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Believes in order for Yourself

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 01:43:00 +0700

Confidence is the main capital to achieve a success in life. Many things can make a person lose self-confidence but there are also things that could make someone so confident. Here are tips to be confident.

Be honest with yourself. Get to know your physical first. Overconfidence is not a good thing but not confident is also a disadvantage. Greatly in need realize that we live in an eastern customs which is often the main criteria in judging a person's physical. If you have a deficiency in the event you do not physically insecure. If this is your physical flaws can be fixed then fix. But if it can not be repaired then accept yourself as is. Every person must have a deficiency of the body and therefore magazines that teach how to camouflage the parts that are less you like it to be something that you like.

Realize the potential that exists within you. Bitter-bitter way of life must have a value that is not replaceable. Get to know yourself well, what are your strengths and weaknesses. Increase what is your strengths and find ways for your shortcomings not to harm others. Every human being is created with a unique by the Almighty with the stock and certain talents, therefore you should not worry there must be something good in you.

If you are in an environment that can appreciate who you are and not because you lack then you are a very lucky person. But if not then do not be discouraged. You have to show that being human is not just 'outside' alone but 'it' was the one who later in the liability account for up to a level-tallest aka Hereafter.

Appearance is important. Is not new, if someone says the appearance is not important then it is quite irrelevant to this world. A wise man said that if you can not control the look of your appearance you how did you cope with other things. Your appearance is your personality. Looking good and polite and appropriate to the place and time. Look good no relation at all with the word 'expensive'.

Convinced that you can. No one would be able to convince you other than yourself. If you are in environments that are equally insecure then avoid such a community. Find a community of people who believe in themselves. Intercourse is contagious effect gradually so you can be confident. In order to increase confidence say to yourself, that you are sure you can.

Remember the Lord. God created man with purpose and intention. If indeed you are stuck with the confidence you then pray to him so he opened the road. He demonstrated the proper way to increase your confidence. God

Hair Styles Personality Through Binoculars

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 01:39:00 +0700

Style and turns hair model can describe someone you know ... personality. You also can do a personality test based on hair style.

Want to know how your personality traits of real seen hair style? Here's a woman's personality based on haircuts as quoted from page Idiva.
Short Hair Style
Short haircuts associated with intelligence and moderation. Some girls love the classic style of the shorter to make it look more mature. If you have a bob haircut short or very short hair, it also marks the screams of gender equality!

Shoulder length
Graceful and strong, that's her personality behind her long hair. Medium length hair model emits a strong aura about him and considered as a perfect blend of beauty and brains. He enjoyed being flattered and not feel bothered or wanted to hide it.

Long
This hair style indicates a sensual personality and have confidence. But a woman with long hair, well not continue to send signals that are completely different. This could mean either people are not too careful or someone who is desperately trying to cover herself with her hair.

Wavy
Waves signify joy. A woman with hair style is likely to include people who are happy with high self-esteem.

Straight and long
This hair style shows the impression of a modern woman and a professional attitude.

Pigtail
Do not mess with a woman with her hair in a ponytail. He was a practical, no nonsense and quiet. He was ready with the challenges that come up to him. A ponytail is worn over the head indicates high energy and confidence.

Bun
Like the form of bread, a woman who has a bun hair style gives the impression as being cold. He also tends to prefer to be left alone. However, he was the kind of woman who dared to accept the risks of mistakes.

Layer Style
Women with layered hair styles tend to have a pleasant personality. But, there are also quiet. Interesting indeed, women with this style can have two personalities: quiet, but fun.

With a personality test through hair style, you can find a female friend of your partner's personality, perhaps his female co-worker or boss

Slim In 48 Hours!

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Fri, 7 Oct 2011 20:47:00 +0700

Two days was a special day for you and him, and of course you want to look stunning for the he is not? But within 48 hours how can you give a stunning appearance and looks a little slim? Find ways to slim down within 48 hours here.

It is very easy and not have to bother. Only in 48 hours you can get a more slender body and dazzle.

1. Menu detox for you
In two days you eat the menu set. Avoid all fatty and fried foods. Expand to eat vegetables and fruits and less carbohydrates. Make sure your protein needs be met through a side dish, and milk.

Make sure the fruit and vegetables became the largest portion in each of your menu for 48 hours. The comparison is 75: 25 for fruit vegetables: carbohydrates.

Choose steamed or boiled presentation techniques in the diet that you eat so do not hesitate to eat and confused calculate the amount of calories that go into your stomach.

2. Green Tea Plus mineral water
Two of these weapons is the secret weapon for those who want to look slim in 48 hours. 8 Make sure you sip a glass of mineral water and add 4 cups of green tea, a beverage which accelerates the process of burning calories in the body.

3. Jam Packed
It's important to schedule your meals. Make sure you eat on time and not late. Although you want a slim body, lest you decide to stop eating and expect your body weight down. Because to lose weight is to set the ideal intake of nutrients that enter.

Organize your meals, and do not dine at top at 6. Chewing and snacking on the hours of 6 will make your cheeks look chubby, even if you feel very hungry, the fruit is the best option to cure your hunger. [Break]

4. Getting enough sleep
The body needs adequate rest, for that you need to sleep 7-8 hours a day so your body's metabolism and hormones in the body better able to function properly.

Do not underestimate the 48 hours of your regular life, because with adequate rest during the two days your body will feel the difference.

5. Do some exercise!
During the 48 hours it is important to do exercises for your body. Cardio for 30 minutes, then lift weights for 30 minutes. See the difference on your body look slim these.

Addiction Should Caution

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Fri, 7 Oct 2011 20:41:00 +0700

Shhh, there are other dangerous than opiate drugs. Let's find out together what are they?

Most of us have always thought of drugs, alcohol, and nicotine on hearing the word "opium". Whereas all the above prohibited items only part of it. Unwittingly, some of us have become addicted to other things, the truth is also dangerous. What is it?
Let's find 10 of them.

Coffee
Caffeine is a powerful stimulant that affects the brain in the same area with the impact of cocaine, morphine, and nicotine. The average of the Indonesian people love and regularly drank coffee every day. If any of you who drink up to 6-7 cups per day, or can not undergo the days are 'comfortable' with no coffee, then maybe you're addicted to caffeine.

Gambling
Nothing should be in the casino, lottery and betting small was also classified in the 'family' of gambling. Not satisfied won once, wanted to win again. The loser was also curious about "how the hell it was like to win?" Gambling is a serious problem which if passed will destroy the personal and family life.

Impulse shopping
Can not live without shopping? In fact you can not sleep well because they have not managed to buy the coveted purple shoes from ogled this afternoon? Ow .. ow ... lest you have started to be bound by the habits of 'wasting money' on this one.

Internet
Day and night I always
Staring at the screen transfixed
For on line on line
On line on line

Remember the longer the bertitle ONLINE Saykoji it? Now online should not always be done by staring at computer screens, mobile in hand can make someone forget to distinguish between real and virtual life.

Food
Starting from the bulimia skinny to obese aunt, all the morbidity pattern of eating can be categorized as an eating disorder. If this is allowed to continue, then that arises is addicted to food.

Sex
Sex addiction appeared in various forms, ranging from masturbation addiction, hooked associated with prostitutes, to mutually couple, until the affair for the sake of sex.

Alcohol
Alcohol abuse and dependence on intoxicating drinks are now not only swept the western world, but also ground water. Be careful!

TV

Morning, set the TV to watch the news. Afternoon, unfortunately that's favorite soap opera series to miss the rest. Afternoon, there is always infotainment news presenting a variety of interesting celebrities. Night, his time watching action movies ...

Calculate how long you spend in front of the TV! Whether family, laundry, cooking and even so neglected because of it?

Sleep
Did you know that there are groups of people are so fond of sleep? He even managed to sleep most of the time. The result? Drowsiness continues, lazy doing anything, because it wanted only to sleep on. Body's biological clock so disturbed and clearly the type of person is not productive at all.

Actually there are many other addictions (mostly associated with psychiatric problems), such an addiction to tidiness, cleanliness, care, health, employment, and so on. However, the review above let be a mirror to us that anything that is excessive is not good. Let's free ourselves from everything that binds so that we can become a productive and happy.

Secret Men In Brain

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Fri, 7 Oct 2011 20:33:00 +0700

Not only curious about the man who likes women, we too right?

To understand the mind of a man, we need to know what's really happening in their brains. Not only that, we also must recognize that the hormone testosterone was also influence their behavior. Here we share 10 secrets about what is in the brains of these whiskered creatures.

1. More emotional
Really, men are more emotionally mature than women? Yup, although it is our people who are usually considered to be more emotional, but research suggests that male infants were much more emotional and expressive than female babies. Adult men also have a strong emotional reaction, but it is only real when they're unaware of what they feel and not keep their reactions, so says a study published in Scandinavian Journal of Psychology (2008).

2. Easy to feel lonely
"Loneliness can indeed affect anyone, but older men are the soft targets," said Dr.. Louann Brizendine, author of THE MALE BRAIN. When old, men usually do not keep hanging out as much as women, making it easy for them to feel alone. Married and living with his wife could help, because stable relationships tend to make him more healthy, long life, and rarely stressed.

3. Focus on solutions
Women are much more empathetic than men? Hmm, it seems Dr. Brizendine did not fully agree with the idea. Because the system of empathy in the male brain does not give the same response as well as women. The men tend to be more fun and focus to resolve the problem rather than show solidarity feelings.

4. Spontaneous against women
Besides often associated with aggressive and pugnacious attitude, testosterone also affects the libido of this mustache. Pranjal Mehta as a social psychologist at Columbia University (New York) and his team found that these hormones make men ogle spontaneously at the sight of a beautiful woman, but also quickly forgotten when they no longer see the woman.

5. Defensive
Dr. Brizendine says, part of the brain 'defensive' big men more than women. Therefore, they will desperately defend when something threatens the lives, relationships, and their territories.

6. Who's the boss?
"The hierarchy that can make him nervous blurred," said Dr.. Brizendine. However, a clear leadership structure as in the military or office for example, can reduce testosterone levels, and likewise with their aggressive nature. Men need to know clearly 'position'.

7. Different young people, parents also different when
"When I was young, he usually likes to compete to get their status or spouse, but when growing up, they are usually able to cooperate with each other," said Mehta. These changes seem to be affected again by testosterone levels. Higher levels of these hormones, the higher a man's desire to compete, and vice versa. This is according to a study published in the journal Hormones and Behavior (2009).

8. Father's instincts
Brain man entered the best period (in terms of cooperation) in a matter of months before the birth of her child. The shadow children make it to be prepared to be a father, and this also affects the hormones in her body, making increased prolactin, and testosterone decreased. So says a study released by the Evolution and Human Behavior (2009).

9. Instincts play
And, having had a son, a father also has an instinct play that is different from the mother. Their games are usually more spontaneous, rude, and likes to tease. Positive, it makes children better prepared to face the rigors of life. Another study revealed that active fathers tend to have lower testosterone levels. That's good!

10. Want to get married too
Unfaithfulness is one of the nature of man before he reaches the age of 30, according to a study published by the Proceedings of the Royal Society (2007). After that, he can only focus to provide for his family.

In addition, a 2008 study published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Science stated that due to genetic problems, some men have difficulty with the name of commitment. Men without 'gene intercourse' (about 60% of the population) tend to have the desire to get married. Who says that only women who require a wedding? Men, too.

Maximize Holiday Lectures

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Fri, 7 Oct 2011 20:27:00 +0700

Really relieved to have passed the exam! Holiday in sight, unfortunately if we spent hanging out at home or frequency in the mall. Fun, really, the content of our holiday with fun things that productive-will be useful later on!

Calculate the residence
How long boarding in place now? Not tired? New atmosphere would make a new spirit. If we had a boarding house just across the campus, now looking a bit far-let us be healthy and walk every day. Invite friends hunting together. Origin of diligent searching, we'll be boarding a comfortable and affordable.

Impromptu tour guide
Our campus outside the city? Just right, here, is promoted. Determine the interesting places in our college town, and then exhibited in the social networking site or blog. So if a friend or relative we are interested, we could take her around town. Additional revenue can also, right.

Reunion + SALE
Reunion with distant relatives not only on feast days. While we are a long time, use to visit their homes. Not bad really to expand the network of vacation plus free-overnight, right, without pay, he he he. Ease back, we can all show off our handiwork. For example, selling pastries. It must be purchased, by the brothers.

Unloading cabinets
Supersaturated closet just to make trouble. Invite friends unpacking a boarding one closet. Clothes that are not used (but still good) can be collected and made a garage sale.

Cheap tour
Vacations to various places of unique and free not always expensive. NGOs have joined with environmentalists. Usually they have a project to save nature in certain areas. Pictured, right, he called to see orangutans in Borneo!
Another way to follow a tour cheaper with community-for example the old city tour. Not only the added experience and information, but also add friends.

Hair Trends 2012: Bold and Volume

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Fri, 7 Oct 2011 20:12:00 +0700

Trends in Japanese-style hair with a piece of strong, straight time trend in recent years. In 2012, this trend will fade.

"In 2012, straight hair and a flat trend will not be there anymore. Based on the London benchmark, the style of '60s era hair will come back," said expert hairdressing, Alfons, when the show Pantene Hair Week in Gandaria City, South Jakarta , on Thursday (6/10/2011) ago. According to him, the hair trend next year will further adapt the type of volume and thick hair.

For hair textures, different types of hair texture from straight to curly can be applied to this trend. But to get perfect results, hair should still be adjusted to shape the face of every person. Until now face shape is considered perfect by the beauty experts are oval face shape. Thus, the piece of hair should be adjusted to the shape of the face to face approaches the form of an oval face.

For short hair, a technique typically used to add volume is to give curling texture, use foam, blow dry, and cut graduations (traps) to the extreme. But not like bob haircut thinned slightly thick. "The piece is usually done by experts hairdressing world, is a precision engineering and geometric pieces to produce a volume of thick hair," he said.

Korean haircut style that was developing right now is one model that uses the volume of hair styles. "Korean style also will still be there, because it had a volume of Korean style which was still thick and textured than the Japanese model of a straight thin," he said.

Women More Like By Nasty

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Fri, 7 Oct 2011 20:00:00 +0700

You may often hear the phrase, "What is in the mind of man only sex". This is supported by a survey conducted by the Kinsey Institute, Indiana University, which had concluded that 37 percent of men in this world think about sex every 30 minutes. However, recent research has proven: women were more sexually adventurous than men.

Survey performed by the site Good in Bed reveals, women are not only more fond of experimenting during lovemaking, but also much prefer to talk dirty and share a fantasy than men. Most survey respondents who netted (they already have a partner) also say they enjoy sex with the lights on, wearing sexy lingerie, sex in different places at home, and use of lubrication.

The results of this survey clearly a surprise to many people.

"During this time women have been viewed in society as being shy that limits sexual expression of their partner," said Mark Christian MS, director of surveys for the site. "I think this survey shows that, in a sample of women, it is not true."

Penchant for experimenting sexually is often associated with sexual satisfaction of men and women. The more open and willing to experiment, a couple's relationship will last longer. In the survey also revealed that 50 percent of respondents expressed love to watch porn with your partner.

Previously, Good in Bed also once held a survey which showed that women are more easily bored in relationships than men, although they are more satisfied sexually. A quarter of respondents (more than half are married) says that boredom can lead to infidelity in relationships. Therefore nearly 60 percent of respondents desire to try something new to revive their sex life.

Not long ago, the site of Good in Bed also revealed other findings stating that more and more men who pretend orgasm. On the other hand, the more mature age women, the more often they reach the climax with better quality. Both men and women agree that orgasm is happening along much better, although this does not happen often.

Sharpen Leadership Skills

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Thu, 6 Oct 2011 19:35:00 +0700

executive is a dream. To achieve that level of technical skill and art needs good communication. Young, energetic, have a high position and of course a large income. Maybe it was the dream of many people when applying for a job. It is not possible, because, now more and more prominent corporate leaders are still young age. But of course, they could reach that level because it has certain qualities. Well, how can it achieve? Some of these tips you can apply for your dream come true.

Working in college

If the ambition is to be led in a relatively young age, one with early career. There is no harm while still in school, already nyambi working in a company. Find work experience as much as possible. For that, try an internship at some company. Or it could also active in the organization. So, once graduated, you already have a clue about the world of work.

The results of a study also showed that fresh graduates without work experience or no experience of organizing, rather difficult to adapt to the rhythm of work. They are usually very idealistic and less able to provide appropriate and realistic solutions.

Only, keep in mind, stay focused on college. Do not get absorbed because of work, you forgot completed the study. Unfortunately not, if a step fails to title in hand. Do not forget, the level of education also were taken into account when promoted to become leaders.

Keep learning

Everything will continue to grow. Including employment. If the employees do not want to develop themselves, might be our career path in place. To get ahead we must be able to keep abreast of the latest technology or science. Management science is always changing. Not to mention if your company is engaged in innovative, such as information technology, television, broadcasting, product design and so on. You must be prepared to continuously learn and accept new sciences relating to the job.

Be a fast learner

Apart from having to always learn new things, we are also required to be able to learn quickly. That is, when adapting the new knowledge, we can quickly understand and apply them in work. Often, what makes employees to grow is because of its ability to adapt to change very slowly. Also he is unable to absorb new knowledge with cepat.Nah, as a potential leader, you should prepare yourself to always upgrade yourself quickly. So, if you give your boss a new project, immediately find information and learn all things related to the project. You will look professional and creative.

Hone communication skills

Do not underestimate this one skill, Though you are more often working behind the desk, but the communication should still go ahead. Do not need much to be berakrab ria with superiors. Develop communication between co-workers had one department, then extended to other departments. Anyone know of a channel of communication that we build, we can gain support from colleagues. People who are hard to communicate is often judged negatively by employers. Do-do have a mental disorder, or other serious illnesses. Do not get deh!

Work smart not hard

Do not just work hard until overtime continuously without a break. A great manager is not one who always came home at night. But because he was able to delegate tasks well. Indeed, one of the sought after qualities of a leader is the willingness to work hard. However, it should be noted, this should be accompanied by hard work smart work. That is, can find creative solutions of existing problems. For example, how can manage our time well in order to avoid the buildup of the task, how to resolve customer complaints, and so on. By working smart, accomplished the work which would be better. And certainly, the promotion will be more quickly get to our table. Have you ever heard someone say, "Actually, I must admit that I am not able to regulate other people. All the staff hated me and I was not able to do my job ". Of course the answer is no. No one says this either because they do not believe it, or because they do not want to appear incompetent. Unfortunately, research shows us from the perspective of employees, not many managers are extremely busy. What can we draw from this dichotomy? Maybe at least we all admit to yourself there is room for some improvements in leading others. Moreover, this is not the kind of skill that is easily achieved 100% in a short time. Maybe we do not know exactly what improvements should be made, the following 10 ways to get started:
1. Get a reality

Knowing what other people thought associated with the style of leadership we can open our eyes lebarlebar, and this is the most powerful drivers of change. By using 360 survey where you receive feedback from staff, colleagues and managers, giving you concrete information on the subject intangible. Use existing tools (there are some highly recommended out there) or let your staff know that you are expecting feedback from them to improve your leadership. The use of a word of warning, the staff will make you feel uncomfortable in providing feedback that they believe you will use to fight them., Or become defensive about what they say. It's up to you to create a safe environment so they feel comfortable with being open and honest with you.
2. Do not use the power of your position to get things done

If anyone asks why certain things resolved, or the logic of the decision, do not pull the order in response. Important component of effective leadership is to get support from the team and colleagues. You can not get support by saying that the decision was correct because you are the boss and you are making. Your team may not always agree with what you do, but they will appreciate you if you take the time to explain your thinking.
3. Do not consider employees as something to be controlled or managed

Instead, give them space to take action or make decisions. Trust is a very important component of leadership. If you do not trust others to do the job well, then if you put the wrong person on the job, or you have the right people but not trained properly. Let them do what they have to do, without leaning their shoulders all the time, or should know how they use the time every minute.

4. Listen, listen, listen

If anyone is upset or complaining in your business, you can ensure that at a certain stage they will try to tell you what the problem is. As if you did not listen (or do not want to listen). Or perhaps your initial reaction to make people think twice to convey the problem to you. Listen with sincere is one of the biggest skills that need to be developed, regardless of your role. A good listener shows interest, empathy, and want to know what is behind the talks. Great leaders are good listeners - without exception.

5. Stop providing solutions

Managers usually get their positions after a technical specialist, and will have an opinion or views of how to "fix" situations or problems. They believe this is the fastest way to get someone to do what must be done, or do it yourself, rather than providing opportunities to employees to cope alone. By always giving answers, the manager removes its employees opportunities to learn and provide an alternative (and potentially deliver better) way to do many things.

6. Always constructive - always

Language and communication skills make a great leader is different from the others. Do not dominant or critical with other people, take full responsibility for what you hear. If you find yourself about to make a negative assessment, take a breath and use your own words to convey your message without emotion. Great leaders always find a way to say things calmly and constructively.

7. Assess your success as the team's success

True success of a leader can be measured by the success of those men who exist within his team. As a manager, her primary responsibility is to ensure the success and development of your team. If they are successful, you'll automatically succeed. Focus on building their skills and eliminate existing barriers in front of them. If you can achieve it, you'll see the results on productivity, motivation and satisfaction of your employees. This will filter through the bottom-line results.

8. Do not do things just because they "look good"

Nothing is more transparent than managers who make decisions and act only complains to look good in front of his superiors. If you want to develop into a leader, one of the required quality is integrity. Integrity to make decisions because they are true, and integrity to maintain if you truly believe in something that does not become part of the business. Regardless of your best interests or not received less attention.

9. Enter the humor in your diet

No one likes working in a rigid environment. People are more productive when they can enjoy what they are doing. Creating a workplace where fun is allowed and given a boost could make a significant difference, and even more effective when the boss is also participating. This will enhance the team spirit, and encourage people to view you as a person, not just the boss.

10. Is Open

Be open about yourself will help break the barriers that exist. If your employees know the person behind them, that's when you can start building a foundation of good leadership, trust and respect. So, have you prepared drove in a career?

Non-Material Aspects In Choosing Work

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Thu, 6 Oct 2011 19:24:00 +0700

Whether you are looking for in a job or career? With ease most of us will answer to earn money to support his family. Indeed, the higher one's position in the workplace, the higher the remuneration earned. Similarly, the workplace, the bona fide work, the higher the level of remuneration promised. In this framework, we are really still think the material aspect in choosing a job. Success in the job as if it is determined only by the acquired tangible return.

But whether it is happiness in a career defined by material or tangible aspects of a mere return? Here's an interesting question to be discussed together. Of course nothing wrong with the material aspects of a benchmark in choosing a job or career to determine, but certainly need to balance the aspects of non-material or intangible returns. Well, in this article, I would like to invite readers to explore the non-material aspects in choosing a job.

I have a friend, who obtained two master's degree from a renowned university in Europe, one in electrical engineering, and another in the field of management. My friend is sending an e-mailed me about the possibility of working as a teacher, lecturer, or researcher in Indonesia. In my view, the educational background he has, it seems he can easily work in various foreign companies in Europe there, or in other parts of the earth. Why would he want to choose a career to be a lecturer, teacher, or researcher in Indonesia? Frankly, my salary is small when compared to his career as a professional consultant at a renowned consulting company in Europe. Apparently there is a non-material aspects into consideration.

What are some non-material aspects of these? Let's take a look one by one.

First, it is likely to still be able to conduct religious worship in accordance with their respective religions. A Catholic friend of mine who had confusion in determining the attitude, whether to accept a job offer or not. The position was offered to him as a career con sultan article in a foreign consulting firm with a lucrative remuneration. But the company hinted at a possibility often work on weekends, which caused him to church cluttered schedule. This is a non-material considerations. There is another case in another company. Can you imagine how Muslim employees should the lunch with the leadership and staff throughout the office on Friday, when they are conducting Friday prayers at the mosque.

Second, the possibility or opportunity for self-development, including the development of knowledge and competence. We need to consider this in choosing a job or career direction specify. Jobs that are routine and do not give us a chance to develop themselves will make us a while to be left behind and may not be able to keep up with changes. If this happens, we might be later career stagnation.

Third, a pleasant working atmosphere. This is indeed a very broad scope. But let's narrow meaning, namely the interaction among fellow employees in the office. Imagine you work at a company where employee relations are not so familiar, all busy working with their business due to competition and the deadlines are so tight. Even the opportunity to mourn a fellow employee who had died the family was not there. What's worse, we mutually do not know of any other employees affected by disasters.

Fourth, do not lose time for the family. For those employees who are already married, it's worth considering this aspect. The competition is so tight a schedule of work is becoming increasingly crowded, and can-can 24 hours a day and 7 days a week felt less. For most people, lost family time means losing one happiness in life. And happiness is what we want to accomplish with the work and careers. Ironic is not it?

Are all of the above can be compensated with money? Suppose you are compensated for high over the weekend, but lost time to the church. Or you work with a high salary, but do not have time anymore to run the Friday prayer. Are you willing to highly paid, but did not have time for your family? This is all the non-material aspects in choosing a job, which seemed appropriate for us to think together.

Actually, many more non-material aspects that should be considered in choosing a job. But perhaps the dominant is the four things above. The core of this article is, there are aspects of non-material that is actually not less important to be considered in choosing a job. Non-material aspects of this counterweight to the material aspect that must have been thought out beforehand.

Of course we have full right and authority to decide what's best for ourselves respectively. Non-material aspect is what will be a counterweight to the material aspect which is reflected in tangible material remuneration offered by the company workplace.

Tips for Choosing a Job

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Thu, 6 Oct 2011 19:19:00 +0700

Everyone wants to succeed in work and his career. But only few can achieve it. Success in the work can be initiated from your choice. The right choice with great effort can lead you to success. Conversely, the wrong choices can take you to the stagnation or even failure. What should be considered in choosing a job that not wrong? Please refer to things - the following:

1. Know yourself as possible

Learn the strengths and weaknesses of yourself, and choose the type of job or profession that demands you use your talents or strengths. Do not try applying for a job that requires you to do things that are your weakness. For example: if you are a diligent, very fast and precise in counting but quieter and less flexible in the mix, then work in Finance and Accounting will be much more promising of success than jobs in Sales or Marketing.

Understand hobbies / interests. Whenever possible, choose occupations that match your interests or hobbies. People working in the field of his interest in accordance with generally more successful. Because the suitability of this will make people more loved his work and love of the job will usually encourage people to work energetically, enthusiastically, wholeheartedly and want to produce the best.

2. The first company is crucial
If possible, start your career from a large company that has had a long history and good reputation. Such companies are generally more promising, especially if it is a multi-national companies who already have a reputation for decades in many countries. In this kind of company one day you will get more convenience and choice. You can try to pursue a career in the same company. Or if one day you want to get a new challenge outside, then it is usually "selling" you are relatively high and you will have more flexibility in determining the choice of the next company.

Tips for Choosing Work Based on Personality

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Thu, 6 Oct 2011 19:14:00 +0700

You must agree with the statement, that to be the total working a job, gotta love the work. However, how can love the work they are now, if in fact the work does not fit your personality?
Here are six personality types along with the work if it fits your personality. However, it should be noted, some jobs or professions listed require education, training, and certain qualifications.

Artistic
Such personalities are creative beings since created. They have a very broad imagination. Such type of love to express themselves through work. They are more comfortable working without rules, and happy to work related to the shape, design, colors, words and patterns. Professions that are suitable for this personality type: the editor, graphic designer, art teacher or drama, landscape architects, maker of the product, and producer.

Conventional
Such personality types like conventional things, such as rules, procedures, schedules, and instructions. They love to work with detail and data than to express ideas. Type this kind of happy with the routine and order, all that kilter. Type of work for the type of this kind, among others; accountant, actuary, safety inspectors, finance, financial planners, and technical writer.

Entrepreneurs
This type of entrepreneur is leading the intelligent people. They are keen to see a work from beginning to end, especially with regard to business. Those types of actors, not thinkers, and more pleased to see the "big picture" rather than little pictures that just as the foundation initially. A suitable job for people like this are; in advertising sales agent, financial workers, management analysis, program director and sales manager.

Investigator
This type like working alone, because she likes to investigate things. They prefer to use logic rather than imagination, solve problems and mysteries, bringing together things that are scattered like a jigsaw puzzle, precision, and science. Work that requires detailed attention made him feel very happy. The right profession for personality types like this are: computer systems analyst, library administrators, optometrists, professor of natural science, software engineer, and offender statistics.

Realistic
Pleased with the final result, this type is a person who likes questions and problems to be solved. They enjoy working outdoors, working with machinery, heavy equipment, and jewelry. The right profession for the type of realistic is an electrical engineer, nuclear experts, dentists, and key experts.

Socialist
Socialists love to help others and work in teams. They are good at communicating and feel comfortable in interacting with others. They prefer to be spoken to others rather than working with machines or data. The work best for them is to make it meet with others, such as a personal trainer, school psychologist, guidance of students, teachers, and motivators.
see also: Non-MaterialAspects In Choosing Work

Tips for Choosing a School

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Thu, 6 Oct 2011 19:10:00 +0700

How to Select the Best Schools?

1. Make a list of names of schools
you want to facilitate observation.

2. School locations.
Choose a school that is not too far from where you live. Besides you and your child does not get bored on the road and experiencing fatigue, it will also save your costs for transportation.

3. Faculty
In choosing a school is not only a favorite, but look for creative schools in educating children. Usually these schools the teachers were creative. Any school that can adapt to the child's ability. That is, if there are students who tangkapnya less power, the school will provide additional time or hour lesson for his pupil's. In addition must also consider the building and completion of education at the school.

Well, for that, far-distant day the parents should have pairs of eyes and ears so as not to miss the actual information about the school. So be diligent to find out by reading or asking. After that, we request the approval of the child. Let your child choose an appropriate school with him. So, in a child entering school must be based on the agreement of children and the elderly.

4. Cost
Education cost is not the same in every school. Choose the school that suits your financial condition.

5. Courses are offered
Do not forget, ask the school to register how the vision and mission of the school, whether sesusai with the vision and mission of our education or not. Our school children who need a relaxed and loose environment. A good school program according to a preschool consultant Dr. Jennifer Hardacre, should provide plenty of time for each child to encourage his interest. For example, you see the activities that involve children in the morning.

6. Facilities
Note whether the schools have the facilities needed little guy.

7. The ratio of teachers and pupils
The smaller the ratio, the kids will get enough attention from teachers that needs more easy to understand and be understood.

Find reference
Do not hesitate, and embarrassed to ask others about the situation and condition of the school.

Really Powerful Slimming Clinic?

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Wed, 5 Oct 2011 21:06:00 +0700

One way to get a slim body is to do a slimming program at the clinic. However, not a few who doubt the usefulness. Will it be as skinny as promised?

Many cases unique about slimming method performed in the clinic. There was an immediate success losing weight, but some are disappointed because after a few months, the weight is back as the beginning.

Basically, the program in slimming centers is to accelerate the process of burning calories. The result is real. Because after treatment reduced body weight and circumference, so that direct customer satisfaction are met.

"Actually, it's just temporary," said Juliana Yu COSMETOLOGIST, esthetician CIBTAC, BABTAC, IPTI, ITAC, CIDESCO Dipl. Int'l, M, Sc. According to Juliana, it happens because while burning calories, there was a disposal of fluids in the body. "The weight and circumference of the body will return to normal after the amount of fluid in the body back to normal," said Juliana.

The task of slimming clinics are helping accelerate the decay of fat, cellulite, and burning calories. However, the rest is inside the patient. Keeping diasup food, exercise, and lead a healthy lifestyle. All efforts have been done in the clinic would make no sense if patients are not leading a healthy lifestyle.

If the various ways already taken, but results have not been significant, Juliana advised to immediately check blood pressure and check whether there is a family history of obesity.

Punk & Gothic Style Full Enchantment

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Wed, 5 Oct 2011 21:05:00 +0700

Who says only men can be stylish punk and gothic? Occasionally you can try the boyish style to come to special events. Agyness Deyn and Keira Knightley can be used as inspiration to be performed with punk and gothic style full of charm.

Punk style
Agyness Deyn

Moisturizing Liquid powder face color of skin, specifically the level applied under the eyes brighter. Enhance with talc powder and solid-colored skin.

Combine brown eyes nude on the eyelid, greed. Give bluish green eyeliner on the inside of the eye, then apply black mascara.

Cheek daubed bronzer and shimmer powder color old rose.

Use a lip brush for applying a nude pink color and add lipshine matching colors.

Use hair styling foam, then a random order according to taste using the fingers.

Tip: be a thin line of eyeliner on the inside of the eye, can be 'opened' eyes. Use bright colors for the eyes look more sparkle.

Gothic makeup
Keira Knightley

Face liquid foundation is applied and enhanced with skin-colored powder.

Eye Perona taupe eye color and slightly blackish dibaur silver highlights. Frame corners of the eyes with black eyeliner, then line the inside bottom of the eye with a pencil eyeliner silver color. Add false lashes and apply black mascara.

Given cheek shading and dipulaskan young peach blush right on the cheekbones bulge.

Young peach lips smeared with lipstick and lip gloss color matching.

In a blow straight hair from the crown, and then put together in the back. Part bangs combed to the side and clamped from the inside.

Tip: We recommend that it focussed on the eye makeup, it will look more attractive if left memorable nude lips.

TIP: Selecting Lipstick

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Wed, 5 Oct 2011 21:01:00 +0700

Lipstick can indeed make an appearance more beautiful. But, if one chose a lipstick, can actually make you look a mess. In order not one chose, following a tip from Lucia Tan (make-up artist).

    - Avoid lip coloring products that contain glitter for your lips full, because it will make your lips look great.

    - Especially for you who have problems with dry lips and peeling, use a lip balm or lip conditioner before using lipstick.

    - When you are small and thin lips, avoid dark and gloomy, because it will make lips look smaller.

- For the evening event or appearing on the screen, lip shine is strongly recommended that the display looks luxurious but not excessive.

Argument in the World of Work collide

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Wed, 5 Oct 2011 20:59:00 +0700

Argument, let alone in the world of work, not uncommon to make people allergic.
Tuti Indra Fauziansyah, psychologist and career consultant from Iradat Consulting believes, arguing it was important to the world of work. As important as what and how that argument is not a debate without a result?

In the world of careers is known proverb Achieve more team work. Which means, by working together will give better results. Of course in working together that involve more than one person. Then the argument would become unavoidable.

If in one team there is only one argument or one way of thinking, this condition was not favorable. According to Tuti, which appears is groupthink. The new groupthink okay if the same end in mind, different if the mind will be removed. In the end it will kill creativity groupthink.

In fact, when creativity dies, a person's performance - which also affect the work his team - will run in place. For example, you are so lazy thinking to make a project better.

One of the current weakness argue is the solution. In order for your team's arguments are not in vain, at least there are three things to note.

First, it should be emphasized in advance what the purpose of that argument. With the same purpose, direction and course of the argument will clear the argument would be efficient, directed, and do not argue with each other that are not necessarily him.

Second, consider the strengths of each. For example, the sales division you have to find a strategy for next year. A researcher sales certainly have strong data, while your friends are good at the facts to calculate increases and decreases in price, and you may be skilled in doing ana ¬ lysis of the facts that exist.

Third, before the argument, each head has been filled. Either form of statistical data, facts, or predictions of the future. But, according to Tuti, not always won the argument that it must be based on existing facts.

Preventing Office Gossip

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Wed, 5 Oct 2011 20:55:00 +0700

Remember the movie The Devil Wears Prada? Andrea Sachs (Anne Hathaway) faces a superior attitude who like to oppress subordinates. Cynical view is nagging and daily Andrea.

The study results Workplace Bullying Institute (WBI) in the United States revealed 80% of women are victims of oppression in office. However, others cite the fact, perpetrators of persecution, most are women, around 58%!

According Nurlia Khoirunnisa, a career consultant from Experd, acts of oppression difficult to detect as it seemed trivial. In addition, victims often must overcome their own problems. In fact, the impact that could arise from such action can not be underestimated. Starting from the loss of a sense of comfort and morale, decreased work productivity, to the disruption of mental health.

One of the acts of oppression that often occurs in the office is gossip. Actually, the office gossip is common. However, if the frequency of gossip about you it is excessive, it helps to do something immediately.

• First, you need to look inward. Maybe the rumor arose because you attract too much attention. Either the way you dress, behavior, and other things that other people interested to make yourself as the talk.

• Gossip is usually exhaled by someone with certain intentions, such as envy and want to drop. To conquer the gossip, you may choose to launch a silent or indifferent action. However, make sure that you are not disturbed by the contents of the gossip. By being indifferent, you prove that you are not easily intimidated and easily become the object of the patient. As a result the long run gossip spreaders (and colleagues who co-ingested gossip) will also be bored, and gossip will eventually blow over.

• If the gossip is getting worse and potentially interfere with career, it's time for you to 'fight'. Go a few co-workers who say something about you. Show your warmth. Do not look depressed or avoids socializing in the office.

• As you already know the rumor spreaders, whom he met and talked face to face outside the office. This is to avoid the appearance of another party that can actually disturb the atmosphere. In addition, you also can not guarantee whether the conversation will take place quietly, or it was a cause hassle if dealt with in the office. Explain the consequences of his deeds to the work environment and yourself. Use words firmly in conveying your desire to end the problem.

3 Criteria Husband Mainstay

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Wed, 5 Oct 2011 20:47:00 +0700

Heart-shaped box of chocolates and a bouquet of roses from her lover's heart could toss you into the clouds. However, all that beautiful expression of love can not be a guarantee that one day your loved one can be a reliable husband. Do not get caught up in a romantic moment. Romantic and charming lovers who can not necessarily be a reliable husband.

There is a fundamental difference between a great lover and a husband who could be relied upon. To find out if your lover could someday be a reliable husband, try to check some of the criteria below. Does your lover already meet these criteria?

realistic
No creature is perfect. Likewise you and your lover. However, to outsmart you and lovers can learn to complement each other through the potential and weaknesses of each. Are you and your lover's been like this?

honesty
Honesty is very important in a relationship. Without honesty, the relationship will lose direction. If you can not believe it now, what about later?

respect
Look for men who respect you. It can make you and your partner more easily work together in solving problems. Does your lover have respect?

Rules Traveling With Love

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Wed, 5 Oct 2011 20:43:00 +0700

Traveling to a new place together unmarried couples purportedly believed to be a powerful way to know one another original character. Who would not want to enjoy the thrill of exciting streets in the beautiful and romantic place, and try fun things together?

However, spending time with your partner more than 24 hours, as well as adjust to the foreign environment, it was not easy. If not clever compromise, which was initially pleasant vacation could turn into horrible. Do not let the intention to go on vacation and have fun together, so it only made relations worse.

In order for your holiday with lover smooth and enjoyable, follow these few tips:

Do not say, "Suit yourself!"
Men generally prefer if their partner has an attitude, especially when you're on vacation together. Both sides must be equally pleased.

Do not force traveling with a boyfriend, if not too sure.
If you are still age old relationship of corn, it's better not to force to go to places that are too far away for days. First identify the outer and inner personality and the nature and habits.

Try to arrange the money that is deposited with a good pair.
This is one attempt to test whether you are smart to manage finances or not.

As much as possible not to bring laptops and work.
Lovers certainly will not want if you keep busy in front of the laptop. If you can not get jobs because of sudden extra before the leave, communicate first before going to the couple.

Find area attractions and entertainment that can be enjoyed both.
This is to avoid any one of the parties who feel bored or uncomfortable.

Each must carry his own luggage.
Men look at women who sometimes dizzy inhibit movement by bringing too much stuff that ultimately does not necessarily need.

Sulking is taboo!
A great loss if it is a nice place, but could not enjoy it because there is one party who could not restrain emotions.

Married With Friend

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Wed, 5 Oct 2011 20:40:00 +0700

Married with a friend does have some advantages, as already know the nature of each, no need jaim, and so forth. But marriage is not just a relationship. Marriage also involves the rights, moral responsibility, as well as material.

In order for your wedding with friends running smoothly, you should consider the following factors.

• Respect
It does not matter you still mock each other, however, if you're serious to get married with a friend, an attitude of respect toward one another is required. Actually, you and your husband without knowing it, a sense of respect for each other already, one of the requirements for the staying of friendship is a sense of respect. Therefore guard against the attitude of respect for each other.

• Trust
Since the beginning of the companions, all the secrets and common most likely you already know. Perhaps before you get married in order to strategize laugh lovers and mistresses are not met. But after marriage, can not be denied you so nervous. Because it is necessary mutual trust so that your wedding runs smoothly.

• Passion
Married life is not just a house, but also one bed. Surely it is difficult to imagine to have sex with a friend who previously was a friend-jitakan jitak you. As with any respect, in friendship there is also a sense of affection. However, whether it's compassion can transform into a sexual attraction? It can not be ignored if you want a wedding with a friend running smoothly

• Real Change
One of the advantages is married with a friend you do not have to be someone else in front of him. So did the opposite, because for this you and she already feels comfortable with the circumstances of each. But that does not mean change is not needed at all. Friendship and marriage is clearly different. In marriage there are certain responsibilities that must be borne. Not just as a husband or wife, but also as parents, in-laws, as well as citizens. Therefore, you must remain open to any demands for positive change.

Careful Slipped in Social Media

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Sun, 2 Oct 2011 01:05:00 +0700

Slipped in the virtual world can make a person's reputation fell through the cracks. And conversely, the incidence of ' Slipped' in the real world can also quickly will be a conversation in cyberspace. It is never experienced singer song Your Body is a Wonderland, John Mayer. Because let slip racist speech that offends blacks in the U.S., in an interview with a magazine, he must be willing to lose 3.7 million of his followers after he finally had to close his twitter account, September 2010.

To avoid incidents ' Slipped' in social media, blogs and social media activists, Enda Nasution and sociologists Roby Muhamad, a tip:

1. Twitter is not a private space, therefore, should not be made arbitrarily twitter, or as an outlet resentment, anger, and others.

2. If you want real freedom in a sense, must be done consciously. The trick: do lock the settings on the status of social media and if necessary use a nickname.

3. Do not write something that would not we say when we meet with the person directly. "Use common sense as well as social interaction in the real world," said Roby.

4. Respect the rights of individuals. "If you do not like, stay unfollow. It is legitimate if sometimes people can be good at talking about politics, sometimes want to just tweet was playing with children, doing silly Things. The period should not? "Said Roby.

5. For public figures, certainly he should be more careful. People already have certain expectations, because it is in say, acting, he is expected to correspond to those expectations.

6. In an angry, emotion peaked, you should not nge-tweet, or blogging. Wait until cool head.

7. In response to comments, should focus on the problem, do not attack the person.

8. Do not be afraid to correct or apologize, if you are wrong.

Social Media. Benefits and bad

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Sun, 2 Oct 2011 00:59:00 +0700

Social Media seems to be a word 'important' which began often echoed on numerous occasions, formally and informally, is mentioned by experts and laymen. What the hell is it with Social Media? Simply put, social media can be interpreted - a place to conduct social activities - mingle and merge with others.
Social Media Word became popular as Facebook and Twitter from known among Internet users, this is what then makes Social Media and the Internet became inseparable. No wonder, when I hear the word Social Media the minds of people would be directly fixed on the Internet - Facebook, Twitter, Blogging and all other amenities facility that bridges the relationship and interaction between people.

In Indonesia alone, the activities of air-Social Media has been around for a long time - with the emergence of various web-based discussion forums such as KasKus for example, only Social media fever began to be felt when a site called Friendster friendship began on the rise - the time many people begin to feel very important to display the figure itself to be known to others.

Outbreaks of Social Media is increasingly becoming so when Facebook began to be known by the world community - Facebook seems to be obligatory for anyone who ventures on the Internet - do not view old age and youth, other professions and other jobs - as if to feel less complete if it can access the Internet but do not have Facebook account. Increasingly easy access to Facebook because it is supported by developments in technology and ease of access to the Internet - now no longer need a personal computer to access Facebook - the development of mobile technology devices called Mobile man has been able to meet and discuss with others, meet new friends and also friends old friends who have been long separated.

Benefits of Social Media
We can make a long list when talking about the benefits of Social Media. But one of the most important thing is, with the Social Media is an information can be conveyed and spread quickly. Social media can also become a place of learning process for its users.

Even that is becoming the 'trendy topics' currently is - Social Media can be a tool to establish and introduce a personal brand and business-owned brand to others. Individuals and business agencies also began to look at Social Media as a golden opportunity to introduce cheap 'something' to others - they were enterprising individuals began to introduce what and who they kepda others whether it is for the purpose of friendship and also for the purpose of a professional - while their employers also began vigorously to air-Social Media to introduce and offer services or products they have to potential customers or prospective buyer.

But of course it is not fair to just talk about the benefits of Social Media, because like a double-edged sword - Social media also have side effects that can be detrimental.

Vices Social Media
Twitter, Facebook and other Social Media sites the site can be regarded as a place where everyone is FREE to do whatever it pleases.

Speaking of a freedom, often the users of Social Media and stuck it to those who are less intelligent to use it instead often harmed by it.

Many people are misguided in using Social Media, Social Media they assume is a place where they can issue opinions and information ANYTHING - most people make the Social Media is like a diary or a personal diary - in which they are free to throw all the problems of life should not be known by others, this sometimes can be fatal to themselves because there is a 'person' irresponsible person who then takes advantage of the problems of other people's lives. You may remember the case of fraud and kidnapping that occurred by using Facebook some time ago?
see also: Tweet Safe at the Office

Something must be realized
Conscious or not, the Internet as a Social Media has become a 'shadow world' which is almost similar to the world we live in their daily lives. Currently in the Internet we can do things that once might only be done in the real world - on the Internet we can get acquainted with new people, discuss and exchange information, attend seminars or webinars, business or buying and selling transactions, and others.

Conscious or not, that we all actually bring all the 'value' that lies within its own when the 'float' in Social Media. Nowadays one does not need to be face to face with ourselves, if only to assess whether and how personality that is in us - Yes! Just enough to pay attention to what we do in a person's Social Media has been able to directly assess what and how exactly we are.

Choosing Skin Care Products for Oily Skin

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Sun, 2 Oct 2011 00:42:00 +0700

Required special attention in the selection of products for the face, especially for oily skin and more sensitive to facial beauty products. This skin type has characteristics such as facial skin shiny, large pores, making them easier pimples, blackheads and many other skin problems.

There are a few tips for choosing a product for those who have oily skin:
1. Choose beauty products devoted to oily skin because it implies working to neutralize the excess oil on our face.

2. In order for the remnants of dirt lifted it after cleansing your face with soap in addition to wear toner

3. If you work in air-conditioned room, then you must still use a moisturizer for your face. Use moisturizers that are water or oil-free.

4. For oily skin avoid products that have a high alcohol content because its content can eliminate the levels of natural oils on our skin and can trigger oil glands to work a double.

5. Avoid cleaning products that make our skin becomes dry because it can cause a layer of our skin can shrink and inhibit entry into the oil that clog pores and cause irritation to the skin.

How to choose a career

noreply@blogger.com (Suluh) — Sun, 2 Oct 2011 00:34:00 +0700

When we finished school we get a very problematic for some in life and is a career option and chose not only to study, but we choose our future work plan and part of our lives. "Said a group of my friends".

Generally, they sometimes do not have much time to decide clearly as a general recommendation for parents is to begin studies in the shortest possible time has been added to other variables such as little information you have about a career as university entry.

No doubt the first recommendation is to have a career guidance by a qualified professional but it is not possible orientations are not made in full must consider several additional points.

First test the program at the school where you see if you fit the area you have chosen to study as a medical career (which is in the field of biomedical science) or the other requires knowledge of biology and chemistry.

Reflect for a moment if the career you really think looks like or you just follow the advice of your parents or friends, it is possible that you also rely on other subjective sources as the most profitable, easiest to get a job, most popular, it requires business, and so on.

Another important point for choice of career is to find a career that carries into the future is that certain functions should be professional rather than looking at the books advise you to find a professional and you comment on how it goes.
This point is much to do with the previous and you are in a race situation is that the average wage, employment status, number of professionals in this race I know that many do not taste good to worry about the last point, but it is recommended to do so prior to reaching year-end and realize that not doing activities that you think or get the salary you have to think about too.

So the point is, before you go to university, you must think you desire, follow your heart and your talents, if something is born from the desire, then your career did not feel exhausted.