motivation

Abilities should be in Practice

2009-12-09T12:36:00.003+07:00

A cutter sharpening his ax to collect wood. A hunting knife sharpening and tightening the bow. A writer whittling a pencil. They all have to update the equipment. They are you and me. This is a simple principle of productivity.

Of course, not many trees would be felled by an ax which was dull and worn. There will be no game that can be conquered by the arcs that have been aged. There is no one word can be written from a broken pencil. So, what should we hone in order to still reach personal life and career full and abundant? You have a body that would erode old age.

Also intelligence

which does not mean much immediately behind the progress of time. Fistful and liver
diburamkan easy conscience by the dust of the world. So we should no care other than that body has always been a comfortable home for the soul.

Nothing we need to hone your mind and skills in addition to always be used to open the door of prosperity. Well, we have nothing but sharpen the conscience that allows us to hear the song of happiness in this life.

Wedding

2009-11-22T07:08:00.002+07:00

Marriage is considered as an important turning point in the life of someone. Every young man or young woman hoping to meet with her dreams. Couples who both became the main goal in life and young people almost "indoctrinated" the importance of finding a good partner for him. But basically, the relationship between men and women do not have a solid foundation in the pagan community in the society whose members do not accept the Quranic way of life. "Friendship" is merely a romantic relationship in which both sexes look for emotional satisfaction. Meanwhile, the marriage is usually based on mutual material advantage. Many women trying to obtain "a successful man" because they expect a high standard of living. With such goals, a young girl can easily accept a loved one as he was not a life partner. In contrast, sought a man in a woman often is "beautiful face".

But pagan community perspective ignores a very important fact: all the material value will eventually crushed. God can take back one's wealth in an instant. Similarly, only takes a few seconds to lose a beautiful face. For example, if we are every day to go and return to work in big cities, whenever we can get an accident that may leave permanent scars, and terrible in the face. Meanwhile, the time cause damage beyond repair to health, strength, and our beauty. Under what conditions can not be predicted like that, what the consequences of a system based purely materialistic values? For example, imagine a man who married a woman just because she was impressed by the beautiful appearance. What would think if the woman's face was badly damaged in an accident? Will he leave her when he began to appear wrinkles on her face? The answer no doubt will reveal materialistic rationale makes no sense.

A marriage becomes valuable when intended solely to achieve the pleasure of Allah. If not, the marriage will be a burden both in this world and in nature afterward. If you are not in this world, people will eventually understand in the Hereafter, that this is not the proper way for the human soul. However, it was too late; penghisaban day, he would make his wife, who close to him in this world, as a ransom for her safety. The horror of that day will make all the connections in the world is losing meaning. God gave a detailed narrative about the relationship between family members the next day in the following paragraph

They were looking at each other. Infidels had he wanted to redeem from the punishment of the day with his children, and his wife and his brother, and kindred who sheltered. (Surat al MA'AARIJ: 11-13)

It is clear from this verse that humans no longer be tied to the interests of any woman, friend, brother or female, penghisaban day. In their attempts desperately to be rescued, any person willing to make a close family or relatives as a ransom for their own safety. Moreover, these people will be cursing because they do not have to remind each other about such a horrible end. In the Qur'an, said of Abu Lahab who received punishment for eternity in hell with his wife:

Perish the hands of Abu Lahab and indeed he will perish. It is not beneficial to him their possessions and what they earn. Later he would enter into a turbulent flame. And his wife, carrying firewood. Which a rope around his neck from the fiber. (Surat al-Masad, 111: 1-5)

Type of marriage acceptable to God is based on the criteria completely different. Contrary to the usual wedding in pagan society, where people do not heed the will get the pleasure of Allah, the criterion is not money, fame, or beauty, but a marriage is intended to achieve the pleasure of Allah. For the believers, the only criterion is piety, that is' away from all that is forbidden, did everything they were told, and fear Allah. Similarly, a believer can only marry someone who showed full obedience to God. The people find peace and happiness in this marriage. Here is a verse that has to do with this:

And among the signs of His power is that He created for you wives of your own kind, so that you tend to be and feel reassured him, and made him among you a sense of love and affection. Verily in this is truly there are signs for those who reflect. (Surat ar-Rum, 30: 21)

With the devotion of the bonds only, the believers will surely get a good life in the Hereafter Day. When they would warn each other of virtue and guiding each other to heaven throughout their lives, they also will be close friends forever. Their relationship is as depicted below:

And those who believe, men and women, some of them to be helpers to each other. They sent a ma'ruf, preventing from the evil, establish the prayer, give to charity and they obey Allah and His Messenger. They will be given by God's mercy for Allah Almighty, the Wise. (Surat At-Tauba, 9: 71)

Important wealth and position in the World?

2009-11-02T18:29:00.003+07:00

Most people believe that life really can be achieved peacefully in this world. This mentality has suggested that a person can find true happiness and get respect from others through wealth. Similar mentality to believe that once met, the fun will last until the end of the world. However, the truth is exactly the opposite. Human beings can never achieve his dream life with the Creator, and the day's reckoner. This is because at the time he was realizing a goal, he began to think of others. Not satisfied with the number obtained, he jump in new business. He did not feel any satisfaction from the new flat, so he saw his neighbor's house is decorated with art, or it may be, because the decor is a stylish house last year, outdated, he pushed for redecorating. Similarly, because the styles and tastes changed drastically, he dreamed of the clothes more recently because he was not satisfied with what he had. Psychology of people who do not believe vividly described in the following verse:

Let the person I dealt with that I have created alone. And I made him a lot of property, and the kids are always with him, and I Relieve him with his field, then he wanted to so I add to it. (Surat al Mudatstsir, 74: 11-15)

Someone sensible and clear berpemahaman will admit that the owners of a large house with more rooms than occupants, luxury cars, or a large wardrobe only able to use a limited part of his property. If you have the biggest house in the world, whether it is possible to enjoy every room at the same time? Similarly, if you have a closet containing a variety of fashionable clothing last, how much can you put in a day? The owner of a large house with dozens of rooms, as an entity of limited space and time can only stay in a room at a time. If you are offered all the delicious food from renowned restaurants, your stomach will hold only a little; if you try to impose more, the result is more of a punishment, not pleasure.

This list can be extended again, but the most surprising fact is that humans are destined to live on a very limited time to enjoy the luxury of his property. Humans quickly towards the end of his life, but he rarely admitted it during his lifetime and considered his wealth would give him eternal happiness, as mentioned the following verse:

He thinks that his wealth could mengekalkannya. (Surat Al Humazah, 104: 3)

Blinded by the power of human wealth, so when he faced a frightening end on the day penghisaban, he still would try to escape punishment by offering his wealth:

They were looking at each other. Infidels had he wanted to atone for (himself) from the punishment of the day with his children, and his wife and his brother, and kindred who sheltered (the world). And the people on the earth and all that ransom can save him. May it not be, the

real hell is the turbulent flame. (Surat al MA'AARIJ, 70: 11-15)

However, some people realize that wealth, prosperity, and wealth that many are under the control of Allah. As such, they are very aware that the position and status is a laugh. Only these people really understand that this property will not save them at the end of the day. Therefore, they did not dare go after valuables in the world. Bragging is not a trait you'll meet the people who simply like this. For never forget the existence of Allah Almighty, they are grateful for what he gave. In return, Allah promises a respectable life and fun for them. People who believe in Allah and devotion to Allah makes the final goal of life as they realize that they can only enjoy the worldly things for a limited period and that earthly things are not equal to the promised eternal abundance. Wealth never make people like that are bound to this life. Instead, make them more thankful and closer to Allah. They address every person and every problem with justice, and tried, with what Allah has given, to achieve His pleasure. Instead of seeking the pleasure of the wealth in this world, they try to obtain Quranic values expected of them, because it really means to realize the position and praise to Allah. Solomon gave an example to everyone as a believer respectable showing these qualities in his life. Having wealth and great power, Solomon clearly stated why he pursued this property:

So he said: "I love the pleasures of good things (horse) that I neglected to remember my Lord until the horse is out of sight." (Surah Sad, 38: 32)

Failure to understand why the worldly possessions in this world to make people forget that they will only be able to use his property for 60-70 years, if they are destined to live for it, and then left the house, the cars, and their children. They do not think that they will be buried alone. Throughout their lives longing for riches that will never be able to enjoy them.

However, those who regard wealth as a savior and ignore the existence of their Creator afford good bitter sadness in this world and in the Hereafter.

Those who disbelieve, possessions and their children, the least able to reject Allah from them. And they are fuel of hell fire. (Surat Ali 'Imran, 3: 10)

Al-Quran has been preaching the end of those who show greed insatiable will to property:

collecting treasure and count, he thinks that his wealth could be mengekalkannya! Nay! Indeed he really will be thrown into the Huthamah, And you know what Huthamah it? The fire of Allah that is turned on, reaching the heart. Indeed fire closed over them, (are they) tied to long poles. (Surat al-Humazah, 104: 2-9)

True wealth owned by people of faith who never showed interest in property in this world and believe in truth that only Allah who gives all things to man. They are the real rich people in this world, they do not restrict their lives just 50-60 years. People who believe the best trading buy heaven with their lives. They prefer the eternal wealth than temporary. Allah tells us about this in the following verse:

Verily Allah has purchased of the believers themselves and their property by providing for their paradise. They fight in the way of Allah and they kill or be killed. The true promise of Allah in the Torah, the Gospel and the Qur'an. And who is more true to his promise than Allah? So cheer up the sale and purchase you've done it, and that's a big victory. (Surat At-Tauba, 9: 111)

For ignoring these facts, they are "bound" to the world will soon understand clearly who was in the right path.

Value of Life In Failure

2009-10-16T16:02:00.003+07:00

Are people with disabilities can change the world a more beautiful? Is it just the perfect person who can change this world better? Can be answered unequivocally that the creation of man as God Almighty has an equal right to be able to change this world more beautiful and better, regardless of whether he is a handicapped or physically perfect, slant-eyed or not, colored or white etc.. World history has proven that people with disabilities have the same opportunity with the perfect man. God gave the same opportunity to every human being, giving special place to dream in the human brain.

Three severe disabilities who have ever lived on this earth and has a great service to mankind: Helen Keller was born on June 27, 1880 in Tuscumbia, Alabama, USA and died in 1968 at the age of 87 years. At the age of 19 months he was stricken with a disease that causes blindness and deafness. In the subsequent struggle for life, he had become a writer, researcher, activist, and lecturer. He worked to help the blind and deaf. Mastering French, German, Greek, and Latin through Braille. His famous book The World I Live In, and The Story of My Life (typed on ordinary letters and Braille) is a classic literature in the United States and translated into 50 languages. He also founded the American Foundation for the Blind and the American Foundation for the Overseas Blind. Helen's struggle over it was awarded Honorary Degrees University Women's Hall of Fahme, the Presidential Medal of Freedom, The Lions Humanitarian Award and the story of her life has won two Oscars.

Louis Braille was born January 8, 1809 in France and Coupvray died January 6, 1852. When he was 3 years old he still liked to play in his father's harness shop. At that moment one of her eyes affected his horse equipment which caused his eyes became blind. Although his eyes blind in the development of the next life, he has developed a paper to assist blind can read and write. In the late 19th century invented the universal acceptance by the name of writing "Braille". Thanks to the exceptional services, the international world commemorate the birth date of January 4 as: "Braille Day".

Ludwig van Beethoven, a genius in music, was baptized on December 17, 1770 in Bonn, died on March 26, 1827 in Vienna. He has been belittled by his teacher because he could not do multiplication and division. Now he is known as a classical music composer from Germany. Famous work is the fifth and ninth symphonies and piano songs Fur Elise. He was in view as one of the greatest composers and a leading figure in the transitional period between the Classical period and romantic period. During his youth, he is a talented pianist, popular among the important people and rich in Vienna, Austria where he lived.

At the age of 20 years, the listener senses a disturbance and he became deaf due otolerosis. He stressed to the point that he would kill himself. He felt sad, because these experienced disease, which can be seen in the letters found in a house in Heiligenstadt near Vienna. Another reason that he was exposed to severe depression is not being able to get a life. Many noble women are often loved, but generally unrequited love and Beethoven never married.

At the age of 40 years he became one hundred percent sensitive, so he never appeared again in public and increasingly menjahui community. Fewer handiwork and more difficult to understand. Since then he created especially for himself and a few listeners who have an ideal future. He once said to a music critic, "this invention is not for you but for the period after you."

In 1826, Beethoven suffered from fever Cleaner which was caused by kidney disease. The disease is beyond help and died on 26 March 1827 in Vienna at the age of 57 years.

Beethoven was a lot: 9 symphonies, 32 piano sonatas, 5 piano concertos, 10 sonatas for piano and violin, a series of stunning string quartet, vocal music, musical theater and more.

From the story of 3 people with disabilities live weight of the (Helen, Braille, and Beethoven) can we learn together that there is life values that we have to remember with a failure in this life. Value of life can be described as follows:

1. Events that suddenly come upon us, is a plan of God. Be assured His plan is wonderful and he certainly works in our lives that eventually his plan would be auspicious.

2. Merenunglah a moment and take some wisdom to be learned from the incident. Do not make excuses or blame others. Learn from the event.

3. Go step by step. Pandanganlah forward and not back slit. Forget about what happened to them.

4. Remember that we are before God is a very noble creature. Not in the dictionary of God, people with disabilities do not have the right to change this world becomes more beautiful.

Remember these values and should not be because of disability, makes a person become powerless again in this life, no longer having a beautiful dream and Always remain confident in achieving the dream, as once was said by Helen Keller: "I thank to God for cacatku, because through it I've found myself, my work, and my God. "

Afraid of Doing Wrong?

2009-09-11T04:23:00.003+07:00

In an interview, a reporter asked him the secret behind the success of a bank president.

"Two words", he said.
"Anything?", After the reporter.
"The decision telling."
"How to make a telling decision?"
"One word."
"What's that?"
"Experience."
"How do you draw from the experience?"
"Five said."
"Anything?"
"By making the wrong decision."

Often we avoid the mistakes or failures. We do not want to look stupid, ashamed, or dipecundangi by others. In each of our appearance, while getting along with others, we always want to look perfect. In fact, there is a growing thought that if we make a mistake, then we do not just make us ashamed of ourselves, but also our parents. Why? Because had our parents teach us wrong. That is often thought by most people.

So that we do not embarrass the parents, then we must be perfect. What's worse, parents were often forced her to be perfect, and do not make mistakes / failures. Plus with the environment in which we live and interact. Often an environment not accept people who make mistakes. Moreover, if a mistake was giving it a disgrace to the environment.
These circles that often affect us, so that increases our desire for great is the name to avoid mistakes / failures. However, try to listen to the following wise words: "If you're afraid to make mistakes, then you never really do anything." How so? Let us take an example, something you want done first by almost everybody when adolescence: UP BIKE.

I was always desperate to feel to ride a bicycle (two-wheeled bicycle, not a tricycle). However, when tried for the first time I often fell. I even asked the help of parents or friends, even neighbors, to help me learn the bike. I had forgotten how much I fell off (make mistakes). Until the end I managed to control the bike.

And it turned out, for a new thing we want to do, we will never be straight, but we certainly can if you keep learning. This is also the answer the question: "Who says I do not do anything, if I'd done nothing wrong?" It's true we often do, and we do not or are not making mistakes. For example only, eat. Almost (I say almost, because there are people who do not eat every day) every day we eat. However, if we forget, we also make mistakes while learning to feed themselves. Thus, the unwillingness to make mistakes, we just are in the circle of activities that only it-that's all, did not develop.

This does not mean that everyone is free to make mistakes. Because, there are also people make mistakes, and it was not for his own development, unless the person admits his guilt and wanted to learn. For example, to steal. This too is a form of error, but not a mistake I mean here. In simple terms we can distinguish them: DELIBERATE ERRORS AND MISTAKES ARE NOT KNOWN.
One of the human body is the ability of adaptation. If we were in summer, and all of a sudden going to change the winter season. So, we'll deal with it half to death. This is because our bodies are not familiar with the sudden temperature change. But gradually our bodies will adapt, so that we can continue to survive in the winter. In this adaptation process, we often make mistakes / failures.

Initially we have used two-wheeled bicycle. However, through the learning process we are able to adapt / get used to two-wheeled bicycle. Well, in this learning process we often make mistakes / failures. And, we learn from mistakes / failures. Why in the adaptation process we often make mistakes / failures? Because we do not have the ability to something new. This is our pengatahuan limitations.

So, recognizing the limitations of our knowledge, we are constantly learning to do things that are new. And in it will often happen error / failure. Thus, error / failure is a new knowledge for us, until we get what we want knowledge. That is why I equate the word "mistake" with the word "failure". Although there are types of failures that do not educate. For example, the statement, "I failed to steal the day!" So, the fault / failure is a natural process that must go through to obtain new knowledge (new hope).

Unlike the case with a mistake made on purpose. However, the real in any deliberate mistakes people make mistakes / failures again. For example, to become master thieves, takes a lot of mistakes / failures so good at it. Not only the lessons that are obtained. If we want to improve the quality of our lives, then the deliberate error can provide learning / knowledge new to us. So, not only, how many mistakes you make (whether natural or intentional), but, if we want to improve the quality of our self?
Maybe that's why God is Forgiving, the origin of our intention to improve the quality of ourselves (with a truly repentant). Since each error, whether natural or intentional, actually gives a lesson for us. And it all depends on our views, whether to improve self-esteem or drop?

There is a beautiful sentence from Anthony Robbins, "There is no such things as failure. That there are only results. You always make the result. When it is not desired, you can simply change the action and obtain new results. "This means that any error / failure is the result we have to learn to get the expected results.

Remember! I have often received and studied as a natural mistake because in it there is a learning process. Because in a way that I can continue to DO and GREW!

Sensory Reality

2009-09-04T06:57:00.003+07:00

Have you ever wondered if other people have feelings to see, smell or touch as you? Maybe once, but you can not conclude with certainty because it is impossible for you to know the sensory world of other people. If so, the latest scientific developments regarding this issue will provide additional important information on such estimates.

A question is always: "what is the difference between what I caught and arrested when you feel the world?" We all agree that when we see a red rose is a rose is not a blue or green, but red as me and you are equally witnessing? "Or how can you smell that came to my nose?"
Original nature of the experiences generated through the five senses we do not allow us to give a definite answer to these questions. Even so, experts in the field argue that the results they obtained from various experiments they are old enough to be able to answer the question "Is the world we feel different?" The answer "yes".
There are several major differences between the experience-produced sensory practice each of us. "No two people who live in the same sensory world," according to the neurologist Paul Breslin of Monell Chemical Senses Center [Center for Chemical senses, Monell] in Philadelphia. "The world you see, food that you feel, the smell that you smell - it all felt with your own unique way,"
, He explained.
If you ask different people who tasted a drink that taste bad if they like it or not then you will receive a different answer. Most will say they do not like. But not all. There will be some who say they do not feel something strange in it, and even some said they enjoyed the drink.
Experts also have observed this kind of diversity in the various experiments on other senses. There are some important differences in each person on the introduction of light and color. "Stephen Tsang from Columbia University in New York said," Our response to light ranging from those who are capable of recognizing a single photon to those who have a disease known as short-sighted , which is very disturbing their ability to see in dim light. "
Samir Deeb, a researcher of the differences in color sensing at the University of Washington, Seattle, concluded his findings in the following statement, "Even among individuals who have normal vision, color perception test showed a large range of differences in how the colors look . "
Subjects [ie, number of people tested in this study] also differ in their responses in tests designed to measure the resistance to pain. One group that touched the water that is slowly heated not withstand the rising temperatures is very small, while the other group was very little affected. One person even said that he had not bothered even when the temperature reaches 49 degrees Celsius, the highest limit acceptable to the human skin without blisters. Bob Coghill, from the Wake Forest Medical School [Walke Forest Medical School], who made a number of experiments, connecting the people who become research subjects in a magnetic resonance imaging devices [magnetic resonance imaging devices] and determine a clear relationship between levels experienced the pain and the amount of brain activity that occur simultaneously in the cerebral cortex. "Perceptions of pain has a very large keberagam," says Jeffrey Mogil of McGill University in Montreal, "and these experiments showed that the differences are real and candid."
Thus there is great individual variability in at least four senses. This means that the organ recipient sight, smell, taste and feel your pain completely different from that of others. Paul Breslin insists the fundamental nature of these findings: "If you consider that almost every thing we know from birth depend on our sensory system, the sensory perbedan individual differences we are far more interesting." In other words, "our lives whole is the result of perception (sensing) us. "
This means that one is dealing with the most important truths of life.
However, the specifics of how such a remarkable complex, interrelated and details of life can persist in such a way that is real and unbroken in a world in which matter exists only as a perception (the senses)? Whose all of this information, and who is the Creator of all the events and the Lord of all things?
Anyone who sincerely think these questions will certainly see the truth. Allah has created man and all sensory abilities (perception) they, in other words their destiny, and Allah is the Lord of their lives at any time. He knows what is happening all the time.
The two events mentioned Allah in the Qur'an may indicate that sensory differences are not limited to the small differences in recognizing colors or pain. The first of these events refer to the Prophet Abraham who feel the U.S. as a cold fire. Almighty Allah gave orders 'O fire be coolness and safety for Abraham! "(Surat al-Anbiya', 21:69), and with his will Abraham did not feel any burning nature of fire. Thus, the Prophet Abraham to feel the fire, which burned hot perceived by everyone, as something cool. In other events, Allah showed that the middle class to fight at his side are a two-fold in the eyes of their enemies:

"Indeed there are signs to you, on two groups that have been met (to fight). Fighting in the cause of Allah and the (party) other infidel's head with eyes to see (as if) Muslim men twice their number. Allah strengthen with His help whom He wills. Verily, in that there is a lesson for those who have the eyes of the heart. " (Surat al-Qur'an, 3:13)

The revelation that one person described being seen as two people "with their own eyes" is very clear, and suggests that the denial of Allah may have been experiencing sensory differences by looking at a number of people who believe the two. (Wallaahu knows best) These verses indicates that the sensory differences preset by Allah with the knowledge that we can not understand.

Thinking can liberate people from the shackles of witchcraft

2009-08-29T08:34:00.002+07:00

In the Qur'an, Allah says about those who think consciously, pondered and eventually up to the truth that makes them fear Allah. Instead, Allah also states that people who follow their predecessors in blind imitation without thinking, or just simply follow the existing practice, is in error. When asked, the imitators who do not want to think it will answer that they are the people who run religion and faith in Allah. But because not think, they just do worship and activities of life without the fear of Allah. The mentality of this group as described in the Qur'an:

Say: Unto whom this earth, and all that is him, if ye know? "

They will say: "To Allah." Say: "Will you not remember?"

Say: "Who is the Lord of the seven heavens and the Lord of 'the great Throne?"

They will say: "To Allah." Say: "Will you not be cautious?"

Say: "Who is in His hand is power over all things is he protecting, but no one can be protected from (adzab) Him, if ye know?"

They will say: "To Allah." Say: "(If so), then from the street where you tricked (by magic)?"

"Actually, we have brought the truth to them, and in fact they are really people who lie." (Surat al-Muminun, 23: 84-90)

In the above verse, Allah said to man, "... then the path where you tricked (by magic)?. Bewitched or enchanted word here has a meaning or a sense of mental paralysis which humans mastered thoroughly. Intellect is not used to thinking means that reasonable has been paralyzed, blurred vision, behaving as someone who does not see the reality before his eyes, which owned the means to discern right from wrong to be weak. He could not understand a simple truth though. He can not raise his awareness to understand events extraordinary events taking place around him. He was not able to see parts of a complex of events there. What caused the society as a whole lost in life for thousands of years of neglect and distance themselves from thinking that seemed to have become a tradition is this sense of paralysis.
The influence of collective magic that can dikiaskan as follows:

Below the earth's surface there is a boiling layer, called magma, whereas the earth's crust is very thin. Thick layer of crust over the whole earth is as thick skin of the apple than the apple itself. This means that the red-hot magma is so close to us, under our feet!

Everyone knows that beneath the earth's surface is a boiling layer with very hot temperatures, but the man did not think much about it. This is because the parents, relatives, relatives, friends, neighbors, a writer in the newspaper article they read, the producers of TV programs and their professors at the university did not think about it.

Allow us to invite you to think briefly about this issue. Suppose someone who has lost his memory trying to identify around with asking questions to everyone around him. First he asked where he was. Do you think he will come to mind when notified that under where he stood, there is a boiling ball of fire that can be radiated and scattered from the Earth's surface at a great earthquake or a mountain erupt? Let's talk further and suppose that these people have been told that the earth where he was just a small planet floating in space is very large, dark and empty space is called. This space has the potential for greater danger than these earth materials, such as: meteor-meteor with a ton of weight that moves freely in it. It is not possible meteor-meteor is moving toward the earth and then hit it.

Odds this person capable of not thinking a second when he was in a place filled with danger threatening every moment of his soul. He would think also how humans can live in a planet that is constantly on the horns, very fragile and endanger his life. He then realized that this condition only occurs because of a perfect system without the slightest defect. Although the earth, where he lived, has a danger of overwhelming, but her system is very accurate balance that can prevent these hazards so as not to befall mankind. Someone who realize this, understand that the earth and all creatures on it can establish a life in peace only with the will of Allah, caused by the perfect balance of nature and without disabilities who created him

The above example is just one among millions, or even trillions of examples that should be pondered by man. Below is one more example that hopefully helps in understanding how the "state neglect" may affect the means of human thought and disables the ability of reason.

Humans know that life on earth over and over very quickly. Strangely, they still behave as though they would never leave the world. They do the job as if the world there is no death. Indeed, this is a form of magic or a spell that passed on by generations. This condition affects so great that when one talked about death, people immediately stop the subject for fear of losing the magic that had been imprison them and do not dare to face reality. Mengabiskan person his whole life to buy a nice house, summer lodging, car, and then send their kids to good schools, do not want to think that one day they will die and not be able to bring a car, home, or child - children with them. As a result, instead of doing something essential to life after death, they chose not to think about death.

However, sooner or later every human being would have died. After that, believe it or not, everyone will start a life everlasting. Is eternal life took place in heaven or in hell, depending on the charitable deeds during her short life in the world. Because this is a truth that would happen, so the only reason why people behave as if death were not there is a magic that has closed or imprison them because not think and reflect.

The people who can not free themselves from the magic in the way of thinking, which resulted in their omission, will see the truth with their own eyes after their death, as Allah preached to us in the Qur'an:

"Verily, you are in a state of neglect of the (case), then we reveal the lid than you (the cover) your eyes, the sight of the day is very sharp." (Qur'an, 50: 22)

In the above verse vision becomes blurred because someone did not want to think, but his vision became sharper after he was resurrected from the grave and when mempertanggung responsibility of all deeds in the Hereafter.

Need underlined that people may intentionally allowed himself to be handcuffed by such magic. They think that by doing this they will live with peacefully. Thank Allah that it is very easy for someone to change such conditions, and eliminate mental disability or reason, so he can live in the awareness to know the reality. Allah has given to man a way out; people who reflect and think will be able to release themselves from the shackles of magic when they were still in the world. Next, he will understand the purpose and the essential meaning of all existing events. He will be able to understand the wisdom of whatever Allah created all the time.

Tturbulence Muslim Thinkers

2009-08-11T06:09:00.002+07:00

Friends of all, the night nisfu sa'ban we skip this is very clear is Ramadan, where all the good deeds and charity in our case in the countdown terkecilpun akan pleated by Allah SWT, our faith as a brace this opportunity I have stories that will arouse insyaallah us to further deepens Teachings of Islam. let's see together.

I find many of the other Bible verses. However, during the last five years none of ustadz that kutemui can meyakinkanku to enter Islam, to finally meet a Muslim trust.
I was born in Andreas Abraham Protestant family in 1965 in Jakarta. I always move home and the school where my father as a police office. My high School in Medan.Tahun in 1991 moved to Yogyakarta. Now living in Ciputat.
I lecture on theology in 1997 at Jogja. A year later, I often argue with the ustadz. One-back at them as losers compete with the argument. I always easy to overcome them, because they are not especially deep in the religion. Meanwhile, every day I demanded to learn the Qur'an and the Bible as a Christian to enter the stock Islam. In studying them, I find many changes in the Bible but not with the Qur'an.

Any country in the Holy Qur'an printed in Arabic always use the exact same even though different years printed. While the Bible, published year is also different redaction verses. For example, in the mold in 1941 and 1991 years mentioned forbidden to eat pork (Leviticus 11:7-8) and in print in 1996 and 2007 in the same paragraph that eating pork is forbidden forest. That is, if that does not keep clean!
Strange, when God rectify it? And many other contradictions that the imanku. But I have a glance of Islam. Because I still assessing what Islam consist of by people.

Bath flower

In 2000 I was assigned to Madura. There I met Imran Kyai in Batu Ampar. He spoke what was I do not care. Because that is how my mind to make other people enter the Christian. Invite him to read it in my personal library.
I am interested in the start of Islam, especially when reading the history of Prophet Muhammad SAW convey his teachings in Mecca and Medina in the implementation of Islam. Growing up to lead the civilization of the world.
I record important information from each book that I read. One of the book titled Islam from A to Z. The book was very unusual for me. Discuss economic issues, social, cultural and other perspectives of Islam than the system in the UK.

After it from there, in 2001, I even study theology in Grogol Jakarta. Year 2002 I wish I submit to enter Islam in Muslim-my friend. He found me with a Kyai in Pandeglang. Thursday, we stayed in the house. I ordered the flower bath in the night prior to the confession Shalat Friday.
Kiai is menyan turn, cut the chicken. I ordered the flower bath. In my heart said, for I have learned that Islam is not like this. Rasulullah SAW kutahu the only confession guide only. I do not feel comfortable to ask why this ritual is done. So, when there is an opportunity, I immediately blurred!

Muslim thinkers

On 2 August 2003, I am acquainted with Budiman Sitompul. When he kutahu Islamic people, kuutarakan masalahku. He promised to mempertemukanku with a ustadz that without such a bizarre ritual. Three days later, we meet it is.
"I Wayuman Wongso a Muslim thinker," said a delighted ustadz called Abu Hisan that. "Puji God, I dipertemukan with Muslim thinkers and Andreas Abraham, also a Christian thinker," I said. We also discussed. He explains Islam is similar to the books that I read it in Madura.
Then he said, "But sorry, when you see the condition of Muslims at this time, you do not directly consider the concept of Islam is wrong. For the collapse of leadership since the Islamic Turkish Muslims to be broken like this. " He also explained extensively about Islamic belief and continued leadership since Rasul Hijrah to Madinah until fall Khilafah in Turkey.

I remember the words of direct cross-religious lecturer Edwyin Luiskul when filling in the course Grogol. He says, do not be afraid to Islam despite their majority in number but in a minority role. Because they do not have a union leadership. Islam akan giant back into a strong bond when one of leadership.
Abu Hisan and I also discussed each day. But on the day I was invited Kamisnya church to give spiritual splash of water in one of the hotels in Jakarta. Of course in the inner heart of conflicts. I may not refuse it because one of my duties as pastor.
For that I be paid each month. Added supplies and household needs, education for my daughters, all of the cost of treatment I and my children by the wife of the church. When I submit my determination to enter Islam, clearly I will lose it all.
Returned from the hotel, I am very nervous. And I direct that a Muslim thinker. Kuceritakan all. He even foreverglo I, but it is exactly that makes me determined unanimously to fathom and embrace Islam. He said that he was a lawyer, get a lot of money, but his life suffering. Because of him, would not want to, need to defend a guilty client.

He was leaving work after the turn of turn on the concept of Islam which he got from the Islamic activists mengontaknya. "I can now Alhamdulillah be grateful as is, happy to spread the religion of Islam invites people to apply Syariat Islam," he said.

I believe the more people that this is kucari, I remember greeting lecturer in cross-cultural Rambadeta Grogol. He said that Islam is Syariat, Syariat of Islam. So do not apply to Muslims Syariat. Because it will make the Muslims back into a giant and we ant!
Since then, I determined unanimously to select any Islamic succession struggle and the risk that Muslims back into a giant. Esoknya So, before Friday prayers, with community leaders witnessed Serua Ciputat, I trust that led to Muslim confession of faith. Alhamdulillah

Success With Fast Acting

2009-07-21T09:56:00.002+07:00

"How, regulations, and ability often can overcome the enemy. Actually always win because they make their first information about the situation. "
~ Sun Zi's Art of War

the sooner the better. Act quickly in any business in the field will give us victory. Strangely, we often close the path-path of success with our own acts is very slow. Slow thinking, slow learning, slow search, slow, and so seize the opportunity. So that only our own bewildered because other people first. The words "if only" is often said pitch-side search of justification for why the action was slow as a solace.

Again, there are stories from the land of bamboo curtains that can be adopted to apply in our efforts to serve us in any field. Perhaps in the Northern Wei era, men have named Liu Bao. He is a meat traders in traditional markets. Business is very profitable so that he can save more money to expand the business. Aware that the progress obtained with the speed of information then he build a central information office in the middle of the city. So that it will be very easy and quickly obtain information that the market requires. He will soon find out quickly which areas need the rice as drought, he would send the rice. Similarly with the area that requires post-flood agricultural equipment, he is buying agricultural equipment with cheaper prices in other areas and then sell them with higher rates in areas that are in need. So forth. The speed and efficiency of business information management is helping to get rich very quickly. He purchased some property and sell it again with a high price. Bao Liu also became very rich.

So, let alone the speed of information we now live in the era of the information will be very much determined not to grow our business. There is no word late. For this we may be too slow to move because of fear we will fail or be in doubt us. We can only fear and doubt, but not to fear and doubt that does not make us act at all. In fact during our act, we can not fail even if the result is not in line with expectations. But if we do not act at all, surely we have failed.

During our act, if the result is still naught, we will certainly gain experience that will be made to future learning. We will analyze whether the reset of the way that we are less precise, so that we will explore more ways to reach our goal. Thus the "failure" will be words that are not important in our lives if we assume that the failure of "no" for us to act. And "failure" will be the most important word in our lives if we made the failure of the place of learning. Of course, not enough to act alone if we are not quick to do so. Moreover, the information will be opportunities that we already get akan futile if we do not act quickly. The sooner the better. Problems can back to our re-analysis.

Work Leader

2009-07-04T06:33:00.004+07:00

We understand that leadership is not the position or positions. Therefore officials, those who manage office, not necessarily appropriate in a leader. See a number of officials who came down from the occupation, either because of retirement or derived, in part so convict even in the eyes of law as it related to corruption; experiencing some post-power syndrome. If he really a leader, without his even more people will still follow them. Even for the leaders at the Bung Karno large, Bung Hatta, and Bung Syahrir, after they died was a lot of people still proudly claim as his partisan.

We understand that leadership is working. How to become a leader is simply: do-it works only leaders who choose to do such type of work they are not the leaders will avoid it. And it is not necessary to do anything except themselves. Great wealth is not necessary, because the leader does not also me-rich legend. Mahatma Gandhi, Mother Teresa, and Nelson Mandela is an example. They also start a "career" as a leader without a familiar name capital, without the support of political parties or conglomerates that extraordinary. They start their work with the stock pickup.
Then, if the job is? What if the work is done to make sure someone becomes a leader? Perhaps this is three.

First, the leader of the process of idealization, of the things that ideal. Leaders see the reality of the present as something that is not ideal, should not be here, and imagine something ideal, which should have, and that really can form, in a moment later. So, thought leaders in the future. Leaders deal with the future. Precisely a better future for everyone in the neighborhood.

Because the work is always associated with the leaders of the future, then it is the signs of age. He read the situation and conditions in a way that special way which makes it able to be optimistic. He was able to see opportunity in every challenge that flag. That is the first leadership job, in the world, throughout time.
Second, leaders are always enthusiastic to formulate what the ideal is to be something simple and easily communicated to people, especially to the constituents that follow the voluntary. Galib formula that we call a vision, a vision far ahead of potential that can be created by making a series of specific events in the present time.

Bung Karno talk about free and Indonesia bhineka single ika. Bung Hatta talk concerning economic populist. Gandhi, King, and Mandela spoke concerning resistance without violence. Mother Teresa spoke matter of love to the poor. All the vision of a simple formula, but powerless outside normal movement, when communicated with great confidence that, with the totality of an inch away without profit.
Third, the leaders always offer the action agenda. They find the best strategies. They take action. They gather people to move. They collaborate, conduct coalition, a partnership of cooperation startegis, or whatever the name and the same term with that. They can not be silent, even though sometimes they are forced to wait the right time to act.

Vision is great, and clearly a source of inspiration that never dry to find the way to. Discuss the vision are already excited to make them act immediately. And in every action (process) is the vision, the leader gives himself total, nearly without consideration. He gives his heartfelt good-time, energy, thoughts, feelings, and property-less and very thinking itself. Pamrihnya the main, if the intention can be said, is to make that vision become real, become a reality and historical facts that make the new world around it better.

In the context of business, the leaders need to think hard to do the idealization of business led it at this time. How idealkah circumstances dipimpinnya the company at this time, when the United States defeated by their own creation which greed? Can the leaders in various business-pressure crisis and the chronic pessimism global-imagine the form of a better, more perfect, and more from any of the means now exist? Able to do it-through reality and seems to be "not realistic" because the ideal of thinking?

If the form is idealization, then the next challenge is how to formulate it into vision, the organization's vision, the vision konglomerasi, which is understood by all constituents, workers, and followers. If ever there was a vision, how to revise things that are important in the formulation of new, more "soul" and "loud noise". Formulation and reformulasi vision On the one hand, and serious efforts to discuss it on the side, are two pieces of one currency, one that not much useful without the other.

Next, the action agenda should be based on strategies that update, which has been the development of a claim by diperkaya time, take advantage of the ingenuity in the best-acumen business-related organizations. This is the stock for the managers to act in the field from time to time, but the responsibility for any consequences incurred remain in the lead-shoulder.

So, the leaders o: work!

Strength in the morning

2009-06-17T14:25:00.002+07:00

"Anyone who has to pray in congregation, at the time isya', he seems to do half the night prayer. Whoever the dawn prayer with the congregation he would like a night full of prayer "
(HR Muslim).

"Brother Muslims, know indeed dawn prayer in congregation is a womb and the birth of the warrior hero. He is a contest where people Ikhlash. Carry dawn prayer in congregation is the characteristics of the mujahidin, indicate the nature of victory and the people Salih. Indeed many very good that nobody terniIai at that time. "

in the testament written by this Fathy Muhammad Farahat. Go new age of 17, in which he was a Palestinian fighter who is very persistent, not vibration against israel army, never fear the tank cannon Israel to reach a martyr. Subhanallah ...
What about our situation, my brother? Think, what if our school is a student. We, is the only student in the class that most often come too late. We always come after the buzzer sounds incoming and friends already in his seat each is ready to receive lessons. Father or mother is a teacher in front of the class, ready to start to explain the lesson. How do I view my friends to our classmates? How do I view the mother or father of a teacher to us? What is in our hearts at that time?

Alternatively put, we are an employee in an office. We, the only office workers who frequently enter the office late. We almost always fail to attend before the working hours specified. We come when the wheels have started rushing berjaIan. We also, be reproved by several times to ask why the boss is always late. How mood we are in the midst of such circumstances? Regret? Ashamed? Confused? Think again, what punishment will we get if we continue to make similar mistakes.

Brother, compare the illustration on the situation with us the other. If we are among those who do discipline dawn prayer in congregation. While we are always left behind for the dawn prayer in congregation in the mosque. Perhaps we already try, providing hours of ringing will soon awaken us to the mosque to bersilap. But, perhaps not a few of us who only turn off a tone that reminds us of its duties, and then we go back to sleep. We regret ago, but repeated again in the next day. The morning is that God's grace is very expensive. Merdunya crowing chickens respond to each other pro's. Beautiful wave adzan. Its sad that reading the Qur'an echo. ltu momentum is all the good gift of God is at once very difficult to appeal a pitch value, with any.

Listen sabda the Prophet, "Whoever is doing prayers in congregation, ISYA time, he seems to do half the night prayer. Whoever the dawn prayer with the congregation he would like a night full of prayer "(HR Muslim). Subhanallah.

Brother, the Prophet, gave a very brief description. But really very solid with motivation. See how the Prophet saw also tap our hearts to keep prayer at the beginning of the dawn of time.

"Whoever the dawn prayer, he would be in the shelter of God." (HR. Muslim).

Who does not want God protected? Wheel of life in the middle of scandal. On the sidelines of a trial dem come alternately. Life that requires patience and is back on God Almighty. God's protection is the protection that can not be penetrated or touched by anyone. The only protection given to a believer who really lean and subject themselves to him.

Dawn prayer in congregation will give bathin tranquility in the life of the day. Prayer is the dawn which will give confidence and to kuatan heart. So we still feel the visibility of God in conducting activities throughout the day. That is the protection of God.

Are Highly Motivated

2009-06-03T16:31:00.001+07:00

All comrade. If you want to make something happen the ability to motivate oneself and others is an important skill. In the workplace, home, and in between everywhere, people use motivation to get results. Motivation complex communication needs balance, structure, and insentif.adapun to help you maximize motivation in yourself and others, on this occasion I are 21 tactics, including:
1. Consequences - Never use threats. They’ll turn people against you. But making people aware of the negative consequences of not getting results (for everyone involved) can have a big impact. This one is also big for self motivation. If you don’t get your act together, will you ever get what you want?

2. Pleasure - This is the old carrot on a stick technique. Providing pleasurable rewards creates eager and productive people.

3. Performance incentives - Appeal to people’s selfish nature. Give them the opportunity to earn more for themselves by earning more for you.

4. Detailed instructions - If you want a specific result, give specific instructions. People work better when they know exactly what’s expected.
5. Short and long term goals - Use both short and long term goals to guide the action process and create an overall philosophy.

6. Kindness - Get people on your side and they’ll want to help you. Piss them off and they’ll do everything they can to screw you over.

7. Deadlines - Many people are most productive right before a big deadline. They also have a hard time focusing until that deadline is looming overhead. Use this to your advantage by setting up a series of mini-deadlines building up to an end result.
8. Team Spirit - Create an environment of camaraderie. People work more effectively when they feel like part of team — they don’t want to let others down.

10. Recognize achievement - Make a point to recognize achievements one-on-one and also in group settings. People like to see that their work isn’t being ignored.

11. Personal stake - Think about the personal stake of others. What do they need? By understanding this you’ll be able to keep people happy and productive.

12. Concentrate on outcomes - No one likes to work with someone standing over their shoulder. Focus on outcomes — make it clear what you want and cut people loose to get it done on their own.

13. Trust and Respect - Give people the trust and respect they deserve and they’ll respond to requests much more favorably.

14. Create challenges - People are happy when they’re progressing towards a goal. Give them the opportunity to face new and difficult problems and they’ll be more enthusiastic.

15. Let people be creative - Don’t expect everyone to do things your way. Allowing people to be creative creates a more optimistic environment and can lead to awesome new ideas.

16. Constructive criticism - Often people don’t realize what they’re doing wrong. Let them know. Most people want to improve and will make an effort once they know how to do it.

17. Demand improvement - Don’t let people stagnate. Each time someone advances raise the bar a little higher (especially for yourself).

18. Make it fun - Work is most enjoyable when it doesn’t feel like work at all. Let people have fun and the positive environment will lead to better results.

19. Create opportunities - Give people the opportunity to advance. Let them know that hard work will pay off.

20. Communication - Keep the communication channels open. By being aware of potential problems you can fix them before a serious dispute arises.

21. Make it stimulating - Mix it up. Don’t ask people to do the same boring tasks all the time. A stimulating environment creates enthusiasm and the opportunity for “big picture” thinking.
Master these key points and you’ll increase motivation with a bit of hard work. Good Luck

Expectance

2009-05-30T18:09:00.003+07:00

"Hope is a good breakfast, but a bad supper."
- Francis Bacon

We have to live with hope, but we can not live on hope alone hang. Is good hope for the best. But it is not enough. We can not just hope - we must act.

Very sad, that many of the over-swing in the hope - for the improvement of the lot. Hope that the answer has not been anything. Work and act - along with
hope in the heart - is bringing results. The perfect combination. Expectations will not disappoint - as long as it is accompanied by action and commitment.
Expectations can not replace action. Do what must be done - or have no hope. Expect the best and do what is possible that expectations realized.

Start your day with new hope, and continue with the work and the paper. Let menginspirasikan your expectations, rather than your swing. Expect the best, and pay every expense it. Expectations depend on YOU.

What motivates the billionaire ..?
Have you thought, what motivates the billionaire? Even before the days become far billionaire - wealth that they have collected sufficient for their lives, their children, their grandchildren, or even the next generation.

Most of the billionaire is a hard worker. Wake up early in the morning - then go to work until late at night. They do that - certainly not as a money chase. And what they chase each other? Is that greed? or authority? Maybe. But in general, those stingy / greedy - rarely get a success - because they did not provide more value on other people. Most of today's modern billionaire, does not become a billionaire because griping.

The billionaire motivated by their ideals. Aspiration to make a difference, so that the world be different because they have. Motivation is that enables them to become a billionaire. And because it also can keep them working hard - even has become a billionaire.

Do you want to live like a billionaire? Easy. Just stop working for a living - and make a difference. Even in the worst days

Life is a luxury, life is excitement - even in the worst days. The fact that you live at this time so that it can make decisions, can do it, and able to make a difference - far more valuable rather than any difficulty and frustration that may hold up.

When the dark world - life is the reason why you must be a light.

The quality of your life does not depend on what you find, but on what you go through after all the challenges. Today is a special day - because you are allowed entry to this day. There are opportunities to grow - and achieve your ideals to all directions. When people around you pencemooh and pendengki - you have the chance to make - that BECAUSE YOU - you can change the environment to the better. Difficulty of the challenge in front of you hide the real treasure trove waiting to be extracted.

The hearts of you already understand this. Life is beautiful - if you accept life as an opportunity. Wherever you are, whatever you face, take the decision to enjoy the beauty of it every day. And when you take this option - the world around you will be better.

Sensitivity to reprimand

2009-05-23T06:40:00.001+07:00

"Sensitivity to the reprimand is Alertfor doubt that we need"

I certainly would like to have your inner tranquility. But I think you know that this does not exist tranquility but for the humble. And there is not a humble attitude is sincere but it was produced by God in every situation. This is particularly true in situations where we are answerable for things that people who do not condescend to us, and also when we realize our inner weaknesses. But we should face trial to trial, because we repeatedly akan kan dihadap with these things.

Sign that the humble attitude that is born of God when we are no longer surprised with the correction by others, or upset because our hearts refuse. As children, we know well that we edit it properly, but we must also acknowledge with humility the fact that we can not, by ourselves, to make the necessary corrections. We know who we are, and we have no hope for better but through the grace of God. Wig-wig from other people, and hard as if not high, is actually less than what we received indeed feasible. If we find ourselves angry and rebellious, we must understand that the attitude irritability corrected at the time that is much more severe weakness of all we note. And if such situation, we know that the correction will not make us more humble. If we keep revenge because that would be reproved shows how we need the wig. In fact, does not sting reproval akan felt if our old man dead. Thus, the trimming is painful, the more we actually need them.

I apologize if I have said too hard. But do not help doubting my love for you. Remember what I say is not coming from me. This is from God. Hand of God and that I use to give a jolt to the painful "I am the" who are giving you so many problems. If I have caused you feel sick, remember that pain is to prove that I have been a sensitive point clink in yourself. So tunduklah to God and receive all of his handling of yourself, so you will immediately get the peace and tranquility in your soul.

You have often tells people about the importance of surrender to God. Now, it is very important for you to take your own advice. Oh, how beautiful grace to go down to the top you can if you like a little child to receive all the corrections and trimming the Lord use to make your humble and submissive. I pray that He will completely destroy the life of "the-I" in you so that "the I" is not at all found.
By: Francois M. Fenelon

Inspiration Financial

2009-05-11T08:23:00.004+07:00

Are you in need of financial inspiration?

"An agreeable companion on a journey is as good as a carriage."
-Publilius Syrus

Are you in need of a companion on your journey to financial freedom? You have come to the right place. On this site you will find the things that will give you a push in the right direction: the stories of famous entrepreneurs who've made it big; quotes and quotations to motivate and inspire you; books you can read to tell you where-to from here; and much, much more. It is all here to help you on your journey.

It was Confucius who said, "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step". But a journey without companions is no journey at all. This site is about companionship, about sharing ones money and financial problems, about learning from others and about moving forward. This site is a helping hand. Not a handout, but a hand offering to push. Yes, you must still do what you must; I must still do what I must; but we can help each other.

For some the struggle for financial freedom and escape from the rat race is like a long distance event - very long. For others, it is merely a sprint. And most of us are not financially fit. The end result: a very long and tiresome run. Yes, it is encouraging to hear the crowd (the people who've made it) cheering you on, but sometimes you just feel they can't remember what it was like. It is then that we need someone in the race to encourage and spur us on to persevere.

"We must get beyond textbooks, go out into the bypaths and untrodden depths of the wilderness and travel and explore and tell the world the glories of our journey."
-John Hope Franklin

We want to succeed but we face many obstacles. We need to face our own fears and insecurities. We need to overcome our weaknesses and make our strengths stronger. Action needs to replace inaction. Courage needs to replace fear. Momentum needs to replace inertia. We need to get of our butts and do something. Should we encounter failure, we will treat it as a stepping-stone to success and it will make us stronger. We must arrive at a point where we say, yes, we face risk and failure, but that is only a precursor to reward and success.

And we are not just talking about money and finances. There is many a good thing in life if you but open your eyes and see, if you but open your ears and listen. Inspirational poetry is like ballroom dancing with words. Inspirational music is the gentle lapping of waves on the ear. Inspirational stories are a gentle push from behind. Yes, you are not alone in the game - there are many a players about you and many a way to play the game.

And as we play the game we learn. And as we learn we do. And as we do we teach. The game is not about winning, so learn to laugh at yourself. Oooh, money can make us emotional, but if we can learn to laugh about money, maybe we can learn to laugh our way to the bank. Yes, we must learn to laugh about money. Not at money - we need to respect it.

"Money is only a tool. It will take you wherever you wish, but it will not replace you as the driver."
-Ayn Rand Franklin

Let us learn as much about money and finances as we can. Let us educate ourselves. Let us learn the 'secrets' of the people who have already achieved financial freedom. Let us encourage and inspire each other. Let us reach and strive for financial freedom

Letters for lovers of birthdays

2009-05-05T06:37:00.004+07:00

In a while, we had With the problems in which we must be separated with our pair, either because the work or other issues that cause you separate from your partner, its the same thing with my current date is May 8 2009, candidate's wife my birthday, sad and just want to go home soon but I think it is the power to create jobs while we separate, I am sure many will struggle all the wisdom of this, I can only write a letter of a beloved sweetheart.

Assalamualaikum Wr Wb

Puji Syukur and all to Him (Allah SWT), The Sholawat adoration and prayers to our Great Prophet Muhammad SAW.

Before that I am very sorry Prompt, which should be in addition to its I-accompany you in your happy day at this time (08/05/2009)

But what is the power of God, still we suspend the meeting, so let's Positive thinking certainly much wisdom from all of us at this time Amin Go ..

In the happy days I would like to invite you to request while Ber do'a, May Allah give strength to keep our to each other honesty, trust and faithful to arrive on the day we marry, build families and end up picking only run for a command to his happy world and the Hereafter. Amen ...

enough that it seems I'd like to submit in your happy day, Allah heareth and fulfill our Do'a Amin ya robbal alamin

Wasalam

NB: I always keep my self for this ye

Use Door Awareness

2009-04-23T07:26:00.003+07:00

The process of learning every human being through four stages, ie, unconscious Incompetence, Conscious Incompetence, Conscious competence, and unconscious competence. The four stages starting from the first stage, we do not know if we do not know, after interaction with the adults finally know, then we have the perfect awareness, and finally back again does not realize that we have to be perfect because the caliber of work automatically.

When a skill has been to enter the stage of unconscious competence since that time, when the intervention is not done consciously, this skill will work with the principle of automatic pilot. The same applies also to the skill of thinking, a note bene expertise is mind itself. Automatic pilot work to ease our lives. Will be executed by the automatic pilot system is a program / practice the most powerful.

One of the basic human needs of a very prominent is the need for consistency. When your mind has decided to accept something as "truth" then it will be consistent with the "truth" is. "The Truth" is not necessarily in line with the "truth" that we accept the truth. "Truth" according to the mind in line with the thinking mind itself is supported with a variety of experience that we ever experienced.

"The Truth" is known by the term belief. So, once thought to adopt a belief then this belief that control the mind. Without the intervention of the conscious life is controlled entirely by our belief that many have been adopted and we believe the truth (Lipton, 2006).

When we trust / belief of the truth then we will no longer question the validity of data or base pijak think that is used as a basis for acceptance of a belief. Our belief is always true according to us. Correct according to our not necessarily true according to other people.

Our efforts with all the resources we will maintain the belief that because we decided that "something" that is the right thing. The period of the doubts we have decided our "truth"?

How to get out of prison, my mind is a trap with a door through awareness. Only through the door of awareness we can realize that we are not our thoughts, our feelings are not we, we is not our habit, and is even more important is that we are not our belief. We can create awareness to do the dissociation or separation of the obvious.

With awareness we can do or think about metakognisi mind. With the mind to think and then we finally know "her" mind. We will know the pattern or habit of mind to do. With awareness we can understand that thought, even though the tools are very exceptional, but only a small part of the awareness itself.

How to observe with the mind is to be silent. We need to familiarize themselves "walk" in the silence. Only with the still in the quiet we thought we able to observe clearly.

Mind like a glass of water is turbid due to dirt or particles containing a small (read: the thought). In muddy conditions we will not be able to see beyond the glass of water. We will not be able to see and observe the various components that make the water (read: mind) become clouded.

Then, how to be able to see the small particles that pollute the water? How do I to be able to see beyond the clouded glass? Once again, the way is easy. Put the glass containing the water turbid and leave for some time. Do not shake or poke stirred. Leave it alone.

Lapse of some time that the dirt-dirt will begin to settle itself, without the need we strived. After all sediment in the water glass to be very clear. Dirt that will go down to the basic glass and be very easily observed. We will also be able to see beyond glass.

Observation of the mind will lead us in the introduction and in depth understanding of our policy, which is called the key door opener our freedom.

Bill Gould, my chum, always leave a message, "Adi, if you want to keep growing, you have to challenge everything. Even your own thinking and beliefs. "

Magic Questions

2009-04-17T06:33:00.001+07:00

Questions can change lives. I feel this. The questions on themselves. "Change Your Question, Change Your Life" ...

Here are some questions that mental attitude I get from the book "Guide to Investing" edition GPU, Robert TK essay:

1. Do you plan for the rich or for poor?

2. Do you carefully consider the mind-your own little mind that is often tight-lipped?

3. Are you willing to spend some time to improve your financial vocabulary? The first goal of the new financial vocabulary can make it is made. Look for a new word, find meaning in the dictionary, find more than one definition for that word, and remind yourself to use the word in a sentence in one weekend.

Words appear from the mind, mind arises from the reality and the reality of life becomes. The main difference between the rich and the poor have the words they use. If you want to change the external reality someone, need to first change the internal reality is. That is done through the first business to change, improve or update the words he used. If you want to change your life, first change the words. And there, the words are free.

Yahh, I had also previously sharing. Words in a big success, happiness.

Two Types of Problems

2009-04-05T18:40:00.004+07:00

In my experience working and interacting with people, I have observed two types of people in the issues or problem, both in work and social life. Two types of this is reactive (responding as problems come) and receptive (to accept the problem).

Reactive
They are usually reactive to see the problem as a threat. Somehow a threat to his career, business, family, and so forth. In this group you find a solution to the problem using the traditional and logical approach. Characteristics-characteristics:

* Once the problem you're likely to come soon find any way to address them.
* The problem seen as a growth factor barricade themselves.
* You will soon be a strategy to tackle
* Due to a problem seen as a threat, he will tend to dominate the mind and cause fear and stress.

When you work in the company, perhaps you were asked to lead a project for which you are responsible for achieving a certain target. Here you are faced with situations that require analysis, justification, and logical reasoning, in the challenges or problems that arise. You will be in condition to meet the deadline depressed. Able to guess, you are likely to use reactive approach in solving problems.

Receptive
This approach is usually practiced by those who already realize that the problem is not a threat but the consequences that would arise from a condition that we create. Thus we have the power to change the conditions of the self. You want to accept the problem and at the same time make-solusinya.Ciri characteristics:

When problems come, you approach it and use:

* The problem is the opposite of the solution. When a problem arises, you believe that time is also a solution that already exists.
You focus on the solution of problems which arise, not the cause of the problem. Thus, you take over control from within your own, rather than be controlled by outside circumstances.
* The problem is the opportunity for self development. You see it as an opportunity to create a positive reality in your life.

Would like to receive the problem does not mean silence. You do not "fire beard" but to recognize the problem calmly and make themselves responsive to you all you need to invite solutions.
The most simple example is when you love a pair (eg, wife, husband, or boyfriend) are cranky because of trivial issues. With the reactive approach, you will only aggravate the situation with a wonder why he must be cranky, analyze the cause and feel this will threaten the harmonious relationship with you. Solutions that are not available but it is worries and concerns.

Receptive to the approach, you receive a pair and realize that you are angry. You focus your energy to create a love that is in essence a opponent's anger. You are not involved protracted atmosphere - trying to find answers from the analysis of why he was so angry - but it took over control from within themselves, keep quiet thinking, and showed positive attitude in your behavior. You will feel that it is in this situation would make you grow. You create a positive quality of your surface and have become a law of nature behave like this with your partner will be changed from angry to be in love.

Receptive to this approach, you can practice in the life of a business, household, and social. Basically you build your confidence that the real problem is not so that you do not feel difficult. Latih yourself for not reactive when a problem arises. Focus on your opponent's problem, the solution, to find the control and not dissolved in it.

Ego VS Sense

2009-03-19T09:32:00.005+07:00

Brothers, we need every day to eat and drink. Iya, kan? When the demand is not met, then it will come. Will be healthy when this needs to be enough. What if excessive? Diseases will also come. Not immediately, but surely.

Why do we make things worse for ourselves? Because the bad things that bring pleasure. Cause excessive eating enjoyment. Sleeping, shopping, watching TV is also such excess. Bliss is something that we find. So we find it of all things, including bad for us though.

Let's ask why once again: "Why do we do?"

I find the reason. You also likely know already. In ourselves there is ego. The ego that becomes the source. Ego is encouraging that we continue to get enjoyment.

In ourselves there is any sense. Ego and the sense such pair. Both have the same goal. Equally encouraging us to get that pleasure. The difference, just like the ego pleasure shortly. Are in the sense like the long-term enjoyment.

Ego and the sense to give a result when dituruti. Keep the ego makes us get the right comfort and long-term suffering. Keep the sense make us get a long-term pleasure and pain arise. Nurani lead so that we act fairly and in accordance with needs. Ego lead us to act in order to maximize the enjoyment and excessive shortly.

For example eating. Eating keep the sense is eating enough. Not excessive, and healthy. So belly will be filled one third of food, drink, a third, a third air. Keep the ego to make meals we eat and drink until full. Without leaving room for air. As a result, the process of food metabolism is not optimal. Many foods that terbuang or stored as body fat. But excess body weight will occur.

And than, keep the food sense right cause suffering. We still want to eat, food is there. So when it stopped eating, we also suffer. Iya, kan?

That case related to the physical. What about the examples that are associated with emotions? The same. Emotions that keep the ego will and pleasure right solution, is also suffering and long-term problems. For example, your child is aged four years wrong. Main bath has been the ground for example. You memarahinya. Then the child will stop playing ground, and clean themselves and clothes. You are satisfied and the problem is finished.

Really?

No! Your child to stop play so that land. This is the right solution. You believe that your child's mistakes continue to be this way. You repeated repeatedly. Every day. Each time your child makes a mistake. Angry because you are using, then you are actually building a long-term problems. Your children obey you, just because he was still small and have no strength. But his heart hurt. But increasingly it is big and strong, long-term problems will start arising. What's that? Children who could be rebel or coward.

Anger is the emotion obey ego. The process begins from the exacerbation of the incident because there is not in accordance with your wishes or standards. Chapfallen emotion that is still internal. But so annoyed this ditambahi ego, then muncullah angry. Angry emotions are external. Emotions that come out of yourself. Expressed with words or deeds.

Chapfallen the same fact should not be angry. He can be patient. Patient who is annoyed and ditambahi world. World can make us stand on the suffering of sorts. Create suffering becomes momentarily peeved. But in the case of a child before, you can be patient even find creative ways to make your child stop play ground, without a hurt the children. Even make your child still rejoice

Sad is also emotional. When something or someone we care about is missing, then timbullah grief. This grief can be prolonged or quickly passed. What is so because? Prolonged sad because of the ego self. Sad that the world quickly passed the control.

Suppose you left your beloved is dearer. Ego will encourage you to think: "He should not do that. I just mencintainya. Why is he leaving me? I have been so good on it. I do not get treated like this. "Well, all thoughts of sadness that makes you the climb. When you are here, the blue will change to hate even revenge. Hate with love for behind. Revenge is the opposite of peace. With hate and revenge, you can melakuan matters worse was that the people you love.

What happens when you turuti world? Then world will whisper: "I mencintainya. He left me, it means that the best for himself. I know what is best for me, I own. I will accept this. I learned a lot. I will do the best for him "Nah, it is sad that encourages you to accept the incident. Even forgive. Both lovers forgive you, or forgive yourself. There is no hate. There is no revenge. You can continue living in peace. Grief you go extremely fast. Not possible, you will be grateful to you for all lovers good now even though he has left you. Wow, that's terrible ... world.

So, when a negative event, you automatically feel the negative emotions. Negative emotions but this is still internal. Will be the external negative emotions when you listen to and obey your ego. Therefore, when the nascent negative emotions, listen to and follow the word world. Then you will be always on tertuntun good. When you are well, any negative event will not be able to make your beremosi negative, said a negative word, especially a negative act. So your time is strong. Strong sterling ...

Wise words about love

2009-03-08T16:07:00.005+07:00

Love never ask, he always gives, love brings pain, but never a grudge, never take revenge. Where there is love there is life; when hatred to the ruin. ~ Mahatma Gandhi

God gave us two legs to walk, two hands to hold, two ears to hear and two eyes to see. But why only God sekeping heart confer on us? Because God has given sekeping more careful in our search for someone. That is the name Love.

There are 2 drops of water flowing in a river. One drop of water tu greet tear the other one, "I tear a girl who loves a man but has been loss. Who are you? ". Answer drip watering second tu, "My tears of a man who regretted leaving a girl that I love only goes so."

True love is when he loves another person, and you are still able to smile, and said: I am happy to take part for you.

If we love someone, we will always pray it even though he is not with us.

Do not occasionally say goodbye if you still want to try. Do not give up occasionally if you still feel up. Do not say you do not occasionally love it more if you still can not forget it.

Feeling of love starts from the eye, while the sense of love starts from the ear. So if you want to stop someone like, close enough to the ear. But when you close your eyes Try of the person you love, love that turns to teardrop and continue to live in the hearts of men in the distance-time long enough.

Love comes to those who still have hope even though they have dikecewakan. To those who still believe, although they have been khianati. To those who still want to love, even though they have been previously sakiti and to those who have the courage and confidence to build trust again.

Do not store the words on the people who love tersayang until he died, because eventually you had recorded the words of love on his tomb. Instead say words of love that is saved is your dibenak now while there is life.

Maybe God wants us to meet and make with the wrong people before meeting with the right person, we must understand how to be grateful for the bounty of that.

Love teaches us not weak, but a strength. Love teaches us not humiliate ourselves, but against prowess. Not weaken the spirit of love, but a spirit-Hamka passed

Love can change bitter into sweet, golden dust switch, become cloudy cornea, sick are healed, well into the prison, suffered a favor, and anger into mercy.

Indeed painful for someone who does not mencintaimu, but more painful is love someone and you never have the courage to express your love to him.

It is sad in life is when you meet someone who is very mean to you. Only to find that in the end not to be mean and you have to leave his card away.

You know that you really miss someone, when you understand your heart berkeping destroyed.
And only with an "O" from it, can reunite the heart fragment.

God created the 100 love. 99 saved disisinya and only 1 was revealed to the world. With the love that one part of that, being mutual affection ber so that the horses legs for fear their children terpijak.

Sometimes you do not appreciate people who love you whole-heartedly, until you loss. At that time, there is no regret to go for it without saying more.

Do not love someone, such as flowers, because flowers die and again season switch. Such as the ones they love the river, the river flows forever.

Love is able to soften the iron, the stone, raise the dead, and breathed life and make him a slave leader. This is his great love!

The beginning of love is that you let people love to be himself, and does not change a picture you want. If not, you love only the reflection of yourself that you find in himself.

Love is a feeling that must have on every human being himself, he setetes like dew that fell from the sky, clean and pure. But land is different to receive it. If he fell to the barren land, to grow it because the moisture lie, fraudster, the oblique and other despicable things. But if he falls to the fertile land, there will grow kesuciaan heart, sincerity, faithful high moral character and other behavior that commendable. Hamka passed
Words of love are simply born in the mouth and not in the liver is able to destroy all life, whereas the words of love that is born from a sincere heart to be able to mengubati wound in the hearts of all who heard it.

You never know when you will fall in love. but when the time is up, Reach with both hands, and do not let him go with the feeling of a million mark dihatinya

Love is not cheap and commonplace words dituturkan of mouth but love is a gift of God is holy and beautiful if people can assess purity.

If his name is not sea water does not surge. Not if the name of love never hurt feelings. Inamorato name if not his heart did not crave and jealous.

Make it easy. To be beloved is also easy. But to be beloved by the people we love that it is difficult to obtain.

The only way we acquire love, is not demanding that we loved, but start to give affection to other people without expecting a reply.

We are hawk

2009-03-04T19:12:00.005+07:00

I once read a story about children who hawk provides inspiration in my life, well told ... ..

At a time that there is a hawk lay, he realized without the eggs have a tree fall down, the eggs are found by a chicken and eggs brought by the return of chicken, eggs, eagle is treated the same as chicken eggs, egg-own. So that in a moment menetaslah eagle eggs together with the egg-egg the other.

Day by day the child lives as a hawk chicken tirinya brother, looking for worms, play with the chicken-chicken, so that in a while there he saw a hawk flying above them, he terpana see the eagle is flying free diangkasa. "well the eagle can fly free" said the eagle is the child, "do not dream deh, chicken nga eh you can fly as they" said stepsister is the eagle. Days passed, weeks after week and year by year the child is not elang can fly until the end of his life, he only lives like a chicken.

Conclusion of the story we are all born as the fact (like hawk) but we often are in the scope of employee / employee (like chicken) often we are only on day-to-day routines, we do not want to learn to fly, afraid we will fall but after we take it we will be free to fly in the air. Once this beautiful world.
So how about you? What is still a chicken? or start learning now clap your eagle wings even with the risk you have to fall, each learning certainly have failed (fell).

I give thanks AND WANT MORE

2009-03-01T00:33:00.006+07:00

"Never mind, just be grateful that there is!"

This sentence is often addressed to those who have great ambition. Even to people who only want to improve the standard of living is also often get the "advice" like this. As if this sentence is wise but still save a great question, meaning betulkan was grateful to receive what is already there without hope more favors again?

If the definition is correct, then the command will not have to tend to humanity. Why if we tend to favor is enough already? The command is grateful to acknowledge the command and grateful for all God's favor. Without exception, including a grace not we try and we try to favor. So there is no correlation that we are quite grateful favor the existing course.

The second, in paragraph 7 QS Ibrahim has clearly mentioned that we are grateful, and Allah will add to our favor. The third, we are also commanded by God and examplizeing by the Prophet to ask for additional berdo'a favor to God. Where is the explanation that told us not hope to get more favors again?

This is a confidence which will be a blunder on the part of the mindset of Islam. They have become an unwitting limitations in mind is that they are not actually entitled to favor the more. While they hope that favors more and better material favors maknawi, they fear to be grateful to people who do not.

This is a confidence which will be a blunder on the part of the mindset of Islam. They have become an unwitting limitations in mind is that they are not actually entitled to favor the more. While they hope that more favors favors both material and meaning, they are afraid to be the person who is not grateful.

That is we still entitled to a favor that much more delicious than that we already have a favor give an existing one. That is we should not try to find favor because of the favors that we have already. From now on let us change our mindset to be grateful to people who expect favors and more. Keep praying and trying to favor the more, and remain grateful for what we already receive. The two things we can do this simultaneously, must be even.

CONFIDENT

2009-02-22T20:16:00.002+07:00

A story, there is a sufficient spot in a city. One when he wanted to go on holiday to the birth of his father's village for a short break from work exhausted. In addition rehat moment, there he would also like to meet Her grandfather who still live in the village.

He wanted to visit his grandfather because of the relationship between them is quite close, even though they rarely end of this meeting. Not infrequently, when dirundung problems, the young entrepreneur to seek and obtain a lot of advice from Her grandfather.

up in the village, after removing the nostalgic moment, the grandfather can catch the right meaning of the coming of grandchildren. Is seen from the attitudes and shape the face grandchildren. Sunggingan as a forced smile on your face can not hide the seed shape perturbation.

So, the next morning, without doubt, immediately reprimand grandfather was the grandson in the middle of their conversation. "My grandson. Your coming here certainly have something that you want to discuss with the grandfather. Come on, do not need to doubt again, tell it to your grandfather is. Even so old, your grandfather has not senile and can still be as your foreverglo first place. "

A smile of the embarrassed young man replied, "the great grandfather. There is no issue that I can hide. Here's grandfather, a grandfather is, my business at this time is quite advanced. All the results I get is a blessing-capital and guidance to me, father. Grandfather also know, I married a beautiful wife and clever. In the first school, he became champion, and always excellent. Now, thanks to any help, many projects that we can get so that our efforts to develop the greater. But ... "Suddenly the young man speechless moment, do not pick up his sentence. He just looks empty.

Her grandfather was then interrupt. "Is not all that you tell the good before? Grandfather not understand your problem is where? "Chase each of the grandfather who wants to know what makes his grandchildren look nervous.

"Only fair. I do not feel confident, even embarrassed when faced with a foreigner. I feel, businesses that have achieved is because the contribution of people around me. And, it seems people are so found. I just simply people who are lucky, in the place and time and the assistant have the right also. Truly, I feel depressed with the condition that, "said the youth flag flagging.

"My grandson. Try to think good things. As you said earlier, was successful because you are in the place, time, and assisting with the appropriate and correct. Well, if the place, time, and without the support of yourself, whether there is success? Thus the key to success is yourself, my grandchildren ... "

Hear the answers are, the youth also think a moment. Suddenly, he also cried, "Oops ... I did not realize why this is so before? All this without any success I will not be there. Thank you for the lesson kek. Now I feel much better and more confident. "

Good readers,

Surely, we would be suffering if we go down in the low attitude to have no self confidence. Sejatinya In fact, wherever and whenever we are, if we are to realize the ability of self-truth, surely we each have a role, responsibilities and achievements that have been done.

Indeed, there is not a thing of extraordinary achievement that can be created without the assistance of others. However, we also need to have a healthy self-image, capable of self-esteem and self-confidence can be built with the business we have run.

By developing a positive self-image, then we will have the same, ie, a healthy self-confidence, can appreciate other people and themselves, and able to put myself in any of us interact with the sympathetic, happy and fun. That way, our happiness will always get.

Fill my heart to the God Via YM

2009-02-19T17:29:00.002+07:00

God:
You call me

me:
call you?
not .. who this?

God:
This is the LORD.
I heard your prayers.
So I want to say your problem that

me:
Yes, indeed I often pray, just so I can forget the past with him.
But until now I can not forget it all, and until I chat with you I still remember him.

God:
Why do you want to forget? its not that wonderful for you.

me:
a less.That I can not forget him a bit.
Life is so beautiful, if indeed occur during happy with it.
Otherwise life is so empty if also occur when making himself cry.

God:
It is correct.
SHe created me for a moment stop by destiny in life.
She was good, beautiful but not for you.
However, She may have wanted him home.

me:
I understand that.
But I still can not avoid it.
Actually, I do not expect God invites me to chat like this.

God:
I want to solve problems with your time, by giving some of your instructions.
In this era of Internet, I want to use the medium more convenient for you than a dream for example.

me:
OK, now tell me, why this heart continues to be so self-shadow?

God:
Analyze the content of your heart stop.
Go only.
Analysis that makes it so like that

me:
If so why the heart is still hope and hold him?

God:
Today is the Day that you fear tomorrow yesterday.
Feel you can not forget it because you remember it.
Given that the woman becomes your habits.
Therefore, you do not ever forget it

me:
But how can I not remember it.
each I have forgotten the promise he made that I remember more.

God:
Uncertainties that can not be avoided.
But fear is a choice.

me:
But so many bitter memories for the uncertainty

God:
Bitter memories can not be avoided,
But suffering is a choice.

me:
If suffering is choice, why good people like him always suffer

God:
Diamond can not be sharpened without friction ..
Gold can not be pure, without a fire.
People either can not go through obstacles, without suffering.
With that experience their life becomes better, not vice versa.

me:
That is the bitter experience useful

God:
Yes.
From all sides, the experience is a hard teacher.
Teacher experience gives the test first, the new understanding.

me:
But, why we have to go through all the tests?
Why we can not live free from problems?

God:
The problem is a hurdle that is intended to improve mental strength.
Strength from within can come out and struggle through the obstacles, not from the lazy.

me:
Honest, in the midst of all this problem, I do not know how I should move

God:
If you look to the outside, then you will not know where you step.
Look into.
Look to the outside, you dream.
To see in, you awake.
Grant eye vision.Grant towards the heart.

me:
Sometimes fails to make me suffer.
What can I do?

God:
Is a measure of success is created by other people.
Satisfaction is a measure made by your own.
Knowing the purpose of travel will be felt more satisfying than knowing that you are running.
Walk with a compass, let other people run with time.

me:
In difficult times, how can I stay motivated to explain all to him?

God:
He always has to see how long you talk with them, rather than see how far you still have to talk with.
Always calculating what you get with it, do not count the what you do not get it.

me:
What's interesting me?

god:
If you suffer, you ask "Why should I?".
If you happy, do not ever have to ask "Why should I?"

me:
Sometimes I ask, who I am, why I like this?

God:
Do not you find anyone,but just specify what you want to be.
Stop looking for why I like this.
Create the destination.
Life is not the search process, but a process of creation.

me:
How can I get the best in this life for his?

God:
Face-it-your past without regret.
Hold at this time with confidence.
Prepare the future without fear

me:
Last question, Lord.
Often I feel the prayer-prayer not answered

God:
No prayer is not answered.
Often the answer is NO.

me:
Thank God that chatting up this beautiful.

God:
Okay.
Unshakable faith in Allah, and dispose of fear.
Life is a mystery to be solved, not a problem to be resolved.
Trust me.
Life is beautiful if you know how to live.