my personality

Responding to Criticism, Comments and Negative Response

2012-05-09T15:58:00.000-07:00

Many people, even saying "I am ready to accept constructive criticism", it still would rather be praised. Criticism, comments and negative responses to what we do, or for what we say, it still creates a feeling not good compared to speech support and praise. In fact, success is sometimes achieved after going through the various criticisms and comments (though mostly negative). Criticism and comments received, if faced with a cool head should be a medium for us to improve itself and correct deficiencies. How to keep a smile when we face the criticism and negative responses? Here`s some tips that I usually practice. Although not 100% made me become a cool, calm and confident, at least, we will more ready and comfort in the face of criticism.

1. Do not take it personally

If the criticism and negative responses taken as a personal attack , we will tend to respond emotionally. Always cultivate the criticism and the response was a 'blessing' attention on what we do. If a disaster can sometimes be considered a "hello world! from god to his creatures", suppose the criticism and suggestions for the attention of a person for us. In my experience, if we respond to criticism in a mild joke and if need be, the criticism is not to be feared. The following examples are too extreme, but let's say you've experienced it "I saw You wear that cloth yesterday? How often you wear that clothes" How you will respond it? Just say, "Thank you, to noticed ...". Simple right. We do not need to flame a war to the critics. After all, one can assess which need to be supported and which ones need to be despised. Do not be afraid and ashamed from what other people thought about you. Do not forget, people could analogize an event with them. What if they were in our position.

2. Relented, TO WIN

In the old office, I most often debated by Factory Manager. Factory Manager is a position second only to the Managing Director. Whatever (probably not all, but I feel 99.99%) proposed that I make, whatever my opinion, almost always he is criticized. Although I'm sure 110% that there would be no problem with my proposal, he almost always criticize. Finally I took a different approach. Instead I responded in the negative each comment to him, I would always ask his opinion to answer the criticism. So, if he said, "Sir, you create a system that may be executed, but this problem will arise, it is, and so on. It would be very vulnerable for the company if it happens", I will be replied, "The system that I created it based on my analysis, which I collated from data in the field. Maybe you any suggestions to complement these data for the system are made to anticipate problems such as a father to say". So, instead I was given a ball of fire, my fire ball back to its owner. This method was effective, because he feels appreciated (I say this with sincerity response). Positive effect, he is also willing to respect my opinion and we can be a good team, although not always agree on things.

3. COMMITMENT TO THE FINAL GOAL

Many good plans and good results can not be achieved because of the negative criticism and debate over common purpose. Often people argue about the way, holding on to an ego about which way to go. Assume that if other means are not taken-we-way, whatever the end result we will turn a blind eye. In fact, if the results and the final destination is reached, the methods is only steps to obtain it. If you have a plan proposal to improve the performance of your employees and your colleagues have a plan proposal with different ways but same purpose, try to avoid the debate about which method will be pursued. If it can be combined, results to be achieved to have a greater chance of success. There is nothing to gain if you only wins your ego.

10 Ways to Politely End a Boring Talk

2012-05-04T11:35:00.000-07:00

Have You ever stuck in a boring conversation and eventually feel awkward to ended? Find it awkward to end the conversation when you're discussing or meet with frequent relations. Actually there are several ways that can help you to get out of the situation politely, for example, argued should pick up the phone, go to the restroom, and so forth. As reported by The Grindstone, some experts said the best way in a career that can help you end the conversation with the relationship.

1. Stay Relaxed

A communications specialist who is also head of the Performance Group Roshini, Roshini Rajkumar said that if you stay relaxed to leave or end the conversation, then everything will run smoothly without the need to give reasons why you should go and end the conversation.

2. The Pause Wait

By Regina Barr, Founder and CEO RedLadder, if the topics discussed between you and the relationship is so boring, you should wait for a pause on the sidelines of the talks. When these breaks, you can have a chance to end it politely without having to cut off the relationship when you're talking. For example, by reaching out to shake hands with a smile and say 'pleased to meet you, see you later'.

3. Honest

A recruiter from AccountSource, John Gouthro, Jr. said that you could instantly tell the truth. For example, by saying, "Excuse me. I know we should talk more. Here's my card, very nice to meet you. I wish I could talk at another time." The sentence can help you regardless of the situation that makes you uncomfortable. It is very effective because in addition to honest and simple, your relationship will understand that you are busy with work.

4. Want to tell Toilet

According to career experts, Hector Cisneros, one of the reasons to end a boring conversation is to say they want to go to the toilet. For example, by saying "Excuse me, do you know where the restroom?" that way you can get out of the trap is boring conversation.

5. Say There's Promise to Meet Others

A Clinical Psychology, Nancy Irwin said the professional way to get out of any conversation is to shake hands with someone, look at his eyes and said "Sorry to cut this conversation, maybe we can continue at another time because I have an appointment to meet with people".

6. Divert attention to Other People

Rachel Dotson of ZipRecruiter said to end the conversation you can try to distract the people who did he want to go. For example, by trying to introduce him to people who are needed. So when you're talking to relatives, then feel awkward to end it, you can say, "have met with my colleagues yet? You have to meet, he's right. Let's find him."

7. Giving Praise

Give praise when ending a conversation can also be performed. For example, "I like your views on this industry." A good compliment can make you happy relationship so that you can end the conversation without feeling uncomfortable.

8. Say That You Are Busy

When a relationship that you know are not interested to talk to him, try to take advice from experts met Erik Deckers career. Tell the person you're really busy over the next two weeks. If she really needed to talk to you, he would call again.

9. Pretend Have A Phone Calls

One strategy that can help you end a conversation is by pretending to receive a phone call. Automatically, you'll appreciate the relationship and the conversation will end.

10. Offering Help

According to Alan Guinn, a Managing Director and CEO of Guinn Consultancy Group, before deciding to end a conversation with the relationship, you should offer assistance. For example, by saying "Just tell me, what can I help?". That phrase makes you feel valued relationships.

Signature and Personality

2011-01-27T20:40:00.000-08:00

At first time we make signature, we made a lot type, models and design. Trying to find a perfect signature for ourself. Even the other says that may we have a unique or strange signature, but the final decision in our hand. Some people maybe have more than one signature, but it`s hard to make very differnt signature. So, the main point is you can tell someone character from just saw their signature, and how they made it.

Signature Analysis is based on seven components which are
1. Size of the Signature
2. Slant of the Signature
3. Use and Size of the first name and the last name
4. Underlining in the signature
5. Size of the first letter of the signature
6. Loops or backward strokes in the signature
7. Use of Dots in the signature

Sometime, someone make very difficult signature because they don`t want their signature can easily copy by another.

Size of the Signature

The size of the signature mainly points out the writer’s wish to be noticed. If a signature is extremely large as compared to the handwriting it shows that the writer craves to be noticed, and is very bold and confident. Large bold signature typically indicates "notice me"! Medium sized signature shows the desire of the writer to just fit in. Smaller size signature indicates less of a desire, or extremely no desire to be noticed.

Name and sign

WRITING COMPLETE NAME AS THEIR SIGN!!
These persons are very kind hearted, can adjust themselves to any environment & to the person they are talking. These persons are very firm on their views & posses a lot of will power.

RANDOM SIGN, SIMILARITY BETWEEN NAME & SIGN!!
These persons are considered to be intelligent but never think. These people change their ideas & views as fast as the wind changes its direction of flow. They never think whether that particular thing is right or wrong.
You can win them just by flattering them.

RANDOM SIGN, NO SIMILARITY BETWEEN NAME & SIGN!!
These persons try to be very smart, hide each & every matter, never say anything in straight forward manner, never pay attention to the other person of what he is talking of.

Underlining in the signature

SINGLE UNDERLINE BELOW THE SIGN!!
These persons are very confident and are good personalities. They are a little bit selfish but believe in "Happiness of human life"

NO UNDERLINES OR DOTS BELOW THE SIGN!!
These persons enjoy their life in their own way, never pay attention to others views. These are considered to be good natured but are selfish too.

Use of Dots in the signature

TWO DOTS BELOW THE SIGN!!
These persons are considered to be Romantic, can easily change their fiancÃ©es as if they change their clothes. They prefer beauty in other persons & they themselves try to look beautiful. They easily attract others.

SINGLE DOT BELOW THE SIGN!
These persons are more inclined towards classical arts, simple & are very cool. If you loose faith with them, then these persons will never look back at you. Hence its always better to be careful with these people.

another

SIGN IN PRINTED LETTERS!!
These persons are very kind to us, have a good heart, selfless, are ready to sacrifice their life for the sake of their near & dear. But these seem to think a lot and may get angry very soon.

based on:
signature analysis what does your signature say about your personality/
signature the identification of personality

Personality and Brain

2011-01-15T23:39:00.000-08:00

We all have a brain. Personality is also influenced by which side brain we use.
A simple test ... look at this picture below ... what you see? clockwise or counter clockwise?

If you see, clockwise rotating (rotate to left) ... you using your more left brain area.
Otherwise if you see counter clockwise (rotate to right) ... you using more right brain area

LEFT BRAIN

uses logic
detail oriented
facts rule
words and language
present and past
math and science
can comprehend
knowing
acknowledges
order/pattern perception
knows object name
reality based
forms strategies
practical
safe

RIGHT BRAIN

uses feeling
"big picture" oriented
imagination rules
symbols and images
philosophy & religion
can "get it" (i.e. meaning)
believes
appreciates
spatial perception
knows object function
fantasy based
presents possibilities
impetuous
risk takin

Right Brain character
Think and learn in visual, kinesthetic and audio images. It`s hard for them memorize something without visualize. They don't memorize well and need to visualize a picture so they can recall the facts. Abstract math is often not brain compatible.
In face to face conversation, they look at speaker when listening and look away to the left when giving an answer. In that moment, brain shift from right side to left side. This is not a sign of fabrication. They are not creating an answer in an attempt to deceive.
If you give them a word "carrot", they start remembering the rabbit that like carrot a lot, where`s the rabbit now, the fur are soft and they look cute too, the cat that often slept in front of the door is cute too, the door in my house need to repair ... etc.
They always try think "out of the box", so it`s hard for them follow rules that don`t make a sense.

Left Brain character
They seen as "smarter", doing in sequential order, analyze what they do, make trial and error when some problem occur. They are sensitive to flaws of self and others almost to the point of not being able to accept a person because of their flaws. They tend to not see the whole person but the flaw(s).
If you give them a word "plane", plane is plane, and write it down as "p-l-a-n-e". They don`t have trouble to focus in some thing.

Right Brain/ Left Brain Quiz
http://www.intelliscript.net/test_area/questionnaire/questionnaire.cgi

Hemispheric Dominance Inventory Test
http://www.web-us.com/brain/braindominance.htm

based on
left brain vs right brain
suite 101

Why Men Can't Bear To See Women Cry

2011-01-14T18:19:00.000-08:00

When men saw his lover going to cry most of them will try to avoid seeing her cry or soften his heart and willing to listen to his lover. According to Neurobiologist Noam Seobel’s recent study on why women’s tears have such an affect on men.

Men isn`t simply moved by women tears shed, according to the study the main factor is the scent. When the scent reacted in man brain, the testosterone levels acctually decrease. It’s the same subtle pheromones which will either attract or repel the opposite sex.

However, one thing women may not have known is that the scent of their tears is something, which can turn a man off. Therefore, if that’s not something you want to do, then I would suggest you doing your crying when he’s not around.

based on:
Opinion: Why Men Can't Bear To See Women Cry

Your favorite geometric shape reveals your personality

2011-01-10T03:23:00.000-08:00

You drive a sleek sportscar; you're a triangle.
You wear plain shirts; you're a square.
You have overstuffed furniture; you're a circle.

Without realizing someone also select objects with thier sense of matches.
Dr. Susan Dellinger descripe in her book (Understanding "psycho-geometrics"), there are five basic geometry that can reveals your personality. There are square, rectangle, circle, triangel and squiggle.

SQUARE

Organized, logical and hardworking. Strict to the rules. You dislike situation that you dont know how to do. You prefer working alone to teamwork rather than in team. Gathering information as much as posibble before decide on something, but you always want more and more, until you hard to make a decision. How to spot a square: They appear to move stiffly, use precise gestures, love routine and are very concerned with detail. They’re also very neat in their appearance and work space. They do a lot of planning and are always prompt.

RECTANGLE

Courageous, exciting and inquisitive explorer. You like to learn something new, feel and find new adventure. Working behind the desk is not yours.
How to spot a rectangle: These people often have fleeting eyes and flushed faces. They also tend to giggle and they like variety. For example, they’ll come into work early or late, but not on time. And those who have offices tend to be disorganized with a mishmash of furniture.

TRIANGLE

Competitive, confident, decisive and able to focus on the goal. You can speak out what in your mind. You can be self-centered and egotistical. Brag to people about your accomplishments, runs in your blood. so don`t be surprise if someone told that you are an arrogant person.
How to spot a triangle: They’re very stylish and expensive dressers. They have powerful voices, love to tell jokes and play as hard as they work.

CIRCLE

The shape with the most empathy, perception and consideration for the feelings of others. You are a good listener and can communicate with appropriate. Often make unpopular decision just to avoid conflict.
How to spot a circle: They’re friendly, nurturing, persuasive and generous. They tend to be relaxed and smile a lot. They’re talkative, but have a mellow voice. They also have a full laugh and love to touch others on the shoulder and arm.

SQUIGGLE

You’re a creative person who’s always thinking of new ways to do something. But you don’t think in a deliberate pattern from A to B to C. Instead, you tend to jump around in your mind, going from A to M to X.
How to spot a squiggle: They’re flamboyant, dramatic and extremely creative – and they don’t like highly structured environments. Both men and women squiggles tend to be sexy, witty and very expressive. They also have great intuition. Most performers and writers are squiggles.

base article
What Shape Is Your Personality?
Favourite shape reveals personality

Man personality from how their sitting

2011-01-09T09:15:00.000-08:00

There is differences between women and men when reading personality from the way they sit.

Always change the way seat

characteristic : Difficult reject something that he don`t agree.
He have unstable emotion. When they must do something that out of their will, they can`t refuse it. It`s hard for them to speak out what they feel and just grumble in mind.

Relaxed and light sit at front edge

characteristic : active and aggressive.
Is hard to change what they already decide, realistic, active and aggresif. Some say that they can very stubborn. It`s rarely that you can see they don`t do anything.

Closed legs

characteristic : safety play.
Do every thing with carefully. Good at manage their time. Know when must go forward or retreat. So don`t be surprise if they can gain their profit with fast.

Fall back with legs open

characteristic : difficult to undertand
This tipe like to make a friend everywhere, helpfull. However, even he seems friendly, it`s not easy to know what is in their mind. Sometime he can be very sympathy and care but in the other time he can be very .. very cranky person.

Knee on Knee

characteristic : Always need help
They have many dream, a high dream but they also a dreamer. He always need support from people around him. They like in a place that many people gathering for party or just sit and watch people.

Left leg cross above right leg

characteristic : always love to learn something.
Creative, carefully, perfectionist. What ever they do, they want it became the best result. When the expert give an advice he will accepted with open mind.

Right leg cross above left leg

characteristic : Creative but have a bad money management
They too care how the people saw him. Very sensitive. They like colorfull life. When the target are set, there is no pull back.

Color and Personality

2011-01-09T08:23:00.000-08:00

All we know in everyday we always choose a particular color. Although we denied that do not have a favorite color, but if we actually observe around us there will be dominant color.
Experts believe that the color selection is determined by individual personality factors.

White Symbolic of purity, innocence and naivete.
white has strong connotations of youth and purity. If you are an older person, your preference for white could indicate a desire for perfection and impossible ideals, maybe an attempt to recapture lost youth and freshness. It may also symbolize a desire for simplicity or the simple life.

Gray The color of caution and compromise.
Peacefull life become their motto. Even sometime trouble came, they try avoid it as much as posibble. Grays often work hard even there is no reward for what they are doing. Observe before make decision. Grays often have good business ability and tend to work too much.

Black Dignified and impressive without being showy
They like to hide their feeling and thought. What you see outside sometime completely different with inside. They not easily accept someone. Become so picky when talk about who should to be love.

Red The color of strength, health, and vitality
Red is often the color chosen by someone outgoing, aggressive, vigorous and impulsiveopen and uncomplicated natures. Quick to judge people and take sides. Usually optimistic and can’t stand monotony. They find it hard to be objective and may blame others for any mishaps.

Blue Soft, soothing, compassionate and caring,
Deliberation and introspection, conservatism and duty. Patient, persevering, conscientious, sensitive and self-controlled, like to be admired for their steady character and wisdom. Faithful, but are often worriers with somewhat inflexible beliefs and can be too cautious, and suspicious of flamboyant behavior.

Yellow The color of happiness, wisdom and imagination
Chosen by the mentally adventurous, searching for novelty and self-fulfillment. Sunny and shrewd personality, with a good business head and a strong sense of humor. They may at times tend to shun responsibility, preferring freedom of thought and action.

Green The color of harmony and balance.
symbolizes of hope, renewal and peace, and is usually liked by the gentle and sincere. honest, good at working group, like peace solution. modest and patient, so they may get exploited by others. They are usually refined, civilized and reputable.

Maroon Harsh experience has probably matured the Maroon person into someone likable and generous. It is often a favorite color of someone who has been battered by life but has come through. It indicates a well-disciplined Red personality—one who has had difficult experiences and has not come through unmarked but who has grown and matured in the process.

Pink This color embodies the gentler qualities of Red.
Symbolizing love and affection without passion. Women who prefer Pink tend to be maternal. Pink desires protection, special treatment and a sheltered life. Pink people require affection and like to feel loved and secure, perhaps wanting to appear delicate and fragile. Pink people tend to be charming and gentle, if a trifle indefinite.

Orange The color of luxury and pleasure
Appeals to the flamboyant and fun-loving person who likes a lively social round. Orange people may be inclined to dramatize a bit, and people notice them, but they are generally good-natured and popular. They can be a little fickle and vacillating, but on the whole they try hard to be agreeable. Orange is the color of youth, strength, fearlessness, curiosity and restlessness.

Blue-Green Exacting, discriminating, poised and attractive
The Blue-Green person tends to be sensitive, intellectual and refined, persevering and stable if rather detached. Blue-Greens have excellent taste, and are usually courteous and charming, capable but often refusing help or guidance.

Turquoise Complex, imaginative and original
Turquoise people drive themselves hard and may be in a state of turmoil under their outwardly cool exterior.

Lavender This is often chosen by a person who lives “on a higher plane,” who never notices anything sordid and who is always impeccably and beautifully dressed. Lavender people may be on a continual quest for culture and the refined things of life, high and noble causes but without the necessity of getting their hands dirty. A Lavender person is usually creative, charming, witty and civilized.

Purple highly individual, fastidious, witty and sensitive
With a strong desire to be unique and different. Temperamental, expansive and artistic, a Purple person may become aloof and sarcastic when misunderstood. If you chose Purple, you tend to be unconventional, tolerant and dignified, likely to achieve positions of authority.

Brown A Brown person has stamina and patience, tending to be very solid and substantial, conscientious, dependable, steady and conservative. Browns are not impulsive, and may be inarticulate and tactless but they love responsibility and are reliable and kindly. If you chose Brown, watch out for a tendency to be obstinate and inflexible.

base article:
favorite color personality
and another source that i forget to bookmark >.<

Woman personality from how their sitting

2011-01-08T04:22:00.000-08:00

For some men approaching a woman is a difficult thing. Men often do the wrong approach and end up women will hate them.

From his sitting style, believe it or not it has a secret woman who usually done spontaneously or without far-fetched:

Sitting Sweet
Sit Position: sat quietly, hands on knees or above the thigh, indicating that this woman has a childlike nature.
She was a true dreamer, like something romantic dream. Easily fall in love. She very honest with their feeling. Can classified as a creative woman, especially when they work hard for gain love. So don`t be shocked when they become so jealousy.

Seated Leg Alignment
Sit Position: The woman who used to sit with the whole body leaned against the chair with feet parallel and arranged neatly.
She is a love fighter type, not easily to give up. One or two rejection will not make her step back. They also aggressive but sloppy too. Not easy to seduced. When they make a decision that will be a final.

Sit 'Inviting'
Sit Position: wide spread leg positions.
Indicates that she is the type of woman who is always cheerful, sociable and a real teaser. Even she like wearing something sexy, but if she knew you fall in her appearence there is no hope for you to close with her. Actually, this type of women always need someone to take care of her. Easily fall in romantic thing.

Sitting On the Edge
Sit Position: have a habit sit on the edge of the seat / chair with a neat leg position
Can categorized as wise and gentle heart. When someone ask or need help, she did not hesitate to help. Easily to believe in another person. They also very sensitive, show them little attention and they will know that you like her. They always hard to refuse.

Sitting Cross
Sit Position: sit with your legs to overlap with the knee and left ankle level.
Patience, persistence, diligent and rational. If you get near to play, just forget it. Before the make decision, they will calculate every possibility. When the decision has made, she`ll give everything to keep it.

base article:
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Walking style and your personalty

2011-01-07T22:08:00.000-08:00

Almost everybody can walk, but not everybody know that their walking stlye reflect their personality.
Not only personality, even someone can see your mood from how your walk today.

These are generally people walk type:

Slow walk
Believed to be less effective but good to see the details.
Suitable to work in the health sector and for this type of person recommended to work more effectively so other person not get the wrong about their capability.

Fast walk
Believed to be work quickly, considered able to appreciate the time and work.
However, the person with this type of walk briskly feared not able to capture the detail or unable to catch the little things that were important.
People like this is suitable to work as an data entry or the work who need physical speed.
People with this type are suggested to work more relaxed and taking the time to socializing with other colleagues.

Walk quietly
Usually does not give signs of their presence.
The person with this type could be showing that their hard work could be unnoticed by the people.
They are more suitable to work alone than in a team.
So, if you are in this type make sure that your boss know your work by asking the result of your current job.

Walk with eyes straight a head
Believed as a confident person and focus on they're job.
They are suitable to work as salesman or anything who related with the achievement of deal that could be achieved with the help of eyes which is full of suggestion.

Walk with eyes look down
Believed as a person who do not believed in themselves, not focus on their work and not interested in things that will happen in the future.

Walk with "tak-tik-tok" sound
The person who walk in the shoes that make noise, not afraid to be noticed or like to be note with their presence by the sounds of their shoes.

So .. based on above type .. how your walk can mean something ..

The happy bouncy walk, positive personality
The drag your feet walk, move slowly through life, depression
The pigeon-toed dumb walk, "Duh!"
The sexy strut, "Look at me!"
The shake your butt walk
The gay male walk
The transvestite in high heels walk
The attitude walk, heavy step, glances around walk, never misses anything, "Don't f - - k with me!"
The ghetto sway, "Yo! Bro! What's up?"
The confident walk, head held high, shoulders back, "I am confident and can manifest anything."
My shoes are too tight walk, Ouch!
The brisk jogging walk, for woman it's the boob-bouncing walk, "I am very healthy and fit."
Feet wide apart, Something between my legs is bothering me!
Walk with walker, cane, other device or special shoes, "I have a challenged personality."
Shoe styles, your projected self at that moment, from barefoot to expensive footwear. Your footwear changes the way you walk and carry yourself.

Try this test:
The city walk personality test
A walk under The rain

base article:
Walking Style and Personality
donadzku: The Way You Walk = Your Personality

Reading Personality from Face

2011-01-07T21:14:00.000-08:00

Your face show your personality ... is that possible?

Whatever you try to hide, is written on your face. Yes, it's true, it's not some kind of magic, it has always been there, but you are the one who did lack the required knowledge. Statistical studies showed that there is a strong connection between face features and personality; you may have noticed that people who look alike tend to behave the same or at least have some common behavior.

Studying one's face shape personality is nothing new. People from different parts of the world have been analyzing faces for hundreds of years. you'll also can be privy to the different indicators which help determine a person's character.

The five-factor model from read faces. This consists of:

Openness to experience - creative, original, independent
Conscientiousness - careful, hard-working, conscientious
Extraversion - affectionate, talkative, sociable
Agreeableness - forgiving, sympathetic, warm
Neuroticism - nervous, worrying, highly strung

From statistic data, indentification from face structure have a high accurate. You personality changes can reflect at your face.
Generally, face readings done by looking at the jaw line, eyes and lips shape.

The Jaw Lines

strong jaw line are said to have quite stubborn natures.
People with such a jaw line are also said to have authority over others. Just how well such a person thinks of himself can also be detected by the level and angle of his face.
If the person you're talking to always has his chin up, then you can bet that that person has a great deal of confidence in himself.

The Eyes

When a person's eyes tend to wander, this could be a sign of restlessness or even dishonesty. Some say that this could even imply inconsistencies in work performance.

On the other hand, those who have steady eyes have more perseverance and straightforward personality.

The Lips

Big lips:

very talkative, you can hardly find him silent, he likes to talk a lot and tell stories,
they provides a very good company when in a group but if not accompanied with good listeners, people may end up frustrated and nervous of his continues talking.
When you want to ask for directions on the street, pick someone with big lips because he will give you full detail on how and where to go.

Small lips:

less talkative, they tends to have his private life separated from others and may hide his internal emotions and feelings.
they can also keep secrets for years, unlike the big lip guy who can hardly hold a secret!! Unless having some strong influencing force like religion to hold him from spreading these secrets.
This person may be very cautious and not an adventure lover.

Curved upward indicate a sunny disposition
Curved downward speak of dissatisfaction.

Those with narrow lips are more controlled with their emotions, while those with full lips are said to be more considerate of others around them.

http://similarminds.com/face/start.php

base article:
Face Perception
Face Shape Personality
Your Personality is Written on Your Face