|| my so-called life ||

raya, raya jugak la kan...

2011-08-26T10:50:00.003+08:00

boleh order

2011-08-04T16:38:00.000+08:00

my personal fave : kacang shantung crispy, opak kari, ubi pedas, pisang tanduk & rempeyek :)

wordless wednesday #11

2011-08-04T12:22:00.000+08:00

:[

2011-07-18T10:21:00.000+08:00

was trying to don the scarf hana tajima's style.
want to know what my little image consultant commented?

he said : mama, kenapa mama pakai tudung tak betul?
me : (ok change!!!)

2011-07-14T10:23:00.000+08:00

Pada zaman Nabi S.A.W. ketika dijatuhkan hukuman kepada seorang yang mabuk. Orang2 lain yang menontonnya menyumpah-nyumpah ke atas orang yang dihukum tersebut dengan kata2

"Laknat Allah atas engkau, penjahat"

Nabi S.A.W murka kepada orang yang mengutuk seraya bersabda

"Janganlah engkau laknati dia. Demi Allah, engkau tidak tahu, bahawa dia cinta kepada Allah dan Rasul-Nya"

Dan dalam riwayat lain mengatakan Nabi S.A.W. bersabda

"Jangan kutuki dia, tetapi mohonkanlah supaya dia diberi ampun oleh Allah dan diberi taubat"

-- Kesepaduan Iman & Amal Salim -- Prof Dr Hamka...

Renung-renungkan ya kawan2...

which shape are you?

2011-07-08T15:24:00.000+08:00

googled.

first u need to decide which shape u like most?
triangle? square? rectangle? squiggle? or circle?

i choose square, my hubby said he prefers triangle :)

Triangle: A leader, you are decisive and able to focus on the goal. You have confidence in yourself and in your opinions, and you don't hesitate to tell everyone else the way the world is. You can be dogmatic and shoot from the hip. You like recognition and are delighted to tell people about your accomplishments. You can be self-centered and egotistical. You put stock in status symbols. American business has been run by triangles, and this shape is most characteristic of men.

Square:
Organized and a hard worker, you like structure and rules and dislike situations in which you don't know what's expected of you. "Tell me the deadlines and I'll get the job done," you say -- and you deliver. You prefer working alone to teamwork. Logical, you think sequentially -- A, B, C, D. You collect loads of data and file it so information is easy to locate. But you have trouble saying, "I've got enough information," and making a decision.

Rectangle:
You are a seeker and an explorer, searching for ways in which you want to grow and change. You ask: who am I? what is the world about? You are the most receptive of the five shapes to new learning. You are the only shape that's not frozen, and you cause your co-workers confusion when you change from day to day. All people go through rectangular periods when they're in a state of change.

Circle: You are a people person, the shape with the most empathy, perception and consideration for the feelings of others. You listen and communicate well. You read people and can spot a phony right off. You like harmony and have your greatest difficulties in dealing with conflict and making unpopular decisions. You are easily swayed by other people's feelings and opinions. You can be an effective manager in an egalitarian workplace, but have difficulty in political environments with a strong hierarchy. If you're a woman, even if you're not a circle, some circle traits have been conditioned into you.

Squiggle: You are creative, a "what if" person who's always thinking of new ways to do something. Your mind never stops and you do cognitive leaps -- from A straight to F. You see the forest and miss the trees. You don't like highly structured environments. You don't tolerate the mundane well and have a short attention span. If you don't get excitement at work, you'll cause it elsewhere in your life.

source: http://www.etals.com/pershape.html
http://weeklyworldnews.com/headlines/14008/favorite-shape-reveals-personality/

....hmm now should i stay or should i move on? haha XD

spread the ooomph!

2011-07-01T16:54:00.002+08:00

jom join contest f&n
simple sgt just like their fb page here
http://bit.ly/mCZUBE
and "spread the ooomph" after u hv answered 3 simple q.
good luck!

wordless wednesday #9

2011-06-22T14:38:00.000+08:00

OWC

2011-06-09T10:38:00.005+08:00

Kelab Isteri Taat, IS IT?

isu ini buat saya terkejut aje, malu pun ada - sebagai seorang muslim la. apala pandangan non-muslim kepada kita. mcm la lelaki2 muslim ni tu kerjanya pikir hal bilik tidur je. (betul ke, silala jawab...)

"I believe we have been misunderstood and misinterpreted. When we said that husbands should treat their wives like first-class prostitutes, we were not putting wives on the same level with prostitutes. We are talking about first-class elite types, not street hooker types." -- http://bit.ly/lnHm8P

camne la dr rohaya ni leh terlintas pelacur pulak. dia tau ke pelacur tu layan lelaki camne? bagus sgt ke?
tak kisah la kelas apa pun, tapi pelacur tetap pelacur kan? pelacur do this for money. kita? hv some respect la. women are not sex object!

saya sokong kalau nak buat kaunseling kekeluargaan tetapi untuk menyarankan isteri2 memberi layanan pelacur kelas pertama memang la saya rasa jijik la pulak. bukan ke hal bilik tidur tu tak perlu dibincangkan publicly? kalau suami kita tu "betul", takde nye minta bukan2.. yang penting tanya iman.

kalau lelaki jahat tu memang la camne pun akan gi makan luar jugak. kalau hati baik, takkan la nak pukul isteri, nak memperhambakan isteri, nak curang etc..

mungkin la skarang ni byk sgt gejala sosial, puncanya mungkin sbb pergaulan yang tak terkawal, esp la kat opis tu kan.. byk benar kes yang kita dengar. laki orang dgn isteri org.. camne leh jadi tu? dah jumpa hari2 kat opis kan.. pastu borak2 hal keluarga, ngadu masalah, pastu kesian, niat nak tolong.. tapi lama2 terjatuh hati pulak..tp sampai ke bilik tidur tu, taktau la ngape.. bila yang haram tu tentunya best aje, iblis dah letak perisa tambahan la katakan... saya paling tak suke melebih2 dirty jokes antara officemates.

pastu, memangla dalam islam allows men to marry 4. tapi pikirla, kalau diri tu tak betul. nak layan sampai 4 orang untuk nafsu je, mmg hancur la keluarga. perkahwinan tu saya anggap sbg sesuatu yang suci. perlu tanggungjawab kedua2 pihak. mmg sepatutnya suami adalah ketua yang kita kena taat sebab dia akan bawa keluarga ke jalan Allah. tapi kalau sebaliknya, baik tak payah. kalau lelaki tu paham akan tanggungjawab dia, akan wujud perasaan kasih dan kasihan pada isteri. saya jamin, keluarga tu akan bahagia.

just nak nasihat suami2 supaya jgnla nak salahkan isteri aje. kalau tak puas, salahkan isteri. kalau tak makan, salahkan isteri. kalau anak2 nakal, salahkan isteri tak pandai raise anak. nauzubilah.. saya baca byk komen2 ttg OWC ni. memang la perlunya taat tu, tp kalau diperlakukan sedemikian, anda suka?? katala suami balik kerja, isteri tak masak lagi. padahal isteri baru balik kerja jugak, tgh settle anak2.. pastu tgk fridge kosong.. mandi tak lagi ni.. haa, takkan kau nak marah isteri pulak?
kalau anak2 nakal, kau takleh nak tahan, ckp isteri tak pandai handle anak. padahal amanah tu bukan ke tanggungjawab bersama? bukan saya tak bagi isteri nak taat, tp taat tu pada TEMPATnya.. jgnla nak pusing2 cerita yang akan memburukkan nama Islam tu.. tolonglaaaaaaaaaaaaa....

kalau nak layanan 1st class, (bukan layanan pelacur).. bila suami nak balik rumah, tgk rumah kemas, kopi sentiasa ada atas meja, dinner dah ready, baju sume dah gosok utk pergi keje esoknya, etc senang je, tak yah kasi isteri kerja. ingat suka ke gi kerja ni? bila kene marah boss, balik cepat (on time) kene marah..cuti slalu tak boleh, kene pisah dgn anak2.. macam2 stress.. penat tau tak!

isteri pulak kalau suami dah bagi kerja, jgnla pulak sampai tak ingat nak balik rumah, konon nak kejar sgt naik gaji/pangkat. nak ampu boss. pastu jgnla berlebih2 sampai nak mengatal dgn jantan lain. ok?

apa2 pun bersederhanala.. boleh je kan?

im touched..

2011-06-09T08:46:00.000+08:00

nawfal : mama, nawfal nak mama
mama : mama kerja la today..
nawfal : nawfal nak tengok mama
mama : nanti petang mama balik okay?
nawfal : alaaa... nawfal nak tgk mama je. nanti mama gi jauh-jauh, camne nawfal nak tgk mama..
mama : ........................

Nur Kasih The Movie

2011-06-08T16:57:00.002+08:00

penangan nurkasih? i langsung tak sentuh popcorn :P

gitula ceritanya.. memang terasa kerugian kerana menjadi antara yang terlambat menonton filem tersebut. malas nak reramai dlm wayang tu la kan.. i tak suke semak2 la.. nak Gold Class tak berkemampuan pulak. haha

bila dah tgk movie mcm ni mesti nak kaitkan dgn diri sendiri kan? memang la, jap nak citer..
nak gitau je, perasaan saya sedikit tersentuh, masa Adam tgh suffer tu.. bila dia ckp "Abang redha..."
erk.. takleh tahan nak LELEH jugak..

memang i enjoyed the movie, mcm tak puas plak, naper ending terus mcm tu, apsal tak buat 1,2,3 dan seterusnya..? hmm .. takpela, pasni director kene buat filem lain la, kekalkan pelakon :P i suka sgt Tiz, she's cute, suka suara dia.. Remy plak, tak yah citer la, walau kdg2 ke-bangla-an terserlah, masa comel, tetap comel!:P suke dia since berlakon dgn amani, sindarella kot.. masa tu, "alamak new guy, apsal comel sgt ni.." haha.. ok dah dah.. anak dah dua, karang ada plak nak membahan aku ni kang..

btw, kalau korang nak comment serious sket,

skip the pelakons, skip the lovey-dovey.. tp mesej yg asyik berlegar2 di pikiran..

"MATI itu pasti ... "

masa Adam sakit tu, it reminds me of hubby. dugaan tu la yg paling sukar saya nak lalui.. saya bukannya isteri yg baik.. saya memang takut kehilangan dia.. saya tahu saya masih hutang dgn Allah.. belum tertunai.. :( what if Allah amek dia dari saya..? saya takut, saya taknak jadi Nur.. saya tak kuat................

sapa yg lom tgk, sila la tgk, saya rasa nk tgk kali ke2, tp sedih la, takut berminggu2 karang teringat macam2..

showered with chocs..

2011-05-20T15:12:00.001+08:00

rcvd the parcel this afternoon.. a big one... *everyone's jealous*

surprise!! it's from lonia ^-^

1st box is my all time fave - strawberry chocs

2nd is a gift for teacher farra

3rd is.....

what i've won for participating in moment with lonia contest *sila jeles lagi*

i cant recall when they announced the winners but thats not important, nak gitau je saya lunch chocs aje arini.. :) *okay ptg ni saya janji ilangkan kalori* ehemm..

those who want to have free strawberry chocs, head over to strawberry park - cos i a mayor there :P

tehee, no, i mean u can order at lonia blog http://www.loniavillage.com/blog/ or

add their facebook page https://www.facebook.com/loniavillage cos im loving them, u shud too!

not so wordless wednesday

2011-05-18T05:23:00.001+08:00

my lil baby warded @kpj after 1 week of fever.

now i know how hubby felt. azabnye spending nites at the hospital.

maryam used to be easy baby when it comes to taking medicine but aftr what paed n nurses had 'done' to her, she refused n akan mengamuk whenever she needs to take neb and medicine.

now its my turn semeseme tak abis2, skt urat mata, skt kepala. hmm weather, pls be kind to us... tak thn ni.. :-(

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nawfal at 4+

2011-05-03T12:49:00.000+08:00

our son was finally toilet trained at age 4.. mak mana tak happy?
haha.. took us few weeks to get him used to the routine.
it was tiring for first week, cos it involved cleaning of the floor, washing the carpets, changing the bedsheets & mattress protector .. i admit, i just couldnt ctrl myself when he peed on the floor all the way to the toilet, mak ai, can u imagine having to clean the floor from living room to the toilet which is in my room? and i am that was-was type, it takes me forever to make sure the floor is really clean.. (er .. dont ask me why) and u can imagine me membebel things like, kan mama dah cakap.. bla bla bla, mama penat tau..bla bla bla tak kesian mama? and later complain to hubby when i have a backache :) but i know and regret if i got angry tak bertempat. yknow la mommies..

hubby pulak, has been helping me to get this small potty training seat, which i found very cute and useful since nawfal likes it and has been using it. (cute? padahal.. letak kat jamban je pun) hmmmm.. oklah, later adik can also use it. no need to get a pink one la, i suppose.

but if i were to get him this seat, nawfal sure duduk dlm jamban je la pas ni. im not sure if its available in malaysia. (let me know.. if it is)

what makes me happier, i now can put mamy poko out of my monthly shopping list.
goodbye to Mamy Poko :)
now, boleh gi sekolah dah :) i only will send him to pre-school at 5.
anyway, thanks to teacher farra from alimkids for the weekly playgroup session for almost 2 years already, to the media and phone applications.. where he learns his ABCs and 123, alif ba ta, painting, singing and dancing :)

sorry!

2011-05-03T11:45:00.000+08:00

i've been busy :(
lots of stories to tell, but after keeping them for some time, i dont feel like sharing anymore.
im still tired n sleepy right now.
will blog again later!

tiada kata...

2011-04-26T13:19:00.000+08:00

Allah tidak memberati seseorang melainkan apa yang terdaya olehnya. Ia mendapat pahala kebaikan yang di usahakannya, dan ia juga menanggung dosa kejahatan yang diusahakannya. (Mereka berdoa dan berkata): "Wahai Tuhan kami! Janganlah Engkau mengirakan kami salah jika kami lupa atau kami tersalah. Wahai Tuhan kami! janganlah Engkau bebankan kepada kami bebanan yang berat sebagaimana yang telah Engkau bebankan kepada orang-orang yang terdahulu daripada kami. Wahai Tuhan kami! Janganlah Engkau pikulkan kepada kami apa yang kami tidak terdaya memikulnya. Dan maafkanlah kesalahan kami, dan berilah rahmat kepada kami, dan beri Penolong kami oleh itu, tolonglah kami untuk mencapai kemenangan terhadap kaum-kaum yang kafir".

On no soul doth Allah Place a burden greater than it can bear. It gets every good that it earns, and it suffers every ill that it earns. (Pray:) "Our Lord! Condemn us not if we forget or fall into error our Lord! Lay not on us a burden Like that which Thou didst lay on those before us Our Lord! Lay not on us a burden greater than we have strength to bear. Blot out our sins, and grant us forgiveness. Have mercy on us. Thou art ourProtector Help us against those who stand against faith."

AlBaqarah (286)

jom!

2011-04-22T09:27:00.003+08:00

berbekalkan beberapa hengget, im going to KLIBF 2011 today.. joms :)

Pesta Buku Antarabangsa Kuala Lumpur 2011

see you there!

wordless wednesday #8

2011-04-20T11:49:00.000+08:00

nak menyumpah

2011-04-18T14:25:00.000+08:00

geram tul la servis cenggini.. dekat 10 kali call tak get thru... nak komplen karang, mamfus derang tkmo tgk form aku.. haishh.. karang jd mcm hospital kajang.. aku komplen sorang doktor je tapi sampai bebila the whole hospital ingat aku, bukan muka tapi namaaaa..
hmm.. abis 1/2 jam aku dok dial je ni.. nnt kene komplen gak nnt ni.. hrp derang leh improve..

looking for bpa free bottles?

2011-04-15T14:19:00.003+08:00

im in love with this tupperware precious baby collection la.. help!

the set includes:

1. One Touch Canister Small with adorable prints (1) 2L
2. Baby Bottle (2) 8oz
3. Baby Bottle Cap & Colar (2)
4. New Tri-Flow Teat (2)
and a gift box

price is around RM100 if i wanna include that formula dispenser.. hmm im torn between buying a glass bottle or this set. i need to get a new botol shushu for nawfal. haishh, any of u know where i can get it at special pricey.. hehe..

owh there is a contest going around, er, if u noticed.. on my blog banner :)
all u need to do is to send a text message to the galaxy tab inside one touch canister they put @Aquaria.
but u dun have to be there. u may try ur luck by typing

< TupperwareAirtight > space < YourName > and send to 012-7830790

u can win a tupperware hamper, and be in the running to win Samsung Galaxy Tab by being every 100th person to sms. :) yay!

ok sorry to sibuk2 about the contest, im a contest freak.. just wanna share good things wt u guys. so any dealer can offer me good price for the baby precious set? hehe..

1st 3D

2011-04-14T13:50:00.000+08:00

kitorg bawak anak2 gi tgk rio aritu :)

first time tgk 3D adalah agak jakun nak pakai specs. sib baik my son ok je.

rupanya kalau tak pakai, image kat skrin tu nampak blurry.. risaukan maryam je, tapi dia tgk dalam 10 minit je pastu zzzz.. selamattt...

movie ok, cuma me susah sket la nak layan samba music.. karang jadi shakira plak.. hehe.. tapi paling suka sume part monkey and gang .. esp masa texting tu.. haha, sgt cute..

seronok la, asik gelak je..

tapi adalah tidak sabar nak tgk movie ni ngan my son..

budak ni asik ulang2 tgk cars 2 : official trailer kat youtube.

sapa tak penah tgk cars, silala tgk, kalau rasa tak kelakar, something's wrong la dgn korang..

lil diva

2011-04-11T12:14:00.002+08:00

gegirl dah pandai nak pwetty ;-)

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baju kurung cotton utk baby girls

2011-04-08T15:46:00.000+08:00

harga kengkawan, boleh kawtim

head over to garage sale

things i dont want to remember

2011-04-07T13:45:00.000+08:00

tadi terbaca kisah seorang blogger yg beritahu ttg keluarga dia dicederakan oleh perompak.. mmg tragis. it was even in the news, back in late 90s.. sedih sgt.. how her bro lalui.. nampak mak kene tetak.. imagine that... ya Allah.. :(

now, it makes me remember what happened to me last year.. :(

sampai sekarang fobia, pantang ada bunyi sket. i takleh tidur nyenyak at nites. tak sapa akan faham kecuali mereka yg pernah lalui saat2 paling menakutkan dlm hidup.

tapi mmg i bersyukur sgt.. sbb kdg2 ada terpikir, what if kene raped? what if derang amek my kids? what if they kill us? kill us all, takpe.. but what will happen to my babies? u dont understand.. people wont understand what i went thru. saat tu, mmg pikiran lost sekejap. u wont know what to do. tak sempat nak pk, mcm mana nak lari, mcm mana nak fight back.. tp sebab i masih hidup, smpai sekarang, i asik pikir.. kalau la it happens again, camne i nak keluar dari rumah, mcm mana i nak drag anak2 sneak kuar umah.., how to sorok anak2.. i even pk is it ok if i nak simpan gun, utk protection. it might sound funny to some.. yeah, theyre some ppl who made fun of me. but im serious. i even want a guard dog, biar dia makan those jahat people!

until now, i takleh tgk org indonesian, org pegang sabit, even org wt covered face potong rumput tepi jalan.. it is that bad.. since my siblings sume lelaki, and i agak rabun kalau tak pakai specs, kdg2 kelibat derang tu, i tot someone else's.. mmg scary.. sometimes hubby balik late nite, tetiba i terjaga tgh malam tgk ada lelaki sebelah i pun i rasa nak marah!.. still korang takkan paham.. i dun want to go back to my parent's but my mom refused to leave the house and stay with me..so i still hv to send my kids to hers.. sometimes we got too tired to back to ours, kene tidur rumah parents jugak..

these days i make sure all the doors and windows are shut, i even double check few times at nites. kalau nak buka pintu memalam, i buka pelan sgt, i tgk kiri kanan dulu.. mcm org bodoh, penakut pun ada.. pastu i locked my bedroom door, i make sure kids r with me.. i jadi sensitive sgt kalau org cuba nak takutkan i.. its not funny anymore.. lawak bodoh - nak kena penampar la, kalau pasal safety org main2 kan.. kdg2 rasa mcm dah jd org giler..

saya mmg emosi dgr org kene rompak, dan kes bunuh org tak bersalah.. dan worst ia terjadi depan mata keluarga, lagila kalau kene rogol.. sayu hati saya.. saya benci sgt benda2 ni berlaku.. sbb tu saya tak percaya kalau org ckp negara ni selamat.. no.. they're wrong.. mmg la nak kiamat, tp at least adalah perasaan sikit.. byk punca kenapa kejadian ni berlaku. in my case, i rasa org tu desperate nak duit, nak lari or nak balik negara dia.. so sapa yg bawak derang masuk? apsa derang takde kerja? kalau cara haram sekalipun, mana keselamatan negara? telllll me...?? i guess theyre bz wt sxx vid! tqvm..

still saya tau apa2 pun yg terjadi adalah takdir.. i know even kalau benda nak jadi, akan jadi. ada bodyguard sekalipun couldn't guarantee my safety.. saya tau hanya tu je nak mampu saya buat - doa kepada Nya. saya tau Allah je berkuasa atas sesuatu. Allah je mampu lindungi saya, anak2 dan keluarga.. Dia Yang Maha Mengetahui.. Dia Yang Maha Penyayang.. bukan suami saya, bukan bapa saya, bukan adik2 saya yg boleh lindungi saya.. dan bukan saya yg mampu lindungi anak2 saya.. hanya Dia..

wordless wednesday #7

2011-04-06T10:22:00.000+08:00