生命力

happy birthday to 21st me

2014-04-23T00:44:00.000+08:00

22th is our earth day

Am so lucky to be born in this wonderful day~

another awesome thing to be born on this day is

there's always a says that we can see the meteor

Since form 4, every year this day,

there must be a few calls from my friend that have the same birthday with me

some of them is same age as me while some are my brother or sister=)

and we will keep asking each other to wait for the meteor together...

but we never did it....every time we will fall asleep first...

anyway, i am so happy to have u all

However, since i studied in UTAR

my Bday is fall in our study week or final week,

so mostly most of us is busy preparing our final, including myself....

so upset about this....

every year, my birthday since i am in UTAR was so stressful

And this year, i am so blessed to have lots of birthday surprises...

1st birthday gift received was 2 weeks earlier than my Bday

it was from the face shop....what a lovely surprise~

Next, my 2nd birthday surprise from my coursemate....
i never expect to have a bunch of my friend to celebrate my birthday to me
and it's was my 21st Birthday....1 time in my 21 lifetime to have such a surprise...
yet i was being concealed and know nothing about it....not even a clue...
still sing along the birthday song with them and guessing who is the one....
anyway....really so gamdong ....special thanks to my old friend to plan this for me =)
but too sad...din't have a photo with all of them~

PS: Let me show off a bit, just realised i am the first to have almost all coursemate to celebrate birthday togehter...it's seem a little bit late to have this kind of bonding after 2 years of coursemate...but hope that we can have a very memorable uni life together....

My favourite: chocolate indulge from secret recipe!

even though today is just really my big day...
yet, i don't feel lonely or stressful about it....
because i was already filled with loved
today is just a simple day...

Just wanted to say:
Happy 21st Birthday to myself
Wish all my dream come true =)
good luck in my final！！！

~~This is the first year to have my birthday without you since 4 years ago...~~
~~though, there are unforeseen circumstances that we couldn't be couple, yet we are still friend...this is what i appreciate with....Stay healthy and take good care of yourself..~~

12 Things You Are Doing To Sabotage Your Future by Tim Hoch

2014-03-18T09:17:00.001+08:00

12 Things You Are Doing To Sabotage Your Future

1. You are lazy.

Most of us default to indolence. We take the easy way. We get comfortable. We like a routine. This may be fine for 90%. If you are reading this, I suspect it’s not fine for you. So get off your ass and get started.

2. You lack focus.

You start out great. You spend thirty minutes of uninterrupted time putting together a plan, making a list, and polishing your resume, so you decide to take a break. You check Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, your friend’s blog, Game of Thrones, iTunes, etc. and two hours later you’re back. No one gives a shit about your high score on Candy Crush or Flappy Bird.

3. You are too isolated.

No one is going to pluck you from obscurity or discover you working at a diner. This isn’t 1930′s Hollywood.

If you were going to advance your goals with the help of the people you hang out with right now then you’d already be on your way. But you aren’t. So get out. Meet new people. Do you have a great idea? Call me. Find someone who has a career you want and reach out to that person. What have you got to lose?

4. You fear rejection.

You know the answer to the question posed above: “What have you got to lose?” Nothing. But you still won’t do it because you are afraid of rejection. If you call me with your great idea, chances are I will decline. This may have nothing whatsoever to do with you or your idea. So don’t do what is next.

5. You give up too easily.

Many of the cases I have won and most of the money I have made is because someone on the other side gave in. Quit. Especially when things got a little dicey.

Know this: there are very few obstacles that cannot be overcome. Hang in there and you will be amazed at what happens. You will achieve much of your success by attrition.

6. You bitch too much.

Stop complaining. It’s a waste of time. Your problems are not unique to you. Get over it.

7. You buy into other’s perceptions of you.

There was a busboy at one of my favorite restaurants who wanted to be a chef. Unfortunately, the owner of the restaurant never thought of him as anything but a busboy. So he quit. He went to work for another restaurant where he started again as a busboy. But he made it clear that he wanted to eventually be a chef. Now he is one hell of a chef.

8. You listen to other people.

“You’ll never get that job.” “You have to have a (blank) degree to work there.” “They’re not hiring.”

The sad truth is that most people don’t care whether you succeed. They really don’t give more than a fleeting thought to something you think about every waking moment. Don’t listen to them. They don’t know.

9. You are waiting for the perfect job.

There’s no such thing. Even if you work for yourself you are always working for someone else. Take a job that allows you creative freedom or some means of independence or some level of fulfillment and ignore the rest of the bullshit that comes along with it until you find one that offers even more.

10. You lie to yourself.

Our brains are wonderful at self delusion. We tell ourselves we are smarter than we are, more handsome than we are, funnier than we are. This leads to arrogance which leads to complacency. Be brutally honest with your self evaluation.

11. You rest on your past accomplishments.

You made good grades in college. You wrote a novel. You were a high school track star. That’s past tense. As Babe Ruth, the greatest hitter of all time, said: Today’s ball games aren’t won with yesterday’s home runs.

No one gives a shit about what you accomplished yesterday. What are you doing today?

12. You compare yourself to others.

There are thousands of talented people out there, many of whom are better than you at whatever it is you want to do. There are lawyers and entrepreneurs who are immensely more talented than me. I don’t have to run faster than the bear. I just have to run faster than one other person.

Worst experience ever!!!!

2014-03-14T23:58:00.002+08:00

last post i updated that i bought 2 dresses from Tao Bao,
and if there isn't any postponed, i alrdy received it either Wednesday or Thursday!!!!
but i am so LUCKY that, till now!!!!! my parcel still at China!!!!!
everything just so wrong!
i was so angry of it till now i still can't accept the fact!!!
so here is it:
1st, the seller alrdy sent the dress to the courier office, but the office only sent out the parcel 3 days after! (anayway, it's still have 5 days bfor the prom night, so i wasn't so angry about it)
then 2nd, now the store there only pass the parcel after 3 days also( not including sat n sun!! ) means, the parcel is only picked up on Wednesday by the courier service but not shipping the parcel on the same day to M'sia!! still i think should be too much parcel to be shipped so mayb still in the queue, so i din notify the customer service to update the progress....
But then, till thursday, the parcel still no progress at all!!! i think they missed out!!! and what i found out is on the same day! there are some parcels picked up in the morning and alrdy shipped out in the afternoon.....what does that means????!!! they MISSED OUT my parcel!
after complaining, finally they shipped out at 11pm!!! then i think it should be ok, coz by tmr it should be able to reach M'sia then it will take another day to transfer to me~i can still get the dress in sat morning!
(of course for safe, i asked my mum to pos me another dress from home.)
As what i doesn't wish!!!! today, i keep tracking the parcel, and it hang thr again! I was so pissed off!!!!!

if the parcel was shipped in the afternoon, i will be able to get it tomorrow!!! but not for now anymore!

the 1st pic is other ppl tracking details, 2nd pic is mine's!!!

It tooks more than 24 hours to shipped from China to M'isa!!!!
or the plane is just disappeared like MH370????

what did i do,why i am the one to get this super BAD LUCK???!!!!!
i purposely bought this dress just because of prom night! and plan to sell it off~but now...............it just goes so wrong!!!!

anyway, experience learnt!!!
if the parcel took more than 1 day to shipped, just keep complaining until they really did something if not they will just act like they do concern about the issue but what they actually did is just ignore it!!!!

so upset about this.....totally spoilt my mood!!!

dresses

2014-03-04T23:39:00.003+08:00

been procrastinating more and more this few days.....
my Y2S3 is nearly to the end, it's week 8 now~
it's a very stress week which i got 1 complicated report and 2 tests~
the prob is i am wasting my time keep searching for my dress for prom night~
yeah....going to prom night which i think it a must in my UNI life ...at least once!
and here is it~ i din have any dress in my cupboard~
so if wanted to order online, i need to order now~
but i am in a situation which i need to do my report while studying and searching for dress at the same time!
then for sure the time ticking fast~in a blink~after lunch.....i keep searching til the time for my dinner!
still choosing!
this is the cons for shopping online~
the more u search, the harder choices to make!

I wanted to wear the maxi dress to cover up my elephant leg!
but it's hard to find a very young look maxi dress~
Most of it is with aunty aunty feeling!
AND the price!!! In M'sia, maxi dress seem to be like wedding dress! they are so pricey!!!
at least RM100~

At last decided to buy it on TAOBAO!
yeah, it's cheaper and more choices!
and finally decided to buy 2!
Seriously!!!! then which one nicer, wear that one, the other one i will sell it off!
i think i can earn double of it!!!!
And now, i am waiting for the parcel!!!

So, even i am done with my dressing for prom night!
but i am still in that mood and couldn't concentrate on my study!
GG!!

Been finding the interest in my future!

i think i am in the wrong way

i found myself doesn't favor to Bio recently!

just keep studying for the sake of my exam~

just hope to finish my degree and find out what i passion about!

i dont really have an awful University life like others

this is the part where i am regretting~

anyway life still go on~

just hope for better future~

1314

2014-03-01T01:33:00.001+08:00

“滴答滴答”

宁静酷热的深夜，秒针跳动的声音特别响亮

抬头看了一下时间，啊~又是一点了！

这学期，答应了自己要早睡早起...

的确，实践了一段时间

到头来，这几个星期都在熬夜~

刚做完一部分的assignment....打算明天再继续了

结果熄了灯，闭上眼，发现自己又睡不着了

那就索性打开笔电，更新一下部落格吧~~

是的，又睡不着！

前几天，不晓得为什么就是睡不着，

整夜在床上翻来覆去，一直在自我催眠，向自己报时间，想让自己入眠

反而反效果，好像给自己压力了！直到天空开始变亮时，也就是7点多

才昏昏的睡了下去，

怎知一睡就睡到太阳塞屁股,12 点了~

吃了午餐，又继续到头睡，

整个人就是没有神，没有力是的，

这一睡就睡到太阳下山了~

吃了晚餐，做了些事情又继续补眠！

结果，现在自己感冒了，还有些喉咙痛和咳嗽！

应该是免疫系统下降了再加上现在的天气！

简直就是好时机啊！

好了，半小时过了~

是时候睡觉了！病还么好呢！

晚安

1314，这一天对现在的我来说没什意义~就好好的分配自己的时间吧，过得充实些,做些有意的事情.

~~一个星期就只有那7天，我就被6样assignments, tests, reports占据了~~~

过度考虑

2014-02-16T01:04:00.001+08:00

By Owen Yap ( 叶剑锋 )

“过度考虑别人的感受，是一种对自己的不认同。当每做一件事都在考虑‘别人怎么看’时，你其实已经在放弃自己了。总是活在别人眼神里的人，也等于从来不曾存在过。”

人生在世，完全忽视别人的目光，无法进步；过分在意别人的目光，则容易迷失自己。
Why should you live your life through someone else’s eyes or rather a compilation of other people’s perspectives, but not your own?

miracle do happens

2014-02-15T01:17:00.002+08:00

2014's valentines day falls in the same day as chap gor meh?

or should i wrote

2014's chap gor meh is the same day as Valentines day?

Anyway, it's a very meaningful day
roses are sold every corner in the campus even the roadside!

din thought of somebody will give me any one of it,
just went to class as usual, eating lunch normally....

Surprisingly, i received a rose and a chocolate

from 2 diff friends that are totally not close to me!

they were my juniors,

maybe they are just so loving

maybe i helped them before

i don't know

just feel so warm when received those "gift"

it's lighten up my days...

make me believe that miracles could happen anywhere!

30 minutes more, it has come to the end of 2014 CNY!

there's lots of things i wanted to blog about....

but i was too lazy to blog and started to become busy next week onwards

So, let's just summarize all the things i wanted to share

Just the beginning of 2014, gone through lots of ups and downs! Mostly is happy things!

2014, lots of problem with my car - luckily everybody is safe and sound!

2014, travel to KL with friends (ALONE), bought some new year shirts for myself.

2014, makes some friends which are Penangites during my trip to KL

2014, had a very special CNY in Kuching for the 1st time! (experienced rich people lifestyle)

open house in the house~

2014, tried super fresh salmon and awesome sushiesssss freshly prepare in da house by professionals...

2014, tried lots of home-cooked delicious food- lamb chop, layer cakes, swiss roll, curry lamb....etc( i like the swiss roll the most!!)

2014, 1st time in my life to light up fireworkssSS....yea boxes of fireworks, not the pop pop we used to play

Also, experienced in real life --boxes of fireworks firing in front of me continuously for 30 minutes non-stop! it does pollute the air =( But the moment when the dark sky is being lighten up with colourful fireworks is really amazing! Those Guests-couples kissing everywhere! can't manage to upload the video....it's too large!

2014, tasted super EXPENSIVE alcoholic drinks and learn the ways to drink it !the cheapest is RM 300

2014, finally wore a dress, i mean a dress not school uniform! which i think my last time was still in kindergarten (because of the trend now! dresses hang over every shops...no choice)

2014, bought myself a hair styling tools (started to become girly ??!)

Lastly, 2014, i am single but not available!

当。。。

2014-01-22T23:16:00.000+08:00

小时候，
当，我觉得事情是这样的时候
往往就不是这样，
当，我觉得应该这样做的时候
却做了最不应该的，
当，我觉得我会朝那方向走时
往往却往反方向走，
当，我觉得我做对应该被称赞时
往往就会被骂的狗血淋头，

现在，长大了，
事与愿违，好像也离不开我....
每每，做一件事我都会特害怕，特谨慎！
结果，没差！还是没有我想象中的美好！

可能，这些事让我留下了不少阴影，
常常，我会超级后悔自己所做的决定，所做的一切，包括说的话，做过的事！
即使没有人责备或不赞同，
可是就那么一瞬间，我自己会变得好渺小！看不起自己！恨死自己！
甚至，我会怀疑自己是不是不属于这里！
这个世界好像容不下我！
到哪里，都是怪胎一个！

或许是我太在意了，
或许他人并不这么认为，
或许是我把自己放的太大了
或许我不应该有这种想法
或许乐观点，看透些，
或许就不会那么的辛苦！

When life is sweet, say thank you and celebrate. And when life is bitter, say thank you and grow.

【要学会高傲的活着】
如果没有人陪，学着一个人听音乐看书写文字，这是个好习惯。
不要对人随便发脾气。
如果一个人开始怠慢你，请你离开他。
不要为了任何人任何事折磨自己。
学会承受痛苦。有些话，适合烂在心里，有些痛苦，适合无声无息的忘记。

New start...

2014-01-06T01:32:00.002+08:00

Will it be a new start? or just my thought that drove me away from the reality?

Do you know that you reached my borderline?
i do not even know when will i explode...
all i can do now is just keep steping back...
seriously, i hate this...
can you just be a little thoughtful? think of other people too...
here i found the differences...

all i want now is just peace...
PEACE.......
yea, i hate fighting ><
bcoz i am always the loser...

hope there is another brand new start...
remember what u had said. and do it!

Peace after storm

2013-12-15T22:49:00.001+08:00

Finally, everything back to normal..
no more insomnia, no more tension and no more liars!!!

everything happen in a day....
we cried, we angry, we laughed and then it's time to say goodbye.

Everything happen for a reason,
i believe after this unforgettable experience,
i am stronger than before
i get to know the darkness side of the reality outside..

Although, its just 3 days,
i deeply realize the says, 度日如年
i am impressed by myself to live through this few days

Luckily, there was still humanity over there
i am blessed to have such nice colleague that understand me
and stand by my side
i am glad to have u guys

Now everything is back to normal...
Have a nice sleep and continue counting down for my freedom again!

Time to sleep
Will have a very good sleep for sure

i am not the BALL

2013-12-10T22:01:00.000+08:00

being a FOOTBALL that been kicked here and there made me feel so sick.....

today my friends and me have been transferred from Dynapharm to Dynacosmo

the reason is because too many people is going to resign....so need freshy to continue the job....

but what for they sent us to there for few weeks since we are going to finish our intern 3 weeks more.....

sumore they want us to hide our identity which as a trainee.....

it was totally so stress to work under the lies!

since i am a trainee sure there's a lot of procedure i duno....

then how can i act like i am very pro!

At first i thought i was helping them to do some documentation or maybe some lab testing only

but then....it turns out we are taking their job "FULL JOB"

which is so strange to us....

and we have meeting every morning!

my godness.....i feel so stressed!

ish....

so now i have to hope and pray for everyday go smooth

Yesterday 3 new trainees just came to Dynapharm

and we just started to happy that our job will be shared with the others 3 trainee...

manatau....the 2nd day, we have been transferred.......

just to release my angers here....

life still move on

think in another way that we can learn more and get to know the real working place

maybe this is a nice experience for me....

现实的残酷

2013-11-16T20:51:00.002+08:00

按别人的指引，盲目的前进，可能就会一步踏空，摔得惨痛。

没有永恒的朋友，只有永恒的利益。

很多人只靠着一张脸活着，却不知早已如同行尸走肉一般苟且。

我抱起砖头就没法抱你，放下砖头就没法养你。

不逼自己一把，你的世界永远是黑白的。

你们当初剪下了我的翅膀，现在却要我飞翔。

有时候，你不知道自己的话有多伤人。

我把心交给了你，你却用冷漠的眼光杀死了我。

邪恶的内心，远比邪恶的外表可怕得多。

长大了，我们就不再是纯粹的人…

你真的真的能承受所有人异样的眼光吗？

你知道在你身边的人是天使还是恶魔吗？

年龄不是问题，关键是拥有一颗年轻的心。

老师说，所有人的起跑线都是一样的，我想也是…

有危险在靠近，跟你最亲近的全然不知，而被你抛弃的心知肚明，却无法告诉你。

男人的眼中只有女人的下半身。

男人被束缚了自由，女人即使对他再好，他也是厌烦的。

当你在算计别人的时候，别人也在算计你。

富人的钱，永远都是从劳动者那里获取...

靠男人的女人，总有一天会摔倒。

渴望自由的孩子仰望星空，眼睛却看不见真实。

其实天使就在身边，可你却听了恶魔的话。

人生就像舞台，不到谢幕，永远不知道自己有多精彩。

没有菱角的人走的会很快，但到下坡路的时候也会滚的很远。

有时候，眼见未必是现实。

永远不要放弃你的梦想！

摘下戒指那天你才会发现…merry me

可怕的不是真坏人，而是假好人。

每个成功男人的背后，必定有一个默默付出不要求回报的女人；每个任性的女人背后，必定有一个百般娇宠她的男人。

2013-11-02T13:35:00.000+08:00

看完，一定让你获益不浅。

【智慧】
美女住酒店一晚结账时账单800元，她抱怨太贵。经理说这是标准收费，酒店附设泳池、健身房和wifi。美女说自己完全没使用，经理说饭店有提供，是她自己不用。女客人打开皮包掏钱付账，但说要扣除经理和她共度春宵的700元，只拿出100元。经理急呼：“我哪有？”女客人：“我有提供，是你自己不用！”

【习惯】
乞丐到小王家乞讨，他给十块，第二天乞丐又去，又给十块，持续两年。一天只给五块，乞丐：以前给十块，怎么现在给五块？小王：我结婚了。乞丐一巴掌打过去：妈的，你竟拿我的钱去养你老婆？
启示：当提供免费服务让客户成为一种习惯，这种服务就不再是优势，而是劣势。

【夫妻】
夫妇逛商场，女的看中一套高档餐具，坚持要买，丈夫嫌贵，不肯掏钱。导购一看，悄悄对丈夫说了句话，他一听马上掏钱。是什么让他立马转变？导购员对丈夫说：“这么贵的餐具，你太太是不会舍得让你洗碗的。”

启示：人的观念没有什么不可改变，关键是角度，要善于揣摩客户心理。

【班花】
女生公开投票选班花，相貌平平的小梅发表演说：如我当选，再过几年，在座姐妹可以向自己先生骄傲的说，我上大学时候，比班花还漂亮！结果，她全票当选 —— 启示：说服别人支持你，不一定要证明比别人都优秀，而是让别人觉得，因为有你，他们变得更优秀更有成就感。

【管理的弊端】
女孩买了条裤子，一试太长，请奶奶帮忙剪短，奶奶说忙；找妈妈，也没空；找姐姐，更没空。女孩失望地入睡了。奶奶忙完家务想起小孙女的裤子，就把裤子剪短了一点；姐姐回来又把裤子剪短了；妈妈回来也把裤子剪短了，最后裤子没法穿了。——管理的弊端就在于：要么都不管，要么都来管！

【经典故事】
老虎抓到一头鹿后要把它吃掉！鹿说：“你不能吃我！” 老虎愣了一下，问：“为什么？” 鹿：“因为我是国家二级保护动物！” 老虎大笑道：“总不能为了二级保护动物而让一级保护动物饿死吧？！”
感悟：时刻保持危机感，不要让自己那点优势害死。

【杯子】
当一只玻璃杯中装满牛奶的时候，人们会说“这是牛奶”；当改装菜油的时候，人们会说“这是菜油”。只有当杯子空置时，人们才看到杯子，说“这是一只杯子”。同样，当我们心中装满成见、财富、权势的时候，就已经不是自己了；人往往热衷拥有很多，却往往难以真正的拥有自己
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【碗破的启示】
一个卖瓷碗的老人挑着扁担在路上走着，突然一个瓷碗掉到地上摔碎了，但是老人头也不回地继续向前走。路人看到觉得很奇怪，便问：“为什么你的碗摔碎了你却不看一下呢？” 老人答到：“我再怎么回头看，碗还是碎的。”你得到什么启示呢？

【要害与敏感关键点】
公司在男厕小便池上贴了一纸条：“往前一小步，文明一大步。”结果地上仍有许多尿渍。后来公司认真吸取教训，纸条改成：“尿不到池里说明你短；尿到池外说明你软”，结果地上比以前干净许多。启示：有时扬其长不如揭其短！给客户的提案要具体并准确地切中其要害与敏感关键点才有效。

【个人与团队】
老师问弟子：一滴水如何能不干枯？弟子沉默不语。老师说道：一滴水，风可以将它吹干、土可以把它吸干、太阳可以把它蒸发，要想要不干枯，只有让它融入大海。一个人无力独撑天下，要想获得成功，就得学会与人合作，独木难林，这就是我们常说的：再强大的个人都不如一个团结的组织。

【比耐力】
两只乌龟在田边相对一动不动，老农对一旁的专家说：它们在比耐力，谁先动谁就输了。专家指着一只龟壳上有甲骨文的乌龟说：据我多年研究，这只乌龟已死五千多年了。另一只乌龟伸出头来说：死了也不说一声，害得老子在这里干等。装死的乌龟大笑说：你输了吧，专家的话你也听！

【经验与学历】
一伙劫匪在抢银行时说了句至理名言：“通通不许动，钱是国家的，命是自己的！”劫匪回去后，其中一新来的硕士劫匪说，老大，我们赶快数一下抢了多少，那老劫匪（小学文化）说：“你傻啊？这么多，你要数到什么时候？今天晚上看新闻不就知道吗？” 网友微评：这年头工作经验比学历更重要！

【值得思考】
某人买了一坛好酒，放在小院，第二天，酒少了1/5，便在酒桶上贴了不许偷酒四个字。第三天酒又少了2/5，又贴了偷酒者重罚。第四天，酒还是被偷，于是贴尿桶二字，看谁还喝。第五天他哭了。桶满了……故事还没完，第六天，他再次在酒桶上贴了不许偷酒四字。那一天很多人都哭了。

【鹦鹉与乌鸦】
鹦鹉遇到乌鸦，笼中的鹦鹉安逸；野外的乌鸦自由。鹦鹉羡慕乌鸦自由，乌鸦羡慕鹦鹉安逸，二鸟便商议互换。乌鸦得到安逸，但难得主人欢喜，最后抑郁而死；鹦鹉得到自由，但长期安逸，不能独立生存，最终饥饿而死。
——做最好的自己，不要羡慕他人的幸福，也许那并不适合你。

【顿悟】
老师问：“有个人要烧壶开水，生火到一半时发现柴不够，他该怎么办?”有的同学说赶快去找，有的说去借、去买。老师说：“为什么不把壶里的水倒掉一些呢?”。
——同学顿悟，世事总不能万般如意，有舍才有得。人生的许多寻找，不在于千山万水，而在于咫尺之间。

【穷人】
穷人问佛：我为什么这样穷？佛说：你没有学会给予别人。穷人：我一无所有如何给予？佛：一个人一无所有也可以给予别人七种东西。颜施-微笑处事；言施-说赞美安慰的话；心施-敞开心扉对人和蔼；眼施-善义的眼光给予别人；身施-以行动帮助别人；座施-即谦让座位；房施-有容人之心。

【化妆品】
朋友刚结婚不久，开了家化妆品店，生意好得不得了。有天我去店里玩，见一40多岁的女顾客问小李：“这款化妆品效果怎么样？” 小李：“哦，这款我不熟悉。请等一下，我妈帮你介绍。”说着把他老婆拉了过来。顾客直视其老婆足足十分钟，什么也没问就掏出钱包：“买＂。

【营销哲学】
一害羞男孩在教室自习，看到一个很中意的女孩，眼看女孩看完书要离开了，害羞的男孩憋红了脸上前搭讪：同学能借我10块钱吃面条吗？钱包丢宿舍了，这是我的学生证，你给我手机号，回头还你钱。女孩想了想说：行吧。正掏钱，男孩又说：要是能借20，我请你也吃一碗。

【琐事】
一只鼬鼠要与一只狮子决战，狮子果断地拒绝了。鼬鼠说：“你害怕了吗？”狮子说：“如果答应你，你就可以得到曾与狮子比武的殊荣；而我呢，以后所有的动物都会耻笑我竟和鼬鼠打架。”
——不要被不重要的人和事过多打搅，因为成功的秘诀就是抓住目标不放，而不是把时间浪费在无谓的琐事上。

【销售心理】
某富翁娶妻，有三个人选，富翁给了三个女孩各一千元，请她们把房间装满。女孩A买了很多棉花，装满房间的1/2。女孩B买了很多气球，装满房间3/4。女孩C买了蜡烛，让光充满房间。最终，富翁选了胸部最大的那个。
——这个故事告诉我们：了解客户的真实需求非常重要。

【有效沟通】
两头牛在一起吃草，青牛问黑牛：“喂！你的草是什么味道？”黑牛道：“草莓味！”青牛靠过来吃了一口，愤怒地喊到“你个骗子！”黑牛轻蔑地看他一眼，回道：“尼玛，我说草没味。”
启示：团队合作、管理过程中，能否有效沟通、掌握有效沟通渠道是凝聚竞争力，强化执行力，提升业绩的关键。

【卖菜中的销售学问】
在一菜摊前看见两堆菜。买：“这边多少钱一斤？” 答：“1块。”再问：“那边呢？” 答：“1块5。” 问：“为什么？” 答：“那边的好一些。” 于是买了1块5的。后来发现摊主快速把1块的一分变成两堆，很快1块5一斤的又都卖光了！

被偷走的那五年--观后感

2013-09-30T00:58:00.002+08:00

由黄真真导演，白百何、张孝全、范玮琪、安心亚、阿ken等倾情出演的电影《被偷走的那五年》是一部主打怀念系的爱情轻喜剧。

会去下载这部戏纯属巧合，之前并不知道有这么一部戏

是不知不觉中在fb上看到有人在评论这部戏，说很感人

再加上，现在在自己家里，网线快到不行！哈哈。。。所以就这样不小心的看了那么一部戏！

其实，这部戏没有很大的制作！是非常简单的拍摄

但是却很贴切，很容易感动到人

这部戏没有那种偶像剧里的帅哥美女的场景，

朴实到不行！

白百何没有美到让人羡慕，张孝全也没有在耍帅（除了几个场景）

影片讲述的是事业和婚姻原本都很美满的何蔓，从一场车祸醒来后发现，自己深爱的老公谢宇已经与自己离婚，并且成为了别人的男朋友，曾经最好的闺蜜竟然与自己反目成仇，公司同事也都对她敬而远之。原来，她忘记了过去五年所发生的一切，失去了生命中最重要的爱情和友情。

其实我并没有很喜欢他的拍摄手法

有几个场景有点接不上，而且很模糊

不过整体的故事真的很不错！

我很喜欢

也因为这部戏，

我突然发觉范范的声音，好迷人！

开始喜欢上她的歌

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~~真希望你也有看这部戏，~~

~~如果我俩都看过这部戏后~~

~~会不会影响现在的决定呢？~~

~~无论如何，~~

~~既然决定了，就不反悔！~~

~~再见亦是朋友~~

=）

中秋节篇

2013-09-19T23:19:00.001+08:00

独在异乡为异客，每逢佳节倍思亲
以前在读这句谚语时，没什么特别的感触！

今年，因为期末考来不及回家
却想起了这句，寂寞感突然涌了上来！
还剩一个小时，中秋节就要结束了！

而明天又是我的last subject
可是我真的没有mood 读啊！
study mood 老早已经远走高飞了！

现在，满脑都在想假期要做什么，怎么充实那短暂的假期！
希望自己不要一直窝在家里煲戏罢了！
我要远离电子世界！

最后，祝自己中秋节快乐吧
读书去。。。

少做十件事，快樂自然來

2013-09-18T20:11:00.000+08:00

快樂之神為什麼總是擦身而過？因為有十件事會嚇跑它。今天起，無需追逐，少做這些，快樂自會降臨！
　　
1.責備
　　
事情出錯時，與其生氣的責備別人，自討苦吃，不如關注下次如何做得更好。
　　
2.做作
　　
沒有人會因為你的衣服、車、頭銜而真正喜歡你，這些只不過都是身外物。做真實的自己，真朋友才會走到身邊，帶來無限樂趣。
　　
3.執著
　　
當害怕和缺乏安全感時，才會僅僅抓住一樣東西不放，才會過分執著於你所知道的一切，而這樣並不會帶給你真正的安全感。試著放手，向著你心所往的方向前進，即使不成功，嘗試的過程，也會讓你自我感覺更好，更快樂。
　　
4.打斷
　　
打斷別人沒有禮貌，而且會讓人不喜歡你。做一個傾聽者，關注別人說的話，多問問題理解別人，和諧交流會讓你更快樂。
　　
5.抱怨
　　
不停的抱怨各種問題，會讓你感覺更糟糕。與其浪費時間抱怨，不如想辦法改善。不論是和自己對話，還是和朋友或同事，少說做錯了什麼，多想想如何做的更好。
　　
6.控制
　　
不管你是老闆，還是小角色，你唯一能真正控制的其實只有你自己。與其拼命控制別人，讓壓力、恐懼和權威縈繞，不如尋找和你方向一致的人，或者給別人以引導，讓他們主動前進，這樣才會更努力，更有樂趣，更融洽的關係也會讓你更快樂。
　　
7.批評
　　
受過更好的教育、經驗更豐富、爬過更多的山，吃過更多的鹽，這些並不會讓你更聰明、更優秀、更深刻，只不過讓你更加獨特而已。每個人都不同，有缺點也有優點，懂得欣賞這些不同，而不是抓住缺點不放，你所看到的自己和別人才會更好，更快樂。
　　
8.說教
　　
其實批評還有一個兄弟，就是說教。他們的共同特點就是肆意評論人。當你對人說教時，別人只是在聽，並沒有聽進去。這種悲哀的交流，不會帶你給一絲快樂。

9.徘徊
　　
過去的經歷，可以讓我們從中汲取經驗教訓，但不要徘徊不前，消磨了當下的快樂和未來的憧憬。
　　
10.恐懼
　　
對於未知、變化、無能為力、別人的看法，我們多少都有恐懼，因此停滯不前。但時間會流逝，夢想也會。因此千萬別讓恐懼擋住了前進的道路，今天是你所擁有最寶貴的財富，一切從今天開始吧！

上了大學才知道

2013-08-22T19:16:00.001+08:00

上了大學才知道，兩個天天在一起的人不一定是朋友，有可能什麽都不是。
上了大學才知道，人的性格可以差異到如此之大。
上了大學才知道，許多曾經的人會變的讓你認不出，但請留住回憶。
上了大學才知道，對自己好的人會隨著時間的流逝越來越少。
上了大學才知道，可以不把所有人當朋友，但千萬不能把一個人當敵人，至少可以當同學。
上了大學才知道，太在乎別人了往往會傷害自己。
上了大學才知道，一個人要自己對自己好，因為真正關心你的人很少，有了事他們也不一定會在你身邊。所以要自己照顧自己。
上了大學才知道，很多時候自己遇到不開心事，千萬不要渴望別人同情，大多數人會采取冷漠回敬的。那樣會更讓人家看不起。
上了大學才知道，會有人很討厭你或者和你過不去，但是他愛怎麽樣就怎麽樣，我們要大度，不和小人計較，但前提是你正確。
上了大學才知道，戀愛不一定是真心的，有可能是利益關系，有可能是攀比心理。(身边大部分都是)
上了大學才知道，真心對一個人好不一定有回報，而你忽略的人往往有可能是最重視你的。
上了大學才知道，原來中學老師教的是那麽好，那麽負責任。
上了大學才知道，手機是有事的時候用的，並不是為了交流感情。(所以现在我很缺智能手机)
上了大學才知道，課程會在你不經意間，拉下很多，期末考試前不一定能補回來。
上了大學才知道，錢用的是那麽快，用錢的地方是那麽多。
上了大學才知道，會遇到很多誘惑，無論別人怎麽樣，你是你，你有你的原則和底限。
上了大學才知道，學習要刻苦，因為憑聰明就能應付大學科目的人是鳳毛麟角。
上了大學才知道，原來時間一空閑下來是那麽無聊，絲毫沒有中學的充實的感覺。
上了大學才知道，快樂常常來自回憶，而痛苦常常來自於回憶與現實的差距。
上了大學才知道，每個人都是帶有“地方特色”的。

A poster that paralysed my right arm!

2013-08-03T02:06:00.001+08:00

Finally finish the Clinical Biochem POSTER!
my gosh! my right hand almost paralyzed!
how i wish i can use my hand/ mind to control the computer!
the hardest poster design i had ever done!
bfore i just design the A4 size poster
but now the poster size is A0 which is 16 x A4 size!
i can't really estimate the font size!

the whole process of editing is keep zoom in then zoom out and grouping the item together!
maybe adobe photoshop is more easier but i din even know how to insert the text!
i did try on photoshop, but it cant work.....
every step i want to do, i need to search for tutorial!
it's time consuming! so i GIVE UP!
use back my most familiar microsoft....publisher!
luckily there's another option!
or else i no need sleep le!

let see our component in the poster
how scary it s!
i cant believe i did it in 3 days time!
it' s tough and time consuming!
but it worth it!

btw....had a superb bad mood in this editing process! luckily din boom out, manage to hold my anger!
i think this is a good sign for me...
and i had to say this is the first ever best group assignment i had done
i enjoy the process coz everyone is participating but not leave me alone in the whole process!
this is what " group assignment" mean!
it's a groupwork! but not individual!
of course there will be some opinion crash, but this is how group work works!

It's AUGUST

2013-08-01T01:30:00.002+08:00

just finish my last MICROBIOLOGY REPORT!

Finally!!!
it's week 10...now is 1st of August!
Happy August, be good to me! thanks~~

so, after weeks of busy life,
left only 2 tests and 1 assignment(almost done) and of course the unknown number of REPORTS
this sem looks like a bit more relax with only 2 assignments (OHR and Clinical Biochem)
BUT! things never go what u think !
it's surface looks calm but who know down there are lots of big storm!!

seriously, i think my organ inside the body is now a 70 yrs old ppl's organ!
totally lack of sleep from week 6 onwards!
everyday stay awake til late night and only sleep for 1-2 hours. sometimes better, 4-5 hours but still worst!!
so desperate to look into mirror!the big dark circle and drooping skin! the worst health ever! OMG
feel like tear out the whole face!
the unhealthy lifestyle without any sports is torturing me, now with the lacking of sleep!
my gosh! dare not to think how old i am now!

although this sem is better than last sem
but still not satisfy with the outcome!
laziness still overwhelmed my angels!
keep wasting time...and tha last minutes habit!
i hate myself so much!

okay.....don't wanna waste my precious sleeping time!
before Raya, i still need to keep this routine!
night!

not dare to try coffee late night ever!

never know the power of coffee be so effective on recent me

last time, it didn't work on me also!

haiz! pity my body!

不上不下

2013-07-19T23:28:00.001+08:00

累了，
我真的累了....

做什么都力不从心
成绩一直下滑，assignment 都在敷衍了事, report 也做到乱七八糟
简直不三不四啊！

这个学期里
我的睡眠素质真得很差！
几乎没有一次可以不设闹钟，让我一觉到天亮，还是那种无忧无虑的睡眠！
谁说累了，就可以歇下??
时间严重不够用到，我想把头撞想墙壁死了算！（只是 “想”而已，我还不至于那么傻的）

第一次，有那么强烈的挫败感！
好想休学一阵子，找回那原来的自我
可是，就是没那勇气....
反正如果没有意外，不，是不可以有意外，
我顺利pass完这个学期的科目，就是我的实习了
希望，在这3个月的实习里，能找到更明确的方向！
然后，发愤图强，力争上游吧！

~心情写照~

2013-07-12T00:30:00.002+08:00

暴风雨前夕那虚伪的风平浪静
就像心底波涛汹涌着，表面却没那回事
费神又伤身啊！
躲在面具底下以为完好无缺，结果却是伤痕累累
裂得不懂得怎么缝补了

人人都渐渐赶上轨道，而自己却一节一节的脱轨
远离了那目的地。
自甘堕落的现象越来越明显
深知谁也帮不了谁，唯有自己拉自己一把
往往却只有纸上谈兵，无动于衷

最近又得一启
有时候，他人美好的事物，未必对你是最好的！
还是寻找专属自己的快乐吧
不理会他人怎么想，怎么说
就随心所欲，为所欲为
痛痛快快的活吧
越是约缚自己，反而弄巧反拙！
好比前些日子拼命控制购物欲，结果最近狂刷卡！
一觉醒来，才发觉，账上的数字一直在减少
如同卷上的那字号

闭上眼睛，
没有瀑布般的飞流直下，
只是那么一小滴 “遗憾的水珠”
不是歇斯底里，是后悔的，懊恼的

输在起跑点罢了，
加把劲，加快脚步还可以冲想前线的！
奋斗吧！

渐渐懂了

2013-06-24T10:17:00.000+08:00

渐渐懂了，
自己的時間需要自己給予，
自己的世界需要自己创造；

渐渐懂了，
自己在乎的別人未必在乎，
自己看到的，未必是他人眼中的风景。

< The Wedding Dress> after reading...

2013-06-23T02:07:00.003+08:00

yeah...the weekend,
people are struggling with their lecture notes for the mid-term test next monday
while i was sitting idly in my room with a hand holding a novel
named "The Wedding Dress" by Madeleine Wickham
which i brought it using my book voucher

this was my 3rd english novel i read!
and i love the writer writing's style
it was so plain, and i can understand almost every words
not like the "percy jackson" series....
i barely know what the story was about, but for the detailed was quite blur as i don't really understand very well
it means my english suck!

okay...overall,
the first thing that came across my brain after reading this novel is poor Milley( the main character), she did such a stupid decision at eighteen! and causes she can't be marry with the guy she love!
and it's a complicated love story!
i was so confused at the very first moment i read it, the characters are all in mess relation but sooner it getting clearer and more excited!
i was urge to know the ending part....so i skipped to the last chapter!hahaha...
but then i did catched up everything of course
i don't know how to write the comment of this book
just for me, the lesson of this book is:
never ever try to make a decision following your mood especially at the very energized, and young age like me!!
do think the consequences first before u say "yes"~

finished it in a very quick skimming, jumping all the adjective
because i know i shouldn't waste my time on this thingy
so i just hope to get back my reading hobby by forcing me to read some reading material instead of computer!
then i hope i can slowly turn back to the old me!
the reading hobby has been fading since i started my foundation!
i quit reading after all, and then i become lazier
lastly, what happened in last sem!
it was totally my worst day i have ever been!
so i planned to be more self-controlled!
time-management!

so, this is my first kick!
i hope i can continue to read but not the novel...it's lecture notes!
Conquer the sleeping mood whenever it overwhelmed me!
exercise more to made my brain clear!
and of course, stay away from electronics--> mobile phone, lappy.
this is my target!

i want a healthier lifestyle!

okay, time for report!
good night!

an email made my day!

2013-06-12T00:52:00.001+08:00

this is the first time ever
applying the job by myself!
and i received an approval letter from the company 4 hours later!
wuhoo! the feeling is so nice!
you will feel it when you go through all the process!
ya! it made my day!

the luck is by my side!
some people apply so much companies
but seem like everyone still not yet received any response from the company!
i was acknowledged 4 hours after i emailed my resume!

Dear Ms Lai ,

We are pleased to inform you that your application for the above has been approved. You will be given an allowance of RM15 per day.

Kindly report to us on 01 Oct 13 at 9.00am and please remember to bring your own lab coat for the training.

Best Rgds,
Christina Khor

invisible tension

2013-06-05T01:42:00.003+08:00

惨了，才星期二，就觉得week 2 快要结束了...
今天上了2堂practical class: microbiology + clinical biochemistry
老实说，我恨死microbiology!
好多bacteria 的名字都不好背！再加上几乎一模一样的~
第一堂课罢了，我就酱讨厌了...
啊，不可以啊！我要'爱' 上你！！

不知不觉，压力来了，
是隐形的，看不到！
最近整个人就是感觉怪怪的，开始拖拖拉拉在浪费时间，就是不温习！
嘴馋的不得了！拼命煲戏！

啊！！！！
好多东西烦啊！
internship, MUET, reports,....还有一大堆想参加的活动，只怕自己没时间！
time management! i need you!

再给自己几天吧！
我会整理好心情！重新冲刺！

=))))