Life Lessons

Almost Done.

2019-12-20T12:36:00.000+05:30

ALMOST DONE

Another year is almost done - just a little over a week to go before a new year begins.

Looking back did you accomplish those goals you set out to achieve? Did you fulfill your resolutions? Or did you come up short? Or never get started?

There are a number of reasons why we don't accomplish our goals, make those changes we promise to make or fulfill those resolutions we commit to when the year began.

That happens because we simply get distracted, our mind focuses on other things and we get caught up in the daily stress of the day, weeks and months.

Before you know it another year has gone by and nothing changed. We're still where we were at the start of the year or maybe things have become worse.

You may not realize this but over the years you've conditioned your mind and subconscious mind to focus on the daily stresses and so when you decide to achieve a goal, make a change fulfill a resolution, you get distracted.

That's just what you're used to doing. That's the way your mind and subconscious mind have been trained and conditioned. They’re just following what you trained them to do and you probably didn't mean to do that.

Focusing on the day’s events helps you get through the day but it doesn’t help you make the changes you want, achieve a goal or fulfill a resolution.

If you're serious about making some changes then you have to train your mind and subconscious mind to focus on the end result you want - and you have to make achieving that goal or fulfilling that resolution a top priority - it has to be something you really want.

This is where most of us get tripped up. We set a goal that's vague and don't make it a priority. And so the goal becomes wishful thinking because there is no burning desire to achieve the goal or fulfill the resolution.

So now that a new year is about to begin to start thinking about the goals you want to achieve or the resolutions you want to fulfill next year.

Then get specific and make sure you have a goal that you can measure so you can track your progress.

For example: saying you want to make more money is a good start – then get specific and decided how much money and by when. If you want to lose weight then decide how much and by when.

Once you've got your goals set make them a priority, you should have a burning desire to achieve your goal – it has to be something you really want.

When you have a burning desire you'll do whatever it takes to achieve that goal.

If you don't have a burning desire to succeed you'll simply give up because it won't be important.

The most important part of achieving a goal is to believe that you can and will succeed. Otherwise, you may never even get started or get close to achieving it.

Right now your mind and subconscious mind are used to being distracted and so you're not focused on your goals and you don't believe you can achieve them.

So when you decide to achieve a goal or set a new resolution at first you feel like you really want to succeed and make the changes.

However, after a few days, the negative thoughts start to enter your mind, you begin to doubt that you can succeed, and you allow yourself to get distracted.

That only happens because your mind is used to being negative and your subconscious is just following the negative beliefs you've held for so long.

Now you can turn things around and get rid of the negative thoughts and negative beliefs. Now can set clear goals and resolutions that you achieve and fulfill

Think about what you want to achieve or fulfill in 2020 - then make it a priority. Track your thoughts and beliefs. When those doubts or fears enter your mind dismiss them. Get rid of them. Stay focused on your goals and hat you want.

Get of the negative thoughts and negative beliefs that prevent you from fulfilling your resolutions and goals. Take control of your mind and subconscious mind.

Make sure you have a burning desire to achieve your goals.

You can succeed. You can make the changes you want. You can achieve your goals. You can make 2020 your best year ever.

Condition yourself for success and you will have your best year ever.

Take Charge today

Often Feel Rejected All The Time?

2019-12-19T15:44:00.000+05:30

OFTEN FEEL REJECTED ALL THE TIME?! EVERY WINNER HAS SCARS

How often do you feel rejected? Think about it. The person you asked on a date said “No”, your prospect said “No” to buying the product you sell, and your boss didn’t like your ‘great’ idea. The list goes on and on doesn’t it?

We all hear the word “No” several times a day, and we have since we were little children. And for many, to this day, each time you are rejected, a tiny piece of your self-esteem is stripped away from an increasingly suffering self-image. Why is that?

There are two key reasons why you may be feeling rejected. The first reason is that you are accepting what others are saying to you. You do not have to accept everything everyone says!

For example, when someone offers you a gift and you choose not to accept it, who then does the gift belong to? It still belongs to the ‘giver’ of course. So next time someone offers you a gift, such as a direct insult, choose not to accept their gift and it will still belong to them! Just because another person thinks you are a *&%!#@!!, does not mean you have to think it. Don’t let other people determine how you will feel.

The second reason you may feel rejected is that you believe that when a person says “No” to you, or rejects you in some way, they are actually rejecting YOU. But they are not. What they are rejecting is your idea or simply the way you presented your idea.

Have you ever asked the same person on a date several times and each time they said “No”? Then all of a sudden, one day, you ask that same person out and he or she says “Yes”! Why is that? After all, you are the same person as you were yesterday and the day before when you heard the answer “No”.

The answer is simple really, yet few people see it. The fact of the matter is that you haven’t changed in any way. What has changed is your approach. That is, the way in which you presented yourself and the idea you were trying to sell.

You see, rarely do people reject people. Even when another person thinks they are rejecting you, what they are really rejecting is one idea that you presented to them. And even then, it often isn’t the idea, but the presentation.

This is where the power of persistence comes in! In order to be successful in any endeavor, you must be persistent. “If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again!” Eventually, you will reach your goal and acceptance from those who you are presenting to. The key is, to notice what isn’t working and change your approach. Keep changing your approach until you find the one that works.

Pick any person who you believe to be extremely successful in any area and chances are, that same person has also had more failures and rejections in that area than most other people. Often the only difference, is that the successful person was persistent and understood that each failure and rejection, brought him closer to success.

Most people give up after just one try. Don’t be most people! Be persistent in striving for whatever it is you want and don’t accept every gift that is offered to you! I guarantee that if you want something bad enough, you will eventually get it.

EVERY WINNER HAS SCARS

Your life is made up of a series of experiences.

Each one will make you stronger,

even though sometimes it will be hard for you to realize it.

Life is your classroom in which you are being tested, tried, and passed.

Always try to stay in the midst of life and activity.

Don't isolate yourself from the action.

Be among people and things, among troubles, difficulties, and obstacles.

Your character develops itself in the stream of life.

Life expects you to make progress in a reasonable time.

That's why they make those grade school chairs so small.

Learn quickly that the setbacks and grief you endure actually help you in your march forward to success.

The world was built to develop your character.

Try It Tonight! It Takes Only 5 minutes By Dan Candell

2019-12-18T15:20:00.000+05:30

TRY IT TONIGHT! IT TAKES ONLY 5 MINUTES BY DAN CANDELL

Let's see how to hypnotize yourself so you achieve and accomplish your fullest potential.

It only takes about five minutes. Once you do this exercise and you make it a nightly ritual, you will notice within about two weeks, you started feeling more empowered, more inspired, more confident and more motivated and more productive.

Maybe you will be getting better grades. Maybe you will be making more money. Maybe you will be getting more work done quicker and faster. When Dan was in 7th grade he had a learning disability and he stumbled upon this tool called self-hypnosis.

And he actually hypnotized himself to get better grades. Now he teaches it to people over 70 thousand people all over the world. He has taught this craft to help them learn how to gain control over their lives.

Feel more empowered, inspired and accomplished. He has used it now to help athletes, business people, and students. So ask yourself if you could accomplish something better, what would you do?

What could you use it for? So when he teaches you this tool, and he teaches you self hypnosis now. You have to develop a better picture of yourself. And ask yourself what you will be able to accomplish. If you are a student maybe you will be able to get better grades, eliminate the exam anxiety or develop a superpower memory.

If you are in business may be you will be able to do better be more productive and as a result, make more money which everybody loves money right? It all starts with how you think. Many people go to bed stressed and they wake up worried and anxious.

He finds that a big problem in today's society because when we are not thinking good about ourselves we are not feeling good and when we are not feeling good we are not doing good. So what he wants to teach you is how to control your thoughts and program your mind much like you would program a very high efficient powerful computer.

You are already telling yourself something that has programmed you. You have been exposed to the program, in essence to hypnotized. Since you exited the womb, you have been exposed to programming not only by society not only by religion, not only by advertisers, not only by peers your parents but also by yourself.

If you picture this you are walking into school and you have to take a test that day, Your teacher the day before told you that it was going to be the most difficult test you have ever taken. So now you have that in your mind. You have created that thought and you are thinking to yourself no matter how much you study you are destined to fail.

Unfortunately, a lot of people are sending those messages to other people outside of their realm. Its time to control it, to eliminate that external program and to learn how to start programming ourselves. To start thinking better so we start feeling better. To start feeling better so we start acting better. So he wants you to follow along with him for a moment.

If you can take your hands, clasp them together. Take your two index fingers and put them out. In a moment count forward from one up to three. On the count of three, you have to do three things. You would like to separate your index fingers look at them and you are going to see something absolutely amazing happen here we go..1...2...3..

Separate your fingers look at them they are going to touch. Imagine what it would be like. were two rubber bands attached to your fingers pulling them closer and closer together. Imagine what it would be like for magnet to be attached to your fingers pulling them closer and closer together.

Closer and closer together until they touch. That space between your fingers gets smaller and smaller, it may happen slowly, it may happen fast but when your fingers touch you can take them apart they will actually touch faster the second time. Watch as it happens now.

If that worked for you, you have just been hypnotized. Hypnosis is just a natural altered zone focused state and how to use it effectively and efficiently?

At night as we fall asleep we go into a natural zone state. A natural receptive state. And just like this exercise that you just did.

Where you thought about something and it happened you see your thoughts became congruent with your bodily functions and actions. The same thing is true at night when you fall asleep. When you fall asleep you go into a natural receptive state.

Let's use that receptive state. For the last five minutes, as you are falling asleep at night instead of worrying about what's going to happen tomorrow or being anxious about what's going to happen next week. You have to think of what you would like to accomplish to be better.

Make a little movie in your mind of what the ideal you would be like. Now if the idea "you" sounds a little intimidating. Just think about what you want tomorrow to be like. How you want tomorrow to go. Just practice this, try it out make it a ritual. For when you fall asleep at night make a little movie in your mind of how you want tomorrow to go or how you want to be as your ideal self.

Hypnotized yourself into being better, doing better, feeling better and thinking better. When you do this exercise and this is an exercise he has been doing every night since he have been in 7th grade and it works. Once you do this exercise and you make it a nightly ritual you will notice within about 2 weeks you will start to feel more empowered, more inspired, more confident and more motivated and more productive.

May be you will be getting better grades,making more money making more work done easier quicker and faster. You can program yourself at night of what you want to do tomorrow.

How To Stop Negative Thinking

2019-12-17T13:31:00.000+05:30

HOW TO STOP NEGATIVE THINKING

Here's how to get rid of negative thinking and any negative thoughts that are holding you back.

You’ll always have some negative thoughts and these negative thoughts can have a negative impact on your life, on how you feel and on how you go about your day.

Today I’m giving you some simple tips to help you get rid of those negative thoughts so that you end up with more energy, more confidence, less fear and start achieving your goals, read on

Getting rid of negative thinking is crucial to your well being, your quality of life, your mental health and your overall well being

By now most of your negative thinking is automatic and
You likely don’t even realize you have some of these
Negative thoughts that are now holding you back.

These are the kinds of negative thoughts that automatically
pop into your head every day and they’re slowly wearing you down.

Many of these negative thoughts were likely handed to you by other people like friends, family members, co-workers, colleagues, teachers, and even strangers.

You just picked up on them and accepted them. After a while, they became beliefs which are now planted on your subconscious mind.

You don't realize it but the negative thinking that you're so used to is making your life harder and harder.

That’s because your subconscious creates your life based on what you think and believe. It sees your thoughts and beliefs as instructions. It then creates your life based on your instructions (thoughts and beliefs). Your life will always be a mirror of what you think and believe.

When you have too many negative thoughts and negative
beliefs you’ll get down on yourself, feel like you can’t get ahead, tend to give up before you ever get started, and you’ll
feel like life is getting harder and harder. And the longer
these negative thoughts play in your mind and subconscious
mind the worse it will get.

So you need to get rid of them. You need to remove the
negative thoughts and negative beliefs so that you allow yourself to succeed and live the kind of life you want to live

These negative thoughts usually start with a simple thought and then they spread; each negative thought attracting another
a negative thought, then another until they consume your mind.

After a while, you believe these negative thoughts and think that’s just the way life is and there’s nothing you can do about it.

That belief gets stronger over time and your subconscious forces you to take actions that allow those beliefs to shape your life.

Here are some examples of common, everyday negative thoughts and beliefs that can really make your life more and more difficult if they continue to play in your mind and remain on your subconscious.

It’s hard to (-- achieve a goal)
I don’t know-how
I can’t
I’m not good enough
I’m not smart enough
Life is hard
You always have to struggle
There are no good men/women
It’s a bad time
And so on…

These are just some common negative thoughts tied to negative beliefs that play in your mind and live on your subconscious mind. As long as they’re around, life will get harder and harder. You’ll want to give up and feel like you just can’t get ahead.

The negative thinking makes it harder for you to achieve your goals, succeed or get what you want in life.

Negative thoughts and negative beliefs will make it harder for you to make more money, to get that right job, they make it harder for you to meet the right person, grow your business or enjoy life.
If you don't get rid of the negative thoughts they'll keep destroying your life.

There's no room for them and you need to get rid of the negative thinking.

So let's get rid of them.

Think about something you want or a specific goal you’d like to achieve.

Then track your thoughts.
When you get a negative thought see how quickly another one pops into your head.

You might hear yourself saying something like:
I can't or I don't know how or I'm not good enough. You may hear all
there at the same time. Or you might have another negative thought soon after. And then another.

Before you know it you feel like giving up or you talk yourself out of doing what you really want to do.

That's how negative thinking destroys your life.

You believe the negative thoughts.
You think that's just the way life is.
Those negative thoughts get planted on your subconscious mind.
Your subconscious mind simply creates your life based on what you think and believe.

When you have negative thoughts and negative beliefs sitting on your subconscious mind you end up struggling, you don't get what you want, you don't meet the right people, you don't make more money, you lose your confidence and you don't make the right choices.

Your power can't work for you because of all the negative energy that's getting in the way.

That's why you make the wrong choices, you meet the wrong people, you lose money, or you can't save it, you don't get the job you want and it keeps going on and on.

And it will get worse and worse unless you stop the negative thinking.

You have to break the negative thinking cycle.
You have to remove the negative thoughts and negative beliefs that are sitting on your subconscious. You have to direct your subconscious to bring you what you want and get them to work FOR YOU instead of against you.
So take charge today, turn things around and get rid of the negative thinking that's destroying your life

Once you take control of your subconscious mind and
direct your power you can tell it to bring you
whatever you want. But you have to give it clear instructions.
You have to send your subconscious mind the
right instructions.

All that negative thinking, all that worry, all that fear, sends the wrong instructions to your subconscious mind. It confuses your power so it can't do what you want. Instead of getting your subconscious and your powers to bring you what you want you're telling them to bring you more negative situations, more for you to worry about and create more fear.

Here's how you can turn things around

Think about what you want.
And if you have any doubt, fear or negative thoughts come up then you're not sending the right instructions to your subconscious mind.

You need to get rid of those negative thoughts.
You need to get rid of the doubt and fear.

Your subconscious is super powerful.
It's connected to God and your higher power.
It will bring you anything you ask, you just have to ask the right way.
You just have to give it the right instructions.
So today take charge and get your subconscious and all your powers to bring you exactly what you want.

Give them the right instructions so you stop worrying,
so you make more money, so you make the right choices,
so you meet the right people, so you have more
confidence and know that you will succeed

The only reason you have so many negative thoughts
that stop you from enjoying the life you want is because
you haven't taken control of your subconscious mind.
You're not working with your power.

No one has ever showed you how to get rid of the negative
thoughts and negative beliefs. No one ever showed you how to direct your subconscious mind and work with your power so that they bring you what you want.

Today make that changes.
Today you take charge.
Today you begin working with your power.
Today you give your power the right instructions.
Today you get your power to bring you
exactly what you want.

Wishing you tremendous success...

Want To Live The Life You Want? How You Can Achieve All Your Goals?

2019-12-16T20:45:00.000+05:30

WANT TO LIVE THE LIFE YOU WANT? HOW YOU CAN ACHIEVE ALL YOUR GOALS?

In 5-minutes a day you can easily create the life you want.

Do you want to be successful? Do you want to enjoy life while you accomplish all your goals?

What if you know a complete and simple subconscious mind power system that would launch you to success and happiness in just a few short weeks?What if you learn a personal development system to master your own inner powers and what if you could increase your inner power and what if you could increase your self-confidence as enjoy success after success? And what if this personal development system only requires a few minutes of your time a day?

Well, you are about to discover The Creating Power System, which will change your life forever! Best of all it only requires a 5-minutes a day! That's it!

Imagine six months from now and you have everything you want. Try to picture it. What would life be like?

Now, what if I told you that everything you want is possible and you can have it much sooner than you think.

Sounds too good to be true?

Well, it's not if you follow along you'll learn how to use the power of your mind and subconscious mind so that you achieve your goals and more. Read on you will learn.

POWER OF THE SUBCONSCIOUS MIND

The above quotation from Napoleon Hill cannot be put any better and cannot be any more accurate. For those of you who have not heard of Napoleon, he was one of the early teachers of the power of the mind.

Hill's legendary book "Think and Grow Rich." was read by and motivated millions of people.

The basic principle is that whatever your mind can imagine it can create. How does it do this? What your mind thinks, sees, believes, feels is all sent to your subconscious mind--its great partner.

You subconscious then work with the universe and creates your reality based on the messages that began in your mind. But it's not enough to simply imagine it and then hope it happens. That's not the way it works.

If you can imagine it you can achieve it--but you need to know how to use the power of your mind. Even Napoleon Hills tells you this in every one of his books. But he doesn't tell you how to use all your powers.

Your mind can create wonderful things for you--if you know how to use it and how to send the right messages to your subconscious. Most people don't know how to do this. Instead, you go through life never really using the power of your mind. Did you know that doctors now firmly believe that 75% of all sickness and diseases start in the mind?

75%! That's a very large amount. That's meant that 75% of all the people who are sick today--are only sick because they did not know how to use the power of their mind and subconscious mind. Doctors will even tell you that most sickness and disease are caused by stress-which starts in the mind. Doctors will even tell you that most sicknesses and diseases are caused by stress-which starts in the mind.

The scientist has long said that we only use 10% of our mind power. 10-% that's it. Think of going through life only spending 10% of your salary? Could you do it? No! Yet you go through life only using 10% of the power of your mind. That 10% is creating 75% of all sickness because we don't even know how to use our mind properly.

Now imagine if you just used 10% of our mind's power correctly? What would happen? What would happen if we learned to use 90% of our mind's power correctly? Imagine if we could properly direct our subconscious mind? The results would be astounding! Your mind is an incredible power--but no one ever taught you how to use this power. Throughout your entire life, you have been taught how to do everything but no one ever taught you how to use your mind.

Creating power teaches you how to use the power of your mind and subconscious mind. I am not saying that if you work with the Creating Power System you will start using all of your minds correctly. But I do know that you will begin using the power of your mind to its full potential--and it is enough to create the change you want.

Napoleon Hill taught us that if we think properly we can grow rich. But he wasn't just talking about financial gain. He was talking about making our lives rich.

Creating Power goes further than Napoleon Hill because it teaches you how to use your mind so that you continually know how to think and grow rich. In order to create the things you want in life, you must first take control of your mind. It doesn't matter what else you do. If you don't learn to work with your mind--nothing else will work. I have seen people very close to me ruin their lives because they don't want to use the power of their mind. No matter what I tell them they refuse to take control of their mind.

They refuse to work with it and use it to its full potential. I have seen people struggle and then tell me "that's just the way life is. It was meant to be. "Let me make one thing clear: NOTHING IS MEANT TO BE. NOTHING IS WRITTEN. YOU CREATE EVERYTHING. YOU DO THIS WITH THE POWER OF YOUR MIND THAT YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO USE!

In the next article, I will discuss how 5 minutes can change everything.

Success and The Law Of Cause and Effect

2019-12-15T22:47:00.003+05:30

SUCCESS AND THE LAW OF CAUSE AND EFFECT.

Success is achieved or lost, depending on how you see yourself. You have the ability to control your success simply by determining whether or not you are truly worthy of it.

How you feel about yourself is all that is standing in the way of your amazing results. Maybe you're saying, "Wow! That's it,? That's all I have to do – love myself? That's easy!" Not so fast.

You may think you love yourself. You may pump yourself up in the morning by looking in the mirror and saying, "Go get 'em." But what you think you believe and what you actually believe can be two totally different things. Look at your past and present results.

Are they astounding? Do you have everything you've ever dreamed of? Have you reached your full potential? Are you fulfilled and satisfied? Chances are the answer to most of those questions is no.

And that's okay because I'm going to show you how to transform any remnant of a negative self-image into an amazing, positive self-image for earth-shattering, mind-blowing, successful results.

It is detrimental to your success and to your well being to make negative statements about yourself. Why? It's all about the law of cause and effect.
There are two words there – cause/effect. A lot of the time we only see the effect. We don't look behind it and see the cause.

Whatever the effect is, the cause is identical. If you go into a business meeting and you believe that there is no way you're going to get the deal, you've sealed your fate. You have become the writer of your own self-fulfilling prophecy.

You said you weren't going to get the deal, you believed it was impossible and so you proved yourself right. Why did this happen? The law of cause and effect, that's why.

The CAUSE of the unsuccessful meeting was that you consciously thought the failure was going to be the outcome. Chances are you said it in your mind and out loud, too.

That repetitive negative self-talk sunk down into your subconscious and became a believer. Your mind now knows that failure will be the result of this meeting.

There is no room for success. Your conscious mind knew it, and your subconscious mind accepted it because of the repetitive self-talk, and now that failure is sent out through your body language and speaking voice into the Universe to ENSURE that you will fail.

You determined the results of the meeting before you walked into the room! That's the bad news.

The good news is that this cause and effect behavior can work just as easily with positive self-talk.

If you know you have a meeting in a few days, you can talk yourself into success by ACTING AS IF you already have the deal.
It's just as easy as being negative, so why not create the positive results you want?

Every time you think of the meeting you can say, "I am so grateful that my meeting is going to be a phenomenal success for me. I am worthy of getting the deal and radiate success wherever I go."

You create the cause and the effect. You determine whether you succeed or fail. You write the ending to the story – be it happy or sad. Which ending do you want?

"You are where you are because you want to be there. If you want to be somewhere else, you'll change."

Some Of The Best Motivational Books To Buy Right Now

2019-12-14T17:47:00.002+05:30

Some Of The Best Motivational Books To Buy Right Now:

1.The Power of Now

https://www.amazon.in/Power-Now-Guide-Spiritual-Enlightenment/dp/8190105914/ref=sr_1_3?keywords=the+power+of+now&qid=1576489006&sr=8-3

2.The Power of Your Subconscious Mind

https://www.amazon.in/Power-Your-Subconscious-Mind-Success/dp/8172345666/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?crid=7TU171H2ZSEK&keywords=power+of+your+subconscious+mind+in+english&qid=1576488959&sprefix=power+of+your+%2Caps%2C488&sr=8-1-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUEyU0cwU0REQjZTT09BJmVuY3J5cHRlZElkPUEwNDcwMDcxMzRWMThWQUdBQlU3NCZlbmNyeXB0ZWRBZElkPUEwNzI3NDczMjdXWEpORlFISlFSRSZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX2F0ZiZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU=

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Motivational Story(Stephen King)

2019-12-14T15:34:00.002+05:30

Hello good people. Today I am going to tell you about the power of yourself.

Many of you may already know his story. But those who don't know should read this till the end.

Stephen King is an American author. He wrote many books and novels based on horror, supernatural fiction, and suspense.

This is the perfect example of how one success can destroy thousands of failures. Many of the successful people in the world has faced many failures in their life.

And Stephen King is also one of them. He is a famous American author.

When Stephen King was 2 years old his father left to buy a pack of cigarettes and never came back. He left the family.

When he was a child, he apparently witnessed one of his friends being struck and killed by a train.

He had no memory of the tragic event. He left to play with the boy but later returned speechlessly and in shock. Later his family learned about the tragic death of his friend.

Some people are suggesting that this event, even though King has no memory of it. May have subconsciously inspired some of his darker works.

Stephen was interested in writing from a very young age. He began writing for fun while still in elementary school and that's how his first stories were born.

He earned 25 cents apiece from his mother. It was a way to encourage King to continue his writing.

In 1970, King graduated at the University of Maine with a Bachelor of Arts in English.

He had to work all kinds of jobs, like gas pump attendant, janitor, and worker at an industrial laundry. To support himself and pay for his studies.

A few years later Stephen King lived in a double-wide trailer with his wife and two kids. And drove an old car that broke down very often.

They also didn't have a telephone, because they could not afford it. They were very poor. Even though he had a teaching certificate. He couldn't get a teaching job.

So he had to work at a laundry service, while his new wife worked at dunkin' donuts. Later he did get a teaching job with a salary of $6400 a year. But that was not enough to make ends meet.

Stephen King couldn't afford his own typewriter, so he had to use his wife's one from college. He worked on his novels in the laundry room at a desk that was put between the washing machine and the dryer.

He would lock himself in the laundry room to do his writing. It was there that he created his first hit novel.. Carrie.When King first started writing Carrie, a novel about a girl who can control objects with her mind.

He typed only 3 pages and quit. Before he could finish completing the script he was overwhelmed with depression. In anger, he crumpled the pages and dumped them in the trash can.

He was very disappointed in himself because he couldn't write from a woman's perspective. The story was going to be too long for any magazine."I couldn't see wasting two weeks, maybe even a month. Creating a novella I didn't like and wouldn't be able to sell."

Luckily the next day, his wife found the wrinkled pages in the trash and told him to keep writing. He was determined to quit. But his wife insisted. "You have got something here.

I really think you do." She was not wrong. Nine months later the book was done. He sent it out to a list of publishers, 30 publishers rejected it.

"We are not interested in science fiction which deals with negative utopias. They do not sell."

Shortly after that, he received a telegram from editor Bill Thompson, saying that Carrie had been accepted for publication and that he would receive a $2500 advance.

It wasn't much, but with that money, Stephen King bought a new car and a telephone and he continued his teaching job. A few months later one phone call changed everything.

It was Bill Thompson again. He asked King if he was sitting down before he could tell him the news that would change his life. He told him that signet books had the paperback rights. And he would receive $200000.

"I was still standing in the doorway, looking across the living room toward our bedroom and the crib where joe slept.

Our place on Sanford street rented for ninety dollars a month. And this man I'd only met once face to face. The face was telling me I'd just won the lottery.

The strength ran out of my legs. I didn't fall exactly. But I kind of whoosted down to a sitting position there in the doorway."

King has since published more than 50 books, all worldwide bestsellers. His books have sold more than 350 million copies. Many of which have been adapted into films, Television series, Comic books.

King's wife was his rock throughout his career. Even when they were very poor, she constantly encouraged him to write. When he didn't believe in himself. She believed in him.

The ability to believe in yourself can change your life.

Some of the quotes of Stephen King:

You have to stay faithful for what you are working on.

Monsters are real, ghosts are real too. They live inside us, and sometimes they win.

The devil's voice is sweet to hear.

When asked "How do you write?" I invariably answer 'one word at a time.'

Powerful Osho Quotes

2019-12-13T00:03:00.002+05:30

POWERFUL OSHO QUOTES

"Friendship is the purest love.It is the highest form of Love where nothing is asked for,no condition,where one simply enjoys giving".

"A woman is to be loved,not understood.That is the first understanding."

"If you suffer it is because of you,if you feel blissful it is because of you.Nobody else is responsible-only you and you alone.You are your hell and your heaven too."

"If you really want peace on earth,create peace in your heart,in your being.That is the right place to begin with and then spread."

"A single moment of LOVE is equal to the whole eternity of LOVE."

"Nobody has the power to take two steps together,you can take only one step at a time."

"Don't be so short of trust,and don't be in a hurry.If I say something,wait,search,and you will find the way."

"You need either to create something or to discover something.Either bring your potential to actually or go inwards to find yourself,but do something with your freedom."

"Just look at life with more playful eyes.Don't be serious.Seriousness becomes like a blindness.Don't pretend to be a thinker,a philosopher.Just simply be a human being."

"Truth is not to be found outside.No teacher,no scripture can give it to you.It is inside you and if you wish to attain it,seek your own company.Be with yourself."

"Millions of people are suffering,they want to be loved but they don't know how to love.And love cannot exist as a monologue,it is a dialogue,a very harmonious dialogue."

"Falling in love you remain a child,rising in love you mature.By and by love becomes not a relationship,it becomes a state of your being.Not that you are in love-now you are love."

"You feel good,you feel bad,and these feelings are bubbling from your own unconsciousness,from your own past.Nobody is responsible except you.Nobody can make you angry,and make you happy."

"Nobody can say anything about you.Whatsoever people say is about themselves.But you become very shaky,because you are still clinging to a false centre. That false centre depends on others,so you are always looking to what people are saying about you."

"The moment a child born,the mother is also born.She never existed before.The woman existed,but the mother,never.A mother is something absolutely new."

"If you are a parent,opens doors to unknown directions to the child so he can explore.Don't make him afraid of the unknown,give him support."

"You should live in the world but remain untouched by it.You should remain in the world,but the world should not remain in you."

"It is a strange thing,that every child is born with a closed hand,and every body dies with an open hand."

"Life in itself has no meaning,Life is an opportunity to create meaning."

"Wherever you are afraid,try to explore,and you will find death hiding somewhere behind.All fear is of death.Death is the only fear source."

"Wherever you feel death,feel it.Don't escape.Death is beautiful,death is the greatest mystery,more mysterious than life."

"Even if they can find a lover they demand perfection,and the love is destroyed because of that demand."

"Intelligence comes from meditation,intelligence comes from rebellion,intelligence does not come from memory."

"Help the world to become better.Don't leave the world just the same as you have found it-make it a little better,make it a little more beautiful."

"It is not a question of money,power,and prestige;it is a question of what intrinsically you want to do.Do it,irrespective of the results,and your boredom will disappear."

"You are being taught everything,but you are not being taught to be yourself.This is the ugliest form of society possible,because it makes everybody miserable."

"Darkness is an absence of light.Ego is an absence of awareness."

"A certain darkness is needed to see the stars."

"Respect life, revere life.There is nothing more holy than life,nothing more divine than life."

"Mind:A beautiful servant,a dangerous master."

"It is beautiful to be alone,it is also beautiful to be in love,to be with people.And they are complementary,not contradictory."

"Love is the goal,life is the journey."

"When you love,love as if the person is a god,not less than that.Never love a woman as a woman and never love a man as a man."

"Be a lotus flower.Be in the water,and do not let the water touch you."

"Tomorrow never comes,its always today."

"I live my life based on 2 principles.One,I live as if today was my last day on earth.Two,I live today as if I am going to live forever."

"Get out of your head and get into your heart.Think less,feel more."

Struggling To Make The Right Choice?Here Is The Answer(By Gaur Gopal Das)

2019-12-10T15:32:00.000+05:30

HERE'S WHAT TO DO IF YOU ARE STRUGGLING TO MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE

By Gaur Gopal Das

Hello everyone.Today I am going to share you the most important life phase we all have to face that situation or going through that type of situation in our lives.

At that point we are like don't understand which direction to choose ,what to do,where to go.Which choice is going to make our life better and all other type of question arise what we found in such type of situation.Here is the perfect answer given by Gaur Gopal Das.

A man got lost in a desert and had exhausted all the water he had carried a couple of days ago.

He knew for sure that if he didn't get some water he would certainly die.Although completely exhausted,the man didn't give up hope.

He kept walking looking for some sign of good fortune.Suddenly,he saw a small hut at some distance."Could it be a mirage?" he thought or may be just a hallucination?.

But having no other option left,he edged closer only to realise that the hut was real.Gathering the last bits of energy left,he dragged his tired body inside the hut hoping he could find some water.

The hut was empty and seemed like it had been abandoned for quite some time.His heart skipped beat when he saw what was in the hut.

A hand pump!.Water finally!He was overjoyed.He began working the hand pump.But no water came out.He tried harder and yet harder,no water.

Finally,after putting in every bit of energy,he gave up out of exhaustion and frustration and sat down thinking.May be,I am destined to die out of thirst today.

And then a second ray of hope!.He noticed a bottle in one corner of the hut.It was filled with water and corked up to prevent evaporation.He uncorked the bottle and as he was just about to devour the life giving water.

He noticed a piece of paper attached to it.The handwritten message read."Use this water to start the pump.Don't forget to fill the bottle when you are done."

He was now in a dilemma to follow the instruction and pour the water into the pump or ignore it and just drink the water.What if you put the water into the pump and it didn't work.

But then may be the instruction was correct.Should he risk it?If it turned out to be false he would be throwing away the last water he would ever see.

Have you ever been in a situation like this?Where are only two options.Uncertainty about which one will work.What will you do?Which one will you choose?Well you have to choose one.

Willing to bear the consequences that it brings.Many people don't decide because of fearful of the consequences and they continue to remain confused in their life.

The man decided to take a leap of faith.Hands trembling.He poured the water into the pump closed his eyes,said a prayer and started working the pump.He heard a gurgling sound and water came down gushing out way more than he could possibly use.He drank the cool refreshing water to his heart content and quenched his thrist. He was going to live.Feeling much better he looked around the hut and found a pencil and a map of the region.The map showed that he was still far away from civilisation but at least now he knew where he was and in which direction to go next.

He filled up his flask for the journey ahead.As per the instruction on the note also filled up the bottle and put the cork back in.And before leaving the hut he added his own lines below the instruction."Believe me,it works."

Most of us may not be confronted with a situation like this where the choice made decides whether we live or die.Yet,we have our own journeys to take and our own choices to make.

If the choice we make goes our way-Fantastic.We can inspire people by telling them.Believe me it works.And if it doesn't go our way,we can share our mistakes our experiences our realisations and empower people to make their right choices.

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Want To Bring Happiness In Your Life?10 Things To Quit Right Now

2019-12-09T15:45:00.000+05:30

10 THINGS TO QUIT RIGHT NOW

Hello everyone.I am Supriya. Today I am going to tell you those things which we need to quit right now because this things brings negativity in our life,it lower our vibration(Well I hope you know very well what is vibration).In case if you don't know than I will tell you about this in my upcoming blogs.If you want to know then comment below.

I am like one of those who consistently think all of the negative things which happens in my life instead of thinking positive one. In fact we all only focus on negative things in our life instead of positive things.Because of this we get demotivate,we lose confidence.We thought that our life is totally waste and we can't do anything good in this life.

If you are also one of this then you should read this blog till the end.That will bring some positivity in your life.

So here are the 10 things to quit right now so that you can live a happy life no matter what.

1.Taking everything personally:

Well we all are like that only.If some one scroll us or insult us we people are like give them our reaction on the spot through our anger or give verbal attacks to them.It is like common problem that drag our self esteem down.

Well what should we do to avoid this?

a)First of all take a long deep breathe.Ya its very important step.By taking a long breathe for 1-2min can calm your mind and body and it make easier for you to think about the situation and reply in a peaceful manner by understanding the situation.

b)Try to get the clarification.Because it may be misunderstood that other person try to say something else and you take it other way.

c)Try to think that whatever other person is saying to you actually going through some issues on their family or something that's why they they have a bad day and that's why they release emotions and tension on you.

d)Try to share with your close friends.May be she know that the way everything happens have other perspective or may be she get that people is going through a tough time that's why he is reacting in that manner.

e)Self esteem is very important.The first important step is to be kind with everyone in you life.Try to keep the healthy perspective.

2.Holding on to the past:

24x7 thinking about the past literally sucks you.The most important thing we all should do is to keep the past things in past.Because thinking about the past experience will bring nothing to present.It only brings guilt,regret and all other type of negative emotions to our life.

So commit to yourself today that you will not gonna live from your past.Live for present moment.When you live for present you will see more opportunity coming,doors will opens.

3.Overthinking:

Overthinking ruins every opportunity in your life.Overthinking brings mental illness.It create depression.Overthinking doesn't solve anything although it destroy problem solving ability from yourself.

4.Sleeping in late:

Late night sleeping actually effects our health and lead to many problems.It will create high blood pressure.Staying up late make you eat more an at night we likely to eat non healthy items which ultimately leads to poor health issues.

5.Having a poor diet:

Poor diet is one of the major risk factor for a range of chronic diseases,diabetes and other conditions.So for healthy diet you should include fruits,vegetables,nuts and grains,cutting down salts,sugar and fats.

6.Fueling drama:

It drains your energy.Because drama is equal to negativity.So minimise drama by identifying the source.And think twice before you react.Don't allow your emotions to produce an attack and don't try to get revenge either.

7.Complaining all the time:

We all complains all the time.But if this reaches its peak that it is not going to be good in any way.We have seen so many peoples who complains all day long.They complains about their parents,their relationship,their jobs their everything.And if we hang out with those type of people out energy drains out eventually.And by complaining all the time the things will not going to be better instead it going to be worst with time.

8.Gossiping:

By gossiping we ruins other's person image their reputation.That may affect their job profile and all.People started losing faith with you.Gossip can also affects someone's health,business and emotional state.It may also lead to someone the cause of depression.It hurt someone so badly that it may lead to cause of suicide and mental depression.It also leads to create negative energy,thoughts or emotions as a result people start avoiding you.

9.Not living in the moment:

Our bad habit is that we live in the future and become anxious about thinking and worrying about the future.By do so we actually spoil our present moment our present time.Because all we have is this moment so be present in your own life.We should balance between past,present and future.

10.Trying to please others:

Trying to please others is a bad habit.You attract less people around you.Those who are strong will actually seek strong people and those who please others comes under weak people for them.By pleasing others you started loosing your value.It leaves you disappointed and ashamed of who you have become.It is also a sign of non trust worthy.And you end up with fewer friend.So be the who you really are.May be many people don't really like the real you but that's OK. You are stronger than you think.So go for it and Be Yourself.

Oprah Winfrey's Life Advice Will Change Your Life

2019-12-08T15:44:00.000+05:30

OPRAH WINFREY'S LIFE ADVICE WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE

You actually do get to transform the world everyday by your actions.Small steps lead to big accomplishments.And i am going to tell you that your life is in some big break.Like everybody think it is they are waiting on the big break.It's actually about taking one significant life transforming step at a time.
So you can pick a problem literally any problem.The list is long because there's gun violence and economic inequality and there's media bias and the homeless need opportunity and the addicted need treatment.And the dreamers need protection.The prison system needs to be reformed.

The social safety net needs saving.Misogyny needs to stop.And the truth is you can not fix everything but what you can do here and now is make a decision because life is about decisions and the decision is that you will use your life in service.

You will be in service to life and you will speak up.You will show up.You will stand up.You will sit in.You will volunteer.You will vote.You will shout out you will help.You will lend a hand.You will offer your talent and your kindness however you can and you will radically transform whatever moment you are in.

Which leads to bigger moments because the truth is,success is a process.You can ask anybody who's been successful and so service is not just about when you are getting served.Its truly everything.So I started to ask the question.How can i use this show to not just be a show but to allow it to be a service to the viewer.

And that question of how do we serve the viewer transform the show and because we asked that question everyday from 1989 forward.

With the intention of only doing what was in service to the people who are watching it is why no matter where I go in the world on any given day someday comes up to me and says I watched your show.It changed my life.I have been watching since I was 5 years old.Until I went from DVR to VCR is to now streaming.People watch and were raised by that show.

I did a good job of raising a lot of people I must say.And that happened of an intention to be of service.So I live in this space of radical love and gratitude.Truly I have I feel the most beautiful life that you can imagine.I sit around trying to think of who could have a better life.

And I will tell you imagine my life to be like "I wonder what Oprah's doing right now?".Its always ten times better than whatever you think.Its true.And its because not I have wealth which is great.Money is fabulous,I love it.
And I get a lot of attention that's also good sometimes.But its because I had appreciation for the small steps.The seeds that were planted.

The map and flow of my life that unfolded because I was paying attention.You have to pay attention in your life because it is speaking to you all the time.
And the bumbs in the road and the failures that pointed at me in a new direction and led me to a path made clear that is what I am wishing for you today.

Your own path made clear.And I know that there is a lot of anxiety a lot about what the future holds and how much money you are going to make.But your anxiety does not contribute one iota to your progress.

I am here to tell you it does the opposite.Look at how many times you worried and you are upset and you didn't think you were going to make it through the block.I got the text a couple months ago,And here you are today.You made it and I am here to tell you that you are going to be more than OK.So take a deep breath with me right now,and repeat this Everything is always working out for me.

That's my mantra.Make it yours.Everything is always working out for me because it is and it has and it will continue to be as you forge and discover your own path.Your purpose is to do what you have to do until you can do what you want to do.

So here is the truth for years I had a job and through that job doing a lot of things that I actually didn't want to do.I got demoted,and discovered my life's calling.

I got demoted,and discovered my life's calling.So I was on the air as a reporter.My job ended when i was 28 years old.But I'd been working in radio got my first job in radio at 16 was hired in television at 19.

And it was a job because every day I felt like I don't know if this is really what I'm supposed to be doing.
But my father was like you got to keep that job.So,when I was 28.

It wasn't working out for me on the news because I was too emotional.I'd go to cover stories and cry because people lost their houses or lost their children.I was told that I was going to be taken off the evening news and put on a talk show.
That was a demotion for me at the time.

That actually worked out for me.I would like to say that many times there are things that look like failure in your life and I want to clear up.Because for years at every graduation I've said.There is no such things as failure.

Well it is.I have said it's no such things as failure.Its just life pointing you into a different direction.It does.It indeed does.But in the moments when you fail it really feels bad.And its embarrassing and its bad.

And its going to happen to you if you keep living.But I guarantee you it also will pass and you will be fine.Why?Because everything is always working out for you.

So I realized this when I was in the struggle of my life.I tried to build a network at the same time I was still trying to do a show.And I did not have the right leadership.

Everything is about having people in the right positions to support you.And so I had to take a good long look at myself.Because all of my mistakes are on the evening news of the CNN crawl.I can't do anything privately.

So in every news story when every story is about Struggle,Struggle,Struggle.I had to have a talk with myself.And say what is this really about?What is this here to show up?My favourite question when in crisis.What is this here to teach or show me?

Jeff Wiener one of my friends and founder of LinkedIn says that failure is what is going to humble you.It helps you realize how fleeting success can be.At least traditional measures of success because you realize that to some extent.

How it is just beyond your control.And you invest less in it in terms of the way you define yourself.Success in terms of achieving objectives.In terms of manifesting a mission.In terms of manifesting a vision,that's all good.Especially if what you do can create good in the world.

But to the extent that you start to define yourself through traditional measures of success.To the extent that 's your source of self-esteem.

You are destined to be unhappy because you cannot control it.Jack Canfield,Chiken Soup For The Soul.Another one of my thought leaders that I admire.Says,the greatest wound we have all experienced is somehow being rejected for being our authentic self.

And as a result of that we then try to be what we are not to get approval.Love,protection,safety,money,whatever that is and the real need for all of us really is to reconnect with the essence of who we really are.

Re own all the disowned parts of ourselves.Whether its our emotions our spirituality whatever.We all go around hiding parts of ourselves.He says he was with a Buddhist teacher a number of year ago.And that teacher said,here is the secret.If you were meditate for 20 years.

This is where you'd finally get to.Just be your self.But be all of you.So,I have made a living.Not a living but a real life.From being true to myself using the energy of my personality to actually serve the purpose of my soul.

And that purpose I am here to tell you gets revealed to you daily.It is not just one thing.It is the thread that is connecting the dots of everything that you do.So,when I first started television at 19 as I said I was just happy to have a job but later through experience,trial,error,some failures.

Recognize that my true purpose was to be an inspiration.And a force for good.To allow people to see the best of themselves through the work and the stories that we are able to tell.And so that becomes my legacy.

Your legacy is every life that you touch and that I repeat everywhere because its true.Its not one thing.Its everything.And the most important thing is how you touch other people's lives.Everyday you are carving out the path.Even when it looks like you are not.

All your actions are creating equal and opposite reactions. Which is the 3rd law of motion physics.What you put out is coming back how you think and what you do.

Is already being done unto you.That is my religion.I live by that.You have to act as if it is possible to radically transform the world.And you have to do that all the time.

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Who Is The World's Richest Billionaires/Richest People In The World 2019?

2019-12-07T17:11:00.000+05:30

THE WORLD'S RICHEST BILLIONAIRES/RICHEST PEOPLE IN THE WORLD.

Forbes' definitive list of wealth in India,profiling and ranking the country's richest citizens by their estimated net worth.

The world's wealthiest people all have certain things in common:legendary work ethics,breakthrough ideas,and absolute commitment of their companies.
Capitalism is taking some lumps-and not just in the headline.For only the second year in a decade,both the number of billionaires and their total wealth shrank,proving that even the wealthiest are not immune to economic forces and weak stock markets.
Here are top richest people around the globe,according to the latest real-time net worth figures on Forbes.

MUKESH AMBANI($57bn):

The chairman,managing director,and largest shareholder of Reliance Industries Limited(RIL),a Fortune Global 500 company and India's most valuable company by its market value.According to Forbes magazine,he is the richest man in Asia and 13th richest person in the world as of March 2019.

LARRY PAGE($57.9bn):

It is an American computer scientist and Internet entrepreneur.He is best known for being one of the co-founders of Google along with Sergey Brin page was the chief executive officer of Alphabet Inc until stepping down on December 3,2019.

CARLOS SLIM HELU($61.8bn):

It is a Mexican business magnate,engineer,investor and philanthropist.Slim was ranked as the richest person in the world by the Forbes business magazine(2010-2013).As of October 2019,he is the 8th richest person in the world according to Forbes.

LARRY ELLISON($67.3bn):

It is an American businessman,entrepreneur,and philanthropist.He is co-founder and the executive chairman and chief technology officer(CTO) of Oracle Corporation.He was listed by Forbes magazine as the 4th wealthiest person in the United States and as the 6th wealthiest in the world.

AMANCIO ORTEGA($70bn):

It is a Spanish billionaire businessman. Founder and former chairman of Inditex fashion group,best known for its chain of Zara clothing and accessories shops.

MARK ZUCKERBERG($70.3bn):

He is an American internet entrepreneur and philanthropist.He is known for co-founding and leading Facebook,Inc.Its name sake social networking website as its chairman and chief executive officer and also co-founded and is a board member of the solar sail spacecraft development project Breakthrough Starshot.

WARREN BUFFETT($84bn):

He is an American business magnate,investor,and philanthropist,who is the chairman and CEO of Berkshire Hathaway.Considered one of the most successful investors in the world and has a net worth of US$86 billion.

BERNARD ARNAULT($101.2bn):

He is a French billionaire business magnate,and art collector.He is the chairman and chief executive of LVMH Moet Hennessy-Louis Vuitton SE,LVMH,the world's largest luxury goods company.He is the richest person in Europe and 3rd richest person in world.

BILL GATES($106.2bn):

He is an American business magnate,software developer,investor,and philanthropist.He is known as co-founder of Microsoft Corporation.

JEFF BEZOS($110.1bn):

He is an American internet and aerospace entrepreneur,media proprietor and chief investor.He is the founder,chief executive officer and president of Amazon.com.

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Inspirational Quotes That Will Change Your Life

2019-12-06T15:36:00.000+05:30

INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES THAT WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE

"Someday someone will break you so badly,That you will become unbreakable"-Unknown

"No matter the storm,may your Faith be stronger than your Fears"-Joel Brown

"No matter how isolated you are and how lonely you feel,if you do your work truly and conscientiously, unknown friends will come and seek you."- Carl Jung

"If you let a person talk long enough you will hear their true intentions.Listen twice,speak once."- 2pac

"Change is never painful.Only resistance to change is painful."-Buddha

"What if your mess is your magic?"-Alekis Rakun Art

"Remove the idea that anybody else is responsible for your misery & suffering;Remove the idea that somebody can give meaning to your life.Accept that you are alone, born alone, and you will die alone."- Osho

"Be mindful of your self-talk.It's a conversation with the universe."-David James Lees

"For most people'their spiritual teacher is their suffering.Because eventually the suffering brings about awakening."-Eckhart Tolle

"Travel and tell no one,live a true story and tell no one,live happily and tell no one,people ruin beautiful things."-Khalil Gibran

"You think you are 'thinking' but you are actually listening."- Terence Mckenna

"Life is not somewhere waiting for you,it is happening in you.It is not in the future as a goal to be arrived at,it is here now,this very moment;in your breathing,circulating in your blood,beating in your heart."-Osho

"Stop shrinking for the comfort of others."-Alex Elle

"Now the solitude is a relief;I can finally stop waiting for you to love me right."-Komal Kapoor

"If we don't change,we don't grow.If we don't grow,we aren't really living."-Gail sheehy

"Don't yearn for human love;it will vanish.Behind human love is the spiritual love of God.Seek that.Don't pray for home or for the money or for love or for friendship.Don't pray for anything of this world.Enjoy only what the Lord gives to you.All else leads to delusion.Man has come on earth solely to learn to know God;he is here for no other reason."-Paramhansa Yogananda

"Anything that annoys you is teaching you patience.Anyone who abandons you is teaching you how to stand up on your own feet.Anything that angers you is teaching you forgiveness and compassion.Anything that has power over you is teaching you how to take your power back.Anything you hate is teaching you unconditional love.Anything you fear is teaching you courage to overcome you fear.Anything you can can't control is teaching you how to let go."-Jackson Kiddard

"The person who is going to succeed is the person who is going to be able to look at things in a positive manner first."-Peter Burwash

"Imagining events as if they already happened,in vivid detail,as you are falling asleep.A guaranted way to hack your reality."-Coody Wilcox

"You cannot be lonely if you like the person you are alone with."-Wayne Dyer

"Evolving involves eliminating."-Erykah badu

"Your visions will become clear only when you can look into your own heart.Who looks outside,dreams;who looks inside awakes."-C.G Jung

"Out of suffering have emerged the strongest of souls.The most beautiful characters are seared with scars."-Khalil Gibran

"If you truly love yourself,you could never hurt another."-Buddha

"Your consciousness is so powerful it rearranges subatomic particle."-Mel Cox

"I used to think I wanted to find peace.But I know now what i need is,to be peaceful."-Stacie Martin

"Life will give you whatever experiene is most helpful for the evolution of your consiousness."-Eckhart Tolle

"The soul always knows what to do to heal itself.The challenge is to silence the mind."-Caroline Muss

"You are not in the universe,you are the universe,an intrinsic part of it.Ultimately,you are not a person,but a focal point where the universe is becoming conscious of itself.What an amazing miracle."-Eckhart Tolle

"There is a voice that doesn't use words."-Rumi

"If you want to be a writer,you must do two things,read a lot and write a lot."-Stephen King

"Learning to ignore things is the greatest paths to inner peace."-Robert J Sawyer

"Do something everyday that you don't want to do;this is the golden rule for acquiring the habit of doing your duty without pain."-Mark Twain

"I can't go back to yesterday because I was a different person then."-Lewis Carroll

"Loneliness is dangerous.Its addicting.Once you see how peaceful it is,you don't wanna deal with people."-Hedonist Poet

"Trust gets you killed,love gets you hurt and being real gets you hated."-Johnny Cash

"Don't seek,don't search,don't ask,don't knock,don't demand-relax.If you relax,it comes.If you relax,it is there.If you relax,you start vibrating with it."-Osho

"How people treat you is there karma;how you react is yours."-Wayne Dyer

"Its only a wise man who can feel foolish.Fools never feel that they are foolish;they think they are wise.That is the definition of a foolish man;he thinks he is wise."-Osho

"You are not too difficult to love;You have just been giving your heart to those who love it too little."-Hannah Blux

"If you let cloudy water settle,it will become clear.If you let your upset mind settle,your course will also become clear."-Buddha

"I am so much more than you told me I am."-Arch Hades

"The 'you' who you think you are does not exist."-Alan Watts

"The day you stop racing,is the day you win the race."-Bob Marley

"Slow down,cool it,and move it are the three intentions that we can use to ameliorate the risk factors that our body type puts us into."-Deepak Chopra

"HAVE FAITH!The universe is,right now,aligning you with people,places,events and circumstances in ways that you would not believe."-Tristan May

"Everything you want is coming.Relax and let the universe pick the timing and the way.You just need to trust that what is coming,and watch how fast it comes."-Abraham Hicks

"Sometimes when you are in a dark place you think you have been buried,but you have actually been planted."-Christine Caine

"Its hard to turn the page when you know someone won't be in the next chapter,but the story must go on."-Thomas Wilder

"Remember that sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck."-Dalai Lama

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How To Master Your Emotions.

2019-12-05T21:51:00.002+05:30

Every explanation of emotions is the premise that they are a naturally occurring responses to a situation.Whether this response is the result of our own evaluation or an automatic one remains to be seen.

In psychology, the view of the nature of emotions can be divided into two camps.Emotions are either the result of a judgement of any current situation or a perception of changes taking place within our bodies. I.o.t,when we experience disgust,it could be the result of a judgement about how we feel when we see vomit.Under the other view,we experience disgust because our body undergoes physiological changes like queasiness and increased skin temperature at the sight of vomit.

Emotions may signal a change in our environment,a change within us or a change in both.

These signals are generally fleeting in comparison to other states of mind. A a result,emotions are distinct from moods,which can last for hours,days or even weeks.They are also distinct from personalities,the life long set of traits that comprise our individual,predictable reactions to situations.It would appear that the function of an emotion is to get our attention and demand a response.

As a person grows older,emotions develop from knee-jerk physiological reactions to predictable,conditioned responses.In this sense,the emotions of the individual are hijacked by the expectations of the society the individual lives in,making that person more suited to live peaceably in that society.

1.Acknowledge Your Emotions.

First thing to do is to acknowledge what you are experiencing.Are you sad?Do you feel disappointed?Are you angry?.Label your emotions.You have to keep in mind that anger sometimes masks emotions that feel vulnerable-like shame or embarrassment.So you have to pay the attention that whats going on inside you.
You have to give a name to your emotions like anxious,frustrated and impatient.

2.Change Your Perception.

The way we perceive events our emotions effects.For example,if you are feeling anxious and you get an email from the boss that says she wants to see you right away,you might assume you are going to get fired.If however,you are feeling happy when you get that same email,your first thought might be that you are going to be promoted or congratulated on a job well.

Consider the perception you are looking at the world through.You have to change you perspective to develop a more realistic view.
Sometimes,the easiest way to gain a different perspective is to take a step back and ask yourself,"what would i say to a friend who had this problem?"Answering that question will take some of the emotion out of the equation so you can think more rationally.
If you find yourself dwelling on negative things,you may need to change the channel in your brain.A quick physical activity,like going for a walk or cleaning off your desk,can help you stop ruminating.

3.Divine guidance will help you.

Faith is our saving grace in our darkest moments.No matter your creed, developing a healthy relationship with the divine world will help you surmount your obstacles more easily.
This is because when you believe in a higher force,you also believe in the power of divine intervention to show you what you must do,teach you why something is happening or even save you from a certain unwanted situation. When burdened with emotions,close your eyes,envision a positive solution to your problem,and ask the universe to illuminate the best path forward.

4.Change the way you respond

If all else fails,and you can't avoid,modify,shift your focus,or change your thoughts,and that emotion comes pouring out, in emotion regulation is to get control of your response.
Your heart may be beating out a steady drum roll of unpleasant sensations when you are made to be anxious or angry.Take deep breaths and perhaps close your eyes iot clam yourself down.
Similarly,if you can't stop laughing when everyone else seems serious or sad,gather your inner resources and force yourself at least to change your facial expression if not your mood.

5.Ask "What is the solution?"

Once you have discovered why,what can you do to take back control?Sometimes,you might need to change the way you are thinking about the situation.You see,your thoughts leads directly to your feeling,so if you are feeling bad,you most likely have a negative thought that is making you feel that way.If you start thinking of other possible ways of looking at the situations,you will begin to feel better immediately.What you focus on expands!
Sometimes,by simply understanding why you feel a certain way at a certain time,your emotions will start to diminish because understanding always leads to calming.

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Signs You're On The Right Path In Life

2019-12-04T14:56:00.004+05:30

SIGNS YOU ARE ON THE RIGHT PATH IN LIFE

What do you want to do in your life?What's your purpose in life?And there are a lot of questions we ask to ourselves,and they never get less scary.As humans,we desire security.Yet,at the same time,we feel a longing to create.
There are certain signs that signal you are moving in the right direction.It doesn't matter where the direction specifically leads,as long as you are trending forward and not backward.
So,chill out.Stop being neurotic.You have something going well for you.Focus on that what you are doing well in and don't beat yourself up.

1)Things start getting falling apart-

You will know when it is time for you to move on.Because after making conscious decision that you want more,that which does not serve you will fall away.Things start getting falling apart.You may find struggling to hold onto a job you hate or persuading a participant of a toxic relationship to give up another chance.Simply don't.
For "new" to be created you must let go of the "old".This is important step because it is the learning to trust the higher aspect of yourself so the life you do want to live can be realize. Seriously if you are experiencing this one then definitely you are on the right path without any type of doubt even though it doesn't feel like it.

2)Feel excited to wake up in the morning-

Every morning you feel excited that what the new day brings to you.Excited after woke up because you are looking forward to something.You like to spend part of your day learning something new.You will not show any interest in sleeping because you have so many great ideas running through your mind.You eagerly wait to tackle the day and do something that you are passionate about.

3)You start thinking less about the past and more about the future-

Most importantly what it means is to let the past ,and to move on.You simply now know very well that past has nothing to do with the future."Let sleeping dogs lie "is a statement few people hear anymore.If you have done this then you are on the right path.

4)Obstacles are not going to stop you-

Being on the right track doesn't means that everything will automatically and magically fall into place.When obstacles do arise you will often find yourself diving right in and coming up with creative solutions like how to overcome or work around them.

If you are on the right path ,obstacles that show up become nothing more than bumps in the road and the idea of giving up won't feel like the right option.

5)You are surrounding yourself with right people-

You surround yourself with like minded people who challenge you,care for you and people who can teach you,expand your world view,or simply bring you joy from an angle you hadn't experienced before.
Everyone has those colleagues who are constantly in turmoil or have serious drama,the ones who will never manage to elevate themselves.Far worse is that they can't help but try to bring you down right along with them.
If you want to become your best self I challenge you to review,rethink, and cull through you social media and real life "friends" and find the right people that will actually help you get there.

6)You feel physically exhausted but mentally satisfied-

Getting up early,Staying up late,trying new things,meeting new people,going from commitment to commitment.Even though you are a bit overwhelmed and overstimulated,you feel a deep sense of satisfaction with everything you are experiencing.

7)When little flame is burning inside you then you are on the right path-

That little flame inside you is burning so brightly you can feel it all the time-even if you are not making money.Your flame is what sustains you through challenging times.
Your mission carries you forward.
We all go through times when we are not on our paths.The trick to surviving those periods is to remember that you have a path,whether you are taking steps on it right now or not.Have the courage to create a vision for your life.When you do,you will find it's so much easier to take a step toward making that vision real!

8)Your dreams are often extremely vivid and intense-

You have a lot to process when you go to sleep each night,because so many changes(both good and bad) are happening in your life,all at once.And most people will tell you that's almost always better than stagnation.

9)Your way of thinking has changed-

You watch the way certain people react to certain situations and can't help but reflect on the fact that that's how the you from 3 years ago probably would have reacted.You are changing,your soul is changing.And although it's a weird feeling,it's probably a good one too.

10)People are noticing the changes you have made-

You are a mirror now.People who don't want to see their reflections don't like to be near mirror.When they see you,they see their couldas,shouldas,and wouldas in 1080 pixel H.D. Its unnerving,secretly inspiring,and unnerving to them at the same time.

When you are awake,you have two options-shrink or shine.You will be pressured to do the former but most of the real joy in life can only be found doing the latter.

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8 Pieces Of Wisdom That Can Change Your Life.

2019-12-03T17:41:00.000+05:30

8 PIECES OF WISDOM THAT CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE.

People reveal the most life changing piece of advice they've ever received.The Art of Worldly Wisdom is a collection of strategies for making ones way in the world.
"If we could see the miracle of a single flower clearly,our whole life would change"-Buddha

"The beginning of wisdom is the definition of terms'"-Socrates
The following 8 points are all lessons you can learn in your everyday life.

1.Words are powerful,use them wisely:

Your words can cut like a knife,heal like medicine,and motivate like nothing ever seen.So,choose them very carefully.

"Words are like eggs dropped from great heights;you can no more call them back than ignore the mess they leave when they fall."-Jodi Picoult

2.People come and go,but right ones stay:

This is true.Sometimes though the people who live your life do so because of your own actions,and its better for them to be without you then to keep you in their life.

3.You are doing enough even if it doesn't feel like it:

Do less with more focus.Take the pressure off.Stop the compare and despair.Being rather than doing.The art of appreciation

You can do anything but not everything.Remember that.May be we can have it all,but not all at once.Want babies?Then you are probably not going to have washboard abs(at least for a few months).Want to travel a lot for work?Perhaps you'll miss out of the odd social event.

4.Failure is when you don't try:

Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence.Talent will not:nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent.Genius will not;unrewarded genius is almost a proverb.Education will not:the world is full of educated derelicts.Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent-Calvin Coolidge

It is impossible to live without failing at something,unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all,in which case you have failed by default.-J.K Rowling

It's fine to celebrate success but it is more important to heed the lessons of failure.-Bill gates

Sometimes by losing a battle you find a new way to win the war.-Donald Trump

5.Random acts of kindness make everyone better:

No matter what time of the year it is,though,I believe that random acts of kindness can benefit everyone.Random acts of kindness can positively impact others and they are great for the soul too.

Whether the gesture is big or small,every act can go a long way.The smallest gesture can make someone's day and completely change how they are feeling!

6.Live for today,not for tomorrow:

Is there anything in your life you feel you would like to spend time with but you are putting off?Is there anything you would like to say to someone that scares you,but you would regret it if you didn't do it?Is there anything in your life you haven't done you would regret?

Take time to care for your body,your health,and to eat healthy food,get exercise,spend time outside,meditate,share your love and kindness with others.You may not get a chance to do the same tomorrow.

7.Never look back ,there is nothing there for you:

Nobody can teach us better lesson,than to march ahead in life.When we focus all our energy to move forward,we drop all our past ideas and beliefs,we have carried throughout our life.

When we look ahead,we create new thoughts for the future,& this way,our imagination expands,& we create something,that even,we have never imagined in our life.

When we look into the future,we allow the mysterious energy to work through us.Magic happens,when we surrender our selves to something higher,to work through us.

"Life really is generous to those who pursue their destiny"-(Paulo Coelho)

8.Overthinking kills happiness:

The real self is built from positive life experiences,healthy development events and characteristics we witnessed in our childhood.The anti self is shaped from our negative experiences,harmful events and attitudes we were exposed to early in life.

You cannot simply shut this negative voice completely.Its just human nature.Here are some tips to eliminate it-

a)Be aware when it happens.

b)Figure out the cause of such thoughts.

c)Write down those thoughts in a journal.

d)Practice Gratitude.

e)Don't wait for perfection.

Bonus tips-

a)Focus on solutions.

b)Have a can do it attitude vs can't.

c)Be confident.

d)Be Happy irrespective of circumstance.

e)Broaden your thinking.

f)Be authentic.

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Follow This Steps And You Will Definitely Get Success

2019-12-03T12:41:00.000+05:30

Follow This Steps And You Will Definitely Get Success

Follow this 11 steps to get success in your life
If you want to be successful,one of the best things you can do is emulate other successful people.While other successful person has his or her own unique approach,there are a lot of common patterns you can find when you read their books and watch interviews and lectures. Here are 10 things you can do to be successful

1.Focus

You should focus on productivity not being busy.Do not reward yourself for spending time working, reward yourself for getting work done.When you run your own business,you are paid for products and services,not for time.
And you should focus on minutes,not hours.Money can be lost and made again,but time spent can never be reclaimed.As legendary Olympic Gymnast Shannon Miller told Kelvin "To this day,I keep a schedule that is almost minute by minute.".You must master your minute to master your life.
Focus on one thing.Ultra productive people know what their"Most important task" is work on it for one to two hour each morning,without interruption.What task will have the biggest impact on reaching your goals?What accomplishment will get you promoted at work?That's what you should dedicate your mornings to everyday.

2.Set Goals

Goal setting is underrated.Most people do not take the time because they do not think it is a worthwhile endeavour. The value is that it helps align actions,Setting goals also get you thinking what you are really trying to accomplish and why.

Those who are able to set goals tend to be much more productive and focused in their efforts.This allows for a higher level of output,greater success and more impact.

Setting a S.M.A.R.T goals is a greater technique or achieving larger,more loosely defined goals.Think of each S.M.A.R.T goal as a rung on the ladder of overall success!.(Specific,Measurable,Attainable,Relevant,Timely)

3.Consider relationships

The best people are admired by those around them.This could be due to their high quality work,their personal interactions,or,likely,both.They remember names,their high quality work,their personal interactions,or,likely both.They remember names,they follow-up when they say they are going to,and they take little steps to create stronger relationships with those around them.Something as small as sending a text after a surgery or a congratulations after a new job offer can make a big difference.

4.Stay healthy

You can't make more minutes in a day,but you can increase your energy to increase your attention,focus and productivity.Highly successful people don't skip meals,sleep or breaks in the pursuit of more,more,more.Instead,they view food as fuel,sleep as recovery and breaks as opportunities to recharge iot get even more done.Moreover successful people who stay that way over the long term do not abuse their bodies.Even Barack Obama manages to find time to get up every morning and exercise before work,often for 90 min a day.

5.Embrace ambiguity

Ambiguity is difficult.When the path is not spelled out,it means that you have to make more challenging decisions.The top 1 percent of people love ambiguity.It gives them an opportunity to be creative and stand out from those around them.They do not mind making hard decisions because they know that doing so will lead to higher impact,and it is more rewarding.

6.Make most of the networks

The most successful people never try to go it alone if they do not have to,and they always look for opportunities to network and expand their circle of friends and business associates.

They realize that every conversation is an opportunity,and could hold the seed of potential for a new business relationship or venture.When they find themselves facing harsh times,they reach out to others for ideas.When others in their network struggle,they offer solutions.

7.Persistence

It is also very underrated.It is easy to workout one time or to send a few emails.It is also easy to take on an 80-hour week once.Pushing yourself consistently,though,is an extreme challenge.It is where 99% of people drop off.

It is easy to believe successful people reached that level through luck or raw talent.That is almost never the case,though.Persistent over time is an absolute must.

8.Consistently read

The brightest people are always learning.There is endless knowledge,and,iot continue to improve and learn more,reading is a necessity.Most people make excuses as to why they do not read very much.The best people do not allow themselves to make excuse,and instead prioritise personal learning. I've personally made it my goal to read a book a week.

9.Keep failure in perspective

You have probably met business people who take pride in having very little experience with failure-or so they claim.But those people are typically lying to your or not as successful as they seem.May be they just got lucky and built an empire on a stroke of fate or a large inheritance

In reality,success is typically built on a series of failures and lessons learned.Do not let your past failures weigh you down or make you feel like a failure.Successful people learn from failures everyday and recognise that so long as they do,they are still on the road to success.

10.Pursue your passions

The top people do not spend their lives living other people's dreams.They pursue their own passions.That gives them the energy to attack each day with all that they have.It also allows them to think more independently.After getting over the fact that you cannot please everyone and that you have to think for yourself,life becomes a lot better.

Spending time doing what you love enables the highest quality of work and it makes staying consistent significantly easier.

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Meditation Can Change Your Life

2019-12-02T15:44:00.001+05:30

MEDITATION CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE

Meditation is a mental exercise that evolves mental relaxation,focus and awareness.Meditation is an approach to training the mind,similar to the way that fitness is an approach to training the body.

"In Buddhist tradition,the word 'meditation' is equivalent to a words like 'sports'.In the U.S.It's a family of activities,not a single thing".
Meditation is a mental exercise that involves relaxation,focus, and awareness.The practice is usually done individually,in a still seated position,and with eyes closed.

What is meditation in terms of Psychology?In psychology,meditation is defined as "a family of mental training practices that are designed to familiarize the practitioner with specific types of mental processes".

Benefits of Meditation

(1)Meditation relieves overall stress.It can lighten the load of a busy day and relieve your physical and emotional stress through relaxation.

(2)It helps you look younger by getting rid of all that stress that can add wrinkles to your face and make you ill.You feel energised and rejuvenated,lightening your load and reducing feelings of sadness and despair.

(3)Meditation gives you added energy.Your concentrated breathing and relaxation improves your blood circulation,giving you more energy to be productive and do enjoyable things in life.

(4)Lowers your risk of cardiovascular diseases and improves your immune system.Through relaxation and breathing techniques,meditation can lower your heart rate and blood pressure,making you healthier.

(5)Meditation can improve your concentration level and clear your mind.When you've faced your demons and unnecessary thoughts,your mind is free to accommodate more important and pressing matters in your life.

(6)Awaken higher levels of your creativity and potential.By weeding out the negative toxins in your mind,you have more freedom to explore things that will bring you more development and improvement.

(7)Eliminate anger & fear.We often repress these emotions because they are sometimes too much to bear.When we openly accept then into our thoughts,we let them go and allow them to disappear.

(8)When you let go of fear and anger,when you are happy and improved,it immediately improves your relationship with others.

(9)It provides you with peace of mind and general happiness.

(10)You develop tolerance.When you are less tense,less stressed and happier ,you become more calm in dealing with tense situations.

Meditation Tips

Some general guidelines on the practice:

Posture-You can meditate seated on a cushion or on a chair.The essential thing about posture is that the spine is absolutely erect,from the lower back to the neck,and ideally not leaning on anything.
Time-The best time to meditate is first thing in the morning,so you don't skip it. and the impact on your day is stronger but any time that works for you is fine!
Place-A spot where you can sit uninterrupted.Ideally a place that is quiet,clean and tidy.iot create a better influence on the mind.
Length-You can start with as little as 5 minutes and increase 1 to 2 min per week,until you arrive 20 min sessions and beyond.

Six tips to make sure your practice is optimal:
Your body should not be exhausted.
Your mind should be awake.Not good when you are sleepy or tired.
Your belly should not be full.
Put your phone on air plane mode during practice.
Relax your body with deep breathing exercise before meditation.
If you are meditating at home,wear clothes that are comfortable and loose.
Improving your practice involves usually 3 things:

1.Optimal Attitude

2.Understanding-Know the mechanics of meditation.

3.Before & After-Integrate in your meditation practice the 7 key elements below summarized

Before meditation
Relax your body and breath,to calm and centre yourself.
Gladden the mind with gratitude or other positive feelings.
Have strong intention in your mind.

During meditation
Don't feel bad about getting distracted.
Find delight in the moments of concentration.

After meditation
Move out of meditation gently.
Take notes in your journal.

"The goal of meditation isn't to control your thoughts,its to stop letting them control you"

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7 Psychological Superpowers few People Have

2019-11-30T16:24:00.000+05:30

7 PSYCHOLOGICAL SUPERPOWERS FEW PEOPLE HAVE

Millions of people suffer from feelings of anxiety,depression,phobias,obsessions,addiction disorders or other psychological problems,but confronting and healing from what are labelled as "disorders" can give you a physiological superpower that others cannot begin to understand.

People who struggle with handling their psychological symptoms can harness as inner strength that is different from what normal people experience.

People who can successfully manage coping with bizarre thoughts and emotional stress while also functioning in jobs and families have superpowers that the rest of us cannot understand.

Unfortunately,the lens that people with anxiety or depression see the world through has a bias towards negativity.If they can turn off their negative filter,people with anxiety and depression can better use their psychological superpowers of perception for good,not evil.Lets have a look that what should you do to have this qualities:

1.Hide your smartness or intelligence-

If you are a smart person ,you might have the tendency to want to show it off.

You want to show it off because you want people let you know about your smartness,or how smart you are.

Showing people up in general means you lack an important type of intelligence-social intelligence

Its better to understate your intelligence than to overstate it.

2.Resist Group Think-

You tell yourself stories constantly and ones you repeat often become part of your personality.

The problem with this occurs when you're unable to even hold views that deviate from group list of stances.This is what you see in the political sphere right now-no one's budging.

If you are able to find your own world views-a legitimate one should contain elements of contradictory philosophies-you'll have the benefit of not being a crazy person participating in mud slinging contests.

Its actually very hard to form original world view because you have to form it by picking up established narratives.Just knowing how difficult it is to form untainted beliefs gives you the humility to second guess your own opinions.

At the end of the day most of what happens in your life can be seen and shaped through the lens of your individuality.No matter what group you belong to,the experiences ,memories and emotions you have are unique to you.And you can only genuinely look to yourself to reshape.

3.Stop caring what people think about you-

To feel accepted is a nearly universal human desire.After all ,we evolved to survive better in groups,where fitting in and having the trust and respect of our peers are the measure of success.

Wanting to be thought of positivity isn't a bad thing.We all need alittle awareness of how others view us to keep balanced and attuned to how we affect others.

We should create a new mindset ,keep things in perspective,question your thinking,let go of perfection,get to know yourself,find your tribe,allow yourself to be vulnerable,accept a helping hand,be your own friend.

4.Stop placing blame altogether-

If you don't own your mind ,someone else or circumstance will.Owing your reactions to what happens to you gives you a source of power no one can corrupt.

5.Stop ''waiting to talk''-

Most people do not listen ,they listen with the intent to reply.

If you let other people talk,listen to them and give up your need into the conversation right away,everyone will love you.People love to talk ,let them.

While they talk,listen.If you really listen,they'll give you all the information you want to know-their hopes,fears,desires,need,likes,dislikes.

Even if you barely talk repeat that they said back to them,ask them a question that makes them continue to talk,genuinely highlight when they bring something up you have in common.

6.Stop letting your desires pull you in every direction-

The only times I've ever succeeded and felt good were bi-products of doing the work i enjoyed doing.

Are you being controlled by the desire for the output or the need to put the input?

I have to remind myself constantly that i can be happy that what i have this second.And,even if my life gets better outwardly.I'll adjust to it quickly and begin running on the hampsterwheel all over again.Better to do the things I love right now and forget about the future.

7.Stop taking everything so seriously-

Focus on your career but don't make your career your life.

Be prudent ,save,budget ,but don't become a worry wart.

Spend time with your friends ,family without worrying much about anything beyond them.

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If you have this things you are actually so lucky

2019-11-29T21:10:00.001+05:30

🎕IF YOU HAVE THIS THINGS YOU ARE SO LUCKY🎕

Please Read Slowly

If you have FOOD in your fridge,

CLOTHES on your body,

a ROOF over your head,

and a place to SLEEP,

you are richer than 75% of the ENTIRE WORLD.

If you have MONEY in your wallet,

And can go anywhere you want,

You are among 18% of worlds most WEALTHY people.

If you ALIVE today and HEALTHY,

You are more blessed than the MILLIONS of people who will

not survive this week and DIE.

If you can actually READ and UNDERSTAND this message

You are more fortunate than the 3 BILLION people in the world.

Who are blind,deaf or illiterate.

"LIFE is not about complaining.

LIFE is all about thousands of other reasons to be grateful and happy."

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10 Ways To Become Mentally Stronger

2019-11-29T18:21:00.002+05:30

10 WAYS TO BECOME MENTALLY STRONGER

Are you feeling low?We all had bad days and sad days.So here are some of the best tips that you can use in order to feel better about yourself.Don't let other people's opinion affect you in any possible way.

We often think that the measure of physical strength is how much weight we can bear,how long we can run.Physical health is a measure of how efficiently the body ruins,How capable it is to effectively performing the day to day task.

Mental health is exact the same way.It is not a measure of how happy we seem ,how perfect things are but that we are able to move through day to day life.

Some of us make a new year resolution but most people give them up by mid January. People fails because they set big goals to change their lives without working on mental strength.

Here are 10 things you can start doing now to make yourself mentally stronger this year:

1.Take 15 minutes a day to self reflect:-
You look in a mirror most days and are as familiar with your appearance as almost any other site.

"The journey into self love and self acceptance must begin with self examination.Until you take the journey of self reflection,it is almost impossible to grow or learn in life."

2.Do atleast 1 tough thing everyday:-
a)Monitor your emotions throughout the day and recognize how your feelings influence your thoughts and behavior.
b)Practice self compassion.You have to forgive yourself for mistakes and cheer yourself as it works towards your goal.
c)Be realistically optimistic.
d)Set healthy boundaries
e)Accept responsibility

3.Give up one bad habit:-
All of the habits that you have right now good or bad are in our life for a reason.In some ways this behaviors provide a benefit to you,even they are bad for you in other ways.Bad habits provide some type of benefit to our life,its difficult to simply eliminate them.Instead replace bad habit with a new one.

4.Develop positive self talk:-
Have a purpose higher then self.Having a strong faith in higher power is helpful in having positive self talk.Cut overly negative people out of your life.Be grateful.Don't compare yourself to others.Use positive words with others.Believe in your success.Don't fear failure.Replace negative thoughts with positive ones.

5.Identify challenges and set goals:-
The majority of us tend to set goals on the basis of what we 'think' we want rather than what we really want.You can't achieve great things overnight,you simply cannot.Working towards any goal will seen tough at the beginning but some goals may be tough through out,we have to be persistent.Take baby steps towards your goal.

6.Identify your strength & weakness:-
For this you have to spend 30 min to create two columns.One of strength and second one is your weakness.After you've spent some time honestly assessing your strength and weakness,it's time to get input from those closet to you,a significant other,your mentor,close friends or family members.

7.Journal daily yourself:-
Record what you have gratitude for.Journal should be the context for your dreams,your favorite place.Its where the mental creation happens. Confidence become continually growing loop where ideas quickly becomes reality.

8.Write down 10 ideas everyday:-
This will build your idea muscle.Will have more ideas through out the day.Some of the ideas are really valuable.Gives you more clarity.Builds momentum to start a day.It reminds you that you are a idea machine!

9.Take care of your physical health:-
Drinking more water.Exercise regularly.Eat more fruits and veggie.Get a good night's sleep.

10.Create a healthy environment:-

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How To Come Out Of Depression?

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HOW TO COME OUT OF DEPRESSION?

Before we know how to come out of depression lets have a look that what is depression actually?!!Are we undergo depression?or may be our friends or our some of our family members are undergoing depression.

Well depression is the persistent feeling of sadness or loss of interest and lead to a range of behavioral and physical symptoms.It include changes in energy level ,sleep,appetite,daily behavior,concentration and self-esteem.Depression can also be associated with thoughts of suicide.Here are some symptoms of depression :

a)Irritable/Depressed mood everyday.

b)May face problems during sleeping(may be you sleep all day long or may be you may sleep too little)

c)Your interest gets change and you started feeling low motivation.

d)You started underestimating yourself.

e)Changes in appetite.

f)Significantly low energy/changes in self care.

g)Significantly worse concentration.

h)Severe anxiety/panic attacks.

i)Suicidal thoughts(includig self harm).

ok now you knew that what depression is actually not lets have a look that how we come out of depression?!

1.Change your way of perspective-You get stuck on seeing things one way that you miss any other possible view.Have fun with the scene in your mind as you change your perception.Keep it light.Allow yourself to sense how differently you would have felt or reacted had your beliefs about yourself and life been different.When you change your perception so does the experience.

2.Set Goals-Set a workable goal like something you can control,manageable,which is realistic for you, which are measurable.

3.Schedule activities or events which give pleasant feeling-For example ,give yourself permission for a 30 minute vacation or schedule a healthy hobby everyday.Do this activity with right attitude. Practice gratitude is one of the most important step to do-take time to notice what went well today,not just what went wrong.Being grateful for your blessings doesn't mean you have to discount your problems.

4.)Stay in the present moment-You may not be able to turn off the self judgement,but you can notice it and bring yourself gently back to the present.

5.)Exercise and eat healthy food-Moderate excercise about 4-5 minutes everyday can help you to change your mood in positive way.Including healthy diet is also very important .

6)Focus on people who lifts you up-It is important step you should follow.

7)Sleep regularly and try to keep sleep schedule-Try not to over sleep or little sleep.Staying up late one night and then sleeping in excessively the next day is a sure fire way to feed depression.Also dont try to solve problems late at night when your brain is half asleep.

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8 toxic people you should just get rid of

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8 TOXIC PEOPLE YOU SHOULD JUST GET RID OF

Hello.... welcome back to my blog.Here are some point you should notice about people and try not to avoid this things:

1.)Those who spread negativity-

Signs of -ve people you should stay away from are:

a)They always worry they survive on worry they follow a unhealthy diet.So just stay from these people.

b)They always try to tell you what to do

c)This people end up being so negative. Positive people develop an ability to evaluate and face up to problems.

d)They keep secrecy.

e)They are pessimists.

f)They cannot limit their exposure to bad news.

g)They have very thin skin.

h)They complain a lot.

i)They never move outside their comfort zone.

j)They love the word "but".

k)They are underachievers.

l)They never get excited about future projects.

m)They give their -ve energy to you.

n)They hardily recognize good things in life.

o)They always find a way to convert your good news to bad one.

2.)Those who criticize you all the time.
Those who criticize others are the ones who criticize themselves also.

3.)Those who waste your time.
They always ready to waste your time anytime anywhere.So people stay away from them.

4)Those who are jealous.
Jealous peoples you all know very well.I don't have to discuss about it so

5.)Those who play the victim.
They don't take responsibility.They blame others for their troubles.They are manipulative.They are emotionally draining.They are stuck in their life.They hold grudges.They have trouble being assertive.They will cut you out of their life.

6.)Those who don't care.
They always be busy.They don't care if talk to you carelessly

7.)Those who are self centered.
They are always on the defensive.They don't see the big picture.They are imposing.They feel insecure sometimes.They always think they are superior to others.They consider friendships a tool for getting what they want.They are extremely opinionated.They do not have long lasting relationships.

8)Those who keep disappointing you.

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Do you want your dream comes true and it becomes your reality start doing this Manifesting Methods:-

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MANIFESTING METHOD

What you need to do:

1.)Choose and Affirmation:

Affirmations are actually very powerful, But Why? Just Because by saying it, hearing or writing a powerful affirmation, you manifest it into your brain over and over again until you actually believe your affirmation.
Because your beliefs are like filters for your reality, whatever you think, you become.

There are special 3 ways to for affirmation to be successful:-

1.)+ve Affirmations are always in a present tense it means whatever you are going to affirm have to think that it is in present moment.

Example-I will,going to be etc.

2.)+ve affirmations should contain positive words only.(can't,wouldn't,couldn't etc are not positive words)

3.)+ve affirmations are actually based on statement of facts and truth

Every morning write down the affirmation you want to happen in your life.For Example:-"I am grateful to have received $1000 this week"

2.)Write out Your affirmation:-
On a peice of paper write your Affirmation 55 times a day for 5 days straight.

Yes you have to write it down on a paper may be it sounds silly but yup it is very effective

3.)Let it Go:-
Onceyou have completed the 5 days then let it go, the Universe do it's work.

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Life Lessons

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ALMOST DONE

Often Feel Rejected All The Time?

OFTEN FEEL REJECTED ALL THE TIME?! EVERY WINNER HAS SCARS

Try It Tonight! It Takes Only 5 minutes By Dan Candell

TRY IT TONIGHT! IT TAKES ONLY 5 MINUTES BY DAN CANDELL

How To Stop Negative Thinking

HOW TO STOP NEGATIVE THINKING

Want To Live The Life You Want? How You Can Achieve All Your Goals?

WANT TO LIVE THE LIFE YOU WANT? HOW YOU CAN ACHIEVE ALL YOUR GOALS?

In 5-minutes a day you can easily create the life you want.

Success and The Law Of Cause and Effect

SUCCESS AND THE LAW OF CAUSE AND EFFECT.

Success is achieved or lost, depending on how you see yourself. You have the ability to control your success simply by determining whether or not you are truly worthy of it.

How you feel about yourself is all that is standing in the way of your amazing results. Maybe you're saying, "Wow! That's it,? That's all I have to do – love myself? That's easy!" Not so fast.

You may think you love yourself. You may pump yourself up in the morning by looking in the mirror and saying, "Go get 'em." But what you think you believe and what you actually believe can be two totally different things. Look at your past and present results.

Are they astounding? Do you have everything you've ever dreamed of? Have you reached your full potential? Are you fulfilled and satisfied? Chances are the answer to most of those questions is no.

You said you weren't going to get the deal, you believed it was impossible and so you proved yourself right. Why did this happen? The law of cause and effect, that's why.

The CAUSE of the unsuccessful meeting was that you consciously thought the failure was going to be the outcome. Chances are you said it in your mind and out loud, too.

That repetitive negative self-talk sunk down into your subconscious and became a believer. Your mind now knows that failure will be the result of this meeting.

There is no room for success. Your conscious mind knew it, and your subconscious mind accepted it because of the repetitive self-talk, and now that failure is sent out through your body language and speaking voice into the Universe to ENSURE that you will fail.

You determined the results of the meeting before you walked into the room! That's the bad news.

The good news is that this cause and effect behavior can work just as easily with positive self-talk.

If you know you have a meeting in a few days, you can talk yourself into success by ACTING AS IF you already have the deal. It's just as easy as being negative, so why not create the positive results you want?

Every time you think of the meeting you can say, "I am so grateful that my meeting is going to be a phenomenal success for me. I am worthy of getting the deal and radiate success wherever I go."

You create the cause and the effect. You determine whether you succeed or fail. You write the ending to the story – be it happy or sad. Which ending do you want?"You are where you are because you want to be there. If you want to be somewhere else, you'll change."

Some Of The Best Motivational Books To Buy Right Now

1.The Power of Now

2.The Power of Your Subconscious Mind

3.Rich Dad Poor Dad

4. Think and Grow Rich.

5. The Secret

Motivational Story(Stephen King)

Hello good people. Today I am going to tell you about the power of yourself.

Many of you may already know his story. But those who don't know should read this till the end.

Stephen King is an American author. He wrote many books and novels based on horror, supernatural fiction, and suspense.

This is the perfect example of how one success can destroy thousands of failures. Many of the successful people in the world has faced many failures in their life.

And Stephen King is also one of them. He is a famous American author.When Stephen King was 2 years old his father left to buy a pack of cigarettes and never came back. He left the family.When he was a child, he apparently witnessed one of his friends being struck and killed by a train.

He earned 25 cents apiece from his mother. It was a way to encourage King to continue his writing.

Luckily the next day, his wife found the wrinkled pages in the trash and told him to keep writing. He was determined to quit. But his wife insisted. "You have got something here.

I really think you do." She was not wrong. Nine months later the book was done. He sent it out to a list of publishers, 30 publishers rejected it."We are not interested in science fiction which deals with negative utopias. They do not sell."

Shortly after that, he received a telegram from editor Bill Thompson, saying that Carrie had been accepted for publication and that he would receive a $2500 advance.

Our place on Sanford street rented for ninety dollars a month. And this man I'd only met once face to face. The face was telling me I'd just won the lottery.

The ability to believe in yourself can change your life.

Powerful Osho Quotes

POWERFUL OSHO QUOTES

"Friendship is the purest love.It is the highest form of Love where nothing is asked for,no condition,where one simply enjoys giving".

"You need either to create something or to discover something.Either bring your potential to actually or go inwards to find yourself,but do something with your freedom."

"Just look at life with more playful eyes.Don't be serious.Seriousness becomes like a blindness.Don't pretend to be a thinker,a philosopher.Just simply be a human being."

"Intelligence comes from meditation,intelligence comes from rebellion,intelligence does not come from memory."

"It is not a question of money,power,and prestige;it is a question of what intrinsically you want to do.Do it,irrespective of the results,and your boredom will disappear."

"Darkness is an absence of light.Ego is an absence of awareness."

"It is beautiful to be alone,it is also beautiful to be in love,to be with people.And they are complementary,not contradictory."

Struggling To Make The Right Choice?Here Is The Answer(By Gaur Gopal Das)

HERE'S WHAT TO DO IF YOU ARE STRUGGLING TO MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE

Hello everyone.Today I am going to share you the most important life phase we all have to face that situation or going through that type of situation in our lives.

At that point we are like don't understand which direction to choose ,what to do,where to go.Which choice is going to make our life better and all other type of question arise what we found in such type of situation.Here is the perfect answer given by Gaur Gopal Das.

He noticed a piece of paper attached to it.The handwritten message read."Use this water to start the pump.Don't forget to fill the bottle when you are done."

He was now in a dilemma to follow the instruction and pour the water into the pump or ignore it and just drink the water.What if you put the water into the pump and it didn't work.

Willing to bear the consequences that it brings.Many people don't decide because of fearful of the consequences and they continue to remain confused in their life.

Want To Bring Happiness In Your Life?10 Things To Quit Right Now

10 THINGS TO QUIT RIGHT NOW

1.Taking everything personally:

e)Self esteem is very important.The first important step is to be kind with everyone in you life.Try to keep the healthy perspective.

2.Holding on to the past:

3.Overthinking:

4.Sleeping in late:

5.Having a poor diet:

6.Fueling drama:

7.Complaining all the time:

8.Gossiping:

9.Not living in the moment:

10.Trying to please others:

Oprah Winfrey's Life Advice Will Change Your Life

OPRAH WINFREY'S LIFE ADVICE WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE

The social safety net needs saving.Misogyny needs to stop.And the truth is you can not fix everything but what you can do here and now is make a decision because life is about decisions and the decision is that you will use your life in service.

And that question of how do we serve the viewer transform the show and because we asked that question everyday from 1989 forward.

I did a good job of raising a lot of people I must say.And that happened of an intention to be of service.So I live in this space of radical love and gratitude.Truly I have I feel the most beautiful life that you can imagine.I sit around trying to think of who could have a better life.

Your own path made clear.And I know that there is a lot of anxiety a lot about what the future holds and how much money you are going to make.But your anxiety does not contribute one iota to your progress.

If you know you have a meeting in a few days, you can talk yourself into success by ACTING AS IF you already have the deal.
It's just as easy as being negative, so why not create the positive results you want?

You create the cause and the effect. You determine whether you succeed or fail. You write the ending to the story – be it happy or sad. Which ending do you want?

"You are where you are because you want to be there. If you want to be somewhere else, you'll change."

And Stephen King is also one of them. He is a famous American author.

When Stephen King was 2 years old his father left to buy a pack of cigarettes and never came back. He left the family.

When he was a child, he apparently witnessed one of his friends being struck and killed by a train.

I really think you do." She was not wrong. Nine months later the book was done. He sent it out to a list of publishers, 30 publishers rejected it.

"We are not interested in science fiction which deals with negative utopias. They do not sell."

And it was a job because every day I felt like I don't know if this is really what I'm supposed to be doing.
But my father was like you got to keep that job.So,when I was 28.

It wasn't working out for me on the news because I was too emotional.I'd go to cover stories and cry because people lost their houses or lost their children.I was told that I was going to be taken off the evening news and put on a talk show.
That was a demotion for me at the time.