I.M.P.A.C.T.everyone

7steps to becoming a Happy Person Others want to be Around

2012-03-23T11:03:00.000-06:00

Here are seven steps to reversing this pattern and becoming a happy person others trust and want to be around.

1. Become self-aware. Are you a negative person? Do you tend to see the glass half empty or half full? If you are in doubt, ask your spouse or a close friend for candid feedback. Negativity is costing you more than you know. Frankly, it’s like having bad breath or b.o.
2. Assess your needs. What need are you attempting to meet by complaining? Perhaps the need for connection? Maybe a need for significance? Are there better, more healthy ways to meet these needs?
3. Decide to change. Complaining is a habit. And like all bad habits, change begins when you own your behavior and make a decision to change. It doesn’t have to be a long, drawn out process. It will take conscious effort at first, but it will become automatic over time. You can start today.
4. Shift your identity. The most powerful change happens when we modify our identity. When I declared myself an athlete, daily exercise suddenly became easier. What if you said to yourself, I am a positive, encouraging person? How would your behavior change?
5. Greet others with a smile. According to health expert Ron Gutman, “smiling can help reduce the level of stress-enhancing hormones like cortisol, adrenaline, and dopamine, and increase the level of mood-enhancing hormones like endorphins.” While smiling has this impact on you, it also has a similar impact on others. This is one reason they unconsciously want to be around you.
6. Catch them doing something right. The corollary to the principle “you see more of what you notice” is "you get more of what you notice. If you catch people doing what is right and complement them for it, guess what happens? They start doing more of it. This is not manipulation; it is influence. It too is contagious.
7. Speak well of others. I’m not saying you shouldn’t deal with bad behavior by confronting it. I’m saying you should deal directly with the people involved rather than complaining about it to those who are neither part of the problem nor part of the solution. Your mama’s advice was right: “If you don’t have something positive to say, don’t say anything at all.”

While complaining about others may hurt them, ultimately it hurts you the worst. By becoming more aware and more intentional, you can become a person others seek out and want to be around.

by Michael Hyatt

Kindness List

2012-03-23T10:54:00.000-06:00

FOR YOU LOVE LETTER: write a letter to someone you've never met and let them know what a great person they are. Spread the love!
FREE HUGS: Don't underestimate the power of a warm embrace.
SHARE INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES: A little "words of wisdom" is all it takes sometimes.
MAKE SOMEONE LAUGH/SHARE A SMILE: "Laughter is the best medicine". A smile is contagious.
LET SOMEONE GO IN FRONT OF YOU: Patience is key... "Go ahead, I'm in no rush, I was just standing here enjoying myself".
WRITE AN APPRECIATION LETTER/NOTE: Let someone know that you recognize their efforts and are thankful for it. (ex: mail carriers, bus drivers, coaches, teachers, etc.)
TREAT SOMEONE: Maybe event tickets for a single parent, a meal for the homeless, or simply a coffee for the person in line behind you. A little goes a long way.
SHARE A COMPLIMENT: While others may be negative or bullying, be positive. Share a compliment and brighten someone's day. Stop negative conversations. Walk away from gossip.
RETURN LOST & FOUND ITEMS: Create a better community and/or city.
TAKE TIME TO PLAY: Children are told to go and "play", but as adults we forget that it's ok to do so. Be silly and have fun!
VOLUNTEER YOUR TIME: Babysit for free. Help out at a local food bank. Volunteer to build a house through Habitat for Humanity. Help at an event. Volunteer some time to talk to your sales clerk, or a stranger on the bus, or a little conversation with the homeless.
LEAVE MONEY: Leave a very generous tip for your server. Treat someone to a snack by leaving money in a vending machine/gumball dispenser. Give to a local charity/auction.
SUPPORT THE CHILDREN: Give a donation to the local children's team, whether by money or equipment, or maybe even volunteered time.

SPREAD THE LOVE I.M.P.A.C.T. EVERYONE

Gratitude In Others

2012-02-28T13:54:00.000-06:00

I have had a wonderful experience in the last week... I have been helping others with things they were not able to do themselves or afford a company to do it for them! They were given the opportunity to give whatever they wanted in return for my assistance. All 4 of the people I have helped in the last few days were more than grateful for me helping them in their time of need. So much so that 2 out of the 4 required a HUG at the end, in order to show their appreciation, and 1 called the next day for more help!

Although all of them were very grateful and appreciative about it, it seems that I got the most out of it! To be able to see the gratitude, joy, and appreciation in each one of their faces was more than enough to make my day, and fill me with the same!

So go ahead, give someone a hand if they need it! You don't have to know them to be a part of their life and make a difference.

Pass it on.

I.M.P.A.C.T.everyone Meditation

2011-05-27T16:45:00.000-06:00

Hi everyone,

I have begun to put together a group meditation session for anyone who is interested in meditating with others, and meeting new people. Everyone is welcome and can donate to the group if you wish.

We will be meeting at least 2 times a week to start off, and may progress from there. The meditations will consist of 15-20 minutes of meditation and 10 minutes or more of discussion, this time may also increase as we progress in order to heighten our energy levels further. I am currently taking suggestions on the days and times we will meet, in order to try to meet everyones needs.

If you are interested in coming to meditate in the park with us beginning around June 11th, then please send me an email @ impacteveryonenn@gmail.com - Include any questions you may have.

A group meditation is not only good for each individual, but it is scientifically proven to be good for the overall community as well. I look forward to seeing you there.

Much Love,

Shea Noble

Happiness Within You

2011-04-03T00:15:00.000-06:00

What is Happiness?

This is truly a difficult question for many, and many people tend to answer it wrong too. Most people mistake Happiness for pleasures and excitement, or associate it with something their doing. Those are just temporary things, and may come and go quickly.

Happiness is within you, always. It's part of your being, who you are. The problem is that most people don't know how to tap into their Happiness. They don't know how to find it within themselves. Which is why they may confuse it with temporary pleasures they experience and times.

Happiness is a wonderful thing, and I believe everyone's purpose in life is to be Happy. I would like to recommend a book for you to read, it's called "Be Happy." It's a fantastic book written by Robert Holden, who has been conducting the Happiness Project for many years. A documentary has even been done on his Happiness course. I am about half way through the book myself right now and wanted to share a little, and of course recommend it too.

So to learn more about how to find your Happiness, and yourself. Go pick up a copy from your local bookstore, or from iBooks.

To your Happiness,

Shea Noble

Still looking To Make Money at Home?

2011-01-31T21:57:00.000-06:00

Just a quick pointer here, that if your still loking to make money from you home and your not usre what to do, or what you can do, than you should go check out http://earnextrafromhomemoney.net/ and read some of the articles. It is filling up over there with posts on what you can do, and what you should do, what you might do. Anyways, if you wanna learn a little more on best home businesses then go check it out.

Make 2011 The Best Year For Yourself

2011-01-02T01:45:00.000-06:00

Well another year has gone by, did you do everything you wanted in 2010? Did you fulfill your resolution you made for 2010? Did you take yourself where you wanted to go in 2010? There is many questions I can ask about 2010, some may be yes, many will probably be no.

Now you need to focus on taking yourself to new heights in 2011, and making this your most successful year so far. Here are a few pointers for you to get you moving in the right direction;

1. Decide exactly where you want to go.

This is obviously the most important, cause if you don't know where you want to go, how are you ever suppose to get anywhere? So take some time to think and visualize exactly where you want to go and what you want to do, be clear and specific.

2. Write it down.

Thinking about it isn't always enough, if you write it down it reaches the unconscious mind as well. So go ahead, write it down, and then put it somewhere where you can read it often.

3. Take action.

To get anywhere there must be some kind of action in order to move you forward. So set goals, and then break them down into smaller daily attainable goals you can complete each day. I would suggest doing the hardest, and working towards the easiest, this may eliminate quitting after completing one or two of your daily goals.

4. Live positively

This although listed as number 4, is also a very important part. Creating a positive life for yourself on a daily basis will be you to your goals more quickly. Not only that but it feels good, everyone wants to be happy. I think that is every ones ultimate goal, to be happy. What many people don't understand is that you can be happy right NOW. In doing so more things will come to you that you want, and you will radiate this to others around you and they will feel your energy and they will begin to live positively as well.

I hope these 4 things will help make 2011 the best year for you so far, I have also included a link in the title for those of you who want more help accessing your unconscious mind, which is where most action in your life comes from. I tell a story how my life was affected, if you like it please hit the like button at the bottom of the page.

With love, spread joy, live positively

Shea Noble

Don't change others, Change yourself

2010-12-12T15:57:00.000-06:00

Don't believe you can change others, as you have no control over someone else and their actions. You will face resistance in fighting the impossible. Instead believe you can change yourself, and then see how everything around you has changed as well. If you don't like something you see, don't change what your looking at, change how you see it. It's always within you to make a difference, just think about it!

Shea Noble
Positivity Specialist

Joe Vitale changed my life

2010-12-10T00:33:00.000-06:00

I just posted my story on how Joe Vitale, from the movie "The Secret," changed my life. Go read it by clicking the link -Joe Vitale changed my life

The 2 Difficult Steps to Success-As Hard As 1-2

2010-12-02T12:41:00.000-06:00

There are so many step by step programs out there that are as “easy as 1-2-3,” right? Well, thats great and all, I’m pretty sure that many of them work too, and really are easy to put to use. But, has anyone shared the most difficult steps to success? Does everyone even know the 2 most difficult steps to success? Some might, I bet many don’t though. I will l share with you The 2 Difficult Steps to Success - As Hard As 1-2, and I think you’ll be shocked as to what they are.

Of course like any step by step program, I will start with….Step 1.

Decide

Yes, Decide. You of course, have to decide what you are going to do to become successful. Now that may sound simple at first but, in actuality it takes a great deal of energy to think about and decide what it is you should do. You must look deep down inside yourself and find what it is you are truly passionate about, cause it is that passion that will be the driving force behind your reason. You may have to read books you enjoy, spend time with friends or family, or look back on your life to be able to find what it is you want to do. Obviously there are many jobs, or projects, or programs you can get involved in and probably do, but will you be passionate about it? Thats why this is a difficult step, cause so many people don’t actually know what they want to do. They just go about life doing what they have always done, and continue not getting the results they want. So start thinking about it, you might find it today or tomorrow, or it may take you till next year. But, when you find it, it will be worth it.

Again following the process of a step by step program, here is….Step 2.

Action

Now that you have decided what it is you are passionate about and want to share with others, you must take Action. This step is a little more difficult than Step 1, but it’s something your passionate about, so you’ll enjoy following Step 2 and taking Action upon it. This step is going to involve many things to get you to where you want to be, but the main thing is to continue to take action. Cause without action, you get nothing. You don’t have to do a lot at once, take small steps if necessary, as long as your moving forward you will get where you want to go. Don’t be afraid to ask for help either, thats an action too, plus it may be necessary to get you to where you need to be.

Now that you know The 2 Difficult Steps to Success you can get started. I would like to remind you of the importance of Step 1, cause your mind is very powerful and is ultimately the creator of your reality. Your life is your mind pushed outwards, so think clearly about what you want and stay focused on it in order to obtain it. Think often of the end result and what it would be like to already have it, feel what it would feel like often, and of course stay positive. Be happy now, cause it feels good. And when you feel good, and you are happy, and you stay positive, that is when good things continue to happen and your life begins to change. So remember...Decide what you want to do, and then Act upon it.

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Shea Noble
Positivity Specialist
CEO, Noble Network Lt.d
Founder, I.M.P.A.C.T.everyone

Intention

2010-11-29T16:26:00.000-06:00

Intention - A determination to act in a certain way, purpose, aim, objective, or goal.

My Intention - To help create positive lifestyles through internal management of ones self.

Giving Advice

2010-11-21T13:54:00.000-06:00

Good day, I am sure you have heard the saying "be careful who's advice you take" right? Well you should also be cautious when giving advice. Be sure to have control over your own emotions to be able to deal with any comments that may be redirected back at you from the advice you tried to provide. You see, everyone has their own reality, and therefore sees things differently, and just may not see it your way at all or want to admit it. Make sure you find the right time and the right way to give advice to enable you to handle the criticism or denial that may come with it. If you experience this it doesn't mean you shouldn't have given the advice or made the comment, so don't let something like that hold you back from sharing. Not everyone will be capable of seeing it the way your trying to describe the situation, or they just won't want to admit it. Thinking is the most powerful thing we can ever do, it creates our whole world, so if your advice or comment can at least make someone think, and I mean really think, than the advice should be given.

Live life, Love life, Become Alive

Staying Focused

2010-10-27T12:29:00.000-06:00

Yeah... I'm on holidays for the next 11 days, this is a great opportunity for me to work on my new project at home, the new website www.impacteveryone.com. I think this new project is going to take off, obviously it's a continuation of what i am already doing with I.M.P.A.C.T. but it's going to go a little more in depth with the whole thing I want to do with it. I look forward to helping others build positive lifestyles for themselves and obtain the things they want out of life, it's an exciting thing for me, and it will be for you too. Say stay tuned and I'll keep you posted on how the project is going, right now I'm just putting the foundation on the website, the basics and stuff, it's coming though. I hope to have this project completed and up and running by December 1, 2010.

To give you a little sneak peek I will let you know that there will be lots of information I will be sharing with everyone, there is also a membership involved and free gifts. I will be giving memberships at a discounted price for a short period of time, so make sure you stay tuned so you can get yours when the program launches.

Stay true, stay you!!

Shea Noble

Find the Passion

2010-10-20T03:47:00.000-06:00

What is it in your life you are passionate about? just think about it. When i say think, i mean truly think about it. Thinking is the best thing you can do, and has so much power behind it. So, now that you have thought about it, do you actually do this in your life? Do you participate in it daily? If you don't, why not? If you can't decide what you are truly passionate about, then take some time over the next week and think about it regularely, it will come to you. When it does, grab it and don't let go. Hang on tight and let it take you for the ride of your life, cause thats exactly what it should do. Use that passion to drive you foward, pass it on to others, and you will prosper because of it. Life is meant to be joyfull and full of passion, so find it, take it, and then share it with as many people as you can, and i promise you, you will have the time of your life.

With Love,

My Aspirations

2010-10-06T07:27:00.000-06:00

I have lived my life enjoying people around me, enjoying helping people around me, even if it's just little things. I look forward to helping others for the rest of my life. I want people to know they can have and live great lives, and if theres something I can to to help them get there, I want to do it. I remember this time I was walking through a mall, going nowhere in particular but, I walked past t his relatively old women, very short with white hair, and she was fixing her hair in the mirror that was around a pillar. As I walked by I told her she looked great, and kept walking. She stopped, looked at me, grinned from ear to ear and then carried on her way. Now as little as they may sound, that comment probably made that womens day, and I enjoyed doing it as well. I want to show people how to feel good, and live positively, which is why I developed this program I.M.P.A.C.T., to help people see inside, and see what they can have. I look forward to this journey and hope I can inspire millions on the way.

My Little Skyla

2010-10-03T17:04:00.000-06:00

My little girl is so beautiful, she is sitting up by herself now and almost crawling. She does a lot of talking, more like yelling and screaming, it's wonderful listening to her everyday. She has this thing of flailing her right arm all the time, just randomly, it's pretty funny sometimes. I love all 3 of my children and my beautiful wife to be. Be sure to fulfill your life with great aspects as I have, choose that which you want and take it.

Its sleepy time for some of us, the rest will wait for you to wake.

The Secret

2010-10-01T19:34:00.000-06:00

I just watched the movie "The Secret" again yesterday, it's been awhile since i had watched it. Very good movie, inspiring. Than today I watched "Beyond the Secret," a sequel to The Secret, I enjoyed it also. It goes a little more in depth of The Law of Attraction, and explains more on the vibrations of ones self and everything around us, thats something the first one didn't mention. There's is one more movie in the sequence i'm trying to get my hands on, it's called "Opus." Which is a story that incorporates the Law of Attraction and how it is used to change lives. If your not using the Law of Attraction in your life yet feel free to drop me a line and I would love to talk about it with you, you can email me, impacteveryonenn@gmail.com, or give me a call at 306-262-5549. I would love to hear from you!! Have a beautiful day.

Life at work part 1

2010-09-21T19:24:00.000-06:00

i recently returned to work from 3 months of time off, when i returned I made sure to maintain a positive attitude towards everything and everyone around me. I enjoy my job and I make it better by creating a positive lifestyle there as well. Last week one of the night maintenance colleagues asked me, after all the B.S. i was dealing with, how was I able to come to work everyday with a smile on my face, and keep it there all night (11hr shift)? I simply told him I keep a positive attitude in mind and always stay focused on that. He then asked me how I get that (the positive focus)? I said, I read! He seemed a little amazed, and i asked him if he wanted one of my books, he happily said yes! I am thrilled that I have been able to influence others around to want to feel the same as I do. I will continue to move forward, as I hope to have interactions with people that inspire positively or not at all.

Being the person you want to be

2010-09-10T14:58:00.000-06:00

Many people say to be your self, and so you should, but you must also understand that you become like those who you associate with. You may look at your life and find that you are drifting off to a place where you don't really want to be or go. Look at where some of your friends are going too, are they heading in the same direction? I'm not saying don't be friends with people, but you may want to limit your interactions. Find people who are like how you want to be, positive people is a good place to start, as it is said; a smile in contagious, so is personalities and behaviors. So choose your friends wisely and be who you want to be, yourself.

Lake for the weekend

2010-09-02T23:58:00.000-06:00

Yeah... I'm off to the lake on Friday for the weekend with my family and my brothers family. Looking forward to a positive fun filled weekend with everybody. It's also a great opportunity to get away and meditate in the wilderness. Meditation is great for the mind, body, and spirit, it opens it up and lets everything flow freely. It's also very relaxing and peaceful, I would recommend 10 minutes everyday. It's nice to just let go of all the thoughts that are going on all the time, I'm looking forward to sitting beside the lake and getting some time in. Hope everyone's weekend is filled with greatness, share the spirit of positive actions with everyone around you.

Reading to Learn

2010-08-28T16:58:00.000-06:00

Not too long ago i had finished reading "Law of Attraction the Basics" by Jerry and Esther Hicks, and now I am almost finished the second one "Ask and it is Given", in the 3 part series, the last one being "The Power of Emotions".

These books have opened up my mind to the possibilities of ones own thoughts, and the power of the mind. I have come to notice how some things have came to be in my own life, and now have figured out how to bring things into my life.

I would highly recommend these books to anyone, they are a great read, and everyone is able to get something out of it. The Books are a very positive read and will show you a better side of yourself, and of others.

Take Action in the Things You Want

2010-08-27T11:10:00.000-06:00

It’s easier to change a situation tomorrow then it is right now.

What is the meaning behind this you might ask. Well, it means that you should project what you want in your coming days. If you put some serious thought into how you want things to go, or things you want to take place, then think of it now so that it will come another day.

Some of you may believe in the Law of Attraction, and some of you may not, either way it is at work. You can either choose to make it work to your advantage or just by default. I’m sure several of you can think if a time when you wanted something really bad, and you thought about it all the time, every day. You imagined having it and the things you would do with it, and then before you realized it…. you had it. Right?

The problem is, is that some people don’t realize that the Law of Attraction doesn’t just make things appear, your not going to receive an envelope full of cash in your mailbox no matter how much you think about it. It requires ACTION. This Law presents things to you, opportunities if you must. It is your job to realize and see these opportunities and take action upon them. Just like that thing you really wanted, and then got it, it didn’t just appear for you, you took action in some way to get it, but you got it didn’t you!

So, back to the start...If you think about the opportunities or circumstances you would like to have or be in, then think positively about them now so that you can have them later. The more you think about, and the more you visualize yourself with it, the quicker it will come to you. Or, you could think about it periodically and have it show up much later, the choice is yours. Just give it a try, and you will see what you can bring for yourself. Just make sure you recognize it when it comes, and don’t pass up that opportunity that you’ve been waiting for.

Remember, Action is better then In-Action. So take what you want and create a life for yourself, all you have to do is think about it, visualize it, and then take it.

Something that will help you with this is, Segment Intending. Segment Intending is when you move into a new segment of your day, you take a moment to think about how you would like it to go. Visualize how you would like the scenario to be, and then carry on with what you’re doing. The key is to be positive, and enjoy your thoughts. Do this every time you start doing something new; when you wake up in the morning, before you go to bed, when you get in your vehicle, when you get to your destination, and so on and so on. Do this regularly and you will start to find that your days start going exactly how you want them to go. Just remember to take action, otherwise you will continue with what you’ve always got. Only you can change it, so change it for tomorrow.

My name is Shea Noble, and I try to make this a practice in my daily life, as I do believe in the Law of Attraction, and I am using it to create the things I want in my life, such as; A loving wife, a beautiful new gorgeous baby (Skyla), and two other great kids ( Connor and Keirah), that make up my Great family. I have a great new home, and a Business I run out of my home (Noble Network Ltd.). I am personally creating the life I want by thinking about what I want, acting on it, and then taking it.