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domains"/><title type='text'>Erotomania</title><subtitle type='html'>SGB Media Group&#39;s Stephen G. Barr shares his sexual explorations as well as presents a carefully selected group of panelists, writers and guest bloggers each presenting their own unique perspective on a wide variety of human sexual experiences and lifestyles.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default?redirect=false'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25&amp;redirect=false'/><author><name>Stephen G. Barr</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-H9ZZzzYJahc/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAREE/fRPiCOalFx0/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>314</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><blogger:adultContent>true</blogger:adultContent><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4185114898893253968.post-6787966515748839391</id><published>2016-03-23T12:39:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2016-04-07T13:15:11.415-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="blogging"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Harassment"/><title type='text'>How To Blog Anonymously (and how not to)</title><content type='html'>&lt;div dir=&quot;ltr&quot; style=&quot;text-align: left;&quot; trbidi=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: left;&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;script src=&quot;http://connect.facebook.net/en_US/all.js#xfbml=1&quot;&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;fb:like font=&quot;verdana&quot; href=&quot;www.erotomaniamanagement.blogspot.com&quot; show_faces=&quot;true&quot; width=&quot;450&quot;&gt;&lt;/fb:like&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;posttitle&quot; style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: verdana, tahoma, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12.16px; line-height: 19.456px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;&quot;&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-sFYMN8wmaRY/VvL0zpQtYWI/AAAAAAAAxBE/1jSWO26rf3I8PkOrwTQh1IB0CpklL2DoA/s1600/anonymous_blogger.jpg&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;266&quot; src=&quot;https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-sFYMN8wmaRY/VvL0zpQtYWI/AAAAAAAAxBE/1jSWO26rf3I8PkOrwTQh1IB0CpklL2DoA/s320/anonymous_blogger.jpg&quot; width=&quot;320&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;h2 style=&quot;font-family: Georgia, Verdana, Arial, serif; font-size: 1.4em; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: 1px; margin: 1em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;entry&quot; style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: verdana, tahoma, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12.16px; line-height: 19.456px; margin: 1em 0px; overflow: hidden; padding: 0px 1em 0px 0px;&quot;&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;em style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px;&quot;&gt;On July 23&lt;sup style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px;&quot;&gt;rd&lt;/sup&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://sexonomics-uk.blogspot.co.uk/2012/07/spartacus-ish.html&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; title=&quot;Sexonomics 7/23/12&quot;&gt;Dr. Brooke Magnanti signed into her blog&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;and found a popup notifying her that a&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Digital_Millennium_Copyright_Act&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; title=&quot;Wikipedia&quot;&gt;DMCA claim&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;had been filed on her&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://sexonomics-uk.blogspot.co.uk/2012/05/how-to-blog-anonymously-and-how-not-to.html&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; title=&quot;Sexonomics blogging anonymously&quot;&gt;very popular column about blogging anonymously&lt;/a&gt;; since there is nothing in the text that isn’t hers this was a completely baseless complaint, probably intended to harass her. &amp;nbsp;So she reinstated the &lt;a class=&quot;zem_slink&quot; href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anonymous_post&quot; rel=&quot;wikipedia&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; title=&quot;Anonymous post&quot;&gt;post&lt;/a&gt;, but assumes that she hasn’t heard the last of it; &amp;nbsp;she’s therefore moving the blog to a &lt;a class=&quot;zem_slink&quot; href=&quot;http://maps.google.com/maps?ll=51.5,-0.116666666667&amp;amp;spn=10.0,10.0&amp;amp;q=51.5,-0.116666666667%20(United%20Kingdom)&amp;amp;t=h&quot; rel=&quot;geolocation&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; title=&quot;United Kingdom&quot;&gt;UK-based&lt;/a&gt; service so she won’t have to worry about that particular route of &lt;a class=&quot;zem_slink&quot; href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harassment&quot; rel=&quot;wikipedia&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; title=&quot;Harassment&quot;&gt;harassment&lt;/a&gt;. &amp;nbsp;However, she also asked for people to “please reblog the full content of the post to keep the information out there”; I’m happy to oblige. &amp;nbsp;Here is her original column in its entirety.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;Further to&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://sexonomics-uk.blogspot.co.uk/2012/05/on-anonymity-and-outing.html&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;yesterday’s post&lt;/a&gt;, this is a list of thoughts prompted by a request from&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.timemachinego.com/linkmachinego/2009/11/16/me-and-belle-de-jour-could-it-be-brooke/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Linkmachinego&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;on the topic of being an anonymous writer and blogger. Maybe not exactly a how-to (since the outcome is not guaranteed) as a post on things I did, things I should have done, and things I learned.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;It’s not up to me to decide if you “deserve” to be anonymous. My feeling is, if you’re starting out as a writer and do not yet feel comfortable writing under your own name, that is your business and not mine. I also think sex workers should consider starting from a position of anonymity and decide later if they want to be out, please don’t be naive. Statistics I made up right now show 99 out of 100 people who claim ‘if you have nothing to hide you have nothing to fear’ are talking out of their arses.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;The items in the list fall into three general categories: internet-based, legal and real-world tips, and interpersonal. Many straddle more than one of these categories. All three are important.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;This is written for a general audience because most people who blog now do not have extensive technical knowledge, they just want to write and be read. That’s a good thing by the way. If you already know all of this, then great, but many people won’t. Don’t be sneery about their lack of prior knowledge. Bringing everyone up to speed on the technology is not the goal: clear steps you can use to help protect your identity from being discovered are.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;blockquote style=&quot;background: url(&amp;quot;/wp-content/themes/pub/mistylook/img/blockquote.gif&amp;quot;) 0% 0% no-repeat; color: #666666; margin: 1em; padding: 0px 0px 10px 50px;&quot;&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: underline;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px;&quot;&gt;Disclaimer:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&amp;nbsp;I’m no longer anonymous so these steps are clearly not airtight. Also there are other sources of information on the &lt;a class=&quot;zem_slink&quot; href=&quot;http://maps.google.com/maps?ll=46.2325,6.045&amp;amp;spn=0.01,0.01&amp;amp;q=46.2325,6.045%20(World%20Wide%20Web)&amp;amp;t=h&quot; rel=&quot;geolocation&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; title=&quot;World Wide Web&quot;&gt;Web&lt;/a&gt;, some of which are more comprehensive and more current than my advice. I accept no responsibility for any outcome of following this advice. Please don’t use it to do illegal or highly sensitive things. Also please don’t use pseudonyms to be a dick.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;This is also a work in progress. As I remember things or particular details, I’ll amend this post. If you have suggestions of things that should be added,&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;https://twitter.com/#%21/bmagnanti&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;let me know&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: underline;&quot;&gt;1. Don’t use &lt;a class=&quot;zem_slink&quot; href=&quot;http://www.google.com/&quot; rel=&quot;homepage&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; title=&quot;Google&quot;&gt;Gmail&lt;/a&gt;, Yahoo, &lt;a class=&quot;zem_slink&quot; href=&quot;http://www.hotmail.com/&quot; rel=&quot;homepage&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; title=&quot;Hotmail&quot;&gt;Hotmail&lt;/a&gt; et al. for your mail.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;You will need an email address to do things like register for blog accounts, Facebook, &lt;a class=&quot;zem_slink&quot; href=&quot;http://twitter.com/twitter&quot; rel=&quot;twitter&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; title=&quot;Twitter&quot;&gt;Twitter&lt;/a&gt;, and more. This email will have to be something entirely separate from your “real” &lt;a class=&quot;zem_slink&quot; href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Email_address&quot; rel=&quot;wikipedia&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; title=&quot;Email address&quot;&gt;email addresses&lt;/a&gt;. There are a lot of free options out there, but be aware that sending an email from many of them also sends information in the headers that could help identify you.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;When I started blogging, I set up an email address for the blog with Hotmail. Don’t do this. Someone quickly pointed out the headers revealed where I worked (a very large place with lots of people and even more computers, but still more information than I was comfortable with). They suggested I use&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;https://www.hushmail.com/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Hushmail&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;instead, which I still use. Hushmail has a free option (though the inbox allocation is modest), strips out headers, and worked for me.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;A caveat with this: if you are, say, a sex worker working in a place where that is not legal and using Hushmail, you could be vulnerable to them handing over your details to a third party investigating crimes. If you’re handling information some governments might consider embarrassing or sensitive, same. Google some alternatives: you’re looking for something&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=secure+encrypted+email&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;secure and encrypted&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;There are a few common-sense tips you can follow to make it even safer. If you have to bring people you know in real life in on the secret, don’t use this email address for communicating with them even if only about matters related to your secret (and don’t use your existing addresses for that either). Example: I have one address for press and general interactions, one for things related to my accountant and money, and one for communicating with my agent, publisher, and solicitor. I’ve also closed and opened new accounts over the years when it seems “too many” people are getting hold of a particular address. Use different passwords for each, don’t make these passwords related to your personal information, and so on.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;I unwisely left the Hotmail address going, and while I did not use it to send mail, I continued to read things that arrived there. That led to&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://sexonomics-uk.blogspot.co.uk/2011/07/and-now-for-something-completely.html&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;this failed attempt by the&amp;nbsp;&lt;em style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px;&quot;&gt;Sunday Times&lt;/em&gt;&amp;nbsp;to out me&lt;/a&gt;. It was an easily dodged attempt but something I would have preferred to avoid.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;Over the years I have had about two email account changes every year and have changed my mobile number five times (eventually, I just stopped having one). If you change email addresses it’s a good idea to send people you need to stay in contact with a mail from the old and the new address so they know it’s not someone else trying to impersonate you. And to have a password so you know the response is from the right person – a password you did not exchange via an email conversation, of course.&amp;nbsp;&lt;strong style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px;&quot;&gt;Example:&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;nbsp;you might send an email to your editor from old_address@somedomain.com and from new_address@somedomain.com at the same time, and the one from new_address contains Codeword1. They respond with Codeword2, indicating they acknowledge the change.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;It sounds silly, but people can and do&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.prospectmagazine.co.uk/magazine/illegal-trade-personal-data-tabloid-journalism/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;scam personal info&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;all the time. Often they do so by pretending to be in on a secret so someone reveals something they did not mean to say. Play it safe. It can feel a stupidly cloak-and-dagger at first, but you soon get over it.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;You can register internet domains while staying anonymous but I never did. Some people registered domains for me (people I didn’t know in person). This led to a couple of instances of them receiving harassment when the press suspected they were me. In particular&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.co.uk/Ian-Shircore/e/B005DL2DME&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Ian Shircore&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;got a bit of unwanted attention this way.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;Because all I was ever doing was a straight-up blog, not having a registered domain that I had control over was fine. Your needs may be different. I am not a good source for advice on how to do that. But just in case you might be thinking “who would bother looking there?” read about&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://exposeabro-alexa.blogspot.co.uk/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;how faux escort Alexa DiCarlo&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;was unmasked. This is what happens when you don’t cover your tracks.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: underline;&quot;&gt;2. Don’t use a home internet connection, work internet connection, etc.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;Email won’t be the only way you might want to communicate with people. You may also want to leave comments on other blogs and so forth. Doing this and other ways of using the Web potentially exposes&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/IP_address&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;your IP address&lt;/a&gt;, which could be unique and be used to locate you.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;Even if you don’t leave comments just visiting a site can leave traces behind.&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.bloggerheads.com/archives/2012/04/dennis-rice-tabloid-troll/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Tim Ireland recently used a simple method&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;to confirm his suspicion of who the “Tabloid Troll” twitter account belonged to. By comparing the IP address of someone who clicked on to a link going to the Bloggerheads site with the IP address of an email Dennis Rice sent, a link was made. If you go to the trouble of not using your own connection, also make sure you’re not using the same connection for different identities just minutes apart. Don’t mix the streams.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;The timing of everything as it happened was key to why the papers did not immediately find out who I was. The&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://belledejour-uk.blogspot.co.uk/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;old blog&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;started in 2003, when most press still had to explain to their audience what a blog actually was. It took a while for people to notice the writing, so the mistakes I made early on (blogging from home and work, using Hotmail) had long been corrected by the time the press became interested.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;Today, no writer who aims to stay anonymous should ever assume a grace period like that. It also helped that once the press did become interested, they were so convinced not only that Belle was not really a hooker but also that she was one of their own – a previously published author or even journalist – that they never looked in the right place. If they’d just gone to a London blogmeet and asked a few questions about who had pissed off a lot of people and was fairly promiscuous, they’d have had a plausible shortlist in minutes.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;After I moved from Kilburn to Putney, I was no longer using a home internet connection – something I should have done right from the beginning. I started to use internet cafes for posting and other activities as Belle. This offers some security… but be wary of using these places too often if there is a reason to think someone is actively looking for you. It’s not perfect.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;Also be wary if you are using a laptop or other machine provided by your workplace, or use your own laptop to log in to work servers (“work remotely”). I’ve not been in that situation and am not in any way an expert on&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virtual_private_network&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;VPNs&lt;/a&gt;, but you may want to&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://ask.metafilter.com/103175/VPN-and-Privacy-Help-me-understand&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;start reading about it here&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;and&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=vpn+privacy&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;do some googling&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;for starters. As a general principle, it’s probably wise not to do anything on a work laptop that could get you fired, and don’t do anything that could get you fired while also connected to work remotely on your own machine.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: underline;&quot;&gt;3. There is software available that can mask your IP address. There are helpful add-ons that can block tracking software.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;I didn’t use this when I was anonymous, but if I was starting as an anonymous blogger now, I would&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;https://www.torproject.org/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;download Tor&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;and browse the Web and check email through their tools.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;If you do use Tor or other software to mask your IP address, don’t then go on tweeting about where your IP address is coming from today! I’ve seen people do this. Discretion fail.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;I also&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.ghostery.com/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;use Ghostery&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;now to block certain tracking scripts from web pages. You will want to look into something similar. Also useful are&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/adblock-plus/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Adblocker&lt;/a&gt;, pop-up blockers, things like that. They are simple to download and use and you might like to use them anyway even if you’re not an anonymous blogger. A lot of sites track your movements and you clearly don’t want that.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: underline;&quot;&gt;4. Take the usual at-home precautions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;Is your computer password-protected with a password only you know? Do you clear your browser history regularly? Use different passwords for different accounts? Threats to anonymity can come from people close to you. Log out of your blog and email accounts when you’re finished using them, every time. Have a secure and remote backup of your writing. Buy a shredder and use it. Standard stuff.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;Sometimes the files you send can reveal things about yourself, your computer, and so on. When sending manuscripts to my agent and editor, they were usually sent chapter by chapter as flat text files – not Word documents – with identifying data stripped. The usual method I used to get things to them was to upload to a free service that didn’t require a login, such as&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.sendspace.com/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Sendspace&lt;/a&gt;. When writing articles for magaznes and papers, the text was typically appended straight into the body of the email, again avoiding attachments with potentially identifying information. This can be a little irritating… having to archive your writing separately, not altogether convenient to work on. But for the way I worked, usually not sharing content with editors until it was close to the final draft, it was fine.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;When exchanging emails with my agent and editor, we never talked about actual meeting times and locations and threw a few decoy statements in, just in case. Since it has been recently revealed that&lt;em style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px;&quot;&gt;Times&lt;/em&gt;&amp;nbsp;journalists were trying to&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.pressgazette.co.uk/story.asp?storycode=48957&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;hack bloggers’ email addresses&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;after all, in retrospect, this seems to have been a good thing.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;Another thing I would do is install a&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Keystroke_logging&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;keystroke logger&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;on your own machine. By doing this I found out in 2004 that someone close to me was spying on me when they were left alone with my computer. In retrospect what I did about it was not the right approach. See also item 7.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: underline;&quot;&gt;5. Be careful what you post.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;Are you posting photos?&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Exif&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Exif data&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;can tell people, among other things, where and when a picture was taken, what it was taken with, and more. I never had call to use it because I never posted photos or sound, but am told there are loads of tools that can wipe this Exif data from your pictures (&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.sno.phy.queensu.ca/~phil/exiftool/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;here’s one&lt;/a&gt;).&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;The content of what you post can be a giveaway as well. Are you linking to people you know in real life? Are you making in-jokes or references to things only a small group of people will know about? Don’t do that.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;If possible, cover your tracks. Do you have a previous blog under a known name? Are you a contributor to forums where your preferred content and writing style are well-known? Can you edit or delete these things? Good, do that.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;Personally, I did not delete everything. Partly this was because the world of British weblogging was so small at the time – a few hundred popular users, maybe a couple thousand people blogging tops? – that I thought the sudden disappearance of my old blog coinciding with the appearance of an unrelated new one might be too much of a coincidence. But I did let the old site go quiet for a bit before deleting it, and edited archived entries.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;Keep in mind however that&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://archive.org/web/web.php&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;The Wayback Machine&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;means everything you have written on the web that has been indexed still exists. And it’s searchable. Someone who already has half an idea where to start looking for you won’t have too much trouble finding your writing history. (&lt;span style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: underline;&quot;&gt;UPDATE&lt;/span&gt;: someone alerted me that it’s possible to&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://faq.web.archive.org/how-can-i-have-my-site-removed-from-the-wayback-machine/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;get your own sites off Wayback by altering the robots.txt file&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;– and even prevent them appearing there in the first place – and to&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www2.sims.berkeley.edu/research/conferences/aps/removal-policy.html&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;make a formal request for removal using reasons listed here&lt;/a&gt;. This does not seem to apply to sites you personally have no control over unless copyright issues are involved.) If you can put one more step between them and you… do it.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: underline;&quot;&gt;6. Resist temptation to let too many people in.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;If your writing goes well, people may want to meet you. They could want to buy you drinks, give you free tickets to an opening. Don’t say yes. While most people are honest in their intentions, some are not. And even the ones who are may not have taken the security you have to keep your details safe. Remember, no one is as interested in protecting your anonymity as you will be.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;Friends and family were almost all unaware of my secret – both the sex work and the writing. Even my best friend (A4 from the books) didn’t know.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;I met very few people “as” Belle. There were some who had to meet me: agent, accountant, editor. I never went to the Orion offices until after my identity became known. I met Billie Piper, Lucy Prebble, and a couple of writers during the pre-production of&amp;nbsp;&lt;em style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px;&quot;&gt;Secret Diary&lt;/em&gt;&amp;nbsp;at someone’s house, but met almost no one else involved with the show.&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.screenworks.ie/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Paul Duane&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;and&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.womensirishnetwork.com/about-us/founder-members/avril-mcrory/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Avril MacRory&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;met me and were absolutely discreet. I went to the agent’s office a few times but never made an appointment as Belle or in my real name. Most of the staff there had no idea who I was. Of these people who did meet me almost none knew my real name, where I lived, where I was from, my occupation. Only one (the accountant) knew all of that – explained below under point 9. And if I could have gotten away with him never seeing a copy of my passport, I damn well would have done.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;The idea was that if people don’t know anything they can’t inadvertently give it away. I know that all of the people listed above were absolutely trustworthy. I still didn’t tell them anything a journalist would have considered useful.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;When I started blogging someone once commented that my blog was a “missed opportunity” because it didn’t link to an agency website or any way of booking my services. Well, duh. I didn’t want clients to meet me through the blog! If you are a sex worker who wants to preserve a level of pseudonymity&amp;nbsp;&lt;span style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: underline;&quot;&gt;and&lt;/span&gt;&amp;nbsp;link your public profile to your work,&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.theinternetescortshandbook.com/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Amanda Brooks&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;has the advice you need. Not me.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;Other sources like&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://blog.invisible-privacy.com/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;JJ Luna&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;write about how to do things like get and use credit cards not tied to your name and address. I’ve heard&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;https://www.entropay.com/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Entropay&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;offer ‘virtual’ credit cards that are not tied to your credit history, although they can’t be used with any system that requires address verification. This could be useful even for people who are not involved in sex work.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;Resisting temptation sometimes means turning down something you’d really like to do. The short-term gain of giving up details for a writing prize or some immediate work may not be worth the long-term loss of privacy. I heard about one formerly anonymous blogger who was outed after giving their full name and address to a journalist who asked for it when they entered a competition. File under: how not to stay anonymous.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: underline;&quot;&gt;7. Trust your intuition.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;I have to be careful what I say here. In short, my identity became known to a tabloid paper and someone whom I had good reason not to trust (see item 4) gave them a lot of information about me.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;When your intuition tells you not to trust someone, LISTEN TO IT. The best security in the world fails if someone props open a door, leaves a letter on the table, or mentally overrides the concern that someone who betrayed you before could do so again. People you don’t trust should be ejected from your life firmly and without compromise. A “let them down easy” approach only prolongs any revenge they might carry out and probably makes it worse. The irony is that as a call girl I relied on intuition and having strong personal boundaries all the time… but failed to carry that ability over into my private life. If there is one thing in my life I regret, the failure to act on my intuition is it.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;As an aside if you have not read&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.co.uk/The-Gift-Fear-Survival-Violence/dp/0747538352/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;The Gift of Fear&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;already, get it and read it.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;See also point 9: if and when you need people to help you keep the secret don’t make it people already involved in your private life. Relationships can cloud good judgement in business decisions.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;There is a very droll saying “Two people can keep a secret if one of them is dead.” It’s not wrong. I know, I know. Paranoid. Hard not to be when journos a few years later are digging through the rubbish of folks who met you exactly once when you were sixteen. Them’s the breaks.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: underline;&quot;&gt;8. Consider the consequences of success.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;If you find yourself being offered book deals or similar, think it through. Simply by publishing anonymously you will become a target. Some people assume all anonymous writers “want” to be found, and the media in particular will jump through some very interesting hurdles to “prove” anything they write about you is in the public interest.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;In particular, if you are a sex worker, and especially if you are a sex worker who is visible/bookable through your site, please give careful consideration to moving out of that sphere. Even where sex for money is legal it is still a very stigmatised activity. There are a number of people who do not seem to have realised this, and the loss of a career when they left the “sex-pos” bubble was probably something of a shock. I’m not saying don’t do it – but please think long and hard about the potential this has to change your life and whether you are fully prepared to be identified this way forever. For every&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diablo_Cody&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Diablo Cody&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;there are probably dozens of&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://blogs.villagevoice.com/runninscared/2011/02/melissa_petro_g.php&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Melissa Petros&lt;/a&gt;. For every Melissa Petro there are probably hundreds more people with a sex industry past who get quietly fired and we don’t ever hear from them.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;If I knew going in to the first book deal what would happen, I probably would have said no. I’m glad I didn’t by the way – but realistically, my life was stressful enough at that point and I did not fully understand what publishing would add to that. Not many bloggers had mainstream books at that point (arguably none in the UK) so I didn’t have anyone else’s experience to rely on. I really had no idea about what was going to happen. The things people wrote about me then were mainly untrue and usually horrendous. Not a lot has changed even now. I’d be lying if I said that didn’t have an emotional effect.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;Writing anonymously and being outed has happened often enough that people going into it should consider the consequences. I’m not saying don’t do it if you risk something, but be honest with yourself about the worst possible outcome and whether you would be okay with that.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: underline;&quot;&gt;9.&amp;nbsp; Enlist professional help to get paid and sign contracts.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;Having decided to write a book, I needed an agent. The irony of being anonymous was that while I let as few people in on it as possible, at some point I was going to have to take a leap of faith and let in more.&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.mil-millington.com/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Mil Millington&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;emailed me to recommend&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.convilleandwalsh.com/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Patrick Walsh&lt;/a&gt;, saying he was one of the few people in London who can be trusted. Mil was right.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;Patrick put me on to&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.brebners.com/staff-directory/michael-burton&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;my accountant&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;(who had experience of clients with, shall we say, unusual sources of income). From there we cooked up a plan so that contracts could be signed without my name ever gracing a piece of paper. Asking someone to keep a secret when there’s a paper trail sounds like it should be possible but rarely is. Don’t kid yourself, there is no such thing as a unbreakable confidentiality agreement. Asking journalists and reviewers to sign one about your book is like waving a red rag to a bull. What we needed was a few buffers between me and the press.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;With Patrick and Michael acting as directors, a company was set up – Bizrealm. I was not on the paperwork as a director so my name never went on file with Companies House. Rather, with the others acting as directors, signing necessary paperwork, etc., Patrick held a share in trust for me off of which dividends were drawn and this is how I got paid. I may have got some of these details wrong, by the way – keep in mind, I don’t deal with Bizrealm’s day-to-day at all.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;There are drawbacks to doing things this way: you pay for someone’s time, in this case the accountant, to create and administer the company. You can not avoid tax and lots of it. (Granted, drawing dividends is more tax-efficient, but still.)&amp;nbsp;&lt;span style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: underline;&quot;&gt;You have to trust a couple of people ABSOLUTELY&lt;/span&gt;. &amp;nbsp;I’d underline this a thousand times if I could. Michael for instance is the one person who always knew, and continues to know, everything about my financial and personal affairs. Even Patrick doesn’t know everything.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;There are benefits though, as well. Because the money stays mainly in the company and is not paid to me, it gets eked out over time, making tax bills manageable, investment more constant, and keeping me from the temptation to go mad and spend it.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;I can’t stress enough that you might trust your friends and family to the ends of the earth, but they should not be the people who do this for you. Firstly, because they can be traced to you (they know you in a non-professional way). Secondly, because this is a very stressful setup and you need the people handling it to be on the ball. As great as friends and family are that is probably not the kind of stress you want to add to your relationship. I have heard far too many stories of sex workers and others being betrayed by ex-partners who knew the details of their business dealings to ever think that’s a good idea.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;So how do you know you can trust these people? We’ve all heard stories of musicians and other artists getting ripped off by management, right? All I can say is instinct. It would not have been in Patrick’s interest to grass me, since as my agent he took a portion of my earnings anyway, and therefore had financial as well as personal interest in protecting that. If he betrayed me he would also have suffered a loss of reputation that potentially outweighed any gain. Also, as most people who know him will agree, he’s a really nice and sane human being. Same with Michael.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;If this setup sounds weirdly paranoid, let me assure you that journalists absolutely did go to Michael’s office and ask to see the Bizrealm paperwork, and Patrick absolutely did have people going through his bins, trying to infiltrate his office as interns, and so on. Without the protection of being a silent partner in the company those attempts to uncover me might have worked.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;I communicate with some writers and would-be writers who do not seem to have agents. If you are serious about writing, and if you are serious about staying anonymous, get an agent. Shop around, follow your instinct, and make sure it’s someone you can trust. Don’t be afraid to dump an agent, lawyer, or anyone else if you don’t trust them utterly. They’re professionals and shouldn’t take it personally.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: underline;&quot;&gt;10. Don’t break the (tax) law.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;Journalists being interested in your identity is one thing. What you really don’t want is the police or worse, the tax man, after you. Pay your taxes and try not to break the law if it can be helped. If you’re a sex worker blogging about it, get an accountant who has worked with sex workers before – this is applicable even if you live somewhere sex work is not strictly legal. Remember, Al Capone went down for tax evasion. Don’t be like Al. If you are a non-sex-work blogger who is earning money from clickthroughs and affiliates on your site, declare this income.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;In summer 2010 the HMRC started a serious fraud investigation of me. It has been almost two years and is only just wrapping up, with the Revenue finally satisfied that not only did I declare (and possibly overdeclare) my income as a call girl, but that there were no other sources of income hidden from them. They have turned my life and financial history upside down to discover next to nothing new about me. This has been an expensive and tedious process. I can’t even imagine what it would have been like had I not filed the relevant forms, paid the appropriate taxes, and most of all had an accountant to deal with them!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;Bottom line, you may be smart – I’m pretty good with numbers myself – but people whose job it is to know about tax law, negotiating contracts, and so on will be better at that than you are. Let them do it. They are worth every penny.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: underline;&quot;&gt;11. Do interviews with care.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;Early interviews were all conducted one of two ways: over email (encrypted) or over an IRC chatroom from an anonymising server (&lt;a href=&quot;http://webchat.xs4all.nl/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;I used xs4all&lt;/a&gt;). This was not ideal from their point of view, and I had to coach a lot of people in IRC which most of them had never heard of. But again, it’s worth it, since no one in the press will be as interested in protecting your identity as you are. I hope it goes without saying, don’t give out your phone number.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: underline;&quot;&gt;12. Know when&amp;nbsp;&lt;em style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px;&quot;&gt;les jeux&amp;nbsp;&lt;em style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px;&quot;&gt;sont faits&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;In November 2009 – 6 years after I first started blogging anonymously – my identity was revealed.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;As has been documented elsewhere, I had&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.timemachinego.com/linkmachinego/2009/11/16/me-and-belle-de-jour-could-it-be-brooke/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;a few heads-ups that something was coming&lt;/a&gt;, that it was not going to be nice, and that it was not going to go away. We did what we could to put off the inevitable but it became clear I only had one of two choices: let the&amp;nbsp;&lt;em style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px;&quot;&gt;Mail on Sunday&lt;/em&gt;&amp;nbsp;have first crack at running their sordid little tales, or pre-empt them.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;While going to the&amp;nbsp;&lt;em style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px;&quot;&gt;Sunday Times&lt;/em&gt;&amp;nbsp;– the same paper that had forcibly outed&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.zoemargolis.co.uk/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 102, 51); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #265e15; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Zoe Margolis&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;a few years earlier, tried to get my details through that old Hotmail address, and incorrectly fingered Sarah Champion as me – was perhaps not the most sensitive choice, it was for me the right move. Patrick recommended that we contact an interviewer who had not been a Belle-believer: if things were going to be hard, best get that out of the way up front.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;So that is that. It’s a bit odd how quickly things have changed. When I started blogging I little imagined I would be writing books, much less something like this. Being a kind of elder statesman of blogging (or cantankerous old grump if you prefer) is not an entirely comfortable position and one that is still new to me. But it is also interesting to note how little has changed: things that worked in the early 2000s have value today. The field expanded rapidly but the technology has not yet changed all that much.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-top: 0.7em; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;As before, these ideas do not constitute a foolproof way to protect your identity. All writers – whether writing under their own names or not – should be aware of the risks they may incur by hitting ‘publish’. I hope this post at least goes some way to making people think about how they might be identified, and starts them on a path of taking necessary (and in many cases straightforward) precautions, should they choose to be anonymous.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;background: #4d4d4d; border: solid 1px #4d4d4d; display: inline-block;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.xbiz.net/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom: solid 1px #242424; border-left: solid 1px #8c8c8c; border-right: solid 1px #242424; border-top: solid 1px #8c8c8c; color: #9f9f9f; display: inline-block; font-family: &amp;quot;verdana&amp;quot;; font-size: 10px; padding: 0 5px; text-align: center; text-decoration: none;&quot;&gt;&lt;b style=&quot;border-color: rgb(140, 140, 140) rgb(36, 36, 36) rgb(36, 36, 36) rgb(140, 140, 140); border-style: solid; border-width: 1px; color: #9f9f9f; display: inline-block; font-family: verdana; font-size: 10px; padding: 0px 5px; text-align: center; text-decoration: none;&quot;&gt;XBIZ&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;border-color: rgb(140 , 140 , 140) rgb(36 , 36 , 36) rgb(36 , 36 , 36) rgb(140 , 140 , 140); border-style: solid; border-width: 1px; color: #9f9f9f; display: inline-block; font-family: &amp;quot;verdana&amp;quot;; font-size: 10px; padding: 0px 5px; text-align: center; text-decoration: none;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;border-color: rgb(140, 140, 140) rgb(36, 36, 36) rgb(36, 36, 36) rgb(140, 140, 140); border-style: solid; border-width: 1px; display: inline-block; font-size: 10px; padding-left: 5px; padding-right: 5px; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;.net&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;background: #000; border: solid 1px #000; display: inline-block;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.xbiz.net/index.php?c=user.view&amp;amp;id=45004&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom: solid 1px #595959; border-left: solid 1px #8c8c8c; border-right: solid 1px #595959; border-top: solid 1px #8c8c8c; color: #5cc0ff; display: inline-block; font-family: &amp;quot;verdana&amp;quot;; font-size: 10px; font-weight: bold; padding: 0 5px; text-align: center; text-decoration: none;&quot;&gt;View My Industry Profile »&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/feeds/6787966515748839391/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4185114898893253968&amp;postID=6787966515748839391' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/6787966515748839391'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/6787966515748839391'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/2016/03/how-to-blog-anonymously-and-how-not-on.html' title='How To Blog Anonymously (and how not to)'/><author><name>Stephen G. 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Barr</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114478553947057413817</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-H9ZZzzYJahc/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAREE/fRPiCOalFx0/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4185114898893253968.post-1864836188593303468</id><published>2012-06-12T22:30:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2012-06-12T22:30:24.864-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="xxx domains"/><title type='text'>XXX Top Level Domains</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class=&#39;posterous_autopost&#39;&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;posterous_bookmarklet_entry&quot;&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;div&gt;  &lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;  &lt;h3&gt;  	XXX Top Level Domains&lt;/h3&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;    &lt;p&gt;  	&lt;/p&gt;                &lt;h3&gt;A Windfall for ICM Registry, and Potentially Worse&lt;/h3&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Stephen W. Workman, Esq.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;In a reversal of position, ICANN has decided to authorize ICM Registry to offer and oversee a new “xxx” TLD regime.  Whatever you may think of ICANN’s decision, for now it’s a reality to be dealt with. So the question becomes whether you, as an owner or operator of adult websites, should participate in this, eh hum, brave new world.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The creation of the xxx registry presents you with a Hobson’s choice:  If your site is successful, and you don’t purchase the xxx domain, chances are that someone else will. If that happens, there are two potential results, neither good.  Result One: the xxx domain registrant will attempt extortion, demanding payment of several thousands dollars in exchange for transferring the domain to you. Result Two: the domain registrant will launch a site in hopes of confusing consumers as to its identity or affiliation with yours and, as parasites are want to do, feed off the success you’ve worked so hard to enjoy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;        The ICANN Uniform Domain Name Dispute Policy would in most cases relieve you of such nefarious threats or actions, but even that streamlined procedure comes at a cost of time and money, albeit minimal.  (I’ve utilized ICANN’s domain dispute procedure on many occasions on behalf of clients, and – thus far - the arbitrators have always gotten it right, so I do have confidence in that protocol.)   &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But ICM offers you “good news.” ICM has a solution to this problem (keep in mind that the problem was created by ICM, to be solved at your own expense). The solution is to pay ICM a “one-time fee ranging from $50 to $250” and it will block your second tier name, so that no one else can use it in the xxx regime.  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Clever, and perhaps good public relations. Paying ICM a “one-time fee” is cheaper than filing a domain dispute under ICANN, let alone filing a Lanham Act complaint against the plagiarist who seeks to unfairly cash in on your hard earned success. That said, I’m not about to offer much credit to ICM for this gesture.  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;ICM’s pitch to ICANN has been that establishment of the xxx TLD would represent an act of good citizenship, a great public service:  xxx domains would enable parents and businesses to block access to those domains on their computers, and would enable consumers of adult entertainment to have “peace of mind,” as website operators under ICM’s regime will supposedly be compelled to commit to principled standards of operation.  Apparently, ICANN finally bought into the argument.  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I disagree with ICANN’s decision, if only for the fact that it serves to create and enrich a monopoly, i.e., ICM.  Moreover, I believe the more accurate characterization of the xxx TLD is not as a public service, but as an effort to create a “cyber-ghetto.”   As history has informed, the problem with ghettos (where a manner of culture or, in this case, a manner of entertainment, is concentrated) is that it becomes all too easy for opponents of that culture or entertainment to punish or banish it.   &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Constitutional principles should, hopefully*, thwart any misguided attempts to corral all adult websites into the xxx neighborhood.  And make no mistake, the temptation is there, tantalizingly close to those who would like nothing more than to marginalize, if not eradicate, your content. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;(&lt;em&gt;* Would forcing you to give up operating on a .com domain and move to a xxx domain violate the “taking” clause of the Fifth and Fifteenth Amendments?  Some courts have determined that your rights to a domain are akin to your rights to a telephone number – if this analysis were to ultimately hold sway, then the answer as to whether you can be compelled to operate on a xxx domain is dangerously unclear - - as we all know, your telephone area code can be changed, and there’s nothing you can do to prevent it. Could the courts decide that a TLD is akin to an area code? It’s not outside the realm of possibility.&lt;/em&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; But beyond that important issue – which I can address at length in a subsequent article - - the fact is there are millions of adult websites, untold numbers of which are successful.  Many of those will feel compelled to either register and redirect, or at least pay to block others from using, identical or confusingly similar xxx domains.  That’s an immense financial windfall for ICM.  And, from your point of view, for what?  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I think you know the answer to the question, and if it angers you, it should.      &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Mr. Workman has represented the adult Internet community, throughout the U.S. and internationally, since 1997.  He can be reached at   This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. 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X-ray crystallographic data from G. Precigoux, M. Hospital, G. van den Bosche. Cryst. Struct. Comm. 2 (1973), 435-439 . Model constructed in CrystalMaker 8.1. Image generated in Accelrys DS Visualizer. (Photo credit: &lt;a href=&quot;http://commons.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Testosterone-from-xtal-3D-balls.png&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Wikipedia&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;Think of the word &quot;testosterone&quot; and images of drugs abuse in sports and unhealthy &lt;a class=&quot;zem_slink&quot; href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Steroid&quot; rel=&quot;wikipedia&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; title=&quot;Steroid&quot;&gt;steroids&lt;/a&gt; are conjured up immediately. The truth of the matter is that &#39;testosterone&#39; is one of the most important &lt;a class=&quot;zem_slink&quot; href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hormone&quot; rel=&quot;wikipedia&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; title=&quot;Hormone&quot;&gt;hormones&lt;/a&gt; of the &lt;a class=&quot;zem_slink&quot; href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_body&quot; rel=&quot;wikipedia&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; title=&quot;Human body&quot;&gt;human body&lt;/a&gt;. It&#39;s the misuse of this hormone through various means that results in health problems. As a hormone, testosterone is the prime reason behind a range of beneficial functions and processes.  Here are a few &lt;a class=&quot;zem_slink&quot; href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mythology&quot; rel=&quot;wikipedia&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; title=&quot;Mythology&quot;&gt;myths&lt;/a&gt; about testosterone that we shall dispel.  The illegal nature of testosterone  A number of people think that drug treatments that contain testosterone are illegal. Prescription testosterone supplements and pills are perfectly legal and are recommended by doctors to treat range of diseases. Not only is testosterone legal, but is also very important. The development of male genitalia is a result of testosterone levels. It also plays a very important role during puberty. The various physical changes that occur in a man during puberty are a result of testosterone. Other functions of testosterone include sperm production, facilitating an erection, ensuring a healthy sex drive amongst various others. &lt;a class=&quot;zem_slink&quot; href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Testosterone&quot; rel=&quot;wikipedia&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; title=&quot;Testosterone&quot;&gt;Testosterone&lt;/a&gt; is definitely illegal, but only if you buy it without a prescription.  Testosterone is dangerous  This myth is a result of the steroidal nature of testosterone. But the fact that testosterone is a steroid, does not make it a risky product. The human body is made up of a range of natural steroids. A layman might associate danger with the word &#39;steroid&#39; but steroid is essentially a molecule with a carbon core that is made up of four fused rings. Even estrogen and cholesterol are steroids. The myth that steroids are dangerous and illegal comes from sports where the word steroid means a completely different substance. In sports, a steroid is actually &quot;anabolic steroid hormone&quot; that helps in the building of muscles and bones in the body. Even high levels of testosterone have been deemed safe for use, so this myth needs to be done away with.  Intake of testosterone and violent behaviour  A very violent myth floating around is that that the use of testosterone results in an aggressive behaviour. People taking testosterone drug treatments might experience uncontrollable &lt;a class=&quot;zem_slink&quot; href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Behavior&quot; rel=&quot;wikipedia&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; title=&quot;Behavior&quot;&gt;behavioural&lt;/a&gt; changes. Various studies conducted have not only exposed the myth for what it is but proved beyond a doubt that the use of testosterone does not result in violent behaviour. What is interesting to note is that low levels of testosterone are bound to cause irritability and anger. When the levels of testosterone are normal, there is a definite improvement in the condition. So, if anything, the opposite is true. Its not high levels of testosterone that cause behavioural changes; but low levels of testosterone that cause changes to the behaviour of a person.  High levels of testosterone and baldness  Higher levels of testosterone in the body are linked to &lt;a class=&quot;zem_slink&quot; href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Androgenic_alopecia&quot; rel=&quot;wikipedia&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; title=&quot;Androgenic alopecia&quot;&gt;male pattern baldness&lt;/a&gt;. The truth is that men with a full mop of hair and those with very little or no hair have the same levels of testosterone. There is not doubt that increasing levels of dihydrotestosterone (&lt;a class=&quot;zem_slink&quot; href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dihydrotestosterone&quot; rel=&quot;wikipedia&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; title=&quot;Dihydrotestosterone&quot;&gt;DHT&lt;/a&gt;) in the body promote hair loss; and it is testosterone that is actually converted into DHT. But, it&#39;s the genes that are majorly responsible for falling hair and not testosterone. Whether you have a high concentration of testosterone or low, if hair loss has to happen, it will.  Testosterone and &lt;a class=&quot;zem_slink&quot; href=&quot;http://www.cancercenter.com/prostate-cancer.cfm&quot; rel=&quot;cancercenter&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; title=&quot;prostate cancer&quot;&gt;prostate cancer&lt;/a&gt;  A serous accusation leveled at testosterone is an increase in levels of testosterone can cause prostate cancer. Prostate cancer is not a result of high or low levels of testosterone. Also men, who are being prescribed testosterone, don&#39;t show an increased risk of suffering from prostate cancer. But, there is a point of convergence when it comes to myth and reality. It&#39;s seen that castrated men, who have a high level of testosterone, are at a risk of suffering from prostate cancer.  Author associated with ShytoBuy gives information on various myths about testosterone and medication like Testrogain used to boost testosterone quantity.  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MOMENTUM brings together the best people in their fields of the LGBTQ, sex-work, BDSM and non-monogamous communities. Speakers will discuss ways to bridge the baffling dichotomies our culture creates around sexuality.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p /&gt;  &lt;div&gt;Abortion laws, restrictions on gay marriage, abstinence programs, medicalization of sex, fear of pornography and prosecutions for teenage sexting are examples of one side of the spectrum. The discomfort that strives to make us keep our sexuality hidden conflicts with the use of sex &amp;mdash; especially the female body &amp;mdash; to sell everything from food to cars to &amp;ldquo;performance enhancing&amp;rdquo; products.&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p /&gt;  &lt;div&gt;The opening Keynote Plenary Panel is moderated by the legendary Dr. Carol Queen and features esteemed panelists Bill Taverner, editor-in-chief of the American Journal of Sexuality Education, author and sexuality educator, Dr. Logan Levkoff, founder and director of the Red Umbrella Project, Audacia Ray, and university professor and&amp;nbsp;Education Program Manager at Good Vibrations,&amp;nbsp;Charlie Glickman, PhD. Our Closing Plenary features author of the international bestseller&amp;nbsp;&lt;em&gt;Mating in Captivity&lt;/em&gt;, Esther Perel, and journalist, Lara Riscol. The conference will kick off with an exclusive meet &amp;amp; greet and performance by comic Maria Falzone.&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p /&gt;  &lt;div&gt;MOMENTUM is geared toward anyone interested in intelligent conversations about the influence of new media on sexuality. After a sold out first year in 2011, MOMENTUM has expanded its space, presenters and sessions, with over&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://t.ymlp297.net/umyuapaeqsuaiaeuealaujqsu/click.php&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; style=&quot;color: #406480;&quot;&gt;40 sessions&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;and&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://t.ymlp297.net/umyeaaaeqsuaaaeueaiaujqsu/click.php&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; style=&quot;color: #406480;&quot;&gt;60 presenters&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p /&gt;  &lt;div&gt;MOMENTUM will&amp;nbsp;cover a wide range of viewpoints on sexuality, and the program&amp;nbsp;is sure to have&amp;nbsp;something of interest to everyone.&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt;Each participant in MOMENTUM will leave the conference with new perspectives, new connections and a plan to carry the MOMENTUM&amp;nbsp;forward into 2012 and&amp;nbsp;beyond.&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p /&gt;  &lt;div&gt;Pre-registration is required to attend MOMENTUM. Go to&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://t.ymlp297.net/umysacaeqsuadaeueaaaujqsu/click.php&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; style=&quot;color: #406480;&quot;&gt;momentumcon.com&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;or&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://t.ymlp297.net/umymaiaeqsuaxaeueafaujqsu/click.php&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; style=&quot;color: #406480;&quot;&gt;http://momentumcon.com/registration/hotel&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;for registration.&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p /&gt;  &lt;div&gt;For more information, please contact Brian Gross, BSG PR,&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://tel:%28818%29%20340-4422&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; style=&quot;color: #406480;&quot;&gt;(818) 340-4422&lt;/a&gt;. Email:&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;mailto:brian@bsgpr.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; style=&quot;color: #406480;&quot;&gt;brian@bsgpr.com&lt;/a&gt;. Twitter: @bsgpr&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  &lt;/p&gt;      &lt;p style=&quot;font-size: 10px;&quot;&gt;  &lt;a href=&quot;http://posterous.com&quot;&gt;Posted via email&lt;/a&gt;   from &lt;a href=&quot;http://eroticfreepress.org/the-momentum-conference-in-washington-dc-will&quot;&gt;The Erotic Free Press&lt;/a&gt;  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/feeds/7634913747344040467/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4185114898893253968&amp;postID=7634913747344040467' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/7634913747344040467'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/7634913747344040467'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/2012/02/momentum-conference-in-washington-dc_17.html' title='The MOMENTUM Conference in Washington DC will Make Waves in Sexuality, Feminism and Relationships'/><author><name>Stephen G. 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MOMENTUM brings together the best people in their fields of the LGBTQ, sex-work, BDSM and non-monogamous communities. Speakers will discuss ways to bridge the baffling dichotomies our culture creates around sexuality.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p /&gt;  &lt;div&gt;Abortion laws, restrictions on gay marriage, abstinence programs, medicalization of sex, fear of pornography and prosecutions for teenage sexting are examples of one side of the spectrum. The discomfort that strives to make us keep our sexuality hidden conflicts with the use of sex &amp;mdash; especially the female body &amp;mdash; to sell everything from food to cars to &amp;ldquo;performance enhancing&amp;rdquo; products.&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p /&gt;  &lt;div&gt;The opening Keynote Plenary Panel is moderated by the legendary Dr. Carol Queen and features esteemed panelists Bill Taverner, editor-in-chief of the American Journal of Sexuality Education, author and sexuality educator, Dr. Logan Levkoff, founder and director of the Red Umbrella Project, Audacia Ray, and university professor and&amp;nbsp;Education Program Manager at Good Vibrations,&amp;nbsp;Charlie Glickman, PhD. Our Closing Plenary features author of the international bestseller&amp;nbsp;&lt;em&gt;Mating in Captivity&lt;/em&gt;, Esther Perel, and journalist, Lara Riscol. The conference will kick off with an exclusive meet &amp;amp; greet and performance by comic Maria Falzone.&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p /&gt;  &lt;div&gt;MOMENTUM is geared toward anyone interested in intelligent conversations about the influence of new media on sexuality. After a sold out first year in 2011, MOMENTUM has expanded its space, presenters and sessions, with over&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://t.ymlp297.net/umyuapaeqsuaiaeuealaujqsu/click.php&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; style=&quot;color: #406480;&quot;&gt;40 sessions&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;and&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://t.ymlp297.net/umyeaaaeqsuaaaeueaiaujqsu/click.php&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; style=&quot;color: #406480;&quot;&gt;60 presenters&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p /&gt;  &lt;div&gt;MOMENTUM will&amp;nbsp;cover a wide range of viewpoints on sexuality, and the program&amp;nbsp;is sure to have&amp;nbsp;something of interest to everyone.&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt;Each participant in MOMENTUM will leave the conference with new perspectives, new connections and a plan to carry the MOMENTUM&amp;nbsp;forward into 2012 and&amp;nbsp;beyond.&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p /&gt;  &lt;div&gt;Pre-registration is required to attend MOMENTUM. Go to&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://t.ymlp297.net/umysacaeqsuadaeueaaaujqsu/click.php&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; style=&quot;color: #406480;&quot;&gt;momentumcon.com&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;or&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://t.ymlp297.net/umymaiaeqsuaxaeueafaujqsu/click.php&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; style=&quot;color: #406480;&quot;&gt;http://momentumcon.com/registration/hotel&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;for registration.&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p /&gt;  &lt;div&gt;For more information, please contact Brian Gross, BSG PR,&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://tel:%28818%29%20340-4422&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; style=&quot;color: #406480;&quot;&gt;(818) 340-4422&lt;/a&gt;. Email:&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;mailto:brian@bsgpr.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; style=&quot;color: #406480;&quot;&gt;brian@bsgpr.com&lt;/a&gt;. 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The better question to be asked is; what’s the best LELO product for you?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;input width=&quot;660&quot; height=&quot;221&quot; type=&quot;image&quot; src=&quot;http://www.lelo.com/upload/fckupload/whats-the-best-lelo%281%29.jpg&quot; style=&quot;cursor: default; &quot;&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div&gt;If you’re a fashionista looking for the cutest accessory to compliment the contents of your purse or a jet-setter looking to minimize luggage,&amp;nbsp;&lt;a target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://en.lelo.com/index.php?collectionName=femme-homme&amp;amp;groupName=MIA&quot; style=&quot;color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-decoration: underline; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; &quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;text-decoration: underline; &quot;&gt;MIA&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;suits the lifestyles of both the intrepid traveler and gotta-have-it gadget lover. Whether in baby-doll pink or elegant black, MIA packs some massive USB-rechargeable juice all in her discreet ‘lipstick-like’ exterior.&amp;nbsp;&lt;br&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Are you always finding yourself feeling like it’s never enough? For those who demand more intensity in an external vibe,&amp;nbsp;&lt;a target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://en.lelo.com/index.php?collectionName=femme-homme&amp;amp;groupName=SIRI&quot; style=&quot;color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-decoration: underline; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; &quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;text-decoration: underline; &quot;&gt;SIRI&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;might be just the thing to send you to the moon and beyond. LELO’s most powerful external massager, SIRI boasts a brilliant microprocessor that directs vibrations from a motor that doesn’t discriminate between clitoris and body for all-over stimulation.&amp;nbsp;&lt;br&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: medium; &quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;input width=&quot;320&quot; height=&quot;251&quot; align=&quot;left&quot; type=&quot;image&quot; src=&quot;http://www.lelo.com/upload/fckupload/whats-the-best-lelo-for-you.jpg&quot; style=&quot;cursor: default; &quot;&gt;If you’re ambitious enough to explore new sensations you’ve only heard about,&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://en.lelo.com/index.php?collectionName=femme-homme&amp;amp;groupName=GIGI&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; style=&quot;color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-decoration: underline; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; &quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;text-decoration: underline; &quot;&gt;GIGI&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;and&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://en.lelo.com/index.php?collectionName=femme-homme&amp;amp;groupName=BILLY&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; style=&quot;color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-decoration: underline; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; &quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;text-decoration: underline; &quot;&gt;BILLY&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;are the perfect couple for that adventurous double-date. GIGI delicately tends to the lady’s G-spot while BILLY provides unparalleled stimulation to the prostate for added ecstasy.&amp;nbsp;&lt;br&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;For the avid swimmer, snorkeler or otherwise aquatically-inclined, LELO’s INSIGNIA collection possesses the same stylish, body-friendly designs common to all LELOs, but in fully-waterproof forms. From the clever and versatile massager&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://en.lelo.com/index.php?collectionName=insignia-luxe&amp;amp;groupName=ALIA&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; style=&quot;color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-decoration: underline; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; &quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;text-decoration: underline; &quot;&gt;ALIA&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, the sublimely crafted&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://en.lelo.com/index.php?collectionName=insignia-luxe&amp;amp;groupName=ISLA&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; style=&quot;color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-decoration: underline; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; &quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;text-decoration: underline; &quot;&gt;ISLA&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;to the seductive dual-action vibrator&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://en.lelo.com/index.php?collectionName=insignia-luxe&amp;amp;groupName=SORAYA&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; style=&quot;color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-decoration: underline; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; &quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;text-decoration: underline; &quot;&gt;SORAYA&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, this product line won’t fail to engage the senses in a fully submerged experience.&lt;br&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;For the lady who wants it all,&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://en.lelo.com/index.php?collectionName=femme-homme&amp;amp;groupName=INA&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; style=&quot;color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-decoration: underline; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; &quot;&gt;INA&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;is a dual-action ‘rabbit-style’ vibe that offers multiple pleasure over 8 different modes and 2 motors that deliver simultaneous and alternating (and simultaneously alternating) euphoric sensations, both external and internal.&amp;nbsp;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div&gt;Thought we’d actually tell you what’s the best LELO? 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Barr</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114478553947057413817</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-H9ZZzzYJahc/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAREE/fRPiCOalFx0/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4185114898893253968.post-2183245912472226024</id><published>2012-01-09T06:23:00.002-07:00</published><updated>2012-01-09T06:23:15.114-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="lingerie.com"/><title type='text'>Lingerie.com</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href=&quot;http://click.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/click?id=z3sXlP8Lqvs&amp;offerid=183314.10000320&amp;type=4&amp;subid=0&quot;&gt;&lt;IMG alt=&quot;Lingerie.com&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; src=&quot;http://affiliates.barenecessities.com/ai/lingeriecom/300_250_lingeriecom_images/300x250_Plus_Size_2011.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;IMG border=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;1&quot; height=&quot;1&quot; src=&quot;http://ad.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/show?id=z3sXlP8Lqvs&amp;bids=183314.10000320&amp;type=4&amp;subid=0&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;script src=&quot;http://connect.facebook.net/en_US/all.js#xfbml=1&quot;&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;fb:like font=&quot;verdana&quot; href=&quot;www.erotomaniamanagement.blogspot.com&quot; show_faces=&quot;true&quot; width=&quot;450&quot;&gt;&lt;/fb:like&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: #4d4d4d; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(77, 77, 77); border-bottom-style: solid; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-image: initial; border-left-color: rgb(77, 77, 77); border-left-style: solid; border-left-width: 1px; border-right-color: rgb(77, 77, 77); border-right-style: solid; border-right-width: 1px; border-top-color: rgb(77, 77, 77); border-top-style: solid; border-top-width: 1px; display: inline-block;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.xbiz.net/&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom: solid 1px #242424; border-left: solid 1px #8c8c8c; border-right: solid 1px #242424; border-top: solid 1px #8c8c8c; color: #9f9f9f; display: inline-block; font-family: verdana; font-size: 10px; padding: 0 5px; text-align: center; text-decoration: none;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;XBIZ&lt;/b&gt;.net&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: black; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); border-bottom-style: solid; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-image: initial; border-left-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); border-left-style: solid; border-left-width: 1px; border-right-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); border-right-style: solid; border-right-width: 1px; border-top-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); border-top-style: solid; border-top-width: 1px; display: inline-block;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.xbiz.net/index.php?c=user.view&amp;amp;id=45004&quot; style=&quot;border-bottom: solid 1px #595959; border-left: solid 1px #8c8c8c; border-right: solid 1px #595959; border-top: solid 1px #8c8c8c; color: #5cc0ff; display: inline-block; font-family: verdana; font-size: 10px; font-weight: bold; padding: 0 5px; text-align: center; text-decoration: none;&quot;&gt;View My Industry Profile »&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/feeds/2183245912472226024/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4185114898893253968&amp;postID=2183245912472226024' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/2183245912472226024'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/2183245912472226024'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/2012/01/lingeriecom.html' title='Lingerie.com'/><author><name>Stephen G. Barr</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114478553947057413817</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-H9ZZzzYJahc/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAREE/fRPiCOalFx0/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4185114898893253968.post-4475567711466865120</id><published>2011-11-30T15:40:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-11-30T15:40:06.586-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="internext"/><title type='text'>InterNEXT Expo Sunday, 15 January 2012 at 13:00 - Tuesday, 17 January 2012 at 16:00 (PT) Las Vegas, NV</title><content type='html'>&lt;span class=&quot;vevent&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;description&quot;&gt;CHATSWORTH, Calif.—The  AVN Media Network is pleased to announce that Internext will be the  inaugural adult trade event at the Las Vegas Hard Rock Hotel &amp;amp;  Casino this January, paving the way for the Adult Entertainment Expo,  the Adult Novelty Expo and the AVN Awards, which run consecutively from  Jan. 18-21.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong style=&quot;font-size: large;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;PussyCash - Official Registration Sponsor&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img alt=&quot;PussyCash - Official Registration Sponsor&quot; height=&quot;88&quot; src=&quot;https://evbdn.eventbrite.com/s3-s3/eventlogos/15882537/pcbanner.gif&quot; style=&quot;font-family: Arial, Verdana, Tahoma; font-size: x-small;&quot; title=&quot;PussyCash - Official Registration Sponsor&quot; width=&quot;425&quot; /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Internext, which debuted in 2001, is the longest-running major adult  webmaster B2B event in the industry. As a leader in the adult trade show  marketplace, it continues to focus its energies on bringing together  adult professionals from around the world and providing them with a  stimulating atmosphere in which to do business.&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;As always, Internext in January provides sponsors and attendees with  myriad opportunities to interact with industry leaders not only from  the online sector but also from every other sector of the business. When  it comes to the business done at Internext, what happens in Vegas does  NOT stay in Vegas!&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;“We are especially pleased to hold Internext at the Hard Rock Hotel  &amp;amp; Casino this year, where our other events are also talking place,”  said AVN CEO Theo Sapoutzis. “It will only enhance the effortlessness  with which people from different sectors of the industry will be able to  network with one another. The show stands on its own two feet, of  course, but we have received lots of feedback over the years from people  who appreciate the fact that AVN Week in Las Vegas not only enables but  encourages them to explore new business opportunities.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Though the basic format of Internext 2012 will remain somewhat  similar to previous events—including such staples as Speed Networking,  Product Demos, Seminars &amp;amp; Workshops, an upscale Meet Market, plus a  bevy of parties and special dinners (yes, some invite-only)—show  organizers are busy working on new events and features designed to meet  the needs of an ever-evolving industry. There will also be a very  special keynote speaker at Internext 2012—details to be announced  shortly!&lt;br /&gt;As an added benefit, Internext rooms at the Hard Rock will be  available at rock-bottom prices, starting at $99 a night  (Sunday-Thursday). Rooms can be booked now by visiting here.&lt;br /&gt;To inquire about Internext sponsorship, please contact &lt;a href=&quot;mailto:sales@internext-expo.com&quot;&gt;sales@internext-expo.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</content><link rel="related" href="http://internext2012.eventbrite.com/" title="InterNEXT Expo Sunday, 15 January 2012 at 13:00 - Tuesday, 17 January 2012 at 16:00 (PT) Las Vegas, NV"/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/feeds/4475567711466865120/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4185114898893253968&amp;postID=4475567711466865120' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/4475567711466865120'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/4475567711466865120'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/2011/11/internext-expo-sunday-15-january-2012.html' title='InterNEXT Expo Sunday, 15 January 2012 at 13:00 - Tuesday, 17 January 2012 at 16:00 (PT) Las Vegas, NV'/><author><name>Stephen G. Barr</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114478553947057413817</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-H9ZZzzYJahc/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAREE/fRPiCOalFx0/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4185114898893253968.post-5133500323812613702</id><published>2011-11-08T08:20:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2011-11-08T08:20:47.121-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Fighting Over Online Sex Ads</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class=&#39;posterous_autopost&#39;&gt;&lt;p&gt;  &lt;h1 style=&quot;font-size: 2.4em; line-height: 1.083em; font-family: Georgia, serif; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 16px; font-weight: normal; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;What if the price of having a vital, well-financed string of newspapers included rare, but inevitable, sexual predation of minors?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;  &lt;div&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;Not a tough call, right? But maybe more complicated than you think for the businesses involved.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;Before you head out for the lanterns and pitchforks, it&amp;rsquo;s worth remembering that a free press is not free. One of the offshoots of free speech is that it will be used to pernicious ends. In this instance, Village Voice Media has a classified network called&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://backpage.com/&quot; target=&quot;_&quot; style=&quot;color: #000066; text-decoration: none;&quot;&gt;Backpage.com&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;that includes a section labeled &amp;ldquo;adult&amp;rdquo; with categories like &amp;ldquo;escort&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;strippers &amp;amp; strip clubs.&amp;rdquo; The vast majority of ads involves one consenting adult seeking another, but there have been instances in which the section was used to offer minors for sexual ends.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;Village Voice Media is controlled by Jim Larkin and Michael Lacey, whose weeklies include The Village Voice, Westword and Phoenix New Times. It has an anything-goes approach to advertising, but in a digital age, that policy has new implications.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;In September 2010, Craigslist, which hosted a great deal of sexually related advertising, bowed to pressure and banned that advertising in the United States. A number of crimes, including several murders, had been linked to ads on the site, and many critics, including a number of state attorneys general, suggested that Craigslist was enabling the trafficking of minors.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;A significant portion of the estimated $44 million in sex-related advertising on Craigslist found a home on&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://backpage.com/&quot; target=&quot;_&quot; style=&quot;color: #000066; text-decoration: none;&quot;&gt;Backpage.com&lt;/a&gt;. Like a lot of newspapers, Village Voice Media&amp;rsquo;s chain of 13 weeklies has struggled through the terrible economic cycle and big changes in advertising spending, so the revenue from&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://backpage.com/&quot; target=&quot;_&quot; style=&quot;color: #000066; text-decoration: none;&quot;&gt;Backpage.com&lt;/a&gt;, much of it unrelated to sex, has played a critical role in its survival.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;But in August the country&amp;rsquo;s 51 attorneys general sent a letter demanding that the site close its &amp;ldquo;adult&amp;rdquo; section, and now a coalition of religious leaders has joined that effort. Last Tuesday, Groundswell, an interfaith social justice group sponsored by Auburn Seminary in New York, published a&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.groundswell-movement.org/nyt-ad/&quot; title=&quot;The Groundswell ad.&quot; style=&quot;color: #000066; text-decoration: none;&quot;&gt;full-page ad&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;in The New York Times that was signed by clergy members of all stripes and cited the arrests of adults who had sold minors for sex using&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://backpage.com/&quot; target=&quot;_&quot; style=&quot;color: #000066; text-decoration: none;&quot;&gt;Backpage.com&lt;/a&gt;. The ad stated, &amp;ldquo;It is a basic fact of the moral universe that girls and boys should not be sold for sex.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;&amp;ldquo;While we empathize with your business challenges and the increasingly difficult marketplace in which Village Voice Media competes,&amp;rdquo; the letter went on, &amp;ldquo;we trust that you are committed to running your business without compromising the lives of our nation&amp;rsquo;s boys and girls.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;The Rev. Katharine Rhodes Henderson, the president of Auburn Theological Seminary, said that while the issue was complicated, the bottom line was not.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;&amp;ldquo;On&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://backpage.com/&quot; target=&quot;_&quot; style=&quot;color: #000066; text-decoration: none;&quot;&gt;Backpage.com&lt;/a&gt;, you can buy a toaster, a car or a girl for sex,&amp;rdquo; she said. &amp;ldquo;We agree with the attorney generals on the legal issues, but we are raising this as a moral issue. Even if one minor is sold for sex, it is one too many.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;Mr. Larkin and Mr. Lacey are accustomed to having people come after them. They were&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.nytimes.com/2008/05/12/business/media/12carr.html&quot; title=&quot;A related column by David Carr.&quot; style=&quot;color: #000066; text-decoration: none;&quot;&gt;harassed and arrested&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;in the middle of the night in response to the coverage by one of their newspapers of Joe Arpaio, the sheriff of Maricopa County, Ariz. Mr. Lacey, who has made a career out of tweaking the powers that be, sees this battle as no different.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;&amp;ldquo;I am beginning to like our odds,&amp;rdquo; he said. &amp;ldquo;We have all these practicing politicians and concerned clergy after us. We must be doing something right.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;In a phone call, he and Mr. Larkin pointed out that Web sites like&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://backpage.com/&quot; target=&quot;_&quot; style=&quot;color: #000066; text-decoration: none;&quot;&gt;Backpage.com&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;are not legally responsible for posted content and added that the company had spent millions on both human and technological efforts to screen ads that feature minors. They said they had worked with law enforcement officials and the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children in an effort to make sure&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://backpage.com/&quot; target=&quot;_&quot; style=&quot;color: #000066; text-decoration: none;&quot;&gt;Backpage.com&lt;/a&gt;&amp;rsquo;s &amp;ldquo;adult&amp;rdquo; section included only adults.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;Both men see the debate as a free speech issue.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;&amp;ldquo;We have always had a very libertarian approach to advertising,&amp;rdquo; said Mr. Larkin, adding that classifieds represented 30 to 35 percent of their business. &amp;ldquo;We don&amp;rsquo;t ban cigarettes, we take adult advertising. We take ads that sell guns.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;From their perspective, the claims of their opponents are wildly exaggerated and all the money being spent trying to wipe out advertising would be better spent on the root causes of the problem, including drug addiction, poverty and family abuse.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;&amp;ldquo;There is a lot of mythmaking around the issue and I think it&amp;rsquo;s a way of avoiding the real problem,&amp;rdquo; Mr. Lacey said.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;Rob McKenna, the attorney general of Washington State and the head of the association of attorneys general that went after both Craigslist and now&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://backpage.com/&quot; target=&quot;_&quot; style=&quot;color: #000066; text-decoration: none;&quot;&gt;Backpage.com&lt;/a&gt;, says the issue goes beyond minors.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;&amp;ldquo;I think we have to be careful to protect the First Amendment rights of publishers, but free speech does not extend to the knowing facilitation of criminal activity,&amp;rdquo; he said. &amp;ldquo;This is not just about children being prostituted, this is about human beings being trafficked into the sex trades, as adults and as children.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s no news to anyone that sex is an integral component of the Internet and much of the mainstream media. Early on, AOL included lots of raunchy backrooms. The brand-name cable channels make a great deal of money on sexually explicit content, and if someone is looking to buy sex, there are any number of Web sites that cater to all manner of interests.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s worth remembering that while pressure from the attorneys general and Congress led to a change at Craigslist, the whack-a-mole on the Web continues. If&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://backpage.com/&quot; target=&quot;_&quot; style=&quot;color: #000066; text-decoration: none;&quot;&gt;Backpage.com&lt;/a&gt;retreats &amp;mdash; not likely given the predispositions of its owners &amp;mdash; some other alternative will immediately take its place.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;It reminds me a great deal of the early 1990s, when I was the editor of The Twin Cities Reader, an alternative weekly in Minneapolis. At the time, we were under fire for publishing ads for strip clubs, escort services and massage parlors. The staff and the publisher at the time, R. T. Rybak, were keenly attuned to the community and always looking for points of difference from City Pages, our weekly competitor. With support from the staff, Mr. Rybak announced that we would no longer take ads that &amp;ldquo;objectified&amp;rdquo; women, a bold move. It was thought that beyond the good will we earned in the community, other, nonracy advertisers might find our paper to be a more suitable platform.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;Our critics, including many women&amp;rsquo;s groups, were thrilled at their victory and congratulated us on our sensitivity. The policy went into effect, wiping out, as I recall, about 15 percent of the bottom line. City Pages left its ad policy unchanged. Some of what we lost went to them and little in the way of new ads materialized to fill the hole.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;City Pages eventually became the dominant paper &amp;mdash; in part because it was very good and run by smart people &amp;mdash; and when, yes, Village Voice Media decided to enter the market, it bought both papers and closed The Twin Cities Reader. I was gone by then, but I thought the decision to be selective about ads contributed to its demise.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;I called Mr. Rybak, who is now the mayor of Minneapolis, to ask if he regretted the decision.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;&amp;ldquo;It was absolutely the right move,&amp;rdquo; he said. &amp;ldquo;When you engage in a certain kind of journalism that is designed to be an alternative to the mainstream, you have a special obligation to have your editorial, your values and your advertising align.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;&amp;ldquo;If we had more time, I think it may have worked out,&amp;rdquo; he said. &amp;ldquo;But I often think about what would have happened if we had those two pages of ads in the back. Would the paper still be around? It wasn&amp;rsquo;t the only reason it went out of business, but it played a role.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: black; font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px;&quot;&gt;Although Mr. Larkin and Mr. Lacey hardly agree, they are taking their own version of a principled stand. And just because it aligns with their business interests doesn&amp;rsquo;t mean it isn&amp;rsquo;t valid.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;div class=&quot;authorIdentification&quot; style=&quot;margin-bottom: 2.8em;&quot;&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: #000000; font-size: 15px !important; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 24px; font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;line-height: 22px;&quot;&gt;E-mail:&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;mailto:carr@nytimes.com;&quot; class=&quot;smarterwiki-linkify&quot; style=&quot;color: #000066; text-decoration: none;&quot;&gt;carr@nytimes.com;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;color: #000000; font-size: 15px !important; line-height: 24px; font-style: italic; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;Twitter.com/carr2n&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  &lt;/p&gt;      &lt;p style=&quot;font-size: 10px;&quot;&gt;  &lt;a href=&quot;http://posterous.com&quot;&gt;Posted via email&lt;/a&gt;   from &lt;a href=&quot;http://eroticfreepress.org/fighting-over-online-sex-ads&quot;&gt;The Erotic Free Press&lt;/a&gt;  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/feeds/5133500323812613702/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4185114898893253968&amp;postID=5133500323812613702' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/5133500323812613702'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/5133500323812613702'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/2011/11/fighting-over-online-sex-ads.html' title='Fighting Over Online Sex Ads'/><author><name>Stephen G. 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Barr</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114478553947057413817</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-H9ZZzzYJahc/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAREE/fRPiCOalFx0/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4185114898893253968.post-8484813660110362632</id><published>2011-10-14T12:31:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2011-10-14T12:44:22.794-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="mature"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="milf"/><title type='text'>As a mature provider I fall into a very special niche</title><content type='html'>This in from Brickhouse Annie:  &lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-mjAr0f4heHw/TpiRDqNt5DI/AAAAAAAACDE/M4rUl7JpHW4/s1600/hooker_senior_citizen_rates.jpg&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;clear:left; float:left;margin-right:1em; margin-bottom:1em&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;320&quot; width=&quot;228&quot; src=&quot;http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-mjAr0f4heHw/TpiRDqNt5DI/AAAAAAAACDE/M4rUl7JpHW4/s320/hooker_senior_citizen_rates.jpg&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt; As a mature provider I fall into a very special niche. That niche, as I am learning more and more, is one surrounded by awe and mystery, misconceptions and stereotypes, and best of all, respect and reverence. My age has actually been a marketing boon rather than a hindrance so the occasional unkind remark from some snotty punk seems more of an amusement than an annoyance.   All the awe, mystery, misconceptions and stereotypes can spark some pretty bizarre exchanges of dialogue. I received this message the other day which I found hilarious.   ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~  I don&#39;t live in Az, and I won&#39;t be out that way for awhile. Probably be after basic training, if I can. I just wanted to say.. if you&#39;re actually 47 and doing this? That&#39;s amazing. That&#39;s dedication!(of the penis pleasing kind.) I would love to hear back from you and know more about you.   ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~  On a different day something like this might have sent me raging like the Queen of Hearts and screaming &quot;OFF WITH HIS HEAD!&quot; and it wouldn&#39;t be the one on his shoulders to which I would be referring.   After reading his message I thought briefly about changing my working name to Methuselah but decided it sounded too much like a laxative product and would generate a shitload ( seize the pun!) of calls from the back door set and dropped the idea.   Instead, I responded in the only way I know how. With total veiled sarcasm that Im hoping left this young man so heady with all the aforementioned auras that his member developed a hard on shaped like a throbbing question mark. Please read.  ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Well my photos don&#39;t show the walker I got last year. And I brush the cobwebs off the old dynamo hum ( that&#39;s a phrase coined by Frank Zappa back in the &#39;70s .... way back before Wii and Akon and MTV and nintendo) so it still looks usable.  No cracks dents or peeling paint on that old baby yet and the chassis still revs on cue! Amazing isn&#39;t it?   Of course there are perks. I&#39;ve been offered an HBO documentary called &quot;The Oldest Working Vagina in America&quot;. They don&#39;t know about that little procedure I had done called VWR. Vaginal Wall Reconstruction and it&#39;s amazing what they can do with 2 tongue depressors, some duct tape and a ping pong ball these days!  Thanks so much for expressing your awe at my functioning 47 year old Vijayjay but I must confess something. My vagina,.....is actually the ORIGINAL vagina from Eve herself!  Most men don&#39;t know this, but Eves vagina has been handed down, generation after generation, and safeguarded, much like the Ark of the Covenant.  I&#39;ve been entrusted with the High Holy Hoo Hoo and that&#39;s why mine still works at the ancient age of 47 when most vaginas crap out by age 26 or so.  Viewing of the High Holy Hoo Hoo is by appointment only and granted on Thursdays and Saturdays between the hours of noon and 7 pm. Please bring your own protective eye wear for the viewing session and normal rates still apply.  Offerings of Geritol and Depends (thong style only) are gratefully accepted.   ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~  I am waiting to hear back from this guy so I better go check the batteries in my hearing aids as well as my vibrator.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/feeds/8484813660110362632/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4185114898893253968&amp;postID=8484813660110362632' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/8484813660110362632'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/8484813660110362632'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/2011/10/as-mature-provider-i-fall-into-very.html' title='As a mature provider I fall into a very special niche'/><author><name>Stephen G. Barr</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114478553947057413817</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-H9ZZzzYJahc/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAREE/fRPiCOalFx0/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-mjAr0f4heHw/TpiRDqNt5DI/AAAAAAAACDE/M4rUl7JpHW4/s72-c/hooker_senior_citizen_rates.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4185114898893253968.post-8607442031919115386</id><published>2011-10-09T17:24:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2011-10-09T17:24:32.139-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="porn"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="prison"/><title type='text'>Connecticut Prisoners Protesting ‘Unfair’ Porn Ban</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class=&#39;posterous_autopost&#39;&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;div class=&#39;p_embed p_image_embed&#39;&gt; &lt;img alt=&quot;Prisoner&quot; height=&quot;360&quot; src=&quot;http://posterous.com/getfile/files.posterous.com/temp-2011-10-09/BomAnvrvuurnnIhADahxIcaeJdBxysqrsaAonDaqtsAffewpyeJyqIbmzGkF/prisoner.jpg.scaled1000.jpg&quot; width=&quot;640&quot; /&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;  &lt;p /&gt;  &lt;span style=&quot;font-family: Georgia, Times, Liberation Serif, serif; line-height: 18px;&quot;&gt;  &lt;div style=&quot;margin-top: 1em; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; float: left; padding: 0px;&quot;&gt;  &lt;div class=&quot;mainContent permalink&quot; style=&quot;font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; float: left; padding: 0px; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;  &lt;div class=&quot;permalink postContainer postid_5848103 issued_1318201750 originalPostId_5848103 originalSiteId_7 toppic&quot; style=&quot;font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;  &lt;div class=&quot;gmgrid&quot; style=&quot;font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; float: left; padding: 0px; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;  &lt;div class=&quot;grid-full alpha omega&quot; style=&quot;font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; float: left; padding: 0px; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;  &lt;div class=&quot;post-body&quot; style=&quot;font-style: inherit; font-size: 15px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; line-height: 1.5; color: #222222; padding: 0px; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 13px; margin-left: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-size: 15px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; color: #333333; padding: 0px;&quot;&gt;State officials believe that having a bunch of porn lying around in prisoners&#39; cells all the time doesn&#39;t make for a very hospitable work environment for women who work in Connecticut&#39;s penitentiaries; indeed, the Associated Press&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.bostonherald.com/news/national/northeast/view/20111008connecticut_prisoners_express_anger_over_porn_ban/srvc=home&amp;amp;position=recent&quot; style=&quot;font-style: inherit; font-size: 15px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-decoration: none; color: #d75148; padding: 0px; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;reports&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;that some female guards have complained about being sexually harassed by porn-wielding inmates. Also, porn doesn&#39;t really help rehabilitate sex offenders, officials say. But the pro-porn protester-prisoners assert that the ban violates their First Amendment rights. (It might also violate their Eighth Amendment rights, if they happen to be&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://gawker.com/5817768/chronic-masturbation-syndrome-sufferer-sues-jail-for-porn-ban&quot; style=&quot;font-style: inherit; font-size: 15px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-decoration: none; color: #d75148; padding: 0px; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;Chronic Masturbation Syndrome&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;sufferers.) They&#39;re willing to compromise: If they can&#39;t have magazines, they&#39;ll accept &quot;cable programming that offers and displays nudity, also sexual activity&quot;&amp;mdash;otherwise known as Pornographic Films.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 13px; margin-left: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-size: 15px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; color: #333333; padding: 0px;&quot;&gt;Do you think it&#39;s unfair to make Connecticut prisoners do their time without access to &quot;pictorial depictions of sexual activity or nudity?&quot; Or do you think these guys are just being whiny and spoiled? At least they don&#39;t have to&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://gawker.com/5848103/given%20a%20year%20to%20dispose%20of%20any%20pornography&quot; style=&quot;font-style: inherit; font-size: 15px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-decoration: none; color: #d75148; padding: 0px; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;remain in isolation for 22 hours a day&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;or endure being frozen by air conditioners running at full-blast, like the hunger-striking prisoners in California&#39;s Pelican Bay prison do. Maybe that&#39;s an unfair comparison to make, but consider that the ban &quot;doesn&#39;t include material that could be considered literary, educational, artistic or scientific.&quot; So it&#39;s not like they&#39;re being kept from reading. These guys can still subscribe to&amp;nbsp;&lt;em&gt;National Geographic&lt;/em&gt;, which sometimes has naked people in it. And art magazines. And&amp;nbsp;&lt;em&gt;Reader&#39;s Digest&lt;/em&gt;, which doesn&#39;t have nudity but a lot of great jokes.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;      &lt;p style=&quot;font-size: 10px;&quot;&gt;  &lt;a href=&quot;http://posterous.com&quot;&gt;Posted via email&lt;/a&gt;   from &lt;a href=&quot;http://eroticfreepress.org/connecticut-prisoners-protesting-unfair-porn&quot;&gt;The Erotic Free Press&lt;/a&gt;  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/feeds/8607442031919115386/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4185114898893253968&amp;postID=8607442031919115386' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/8607442031919115386'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/8607442031919115386'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/2011/10/connecticut-prisoners-protesting-unfair.html' title='Connecticut Prisoners Protesting ‘Unfair’ Porn Ban'/><author><name>Stephen G. Barr</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114478553947057413817</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-H9ZZzzYJahc/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAREE/fRPiCOalFx0/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4185114898893253968.post-6942402001385232892</id><published>2011-10-09T07:34:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2011-10-09T07:34:10.348-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term=".xxx"/><title type='text'>Porn.xxx Domain Expected To Fetch $50,000 At Auction</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class=&#39;posterous_autopost&#39;&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;div class=&#39;p_embed p_image_embed&#39;&gt; &lt;img alt=&quot;138885&quot; height=&quot;154&quot; src=&quot;http://posterous.com/getfile/files.posterous.com/temp-2011-10-09/JvErtcutceqwocBryBDoFhlcembxslJiCIgtkreolHHeiqAaGotcrkbxelGn/138885.jpg&quot; width=&quot;250&quot; /&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;After more than ten years of very vocal opposition by nearly every company potentially affected by the new .XXX top level domain (TLD) extension, on March 17th 2011 ICANN approved .XXX despite numerous concerns. Chief among those concerned was a prevailing consensus that the creation of the .XXX domain was an simply an underhanded attempt at a money-grab by ICM Registry, the backers and owners of the new domains. Now, the truth of that concern is finally coming to light.  .XXX History And Widespread Opposition  The theory that ICM Registry [1] would use their new .XXX domains to fleece owners of existing .com domains has become commonplace. The addition of a new extension with no other redeeming value according to opponents, serves solely as an attempt by ICM Registry to extort large sums of money from companies interested in protecting the purity of their existing brand names. Primary domains like Sex.xxx, XXX.xxx ,Porn.xxx, Hustler.xxx, Playboy.xxx and others were thought to be the most likely targets.  Several leading companies from all facets of the adult entertainment industry banded together to take part in the creation of DotxxxOpposition.com, a news resource and community forum backed by the Free Speech Coalition and many industry insiders. The site hosts a parody style video that satires the efforts of ICM Registery and stars Larry Flynt (Huster CEO), Allison Vivas (PinkVisual CEO), John Stagliano (Evil Angel CEO), Joanna Angel (BurningAngel.com), Ron Cadwell (CCBill CEO), Peter Acworth (Kink CEO), Mitch Farber (Netbilling CEO), and a host of other adult industry leaders. The film was written directed and produced by Wasteland.com CEO Colin Rowntree. [2]  Industry communication among online message boards and trade shows has also been decidedly against the creation of .XXX, and ICANN itself stated serious concerns that lead to a denial initially and a half-hearted approval eventually.  &quot;Upon first blush, a .xxx sTLD sounds like a brilliant idea. But once one factors in the real world implications of such an easily blocked, censored, marginalized, and manipulated domain suffix, it becomes far less appealing&quot; according to DotxxxOpposition.com &quot;When a business with no ties to the online adult entertainment industry decides to &amp;ldquo;protect&amp;rdquo; it by cornering the market, aggressively pushing for the domain, rewriting history, treating our representatives and press with marginal respect, brushing our concerns aside, charging $60 per registration &amp;mdash; and telling us we&amp;rsquo;re lucky that the price is that low &amp;mdash; even beer goggles don&amp;rsquo;t make it look kissable. For these and other reasons, we believe that, in spite of panicked domain preregistrations, the voice of the industry is soundly raised in opposition to what would ultimately become Stuart Lawley and the ICM Registry&amp;rsquo;s company store.&quot;  Limited Market And Curtailed Reach  As if the opposition to .XXX from within the industry it seeks to consolidate was not enough of a headwind for ICM Registry to overcome, major regions of the world including India and the Middle East immediately stated their intention to block all .xxx domains when word of their approval by ICANN was announced.  According to a report published by The Economic Times: &quot;India along with many other countries from the Middle East and Indonesia opposed the grant of the domain in the first place, and we would proceed to block the whole domain, as it goes against the IT Act and Indian laws,&quot; said a senior official at the ministry of IT. &quot;Though some people have said that segregation is better, and some countries allow it. But for other nations transmission and direct distribution of such content goes against their moral and culture.&quot; [3]  Michael Humphrey of Forbes.com also picked up on the myriad of economic problems that would unnecessarily be caused by the release of .XXX stemming from exorbitant domain registration fees, ghettoizing of adult content chilling free speech, and he concluded &quot; Whatever your stance on porn might be, you can see why the industry thinks those &amp;ldquo;x&amp;rsquo;s&amp;rdquo; look more like a mark than a market.&quot; [4]  Domain Pricing Expectations  While ICM Registry has already set the wholesale price for &#39;standard&#39; .xxx domains at approximately $60 per year, with markup charged by each associated domain provider at the consumer level expected to bring prices up to the $200-300 dollar range for newly purchased domains, ICM Registry has also chosen to hold back a large number of &#39;premium&#39; .xxx domains in the hope of generating much higher selling prices at auction.  It should be noted that much of the intrinsic value of some of these domains can be directly attributed to the fact that the underlying .com version of the same keyword has already been used in the marketplace successfully for years. In that way a strong legal argument exists regarding copyright infringement if companies decide to litigate rather than capitulate when acquiring the &#39;.xxx version&#39; of their own existing brand names. While the windfall profits may fall far below the desires of ICM Registry, the costs projected still make litigating appear to be inexpensive in contrast to purchasing premium domain names that may be garnered easily via court order instead.  According to EllitotsBlog.com, a leading community of domain speculators, a poll recently posted asked what price domainers believe movies.xxx may bring as part of the auction at an upcoming TRAFFIC trade show. Two telling facts can be taken from the poll. On the one hand, the lowest option listed by editors was &#39;Under $50,000&#39;, creating a bias within the results of at least a five figure sale price. The other fact is that more than 40% of respondents at the time of this writing have made &#39;Under $50,000&#39; the clear winner, with almost twice as many votes as any other price bracket. [5]  Approval of Many More Top Level Domains  When the initial ICANN ruling authorizing .xxx domains was announced, many onlookers were shocked by the decision. The 16 member panel had seemingly allowed the creation of .xxx in direct conflict with the industry most affected by it and opened what some believe to be a Pandora&#39;s box of free speech problems in the process. Two months later, on May 30th 2011 ICANN may have expressed it&#39;s reasoning through its own action in a way much more profound than any of the earlier rhetoric.  A major barrier to completely revising the way the internet is managed was forever discarded by a 13 to 3 vote in favor of introducing an unlimited number of new top-level domains to compete with .com, .net and .xxx. The new process requires a $180,000 application fee and a fair amount of bureaucratic red tape, but for the first time it sets a clear path for anyone interested in creating their own new TLD quickly. For the mainstream market this means a company like Disney may soon own the TLD .kids or a company like Dreamworks might choose to create a .Movies extension. However, for the adult industry and .xxx specifically, the impact may be much more immediate and profound.  If the price of creating the entire .Sex or .Hardcore TLD is only $180,000 and includes every domain name under a comparable adult TLD extension, why would any company choose to spend more than that amount seeking to secure the .xxx version of their own .com domain from ICM Registry? It is a question that domainers seem to be answering with the silence of their checkbooks.  Analysis And Summary  After a decade of battle to bring .XXX through the ICANN process and millions of dollars in expenses, ICM Registry may be left holding the bag on an entire set of domain names that lose value as each day passes.  &quot;We can unequivocally say that the industry does not support it,&quot; said Diane Duke, the executive director of the Free Speech Coalition, at a press conference covered by PCMag.com during a formal protest attended by many top industry executives during ICANN deliberations. [6]  The fact that seems to have eluded ICM Registry is that the number of companies willing to explore business opportunities in the adult entertainment market has always been very limited. Most so-called mainstream companies won&#39;t even purchase traffic from massive adult sites or allow their affiliate program traffic partners to use explicit content to generate sales. With such a small list of potential buyers to begin with, the systematic efforts of ICM Registry to confound industry insiders and overlook industry concerns may have poisoned the well before .xxx ever had a chance to take root.  Resource Links &amp;amp; Sources  This Op-Ed by Stewart Tongue is based on information from private discussions with industry professionals, domainers and numerous credible resources. Some of the more prominent resources are linked below for your conevenience.  [1] &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.icmregistry.com/&quot;&gt;http://www.icmregistry.com/&lt;/a&gt;  [2] &lt;a href=&quot;http://dotxxxopposition.com/&quot;&gt;http://dotxxxopposition.com/&lt;/a&gt;  [3] &lt;a href=&quot;http://articles.economictimes.indiatimes.com/2011-03-24/news/29181495_1_new-domain-internet-corporation-websites&quot;&gt;http://articles.economictimes.indiatimes.com/2011-03-24/news/29181495_1_new-d...&lt;/a&gt;  [4] &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.forbes.com/sites/michaelhumphrey/2011/03/24/indias-reaction-to-xxx-domain-exhibits-why-porn-industry-hates-it/&quot;&gt;http://www.forbes.com/sites/michaelhumphrey/2011/03/24/indias-reaction-to-xxx...&lt;/a&gt;  [5] &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.elliotsblog.com/at-what-price-will-movies-xxx-sell-8475&quot;&gt;http://www.elliotsblog.com/at-what-price-will-movies-xxx-sell-8475&lt;/a&gt;  [6] &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.pcmag.com/article2/0,2817,2382185,00.asp#fbid=0CPO3-xA6az&quot;&gt;http://www.pcmag.com/article2/0,2817,2382185,00.asp#fbid=0CPO3-xA6az&lt;/a&gt;  Stewart Tongue is a writer and professional SEO marketing consultant for leading adult entertainment industry brands. His work also includes a consistent focus on the ethics of online commerce. He owns and operates a network of more than 700 active websites.&lt;/p&gt;      &lt;p style=&quot;font-size: 10px;&quot;&gt;  &lt;a href=&quot;http://posterous.com&quot;&gt;Posted via email&lt;/a&gt;   from &lt;a href=&quot;http://eroticfreepress.org/pornxxx-domain-expected-to-fetch-50000-at-auc&quot;&gt;The Erotic Free Press&lt;/a&gt;  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/feeds/6942402001385232892/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4185114898893253968&amp;postID=6942402001385232892' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/6942402001385232892'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/6942402001385232892'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/2011/10/pornxxx-domain-expected-to-fetch-50000.html' title='Porn.xxx Domain Expected To Fetch $50,000 At Auction'/><author><name>Stephen G. Barr</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114478553947057413817</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-H9ZZzzYJahc/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAREE/fRPiCOalFx0/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4185114898893253968.post-2167305436703570962</id><published>2011-10-02T09:55:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2011-10-02T09:55:38.307-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="xbiz.com"/><title type='text'>This Week&#39;s Posts on Xbiz</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class=&#39;posterous_autopost&#39;&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.xbiz.com/news/139124&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://xbiz.com/images/news/139124_r3.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; style=&quot;float: left; margin: 5px;&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.xbiz.com/news/139124&quot;&gt;  &lt;div style=&quot;font-weight: bold; font-size: 14px; margin-bottom: 5px;&quot;&gt;New Google Tool Tracks Traffic in Real Time&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;div&gt;Google launched a new tool that will allow webmasters to track in real time how many people are currently on their site.&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.xbiz.com/news/139124&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://xbiz.com/images/news/139124_r3.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; style=&quot;float: left; margin: 5px;&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.xbiz.com/news/139124&quot;&gt;  &lt;div style=&quot;font-weight: bold; font-size: 14px; margin-bottom: 5px;&quot;&gt;New Google Tool Tracks Traffic in Real Time&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;div&gt;Google launched a new tool that will allow webmasters to track in real time how many people are currently on their site.&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.xbiz.com/articles/138743&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.xbiz.com/images/cms/xbiz/articles/138743_r3.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; style=&quot;float: left; margin: 5px;&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.xbiz.com/articles/138743&quot;&gt;  &lt;div style=&quot;font-weight: bold; font-size: 14px; margin-bottom: 5px;&quot;&gt;FSC: Jeffrey Douglas - It&amp;rsquo;s Time&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;div&gt;I have a policy: FSC does not give awards to standing board members. To the outside world it would seem a conflict of interest and somewhat self-serving. However, in this milestone year for FSC I thought it not only appropriate, but also necessary to say a few words about a man who is significantly responsible for FSC&amp;rsquo;s success &amp;mdash; FSC Chairman of the Board Jeffrey Douglas.&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.xbiz.com/news/139128&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://xbiz.com/images/news/139128_r3.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; style=&quot;float: left; margin: 5px;&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.xbiz.com/news/139128&quot;&gt;  &lt;div style=&quot;font-weight: bold; font-size: 14px; margin-bottom: 5px;&quot;&gt;XBIZ EU a Resounding Success, Draws Top Industry Execs&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;div&gt;The inaugural XBIZ EU international digital media conference this past weekend was a resounding success, with many top industry execs praising organizers for large turnouts to its seminars and events.&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.xbiz.com/news/139099&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://xbiz.com/images/news/139099_r3.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; style=&quot;float: left; margin: 5px;&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.xbiz.com/news/139099&quot;&gt;  &lt;div style=&quot;font-weight: bold; font-size: 14px; margin-bottom: 5px;&quot;&gt;Adult Entertainment Execs Face Jail for Cheating IRS&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;div&gt;Two proprietors of &amp;ldquo;live adult entertainment for cash-paying customers&amp;rdquo; could get jail time for cheating the IRS.&lt;/div&gt;      &lt;p style=&quot;font-size: 10px;&quot;&gt;  &lt;a href=&quot;http://posterous.com&quot;&gt;Posted via email&lt;/a&gt;   from &lt;a href=&quot;http://eroticfreepress.org/this-weeks-posts-on-xbiz&quot;&gt;The Erotic Free Press&lt;/a&gt;  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/feeds/2167305436703570962/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4185114898893253968&amp;postID=2167305436703570962' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/2167305436703570962'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/2167305436703570962'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/2011/10/this-week-posts-on-xbiz.html' title='This Week&amp;#39;s Posts on Xbiz'/><author><name>Stephen G. Barr</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114478553947057413817</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-H9ZZzzYJahc/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAREE/fRPiCOalFx0/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4185114898893253968.post-6067782040034706887</id><published>2011-09-30T10:08:00.002-07:00</published><updated>2011-09-30T10:08:59.331-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="EdenFantasys"/><title type='text'>Edens Fantasy&#39;s Halloween Sale</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-3766353-10445193&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.awltovhc.com/image-3766353-10445193&quot; width=&quot;468&quot; height=&quot;60&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; border=&quot;0&quot;/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;script src=&quot;http://connect.facebook.net/en_US/all.js#xfbml=1&quot;&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;fb:like href=&quot;www.erotomaniamanagement.blogspot.com&quot; show_faces=&quot;true&quot; width=&quot;450&quot; font=&quot;verdana&quot;&gt;&lt;/fb:like&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;display:inline-block; border:solid 1px #4d4d4d; background:#4d4d4d;&#39;&gt;&lt;a href=&#39;http://www.xbiz.net&#39; style=&#39;display:inline-block; padding:0 5px; text-decoration:none; text-align:center; color:#9f9f9f; font-size:10px; font-family:verdana; border-top:solid 1px #8c8c8c; border-left:solid 1px #8c8c8c; border-bottom:solid 1px #242424; border-right:solid 1px #242424;&#39;&gt;&lt;b&gt;XBIZ&lt;/b&gt;.net&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;display:inline-block; border:solid 1px #000; background:#000;&#39;&gt;&lt;a href=&#39;http://www.xbiz.net/index.php?c=user.view&amp;id=45004&#39; style=&#39;display:inline-block; padding:0 5px; text-decoration:none; text-align:center; color:#5cc0ff; font-weight:bold; font-size:10px; font-family:verdana; border-top:solid 1px #8c8c8c; border-left:solid 1px #8c8c8c; border-bottom:solid 1px #595959; border-right:solid 1px #595959;&#39;&gt;View My Industry Profile &amp;raquo;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/feeds/6067782040034706887/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4185114898893253968&amp;postID=6067782040034706887' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/6067782040034706887'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/6067782040034706887'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/2011/09/edens-fantasys-halloween-sale.html' title='Edens Fantasy&#39;s Halloween Sale'/><author><name>Stephen G. Barr</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114478553947057413817</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-H9ZZzzYJahc/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAREE/fRPiCOalFx0/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4185114898893253968.post-1274828562168150172</id><published>2011-09-30T04:47:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2011-09-30T04:47:06.823-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="escorting"/><title type='text'>Porn Industry Featured in LA Weekly</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class=&#39;posterous_autopost&#39;&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px;&quot;&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;&quot;&gt;LOS ANGELES &amp;mdash; The adult industry is getting some mainstream attention, with a lengthy&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.laweekly.com/2011-09-29/news/porn-defends-the-money-shot/&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; style=&quot;text-decoration: none; color: #880000; border-bottom-color: #880000; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-left-width: 0px; border-top-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-style: none;&quot;&gt;article&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;in this week&amp;rsquo;s LA Weekly.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;&quot;&gt;A brunette performer in a bikini graces the front cover of the magazine and inside is an in-depth profile of the adult industry titled &amp;ldquo;Porn Defends the Money Shot.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;&quot;&gt;The five-page article talks about several topics that are impacting the adult industry today such as the success of adult parodies, the ongoing campaign by the AIDS Healthcare Foundation to enforce condoms on production sets to prevent HIV infections and where Cal/OSHA stands on the issue.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;&quot;&gt;The article also interviewed several adult industry stakeholders such as director Axel Braun, AHF President Michael Weinstein, FSC attorney Jeffrey Douglas, performer Tom Byron and others to get their take on condoms in porn.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;&quot;&gt;&amp;ldquo;We&amp;rsquo;re selling a fantasy,&amp;rdquo; Braun said. &amp;ldquo;If you make something illegal that has so much demand, you&amp;rsquo;re going to send it underground. You&amp;rsquo;re going to have people not getting tested anymore. I don&amp;rsquo;t think it&amp;rsquo;s the right approach.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;&quot;&gt;The article talked about how many porn performers engage in escorting, an activity that can be risky especially if the performer continues to work on adult productions.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;&quot;&gt;&amp;ldquo;The dirty secret of porn isn&amp;rsquo;t crossover,&amp;rdquo; Weinstein said. &amp;ldquo;It&amp;rsquo;s taking escorting jobs.&amp;rdquo;&lt;div class=&#39;p_embed p_image_embed&#39;&gt; &lt;img alt=&quot;Brothel2&quot; height=&quot;415&quot; src=&quot;http://posterous.com/getfile/files.posterous.com/temp-2011-09-30/pxnqanhIiscacEDFGvaIdlJBqyDfoqcAJqlyotiaacIbxIAIzdxIwgyxAlhx/Brothel2.jpg.scaled1000.jpg&quot; width=&quot;594&quot; /&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;      &lt;p style=&quot;font-size: 10px;&quot;&gt;  &lt;a href=&quot;http://posterous.com&quot;&gt;Posted via email&lt;/a&gt;   from &lt;a href=&quot;http://eroticfreepress.org/porn-industry-featured-in-la-weekly&quot;&gt;The Erotic Free Press&lt;/a&gt;  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/feeds/1274828562168150172/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4185114898893253968&amp;postID=1274828562168150172' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/1274828562168150172'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/1274828562168150172'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/2011/09/porn-industry-featured-in-la-weekly.html' title='Porn Industry Featured in LA Weekly'/><author><name>Stephen G. Barr</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114478553947057413817</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-H9ZZzzYJahc/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAREE/fRPiCOalFx0/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4185114898893253968.post-1992689659544971309</id><published>2011-09-30T04:40:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2011-09-30T04:40:42.185-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Sex Work Awareness"/><title type='text'>Behind Closed Doors: An Analysis of Indoor Sex Work in New York City</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class=&#39;posterous_autopost&#39;&gt;&lt;table style=&quot;font-size: inherit; line-height: 1.22em; border-collapse: collapse;&quot;&gt;    &lt;tr style=&quot;line-height: 1.22em;&quot;&gt;  &lt;td style=&quot;line-height: 1.22em; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 1em; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Times New Roman, Times, serif; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;&lt;img class=&quot;ujclogo&quot; src=&quot;http://www.sexworkersproject.org/inline/logoUrbanJustice.jpg&quot; height=&quot;105&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; style=&quot;line-height: 1.22em; border-color: initial;&quot; width=&quot;113&quot; /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;td class=&quot;bannertext&quot; style=&quot;line-height: 1.22em; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 1em; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 2em; font-size: 12px; font-family: Times New Roman, Times, serif; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;ujcname&quot; style=&quot;line-height: 1.22em; color: red; font-size: 14px;&quot;&gt;Urban Justice Center&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br style=&quot;line-height: 1.22em;&quot; /&gt;666 Broadway, 10th floor, New York, NY 10012&lt;br style=&quot;line-height: 1.22em;&quot; /&gt;Tel: (646) 602-5617 - Fax: (212) 533-4598&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;/tr&gt;    &lt;/table&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: Times New Roman, Times, serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 14px;&quot;&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;line-height: 18px; padding-top: 24px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: justify; font-size: 12px; font-family: Times New Roman, Times, serif; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;PRESS RELEASE&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;table style=&quot;font-size: inherit; line-height: 1.22em; border-collapse: collapse;&quot; width=&quot;100%&quot;&gt;    &lt;tr style=&quot;line-height: 1.22em;&quot;&gt;  &lt;td align=&quot;left&quot; style=&quot;line-height: 1.22em; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 1em; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Times New Roman, Times, serif; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;For Immediate Release:&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;td align=&quot;right&quot; style=&quot;line-height: 1.22em; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 1em; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Times New Roman, Times, serif; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;Contact:&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;td align=&quot;left&quot; style=&quot;line-height: 1.22em; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 1em; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Times New Roman, Times, serif; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;Juhu Thukral&amp;nbsp;(646) 602-5690&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;mailto:jthukral@urbanjustice.org&quot;&gt;jthukral@urbanjustice.org&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;/tr&gt;  &lt;tr style=&quot;line-height: 1.22em;&quot;&gt;  &lt;td align=&quot;left&quot; style=&quot;line-height: 1.22em; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 1em; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Times New Roman, Times, serif; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;Wednesday, March 30, 2005&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;/tr&gt;    &lt;/table&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: Times New Roman, Times, serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 14px;&quot;&gt;Juhu Thukral&amp;nbsp;(646) 602-5690&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;mailto:jthukral@urbanjustice.org&quot;&gt;jthukral@urbanjustice.org&lt;/a&gt; Wednesday, March 30, 2005  &lt;p style=&quot;line-height: 18px; padding-top: 24px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: justify; font-size: 12px; font-family: Times New Roman, Times, serif; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;Indoor Sex Workers Are Isolated and Fear Violence&lt;br style=&quot;line-height: 1.22em;&quot; /&gt;Urban Justice Center Interviews U.S.-Born and Immigrant Sex Workers About Police Contacts&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;line-height: 18px; padding-top: 24px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: justify; font-size: 12px; font-family: Times New Roman, Times, serif; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;(New York City, March 30, 2005) - The Sex Workers Project (SWP) of the Urban Justice Center (UJC) has released the first-ever in-depth report in the U.S. examining indoor sex work.&amp;nbsp;&lt;em style=&quot;line-height: 1.22em;&quot;&gt;Behind Closed Doors: An Analysis of Indoor Sex Work in New York City&lt;/em&gt;, released today, includes interviews with sex workers who work independently or for brothels, escort agencies, dungeons, and private clubs. The report highlights the extreme violence that sex workers experience from customers, and the dangerous effects of isolation and stigma.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;line-height: 18px; padding-top: 24px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: justify; font-size: 12px; font-family: Times New Roman, Times, serif; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;According to the report, 46% of sex workers experienced violence in the course of their work, and 42% had been threatened or beaten for being a sex worker. Additionally, 14% reported violence at the hands of the police, and 16% encountered sexual situations with the police. Sara, a respondent in the report, describes a client &quot;who came in and had a knife ... I was cornered and I was about to be attacked and raped ... I didn&#39;t go to the police because it would be coming out about what I&#39;ve been doing.&quot; &quot;Many people are unsympathetic to prostitutes,&quot; says Juhu Thukral, Director of the SWP, &quot;however, this level of violence is unacceptable, even if they are engaging in unlawful activity.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;line-height: 18px; padding-top: 24px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: justify; font-size: 12px; font-family: Times New Roman, Times, serif; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;Leticia, another respondent, adds, &quot;Just find a way to help us with the police ... we need somebody to protect us when we get beat up. Around here, they don&#39;t arrest you, they just mess with you like they own you.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;line-height: 18px; padding-top: 24px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: justify; font-size: 12px; font-family: Times New Roman, Times, serif; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;Eight percent of the report&#39;s respondents were trafficked into the country for prostitution. The trafficked women told of being threatened, beaten, raped, and having their money withheld by the traffickers. The respondents were ethnically diverse and included women, transgender women, and men. Sex workers interviewed ranged in age from 19 to 54. Forty percent were born outside the U.S. and its territories.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;line-height: 18px; padding-top: 24px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: justify; font-size: 12px; font-family: Times New Roman, Times, serif; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;Shockingly, 67% of respondents got involved with sex work because they were unable to find other work which provided a living wage. Previous jobs included waitressing, retail, and domestic work. Immigrants without work permits saw sex work as their best economically viable option. The unlawful nature of most sex work often results in extreme isolation, which serves as a barrier to accessing legal, financial, educational, and other necessary services. Prostitutes explained that they feared arrest and its consequences, and expressed a need for peer support and substantive services.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;line-height: 18px; padding-top: 24px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: justify; font-size: 12px; font-family: Times New Roman, Times, serif; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;New York City&#39;s quality of life initiatives have always caught prostitutes in their net. However, Thukral stresses that &quot;these police operations result in arrests that destabilize the lives of many sex workers who are members of the working poor, and jeopardize other legal employment.&quot; &quot;This activity comes at an extremely high cost to the public, and is a waste of valuable public resources,&quot; added Melissa Ditmore, a co-author of the report. &quot;Stringent policing creates an environment of fear and isolation that prevents sex workers from coming forward when they are victims of violence and other crimes.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;line-height: 18px; padding-top: 24px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: justify; font-size: 12px; font-family: Times New Roman, Times, serif; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;Thukral aims to have the City do two things: ensure that all violence against sex workers is taken seriously by law enforcement authorities; and offer in-depth and appropriate services that lead to long-term solutions. &quot;There is clearly a need for a fact-based public discussion around the problems of police and violence that include the voices of sex workers themselves in order to effectively and productively address the needs of sex workers and the community&#39;s concerns.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;line-height: 18px; padding-top: 24px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: justify; font-size: 12px; font-family: Times New Roman, Times, serif; margin: 0px;&quot;&gt;The full report can be found at&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.sexworkersproject.org/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; style=&quot;line-height: 1.22em;&quot;&gt;http://www.sexworkersproject.org/&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;or&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.urbanjustice.org/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; style=&quot;line-height: 1.22em;&quot;&gt;http://www.urbanjustice.org/&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;      &lt;p style=&quot;font-size: 10px;&quot;&gt;  &lt;a href=&quot;http://posterous.com&quot;&gt;Posted via email&lt;/a&gt;   from &lt;a href=&quot;http://eroticfreepress.org/behind-closed-doors-an-analysis-of-indoor-sex&quot;&gt;The Erotic Free Press&lt;/a&gt;  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/feeds/1992689659544971309/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4185114898893253968&amp;postID=1992689659544971309' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/1992689659544971309'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/1992689659544971309'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/2011/09/behind-closed-doors-analysis-of-indoor.html' title='Behind Closed Doors: An Analysis of Indoor Sex Work in New York City'/><author><name>Stephen G. 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But as her concerns grew during the past two HIV scares and the problems caused by the rogue site Porn WikiLeaks, she was moved to act.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;&quot;&gt;&amp;ldquo;I had the intention of starting a resource site about three years ago,&amp;rdquo; Seraph said. &amp;ldquo;I kept hearing stories about other women and the problems they&amp;rsquo;ve been facing. So we thought this was a really good time to start something like this. I feel that adult performers aren&amp;rsquo;t represented enough and I think there is a need for it.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;&quot;&gt;Seraph explained the APA is primarily about &amp;ldquo;harm reduction&amp;rdquo; and providing good information.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;&quot;&gt;&amp;ldquo;We wanted to start something without causing more hatred, without looking like a labor union,&amp;rdquo; she continued. &amp;ldquo;We wanted to start just a supportive organization that assists you in how to get into adult, how to get through adult and how to segue out of it when the time comes.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;&quot;&gt;The APA Contact Form (&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.adultperformers.org/contact&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; style=&quot;text-decoration: none; color: #880000; border-bottom-color: #880000; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-left-width: 0px; border-top-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-style: none;&quot;&gt;AdultPerformers.org/contact&lt;/a&gt;) is discreet &amp;mdash; it asks only for name/email/subject/message &amp;mdash; so talent does not have to worry about possible &amp;ldquo;bullying,&amp;rdquo; Seraph noted.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;&quot;&gt;She added that APA would soon be launching a KickStarter account to begin developing some educational videos targeting individuals who are thinking about entering adult and exiting the industry.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;&quot;&gt;&amp;ldquo;It&amp;rsquo;s really exciting,&amp;rdquo; Seraph said. &amp;ldquo;We&amp;rsquo;ve had a lot of positive feedback.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;&quot;&gt;For more information about the launch, click&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.xbiz.com/news/news_piece.php?id=138489&amp;amp;mi=all&amp;amp;q=Adult+Performers+Association&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; style=&quot;text-decoration: none; color: #880000; border-bottom-color: #880000; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-left-width: 0px; border-top-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-bottom-style: dotted; border-left-style: none;&quot;&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;      &lt;p style=&quot;font-size: 10px;&quot;&gt;  &lt;a href=&quot;http://posterous.com&quot;&gt;Posted via email&lt;/a&gt;   from &lt;a href=&quot;http://eroticfreepress.org/january-seraph-discusses-adult-performers-ass&quot;&gt;The Erotic Free Press&lt;/a&gt;  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/feeds/423843010479269235/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4185114898893253968&amp;postID=423843010479269235' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/423843010479269235'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4185114898893253968/posts/default/423843010479269235'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://erotomaniablog.blogspot.com/2011/09/january-seraph-discusses-adult.html' title='January Seraph Discusses Adult Performers Association'/><author><name>Stephen G. 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