

Such trips are successful only when the people in group are open minded, energetic, and easy going. Normally this is the case. Our group leader was a young and charming, sweet girl Kathy from Austria who arranged all the trip for us. Trip leader plays a big role in keeping the group together and happy.

We all used to cook many times together in the evening and then go for some drinks outside or sometimes just sit at our pool and enjoy food and drinks. Everyone took care of household tasks on their own without any fights or strong discussions. It was simple who ever has time and sees some work like loading or unloading dishwasher, buying grocery etc. they just do it.

We also used the very popular app splitwise to split the cost among us for all the group expenses. That way no one has to worry about the cost and money and calculations. The app tells you who spend what and who need to pay whom.

Cyprus, officially called the Republic of Cyprus, is an island country in the eastern Mediterranean Sea. It is the third largest and third most populous island in the Mediterranean. Its Europe's sunniest island.

It has a long dispute over its territory between Greece and Türkiye. they have both Turkish and Greek as their official languages but most of the population can speak good English too.

We had our villa in a town called Protaras which is a resort town in eastern Cyprus, known for its beaches and for Fig Tree Bay with its old, lone fig tree. It’s around 40 mins. drive from the city Larnaca. As this was the off season there were not many people which was good but also many of the hotels and restaurants were closed. So, there was a little choice of restaurants and bars when we wanted to go for night outs. But this is better than going in high tourist season. Even in November the weather was around 22 degrees during the day, warm and sunny with cooler nights. In any case better than cold, dark, depressing Germany.

There are few things look around. The one city I visited was Paphos. Its modern city with some archaeological park, fortress but one very popular site to visit is Rock of Aphrodite. This is a birthplace of Greek goddess Aphrodite. Aphrodite is the Goddess of Love and Beauty and according to Hesiod's Theogony, she was born from the foam in the waters of Paphos, on the island of Cyprus. It has a beautiful beach and a big rock formation where you can climb up and have a beautiful view of the area.

Another important city to visit is Nicosia. It is the divided capital city of Cyprus where south side is on Greek side and north side on the Turkish side. Unfortunately, I did not get chance to go there but maybe next time.

One more place to visit is Troodos mountains. Troodos Mountains are the biggest mountain range in Cyprus. We did a 4x4 jeep trip for this visiting small villages on the way and beautiful panoramic views from the top of the mountain.

Pandemic has given birth to this new way of working, living, and travelling. I am really happy I found this and definitely going to do these now more often.

2021-03-08T07:27:00.003+01:00

ती ची गोष्ट

ऑफिसमध्ये साधारण ११ च्या सुमाराला फोन वाजला . बघितलं तर क्लिंनिंग लेडीचा फोन . संध्याकाळी घरी गेल्यावर छान आवरलेले , स्वच्छ घर बघायची स्वप्न बघत होते तर क्लिंनिंग लेडी आज जमणार नाही असे फोन वर सांगत होती. कुठल्यातरी मैत्रिणीला हॉस्पिटल मध्ये घेऊन जायचे होते म्हणून येऊ शकणार नाही असे सांगत होती. नेहमी प्रमाणे आज नवीन काहीतरी स्टोरी असणार होती. नेक्स्ट वीक मध्ये नक्की यायचे प्रॉमिस करून तिनी फोन ठेवला.

नेक्स्ट वीकमध्ये कामाला आल्यावर क्लिनींग लडी ने सांगायला सुरतवात केली त्या ती ची कहाणी .

ती ३ मुलांची आई , त्यातील एक जरा स्पेशल कीड. ती कुठेतरी स्वताच्या दिसण्याबद्दल , स्वताच्या शरीराबद्दल साशंक . नवरा दुसरीकडे कुठेतरी गुंतलाय आणी आपण आता त्यासाठी फारसे aatractive नाही राहीलो असे मनात कुठेतरी जाणवून एक चुकीचा निर्णय घेतला.... गेली टर्की ला ब्रेस्ट इम्प्लांट सर्जरी करायला . आपल्या शरीराच्या वाढलेल्या आकार उकारांमुळे नवरा परत आपल्याकडे ओढला जाईल अश्या खुळ्या कल्पनेमुळं ब्रेस्ट इम्प्लांट सर्जरी चा निर्णय घेतला. जर्मनी पेक्षा टर्की मध्ये स्वतात होते म्हणून तिकडे गेली पण सर्जरी चुकली . अर्थातच तेव्हा नाही कळलं. पण जर्मनीत आल्यावर लागेचच हेवी ब्लीडींग आणि इतर काही प्रॉब्लेम सुरु झाले आणि हॉस्पिटल मध्ये भरती व्हावे लागले. अर्थातच इकडल्या डॉक्टारांनीं हात झटकले. टर्कीच्या डॉक्टारांचा दोष आहे सांगितलं. इम्प्लांट केलेले सिलिकॉन ब्रेस्ट बाहेर काढावे लागले , नवीन इन्फेक्शन झाले. पब्लिक इन्शुरन्स मुळे फार महागाची ट्रीटमेंट करता येत नव्हती. आधीच ४००० युरो घालवून झाले होते आता परत पुढच्या ट्रीटमेंट साठी ३-४००० युरो द्यावे लागले. आणि एवढं करूनही फारसे काही हाती लागले नाही. अनेक वेळा हॉस्पिटलच्या emergency मध्ये वाऱ्या करून शेवटी ब्रेस्ट कॅन्सर च शेवटच्या स्टेज च निदान झाले आणि एक आयुष्य संपले. फक्त एका कुठल्यातरी स्वतःच्या शरीराबद्दलच्या अवास्तव अपेक्ष्या , आत्मविश्वासाचा अभाव , कोणालातरी आपण फक्त आपल्या शरीरामुळे आवडू शकू बाकी कश्यामुळे नाही असा समज यामुळं सगळंच अकाली संपलं.

महिला दिना च्या निमीत्यानी तरी जरा विचार करा, स्वतःच्या हेल्थ बद्दल, शरीराबद्दल जागरूक रहा. महिला म्हणजे फक्त जाहिरातीत दाखवलं जाणारे सुंदर शरीर बाकी काही नाही , आपण फक्त आपल्या शरीरामुळं आकर्षक दिसू शकतो, फक्त सुडोल शरीरामुळं आवडू शकतो हा समाज आपल्या मनातून काढून टाका आणी आत्मविश्वासानी पाऊल पुढे टाका.

अनघा दातार

जर्मनीतले लॉकडाऊनचे अनुभव

2020-08-14T13:48:00.003+02:00

जर्मनीतले लॉकडाऊनचे अनुभव

२०२० साल एकदमच हॅपानिंग सुरु झाले. साधारण मार्च पासून जर्मनी मध्ये लॉकडाऊन सुरु झाले. प्रथम हे सगळे फक्त चायना मध्येच आहे ...आपल्याकडे काय प्रॉब्लेम नाही अश्या भ्रमात होतो पण लवकरच प्रॉब्लेम चा आवाका लक्षात आला. रोज नवीन रुल्स ,रोज नवीन वाढणारे आजारी लोकांचे आकडे यामुळे थोडे थोडे टेंन्शन वाढत होते. त्यातच रोज आता घरून काम करायची ऑर्डर कंपनी कडून आली , जिम बंद झाली . एका वेळी दोन च लोक एकत्र बाहेर जाऊ शकत होते. अश्या सगळ्या बदलांबरोबर सवय करून घ्यायला जरा वेळ लागला पण लवकरच या सगळ्याला मी सरावले आणि आता यातून काय मार्ग काढता येईल याचा विचार करू लागले.

नशीबाने जर्मनीत लॉकडाऊन फार स्ट्रीक्ट नसल्यामुळे बाहेर जाऊ शकत होतो. इतर काही देशांसारखी वाईट परीस्थीती नसल्यामुळे हा लॉकडाऊन तसा सुसह्य होता.

प्रथम मी जिम बंद असल्यामुळे व्यायामाचा विचार केला. मग दररोज १० किलोमीटर तरी चालायचे असे ठरवले. आणि त्याप्रमाणे एक वॊक दुपारी जेवण झाल्यावर आणि एक वॊक संध्याकाळी ऑफिस संपल्यावर . असे करून रोजचे व्यायामाचे रुटीन जमवले. कधी एकटी तरी कधी संध्याकाळी एका मैत्रिणी बरोबर असे चालायचे रुटीन ठेवले . दर शनिवारी एका मैत्रिणी बरोबर हैडेलबेर्ग आणि आजूबाजूच्या परिसरातील मस्त हाईक्स रूट शोधून तिकडे हाइकिंगला जायला सुरवात केली. जर हा व्हायरस प्रॉब्लेम नसता तर माझ्या जवळचे इतके छान रूट्स सापडलेच नसते.

नेहमीचे सोशलाईझिंग इव्हेंट्स नसल्यामुळे बऱ्याच संध्याकाळ फ्री मिळायला लागल्या. पण मित्र मैत्रिणीनीना भेटता येत नसल्यामुळे मग स्काईप कॉल वर मैफिली करायच्या ठरल्या. जवळ जवळ प्रत्येक वीकेण्डला कुठल्या तरी ग्रुप बरोबर ऑनलाईन वाईन पार्टी, कुकिंग असे प्रोग्रॅम सुरु झाले . एकत्र ऑनलाईन कुकींग ला तर खूपच मजा आली . सगळ्यांना एकच सेम रेसिपी देऊन ठरलेल्या वेळेला स्काईप कॉल वर येऊन मस्त गप्पा गोष्टी करत कुकींग आणि मग एकत्र ऑनलाईन जेवणे . मस्त धमाल आली .

ऑफिस तर चालूच होते . कधी घरून काम तर कधी ऑफिस मध्ये जाऊन . पण एक गोष्ट कटाक्षाने पाळली ती म्हणजे घरून जरी काम करत असेन तरी ऑफिसला जाताना जसे नीट आवरून जाऊ तसेच घरी पण व्यवस्थित नीट आवरून कामाला बसत असे.

अजून एक मस्त गोष्ट या लॉकडाऊन मुळे झाली ती म्हणजे मी लाईव्ह इंस्टाग्राम वर माझ्या meeTup ग्रुप साठी ऑनलाईन बॉलिवूड डान्स वर्कआउट सेशन सुरु करू शकले. गेले २-३- वर्ष हे चालू करायचे डोक्यात होते पण काही ना काही कारणाने जमत नव्हतं ते अचानक सुरु करता आले. एका मित्राने त्याच्या फिजीओथेरॅपी प्रॅक्सिस मधली एक खोली दर रविवारी वापरायला दिली आणि अनेक दिवसांपासून चा प्लॅन प्रत्यक्षात उतरला.

या लॉकडाऊनने बऱ्याच पॉझिटिव्ह गोष्टी मला दिल्या. बरीच क्रिएटिव्हिटी वाढवली. माझ्या जवळच्या , आजूबाजूच्या परिसरातील सुंदर गोष्टी शोधायला मदत केली , आणी आत्तापर्यंत मिळालेल्या फ्रीडमचं महत्व कळलं जे या आधी कधीच जाणवलं नव्हतं.

पण अर्थातच मी आता लॉन्ग डिस्टन्स ट्रॅव्हलींग आणि फेस टु फेस पार्टीज नक्कीच मिस करतीये पण लवकरच सगळं काही आधीसारख सुरु होईल अशी आशा करतेय.

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(हैडेलबेर्ग, जर्मनी)

पश्चाताप

2020-08-14T13:47:00.002+02:00

रात्रीचे १२ वाजून होते. मिगेल घराच्या खिडकीतून बाहेर बघत होता. विचार करून करून तो खूपच थकला होता. रस्त्यावर आजूबाजूच्या घरातील काही तरुण मुले गप्पा मारत बसली होती. उकाडा पण खूपच जाणवत होता.

मिगेल च्या हातात आता फक्त २ दिवस होते. २ दिवसांनी त्याला फायनल निर्णय घ्यायचा होता. त्याने हो ठरवलं तर त्याला इंग्लडला जायला मिळणार होत. एका मुक्त विचाराच्या , मोकळ्या वातावरणाच्या देशात जाऊन मोकळा श्वास घेता येणार होता. त्याच्या देशातील इतर अनेकांप्रमाणे त्याचेही लवकरात लवकर संधी घेऊन देश सोडून जाण्याचे स्वप्न होते.

मिगेल च्या साम्यवादी देशात जीवन जगणे अवघड होते. मुक्त विचार करणे शक्य नव्हते. सगळ्या गोष्टींचा सतत तुटवडा असणे, कामाचा योग्य मोबदला नाही. कितीही काम केले, कितीही शिकले तरी पगार सगळ्यांना सारखाच . सगळे काही सरकारच्या हातात . मिगेल खरंतर पेशाने शिक्षक होता. गणित आणि भाषेवर त्याचे प्रभुत्व होते. ३ वर्ष शिक्षकाची अपुऱ्या पगारावर नोकरी केल्यावर त्याने आता इतर बऱ्याच लोकांप्रमाणे टुरिस्ट गाईडच्या कामाला सुरवात केली होती. सध्याचा घडीला हाच एक व्यवसाय बहरत होता. सध्या तरी सरकारची धोरणे या व्यवसायाला अनुकूल होती आणि म्हणूनच या कामात इतर कामापेक्षा थोडातरी मोबदला जास्त मिळत होता.

विचार करता करता मिगेलच्या डोळ्यासमोर जेनीचा चेहरा आला. जेनी ....त्याची गर्लफ्रेंड . जेनी खरतर लंडन च्या एका मोठ्या फर्म मध्ये फायनान्स अनॅलिस्ट म्हणून काम करत होती. पण कधीतरी या कामाच्या प्रेशरला ,पॉलिटिक्स ला कंटाळून ६ महिन्यांची सुट्टी घेऊन जग फिरायला , स्वतःला रिफ्रेश करायला बाहेर पडली. फिरत फिरत मिगेलच्या देशात आली. त्याची आणि तिची तिच्या पहिल्या टूर मध्ये तिचा गाईड म्हणून ओळख झाली. आणि नंतर तिने जेव्हा पुढचे २ महिने इकडेच राहायचे ठरवले तेव्हा मीगेलनेच तिला सगळी मदत केली. जागा शोधणे , तिला नवीन नवीन ठिकाणांची माहिती देणे ,कधी कुठे घेऊन जाणे असं करता करता दोघे एकमेकात कधी गुंतले त्यांना पण कळले नाही. मिगेल जेनीला बर्याचवेळेला त्याचे देश सोडून जाण्याचे , मोकळ्या हवेत श्वास घेण्याचे स्वप्न बोलून दाखवत असे. त्याच्या देशातील रोजच्या जगण्याच्या लढाईचा आता त्याला कंटाळा आला होता.

जेनीच्या सुट्टीचे आता थोडेच दिवस उरले होते आणि जेनीने त्याच्या समोर एक प्रस्ताव ठेवला . तिने त्याला तिच्याबरोबर लंडन यायचा प्रस्ताव ठेवला. त्यासाठी अर्थातच ती सगळी मदत करणार होती.

मिगेल ला अर्थातच खूप आनंद झाला. जेनी त्याचे स्वप्न पूर्ण करणार होती. पण त्याच क्षणी त्याच्या डोक्यात त्याच्या आजोबांचा विचार आला. आजोबा आता खूपच थकले होते. त्यांची सगळी जबाबदारी मिगेल वरच होती. त्यांना मिगेलशिवाय कोणीच नव्हते . मिगेल १२ दिवसांचा असताना त्याची आई त्याला आजोबांकडे सोडून एका नव्या आयुष्याच्या शोधात निघून गेली. आणि वडलांनी तर कधीच तोंड दाखवले नाही. आजोबांनीच त्याची जबाबदारी घेतली आणि त्याला खूप मायेने वाढवले. त्याचे सगळे हट्ट पुरवले. आता त्याच्या म्हातारपणी त्यांना सांभाळणे मिगेल ची जबाबदारी होती. लहानपणापासून जेव्हा जेव्हा मिगेल अस्वस्थ असेल, डोक्यात विचारांचे काहूर माजलेले असेल, निर्णय घेता येत नसेल तेव्हा मिगेल आजोबांकडे यायचा. ते अतिशय खुबीने , शांतपणे समजवून देऊन त्याचा मनातला गुंता सोडवायचे. गेल्या काही दिवसांपासून मिगेल अस्वस्थ होता. आजोबांच्या नजरेतून हि गोष्ट सुटली नव्हती. पण मिगेल ने प्रत्येक वेळी काहीतरी कारण सांगून बोलणे टाळले .

हि गोष्ट तो आजोबांना सांगूच शकत नव्हता आणि त्यांना न सांगता , त्यांना एकटं टाकून जाऊ ही शकत नव्हता. आज पहिल्यांदाच त्याच्या मनात ही आजोबांची ब्याद आपल्यामागे नसती तर बरे झाले असते , आजोबा नसते तर आपण मुक्तपणे आपल्याला हवे ते करु शकलो असतो असा अतिशय स्वार्थी विचार आला. त्यांना न सांगता गुपचूप जेनी बरोबर निघून जाऊ असं ही त्याच्या मनात एकदा आले. पण दुसऱ्याच क्षणी त्याच्या या विचारांची त्याला लाज वाटली. आपल्या स्वार्थासाठी आपण इतका वाईट विचार करू शकतो , इतक्या खालच्या पातळीवर जाऊ शकतो याची त्याला खरंच शरम वाटली . आजोबा नसते तर ...असा वाईट विचार मनात तरी कसा येऊ शकतो . ज्या आजोबांनी सगळं आयुष्य फक्त आपल्यासाठी, आपल्या सुखासाठी घालवल त्यांच्यापासून सुटकेचा विचार आपण कसा काय करू शकतो.

एका बाजूला जेनी, तिचे प्रेम , एक नवीन अर्थपूर्ण , स्वप्नपूर्तीच जीवन आणि एका बाजूला आजोबा , त्यांची जबाबदारी आणि रोजच कटकटीच जीवन या दोन्ही विचारात मिगेल खरच अडकला होता. आता हा मनाचा गुंता त्याला असह्य होत होता . तो हळूच आजोबांच्या खोलीत आला. आजोबा शांत झोपले होते. तो हळूच त्यांच्या बाजूला बसला. आणि त्यांच्या शांत , समाधानी चेहेऱ्याकडे एकदा बघितले. परत एकदा लहान होऊन आजोबांच्या समोर जाऊन बसावे आणि रडवेला चेहरा घेऊन सगळे छोटे मोठे प्रश्न त्यांना सान्गावे आणि आजोबांनी नेहमीप्रमाणे सगळे सोप्पे करून समजावून द्यावे असे वाटले. उद्या सकाळी आजोबांची माफी मागायची आणि त्यांना सगळे सांगून टाकायचे असे मिगेल ठरवलं . उद्या जेनीला सुद्धा त्याचा तिच्याबरोबर न जाण्याचा निर्णय सांगायचं आणि इथेच आजोबांन बरोबर राहून जे करता येईल ते करायच त्याने ठरवले . जेनी , त्याचे बाहेर जाण्याचं स्वप्न हे सगळ विसरणं अवघड होते पण आता निर्णय झाला होता.

सकाळी नेहमी प्रमाणे मिगेल उठला आणि आजोबांच्या खोलीत गेला. आजोबा अजून झोपलेलेच होते. खरंतर आत्तापर्यंत ते उठलेले असायचे. त्याने त्यांना जवळ जाऊन हाक मारली पण काहीच हालचाल झाली नाही. जेव्हा त्याने आजोबांचा हात हातात घेतला तेव्हा त्याला जाणवलं कि आजोबा आता या जगात नाहीत. सगळ संपले होते. आता मात्र तो सुन्नच झाला. नेहमीप्रमाणे आजोबांनी शांतपणे त्याच्या मनाचा गुंता सोडवला होता. त्याने काहीच न सांगता त्याचा प्रश्न सोडवला होता. आता तो जेनी बरोबर जाऊ शकत होता. त्याचे स्वप्न पूर्ण करू शकणार होता. परत एकदा आजोबांनी मिगेल च्या सुखाचा विचार केला होता पण मिगेल मात्र आता आयुष्यभर पश्चातापात जळत राहणार होता.

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Woljeongsa बुद्धिस्ट टेम्पल स्टे

2020-08-14T13:43:00.002+02:00

Woljeongsa बुद्धिस्ट टेम्पल स्टे

मी कधी कोरियाला जाईन अस वाटलं नव्हतं. पण २ वर्षांपूर्वी साऊथ कोरियाला एका मैत्रिणीच्या लग्नाला जायचा योग आला. अगदी जायच्या दिवसापर्यंत अमेरिका आणि नॉर्थ कोरियाचे काहीतरी चालूच होते त्यामुळे जायला मिळेल कि नाही अशी भीती होती पण फायनली मी आणि माझे फ्रेंड्स सेऊल ला पोहोचलो

लग्नानंतर माझ्या कोरियन मैत्रिणीने आणि तिच्या नवर्याने सगळ्यांसाठी एक मस्त वेगळा प्लॅन केला होता. आम्ही सगळे Woljeongsa च्या टेम्पलमध्ये एक रात्र मॉंक स्कुल एक्सपीरियन्स घायला गेलो. हा एक खूपच आगळा वेगळा अनुभव होता.

आम्ही सर्वजण साधारण दुपारी ३ वाजता बुद्धिस्ट टेम्पल/ मोनेस्टरी मध्ये पोहोचलो.

गेल्यावर सर्वांना थोडी माहिती दिली आणि मुले आणि मुली ना वेगवेगळ्या खोल्यात नेले. तिकडे आमच्यासाठी जी लेडी मॉंक दिली होती तिने सर्वांना तिथे घालावयाचा एक ड्रेस दिला आणि तो कसा घालायचा हे पण शिकवलं.

त्यानंतर आम्ही सर्वजण एका हॉल मध्ये जमलो. तिथे मोनेस्टरीच्या मुख्य गुरूंनी आम्हाला भाषण दिले. साधारण एक दिवस आम्ही काय करणार आहोत , थोडी आश्रमाची माहिती, तिथले नियम सांगितले आणि आमचे स्वागत केले. ते सगळे कोरियन मध्ये बोलत होते आणि माझ्या मैत्रिणीच्या नवऱ्याने आम्हाला इन्ग्लिश मध्ये ट्रान्सलेट करून सांगितले.

त्यानंतर एक पुरुष आणि एक स्त्री असे दोन असिस्टंट गुरु आम्हला शिकवायला , मदत करायला आले. त्यातील एक मेल गुरु भारतातून आले होते त्यामुळे त्यांच्याशी मी थोडे हिंदीत बोलून घेतले. त्यांनी प्रथम आम्हला नमस्कार कसा घालायचा ते दाखवले. हे जरा मेहनतीचे काम होते. हे म्हणजे ३ स्टेप्स अँड बाउ असा प्रकार होता. साधारण साष्टांग नमस्कारा सारखा. आणि हे असे पुढे बऱ्याच वेळा आम्हाला करायचे होते. भरपूर व्यायाम होता आणि असा नमस्कार घालताना एक मंत्र म्हणायचा होता. बुद्धम शरणं गच्छामि चे कोरिअयन भाषांतर. सर्वां बरोबर हे सर्व असे छान एका लयीत म्हणताना खरंच खूप शांत वाटत होत.

त्यानंतर आम्हला सर्वांना रात्रीच्या जेवणासाठी नेले . तिकडे रात्रीचे जेवण संध्याकाळी ५.३० ला च असते. हे जरा कठीण होते. पण नियम म्हणजे नियम. आम्ही सर्व एका हॉल मध्ये गेलो. सर्वांना कामे वाटून दिली होती. त्याप्रमाणे आम्ही सर्वांनी पाट, पाणी, जेवण हॉल मध्ये आणून ठेवले. मग सगळ्यां ना आमच्या गुरूंनी कसे जेवयाचे त्याचे नियम सांगितले. प्रथम कुठल्या साइडच्या बाऊल मधून घ्यायचे , सगळे जेवण कसे संपवायचे, पण एकही दाणा उरता कामा नये. अशी सगळी नियमावली सांगून झाल्यावर आम्ही न बोलता जेवायला सुरवात केली. जेवताना न बोलण्याचा पण नियम होता.

जेवण झाल्यावर सागळेजण संध्याकाळच्या प्रार्थनेसाठी मोठ्या मंदिरात जमलो . त्याआधी एका मोठ्या घंटेजवळ जाऊन घंटानाद केला. मोठ्या मंदिरात बुद्धाची एक मोठी मूर्ती आहे. तिथे मग मेन गुरूंनी येऊन प्रार्थनेला सुरवात केली. मागाप्रमाणेच प्रत्येक मंत्रासोबत एक पूर्ण नमस्कार ...3 स्टेप्स आणि एक साष्टांग नमस्कार. त्यानंतर सगळेजण ध्यानाला बसले. आम्ही पण थोडावेळ ध्यान करून आमच्या हॉल कडे परतलो.

खरंच मनापासून तो शांत, पर्वतांनी वेढलेला आणि स्वच्छ परिसर बघून खूप मस्त वाटत होत. हॉलमध्ये परतल्यावर परत सगळे जण समोरासमोर तोंड करून दोन लाईनीत उभे राहिलो. आता रात्रीची शेवटची ऐक्टिव्हिटी करायाची होती. १०८ मण्याची जपाची माळ बनवायची होती पण नुसती नाही तर प्रत्येक मणी ओवून झाल्यावर एक साष्टांग नमस्कार आणि तो करताना नेहमीप्रमाणे बुद्धम शरणं गच्छामि चा मंत्र कोरियन मध्ये म्हणायचा.

मी मनात जेवढेवेळा नमस्कार करता येईल तेवढा करू असा विचार केला होता पण १०८ वेळा सगळ्यांबरोबर कधी पूर्ण केला कळलंच नाही. ग्रुप मध्ये एकादी अवघड , कंटाळवाणी गोष्ट सुद्धा किती मजेत पूर्ण होते ते कळलं. ती जपाची माळ मी अजूनही जपून ठेवली आहे. आता मात्र सगळेजण दमलो होतो. परत उद्या सकाळी ४ वाजता तयार राहायचं होत त्यामुळे मग सगळेजण अंघोळ करून ९ वाजता झोपलो सुद्धा.

दुसर्या दिवशी बरोबर ४ वाजता सगळेजण आवरून तयार होतो. मग आम्हा सर्वांना परत कालच्या मोठ्या मंदिरात प्रार्थनेसाठी नेले. आणि संध्याकाळप्रमाणेच प्रार्थना , नमस्कार , मंत्र सगळे करून ६ वाजता नाश्टा करायला गेलो. इथे मात्र काही वाढपी होते पण अर्थातच खाऊन झाल्यावर आपली ताटली आपणच नीट विसळून जाग्यावर ठेवायची होती.

आता शेवटची आणि जरा अवघड परीक्षा द्यायची होती. सगळेजण आता जंगलात गेलो आणि साधारण १ किलोमीटरचा ओबडधोबड , छोटे खडे असलेला रस्ता ३ स्टेप्स आणि साष्टांग नमस्कार करत आणि तोंडानी मंत्र म्हणत पार करायचा होता. कारण देहाला क्लेश दिल्याशिवाय मोक्षाचा मार्ग मिळत नाही अशी बुद्धिस्ट शिकवण आहे. आणि अर्थाताच आम्ही सगळाच मॉंक स्कुल एक्सपीरियन्स घायला गेलो होतो तेव्हा हे करणे भागच होते. अर्थाताच आम्हाला कसलीही जबरदस्ती नव्हती.

ज्यांना पूर्ण नमस्कार करणे शक्य नव्हते त्यांनी अर्धा नमस्कार केला तरी चालणार होते. अर्धा म्हणजे ३ स्टेप्स आणि फक्त कंबरेत वाकून नमस्कार करणे. मी प्रथम थोडावेळ पूर्ण नमस्कार केला पण मग मात्र अर्धाच . सुखी देहाला यापेक्षा जास्त कष्ट मी देऊ शकत नव्हते :) मला मोक्षाची घाई नव्हती.

यानंतर मग बराच वेळ फोटो सेशन करून सगळेजण २-३ मॉंक बरोबर चहा आणि कॉफी घेत थोडावेळ गप्पा ,चर्चा करत बसलो.

त्यानंतर मग सगळेजण आवरून ९ किलोमीटरचा हाईक करून पुढच्या मॉनेस्ट्रीत जायला निघालो.

प्रत्येक ट्रिप मध्ये काहीतरी वेगळे करायचा माझा नेहमीच प्रयत्न असतो आणि या ट्रिप मध्ये तर तो मस्तच पूर्ण झाला . त्यातलं सगळंच जरी पटल नसल तरी एक वेगळा अनुभव म्हणून खूपच मस्त वाटलं. मी आज पर्यंत अनेक देशात फिरले पण पूर्ण कोरियाच्या ट्रिप मध्ये मला एक गोष्ट मात्र जाणवली की हा एकच देश असा होता कि जिथे जेव्हा जेव्हा मी सांगितले कि भारतीय आहे तेव्हा तेव्हा कोरियन लोकांच्या डोळ्यात एक वेगळाच आदरभाव दिसला. जो मला आजपर्यंत कुठेच अनुभवायला नाही मिळाला. कदाचित बुद्धाच्या भूमीतून आले म्हणून तो आदर असावा. पण प्रत्येक वेळा ती कोरियन माणसाच्या डोळ्यातील चमक आणि आदरभाव बघून मनापासून खूप छान वाटले.

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Finca Tungasuk: Farm to table Experience

2018-03-08T23:10:00.003+01:00

I never thought after my last year's Cuba trip that i will go there again next year but well sometimes your inner wish is heard . After some thought I booked my second cuba trip this year in February.
But this time i decidedd to do few different things. I was reading a lot about cuba in the meantime and was collecting information about what different things i can do this time. While surfing on internet I found a page of Give Globe a day. There i read about this volunteering programme at an organic farm in cuba for a day. It was very interesting.
One has to go to this organic farm near havana and work there for a day and enjoy some good meal prepared from the fresh farm produce. The cost was approximately 20 CUC very fair price.
The farm i worked at is owned by a lovely couple Annabelle and Alfredo. Very lively, energetic, kind, knowledgeable people.
I wrote email to them asking about the overall plan and cost etc... To my surprise i got reply very promtly . They both speak very good english so communication was easy.
The day plan is normally like this that they pick us up from our place in havana and also drop back to havana for a very fair price of 30 CUC. Once we go there we get a wonderful breakfast of some joghurt with fruit flavour...i am just used to eat typical testless super market bought joghurt but when i tested this at the farm it was very testy . never had such a good joghurt before. Fresh cuban coffee , fresh juice and some fruits.
After this wonderful breakfast get on to work. This varies from day to day and season to season. Just follow Alfredo'S instructions. Its really a pleasure to work and also makes you realize how much physical energy you need even to do a samll job at the farm. Work goes on untill 11:30 then nice walk around this very big farm of 15 acres or hectors 😕 i am not so sure about the unit of measurement. And then the best lunch ever cooked by Annabelle with everything produced in the farm. I really never had this tasty food before in cuba.
I got pickedup from havana at 7 in the morning and the person who comes to pick up really comes at the specified time. which is not normal in cuba. But he was on time. After that we drove to the farm . it takes around 1 hr. This time AlfredoS' father Oscar also came with us to the farm. He lives in city and visits the farm from time to time. He also speaks very good english so we had very nice chat during our drive. One of his sons works currently in India with some IT firm and so we were talking about India.
At the farm Annabelle and Alfredo welcomed me with a big smile. Annabelle is originally from Nicaragua and was working as chef in france. Alfredo is originally from Peru and an IT engineer was also working in france. 4 Years ago they both decided to leave france and come to cuba to start their organic farm family. They both learned on their own about farming and now have this beautiful , big farm with many new ideas to implement.
The farm has different vegetables, fruits ; some usual fruits and some which are not so easily available in cuba now a days e.g a fruit called Mamey Santo Domingo, beans, sugercane and many more things.
Annabelle cooked a very delicious food for us that day. We also had Barbequeed meat which was done with a self made Barbeque. Grilled on a verly low flame for long time. That had an excellent test.
After lunch we relaxed under the tree . And around 3 it was time leave 😞. It was a day very well spent. Went back home with some very good positive energy.
I really wish to go there again .
If you happen to be in havana then i really recommend to spent a day in this beautiful farm and with this positive people.
You can always write them on this address: tungasuk@gmail.com
More details of their farm you can read here: http://tungasuk.com/about-us-nosotros/
In general in cuba i met very nice, kind people and this wonderful couple is very special. I wish them all the best in all of their future plans and really wish to see them again and again.

Cuba from my experiences- Part2

2017-07-10T21:48:00.000+02:00

Cuba from my experiences- Part2

The Republic of Cuba is one of the world's last remaining socialist countries. Cuba was a different holiday destination from my all holiday destinations till now. Its a third world country. One needs to have open mind to accept the ways the things work there , should have patience to adjust to different way of living, culture and mind set.

I am not going to lie but I was really not happy the first time I arrived there. It was hot, dirty, was not able to understand the language and in that in my first casa the host was not able to speak a single word of English. So with my limited Spanish vocabulary after 11 hrs. of flight I was really frustrated . But slowly I started liking it. May be I accepted the way things are or the country and people are so nice that they made me fall in their love. Whatever it was but later I enjoyed my stay more and more.

Old Havana is really dirty but the country side of Cuba is really beautiful. For me the country side was more similar to Indian costal area and that made some good connection in my mind. Flowers, fruit trees , poor farmers working in fields without much machinary ....all was connecting me to India.

Cuba is very interesting country. As part of a socialist country model in Cuba all the education and medical services are free to all citizens.

Every parent has to send their child to school at least till 9th class. Even in the remote of remote place there is a school. Even if its just one child there is a school and a teacher for him/her. Education even till university and above is free. The literacy rate in Cuba is very high. All students, regardless of age or gender, wear school uniforms with the color denoting grade level.

The same with medical services. All the medical services are free to all citizens and Cuba has actually one of the best medical services in the world. They have many doctors in the country.

But because of the socialist country model of course the salaries for doctors, engineers, teachers are very low. The average salary in government sector is 30-35 $ per month.

Since few years the government is becoming more open and has started allowing people to have private businesses but of only particular types. Mostly service based. Tourist industry is gaining more and more popularity and also many people in spite of their education as teacher, engineer are changing their profession and coming in tourist industry . Here they can earn much more than as a engineer or teacher.

I did few extra tours and all of my tour guides were actually working as a teacher or engineer before but they all changed their profession and now work as a tour guide and can earn much better than their previous jobs.

One of my tour guide was even working as a diplomat at united nationals but after working for many years in this field she decided to come back to cuba and started working as a tour guide. she was really nice lady and told many things about cuba. She said cuba is a poor country but with the problems of first world country. Cuba has currently problem of negative birth rate . Many people still live with their parents as it is expensive to buy house or a car. It is also expensive to afford more children. Because of low or negative birth rate the government has increased the age of working for men to 65 years and for women to 60 years.

In cuba they don't have the concept of income tax for government employees as of course the income is really low . But now as people are allowed to have private business they have developed the concept of income tax for such business. The tax is still very low for them.

After the fall of soviet union , Cuba's economic system also collapsed and they had a very bad economic period. In this time government decided to be more open and thought of tourist industry. My guide told me that during this period Fidel Castro was good friends with Canada's that time prime minister and Canadian prime minister first send Canadian tourists to cuba. Till date Canadians tourists are in large number out of all.

I found very interesting thing in cuba is that they still use horse carriages and cycle riksha along with old American cars as a mode of transport.

For most Cubans its also not common to travel within the country. Travelling is definitely expensive with a family and the kind of money they earn it is really not easy for them to travel to another country or even within country.

There are also no traffic jams on highways. While driving on highway I came across many times that people, or horses just cross the highway even when buses, cars are driving on the same road . sometimes they even come in their horse carriage on the wrong side on high way. Well almost similar to India😃

Also at the road side you can see many people selling some fruits or veggies and some are even asking for lifts but by holding money in hand to show that they are ready to pay for the lift.

Another similar thing to India I found in Cuba is having a ration card. Every Cuban has a ration card and names of all family members are written on it. Every person has a quota of food for a month and people can buy that in special ration shops for very cheap price.

In Cuba they have 4 official TV channels. One of the channels even show Bollywood movies with Spanish subtitles every night. Many people recognized me as an indian and told that they watch bollywood films.
Many times in Havana I saw some young girls doing professional photo shooting in beautiful dresses. When asked to my guide she told me that this is an old tradition which is still continuing as when girl turns 15 years old they do such a photo shooting . In olden times this was the way to show to the society that girl is now of marriageable age and present it to the society. 😀 Now a days even some boys also do such photo shoot. After all its a time of equality 😀

The best thing in Cuba is in almost every bar, restaurant you will enjoy live music. I really enjoyed this live music everywhere. These people just have this amazing rhythm in their body by default. The country is really rich in art, dance, music .

Can't go on without mentioning the cuban food and drinks. I got chance to eat typical cuban food during my stay. Mostly it is meat with either white rice or rice with bean which is my favorite and some vegetables. And my favorite dessert Flan.

Meat is mostly chicken or pork. very rarely beef as its expensive. Fish also rare of course because of the cost. In restaurants many times I got nice banana chips as starter. One more very interesting cuban dish I loved is deep fried raw banana cups filled with cheese, meat, shrimps etc... very testy.

During my whole stay for breakfast I always got fresh tropical fruits and fresh fruit juices. that was amazing. Now when I compare the fruit juice I buy from super market with those fresh ones....really feel like flying to cuba to get that. All the hosts always prepared really good breakfast for us. Once even one host prepared a smiley face fruit plate for us. that was really nice of him. Along with fruits and juices very nice cuban coffee , some eggs. Very good breakfast.

Without mentioning cuban cocktails cuban food is incomplete. Most of the cocktails are rum based. One bar in cigar farm tour even offered the cocktails with extra rum bottle and every one can add rum as much he/she wants in a basic non-alcoholic version. Very much liked the concept. :)

There is one special cocktail from Trinidad that we all had is called Canchanchara. Very testy. Its made of honey, rum, lemon and may be something else I could not recognize. But this is what you should try if you go to Trinidad.
Also in Havana one of my guides told me to test special coconut ice-cream but unfortunately I did not get chance to test this. May be next time ..who knows.
Overall Cuban people are really nice, friendly, good in music , dance, art . Country has really low crime rate and much safer compared to other Latin American countries. I was a bit skeptical regarding safety before going there but I really had very good experience of all people there. In old Havana I experienced small lanes, a bit dirty houses ,really next to each other, people are standing outside their doors , talking to their neighbours, loud, screaming hawkers walking on the road selling some sweets or bread, lively till late night. Very similar picture to some old part of the city in many Indian cities ; at least I have seen this during my childhood times. It was allowed to be loud even at late nights in your own house and no fear that neighbour will call police like in Germany 😀
Somehow I always found some similarities to india at least from my childhood times. For me it was definitely a wonderful trip. Something different than usual Europe, America , Australia etc...developed countries vacations. I recommend everyone to visit this at least once before it changes and looses its old charm.