Love Talk

Do I Love Her? or Him?

2010-04-02T06:41:00.000-07:00

I saw a girl yesterday. She was so awesome. Smart. Rich and Beautiful. Such a turn on. I wish I was with her driving around with her. I couldn't help myself, I had to flirt with her. And then, OMG there we where, flirting with each other. What did I do? It made me think..... Man or Woman, People can be attracted to either sex, it's who your with, who you are happy being around, and who you are most happy making happy that makes Love work.

Stalker X Boyfriends & Girlfriends.

2010-03-27T05:42:00.000-07:00

When you break it off with your partner, why don't they just go away. Especially when they continued to act out of line, why do they think they have privileged access to your life. Why don't they just move on?

Dating Married Men.

2010-03-24T16:10:00.000-07:00

Three great reasons why NOT to date a Married Man. First - respect and and love yourself. You do not have to settle for being in a secret relationship. Second - value the other women's relationship. Married men should mean hands-off! Third - stop lying to yourself. Since he is lying to his wife, do you really think he is being truthful with you?

Flowers for my Fem.

2010-03-22T09:02:00.000-07:00

When a Man gives a Woman Flowers, he usually did something naughty and feels guilty and is trying to distract his mate from seeing his dark truths. When a Lesbian gives her Lover Flowers, it is usually because she wanted to brighten her mates day and express her feelings. True or False?

My Love Calculator: Real Love Compatibility Test by Birthday!

2010-03-19T19:19:00.001-07:00

My Love Calculator: Real Love Compatibility Test by Birthday!

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Are You The Jealous Type?

2010-03-18T13:50:00.000-07:00

jeal·ous [jel-uhs]
–adjective
1.feeling resentment against someone because of that person's rivalry, success, or advantages (often fol. by of): He was jealous of his rich brother.
2.feeling resentment because of another's success, advantage, etc. (often fol. by of): He was jealous of his brother's wealth.
3.characterized by or proceeding from suspicious fears or envious resentment: a jealous rage; jealous intrigues.
4.inclined to or troubled by suspicions or fears of rivalry, unfaithfulness, etc., as in love or aims: a jealous husband.
5.solicitous or vigilant in maintaining or guarding something: The American people are jealous of their freedom.
6.Bible. intolerant of unfaithfulness or rivalry: The Lord is a jealous God.

Love or Lust

2010-03-17T07:43:00.000-07:00

Are you in love, or is it lust? Love and lust are inextricably intertwined. Lust is ground zero for hormones -- it's nature's way of bringing the opposite sexes together to mate. In fact, without lust, it's doubtful that love between a man and a woman would have a chance to prosper at all.
Bottom line; Men fight wars over lust, but they make homes and families for love.

10 Mistakes Smart Singles Make

2010-03-16T18:00:00.000-07:00

1. Singles rely on destiny and luck to put themselves into a wonderful relationship and don’t take the responsibility for making a good choice, being proactive or developing healthy relationship skills.

2. Singles set themselves up for an unbalanced life by bonding and committing too soon.

3. Singles spend so much time looking for the “right” person they miss out on other opportunities to spend time with really wonderful, decent people who might turn out to be “the one.”

4. Singles often settle for sex when they really want intimacy, connection, friendship, comfort and support.

5. Singles play it so safe they rarely connect with anyone, they’re too afraid of rejection.

6. Singles don’t learn from their mistakes and don’t invest or work on themselves.

7. Singles focus on their short-term feelings and forget to see if core beliefs are a match.

8. Singles get their hearts broken because they “see what they want to see” and give their hearts away to strangers.

9. Singles believe too many myths, like there is a “perfect person” for them and “there’ll be no conflict when its right.”

10. Singles run away from problems rather than working things out and having a mature relationship.

Possessive Partners.

2010-03-13T08:38:00.000-08:00

One who is at peace with himself and others will have no need to control anyone but himself. Why any of us needs to control another is usually associated with fear.

What is Love?

2010-03-10T10:10:00.000-08:00

Love is patient, and love is kind. It has no envy, nor does it boast itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and it is the truth seeker. Love protects, preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life.

Love is a choice.

2010-03-08T06:51:00.000-08:00

Love is a choice. In arranged marriages, the woman doesn't choose the man they are to spend every day and night with. For the sake of sanity, the woman simply have to "choose" to get along with their appointed husbands and "choose" to like or except their faults, and "choose" to grow and prosper with this person.

It is a good life lesson that can be applied to many things we have to live with in life that we didn't plan for.

Practice Makes Perfect.

2010-03-05T00:20:00.000-08:00

Safe Sex. Practice it. Spring is round the corner, and you know what that means. Mother nature kicks in. Time for New Love to bloom.

Been There, Done That.

2010-03-04T12:48:00.000-08:00

We all have things we hold deep inside. Everyone goes through the same things in life, just at different times and in different ways, but nun the less, the pain is always the same. Eventually, we'll have all been there and done that.

He's a Slob. Your a Neat Freak.

2010-03-03T08:00:00.000-08:00

He's a Slob. Your a Neat Freak. How do you deal? Use consequential discipline? Withhold sex? Fine him?

Should you call him?

2010-03-02T12:32:00.000-08:00

Should you call him or wait until he calls you? A lot of men we asked said they have too much pressure in being the one to take the risk of getting turned down all the time. The ladies said they still want to be pursued the old fashion way. Whats your angle?

Love Sick.

2010-03-01T06:01:00.000-08:00

Love Sick.....have you ever been Love Sick. Where your heart beats deep throughout your body and the thought of your Lover sends an over load of endorphins to your brain so that you can't even walk or drive. Have Ya???

I'm Thanking You for Knowing Exactly.

2010-02-28T11:04:00.000-08:00

What a Girl Wants... What a Girl Needs.... What Ever Makes You Happy Sets Me Free.

Honesty is the best policy.

2010-02-27T07:05:00.000-08:00

I believe that with honesty, in every relationship, there will always be understanding, and with understanding comes effortless harmony and partnership. Honesty creates a strong base for the long run. Dishonesty creates a weak and troubled future that will surly deteriorate the big picture and carode all who lay in its path. Honesty is the simple solution for success, and a successful Love.

Is Sex Love?

2010-02-26T19:53:00.000-08:00

Cinderella said it was, however, I've been trained to believe it isn't. Yet, I still can't help but to think that sex IS Love because I would only want to have sex with the one I Love.... and my deepest expression of my Love is through showing it during explicit acts of sex.... So I ask, is sex Love? And if it is not, then what is it? Fun? Entertainment? Pleasure? A Sport? A good way to Work Out?

Gold Diggers.....

2010-02-20T19:27:00.000-08:00

I can't stand it when Women are referred to as "Gold Diggers" because they want to have a man of intellect and wealth...... while it's OK for Men to date Ladies for their "Good Looks" or "Big Boobs" hmmmmmm. Men can be shallow, and it's OK, but Women have to sit on the sidelines as usual and wait for their broke Prince Charming to ride by in order to be considered a true Lady.

What are men really thinking about?

2010-02-17T04:12:00.000-08:00

A reader said to me, "If we only new what men think, we could get along" I responded, "If we really new what men think, we would never marry them." This is why men are trained not to talk or express their thoughts and feelings by their Fathers. If they did, they would never find a Wife. Silence IS golden.....What we don't know WON'T hurt us. Ignorance IS bliss. And then there is always good old fashioned duct-tape, lol.

Happy Valentines Day

2010-02-14T06:10:00.000-08:00

May everyday You Feel Loved like Valentines Day. Most importantly, who we Love and who benefits from our endearing is what counts. Now wheres the chocolates.

Choose to Love...

2010-02-13T06:45:00.000-08:00

Today we are Free to Love with all our hearts, unconditionally, anyone we want, to encourage and strengthen their souls and empower them with our Love no matter what. It is our choice whether to Love or not to Love. Choose Love and it will bounce right back at you. You Will Feel the Power of Love.

I Hope You Still Have the Receipt My Dearest Darling...

2010-02-12T20:59:00.000-08:00

Do you know what your getting for Valentines Day? I think I overheard and or maby even guessed it on the first try. Uh-Oh. Hope he kept the receipt. Would You dare return an unwanted Valentines Day gift? I would and I have.

Faking it....

2010-02-12T03:28:00.000-08:00

They say to never fake it or you wont get what you want. I think just the opposite. I'd rather have my partner walking around all day thinking he's the "King" than him worrying and wondering around town all day trying to figure out how he's going to please me.