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Age not a barrier to achievement

2013-11-18T09:29:00.004-08:00

Walking off the street one of these days. i heard a story of a man who died in his fifties. He died with many achievements; he had houses, business connection, investment and he was generously a philanthropic. So, people were trying to sympathize with the family and some of these people formed a group outside the family house, one of these man said ‘he died very young’ and another replied ‘Must he be old as Methuselah and achieve nothing?’. The other man replies touched me somehow and i tried to reason with him.

Many of these arguments are common among youths and old people who believe that there is a particular age you need to get to and once that age elapses, nothing is forthcoming. Well this statement is blessed with good reason if you care to listen them. With my knowledge about great people who had made it in life not through thuggery of through illegal mean s but have got wealthy, rich, famous out of their own toil, the luck came at the expected time. You need to read success stories of these people. So for clarification i have tried to bring out some of the popular ones to bring hope to many people who are dying with this believe that ‘when is fortune going to see to my life, is time not running out ?’ Grouping these people into two sections they are; those who made it early in life and those who made it at old ages.

Those who made it early in life; it is believed that this stage i is of much importance to every being. Yes, i do not disprove that. In fact i am affirmative about that. Youth are embedded with the strength to work endlessly. Take for example in one of my friend who came back from College on holiday was discussing the School generally with me and made mention of stress, frustrations that the environment gives. He talked about how you just have to queue up for this and that, and the funniest thing is that you spend hours on the line due to low work force among the college community. Then i thought about this, and i said ‘can someone of seventy years plus still have the energy to stay on queue for endless hours or able to undergo such stress?’. Only few old people could do that. So as a youth, the strength is still there and the expectation is that at that very age, you should achieve enough. Many got this opportunities and made use of it take for example;

Mark Zuckerberg; Mark Elliot Zuckerberg was born in 1984 in New York City. He started programming skills at middle school. He got to the university and he devised a means in which him and his colleagues could interact with each other and that brought about Facebook . It’s one of these leading sites in social network where you can chat, advertise products, services and meet with people all around the world in as much as they are connected to the internet. In spite of the lawsuits, criticism and trials, he gave himself intrinsic motivation and he survived. Am very sure of the fact that when we look at his tribulation in the pursue of his success, many must have doubt or underestimated that goal if it is possible and that must have chattered what is called Facebook. Take for example someone like me who can’t do without checking my account at least twice in 24 hours. To learn more click here.

Louis Braille; a French man, was born January 1809 and died 1852. He invented the Braille system, a system used by the blind to read and write. He was not born blind but got the problem through a accident first affecting the first eye but due to infection and poor medication then, it affected the second eye. What gave him the motivation was the state he found himself. How did he designed the system?, he got a clue from Captain Charles Barber, who was in the French army. The Captain devised the use of dots and dashes printed on thick papers and can be interpreted by tracing the dots making it easy to share information on battlefields without speaking or the use of illuminations. So, Louis Braille, luckily found out about this method and he was somewhat interested in it. Braille designed his own system using raised dots using an awl which happen to be the same object that made him loose his sight. To read more on this click on Wikipedia

Those who made at adult and old Ages;

Col. David Harland Sanders; He started his life on September 9, 1890 and died on December 16, 1980. His father died at the age of five. He was trained by his mother until he ran away due to ill treatments he suffered from his step father. Joining the army and serving for some years and later left for better fortune. He was managing a place before he was sacked and that cost him his marital life. The frustration was just too much and out of all these mess, the idea that made him a boss of thousands came out. He started the Kentucky Fried chicken idea in a small service station at Corbin, Kentucky where he cooked for travelers. Today the product has grown fame among people all around the world. To read more click here.

Mother Teresa of Calcutta; she was born on the 26^th of august 1910 and died on the 5^th September 1997. Her real name is Agnes Bojaxhiu. Became a nun at age 18 and her first station was Ireland. She was a nun and the founder of the order of the Missionaries of Charity dedicated to helping the poor. The blessed woman was a teacher before she decided to help the sick and poor being a nun. Her mother was probably the one who instil the culture of charity into her from a prime age. Her first job as a nun was teaching at Saint Mary’s High School for Girls where she taught Geography and History and later she became the school principal. In 1946, she devoted her life to the service of others through helping the poorest and sickest in Calcutta and that was what gave her the breakthrough she had till her demise. To learn more click here

Creativity

2013-09-06T13:39:00.000-07:00

I accidentally met this e book talking about things that can give people more inspiration in whatever situation they happen to find themselves. There is nothing as good as been creative in this our world in which things is so hard. What can make you stand out in whatever field you might find yourself is when you show a distinguishable factor that can make your own job stand out positively. I can assure you that this writer has done much job to how you can boost your creativity. Click to download this book.

Effects of social life on teen’s behaviour

2013-08-16T06:39:00.000-07:00

Teenagers are just people around the age of thirteen and seventeen years prominent with fast growing maturity through their body. You might imagine yourself when you were of that age how much you have behaved. But may i let you understand that this period is one of the most delicate parts of human life that proper knowledge about life can be learn to be used in later part of life. At this period the child tends to copy or teach the footstep anyone who looks passionate to them. And that’s why many of this counselor will tell guardians and parents to be closer to their kids at the age and careful of the things they meet them doing take for example a father who is a drunkard may eventually discover that his kid might take after him in alcohol. Not forgetting to give the right information about a past experience about some happenings to them. Take for example, some parent still find it difficult discussing sex with a thirteen year old girl or a father who still cannot teach his boy how much he need to wash his pubic hairs and boxers well enough. Well, you might think that sounds too raw, but it’s the plain truth. Teenagers if they don’t get the right information from the right source, they opt out for another source which is the society, social media and friends and advice from these sources, in most times are always misleading.

The society has a big effect on adults not to talk of kids. Well, where there are good, the bad are present, the only option against social influence or anti social behavior is if only the kid does not watch movies, exempt their self from friends, and does not go to school which is close to impossible. Except if kid is going to be a dummy.. My little knowledge about education makes me understand that informal education is an aspect of education that can be learnt outside the walls of the classroom; among peers, family, religious society etc. Like i said earlier, the society has a positive and negative in pact on kid take for example

Peers pressure is a factor you have to consider. Parents can’t teach the child everything about life. How many parents teach their kids how to play video games? Only one in a thousand. The teen’s friends have great influence on the way they behave. They tend to teach the child how to do things that they find strange, for example the child may find it difficult smoking, sexually excited or use drug, but because he got friends who does that, he needs to fall in and learn the way it is being done or he is left out and loses his friends. Some might not be cases like the above; some of these teens desire the wares of their friends and they can’t afford them. The next option is to drop into illegal deals making them corrupt. Like one of my friend was telling me about how he had to join companies with bad gangs all in the name of getting the fame and power in his street or so called ‘territory’, and this cost him much; he wasted his time, energy, money and when he realised, it was just too late for him.

The social media has made situation worse as they give promiscuous adverts of their product through TV, magazines, stores, and even social media. Many of these teens are not experienced about how better they can control their appetite for irrelevances. Many of them run after clothing, shoes, phones and electronics which they don’t need but because of the way it was being presented in the advert make them thirst for them. If you listen or view adverts of liquors well enough, you will understand what am saying. They do it in such a way that, if you don’t take alcohol, you might thirst for it at that moment. Also, social sites are also making things more badly. Many teens believe that the only place they can be relieved from being bored is only if they are chatting. And with this, they are exposed to pop up adverts from these porn and video games sites where they spend endless monies watching pornographic pictures, videos. I was checking my mail one of these days when i say an advert pop up at the left down side of my screen. The advert shows a lady showing me her boobs telling me to click to stream the whole video and i was like is this not an a business site, and that how many of these teen get entangled i mean addicted in sexual excitement like masturbation, rape, bestiality and many like that.

Music is also one of these things that cases social misbehavior. Many teens love to mimic many of these super they see on screens or listen to on iPod, radio etc and they finally miss out of the line. If only they understand that listening to good music sometimes interpret so many things to the soul, it would have been better. You might listen to some music preaching about sex, drug, money, crime and might not have a impart on you at that moment but as time goes on, it sinks into the soul and the kid start thinking and behaving like the lyrics of the song.

Lastly, is poverty, when parent, guardians and responsible bodies or organization are not there to cater for these kids, they tend to fend for themselves with whatever they lay their hands on. Also living with broken parent or residing in extremely corrupt places or where law is of little or no respected. You can imagine living in place where drugs and all sort, the child will continue to observe until they are able to manipulate their ways.

YOUR NEIGHBOUR; FRIEND OR FOE?

2013-07-18T16:16:00.000-07:00

In some part of the world, especially in well civilised or developed world,you might not know the person close to your doorstep for the remaining part of your stay in that apartment. But cases like this is not always the same in some area or part of the world due to the building structure and different architectuaral layout of apartment . In addition,is the social and economic problems that produces different ways of life and standard of living. But to many they believe in their neighbourhood existence, I mean they love to be part of every things that goes on in their environment.Some can not do without moving with folks within their neighbourhood. Well its good i can not disprove that.

An extension of the simple communal relationship between two or more peopleis a small derivative of complex relationships between two or more communities, cities. Do you have a neighbour?. A neighbour can be someone of great importance or value to so many, also can a neighbour be someone you feel like chooping off their head at sight.

Through my discussion with landlords, caretakers and concerned agents,i was able to pickup few points which i know will be of great resource to my admiarble readers.

CAUSES OF DISUNITY AMONG NEIGHBOURS

Simple complementary greetings;. Well, we are all diferent in so many aspect. Would i call that pride when you see your fellow human and the words like morning, Good Evening is something that many can’t tolerate for few minutes. They don’t show concern.Even saying a thank you is a big problem.How will peole move and apprecaite your presence when you find it difficult to say hi
Kids Fight ;this is one major cause of quarell among parents as one tries to keep sides when there is a brawl among their kids. And the next thing you hear the mama say to her kids is ‘don’t play with thise folks again’. And in the next minute the kid is back to his peer. This is bound to happen and all that is needed is wisdom.

For peace and tranquility to reign in such neighbourhood. I have drafted out some points-

Help And Respect Each Other; the way you behave is the same way people will take you to be. Having your personality and dignity is something to be preserved. I was discussing with one of my relation one of this days and we were discussing what really causes disrespect among neighbours. And she said ‘when you frequenntly call on your neighbours apartment for no reason but for idle talks, you gradually loose your worth especially if the other person does not return back your frequent visit’ . And like i use to tell people in my previous articles, you need to be yourself, if your neighbour sees that you are A today and you are always A not B tomorrow, there will be no problems as each person tries to keep to his own sideBut immedaiately you refuse to be who you are the kind of think you got no policy. Like one of my neigbour,this guy whenever he feels like going out loves company , but as those times, especially when am somewhat busy with house chores,doing some little browsing and preparing for other activities. Wenever he calls on me, i tell him am busy. Later on he stopped checking on me and he went for other people. The action i just portrayed about myself is one thing many are afraid of doing, they dont want to lose their friends,

Also, try to Understand The Cause Of The Quarell Mathematicians will tell you, a known problem is half solved. You recognise the major cause of ‘your neighbours problem, not you’and running away from them is one thing that saves some stitches.It is good you seek the understandig of your fellow neighbour Abstainance is the best way to run from trouble.

Human and social life

2013-07-06T04:43:00.002-07:00

The door to the library gave way as Dave came in. The gentle Librarian was hesitantly hoping to receive an identity from Dave which he produced with no stress. His mind was bent on getting a book that talks about animal territoriality. Walking to the shelves, he got the books. He got into the hall and he had the problem of who to sit with. It's an unbelievable thing that the faces of some people sometimes shows they are troublesome. That.s was Dave's believe. He went and sat with a young lad who was at the extreme of the library. The only noise heard were creaking of chairs crying out of the load they carry for hours. The young lad has got a rim spectacles that looks exactly like that of Harry potter. With his face going through the words of the book like a typewriter. Seeing that physique you must believe he is a nerd.
After few hours, Dave and the young boy stood to leave and murmured greetings exude as their faces met. Though they have not
met before, but Dave felt he had to know him more. The young lad appreciated that as they both proceeded to one of the restaurant for lunch and ever since then, they became best of friends. Before the action took place Dave had been someone who so much believed in let alone or isolated. He hardly greets, talk with anyone and wish to be left alone. Yes. That is his own temperament. But there is a proverb popularly said in my place that ' People are your clothing'. People will rally round you the day you need help. And that one the main reason you have to interact with people especially your colleagues at work, school mates, neighbors. Just a little chat in a public transport can do some good. But not being too excessive that you become a talk active.

So how do you get some social life
Speech: In the computer world, they tell you that the only language a computer understands is machine language. So the language understand by your fellow person
may be English, French, Japanese,Spanish and many more. So its good you say them if you can speak them. Especially are the salutation greetings, you might be new to a place. The first thing to learn is how they say good morning, good afternoon, good evening, Hello etc. Take for example, am a Briton and i somehow find my self in Paris, the first thing i need to know is how to say 'bonjour', 'Salue'. Even with the wrong pronunciation the listeners will like my trial and appreciate me better. One of the ways you can interact with people is when you speak with them and minding the way you speak your words. I have seen cases of people complaining to me that this or that person does not know how to 'talk'. I mean these people don't know to address their fellow humans, if at all they try to crack jokes, their jokes are always expensive. In every part of the world, there is an acceptable way of using the slang or dialect in such a way the when other hear you speak, they did love it.
Dressing That's one big part of social life. The way you dress really matters. If truly you want to be acceptable, you must learn to dress the way others dress not prove too special , proud or gaiety. Also dressing like a foreigner makes people believe you are not part of them. Religious belief is also a point to consider as it someway preaches decency in dressing . I personally don't follow fashion trends except if it's an improvement over the previous product. I sometimes think it's useless when you wear what you aren't comfortable in them just to seek appraisal from others. It's good you are yourself. I have heard people speak within themselves and they try talking about another person when they don't know the name, like' the guy who loves wearing boot cut' or 'the lady always in jean jackets'. The way you dress becomes you symbol.

Independence and your life

2013-02-06T07:32:00.002-08:00

Whenever the word independence is being mentioned. What strikes our humble heart is independence day?(maybe). Yes, but when you look at it from there, you'll begin to understand that before countries or a country will stand-up to tell you they are independent, they must have been enslaved to another country. With the dominant country carting away with all the resources that should have be of much use to the enslaved country. And practically, that how it is individually. Another instance is an apprentice who is under the tutelage of a boss. He serves with every pint of his blood and possess nothing until the master decides to release. Or look at an affiliated firm, who can't stand on its own due to financial constraint.They just have to join up with money-bags until they are buoyant enough to stand to their responsibility.Human independence starts from the day of delivery of a baby, growth into adult till the day he/she can say ' Leave me alone,am no
longer a kid'. But that's not all. These set of individuals still get encroached indirectly to other people . Though the have their own freedom with them. Excusing the fact that we have disabilities and sickness reasoned to be beyond our capabilities. Well i have decided to give some tips, few that can help at hand
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EMPLOYMENT: my definition of employment does not really refer to something that brings in monies but something legal that keeps your hand busy. Many still have jobs that makes their bank accounts blinking with high numbers yet, they can't establish a good independent life. Money is not everything. If you don't mind checking my achieves , you will see one of my articles that was talking about 'talent' . Your talent can take you away from that encroachment you find yourself.

RIGHT TO YOUR THINKING; sounds like fundamental human right. Well , i ask myself that question, who doesn't think. We all somehow think of so many things. But the
question we all need to answer is 'are this thinking of our own opine or imposed?'. If truly you are independent, then the responsibility of what is good to you and your future is yours . Your right as a citizen of a country is also important because if you don't ask for your right,someone out there is ready to take them away from you.

EDUCATION AND ENLIGHTENMENT; Education in this sense is not based on formal only, but concerns the informal. Education & enlightenment from further studies, reading newspapers & journals, attending seminars & listening to experiences of other people goes a long way to setting a pace to the desired independence. Your enlightenment means you mixing up with people from different backgrounds and possibly changing place of residence sure helps in some way.

Independence : your visa to life

2013-02-06T07:18:00.003-08:00

Whenever the word independence is being mentioned. What strikes our humble heart is independence day?(maybe). Yes, but when you look at it from there, you'll begin to understand that before countries or a country will stand-up to tell you they are independent, they must have been enslaved to another country. With the dominant country carting away with all the resources that should have be of much use to the enslaved country. And practically, that how it is individually. Another instance is an apprentice who is under the tutelage of a boss. He serves with every pint of his blood and possess nothing until the master decides to release. Or look at an affiliated firm, who can't stand on its own due to financial constraint.They just have to join up with money-bags until they are buoyant enough to stand to their responsibility.Human independence starts from the day of delivery of a baby, growth into adult till the day he/she can say ' Leave me alone,am no
longer a kid'. But that's not all. These set of individuals still get encroached indirectly to other people . Though the have their own freedom with them. Excusing the fact that we have disabilities and sickness reasoned to be beyond our capabilities. Well i have decided to give some tips, few that can help at hand
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EMPLOYMENT: my definition of employment does not really refer to something that brings in monies but something legal that keeps your hand busy. Many still have jobs that makes their bank accounts blinking with high numbers yet, they can't establish a good independent life. Money is not everything. If you don't mind checking my achieves , you will see one of my articles that was talking about 'talent' . Your talent can take you away from that encroachment you find yourself.

RIGHT TO YOUR THINKING; sounds like fundamental human right. Well , i ask myself that question, who doesn't think. We all somehow think of so many things. But the
question we all need to answer is 'are this thinking of our own opine or imposed?'. If truly you are independent, then the responsibility of what is good to you and your future is yours . Your right as a citizen of a country is also important because if you don't ask for your right,someone out there is ready to take them away from you.

EDUCATION AND ENLIGHTENMENT; Education in this sense is not based on formal only, but concerns the informal. Education & enlightenment from further studies, reading newspapers & journals, attending seminars & listening to experiences of other people goes a long way to setting a pace to the desired independence. Your enlightenment means you mixing up with people from different backgrounds and possibly changing place of residence sure helps in some way.

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2012-11-23T03:38:00.000-08:00

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Music:the supernatural

2012-10-18T06:30:00.000-07:00

Recently i was so morose looking that i hated myself so bad. And if such experiences surfaces, other options surfaces ; and i move towards my radio and i throw just any disk in and that solves my mundane life. And sure am ain't the only one that experiences this, million does. You see, we all have different definitions of music as you can put it just reasoned to the fact that we all have different experiences.
By definition, i would term music as an act or means of communication in which information is disseminated to the listeners. With some research on the subject matter,i conclusively reside d to the fact that music is related to culture and it differ from place to place origin of music has a spectral view of music.
So humming, whistling, clicking and what have you are all ways of showing music. And Wikipedia said , music can be related to mathematics which i wouldn't disprove because nature itself is
mathematical?!.
Music being a cultural and language heritages of people all around the world. And prior to that our taste differs. But what am particular about is what music can do to the benefit of man. We all understand that literature ' is the mirror of the society' and both of them( music and literature) go simultaneously. So music is beneficially the mirror of the society. It shows or reflects back what we see ,observe in the society at large. An extension had made it possible not only to talk of the society alone but also are the love, friendship, relationships, quarrels among people. In a nutshell, the are some thing we all know music does to us which i would make mention of few:
Reduces stress and anxiety: This stress and anxiety is something that is a practical example. Anxiety and stress are evidences of common livings on the streets. We all understand what people pass through out of turmoil in the society take for example the unemployment,
divorce,poverty etc. Even appetites are quenched but only something can still stand and that a soft cool music.
It passes a message; well, if we look into the street we find musics of CD's which are properly packaged noise i mean disturbances because they are not just passing a single message. Though we all have our differences. Like i wrote earlier, music is a means of passing down information to people. Its gone beyond the disturbed air around our speaker s but are weapons of war between groups of people, clan, villages etc. Apart from that, music also is a means of expressing mishaps in the society .
It brings joy and happiness through relaxation: You may hardly find joints, clubs or social gatherings in which music is not appreciated. It relaxes the mind, also, when doing tedious jobs, music makes jobs more relieved and pleasurable.
Health advantage: Now doctor believes in music therapy; as a way of helping patients suffering from acute
mental illnesses. Also, does it aids good retention abilities in children and makes them able to learn.

You and your goal

2012-07-23T11:09:00.005-07:00

In the game of soccer, for many who love it. It's one of this game that the players are ambitious you know. Every player as big as the field is positioned and runs hastily in pursuit of the ball for about ninety minute and at times, many who don't love the game think its madness. Well, if you care to know why ?. Whenever hefty men, i mean grown up men running after a pumped leather, sweating like Christmas chicken,well i think they aren't wrong but its a good game. So, when i heard people say things like that and i am a sport lover. It was one of those things that propelled me to write this. Well, the soccer game is just an illustration of what i felt. After thinking deeply about this, i took it from the physical to the abstract and i looked at it that every reasonable human has a goal he or she is pursuing as an individual. But it shouldn't be a surprise to us that many people do not have a goal of their, be it good or bad. They just wake up do all
sort of useless things and go to bed to wake up, eat the whole world, drink the whole pacific and start another penchant for hopelessness till they are thrown away like dead rat. That why we still have many under slave to their fellows. The beautiful question i would like to ask is what is meant by 'goal'. Goals are ambitions either good or bad. Your goal is a strong desire to attain a desire at a particular point in time. Another meaning of a goal is 'an unstopping aim or purpose'. As humans, we need to understand the aim of our existence. Have we come to serve or to fulfill our own ambition ;making names that never dies. This is what i tell myself, i have got two life one, the mortal being i carry all about that can be truncated and the other is the one that lives after my demise. Good goals are world builders but bad ones are world destroyers. But we see in our society today that many life ambition lies in the tongue and the mind sings it to the deaf
ear of the muscles that are to carry them out. And we did wonder why?, well i think some of the reasons are below.
The support isn't there: The kind of support that are to be given by family, friends, NGO's and government bodies isn't there. Even from the family setting; the smallest unit of a nation. If your family are not in support of your prospect, you can feel frustruated and deserted. Also, can you lose focus. The kind of support we give to these set of people are important. We must give them listening eyes in as much as their good ones. Helping them makes you a cushion that support their weight when falling.
Unavailability of resources: when we talk about resources in this regard we aren't referring to silver and gold but the time and money commitment. The biggest of factors is time, when you have time, you would have enough time to think about how best to utilize the money. This is synonymous to the sacrifice rendered. Seriousness on your own part: Seriousness is discipline, the kind of discipline you give yourself makes you who you are. Are you the ' i don't bloody care' set of human ?. Those set of people take time before understanding the essence of their existence. Your seriousness makes you a resistant variety to conquer any distraction(because there are enough anyway) that can come your way. And the beautiful aspect i want all to understand is that -the world would be a beautiful place to live in if we all understand why we exist.

Timidity and human life

2012-06-16T03:16:00.000-07:00

In our society, things happen. And we all see individual differences that makes us believe that nature has made us different. Starting from the way we speak, the way we address issues from all views. They are all different. I sometime observe a kid one of this days, this child that i saw has a good drawing which he was showing to his peers. So in the cause of doing that one of the other kids came and asked whose drawing it was,to my own surprise another kid just opened up the he was the owner. The others knew it was false but no one said anything. And as luck would have it, the caring parent gave the crook some stipend. Now i met with this child and he said something that amazes me. The child said 'it doesn't mean anything,it's changed nothing'. Well, to the child level of thinking and to many others that was right. But that is one of the greatest act of timidity i have cut accross. And to be factual it happens to so many.
                                              What do we mean by timidity:
I term it as the inability of an individual to react to this easily . It is synonymous to being shy, fearful, unassertive etc.
          Having known that, timidity can only occur due to a propelled reaction generating from the mind that an aspect is inconvenient to his/personality. There are some of those things that i have been able to fashion out from various people experiences. To mention few :
Competition: like i use to say , the world is full of competition. You can't live in this world of our without being competed with. Even the air we breathe in is a solid example of competition among living organisms. And as a result when many people see that they are being competed with by many, the become depressed and timidity is the next option to subscribe to . This is because they have believed in the fact that they can't make it. That can be linked to inferiority complex.

PRESSURE: when you are being pushed or all eyes are on you like you are the
eyes of others. Yes! the people that sees you wants the best from you. The first thing that overcome you mind as an individual is fear. But immediately you can overcome you fear your timidity is gone.

INEQUALITY AMONG PEOPLE:    'All men are equal but some are more equal than other' says a popular saying. Fingers can never be equal and it will always be like till eternity. This situation can also be linked with pressure but its a different case because if you are from a low class and you fall between a high class,its possible you become timid. Not only that, even in the educational setting, we have people students with their intellectual differences. So, if a student falls in an average class, its possible the student finds it difficult addressing their opinion in the class.

HOW TO CONTROL TIMIDITY: There are some many things that money becomes inferior to so to speak. In fact drugs can't help much like your natural self. What really happens in
situations like this is the DIY technique. You can only control your person by yourself. No one can change you.
Another thing you need is determination and concentration. When you are determined you never get timid because you can never be unstoppable.

money and its management

2012-03-12T05:07:00.000-07:00

Nature has given us enough!. And life is full of experiences that we don't need a teacher to reveal the rudiments and the makeups of what we all perceive everyday. We must have heard people say words like 'the street isn't smiling' or 'boys aren't smiling'. Yes as a matter of fact it will not smile and it will never continue to smile. Why? Because we have not dealt with the habit of managing resources effectively. Nature has given us enough but due to our selfishness and lackadaisical attitude towards things we made them look like waste. What are this resources that we have failed to effectively manage : it is money. Yes the five letter word that makes the world go round. You discover that money solves about 80% of the fundamental needs of man which are : food, housing and shelter. But the question is how have we effectively manage this money that other are hastily looking for but to no avail ?. Have we not used the money we have to exploit others? Its high time you learn to use your money the right way. Human resources are unlimited and only if you can manage the little you have then the world will become a better economy to live in.

AND THE QUESTION IS HOW DO WE MANAGE OUR CAPITAL.
The basic problem we have is not to have the money but the little we have, how do we spend it. And what can do that is discipline: discipline is one big ability we all have to control the mortal body we have.It entails giving extra courteousness to the way we spend our money. I sometime take time off looking at the life of great men. The first thing they learn to kill is their stupid lust (most of them). They cautioned themselves to the extent that they cannot become victims of their lust. So, if you really want to be great in life i think you need to work on yourself first.Discipline makes you a principled individual and respected human being also.Look at the way you spend your money on irrelevance and amend them.And how can this be done.

Proper Planning: every responsible human must have a certain plan for your money. In fact we should have a budget on how and where our money is to be used. It's only a fool that devours as it sees it comes and hopes that manna will fall soonest. Its not until man has attributed the habit of reasoning well i think nothing will be enough. And its quite unfortunate that pleasure seekers have not come to realize this fact. I am not condemning but every one loves pleasure but we mustn't allow that to steal away our money.

WE MUST BE CREATIVE:
That is of the factors that can make us successful in any field we find ourselves. Its possible that there are millions doing same job you do but what make you distinct is your ability to improve taste. I mean you give your job a new touch. It can be your career or your potentials. Immediately people see that distinct feature, you see them smiling back at you and you become a subject of envy among your colleagues and the multiplier effect is that you have more income and render better services.

COMPETITION-as way of life

2012-02-17T01:19:00.001-08:00

        competition
Yes! That what rules the world. In my elementary biology i was made to understand the characteristics of a living thing which is competition among others. And that is a fact;we compete with everything. Starting from our body i.e the teeth compete with the tongue in the mouth when some bolus is dropped in it, the right hand compete with the left hand that why you see that they don't outgrow each other. Another part of the body that is very relevant is the leg ;the right foot compete with the left that's why you don't buy different size pair of same shoe. competition has become a way of life in every part of living organism. And if am to speak on competition; i term it as an natural ability of an organism to fight for little amount of resources embedded in their environment for the better living. The word 'competition' has gone through all aspect of human life be it sport,music,politics,business. Art and also social life. But the issue is' if competition
have not exist what will our life look like'. That is why in everything you do;if you are not competed with there is possibility that you develop into a local champion.

BUT WHY DO WE TURN COMPETITION INTO HATRED,WAR AND MALICE KEEPING ?;
yes this can be observed in our day to day activities.Looking at the life of other animals,observation shows that when one luckily get food,another comes from no where and 'then a third world war will began straight away over that food'.You see its an act of survival and this is also a replica of what happens in human life.But because we've forgotten that principle of life that

IF YOU ARE NOT BEING COMPETED WITH THERE IS NO SURVIVAL.
I think we need to forget the past and face the future.Well in my opinion 'we have caused problem to our self due to the fact tgat we exagerrate our feeling beyond necessary'.

WHAT HAS COMPETITION BROUGHT TO OUR LIFE ?;
Yes competion has brought about improvement in the services
we render to ourselves. Having it in mind that someone is battling for the same resource with us has made us know our stand. We know where we belong and it has made us never to give for others. And with this development, it has arisen new ideas and skills that have made the world a better place to live. Competition has widen our knowledge to the management of the little resource we have to the optimal ability.

WHY MUST WE APPRECIATE COMPETITION;
we should always put something in mind that if we aren't competed with, our best will not come out from the hidden.COMPETITION CANNOT BE STOPPED BUT CAN BE ENHANCED

DECISION MAKING

2012-01-23T10:39:00.000-08:00

Decision making: the one that make you life better

Decision making is more than just those two words it is what goes all around in all social office and political and even personal life, I as a person will term decision making as preparedness for the future. It is you’re setting in place of your mind and soul for what is going to arise in the future. You can check our post on controlling the mind.

The decision you make with your life today decides whatever your tomorrow will be. And one of the characteristics of being human is survival and our ability to making decisions. Unlike the animals especially the flocks, wherever one goes, the rest follows. That is one proficient lifestyle that man has over all organisms. But the question is why do people make bad decisions with the life? If only we understands that word decision we will understand that making decisions proposes an element of change that can ocean positively or negatively into our life.

When situation happen in the society especially when someone goes wrong with his/ her decisions they are being blamed. Sometimes if I think about these things it makes me say that, “If I were elective or a law enforcement agent, I would rather look for the reasons of a decision rather than what happens or the actions have been taken after the decision. But that is a hypothesis that can nearer exist.

Why people make wrong decisions

People are prone to make mistakes, because no one can claims expertise or perfection in whatever we’re chose. Due to bad decision may lifes and property of others hare bean destroyed. Due to bad decisions business have gone bankrupting and at the end of the day crumble is if it never exists.

Some of the three sons why people make bad decisions are:-

1 Bad Advisers:- It’s unfortunate that those who need to be advised goes or subscribe to bad advisers, companions. They fall victim of bad decision, which cause a faulty mind, and the out are is a faulty decisions. The kind company and the things they bad sometimes cause these accidents. We all fall victim. We must be very confident in any information we get be it from expertise, interment or books.

So when, makings decisions, we must also be decisive in people we consult for advice. Companion e t c.

2 Patience: - In decision-making, patience is very important. If we are only being patient we won’t fall into the hands of fake advisers. Sometimes, situations warrant, that we must take pain to be very patient, investing in a choosing a carver building up talent, investing in a business. Always remember that the few seconds you’ve fail to prepare to prepare well for the future may come back to become long years of suffering in the future.

Pride & pomposity: This can also viewed under the choleric and melancholic lifestyle under temperament. Some people believe in their knowledge and this cause a great harm to their lives. Their own situation is even worse than those who seek bad advisers. They deliberately don’t seek advice from others. Their own situation is even worse than those who seek bad advisers. They deliberately don’t take advice. They just believe in their wrong instinct.

3 Ignorance Being ignorant about the repercussion of your idea is bad thing, when you don’t know a field or rather ignorant about something and there is no other way to know is a big problem. And you discover some people don’t care, they just decide and later call for help later. Ignorance and lack of education can cause a bad decision. Taking for example, a person who is not an engineer or mechanic who just decides start selling car spare part is just like throwing money down the drain. Its possible but if you are ignorant of something you can be cheated.

There are so many situations that warrant to bad decision-making apart from the listed above

Now we are going to point out how to make good decisions. If you understand the effect of bad decisions then you can speak more on the advantage

1. You need to be focused Focusing your mind into the future is one thing that can help you in any field you are. You must be varying ambitious, determined and prospective in your ideas. When your mind is prepared for the future, there is nothing that can shake you as a person.

2. Investment in the future in vestment in this context does not refer to money or capital. It refers to your preparedness with your mind being arranged. With that your decision will come out good. Part of investing in the future is your ability to grab good knowledge from good sources. All these aid the preparation of your mind in accordance with good decision-making.

3. Experience and knowledge Experience is the best teacher. Likewise is gaining knowledge from education cant be silenced. They work simultaneously in making good decisions. In our society today, we see that so many fall victim of dabbling into wrong careers, disciplines just because they don’t take time to gain experience. Like I use to say, in any field you have chosen to people who are expert in the field and learn for sometime

controlling your mind

2012-01-02T03:45:00.000-08:00

CONTROLLING YOUR MIND
The mind as a center of discussion has got different definitions and views but I as a person. The mind refers to the software of the brain which accept all data from our four sense organ (such as eyes, nose, ear, mouth and the skin) process it, and give out the desired output. The mind is receded in the brain and perform the main function of making the thought of the brain more visible to us. The mind cannot make mistakes, its whatever you give, it gives back. So, it’s whatever you feed your mind that your mind will replicate as your actions.
The issue of controlling the mind is a very critical one and simple. Some people will just tell you! You can control your mind, it’s not possible! But I will make you understand that if the five senses are not disciplined, its possible your mind will be difficult to control.
Below are some aligned traits that will make your understand that you find it difficult controlling the mind:
The mind becomes a wondering – within a minute it can think of seven different issues
You find it difficult focusing on one subject of discipline
The mind will continue to think of negative things day and night
Its possible that the actions you do don’t blend with your mind
The factors mentioned above don’t just happen. It all arises through so many reasons, some are;
When our sense organs is displaced or welcomed to negative things, the mind will continue to do negative things and possibly the body will continue doing negative things.
At times, the kind of company we move with has got a great influence on our mind.
Problems at times cause a bad control of the mind. Problems such as sickness, poverty, war and some psychological problems.
The environments we live in also affect our mind. If the environment we live in is dirty, or not coordinated, its possible that our thinking may be disturbed
Lastly, the things our five senses sees, reads, feels, hears, touches etc affects the mind.

HOW TO CONTROL THE MIND
Like I said, the mind is unsettled that the whole body becomes unsettled. Some things needs to be installed in your life so to say, so that the mind will work on the principles you’ve laid down. Some of the ways can control those minds are:
The environment we live in: try not to live a dirty life. Live of a life of good organization and settled environment.
Have good preparation towards the future actions, when events and situations are so close, you will not give the mind enough room to properly arrange things.
What you know is ‘bad’ must be ‘bad’ to you – never create negative thought in your mind, instead replace them with positive thinking that makes your life more healthy.
Feed your five senses with good things, eat good food, hear good music, breathe good air, feel good things and before you know it, your mind becomes proportionally good.
Learn to move with positive and good people the kind of friends, peers, social life we are exposed to, goes a long way in affecting our mind
You need to properly reorganize and prepare yourself for the future
Take time to read good literature, these things we don’t consider sometimes have a great influence on our life.
And if all these factors are properly considered, you will discover your mind becomes the best in the world.

inferiority complex

2012-01-02T03:43:00.000-08:00

INFERIORITY COMPLEX
In our society today, every being we see carry all over the place one ability or the other. We all see ourselves handicapped in one aspect that another person claims perfection in and that is how life is. It is irrespective of the kind of temperament you hold there is no perfect being. With my own understanding I have come to realize that inferiority complex as a discussion cuts across all social life of man.
Below are the topics on which I will like to discuss this hell bent topic.
Inferiority complex and its society
Symptoms
Adverse effect and
How to cure inferiority complex
INFERIORITY COMPLEX AND ITS SOCIETY
Inferiority complex is a psychological effect which arise from the thought of the mind that another individual is of greater advantage in some aspect than your personal self. Another definition refers to its as an act of being repulsive in action due to the fact that the individual in person is disabled in one aspect of their action.
Like I said, the society is suffering a lot from these inferiority complexes that some people find it difficult expressing themselves in public just because they lack one great need that others have. Maybe in our next review we will discuss something on controlling your mind. Before any action can be done. It cuts across three stages.
Your eyes must have seen or observe the situation you are into
You must have think and resolve it in your mind.
The body takes it into action from the motor neurons in your body
So, before you can accept that you are inferior, you must have concluded it in your mind and then your part of the body has accept that fact and when necessary your action will become repulsive to it. In human being, there is an ability embedded in you as your talent. That can remain dormant in as much as you don’t make use of them. Not until you change your orientation, you will not be totally alive to your abilities and that is what makes your distinct in your chosen careers.

SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS OF INFERIORITY COMPLEX
Inferiority complex has got series of symptoms and traits and some of them are:
The individual feels not confident enough
There is possibility of being timid in the public
The individual will believe in the superiority of his peers
Its possible that the individual can see a defect n him/her self as a problem.
All other factors are important because inferiority can mostly be explained by the person suffering from it. So the facts above are observable views.
ADVERSE EFFECT
As a psychological situation, accepting inferiority complex can cause a great situation to the mind and some of them are :
It causes timidity among peers
Inability to express yourself
Your best will be unable to come out
It causes social imbalance
For more information: check out melancholic and the phlegmatic temperament.
It can cause psychological trauma
It causes hatred and unnecessary anger against yourself

HOW TO CURE INFERIORITY COMPLEX
There are some things in life that drug cannot cure especially emotional situations. Below are some facts you need to recognize about yourself
Forget you have a defect and then look at your inner mind and check our those things you can’t do.
Look at those people you think you are inferior to and look at what they can’t do that you can easily do.
Be a creative thinker meaning be very creative about your attitude that others will envy
Don’t accept failure because it kills the spirit in you and arises inferiority.
Lastly I suggest site such as http://www.2knowmyself.com as this will help a lot.

temperament

2011-12-20T09:25:00.000-08:00

Know Yourself – The Four Laws of Temperament
    In life there are so many people with different characters and values that we all think that this person is a different person. At times we shouldn’t blame them because of their person. And that is why I have introduced this topic. So when your Boss in office is a kind of person that yells out loud at you or your mate in school that behaves irrational or feel to be different is not to be blamed. Because you yourself have your own temperament in which it has some advantage and likewise is the devils corner which someone else knows how to control better. No one is useless, and as psychologist will tell you that the difference between you and an insane or abnormality is very small’. We all have our norms and abnormality.
    In our last discussion we talked about Talent now we are going to go deep into the world of Temperament. Psychologically temperament can be properly defined as personal behaviour which is natural. Your temperament has been in existence since you were a kid and it will continue to link up as you grow old. Definitions from another source termed temperance as a person’s behaviour or disposition. Could you believe that the word temperament has risen in the heart of many people but how many people take conversance of it.
    Thanks to Tim LaHaye who was able to refurbish the orientations of temperament.
We have four main temperaments which are: Sanguine, Choleric, Melancholic and Phlegmatic
    More will be talked about from each of them and their terms such as Introverts, Extroverts and Ambiverts.

The Sanguine
    The sanguine are easily referred to as the easy-goers, friendly human natures. They find joy, peace, love, happiness in the company of others. They are social lovers and caring set of people. They are accommodating and at the same time talkative. Good sense of gossiping . They possess good sense of humour.

Their Problems:
The sanguine are this set of human nature with low perseverance; they are the first to bolt from the door whenever there is problem.
They care much about their physical appearance
They don’t have lasting impressions about something
They are easily derailed by flattering, praise etc.
Inordinate love of pleasure.

The choleric
    The choleric are people with the impressions of leaders. I call them ‘born to rule’. They are denoted to be hot tempered, easily displaced to anger and they carry passions all through their life. The scientist believes them to possess yellow bile from their kidney.
Traits of a Choleric
They possess good leadership qualities
Highly susceptible to anger (very aggressive)
They possess high persevering spirit just to attain the goals
Highly ambitious

Their Problems
Accepting ideas from people is very difficult
They are sometimes too overconfident
They tend to be very stubborn
They care less about others in as much as their goals needs to be attained

The Melancholic
    These set of people are highly creative and very nervous. They are mostly the songwriters, novelist, Artist that we see today. Highly ambitious like the choleric. The scientist believes they have excess of black bile in their blood.

    Traits of a Melancholic
They avoid social gathering as they are introverts
Good thinkers- They think far beyond normal
Very careful about little things
Independent in ideas and works
Their feeling can easily be hurt
They are highly secretive
Their five good sense is always alive
They always look sad and depressed and not just freaked by just anything

Problems
They love seclusion: they wish to be alone all the time
They find it difficult making new friends
They don’t just show their anger not until it aggravates; good malice keeper
The Phlegmatic
    The phlegmatic are quiet, sluggish and attentive set of people. They are accommodating and kind. Highly observant (like the melancholic), timid, scientist take them to have enough Phlegm in their body

Traits of a Phlegmatic
They are slow in movement
Slow in making decisions
They possess good perseverance
They are not easily displaced to bad feelings.
Problems
They tend to be very lazy
They claim love in pleasure and leisure
They don’t care about whatever goes on in their environment
They don’t argue much all they want is peace among colleagues
They care less about their ambitions

The Introverts
They are people who are always concerned about their personal self. They are less bothered about others. The introverts possess such habits as fishing, writing, inventors and sculptors etc. It takes introverts to be highly melancholic and less phlegmatic and little of being choleric

The Extroverts
They belief in the physical and natural aspect of life. They are sociable and care less about their mental life. They can possess good sense of humour, talkativeness. They are always sanguine in nature.

The Ambiverts
The Ambiverts are denoted to have a combined traits being an Extroverts and Introverts as their nature. Meaning that they can be comfortable with social life and can likewise be a loner

gossiping

2011-12-20T09:20:00.000-08:00

                                                                    Who said it?!!!!
A man was ones talking to someone about an issue, well this particular person happen to be a lady. Then one of his wife’s friend happen to move in that direction one that sunny day. Then she heard a word from what the two were saying “will you be around this evening for dinner Southlake eatery?” And that was what started a crumbling marriage between the lovely couple. Meanwhile the husband was just invited by a colleague in his office and he was asking the female counterpart who happen s to be traveling the next day if she may be available. But her wife’s friend got home before him and said another side of the story. And if we are to call that act can’t we say that gossiping.
    Gossiping as an act is a social acceptable factor so to speak that is affecting society today. Most people believe that people engaged in such act are women but I think men also are doing so act, it’s of no gender. It has become our day to day activity which almost everyone has joy in taking part in. The possibility that you move down the street without you see people saying something about another person is 75%.Infact that act is so perfect in man behaviour that immediately the subject walks into the gathering the whispering stops and become silent like graveyard, or some perfect gossipers will just change the topic of discussion. Gossiping is a very familiar word to everyone but we going to discuss that on this few subtopics:
History of gossip
Gossip in our society
Merits of Gossip
Demerits of gossip
How to control gossip

History of Gossip
According to the wikipedia it took gossip to Old English, the word ‘god’ and ‘sipp’ refereeing them to the godparent of ones child. Later on, the word was now made used for people who pleasure mostly in idle talks. And since then gossip had become an acceptable situations in the society. Taking a look at the definitions of gossip: It refers to talking about someone else when the person is not around; according to Longman Dictionary it defines gossip as‘ informal talks about other people’s behaviour and private life.
    So gossip has a lot of definitions it’s just that they are all centred on the first definition.

Gossip in Our Society
    Gossiping in our society is a very good medium in which information are being spread from one place to another. It’s possible that what happening in the first block in two minutes time reach the tenth block. And that is how its moves and you begin to wonder what does this help in the society. In fact in offices gossiping has become too rampart. With the advent of social sites such as Facebook, Twitter, and lots of them it has made the situation more complex. Likewise are issues that are not officially announced is carried like rumours before it is being announced. Though it’s got some advantage likewise is the disadvantage which will be listed below

Merits of Gossip
They are always very useful: all you need do is separate the useful ones and leave the trashes. Like try not to pay attention to ones that tends to damage others people or companies reputation
It makes you more informed about your vicinity: Yes that is why people like gossip but immediately you distinguish yourself from them you have no problem. To do this you must always be a good hearer and a bad talker so to say.
It unites people: In as much that you are into gossiping there is possibility that you know people more than you expect which has its own disadvantage.
It makes you more popular especially among celebrities( since they like to be talked about)

Demerits of gossip
    The demerits are more than the merit so it is better not to do something of such:
It tarnishes your image as a person: When you take joy in talking about another person that is 100% possibility that another person will destroy your image or reputation.
It put you in trouble: There some information that is meant to be strictly official that is being licked out and it’s burning like wildfire in the mouth of people. Before you know what is happening issues like that will only lead you into serious legal battle or termination of appointment.
It cause lack of trust among individuals
It brings about Malice and breakdown of Relationship: It’s been discovered that most relationship crumbling heard from people are due to terrible gossips.
Lastly, it makes you useless: When people discover that you carry false report. You become like shit in their faces and that damages your reputation
Apart from this we also have some religious versions which do not support this assertion:
In Islam: The Muslims believe that Gossiping is act of backbiting others which harms their victim and render them helpless. It is their believe that they need to treat themselves like brothers and sisters
Christianity: The also refer them to as backbiters and they take the same punishment like other sinful habits like fornication, adultery etc.
Judaism: They believe that gossip spoken without reasonable reasons are known as evil tongues fully referred to as sin as they say kills the reputation of others.

We all known the truth about the issue I think its good we speak about how we run when we see one:

How to Control Gossip
Don’t try to talk to people about your personal problems and that you are facing at work
Learn to talk about things that you are damn sure of i.e. factual things, even if it is possible try to explain them in details so that they will not pick the wrong information.
Try to move away from people who patronises gossip topics because bad company corrupt good manners
If you are approached with such act try to change the subject or just ignore the topic
Possibly using confrontative means: if your issue or other person’s issues is the topic of discussion try to bring the person to the incident and let them repeat themselves.
If mistakenly eared, learn to hold your tongue by not spreading it further.

talent

2011-12-20T09:11:00.000-08:00

I don’t put religious situations into my write-ups but my reader should be able to understand this better. Days ago, I found myself somehow in the church, and the pastor continued emphasizing “the third slave buried his talent! He buried it!” Then I looked and sensed. It was then a taught struck me. Most problems happening to man can be referred to that of the message of the pastor.
    When we were all young, most of us make use of our natural abilities and then our talent which was still raw and not diluted. It is no longer a story that most people move about working endlessly in another man paradise just because they couldn’t realise their potentials. And from this trend I want to introduce “Talent” as topic of discussion. Talent goes beyond the six letters and below are points which had been expanciated for proper understanding.
what is meant by talent
how it can be discovered
Ways of maintaining your talent
Suggested topics and texts
What Is Talent
Talent generally speaking is the ability or deep eagerness which is always present in every individual right from childbirth. Talent are natural gifts which are dormant in as much as the individual fails to spring it up. The talent embedded in man has got a great influence, the influence is so intoxicating so to say, that it can lead or take you to places you never seem to reach. Without much ado, we can say that talent are abilities which a person have and prompt the individual to do something better than anyone else or rather say talent is a skill acquired naturally to do hard things the easy way. There are different talents we all see everyday some are music, sport, writing, acting etc. Most people believe that having talent and abandoning them are good things but at the end of the tunnel; they finally reside to their self given ability.

How to discover your talent
Discovering your talent is one major factor which must be considered. If you understand the advantage of using your talent then the problem is how to discover it. Before anything, it is good people knows the differences between Acquired skills, Knowledge and talent.
Acquired Skill: As it is pronounced, it refers to abilities or expertise which connote higher performance at an activity received from a formal or informal setting.
Knowledge: They are information known to an individual
    If these are considered, I think the individual has succeeded in solving 25% of his problem. There are different issues and solution to discovering talents with my research.
You must be able to understand that your talent is always enduring and different
Your talent are things you love doing
Due to experiment, investigations and trials on different things your talent can be discovered
Try to understand what people say about you
Be concern about the way you learn i.e. reading, viewing, hearing, since of touch
Have a good sense of things that capture your heart e.g. TV shows, Magazines, Events, etc.
Understand your disadvantages i.e. where you are not good at ; You can be good at analysing things but can find it difficult putting them to action, or you can be good song writer but a bad singer
Apart from this, there are some factors that can discourage or weaken you from making use of your talents. situations like:
·    Poor health
·    Financial needs
·    Competitive ambition like singing which is highly competitive can cause discouragement
And lots of others must be first tackled before you setup best ways to spring up your talent
Immediately you understand the above, the next point is:

Practice (as it makes perfect). It is when you practice them that you will get to discover them and as time goes on it begins to develop like termite hill. And before you know it, you are living in your dreams!

Maintain Your Talent
    This is a very serious aspect of the whole topic we’ve been discussing: Yes you’ve discovered your talent, Also you have to develop it as it is developing it. There should be modesty in whatever field we find we find ourselves. Outlined below are factors to be considered:
Never make your new discovered talent disturb other activities or essential part: Like your education, most people live find it difficult staying in the walls of classroom or lecture room since they’ve discovered their talent. Acquired skills & knowledge all works to give your talent strength, it just this way.

Talent + Skills + knowledge = Strength

Meaning that one can’t live without the other

Learn to manage resources you can find at hand: In as much as you have the talent and few capitals is introduced to start with. All you need is try to hold firm to the backups you can find at the beginning of your success
Never be disturbed: Truly there should be some difficulty you can experience in your pursuit but what them all is your perseverance and endurance. They will go a long way in improving your talent.
Learn to have self discipline: Self discipline cut across a lot of things. In fact in business, self discipline is very important as you give yourself more discipline it will make you who you are.

Below are some texts and sites I did wish can help your talent psychologically and can give you knowledge about this topic:
·    25 Revealing Self-To help you find and succeed at the perfect career by Louis Janda
·    Google personality Test
·    Google psychological test and Surveys
·    Quincy’s Personality and Psychological Tests
·    Yahoo’s Personality online Tests.
·    Now discover Your Strength by Marcus Buckingham and Donald O. Clifton
·    How to discover your talent
·    55 ways to find your hidden talent

we must survive

2011-12-01T09:51:00.000-08:00

ometimes I did wonder why naturally human being easily adapt themselves to different environment they find themselves . It is not an element of history that when humans leave their cold temperature areas to warm areas, they tend to adapt with time as if they are born and breed there. Amazingly some of this is not always applicable to their organisms. Taking fishes as a case study, catfish live in the home of a dogfish, never! It going to die! Neither can a Dogfish do either. Socially speaking this problem has become a thing that most humans have become adapted to. Not because they don’t know their right but some insult, disgrace and harassment needs to be endured to achieve a foreseen goal.

Taking Nigeria as a case study, the different calibres of people we have are call surviving just for one reason and that is ‘living to reach up with peers and colleagues’. In fact this issue of survival of the fittest have made people do miserable things. But should we say the nature hasn’t given us enough? No! That is practically impossible. It’s is we human in charge of all these wealth of ours that are using it to endanger the life of others. Gone are the days where looking for job wasn’t a problem; even some don’t even have a degree yet before they are receiving incomes at the end of the month. That was still this same Nigeria.

And if this is happening to the working class, then what should we say about prospective student entering into higher institutions across the country do? Imaging that circumstance in which students are compelled to sit down for hours reading for exams for fear of failure, pass exams and at the end of the day not given admission. To be sincere majority of admitted students into higher institutions across the country finds it difficult to cope in their first year in school. Those are the weak one ones who found their way into higher institution through cunning and dubious means. While those who laboured day and night, burning candles are be dejected, frustrated and reproached. Some after endless tries retire to offering courses which are not of their own choice or which are just given to them by the school authority. Worst still some wait for another year and repeat the same admission process. But for how long the masses will continues to feed on the drops from the rich mans table?

Now as times goes on, all these frustrated student will give up schooling and fend for their needs. Even some seeing the situation too tough for them will imbibe the act of smuggling, robbery, looting government property, using drug, hooligan in the society etc.

In such a bad and grievous situation, they might be caught and up being imprisoned or become nonentities in the society. Yet they must survive!

Days ago, I clipped to my T.V set and was hearing how students are protesting against the increase in tuition fees. Must education should be what youth and teenager should always find pleasure in pursuing irrespective of their financial capabilities. Education must not be jeopardised with money which cannot be quantified with knowledge. If the power and mighty continues this way I think they have no plan for the future which is the plan of a rich Fool! Our leaders must learn to appreciate the education of young leaders, so that the future will be brighter and clearer!

A wise ones said ‘it is better to live in the future than you live in the present’ and another man said ‘it is better you sacrifice the present for your tomorrow’. But I feel we need to ask the power and mighty:

VIDEO GAMES and the society

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                   The continuous invention of technology has led to the introduction of video games which tends to promote human relationships. Every age and level of human life have been affected due to interaction between game players. Video game application is now something you can download,buy at cheap prizes and you can play them on your TV, computer etc.with easy guide or instructions.
                    Even i personally will not exempt that fact that computer games are not good leisure friends. We all know how video games have contributed to our life in one way or the other. Computer games have contributed positively or negatively to our life. But the basic issue is:
POSITIVE EFFECT OF VIDEO GAMES
NEGATIVE EFFECT OF VIDEO GAMES.
Starting with the positive.
Pleasure: most people find pleasure in games like a drunkard finds pleasure in drinking liquor. The advent of video games have made spirit of all or high rather. In fact some people will tell you. 'I didn't know when started playing it'. And we don't have to blame them because their body have come to realize the fact that playing that video game is a voluntary action which have over the years become involuntary. And in their unconscious mind they start playing.

It reduces stress: what you find pleasure or what you love doing does not give you stress, but rather, it gives joy,and the spirit become high. We all know that if the brain is stressed its possible that we may not know the difference between the right hand and the left. But taking a game pad, you discover that the body become relaxed and energy from the imaginable makes us back to our feet.

It fosters unity among friends:The best way to end a long lasting quarrel is to play a very nice game especially among youth. Due to interaction between players unity and love exist better between them.

It occupies our leisure: This makes me remember the colonies of the bees. All strata of their life are always making effective use of their time. The queen,drone and workers work endlessly in preparation for the future of their colony. If humans can effectively make use of the of every seconds we have,then the world will be a better place to live in. So you can easily spend your leisure which can't be doubted to be wrong, playing games. It makes you replenish your lost energy and reduce stress, fatigue etc.

promote academic performance and reasoning abilities: This is one cogent reason i feel video games can never be ostracized from human life because its already human. There are some implicit and explicit games that when played, they develop the thinking mentality especially among teenagers and youth even adult. So playing these games enlightens the knowledge of each individual.

Its a means of employment:video games have generated a means of employment to many. Now we have game inventors, investors,marketers etc. Who have made huge capital in their account
through video games.
                       In spite of all these: the negative effect are much more painful and disappointing. Here are the under listed side effect of video games.

Addition: inability to control yourself makes you an addict. Addition does not stays on drugs alone but it grows wings on other things like this addition to game. This is practically happening in the life of our youth and teenagers. Video games have made them useless,missed opportunities mismanage their little time.Addition to games can ruin any one's life. All you discover is that if they leave it for some minute, they feel the thirst for it and this can consume anything be it money,time,properties.etc

Enemity and hostility: When playing games there is always a winner and a loser. In our review on competition, there is always a gainer and a loser because the players pursues one interest. And when the loser sees themselves as losers they retaliate with fights that can cause commotion in the
society.
Laziness: laziness is one big factor that people relate to playing games. Why?. It is due to the fact that most addict spend most of their lovely time wasted in front of game pads and leave serious things to languish in the hands of laziness.

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