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Mental Abuse is the Wost Kind

2010-07-15T08:39:00.000-07:00

I was doing my usual blogg check, when I came across the breaking story on Media Takeout about Christina Millian and the Dream's bitter break-up. Aparently a very close friend has come forward with inside information regarding how Chrissy is handling everything. And just as any bff would do, she tells rips into The Dream for the way he did Chrissy doing their relationship:

I am very close with Christina and she has NEVER removed her ring because she and Dream NEVER broke up..

His announcement was the first time he ever expressed not wanting to spend the rest of his life with her and at this moment she is a distraught mother and wife.. With that kind of shock i dont think she has even considered taking it off yet.. everything happened so fast..

Trust me.. if his words were truth, i would have been the first to throw a party for her leaving his evil ass.. Check all the photos from 2010.. she Never took it off.. meanwhile he sure tried to use her and that baby to promote his failed album cause thats the only thing people cared about... not him.. why would a single man do that?

And all this bull about doing things to protect the baby!!! that baby cant read! But before she knows how to read she WILL be able to understand those nasty disrespectful photos of daddy and what WAS a close family friend and employee.

Christina has real family and friends supporting her because she is 100% real and is an absolute joy to be around.. The Dream is the devil and anyone close to him is payed to be there and he could never get over that.. that was the ONLY problem in their relationship..he is crazy.. He was mentally controlling and abusive.. now that he has recently turned his back on Christina the clouds are clearing and she is no longer in the brainwashed state he had her in.. thank god!

And she had more to say - bear with us, this is long:

He started by trying to control her career .. not allowing her to work with any other producers, meanwhile giving her leftover songs that he had already written and recorded with other artists.. Then he made sure to leak the songs on the internet so there was no chances of her building an album.. all the while badgering her about how much he did for her and how she didnt appreciate him.. forcing her to be subservient and fall deeper into this world full of apologies to a man who can never be satisfied..

It made me sick to be near her on the phone with him.. she apologized for EVERYTHING just to move on from the issue even when she was guilty of nothing.. "im sorry" was way to prevalent in her vocabulary for over 2 years and it became mentally abusive.. he wallows in misery.

He constantly tried to argue with her about her family and to this day blames it on her side.. but Christina moved to Atlanta while everyone was in LA and it became clear that all anyone could do to make her happy at that time was let her go.. and they did.. but he continued to go at her with the same problems while she dedicated this "new life" to him, pushing aside her career and family for him..

He even faked illness to drag her further into this misery.. Christina was forced to play mommy to a newborn and to a full grown man and had no time to attend to herself, forcing her family to make extended visits in order to help her..Source

I actually know someone like this and the sad part is I almost allowed myself to fall victim to this mental manipulation. This type of man sweeps you off your feet in the beginning of the relationship and makes you feel like you are the best thing that could have ever happened to him. He does things for you that no one else does and makes you think he is your guardian angel. After you fall deep, he starts pulling back, than starts blaming you for everything. Nothing you do is right, every move you make is wrong, everything you say is over analyzed and dissecting and twisted and turned into something negative. You find yourself defenseless, always apologizing for something you did to upset or disappoint him even though you don't know what you did wrong. You are never good enough and you start to feel that way. The best thing to do in that situation is to run as far away from that bastard as you can. The sooner the better!! Christina is blessed to have family and friends around her that will support her and see her through this, so in the long run she will be ok. Keep it moving Chris...you deserve better! (and me too for that matter) (^_^)

Gemini Horoscope

2010-07-14T16:15:00.001-07:00

I am a total astrology nut...I love reading about my sign, and checking my horoscope. I have an app on my Android for it...lol! I decided to post this one because it hits pretty close to home...

GEMINI horoscope for Jul, 13, 2010 by DailyHoroscope
Time heals all wounds. You may not feel that way right now, Gemini, but pretty soon a recent disappointment, hardship, or cruelty you endured will fade away. That may be hard to believe at this point, but it will happen. When it does, you will find great joy in the same area, and it will take the place of the pain. With a family matter, it shouldn't be too hard to figure out what is best for everyone involved. Perhaps you're not finding the answer to a problem because you are only considering what's right for you.
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WTF!?!

2010-06-08T08:36:00.000-07:00

Ok, so I'm new to this whole single gal thing, and I must say, even though its only been about 6 months since I was thrown into this world....I DON'T LIKE IT ONE BIT!!! I am not the quint essential single lady. You see, I know the importance of partnership and being in a loving relationship. There is nothing like it! The only down side is that things can get rather boring and you have to work to keep the sparks flying, but if you love that person and that person loves you enough...it's not a problem.

I have met a few guys that genuinely seem like they mean well, only to find out later on down the line they have a girl or a wife or a babymama that they live with (for financial reasons...lmbooo@ that one) and it is disappointing and discouraging to me to come across people in this situation. My initial thoughts was that well maybe this person is just unhappy with their situation and would like to explore other options...but that is BS! If you are unhappy and you come to a point where you do want to explore other options, its only fair that you let the other person in the relationship know, so that he/she can do the same. It is totally unacceptable to drag a third party into an already messy situation. It's down right selfish and inconsiderate for everybody involved, including you, to put them through that emotional roller-coaster ride just because you wanted to have your cake and eat it too.

Question: Considering all of the male celebrities that have been caught with their paints down lately, has today's society become o.k. with the concept of the wife & the mistress?