<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:openSearch="http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/" xmlns:blogger="http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008" xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss" xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0" version="2.0"><channel><atom:id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136</atom:id><lastBuildDate>Thu, 05 Sep 2024 09:10:24 +0000</lastBuildDate><title>NCCPS News Feed</title><description></description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/</link><managingEditor>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</managingEditor><generator>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>25</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-4567762152507654859</guid><pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 11:32:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-06-04T04:30:39.831-07:00</atom:updated><title></title><description>&lt;div class=WordSection1&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:20.5pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#404040&#39;&gt;Family law judges&#39; training questioned&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#404040&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#404040;display:none&#39;&gt;Jun 04, 2012&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;margin-bottom:15.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:10.5pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Family law judges need training in child psychology so they can better protect children from abusive parents, lobby groups say.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;margin-bottom:15.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Family Law Act reforms, to take effect on Thursday, have been welcomed by the National Council for Children Post Separation and the National Child Protection Alliance as a step in the right direction.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;margin-bottom:15.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;But both groups say the reforms, which broaden the definitions of &amp;quot;family violence&amp;quot; and &amp;quot;abuse&amp;quot;, do not do enough for a system that does not put child safety as its top priority.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;margin-bottom:15.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;University of South Australia senior lecturer Elspeth McInnes, an expert adviser to both groups, says Australia&#39;s family law system focuses on resolving family disputes between private citizens.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;margin-bottom:15.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;But the focus should be first and foremost on child protection, she says.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;margin-bottom:15.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Dr McInnes says a major systemic flaw is the fact independent family lawyers who submit reports to the courts are not trained to deal with child abuse, child development or the dynamics of family violence.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;margin-bottom:15.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Judges may be experts in law, but they are also inexperienced when it comes to how abuse and violence affect children on a psychological level, she says.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;margin-bottom:15.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&amp;quot;Everybody who makes decisions about children&#39;s lives needs to have a thorough and academic grounding in child development and trauma and abuse in families,&amp;quot; she told AAP.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;margin-bottom:15.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;One mother, who can&#39;t be identified, said her daughter, now nine, has been left with severe learning difficulties after the court system refused to revoke her abusive father&#39;s contact rights.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;margin-bottom:15.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;She said he had been convicted of child pornography possession and later jailed for indecent treatment of another child.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;margin-bottom:15.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;But despite evidence from doctors that her daughter was also being abused, the courts had still allowed her ex-partner visitation rights.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;margin-bottom:15.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&amp;quot;They privilege contact over safety,&amp;quot; she told AAP.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;margin-bottom:15.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&amp;quot;So where is it at now? Me trying to fix my child.&amp;quot;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;margin-bottom:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#404040&#39;&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2012/06/family-law-judges-training-questioned.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-5545287908500317797</guid><pubDate>Sat, 20 Aug 2011 22:10:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-08-20T15:10:14.794-07:00</atom:updated><title>The kids are not alright</title><description>&lt;div class=WordSection1&gt;&lt;h1 style=&#39;margin-bottom:2.4pt&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:20.5pt;color:black&#39;&gt;The kids are not all right &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;&lt;h5&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#666666&#39;&gt;Andrea Petrie and Michelle Griffin &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h5&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;cite&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#666666&#39;&gt;August 17, 2011&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/cite&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#666666&#39;&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal align=center style=&#39;text-align:center&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto;background:#DEDEDE&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:8.5pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#333333&#39;&gt;Dr Caroline Counsel: &amp;quot;Any sort of caution that is taken by the courts to minimise harm to children has to be a good thing&amp;quot;. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Too often, children are the victims of warring parents. Now the federal government wants to expand the definition of child abuse to give them more protection.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;A LITTLE boy is forced to visit a doctor and endure an anal examination for signs of sexual abuse. The humiliating ritual continues for months. He is just five years old, and is caught in the middle of his parents&#39; bitter custody battle over him.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;His father insists the boy&#39;s mother is abusing him, although there appears to be no basis for the accusation. A police report even suggests the claim is most likely fabricated to help the father&#39;s bid for full custody.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;In another family, two boys aged three and four are placed in their father&#39;s care, despite the fact they try to masturbate, anally penetrate and have oral sex with one another, which they explain to their mother is a &#39;&#39;game we play with daddy&#39;&#39;. A court later rules that she is discouraging their father from having a relationship with them, so they are placed in his custody.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Elsewhere, a desperate father exhausts most of his options to keep custody of his three young children from their mother, even though she is in jail for trying to kill him.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;These are snapshots of the thousands of cases dealt with by family law courts in Australia. When a relationship breaks down, children can become the victims of warring parents preoccupied with their own welfare and desire to win custody. Cases like these have prompted widespread concerns that the safety of children is not always assured.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Now, Federal Parliament is considering a controversial proposal to make major changes to family law legislation that aim to create a fairer system and give priority to the safety of children.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;If passed, the Family Law Legislation (Family Violence and Other Measures) Bill 2011 will expand the definition of family violence beyond violent behaviour. It will also take in threatening or other behaviour that &#39;&#39;coerces or controls&#39;&#39; and causes children - or former partners - to be fearful. The new definition will include physical and sexual assault, stalking, repeated derogatory taunts, intentionally damaging property, deliberately causing death or injury to an animal, and unreasonably denying the family member the financial autonomy he or she would otherwise have.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;The definition of child abuse will also be changed to include psychological damage caused by exposure to family violence. This includes a child seeing or hearing violence, or being present when police or paramedics attend an incident involving the assault of one family member by another.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;The Senate standing committee on legal and constitutional affairs has conducted an inquiry into the proposed changes, and will present its report to the Senate tomorrow. The inquiry has received hundreds of submissions, many questioning whether the reforms go far enough.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Significantly, the difficulties created by the nation&#39;s intersecting state and federal legal systems that deal with family violence have also been raised.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Child protection concerns, such as abuse and neglect, are dealt with by state and territory systems authorised to intervene when children are at risk of harm in their family&#39;s care. But it is the federal family law system that determines which parent has custody.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;The Gillard government introduced the amendment bill, believing sweeping changes were necessary to strengthen the current laws, and to rectify some of the deficiencies of the 2006 Howard government family law reforms of which the centrepiece was, where possible, shared parental responsibility.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;The Family Law Amendment (Shared Parental Responsibility) Act 2006 specifies shared care as a minimum of 35 per cent of overnight time with each parent, or five nights or more per fortnight, or equivalent. Yet research by clinical child psychologist Dr Jennifer McIntosh and other experts now suggests that constant disruption and lack of stability for children younger than four - regardless of socio-economic background, parenting or inter-parental co-operation - may be causing them psychological harm.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Charles Pragnell, from the National Council for Children Post-Separation, describes the 2006 Howard reforms as &#39;&#39;seriously flawed&#39;&#39;. He believes they are solely concerned with parents&#39; rights and give no consideration to the needs, wishes and rights of the children caught in the middle.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Pragnell says it is &#39;&#39;virtually impossible&#39;&#39; to prove family violence and child abuse. &#39;&#39;Firstly, because domestic violence is given a very narrow definition within the family law compared to what research has now shown to involve a variety of forms of abuse, such as emotional abuse, financial abuse, psychological abuse,&#39;&#39; he says.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Second, federal family courts do not have the powers, expertise and resources to investigate allegations of domestic violence and child abuse, nor do they have the power to order state and territory child protection authorities to carry out such investigations.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;Even so, there are a small number of occasions where the state child protection authorities have intervened and have found the allegations substantiated, but such substantiations have frequently been disregarded by Family Court judges, who see the right to shared care as the principle overriding consideration.&#39;&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Pragnell says in allegations of child sexual abuse, the federal courts that deal with family matters use what is termed the Briginshaw principle to determine the standard of proof. The principle dates back to a case in England in 1938 in which the allegation of sexual abuse of an adult was viewed as being of such gravity that the usual standard of proof of a &#39;&#39;balance of probabilities&#39;&#39; should be at the extreme end of the scale.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;This means Family Court judges are giving contact with and even custody of children to convicted paedophiles, child sex abusers, and violent offenders,&#39;&#39; he says.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;This also means that often parents who raised allegations against another have been viewed by the Family Court as being &#39;&#39;implacably hostile&#39;&#39; towards the other parent or alienating them. In many circumstances, children have been removed from the parent trying to protect them, and placed in the sole care of the alleged but unproven abuser.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;Often the protective parent is given no contact. When protective parents raise allegations of abuse, the counter-claim is that they are deluded and certain psychiatrists or psychologists are prepared to support such counter-allegations in the courts. So the whole scenario turns against the parent making the allegations, which they have no hope of proving.&#39;&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Pragnell, who has almost 40 years&#39; experience working as a social worker with children and young people, says one only has to consider the highly publicised murders of children involved in custody disputes in Victoria in recent years to know that more far-reaching reforms are urgently needed to protect those caught in the middle.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Jai, Tyler and Bailey Farquharson - aged 10, 7 and 2 - were murdered by their father Robert on Father&#39;s Day in 2005 when he drove his car into a seven-metre-deep dam near Winchelsea to get back at their mother, who had formed a relationship with another man. Robert Farquharson is serving a life sentence with a minimum of 33 years.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;In another tragic case, Darcey Freeman was four when her father Arthur Phillip Freeman threw her 58 metres to her death from Melbourne&#39;s West Gate Bridge in 2009. It was supposed to be her first day of school. He was sentenced to life with a 32-year minimum for a crime the sentencing judge said was aimed at hurting his former wife &#39;&#39;as profoundly as possible&#39;&#39;.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;And last November, Ramazan Acar fatally stabbed his two-year-old daughter, Yazmina Micheline Acar, after an intervention order was put in place to protect her mother, which prevented him from seeing Yazmina for several months. He is serving life with a 33-year minimum.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;But Caroline Counsel, a family law expert and president of the Law Institute of Victoria, says &#39;&#39;you can&#39;t legislate lunacy out of the picture&#39;&#39;.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;If people are going to act badly, impulsively and out of anger, no legislation is going to stop them. We as a society raise people and educate people about what we find acceptable and unacceptable behaviour, so I think it&#39;s ill-conceived to think you can come up with legislation that will stop all bad behaviours forever,&#39;&#39; she says.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;It&#39;s cradle-to-grave training, it&#39;s cradle-to-grave behaviours that need to be looked at and reviewed and scrutinised by us all. But having said that, any piece of legislation and any thought process that is going to make parents think about what their children need and what their children can be exposed to, and any sort of caution that is taken by the courts to minimise harm to children, has to be a good thing.&#39;&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Dr Lesley Laing, author of &lt;i&gt;No Way To Live&lt;/i&gt;, a 2010 report on family violence victims in the Family Court, says the proposed changes would remove some of the barriers that have stopped parents from raising concerns about their children&#39;s safety.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;But there is still an urgent need for better resources in the family law system so that allegations of violence and abuse can be thoroughly assessed,&#39;&#39; she says.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Laing says expanding the definition of family violence and removing the so-called &#39;&#39;friendly parent provision&#39;&#39; - which requires a court to look at the willingness of each parent to encourage a close and continuing relationship between the child and the other parent after separation - will allow the extent of family violence to come to light in court proceedings.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;But she says the amendment bill fails to address other key concerns with the Family Law Act, such as the contentious presumption of equal shared parental responsibility, or the requirement that courts must consider making orders for children to spend equal or substantial time with both parents.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;This means that where violence has led to the separation, and the allegations are not believed or acted upon by the Family Court, there is still a risk of ongoing exposure to domestic violence. A further amendment which would significantly reduce risks to children would be to elevate as the single primary and paramount consideration &#39;the child being protected from physical or psychological harm from or being subjected to, or exposed to abuse, neglect or family violence&#39;.&#39;&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Child protection campaigner Emeritus Professor Freda Briggs says even with the proposed reforms, judges will still take advice from lawyers about what is in a child&#39;s best interests. &#39;&#39;They&#39;re not experts in anything to do with childhood,&#39;&#39; she says. &#39;&#39;It can never be in a child&#39;s best interest to be handed over to a convicted child sex offender, but we&#39;ve seen this happen a number of times.&#39;&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Tears stain the cheeks of a distraught mother involved in a current custody dispute, as she details the years of torment and emotional abuse she has endured at the hands of her former partner, with whom she has a child.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;He has made repeated threats that she will &#39;&#39;regret&#39;&#39; walking out on him and taking their child. She fears, as do those around her, that his behaviour is getting worse.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;No one can understand what it&#39;s like to wonder whether the next time you drop off your child will be the last time you see them alive,&#39;&#39; she says. &#39;&#39;I left the relationship for very good reasons but he is determined to take this as far as he can to get what he wants. If he doesn&#39;t succeed, he will take his revenge.&#39;&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;If the reforms can save another innocent life from being lost, she says they must be passed urgently.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;The nation was outraged at the way our live [cattle] exports were being treated, yet our own children are dying and being put at risk. Something more needs to be done as soon as possible.&#39;&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Read more: &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.theage.com.au/national/the-kids-are-not-all-right-20110816-1iw7l.html#ixzz1VbiHcBXf&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:#003399&#39;&gt;http://www.theage.com.au/national/the-kids-are-not-all-right-20110816-1iw7l.html#ixzz1VbiHcBXf&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2011/08/kids-are-not-alright.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-6302980223744292804</guid><pubDate>Sat, 20 Aug 2011 21:34:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-08-20T14:34:10.000-07:00</atom:updated><title></title><description>&lt;div class=WordSection1&gt;&lt;h1 style=&#39;margin-bottom:2.4pt&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:20.5pt;color:black&#39;&gt;The kids are not all right &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;&lt;h5&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#666666&#39;&gt;Andrea Petrie and Michelle Griffin &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h5&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;cite&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#666666&#39;&gt;August 17, 2011&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/cite&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#666666&#39;&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal align=center style=&#39;text-align:center&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto;background:#DEDEDE&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:8.5pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#333333&#39;&gt;Dr Caroline Counsel: &amp;quot;Any sort of caution that is taken by the courts to minimise harm to children has to be a good thing&amp;quot;. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Too often, children are the victims of warring parents. Now the federal government wants to expand the definition of child abuse to give them more protection.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;A LITTLE boy is forced to visit a doctor and endure an anal examination for signs of sexual abuse. The humiliating ritual continues for months. He is just five years old, and is caught in the middle of his parents&#39; bitter custody battle over him.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;His father insists the boy&#39;s mother is abusing him, although there appears to be no basis for the accusation. A police report even suggests the claim is most likely fabricated to help the father&#39;s bid for full custody.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;In another family, two boys aged three and four are placed in their father&#39;s care, despite the fact they try to masturbate, anally penetrate and have oral sex with one another, which they explain to their mother is a &#39;&#39;game we play with daddy&#39;&#39;. A court later rules that she is discouraging their father from having a relationship with them, so they are placed in his custody.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Elsewhere, a desperate father exhausts most of his options to keep custody of his three young children from their mother, even though she is in jail for trying to kill him.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;These are snapshots of the thousands of cases dealt with by family law courts in Australia. When a relationship breaks down, children can become the victims of warring parents preoccupied with their own welfare and desire to win custody. Cases like these have prompted widespread concerns that the safety of children is not always assured.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Now, Federal Parliament is considering a controversial proposal to make major changes to family law legislation that aim to create a fairer system and give priority to the safety of children.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;If passed, the Family Law Legislation (Family Violence and Other Measures) Bill 2011 will expand the definition of family violence beyond violent behaviour. It will also take in threatening or other behaviour that &#39;&#39;coerces or controls&#39;&#39; and causes children - or former partners - to be fearful. The new definition will include physical and sexual assault, stalking, repeated derogatory taunts, intentionally damaging property, deliberately causing death or injury to an animal, and unreasonably denying the family member the financial autonomy he or she would otherwise have.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;The definition of child abuse will also be changed to include psychological damage caused by exposure to family violence. This includes a child seeing or hearing violence, or being present when police or paramedics attend an incident involving the assault of one family member by another.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;The Senate standing committee on legal and constitutional affairs has conducted an inquiry into the proposed changes, and will present its report to the Senate tomorrow. The inquiry has received hundreds of submissions, many questioning whether the reforms go far enough.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Significantly, the difficulties created by the nation&#39;s intersecting state and federal legal systems that deal with family violence have also been raised.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Child protection concerns, such as abuse and neglect, are dealt with by state and territory systems authorised to intervene when children are at risk of harm in their family&#39;s care. But it is the federal family law system that determines which parent has custody.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;The Gillard government introduced the amendment bill, believing sweeping changes were necessary to strengthen the current laws, and to rectify some of the deficiencies of the 2006 Howard government family law reforms of which the centrepiece was, where possible, shared parental responsibility.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;The Family Law Amendment (Shared Parental Responsibility) Act 2006 specifies shared care as a minimum of 35 per cent of overnight time with each parent, or five nights or more per fortnight, or equivalent. Yet research by clinical child psychologist Dr Jennifer McIntosh and other experts now suggests that constant disruption and lack of stability for children younger than four - regardless of socio-economic background, parenting or inter-parental co-operation - may be causing them psychological harm.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Charles Pragnell, from the National Council for Children Post-Separation, describes the 2006 Howard reforms as &#39;&#39;seriously flawed&#39;&#39;. He believes they are solely concerned with parents&#39; rights and give no consideration to the needs, wishes and rights of the children caught in the middle.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Pragnell says it is &#39;&#39;virtually impossible&#39;&#39; to prove family violence and child abuse. &#39;&#39;Firstly, because domestic violence is given a very narrow definition within the family law compared to what research has now shown to involve a variety of forms of abuse, such as emotional abuse, financial abuse, psychological abuse,&#39;&#39; he says.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Second, federal family courts do not have the powers, expertise and resources to investigate allegations of domestic violence and child abuse, nor do they have the power to order state and territory child protection authorities to carry out such investigations.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;Even so, there are a small number of occasions where the state child protection authorities have intervened and have found the allegations substantiated, but such substantiations have frequently been disregarded by Family Court judges, who see the right to shared care as the principle overriding consideration.&#39;&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Pragnell says in allegations of child sexual abuse, the federal courts that deal with family matters use what is termed the Briginshaw principle to determine the standard of proof. The principle dates back to a case in England in 1938 in which the allegation of sexual abuse of an adult was viewed as being of such gravity that the usual standard of proof of a &#39;&#39;balance of probabilities&#39;&#39; should be at the extreme end of the scale.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;This means Family Court judges are giving contact with and even custody of children to convicted paedophiles, child sex abusers, and violent offenders,&#39;&#39; he says.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;This also means that often parents who raised allegations against another have been viewed by the Family Court as being &#39;&#39;implacably hostile&#39;&#39; towards the other parent or alienating them. In many circumstances, children have been removed from the parent trying to protect them, and placed in the sole care of the alleged but unproven abuser.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;Often the protective parent is given no contact. When protective parents raise allegations of abuse, the counter-claim is that they are deluded and certain psychiatrists or psychologists are prepared to support such counter-allegations in the courts. So the whole scenario turns against the parent making the allegations, which they have no hope of proving.&#39;&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Pragnell, who has almost 40 years&#39; experience working as a social worker with children and young people, says one only has to consider the highly publicised murders of children involved in custody disputes in Victoria in recent years to know that more far-reaching reforms are urgently needed to protect those caught in the middle.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Jai, Tyler and Bailey Farquharson - aged 10, 7 and 2 - were murdered by their father Robert on Father&#39;s Day in 2005 when he drove his car into a seven-metre-deep dam near Winchelsea to get back at their mother, who had formed a relationship with another man. Robert Farquharson is serving a life sentence with a minimum of 33 years.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;In another tragic case, Darcey Freeman was four when her father Arthur Phillip Freeman threw her 58 metres to her death from Melbourne&#39;s West Gate Bridge in 2009. It was supposed to be her first day of school. He was sentenced to life with a 32-year minimum for a crime the sentencing judge said was aimed at hurting his former wife &#39;&#39;as profoundly as possible&#39;&#39;.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;And last November, Ramazan Acar fatally stabbed his two-year-old daughter, Yazmina Micheline Acar, after an intervention order was put in place to protect her mother, which prevented him from seeing Yazmina for several months. He is serving life with a 33-year minimum.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;But Caroline Counsel, a family law expert and president of the Law Institute of Victoria, says &#39;&#39;you can&#39;t legislate lunacy out of the picture&#39;&#39;.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;If people are going to act badly, impulsively and out of anger, no legislation is going to stop them. We as a society raise people and educate people about what we find acceptable and unacceptable behaviour, so I think it&#39;s ill-conceived to think you can come up with legislation that will stop all bad behaviours forever,&#39;&#39; she says.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;It&#39;s cradle-to-grave training, it&#39;s cradle-to-grave behaviours that need to be looked at and reviewed and scrutinised by us all. But having said that, any piece of legislation and any thought process that is going to make parents think about what their children need and what their children can be exposed to, and any sort of caution that is taken by the courts to minimise harm to children, has to be a good thing.&#39;&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Dr Lesley Laing, author of &lt;i&gt;No Way To Live&lt;/i&gt;, a 2010 report on family violence victims in the Family Court, says the proposed changes would remove some of the barriers that have stopped parents from raising concerns about their children&#39;s safety.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;But there is still an urgent need for better resources in the family law system so that allegations of violence and abuse can be thoroughly assessed,&#39;&#39; she says.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Laing says expanding the definition of family violence and removing the so-called &#39;&#39;friendly parent provision&#39;&#39; - which requires a court to look at the willingness of each parent to encourage a close and continuing relationship between the child and the other parent after separation - will allow the extent of family violence to come to light in court proceedings.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;But she says the amendment bill fails to address other key concerns with the Family Law Act, such as the contentious presumption of equal shared parental responsibility, or the requirement that courts must consider making orders for children to spend equal or substantial time with both parents.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;This means that where violence has led to the separation, and the allegations are not believed or acted upon by the Family Court, there is still a risk of ongoing exposure to domestic violence. A further amendment which would significantly reduce risks to children would be to elevate as the single primary and paramount consideration &#39;the child being protected from physical or psychological harm from or being subjected to, or exposed to abuse, neglect or family violence&#39;.&#39;&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Child protection campaigner Emeritus Professor Freda Briggs says even with the proposed reforms, judges will still take advice from lawyers about what is in a child&#39;s best interests. &#39;&#39;They&#39;re not experts in anything to do with childhood,&#39;&#39; she says. &#39;&#39;It can never be in a child&#39;s best interest to be handed over to a convicted child sex offender, but we&#39;ve seen this happen a number of times.&#39;&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Tears stain the cheeks of a distraught mother involved in a current custody dispute, as she details the years of torment and emotional abuse she has endured at the hands of her former partner, with whom she has a child.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;He has made repeated threats that she will &#39;&#39;regret&#39;&#39; walking out on him and taking their child. She fears, as do those around her, that his behaviour is getting worse.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;No one can understand what it&#39;s like to wonder whether the next time you drop off your child will be the last time you see them alive,&#39;&#39; she says. &#39;&#39;I left the relationship for very good reasons but he is determined to take this as far as he can to get what he wants. If he doesn&#39;t succeed, he will take his revenge.&#39;&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;If the reforms can save another innocent life from being lost, she says they must be passed urgently.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;The nation was outraged at the way our live [cattle] exports were being treated, yet our own children are dying and being put at risk. Something more needs to be done as soon as possible.&#39;&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Read more: &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.theage.com.au/national/the-kids-are-not-all-right-20110816-1iw7l.html#ixzz1VbiHcBXf&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:#003399&#39;&gt;http://www.theage.com.au/national/the-kids-are-not-all-right-20110816-1iw7l.html#ixzz1VbiHcBXf&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2011/08/kids-are-not-all-right-andrea-petrie.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-8504953184182413505</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Nov 2010 10:41:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-11-11T02:40:26.162-08:00</atom:updated><title></title><description>&lt;div class=WordSection1&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:24.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Family law changes to tighten child protection &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Adele Horin, November 2010&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;CHILDREN caught in violent family break-ups would be better protected under proposed changes to the Family Law Act.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;But the proposals leave in place the presumption of equal shared parenting responsibility and the obligation to consider equal time with each parent, measures some critics wanted removed.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;The mooted amendments were released yesterday by the federal Attorney-General, Robert McClelland, in response to several reports commissioned by the government on aspects of family law.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;The reports illustrate that the family law system has some way to go in effectively responding to issues relating to family violence,&#39;&#39; Mr McClelland said.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;The draft Family Law Amendment (Family Violence) Bill is explained in a consultation paper that invites public submissions.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Under the proposals, family law courts would give greater weight to the protection of children from family violence above the benefit of having a meaningful relationship with both parents.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Protection from harm and a meaningful relationship with both parents are known as the twin pillars of the family law act, but the apparent equal weighting given to each consideration has attracted criticism.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Mothers&#39; groups have argued that children have been forced to spend time with violent fathers, or even fathers who have been jailed for sex offences, because of the emphasis on children retaining a meaningful relationship with both parents.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;The draft bill proposes a new definition of family violence that includes physical assault, harassment, emotional manipulation, financial abuse and threatening behaviour.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;It also proposes a wider definition of abuse of a child.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;The Attorney-General did not accept the radical change proposed by a former Family Court judge, Richard Chisholm, to allow judges to consider only what was in the best interest of the child. His report said current law &#39;&#39;nudged&#39;&#39; judges towards the prescribed outcomes of awarding parents shared responsibility for major decisions, and of having to consider children spending equal time with each parent.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Other recommendations adopted in the draft bill include the deletion of the &#39;&#39;friendly&#39;&#39; parent provision, which obliged judges to have regard to whether a parent encouraged the child&#39;s relationship with the other parent. Some parents were afraid to raise claims of violence in case they were considered &#39;&#39;unfriendly&#39;&#39; parents.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Under the draft, parents would no longer have cost orders made against them for making false allegations or statements. This provision deterred parents from raising truthful claims in case the court did not believe them.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Another significant change would be greater responsibility on lawyers and other advisers to encourage parents to prioritise protection of children.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Currently, they have an obligation to encourage shared parental responsibility.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;A surprise is the mooted inclusion of the UN Convention on the Rights of the Child as a new object of the act.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2010/11/family-law-changes-to-tighten-child.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-5636860849331924225</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Jul 2010 03:48:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-07-07T20:48:15.291-07:00</atom:updated><title></title><description>&lt;div class=WordSection1&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height: normal;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt;font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#333333;letter-spacing:-.75pt&#39;&gt;Lawyers Weekly Magazine&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height: normal;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:18.0pt;font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#333333;letter-spacing:-.75pt&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height: normal;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:18.0pt;font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#333333;letter-spacing:-.75pt&#39;&gt;Courts discourage women to speak of abuse&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height: normal;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; color:#333333&#39;&gt;&lt;br&gt; &lt;br&gt; Posted &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lawyersweekly.com.au/blogs/top_stories/archive/2010/06/24/courts-discourage-women-to-speak-of-abuse.aspx&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:#777777;text-decoration:none&#39;&gt;Jun 24 2010, 10:40 PM&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lawyersweekly.com.au/members/Lawyers-Weekly/default.aspx&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:#777777;text-decoration:none&#39;&gt;Lawyers Weekly&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; line-height:normal;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt; font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#333333&#39;&gt;A study has found that &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lawyersweekly.com.au/tags/women/default.aspx&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:#777777;text-decoration:none&#39;&gt;women&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; are receiving strong messages not to raise allegations of abuse or violence in &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lawyersweekly.com.au/tags/family/default.aspx&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:#777777;text-decoration:none&#39;&gt;Family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; Courts.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; line-height:normal;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt; font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#333333&#39;&gt;The report; &lt;i&gt;No way to live: Women&#39;s experiences of negotiating the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lawyersweekly.com.au/tags/Family+Law/default.aspx&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:#777777;text-decoration:none&#39;&gt;family law&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lawyersweekly.com.au/tags/system/default.aspx&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:#777777;text-decoration:none&#39;&gt;system&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; in the context of domestic violence&lt;/i&gt;, was launched yesterday at &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lawyersweekly.com.au/tags/nsw/default.aspx&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:#777777;text-decoration:none&#39;&gt;NSW&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lawyersweekly.com.au/tags/parliament+house/default.aspx&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:#777777;text-decoration:none&#39;&gt;parliament House&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; by the Minister for Women, Jodi McKay. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; line-height:normal;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt; font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#333333&#39;&gt;Dr Lesley Laing, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lawyersweekly.com.au/tags/a/default.aspx&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:#777777;text-decoration:none&#39;&gt;a&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; senior in the faculty of &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lawyersweekly.com.au/tags/education/default.aspx&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:#777777;text-decoration:none&#39;&gt;education&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; and social work at &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lawyersweekly.com.au/tags/Sydney/default.aspx&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:#777777;text-decoration:none&#39;&gt;Sydney&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; University, interviewed 22 women at various stages of the family law process following a relationship separation in which they had experienced domestic violence. All but one of these women reported direct abuse of their &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lawyersweekly.com.au/tags/children/default.aspx&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:#777777;text-decoration:none&#39;&gt;children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; from ex-partners.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; line-height:normal;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt; font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#333333&#39;&gt;The &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lawyersweekly.com.au/tags/report/default.aspx&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:#777777;text-decoration:none&#39;&gt;report&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; said that women &amp;quot;lived with fear&amp;quot; that they could be punished by losing the care of their children if they were seen to be challenging the inevitability of an ongoing relationship between ex-partners and children. &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lawyersweekly.com.au/tags/IT/default.aspx&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:#777777;text-decoration:none&#39;&gt;It&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; also found that women and their children subject to violence are often accused of fabricating their claims.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; line-height:normal;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt; font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#333333&#39;&gt;Laing concluded that the family law process was characterised by being a complex and uncoordinated system that was marked by delays and barriers to accessing accurate information. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; line-height:normal;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt; font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#333333&#39;&gt;The women who participated in the study reported that their &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lawyersweekly.com.au/tags/claims/default.aspx&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:#777777;text-decoration:none&#39;&gt;claims&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; of abuse were often viewed as &amp;quot;fabrications&amp;quot; within the family &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lawyersweekly.com.au/tags/law+system/default.aspx&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:#777777;text-decoration:none&#39;&gt;law system&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; and the wider &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lawyersweekly.com.au/tags/domestic+violence/default.aspx&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:#777777;text-decoration:none&#39;&gt;domestic violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; and child protection service. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; line-height:normal;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt; font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#333333&#39;&gt;One woman reported that the Family &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lawyersweekly.com.au/tags/court/default.aspx&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:#777777;text-decoration:none&#39;&gt;Court&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; had ordered the father of her children could see their children under the supervision of his parents, despite an Apprehended Violence Order [AVO] being taken out against him. That meant he was able to turn up to the house with his parents to collect his children as AVOs are lifted for &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lawyersweekly.com.au/tags/family+court/default.aspx&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:#777777;text-decoration:none&#39;&gt;Family Court&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; orders.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; line-height:normal;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt; font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#333333&#39;&gt;Another woman said that in the Family Court, it was stressed that the father has rights to see his children, despite her telling the Court that &amp;quot;he&#39;s knocked me to the ground with a baby in my arms... and he&#39;s been charged and found guilty of assault.&amp;quot;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; line-height:normal;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt; font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#333333&#39;&gt;The report backed the Family Law Council&#39;s recommendation that the definition of family violence in the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lawyersweekly.com.au/tags/legislation/default.aspx&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:#777777;text-decoration:none&#39;&gt;legislation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; be amended to include a broader range of threatening and controlling behaviours. It also recommends that all professionals and services which play a role in the family law system receive ongoing and comprehensive training in understanding and responding to domestic violence. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  </description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2010/07/lawyers-weekly-magazine-courts.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-1675365087697391315</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Jul 2010 03:44:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-07-07T20:44:26.957-07:00</atom:updated><title></title><description>&lt;div class=WordSection1&gt;  &lt;h1&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:14.0pt;color:black&#39;&gt;Shared babies at risk of anxiety &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;  &lt;h1&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;  &lt;h5&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt;color:black&#39;&gt;ADELE HORIN &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h5&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;cite&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt;color:black&#39;&gt;July 8, 2010&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/cite&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt;font-family:&quot;inherit&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;Children under four in shared care arrangements with separated parents are doing less well than other children on a range of developmental measures, new research shows.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;Infants under two who spend one night a week or more away from their primary carer show significantly more signs of irritability and separation anxiety, are more fretful, tearful and difficult to soothe than other babies, it also shows.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;And young children aged two to three are even more profoundly affected if they spend five nights or more a fortnight away from the primary carer - the legal definition of shared care. They have higher anxiety levels than other children, more eating disturbances and aggressive behaviour.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;They show less persistence in tasks, and more problematic behaviour such as crying or hanging on to the main carer.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;The research, commissioned by the federal Attorney-General, Robert McClelland, is part of a series that has cast doubt on aspects of the 2006 family law changes that put greater emphasis on shared parenting.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;The lead author, Jennifer McIntosh, an associate professor in psychology at La Trobe University, has called for shared care to no longer be the starting point for discussions about post-separation parenting arrangements for very young children.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;The negative impact on the emotional and behavioural functioning of this age group is significant,&#39;&#39; she said.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;The study is drawn from the Longitudinal Study of Australian Children sample with more than 10,000 children aged under four, but the numbers of pre-school children who spend some nights a fortnight away from the main carer numbered in the hundreds.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;It showed that regular overnight stays were associated with developmental risks.&amp;nbsp; However, children aged four to five showed no ill effects.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;Dr McIntosh said: &#39;&#39;We don&#39;t want to give the impression that overnight care is an absolute no-no for children under four. If an occasional overnight stay makes the primary carer a better parent it&#39;s probably a good thing.&#39;&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;But regular overnight care could interfere with infants&#39; attachment to the primary carer which was needed for development.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;&#39;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  </description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2010/07/shared-babies-at-risk-of-anxiety-adele.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-2011677265966366210</guid><pubDate>Fri, 25 Jun 2010 04:15:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-06-24T21:15:44.165-07:00</atom:updated><title></title><description>&lt;div class=WordSection1&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:24.0pt;color:black&#39;&gt;Law fails children exposed to harm &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt;color:black&#39;&gt;ADELE HORIN&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt;color:#1F497D&#39;&gt;, SYDNEY MORNING HERALD&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;June 24, 2010&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;THE Family Law Act is failing to protect children from ongoing trauma at the hands of abusive and violent fathers, a new study has found.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;The act&#39;s aims of protecting children from violence and giving them &#39;&#39;meaningful involvement&#39;&#39; with both parents was being resolved in favour of contact even in cases of severe domestic violence, the study reveals.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;Lesley Laing, senior lecturer in the faculty of education and social work at the University of Sydney, and author of the report, said more thought needed to be given to what formed a &#39;&#39;meaningful relationship&#39;&#39; when a parent had traumatised a child through exposure to domestic violence.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;At the present there is no requirement that a parent who has harmed a child in this way must demonstrate they can offer a safe and meaningful relationship,&#39;&#39; she said.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;The report is based on interviews with 22 women, contacted through domestic violence services, who were negotiating parenting arrangements in the family law system. It is the first study that has allowed women experiencing domestic violence to speak about the impact of the 2006 legal changes that put greater emphasis on shared parenting while still maintaining protection in cases of violence.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;While the sample is small, Dr Laing said the women were those whose children were supposed to be protected by the law.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;The women describe a situation where they are discouraged by legal advisers and others from raising issues of violence in the Family Court for fear of being labelled as an &#39;&#39;unfriendly&#39;&#39; or &#39;&#39;alienating&#39;&#39; parent unwilling to support contact with the father.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;Anything that you do to try and advocate for your children is somehow twisted into being high conflict and parental alienation,&#39;&#39; one woman said. &#39;&#39;So you are basically silenced. And the children are silenced.&#39;&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;Another said she had agreed to the children having sleepovers at their father&#39;s place because she felt she had no choice. Her lawyer had convinced her that if she objected the judge would give him even more contact.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;Dr Laing said some women felt guilty they had escaped violent men but their children had not. &#39;&#39;Forty years ago some women could only escape domestic violence by leaving the children behind, and they were pilloried,&#39;&#39; she said. &#39;&#39;Now there is a new form of child abandonment, at least part-time. It&#39;s a terrible thing we are asking women to do.&#39;&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;The report shows the women are battling a complex and unco-ordinated system that often saw state child protection services shunting matters to the Family Court but the court having no powers of investigation.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;As well, the women battled community attitudes that regarded them as liars who misused the system. Professionals stressed the importance of fathering, without regard to its quality, while mothering was taken for granted. And it was commonly assumed that at least some contact was inevitable, no matter what violence had occurred, and that supervised contact would eventually move to unsupervised contact.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;The study, &lt;i&gt;No Way to Live&lt;/i&gt;, will add pressure to the federal Attorney-General, Robert McClelland, to amend the Family Law Act. An earlier review he commissioned from the former Family Court judge, Richard Chisholm, recommended amendments to provide greater protection. A much larger study he also commissioned on violence and family law is due to be released soon.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;Dr Laing said the emphasis on children&#39;s contact with abusive fathers, even if supervised, showed an &#39;&#39;unsophisticated&#39;&#39; understanding of ongoing trauma. &#39;&#39;Spending time with the person who is the cause of the trauma will not fix things,&#39;&#39; she said. &#39;&#39;The men need to acknowledge and take responsibility for the harm and get help.&#39;&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  </description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2010/06/law-fails-children-exposed-to-harm.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-8478943477361600981</guid><pubDate>Mon, 19 Apr 2010 02:31:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-04-18T19:31:11.503-07:00</atom:updated><title></title><description>&lt;div class=Section1&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:24.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;&#39;&gt;W v W [2010] EWHC 332 (Fam)&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; color:#441670&#39;&gt;Application by father for return of three children to the Republic of Ireland under the Hague Convention. Application failed.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; text-align:justify&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;&#39;&gt;The mother was English and the father Irish and they married in October 2007 after cohabiting for several years. The children were 8, 6 and 3 years old. Until June 2009 the family lived in Ireland and it was common ground that they were habitually resident there. On June 19 the mother left for England with the children and it was accepted that they had been wrongfully removed. He followed them to England, living with his mother in law and finally moving back in with the mother and children. That reconciliation did not last with further accusations of drink problems and violence, so the father returned to Ireland and, upon finding out of his rights under the Convention, issued this application.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; text-align:justify&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;&#39;&gt;The mother sought to defend the application primarily on the grounds of acquiescence, that the children would suffer harm and that the eldest child objected. Black J, reviewing the evidence, rejected the first two grounds; the first as the mother had not established that the father had acquiesced and the second because such a defence provides a high hurdle to surmount and there were protective measures available to the mother and children in Ireland. On the third ground Black J considered the Lords&amp;#8217; judgment in Re D which indicated to her that she could take the children&#39;s views into account event though the eldest child was only eight years old. She also reviewed their evidence and the methodology of the CAFCASS officer who spoke to the children, who clearly felt they were not simply expressing a preference to remain in England but were fearful and anxious of any return. Accordingly she decides that she can exercise her discretion not to order the return of the older children and by association the youngest child as well, who had not been of an age to voice her views but who would be exposed to possible psychological harm if split from the sibling group.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;&#39;&gt;LINK TO FULL JUDGMENT CAN BE FOUND HERE: &amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.familylawweek.co.uk/site.aspx?i=ed54722&quot;&gt;http://www.familylawweek.co.uk/site.aspx?i=ed54722&lt;/a&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  </description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2010/04/w-v-w-2010-ewhc-332-fam-application-by.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-517586003451772136</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Apr 2010 05:52:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-04-14T22:52:32.624-07:00</atom:updated><title></title><description>&lt;div class=Section1&gt;  &lt;h2&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;Growing concerns over Family Court judgments &amp;#8211; ABC Radio National Breakfast&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;From erroneous allegations of sexual abuse to abusive parents being awarded access to their children, not a month goes by without another eyebrow-raising judgment from the Family Court. That includes the recent case of a Tasmanian father, described in court as a paedophile, being granted access to his young daughter provided the child&#39;s grandmother keep an eye on both of them.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;Child advocates are so concerned about some rulings they&#39;re now calling for the Federal Attorney General to change the laws. They want the Family Court to put the health and safety of the child over the rights to shared custody. Ali Benton reports on how the Family Court is struggling to deal with claim and counter claim, especially when one parent accuses the other of the most sinister of crimes, sexual abuse.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p align=center style=&#39;text-align:center&#39;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;Guest:&amp;nbsp; Alistair Nicolson &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;&lt;br&gt; former chief Justice of the family court&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;h3 align=center style=&#39;text-align:center&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;Reporter - Ali Benton&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.abc.net.au/rn/breakfast/stories/2010/2872100.htm&quot;&gt;http://www.abc.net.au/rn/breakfast/stories/2010/2872100.htm&lt;/a&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  </description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2010/04/growing-concerns-over-family-court.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-570290322717887420</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Apr 2010 00:02:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-04-07T17:02:17.284-07:00</atom:updated><title></title><description>&lt;div class=Section1&gt;  &lt;h1&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;Mum, son given Family Court permission to hide from killer husband &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;Caroline Overington, &lt;cite&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-family:&quot;Calibri&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;&#39;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.theaustralian.com.au/&quot;&gt;The Australian&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/cite&gt;&lt;span class=datestamp&gt;April 08, 2010&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class=timestamp&gt;12:00AM&lt;/span&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;THE Family Court has given a Victorian mother permission to go into hiding with her young son after she found out from a taxi company that her husband had shot dead his first partner. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;The court heard that the woman had opened a letter from the Victorian Taxi Directorate that said her husband&#39;s application for a taxi driver licence had been rejected on the grounds that he had spent 11 years in prison for murder.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;When the woman -- who was then pregnant -- raised the matter with her husband, he agreed he had killed his first girlfriend when she had tried to leave him.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;Judge Linda Dessau granted the woman sole custody of her son. The father had wanted a shared parenting arrangement.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;&amp;quot;The father, at the age of 21, pleaded guilty to the charge of murdering his former partner and served a total of 11 years in prison before being released on parole in 1999,&amp;quot; the judgment said.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;&amp;quot;On meeting the mother, he did not disclose his conviction to her.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;&amp;quot;She did not become aware of his conviction until she received a letter from the Victorian Taxi Directorate refusing to grant him a licence, and informing (her) of his background.&amp;quot;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;The court said the mother had been &amp;quot;greatly distressed&amp;quot; and fearful of losing the baby.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;Her husband&#39;s &amp;quot;violent, possessive, aggressive and moody behaviour . . . took on a new complexion.&amp;quot;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;Shortly after the child was born, an article describing the murder in detail appeared in a Melbourne newspaper. The mother &amp;quot;started to fear that she and the child were in danger&amp;quot;.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;She fled to her father&#39;s house but her husband &amp;quot;rang her repeatedly, demanding she return home . . . at one stage he said: `You know what I&#39;m capable of.&#39; &amp;quot;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;The father last month gave up his campaign to see his son but wanted the boy, who is now almost three, to keep his surname, and send him an annual photograph and school reports.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;Judge Dessau said: &amp;quot;The mother&#39;s wellbeing is so genuinely threatened . . . I will not order that school reports be handed over.&amp;quot; She said one photograph every two years would be enough.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;The court agreed to let the mother change the name so that the boy &amp;quot;will be raised without being able to be identified by the father&amp;quot;.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  </description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2010/04/mum-son-given-family-court-permission.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-4579522939653623675</guid><pubDate>Sat, 27 Mar 2010 18:12:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-03-27T11:13:00.761-07:00</atom:updated><title></title><description>&lt;div class=Section1&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;inherit&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;Cries of child abuse bounce back on mums &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;inherit&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;ALICIA WOOD &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;inherit&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;March 28, 2010&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;inherit&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; color:black&#39;&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;inherit&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;inherit&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;CHILD protection campaigners say women who accuse their former partners of sexually abusing their children are being unfairly labelled as mentally ill in the Family Court.&amp;nbsp; Child sex abuse researcher Freda Briggs and child protection advocate Charles Pragnell say recent cases show the emphasis on shared parenting responsibilities is putting children in danger.&amp;nbsp; Professor Briggs and Mr Pragnell are part of the Safer Family Law campaign and argue that amendments to the Family Law Act in 2006 were geared towards the rights of parents rather than those of children. Professor Briggs, from the University of South Australia, specialises in research into child sex abuse. Mr Pragnell is from the National Council for Children Post-Separation, which is part of the Safer Family Law campaign. He has been called as an expert witness in child sex abuse cases in Australia, Britain and New Zealand.&amp;nbsp; They cite a Sydney case of a child who was allegedly put at risk of danger by being forced to live with her father. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;inherit&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;inherit&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;An interim decision was made to order the six-year-old to live with her father, at whose house she was photographed in pornographic poses by one of his friends.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;inherit&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;A court counsellor alleged the girl&#39;s mother was manipulative and might suffer from a mental illness.&amp;nbsp; &amp;quot;The courts should focus on the needs and wants of the child, and the rights of a child to be protected from abuse,&amp;quot; Mr Pragnell said.&amp;nbsp; &amp;quot;Too often we see that a parent&#39;s right to contact is given at all costs.&amp;quot; &amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;Amendments to the Family Law Act in 2006 emphasised &amp;quot;co-operative&amp;quot; parenting and shared responsibilities.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;inherit&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;inherit&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;In January, Attorney-General Robert McClelland released three reviews into these amendments. A review by the Australian Institute of Family Studies accepts that some of the consequences of a focus on shared parenting responsibilities have been &amp;quot;less than favourable&amp;quot;. Child Abuse Prevention Service manager Karen Craigie said women and men contacted the service regularly after raising concerns of sexual abuse and being labelled mentally ill.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;inherit&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;inherit&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&amp;quot;We get lots of calls about this. It is common. Women involved are often subjected to domestic violence and are very traumatised,&amp;quot; Ms Craigie said.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;inherit&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&amp;quot;I have heard of cases where women are so afraid of losing their children and solicitors will advise them that raising concerns of sexual abuse will make them look like they are being obstructive.&amp;quot;&amp;nbsp; Angela Lynch, a solicitor for the Women&#39;s Legal Service in Queensland who has advised women in these situations, said the family court system was too &amp;quot;pro-father involvement&amp;quot;.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;inherit&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;inherit&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;&amp;quot;In a nice family, that is a great thing. When there are issues of abuse and domestic violence, it is a huge problem,&amp;quot; Ms Lynch said. &amp;quot;If you raise sexual abuse in court, you are seen as an unfriendly parent, which is the worst thing you can be in family court.&amp;quot;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;inherit&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;color:black&#39;&gt;The Federal Magistrates Court and the Family Court of Australia would not comment.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  </description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2010/03/cries-of-child-abuse-bounce-back-on.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-8397858770248475698</guid><pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 23:23:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-03-15T16:23:37.281-07:00</atom:updated><title></title><description>&lt;div class=Section1&gt;  &lt;h1&gt;Ex-magistrate dismayed by sex offender visit&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;  &lt;p class=author&gt;By Antonette Collins&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=caption&gt;The girls&#39; father pleaded guilty to accessing child exploitation material and possessing and reproducing child abuse products. (ABC News, file photo)&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=first&gt;A former Children&#39;s Court magistrate says she is dismayed by a decision to reunite two young girls with their father, a registered sex offender.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;A Family Court judge in Hobart has ruled that the girls must visit their father every second weekend provided another adult is present in the home overnight.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;The father involved in the case has been convicted of accessing child pornography and possessing child abuse products. He will remain on the sexual offenders register for at least another year. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;But the judge has declared that it is in the best interests of the girls, aged eight and 10, that they spend time with their father, who cannot be identified.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;He says there needs to be a lock on the girls&#39; bedroom door as the &amp;quot;father acts impulsively from time to time and that the children need some protection from him, especially at night&amp;quot;.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;Former magistrate Barbara Holborow is upset by the decision and says one of the girls said she did not want to visit her father.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;That view should be respected, no matter what the age of the child,&amp;quot; Ms Holborow said. &amp;quot;And unless you&#39;re doing that, you cannot say it is in the best interests of the child. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;She doesn&#39;t want to be there. That&#39;s in her best interests. Don&#39;t let her go. If she doesn&#39;t go, unless another adult is accompanying the other child, she shouldn&#39;t go either.&amp;quot;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;Ms Holborow says it is not enough for the judge to place conditions on the visit and think nothing untoward will happen.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;My goodness it&#39;s not as simple as that,&amp;quot; she said. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;As for the children staying over there? No. School holidays? No. Visits? Yes - a trip to the zoo or to some other entertainment, but never sleeping over at this stage of their lives.&amp;quot; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;Ms Holborow says she hopes the decision does not set a precedent and that legislation is not necessary to stop similar decisions in future.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;In my view this father has lost all of his claims to his daughters. This is too late now to say, &#39;I want to be a father and have access to my children&#39;. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;He should have thought of that before he committed these offences, which are terrible offences and certainly not conducive to raising children. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;We&#39;re treating him as though he&#39;s entitled to this, to visitations, but I don&#39;t believe he is. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;I think you just need common sense. You cannot get over the statement by that little girl. She doesn&#39;t want to be there.&amp;quot;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;John Abbott from the fathers&#39; rights group Blackshirts says the court has taken all precautions to protect the children.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;What we have here is a situation where there&#39;s no real allegation that the court has found against the father molesting his own children,&amp;quot; he said.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;And we have to keep in mind that alienating children from parents is a very serious matter.&amp;quot;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;&#39;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  </description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2010/03/ex-magistrate-dismayed-by-sex-offender.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-8174582244900552198</guid><pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 23:21:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-03-15T16:22:35.349-07:00</atom:updated><title></title><description>&lt;div class=Section1&gt;  &lt;h1&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;Girl put with dad despite porn fear &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;  &lt;ul type=disc&gt;  &lt;li class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto;      mso-list:l1 level1 lfo1&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;Caroline Overington &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;  &lt;li class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto;      mso-list:l1 level1 lfo1&#39;&gt;&lt;span class=datestamp&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;March 16,      2010&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt; &lt;span class=timestamp&gt;12:00AM&lt;/span&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt; &lt;/ul&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU style=&#39;font-family:&quot;Calibri&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU style=&#39;font-family:&quot;Calibri&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;&#39;&gt;THE Family Court has ordered a six-year-old girl to live with her father, despite evidence she was forced to pose for pornographic photographs while staying with him on a contact visit. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;The girl was abused, not by her father, but by the father&#39;s girlfriend&#39;s brother.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;The court heard the brother, known only as Mr V, was born with hydrocephalus, meaning he has a larger-than-normal head and a damaged frontal lobe. He carries a camera everywhere, and takes photographs of everything.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;It is not clear when, or how often, he had access to the six-year-old girl, but the court heard he was able to take at least three photographs of her.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;In one photograph, the girl &amp;quot;appears to be kneeling on the floor, turning her head around to face the camera. Her underwear is pulled down to just below her bottom&amp;quot;.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;In the second photograph, the girl is &amp;quot;again kneeling down, her bottom facing toward the camera, her bottom exposed&amp;quot;.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;In the third, she is &amp;quot;standing up to face the camera. . .pulling down her underwear with her right index finger and her thumb, exposing her genitalia&amp;quot;.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;Mr V was arrested and charged with child pornography offences after handing in the film to be developed.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;Federal magistrate Robyn Sexton, who presided over the case, which is known as Askis and Morikis, in Sydney, ruled that the girl was not at risk if she lived with the father.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;But she acknowledged that &amp;quot;critical questions need urgent answers&amp;quot; including: &amp;quot;How did the girl come to be photographed in pornographic poses while in the father&#39;s care, and how did it come about that (the girl) was placed in this situation without the knowledge of the father or his fiancee?&amp;quot;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;Ms Sexton then ordered the girl to live with her father, pending a full hearing in July, provided Mr V was banned from contact with the girl.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;The girl has never lived with her father -- her parents separated before she was born -- but the magistrate accepted evidence from a court counsellor, who said the mother had been manipulating the girl by telling her to &amp;quot;cry when she sees her father&amp;quot;.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;The counsellor thought the mother might suffer from a mental illness, although she agreed she did not have the expertise to diagnose it.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;The case comes just a day after a Family Court judge in Hobart ordered two girls, aged eight and 10, to spend weekends with their father, a registered sex offender, provided he put a door on their bedroom and agreed to have an &amp;quot;adult friend&amp;quot; stay overnight with him when the girls were there.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;In that case, Justice Robert Benjamin said the girls needed protection from their father overnight, but thought they could handle him unsupervised while awake, clothed and together.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;Charles Pragnell, of the Council for Children Post-Separation, said the decision involving the six-year-old was &amp;quot;a classic example of how the Family Courts are ordering children into potentially abusive situations&amp;quot;.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;&amp;quot;Clearly the judge and the experts advising him know nothing about the behaviours of pedophiles,&amp;quot; Mr Pragnell said.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;&#39;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  </description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2010/03/girl-put-with-dad-despite-porn-fear.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-8429220118087229839</guid><pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 23:20:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-03-15T16:20:39.059-07:00</atom:updated><title></title><description>&lt;div class=Section1&gt;  &lt;h1&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;Girls ordered to visit sex offender dad &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;  &lt;ul type=disc&gt;  &lt;li class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto;      mso-list:l1 level1 lfo1&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;Caroline Overington &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;  &lt;li class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto;      mso-list:l1 level1 lfo1&#39;&gt;&lt;span class=datestamp&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;March 15,      2010&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt; &lt;span class=timestamp&gt;12:00AM&lt;/span&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt; &lt;/ul&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;THE Family Court has ordered two young girls to spend alternate weekends with their father, a registered child sex offender, provided he puts a door on their bedroom that they can lock. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;Judge Robert Benjamin, in the court&#39;s Hobart branch, ruled that the girls &amp;quot;need some protection from (their father), particularly at night&amp;quot;, but said the risk of sexual abuse was &amp;quot;diminished when they are awake and alert, and when the children are together&amp;quot;.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;He said the father must have an &amp;quot;adult friend&amp;quot; stay with him when the girls stay overnight and, until the youngest daughter is 14, the girls must &amp;quot;share the same room so they can have the mutual support of one another&amp;quot;.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;A Family Court counsellor said the girls, 10 and eight, &amp;quot;are at an age and maturity when awake, dressed and together it would be unlikely the father would act inappropriately toward them&amp;quot;.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;&amp;quot;However, at night, when they were asleep or partly asleep and not aware of each other&#39;s whereabouts, they would be less secure.&amp;quot;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;The case has outraged women&#39;s groups, who say it puts the girls at risk to satisfy the father&#39;s desire to see them. The oldest girl, who has just turned 10, sobbed to counsellors that she was afraid to stay overnight with her father.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;The father was convicted in 2007 of three child pornography offences, including filming images of child pornography on his computer. He also created links and shortcuts to child porn sites.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;In sentencing the man for the offences, a judge in Tasmania said he was &amp;quot;far from convinced&amp;quot; he posed no risk to children and put his name on the Sexual Offenders Register for five years.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;His wife left him, and has since been fighting to restrict his access to their two daughters.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;In a decision known as Robins and Ruddock, the Family Court found the father had invited one of the girls into his bed, and had &amp;quot;demonstrated affection toward her in a way that was, in all the circumstances, inappropriate for a child of that age&amp;quot;.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;The eldest girl told counsellors she &amp;quot;did not want to spend time alone with her father&amp;quot; and kept repeating: `Please don&#39;t tell dad.&amp;quot;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  </description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2010/03/girls-ordered-to-visit-sex-offender-dad.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-3960683225516099315</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2010 19:26:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-01-28T11:26:41.720-08:00</atom:updated><title></title><description>&lt;div class=Section1&gt;  &lt;h1&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;Separated fathers face access changes after Chisholm report &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;Caroline Overington, &amp;nbsp;&lt;cite&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-family:&quot;Calibri&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;&#39;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.theaustralian.com.au/&quot;&gt;The Australian&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/cite&gt;&lt;cite&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-family:&quot;Calibri&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;font-style:normal&#39;&gt;Ja&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/cite&gt;&lt;span class=datestamp&gt;nuary 28, 2010&lt;/span&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;SEPARATED fathers are not entitled to a 50-50 time split with their children, and legislation introduced by the Howard government in 2006 should be amended to make that clear. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;A 300-report by retired family court judge Richard Chisholm recommends five changes to the so-called &amp;#8220;shared parenting&amp;#8221; law, which he described as a &amp;#8220;tangle&amp;#8221; that had taken the focus off &amp;#8220;what is best for the children&amp;#8221;.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;The hotly anticipated Chisholm report, which was ordered by Attorney-General Robert McClelland after the shocking death of Melbourne girl Darcey Freeman, who was thrown to her death from the West Gate Bridge last year, says the shared parenting law has made it difficult for women to raise allegations of violence in the Family Court system.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;A separate, 1000-page report by the Australian Institute of Family Studies, also released this afternoon, says the majority of lawyers now believe that the 2006 reforms favour fathers over mothers, and parents over children.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;The two reports into shared parenting - plus a third report, by the Family Law Council - were released simultaneously by Mr McClelland this afternoon.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;Mr McClelland said the government would review all reports before making changes but agreed that a false idea had taken hold in the community that fathers were entitled to a 50-50 time split.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;&amp;#8220;How we address that is what we&#39;ve now got to decide,&amp;#8221; he said.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;The release of the reports comes three years after the Howard government introduced the idea that the care of children should be shared between parents, after divorce.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;The shared parenting law was described at the time as the most significant change to family law in Australia since the Family Law Act (1975) was introduced by the Whitlam government.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;The law requires the Family Court to presume that a child&#39;s best interests are served by having a relationship with both parents after divorce. It also asks the court to consider equal time for parents.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;Fathers hailed the move, saying they had too long been cut out of their children&#39;s lives, because courts had been biased against them. Figures suggested that one in four children had no contact at all with their father, after divorce.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;The laws have come in for fierce criticism from women&#39;s groups, and academics, who argue that it may not be in the best interests of children.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;The law punishes women who raise allegations of violence that they cannot prove in court, by lumping them with the entire cost of proceedings. All three reports found that women had become reluctant to raise allegations &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;&#39;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  </description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2010/01/separated-fathers-face-access-changes.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-1678497251169283697</guid><pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 22:03:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-12-07T14:03:09.628-08:00</atom:updated><title></title><description>&lt;div class=Section1&gt;  &lt;div style=&#39;mso-element:para-border-div;border:none;border-bottom:solid #AEDEE4 1.0pt; padding:0cm 0cm 7.0pt 0cm;background:white&#39;&gt;  &lt;h1 style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:3.0pt; margin-left:0cm;line-height:16.0pt;background:white;border:none;padding:0cm&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN&gt;Shared care an unintended consequence&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:8.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#415BA9; display:none&#39;&gt;Submitted by Paul on Wed, 04/11/2009 - 4:30pm &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.australianfamily.com.au/print/articles/shared_care_consequence&quot; title=&quot;&amp;quot;Display a printer-friendly version of this page.&amp;quot; &quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#2763A5; text-decoration:none&#39;&gt;&lt;img border=0 width=15 height=15 id=&quot;Picture_x0020_1&quot; src=&quot;cid:image001.gif@01CA77E5.40D075A0&quot; alt=&quot;Printer-friendly version&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;h6 style=&#39;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;&#39;&gt;The law of unintended consequences, often cited but rarely defined, is that actions of people&amp;#8212;and especially of government&amp;#8212;always have effects that are unanticipated or unintended -&amp;nbsp;The Concise Encyclopedia of Economics.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span lang=EN&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h6&gt;  &lt;h6 style=&#39;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN&gt;When couples walk down the aisle or share their first pregnancy test results, few think about the consequences of a once loving relationship ending. Even fewer can image the nightmare a Family Court custody battle can become under the 2006 shared parenting amendments to the Family Law Act.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h6&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;Parents who are not in conflict tend to settle custody arrangements amicably. Preliminary research is showing that for these couples 50/50 shared care works well. The 2006 amendments were designed to give fathers more access to their children and vice versa and to include shared parental &amp;#8216;responsibility&amp;#8217; as an integral part of shared care.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;However, cases which end up in the Family Court, where the fate of the children is decided under the new laws, are those in which the main feature is entrenched conflict and often family violence. Studies are show that these are the situations where shared care works least well.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;Family Court Judge Justice Tim Carmody, who resigned a year after the 2006 amendments were introduced, says that shared care should not be a starting point, but an end point of family law.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;&amp;#8216;Where the parents are co-operating and friendly, some form of shared care can work. But in cases of entrenched conflict, which represent the bulk of matters litigated in the Family Court, it puts the child right in the middle of the conflict. It&amp;#8217;s like social engineering, a way of society forcing the parents to, in a sense, stay married and decide the most fundamental things they were not able to agree upon when they were together.&amp;#8217;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;Former Chief Justice of the Family Court, Alastair Nicholson, said in a Lionel Murphy speech that the effect of the shared parental responsibility approach &amp;#8216;was and is not child oriented, but perpetuates the notion of a child as a chattel, whose time is to be equally divided between the parents, for the benefit of the latter, but not necessarily for the child.&amp;#8217;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;In May, following a national protest by the Safer Family Law Campaign about the new laws, the Chief Justice of the Family Court of Australia (FCA) said parents were being discouraged from raising violence and abuse issues. Under the shared parenting laws, in interim hearings, when domestic violence perpetrators are most volatile, there is no provision to investigate claims of abuse. If they cannot be proven, under the existing laws, the accusing parent risks losing custody of their child to the alleged perpetrator and paying both sides legal costs.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;Carolyn Johnson, academic author of a book Come With Daddy, interviews with victims of familicide, says unless there is indisputable evidence of abuse, many lawyers advise their clients not to raise abuse issues because of a very real risk that the parent raising the issue will lose custody.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;If a parent raises any objections about the other parent, they are labeled by the Court as a &amp;#8216;hostile parent&amp;#8217; or &amp;#8216;no contact&amp;#8217; or &amp;#8216;alienating parent&amp;#8217; and seen by the Court as a danger to their child. They could end up with only one or two hours supervised contact a week or fortnight of supervised access with their child.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;The number of parents who litigate in the Family Court has dropped dramatically since the 2006 changes. Johnson&amp;#8217;s view is that this reflects the number of parents bullied or threatened into &amp;#8216;agreeing&amp;#8217; to some percentage of shared care because they feared losing custody.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;For couples who do end up in Court, the presumption is that contact with both parents is enforced, sometimes with dire consequences. Dionne Fehring was one of three parents of murdered children who spoke at national protest rallies held on May 3. She told how a Family Court judge had ignored reports of extreme violence by her former partner, which resulted in the deaths of her two infant children at his hands. The judge ignored her family&amp;#8217;s pleas not to give the father unsupervised access to the children. Five weeks later the children were killed in a murder suicide by their father.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;One of the Family Law Act reviews will look at how State and Federal laws fail to work together to protect children. Often a State Magistrates Court will issue a violence restraining order, but the Federal Family Court will override it and order contact. The police had taken out a restraining order to protect Dionne and her children which was overruled by the FCA when it awarded interim custody to the father. And this was two years before the strengthened amendments.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;According to its own website, the Family Court states that: &amp;#8216;In a third of litigated cases, the Family Court ordered that children spend 30% or less time with their father.&amp;#8217;&amp;nbsp; In 29 percent of those cases, the main reason given was &amp;#8216;abuse and family violence&amp;#8217;. In 9 percent of litigated cases, mothers were awarded less than 30 percent care and in 16 percent of those cases, the main reason was abuse and family violence. In other words, even parents the Court itself deems violent are being awarded some access to their children.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;Given that the Family Court hears only a fifth of Family Law cases, with the Federal Magistrates Court hearing four fifths, the number of litigated cases since 2006 can be estimated at approximately 11,000 or so.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;If supervised access is ordered, and if children protest and cry about being forced to see a parent they have witnessed being violent, the protective parent is often blamed. There seems little understanding of the psychological impact on a child of having witnessed violence, says child expert Emeritus Prof Freda Briggs.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;From one grandmother: &amp;#8216;My grandchildren told the court psychologist how they had to watch their father bash their mother, spit on her, drag her around by the hair and kick her with steel-toed boots - and then the Court said go sit at the contact office and have a meaningful access visit.&amp;#8217;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;Professor Briggs says it is more psychologically damaging for children who have witnessed abuse than if they were themselves abused.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;&amp;#8216;They tend to blame themselves for not being able to protect the other parent. Forcing children to see a violent parent further abuses them in many cases,&amp;#8217; she said.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;For parents who believe they have a good relationship with their ex, and that, despite the marriage breakdown, they have faith in the other&amp;#8217;s ability to parent well, if the child, for any reason, protests about access visits, Court can impose severe penalties on the custodial parent.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;Earlier this year, the FCA said one Tasmanian woman was an exemplary parent who promoted a healthy relationship with the father, but lost custody of her two children because the daughter cried and protested when she had to go on access visits in Melbourne.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;The problem is not only one for mothers. Fathers too are blamed when a child is unhappy about access visits. &amp;#8216;When my five-year-old objects to seeing her mother in the supervised access centre,&amp;#8217; said one father &amp;#8216;I&amp;#8217;m made to feel by the staff that it&amp;#8217;s my fault.&amp;#8217; Instead of the Court listening to the child, or investigating reasons why they may feel insecure or unhappy, one parent is often seen as responsible.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;Shared parental responsibility laws began in Australia in 1995 and were strengthened in 2006. The first review of the 2006 amendments, by the Australian Institute of Family Studies, is due in December 2009. Any changes would not be expected until at least July 2010.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;h2 style=&#39;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN&gt;What about the kids?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;In one study involving over 300 children, 27% were in shared care arrangements. In these cases, the fathers reported consistently higher frequencies of minor conflict, serious verbal conflict and major conflict with their former wives throughout that year; and the mothers were more likely than mothers in other sorts of arrangements to feel that their former partner did not believe they were good parents.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;In the second study, in 73% of the shared care cases resolved at court, at least one parent reported &amp;#8216;almost never&amp;#8217; co-operating with the other. And in 39% of shared care cases, a parent reported &amp;#8216;never&amp;#8217; being able to protect their children from their conflict.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;Such findings are concerning, because they suggest that a significant proportion of these children emerged from Family Court proceedings with substantially shared care arrangements that occurred in an atmosphere that placed psychological strain on the child.&amp;nbsp; The research suggests that children are particularly at risk when certain factors are present, such as:&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0cm;text-indent:-18.0pt;line-height:12.0pt;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1; background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;![if !supportLists]&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt; font-family:Symbol;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;mso-list:Ignore&#39;&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style=&#39;font:7.0pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;&#39;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;![endif]&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;parents having low levels of maturity and insight&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0cm;text-indent:-18.0pt;line-height:12.0pt;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1; background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;![if !supportLists]&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt; font-family:Symbol;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;mso-list:Ignore&#39;&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style=&#39;font:7.0pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;&#39;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;![endif]&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;poor emotional availability of parents to the child&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0cm;text-indent:-18.0pt;line-height:12.0pt;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1; background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;![if !supportLists]&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt; font-family:Symbol;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;mso-list:Ignore&#39;&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style=&#39;font:7.0pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;&#39;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;![endif]&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;ongoing, high levels of inter-parental conflict&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0cm;text-indent:-18.0pt;line-height:12.0pt;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1; background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;![if !supportLists]&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt; font-family:Symbol;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;mso-list:Ignore&#39;&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style=&#39;font:7.0pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;&#39;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;![endif]&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;ongoing significant psychological acrimony between parents&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0cm;text-indent:-18.0pt;line-height:12.0pt;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1; background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;![if !supportLists]&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt; font-family:Symbol;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;mso-list:Ignore&#39;&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style=&#39;font:7.0pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;&#39;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;![endif]&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:9.0pt;font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;one or both parents seeing the child as being at risk when in the care of the other.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;Source: Cautionary notes on the shared care of children in conflicted parental separations by Professor Richard Chisholm and Dr Jennifer McIntosh, published Australian Institute of Family Studies, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.aifs.gov.au/afrc/pubs/newsletter/newsletter8.html&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Family Relationships Quarterly Newsletter, issue 8.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt; &amp;nbsp;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;h2 style=&#39;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN&gt;Ping pong kids&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;For some, the changes can&amp;#8217;t come soon enough.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;A Sydney mother showed her solicitor a photograph of a hand-print welt on her three-year-old daughter&amp;#8217;s back, only to be told it would be unwise to produce the picture in Court. When she asked why, she was told she risked losing custody, a risk she was not prepared to take. She has agreed to share custody with her ex who has three days a week.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;One Adelaide mother of an eight-month-old baby (already travelling three hours a day several times a week to visit her father) was told by the Court to stop breast feeding within three months so the baby could start overnight contact visits.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;Relocation issues are also problematic under the amendments.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;Another child whose parents met and lived in Sydney, but had spent eight months in a remote Queensland town where the father had moved for work, was ordered to have 50/50 shared care with both parents. The order forced the mother to remain living in a caravan park (there was no other housing available), isolated from the family and support network where she had grown up. The Court heard that the mother was depressed and financially destitute since there was no work in the town.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;To view changes being called for see the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.nccps.org.au&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;National&amp;nbsp;Council for Children Post Separation&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.saferfamilylaw.org.au&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;The Safer Family Law Campaign&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;h3 style=&#39;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN&gt;By Barbara Biggs&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&#39;line-height:12.0pt;background:white&#39;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size: 9.0pt;font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;color:#745E54&#39;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  </description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2009/12/shared-care-unintended-consequence.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-209374323856138877</guid><pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 20:11:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-10-17T13:15:04.343-07:00</atom:updated><title></title><description>&lt;div class=Section1&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size=4 color=black face=inherit&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:14.0pt;font-family:inherit; color:black;font-weight:bold&#39;&gt;Safety most important, say separated parents&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=inherit&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:inherit; color:black;font-weight:bold&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;st1:place w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;st1:City  w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=inherit&gt;&lt;span lang=EN   style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:inherit;color:black;font-weight:bold&#39;&gt;SELMA&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/st1:City&gt;&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font color=black face=inherit&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-family:inherit;color:black; font-weight:bold&#39;&gt; MILOVANOVIC &amp;#8211; THE AGE&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=inherit&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:inherit; color:black;font-style:italic&#39;&gt;October 17, 2009&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;font color=black face=inherit&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-family:inherit;color:black&#39;&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=inherit&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:inherit; color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=inherit&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:inherit; color:black&#39;&gt;Parents wanting to protect their children from unwanted contact with violent ex-spouses have told the Federal Government they are happy to go without child support payments.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=inherit&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:inherit; color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=inherit&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:inherit; color:black&#39;&gt;In a submission to the Family Court Violence Review, 4000 parents represented by the National Council for Children Post-Separation say such payments should not be governed by both parents&#39; access to children.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=inherit&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:inherit; color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=inherit&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:inherit; color:black&#39;&gt;Currently, parents who want to spare their children from unwanted contact visits with a violent or controlling ex-spouse lose some of their Centrelink payments under Child Support Agency rules.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=inherit&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:inherit; color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=inherit&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:inherit; color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;The trauma involved in access visits, for both the child and the exiting spouse, simply so one parent can avoid CSA payments is an unfair and unnecessary burden on the child,&#39;&#39; council convener Barbara Biggs said.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=inherit&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:inherit; color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=inherit&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:inherit; color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;Protective parents, often victims of domestic violence, are telling us they don&#39;t want the money at the expense of putting their child in danger of abuse.&#39;&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=inherit&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:inherit; color:black&#39;&gt;Ms Biggs said concerned parents had told the council that violent ex-spouses were demanding equal time with their children to avoid having to make child support payments.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=inherit&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:inherit; color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=inherit&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:inherit; color:black&#39;&gt;&#39;&#39;Decoupling child support from time-spent principles would ensure that parents fighting for more time with their children do so for non-financial reasons,&#39;&#39; the council&#39;s submission said.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=inherit&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:inherit; color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=inherit&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:inherit; 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Her father, Arthur Phillip Freeman, 36, of Hawthorn, has pleaded not guilty to murder.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;vertical-align:baseline&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=inherit&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;font-family:inherit; color:black&#39;&gt;Meantime, the Australian Law Reform Commission is developing a national legal framework to tackle family violence and the &lt;st1:place w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;st1:PlaceType  w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;Institute&lt;/st1:PlaceType&gt; of &lt;st1:PlaceName w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;Family Studies&lt;/st1:PlaceName&gt;&lt;/st1:place&gt; is reviewing shared parenting laws.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  </description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2009/10/safety-most-important-say-separated.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-226867295475876867</guid><pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 21:55:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-09-21T14:58:38.137-07:00</atom:updated><title></title><description>&lt;div class=Section1&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;font size=2 face=Arial&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt; font-family:Arial&#39;&gt;Daily Telegraph 21&lt;sup&gt;st&lt;/sup&gt; September 2009&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;font size=2 face=Arial&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt; font-family:Arial&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;h1&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size=6 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU style=&#39;font-size: 24.0pt&#39;&gt;Paedophiles behind a face of respectability &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;  &lt;!-- // .story-headline --&gt;  &lt;ul type=disc done114=0 done762=0 done835=94 done1048=0 done1075=0 done1735=0  done1822=0&gt;  &lt;li class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto;      mso-list:l1 level1 lfo1&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span      lang=EN-AU style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;By Tracey Spicer &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/li&gt; &lt;/ul&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;A PAEDOPHILE lives at 10B &lt;st1:Street w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;st1:address  w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;McNeagle St, East&lt;/st1:address&gt;&lt;/st1:Street&gt; Ryde*. He doesn&#39;t have a facial tic or a stutter. He doesn&#39;t look like the sex offender from central casting. And his name is not Dennis Ferguson. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;!-- // .story-intro --&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;He is one of tens of thousands of paedophiles, living in the suburbs, who don&#39;t walk around with big signs on their foreheads.&amp;nbsp; In about 90 per cent of child sex abuse cases, the perpetrator is a family member or friend, not some rock spider who abducts kids in the street. &amp;quot;Offenders look like everybody else,&amp;quot; Carol Ronken from Bravehearts, a support group for child sex victims, said.&amp;nbsp; &amp;quot;We need to be vigilant within our own four walls.&amp;quot;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;Six year old Naomi*, who drew the picture at the bottom of this page, is among the one-in-five Australian children who have been molested.&amp;nbsp; There&#39;s no way of sugar-coating this.&amp;nbsp; The drawing shows Naomi in bed, watched by her father and a man she calls &amp;quot;grandpa&amp;quot; who rapes her in a way too gruesome to describe. &amp;nbsp;Five years ago Naomi&#39;s mother Debbie* found child pornography on the home computer. She called the police, who convicted her husband. He was later charged with sexually abusing his young niece. It was then that Debbie found semen on her 18-month-old daughter&#39;s clothing. The family fled to &lt;st1:City w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;Adelaide&lt;/st1:City&gt; but, under the controversial shared parenting laws, Debbie was forced to return to &lt;st1:City w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;st1:place w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;Sydney&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:City&gt; where her ex-husband had access to Naomi, supervised by his new wife. When Naomi turned three, she began complaining of a sore vagina. She behaved in sexually explicit ways that no three-year-old should know and told her mum: &amp;quot;Daddy did this.&amp;quot; Doctors discovered her hymen had been broken. Despite all this, Debbie is still forced to give the father access to Naomi every second weekend, from 9am on Saturday to 6pm on Sunday. God only knows what happens between those hours.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;According to the National Council for Children Post-Separation, there&#39;s a hidden epidemic of child sexual abuse in the home. If mums raise concerns which can&#39;t be proven in court, they risk having more time awarded to an alleged perpetrator - or losing custody of kids.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;Family Court Chief Justice Diana Bryant wrote to Attorney-General Robert McClelland demanding urgent changes to protect at-risk children. During protests about Dennis Ferguson last week, a neighbour said it was &amp;quot;unacceptable how a person of his calibre was placed in there&amp;quot;, as the Government scrambled to find alternative housing. While I applaud these residents for protecting their children, where were the concerned neighbours - and authorities - when little Naomi was being sexually abused?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;And where were they when a man in &lt;st1:State w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;Victoria&lt;/st1:State&gt;&#39;s &lt;st1:place w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;st1:PlaceName w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;Latrobe&lt;/st1:PlaceName&gt; &lt;st1:PlaceType  w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;Valley&lt;/st1:PlaceType&gt;&lt;/st1:place&gt; was allegedly raping his daughter for 30 years, producing four children? It seems we&#39;re ready with the pitchforks when an obvious predator is in our midst - but we turn a blind eye when the offender looks like Joe Average. There&#39;s an old saying that you never know what goes on behind closed doors. But we&#39;ve all had our suspicions. It&#39;s just easier to look the other way. Neighbours of the man dubbed &amp;quot;&lt;st1:country-region w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;st1:place w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;Australia&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:country-region&gt;&#39;s Josef Fritzl&amp;quot; said &amp;quot;a lot of people knew about this&amp;quot; and &amp;quot;something should have been done sooner&amp;quot;. Having lived in the &lt;st1:place w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;st1:PlaceName w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;Latrobe&lt;/st1:PlaceName&gt; &lt;st1:PlaceType  w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;Valley&lt;/st1:PlaceType&gt;&lt;/st1:place&gt; for two years, I wouldn&#39;t be surprised if there are dozens more Aussie Fritzls. In the hills around Morwell and Moe unemployment is high, families are broken and incest is rife. The daughter reportedly took out a restraining order against her father two years ago but authorities were deaf, dumb and blind. It&#39;s the same story in &lt;st1:City w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;st1:place w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;Sydney&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:City&gt; where Naomi remains at risk during each access visit despite numerous interviews with police, doctors and the Department of Child Safety. Why is it that government departments do nothing then try to clean up the mess when the damage is done? &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;There are three reviews under way into shared parenting laws, with calls for interim measures now before any more children are hurt. In the meantime, we all have a role in keeping our eyes and ears open - and being brave enough to stand up and report something if it doesn&#39;t seem right. That caricature of a child molester, Dennis Ferguson, will be moved on to another community, which will no doubt try to evict him.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;But how many others are living in the same suburb? The same street? Or the house next door?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU style=&#39;font-size: 12.0pt;font-style:italic&#39;&gt;* Names and addresses have been changed to protect the victim&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size: 12.0pt&#39;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size: 12.0pt&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  </description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2009/09/daily-telegraph-21-st-september-2009.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-1566083201596385764</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 01:49:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-08-31T18:51:15.369-07:00</atom:updated><title>Murder Suicide as Man and Children Die in Car Crash</title><description>&lt;div class=Section1&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;Debbie Guest | &lt;em&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;font face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;September 01, 2009&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/em&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;!-- // .module-subheader --&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;Article from:&amp;nbsp; &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.theaustralian.news.com.au/&quot;&gt;The Australian&lt;/a&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=intro&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;WEST Australian police are investigating a possible murder-suicide after a &lt;st1:City w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;st1:place w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;Perth&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:City&gt; man and his two children were incinerated in a car crash.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span lang=EN&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;The 45-year-old man&#39;s six-year-old daughter and five-year-old son were believed to have been on a custody visit when their father&#39;s station wagon crashed into a tree near a straight stretch of highway in Perth&#39;s southeast late on Sunday. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;The car caught fire, incinerating its occupants. Police know who the family is but have not released their names. DNA and dental records will be used to identify them. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;The man was estranged from his wife and was receiving counselling from the WA police chaplain. &amp;quot;The family are devastated. I can&#39;t even begin to imagine how the family would feel,&amp;quot; Inspector Bill Munnee said. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;There are believed to be several suspicious circumstances surrounding the crash, including a lack of skid marks on the highway. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;Inspector Munnee said yesterday two parallel investigations were under way, with the major crash and major crime divisions examining the deaths. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;&amp;quot;Major crash will look at all the causes of the crash, and major crime will look at all of the circumstances leading up to the crash,&amp;quot; he said. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;&amp;quot;This is a tragic incident for the family, the community and emergency services. The crash scene was devastating and horrendous. The police chaplain is assisting the family to put together the pieces so we can determine what happened.&amp;quot; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;Inspector Munnee said it was not known whether extra fuel or other flammable liquids were in the car at the time of the crash. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;Police were yet to establish whether there were other children in the family, from &lt;st1:City w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;st1:place w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;Perth&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:City&gt;&#39;s southern suburbs. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;&amp;quot;It&#39;s less than 24 hours after the incident, it&#39;s too early to tell,&amp;quot; he said. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;&amp;quot;We need to investigate this thoroughly and properly, and it will take some time.&amp;quot; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;He appealed for witnesses to the crash to come forward with any information. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;The tragedy comes just two months after an alleged murder-suicide bid by &lt;st1:City w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;st1:place w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;Perth&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:City&gt; mother Rita Ariyaratnam. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;In July, Ms Ariyaratnam&#39;s seven-month-old twins were found dead in their &lt;st1:City w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;st1:place w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;Perth&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:City&gt; eastern suburbs home by their father. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;Ms Ariyaratnam was lying unconscious nearby after an apparent overdose of anti-depressants. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;She has been charged with murder and is in a psychiatric hospital awaiting her next court appearance.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;!-- // #article .module-content --&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;font size=2 face=Arial&gt;&lt;span lang=EN style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt; font-family:Arial&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;!-- // #article .module .article --&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  </description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2009/08/murder-suicide-as-man-and-children-die.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-733689895293837863</guid><pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2009 04:14:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-08-28T21:16:40.308-07:00</atom:updated><title>The Age 29th August 09</title><description>&lt;div class=Section1&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size=6 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:24.0pt; color:black;font-weight:bold&#39;&gt;A caring and sharing problem&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black&#39;&gt;Date: August 29 2009&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;br&gt; &lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-weight:bold&#39;&gt;Carol Nader&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black&#39;&gt;IT READS like a script for any relationship destroyed by violence. Their time together was volatile. He was controlling and manipulative. She felt powerless to do anything whenever he exploded into an alcohol-fuelled rage. And when she finally found the strength to walk away, he breached a series of intervention orders, heightening her anxiety.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black&#39;&gt;In her affidavit, the woman cites a litany of incidents, sometimes witnessed by their young children. She claims that he threw her down the stairs. That he punched her when she was pregnant. That he verbally abused her. Her former partner, in his own affidavit, does not deny that he had been violent. But he says he has never directed any aggression towards the children. He says he has tried to make improvements to his life. And all he wants now is to spend time with his kids. Their mother is terrified by the prospect of the children being with their father without the safety of supervision. So she fights it.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black&#39;&gt;It is a story that can be adapted to apply to almost any family in the throes of severe conflict. In years past these battles would have gone from the family home directly to the courtroom. But since 2007, the law has required separating couples who can&#39;t agree to their own parenting arrangements to at least try mediation first. For some, the conflict is so entrenched that this proves impossible. Such as this couple, for instance, who were given a certificate declaring that they were not suitable for mediation, effectively giving them the green light to continue their argument in the Family Court.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black&#39;&gt;For the vast majority of couples, it never gets to this. Most people who separate can work out their own arrangements congenially - or at least civilly. In the past, cases that ended up in court tended to grant primary care to mothers, and fathers would usually get alternate weekends. But the law now requires the court to consider shared parental responsibility, if it is appropriate. This may include some kind of shared care arrangement.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black&#39;&gt;This law and the mandatory mediation requirement were introduced by former prime minister John Howard, who spoke of a generation of children being raised &#39;&#39;fatherless&#39;&#39;. The changes, along with other parts of the family law system, are now under review. The Australian Institute of Family Studies is near the end of an evaluation of the Howard amendments. Attorney-General Robert McClelland recently announced two more reviews. One, being led by former Family Court judge Professor Richard Chisholm, will look at the way the court responds to allegations of family violence. And the Australian Law Reform Commission is developing a national legal framework to tackle family violence that will include how state family violence and child protection laws interact with federal family laws.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black&#39;&gt;These issues are complex and emotive and never black and white. The Howard changes came after groups representing fathers fiercely lobbied his government for a better deal. At the same time, societal expectations had changed, spawned by a strong belief that fathers should be encouraged to play a significant role in their children&#39;s lives. Occasionally, tug-of-war stories emerge that have a tragic ending. When McClelland announced the reviews, he singled out the horrific case of the father accused of throwing his daughter over the &lt;st1:place w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;st1:PlaceName w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;West&lt;/st1:PlaceName&gt; &lt;st1:PlaceName  w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;Gate&lt;/st1:PlaceName&gt; &lt;st1:PlaceType w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;Bridge&lt;/st1:PlaceType&gt;&lt;/st1:place&gt; in January.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black&#39;&gt;There is near universal agreement, at least, that it is best for people, where possible, to stay out of the adversarial court system. And the early signs are that forced mediation might be contributing to a reduction in people going to court. &lt;i&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-style:italic&#39;&gt;The Age&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt; reported last week that the number of applications for court orders over parenting and property matters had its biggest decline in the year mediation was enforced - from 20,350 in 2006-07 to 17,265 in 2007-08. Dr Matthew Gray, deputy director of the Australian Institute of Family Studies, who is involved in the evaluation of the Howard changes, says the intention of the legislation wasn&#39;t necessarily to reduce the numbers of people going to court, but to ensure that the kinds of families ending up in court are those that really need to be there. &#39;&#39;The real question is, are people taking appropriate pathways through the system?&#39;&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black&#39;&gt;Underpinning all of this has to be that parents are acting in the best interests of their children, instead of using their children as weapons. But much of the research suggests that where there is a high level of conflict between parents, a shared care arrangement can be damaging for children. Retired Family Court judge John Fogarty believes dividing care between parents - whether it&#39;s a 50-50 split or 60-40 - is very problematic when there is high conflict. &#39;&#39;It creates a totally artificial situation where children are split between two families, which can only work if those two families are very co-operative,&#39;&#39; he says. &#39;&#39;It builds up a great deal of tension and unfortunately some men respond to that by becoming violent and aggressive.&#39;&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black;font-weight:bold&#39;&gt;W&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;font color=black&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;HERE it can work, Fogarty says, is when separated parents get along and live in reasonably close proximity so that children can go to the same school, the same doctor and have the same friends. &#39;&#39;Once you shift the barometer too far towards the centre, then you are going to have all these troubles unless the parents are co-operative, in which case they don&#39;t need the court and will work it out themselves.&#39;&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black&#39;&gt;Part of the problem also stems from how the legislation is interpreted. When the law first came in, it raised the expectations of fathers that they were going to get equal care of their children. But, says Stephen Winspear, the chairman of the family law section of the Law Institute of Victoria, shared responsibility is about decision-making, and does not necessarily mandate shared care. If the court decides that shared responsibility is appropriate, then it can consider whether shared care is too. Family Court figures show that the court awards a 50-50 time split in just 15 per cent of contested cases, with mothers still getting most of the primary care. And Winspear says he does not know of any cases in which the court has granted equal shared care where there is a high risk of abuse. In one recent ruling, a judge gave a woman and her two young children permission to change their identities and effectively go into hiding to escape her &#39;&#39;violent, abusive and controlling&#39;&#39; former partner.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black&#39;&gt;But the court does grant access in some cases where allegations of violence have been made. This month, a mother who alleged that she was subjected to physical, sexual, verbal and emotional abuse by her ex-husband fought in court for him to not have any access to their son. The court found there were &#39;&#39;serious inconsistencies&#39;&#39; in her story and granted access to the father on weekends and school holidays.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black&#39;&gt;Whether there is any connection between the presumption of shared parenting and family violence will be considered as part of Chisholm&#39;s review. Chisholm has previously told &lt;i&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-style:italic&#39;&gt;The Age&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt; that he will also look at whether parents are being pushed to sign consent orders. Fogarty believes that in some cases there is pressure behind the scenes to sign - pressure that judges aren&#39;t aware of. &#39;&#39;A major reason for it is some lawyers will say to their female client, &#39;If you don&#39;t agree and it goes to court, the judge may order 50-50&#39;, and that will be worse than what they&#39;re currently proposing,&#39;&#39; he says. &#39;&#39;And so they&#39;re drawn into accepting something that they know is wrong, but they&#39;re led to believe that it will be the lesser of two evils, and of course it may be.&#39;&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black&#39;&gt;Which brings us back to the first woman in this story. She claims that she was pressured into signing a consent order agreeing to give the father unsupervised access and, eventually, overnight access. She says that the children&#39;s independent lawyer, and even her own barrister, led her to believe that if she did not consent the court would make her move back to the suburb from which she had fled to escape her former partner. &#39;&#39;I was put in a horrible position,&#39;&#39; she says now. Each time the father has his unsupervised time with the children, she worries that he may harm them. &#39;&#39;If I can take it back to court, I&#39;ll try,&#39;&#39; she says.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black&#39;&gt;Family violence is also an issue in many of the cases that are settled outside of court, through mediation, whether at a government-funded family relationship centre or another service. But it is still possible to reach an agreement. Francesca Gerner, manager of post-separation services at Centacare, which is involved in running family relationship centres in Ballarat, Shepparton and &lt;st1:City w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;Geelong&lt;/st1:City&gt;, says &#39;&#39;family violence issues&#39;&#39; affect many of the couples seen, because the definition in &lt;st1:State w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;st1:place w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;Victoria&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:State&gt; of family violence is so broad, including emotional, psychological and even economic abuse. There are parents who come to mediation armed with intervention orders - sometimes against each other.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black&#39;&gt;Despite this, some couples are still willing to engage in the process in good faith. Arrangements can be made for supervised access, or for the handover of children to take place at a venue where the parents don&#39;t have to see each other. But what of those who are beyond talking to each other?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black&#39;&gt;Professor John Zeleznikow, from the Laboratory of Decision Support and Dispute Management at &lt;st1:place w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;st1:PlaceName w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;Victoria&lt;/st1:PlaceName&gt;  &lt;st1:PlaceName w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;University&lt;/st1:PlaceName&gt;&lt;/st1:place&gt;, says forcing couples who are unwilling and unable to mediate just prolongs the agony all round. Voluntary mediation should be encouraged, he says, but there should be no compulsion. &#39;&#39;All they are doing is going through mediation as a sham because eventually they want their day in court,&#39;&#39; he says.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black&#39;&gt;Those who favour mediation believe that a pilot, soon to start, that will allow lawyers to get involved in the mediation process might dissuade parents from turning to court to make a decision for them. &#39;&#39;There are times in mediation you get to a point where one party won&#39;t move,&#39;&#39; says Kath Barry, manager of the Broadmeadows family relationship centre. &#39;&#39;That party often thinks they&#39;re going to get a better deal in court.&#39;&#39; But lawyers, she says, might provide a reality check.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black;font-weight:bold&#39;&gt;W&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;font color=black&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;ITH the system under unprecedented scrutiny, there are fears from those who pushed for a better deal for fathers that the current reviews will go against them. Lindsay Jackel, from the Shared Parenting Council of Australia, was among those who lobbied the Howard government. He accepts that violence is an issue in some cases. But he believes that allegations of violence can sometimes be used as a tactic by mothers to diminish the time fathers have with their children. &#39;&#39;We sometimes in our group will ask not who has had an intervention order, but who hasn&#39;t?&#39;&#39; he says.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black&#39;&gt;But the National Council for Children Post-Separation is pushing for immediate change, and says children are at risk whenever they are placed with a parent - either a mother or father - who has a history of violence or abuse.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black&#39;&gt;Jackel points out that there have been cases where mothers have committed violent acts against their children. Like the case of the woman who jumped off a bridge with her child last year, because she feared she would lose custody.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black&#39;&gt;Parenting battles that end in this tragic way are almost impossible to anticipate. Stephen Winspear says it is hard to predict how severely distressed people are going to behave in a stressful and emotional situation. &#39;&#39;These cases are all involving people who snap in a way that&#39;s completely unpredictable,&#39;&#39; he says. &#39;&#39;With the fickle nature of human nature and the sheer numbers involved, there will always be the occasional tragedy. It&#39;s absolutely impossible to guarantee protection in every case.&#39;&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size=4 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:13.5pt; color:black;font-weight:bold&#39;&gt;UNDER REVIEW:&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black;font-weight:bold&#39;&gt;- The presumption of shared parental responsibility and whether shared care is appropriate.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;font color=black&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black;font-weight:bold&#39;&gt;- The requirement to mediate before going to the Family Court.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;font color=black&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black;font-weight:bold&#39;&gt;- The Family Court&#39;s response to allegations of family violence.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;font color=black&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black;font-weight:bold&#39;&gt;- The interaction of federal family laws with state child protection and family violence laws.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;font color=black&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal style=&#39;mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto&#39;&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;font size=3 color=black face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt; color:black;font-style:italic&#39;&gt;Carol Nader is social policy editor.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;font color=black&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;color:black&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;font size=2 face=Arial&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt; font-family:Arial&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  </description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2009/08/age-29th-august-09.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-8337946407256419455</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 21:29:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-08-27T16:20:57.705-07:00</atom:updated><title></title><description>&lt;div class=&quot;Section1&quot;&gt;&lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Arial;font-size:10;&quot;&gt;&lt;?xml:namespace prefix = o /&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;h1&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:6;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:24;&quot;&gt;Shared parenting &#39;hurting children&#39;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;&lt;p class=&quot;published&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:12;&quot;&gt;Posted &lt;span class=&quot;timestamp&quot;&gt;35 minutes ago&lt;/span&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:12;&quot;&gt;&lt;a id=&quot;storyPhotosLink&quot; href=&quot;http://www.abc.net.au/reslib/200812/r319575_1421685.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;TEXT-DECORATION: none&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=&quot;caption&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:12;&quot;&gt;New research claims children in high-conflict families are suffering under shared care arrangements (Reuters: John Kolesidis, file photo)&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul type=&quot;disc&quot;&gt;&lt;li class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot; style=&quot;mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:12;&quot;&gt;&lt;script type=&quot;text/javascript&quot;&gt; &lt;!--       if (typeof showPhotos == &#39;function&#39;) showPhotos(&#39;2669245-mediarss.xml&#39;);      --&gt;      &lt;/script&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.abc.net.au/reslib/200908/r425559_2027022.asx&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Times New Roman;&quot;&gt;Video: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;Shared care system under family law spotlight &lt;span class=&quot;source&quot;&gt;(Lateline)&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/a&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p class=&quot;first&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:12;&quot;&gt;The Federal Government is under growing pressure to change its shared parenting legislation, with a former judge criticising the laws for not working in the interests of the child. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:12;&quot;&gt;Research commissioned by the federal Attorney-General&#39;s office found that children in high-conflict families did not like shared care.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:12;&quot;&gt;The children also had higher rates of hyperactivity than children who had a stable home base with one of their parents.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:12;&quot;&gt;The researcher, Doctor Jennifer McIntosh from Family Transitions, says children in shared care are more troubled, distressed and anxious than children who have more flexible arrangements.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:12;&quot;&gt;&quot;The children in rigid arrangements - that tended to be court ordered - weren&#39;t doing very well four years ago. However, what we&#39;ve been able to demonstrate is that the care arrangement hasn&#39;t helped,&quot; Dr McIntosh said.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:12;&quot;&gt;&quot;In fact these children have become more distressed over time.&quot;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:12;&quot;&gt;Professor Alastair Nicholson, who spent 16 years as chief justice of the family court, is one of the critics of the current laws.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:12;&quot;&gt;&quot;The problem with it is it treats children as objects, rather than as people. What it&#39;s really saying is not much about the desires, the needs, the interests of the child,&quot; Professor Nicholson said.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:12;&quot;&gt;&quot;What it&#39;s talking about are the desires and the needs and the interests of the parents.&quot;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:12;&quot;&gt;The Federal Government has commissioned another two reviews into shared parenting, which are due by the end of the year.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:12;&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:12;&quot;&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:12;&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2009/08/shared-parenting-hurting-children.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-2633589017085859526</guid><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2009 11:40:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-29T04:41:32.646-07:00</atom:updated><title></title><description>&lt;div class=Section1&gt;  &lt;h1&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size=6 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU style=&#39;font-size: 24.0pt&#39;&gt;Mixed views on Government&#39;s family law review&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;  &lt;p class=publishing sizcache=6 sizset=18&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;Dina Rosendorff reported this story on &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.abc.net.au/am/archives.html&quot;&gt;Saturday, July 25, 2009&lt;/a&gt; 08:18:00&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://mpegmedia.abc.net.au/news/audio/am/200907/20090725-sam7-agreview-ax.mp3&quot; title=&quot;click to play MP3 or right click to save it to your desktop&quot; id=fullstoryplayer jQuery1248867521894=15&gt;Listen to MP3 of this story ( minutes)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=alternateaudio&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;Alternate &lt;a href=&quot;mms://media4.abc.net.au/winlibrary/audio/am/200907/20090725-sam7-agreview-ax.wma&quot; title=&quot;click to play Windows Media Audio&quot;&gt;WMA version&lt;/a&gt; | &lt;a href=&quot;http://mpegmedia.abc.net.au/news/audio/am/200907/20090725-sam7-agreview-ax.mp3&quot; title=&quot;click to play MP3 or right click to save it to your desktop&quot;&gt;MP3 download&lt;/a&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=body&gt;&lt;st1:City w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span  lang=EN-AU style=&#39;font-size:12.0pt&#39;&gt;&lt;!-- &lt;p class=&quot;intro&quot;&gt;Women&#39;s groups have welcomed a review of the family law system saying it has been long overdue. But father&#39;s groups aren&#39;t happy, saying it&#39;s a smokescreen which could be bad for families.&lt;/p&gt; --&gt;EDMOND&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/st1:City&gt;&lt;span lang=EN-AU&gt; &lt;st1:City w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;ROY&lt;/st1:City&gt;: The Federal Government will review &lt;st1:country-region w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;st1:place w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;Australia&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:country-region&gt;&#39;s Family Law Act as part of its crackdown on domestic violence.&lt;br&gt; &lt;br&gt; The Attorney-General Robert McClelland says that if the inquiry finds current laws put women and children at risk, they will be changed.&lt;br&gt; &lt;br&gt; Women&#39;s groups have applauded the review, which they say is long overdue. But lawyers and men&#39;s groups with experience in the Family Court system are less enthusiastic.&lt;br&gt; &lt;br&gt; Dina Rosendorff reports.&lt;br&gt; &lt;br&gt; DINA ROSENDORFF: Since Jen Jewel Brown set up the National Council for Children Post-Separation about two months ago, more than 4,500 supporters have signed her petition calling for a safer family law system.&lt;br&gt; &lt;br&gt; She and her supporters rejoiced at yesterday&#39;s announcement by the Federal Attorney-General Robert McClelland that the Family Law Act is under review.&lt;br&gt; &lt;br&gt; JEN JEWEL BROWN: The law has been terribly dangerous. We have seen so many damaged people coming to us, you know, crying for help.&lt;br&gt; &lt;br&gt; In getting out of those relationships, they find that when they turn to the law that they are getting abused even further and their children are experiencing terrible fall-out from this.&lt;br&gt; &lt;br&gt; DINA ROSENDORFF: Former Family Court judge, Professor Richard Chisholm, will examine whether courts can better support families, especially those at risk of violence. &lt;br&gt; &lt;br&gt; In a concurrent review, the Australian Law Reform Commission will examine family laws across all jurisdictions to identify any gaps and recommend improvements. But not everyone has welcomed these announcements.&lt;br&gt; &lt;br&gt; Stephen Winspear has worked in family law for more than 22 years. He says the Government&#39;s examination is missing the point.&lt;br&gt; &lt;br&gt; STEPHEN WINSPEAR: I don&#39;t think changes to the law will change things very much, but I think it can be procedurally boosted by putting evidence before the court in a more effective way and then the court can make better decisions under its current framework without there needing to be any great changes.&lt;br&gt; &lt;br&gt; DINA ROSENDORFF: Fathers rights groups are also concerned. James, who&#39;d prefer not to give his last name, is from the organisation Fathers for Equality.&lt;br&gt; &lt;br&gt; JAMES: What we worry about this review is that it will actually&amp;#8230; is a smokescreen, a cover, for sole custody, which will lead to children being put at risk.&lt;br&gt; &lt;br&gt; DINA ROSENDORFF: The Attorney-General says he expects to have a report on these issues by the end of July next year.&lt;br&gt; &lt;br&gt; &lt;st1:City w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;EDMOND&lt;/st1:City&gt; &lt;st1:City w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;st1:place w:st=&quot;on&quot;&gt;ROY&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:City&gt;: Dina Rosendorff reporting. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;font size=2 face=Arial&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt; font-family:Arial&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;font size=2 face=Arial&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size:10.0pt; font-family:Arial&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;font size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&#39;font-size: 12.0pt&#39;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  </description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2009/07/mixed-views-on-governments-family-law.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-2299302133298491887</guid><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2009 08:30:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-29T01:30:59.893-07:00</atom:updated><title></title><description>&lt;H1 class=section-heading&gt;Chief Justice questions parenting laws&lt;/H1&gt; &lt;DIV id=section-header-ads&gt; &lt;DIV class=ad&gt;&lt;!-- START Dummy ad code - real code to be inserted instead. --&gt; &lt;DIV class=section-sponsor&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;!-- END Dummy ad code - real code to be inserted instead. --&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;!-- // .ad --&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;!-- // #section-header-ads --&gt;&lt;!-- END Story Header Block --&gt; &lt;DIV id=content&gt;&lt;!-- START primary content/left column --&gt; &lt;DIV id=primary&gt;&lt;!-- Story Toolbar--&gt; &lt;DIV class=article-tools&gt; &lt;DIV class=widget-fontofreako&gt; &lt;UL&gt;   &lt;LI id=font-size&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;:&lt;/SPAN&gt; Go to &lt;A class=font-dec    href=&quot;http://www.theaustralian.news.com.au/story/0,25197,25839631-2702,00.html#&quot;    rel=article&gt;article source&lt;/A&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;/UL&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;!-- // .article-tools --&gt;&lt;!-- End Story Toolbar--&gt; &lt;DIV class=&quot;module article&quot; id=article style=&quot;FONT-SIZE: 1em&quot;&gt; &lt;DIV class=module-subheader&gt; &lt;P&gt;Michael Pelly | &lt;EM class=timestamp&gt;July 27, 2009&lt;/EM&gt; &lt;/P&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;!-- // .module-subheader --&gt; &lt;DIV class=article-source&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Article from:&amp;nbsp; &lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;A  class=the-australian href=&quot;http://www.theaustralian.news.com.au/&quot;&gt;The  Australian&lt;/A&gt; &lt;/DIV&gt; &lt;DIV class=module-content id=article&gt; &lt;P class=intro&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;FAMILY Court Chief Justice Diana Bryant has described the  contentious shared parenting laws as &quot;problematic&quot; and the expectation of  parties as &quot;a concern&quot; as the government embarks on three inquiries into family  violence.&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;The Chief Justice also says punitive costs orders for those who raise false  allegations of violence have been counter-productive and that women fear being  branded &quot;unfriendly&quot;. &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Her comments yesterday followed the announcement on Friday that former Family  Court judge Richard Chisholm will head a review of the entire family law system,  with an emphasis on how it handles violent situations. &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;The Australian Law Reform Commission has also been asked to develop a  national legal framework to tackle family violence and the Institute of Family  Studies is due to deliver its reviewing of the shared parenting laws in  December. &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Attorney-General Robert McClelland has cited the case of three-year-old  Darcey Freeman, who was thrown from Melbourne&#39;s Westgate Bridge by her father in  January, as a reason for the review. There has been considerable disquiet over  the Freeman case inside the Rudd government. Leading the charge has been Housing  and Status of Women Minister Tanya Plibersek, former shadow attorney-general and  Minister for Health Nicola Roxon and the Minister for Families, Housing,  Community Services and Indigenous Affairs Jenny Macklin. &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Chief Justice Bryant said &quot;nothing was raised before the court about  violence&quot;. &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;She said there were many ways to bring concerns of violence to the attention  of the court. &quot;A Form 4 (which gives notice of child abuse or family violence)  was not filed and there was nothing on the file to suggest one had tried to be  filed.&quot; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;The Chief Justice said the shared parenting provisions of the act -- section  65DAA and 61DA -- were &quot;problematic&quot;. &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;But she said the principal issue concerned perception of the reforms, which  created a presumption that the best interests of the child were served by a  meaningful relationship with both parents after divorce. &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;However, at the time of the 2006 reforms, it was sold to the public as an  &quot;equal time&quot; provision rather than a starting point that could be altered due to  the circumstances of the case. &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;&quot;It is problematic in that it is creating problems in the community because  people do not understand the act,&quot; the Chief Justice said. &quot;It&#39;s not seen as a  concern inside the court, but the expectations of the parties are a problem.&quot;  &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;This was backed by senior family lawyers who said the fathers in particular  came to them with firm expectations. &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;&quot;We have these terrible expressions, which say there shall be a presumption  of joint responsibility,&quot; said Stephen Winspear of the Victorian Law Institute.  &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;&quot;That is not joint time but as soon as it says the word &#39;joint&#39; people jump  on it and think they have got all these rights. You have to be careful; language  is dangerous,&quot; he said. &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;The editor of Australian Family Lawyer, Ian Kennedy, agreed: &quot;The sausage is  fine. It&#39;s the sizzle that is causing the problem.&quot; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;The head of the family law section of the Law Council, Geoff Sinclair, drew  attention to section 117AB of the Family Law Act which deals with costs orders  where false allegations are made. &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;&quot;It should not be there,&quot; said Mr Sinclair. &quot;It may stop people raising  issues they are legitimately concerned about.&quot; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Chief Justice Bryant also said it &quot;may have led to misunderstandings and may  dissuade women from raising issues of violence and abuse&quot;. &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;&quot;There is also concern that they might be branded &#39;unfriendly&#39; if they raise  allegations of violence and that they don&#39;t pursue them because of that,&quot; she  said.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;!-- // #article .module-content --&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;!-- // #article .module .article --&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;</description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2009/07/chief-justice-questions-parenting-laws.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-4721326687901817358</guid><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2009 02:38:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-28T19:38:13.125-07:00</atom:updated><title></title><description>Appeal for national strategy on family violence&lt;/HEADLINE&gt;&lt;!-- Class &#39;push-0&#39; just right-aligns the element so that the main content comes first. --&gt; &lt;DIV class=&quot;push-0 span-11 last&quot;&gt;&lt;!-- cT-storyDetails --&gt; &lt;DIV class=&quot;cT-storyDetails cfix&quot;&gt; &lt;H5&gt;Carol Nader&lt;/H5&gt;&lt;CITE&gt;July 27, 2009&lt;/CITE&gt; &lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;BOD&gt; &lt;DIV class=articleBody&gt; &lt;P&gt;STATE Attorney-General Rob Hulls has urged other states to follow Victoria&#39;s  lead in expanding the definition of domestic violence and has backed a national  register of intervention orders.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;The call comes as former Family Court judge Richard Chisholm prepares to  conduct a review that will consider the way the Family Court responds to  allegations of domestic violence.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Mr Hulls told &lt;I&gt;The Age&lt;/I&gt; that the definition of domestic violence should  be expanded to include economic, psychological and emotional abuse if a truly  national approach was to be adopted.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;&quot;I think family violence can take a whole range of forms and I think other  states need to follow what we&#39;ve done in Victoria by ensuring they have a  comprehensive definition of domestic violence,&quot; he said.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;&quot;If a person is abused emotionally and psychologically in one jurisdiction  they should be dealt with in the same way if such abuse occurs in another  jurisdiction.&quot;&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;He also backed the move to a national register of intervention orders, a  subject that will be discussed next month at a meeting of the country&#39;s  attorneys-general.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;&quot;It&#39;s absolutely important that we have a national system to recognise  intervention orders that have been imposed in each jurisdiction, and we do that  in Victoria,&quot; Mr Hulls said.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;&quot;A corresponding family violence intervention order from another state or  territory or indeed New Zealand can be registered with a Victorian court. That  order is then enforced as a Victorian order.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;&quot;The idea of a national register of family violence intervention orders is  something that I fully support. I think we have to make it as easy and as simple  as possible for victims of family violence who have been granted an intervention  order to have that intervention order enforced anywhere in Australia.&quot;&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;The contentious question of whether there is any link between the presumption  of shared parenting wherever possible, introduced by the Howard government, and  domestic violence will be investigated as part of Professor Chisholm&#39;s  review.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;&quot;I will be interested to try and find out whether that presumption of shared  parenting has any connection with family violence,&quot; he said.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;&quot;Some people would say that if the law encourages equal shared parenting too  much then people who have been exposed to violence might find themselves in a  dilemma, where they either say nothing about the violence or if they do they  might be seen as an unco-operative parent and that might disadvantage them when  the court tries to work out what arrangement might be best for the child.&quot;&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Professor Chisholm, who left the Family Court in 2004, stressed that he  neither favoured nor opposed shared parenting: &quot;I&#39;m approaching this exercise  with an open mind.&quot;&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Federal Attorney-General Robert McClelland announced the review out of  concern that too many families &quot;slip through the safety net&quot;. He also favours a  national register of intervention orders, so that people crossing state borders  to escape violent partners can have their intervention orders automatically on  record in other states.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;&lt;B&gt; &lt;P&gt;&lt;/B&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;</description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2009/07/appeal-for-national-strategy-on-family.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2672664681894738136.post-6752233620391858405</guid><pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 12:55:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-28T05:55:29.575-07:00</atom:updated><title></title><description>&lt;DIV&gt;&lt;FONT face=Arial size=2&gt; &lt;H1 class=section-heading&gt;Divorced dads fear rollback of parent laws&lt;/H1&gt; &lt;DIV id=section-header-ads&gt; &lt;DIV class=ad&gt;&lt;!-- START Dummy ad code - real code to be inserted instead. --&gt; &lt;DIV class=section-sponsor&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;!-- END Dummy ad code - real code to be inserted instead. --&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;!-- // .ad --&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;!-- // #section-header-ads --&gt;&lt;!-- END Story Header Block --&gt; &lt;DIV id=content&gt;&lt;!-- START primary content/left column --&gt; &lt;DIV id=primary&gt;&lt;!-- Story Toolbar--&gt; &lt;DIV class=article-tools&gt; &lt;DIV class=widget-fontofreako&gt; &lt;UL&gt;   &lt;LI id=font-size&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Font Size:&lt;/SPAN&gt; &lt;A class=font-dec    href=&quot;http://www.theaustralian.news.com.au/story/0,25197,25832215-5013871,00.html#&quot;    rel=article&gt;Decrease&lt;/A&gt; &lt;A class=font-inc    href=&quot;http://www.theaustralian.news.com.au/story/0,25197,25832215-5013871,00.html#&quot;    rel=article&gt;Increase&lt;/A&gt;    &lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Print Page:&lt;/SPAN&gt; &lt;A class=print    href=&quot;javascript:print();&quot;&gt;Print&lt;/A&gt; &lt;/LI&gt;&lt;/UL&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;!-- // .article-tools --&gt;&lt;!-- End Story Toolbar--&gt; &lt;DIV class=&quot;module article&quot; id=article style=&quot;FONT-SIZE: 1em&quot;&gt; &lt;DIV class=module-subheader&gt; &lt;P&gt;Caroline Overington | &lt;EM class=timestamp&gt;July 25, 2009&lt;/EM&gt; &lt;/P&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;!-- // .module-subheader --&gt; &lt;DIV class=article-source&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Article from:&amp;nbsp; &lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;A  class=the-australian href=&quot;http://www.theaustralian.news.com.au/&quot;&gt;The  Australian&lt;/A&gt; &lt;/DIV&gt; &lt;DIV class=module-content id=article&gt; &lt;P class=intro&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;THE shared parenting laws that have given divorced  fathers more time with their children will be rolled back because of the power  of left-wing feminist women in Kevin Rudd&#39;s cabinet.&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;That is the view of men&#39;s groups that lobbied for the laws when the Howard  government was in power, and who now fear &quot;that 15 years of progress in getting  fathers and children to spend time together is about to be undone&quot;. &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;&quot;I met with (Attorney-General) Robert McClelland a few weeks ago, and it was  clear to me that these laws are being rolled back,&quot; said Sue Price, of the Men&#39;s  Rights Agency. &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;&quot;They (the Rudd government) say they are reviewing the law, but basically the  law will change because in the Labor government there are a number of women who  are well and truly indoctrinated in a 1970s feminist movement background, and  they do not value the role of men in society. &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;&quot;(Tanya) Plibersek pushes domestic violence based on incorrect data. (Nicola)  Roxon dances a merry dance around men. The fact is that children are at far  greater risk from their mothers. Mothers kill more children than fathers, and  that&#39;s a fact.&quot; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Mr McClelland yesterday appointed former Family Court judge Richard Chisholm  to review family law processes, using the case of Darcey Freeman, the girl  thrown from Melbourne&#39;s West Gate Bridge, allegedly by her father, as a reason  to consider change. &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;In a statement, Family Court Chief Justice Diana Bryant said she supported  the review of &quot;how the courts manage the important issues of violence in family  law matters. I welcome any suggestions as to how we can improve with system.&quot;  &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Edward Dabrowski, of the Shared Parenting Council, was dismayed, saying:  &quot;Vocal minority groups, mostly women, have latched on to a few cases and are now  saying the shared parenting laws are leading to situations &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;that are loaded with domestic violence. &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;&quot;That is not the case, and if there is to be a review, it ought to be a  public review. They should have a full inquiry and let&#39;s see what the public,  including fathers, think about going back to the old days.&quot; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Ms Plibersek&#39;s spokesman said she was on leave but would perhaps comment when  she returned to work on Monday. &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;However, NSW Acting Attorney-General Verity Firth entered the fray, saying  there &quot;seems to have been considerable problems&quot; with the new shared parenting  law in reconciling a child&#39;s right to a &quot;meaningful relationship&quot; with both  parents &quot;and the protection of the child from exposure to violence&quot;. &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Ms Firth said there was some evidence that a &quot;very strong pro-contact culture  had arisen even where the safety of children couldn&#39;t be guaranteed&quot;. &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Jen Jewel Brown, of the National Council for Children Post-Separation,  welcomed the review, saying the new Family Law Act was working as a &quot;wrecking  ball for many damaged children and their parents, in particular, as they try to  re-establish themselves after the breakdown of abusive relationships&quot;. &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;She said mothers had grown reluctant to raise allegations of violence in the  Family Court because they feared being &quot;accused of raising false allegations or  not promoting a meaningful relationship with the other parent&quot;, which can mean  they lose custody or face the entire bill for court costs. &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;The chairman of the Family Law Council, John Wade, said there was an  &quot;appetite for change&quot; and &quot;a feeling that we need to look at it again, and see  whether it&#39;s working&quot;, but he said any changes were &quot;bound to be controversial  because it&#39;s the area of law that most Australians have contact with, either  themselves or through their relatives.&quot;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;!-- // #article .module-content --&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;!-- // #article .module .article --&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;</description><link>http://singlemumoz.blogspot.com/2009/07/divorced-dads-fear-rollback-of-parent.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item></channel></rss>