HOW TO GET PREGNANT

Marriage: Learning To Love

2012-03-29T05:02:00.000-07:00

Marriage: Learning To Love Click Here!

My daughter was recently in her school's performance of Fiddler On TheRoof. She was one of the daughters. If you don't know the story, it focuses on the changing culture of marriage, from one where the marriage is arrainged by family and community to one based on mutual attraction.

In one of the songs, the main character asks his wife if she loves him. She replies that for 25 years, she has shared his bed, made his meals, tended his house, raised his children -- so what kind of question is that? The point is that in their relationship, love wasn't even a question or consideration. But after some back-and-forth, they decide that, indeed, they love each other.

This led me to think about what I know about marriage. And here is what I think about the question of love and marriage: we fall in love to get together, then spend the rest of our lives learning to love the other.Click Here!

You see, the initial attraction is really about "I." "I" feel a certain way, so I know I am "in love." But that part of the relationship is driven by my need to feel that way, my need to be with the other person, my need to have my needs met. My needs are fueled by my desire to feel the intense emotion of "being in love."

But in reality, love is a verb, something I do for the other. So, it takes the rest of my life to learn how to attend to my spouse's needs. From my desire to be with my spouse comes my desire to meet my spouse's love needs.

We are "fooled" into commitment by the overwhelming feeling of attraction, and then we have to put forth effort to create a sustained relationship. I say "fooled" because our culture has us believing that this love is the foundation of a relationship. It is not. It is merely a temporary starting point. It is not the destination. It is just a part of the journey to a lifetime relationship.

Those intense feelings will calm over time. The overwhelming need to be with someone that marks the infatuation portion of a relationship is not sustainable on its own. It's like placing a flame in a bottle. Eventually, the flame will burn all the oxygen in the bottle and be extinguished.

So, there has to be some "fueling of the fire." This is "love," the verb. When I act in loving ways, I fuel the fire and keep it burning. If I stop tending to the other's needs because I don't feel that infatuation, the relationship will slowly (or not so slowly) die away.

When we continue to believe that "love" (infatuation) is the heart of a relationship, when that feeling is gone, we believe we are no longer in love. That is not the case; we have just failed to fuel the fire.

Reality TV has proven that any two people, given the right circumstances and settings, can fall into love (chemistry of infatuation). But story after story shows that it is harder to make the switch to "true love" that comes from action. Choose action, and don't be fooled by chemistry.

By acting on love, by making love a verb and not an emotion, we keep the emotional fire stoked. And that is the great irony: if we depend on the feeling of being in love to keep us together, it will fail. But if we set that aside and focus on being loving, the feeling of being in love is sustained. Mature love is a verb, not an emotion.Click Here!

Pregnancy Nutrition what to eat while you are pregnant

2012-01-09T03:55:00.000-08:00

Pregnancy Nutrition
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Table of Contents
Introduction.................................................................................................................................... 3
From A to Zinc................................................................................................................................. 5
Calories........................................................................................................................................... 9
Caloric Intake During Pregnancy..................................................................................................... 9
Caloric Intake While Nursing......................................................................................................... 11
Healthy Calories Vs. Unhealthy Calories....................................................................................... 11
Recap-Necessary Vitamins and Their Sources............................................................................... 14
How Much is Too Much?.............................................................................................................. 15
Mommy’s No-No List.................................................................................................................... 17
What if You Can’t Eat a Regular Diet?........................................................................................... 19
Food Allergies and Intolerance..................................................................................................... 19
Veganism/Vegetarianism.............................................................................................................. 21
Dislikes.......................................................................................................................................... 22
Post-Partum Diet-Dropping Those Pounds!.................................................................................. 23
Exercise......................................................................................................................................... 26
When NOT to Exercise when Pregnant......................................................................................... 27
Post-Partum Exercise.................................................................................................................... 28
Conclusion.................................................................................................................................... 28
Introduction
Children grow up too fast. Before too long the almost indistinguishable speck in your
womb is going to be flying down a hill on a bike with their hands in the air and driving down the
interstate in your new car. Before you know it you’ll be telling them good-bye as they start
college, crossing your fingers and hoping for the best. You’ll never have the opportunity to
nurture them again that you do right now, when they’re safely inside you tucked away from the
outside world.
This is going to be the last time in your life that it’s a piece of cake to get them to eat
their vegetables, so enjoy it! You’re going to spend the next eighteen years (and then some)
trying to convince them that spinach is good for them and that the slimy stuff on the outside of
their carrots is just pulp, but right now you’re making all the decisions when it comes to what
they eat.
Proper pregnancy nutrition is a vital factor in proper fetal development because the fetus
is physically incapable of providing for itself, nor can it show any visible signs of
malnourishment between monthly check-ups as a newborn can. That means that for the next nine
months it’s going to be completely up to you to ensure that you are properly eating for two,
taking in the vitamins and nutrients that are going to help you give birth to a healthy, happy baby
while keeping yourself healthy at the same time.
Remember, baby’s going to take what it needs long before those nutrients ever have the
opportunity to go through your system. By not eating properly you’re not only harming your
baby, you’re harming yourself as well. That’s why it’s so important that you make sure you get
the vitamins and nutrients that you need for the next nine months as well. Lack of attention might
still lead to a healthy baby, but baby’s not going to change themselves! Mom needs to be healthy
too in order to keep up with her little bundle of joy in the coming months. Giving birth is hard
enough on the body. You certainly don’t want to add malnutrition into the mix.
The problem that many women face when it comes to pregnancy nutrition is that they
simply don’t understand. Why? Not because they’re stupid, or because they don’t want to do
what’s best for their baby. It’s because most books on pregnancy, particularly those that deal
with the ins and outs of nutrition for the next nine months, are written by medical professionals.
That makes sense, right? Who better to take advice from concerning the growth and development
of your baby than the doctor that’s made it their life’s work?
Most moms aren’t doctors, however, and that’s where the trouble comes in. It’s all well
and good to sit down and look at a chart that shows how much of each mineral you’re supposed
to take in on a daily basis over the next nine months, but if you don’t understand what you’re
reading and the effect it’s going to have on your baby then it isn’t going to do you a whole lot of
good. You’re going to spend a month, maybe two, looking at the labels on the back of your food.
Then you’re going to get sick of it and go back to your old eating habits, reasoning that you’ve
always been healthy. You’re taking your prenatal vitamins. What could go wrong?
This book was written with “Dr. Mom” rather than “Dr. Smith” in mind. Throughout the
coming sections you’ll find a thorough breakdown of the nutrients you need to ensure that you
deliver a healthy baby when the time comes and basic guidelines for the trimester-by-trimester
dietary changes you’re going to have to make, all written in every day, ordinary English rather
than medical-ese.
What’s that mean? It means you don’t have to go out and buy a medical dictionary to
understand what you’re about to read! Even if you can’t follow an ordinary, “recommended”
pregnancy diet (which tends to get old after the first trimester) you can still give your little
bundle of joy a “best odds” chance at making a great start in life.
Happy Reading!
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From A to Zinc
If you have ever attempted to go on any kind of diet that involved reading the information
on the nutritional labels of your food you are all too familiar with the fact that those little words
and symbols can start to look like Greek after a while. If you’re not a doctor or a nutritionist you
probably have no idea of what Vitamin B or Folic Acid are, much less why they’re important.
The first step to conquering pregnancy nutrition is understanding what you’re eating, how much
you should eat, why you’re eating it and how it’s going to help your baby.
A quick note. In the following section you are going to see several mentions made about
the negative consequences of overdosing on specific vitamins. You must understand that this
overdose very rarely occurs because of the foods you eat. More often it is because mothers have
chosen to consume extra supplements in an attempt to “help” their baby or they have forgotten to
tell their physician about other vitamins and supplements they take on a regular basis. Be sure
when you go in for your prenatal appointments that your physician knows exactly what vitamins,
medications and supplements (including herbal) you take, regardless of how insignificant you
may believe them to be.
1. Vitamin A: Vitamin A helps the development of baby’s bones and teeth, as well as
their heart, ears, eyes and immune system (the body system that fights infection).
Vitamin A deficiency has been associated with vision problems, which is why your
mom always told you to eat your carrots when you were a kid! Getting enough
Vitamin A during pregnancy will also help your body repair the damage caused by
childbirth.
Pregnant women should consume at least 770 micrograms (or 2565 IU, as it is labeled
on nutritional labels) of Vitamin A per day, and that number almost doubles when
nursing to 1300 micrograms (4,330 IU). Be aware, however, that overdosing on
Vitamin A can cause birth defects and liver toxicity. Your maximum intake should be
3000 mcg (10,000 IU) per day.
Vitamin A can be found in liver, carrots, sweet potatoes, kale spinach collard greens,
cantaloupe, eggs, mangos and peas.
2. Vitamin B6: Also known as Pyridoxine, Vitamin B6 helps your baby’s brain and
nervous system develop. It also helps Mom and baby develop new red blood cells.
Oddly enough, B6 has been known to help alleviate morning sickness in some
pregnant women.
Pregnant women should consume at least 1.9 mg per day of Vitamin B6. That amount
rises slightly when nursing to 2.0 mg per day.
Vitamin B6 can be found in fortified cereals, as well as bananas, baked potatoes,
watermelon, chick peas and chicken breast.
3. Vitamin B12: Vitamin B12 works hand in hand with folic acid to help both Mom and
baby produce healthy red blood cells, and it helps develop the fetal brain and nervous
system. The body stores years’ worth of B12 away, so unless you are a vegan or
suffer from pernicious anemia the likelihood of a B12 deficiency is very slim.
Pregnant women should consume at least 2.6 mcg (104 IU) of B12per day, nursing
mothers 2.8 mcg (112 IU).
Vitamin B12 can be found in red meat, poultry, fish, shellfish, eggs and dairy foods.
If you are a vegan you will be able to find B12 fortified tofu and soymilk. Other foods
are fortified at the manufacturer’s discretion.
4. Vitamin C: Vitamin C helps the body to absorb iron and build a healthy immune
system in both mother and baby. It also holds the cells together, helping the body to
build tissue. Since the Daily Recommended Allowance of Vitamin C is so easy to
consume by eating the right foods supplementation is rarely needed.
Pregnant women should consume at least 80-85 mg of Vitamin C per day, nursing
mothers no less than 120 mg per day.
Vitamin C can be found in citrus fruits, raspberries, bell peppers, green beans,
strawberries, papaya, potatoes, broccoli and tomatoes, as well as in many cough drops
and other supplements.
5. Calcium: Calcium builds your baby’s bones and helps its brain and heart to function.
Calcium intake increases dramatically during pregnancy. Women with calcium
deficiency at any point in their lives are more likely to suffer from conditions such as
osteoporosis which directly affect the bones.
Pregnant women should consume at least 1200 mg of calcium a day, nursing mothers
1000 mg per day.
Calcium can be found in dairy products, such as milk, cheese, yogurt and, to a lesser
extent, ice cream, as well as fortified juices, butters and cereals, spinach, broccoli,
okra, sweet potatoes, lentils, tofu, Chinese cabbage, kale and broccoli. It is also
widely available in supplement form.
6. Vitamin D: Vitamin D helps the body absorb calcium, leading to healthy bones for
both mother and baby.
Women who are pregnant or nursing should consume at least 2000 IU of Vitamin D
per day. Since babies need more Vitamin D than adults babies that are only
breastfeeding may need a Vitamin D supplement, so if your doctor recommends this
don’t worry. You haven’t done anything wrong! Formula is fortified with Vitamin D,
so if you are bottle feeding or supplementing with formula your baby is probably
getting sufficient amounts of this vital nutrient.
Vitamin D is rarely found in sufficient amounts in ordinary foods. It can, however, be
found in milk (most milk is fortified) as well as fortified cereals, eggs and fatty fish
like salmon, catfish and mackerel. Vitamin D is also found in sunshine, so women
and children found to have a mild Vitamin D deficiency may be told to spend more
time in the sun.
7. Vitamin E: Vitamin E helps baby’s body to form and use its muscles and red blood
cells. Lack of Vitamin E during pregnancy has been associated with pre-eclampsia (a
condition causing excessively high blood pressure and fluid retention) and low birth
weight. On the other hand, Vitamin E overdose has been tentatively associated with
stillbirth in mothers who “self medicated” with supplements.
Pregnant women should consume at least 20 mg of Vitamin E per day but not more
than 540 mg.
Vitamin E can be found in naturally in vegetable oil, wheat germ, nuts, spinach and
fortified cereals as well as in supplemental form. Natural Vitamin E is better for your
baby than synthetic, so be sure to eat lots of Vitamin E rich foods before you reach
for your bottle of supplements.
8. Folic Acid: Also known as Folate or Vitamin B9, Folic Acid is a vital part of your
baby’s development. The body uses Folic Acid for the replication of DNA, cell
growth and tissue formation. A Folic Acid deficiency during pregnancy can lead to
neural tube defects such as spina bifida (a condition in which the spinal cord does not
form completely), anencephaly (underdevelopment of the brain) and encephalocele (a
condition in which brain tissue protrudes out to the skin from an abnormal opening in
the skull). All of these conditions occur during the first 28 days of fetal development,
usually before Mom even knows she’s pregnant, which is why it’s important for
women who may become or are trying to become pregnant to consistently get enough
Folic Acid in their diet.
Pregnant woman should consume at least 0.6-0.8 mg of Folic Acid per day.
Folic Acid can be found in oranges, orange juice, strawberries, leafy vegetables,
spinach, beets, broccoli, cauliflower, peas, pasta, beans, nuts and sunflower seeds, as
well as in supplements and fortified cereals.
9. Iron: Iron helps your body to form the extra blood that it’s going to need to keep you
and baby healthy, as well as helping to form the placenta and develop the baby’s
cells. Women are rarely able to consume enough iron during their pregnancy through
eating alone, so iron supplements along with prenatal vitamins are often prescribed.
Women who are pregnant should have at least 27 mg of iron per day, although the
Center for Disease Control suggests that all women take a supplement containing at
least 30 mg. The extra iron rarely causes side effects; however, overdosing on iron
supplements can be very harmful for both you and your baby by causing iron build-up
in the cells.
Iron can be found in red meat and poultry, which are your best choice, as well as
legumes, vegetables, some grains and fortified cereals.
10. Niacin: Also known as Vitamin B3, Niacin is responsible for providing energy for
your baby to develop as well as building the placenta. It also helps keep Mom’s
digestive system operating normally.
Pregnant women should have an intake of at least 18 mg of Niacin per day.
Niacin can be found in foods that are high in protein, such as eggs, meats, fish and
peanuts, as well as whole grains, bread products, fortified cereals and milk.
11. Protein: Protein is the building block of the body’s cells, and as such it is very
important to the growth and development of every part of your baby’s body during
pregnancy. This is especially important in the second and third trimester, when both
Mom and baby are growing the fastest.
Pregnant and nursing women should consume at least 70g of protein per day, which is
about 25g more than the average women needs before pregnancy.
Protein can be found naturally in beans, poultry, red meats, fish, shellfish, eggs, milk,
cheese, tofu and yogurt. It is also available in supplements, fortified cereals and
protein bars.
12. Riboflavin: Also known as Vitamin B2, Riboflavin helps the body produce the energy
it needs to develop your baby’s bones, muscles and nervous system. Women with
Riboflavin deficiency may be at risk for preeclamsia, and when baby is delivered it
will be prone to anemia, digestive problems, poor growth and a suppressed immune
system, making it more vulnerable to infection.
Pregnant women should consume at least 1.4 mg of Riboflavin per day, nursing
mothers 1.6 mg.
Riboflavin can be found in whole grains, dairy products, red meat, pork and poultry,
fish, fortified cereals and eggs.
13. Thiamin: Also known as Vitamin B1, thiamin helps develop your baby’s organs and
central nervous system.
Pregnant women and nursing mothers should consume at least 1.4 mg of Thiamin a
day. Nursing mothers who are Thiamin deficient are at risk for having babies with
beriberi, a disease which may affect the baby’s cardiovascular system (lungs and
heart) or the nervous system.
Thiamin can be found in whole grain foods, pork, fortified cereals, wheat germ and
eggs.
14. Zinc: Zinc is vital for the growth of your fetus because it aids in cell division, the
primary process in the growth of baby’s tiny tissues and organs. It also helps Mom
and baby to produce insulin and other enzymes.
Pregnant women should have an intake of at least 11-12 mg of Zinc per day.
Zinc can be found naturally in red meats, poultry, beans, nuts, grains, oysters and
dairy products, as well as fortified cereals and supplements.
Bear in mind that the Recommended Daily Allowances are just that-recommended. None
of those number has been formulated on a case-by-case basis, so if your doctor recommends
something else for you listen to what they have to say. After all, they managed to run up that
student loan somehow!
Calories
Now that you’re familiar with the various vitamins and minerals that you are going to
need to have during pregnancy let’s touch on another topic that is near and dear to the female
heart-calories. In light of society’s avid love affair with scrawny women, women who are less
than thin have developed a major complex when it comes to calories. They count them, they burn
them, they measure them, and they factor them. They avoid them whenever possible and are
enthusiastic consumers of anything that has the words “low” and “calorie” printed on them. In
short, women have made battling against calories their lifelong mission, dedicating themselves to
it with a fervency that would equal any religious zealot in the world.
Caloric Intake During Pregnancy
The first thing you must understand is that pregnancy is not the time to be counting
calories. If you are on a diet that involves severely restricting your caloric intake get off it. Right
now. For the next nine months you have permission to not suffer for beauty. Not only is
restricting calories not going to result in weight loss (you’re going to gain some as the baby
grows whether you like it or not) it could potentially harm your baby.
Not getting enough calories during pregnancy can lead to the baby not having what it
needs to develop properly. Low birth weight is a common complication, as is poor fetal
development. The baby may have any number of deficiency-associated birth defects. In short, it
is vitally important that when you are pregnant you get enough to eat. You can burn it all off
after the baby is born, although to be honest if you have time to worry about your weight you
will be handling new motherhood much better than most!
The first thing you want to do is calculate your pre-pregnancy Recommended Daily
Caloric Intake. If you are a health buff or have been living on a terminal diet you may already
know this number. If you do not you can visit one of the following sites to figure it out, or
consult with your physician.
· h ttp://www.globalrph.com/dieting_calc.htm
· h ttp://www.yeraze.com/scripts/calories.php
· h ttp://pregnancychildbirth.suite101.com/article.cfm/eating_for_two (this site will
also provide practical advice about estimating caloric intake for the rest of your
pregnancy, although it doesn’t take into account weight gain or loss.)
For the first three months of your pregnancy you actually do not need to consume any
extra calories. Your pre-pregnancy calorie consumption will be perfectly adequate for your
baby’s growth and development as long as you are not dieting. If you are dieting, stop! This is
the number of calories (roughly) that you want to eat in a day.
As you go into your second and third trimester you should increase your daily caloric
intake by 300 calories. This will help to compensate for the increasing rate of your baby’s
growth. If your pre-pregnancy caloric intake was 1800 calories you should consume 2100
calories a day. If it was 1400 calories you should consume 1700 calories, and so on and so forth.
Again, this is not the time to try and lose weight. Do not omit these extra calories in favor of
allowing your body to burn them instead. This is not healthy for you or your baby, and if you are
breastfeeding you will quickly work these calories back off.
The number of calories you need during pregnancy is going to vary if you were not a healthy
weight when you became pregnant. Women who were obese may be told to consume fewer
calories to prevent excessive weight gain, which would place extra strain on the heart and lungs
and increase the likelihood of blood pressure related problems during pregnancy. In this case this
is a fine time to diet, as long as you are following your doctor’s advice. The healthier you are, the
healthier your baby is going to be.
On the flip side of that coin, if you were underweight at the beginning of your pregnancy or
have not gained what the doctor considers to be an adequate amount of weight since becoming
pregnant you may be told to increase your caloric intake by more than 300. The baby needs to
be able to take enough calories away from your body to grow, and if you don’t have any to spare
either because you aren’t eating enough or your body is burning everything that you eat they are
going to suffer.
Caloric Intake While Nursing
Nursing mothers generally need 500 calories more a day than their pre-pregnancy
Recommended Daily Allowance. This takes into consideration the fact that the average
breastfeeding infant consumes 650 calories a day, which is why breastfeeding mothers generally
lose weight much more quickly than their bottle feeding counterparts. The weight you gained
while pregnant will make up the difference. That’s an instant weight loss of 150 calories per day
just by doing what comes naturally! (For reference sake, that’s roughly the equivalent of fifteen
minutes of running or stair climbing.)
Those nursing twins or who had little weight gain during pregnancy may to eat more
calories in a day because their bodies will not have enough extra weight to compensate. Again,
your baby is getting the calories it needs from your body. If you do not have enough calories to
spare to create an adequate amount of breast milk your baby will go hungry, forcing you to either
up your caloric intake or begin to supplement.
Healthy Calories Vs. Unhealthy Calories
It is important to note at this time that no two calories are created equal. There are 300
calories in a protein bar and a banana smoothie, and there are 300 calories in the average piece of
cheesecake. Guess which one is going to be better for your baby?
The difficult part of counting calories when you’re pregnant is that you need to maintain
a careful balance on several levels. First and foremost, you want to make sure that you’re eating
enough to give your baby what it needs. Secondly, you want to make sure that the calories you
are eating are “good” calories, calories coming from foods that are going to provide your baby
with nutritional benefit as well.
On the flip side, you do not want to consume too many calories. If you do you will gain
too much weight, potentially putting you at risk for early labor, pre-eclamsia, diabetes and heart
problems. You also do not want to restrict your food intake too much. Pregnancy can lead to
some pretty intense cravings, and ignoring these cravings can lead women to do some crazy
things.
Unless you have one of the weight problems mentioned above you are probably better off
considering your calorie intake guidelines to be just that-guidelines. It’s not going to hurt you to
go over every once in a while and indulge in a piece of cheesecake or a chocolate chip cookie.
Just don’t do it too often or too excessively. (Binging and eating a half a gallon of chocolate ice
cream once isn’t going to hurt you, although it might make you sick, but doing it every day could
be a problem.)
Try not to count your “junky” calories as part of your daily necessary intake. This will
help you to continue eating the required number of “good” calories in a day, making sure that
your baby is getting the nutrition that it needs. (That half gallon of ice cream is going to account
for about half of your daily caloric intake, which means that half of the calories that your baby
needs to grow today just went down the drain.) It is also going to help keep you from doing it too
often, since consistently eating five to six hundred calories over your recommended daily intake
is going to lead to excessive weight gain. The first time you step on the doctor’s scale and see
you’ve gained ten pounds in a month the urge to binge flies out the window!
Junk food aside, not all “good” calories are created equal either. Here are some basic
guidelines for choosing calories that are going to meet your caloric needs, your nutritional needs
and your basic food desires. You have doubtlessly at some point in your life gone on a diet that
has required you to limit yourself to certain types of foods. The Adkins diet, for example,
severely limits your carbohydrates, while the Sonoma Diet cuts your dairy in half. What
happened when you gave this diet a try? Unless you are extremely creative (or have an incredible
amount of self control) you probably stuck to this diet for a short while, then tossed it to the
wayside.
The trick to eating healthy when you are pregnant is the same as eating healthy when
you’re not. You have to recognize what foods are best for your body and attempt to focus on
them rather than their more tempting and less healthy counterparts. When you are choosing the
foods you will eat when you are pregnant, consider the following:
· Is it whole? Whole foods are those that are as close to their natural form as possible
rather than being processed. Fresh fruits and vegetables rather than canned, whole
grain breads rather than refined white and real cheese fall into this category. Whole
foods are especially good for pregnant women because the fiber and water contained
in them makes them easier to digest. This not only helps keep you from being even
more tired than you already are because your body is struggling to digest your food,
it also helps you to decrease your chances of suffering from constipation.
· Is it a fruit or a vegetable? Fruits and veggies, particularly when fresh and/or leafy
and green, are a valuable component of any pregnancy diet because most necessary
vitamins can be found in them. Look below for a quick recap of necessary vitamins
and the foods that provide them.
· Is it a good carbohydrate or a bad carbohydrate? You cannot eliminate carbohydrates
from your diet entirely when you are pregnant. They provide both you and your baby
with the energy that you both need to grow and be healthy. What you can do is make
sure that the carbohydrates you eat are good for you. There are two primary classes
of carbohydrate, simple and complex. Simple carbohydrates are made of small sugar
molecules that your body quickly absorbs. Examples of this are cakes, white breads,
cookies, candies and pastas. These are the carbohydrates that you want to avoid
because they will give you a quick sugar rush then leave you feeling tired and
cranky-like the little toes digging into your ribs all night long weren’t enough to do
that!
The second type of carbohydrate is a complex carbohydrate. Complex carbohydrates
include fiber and starches, such as whole grains and potatoes. These carbohydrates
take a little longer to digest, leaving you feeling fuller, longer and giving you energy
that lasts more than an hour or two. Of course, even among the good carbohydrates
there are some that are going to be better for you than others. If you are having
trouble eating due to morning sickness and suffering from exhaustion due to
hormonal swings this is important to know!
In order to get the most punch from the foods you eat you should focus on eating
those that provide you with more energy, longer. That way when you can’t eat as
much as you did your baby isn’t going to suffer. Sweet potatoes and real whole grain
and whole wheat products are your best choices, as well as fruits such as grapes and
bananas. Bear in mind that just because a package says “whole wheat”, “whole
grain” or “multigrain” that doesn’t necessarily mean that it is.
Yes, this is false advertising (sort of) but it’s important to know. A food is only
required to have a very small amount of whole grain in order to claim the title
legitimately. It’s not that there aren’t whole grains in it, it’s that it’s not all whole
grain. There are usually plenty of processed and refined ingredients included as well.
· Are you eating the right kinds of protein? Like carbohydrates there are good proteins
and there are so-so proteins. When you’re looking for proteins that will give you the
most bang for your buck you should focus on lean meats, eggs, beef and beans. The
less processed it is, the better it is for you. Does that mean you can’t eat those
chicken nuggets? Certainly not. After all, when the sweet and sour sauce calls…It
does mean that you shouldn’t allow processed meats to become the dominant protein
source in your diet.
· Is it organic? Organic foods are usually more expensive but are more healthy than
their counterparts. Organic foods, as defined by the Healthy Children Project, are
those that are grown without “pesticides or synthetic (or sewage-based) fertilizers for
plant materials and hormones and antibiotics for animals, does not allow genetic
engineering or the use of radiation, and emphasizes the utilization of renewable
resources as well as the conservation of land and water.”
If your budget won’t stretch to include an all-organic diet (unfortunately, some of
those products came with a pretty hefty shipping fee) attempt to focus on the foods
listed by the government as the best to be bought organically. These foods are those
most likely to be contaminated or high in pesticides and include apples, bell peppers,
celery, cherries, grapes, nectarines, peaches, pears, potatoes, raspberries, spinach and
strawberries.
If you are concerned about the foods you are eating (and not buying organically)
peas, pineapples, papayas, onions, mangos, kiwi, sweet corn, cauliflower, broccoli,
bananas, avocados and asparagus have been judged the least likely to be
contaminated or contain high amounts of pesticides.
· What kind of fat is it? Your body needs certain types of fat, but trans fats (partially
hydrogenated vegetable oil on the ingredients list) is difficult for your body to deal
with and provides you with no nutritional value. Saturated fats are less healthy than
unsaturated, are found in animal products such as butter and are best enjoyed in
limited quantities.
Recap-Necessary Vitamins and Their Sources
Vitamin Food Source
Vitamin A Liver, carrots, sweet potatoes, kale, spinach,
collard greens, cantaloupe, eggs, mangos and
peas
Vitamin B6 Fortified cereals, bananas, baked potatoes,
watermelon, chick peas and chicken breast
Vitamin B12 Red meat, poultry, fish, shellfish, eggs and
dairy foods
Vitamin C Citrus fruits, raspberries, bell peppers, green
beans, strawberries, papaya, potatoes, broccoli
and tomatoes
Calcium Dairy products, fortified juices, fortified butters
and fortified cereals, spinach, broccoli, okra,
sweet potatoes, lentils, tofu, Chinese cabbage,
kale and broccoli.
Vitamin D Milk, fortified cereals, eggs and fatty fish
(salmon, catfish and mackerel)
Vitamin E Vegetable oil, wheat germ, nuts, spinach and
fortified cereal
Folic Acid Oranges, orange juice, strawberries, leafy
vegetables, spinach, beets, broccoli,
cauliflower, peas, pasta, beans, nuts and
sunflower seeds
Iron Red meat and poultry, legumes, vegetables,
some grains and fortified cereals
Niacin (Vitamin B3) Eggs, meats, fish, peanuts, whole grains, bread
products, fortified cereals and milk
Protein Beans, poultry, red meat, fish, shellfish, eggs,
milk, cheese, tofu, yogurt, fortified cereal and
protein bars
Riboflavin (Vitamin B2) Whole grains, dairy products, red meat, pork,
poultry, fish, fortified cereals and eggs
Thiamin (Vitamin B1) Whole grains, pork, fortified cereals, wheat
germ and eggs
Zinc Red meats, poultry, beans, nuts, grains, oysters,
dairy products and fortified cereals
How Much is Too Much?
Now that you know what you should be eating, how do you go about figuring out how
much you should be eating? The gold standard would be to walk around reading little nutrition
labels and keeping a small, ongoing food journal in your pocket so that you can keep track of
how much of each nutrient you’ve taken in on a daily basis-but let’s wake up and live in reality.
No one has that much time on their hands. Because you can’t always keep track of exactly where
you’re at with your daily requirements you’re going to have to learn to make some sweeping
generalizations.
The easiest way to do precisely that is to estimate how much of each food group you are
going to need on a daily basis, then pick foods from each group that you’re particularly fond of
and that provide you with a wide variety of nutrients. An example of a food group chart is shown
below:
Carbohydrates
· Fruits-3 servings daily
· Vegetables-4 servings daily
· Whole grain foods-9 servings daily
Meat
· Poultry, fish, meat or legumes-3 servings daily
· Milk, yogurt or cheese-3 to 4 servings daily
Does that sound like more than you could eat in a week, much less a day? Don’t worry. A
serving in this context isn’t the half a plate that your mother used to give you. A ham sandwich
made with whole grain bread will give you two servings of whole grains and one serving of
meat. Add an apple to that and you’ve just had one of your fruit servings as well. A typical
serving of meat is considered to be four to six ounces, about the size of a chicken breast that you
would find in a formal dining establishment. An eight ounce glass of milk will give you a serving
of dairy.
A day’s menu to meet all of your nutritional requirements might look something like this:
Breakfast
2 cups of fortified cereal with milk (protein, dairy and whole grains)
Banana
Glass of orange juice
Snack
Whole wheat English muffin
Apple
Glass of milk
Lunch
Ham sandwich made with whole grain bread
6 oz baby carrots
Glass of milk
Snack
Glass of tomato juice
Whole grain bagel with organic cream cheese
Broccoli florets dipped in Ranch dressing
Supper
Trout fillet with lemon
Baked potato
6 oz peas
Whole grain roll
Glass of milk
Snack
Hot chocolate
2 slices of whole wheat toast with calcium fortified butter
Mommy’s No-No List
Just as there are certain foods that you should be sure to stock up on, so too are there
foods that you should avoid as though they would give you the plague if you were to breathe in
their general area if you were pregnant. Of course, this list changes from year to year so take
most of these recommendations with a grain of salt!
If you’re unsure whether a food is safe for you to eat, or if you have heard mixed reports or
have a concern based on your individual circumstances, consult your OB/GYN. Since they are
regularly required to take continuing education classes and receive frequent updates from the
research fields they would be the most qualified to provide you with information pertaining
specifically to your pregnancy.
Alcohol is first on the list of No-No’s for Mommies to Be, and with good reason. The
amount of alcohol that is safe to consume in a day while pregnant has yet to be determined, and
the incidence of known cases of birth defects due to alcohol consumption is on the rise.
According to the March of Dimes “alcohol is the most common known cause of damage to
developing babies in the United States and is the leading cause of preventable mental
retardation.”
On a more personal note, alcohol can also aggravate many of the common side effects of
pregnancy such as nausea and heartburn. It also takes up space in your stomach that could be
filled with more healthy things, like water or juice. If you can forsake alcohol completely during
your pregnancy, that would be the best choice for you and your baby. Does that mean that a sip
of your glass when you toast your cousin’s wedding is going to leave your baby scarred for life?
No, probably not. Use your good sense. While a sip or two of wine every now and then probably
won’t hurt your growing angel, a shot or two of tequila might not be as forgiving. Pregnancy is
only nine months long. Your baby lasts a lifetime.
The other scare when it comes to pregnancy eating has come from an unexpected sourcefish.
Long lauded as the best source of protein for pregnant women, it was recently discovered
that fish was also high in mercury, a condition caused by the dumping of waste into the water.
Mercury can cause irreparable damage to a fetus’s developing nervous system. The debate as to
whether specific fish can be considered safe or not is still ongoing, but pregnant women are
currently being encouraged to avoid shark, swordfish, king mackerel, tilefish, bluefish, tuna
steak, striped bass, freshwater fish and canned tuna.
While highly processed foods may not cause permanent damage to your unborn baby
they usually contain enough preservatives to qualify them as highly suspicious. Remember,
anything that claims to be sugar free yet tastes sweet has some form of sugar substitute in it. The
question is, what are they substituting? Labels such as “fat free” and “caffeine free” should also
be approached with caution. Take the high road here and attempt to buy whole, natural foods as
often as possible. Look at the list of ingredients on the label. The longer it is, the less likely it is
to be healthy for your baby.
If you have a hard time getting started in the morning without your cup of Joe, now’s going
to be the time to learn. Caffeine impedes iron absorption, contributing to anemia in pregnant
women who don’t have enough to spare, robs the body of precious calcium and aggravates
heartburn all in one fell swoop. It also transfers to your baby through your breastmilk, which
means that if you like to drink coffee and you’re planning on breastfeeding you can expect a lot
of late nights.
Although you could switch to decaf, for the dedicated coffee drinker this is about the
equivalent of taking a perfectly good cup of coffee and filling it 2/3 full of water. As a placebo
it’s a poor substitute. Instead, try a cup of hot chocolate or apple cider in the morning. (Heating
apple juice and adding a little cinnamon works too.) The hot beverage will hit a few of the “wake
up” buttons that coffee triggers, and while you’ll probably feel the lack of caffeine for the first
week or two you should find that getting through the day gets easier-and hey, pregnant women
are supposed to nap regularly anyway!
Unpasteurized cheeses, soft or fresh cheeses such as Brie, deli meats, hot dogs,
undercooked eggs, fish, rare to medium well meats and unpasteurized juices are also being added
at various intervals to the “no-no” list that OB/GYNs are handing out to their patients in an
attempt to stop the spread of pathogens such as E.coli, Salmonella and Listeria, all of which are
often present in undercooked or uncooked meats.
Listeria, the leading cause of meningitis in children less than one year old, has the ability
to cross the placenta and infect the baby. It can also cause miscarriage. Salmonella has been
associated with stillbirth. Even if fetal death doesn’t occur, dehydration from the diarrhea and
vomiting that accompany Salmonella infection is a serious risk. A severe infection with E. coli
can cause dehydration as well as potentially triggering premature labor or miscarriage.
By the same token, it is vitally important that you wash your fruits and vegetables
thoroughly before you eat them, particularly if you grow your own. You were probably told by
your physician that while you were pregnant you shouldn’t handle kitty litter due to a potential
infection with Toxoplasma, a parasite that lives in cat feces. Toxoplasma is also present in the
soil, particularly in areas where cats often roam and do their business outside. There is always a
risk of Toxoplasma appearing in commercially processed foods, although it is less common than
in home grown.
It is better to be safe than sorry when dealing with Toxoplasma. The parasite can cross
the placenta, infecting the baby and causing stillbirth or long term damage. There is a 15%
chance of the parasite infecting the baby if exposure occurs in the first trimester, 30% in the
second and 60% in the third.
Pathogenic infection of the developing fetus can be potentially devastating, particularly when
it is caused by an invader that an adult immune system would be able to battle off with ease. It is
far better to take the time to carefully ensure that your food is pathogen free during pregnancy
than to have to live with the consequences.
What if You Can’t Eat a Regular Diet?
As children are exposed to more foods at an earlier age the incidence of food allergy and
intolerance is rising. Add to this the problems of diabetes, vegan and vegetarianism, metabolic
disorders and general dislikes and you can come up with an equation that equals trouble for a
pregnant woman. The question is, what do you do when you can’t eat a regular pregnancy diet?
The answer is, get creative! If you suffer from diabetes or a digestive disorder, or you
have a major metabolic disorder such as PKU or tyrosinemia (and these are only a few from a
very long list that are usually diagnosed during early childhood) you probably have a pretty good
idea of how to manage your diet to provide the most nutrients at a time without overdoing it. To
be safe, however, it would be wise to speak with your doctor about what foods you can and
cannot have (and in what amounts you are allowed to have them) in the coming months.
If you do not have a condition that requires specific, direct medical supervision and
simply need to make some changes to the diet shown earlier you’re going to find that it’s going
to be much simpler than you would think (although you’re probably going to be pretty sick of
your core foods by the time you deliver!) With some dietary substitutions, however, you should
still be able to maintain a healthy diet throughout the course of your pregnancy.
Food Allergies and Intolerance
Food allergies, particularly those to milk, soy, nuts and wheat, can be a major issue when
it comes to maintaining a proper diet. It’s very hard to get enough calcium when you can’t drink
a single glass of milk or eat a milk product! The key here is to talk to your doctor about
recommending some healthy substitutions. There are some, such as a milk allergy or a peanut
allergy, that are easy to work around with calcium fortified juices and chewable supplements and
other sources of protein.
If you have either one of these allergies you should be very careful to keep your food
essentially isolated, something which you are undoubtedly already aware of. Many smoothies
and “Meals in a Box” contain these ingredients in some quantity or another. The severity of your
allergy should be considered when you’re choosing your foods, but if you suffer from
anaphylaxis you are going to want to stay clear of them altogether. Choose plain meats and fresh
fruits and vegetables over stews and casseroles, and try to avoid gravies if you can’t see the list
of ingredients.
Occasionally allergic reactions will be more intense in pregnancy, so if you had a mild
reaction to certain foods before you were pregnant you should handle them with care now.
Remember, pregnancy is only nine months long. Your body should go back to normal when it’s
all said and done and you can go back to your favorite foods and drinks then. Until then, it never
hurts to err on the side of paranoia.
If you have an allergy to wheat or soy you may have a bit more trouble, since many of the
foods you are going to need to eat to get your servings of carbohydrates are going to contain
these ingredients. (Unless you actually have a soy allergy you are probably unaware of how often
it’s mixed in with many foods.) You are going to have to carefully read the labels on the foods
you eat, checking for any of the following words:
· Soy
· Soy flour
· Soy cheese
· Soy protein
· Textured soy protein
· Textured vegetable protein
· Tofu
· Vegetable protein
· Yuba
· Edamame
· Tempeh
· Mono-diglyceride
· Natto
· Okara
· Soya, soja, soybean, soyabeans
· Wheat
· Bulgur
· Couscous
· Enriched/white/whole wheat flour
· Farina
· Gluten
· Graham flour
· Kamut
· Semolina
· Triticale
· Wheat bran/germ
You’ll find these included in many bread products, so it would be prudent to get your
carbohydrates from other sources. The list of nutrient sources provides you with some acceptable
alternatives, so don’t feel that you have to eat a particular food just because it’s on your list. If
you have preexisting health conditions they must be considered first. Many women with a mild
milk allergy or wheat allergy will deliberately deal with the side effects in the interest of
providing their babies with vital nutrients. Pregnancy is uncomfortable enough without adding to
it by making yourself sick!
If you are unsure about which foods can be substituted in your diet without causing you
to lose nutritional value make an appointment to speak with the nutritionist at your physician’s
office or local health department. They are specially trained to help people with dietary
limitations make the right choices for themselves and their baby, and they’ll be happy to give
you their expert opinion and help you map out a diet that will work for you.
Food intolerance is another common and yet frequently undiagnosed problem, since most
people don’t know the difference between an allergy and an intolerance. If they have the allergy
test and it comes back negative they assume they’re imagining things. That couldn’t be farther
from the truth.
Food allergies are determined by your immune system. Your body essentially identifies
the incoming food as a foreign invader and releases something called histamine from the cells.
These histamines cause the allergic reaction. Intolerance, on the other hand, has nothing to do
with the immune system. When there is something that the body is unable to digest properly it
rejects it, usually causing digestive discomfort, diarrhea, gas, bloating and vomiting. Although
lactose is the most well-known digestive intolerance it is by no means the only one. Vegetables,
soy, red meat and certain fruits have been known to cause it as well.
You should avoid foods you have intolerance for as fervently as you would an allergy,
since the diarrhea and potential for dehydration with repeated exposure can present you with
some serious side effects for both you and your baby. The best thing you can do is find an
acceptable substitute that is going to provide you with the necessary nutrients without leaving
you feeling as though you need to spend the rest of the day in the bathroom.
Veganism/Vegetarianism
The newfound popularity of veganism and vegetarianism has made it easier than ever to
eat a healthy diet while you’re pregnant without compromising your scruples. Most foods have a
vegan or vegetarian substitute. Since you can still have fruits calcium fortified juices (many of
which have as much calcium as regular milk), rice milk and soy milk make great staples to your
diet instead of milk, and beans and nuts are excellent sources of protein and iron.
When you first go in for a pre-natal checkup you should tell your doctor you’re a vegan.
They will probably want to go over your current diet with you to make sure that you are taking in
enough nutrients and prescribe a supplement if they feel it’s necessary. In most instances you
will only need to add some foods to your diet to compensate for the added nutritional
requirements of pregnancy. There are a few vital nutrients that aren’t usually found in the vegan
diet, however, that you are going to want to pay special attention to know that you‘re pregnant.
You may run into some trouble with your Vitamin B12 if you are a vegan and do not eat
or drink dairy products, so it is vitally important that your doctor be made aware of your diet at
your first pre-natal checkup. They may prescribe a supplement for you or recommend that you
attempt to purchase tofu, soy milk, yeasts and other foods that are specially made for vegans and
are fortified with B12. Most fortified cereals also contain some B12, so the next time you’re at
the store pick up your favorite brand of Lucky Charms and check the B12 content. You’ll
probably be pleasantly surprised!
Vitamin D is another vitamin that usually isn’t found in the vegan diet but can be
compensated for by getting 20 to 30 minutes of direct sunlight a day. If your schedule keeps you
inside during the day your doctor may prescribe a supplement; however, these should only be
taken if prescribed. Too many vitamins can be just as harmful as too few.
There are a number of great books out right now on the topic of the vegan diet and
pregnancy, and most of these contain some awesome recipes. Take the time to browse through
the diet and/or pregnancy section of your local library and bookstore the next time you have an
hour or two to spare and pick one up to help you put together a diet that’s going to work for both
you and your baby.
Dislikes
If you are a picky eater you may run into trouble when you’re pregnant as well, since
you’re probably going to get very tired, very quickly of eating the same foods or groups of foods
over and over and over again for the next nine months. Most of the time you will be able to find
an acceptable substitute for the foods you don’t like that will provide you with the nutrition you
need for a healthy pregnancy.
The best thing you could do is go through the list of naturally found dietary sources and
pick out two or three foods from each group that you can stand to eat. If you don’t find anything
on the list in this book that works for you go online and do a little snooping around. You’re
bound to find three foods somewhere out there that you can stand!
Once you have your list work on ways to spice things up! If you don’t like red meat and
pork you’ll probably get tired of chicken after a while. Try frying it up with some lo-mein,
putting it in a whole wheat pita with some raw spinach or chopping it up into a Caesar salad.
Serve it with salsa, cheese or sour cream. Mix it in with your favorite pasta. The possibilities are
endless.
This would be a great time to invest in a cookbook. You’ll probably be able to find one
online or in your local bookstore or library that centers around your favorite sources of protein.
Since these are usually the main dish in a meal they will have a number of options for ways to
cook them, ingredients to mix in with them and side dishes to serve along with them. If you find
a large enough cookbook you can probably find ten or twelve recipes you like, then rotate them
through your weekly meal plan.
If you don’t want to spend the money to buy a cookbook you can find recipes for almost
anything online-and it won’t cost you a thing. You can even print them out to put together your
own cookbook. You’ll probably still want to eat these dishes after you’re pregnant, and if you
find one you really like it’s going to drive you nuts if you don’t print it out and you have to go
back and try to find it again. The following sites will provide you with recipes for almost
everything, regardless of your preferences.
· w ww.allrecipes.net
· w ww.foodnetwork.com
· w ww.recipesource.com
· w ww.recipetrove.com
· w ww.cookingcache.com
This is also a great chance to try adding some foreign foods to your diet, since most
countries use the same core ingredients in very different ways. Latin, Chinese, Italian and French
foods are fairly easy to emulate no matter what country you happen to live in, since the foods
you are going to need are universal and available almost anywhere. This gives you a great
chance to expand your culinary skills and wow your friends, family and co-workers, and the next
time someone wants to go out to dinner to a restaurant that doesn’t have a hamburger in site
you’ll be able to order with confidence.
Be careful when you’re cooking foods from countries that tend to be heavy on the spices,
since many of these may upset your stomach and/or aggravate heartburn. It is usually wise to cut
the portions of those ingredients that are only used for seasonings by 1/3 to ½ while your
stomach is more sensitive. You can always add them back in later, and it’s a lot better than
sitting up in the middle of the night because you don’t feel well. You’ll do enough of that when
the baby actually gets here!
Post-Partum Diet-Dropping Those Pounds!
No book on nutrition and pregnancy would be complete without a quick blurb on what
you’re supposed to eat after you have the baby. That so often gets left out of the equation!
Your post-partum diet is primarily going to be determined by whether or not you are
nursing. We’ll start with the assumption that you’re bottle feeding, since that comes with fewer
instructions! If you are bottle feeding then you don’t have any unusual nutritional requirements
you have to meet. The diet you were on when you first got pregnant is perfectly sufficient,
although until the bleeding from the delivery stops you are going to want to consume a little
more protein, iron and fluids than you would otherwise.
Of course, if your diet before you got pregnant wasn’t all that healthy to begin with then
you may want to take advantage of the fact that you’ve basically spent the last nine months
readjusting your eating habits and give your diet a kick start. The first thing you want to do is
forget the words soda, candy, cookies and fast foods. These are all empty calories, and while the
occasional chocolate fix is going to wonders for your nerves when you aren’t getting any sleep
it’s not going to do anything to help you drop those pregnancy pounds.
Remember, it took you nine months to gain that pregnancy weight and it’s going to take
you nine months to a year to lose it-if you’re Wonder Woman. It takes most women until their
child is between eighteen months and two years to lose most of their pregnancy weight, and in
about 90% of the cases an extra five or ten pounds hangs around just to remind them that they
gave birth. (Like the sticky fingerprints on your windows weren’t enough!)
It’s important that you be prepared for this, because many women who fail to lose all of
their pregnancy weight in the first six to nine months through healthy diet and exercise turn to
crash dieting instead, urged forward by stars such as Uma Thurman and Reese Witherspoon that
appear to look gorgeous and thin within weeks of giving birth. All of those stars that got their
figures back within three or four months did it by hopping back into a strict diet and exercise
regime long before you’re going to be ready (or able) to do so unless you have a nanny and a
personal trainer, so don’t worry about it! Most people are going to be too busy looking at the
little bundle of joy in your arms or your stroller to pay attention to the extra weight you’re
carrying.
When you’re attempting to lose weight after giving birth and you don’t have to
compensate for the fact that you’re nursing you can cut your caloric intake back to your prepregnancy
RDA less 500 calories a day. Cutting 500 calories a day from your diet will allow you
to lose a pound a week, a little more if you up your exercise regime as well. When you’re
chopping those calories from your diet make sure that you’re doing it in the right places. You
still need to take in your daily RDA of vitamins and minerals to recover properly and get back
into shape. You’re not going to be able to do anything, including take care of your baby, if
you’re anemic or malnourished.
As mentioned earlier the first place you want to start cutting calories is in your fats and
sugars. If you spent pregnancy happily enjoying the fact that for the first time people actually
expected you to gain weight you may have developed an incurable sweet tooth by this point in
time. If you find yourself constantly gravitating toward sugary drinks and sweet or fatty foods
this is the time to nip it in the bud. Right now your body is going to be fairly accommodating
about losing the weight you gained while you were carrying a baby. Take advantage of that!
Following the basic guidelines laid out by the Sonoma Diet is a great way to go about
weaning yourself from unhealthy foods and getting your dietary habits back on track for a
lifetime of healthy eating. The Sonoma Diet essentially puts you through a 10 day “Boot Camp”
that takes away your sugars, fats and high calorie foods while still ensuring that you eat enough
of the nutrients you need to be both healthy and, believe it or not, full. Although you’ll be cutting
your portion sizes you’ll be eating foods that fill you up faster and keep you filled up longer, so
it’s one diet you actually won’t have to suffer on!
The first 10 days of the Sonoma Diet require you to abstain from eating or drinking
anything that doesn’t fall into one of the following categories:
1) Water
2) Unsweetened tea with lemon (hot or cold)
3) Black coffee
4) Fresh green vegetables, such as celery, spinach (which is exceptionally good raw) or
broccoli, which you can eat as much of as you want
5) Whole grain breads (3 servings/day)
6) Low fat protein sources (lean meats, legumes, eggs) (3 servings/day)
7) Dairy (in small portions) 1 serving/day
At the end of the ten days you’ll be able to see a noticeable difference in your weight and
you’ll find that the cravings you had for soda, potato chips and sweet stuff has begun to wane.
After that you’ll be permitted to slip different types of vegetables into your diet, such as carrots
and peas, as well as an increased number dairy servings and two to three servings a day of
healthy fruits. You can visit www.sonomadiet.com for more information and recipes (which are
available without having to join the program) or pay a visit to your local library. The book form
of the diet is probably available somewhere nearby.
The Sonoma Diet is simply a quick way to jump start your weight loss and get you
started on a healthy course of eating. It isn’t by any means the only way to go, so if you don’t
want to spend the money on the program don’t worry about it! Following the guidelines
mentioned above for after the first ten days, attempting to cut sugary sweets and drinks out of
your diet and not allowing yourself to overeat (eating even though you aren’t really hungry
because everyone else is or because you do not want to allow it to go to waste) will go a long
way toward helping you lose that pregnancy belly.
If you are nursing you are going to want to be a little more careful with what you eat.
Some foods can enter your breast milk and affect your baby, so you are going to want to choose
wisely. Listed below are some common foods that cause problems in breast fed babies, so it
would be wise to steer clear of them for a while longer.
· Caffeine. You wouldn’t let your baby drink coffee from a bottle, which is exactly
what it’s going to do when you drink a cup and then breastfeed. While the occasional
cup of Joe is unlikely to hurt anything, regularly giving your baby caffeine could
result in a budding young insomniac-the last thing you need when they’re not
sleeping through the night anyway.
· Spicy foods often bleed through into your breast milk and cause gassiness and
fussiness in your baby, particularly if you did not eat them regularly during
pregnancy.
· Alcohol. An occasional drink of alcohol is okay (after all, you managed to wait for
nine months) but more than one drink can bleed through into breast milk. If you have
had more than one drink, or plan to have more than one drink, wait two hours after
you finish your last before nursing again. Moderate to heavy drinking that would
result in alcohol remaining in your blood stream for several hours is strongly
discouraged when you’re nursing.
· Dairy products. This is going to be a trial and error determination, as you certainly
need to still get your RDA of calcium while you’re nursing. If your baby appears to
be fussy or gassy after nursing when you have been consuming high quantities of
dairy products, or if they display allergy or intolerance symptoms such as hives,
diarrhea, vomiting or eczema, try cutting back to see what happens.
Aside from alcohol and caffeine your diet isn’t going to be all that limited while you’re
nursing. If you notice that your baby is particularly unhappy after a feeding or more colicky than
normal at the end of the night take the time to go back through and think about what you ate that
day. Was it anything you ate that they may have reacted to before?
Finding out whether a breastfed baby has a food allergy or intolerance is much more
difficult than with a bottle-fed baby, and it is going to require a great deal of sleuthing on your
part. For example, say that you had the Kung Pao chicken for dinner. It’s now two in the
morning and your little angel is still screaming. You remember that this happened the last time
that someone brought Chinese home as well. Eliminating Chinese food from your diet may
alleviate the symptoms, or you may have to try something else. With a little trial and error you
should be able to get a fairly accurate determination of the problem long before it becomes a
major issue.
Exercise
Since no truly healthy diet would be complete without a regular exercise regime we’ll go
ahead and wrap it up with this. The concept of exercising when you’re nine months pregnant
might seem appalling right now, but regular exercise has actually been shown to make both
pregnancy and delivery go much more smoothly for both mother and baby.
The days in which women were expected to take to their beds for the duration of their
pregnancy are fortunately long over, and if you exercised regularly before you became pregnant
you will enjoy being able to continue to do so until you deliver. The only difference between
exercising when you’re pregnant and when you’re not is that you need to take much more care
not to overdo it. Women who consume too few calories while pregnant and exercise too much
have been shown to stunt the growth of their fetus, so do everything in moderation.
A good guideline to exercising when you’re pregnant is that if you are too out of breath
to speak while you are doing it you would probably be better off putting it aside until after. This
isn’t the time to start training for your first five mile marathon, but if you regularly exercise
twenty to thirty minutes a day you should be able to continue with your normal routine. Your
pre-pregnancy fitness level is going to be the determining factor in what you can and cannot do
while pregnant.
One factor you do need to consider is the impact of your exercise routine. While high
impact exercise during the first eight weeks (when you usually don’t even know you’re pregnant)
hasn’t been shown to cause problems, doing these exercises as you progress places you at a
higher risk of injuring yourself and, potentially, your baby. As soon as you realize you are
pregnant you should consider switching to a low impact, strength focused training regimen.
Pilates, yoga, swimming and walking are wonderful for expectant mothers, although you
should be wary of placing too much strain on the stomach muscles when doing Pilates. Dancing
and step aerobics are also wonderful for helping you stay fit if you can’t stomach the thought of
giving up your energetic exercise regime. Strength training will help you to build up the muscles
in your back, neck and legs, making carrying 20 pounds of baby around in your ninth month
much easier.
Try to avoid anything that requires balance as you roll into your second and third
trimester, since your center of gravity is going to shift and cause you to be more awkward than
you were previously. Contact sports that could potentially cause abdominal injury, such as
basketball or soccer, should also be cut out from the very beginning. Abdominal injury, even
when accidental, can cause miscarriage at any point in the pregnancy. Your reputation for
athletic prowess will remain until you can safely get back on the court.
Regardless of what type of exercise you choose to participate in while you are pregnant
you are going to want to clear it with your physician first. This is especially true if you have not
regularly exercised previously or you regularly participate in strenuous activities, such as high
impact aerobics, timed swimming or running. They may recommend that you steer clear of some
of the exercises you previously enjoyed until after you have given birth to help keep you and
baby safe and healthy.
Be careful that you do not exercise to the point of exhaustion and that you don’t allow
yourself to become dehydrated. Drink plenty of fluids when you exercise, and if the heat is
extreme stay inside instead of gearing up for that hike you had in mind. Also, try to avoid
exercising either on an empty stomach or right after a meal. The drop in blood sugar you are
going to get from not eating might cause you to become dizzy and collapse while you are
exercising, and working out on a full stomach when you have baby pushing on it from the other
side could make you nauseous.
When NOT to Exercise when Pregnant
If you have a medical condition such as diabetes or pre-eclamsia, you are at risk for preterm
labor, you have an incompetent cervix or you have experienced PERM (preterm rupture of
the membranes, which means that your water has already broken or you are leaking amniotic
fluid) talk to your doctor before starting any kind of exercise routine, even a mild one. They may
recommend that you spend time on bed rest to help keep your baby safely inside you and
growing for a little bit longer, and exercising in this instance may do more harm than good.
Post-Partum Exercise
The good news is that when you’ve given birth all bets are off. You can exercise to your
heart’s content! The bad news is that during the first six weeks to three months of your recovery
period (longer if you’ve had a caesarean) your body is still going to be healing itself. Overdoing
it at this stage will only drag this process out further.
Attempt to keep to the same low-impact exercise program you participated in during your
pregnancy until you’re feeling completely back to normal. If anything feels uncomfortable or
you find yourself getting tired stop and rest. “No pain no gain” doesn’t apply when you’ve just
had a baby! You have the rest of your life to work off those pregnancy pounds, so taking a
couple of months to just enjoy being a Mom and let yourself heal is perfectly acceptable.
Remember that if you are nursing you have to make sure you’re consuming enough
calories to provide for your baby while you’re working out. The last thing you want is for your
baby to start becoming malnourished, and breastfeeding burns an incredible amount of calories
all on its own. You’ve already got a built in, low-impact, highly effective weight loss system.
Enjoy it!
Conclusion
Staying healthy during pregnancy is not a difficult proposition if you know what you
need to do. Women have been giving birth for a millennia, and most of them didn’t have an
anxious OB hovering over them every two to four weeks to ensure everything was moving along
as it should. If you can follow the basic guidelines listed throughout this book and throw in a
heavy dose of common sense you will be well on your way to a happy, healthy baby in no time
at all.
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