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Celebration Served To Its Purpose

2014-01-27T13:35:00.001-08:00

Well writing this blog started with my grandma being sad on Diwali which again is festival of lights.

Any festival or a function should be celebrated from heart, that’s when the celebration gets its own definition.

I could not stop myself from asking her the reason for her silence.
When I asked her the reason, she replied me back saying there were times when people used to come from far distances for celebrating Diwali together, even though there were 2 or 3 buses then to that village. They used to come together ,purchase clothes and requirements, prepare sweets at home , oil bath , prayers together, kids playing together and then chit chat conversation while having food and having fun in that. And when they are leaving, just saying please write to us or do a STD which meant a safe journey back.

She again compared it to the Grand arrangements what I had arranged for my family this time.
She told me,” In today’s world, you give a message in phone. Not even a phone call to them to invite and may be you call that’s a big thing. And they come in their own cars getting all their clothes. Again they may forget their inner wears, but they won’t forget their mobile phones, chargers and earphones. Even if both are missed, they would instead repent for not bringing their gadgets and not for their inner wears.

They bring sweets also from Sweet stalls. Only kheer is prepared here. Kids are busy with their I-pads and tablets in gaming, not even one talking to each other. Elders busy in their mobile phones still talking about when they will reach back and about business conversations. And ladies are busy watching some new movie which has been telecast on TV. And as festival gets over, they are all in hurry that they don’t even say proper good bye to everyone. And they leave for their respective homes.

I just thought for a minute that what she was saying was just happening right in front of us.
I n my grandma still had that option to change the celebration mode of 2013 Diwali from gadget Diwali to happy Diwali.

I just asked everyone to assemble in our drawing room and asked them if everyone could give their phones, tablets and laptops to me for a minute. They asked why? I told them the reason. May be they too felt that. We switched off all our gadgets and celebrated just like what my grandma wanted us to do it. ? And at the beginning everyone was a bit uncomfortable, but they all could do it and just do whatever my grandma instructed them to do because all I cared was for that smile to appear on my grandma’s face.

I am happy that I could do it. As we forbid good bye to everyone, my grandma was happy that her grandson had tried something for her and I was successful in getting that smile on her face.

Even these many years, may be even I had forgotten that we were missing something. What we are missing is ourselves and replacing with gadgets. The best thing to do according to me is serve the purpose of the occasion. That’s when you can make your loved ones smile.

I just believe that there might be someone who is trying to see that purpose of celebration is served in what we do. Let's not make them disappointed.

Diwali which is festival of lights should not make people's heart and mind dark because lack of knowledge or lack of understanding.

Serve the Purpose. You have your loved ones with you.

Choosing a Career between Talent and Forcible decision

2013-08-19T11:34:00.002-07:00

There are some things in life which come back to you no matter how far you go away from them. There are times when we actually recognize them, respect them and give a special value to that in our own lives. But at times it happens to be such that we don’t recognize them and fail to value those things. No matter whether it’s Career, Luck, Money, Love, Friends, Joy, Education, Goals etc.

It’s not always true that we chose the wrong field as career because the field in which we were interested dint have money or career. It’s that we failed to recognize the money or career in it. It depends on how much is he/she dedicated to that talent and their hard work towards achieving it at the cost of no matter what.

Everyone is having his/her own talent. A person should know how to become an expertise in that field and give the best of it which not only keeps him happy and lead peaceful life but also encourage many more to get on their interested field and succeed their lives.

Success follows those who follow their heart.

That’s the reason for the success of every artist, sportsman, scientist etc.

One needs to recognize that. But it so happens that people fail to recognize it in their early lives. They instead choose to get into work in other fields and earn some good money and do work on their passion in their latter part of life. It may be after resigning from job at 60 or having some good money in wallet and try to achieve it then.

Feeling of being lost in one field because of being forced by parents, family etc. won’t help anyone take anywhere. We just pat our back saying we are advanced, but just looking at the history we find the parents in kings rule supporting their kids in their interested fields.

At times there has been lack of communication between parents and children about their lives. Its parents who are being decision makers. Parents decide that their kid should learn karate even if kid is interested in kick boxing or their daughter is interested in violin, they put her through singing classes. This article is just to make you understand that don’t force anyone in their career because they would always blame you for every failure they come across in the path they are leading which you guided them. Instead talking to them about what they have an idea of being in life is a better option.

Because a person accusing you later in some part of life saying you ruined their artistic career, it’s a painful thing to bare.

Life is like a Mirror !!!

2013-07-29T06:11:00.001-07:00

The last thing anyone could do in this world is use 2 words

Sorry

Thank you.

Life becomes beautiful by doing so...

It’s not about you really giving a damn or not...

It’s about how much the person is worth to u and may be it can add a value to you and to that person...

Life may turn from rags to riches or vice versa...

But there is a way out, i am taking an example of person whom i know to .

There is this uncle of mine who had this presence of mind to be down to earth by using this 2 words whenever necessary and the change in him in this decade was his assets of 10, 00,000 is today worth at least 10, 00, 00,000 and the good part to learn from is he respects even the watchman of his company by greeting them and i believe that's what has taken them so high and the 9 out of 11 workers still work with him whom started working with him when business started and its not only for the good pay,but a relationship of boss employee isn't limited. Its a family kinda feeling between them.

One needs to cultivate that for something nice of his own.

We too learn greeting till high school, yeah may be sometimes even till the college... But there comes an attitude once we pass 18... I’m not saying it’s the way it works. But it’s always good to have respected the others around us. And a smile on the face if possible... That’s all it takes... because people around us are like mirror…

You annoy, you get annoyed

You smile, you get a smile back

as far image is concerned it was source of google to just get a smile on your face with fun filled.. Cheers..

Money Changes Love!!!

2013-04-25T14:36:00.001-07:00

My friend invited me to his business anniversary function on 10-4-2013 and i was happy to see the success of the firm as it had seen the efforts and not just sweat but blood too!!!

Coming to his introduction,
His name is Arjun and lost his father when he was 15 years old and he was in 10th grade and was in no idea of what was gonna happen next??

He has a little brother who is physically challenged and its necessary that one needs to with him and now he had given that responsibility to his mom and finished his 10th grade with good results and now for their food,all they had was a factory which was having a good run and was earning well.
Arjun's uncle then pretended to be good and acted as if he had come to rescue them.
Arjun had fallen for a girl studying in the same college and it had already been 2 years of relationship.
The couple looked as if they are made for each other and they were so close that even their parents looked separated.
By now uncle had spoilt the business and the family lost the business and was in huge trouble.
Arjun was now tensed about feeding the family and he even shared it with her and she responded well saying she would stand with him no matter what and this made relationship even more closer. But god wasn't completely over with screwing arjun's life i guess!!!
He couldn't spend time with her and now she had got new flirts from others.. oh thanks to social media..
She slowly parted and had left him completely. And this is love of 2012...!!!
He tried his best to get her back as he wanted her either by hook or crook.. somehow,...

but now she wasn't even ready to pick his call..!!!

He would find it difficult to even roam out because he had filled her within himself and now was in trouble that he used to remember the moments he spent with her in that place.. He came to decision to kill himself and end it all..!!!

His friends who got to know about this helped him out by motivating and talking about his mom and brother and after long discussion and briefing, now he was better and as he was about to finish his degree, his another uncle had offered him partnership in a multi cuisine restaurant and bar. And as he started, it was difficult as goons coming ad drinking and not paying the bill,Goons hitting him.

But he felt this as less painful compared to pain she had given him. Blood bleeding out of his mouth by goon's hit was of no care to him and now he had decided to live for family and not for himself.

As days passed the business started prospering and after 3 years i.e; now he owns 17 such bar and restaurants in various places in state and had called for success party.

When asked that he still loves her... He says " Whole my life " !!!

All bars are named after her..

I pity the girl who ditched gem...!!!

Time killed my chances

2013-02-10T12:18:00.000-08:00

There are some enemies in our lives whom we never take care off...!!!
Well, some of us won’t find it out until their death bed.
One which needs to be taken care off is TIME.

First with us blaming someone else for mistake of ours own by wasting our own precious time.
Second with doing something what others ask to do by assuming that they are better than you.
Third, of course is by wasting your time by waiting for the right moment.

We do mistakes by wasting our precious time by doing something our friends or relatives asked us to do. But before doing anything it’s always good to question to your own self that “can you..?” If you get a positive reply from your side, try it some 3 times and if same thing continues, kick start the purpose and you can achieve what you have desired for. Blaming them because that precious time has passed away is not right because they might have tried to help you in the way they thought or felt about your decision.

If you ever felt that what your friends or close ones gave was a good suggestion, then you have no right to ask him at the end if end up as failure because it was you who took decision.

The time never comes back once you lose it. Best example was taking a stupid decision and leaving a pretty girl who was so close to me in all your high schooling and choosing a gal who was not at all mine; now falling behind her and not even able to get to her is really a bad condition of any human. But it’s all because of me. Well now, I feel matured..

hope to get her.. because loved her like anything..

dEsTiNaTiOn - aGuMbE

2012-12-16T02:18:00.000-08:00

A small trip to my native in my new dio ( 375 kilometres). It was fun and this pics are just for thanksgiving to mother nature for such a wonderful gift from her.

The Holy One or The .........

2012-12-14T09:31:00.002-08:00

The main reason behind writing this post was my eyes getting irritated and frustrated by people who are looting money in daylight. But no one even questions them. Not even politicians dare to do so. They barely can recite Bhagavad-Gita and they make us believe that they are in contact with Holy one (GOD).

Yes, I am talking about the fake swamiji and sanyasis who are earning millions of rupees in the name of holy one. In today’s world a yoga teacher aged 35 may not be capable of owning a bmw or Mercedes or audi if he is living normal life. But he can get every luxury product he desires if he wears the orange cloth or khaavi(which at times was used by enlightened ones) . It has become a fashion now and you wear it and then do your profession, you earn 1000 times more than before.

Having an affair with actresses is possible now with money they have and finally scolding that swamiji and searching for another. What are we doing..?

I personally saw a guy who was a just pass student in B.M.S (Ayurveda) a decade back suddenly becoming a most famous Ayurveda pandit in Karnataka. Lemme tell you guys one thing, ask any household in Hassan,madikeri,shiwmoga,chikmaglur,udupi,uttarkannada and dakshin kannada about a illness. They will give you the better advice than this guy whom I am referring and what makes me sick is he lives his kid and wife as publicity stunt to say that he has become a sanyasi and now she will be quiet because her mouth is closed with bundles of money for not revealing about this fact. And zero to hero of this guy is just because of media guys. I know him barely able to pay rent of his own clinic in his locality and today with just help of media; he owns more than 50 crores and is directly in touch with chief minister of state. Holy cow. And all I would ask is

“Why do you want a sick Ayurveda doctor to clean your heart by spiritual advice who personally is not clean from his heart?”

Wake up before its late. They are enjoying in our money. God is everywhere. Find him in your kid’s or parents happiness instead of spending on their happiness.

"kaalaya tasmai namaha"

Waiting for love

2012-09-26T13:02:00.000-07:00

She was sitting alone on a chair at a corner of a park where much people don’t visit and was trying to control her tears. Tears flowing down were similar to sun who was also going down to make the one half of globe dark.

There was no single lane in which I hadn’t searched for her, even after searching for 7 hours all I was to say that I had no idea of where she was.

I was remembering the places where we used to go when we were happy, when we were sad, when we scored less marks, when we scored more.etc

I just questioned myself that how could I forget her favorite park. I rushed to the park and my rush hadn’t gone for waste as I found her there. Now I had tears in my eyes remembering what had happened to make situation this worse.

Her name is Sana. We were in relationship for almost 16 months by then and just then I had started sharing funny incidents that me and my friends had occurred with a neighbor who was from Punjab of my friend Yash. She was fun loving, practical, jovial etc.

As my girl is from North India, making sonali and Sana socialize would make my girl feel good because she was feeling kind of loneliness with my friends as I am from Bangalore. Even Sana enjoyed it and they even exchanged their mail-id and began chatting. Sonali shifted to Switzerland with her family, but remained in contact with my girl(thanks to internet). They became very friendly and enjoyed each other’s company.

As there are always bad things in every good thing, sonali was a fan of a guruji who predicts future and even past by looking at eyes and hand.
I don’t know whether it was co-incidence or true, what he used to say used to happen and my girl had become an addition to that guruji’s disciple’s list. Problem has started as guruji had asked her to visit temples, wear particular color dress on particular day, fasting and what not!

I even knowing all this was quiet because she had trusted him and good seemed to happen. Now as the days passed, on one particular day this sonali and guruji played a prank with Sana saying there’s a soul on your guy’s body and you have do some pooja to get rid of all this evil’s and as time had proved that guruji’s words would come true, she blindly believed him and even did the same. But sonali and guruji had now shared a healthy laugh in front of me saying we have fooled your girl. I couldn’t take it anymore, hence I just informed my girl about this and now she had started giving me slangs for not telling her before.

Actually she was right too.. But I too dint have much knowledge about him or else. She took out her frustration and anger on me. I was quiet because I felt it was my mistakes making this people mingle. When we met, I just apologized her. But she was too badly affected by the embarrassment in front of her own self. I tried to console her, but she was nowhere ready to listen to my words. Even after sitting next to her for more than 2 hours, she was in no mood of coming to reality or maybe I felt time is bit important as I had technical configuration classes which had to happen.

I asked her, ‘sana,come I will drop you to hostel’

‘No, its k...Actually you have training. So you can make your move ‘, she replied.

I tried to convince her more for dropping her to hostel was unsuccessful for even 7^th attempt. Now I had less time and requested her again. But she had same reply saying ‘I will spend some more time; you can leave’.

Now I had made my move saying ‘Good bye. I love you’.

She said bye.

I got a text to my phone saying “I never expected that you would leave me in middle of road like that. I hate you”

I was now in bias to go to coaching or to go back to her.
my heart too felt that let me go to my girl and I went to place where we had talk 5 minutes ago; but now she was not there and even phone was coming switch off. I searched and searched, but got a message stating ‘I am in hostel, Go and attend your training.’

With this relief, I had left for training and as I finished my traning,i checked my phone log after I came out of training hall, I had some 30-40 missed calls saying Sana is not in hostel.

Hence the search started and ended after 7 hours.

Now that I could see her, I went to her for apologizing; she dint feel like seeing my face too. May be I could have waited, but I couldn’t have missed my training too…

I wish she realizes the true love of mine very soon and come back.

love!!!

2012-02-22T11:53:00.000-08:00

Hello friends, this time I am back with something which is very much a true love story that happened just in front of my eyes.

Santosh was from a middle class family. He lost his father at a very young age, from then his mom had spent all her life in bringing them (him and her younger sister) to a certain level. Even santosh was a guy who always understood his mom and helped her too.he had done his 10+2 in distinction which helped get a seat in one of the reputed colleges in Bangalore.

As he started with his under-graduate study, he was one among toppers in his class and he also got recognized as a genius in quiz which gave him fame all over college. This way he had finished one year in 3 year course. As the 2^nd year started, he felt that he should enjoy a bit as his friends were doing by then, and thought of getting committed with a girl in a relationship…well now he looked for the most cute looking, good by nature type of girl… As far as search for this was concerned, he was very cautious about it…finally got a crush on a girl called sruthi who was also his classmate. She was perfect for him in every manner possible because she was cute,caring,good-hearted,loving,emotional,sentimental etc…one fine day, he even went and asked her for her number and since he was good, she dint think twice to give her number and then texting began. It almost took place continuously for 4 hours till he made confidence to ask if she was single or ready to get committed with any good guy. Well to his luck, she was still single which made him call her and propose her...Well sounds crazy because a proposal on p hone…but guys believes me; it happened…

She said her parents won’t agree, caste problems, different places etc

But he somehow convinced her that after a period of time, he would come and talk to her parents about their relationship and future and this made her finally agree to him. Time had changed!!! Because there was a time when students used to think library is where you can find Santosh all time, but now place library was no more in his dictionary as he was busy with her in coffee-day.

As time passed, they got closer and closer and he started teaching her local language of Karnataka (Kannada) as she was from Kolkata. Somehow in between this period, semester had already passed and she had improved a lot in her English vocabulary and her English communication and it was all because of him.

One morning, he got a text message that “santosh, I want 500bucks…I want to pay my fees. I am short of 500...pls”… he without thinking twice, searched for his pockets for money. All he found was 250 bucks left, I don’t know what happened to him, he went to a blood bank and sold his blood for money. he gave her 500 bucks,but she had a doubt and wanted to know from where had he got that money ? hence she took him to a restaurant and asked him to promise on their love and tell that where he had money from? He who was left with no other option told her truth and this was something of filmy type and they had started loving each other more than anyone else in this planet called earth. As days passed, they were always seen together, no matter what place was it! Finally valentine’s day had come to show the existence of love and to reflect of one such true love, he gifted her a card and cute teddy and she was happy by love he showed love towards her. but no one knows whose bad eyes fell on this sweet couple, they fought for a small thing and scolded each other a lot and he who was angry left for his home without even saying a bye to her, and she who was very egoistic also showed her egos and her without even apologizing to him because they say relationship is full of compromises to stay closer for someone whom we love. But that black Friday, they both played their devil minds on each other. She went to hostel, again came out of hostel and went to a lonely place to get some peace. She was so much lost in her self that she forgot her hostel timings and left for city at 7.00 even after knowing hostel in timing is last at 6.30. and this guy who had no idea of what is happening in hostel was busy in other works that day and at 7.20,he receives a call which says is sruthi with u? she hasn’t turned up to hostel… now this guy with full fear rushes near hostel and roams everywhere to search her from 7.30 to 11.30.whole college now thinks that he might have done something, but no one even tried to understand truth.

She was in heart of city from 7.30 to 10.30 roaming here and there just crying for getting angry on Santosh finally came to stupid decision. Decision was suicide!!!

She tried for sleeping pills, but since no medical guy ever gives that without a prescription, she finally bought ratposion and mixed it with water and gulped it once. Now she felt like reaching back hostel, she got into a bus and she started vomiting because of that ratkiller.she somehow reached hostel by 11.45 and requests hostel warden to take her to hospital and this guy somehow gets the news rushes to hostel, but fails to meet her as she had already been taken to hospital. He waits whole night at one of his friend’s room to see sunrise so that he can go and meet her. And to his luck, he got information about hospital where she is admitted in. he rushes there, but finds that she is in i.c.u and only one person is allowed to visit her per day ,and that too at after noon 12,but time is just 8.30..in the hope of meeting her waits for clock to tick 12. He visits her and says hi…what happened..? Please tell truth and she tells him everything that happened and at last he says I love you, take care,get well soon..and comes out of icu and finds out that her brother had come all way from Kolkata to see her.santosh introduced himself as friend of sruthi and spoke to him for few minutes and then gets back home that day.

Somehow her brother comes to know that santosh is boyfriend of his sister and calls to his mobile and threatens to kill him if he ever tried to see her again,her brother took her back to Kolkata.now santosh who was left with just her memories and tears is trying to forget himself in his own pain. More or less she would not be brought back. Well let’s hope he gets her back and let him be happy all his life

puff....

2012-01-18T07:26:00.000-08:00

It was one of those winter mornings which made me know about this and made me feel write it over here...

As I am an hotelier now, it’s been a must to visit market to buy vegetables for my hotel every day. But the problem lies in waking up early in the morning and travelling all the way from my home to K.R Market which is at a distance of 20 kilometers. When my dad used to describe the scenario of the vegetable market I used to feel it would be awesome visiting there as fresh vegetables would be available at reasonable price. But once I have started visiting there, the other face of coin is visible to me.

Coming to the point, it was one of those chilled mornings when I completely covered with woolen clothes went to market; even though it was not the first visit, somewhere deep inside I felt lazy to visit, search for good, fresh vegetables, bargain, pack it and then bring them back…Giving the contract to someone for doing the above mentioned job was swirling round my head. Thinking of this, I reached a shop to buy coriander, I was enquiring about rates and suddenly there arrived a policeman to take bribe, the lady requested him that till now no business is done and I’ll give as soon as possible. I dint even have an idea what policeman would do. Policeman completely lost his temper stamped all vegetables and hit her in a stick which government gave him to use it on some criminals and took some coriander and by then lady gave him 50 rupees. He, who should have shut his mouth and left the spot, evaded abusing her “bitch”. She started crying and with no other option left for myself I disappeared from the spot. Then I witnessed a middlemen cheating a lady in showing fake accounts by saying 111+26+123=220.that is where I understood markets are ruled by middlemen and no one else. Believe me guys, I have never witnessed such a corruption ever before. Wherever your eyes pop, you find corruption there… the ultimate loser is our poor farmers. They are paid 50paise for handful of coriander leaves, sold at 4 rupees in market and sold at 10 rupees in shops near your houses. Now you can easily make out who gains who loses.Thats the reason behind suicide of farmers.. Reason is not government..It’s the middlemen who are killing the farmer…

And the corruption done by policemen over there has no limits. It’s totally out of control..I wish someday there is a smile on farmer’s face and this corrupt people washed away by lord nature’s punishment to bad people as there is a saying “kalaya tasmai namaha”...

mY fUtUrE..???

2012-01-13T12:06:00.000-08:00

Which one suits me??? Which one to pick???

phew..confused...!!!!!

It’s a long time since I wrote my last post since I am a so called “Entrepreneur”.

The reason behind this post was to share my confused brain’s confused ideas… I know its bit tricky to understand me…But had no option left other than sharing it over here.
Here are some options left for myself which I aspire to become. It’s not just one, it’s some (sum) of my confusions.Dont know which thingy to be taken and take a serious decision for it because it’s a time to decide now…
1) Businessman

2) Animator

3) Get into corporate world

4) I.A.S officer

5) Photographer

6) Mathematician

7) Farmer (to enjoy natural beauty and find some peace)

8) Traveler

9) Sanyasi (not one like a sri sri sri whatever... nityananda…: D)

10) Do nothing….just sleep...

After writing this much, I feel the last one to be the best one…Enjoy

bAd dAy

2011-10-23T10:47:00.000-07:00

Sorry friends…… J J J

Couldn’t add any post for last few days because of exxaaaammmsss!!!!
This is an incident that happened during the study holidays for my exams…

I get up very late when I don’t have classes. But that day my mom forced me to get up early to get her some medicines. I was really angry on my mom for waking me up. When I entered the washroom I saw a sparrow trying it’s hard to group some small sticks to build its nest. I was totally pissed off as it was making the washroom as its home. I was into a perception that it would make the washroom dirty and it was already 3 days over since it had started piling things on for its construction. Me, who was totally angry on my mom showed my anger by throwing those things out of window when it left to collect things. When it came back, it had nothing left for itself but the sticks, grass etc which it had to work hard to collect them. The way it looked at me, I just can’t forget that. L L

Image source: Google images

Because it almost made an expression which reflected “you cruel devil...Today you have disrespected my hard work…you’ll understand when someone disrespects your hard work...”

By then my mom entered the scene and screamed at me as if I had killed that sparrow because my mom loves animals, birds a lot… by then I had understood my mistake… I went down to bring that sticks and grass which I threw out. When I brought those things back and kept them at the same place, bird dint even bother to touch it. Now I almost felt like killing myself because its silence itself had made me feel guilty. Bird which stayed there till then now flew away out of window. The guiltiness I am feeling is still hurting a lot inside...the intention of writing this was to just mention to you that never ever behave rudely with those kinds of animals. They would take a small amount of place in your house or office or wherever… just try to be a better human because I have experienced how much it hurts and the guiltiness felt by that.I don't want my friends to experience that worse....

bAd dReAm

2011-09-22T00:27:00.000-07:00

Dreams don't have any limits or full stops...It all goes the way your creativity and your thinking...People differentiate dreams to 2 sorts. One is what you want to be or wish to be, it’s more of a goal; but its referred to as dream because at the end of the day that's what he always wanted to be which is more of a logical. Second is completely what you get when you are asleep..

WIKIPEDIA'S DEFINITION OF DREAM IS

“Dreams are successions of images, ideas, emotions and sensations occurring involuntarily in the mind during certain stages of sleep.”

I am sharing one such dream which happened to understand myself better...

This dream occurred on 31^st of august month; well it was a night dream and the dream was –

“I was walking through the streets of Banashankari, Bangalore in my college uniform and I saw man who was walking approximately 5 foot in front was planning for something as he was giving some signals to another guy who was on a splendour bike who was pretending to be talking in phone. But I did nothing but to see these 2 guys and just 10 seconds after it happened to be, the guy who was walking in the front suddenly snatched a lady’s chain and the mobile which apparently fell when he snatched the chain and within in no time, the guy ran and got into the back seat of splendour bike and the guy who was riding the bike took no time to accelerate and escape; I was completely stunned and dint know what to do? The lady was screaming in kannada “help”… 2-3 people even took their bikes and went on to get those chain snatchers… It was complete mess up and as the police came, I just told cops that I saw those snatchers and I was asked to come to police station and I was taken to a notice board where some photos of snatchers had been stuck and I was asked whether was that snatcher’s photo there in that board and I observed the board for 5 minutes and found the photo of one of among the 2.But the police started scolding me and started saying how can a man who died 3 days back come and snatch the chains and i was in trouble now...but I was in confusion because I had recognised the accurate person whom I saw snatching the lady’s chain and when police asked her about this, she replied saying I din’t see their faces properly.
I just wanted to get out of there somehow…So I ended up showing someone else’s photo… But the reaction of police inspector was worse as he started hitting me and asking a constable to put me behind bars and all…”

I got shocked and got up… that was all I saw in the dream.

But I dint even bother to know why I got such a crazy dream because it’s not unusual to get such dream because everyone of us getting such irrelevant dreams of ghost, devils and all…

It was on 7^th of September when I actually went to my father’s hotel to collect rent since we have leased it out to one of my family friend… I directly went to hotel after finishing my classes of that day…Now I was feeling that this incident has occurred previously in my life, because everything was same to same as it happened in dream. I was wearing uniform and the same man was walking in front and guy was in a bike and lady was also walking with phone to her ears, may be speaking to someone on phone…Now I was confirmed that dream has become true and I was in a dilemma to catch the snatcher’s hand (if possible) or to note down the bike’s number or to see snatcher’s face properly so that I can identify when their photos in notice board if it is there… In next 20 seconds, he stole her chain and both of them escaped in bike, I who was looking to note down shockingly witnessed the bike’s number plate to be blank and same 2 others took their bikes to chase and same police inspector came and started enquiring about it…

Since I couldn’t note down the reg.number of the bike, I dint want to get back to police and say that I saw those snatchers face since I saw everything in dream had happened just in front of me minutes back because I felt that same police station experience which I saw in dream would continue, hence just walked as if I dint even know anything and reached my hotel and got back.

I now feel guilty that I should have helped police. But I wanted my safety first, and even was afraid that it would happen too because everything had occurred same to same….

This day played the best role in my life as it was the first time in my life which occurred as dream come true…Really feeling shocked even now when I remember it…

mEmOrAbLe dAy

2011-07-16T11:09:00.000-07:00

This is an incident that happened 2 weeks ago which would make me remember this day forever.

So thought of sharing with you people...It was about 10'o clock in the morning and I was having my breakfast in my dad's hotel since it was a Sunday, my duty is to visit my hotel to look after the accounts of that full week which my mom has assigned me. Just then a old woman aged about 70-75 came and asked for the owner.My manager brought her to me and introduced her to me,then she started her speak which made me delighted because she had brought an food order for more than 40k for a day's lunch which could easily fetch me minimum of 10-15k of profits.I called my manager and asked him to bring a coffee for her and asked her to sit and i replied to her saying "Don't worry ma'am.Our food is known for its taste and quality.No delivery charges."She asked me whether my name should be added in invitation for which i replied "It's not required" because all i wanted was money.She praised me saying "Sir,now-a-days people do donation for publicity and you are saying you don't want that too..you are kind hearted ,leave happily for hundred years..
I was in a mixed expression of shock and confusion and i almost took few minutes to react for it.She started again saying that "ok beta..guess you are not interested in this..i'll leave and take this card..By god's grace if your mind is changed call to the number mentioned in this card".
The moment she said this,i asked her to wait for 2 minutes and took my dad's photo out of my wallet and closed my eyes for a moment and started thinking what would my dad would if he was there at this situation as i do it before every single decision making process.I felt that i should donate the food because that's what my dad would do if he was there.I opened my eyes with a smile in my face and i was suddenly shocked to see the tears in that woman's eyes and smile in her face.She said me, "Just like your father" for which i was emotion-less and confused and i asked her why did she say that.She told me"I'll tell you later."I asked her that when actually she wants this food and all for which she said she wants us to do it on next month and i promised her that we will do it and also asked her can we also donate it today to the kids because on the day of function we cant stay and be with kids for long time as crowd will be more for which she was very happy and slowly whispered "Not a problem" for which i was very happy and the very next moment i asked my manager who was standing next to our chairs to get ready with the food by 12 noon.All i could witness was a smile still lying in that old woman's face which actually made me happy because first time in my life i was feeling as if i am doing something great.I asked her to wait for an hour and would she have any breakfast? for which she nodded saying no and opened her mouth saying i have had it before coming to the hotel.I went out to look at the bills and accounts for that week.An hour passed by then and i called for the taxi and requested the woman to be seated and asked my hotel servants to bring that food in a van to the ashram by following the taxi.Ashram was a ten minute drive the hotel and we reached there in by no time and i walked with the woman into the ashram and she gave me a album to have a look at.As i turned the pages one after the other,i was shocked to see my parents standing with those small orphan kids and some pictures in which my dad making small kids sit on his lap and making them eat.By then,my eyes were filled with tears thinking the good heart they have is not with me..The old woman kept her hand on my shoulder and said this is what i wanted to say you in your hotel,but couldn't say it there.She also added " Tiger always gives birth to a tiger and not a fox...now don't be sad for the past.Distribute it yourself". I was bit happy by her words and asked my hotel boys to start distributing the food.But while distributing the food,i really felt pity for those kids there.I became very much emotional seeing those kids who have almost forgot what is love,parents,b'day's,etc...Even we had food with them and took a pic with them and i promised them saying "whenever you people are in need of anything,ask me..and i 'll come next month with food and no need of my name in invitation card."I took her blessing while returning back saying Don't worry.But to be frank,i don't even know why did i say that..But i am happy for my small contribution to those..After returning home,i shared this with my mom for which she was very happy for what i have done...
Well i know what i did was not huge contribution o something like that.The reason for this blog was just to ask you people that if you have anything more which you are not using,just give it to such institutes and not to some one who come door to door people to collect because who knows whether they are selling it or giving it to those kids.So plz frenz do visit and do a small contribution for it..That's all i could say for now and the pics are not my clicks,its Google pics since i dint carry my cam there.. I apologize if i have bored some one by this post..All i could say is thank u for reading and a sorry for those guys who felt bored because
u r a cold blooded animal !!!!!!

lOvE iS iNjUrIoUs tO hEaLtH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2011-07-01T12:40:00.000-07:00

This is true love story which i gotta hear from my friend...

When i actually heard this story,i too dint believe that how can something like this happen in any one's life...

I thought my friend was lying and i asked him to stop bluffing.But one Sunday evening,my friend took me to his house.A guy who is somewhere around 24-25 opened the door welcoming us in.He asked us to get seated and asked my friend who is this ? pointing at me. My friend introduced me to him and told the reason why we were there for.He asked his maid to bring juice for us and suddenly he started gazing here and there.In fractions of seconds,we could witness tears in his eyes.At that particular moment,i started questioning myself that why the hell did i ask that question,but after all i had been to him only for that and if i don't get that information,then there was no reason for us going to his house.After a minute or two,he got up from his chair and asked us to follow him.He took us to his study room where we could see a line " y did u do this to me?" written all over his walls in spray paints and some stuff which made me asking myself that whether he is abnormal or psycho or something like that.But suddenly he turned back to us and asked us to get seated in the bean bag which were placed here and there in his room and opened his laptop and showed her photos and the room was so silent and calm without nobody speaking,instead having a look at the photo's.
He suddenly broke the silence by saying "Her name is swathi".He said us that i'll tell you the whole story after our dinner.I called my mom and said that i won't be coming and said combined study and doing assignments for which she was surprised to hear that words me and studies. She was happy to hear and said come early in the morning for which i replied "ya,sure" and we had our dinner.After finishing our dinner,we headed back to his room.As soon as we reached the room,i asked him to start his love story and end it by morning for which he started laughing and replied saying ok.Let him explain his story himself.
"I am from a middle class family and i couldn't expect anything more than fee's for my studies as my parents had lost all money spending on my sister's marriage and a traditional gifts to my brother-in-law.Sometimes my parents found it difficult even to pay for my fee's as we had done some loan for sister's marriage and all my dad's salary used to go to that interest.I passed out with 72% as my percentage in my 10th std.My parents were sad instead of being happy,but they had a reason to be so as they were worried about.Their worry was about which college should their son join and how much would colleges ask as donation and all.But finally they were relaxed as i got a seat in one of the colleges near my house and even the fee was very much affordable.And i felt like my dreams were coming true because always loved to wear color dress as college dress.And finally the p.u classes commenced with finding some of my school friends in the same college and i found one chick for whom i was attracted a bit because she was really gorgeous,but i controlled all my emotions within myself because by then some of my friends were saying that they had crush on her.And the classes continued well,but i found it difficult to understand trigonometry and physics problems.So joined for tutorials for which my brother-in-law paid the fee and i found 8 guys from our own college tutorials and since i had joined late to tutorials,my tution teachers suggested me to take to notes from fellow mates and they even suggested that swathi's notes would be good.I agreed for that,took notes from her and copied the same notes to my book and returned the book and thanked her for giving her books to me.In the tests conducted in college,she had secured second rank whereas i was in 4th position.But my like for books increased and kept a target of securing first position.My hard work din't go for waste as i had secured first position and the same swathi had lost first position by 2 marks for which she was angry on me for which she came and said "Don't be so proud of yourself because your happiness won't stay for more time",for which i replied "f**k off" and she went crying from there.But i then felt that i shouldn't have abused a girl in that manner and wanted to ask sorry.I thought i would apologize in tutorials,but she hadn't come to tutorials that day.So took her number from her friend and called her and apologized for which even she apologized saying that she also had done a mistake.I said it was ok and said bye and hanged the phone down.When i reached my home,i found my sister who got a news that i had topped in mid term exams from my friends who had already bought a cell-phone for me.Till that moment,i was so much into studies but the moment i got the mobile,my brain acted like one of monkey's.I called all my friends saying that i got a new cell phone as a gift and after calling all,i felt like even calling her(swathi) and giving my number to her.So after lot of thinking sent a text to her saying that "hey,this is bharath here!!! this is my num" for which i even got a reply back saying "ok,stay in touch..i'll txt u ltr"
You won't believe it guys,we became so close that we were almost 18 hours together(6 hours in college,2 hours in tutorials and rest 7 to 8 hours on phone) and thanks to bsnl for that as it was 10ps/min for any one number for which i had selected her's as that number.But we were still good friends and nothing more than that.But there was a guy called abhi in our class who was behind this girl who even went further doubting about us and warned me that i shouldn't talk to her nor see her for which i opposed and said you have no right to say that for which he said i'm her boyfriend.I couldn't control my laugh anymore because swathi used to crack jokes about him with me and we used to enjoy and i called swathi to come to college canteen and she said that he is not her boyfriend for which i started laughing loudly.He interrupted to our laugh and asked me " who are you to her?". I replied saying you don't have to know it for which he asked me "Is she your gal"? and started laughing for which she answered "Yes,he is my guy.do you have a problem?".
The whole canteen suddenly became silent and all including me were shocked to hear that,hearing to that abhi and his guys went out of canteen.I was completely shocked to her reply to those guys,but suddenly swathi said sorry and she had to say like that to escape from those guys.Now i felt what she had done was better than saying no which would end up her in trouble.And we got seated in canteen and thought of going to ghajini movie which had just released then and even she ended up agreeing and we planned for the movie that weekend and watched it in pvr cinemas and had our lunch at mcd. By 6 in the evening,we were at our homes.But strange thing was i was feeling like talking to her,and again in the night we spoke for 4 hours or so and ended up sleeping phone still on.This situations became very much common as days passed by and on 31-12-2005 at night 12,she called me and said "I thought you would tell me.but you never did that.But i can't control myself anymore Bharath.i love you"
i said love you too!!!!!!!!
Days passed and we had finished our 1st pu
1st pu exams got over on feb20.And we had got summer vacations which we din't want and joined to the same tutorials as this tutorial people had said that they would start 2nd p.u tution classes very early.
Then the 1st p.u results arrived,and we had ended up being in 5th and 7th positions in final exams as we had never touched the books because all we had in hand was a cell phone.
We spent all time roaming and having fun with one another.As we used to speak in the night time,we used to speak very softly so that no one else hears it except her and that too in my room with room locked from inside.My parents who had got a doubt about me for my changing behavior actually observed me for 2 days that where do i go and with whom do i roam and all these stuff...and i was caught by my parents and my cell phone was taken from me and i was helpless.The next morning 12 p.m she was caught by her parents for this matter..
Well, actually she din't get caught by her parents as it happened in my case.She was caught by her parents by a bsnl sim.I had sent a message that "i love you swthrt" at night 1a.m.But due to some network problem,the message wasn't sent then.Instead it was sent the next morning at 12..real culprits were b.s.n.l..Her parents complained to Principal and my parents were called by principal.In principal's room,we were asked what actually happened between us and we both told the thing what actually happened.My parents as well as her parents ended up saying "if u don't leave this love,we'll leave this world" for which we both said we would leave anything on this earth,but not parents.
2days after this happened my dad received a call from her father saying that why is your son still sending messages and i actually told that i had sent it 4 days back.Not now!!! It's b.s.n.l problem......
Month later abhi and his friends ended up hitting me black and blue for which i called up my friends and took my friends to abhi and his friend's houses and cleared the account which they had given me when i was alone.
I totally lost interest in studies,started neglecting studies and wasted my precious time.
But then saw her with one of my best friends getting close and witnessed him kissing her in a park.I interrupted their kiss and scolded both of them and came out crying.By then 2nd p.u exams had arrived.I finished it with 67% which was very less and then started working for my dream.Did my bbm in christ college.
Did my mba in wales university,u.k..I started my own company from which i have earned crores and investment for business was from a loan because parents din't even have a extra penny left over after fulfilling day-day needs.Today i am successful.My parents are happy.I even gotta hear that my friend who had cheated me died in a road accident a year ago which he deserved for cheating his friends.We (me and swathi) haven't spoken after that incident.Infact never met after that.Today she is working in a software company which pays her 25000rs per month whereas i earn a net profit of 25,00,000 per month."
Well...
To be very frank
But still somewhere my heart beats faster when i see her,speak about her...

By the time he actually finished his story,it was something around 4 in the morning.My friend was snoring as he was hearing it the third time And the names have been changed because he din't want to his name and his girl's name to be told...I typed this story thinking that my frenz would be interested in such story's and the one which is 100% true!!!!!!!!

lOvE vs fRieNdsHIp

2011-04-21T23:08:00.000-07:00

Love is an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment.In philosophical context, love is a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection whereas Friendship is a form of interpersonal relationship generally considered to be closer than association, although there is a range of degrees of intimacy in both friendships and associations.so it is sometimes hard to distinguish between a platonic friendship and love. It is especially hard when one party feels the friendship and the other feels love. Friends can certainly love each other. But it is when a more sensual love enters the friendship that things can be a bit more complicated.

It is imperative to understand that if you are in love with someone who considers you a friend, you cannot force him or her to feel the same way toward you. Love is not a forced emotion. People either love or they don’t.

Friendship is the blessing of having people you can spend time with. People who share some interests with you, and whose company you enjoy. A friend is someone you can pick up the phone and call once a year to check in, say hello, and let them know you’re thinking about them. It doesn’t have to be a daily, weekly, or even monthly communication. But it’s someone you know will always welcome you into his or her life with open arms.

Some say "Love is friendship with a bonus". It is having that special friend that you want to spend every waking moment of your life with. It is not being able to imagine your life without that person. They are your best friend, your confidant, your soul mate. Love is being able to identify that one person you would want to grow old with, to spend the rest of your life with. You share the same interests, and support those that differ from your own. You wake up thinking about that person, and go to sleep dreaming about them.
Friendships may come and go. Love is forever.Here is a set of lines distinguishing one from other.

                           Friendship vs. Love

    Friendship is a quiet walk in the park with the one you trust.
         Love is when you feel like you are the only two around.

    Friendship is when they gaze into your eyes and you know they care.
         Love is when they gaze into your eyes and it warms your heart.

    Friendship is being close even when you are far apart.
         Love is when you can still feel their hand on your heart
         when they are not near.

    Friendship is hoping that they experience the very best.
         Love is when you bring them the very best.

    Friendship occupies your mind.
         Love occupies your soul.

    Friendship is knowing that you will always try to be there
         when in need.
         Love is when you will give up everything to be at their side.

    Friendship is a warm smile in the winter.
         Love is a warming touch that sends a pulse through your heart.

    Love is a beautiful smile to which nothing compares:
         A tender laugh, which opens your heart,
         A single touch that melts away your fears,
         A smell that reminds you of the tenderness of heaven,
         A voice that reminds you of the innocence of youth.

    Friendship can survive without love.
         Love cannot live without friendship.

A simple drama between Love and Friendship! hope you will like it and get's your attention and pls, leave your comment about what do you really think! r you with the love gang or friendship gang. Enjoy!

Love: All the people searches for me and they dream to fall in love, I really can't understand what is ur purpose in this life Laughing ( love is making fun about friendship)

Friendship: I am the cure which all people needs me and I will stand by them! ( pretty confident)

Love: Cure!! You must be kidding me, I'm the cure, the happiness and all the feeling that every person needs!! how can you call yourself that you are the one which heals the people!!

Friendship: I'm the one who cleans up all the mess that you leave behind the two couples, I'm the shoulder where one of the couple's cry, I'm the one who give them the confident while they are in deep depression, and in most cases I live longer than you, love!!!

Love: No comments!!

P.S: One of my close friend told me this in brief, but I made it a lil bit more dramatic, in hope to get your attention.

So, with whom are you, Love OR Friendship!!

Thanks for your time..