How To Impress A Girl Anytime Anywhere

How To Impress A Girl

2011-12-19T10:10:00.000-08:00

So, how to impress a girl? Seems like a hard question isn't it? Well the exact art of impressing girls lies in the simple fact that they are not impressed by something which seems fake or uninspired. Maximum guys have a tendency to to act or be like someone else just in order to impress a girl but never make it. The key here is to be unique as possible with the aim of impress a girl of yours choice.You may also want to impress a girl in college, school, office,facebook, twitter or anywhere. So get some Greatest tips in the lines below...

Imagine this, you walking down a street and right before you, appears a impressive beautiful girl, golden hair, blue eyes and a body of Venus. As she gets nearer to you she takes a glace at you and gives you a fantastic smile. You turn around keeping in mind is it me she is smiling at, and recognize that it is. So, how to impress a girl like that? As usual you smile back like a smiling fool, not doing anything and just take your way. Sound familiar? Each man that ever walked the earth at some stage in his life has had a practice not different to this one. It may have been in a club, on a bus, in the college or workplace or in any other such social state. Maximum number of men, ask the question “was she interested in me” the answer to this question is simple! Obviously she was you idiot! In the sense of sales they would name this a buying signal and you would go in to sign up the deal.

Don’t worry, understanding the buying-signals of girls is only a part of what you will learn in this book.
You will learn perceptions into understanding yourself and how to make yourself the very spirit of attractiveness to women.

You will learn how to approach and talk to a beautiful girl in a way that will make you both charming and stimulating to the fairer sex.

You will learn tactics that would give yourself confidence in your capability that how to impress a girl at any will.

You will also realize what girls are looking for in men, and like a chameleon mold yourself into that role to attain your goal.

These skills are both simple to learn, and easy to apply, in fact you should be able to use and apply these skills from day one. You will turn into a powerhouse of attraction, the very essence of appeal and attractiveness to girl. Your friends will stare at you with awe and envy, and wonder where this rick van or form came from. You will look ahead with a knowing sneer and say, what can I say I guess I'm just a simple Don Juan.
If you look around you will know, all men can use these practices that how to impress a girl. From the sportsperson, to the geek, from Brad Pitt to the Elephant man, from the very old to those just starting out their journey into the mysteries of girls.
I frequently hear said, “There are never any women around that I find striking” .Well this is ridiculous and the guy saying that is not an alpha man and lacks the technique that how to impress a girl.
The power of the dragging triangle!
Dragging is my local idiom, for impressing the girls in a deliberate way. You may distinguish it by numerous other names, picking up, chatting up or even sharking. It does not mean what you call it, as it all extents to the same thing, your struggle in trying to find favors with the fairer sex and how to impress a girl.
As the title proposes, there are three sides or aspects to the pulling triangle.

The Idea how to impress a girl

One summer while in the lawn of a friend's house, me and some other friends were sitting around drinking it was a lovely day the beer was rolling and as with most single guys our thoughts turned to girl. Now keep in mind the guys sitting around this table were having a great deal of experience that how to impress a girl. Luckily for me, I was doing a little superior than the majority of the friends I was sipping beer with. Nevertheless, a topic was taken up concerning many chat up outlines and techniques that each of us were using for impressing girls. Several ideas were fetched as to find the best way that how to impress a girl. It appeared that there was no conclusive answer to the question, as each friend use diverse techniques in order to achieve his goal.

The idea came, that there must be a widespread strategy that can be useful to getting you 99% of the method to being able to impress a girl. The other 1% coming from discrete techniques and strategies that create each persons methodology seem individual. Several people have termed this the 99/1 solution.

We approached to the assumption that there were three areas that you should be skillful in each starting one of the corners. Thus we approached upon the foundation of what we came to call “The Dragging Triangle” the widespread strategy that got you 99% of the way there. The last 1% or the frosting on the cake originated to study your ability as would be Don Juan.
Guys, I give you the Dragging triangle. The first 70%.

Looking Good Felling Good

Talking Good

How to Impress a Girl on Internet !

2011-09-12T12:20:00.000-07:00

Absolutely EVERY MAN who ever placed a personal ad on the Internet, or who is going to do it in the future, MUST know that.
This can save you lots of time and effort, and probably hundreds of dollars in the long run.
It’s about meeting Russian Girls through general dating sites. PLEASE READ THIS INFORMATION CAREFULLY. Even if it is the only thing you read in this chapter.
It’s essential knowledge that every man using the Internet must know these days.
As you are aware, Internet brought us many wonderful opportunities but as any wonderful opportunity, there are always some drawbacks. Like, e-mail is great but e-mail viruses are a nuisance.
It often happens that the more exciting the opportunity, the more bad guys sneak around hunting for easy bucks. Yes, we’d like it to be different, but this is just the way it works.
So, with all the wonderful opportunities we have on the borderless Internet, we now also face a new generation of international scams.One of the most popular Internet cheats is Nigerian “inheritance” scam: you
receive mail from a top African official who pleads for your help in transferring funds from his government account, and promises you several million dollars if you only allow him to use your bank account for the transaction. If you decide it’s a good idea, the scammers will clean up your entire bank account.
Now, most people are aware of this one – but some people are STILL buying into it!
They simply never heard about this scam before.
I don’t want something like this happen to you. And this is why you NEED to know what I am going to tell you.
I am going to tell you about another popular Internet cheat – and since you are a single man who is placing some personal ads online or will be placing them in the future, you WILL be exposed to this scam, and I don’t want you to buy into it.
This hoax is Russian Girls writing to men through large online personals.
If you have ever placed a personal ad online, you probably remember getting some messages from Russian girls in response to your profile. Most likely, you simply deleted them and never bothered to answer. But you keep getting more. One day, it may happen you will answer.
Or maybe you contacted somebody who was listed as from your area, and in her responding email she says she is from Russia.
OK, if you recognize the situation, here is the thrilling news for you: YOU WERE CONTACTED BY A SCAMMER!
Yes, this was NOT a real girl.
It was a criminal who wanted to steal your money! If you weren’t looking for a Russian Girl, and suddenly a
Russian Girl found you, IT WAS A CON.
You will never receive any legitimate mail from single Russian girls through large online personals.
Why?
First, payment for premium membership on such sites is in dollars, and it’s
too expensive for an average Russian Girl’s salary.
Second, when a Russian girl seeks somebody internationally, she will look on the sites with ads of Western men seeking Russian Girls. Would you look for a Russian girl on a Russian website that publishes ads of girls who want to meet somebody locally?
No, you would look at the Web sites with ads of girls who want to meet somebody internationally. Any normal person would do the same.
Normal, REAL girls apply to Russian dating agencies that offer international introductions.
These agencies are FREE to Girls; they only charge men. There are thousands of them on the Internet, and dozens in any Russian city – and they vigorously advertise in Russia to ensure continuous flow of new female clients.
If a girl thinks about looking for somebody internationally, there are HUNDREDS of ads of international dating agencies in local newspapers for singles.
So tell me, what is the chance of a girl paying 30% of her monthly salary to send a letter to only one man (you) through a large online dating site where men look for somebody locally when there are HUNDREDS of sites that offer introductions to Western men for Russian Girls free of charge?
Realistically?
Zero, nada, none!
All those people who say they love you and want to meet you and have a way to secure a quick visa to your country are lying to you and only want to steal your money!

How to Impress a Girl on Facebook

2011-09-12T12:04:00.000-07:00

The beauty of this is that it's aligned to being a natural man who Girls are attracted to without having any of the creepy vibe that comes with going out of your way to approach her or trying to 'get something' from her.
It starts off nice and natural when you're being just a social person.
Once you start communicating with her, you can take it from PG-13 to rated.
R if you feel she is responsive to you.
Being social and naturally communicative stems from wanting to add value out into the world and never depends on seeking someone Else's approval because you have your boundaries but you can share a lot of things with people because that's what life is about.
Ever notice how the life of the party guy usually has Girls all around him?
Well, why can't that be you?
Maybe it already IS you on the inside but you just need to bring it outwards. You've made people laugh before right?
You've had a great time with buddies before right?
Why not just break down all barriers and become more like that with all people... when you show who you are up front, it allows Girls to actually have something to go off of and be attracted to you... otherwise, how is she going to find out who you are unless you take a long, long time if you're really shy when you SHOULD be naturally talking with people.
Not just Girls out of a scarcity mentality, but being socially abundant knowing that you're going to meet interesting and great people that you can develop things further with.
In social environments and with a 'social' state of mind, you can easily get Girls's phone numbers after a short conversation if you want.
But I strongly recommend putting yourself in environments where it's acceptable for something like that to happen.
You can 'go out of your way' to get phone numbers on the streets of Girls but still it's creepy...they know where you're coming from and your chance of scoring with them that way is very little.
It's a waste of time, really.
I recommend practicing eye contact and saying to Girls in public but you can't sleep with every hottie that walks by on the street... put yourself in environments where people want to connect or where it's more socially 'ok' for her conscience.
Be in environments where you can still 'naturally' meet her even if it's an organized event
This way, it's not as creepy to her, plus when you're a natural using the invisible art (and you really couldn't care either way what she says) it will be easy to make connections and get information to follow up.
Don't be the X-Rated guy and tell her you want to f*** her.... There's a time and place (like adult chat rooms) for that. She wants to meet healthy, social men who are leading their own lives who she met 'naturally' and then 'things led from there' (of course you know where they'd lead). Have her guessing what's next when you do get involved and don't be predictable or boring.
Becoming more of a social person in general is going to open doors up for you like you wouldn't believe.The more connections you make, the more Girls and options you're going to have.
Once you know cool people that are like you that you can add or exchange value to their lives with, they'll have other people (and Girls) who they can introduce you to.
It's just a roundabout circle that works in your favor, not to mention that it's healthy and normal.

Overcome Your Fear of Girls

2011-09-08T08:56:00.000-07:00

Seemingly impossible to do for many men but actually quite simple once you know your place in the circle of life.You were meant to have the power and choice when it comes to girls.
The strong will survive and showing that you really are fearless around girls is something that very few men portray... especially around the empowered Aphrodites that we have today.In order to become fearless, it's not just an inner game fix but you have to align yourself with many universal truths.This will empower you to become more of the man you were supposed to be and
less of a socially brainwashed and confused man.

Being fearless is the one aspect that girls will keep coming back to in a man because it's always been a trait of natural attraction.If a man is fearful of a girl… how can he possibly protect her from greater danger?Why do you think they fall for the bad boys and jerks?They're about the only options left of men who are fearless.
They would jump through hoops of fire to actually find a 'great catch' who is fearless around girls.
Why is it that all of my X'es usually keep coming back to me to find out more?
Part of it's because I'm absolutely fearless around them when I'm being myself.
They DON'T want a wussboy and can't be attracted to him and won't have sex with him either (very rarely).
Becoming fearless of all girls including the most empowered ones is a powerful experience and can be done in my 'Overcoming Fear of Aphrodite's' CD audio program where I take you through the process.
It's a liberating feeling and is done with great respect towards a girl and is a powerful magnet that attracts them to you AND makes them continue to want to be around you.

Stop looking for the perfect pick-up line

2011-09-06T03:57:00.000-07:00

Just be a natural; it's the rare invisible ninja art.So many people are teaching essentially the art of 'tricking her' into bed.I always knew there was something amiss with this, so I never got into it too much.Instead, I've had natural success with girls from over two dozen countries (and the U.S. of course!) to date by just being a natural. Yes, and that includes when I didn't even know
their language.The ability to attract and have success with girls is a natural function.

The ability to attract and have success with girls is a natural function.Look, they want sex just as much as we men do but in a different way.They theoretically even have to want it as much, or the natural balance would be thrown off and we wouldn't be here today. It just is different when it comes to girls. They're more turned on by a guy's energy than his looks alone.Plus they usually need to be 'warmed up' instead of having an instant hog wild sex desire for you.It's about how you are and how you communicate with her that really turns her on and opens your pathway; it's about your level of respect for yourself AND your unspoken respect for her and her body.

In fact, the whole seduction community is operating out of what I call the current social 'forced reality'.It's simply a by-product where men adapt themselves to the current social reality instead of looking at the more powerful, timeless, unchanging natural process of attraction which still exists in her and in you.It's just been covered up.When you can operate out of a natural understanding and embrace it, you can talk baby talk to her or in another language and she'll be attracted to you, it doesn't matter.When did we ever have to 'learn' how to be effective with girls?

The truth has been hidden, yet throughout complex social behavior patterns of girls and your own confusing past experiences, underneath lies the simple truths of natural attraction which has nothing
to do with pick up lines and even works more effectively today than ever before because of themassive amount of frustration created by the modern dating paradox (men are saying 'why does she treat me like this' and girls are saying 'where are all the real men').If you're coming from the wrong energy, it doesn't matter what you say to her because you'll 99% fail.The power to succeed is not just in changing your inner game, it's in connecting yourself with a greater understanding and aligning your thoughts, beliefs and lifestyle around natural understanding and success instead of a superficial social fix. Sure, those things can be nice spice on top of a true natural mindset (so rare today) and can then accelerate things faster, but when done on their own, the perfect 'line' can never be perfect or work everytime and everything else becomes ‘technique based’ (… think “well what do I say to her 'next'?”) which leads to failure, rejection and massive inconsistency.That's all a byproduct of the forced reality which consequently takes a LOT of game time and preparation in order to see still limited results by becoming a PUA (Pick Up Artist). It's an unnatural path that I believe most men just don't feel is them nor something that they should have to do just in order to meet girls or get laid because it doesn't seem right or natural.So the answer?
It's in becoming a rare natural and ultimately adding value
to girls's lives but more importantly, living your life in harmony with universal principles (which gives you the massive leverage to make a big change and fast) and becoming who you really are as a man and not someone you aren't just to 'get something' from girls.

How to Impress Girls at a Bar or Nightclub

2011-03-22T11:37:00.000-07:00

I remember spending hours upon end trying too hard to figure out how to impress girls when I was greatly fresher, dangling out with my buddies while we just stared at the good-looking chicks on the dance floor or at the bar deprived of making a move on them all night.

You are familiar with the old saying, "If I only knew then what I know now, I would have been dangerous." This saying grasps true, in a big way as we get older, we become sensible, we learn more tricks, and we mostly become way more confident; these are all powerful abilities to have if you want to get your way with any woman!

Here's an excellent little guide to getting prepared on how to impress girls and have the best chance at seducing scene girl for those of you still doing the club and/or bar scene:

Take a good look at yourself in the mirror. It jerks not so much with how your face looks or body type is, but with taking catalog of how clean and neat you appear from top to bottom.
Are your nails trimmed or are they nibbled to shreds? Does your hair look good and if not, when was the last time you got a haircut? You get the idea? And while you're at it, get those nose hairs trimmed.
I get a lot of emails about older gentlemen getting their teeth whitened and saying it rises their probabilities of getting any girl they want by at least double!

Next, go out and buy yourself a good-looking dress if you don't already have one. Just look at what the guys are wearing at clubs and bars (this fashion changes rapidly) and stay with the existing trends; chicks love this!

If you don't have as a minimum two good bottles of cologne, keep this in mind and get them when you get a chance. Women love subtle, sexy-smelling men, and the two colognes I recommend for the evening are; VERSACE MAN, and DOLCE & GABBANA Cologne For Men.

Take in mind not to put too much on! A dab on each wrist, behind your ear lobes, and on your neck should do the trick to give you the all-out chance of impressing girls with the way you smell.

Irrespective of the type of car you have, make sure it's clean and vacuumed. Put a good, subtle scent, not too consuming, just pleasant. Bed, Bath, and Beyond carries these little packet fragrance bags (FreshScents.com makes them) you can stick under your driver's seat to give the impression you're the cleanest guy around. My preferred is one called, "Passion Flower."

If you don't have a car and are going to the club or bar with somebody, make sure you have money for a taxicab! There’s nothing worse than working like a dog to impress a girl, getting the go-ahead, and BAM - no way and no place to do your thing! I can't think of a poorer or more dropping feeling than that situation.

Stay tuned for Part 2 where I'll give you my guaranteed action plan on how to impress girls while you're out partying with your friends.

How to Impress a Girl at the Gym

2011-03-22T10:38:00.000-07:00

Most guys consider that lifting the most weight in the gym is how to impress a girl while working out, and this is basically not true.
Picking up a girl in the gym is one of the most tough places but can be a lot easier once you know a few tips on how to get them to notice you, how to make it look like it's unexpected that you happened to be in the area when she needed help with something, and how to impress a girl at the gym.
Here is a guaranteed pickup girls technique at the gym:

1. First of all, make sure if you are an adult, you are pointing an adult chick!

2. Don't sneak her out by following her around the gym or making too much eye contact; she may end up telling the manager about it, and you'll be asked at the very least (they can do whatever they want - it's their private property, and there's a part in your contract about how to respect other members' privacy).

3. Now that the above two vital points are out of the way, the first thing you should do is make sure you look clean, have decent-looking workout clothes, and achieve your normal workout routine at the same hour every time you visit while scoping out the gym for a girl you'd like to seduce.

This will take you a few visits, but be patient, and try working on only one at a time, or you'll rapidly get a status in your gym as a poo-hound, and no chick in there will always want to date you!

4. Next, don't make it noticeable that you're looking or staring the girl you want to approach at any time; the skill of helping a girl is always the best way to break the ice.

You can help her by proposing a "spot," at the right time. Be sure that she really needs one, and you can tell her, "My name is so-and-so, don't hesitate to let me or someone else know if you need a spot. Everybody in here helps each other." After that, she'll see you as friendly, and now you can start making a move.

5. From here on in, say hello to her when you take a glance at her, and call her by her first name. Ex: "Hi, Cindy, how are you?"

6. Now, since you're such an expert, it's the flawless moment to show her your expertise on whatever movement with weights she is doing. For ex: Walk up to her while she's working on a specific body part such as biceps, wait till she's finished, and tell her, "Cindy, I couldn't help but notice you had your elbows way too far back, instead of out in front so you could get the full contraction on your bi's."

She'll thank you, and now you've just turn out to be someone she can feel comfortable with in the gym. After that, get to know her

Chicks are continuously being attacked from all angles in the gym, and if you play it cool, you will have a different advantage of how to impress a girl you like at the gym.

How to Impress a Beautiful Girl Who's Way Out of Your League

2011-03-22T06:13:00.000-07:00

How lots of times haven't we males wondered how to impress a beautiful girl totally out of our league in our lives?

If you're like me, it used to be attractive often, but I've learned there are several issues involved that you can tilt in your favor to have the greatest chance at picking up women who look like Jessica Alba or Kristen Stewart with effortlessness.
The only thing standing between you and a juicily beautiful girl is "hesitancy." But in other parts of your life, I bet you commonly haven't spent all your time thinking "should I or shouldn't I?" when trying to complete a difficult task. You ultimately just go onward and do it, right?
This is just the attitude you should have when it approaches to picking up perfect 10's.
For most of us, this hesitancy with chicks happening in middle school when we could hardly pay attention to our history teacher as our minds hovered away into unconsciousness, dreaming about that gorgeous girl we just caught a glance of on the P.E. field. Back then, we thought it was terrible to attract these perfect specimens so we spent all our time just dreaming about them, and fantasizing about making a move or merely saying, "Hello." Only the thought of trying something so impossible at the stage made us "hesitant."
Have you ever in fact wondered how many lovely girls in this world wish someone like you would have approached them? The number is much greater than you think. This is because men are commonly afraid to approach beautiful girls, and although there are low people in this world, including some beautiful girls, the majority of great-looking chicks are clever with more depth as human beings than you could endlessly imagine.
Once you see these beautiful girls in this light you will already have a discrete advantage over other men who just see a great-looking chick as that - just another beautiful chick!

How to Impress a Girl You Have Already Met

2011-03-21T06:24:00.000-07:00

Let's say you've met a chick on a Saturday, you've got her phone number after a somewhat brief introduction and conversation; now you're wondering How to Impress a Girl You Have Already Met who already knows about you and is guessing your call.

The first point to consider is when you should call her. Never call her the following 2 days after you meet her. She'll think you're desperate. Wait until if possible the 4th day (Wednesday) to call and say hello. Do not invite her anyplace at this point. Merely tell her you were thinking about her today and you wanted to say hello.

Now, even though you haven't invited her to go out anywhere, if she likes you, you're building momentum because you've got her head spinning with eagerness hoping you'll ask her out . I know it sounds a little cruel, but hold off asking her to go out during that first call and wait until 1 day later. That will have given her a whole day to think about your call, and she will have already made up her attention whether she's really attentive or not.
Now, there's a chance she knows this little routine, but chances are she doesn't.
What you can do now to actually impress a woman at this stage is to invite her to a private little picnic at a local park. This one freaks women out in a god way and makes a lasting impression because they're always expecting to go to a movie, a lunch date, etc. They're not supposing something romantic because there simply aren't that many guys who are truly romantic.
And whatsoever you're motive is; whether it's to get to know her or just have a fling, women cant resist a romantic little date such as a picnic. Put some wine (if you're of legal drinking age), sandwiches, and fruits in a picnic basket and she may never dis remember this day for the rest of her life! This one works like magic almost each time.
If she goes you down after you ask her to go out with you on a specific day , you should politely say you understand and ask her. "What day is good for you?" If she static says she can't meet you within a few days tell her to call you erstwhile during the next week or so if she'd like to get together with you.
Whatever you do; don't call her after that, let her call you. If she doesn't call back within the following week, chances are she's not attentive. Move onto the next girl!
The biggest thing to keep on mind when it comes to knowing how to impress a girl you've before now made contact with is to not make yourself appear anxious, and to appear confident as if you've got somewhat going on for yourself, and to appear as if you know how to treat a lady...well like... a lady!

How to Impress a Girl at a Football Game

2011-03-20T07:07:00.000-07:00

With the Super bowl fast approaching it's a good time to talk around How to Impress a Girl at a Football Game while you're sitting on hard bleacher seats, smelling beer, popcorn, and well-cooked hot dogs. Doesn't sound very sex or tempting do it?
The preferred method, hands down, of picking up a chick at a football game is to have your very own tailgate party about 3-4 hours before kickoff time. So, if the game starts at 1:00 PM it's a good idea to acquire to the stadium at about 9:00 AM.
At tailgate parties there's usual a lot of booze everywhere, but even if you're old enough to drink, I wouldn't get completely ripped if I were trying to hook up with a football queen!
To pick up a woman while attending or hosting a tailgater, keep physically in check; there are always lovely ladies hanging out at football game and the whole notion is to never be more out of control than they are. Make sure you call as many friends as you can and ask them to bring as many ladies as possible.
Once you find a girl you can set your sights on, obviously you need to find out she's accompanied first, and if she's not, start flirting and flaunting your body language while looking for signs that she likes you or is at the very least involved.
Then when it comes to game time, ask her if she'll sit with you, and see if someone can exchange seats to provide accommodations your request. Here's where tips for attracting women at a football game become basic; try to have a great time without making a fool of yourself by not yelling loudly at the referees, and by not doing anything else only knuckleheads do at football games to draw undue courtesy to themselves.
During time-outs it's a good idea to engage in a little discussion, and at halftime, it's a great idea to make a concern stand and restroom run. You can start sealing the deal when it comes adjacent to the end of the game, even if the game is exciting ad going down to the wire. Merely talk to her during time-outs once again near the end of the game in the 4th quarter, and try to make actions or at least get her phone number.

So we hope you have learn t a lot from How to Impress a Girl at a Football Game when you are some where in stadium.

How to Impress a Girl at the Supermarket

2011-03-20T01:52:00.000-07:00

The rules are going to change a little bit if you want to learn how to impress a girl at a supermarket or grocery store; there's a fine line between targeting a great-looking chick and practicing the art of flirting, as opposed to making her feel uncomfortable by following her around the store just to get a whiff of her perfume!

Women generally like to be left alone while they shop for groceries because let's face it; buying food is a very personal thing and the last thing they're expecting is for some "creep" to be chasing their skirt through the aisles!

Some men swear a supermarket is the best place to meet women. Women who frequent supermarkets tend to obviously be more experienced than your average crowd; indeed most of them are married or divorced with children. That's not to say their aren't a few younger 20-something chicks with no ties at all hanging out and buying healthy stuff at the grocer's, and this is where you come in - that is...unless you're after a married one!
Either way, the best way to approach a woman in a supermarket is to not approach them at all. Let them come to you.
Let me explain; what you need to do is scope out the supermarket and when you find a chick you have interest in, you have to find a way to be in the area where she is going to be walking through without "creeping" her out! When she does approach your area, try to make friendly eye contact accompanied by a smile, and do not stare - act naturally and move away, continuing to shop. What you've just accomplished is the most important part of knowing how to impress a girl at a supermarket - she knows you exist!
If you happen to run into her in another part of the store after that, then it's perfectly OK to say "hi" and a humorous icebreaker like, "Isn't this the most enjoyable part of our week, when we go shopping for things we have no choice but to buy?" When talking to women in this type of setting you should be very casual and friendly, and you should refrain from coming on to her aggressively.
Then if her body language is receptive and inviting, and the situation calls for it, politely introduce yourself. At this point you can just key off of her response and take the conversation as far as you want to go and maybe get a phone number, or you can call it a day, go pay for your groceries and wait until the next time you see her; and you will!
Hope now you will be able to Impress a Girl at the Supermarket.

How to Impress a Girl at Will!

2011-03-20T01:37:00.000-07:00

However we want to call it, whether attracting women or how to impress a girl of your dreams, most of us get stuck just looking at these beautiful girls as they pass by without ever even saying, "Hello."

It's one of those mysteries in life for many of us men; we constantly live in a dream world, ogling the women of our dreams in a park, at an event, in a bar, or anywhere when all we really have to do is gain the knowledge of how to approach and talk to these beauties.

Haven't you ever wondered why that guy with the plain looks has been attracting the most beautiful chicks on the planet ever since high school and college. What the heck does he have that you haven't got?

No, it's not what the cowardly lion responded with when Dorothy of the Wizard of Oz asked the same question and he said, "Courage." It takes more than having the guts to walk up to a woman to be able to impress her.

It takes me back to my high school days. I knew someone I'll call Jeremy (I've changed his name so I don't embarrass him - everyone will eventually know who I'm talking about if I use his real name). Anyway, Jeremy was an acquaintance of mine; I wouldn't say he was a friend because he just hung around the group of friends I hung around with.

But one thing we guys all noticed about him was his ability to impress girls with "I don't know what!" He simply wasn't very good-looking at all. He wasn't even muscular for that matter. I think the only thing he had going for him was his gift of gab.

He would walk up to them, start a conversation, and eventually get the girl while we boneheads remained astounded and shaking our heads at his success.

I knew if he could do it, I could too! I just needed the right information.

A few years after high school graduation, I ran into this guy at a club and he was doing the same thing; he always had the best-looking chicks around him. I couldn't help myself. I had to ask him what his secret was on how to pick up women.

His answer didn't shock me. He told me, "There are many ways to impress a girl, but it starts with appearing sincere, relaxed, in-control, and being yourself." I picked his brain for about ten more minutes before he dumped my conversation like a sack of potatoes. Even though I was prodding for more information he said, "Dude, I gotta' go, sorry." And with that, one of the best-looking chicks grabbed his arm playfully and led him away.

I remember how I sat at the bar feeling like such a loser when it came to picking up women. Heck, I was in the prime of my life and I couldn't score to save my life! But I took his advice and ran with it, and in no time, I was enjoying success of my own; I finally knew how to impress a girl at will.

For a few years before I settled down and got married, I was a chick magnet! I met my wife using the very same techniques I'm going to share in this site with you.

In the coming weeks I'm hoping to share the information Jeremy gave me and I'll share some advice of my own so stay tuned!

How to Impress a Girl in College

2011-03-20T01:22:00.000-07:00

Shine blazingly and stand above your fellow student as you learn how to impress a girl in college. Put yourself physically ahead of the crowd and attract the girls you want to date. College chicks are hot! And impressing a girl in college is cool once you know the score.

Check the vibes:

Before you begin how to impress a girl in college, understand their attitude. College is a way station among high school and a career. Many college girls may look for exciting men to date and have relationships with. Overall, however, these girls are a short-lived bunch with goals. Be faithful about how long a relationship might last.

Feel her out:
Decide what she's about before jumping into impress a girl in college. Does she hang with a crowd? If so, is it mostly girls or a mixture of coeds? If she's with another dude, don't waste your time. Outsiders may be the easiest to impress as they don't have strong ties to others.

Express a good image:
Nothing impresses college girls more than a stout, positive image. Look after your grooming and own cleanliness. Be careful about your look. Wear bright beautiful clothes that fit, take care of your shoes and be neat with your special items.

Act with kindness:
Being respectful will impress college girls. In a world of shakes and bad boldness you will stand out.

Show off your IQ:

You're in school, so impress a girl in college by showing off your intellect. Get good grades, be a helpful lab partner and always take notes during lectures. She will notice your thoroughness and take her own notes about your extraordinary study habits.

Be serious:
If you're regular, prepared, and ready, you will impress a girl in college with your devotion to your education. After all, you're at college to advance your career. Women dig good earners who are smart, savvy and motivated. Make the most of your college involvement and you're sure to impress yourself, too!

Hope it has helped you a lot you must also read how to impress a girl.

How to Impress a Girl at School

2011-03-19T14:13:00.000-07:00

Meaningful how to impress a girl at school needs some education by itself. School is a great home to meet girls. The hard part might be grasping their attention, especially with so numerous other guys nearby. How will you stand out?

Answer questions in class:

Since you're at school, the greatest way to impress a girl is to be smart. Be attentive to your teacher and show your knowledge by answering questions in the class. Be cautious of being the only one to answer, however. You don't need to look like a know-it-all or teacher's pet.

Help with her homework:

You can impress a girl from school by serving her with her homework, particularly if she's struggling. This is the excellent chance to worm your way into her heart, or at least know-it-all your brains. Create with a study group and move on to one-on-one tutoring meetings.

Ask her for help:

You want to demonstrate that you're smart, but impressing a girl at school also means being a tiny bit susceptible. Ask for help on a problematic math equation, even if you are familiar with the answer. It's an introductory line, but who knows? It may lead to love.

Look your best:

Smart guys know that to how to impress a girl at school, you must keep up your entrance. With so many slimy males to contend with, why not put in the extra time to smooth your hair and shave? Most girls like clean guys that pong good. Even if you're the bad boy type, confirm that you are well put together.

Uphold you alpha status:

Being your own boss will impress the girls at school. No one likes a bully, and you surely don't want to stimulate fear, but girls prefer guys who don't back down and act like pushovers. Lead the rectangle rather than following, at least part of the time. So hope these lines had helped you a lot to learn how to impress a girl at school.

How to Attract a Girl

2010-12-19T07:04:00.000-08:00

1.Try to get attention by standing in the center
Do you want to be one who is always get noticed then always try to stand in the center of the room. If you are in bars or any other place then try to stand in the center of the room instead of corners. You may consider it as the scene of the movie where a beautiful girls come to a gentleman sitting in the center of the room and ask him for a cup of tea but it can also happen with you. This is one tip by which you can attract a girl.
2. THE Attraction Of Color
Try to wear the colors which are more attracted by the opposite sex.
According to Leatrice Eiseman, which have been a color expert says that blue is the color which is more attracted by the girls. The guys wearing blue like colors are favorite of the most babes.
Leatrice Eiseman, Says as girls often use to wear pink-peach color which looks more sexy. Res is also color of sex and get attracted by the girls.
3. Body Language That Rolls 'Em In

Have you ever think about your body language when you are talking to some body.
For men, appearing more prevailing successfully draws the attraction of girls. To attract girl, stand with your feet 10 inches apart, and toes pointing outer. Feel free to take up some more gap. For men who are sufferers of the "nice guy" badge, or who seems to be too acquiescent to attract girl, try enchanting your Y chromosome out for a spin. As said by the Dr. Mehrabian, men should "try wearing bulkier or more traditional hairstyles or clothing," hold your head up, and accelerate your speech and motions to be more assertive.
Body language tips for men:
When talking to a girl don’t fold your arms or chew a chew gum. According to Mehrabian, the chewing indicates nervousness or hindrance, neither of which are very gorgeous emotions

4. THE INFLUENCE OF A SMILE

The experts of Psychology and body language approve that one of the most significant things you can do to create yourself further attractive (and approachable) is to smile. Not a huge big plastic game-show smile, just your usual "I'm having a good time and I'm cheerful to be here" face will do the trick. As said by the Mehrabian, "the smile is the universal sign of friendliness." So, your beautiful smile can more likely impress a girl.

5. SEDUCTIVE WITH SCENT

Cinnamon and vanilla are associated with the scent of love. Aromatherapy specialists have long-thought cinnamon to be an aphrodisiac. Laura Davimes, an aromatherapy and herb expert , and owner of Herban Avenues, "certain aromatic plants exude oils similar to our own sexual secretions or pheromones. Wearing cinnamon/vanilla blends increases the presence of pheromone-like substances and dramatically increases attraction."
Which scent is more attractive to a girl? Black licorice scent is more attracted by the girls. So, use this black licorice scent.

How To Talk To Girls

2010-12-19T03:16:00.000-08:00

Instant Rapport With Girls
Can you really create instant rapport with just about anyone? Is such a thing even possible? Not only is it possible, it's really just a matter of simple psychology. The idea of establishing rapport with anyone is amazingly straightforward, and it’s based on the fact that most people are in love with themselves. Actually, they are in love with their own ideas and brilliant points of view. In order to get people to like you the major trick is merely to reflect their own “brilliance” back at them in such a way that it appears the two of you are on the same wavelength. Of course, that would be their wavelength! Not so difficult to understand, is it?As a man, rapport building with any girl begins with the ignition of that special spark called chemistry. I’m sure you know what I’m talking about. In order to achieve this elusive goal, however, it’s important to start off on the correct footing with her right out of the box… friendly, interesting, sexy, good mannered, confident, socially engaged (i.e., it appears that you actually have a life), a little bit edgy, and perhaps even just a bit intriguing in some way. Boiled down to its essence, the main thing you always want to accomplish on any initial encounter is to make a lasting, good first impression. You must understand how crucial this is. It’s like the old adage that suggests that once you've acquired the reputation of an early riser, you can sleep until noon and the world will still regard you as a guy who "gets up with the roosters". The reason for this is that people are mentally lazy… they would just as soon put a tag you – however ill-founded or inaccurate – rather than have to bother reconsidering you all over again every time they see you. It’s why so many of us come to rely on stereotypes instead of giving people an honest chance to express themselves before we decide who they are.

How To Talk To Girls
Realize this idea cuts both ways of course, and that a bad first impression will also cling to you like atomic dogshit. Therefore you must work hard to avoid making a bad first impression at all costs too… or you'll have blown it with that particular girl forever. Read that last word again – FOR-EV-ER! This means that you will never get a chance to go back and "undo" a lousy first impression. For instance, one of the very big no-no's of picking up girl is to act like a strongly-opinionated, know-it-all jackass who's constantly recommending how people should all do this and they should all do that. Any attempt to intellectually dominate another person (especially when you first meet them) is such a complete and total turn off to just about everyone, it's unlikely the perpetrator has any friends at all. For the sake of meeting girl then, you must learn how to become agreeable (but in a non-kiss ass way) that will serve to create an immediate sense of comfort and connection.
Look, punching through your shame and fear takes a lot of courage on your part -- but it will all be for naught if you don't follow through with that great first 4 minutes. Yes, four minutes… this is the miniscule length of time it typically takes for a girl to create her critical first impression of a guy, and then to mentally file him away under the category of either INTERESTING / HOT GUY or BORING / NICE GUY.
And once filed baby, that's where you will stay!
Alright then, so you begin the rapport building process first by drawing her out... listen to get a feel for what her interests are. Guide the conversation towards safe topics like hobbies, lifestyles, common friends, hang-outs, etc., but let her do the steering by responding to cues as to what she's willing to talk about. Then show her that you either have a similar interest, or that you are open-minded enough to learn more about whatever it is that interests her. In a moment, I’ll show you how to modify the language that you use in order to make this connection seem even more intense.
IMPORTANT: Don't go too far with this and come across like some kind of total "me too" lying fake either, because -- unless you're an award winning actor -- you don't stand a chance of pulling it off. Make sure that your interest in a particular topic is genuine, or you'd be better off to just say nothing and press the conversation forward in hopes of finding some common ground with her that's more to your liking. Some topics (like for instance shopping...) are just too feminine and you wouldn't be expected as a normal male to be too excited about them. She understands this, and in fact she could be slipping you a sophisticated test to see if you're full of shit. Be careful because, if she detects that you're being dishonest with her, the seduction is over. As with every aspect of seduction, you must always remain balanced between extremes in your behavior.
The ultimate goal of all this “seeking of commonality” is to give her something captivating to think about... later on. Why?... because we tend to convince ourselves about our insights into someone when we're off alone with our own thoughts. You might even say that we fall "in like" and then later on "in love" completely on our own. Falling in love is actually a self-hypnotic process which liberates neurochemicals that make us high -- and we keep going back after these drugs like any addict would. girl are especially fond of this "love drug" and will latch onto any guy who promises to keep it flowing!
In addition, focusing your attention on this search for common interests helps to keep your shame under control, because it keeps you busy with a task that occupies your mind and prevents you from back-sliding destructively into a zone of painful selfcenteredness ("I'm an asshole; I suck; I'm blowing this; I'm too nervous; what the fuck am I doing?; does she like me?; what should I say next?; should I ask her out now?; is that a snot I feel hanging out my nose?; I hate myself; I should have never said anything; how do I get out of this?; will I ever be able to come back here again and show my friggin' face?... etc.).
The fact that you are tasking instead of shame spiraling will distract you from your fear and allow you to project a more “together” vibe about yourself that is always highly attractive togirls.How To Get A Girl To Like You
The Eyes Have It

Let me tell you about a sneaky little social technology that you can use to create a warm feeling of connection with someone you’ve only just met. It involves reading their eyes to see what kind of sensory input they prefer to use when constructing their thoughts -- and then matching their favored thought preference with your choice of language.
People tend to fall into three distinct categories when it comes to using one of their primary senses to generate thoughts -- those that use their eyes, their ears or their feelings. By far most people are visuals (60%) who tend to create pictures in their minds when they think of things. Other people however (30%) are auditories who lean heavily on the use of remembered sounds and re-constructed speech dialogs to do most of their thinking. These people are often heavily into “sonic” pastimes like music or are often musicians themselves. The rarest group of all (10%) are tough to find... they are known as kinesthetics, and they prefer to rely on emotional feelings and sensations to guide their thought processes. You can really have fun with a kinesthetic girl if you can find one… they are easy to get a rise out of.
Your ability to use sensory-matching to gain rapport with someone will tend to vary inversely with how common that particular form of thinking is to be found among the general population.
Huh? What I'm trying to say is that, since most people are visuals for instance, they tend to find a lot of natural rapport with other people on a day-to-day basis, merely by pure chance. Since 60% of everyone is a visual (like me), we're bumping into other “visuals” all the time. Therefore, matching your figures of speech with a visual by using terms like "I see what you mean... that looks like a really great magazine you're reading..." may not even get noticed, especially in an emotionally-charged situation like a pick up. So this trick will not be very effective, for visuals.
However, the other two types of thinkers – auditories and kinesthetics – are found more rarely, and are therefore more intrigued and favorably influenced by an encounter with someone who seems to share their thinking style. This is especially true of the kinesthetics, who are notably more emotional than most people to begin with and can often be manipulated with a come-on that seems passionately charged. (Now, now... just because you'll soon know how to psychologically manipulate someone doesn't mean you are ethically free to do anything that isn't in her (as well as your own) best interests. Play nice!)
But more on all that in a minute. First let me show you how to read someone's eyes to find out what their preferred thought process is. It's really pretty simple. You've seen how people will cut their eyes in one direction when they're thinking about something or working over an image in their mind? We all do it, it's very common. Well, it turns out that the specific direction that we turn our eyes tells us what part of the brain is being accessed. The eyes act like a pointer... revealing that an individual is stimulating a particular portion of his brain where visual memories are being stored, or that segment of the mind used to create audible dialogs, or remembered feelings etc.
Eye cues are highly reliable because people perform them unconsciously and therefore they are beyond being faked.
For instance, when you ask someone a question that causes them to imagine something, their eyes will move in a direction that reveals just exactly how they prefer to frame their memories, and there are only three ways that it can happen. Either they form a picture in their minds to look at, or they hear sounds or a verbal dialog of people speaking, or they try to recall how something made them feel when they experienced it.
For example, let's pretend to ask some hippie-looking girl that we're trying to establish a rapport with, "Have you ever been to a Grateful Dead concert on a hot August night?" Now watch her eyes. A visual thinker will always look upwards when they ponder something, forming pictures in their mind and viewing them on a mental ‘screen' that only they can see. Whether they look to the left or right doesn't really matter that much(actually, looking to their left means they're remembering some image they've seen before, while looking to their right suggests that they're creating something new and imagining how it must look, if you wish to get super-technical about it). Our little hippie chick is seeing a picture of Garcia and the boys jamming on stage. Either she pulled an image up from memory (if she's actually been to a Dead concert), or she's trying to imagine what it must look like if she hasn't. What's really important is that you've identified her as someone whose thinking mode is primarily visual in nature.
This is the way that most (60%) of us commonly think however, and therefore isn't really all that useful because it's too conventional to exploit.
Eye Cues: All visuals look up (to the left or right) when they think.

Okay. A more rare find is an audible, a person who prefers to think in sound patterns. Thinking audibly forces a person to cut their eyes either to the left or right, but they keep their eyes level when doing so, they don't look upwards. This can be tricky to spot but if you watch carefully you can make the distinction. Our cute little friend is listening to a Garcia guitar rift in her mind... hearing the Dead play. Perhaps if you had asked her a question that involved recalling voices instead, she would have heard the dialog in her mind as opposed to seeing people speaking. The auditory's world is dominated by remembered sounds, voices and music.
Eye Cues: Auditories look to the left or right with eyes level when thinking.
But how does this information have any practical value for you? Well, once you know someone's thinking preference you can make a pointed effort to match their pattern by inserting conversational cues that suggest that you too share the same cognitive bias. This creates an instant feeling of closeness and camaraderie because the basis of all romantic attraction is simply this: people like people who seem similar to themselves. Finding someone so in tune with your own way of seeing the world validates your viewpoints and opinions. Stumbling across another person who seems to be on your wavelength – who holds the promise of one day being able to communicate with you in the shorthand of discerning glances – can be quite thrilling, for either sex.
This kind of intimate clue about a girl can be very useful in the early stages of a seduction. It allows you to capture an intuition about her that should have a good chance of being accurate, and this sets you up for being just a little bit mysterious and intriguing. "I have a sense about you... you are into music pretty heavily, do you play some kind of instrument?" you ask knowingly. Her return look is one of amazed curiosity. Bingo!... how the hell did you know that? girls love to discover this kind of mystery in a guy... especially one they're only just meeting. It's straight out of a gooey romance novel. Hell, it's what they live for!
This notion of influencing the subconscious is very important because you'll want to impress a girl with your similar outlook and style below the level of her awareness. This is where she will mull over her feelings and conjure up that "delicious sense" about you later on. She'll realize that you were saying things like "I hear what you mean" instead of I see what you mean, and so on. I know this takes some swift thinking on your feet, but it's well worth the effort. And remember that you can practice with anyone, not just a cute girl, so the pressure is off.
Once you've identified an auditory girl -- try to sprinkle your conversation with a lot of "sound" words like hear, rings true, talk, tell, harmony, tunes, clear as a bell, music to my ear, etc. On a subconscious level, she will begin to get a sense that you like to think in sounds also (even if you normally don't) and this will begin to forge a sense of connectedness between the two of you. When an auditory-type girl bumps into a guy who says things like "That sounds like a lot of fun, when the guitar notes echo off the back wall of the stadium and come humming back down over the crowd like that it makes your whole body pulsate in the same rhythm with everyone else. The music just seems to muffle everybody out..." it makes her stop and take notice. Hey, you're different... you're a lot like... me!
Are you grasping how persuasive a technique like this can be? Look at how I've deliberately salted the above example with words that evoke a sense of sound instead of pictures. The auditory will be fascinated to find someone who appears to be on their own audio wavelength -- especially if he happens to be a well-mannered, confident, dominant male... like you!
And finally, the kinesthetic.
Kinesthetics are even more rarely encountered than auditories, but you'll want to always be on the lookout for one when doing the "eye check" part of your pick-up routine, because it can be really easy to establish a deep emotional connection with this kind of girl almost immediately. Kinesthetics think with their feelings. When you ask them to recall something, they will try to get a sense of how something felt to them at the time it was happening. With a kinesthetic chick, emotions will always be her primary power source.
The kinesthetic has only a single eye-movement signature that's easy to spot if you watch for it carefully. She will always move her eyes down and to her right (your left as you look at her) when she ponders something in response to one of your clever questions (you know, the ones that get her to think deep about something, like "would you describe most of your friends as being loyal?" or something similar that makes her go far down into her mind to dig out an answer...). This particular eye movement links her thought processes directly to the emotional center of her brain. Watch for it!
Eye Cues: Kinesthetics look down and to their right when thinking.
Later, I'll demonstrate how you can exploit this quirk of neurobiology to give any girl (no matter if she's a visual, audio, stereo or DVD) a super-charged orgasm that will
have her calling you Master in no time at all! For now though, let's work on controlling our fears...
Anchors Aweigh
The most difficult part of approaching girls is often the need to keep generating the willpower to repeatedly experience the shameful feelings that lie at the root of your rejection sensitivity over and over again -- especially when that dreadful “moment of opportunity” first occurs. This is when they are strongest and seemingly most impossible to overcome. The good news is that a simple NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) trick called anchoring can help.
The basic premise of anchoring involves replacing a negative, fearful emotion with an upbeat and positive one by linking the replacement emotion to a physical "trigger" -- like the notable stimulation of a specific part of the body -- and then firing it off when needed to instantly pull the good feeling up on demand. This replacement feeling should be one of genuine strength and power because, if it's strongly enough imagined, it will shove the negative emotion aside and take its place -- modifying your mood exactly when you need it the most.
Briefly, the anchoring process works like this: First you need to decide on what kind of physical stimulus to use as a trigger. It has to be something that you can do unobtrusively, since in our particular case it will be used "in the field" when we're considering approaching a girl . NLP trainers suggest you squeeze your wrist or tug on the third finger of your left hand to fire off an anchor, but I never had much luck with those kinds of triggers since they seem too ordinary and tend to get lost among all the normal daily actions that your hands go through.
What I do instead is use a very small rubber band as a trigger because the sensation forms a distinct memory in your nervous system. I loop the band around my wrist and keep it hidden behind my watchband where no one can see it. Pull the rubber band upwards and stretch it about an inch away from your skin, and then let it snap back. The small sting that it makes is your trigger. You can snap it either on the top or the bottom of your wrist, but once you make your choice be sure to stick with it consistently because you'll be teaching yourself to associate this specific jolt with a particular kind of emotional storm in your brain, so it's important that the feeling is exactly the same every time. Otherwise the neurology gets confused and nothing happens.

Next you must find some block of time each day where you can be alone to practice for about ten or fifteen minutes in a quiet, private place. Try for total silence, but if it's impossible to find a spot where there's no background racket leaking in, you might want to use some gentle music to cover over it. Get one of those New Age CD's -- Sensual Massage or Winds in the Woods… something like that. (No music with lyrics, lyrics are too distracting.) Even nature sounds like birds or ocean waves will work okay. Try to set aside a period of time each day for your training, since this is a conditioning exercise. Brains aren't like computers... you can't just install new software in one quick n' easy operation and watch the machine begin flawlessly performing new tasks. Brains must be taught new ways to process reality by repeatedly exposing them to the same training stimuli over and over again until fresh neural pathways are formed.
All training of any kind is either a mental or psychomotor skill (like playing piano or shooting foul shots) that is based on constant, boring repetition until the brain locks the actions into its deep memory somewhere and the task finally becomes "automatic". You have to be committed to seeing any type of training through to its completion. If you play with this a few times and give up, you won't experience any results.
Okay, here's the NLP drill: Get yourself into a relaxed state by listening to the music or the sound of your own breathing. Get a book on yoga -- they have some fantastic relaxation/breathing techniques. Make sure you have the rubber band in place and have decided on how to snap it every time, (over or under). Once you're relaxed, you need to conjure up a very happy or powerful feeling from your past memories and re-live it within your mind. This should be some kind of event or moment when you were swept with feelings of competence and power, as if you'd just won the Stanley Cup and are skating it around the rink held over your head with thousands of people cheering and your team mates surrounding you (what the hell, you won the Con Smythe too!). Not a hockey guy? How about a spacewalk in the Shuttle payload bay? Floating along and watching the Earth slip by... Whatever you decide to use, you'll have to really get into the fantasy until you can feel the chills running up and down your spine. For this to work, the imagery has to produce a pathway to these kind of intensely powerful feelings.
It's those awesome feelings that you'll want zapping through your brain as you reach over and snap the band. Snap once or twice, but always the same way. If you can't seem to think of an intensely upbeat personal experience, then make one up. Borrow something from one of your favorite movies. Put yourself in the role of Bruce Willis kicking some ass in Die Hard, or whatever. Take your time to replay the scene in great detail in your imagination, feeling the rush of emotions build as you do. When those emotions hit a chilling peak as the scene climaxes (“yippee ki-yo ki-yay, mutherxxxxxx..." ) make sure that the action is surrounding you at its center (put yourself in the scene, not standing back as an outside observer like you're watching it all happen on TV), then snap the band. Calm yourself down, then do it once more. Two experiences per training session every day for a month will do the trick.
I used to use the music from 2001: A Space Odyssey and imagine myself whizzing through the Universe. Then when the music peaked I would trigger the band snap and let the flood of emotions rush through me. After a while I could jolt myself into the same powerful state just by snapping the band when I was out someplace!
You might think this is all bullshit but it really does work. Unfortunately, you've got to stick with the training for several weeks. Yeah, I know… sorry, but I didn't invent how your brain works. Once we all switch over to CyberDyne micro-cranial CPU implants I'm sure this'll all get a lot easier. For now, this is the best we can do.
This entire procedure shouldn't steal more than 10 minutes out of your day. If you commit yourself to doing it on a regular basis (5 days a week?…), not so much the
fantasy scene but the emotions it creates will become associated with the sting of the band snapping in your unconscious mind. You can use different fantasy scenes if you want to so you don't get bored with the same one. Just make sure that the passions you generate make you feel powerful, omnipotent and confident before you let the band snap. Wait until you have the perfect "high" buzzing around in your head before snapping the band. That's really all there is to it.
Use this anchoring trick whenever you find yourself in a situation where you need immediate courage, or to cut off the defeating self-talk in your head that tries to stop you whenever the opportunity to chat-up some foxy chick presents itself. This can be a great weapon to use when toxic shame comes tagging along with those affection-craving emotions that you would like to be able to experience without feeling embarrassed. Now you can
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How To Get A Girl to Like You

2010-12-19T01:47:00.000-08:00

Creating Attraction Through Your Body Language
Even though you spent your whole educational life (infancy through college) studying verbal language (i.e., the spoken and written word), communication researchers have found that the vast majority of communication happens on a NONVERBAL level.
The best estimates are that…
Our nonverbal signals (facial expressions, vocal tonality, and body movements) account for anywhere from 66% to 93% of our communication.
Often we are not conscious of what we're doing with our bodies. If you feel nervous for instance, you may not notice that you’re constantly looking downward, clearing your throat, saying “um” and “ah” a lot, and tugging your ears.
But others around you, particularly girls, will pick up on those signals. Why do girls pick them up so easily? Because they've been trained to.
You see, the typical hot Girl has been hit on for so long that she has developed a keen sense for reading a guy's signals.

Imagine what it’s like to be a hot girl. Through childhood, men act normal toward her and around her.
And then all of a sudden, at age 13, people get all weird. Occasionally a man who’s a complete stranger will say “excuse me” and then beg for her phone number. Then she notices that she can walk into a reception room and every male head will turn, even when it means the men are ignoring their dates.
She notices that guys act different when all she's trying to do is have a normal conversation with them.
Basically, the typical hot girl moves through life assuming that just about every guy is attracted to her. But she can’t give just any guy a chance. With a dozen guys throwing themselves at her at any given moment, how can she choose among them?
And even if she did decide to date one of them, she’d get stuck with some beta male who'd stifle her and take all the fun out of her life.

A Girl would rather be with a man who’s exciting

So because of this, the typical hot woman has had to learn how attractive men move.
Or as one world-class woman put it to me, “I can tell if a guy is going to get laid simply by how he acts.”
This is an important point… guys who are getting laid act like it. This makes these alpha males attractive to chicks.
This is just like that old truism that banks only want to loan money to people who don’t need it. Well, that truism applies to a girl as well. They find guys sexually attractive who are already having sex.
This is good news for you though. It means you can short-circuit a woman’s mind by acting, through your body language, like a guy who has lots of sex. These are key, specific techniques (and a few to avoid) that attract the best girl… without ever speaking to them!
In a nutshell, the difference boils down to this… Men who get laid are relaxed and confident. Those who are sexually frustrated act in a manner that practically screams desperation.
Have you ever noticed the way a guy acts when he’s desperate? Probably you’ve done some or all of these following behaviors yourself (I know I have!)…
1) Leaning in toward the woman right after meeting her.
This is what most “creepy” guys who hit on girl do. They do this because they’re way too interested for having just met the woman.
A woman finds this to be creepy when she has done nothing to earn such attention from a guy. Obviously he just “wants something” from her.
Instead, use your body language to reward the woman. If she says something interesting, then (and only then) lean towards her.
2) Folding your arms.
This is a protective gesture people do when feeling nervous. If a woman detects that you feel nervous, it will instantly damage the attraction she feels for you
3) Holding your feet close together.
Beta males do this as a self-comforting gesture when they feel tense.   It sends out a signal saying, “I'm not a threat!”
But the bottom line is that an alpha male is not afraid to take up space. So spread your feet when you stand, if you want Girl to later spread their legs when they’re lying down with you!
4) Asking a Girl questions in rapid fire.
The last 500 guys who hit on her did this too. Normal conversations involve people getting to know each other gradually, not through games of 20 Questions.
You also reveal too much of your interest in the Girl when you do the 20 Questions thing. It’s far better to simply make neutral statements rather than ask rapport-seeking questions.
5) Clearing your throat constantly and using vocalized pauses such as “um” and “ah.”
Ever felt anxious as you began giving a public speech? I bet you engaged in those behaviors then! Avoid making any of the noises that you emit when you feel nervous.
6) Trying to do all the talking. Not waiting for the Girl to speak.
This communicates to her that you’re afraid she’ll walk away. And if you don’t let her get a word in edgewise, she will.
An alpha male has so many girls in his life that he couldn’t care less if one of them walked away. And even if you don’t have so many girls, you can at least act like you do.
7) Getting drunk before talking to girls.
Most guys seem to need “liquid courage” because they’re afraid of rejection. So merely by not being like them, you’ll separate yourself above the pack.
8) Smiling too often.
This is done in social situations when you're trying too hard to fit in. Also, as I explain in the chapter entitled, “24 Nonverbal Cues That Scream, 'I’m Non-Dominant’”, smiling is what beta primates do to show alphas that they’re not a threat. So don't smile unless there’s something to smile about. How To Get A Girl to Like You
One of the most educational activities you can engage in is people watching. Find the guys with the most confidence and success, and then model what they do.
Who are these guys? They are the CEOs and celebrities, the leaders and men of high status in society.
They stay calm under pressure and have strong self-esteem, an attitude about themselves that is superhuman.
Watch their body language… how they move, how they stand, and how they use their voice. They radiate massive confidence with every motion they make because they carry themselves in a controlled, relaxed manner. Here is a list of things that alpha males do to get a girl.
1) Keep their movements and voice entirely consistent.
If the mood of the conversation is low energy, then they sit back and spread out in their seat and speak calmly.
If anything is out of sync… like say you move and talk like George Clooney but fidget by bouncing your knee up and down when sitting… then people will think you’re just trying too hard to look cool.
But if you stay consistent and congruent, then people will think you are cool.
2) Spread out.
Alpha males aren’t afraid to keep their arms comfortably spread out while sitting or standing.
Nor are they ever afraid to be comfortable. For example, the alpha males at the top are apt to sit leaned back in their chairs, with their hands clasped behind their head and feet up on the desk.
3) Speak with open hands.
Watch children when they’re super pleased and want to tell you about something they’ve achieved. They'll show their hands openly, displaying their palms. Adult alpha males, who are free of feelings of defensiveness and fear, do the same thing.
4) Take up territory, even when it encroaches into others’ territory.
Alpha males will touch someone’s arm to emphasize a point. They’ll spread out their legs and/or arms when standing in a crowd. They’ll put their arm around the shoulders of a man of lower status. They’ll spread around their possessions--e.g., newspaper and cellphone--when sitting in a cafe.
5) Stand proudly, with arms at their sides and shoulders in a comfortable position.
Try this exercise: Close your eyes, and wiggle your shoulders around and around. Then suddenly let your arms relax. See where they are at that point?
That's right… they’re by your side.   And your shoulders are down rather than in a “shrugging” position.
6) Make frequent eye contact.
You don’t have to focus in on their eyeballs… just sort of let your eyes blur and gaze into their eyes rather than staring.
7) Blink less, since they feel relaxed.
8) Occasionally, when making a point, hold their hands with fingertips together in a “church steeple” shape, at face level.
Research on business executives has shown that the more important a man thinks he his (i.e., the higher his self-esteem), the higher he will hold his hands when doing this gesture.
9) Are rarely, if ever, truly in a hurry.
Usually alpha males walk and talk smoothly, as if they were completely in control of the world. They are the calm in the center of the storm.
10) Let others lean toward them in conversations, not the other way around.
11) Have a relaxed face.
Not frowning. Not laughing unless there’s something that’s truly funny. Not wrinkling their brows unless they hear something that genuinely fascinates them.
The following attributes are what a Girl finds attractive in a man, all of which are prototypical alpha male traits. As you work on your body language to be more spread out, slow, take up space, and so on, you can non-verbally convey these traits:
1) Being comfortable with yourself.
2) Being spontaneous rather than carefully controlled.
3) Not taking yourself too seriously.
4) Being interesting.
5) Being trustworthy. Do this by being congruent with your body language, rather than, for example, having a relaxed upper body and face but bouncing your knee up and down.
6) Making girl feel safe.
7) Being non-needy, so she's the one chasing him (not the other way around).
8) Feeling sexual.
9) Having good looks because you've worked on your appearance.
10) Having high self-esteem. Being sure of yourself.
11) Being exciting.
12) Being a leader.
Good body language

Good body language can come from one of two things… either your inner state is solid or you’ve got such great muscle memory that you’re always projecting the body language of an alpha male.
On the other hand, as well, the two feed off of each other… the more alpha you are on the outside, the more alpha you are on the inside. And vice versa.
But having said that, the more important of the two is having a solid inner state. The reason is that if you feel confident, happy, relaxed and in control, then your body language will reflect that without you even having to think about it.
If you’re thinking consciously about how tense your shoulders are and how you need to relax them, then you’ll distract yourself from focusing on your conversation.
But if you get yourself to the point where you are always the most relaxed person in any social situation, then your shoulders will naturally be loose.
However, as the old saying in the self-improvement industry goes, you can “fake it till you make it.”
The next time you’re in a conversation with somebody, catch yourself if you’re smiling for no good reason. Instead, relax your face. Catch yourself if you lean forward without the person having earned your interest. Instead, lean back.
After awhile, more alpha body language will become a natural impulse for you.
It’s kind of like the way you become good at typing. At first, the correct way to type can be awkward and difficult because you're so used to “hunting and pecking” with your pointer finger on the keyboard.
But as you develop more muscle memory, you develop the instincts that allow you to naturally move in the best possible way.
So work on both areas. Have solid inner game, with the power mindset of “I am confident, relaxed, happy, and in control. I am the most laid-back person in any social situation.” At the same time, retrain your muscles so that you always have the appropriate movements.
What If She Has a Boyfriend?

A reader asked me a particularly interesting question, which I’d like to share: “What if she has a boyfriend who’s bad for her, and I’d like her to go with me instead?”
I felt his pain. Particularly for a guy without a lot of experience with girl (and believe me, I’ve been there before), it can break your heart when you’ve found your dream girl – but she’s already someone else’s dream girl. This is especially sad when you realize how much better you would be for her than the complete loser she's dating.
If this describes you, don't worry. We've all been in this situation, and the good news is that the problem has been solved!
My answer was that first, don’t be like the typical chump who says clichés like, “He’s not right for you.” The girl has probably heard this a thousand times from a thousand guys, so you will need to be more subtle.
                                       You need to get under her radar.
To do this, think of how a radar works -- it scans an area to see if there are any airplane-sized objects flying in a particular altitude. Why? Because that’s where planes commonly fly!
If a radar scans the sky at too low of an altitude, then there’s too much interference from other “false positives” (like tall trees) to get an accurate reading. So radars don’t bother with the low altitudes. And that’s why the smart pilots wanting to infiltrate territory will fly just above the tree tops.
Similarly, a Girl’s radar detects the typical tactics that guys use to try to get into her panties. And saying “You should dump that guy because he’s bad for you” is one of those triggers that sets off her radar!
So, how do you get under her radar and prevent an accurate reading of your intentions, you ask?
You do it by… defending the jerk who’s her boyfriend.
You read that right. The key is in the manner with which you “defend” him.
Do it in a way that makes him look like a needy loser. Tell her…
“You know what? It sounds like he’s acting that way because he’s afraid to show his vulnerability to you. He’s scared he’ll lose you entirely. He knows he can’t get another girl like you.”
To put it another way, no matter how good this other guy’s tactics are, re frame them to be those of a beta male. Talk about how he’s really nice and really needy…
“It's good that he didn't call you. Have you ever thought that he didn’t call you because he’s afraid of losing you?”
From there, you’ve planted the special seed in her mind, so you can go on with displaying attractive traits and getting her attracted to you.
Then watch as she almost unconsciously breaks her attachment to What’s-His-Name… while becoming irresistibly drawn to you.
So that’s how you get a Girl to start having amnesia about her loser boyfriend and start liking you instead.
But what about when it’s not a jerk, and instead she’s stuck with her beta-male boyfriend who's just not "doing it for her" in the bedroom?... and so you detect she wants to have some “no strings attached” sex with you (which is a lot more common that you might suspect)?
There’s no reason to try to break the two of them up if all she wants (and all you want) is sex rather than a relationship.
For such situations, there are four magic words you can tell her. These four ultra-powerful words are elegant in their simplicity and power and have worked wonders for me on many occasions to make the Girl instantly obsessed about having sex with me. And they’ll work for you too!
I’ve had sex with plenty of girl who have been stuck in relationships with boring men, and the road to the lay has always been paved by guarantees of discretion and secrecy.
Unfortunately, society has conditioned girl to fear the label of “slut.” Although it’s horrible that so many girl go through life being a slave to what other people think, there’s nothing you can do to change that fact. Instead you must work around it.
So key words for you to tell her are…
“We will keep everything discreet.”
Then quickly change the subject to something more interesting.
Telling her that the two of you will maintain discretion and keep everything under wraps will soothe that portion of her mind that says, “What if I get caught cheating? What if my friends and colleagues think I'm a whore?”
Quickly changing the subject prevents her from dwelling on the subject too much.
In the seduction process, the last thing you want is for a Girl to think. Instead you want her to feel. In other words, the way into a Girl’s panties is through emotions, not logic.
Another important point about human psychology that you need to understand is that people are situational and state-dependent.
The way this applies with girl(especially aGirl who is not happy with her boyfriend) is that if aGirl meets a guy who has been engaging her and making her feel amazing for the past hour, then she’ll conveniently forget about her boyfriend, because for the past hour, her boyfriend has NOT been the one making her feel so good.How To Get A Girl to Like You
That has been one of the most mind-blowing truths I’ve learned since becoming good with girl. Time and time again, I've seen firsthand how a girl can swear she’s in love with her boyfriend one moment, and then 8 hours later she’s practically forgotten about him.
It’s also instructive to have a lot of female friends. You’ll learn how often seemingly “wholesome” girl cheat on their boyfriends… and husbands… without the men ever catching on. (It’s important to note that a Girl will almost never cheat on an alpha male who keeps her attracted. Almost always it is the beta males or the jerks who get cheated on.)
So whether a Girl is dating some asshole who mistreats her, or some low-status guy who bores her, you can take advantage of that fact.
By the way, female promiscuity is not something that you should feel upset about. It’s a natural part of life.   girl love sex just as we men do. It’s just that girl have to keep it a secret for the sake of their reputation.
If you want to have sex with a Girl who’s dating some guy who’s not right for her, not only should you assure her that no one will ever know about it, but you also shouldn’t try to replace her boyfriend.
A lot of men make that mistake. They’ll try to show this chick who’s been in an 11-month relationship that she can dump that other guy and have an instant replacement.
Unfortunately, girl don’t think that way about the men they date. For a Girl, a relationship is something to be eased into. So you need to make her feel comfortable with you. Don’t have her feel like you’re putting pressure on her.
The idea of you being the replacement for her boyfriend also communicates neediness on your part. An alpha male is sexual and lets girl be the ones who worry about the relationship aspects.
It took me awhile to crack that code, but once I did, I had success with many new girl over
the years by not putting any sort of relationship pressure on them. Every time, the girlhad a reaction of, “I love that we can just have sex and you won’t try to date me and call me 10 times a day like the other guys.”
When you first encounter this, it will revolutionize what you once thought you knew about girl. But it makes sense. You see, the last thing aGirl who’s getting over a bad relationship needs is yet another guy who’s going to give her bullshit and become a potential stalker! So just focus on the sex, and let the “relationship chips” fall where they may.
So, to sum up, when you’re trying to get a chick who’s stuck in a relationship with some loser, remember that the main thing you need to do is make her feel comfortable. Make sure she knows that anything the two of you do will be strictly confidential. Finally, make sure she knows that sex with you doesn't have to mean anything unless she wants it to.
Getting Over Your Social Anxiety

You don’t need prescription drugs, alcohol or therapy to get over your fear of talking to strangers. I have an exercise for you to do for the next two weeks, which involves saying just one word, which will help you get over your fears of talking to people.
And the more you do it, the more natural it will feel to chat people up.
The exercise is to simply say “hi” to everyone you run across. It doesn't matter who… whether it’s an elderly man, a kid, a fat Girl, the mailman, or a hot chick.
When you walk down the sidewalk and pass by someone, say “hi.” When you’re at work walking down a hallway, say “hi” to people. When you’re at the grocery store, say “hi” to your fellow shoppers as you pass them.
Here's the key though: don't wait for them to say “hi” back to you. Don’t even care whether they reply to you.
Some people--especially hot girl who get hit on constantly--may ignore you when you greet them. But who gives a shit?
Look at it as if it is only a game. It is no big deal. The point of the exercise is to take the first baby step of getting over your fear of talking to strangers.
Remember, there is no need for you to care one bit what people think of you when you greet them.
Adopt the mindset that you’re pretending the person is familiar to you. In other words, pretend you’re an actor playing the part of someone smiling and saying “hi” to someone they recognize.
This will prevent you from being too self-analyzing when you’re running this exercise. Analysis causes doubt, and when you doubt, you sabotage yourself.
The only way to confront your fears is to face them head on. In order to quickly and consistently meet girl and get laid, you're going to have to develop the ability to comfortably talk to strangers. Period.
So, to sum up, go out there and say “hi” to everyone you meet for the next couple weeks. And don’t put one thought into what they think of you, nor whether they even say “hi” back.
Finally, don’t put pressure on yourself to have any sort of conversation after your greeting.
How to Detach Yourself From Desperation
Animals smell fear, and girl smell desperation.
If you’re desperate to get laid, one of two things will happen: 1. Nothing. 2. A Girl will turn her back on you.
What is the main cause of desperation, this emotion that girl have an almost supernatural sense of detection for? It is, simply, being ATTACHED TO AN OUTCOME with them.
By getting rid of your attachment to outcomes, you’ll immediately remove “the smell of desperation” from yourself. And what’s more, owning this simple secret can get you laid more often than a great haircut, a killer body, a fat bank account and a new BMW… combined.
You see, if you go out needing to get laid, you drastically decrease your chances of success. It’s one of the supreme ironies of life.
However, the good news is that there is a simple secret to detaching yourself from outcomes.
The answer comes from a new-agey book called A Course in Miracles…
“Those who are certain of the outcome can afford to wait, and without anxiety.”
Re-read that statement and ponder it for a second.
While I'm not saying you should start eating sprouts and singing “Kumbaya,” make that quote a mainstay of your life’s philosophy and your success with girl will propel to the stratosphere. The key to being patient is being certain.
You should feel totally certain that, given enough time, your ever-improving personality, confidence, appearance and exciting and interesting life will make success with girl inevitable.
Because you know this, you can turn your thoughts away from any desired outcomes.
No need to constantly think, “Will I ever get a girlfriend?”, because you know that you definitely will. This then eases your feelings of anxiety, anger, or depression, and sets your mind at ease.
It allows you to focus on whatever you’re occupied with during the present moment--whether you’re in conversation with a Girl, doing something fun that you enjoy (e.g., painting,music, extreme sports, etc.), or working at a vocation that you’re passionate about.
You will practice all the things that will make you attractive to girl, and then you’ll allow the events to simply unfold.
So your inner feeling is that what you want from Girl is practically already here. As a consequence, you can feel good knowing that you have already “gotten the girl,” i.e., obtained the success that you seek.
When you become impatient, you literally devalue yourself. Impatience means you don’t trust in yourself.
So the bottom line is, feel certain about the outcome, but set yourself free from the need to care about the how and when your success will come.
Workplace Romances?

Are you dying to hook up with that perfect girl from the Accounting Department… but terrified over office rumors, the humiliation of being rejected, or even sexual harassment complaints?
The basic bottom line of any situation with a Girl is that you really can’t be sure with her unless you make some kind of move (and it’s almost always up to the man to make that move), but with chicks from your workplace, you have a big problem: that she’s from your workplace!
If you make a move and screw it up, you’ll still need to see that Girl every day, subjecting you to a whole host of potential problems.
Well, put your fears to rest. You can eliminate all of your risk… and finally know what it feels like to move your hand deeply up her skirt, as you share a warm slippery kiss… on company time.… by doing this:
Sit back and let her make all the moves.
Girl like a guy who’s a challenge, and by letting her do all the work, you both provide that challenge for her and reduce your risk to zero.
And also, the way you get that perfect girl is…
By no longer considering her your “perfect girl”
You see, that’s the wrong attitude to have! One of the biggest mistakes a man can make is to put all his romance eggs in one basket.
By that I mean that Girl perceive a man as unattractive if there’s only one Girl he really wants and will work to win over.
Though that's the Hollywood ideal of the romantic man, why does that reek of beta male loser status? Because it comes from a frame (or mindset) of scarcity.
An alpha male has a frame of abundance with Girl. As a consequence, it doesn't matter that much what happens with any particular chick.
So with that “perfect girl” at your work, you wouldn't worry about it one way or the other.
Meanwhile you should be talking to/dating/sleeping with as many other Girls as you can. Because believe me, name any quality of that "perfect girl" at your workplace, and there are tons of other Girls out there with the same quality.
So take the opportunity to meet new Girl outside of your workplace, and let the Girl you work with make the moves. For example, if she wants you she'll probably think of an excuse to have you go to lunch with her, such as “I need advice about how I can do my job better.”
Ironically, by letting Girl at your work make all the moves and by being the guy who talks with lots of chicks outside of work, that will increase your odds with that “perfect girl” from the accounting department. Hope you have learned a lot that How To Get A Girl to Like You .