FREE LOVE LYRICS

Waiting for Second Chance to fall in love

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Wed, 19 Jan 2011 01:21:00 +0000

It's a wonderful feelings loving someone and feeling worst when things do not workout perfect. You die inside and you also wish you'll be able to turn back time, just to realize that it's far too late for a

second chance.

You ask forgiveness, while he pretend not to hear. You're wishing for the second chance and the things it's still the same, but everything has change and also the emotion is hurt.You wish you are able to relieve the pain he feels but he decided to just allow you to go and never glimpse back, rather than have you and consider that second chance of loving you back again.

Both of you allow the time goes by, wishing you will soon forget, just to realize in the long run that you can never adored anybody else just as much as you've love him. The saddest part of life is loving someone that used to love you.

So why do we choose to let it go, regardless of how much we cared and love that person, we rather handle the anguish of being alone instead remaining satisfied. Why it's so difficult to forgive and that we choose never to forget? Real love never gives up, it certainly not judge, but love understand. Love hear the heart and mind gives no reason and never ask why, for just the heart can convey just what the mind can not.

Although love never truly gone, it simply stood there in the corner of your heart, yearning, anticipating second chance, second chance which he shall learn to forgive and consider the chance of staying with you again.....

One of the most wonderful feeling to have, is it being with someone that you cannot live with out. The most wonderful is spending your entire life with each other. Love while you live, forgive while you can and stay with this person you adore, instead of being sorry in the long run!

Is Age an influence when Choosing a Partner?

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Wed, 19 Jan 2011 01:00:00 +0000

The question is, "Does age matter when choosing a partner?" and the answer is, "not at all". I've gone through my whole life with the same opinion that age is just a number. A person should have the right to love whomever they choose regardless of age difference. Their are certain aspects where it is helpful to choose a partner closer to your age but it's not required. In fact, many women tend to go for older men because women naturally mature faster than men. No offense to men but that's just the way it is. People who are closer together in age tend to share more interests than those who are farther apart in age. However, two people with a huge age difference could still share the same interests. For example, there is an 8 year age difference between me and my fiance' and we are both video game fanatics.

If you and your partner have a huge age difference, you may get a lot of weird, or even disgusted, looks on the street from people. It's not right in my opinion for people to judge but it happens sometimes. Some people have different views than others and this can make you feel like you're in the wrong but you're not. If it feels right, then it probably is right.

You may be more likely to get dirty looks if you're an older woman in a relationship with a much younger man. For some reason, people find that more disturbing than seeing an older guy with a younger woman. I don't understand it because I don't think that way but some people do. Most people won't say anything, they'll just stop and stare.

To sum it all up, age doesn't matter one bit when it comes to choosing a partner. You know what's right for you and other people know what's right for them. What one person thinks is wrong might be righ for another person. There is no right or wrong answer. If you feel that it's right then that's what's right for you and what other people think don't matter. People today care too much about what others think of them when they should be out living life to the fullest the way they want to, instead of the way other people want them to. Remember age is just a number, especially when it feels right.

Important of Trust in Relationship

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Wed, 19 Jan 2011 00:36:00 +0000

Love, Without Trust, Cannot Last

"I don't trust him." "You can't trust her." Broken trust is like broken egg; it can never be put back together again.

The dictionary definition of trust is the "firm reliance on the integrity, ability or character of a person or thing."

We speak about "love" all the time, but love without trust cannot exist. An old Irish saying states, "When mistrust comes in, love goes out."

Trust is a necessary factor in creating a long-term relationship. It is a necessity in marriage. Trust is something that must be earned.

A deep friendship will never form without trust. Each person must believe the other will not intentionally hurt him by using his own vulnerabilities against him; each must feel the other's respect for personal feelings and values; and neither is expected to "push buttons" to intentionally upset the other. This is the "safety factor" in a relationship.

When someone says, "Trust me," you really need to know a bit about them. "Public trust" means the "condition and resulting obligation of having confidence placed in one."

We expect more of those who have power and authority over us: a medical doctor, a psychiatric nurse, a counselor, a judge, a police officer or a religious leader must also maintain a level of "confidentiality" for a trusting relationship. An attorney may speak of it as "attorney-client" privilege, because that protected basic trust is necessary for the relationship to function.

If politicians, priests, and attorneys break our trust, the penalties are usually stiffer than for regular folks. "The bigger they are, the harder they fall." Besides losing our confidence, they often end their careers.

"The best proof of love is trust." (Dr. Joyce Brothers)

In marriage, as two people mature together, and learn about each other's goals, dreams, fears, and personal values, the relationship should deepen with time. Of course, many marriages break up, and divorce is one of the toughest "life changes" that people undergo because they are so enmeshed with the other person that it's like losing a piece of themselves; it alters their personal identity.

In marriage, when one partner is unfaithful, that is usually considered a "breach of trust." Sometimes, the other partner will "forgive," but never forget. Oftentimes, it is the breach in a relationship that ends it.

It is common to talk about "earning trust" with a teenager. A parent should be able to negotiate contracts with teens about curfews, drinking and driving, drug use, openness and honesty about what's happening in their lives, reliability about where they are when, and who they're with, etc. Broken trust is a good reason to take away privileges or to not extend privileges in the first place.

Trust implies a basic human emotion for "covering your back." In police and armed service situations of life and death, it is through trusting others with your life that makes the unit work.

"I'm not upset that you lied to me; I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you." (Nietzsche)

At my age of thinking of getting married soon, I took a magazine “questionnaire” about values and trust in an article on "Can this marriage be saved?" There were questions about religious values, disciplining children, having similar goals, spending money, and so on. There were a few questions about "trust." Can you trust your partner with having your best interests at heart? Can you trust your partner to be there for you when needed? Can you trust your partner to stand by you in times of trouble?

A home without trust is no place for children. There is too much at stake. Life is too short, and this is a major-value item that must be modeled for children.
"Trust your hunches.... Hunches are usually based on facts filed away just below the conscious level." (Dr. Joyce Brothers)

Trust is as important as love in a marriage. It's nice to have both - and love will get you through some rough times - but simple respect and caring and trust will get you through Life. I will want my marriage to have all this values - love, trust, respect, caring, common goals, and fun times together. Don't settle for less.

Finally, "Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do." (Dr. Spock)

When you go through life looking for friends, looking for love, looking for someone to confide in and rely upon, decide whether you can trust that person first, then the other things will fall into place.

Mistake

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Sun, 02 May 2010 19:35:00 +0000

by Bchgrlblonde

The pain that I went through
The pain that I put you through
and when I told you the truth
of my mistake that I made
all you could say at the end of the day
was "I love you"
I was scared that I was going to lose you
I was in shock when you still said those three little special words
I wonder why God put us together?
What did I do to deserve you?
But at the end, a lightbulb went off and I suddenly realized that God wouldn't put us together if he knew that we wouldn't last
I will always love you, no matter how much life put us through 'cause we will always make it through together

Do You Have Time For God?

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 12:42:00 +0000

Read only if you
have time for God
Let me
tell you, make sure you read all the way to the bottom. I
almost deleted this email but I was blessed when I got to
the end

God, when I
received this e-mail, I thought...

I don't
have time for this... And, this is really inappropriate
during work.

Then, I realized
that this kind of thinking is...... Exactly, what has caused
lot of the problems in our world today. 　

We
try to keep God in church on Sunday morning...

Maybe, Sunday
night... 　

And, the
unlikely event of a midweek service.. 　

We
do like to have Him around during sickness....

　;
　

And, of course,
at funerals. 　

However, we
don't have time, or room, for Him during work or play...

Because.. That's
the part of our lives we think.... We can, and should, handle
on our own. 　

May
God forgive me for ever thinking... 　

That... There is
a time or place where.. 　

HE
is not to be FIRST in my life. 　

We
should always have time to remember all HE has done for us.

If,
You aren't ashamed to do this.... 　

Please follow
the directions. 　

Jesus said, 'If
you are ashamed of me, I will be ashamed of you before my
Father..' 　

Not
ashamed? 　

Pass this on
ONLY IF YOU MEAN IT!! 　

Yes, I do Love
God... 　

HE
is my source of existence and Savior.. 　

He
keeps me functioning each and every day. Without Him, I will
be nothing. But, with Christ, HE strengthens me. (Phil 4:13)

This is
the simplest test. 　

If
You Love God... And, are not ashamed of all the marvelous
things HE has done for you....

Send this to ten
people and the person who sent it to you!

Now do you have the
time to pass it on? 　

Make sure that
you scroll through to the end. 　

Easy vs. Hard

Why
is it so hard to tell the truth but Yet so easy to tell a
lie? 　

Why
are we so sleepy in church but Right when the sermon is over
we suddenly wake up? 　

Why
is it so easy to delete a Godly e-mail, but yet we forward
all of the nasty ones? 　

Of
all the free gifts we may receive, Prayer is the very best
one..... 　

There are no
costs, but wonderful rewards... GOD BLESS!

Notes: Isn't it
funny how simple it is for people to trash God and then
wonder why the world's going to hell. 　

Isn't it funny
how someone can say 'I believe in God' but still follow
Satan (who, by the way, also 'believes' in God).

Isn't it funny
how you can send a thousand jokes through e-mail and they
spread like wildfire, but when you start sending messages
regarding the Lord, people think twice about sharing?

Isn't it funny
how when you go to forward this message, you will not send
it to many on your address list because you're not sure what
they believe, or what they will think of you for sending it
to them 　

Isn't it funny
how I can be more worried about what other people think of
me than what God thinks of me. 　

I
pray, for everyone who sends this to their entire address
book, they will be blessed by God in a way special for them.

And send it
back to the person who sent it, to let them know that indeed
it was sent out to many more.

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How to Achieve an Bewitching Dating Profile

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 09:40:00 +0000

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Battlefield -Jordin Sparks

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 15:18:00 +0000

"Battlefield"
[Wayne Wilkins, Ryan Tedder, Louis Biancaniello, Sam Watters]
Don't try to explain your mind
I know what's happening here
One minute, it's love
And, suddenly, it's like a battlefield
One word turns into a
Why is it the smallest things that tear us down
My world's nothing when you're gone
I'm out here without a shield - can't go back, now
Both hands tied behind my back for nothing, oh, no
These times when we climb so fast to fall, again
Why we gotta fall for it, now...
Chorus:
I never meant to start a war
You know, I never wanna hurt you
Don't even know we're fighting for
Why does love always feel like a battlefield, a battlefield, a battlefield
Why does love always feel like a battlefield, a battlefield, a battlefield
Why does love always feel like
Can't swallow our pride
Neither of us wanna raise that flag, mmm
If we can't surrender
Then, we're both gonna lose we have, oh, no
Both hands tied behind my back for nothing (nothing), oh, no
These times when we climb so fast to fall, again
I don't wanna fall for it, now...
Chorus:
I never meant to start a war
You know, I never wanna hurt you
Don't even know we're fighting for
Why does love always feel like a battlefield, a battlefield, a battlefield
Why does love always feel like a battlefield, a battlefield, a battlefield
Better go and get your armor (get your armor), get your armor (get your armor)
I guess you better go and get your armor (get your armor), get your armor (get your armor)
I guess you better go and get your
We could pretend that we are friends, tonight (oh)
And, in the morning, we wake up, and we'd be alright
'Cause, baby, we don't have to fight
And I don't want this love to feel like a battlefield, a battlefield, a battlefield
Why does love always feel like a battlefield, a battlefield, a battlefield
I guess you better go and get your armor...
Chorus:
I never meant to start a war
You know, I never wanna hurt you
Don't even know we're fighting for
Why does love always feel like a battlefield, a battlefield, a battlefield
Why does love always feel like a battlefield, a battlefield, a battlefield
I guess you better go and get your armor (get your armor), get your armor (get your armor)
I guess you better go and get your armor (get your armor), get your armor (get your armor)
Why does love always feel like (oh, oh)
Why does love always feel like a battlefield, a battlefield
I never meant to start a war
Don't even know what we're fighting for
I never meant to start a war
Don't even know what we're fighting for..

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Broken Hearted Girl -Beyonce

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 15:07:00 +0000

***LYRICS***
Youre everything I thought you never were
And nothing like I thought you couldve been
But still you live inside of me
So tell me how is that?

Youre the only one I wish I could forget
The only one Id love to not forgive
And though you break my heart, youre the only one
And though there are times when I hate you
Cause I cant erase
The times that you hurt me
And put tears on my face
And even now while I hate you
It pains me to say
I know Ill be there at the end of the day

I dont wanna be without you babe
I dont want a broken heart
Dont wanna take a breath with out you babe
I dont wanna play that part
I know that I love you
But let me just say
I dont want to love you in no kind of way no no
I dont want a broken heart
And I dont wanna play the broken-hearted girlNo...No
No broken-hearted girl
Im no broken-hearted girl

Something that I feel I need to say
But up to now Ive always been afraid
That you would never come around
And still I want to put this out
You say youve got the most respect for me
But sometimes I feel youre not deserving me
And still youre in my heart
But youre the only one and yes
There are times when I hate you
But I dont complain
Cause Ive been afraid that you would've walk away
Oh but now I dont hate you
Im happy to say
That I will be there at the end of the day

I dont wanna be without you babe
I dont want a broken heart
Dont wanna take breath with out you babe
I dont wanna play that part
I know that I love you
But let me just say
I dont want to love you in no kind of way no no
I dont want a broken heart
And I dont wanna play the broken-hearted girl...NoNo
No broken-hearted girl

Now Im at a place I thought Id never beOooo
Im living in a world thats all about you and meyeah
Ain't gotta be afraid my broken heart is free
To spread my wings and fly away
Away With you
yeah yeah yeah, ohh ohh ohh

I dont wanna be without my baby
I dont wanna a broken heart
Dont want to take a breath with out my baby
I dont wanna play that part
I know that I love you
But let me just say
I dont want to love you in no kind of way..No..No
I dont want a broken heart
I dont wanna play the broken-hearted girl..No..No..
No broken-hearted girl
Broken-hearted girl Nono
No broken-hearted girl
No broken-hearted girl

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Chris Brown - Crawl

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Sat, 28 Nov 2009 09:48:00 +0000

Crawl Lyrics

[Verse 1]
Everybody see's it's you
I'm the one that lost the view
Everybody says we're through
I hope you haven't said it too

So where
Do we go from here
With all this fear in our eyes
And where
Can love take us now
We've been so far down
We can still touch the sky

[Chorus]
If we crawl
Till we can walk again
Then we'll run
Until we're strong enough to jump
Then we'll fly
Until there is no end
So lets crawl, crawl, crawl
Back to love, Yeah
Back to love, Yeah

[Verse 2]
Why did I change the pace
Hearts were never meant to race
I always felt the need for space
But now I can't reach your face
So where
Are you standing now
Are you in the crowd of my faults
Love, can you see my hand?
I need one more chance
We can still have it all

[Chorus]
If we crawl(if we crawl)
Till we can walk again
Then we'll run (then we'll run)
Until we're strong enough to jump
Then we'll fly
Until there is no end
So lets crawl, crawl, crawl
http://www.elyricsworld.com/crawl_lyrics_chris_brown.html
Back to love, Yeah
Back to love, yeaaah

[Bridge]
Everybody see's it's you
Well I never wanna lose that view

[Chorus]
So we'll crawl (if we crawl)
Till we can walk again
Then we'll run
Until we're strong enough to jump
Then we'll fly
Until there is no end
So lets crawl, crawl, crawl

So we'll crawl (ooh)
Till we can walk again (till we can walk again)
Then we'll run (we'll run)
Until we're strong enough to jump (until we're strong enough to jump)
Then we'll fly (then we'll fly)
Until there is no end
So let's crawl, let's crawl, lets crawl
Back to love
Back to love yeah
Back to love

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Without You

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 15:31:00 +0000

by daisyv

Have you remember what you have promised?
That we will share life together…’
No ifs..no buts…just we are…
Then suddenly …you are..
No where to be found…

I am here looking..
Wondering where you are..
Are you still truthful to what you have promised?
Will it be just like a dust in the wind…
Or a sea without a shore..

I still don’t know…
I am now without you..
Trying to forget what you have done
Smiling to the world
Going on as life can be
No bitterness on my heart
Even my mind
‘Coz you are just a dream..
A dream that never was..
Never come true…

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As Long As You Love Me

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 15:11:00 +0000

by daisyv

I don’t care if we cannot met regularly
I don’t care if we just meet seldomly
I don’t care if you we cant be together the way I wanted to be
As long as you love me this much

I don’t care if you are far
I don’t care if we just sometimes chat
and if I need to wait for the chance to chat
As long as you love me this much

I don’t care if you can’t send email
I don’t care if I am always waiting
I don’t care if you just respond thru tx
As long as you love me this much

I don’t care if am here crazy for your love
I don’t care what others will say
I don’t care if I have a foolish heart
As long as you love me this much

Who cares anyway…
As long as we love each other endlessly…
But this I care to love you more than you’ll ever want me to…
For I love you more than you’ll ever know…

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I Miss You

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 14:51:00 +0000

by nathynsangel

Even though you are so far away,
I can feel you wipe my tears away sometimes.
I can hear your voice tell me everything will be ok and that we'll get through this together.
I can feel you holding me at night.
I can hear you tell me you love me.
I can feel all of this and so much more.
You're the one that i keep in my heart
at all times.
I miss you like a fat kid loves cake.
I can't wait till you're home!!

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My Heart

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 14:36:00 +0000

by Markg38

Here is my heart I give it to you
I have only one of these
to give away
For my heart was lonely
till you came my way
You have showed me love
that sweapt away
all the walls
that keep my heart
hidden away

Here is my heart I give it to you
with all the love
I have for you
you’ll always be the one
that holds my heart
from me too you
my only one
Here is my heart I give it to you

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Our Love

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 13:58:00 +0000

by daisyv

It was many years ago
When you told me you love me so
But I wasn’t sure, if it was true
For you didn’t insist the feelings that you had ..

How would I know
When you kept hiding
The feelings in your heart
Trying to ignore and escape
The love growing deep inside …

How lovely it would be
If you have tried and ask
If deep down in my heart
The same feeling is inside…

And now that we already know
That the love is still in our hearts
I want to hear from you
That you love me so
And still want my heart
For I know deep inside me
My heart wants no one but you…

And to share with each other
The feelings we have kept inside our hearts
Hoping tomorrow, we will be one
Embracing the love we have kept
That didn’t weaken
Even we didn’t see each other
For so many years....

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My Special Someone

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 12:50:00 +0000

by womball

I bet you didn't know
That you just passed my mind.
You do this so many times each day
Since a guy like you is so hard to find.

I saw a falling star
Just the other day
For I sat there and thought
But only had one thing to say.

The wish I just got
I really do not need.
Because the only wish I want
Is a wish I have already received?

Some might even say
That I'm in another place
Every time I think of how you look
And that smile on your face.

To conclude the way I feel
About all the things you do
You are that special someone.
You're like a dream come true.

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My One True Love

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 12:39:00 +0000

by daisyv

You are my one true love
Dreaming to be with you all throughout the night
Hoping to be with you someday
To share my love for you

You are my one true love
Although many years have passed
You are still my heart
Sitting deep down inside

You are my one true love
Who makes my day brilliant
Shining as the sunny day
As you gave your smile to me..

You are my one true love
Who takes the pain away from my heart
Knowing you still care
And loving me this much

You are my one true love
Though I know I can’t see you
As often as I wanted to
Even to hold you in my arms

All thought out the night
But deep inside my heart
You are the one I love
Wishing to wake up beside you
And not letting you go….

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Just Wanna Be With You

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 12:19:00 +0000

by bonnee)salma

I wanna lay with you
knowing I'm safe
to wake in the morning
and see your face.

If I get scared
through the night
you're right there
to hold me tight.

To wash away
all my fears
to dry my eyes
of all their tears.

I wanna feel your
arms around me tight
to keep me safe and
warm each night.

Just wanna be with you
no other place
to kiss your lips
and touch your face.

To be in your arms
is my dream come true
its pure heaven
just being with you.

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5 Ways to Feel More Beautiful and Attract Love

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 16:19:00 +0000

Have you ever felt ugly or unattractive? Sometimes people can
feel that way if they put on a few pounds, if someone rejects
them or after they acted out in anger.

No matter what society determines as being attractive, I
believe everyone is beautiful in their own way. They key is
that you must feel good inside to really express that
beautiful self out in the world. Here are some simple ways to
access authentic beauty in the world and in your heart:

1. Appreciate those you love. Thank someone in your life for
something nice they did for you or just being in your world.

2. Take time to look at nature every day. There is a
perfection in the balance of the earth, plants and animals
that are unmatched by synthetic substitutes.

3. Daily meditation. Quieting your noisy, mostly negative mind
can bring in a lightness and silence that heals the rough
edges of your perception of yourself and your life.

4. Wear bright colors. The clothes you wear can make an impact
on how good you feel. Clothing that is too tight, too loose or
torn can drag down your confidence. Dress in the way that
makes you express your best.

5. Engage in a healthy lifestyle. Eat nutritious foods that
make you feel better about your body. Take time each day to
move your body and thank your body for all that it does for
you.

Instead of spending tons of money on expensive creams, plastic
surgery or designer clothes, these ideas can be implemented
with little or no financial investment and will give you
greater results. You will truly feel more beautiful from the
inside out.

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Top 5 Mistakes Women Make in Dating

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 15:45:00 +0000

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There is a point in every single woman’s life when she pauses
and asks herself, “Why is everyone else finding a match but
me?” She gets advice from her coupled girlfriends and is
assured that she is desirable and there must be something
wrong with them. Or, perhaps they have an intervention
confronting her with the fact that she is just too picky. If
this sounds like you, check out these top five mistakes women
make when searching for Mr. Right.

1. Making him your “God” – No matter how good-looking,
successful, charming and appealing he is, he is NOT better
than you. Many women shrink when they find someone they think
is a good catch or someone they are just infatuated with. If
you believe that you are less than him and need to earn his
love, what does that say about you? Many men may find this
appealing at first as you feed their ego but they will tire of
this energy after a while. You are always unconsciously
communicating to your potential mates and your inner feelings
of inferiority will be picked up by him. Eventually, he will
start to believe that you aren’t that great either.

Solution: Always believe that you are the prize. Confidence is very
attractive to a healthy person ready for a relationship. No
games, just self-love and respect. Self-hypnosis is a great
way to increase your confidence naturally.

2. Sex before you are emotionally ready – There is no exact
rule as to when you should have sex with your new love
interest. Every relationship dynamic is different. Some
factors that should be considered are your personal religious
beliefs and availability of birth control and STD protection.
The most exciting part of a relationship can be the time spent
before the consummation. Some women want to rush into sex
because it has been a long time or they want to solidify the
bond. However, when a couple sleeps together too soon there is
an incredible amount of pressure placed upon the new
relationship.

Solution: Make sure that you know the person
enough to be able to express your feelings. If you don’t feel
safe opening your heart, then keep your legs closed.

3. Talking about previous relationships – Everyone has a past
and it is very normal for your partner to want to know a
little about your past relationships. The problem occurs when
a woman shares too much about her past heartaches, men who
have treated her poorly or expresses anger or resentment over
her last love. The man wants to feel like it is all about him
not the other guy.

Solution: Keep your heartache stories to
share with your girlfriends. Remember anything you say on your
date can and will be used against you.

4. Planning the wedding after the first date – This is not
only annoying to your girlfriends who hear you say “I think
this is the one” with every new guy who surfaces, but it also
undermines your opportunity to discover what you really want.
If all you can think about is what he will look like next to
you on your wedding day, you may be more in love with the
wedding than the guy. No matter how great a first date can be,
you do not know enough information about him to make a life
choice so soon. You may also sabotage the relationship because
your expectations are so high.

Solution: Save yourself some trouble. Don’t plan the wedding until if and when he proposes.

5. Falling for the relationship instead of the person – This
mistake has caused many women who come to me for help because
they married the wrong person. They were in love with the idea
of being a couple instead of the person that agreed to the
union. Whether their biological clock was ticking or everyone
else was getting married that year, they jumped into the first
relationship that appeared and went with it. Another issue
that arises in this scenario is that many women hold on to
past relationships because of this false pretense. They cannot
let go of their ex, not because they love him but because he
represents a safe-haven from the dark, dreary singles’ life.

Solution: Be clear on the type of man you want to have in your
life. If you are certain on what you are looking for, you will
be less likely to find someone who you bend into your mold of
Mr. Right to fix your single status.

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Healing A Broken Heart

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 14:51:00 +0000

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3 Things You Can Do To Mend A Broken Heart
Healing a broken heart takes time. You can’t bounce back as your old self the next morning or even a few months after that. However, it can be done. And it will happen to you in time as well.

The first few stages of healing a broken heart won’t be easy.sometimes, you’ll feel the urge to wallow and self-pity. There will be a lot of that, I’m sure. After all, the wound is still fresh. The memories are still brand new. But you have to trust that you’re going to be just fine.

1) Let it all out.
If you have to cry, do it. Don’t hold it in. It’s only going to be more painful that way. Healing a broken heart means you have to give your heart reprieve. Crying is usually the way to let all the negative emotions out. Keep your tissues handy and just trust that you’ll be alright.

2) Find a new interest.
Not a love interest, mind you. Healing a broken heart doesn’t mean going out on rebound. You’re not ready for that yet. Besides, it won’t be fair to you or the other person. Try to get a hobby. Do you like cooking? Enroll in a cooking or baking class. Find another passion that doesn’t involve romance. Learning something new will help you become a better person and help you regain a part of yourself that was lost.

3) Get a new ‘do.
Sometimes, there is a need to get away from the old you. If you can’t take a vacation, try getting a hair cut or a make-over. Buy new clothes. I’m not saying you should shop until you drop or become someone totally different from who you were (although that works for other people). Sometimes, you just want to look different. More beautiful or handsome, maybe… This is perfectly healthy. It will also give you the confidence to be happy again.

Healing a broken heart isn’t easy. However, you can make it whole again. You can teach it how to forgive, to love and to trust again in time. Don’t rush things and move at your own pace. Always believe that you’ll be happy again someday.

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How To Impress Her Without Buying A Gift

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 01:37:00 +0000

Respecting the well known fact that girls are emotional and easily fall for things that touch their hearts, it's not difficult to impress a girl without gifts. So, if you are on a tight budget or not willing to loosen your pocket for her, you still stand a chance to become her darling.

Guys have such a hard time with giving gifts, and when you really want to impress a girl it becomes more complicated. Can you actually impress the girl of your dreams, without giving her gifts? Aren't gifts a necessary part of the romance package, and don't girls expect you to give them gifts? The worst of all, though: won't she think I'm cheap or that I don't respect her if I try to impress her without giving gifts? There maybe some women that expect or even need gifts to keep their interest, but the majority are not that superficial at all. Here are a few tips you can try when you want to impress a girl, without resorting to gifts:

Be Original
You can impress a girl by taking time in planning, instead of just buying a gift that you aren't even sure she'll like. Take her on a date that's original, unforgettable. It could be something quietly romantic, like a scenic walk or a picnic. It could be fun, like going to a karaoke night and singing. Use your imagination. You have to remember, she should be impressed by you, not by a gift you give her.

Make Something
You don't have to buy a gift. Make her something personal, that is obviously just for her. When you think about a girl in detail, her likes and dislikes, her personality- you can impress her without buying a gift. It could be sending her a song in an email, or writing a poem in a text and sending it. Maybe you're crafty, and you can carve her a figurine of her favorite animal. Whatever the case is, don't try to rely on impressing her with a gift that's forgettable. It's a waste of time and money.

Be Confident
There's nothing more impressive or attractive in a man than confidence. It's sexy and irresistible. Take time to get ready before you see her, wear a classy cologne and talk to her, not at her. Sometimes the best gift to give a girl is being an attentive and good listener. Watch your body language, though- you don't want to come off as cocky or selfish. It's a turn-off, and won't impress any girl, with or without a gift.

It's unfortunate so many men feel they need to buy the affections of girls. Most girls are with you for you, not because of what you can afford to give them. The more special and unique you show her with gestures, not gifts, is going to be the biggest attraction for her. You can impress a girl without gifts- in this case, it's a matter of less really is more.

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Why Doesn’t He Call Me?

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 00:26:00 +0000

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As a psychic this is the most frequently asked question I
receive. The women calling me are in deep pain and cannot
understand what went wrong. The problem is they don’t
understand how men think.

Single men view dating far different than a woman can ever
imagine. Oftentimes it’s just you happen to be in the right
place at the right time when the guy is looking for someone to
date. He isn’t finished dating, you just happen to be the
right flavor of the month. Men have a tendency to be
natural-born one-uppers. If there’s a possibility of upgrading
for something better, they’re going to go for it. No matter
how great the current girlfriend is, men can’t help but wonder
what they might be missing out on. Most guys feel compelled to
put as many relationship conquests under their belts as
possible.

Every guy’s definition of enough is different. Until we grow
up, mark everything off our checklists or have too many
friends convince us that we can't do better than you, the
flight risk is real.

Just because a man likes you a lot isn't a guarantee that it
will evolve into love. And men are surprisingly intuitive when
it comes to figuring out a woman’s potential on this front.
They may enjoy your company, but they know from the beginning
that they don’t want the relationship to go any further. Men
are often looking for “The One.” Unfortunately you may not be
that one.

So why does a man invest any time in a relationship that he
knows will ultimately end? Because most men are able to live
in the moment for a while and chalk it up to a good
experience. But once a woman shows that she is way more into
the man than he is into her, he will dump her out of guilt. A
man knows that she deserves someone who truly loves her and
wants to give her that opportunity to find them.

Men are extremely protective of their emotions. Just like a
woman a man is scared of being hurt. So, if he starts to feel
like he is getting into a situation where he will be destroyed
if you dump him, he might launch a preemptive strike and yank
the plug first. Think about how vulnerable and paranoid you
feel when you're nuts about a guy, and realize that men go
through the same thing with women they really like. A man can
feel it’s better to act like a winner before he turns into a
loser, which is when his natural self-preservation may come
into play. Before the real humiliation and pain hits him like
a plague, ending the relationship seems like a good option.

Are You Being Dumped?

• His cell phone is always off. He might be spending time with
someone he doesn't want you to know about... or he just
doesn't want to make himself available.

• He's reluctant to make plans. If he hems and haws about
committing to anything -- even if it's in the semi-near future
-- he's thinking about making a break for it.

• He's meaner. The passive-aggressive breakup is a guy
standby. Some men intentionally turn into whiners to make sure
you break up with them.

• He's distant. He doesn't want to feel connected to you -- or
he's getting his needs filled somewhere else.

If any of these signs sound familiar you know that he has
decided to move on. Even though you think he’s the only one
you will ever feel these deep emotions with again, trust me,
you will find someone else who does have the same values as
you and wants what you want. It’s just a matter of kissing a
lot of frogs to find the prince. Do not despair and don’t give
up. That’s the key to success in love and all matters of life.

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The Top Seven Ways to Flatter Your Man

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Sun, 01 Nov 2009 21:49:00 +0000

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1. Do special things for him: fix his favorite meal and let him know that you are doing it because you care about him, buy his favorite drinks or snacks, rent a movie that you know he will like, buy him a little gift that shows that you have thought about him and noticed what he likes.

2. Pay attention to what he is doing that you like and find a way to let him know, every day, 2 things that you really like and appreciate about him.

3. Listen attentively to what he has to say and ask follow-up questions in a way that lets him know that you are interested in whatever it is that he wants or needs to talk about.

4. Brag about him to others, in his presence.

5. Be affectionate with him. This includes non-sexual touch as well as initiating sex. Hold his hand, give him a kiss, share a warm hug.

6. Ask for his opinion on things and respect what he says, even if you do not agree with it or decide not to use it. Men want to feel needed, not in an artificial way, but in a real way so look for things where you really could use his help and ask for it.

7. Make sure to begin the day and end each day with a special sign of affection for him. Take leadership in making it happen.

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FACE OF THE WEEK

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 07:08:00 +0000

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FREE LOVE LYRICS has introduce a column on the website which will random select one picture of the members at Facebook and display as the FACE OF THE WEEK. Members who wish to publish their special pictures at this column can now upload their pictures at Facebook fan page or click here

We will send notification to the luck member whose picture is selected for the week.
THANK YOU

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Do You Know What It Takes to Be A Friend?

noreply@blogger.com (Adofoli Edem Frank) — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 14:03:00 +0000

From time immemorial friends were vital to human survival. However, in this new millennium the importance of friendship and perceptions about what it takes to be a friend has moved into a state of decline. When our country was new, friendship was essential to life and protection. Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, "The only way to have a friend is to be one." However, two hundred years later it appears that emphasis on friendship has waned.

Many people have no understanding of what constitutes a friend. Advancing communication technology and social media tools are beginning to change our perceptions of friendship. Many people become collectors of names, often tagged as “ friends” on social networking sites and other electronic communities. Ironically, we share detailed insight into our lives, our fears, our aspirations, and visions with total strangers. These days, we seem to place more importance on popularity and achievement, especially as competition for jobs and positions intensifies. Building friendship has been replaced with building connections.
Today, if we have one person in our life that we can call friend we can consider ourselves lucky.

Humans intrinsically want and need friends, but most of us either have no knowledge of how to be a friend or the ability to recognize what constitutes a true friend. So, here are five questions to ask yourself to help identify not only how you might be a better friend, but what essentials one should look for in a friend:

1. Do you genuinely like the person and does the person truly like you? Friendship requires mutual admiration and a sincere enjoyment of being together.
2. Do you share common values and interests? In other words, are you like-minded? Friendships require a common set of values, or an interest that is shared.
3. Is your friendship based on trust and mutual respect? You must consider yourselves as equals in this regard, for without these two important ingredients, no real friendship can develop.
4. Is your friend truthful? A true friend is someone whom you can count on to tell you the truth—even if it hurts.
5. Would you be willing to make a sacrifice in some way if your friend needed it and vice versa?

If you can answer affirmatively to each of the above questions, you are well on your way to a rewarding and fulfilling friendship. If not, you now know areas that may need to be re-visited or strengthened in your relationship.

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