this little piggy . . .

I was gone, but now I'm back!

2013-08-17T22:59:00.000-07:00

Okay... so... umm... long time no update. To say the least!

Well since I last wrote on this dang blog so many things have happened and so much has changed in my life. Some good, some not so good. Life is like that sometimes. You gotta take the good with the bad. And to be honest, without those bad times to put the good ones into perspective people tend to go through life taking things for granted and not thanking God for all the blessings they truly have.

But anyhoo... I just wanted to stop by & let yall know that I am no longer working for Crate & Barrel but now work for SurLaTable. Yup that's right! I'm on the other team now (the WINNING team, lol). Both teams were and are a great place for a chubby girl like myself to feel at home and get comfortable in, so it works. Especially at SurLaTable. My job comes with hidden perks, like FOOD! Yeah, who knew that I could get the job of my dreams with a side of bacon? Well that's just how I roll now (although just saying no is going to have to start before I need rolled out of the store). On a very serious note: I now have a new master plan to take over the world one SurLaTable at a time! BWA HA HA HA HAAAA!!!! Okay just pretend you didn't read that and be shocked and amazed when it all goes down. Don't worry, I won't let anyone know that you were in on it the entire time. I swear!

If anyone in the Ft.Lauderdale area still reads this (or anyone at all)... you should totally go online to this super awesome link that I plan on posting below and check out some of the super cool and delicious cooking classes that we offer at my new place of awesomeness. Not only do I sell any and all kinds of kitchen gadgets, machines, cutlery, pots & pans, amazeballs coffee & espresso machines, but we also offer cooking classes too. Not just some hokey cooking show type class (no offense to anyone with or on a hokey cooking show), but some getting down and dirty (only not dirty because we use aprons), getting involved, tasting along the way, eating after your done, super fancy schmancy at times cooking classes for ALL SKILL LEVELS! So come one, come all, and check me out. Or at least peruse the site and see when you plan on stepping your dinner game up at home. Come on now folks. We are 30 something now (I know I still look young and tender, it's the cocoa butter) and let's face it, hamburger helper is just not a good look. Not now, not never! Okay well maybe back in those college-ish days when you were "chilling out" with your friends enjoying some boxed wine as a perfect pairing, but I'm just too cute for that crap now. So start acting your age. There is no better way to get your grown and sexy going than with a home made meal that knocks the socks off of whom ever you want to be without socks (or other items of clothing).

So yeah. That just about sums things up. I was gone, but now I'm back. I work at SurLaTable now. You should come on by to buy and or learn some new culinary skills to awe and amaze the folks in your life. Until next time... peace, love, and chicken grease!

SurLaTable Mizner Park Cooking Classes

~Ciao

Leigh Ann

My head is plotting against me

2011-07-25T21:51:00.000-07:00

So this most recent post is about how I am kinda going out of my mind. Maybe I should say my head is playing tricks on me & just not cooperating as of late. I have had issues with migraines in my past, but recently it has been OUT OF CONTROL!! I am unfortunately prone to them thanks to both my mother & father being long time migraine sufferers. I was blessed when it was passed down from both sides & got that double whammy. In the past when I lived up in the D.C. area I was lucky enough to maybe get a migraine 2-4 times a year. But thanks to Florida's changing weather patterns, air pressure changes, and rainy season I seem to be getting them like once a week. Well that was until a few weeks ago. Now it is up to 2 or 3 times a week & that is if I am lucky enough to get rid of the migraine before 2 weeks passes. I finally made it to see a neurologist because it got so bad my eyesight was being effected. I started getting worried about driving around and going randomly blind (thanks dad for being my chauffeur). I just need my head to get things together already, because frankly I am too cute for this stuff! I can't keep locked up in a dark room being nauseous & blind while the world revolves around me. It's getting out of hand! I am hoping that the doctor & all the dang meds she gave me start doing their job at getting me back to my normal vibrant self. Thanks for being patient about the lack of blogging. It gets hard to compute when your head is plotting against you.

getting my act together... well kinda (okay maybe one day)

2011-06-06T20:22:00.000-07:00

So as you may already know one of my best friends is getting married soon. Not only am I super duper excited, but I am also going to be in her bridal party. I have decided that because of that I need to get a hop on getting my act together. I have a few months to decide if I have enough will power to buckle down and loose some weight or at least tone up (lets see how that one goes), get my skin in glowing condition, and stop playing stupid games with my hair.

This time last year I had an unfortunate "hair don't" for a while after a power surge while curling my hair, which ended up with me smelling like burnt toast and a HUGE lock of burnt hair in my bathroom sink. Thanks to that unfortunate occurrence I was left with the decision to cut my hair shorter than I had ever cut it before. It was great for a while. That is until I remembered that I am a mixed girl & the half black side seemed to take over and turn the "style" into a curly fro no no of sorts. Ever since that "hair don't" I have been growing it out into a bob hairstyle. Now it is all nice & good, but summer heat always makes me wander towards the scissors & in all reality I know that I will look much better with longer hair in any and all wedding photos.

I have also decided to take charge of my oily/combination skin & tell it who the boss really is (so far I am not quite the boss but on a fast track to management in that area). In an effort to calm any skin issues and kinda equalize the playing field I recently purchased some fancy Dead Sea mud silt soap that is supposed to work wonders. Yup I said WONDERS. So far it seems to have calmed my skin and evened the tone a bit, but that is only when I remember that I have this fancy soap to use. On top of the fancy mud soap I got some super face scrubby machine thing by Olay (ProX advance Cleansing System). I just used that little guy this evening & seem to be on the fence. It just seems like a big face sized electric toothbrush. I am not sure how it will help my skin, but it gets rave reviews. I used it with my fancy mud soap to do a double whammy on my face tonight. So far I feel smooth & clean, but then again I never used to pet my face after washing it normally to compare the difference. Eh who knows? I also have to remember to be cautious in the sun this summer. I tend to be a bit addicted to the sun. Really it is just to prove that I am in fact half black & my melanin does work when it wants to & that I sometimes won't look paler than my white friends (it's a complex really). Although I am a sun addict, nobody wants a bridesmaid that looks like a faux leather couch. That my friend is NEVER a good look on anyone (let alone a couch).

So as I am on my way to becoming a glowing, more toned, and all around amazing bridesmaid, please help me remember that this is not only so that my friend's pictures look good . . . but maybe in this process I might just catch me a man!! Regardless I am hoping for the very best.

HUGE LIFE DECISION!!!

2011-06-05T21:48:00.000-07:00

i have just made a huge life decision . . . if i ever have a baby girl i have decided not to name her lola. just because i don't believe that whatever lola wants, lola gets is a good way to raise a child. just sayin'!! okay that's it.

p.s. just in case you didn't notice . . . this post is: #black&yellowblack&yellow

it's the simple things

2011-06-01T21:13:00.000-07:00

Sometimes it seems to just be the simple things that make life worth it. The small things that add up over time that turn a frown upside down, or make you laugh out loud to yourself. These are the things that I have decided to embrace in life. I am trying to make a conscious decision to stop and enjoy those special moments, commit them to memory, and share them with those lucky enough to be around at the time. By stopping to fully enjoy them, I am trying to give myself the opportunity to fall fully into the good/goofy/happy or just plain pleasant feeling in that moment. The idea of committing the simple moment to memory is just so that when times are tough or annoying I can look back onto the good times and hopefully lift my spirits and remember and have faith that there will be many more good times to come. And by sharing these simple things, I will be spreading more little bits of happiness that I hope continues to spread like a the best possible virus you could catch (yeah yeah I know, bad visualization).

This past weekend was Memorial Day weekend. Yes it was a beautiful hot and sunny weekend down here in South Florida. Many many people went to the beach, bar-b-qued, and spent time with family and friends. I must admit that yes I did the same. But while I was busy tanning in the yard with my bestie, working, and manning the bbq I was also taking the time to cherish each and every minute of this weekend. I am able to enjoy myself fully because so many people have committed their time, service, and lives to me and my country. Memorial day weekend is often looked at as the official start of summer (hurricane season down here), or as one of the biggest annual sale weekends the year has to offer. That weekend and more importantly Memorial Day itself is there to help us to remember what so many have sacrificed and continue to, so that we can enjoy the simplest of freedoms. Although it seems like we have come such a long way from my Grandparents era, we are living a parallel that many people choose to ignore. We are living in a time of constant war and fighting. A time where both men and women's rights worldwide are being trampled and at times just plain not acknowledged at all. We are blessed to have so many brave men & women fighting for people worldwide, so that they all have the chance and opportunity to do just as I do on a day to day basis (enjoy the simple little things). Without basic human rights that we are continually fighting for, nobody would be able to have self worth, emotional or mental stability, and the physical ability to be able to breath freely, relax, and enjoy those basic simple little things that life has to offer.

I would like to take this opportunity to thank God and all the men and women who have fought and continue to fight for my rights. Thanks for the simple things that lift me up, make me smile, and remind me that life is a precious gift made of many many little simple pieces that if appreciated and built upon, can build a happy life.

Just a few simple pleasures:

any Jackson 5 song
a warm sunny day with a beautiful breeze
laughing over stupid things with my besties
a home cooked meal
a wonderfully sweet and appreciative customer
walking into the stock room at work & hearing my jam on the radio
my turquoise toe nail polish
the DELISH treats made & shared by my coworkers
my kitty when he is sleepy (he blinks a lot & it is just too cute)
my new favorite soap (birthday cake by ivi scents)
pita chips and hummus
looking back at the old times and making plans for my future
those perfectly humid days that make my hair stay curly for more than 3 hours
getting a surprise email from my grandma (I taught her how to email)
news that one of my besties is newly engaged & I will be a bridesmaid
exciting news that friends and family of coworkers/friends are expecting little bundles of joy
the Real Housewives of New Jersey ( I know, I know but you gotta love some table flipping fun sometimes!)
a nice cup of hot cocoa
my fave candle from anthropology that gets me all cozy & zen at home

Yes those may seem stupid, but they are just a few of the simple things that I am grateful to be able to enjoy. I hope that you are able to take a breath during your simple pleasures to be able to take a hold of and appreciate fully. Sit back and be thankful that simple is sometimes good enough, and should be treasured.

Back to basics

2011-05-14T02:06:00.000-07:00

So it has been quite a long LONG time since I was able to update my blog. There has been so much going on in my life recently & to be honest my blog was the last thing on my mind. I kept thinking that I would get to it sooner or later, but if I didn't totally drop the ball all together.

Not only did I get a promotion (like 3 months ago) that I was settling into, but life just has a way of getting overwhelming at times. Not so much the work part, but the idea of balancing work & play. Or work and staying sane all at the same time, lol. My birthday passed in all the madness. I has these grand plans that totally never happened. It was rained out & may have been for the best that weekend (although I do plan on someday really seeing a little person stripper, just because).

One of my best friends who was staying with me is now officially engaged & has moved out. When she asked me to be a bridesmaid I almost fell out in an overly happy squeaky crying fit, lol. I am so beyond happy for her, but I totally miss just having her company around the house. Not to mention she broke my poor kitty's heart. Grovesnor (my kitty) was/is head over heals in love with her & sulked around in a little kitty depression after she left. It was so cute and sad all at the same time. I think he is trying to get over it & has been hanging out with me again as a back up, lol.

On top of all those normal life things I am still trying to come down emotionally from mother's day. It is a lovely day for most, but has a way of bringing up all sorts of crazy feelings for me still (almost 10 years after the loss of my mom). I am blessed enough to be surrounded by many wonderful women and mothers who are always sweet supportive and loving, but it just makes me miss my mother even more at times. I think about how much has happened the past 10 years and all the great people in my life that she will never meet. About a week before mother's day I found a recipe box my mother had put together for me for after I graduated high school and moved out. It was filled with recipes that I was sure I had lost long ago & would never see or taste again. I decided to take one of my very favorite ones and make it for the lovely women in my life today. It was my way of honoring my mother and passing her love onto the women who will never get the pleasure of knowing her. It was a big thing for me. While making it my home smelled just like it did when I was a child. It not only tasted just as good as I had remembered but all my coworkers and friends loved it.

All those things along with the normal day to day annoyances have made me start thinking that I need to get back to the basics. And by the basics I mean me. I have realized that I have been focusing on all sorts of things all over the place & not so much on myself. I have decided to try to dominate all aspects of my life and think of a master plan on becoming the best me I can be. I am also trying to get back to the things that helped calm and settle myself when I get overwhelmed or scattered. I have started a crochet project as a result. I am still working on getting a better nights sleep and actually letting my body and mind rest. I am also trying to stay focused on keeping my personal space organized and clean. That way the less visual clutter and mess I surround myself with physically it should start keeping the craziness to a minimum mentally and emotionally as well. Who know if it works, but it seems to keep me on track.

Life has a way of getting out of control in many good and bad ways. But maintaining a balance is the key. Lets see how my new back to basics focus works out. Hopefully I can continue on my path to becoming my best me possible. Balancing the good, bad, work, play and everything in between is totally possible & I am up for the challenge! Lets just see if I remember to update my blog more often, lol. I hope you all have a blessed weekend filled with lots of love & wonderful memories. Enjoy!

Bello just hanging out

2011-02-24T21:05:00.000-08:00

This is what my kitty Bello does while I'm at work. The life of a kitty must be nice!

I have not forgotten about you!!

2011-02-18T03:53:00.000-08:00

So it has been a long time since I have been able to update you on my life or talk about the crap that makes me tick. Since I last updated you I have started my new position at work. That has been my main focus as of late. I am working hard to catch up and learn as much as possible so that I can prove that I was the best choice and hopefully exceed all expectations. The only real reason that I am able to give you a little mini update is that I woke up early. Well woke up early is a bit of a laugh. I woke up with some major back pain after I sneezed while tossing and turning in my sleep and must have pulled a back muscle. Dang those nighttime allergies!! Well all that woke me up and got me into a hot hot shower in hopes that it would relieve the pain. Eh, it barley helped, but in a positive note I am now able to chat here on my fancy blog. So far so good with the new position I think. I not only love learning new things but I am loving that I am able to have a little more control over things in my "area". And we all know I love every little bit of control I can get my hands on. Not in a creepy mustache twisting villain kind of way, but in an innocent laugh out loud with my booming "good guy" laugh kind of way. Anyhow, I must get back to getting ready for work this morning. It was nice while it lasted. I will be back soon-ish to give you a real blog update in the near-ish future I swear. I have not forgotten you!! Have a great weekend.

Working on bettering myself & my surroundings

2011-01-26T19:08:00.000-08:00

As you are all aware 2011 is a brand new year (shocker). Every new year brings me thoughts of the previous year & what exactly brought me to my present self and situation. I have grown a lot over the past year and plan to continue growing throughout this one. Growth is one of my main goals in life. Without growth you become stagnant/stuck in life and continue to repeat problems without being able to learn how to grow and get through them.

With that being said, I am going to continue to work on myself and my surroundings so that I can foster growth. There are many new lessons that have yet to be learned just waiting for me. Personally, I am in a very happy place in life right now. Well to be honest at this exact moment I am in a yucky place due to the fact that I have a freaking cold that seems to be kicking my ass. But other than that, when you look at the "bigger picture" I am in a very happy & positive place in life. I am becoming happier with myself every day. I know that sounds a little strange, but I have had a love hate relationship with myself for years. But I have been working hard at not being too mean to me over the past couple of months. I have also been trying my best to treat myself as well as I treat others. I am a people pleaser at heart and tend to bend over backward to make sure that all those I care for are as happy as possible. I finally decided that I was worth the same effort on my part. I have started to learn how to say no, and to walk away from things, people, and situations that are toxic for me in the long run. Doing those things have made me a stronger, more confident, healthier, positive, and over all happier person. By focusing on myself and my goals I have made myself a person worth sharing with those I love. Without getting to really know and love myself I wouldn't have been able to grow in any of my relationships. All these great things and realizations make me want even more for myself and those I love. So in the weeks to come I will continue to work hard on me. I will work hard at making my personal sanctuary a place that fosters growth, peace, love, and positive energy (and not just a place covered in laundry that needs to be folded and ut away). I am also planning on making sure to focus on the people in my life. In all the hub-bub with holiday hours at my job and me getting this kick ass promotion, I have also kinda fallen off the face of the earth, lol. No, not really. But soon I plan on finally getting into a routine at work and hopefully carving out time for my girls (and hopefully finding my ass a man!!). Not only my friends down here, but hopefully with my besties up north as well. Oh and family too, lol!

Anyhoo. . . as you can see my NyQuill has had me in a very "thinky" mood. I am okay with that, because it has me feeling positive about the future. I hope that this new year has brought all of you to a place that fosters positivity and growth in your own lives as well. Everyone has a story, a past, and problems; but it takes a strong and willing person to grow to get the solutions that bring you into the present, so that you can make your own happy endings. I have all the faith in myself and in you that this year will bring us that much closer to the happy ending that we make for ourselves. I hope you all have a happy, healthy, positive, and blessed week!

If any of you have any advice or tips that help you stay positive and keep you on track with obtaining your personal or professional goals, please post a comment below or shoot me an email (lanason83@gmail.com). I can use any and all help in being the best me possible!

OH SNAP! I got some super awesome news today...

2011-01-21T21:02:00.000-08:00

Okay guys. . . this is yet another new year random update. Here goes: I TOTALLY GOT A PROMOTION AT WORK!! Oh hellz yeah! I can't explain how excited and stupid happy I am. I absolutely love working for my company & all my coworkers rock! So this promotion only makes my life that much better. I am super stoked to be able to learn more and have a bigger role at the store. I just want to thank all my friends, family, and very supportive coworkers who have boosted my confidence to be able to go out for the position in the first place. You are all so great and I hope that I don't let any of you down!!! Okay that was it really. Now back to your regularly scheduled Friday night. Enjoy!!

Random new year update...

2011-01-13T05:38:00.000-08:00

Okay so it has been a little while since I have had anything to share with you all. But here I am with a random new year update... not really a whole lot to share. I have been fortunate enough to be able to spend some time with the JBooty this week. Which is saying a lot since our schedules rarely let us chill anymore. I know it sounds like not much, but I haven't really had a life since before the holiday season. So it is nice to be able to get together with friends and watch a little t.v together once in a while. Oh heck, while I am on that subject. Did you guys watch "The Game" on BET the other night? All I can say is OMG!!! It has been off the air for 2 years and I have been watching reruns hoping they would bring it back, and ta-da it's back! It already has me all caught up in the story lines. I also love how they didn't try to pretend that 2 years didn't go buy & it is like we are stepping back into the story 2 years later. Okay well that was enough t.v talk. Yeah so again not much going on here. Just working on myself and working at work, and working and praying for some big things to come this year! On a side note I did get the sheets that I back ordered from work around Christmas & I am officially luxurious! They look SO hot!! Sheets don't sound sexy, but just wait until I get my camera back and post a pic of them. They are GORGEOUS and give my room the extra pop of color it needed. I hope all is well with all of you this fine day. And I also hope that you are trying your hardest to stay warm. It is said that 48 out of the 50 states had snow on the ground this week at some point & that is just a bit crazy. It is 41* here in South Florida this morning & I am none too thrilled. Eh... why am I complaining? Ill take this over a blizzard any day. Anyhow, I hope you have a fabulous and very blessed day!!

Call me . . . Ms. New Booty!

2011-01-06T21:33:00.000-08:00

Check me out... I am officially 4 sizes smaller than I was this time last year!!! Awww yeah!! And in honor of that I would like to dedicate this to myself & all those out there who are working on making themselves better!! I hope we can all keep up the good work & continue to work on making ourselves better throughout 2011.

Happy new year... now what?

2011-01-01T20:20:00.000-08:00

First off I would like to wish you all a very happy new year!! I am hoping that 2011 will bring you all much success, love and happy memories to look back on by this time next year. I rang in the new year much differently this year than last. Last year was spent with a large group of friends at our favorite bar. We sang, we danced (some even dropped it like it was hot), & we drank drank drank. Although I had a blast with some of my besties for life, the night ended in random drama & some friendships didn't make it into the new year. That was one night to remember & thanks to pictures on facebook we will never forget it (no matter how many lemon drops or rum & cokes we had).

Again although all that was great I had a blast this year. I got out of work at around 5:30ish & met my bestie JBooty (Jessica) for dinner at J Alexanders. We had a yummy dinner & took desert back home to dad. We watched a movie on demand & then watched the ball drop. We laughed, checked facebook updates, and went over how much we have accomplished over the last year. So many things have changed for the both of us in very positive ways. First of all, we both got jobs this year. This time last year we were on the job hunt big time!! Now we are both employed and happy to have a place to go to and prove to ourselves and the world that we are capable, helpful, and knowledgeable about what we do. I know that seems a bit odd, but it is important to feel and know your services or abilities are needed and appreciated. Not only that but Jess just got a raise at work (big ups to her, wooo hooo)! Our other bestie Greeneyes (Sereane) moved back up to NYC & that has actually brought us closer together as friends I think. We not only took one hell of a road trip to move her ass back up there, but got caught in a blizzard once there, lol. The distance has forced us to keep in contact and actually make time for each other. Mind you with differing schedules it may be a facebook message here and there, but we know that we are always there for one another. I have also FINALLY taken a much needed trip to visit my family in Tortola (like 20 years coming), to see my cousin graduate. That trip has helped me with a previous goal of leaving the country once a year (only 2 years in so far & going strong). Personally I have lost a lot of weight, thanks to my new job (and heavy lifting), which is always a great and very welcome thing in my life. And above all, I have cut out the drama! I have great friends and family, and have chosen to nurture those relationships that are not toxic and draining to me. It is amazing how much cutting ties with dramatic situations and people can bring a since of calm and stability to your life. 2010 was a great year full of growth, success, and many many happy memories.

I believe that 2011 will be even greater than I can imagine. It is my time to shine, so put on your shades cuz I will shine brighter than the sun!! Okay well not only am I going into this year on a positive note, but I have some new goals that I look forward to accomplishing. I am going to try harder to keep in contact with the people I love who are far away. I am going to continue to work on myself. I am going to work on my relationship with God. And I am going to try to take on more responsibility in every aspect of my life. I am in charge how my life turns out. God has given me many talents and has taught me many lessons that I will use to make the right decisions for myself. It is my life and I am the only one who has the ability to make it the best life possible. I am also going to take a page out of one of my bestie QueenthatIAm (Ashley)'s book, and dedicate much needed time into getting to know and fall in love with myself this year. Although we all know how awesome I am (no big shocker), sometimes I need to remember that on those hard days and dive a little deeper into myself. If I can't be in love with me, I can't ever expect someone else to be able to fall in love with me (or they could already be in love with me, but are just to scared to tell me, lol). These may seem like little things to you when read in my little blog, but they are pretty big things in the long run and I look forward to accomplishing them one day at a time.

I hope you each have a chance to look back and realize where you have come, and have the opportunity to sit down and maybe think of possible destinations of where you might want to go in your life this new year. I wish you all the luck and many blessings on your new journey into 2011. Enjoy & stay safe!!!

Merry Christmas!!

2010-12-24T18:04:00.000-08:00

Twas the night before Christmas & all through the house the kitties were stirring wishing they could find a mouse. But alas no mice up in this place. Okay so that was enough of that.

Here I am sitting in my bed with a swollen ankle. I have a nice big bag of frozen cranberries that I have been using as an ice pack. I work retail & was lucky enough to re-twist my ankle last night while rushing an item to a customer & it seems to have confined me to my bed for the time being. I am using this time to reflect on the things that I am most grateful for and trying my darnedest to heal up in time for work on Sunday.

I just wanted to take a moment to thank all the wonderful people I get to share my life with. I am so grateful to be able to have such great family, friends, and coworkers! I am beyond lucky & very blessed to have you all in my life. I hope that each and everyone of you are able to have a beautiful & blessed holiday. I am also praying that you all have a new year filled with lots of love, laughter, and success!

Merry Christmas!!

Sedona Lace 12 Piece Professional Makeup Brush review

2010-12-22T16:49:00.000-08:00

Okay so this is my very first youtube upload/review ever so please understand my lack of creativity. Please also understand the lack of fancy lighting (I totally had to do the video in the bathroom). But with all that, this is my review of the Sedona Lace 12 Piece Professional Makeup Brush set in pink & the Contour & Blush Palette. I was amazed by the super customer service at Sedona Lace & will surely be shopping with them in the future. Big shout out to Jason (the guy who helped me after business hours) & I hope everyone at Sedona Lace has a happy holiday (because they are sure going to make someone in my life very happy this year). Anyhoo... sit back & watch me go!

Happy happy holidays!! And if you want to get fancy like me click the link below to order these great products!

12 Piece Professional Makeup Brushes - Pink

Contour & Blush Palette

DIYD: why buy, when you can Do It Yo DAMNself

2010-12-17T20:49:00.000-08:00

Allow me to introduce myself, my name is Hoooovvvv...ok so its really Jessica, but theres no Jay-Z songs that start like that. I'm another one of the besties who will grace your computer screen every now and again. Hellur.

Soooo...a little bit about me [I'll make it short and sweet so we can get to the good stuff]. Fashion is my life; I work it and I WERK! it *two snaps*. If I could eat it in forms of delicious cupcakes, I would probably do that too. I'm a rep for a fashion wholesaler by day, clothing/ jewelery designer by night, and a personal shopper on the weekends. And when I say personal shopper I totally mean I personally shop, for myself. I'll be poppin up to bring you tutorials, 'fit pics, and anything else I feel the world must know about.

ok....now...drum roll please!

MY 1ST TUTORIAL!

[insert "ohhhs" and "ahhhs" here]

The Zipper Belt

What you will need:
1. zipper trim, by the yard 2-3+ yrds depending on hip measurement 2. some type of closure. I used a swivel hook/ O ring set found by the purse making supplies in Joann's, but you could use snaps, actual belt buckles, even a frog clasp
3. measuring tape
4. scissors
5. pliers
6. needle and thread or sewing machine and/or hot glue gun
7. fray block
optional: hardware like spikes, studs, chains, to make it even more bad ass or hotfix rhinestones to soften it

Step 1. Measure around your hip (or where you would like the belt to sit). You will need to add about 6 inches to this so that you will have enough at each end to add the closure. Using the measurement you took, cut three equal parts of the zipper trim.

Step 2. Since the trim has only 1 side of teeth and I wanted one piece with teeth on both sides I hot glued 2 of the 3 zipper pieces together. I then went over each side with a simple straight stitch (using my machines zipper foot) to make it more durable. You could skip this if you don't feel like sewing.

my nails are fancy, huh?

Step 3.
Next, using a pair of needle nose pliers, pull about 2-3 inches [or as much as need] of the teeth off the ends of both pieces of trim. This may be a little frustrating at first, but after the first few you will get the groove of it. Just put your back in to it!
This is done so that it is easier to fold the trim back and sew down when adding the closure.

Step 4 Add closure to each end folding back the trim and hot gluing. You may want to add a couple secure hand stitches just to make sure it doesn't fall apart on you while wearing. I never fully trust the good 'ol hot glue gun, as great as it is! Be careful which direction you fold back, paying attention to the way the zipper teeth are facing as well as the closure. Dab a little fray block on the ends to stop them from unraveling. That wouldn't be cute.

and voila!

Cleaning up my act (and other things)

2010-12-14T18:40:00.000-08:00

Okay first off I would like to say how excited I am to have my first guest blog from my bestie Greeneyes (Sereane) up in NYC. I was running (okay not really cuz I am not built for crazy active shit like running) to my computer to blog about an AMAZING soap I just got when I got her message about her first guest post. Seems like soap and "cleaning up your act" is a big thing this time of year with resolutions and all. So I just thought it was super cool to finally have a guest post and also one about an amazing soap too. Anyway I would like to welcome Greeneyes & all her fashionista friends to this fancy little blog of mine.

And . . . now onto the thing I am super excited about. I just got my new soap from iviscents in the mail today. I have been super duper excited because I have seen many many reviews of their products online and have wanted to try them for a while. They are known for making amazing smelling soaps, lotions, and body sugar scrubs with all natural materials. No sulfates or crazy shit up in there. That excited me because I have majorly sensitive skin that freaks out with overly perfumed or chemical filled products. And I am also allergic to lots (and I'm talking LOTS) of plant based products. Almost all AVEDA products give me major rashes and even sinus issues. I should probably live in a bubble to be safe, but I am a rebel and try my hardest not to die everyday in the shower.

Anyhoo... I was excited yet a little worried at the same time for my first order to arrive. I can't possibly explain how happy I am that I ordered with iviscents!! I ordered 2 types of soap with them to just test it out. I have only opened one soap so far (birthday cake, which is the most popular scent) and am AMAZED at how much it smells just like birthday cake. Not only that but it lathers well with my scrubby gloves, doesn't leave a weird film on my skin like some soaps do, and the topper is that I smell FABULOUS!!! I know I have been using the caps key a lot in this post but it is needed to explain/shout from the roof tops about how much I am loving this soap. I smell good enough to eat (listen up guys). I think I am going to make this my signature soap/scent. I plan on ordering their icing body frosting (lotion/body butter) in the birthday cake scent once the new year hits. They tried to retire their entire icing body frosting line, but people freaked out and ordered so much they are bringing them back for the new year. And you best believe I will be all over that! I plan on using this scent to lure a hot man with an appetite and woo him with my amazing personality and even better lasagna (hey, a girl can dream). I have a link to iviscents on the side of my blog if you are interested in smelling delish with no crazy bad for you stuff involved. I hope you all decide to clean up your act and hope you smell as good going into this new year as I plan to!

Wonderbar Soap does wonders!

2010-12-14T13:28:00.000-08:00

Hello fellow fashionistas and beauty lovers. I am Sereane W. Flynn and I am a proud bestie with Leigh-Ann, who created this fantastic blog.

I am blogging out of NYC (Bx borough specifically)...where there is snow on the ground and it is 21 degrees! But on bright side, I have a great product that I picked up from Henri Bendel after much deliberating and decided I would give it a whirl.

The Wonderbar soap is a PH balanced bar of soap made from Clay imported from god knows where, but who cares it works! I started using a week ago and I have very oily skin and acne prone, since I was a teenager. Spent many days at the Derm, waiting for a doctor to prescribe me that right medication that would finally clear my skin. There was no such luck! But after seeing Wonderbar Soap in some blogs and on Dailycandy.com, which by the way is a great website for beauty and fashion tips, that us NYC girls frequent. They claimed it to be a product worth the money and I trust what they say 90% of the time. So I took myself to Henri Bendel on a cold winter night and walked through a million tourists staring at tall buildings and finally made it. Henri Bendel was jammed full of about a 100 plus fabulous attractive women and gay men who were there for their Holiday Kick-off event. I found a lovely gay man with perfectly arched eyebrows (need to find out where he gets them done) and he presented me with the small box of soap, about the size of a hotel soap. The price with tax was $43.55, which is hard to shallow in this tough economy. But Dailycandy.com ain't never lie to me, and were correct to say that it is worth every penny! You use it twice a day like any other cleanser, but you leave on skin for about 3 to 5 minutes. For some people you might get really dry skin and breakouts in the beginning, but that will eventually stop after several weeks, but well worth the wait. My skin less oily, less breakouts and old breakouts are clearing up! Whatever issue you have with your skin, whether be blackheads, wrinkles or uneven skin tone, I truly believe this can help you.

That's whats going on here in the northeast side of the country... Happy Holidays and Happy New Years to all of my peeps!

xoxo,

Sereane

It's beginning to smell a lot like Christmas...

2010-12-09T11:31:00.000-08:00

So today I busted out 'Sir Mix a Lot' (my kitchenaid stand mixer) and started baking for the sweet exchange at work. I usually get together with my besties around this time of year for our annual "all girls cookie baking weekend". This year working retail has put an end to that. I am not getting any full weekends off work to just focus on baking. So I decided to bake in the middle of the week on one of the few off days that I am actually feeling up getting things accomplished. I have previously promised pictures of my mixer in action & here they are (finally). Mind you some of the cookies look a little... well maybe I should call them "over browned", lol. There is always a test batch to get acclimated to the oven & time needed & what not. I am still not used to electric ovens all together & think they are not to be trusted! Anyhow... I hope you enjoy the mess that is my baking life. I will also post the recipe for the delicious quick & easy peanut butter cookies that I am baking below.

Peanut Butter Cookies

- 1 Package Super Moist Yellow or Butter recipe yellow cake mix

- 1/3-cup water

- 1-cup creamy peanut butter

- 2 eggs

- Sugar (to roll cookies into before putting onto an)

- (Hershey Kisses or preserves of your liking)

1.) Heat oven to 375*F. Beat half of the cake mix, the water, peanut butter and eggs in large bowl with electric mixer on medium speed until smooth, or mix with spoon. Stir in remaining cake mix.

2.) Drop dough by rounded tablespoons about 2 inches apart onto ungreased cookie sheet. Flatten in crisscross pattern with fork dipped in sugar. (Or roll balls of the dough into sugar & place on cookie sheet 2 inches apart. Put Hershey kisses in the center of each cookie, or make a dent with your thumb to put preserves into center of cookie 2 minutes before cookies are finished baking)

3.) Bake 10 to 12 minutes or until golden brown (or 8 min for cookies with preserves & then the remaining 2-4 minutes until done). Cool 1 minute; remove from cookie sheet to wire rack.

(*I like to use blackberry or apricot preserves with this recipe & always get great reviews)

Shout out to all my soflo big girls!!

2010-12-07T16:51:00.000-08:00

If you are or know any big girls (or curvy chicks), tell them to check out my blog & contact me stat! You have a great chance to get up to 30% off everything (except spanx) at Lane Bryant. That includes intimate apparel & all the super cute clothes for your holiday & new years eve parties. They are holding a "Girls' night out" special event on Wed. December 15th for the coolest chicks in town. You could be one of the lucky few who can get in on the deal. Check it out & let me know if you are in. The event is being held at the Pompano Beach Citi Center location. Holler at me if you wanna look hot for the holidays!

December 1st is World AIDS Day!

2010-11-29T19:06:00.000-08:00

World AIDS Day is celebrated on December 1st each year around the world. It has become one of the most recognised international health days and a key opportunity to raise awareness, commemorate those who have passed on, and celebrate victories such as increased access to treatment and prevention services.

Started on 1st December 1988, World AIDS Day is about raising money, increasing awareness, fighting prejudice and improving education. The World AIDS Day theme for 2010 is 'Universal Access and Human Rights'. World AIDS Day is important for reminding people that HIV has not gone away, and that there are many things still to be done.

According to UNAIDS estimates, there are now 33.3 million people living with HIV, including 2.5 million children. During 2009 some 2.6 million people became newly infected with the virus and an estimated 1.8 million people died from AIDS.¹

The vast majority of people with HIV and AIDS live in lower- and middle-income countries. But HIV today is a threat to men, women and children on all continents around the world.

I grew up in Dupont Circle in Washington D.C. in the early 80's and was well aware of the growing epidemic that is now known as HIV & AIDS. My family has known and lost many friends from this disease. There are so many people who have lost loved ones, and many many more who will lose someone close in the future to this. There a few differences now in 2010 than the early 80's when it comes to HIV & AIDS. Now we know what both HIV & AIDS are, how they are contracted, prevented, and we now have treatments for those living with AIDS. Even with all that knowledge HIV is still an epidemic that needs to be controlled! If only we each took the time to go get tested (as often as necessary) so we could know our current status and prevent the unknown spread of it.

HIV & AIDS can effect ALL of us! HIV and AIDS knows no bounds when it comes to gender, sexual preference, race, country, or neighborhood you may live in. Yes, we have come a long way in the treatment of AIDS over the last 25 years or so, but it is still something that can and should be prevented in every possible way. It is your responsibility to yourself and your loved ones to take charge, get tested, and make sure the person you chose to be sexually active with gets tested as well. When I was growing up in the D.C. area, it was not a big thing to go get tested and keep your status in your wallet. That way you could easily have that important convo and share the proof with the one you plan on getting "lucky" with. Yes it may seem like an awkward convo at the time. But believe that it is a much easier one than to tell that person that they may need to get tested, because it turns out you weren't as lucky as you thought.

Please take the time this week (or sometime soon) to go get tested! Take your loved ones out & go get tested together to get into the habit. Have date night (get tested & go see a movie). The key is getting tested so you know your status and you can STOP the spread of this disease.

Click here to find a place to get a free HIV test today

Can you get HIV from... (click here to see how you can & can't get HIV)

Click here to find out more about living with AIDS

I am just hoping that everyone takes the time to try to get as informed as possible and choose to stay informed on the contraction and prevention of this disease. Take time to remember those we have lost to this disease & those who are living with it every day. Celebrate their lives by protecting your own. God bless!

Congrats to Julia & Bryan!!

2010-11-29T10:59:00.000-08:00

Okay so I just wanted to share some super exciting news with you all. Well it is most likely just exciting to me, but here goes anyway. My friend Julia just had her first baby girl a little bit ago. She & Bryan (the father) are so sweet together and so cute. He has already posted pics to his facebook page letting everyone get a peek at their beautiful new baby girl Becca. I am so happy for them & wish them all the best! Here is to Julia, Bryan & Becca... may they have a beautiful life filled with lots of love and wonderful memories!!! I just love good news & baby news is some of the best news out there. Happy Monday everyone & happy birthday to baby Becca!

I SURVIVED BLACK FRIDAY!!!

2010-11-28T12:24:00.000-08:00

I have officially survived Black Friday & the first winter holiday weekend of the year (woo hoo!!). I know it may seem like something small, but this is the first time in a while that I have worked retail. Mind you I now work for the very best company & don't have to worry about waking up and being at work at the but crack of dawn until the wee hours of the night (Can I get a hallelujah to that? Amen!). My company believes in both it's customers and it's workers. It knows that we (many of us) have families and it tries hard to make sure that we get time with them, especially during the holidays. I do thank God that I work for such a caring company! Years ago I worked for a few different retailers who had crazy CRAZY holiday hours. I remember being open for business from 5am-12pm. Which may seem great for the shoppers, but I worked for Easy Spirit at the time. Most of my customers were... lets just call them older. They were all in bed by 9pm tops & never not once did they come in for a comfort shoe at 5 in the morning. Those days are far behind me now & I am very thankful for that.

This weekend went by in a bit of a blur. We were super busy on Friday, and quite steady on Saturday. I had many many great customers who were in the holiday state of mind and super duper nice to boot. I love helping people who appreciate the work that we do for them. Yes it is our job, but it is a pleasure when you know how much you are appreciated. We also had a couple of great sales that continue through to Cyber Monday that helped drive our sales. Gotta love a good sale!

Anyhow, I think I am not as scared of the holiday season as I was before. I had a bit of fear going into it due to the fact that I still feel new to the company and have not been here (as an employee) during the busy holiday time. But surprisingly, I have found the higher traffic refreshing. I love interacting with people & helping them find what they need to make there holiday or any occasion just right. I just love being the person with the answers! I also think my father appreciates the higher traffic at my job too. He has always said that I have the "gift of gab" that he somehow is not very excited about being on the receiving end of. Now when I have a lot of customers during the day, I am usually all talked out by the time I come home. He seems to be over the moon about that to say the least, lol. So there seems to be nothing but up sides to this holiday retail rush. It is great for the economy, great for my store, great for our customers, and more importantly great for my father's sanity. Now all I need to do is maybe get a new pair of comfort shoes for myself since I am working many more hours than usual (I know, I know... I am not "older" yet, but I do work on my feet). Please believe that I still will not be in at the store at 5am nor midnight to purchase them.

I wish everyone else in the service industry the best this holiday season. I hope you all get the chance to relax on your time off, and get the appreciation you deserve!

Below are some super sales & savings I have come across that you may or may not want to check out:

Crate&Barrel- is continuing their "Wine & Dine" sale up to 25% off (through Nov. 29th), they are also having an up to 50% off cutlery sale (sale ends Nov. 29th), with free shipping on select items totaling over $100 online & in the catalog. Can't beat that with a stick!! (p.s the knife sale is UNREAL and you should take advantage while you can!!)

BHCosmetics- is having a Black Friday/Cyber Monday weekend bundle steal. You can save up to 35%. All my beauty chicks out there check it out. AMAZING DEALS on makeup!!

handbag heaven- is having a 15% of sitewide holiday sale on all their super cute handbags. They also have gift cards available. Great gift idea for all your besties!!

Charlotte Russe- is having 25-50% off everything sale until midnight tonight (Sunday Nov. 28th). And if you spend $50 or more online you get free shipping. This sale is great for all you skinny girls & anyone who love love loves accessories!

Lane Bryant- is having a buy one get one free mix & match sale online & in the stores with $1.99 shipping on all online orders $75 or more. Great for all my big girls out there!! Fabulous clothes & accessories (shoes now too!!) that are great for work & play.

Sweeter Days Bakeshop- Okay so I don't know if they are having any sales, but they are the best stop for any & all of your holiday sweet treats!! They are the BEST BEST BEST bakeshop in the Fort Lauderdale/South Florida area (you must believe a big girl when she says something tastes good, it's the law!). Please stop by or check out their website for mouth watering deliciousness!

Follow me on twitter

2010-11-28T12:21:00.000-08:00

The few readers/followers I have may have noticed that I have made many changes to my blog. As I get a little more into this blogging thing I am figuring out how to make it more "me". I am also figuring out how to link up all my sites together. You can now easily click follow or subscribe to my blog and you can also now click on the side to follow me on twitter. Check me out!! I am figuring this out one step at a time, but it seems to be coming together. Please subscribe or follow any and all of my social media whatevers, lol. I need all the help I can get!

Happy Thanksgiving!!

2010-11-25T08:20:00.000-08:00

Happy happy thanksgiving! I hope everyone is able to spend time with the people they love and to be able to give thanks for all the blessings life has to offer! ♥