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Etiquette is Like an Ameoba

2016-11-23T11:05:00.002-08:00

Wedding etiquette is like an amoeba. I am sure you are tilting you head in the "What the heck is she on?" kind of way. But what I mean is that through, space, time, environment and background, the etiquette of the standard nuptial ceremony and the falderal leading up to and after it, is changing constantly.

Obviously, some things are so standard that it has been written in stone. Thank you cards are a great example. I have friends who are also in this industry, some of whom state that Thank You cards need not match your wedding suite, so long as they are sent because of all the changes that occur with etiquette. I agree.

You can always use a thank you card at sometime to express your gratitude to somebody.

And so fanfare follows with these sweeties:

Who doesn't think a letterpress card is the most polished elegant thing ever?

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Something personalized is always beautiful.

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With tons of drive and time (who has either of those?) you could opt for this spectacular DIY. Claire over at Fellow Fellow made these. They really are fantastic!

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This entire thank you suite on Etsy is so super charming. It is the type of thank you that defines the whimsy of a couple.

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Our wedding was very international. I married a very handsome, kind Turkish man. We had people from Turkey (obv.), Germany, Italy, Russia, Bulgaria, Ireland, Scotland and England all in attendance at our wedding. A little twist with some linguistics is unexpected and charming! You could always ask the artist to personalize it with whatever "gracias" language you prefer.

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Dresses - You Know!

2016-04-14T12:21:00.001-07:00

"The Dress" is the most important part of the bride and it can set the tone for the entire event. I went with "magical" for our wedding. My dress helped that feeling along. What is the tone you are trying to set? when I ask "tone," I mean what is the feeling you are trying to evoke in your guests; the spirit of you and your new husband?

These dresses are nothing short of amazing!

Hayley Paige -Lana Gown (My fave)!

Hayley Paige

Inbal Dror

Zuhair Murad Haute Couture 2010

Pallas Couture

Allure Bridals

Real Weddings: Snook/Oren

2013-07-02T16:27:00.004-07:00

Some things cannot be expressed. This little wedding we went to in Lodi had everything any bride and groom could ever want and stuff to create a great party for guests too.

But the overwhelming romance left both my husband and I breathless. The whole wedding wreaked of charm not just for the wee details but because of the love that the couple clearly shared for each other.

Paper Products

2013-06-02T10:56:00.000-07:00

I love the paper...

Look at some of these.

The Aerialist Press is an artisanal paper goods company full of wit and whimsy and, bonus, they are affordable.

Little Miss Press. My goodness, the cleverness and originality is unmatched. The attention to detail of course gets her on the list. And the calligraphy...

Dauphine Press does everything in letter press and they are truly sumptuous. I love the company because the originator has a background in Art History! Me too!

Indie Wed - Something Different; Better!

2013-02-24T13:03:00.000-08:00

Indie Wed!

This 2012 video sort of says it all and big bonus, Geographer is the soundtrack! A trip to Chicago in July might be in order!

This is from 2011. So good!

Aubergine!

2013-02-09T13:59:00.000-08:00

Adrienne, my oldest, dearest friend is getting married! Best wishes and God Bless You, Love! XO

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The Fluffiest and Most Feminine Dresses

2013-01-30T08:12:00.003-08:00

As you all know, Pinterest is an amazing resource both for inspiration and for ultimate pretty. I love an uber feminine dress. I have friends who love these stark sheath type gowns, and other who like sex kitten wedding ensembles but me, I like the fluff. I love tulle and organdy. I love Bustles and silk and the movement of chiffon. Technically you only get married once...Make it dramatic and demure at once like these...

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Twigs and Honey

2012-12-11T21:57:00.002-08:00

Oh man, these transcend words. You can see for yourself that there are no real words for these enchanting treats. And if you want a fascinator this is where you should go for the coronet you wear on your wedding day!

Twigs and Honey was shared with me by a recent bride who still has her June nuptials coursing through her veins. She has impeccable taste, as you can see!

Yummy!

2012-11-02T18:07:00.001-07:00

In the words of Gwen Stefani, "I'm feeling yummy head to toe!" And why wouldn't you in this ridiculousness of awesome? I don't know who the designer is but I wish I did.

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And in other news, I've got two real wedding coming! Keep your sweet bridal eyes peeled!

Pretty on Pinterest

2012-09-28T08:39:00.004-07:00

I found these on Pinterest. You know...I love it there. It's my favorite playground. This is what I saw in weddings today. I hope this inspires you as we move into harvest!

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Autumn Weddings

2012-09-21T08:14:00.002-07:00

I love the Fall. I love October, in fact, it's my all time favorite month of the year. I still have a tiny bit of sun kissing on my shoulders, Halloween kicks off the holidays and BONUS, it's my birthday month!

But weddings in the Autumn are really what I live for! The vibrant colors, the harvest, the sun low in the sky but still casting a happy glow...this trifect makes for an astounding backdrop for a happy, happy day!

Just look at the things you can do!

This is a barn done right! It's still rustic but dramatic and beautiful. Source

Easy DIY table numbers and escort cards!

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Spread the love - indeed! Such cute favors.

My Sister's Beautiful Wedding

2012-09-09T11:16:00.000-07:00

My sister, as I've said before has always been enviable. She is beautiful, funny, uber smart and intense. She also happens to be a style maven and before weddings were WEDDINGS! she pioneered a substantial and gorgeous event of her own. She designed her wedding in 2004 and as such there were no "Wedding Blogs" as there are today. And magazines were good but more limited than they are today. Like I said, "WEDDINGS!"

I love these photos. They are, regrettably, photos of photos because tragically, Marissa's wedding photographer passed away. So we have no access to the originals. She's pretty sad about it too.

The event was held on May 7th, 2004 at Serrano Country Club. Her dress is Ramona Kaveza and it was a gorgeous gown with box pleats at the hem and the top of the bodice. Highlights were that their first dance was a choreographed waltz which was romantic and lovely. And her colors - tiffany blue, peach and off white.

Here favors (I wish I had a picture) were hand rolled paper cones filled with dried lavender that guests were asked to keep or throw at the couple upon their leaving. It was a stunning event.

See for yourself...

Charlotte Style

2012-08-23T08:21:00.005-07:00

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Charlotte York has always been my style icon. In fact, I suppose the character herself speaks to my soul. I love her Park Ave. Princess appeal and her preppy sensibility. I love her elegance and her dark haired beauty. She never looks like she's tried too hard. She is Audrey Hepburn meets modern marvel super mom with an optimistic, pink cloud outlook on life. And her Sex in the City wedding encapsulated all of that!

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Tupy Boutique

2012-08-20T21:40:00.003-07:00

Sometimes you come across something so unique and so charming that you wish you had done something differently yourself. Sure, my invites were great and I love the company that did them. I just think perhaps, if I got married now, I would have chosen somethings differently.

Tupy Boutique is just that kind of different that the doctor ordered.

Sometimes Inspiration Just Isn't There...

2012-08-14T08:16:00.000-07:00

So we must improvise!

Magnolia Rouge has some great stuff and that is where I found this. As I pine for winter while suffering at 108 today, I thought this little morsel might be a we treat for the eyes. Enjoy!

Fancy Frocks - Cymbeline 2012

2012-07-20T06:00:00.000-07:00

I love to look at wedding gowns. It just never gets old to me. I joked to a friend recently that I'd love to go to a gown shop posing as a newly engaged woman just so I can try on dresses.

I also scour the internet for different styles and a gamut of price points. Perhaps because I have a wedding website?

I found the Cymbeline 2012 collection. They are a Parisian design house who has just opened a landmark store in New York City!

Andras Schram

2012-07-08T05:00:00.000-07:00

Every once in a while, I come across an extraordinary photographer! You know the ones, I've said it before...there is a difference between a photographer who takes pretty pictures and a photographer who captures magical moments. I have found such a one, recently. His name is Andras Schram. You;ll have to click the link to get the full impact of his imagery!

All the Pretty!

2012-07-04T22:09:00.000-07:00

Pink and white....

Whimsical Wedding

2012-07-01T06:00:00.000-07:00

It's Summertime! New Inspiration.

2012-06-27T12:39:00.001-07:00

Summer holds special memories for just about all of us. I am reminded of my mother's garden. Wouldn't it be unusual and fun to have a tomato themed wedding?

Claire La Faye - Fabulous Frocks

2012-05-28T10:42:00.003-07:00

I have written about Claire before, I know. But there are just some artists that I cant get enough of. I check back often to her Etsy site to see if she has anything new. Voila! Here they are. I just love her work. Her all natural materials, her outstanding craftsmanship, her cleverness and her dreamy photos. What's not to love?

Some Kind of Wonderful Bohemian Wedding Gown

Detail of Some Kind of Wonderful

Parisian Princess Silk Wedding Gown

Angel's Dance Snow White Wedding Gown

Detail of Angel's Dance

Midsummer's Night Dream Antique Blush Wedding Gown

I love the rosettes and pearls!

It Must Have Been the Roses Bohemian Blush Wedding Gown

Detail of It Must Have Been the Roses

This gown was featured in Portland Bride & Groom...

Just So Pretty

2012-05-18T00:42:00.000-07:00

All of these gowns can be found on my Pinterest board: Wedding Love

Some New Inspiration

2012-05-14T10:18:00.001-07:00

Jenny Yoo - Convertible Bridesmaid Dress

2012-05-12T14:21:00.003-07:00

This dress is scrumptious. I love all the ways you can wear it and because of it's so many options any body type can wear it. Following are more photos of the same dress. And bonus...you can get it at Nordstrom!

A knotted twist shapes the pleated sweetheart bodice of a strapless chiffon dress designed with long panels that can be artfully wrapped and tied over the bodice to create a variety of elegant looks.

Hidden back zip with hook-and-eye closure.

Approx. length from top center front to hem: 31".

Fully lined, with padded cups and boning in bodice.

Tulle crinoline in skirt.

Polyester; dry clean.

By Jenny Yoo Collection; imported.

Wedding Suite.

The Feeling - The Atmosphere

2012-05-08T08:20:00.003-07:00

The thing that makes a wedding the most memorable is the feeling you take away with you after the party. You can have the most unusual favors and play the most indie music and create the most clever cake and have super folksy invitations; However, if the feelings your guests take away with them are pretense, coldness and ego then no matter how great the food was people will remember how they felt.

Your guests, regardless of your sensational paper suite, should feel warm, welcome and cherished. That is the most successful wedding any bride can hope for.

often times creating an ambience of invitation can pave the way for all of those sweet feelings...