Friendly relationships

Love and arrange marriage

2012-06-29T05:30:00.000-07:00

There is a lot of discussion about love and arranged marriage. Both have some constructive and some unconstructive aspects, and it’s a truth that both could work out. Love marriage is when you prefer somebody for yourself and the other person also chooses you. So undoubtedly there is nothing immoral about it. Arranged marriage is when you permit your parents or elders to make a decision for your marriage and they choose anyone for you. At this point nothing wrong with this type too.

The preference of marriage type is unlike for different people, and it depends on a person’s way of belief, the customs and the civilization they belong to. We have seen that both categories of marriages could be unsuccessful in any ways. The greatest advantage of a love marriage is probably the mutual understanding exposes you to the other person’s goods and bads so it refrains them from having any upcoming quarrels. On contrast, an arranged marriage keeps you nearer to your parents. Their finding and choice is on reliable reasons which come from their years of understandings. The best way to understand a relationship is to be in a relationship. The problem with love marriage is that you struggle to overlook the bads of your partner from your own perspective and without any fault. It is well said that love is the most self-centered of all passions. To make a commitment is extremely difficult.

Society plays a vital role in your choice. In some societies, like generally the Muslim cultures, almost all of the marriages are arranged and they are arranged and they are successful too. The people of these societies believe that love is a choice and so they choose to love their partner after marriage. Religious teachings and culture are other important factors: which play a great contribution in this type of cases. In some situations, to marry a particular person, you have to go not in favor of your parents will and which afterwards constructs issues in their lives.

In conclusion, it doesn’t matter if you have an arranged or a love marriage. What matters the most is your commitment to strengthen your connection with your partner. Because we are free to prefer, we should be able to choose to love.

awesome tourist points in Pakistan

2012-06-26T11:37:00.002-07:00

Hunza Gilgit, Pakistan

Pakistan, being one of the largest Muslim countries of the world, is home to the different civilizations of the world. Though currently Pakistan is infamous for some extremist activities but its natural beauty and tourist attraction is worth more than this all. Unlike other countries, Pakistan is facing a very difficult time nowadays being involved in terrorism, which has disturbed the livelihood of every .It is not happening in every corner of Pakistan but there are few places which have put the whole country in trouble. Just the few questions I want to raise here. We Pakistanies were living a better life than now just before the incident of 9/11-the incident which history recalls with red lines.. We just believed blindly in whatever our media said. But the question is, did we have any proven evidence about 9/11? Have we ever tried to stop for what happened after 9/11? Has USA ever shared the evidence with its International community about how it happened with twin towers? Though there come a lot of questions but let bygones bygone and make yourself ready for the forthcomings keeping past experiences and lessons in our minds. “the more you go through the troubles, the most these will make you ready to face problems without any fears”. Since the inception of Pakistan, there have been a huge number of difficulties that our country is consistently facing and now rather it has fallen into a vicious circle. The intriguing thing is that we are surviving with those difficulties and nothing can stop us to go further and make improvements.

Kaghan Naran lake, GB-Pakistan

Apart from all these stuff, I will discuss a part of positivity in our country. The part of positivity, of which every Pakistani folk is fully proud and every citizen of the country is optimistic about the country they owe. Due to which there is a flight of hope in everyone’s heart that one day they would get their Pakistan in the condition where they could live their lives very cozy and happily.

There is a saying goes by MiCheal King “if you have a little extra parking, I err on the side of getting rid of it in favor of having some more greenery.”

Pakistan is overwhelmingly known for the natural beauty it has. There are various places in Pakistan, of which many people are aspiring to visit in, which really depict the positive image of our country. We had seen many exotic people rushing into our country just to get rejoiced over here by sightseeing the beautiful areas in our country. It doesn’t only happen in summers but same case goes in winters too. People from different vicinities visit Pakistan to see snow capped mountains and areas like northern areas of Pakistan. Pakistan is a land of varied and unique landscape. While high mountain ranges dominate its North, series of low mountain ranges of Suleman, Pub, Kirthar and Mekran extend from North to Southwest and to South in a bone like manner. These low ranges dominate the plains and deserts to the East and warm and captivating beaches of the Arabian Sea to the South. It is, however, Northern Pakistan which is endowed with most unique geographical feature in the world. It is here that the three great, lofty and spectacular mountain ranges, Karakoram, Hindukush and Himalayas meet. In an area of about 500 kms in width and 350 kms in depth, is found the most dense collection of some of the highest and precipitous peaks in the world, boasting more than 700 peaks above 6000 metres, and more than 160 peaks above 7000 metres.

Kurumber lake, GB-Pakistan

These include five out of the total fourteen above eight thousand metre high peaks on earth, namely the second highest rock pyramid - the K-2 the killer mountain Nanga Parbat, the Hidden Peak, Gasherbrum I, the Broad Peak and the Gasherbrum II. There are 99 mountain peaks in Pakistan, height ranges from 22966-28267feet, including K-2-the second highest mountain of the world. Around 70 of these mountains are present in the list of world’s top 150 highest peaks. Most of these peaks are already climbed by foreigners but there are few which are unclimbed yet because the difficulty and the steepness of the mountains; for example as mentioned above that “the killer mountain-NANGA PARBAT” is one of the most dangerous mountains to climb. Yet there have been many attempts but it led them to death. These all mountains go snowy in the winter season and get greened in the summers which display a very eye resting scenario for the viewers. This enormous mountain wealth makes Pakistan an important mountain country, offering great opportunities for mountaineering and mountain related adventure activities. The area is aptly called a paradise for mountaineers, adventure seekers and nature lovers. The compelling charm of these high challenging and endless sea of rugged rock and ice pinnacles lure large number of climbers, adventure seekers and nature lovers from across the five continents to the Northern Areas and Chitral, each year.

Chain of mountains in pakistan.

Apart from its natural beauty, the diversity of different civilizations also attracts people towards itself. People come here to know the different civilizations of Pakistan which thrived back in many hundreds of thousand years. The cultural plus archaeological tourism has found in Taxila, Harrappa, Moenjodaro. The early Muslim heritages are in Multan and Lahore. For hundreds of years, Silk Road remained the only trading way between the central and the south Asia. The Karakurum highway(KKH), which connects Pakistan with china via the northern areas of Pakistan, has given a very great opportunities to rest of world to explore the unspoiled beauty of Gilgit-Baltistan and its different cultures altogether with many central Asian countries.

The places which are termed as tourist sites in Pakistan are Gilgit, Chital, Kaghan Valley, Peshawar, Multan, Lahore, Karachi, Quetta, Islamabad, Skardu and Swat.

There is no match of Pakistan’s glaciers and mountains with any other countries of the world. Gilgit-baltistan, including valleys like Hunza and Iskurdo, has the greatest number of glaciers and mountains including the world’s number second highest mountain and i.e K2. And this has played a great roll in proliferation of the different cultures of Pakistan in the whole world.

Gilgit is also famous for the sports and more because of the very enthusiastic game polo it plays. Many overseas people come to watch this particular match in its season. Hunza, so called paradise on the earth is located among the green and snow bounded mountains. It’s also famous because of the natural diet-the people use. And this connects KKH to China and thus it’s also called as the heart of KKH.

North Pakistan

Picturesque Kaghan Valley is famous for its height, Saif ul Muluk lake and the Naran valley where it is situated. These are the only popular scenic spots of this valley. Karachi-being the metropolitan city of Pakistan is well equipped with seaports and it also owes a variety of attractions. It is combination of many different civilizations. It is the only commercial and industrial hub Pakistan. There are many historical monuments which attract many tourists towards it. For example, Mosque of Toba, mausoleum of Quaid-e-Azam-where the father of the nation Quaid-e-Azam lies, national museum where you can get ancient relics of Indus valley and a good collection of different civilizations art.

Lahore is the old city of Pakistan with its unique history. There one can find many historical points and the very oldest university. The Moghal fort is the only place in Lahore where one can see many architectural phases of Moghal umpire. Hiran Minar and Harappa are also very fascinating places for the tourists to visit. Harappa, revealing the ancient cultures, now just left a cradle of one of the earliest civilizations. Nevertheless, Pakistan site areas are also famous for the hospitality towards their guests.

Overall, Pakistan is one of the most fascinating areas of the world. Pakistan is gifted with the overwhelming beauty and the ultimate diversified societies. Unfortunately the socio-economics, socio-political and contemporary circumstances of our country have made this all gifted nature just worthless. In spite of these worst situations we still see a lot of foreigners in our country searching for adventures. If in future Pakistan will invest some of its budget in Pakistan’s tourism development then of course it will not only create a good image of our country abroad but it also overcome its economical crisis to a great extent.

stand for yourself

2012-06-25T18:10:00.003-07:00

stand for yourself untill the end.

You know you are on the road to success if you would do your job and not be paid.

2012-06-25T18:05:00.000-07:00

Oprah Winfrey says, "You know you are on the road to success if you would do your job and not be paid." How sweet she said. she said it because she had that experience of working for free and eventually end up with having the greatest fame and alot of money, rather richest women in USA. What do you people think about yourself? I know you ain't do nothing until you won't be paid for it. it's true for everyone including me. we do no work coz of our interest but we do it just for the money. Oprah winfrey was interested in her job and she worked for free and in the end she proved to be a successful person on earth. So people out there, do try working for free, do work for humanity not for the money. you will be prosperous someday. thanks.. :)

a road to success!!

Feel Healthy, smile brighter

2012-06-25T17:46:00.001-07:00

Yet what I believe in is stay always happy, and you will be healthy enough to do anything. Forget about the hurdles and worries. They all are part of your life so no one can challenge them. Be yourself and try to stay happy all the time and live your life to your maximum. its you who can enjoy your life. Don't attribute someone else for not enjoying your life. You are having your life they way you mould it and deal with it. so forget all tensions in life and stay happy. you will never get another life. this life is so precious for you, me and everyone in here. My best wishes for you and please share if you like this post. thankyou.

smile like an apple. =)

They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel

2012-06-25T17:37:00.002-07:00

They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.

Make New Friends But don't forget the old ones.

2012-06-24T08:23:00.000-07:00

Make New Friends But don't forget the old ones. Make New Friends But don't forget the old ones. Make New Friends But don't forget the old ones. LOL

The Lethal Music

2012-06-23T08:09:00.002-07:00

This is called lethal music.

What do you think MUZIK can do to create good relations among nations? Lets begin with the term music. I say this all myself so there may be many contradictions to my notions. So stay cool. :)Music: songs, dances, instrumentals etc, are like a magic which bring out a person from a situation of exhaustion to a state where s/he feels relaxed. What is music and how much it has influenced our society? Does it play a positive role in our society like does it create bridges to construct good relations with other societies?The area of music, including all types of music like Jazz, Rap, Pop, Rock etc, has its own uniqueness in its own world. Though in our country there isn’t a better scope of it but if we move towards west side then we could see its importance and value. If one has talent and eventually his dream is to become a singer then nothing can stop him but there are some barriers. To triumph over such barriers, there should be concerts and other musical events which could create a good picture of it in our nation too so that people realize its importance. Consequently, there would be a great chance for everyone to get opportunities to go to the fields of their interests.I have read an article about a concert, which had held in our country a week ago. There had come few American music groups like jazz, Rap and dancers too. It was sponsored by US state department. More interestingly, most of the singers, who had come here, were by birth pakistanies but they just grew up in America. Adil omer, famous Pakistani rapper, who has made quite records with zxibit and many other bands in America, said that this kind of concerts can create good music art relationship bridges between both countries. One of hip hop ambassador, elected by US department was also there. He said that there are many problems Pakistan is facing now-a-days. Though it will not solve the political and socio-economical relations but I am quite sure that it will create good relations among the peoples of these two nations.In the end I would love to quote a line from Lil wayne's RAP and that is " the top gets higher the more that i climb". Due to his this quoted line i got addicted to his songs and now i am kind of one of his big fans. Though most of the rappers are just smart enough to fool people but this guys sometimes spits the great lines. There are many more who also go like him but i will count them later. For now it is just enough to End with his quotation.That’s it.PEACE OUT!!!

Hey Eminem, Shut up and tell me where is your Son!!

2012-06-23T07:54:00.001-07:00

I am not afraid

Real Experience!
Here goes a story about one of my friends, Salahuddin a.k.a Shady.

A few months ago, one of Shady's friends barges into Shady’s room. Room was totally messed up and books were scattered all around in his room. He finds no body but only books and few futile things. The woofer is bursting as Eminem bombarding beat less and unstable lines with an explosive rhymes. He could see Shady’s shoes out there in front of Shady's room and it assures him that his buddy is certainly inside the room, since Shady has had only one pair of shoes. After having a quick look in room, he sneaks towards the washroom as the door is already opened and finds no one in it too.
Apparently, he rushes towards the system making his way via heap of books so that he could stop the music on Shady’s system. Whilst doing this, he hears a big familiar sound. Unconsciously, he assumes that sound to be a part of the track running in the system present in the room. He reaches the system and switches it off. What is he watching now, the books have started to arise from their places and it seems like something is likely to come out from that heap of books. The guy gets afraid and flees out of his room as he predicts something is likely to come out of that heap. He reaches to the door and anticipates for the thing, which he has already predicted to come out. The books like; SAT, GRE, GMAT, Bible, novels like Da Vinci Code, The Lord Of The Ring and many other books and dictionaries, proverb books which individually weight more than Shady’s weight and worth in dollars and are hard to count, were present in his room. One more thing, he gets such books from his overseas friends, that’s why they worth a considerable price.
Consequently, the guy standing at the door sees something is coming out of that heap and for a while he gets amazed and then starts to laugh. That is probably shady is coming out of that heap. He deadly slept for 4 hours having wrapped with books. Finally, after an hour of adventure he finds Shady.

Moral: Salahuddin Shady sleeps a lot. :P