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why my husband cant stay hard

2012-02-11T23:34:00.005+08:00

Are you facing sexual problem with regard to your husband who cannot stay hard long enough to satisfy you? Don't worry, we are here to help you. The most common sexual issues among men is their inability to stay hard long enough. They can have a normal erection but they just stay hard for a short moment after some penetration.

The men will easily gushing out with sperm and climax easily before their wife could even feel the "workmanship" of their husband. They cannot try varieties of position because the time of staying hard is too short. Scientifically this phenomena is called premature ejaculation, that is premature arrival of climax that makes the man cant stay hard anymore after that.

So why my husband can't stay hard?

He might got several issues that affect his sexual performance. But basically this problem could be solved and treated properly. Varieties of drug and sexual enhancement products are sold on internet and in the street. What you should know is where to get the actual deal, not some sort of cheap gimmick from salesperson who only want to push his product to you. There are real product that deal with this issue and there are also fake solutions.

Again, why my husband can't stay hard?

There are several possible answers for this. This are some common suspects:

Your husband might have a super sensitive sexual organ that cannot withstand rough penetration.
You husband have certain health issues.
Your husband is overwork and always in the state of fatigue.
Your husband have done excessive activity of masturbation during his teen years before marriage.
Your husband is not fit enough because lack of exercise, experience and nutritional care to make the best of internal sexual prowess.
Your husband don't have a clue about the art of staying hard in bed.
Your husband is too selfish to only thinking about his own satisfaction without consideration to his partner (you).
Your husband keep the problem to himself because of ego or shyness.

So depending on the case, you and your husband must make certain actions and a "two way communication" on how best to handle this issue before it goes out of control, making your relationship turns sour.

For a suggestion, I would say your husband should apply anti sensitivity cream called Brutal 31 lotion. Brutal31 can make his sexual organ more robust and sturdy. In fact Brutal 31 will makes your husband to stay hard longer way beyond woman time to achieve orgasm.

For pills, you can take Priligy Dapoxetine before going to have sexual relationship. The pill is already approved in some European countries and in phase 3 of US FDA authority approval. If you don't want your husband to take drug, you ask your husband to have a stronger pelvic floor muscle so that he can have more control over his climax.

Certain exercise is really effective to make man stay hard longer. One of it is called Kegel exercise. Kegel exercise is an exercise to make pelvic floor muscle to be stronger and the erection more solid and harder. It makes the sexual organ to be stronger and stay hard longer. Ask you husband to learn and do Kegel exercise to have a wonderful and meaningful sexual session.

See a professional doctors if your problem still persist. Good luck.

How to get pregnant

2012-01-31T18:55:00.008+08:00

Getting pregnant is more than knowing how to make love properly or getting the right timing to do it. If you are reading this article, chances are rather high that you belong to the poor group of women who are rather difficult to get pregnant.

First of all, do not worry and don't feel sad. Keep on trying and keep on praying to God. Here I want to share some of the possible reasons for why it is difficult to get pregnant. Continue reading carefully.

I want to share some tips to get higher chances of pregnancy based on a study conducted by the Eunice Kennedy Shriver from the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development. Her studies involving a total of 270 couples aged 18 to 40 years. The main purpose of this study was performed is to detect the extent to which factors affect the ability of each spouse to become pregnant.

One of the way they use is based on the study of saliva as an indicator to detect the level of fertility of each pair being tested. Results from those studies have found that difficult group to conceive are couples who have high level of alpha-amylase enzyme levels in saliva. For your information, the presence of alpha-amylase enzyme is a clear indication which describes you are in a state of tension or stress.

So through this study we get a certain lesson to us that the stress or the stress factors will cause us some difficulty in getting pregnant. It's easy, right? To facilitate and make it easy to get pregnant you firstly should avoid yourself from getting stress either at work or from domestic job. Go out with your pair to beautiful and calm places. Places that could give you calmness and happiness. The example is like beautiful island, beach, or countryside. So going honeymoon is indeed good thing.

The second factor why it is difficult to conceive is a little bit interesting. I mean the factor that affects pregnancy chances are white vaginal discharge. For your information, they are white odorless liquid that is out of sorts that come out of the woman genital tract. If you want to learn more this white vaginal discharge, you can just go to Google and you will see a lot of useful articles. Learn about the disease so that you can better understand whiteness.

How this white vaginal discharge can lead to infertility? The study said this those whiteness is caused by bacteria that infect the vagina. These bacteria then spreads to the uterus and then on the fallopian tube. At this point the risk of difficulties in pregnancy is high. According to the American Journal Of Obstetric & Gynecology, they reported that almost 85% of women suffering from vaginal discharge are in the U.S alone suffer some sort of white vaginal discharge. I'm quite sure these figure also would equal the percentage of women in Malaysia who are suffering from vaginal discharge.

Do you belong to the women with white vaginal discharge if so, consult a doctor immediately! If not, there may be other causes that cause you to be difficult in getting pregnant and ultimately conceiving a baby of your own.

My advice for husband if you want to make your wife pregnant is to treat her with respect, love and compassion. We human can plan, but God is the better planner.

President Obama Sings Al Green Let's Stay Together

2012-01-21T22:00:00.001+08:00

Mr President Barack Obama, showing to the world that he can sing a good song. Nice. Sweet.

Botched beauty treatment | Broadcast.my

2012-01-15T12:23:00.004+08:00

The story of an already beautiful woman seeking to get a better figure but end up being cheated and left with silicone in her part. Moral: Get beauty treatment from a reputable and established centre or just use simple and trusted techniques.
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Home based business

2012-01-04T12:27:00.028+08:00

Are you looking for a home based business? You are not alone. In fact you are on the right track. Please let me elaborate this for you.

Quite a lot of people, I believe was looking for a home based business. A home based business gives us flexibility, freedom, time saving, cost saving, and most important things of all perhaps is peace of mind. You could run a business, earn money, make a living without annoying boss hissing like the real snake. At the mean time, you could raise your child in front of your eyes.

But finding a serious home based business is not easy. That's why many people still prefer to face their hissing boss no matter what. With home base business, you want to run a decent business that could give you a serious money, not just money that can buy you a coffee in some posh places, but money for a living. Yes, just like the real office job where you clock in and clock out faithfully every single non holiday. So you must find a business model that is for real that creates real money, not dream.

For a serious home based business, you must find a company that is doing the right thing and selling the real deal. One of the good business model that I should suggest to you is BIO-ASLI. I must admit that the name does not ring the bell for you. You might ask BIO what? Yes they are called BIO-ASLI, a great internet business company from Malaysia.

BIO-ASLI sell thing on Internet. They sell hot product that is difficult to find on real store. Product that people like me and you would buy. When you sell for them, you got commission. That's all. But wait, their commission is good, really good if you could sell and recruit people under you. You are given a duplicated website. You sell and you recruit new member to do the same. Do the job and you shall be well paid. Just do your job promoting the company using internet power from your home.

You don't have to create product, package product, post product, or quality inspect product. You find customer. That's all. People, please listen, this is the real honest deal. No hidden trick whatsoever. You sell and you recruit new member, the more member you got under you, the higher the commission. This is the honest, pure and direct business. The best thing is that you can do it from the comfort of your very own place. This is a serious home based business.

You should give BIO-ASLI a chance, you got nothing to loose. In fact joining them is free of charge. So why not? This is not a trick at all, just a real home based business deal. If you got computer and internet, that is your starting capital for a great home based business.

Brad Pitt sold his Malibu estate for 12 millions

2011-12-26T12:58:00.003+08:00

This heaven on earth Malibu beach mansion owned by Brad Pitt has been sold to Ellen DeGeneres for 12 millions. Pitt bought it just 5 five years ago at 4.8 millions. Market price put it at 46 millions. The moral: invest in real estate if you want to be rich.

Read the full story HERE.

Micheal Douglas's son got almost 10 years jail

2011-12-26T12:47:00.003+08:00

Cameron Douglas, son of Micheal Douglas, get 9 and a half years in jail for selling drug. He confessed that "I cannot seem to find comfort within my own skin"

Even the judge for the case himself was intrigued by the 33 years old self destructive behaviour.

Read the full story HERE

This is very saddening. A classic case of money cannot buy happiness.

Robert De Niro a father again at 68

2011-12-26T12:36:00.001+08:00

Robert De Niro a father again at 68

Can you believe that? That is true man. Congratulation to one of the best Hollywood movie icon, Robert de Niro. The real sharp shooter.

How to avoid premature ejaculation

2011-12-26T10:27:00.015+08:00

Most men, I believe would like to know how to avoid premature ejaculation. How long could you last on average during intercourse? Ten minutes? Five? or perhaps two minutes? Do you know what is the effect of premature ejaculation?

After a man ejaculates, he just cannot stay hard any more, his woman keeps wanting more! How could he let this happen? Men must avoid premature ejaculation at all cost!

Do you want to stay hard like a legend? Do you want more respect from woman when it come about sexual relationship? The answer is here.

Premature ejaculation (PE) is sadly, a common symptom among men. It happen when a man ejaculates or achieves climax too fast or too early (perhaps just about one or two minutes) before he could achieve a satisfactory climax in a sexual relationship. PE is a thing to avoid because it makes a sexual relationship too brief, too fast, and to certain extend, shameful for man. It also makes a woman feel frustrated, unappreciated, and to certain extend, being fooled at.

In a certain way, PE actually could damage a relationship. Hence, PE is a serious phenomena that should not be taken lightly or worse, ignored completely. Instead, it should be treated with well proved methods. Seeking a professional advice and treatment from experts in this field is not a bad or shameful move.

Here are some tips on how to avoid premature ejaculation.

Take your time and do it gently. Have a relaxed mind and well slept or relaxed body. Sexual activity is a combination of mind, physical and emotional experience. So take it easy and do it slowly and gently. Do lots and lots of foreplay. Enjoy every step of it gradually and don't bother too much about achieving climax. Have a positive mind and focus on trying to make your woman happy instead of your own lustful craving. Tell your mind that you want to have a great sex. Believe me; your body shall react accordingly if you try it hard enough.

One of the best tricks here is to try to make your woman as excited or as “hot” as possible. Use all your ability to make her really, really “wet” first, before you enter her. If possible, make her pleads for your “weapon”. With this situation, you will become less tense and could concentrate with the real “game”. If you ejaculate too fast because of sensitivity issue, using condom might help you to avoid early ejaculation.

Certain sexual positions can make you to be more aroused and excited, hence an early ejaculation. Try to control the situation and choose a suitable position which doesn't make you too intense. Don't rush the game to a higher level too fast. The position of woman on top for instance, will leave you with little control. With blatant view of woman sexual organ, it will only make you to climax faster. In short, take control of your game and you shall master it. Think positive and do not worry too much.

Physically, if you do it roughly, you will ejaculate sooner rather than later. That's all. But some men do have a more sensitive reaction that makes them ejaculate faster. The option they have in this situation is either to use condom or anti sensitivity oil, or both to make the friction less intense. However, if you cannot tolerate both solutions, your other option is to have some control game. Try to recognize the moment you are about to ejaculate and stop the stroke just before it happen! That's all. This is called start and stop technique. With a little bit of practice and experience, this technique should be easily mastered by anyone.

Actually, premature ejaculation could be a sign of some sort of unwell state of your physical body. You see, sex is one of the greatest gifts from god to human. The desire and ability to have a great sex should be a natural thing. But if you do not appreciate this gift by doing something foolish, you only have yourself to be blamed. If you smoke heavily or drink excessively, your body wellness will deteriorate faster. That's not good for your sex life.

You should keep yourself fit by eating healthily and exercise regularly. When your body is in a great shape, your sex life should not be in a problem at all. You see, there are various types of exercise and breathing techniques that could enhance your sexual ability such as Kegel exercise, Yoga, Tai-Chi and many more. Do take the initiative to learn some of them. You may reap the benefit wider than just for sexual purpose only.

Kegel exercise is said to help not only for premature ejaculation but can make your hardness to be stronger and the erection solid. Kegel exercise is good for sex because it strengthen pelvic region and make pubococcygeus muscle to gain more power and control. Take you time to learn Kegel exercise and you can avoid premature ejaculation with permanent result without drug assist. It boost blood circulation and also make your size greater.

We live in modern times, so there are lots of sexual products out there, all claiming furiously to be able to pull in the muscle and give you a potent sexual prowess. Some might be good and effective, but some could be dangerous and some might use unlawful substances. That famous Viagra for instance, is so popular among men finding way to avoid PE. Viagra is an approved drug by FDA used to treat erectile dysfunction. But still, you must use it with cautious and approval from doctor. A wrong dose could spell trouble or worse, fatal consequence.

There is also a long list of traditional medicine, a variety of herbs and many food supplements that could make you a man of substance. Eat celery if you want to have more volume of ejaculation. Eat pineapple a lot for internal power. Take herbs such as Tongkat Ali for more hardness. If you ever need to use supplement to enhance your power, choose wisely and get professional advice from your doctor first if you are not sure.

If you want modern answer, there is one. One of the pill that is gaining popularity right now to treat premature ejaculation is called Priligy Dapoxetine, produced by Janssen-Cilag, a subsidiary of Johnson and Johnson. Priligy is at level 3 of approval status from FDA. That's mean, it need a further verification. But in some European countries, Priligy is already approved to be sold to the public. If you do not want to use pill, you could use anti sensitivity oil. One of the most effective oil to reduce sensitivity and to avoid premature ejaculation is called Brutal 31 oil.

With the right ingredients, you could easily avoid premature ejaculation and enjoy your sexual relationship with more satisfaction and longer period.

What to expect come 2012?

2011-12-25T19:10:00.007+08:00

Time flies. That's life. Anyway, Happy holiday guys. Today is Christmas day in Malaysia. Merry Christmas to our Christian friends. The end for 2011 is imminent. And 2012 will come in the next few days. What are you expecting from 2012?

For European, they are facing a tough economic condition. For Barack Obama he will busy defending his Presidency. For Malaysian, they are expecting a general election in 2012. A verdict for a certain Anwar Ibrahim shall come on Jan 9. For Kelantanese, they shall see a new Mentri Besar of Kelantan after a record 22 years of service as Mentri Besar Tok Guru Nik Aziz from 22 October 1990. For me and you? I expecting to close all my debts account and live a free live in 2012. A new car perhaps? I will be in new department in my work place though. New challenge.

In 2012 I shall be 34. What about you? A lot of things happened in 2011. What are those things that you still remember? The sad thing for many Libyan is for sure the brutal war that cost many lives of innocent people. The demise of Muammar Gaddafi in such a brutal end. The fall of Seif Al-Islam the doting son of Gaddafi is very touching indeed. Had NATO did not intervene I believe Gaddafi will still rules Tripoli.

2012 shall be another tough year ahead. We shall see price increase, uncertain future, and more graduates without jobs perhaps? Forgive me for giving such a bleak hope. After all, if you made a little plan, our journey into unknown will be with a little armour. Money is still important issue. Malaysia is gaining notoriety as transit point for many illegals activity from smuggling and drugs to prostitutes. While this happens the politicians of Malaysia still busy collecting and amassing money whether they are from government or opposition. And we ordinary people continue our fight in Facebook.

Oh by the way, my target for 2011 was already achieved. That was to get minimum 10k visitors per month to my blog. So congratulation to brutal31. Yahoo. Hope you too achieve your target. Cheers!! Good Bye 2011. Sad.

Daulat KDYMM Tuanku Abdul Halim, The King of Malaysia.

Happy New Year 2012.

The fate of Anwar Ibrahim on 9 January 2012

2011-12-17T18:17:00.002+08:00

Come January 9 year 2012 Malaysian shall know the fate of current Opposition Leader. Never before in Malaysia an opposition leader garners so much support like Anwar did. His PKR party captured Selangor in 2008 General election, the most advanced state in Malaysia. The consequence? Malaysian government seems so willing to do all they can to retake Selangor back.

I remember those days when opposition leader was Lim Kit Siang. In those days, an opposition leader is really like a bad guy from a film, really. They paint a picture like that on media. I was a kid back then without a clue about politic. Just a mere mention of the name Lim Kit Siang produces fears. I don't know why. As if Lim sole purpose in life is to destroy Malaysia, nothing less.

But now Lim produced a Lim Guan Eng the chief Minister of Penang. Another state in Malaysia captured by opposition party. All in all, 4 states are now under opposition. Kelantan and Kedah under PAS. Selangor with PKR. Penang with DAP. Even Perak is under opposition initially but a power play there see a new BN government now took power.

So what will happen on Jan 9? The Malaysian court shall gives a verdict whether Anwar is guilty or not of sodomizing his former assistant Saiful Bukhari. The outcome of the verdict is so important to Malaysian politic that I believe even the whole world of journalism is waiting with a bated breath on the outcome of the verdict.

As a simple Malaysian citizen, I am waiting with nervous, just like Anwar himself. What is your verdict?

What happened?

2011-12-15T19:59:00.007+08:00

What happened to this beautiful world?

The world where peace reign, love blossom and economic prosper...
Where has gone honesty, sincerity and humility?
Just open a newspaper and see for yourself, there are thousands of question without answer.
Why people fight everywhere?

Why European region is deep in debt?

Why UK jobless rate is at 17 years high?

Why Thomas Cook sales drop?

Why Olympus cheats about account report?

Why Chelsea buy Fernando Torres in the first place?

Why people are so greedy if there are enough for everyone?

Why Anwar Ibrahim need to rape Saiful?

Why Saiful is so adamant with his claim?

Why Malaysian politic is so confusing?

Why Malaysian government give RM500 but keep taxing people? They can abolish toll for a simpler way to give money to everyone.

Why you are here in my blog? Why oh why?
Why Sime Darby could employ a dishonest guy as director?
I just should watch Rebecca Black.

OMBAK RINDU the movie, a review

2011-12-08T13:55:00.015+08:00

I initially a bit sceptical when I go out to get movie ticket of Ombak Rindu. But my wife that had read the novel version give a look of so really want to see that movie. So I buy it solely because of her. Well, it turn out that I did not make any mistake at all.

All the casts are wonderful. Aaron as Harris with his usual macho attitude but this time falls for a simple village girl who show him what it is to have a strong faith. Maya Karin as Izzah makes a lot of tear drops. Lisa Surihani as Milla is a bit over but she still rocks with solid acting. Bront Palarea as Mail the counter image of Aaron. What could happen when they met? There is Julie Ziegler who creates tense. Heck, even Zaidi Omar is convincing as Pak Dollah.

Thumbs up for Ombak Rindu! I would dare to say that Ombak Rindu is one of the best Malay films so far. In fact it could be the Malaysian version of Titanic. Great love story. Great actors. Worth my money. A lot of people cried in the cinema.

There's a few funny moments, but throughout the screening, all people mostly keep quite, rather choke with emotion. Thumbs up for Ombak Rindu. If you want to make your wife cry (me also cry a lot), go take her to see Ombak Rindu, guaranteed to make everybody cry!

This is a glimpse of Ombak Rindu the great movie. Enjoy!

4 millions in 4 days? No sweat baby.

A new target for Brutal 31.

2011-12-03T19:56:00.004+08:00

When I start this blog way back at 2008, I started it sceptically. You could read my first posting titled "Life as a blogger is miserable".

But as you could see yourself, this blog has now reached a 8000 visits per month. Even me myself is in a state of rather disbelief. So now, my new target for 2012 is to get a decent 10 000 visits per month. Can I achieve that?

To achieve this feat, I would like to get help from YOU. That's right. I need help from you the dearest readers of Brutal31.net.

Could you please help me spread the words? Just click the like button above this posting or tweet button below this posting and you have done me a tremendous good, really. That's all I ask. Is that too much? Or must I plead or beg like before?

Thanks. With Love.

Buy Viagra online

2011-11-11T23:45:00.009+08:00

So you want to buy Viagra online? There's lot of on line pharmacy company out there supplying and selling Viagra. Choosing the one that suit you could be time consuming. You do not want to buy fake Viagra. So let me guide you.

What is Viagra? Viagra is the brand name for a type of drug called sildenafil citrate. It is used to treat erectile dysfunction among men.

Viagra is one of the most well known approved drug by FDA to help men overcome low sexual performance and related issues such as premature ejaculation and impotence. Viagra is approved by FDA as an oral supplement for men with impotence issue and related sexual problems such as premature ejaculation or low level of erection. Viagra is one of the most sought after drug on line.

Viagra has helped millions of men all over the world to experience a better sex life. Viagra is proven effective to combat premature ejaculation and impotence. Viagra is NOT a dangerous substance if you take it according to the right amount without overdose and by applying some precaution such as you CANNOT take Viagra if you have heart disease.

Buying Viagra online is now an easier option for many people. If you intend to buy Viagra on line, you should buy from reputable company such as euroclinix.net or other established companies. Do not buy a fake Viagra out there.

Buying Viagra on line offer you with the comfort of privacy and made the buying process less energy consuming. You don't need to drive your car to the nearest pharmacy, find a parking space and ultimately ask the salesperson to get you the Viagra pills you need.

With the advancement of internet technology and payment system such as Pay Pal, buying on line is now the much wiser option for many people.

So if you are really want to buy Viagra on line, this is one of the place that I highly recommend.

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Life is too short. If you have an erectile problem, sort it out with the real solution so that you don't have to look back with regret.

When you buy Viagra on line, make sure you buy the real Viagra. The thing that you must check when buying Viagra on line are:

1. Make sure the website regulates a valid prescription. Take note that it is illegal to sell Viagra without a prescription from a qualified healthcare professional.

2. The real Viagra comes in 3 doses which are 25mg, 50mg, and 100mg. It comes in tablet. If you see any other form of Viagra such as "fast dissolving","extra strength", or "soft-tab", they are fake.

Other things to look when you want to buy Viagra on line is to make sure you do NOT take Viagra IF you take nitrates, often prescribed for chest pain. If you ignore this you may meet a sudden and unsafe drop in blood pressure which is real dangerous.

If you still have some common question related with Viagra, you could go to www.viagra.com

Pill to treat premature ejaculation (early climax)

2011-10-08T14:47:00.031+08:00

Is there a pill potent enough to cure premature ejaculation?

Is there an approved pill for premature ejaculation?

Can premature ejaculation be cured by pill?

Why my husband cannot stay hard long enough?

Why I cannot have a longer sexual intercourse?

Why I cannot stay hard longer?

Why I am so easy to get climax? Is there a pill to solve my problem? The answer is YES.

One of the main and most common sexual health issue for men is premature ejaculation or early climax. No, premature ejaculation is not impotence, they can get hard, but they can't stay hard long enough to satisfy both party. So please, please do not mention Viagra here. With premature ejaculation, men can have normal erection and normal sex just like normal people but only cannot enjoy it long enough because of premature ejaculation.

How to treat premature ejaculation with pill? There are pills out there for premature ejaculation. But first, the best advice that I could give you here is to go seek a professional treatment from doctor first. There is nothing to be ashamed for men with premature ejaculation. It is a common sexual disease among men. You don't have to suffer in silence.

Actually, treating and finding a solution in term of pill for premature ejaculation is currently not that hard since science has long progressed and we have at our disposal a lot of knowledge and know how to create synthetic hormone or drug to combat our illness.

For man with premature ejaculation, they now could take a specially designed pill to treat premature ejaculation. This pill is called Priligy. Priligy is famous and already consumed in some major European countries.

For more information about Priligy, you could visit www.eoroclinix.net

There are a lot of reasons why premature ejaculation happen. There are physical and also physiological causes.

Ejaculation is a reflex action that is regulated by the brain and nervous system. Just like a sneeze, once triggered, it cannot be easily stopped. They can feel the impending ejaculation but they can’t do anything to stop it.

Ejaculation is triggered by a combination of mental and physical sexual stimulation. In the case of premature ejaculation, what is happening is simply that the mechanism of ejaculation happens much more quickly and with less power of control.

The exact reason for this is not yet fully understood. However doctors do understand that premature ejaculation could be caused by physical problems associated with the serotonin signals in the brain that control ejaculation. Scientists also have discovered that variations of genetic ability of controlling serotonin signaling could be factored in when dealing with premature ejaculation.

Certain diseases also could make you to get premature ejaculation, but one that we could control is to stop or at least minimize masturbation. Masturbation makes our body to focus on the wrong thing, that is to achieve climax fast, nothing less. Your Mr P also will get use to dry environment (your hand) whereas when in actual intercourse, the Ms V is in wet condition, so is the Mr P will be in.

When masturbation is done in an excessive occurrence, our body tend to react with early ejaculation when having the actual sexual intercourse. It is called conditioning, where you become too familiar with early ejaculation because of excessive frequency of masturbation you have done.

So one of the good advice you could get here is to stop or at least to minimize the habit of masturbation. It has nothing to contribute other than a bit of brief pleasure and a long lasting guilty feeling.

Other facts about premature ejaculation that you should know:

1. Women need at least 12 to 14 minutes to achieve climax, but men who masturbate excessively only could last around 2 to three minutes after penetrating the vagina.

2. Frequent exercise is not only good for your physical body, but mind as well. You tend to have a positive outlook to life. That aside, exercise can help to increase hormone levels in human body. It also gives you more control over healthy sex activity. One of the best known and well documented exercise that can give you sexual prowess is Kegel exercise.

3. Eating herbs and dairy is good for your body and sex life as well. The likes of Gingko Biloba, Zinc, Cordyceps, pure natural honey and other good food (not to mention the famous Tongkat Ali herb) should be taken regularly so that you could have a better sexual performance.

4. Priligy pill -Priligy is an oral prescription medication which was proven to be effective to combat premature ejaculation. Priligy is a brand name for a type of drug called dapoxetine. How it work? According to euroclinix.net, dapoxetine effectiveness is due to it being a short acting Selective Serotinin Reuptake Inhibitor (SSRI). Below is more facts about Priligy Dapoxetine.

This is the chemical structure of Dapoxetine.

Dapoxetine controls the process of ejaculation by inhibiting the neutral re-uptake of serotonin in the brain. Serotonin sends signals throughout the brain, connecting the gap between cells and sending impulses from one to the other. Here Dapoxetine slows down this process and reducing the speed of impulses which potentially cause you to ejaculate too quickly. With this, it has a positive contribution on your ability to control your ejaculation.

Priligy is grouped in the same class as most antidepressants. The prime difference is just that Priligy is short acting SSRI, while antidepressants are long acting SSRI. This unique trait allows this medicine to tackle on the areas that impact the ejaculation process without it affecting your mood. Also because of it is short acting property, it does not share any of the same side effects as antidepressants either. In fact, it could enhances the sexual functioning overall. Priligy has also tend to be very well tolerated in tests so far, with only nausea is reported as the predominant side effect exhibited by users. But still, consulting the professional doctor on these matters is always the good step to take.

Take note: Priligy (depoxetine) can't cure premature ejaculation permanently but can help provide a short term solution when you need it most.

Priligy is produced by Janssen-Cilag, a subsidiary of the Johnson & Johnson pharmaceutical company.

Approval status: Priligy has been approved by many countries across Europe, including Germany, Austria, Sweden and Findland. Yet it has not been fully approved in the UK, but some UK on line pharmacies have been given green light from the UK licensing authorities to import this prescription from Germany and sell it in the UK. In United States, Priligry is currently in Phase III of the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) approval process.

Interesting fact: In December 2003, Eli Lilly sold the patent right and future royalties of Priligy to Johnson & Johnson for a whopping $60 million.

Do you have anything to share or you yourself have tried Priligy? Feel free to give comments.

Cheers.

Other related article about Prilgy could be found here

The best couple of all time

2011-05-30T22:48:00.007+08:00

There are lots of lovely couple out there. You also must have your own spouse. Perhaps you and your partner are the best couple. Perhaps me and my wife, why not? Each of us is so unique and special.

There are royal couple, famous artistes, politician and many more celebrities. They are pretty, young and rich. Life must be good for them. I must admit that I sometime got very jealous with them all. But that's life.

So who are the best couple among them? The real answer is rather hard and subjective. But this answer is my own. So you have every right to disagree with me.

Now the answer. Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie is one of the best couple of all time. Together, they are nicknamed Brangelina by media. I don't know what really special with Angelina except that she is really fair skinned and thin with that marvelous lip.

Up until now I still could not believe that Angelina could make Brad Pitt to be so tame and loyal to her. Poor Brad?

Angelina is one great woman and Brad himself is such a great guy. It's really hard to believe that they actually can stay together as a couple.

Whatever it is, they are the best couple in this world!

What is the car you drive?

2011-02-16T21:41:00.013+08:00

Have you ever imagined driving one of those Lamborghini cars? Lamborghini is one of my dream car. What is the car you drive currently and what is your dream car? Do you drive the car that you dream. If yes, you are really lucky. If no, then I feel sorry for you, but you just keep dreaming on and on. Come on guys. Dream hard enough, strive hard enough, and one day you shall drive that dream car of yours.

I have many dream cars. I love Honda, Toyota Prius, and perhaps a certain Impreza. But this is the one that worth special mention above all. It is a Lamborghini...from Italy (but manufactured in Germany). A mean car. A really, really expensive car. Very beautiful and very ugly at the same time. All I could say is, what a fine car, how I wish I could drive it.

Lamborghini cars are made for dream. Sultans or filthy rich person can drive this ugly machine. Now this is the latest model from Lamborghini..

Officially called Lamborghini Aventador LP700-4. Aventador is named after a bull that entered the famous Spanish bullfighting arena called Saragossa Arena in October 1993. So it's like driving a furious bull.

Now I have a dream. About a super car. The most potent machine ever. The ultimate machine, the dream comes to reality. See her video performance HERE.

Could I drive her out. Maybe in dream..or in paradise perhaps. I just want to cry. Am I stupid, or crazy? Yes, when you have dream something extraordinary, people may start to call you crazy. So you cannot tell what you want?

Yes, I don't have enough money right now, so I could not afford a Lamborghini. With my current salary, I need to die more than ten times before I could ever accumulate enough cash to buy this beast.

Lucky that I have some business. Join me. This article is brought to you by my company.

How to last longer in bed

2011-02-10T17:25:00.106+08:00

We most probably have heard this varieties of the most commonly asked questions about sex from men such as "how to last longer in bed?, or how to stay erect longer? or how to last long?" What are the exact answer for these questions?

Men become worry because of their inability to stay hard longer so that their woman is satisfied with sex experience. Some men even respond drastically with saying no to sex when approached by his partner.

Actually there are quite a lot of things that men could do to make sure he last longer in bed and not be ashamed any more in bed.

Men with premature ejaculation is men with conditioning problem. He simply want to have a longer sexual experience, but he has the inability to stay hard longer. Most men, I believe would like to stay hard and last a bit longer on bed simply because they want to feel satisfied and make their woman happy so that their woman craves for them. Staying hard longer gives you satisfaction and you also could provide a natural way of family planning. But most of all, stay hard longer in bed makes your woman smile with satisfaction. That is priceless.

Various tips have been dispensed, various products wildly offered on the market. Some are good while some may be fake. Variety of drugs sold without regulation. But still men cannot get the exact answer of how to last long in bed.

Actually science has got the answer on how to last longer and stay hard even for hours! What is that? Viagra? No sir, please. We always think about Viagra when dealing with male sexual issues. But remember, Viagra is for impotence. If a normal person took Viagra, he could end up staying up for up to hours! Premature ejaculation is NOT impotence. So what is the answer?

Priligy pill is the scientific answer to premature ejaculation. Just take the pill in the right amount (dosage) and you can say good bye to premature ejaculation. At least, that is it, if you want a fast solution. No exercise, no breathing control, no wearing this ring, that ring, or no using this oil and that oil. Priligy pill (produced by Janssen Cilag) is approved in Europe and in phase 3 of FDA approval rating.

For the fact, premature ejaculation is a common thing among men. Have you ever experienced premature ejaculation? Premature ejaculation was frustrated wasn't it? Having premature ejaculation makes your sex session unsatisfactory because of too little time of erection that you achieved. In extreme cases the sufferers might try to avoid sex altogether.

With premature ejaculation, you cannot stay erect and last longer in bed as you so much desire any more if you have this phenomena happening to you. This phenomena is especially true for young couples where there are so much more territory to be explored and the level of intrigue is still at the highest proportion. But still, premature ejaculation could happen at any stage of your sex life.

You are most likely having a premature ejaculation if you cannot sustain a hard penis more that two minutes during intercourse. This is very serious problem because woman on average need at least about 13 to 14 minutes to achieve climax. Premature ejaculation is a very frustration condition, both for man and woman. When it happen, you cannot stay hard any longer and must stop the intimate relationship. If the problem is so severe, such as just two minutes of voyage before climax and ejaculate, how can you satisfy your woman?

Ejaculation process itself, is actually a natural biological process which involve mind and body. If you already married for some time and have so routinely done sexual relationship with your wife, chances are that the excitement are already getting low each time and you no longer have the problem of rapid ejaculation. Premature ejaculation tends to happen to a new couple or for the first timers in sexual relationship. If you are too excited and cannot contained it, masturbate first before the real sexual session. It will make you calmer and in better control of your own self.

So how to last longer and stay harder during sexual intercourse period other than taking Priligy?

Let discuss this together. The most important thing you must have to avoid premature ejaculation and stay hard longer is firstly to take control. You need to take control of your mind and your body. Avoid position that you cannot be in control. When you are not in control, you will loose it fast. You see, when you let her to be on top of you for instance, she will surely pounds on you again and again, stroking as hard as she pleases, making you out of control. For sure you will ejaculate in no time. That is the control phase. Find a position where you can control the tempo. Speak to your partner and discuss with her on how to achieve a longer intercourse.

Next, for health aspect of your body. You must have to maintain a healthy and fit body to have a good sex. It's as simple as that. Staying fit is a good thing for your sex life. To be fit, you must exercise as often as possible. Play sports that you have high interest in it. You should go outdoor and have some fun. Do lot and lots of exercise. One of the best known exercise that is good for sex is Kegel exercise.

Exercise is good for your sex life. Kegel exercise is one of the highly recommended exercises to give you more strength in term of Pubic Floor muscle control. With more strength of PB muscle, you should be able to have more control over your ejaculation. So you must work it out to have a greater sex. With beautiful body shape and healthy condition, your sex life will not go wrong. Just like in sport, fit body produces superb performance.

Kegel exercise actually has been proven to prolong sexual session because men tend to gain more sexual control with Kegel exercise. A research published by BJU International in 2005 said that pelvic floor exercise could even help men with erectile dysfunction to gain back the strength he need!

Men with premature ejaculation gain massive benefit because of having more muscular control of pelvis. So to all man, you better learn Kegel exercise now! Kegel exercise is simple and could be done easily. Make sure you know the pelvic floor muscle that need the work out. See the diagram below. People won't notice you are exercising because this is "internal" exercise. It's good for your sexual organ control.

To know the location of the right muscle, you must try to feel the muscle. You can find it when you try to stop urinate or try to avoid passing the gas. How to exercise these muscle? You contract the muscle for a count to ten, hold on, and then relax. Repeat this several time. Remember, results are not immediate. It is about 4 to 6 weeks before the result start to appear. But you could see the next morning how your sex organ get "stronger" than usual.

What's more you could do to stay hard longer? Well, you could wear a condom. Condom usually help you to get better control over your extra sensitive penis. If you could compromise a bit in term of real skin pleasure, wearing a condom is a good idea. But again, not all men are comfortable with the idea of wearing a condom. Condom will limit our sexual pleasures, that for sure but wearing condom prolongs sex time.

If you don't like to wear condom, you must have internal strength. For internal or natural sexual strength, choose good food that can boost your sexual energy. There are variety of herbs that are good for sex. Taking supplements moderately is not a bad idea. Tongkat Ali (euryocoma longifolia) herb is one of the most potent herbs to enhance men's sexual libido. But take it with some precaution. Select an establish and reputable brand because some brands could be spiked with drug. Overly dependent on Tongkat Ali is not a good thing. Try something more natural instead such as pure honey. Pure and natural honey is actually a good sexual booster for men.

For power drink, you could drink Virgin coconut coffee. Virgin coconut coffee is a special formulated coffee that will enhance man's sexual vitality by making their erection stronger. It energize them internally, making their penis harder, more rock solid as well as making them to have more staying power to last longer and also maximize the production of sperm. Celery also could help you to produce more sperm. So eat celery!

For man with premature ejaculation which is caused by extreme sensitivity, there is a solution in the use of a powerful anti sensitivity spray called Brutal 31. It is a really effective tool to combat premature ejaculation. Brutal 31 is a new male sexual performance enhancer and now is available and can be discreetly ordered on-line. It is scientifically proven to be effective and safe to use. Brutal 31 oil is a new secret formula from the natural and potent Virgin Coconut Oil. There are also a lot of other anti sensitivity oil from company such as Durex that you can use to make your penis stiffer and stay hard longer.

If all measures still not right, you should take a more clinical approach. Use approved and regulated drug. That's the only practical choice left to you. Go to seek a professional treatment instead.

One of the clinical option to treat premature ejaculation is a treatment called intra-cavernous pharmacotheraphy. This is a clinical method of injecting a drug called vasodilator directly into the penis so that they would have more control and could maintain a hard penis longer. This is a method used by companies such as Florida men's Medical Clinic, Boston Medical Group, and some others.

Now for solution that have been discussed earlier on how to stay hard longer is to use Priligy dapoxetine. Take Priligy pill and and you can say good bye to premature ejaculation. What is Priligy? Priligy Dapoxetine is a drug used to treat premature ejaculation. It is the only drug with regulatory approval and now famous in some European countries.

Go find that drug at your nearest pharmacies, but ask you doctor first, and don't take it overdose, otherwise you shall get more problem rather than a solution! Dapoxetine is usually sold with the brand name Priligy.

You should not afraid to use approved drug. Just be cautious. What you need to do is take it in the right amount. Viagra for example, is not a good thing when you overdose it. But if taken properly in the right dosage, Viagra is actually a godsend for men. Viagra is for impotence. For premature ejaculation, take Priligy. Take Priligy for internal strength and you can get a longer and more fulfilling sexual time. Priligy is the drug for premature ejaculation.

Other drugs used to treat premature ejaculation are:

Tramadol, also known as Ultram or Tramal. Tramadol is FDA approved as atypical oral analgesic for mild pain.It is similar to an opioid (an angonist in the mu receptor) which is also similar to an antidepressants that increase level of serotonin and norepinephrine. Tramadol has low side effects and low potential of abuse. It increases (IETL) around 4 to 20 fold in more than 90% men.
Clomipramine (Anafranil) also sometimes prescribed to treat Premature ejaculation. It help to delay ejaculatory respond. Be cautious with it side effect and most importantly, do not overdose it.

Good Luck. Say no to premature ejaculation. Have a longer and harder night! Last longer in bed and make your woman happy, that is the real purpose of a man.

I am bitter?

2011-02-10T16:29:00.008+08:00

Life is not easy, yes but remember that there is always solution to any problem. Is that too optimistic? Our world is indeed full of problems and conflicts. People fight for money and power. The struggle is constantly keep us going mad everyday. The oil price keep going up, the economy is not so very good. And now the people of Egypt is demanding a change of regime! This world is so unpredictable.

What to do do? Keep fighting like a mad dog, or hope for a miracle? Money will not come down from heaven, that is for certain. Money will not solve all problem but it solve some, so money is still so very important. That's why it is important to keep on going. Keep on fighting. And I am fighting with this blog. Fighting to keep it going and running. Fighting to write something worthwhile so that you shall read it and not regret it, do you?

I almost give up, especially with Ad-sense. It's like a joke. A Google joke. A mockery for a simple blogger like me. I know it's hard and bitter, but it is really like that, because keeping up a blog is not exactly easy. I got a day job to attend. A stupid job. But still a job nevertheless. I always hope for a miracle thing to happen to me. But it does not happen for now. I still need to keep going for the stupid job. And live a mundane life. What else I must do? Perhaps I could go watch Rocky 3 now. But I don't have the luxury of time. I am not brutal at all. I am no Rebecca Black. I am not Johnny Depp.

But I am who I am. I don't want this blog to be sad. This blog is not about failure. It is about triumph. My own success story. So I must keep on going. Ad sense or not, this blog will triumph.

With a heavy heart, Good bye Adsense.

Opportunity to make money ONLINE

2011-02-09T08:05:00.021+08:00

People always asking and seeking for business opportunity. Opportunity to a good on line business. Don't they realize that opportunity is always there in front of them. They just don't grab it or they just don't realize it. Start a decent business right here and right now! Here is the opportunity I would like to present to you.

Almost everybody know that MLM and affiliate is a great way to make money on line. But do you know what is the best affiliate program on internet? There are hundreds of thousands program out there, all claiming to be the best or one of the best affiliate programs on internet. But which one is is true and which one is fake?

Joining the best affiliate program shall make you to be on the right path of making money on internet. That's the point you must understand. Don't waste time with affiliate that do not sell a thing. Or affiliate who sell promises. This next point may be a bit cruel. But it is so very true. Without selling, there is no money for you. No matter what they promise you, sun or moon. That's business guy, we are not selling schemes. We are running business, online business.

So what is the best MLM/affiliate program on Internet?

The answer is here. BIO ASLI is one of the best affiliate program there is on Internet today. Why?

1. They use a fuss free payment service of PAY PAL. Why this is important? Because it means you could operate anywhere on earth! They also accept major credit cards. They ship world-wide. But you don't need to go to post offices.

2. You can recruit down-line all over the world. You shall receive commission up to 20 level down-line. To recruit down-line, use Ad Words to recruit, it is easy guy, I have done it. Stay focused and steadfast, you shall find success.

3. Up to 20 level down-line commission bonus. You sell, you make money, that's it. More sales, more bonuses. That's all. Here in BIO ASLI there is a system though. You sell, you recruit down-line, and you make more money with more active down-line. No down-line, no extra bonuses. That's the truth.

4. Powerful products that are difficult to find on the real store.

5. Systematic program everybody could implement. Systematic bonus payment. No fees to join. No meeting to attend.

6. No need to design website. You are provided the complete website. You just recruit new member to duplicate what you have done.

7. Bonus payments direct to your bank account. For Malaysian residents, you can claim your bonus payments directly to your bank account. No hassle, no need to queue!!

8. Work at your own pace and comfort of your own home.

How to last longer

2011-01-18T23:17:00.046+08:00

Sexual activity is so important to man that it is considered as another life of their own for men. Loose it and you loose half of your life! Men spend most of their time dreaming about sex. But still, we could see a pattern among men that they share a common weakness that is the inability to stay hard just long enough to have a satisfying sex life. They can have normal sex but cannot stay hard longer to satisfy his woman. For f*** sake, they are NOT impotence, they just cannot last longer, that's all.

That is why we could see that among them there are concern and questions that arise such as "How to last longer when having sex? How to stay hard for hours? How to stay erect longer? How to stay erect longer naturally? or How to stay hard?"

These are some common and general questions that are always playing in the mind of men who were on the losing side during the sexual intercourse. They are popular because men naturally have this common weakness - way too eager to have sex, but too quick to end it unintentionally because of early or premature ejaculation. The end result is frustration for both parties.

How frustrated was premature ejaculation to you? Well, it depends on individual basis. In general, wooing a woman is quite a long process. It took time to woo a girl. Time, money, energy and dedication to commit, either successfully or not. When the girl did receive you and you are ready to have sex with her, it all end in just let say, two minutes? How frustrating that could be for you? Just answer it for yourself.

For certain, when men always fast loosing their erection in bed, eventually they will made humbler. That should not be the case! Do not expect that with big body, the penis is also strong. They are not working that way! Men should not to be put to shame by his woman simply because of this weakness. Man must always, be a man! Therefore it is of utmost important that you keep the genital always in a fine and peak performance condition.

Even in the modern times now, with internet and computer technology at the most advance stage, most men still do not have the clues on how to keep their genitals harder and a bit longer in bed naturally.

Of course there are many drugs available out there to make you stay hard long. But no, we do not want to involve Viagra or any other drug enhancement type here, at least not without trying other methods available. We want the solution to be as natural as possible.

We want to have a control of mind and will power. This will make you to stay hard naturally at whim! Stay hard the natural ways, without Viagra or any other drugs. All from internal strength. That should be more satisfying for men.

So how to stay erect longer naturally? As natural as possible, without the use of drug. A natural sexual ability of the real man. It is possible. But it takes lot of time and determination.

Basically, it's in your mind. Mind is a sexual organ too!

Mind control is one of the key points. Mind control is important when you are having sexual intercourse with your spouse. Basically, it is advisable to have some preparation. Do not force yourself if you are too tired or out of the mood. Sex should be natural and enjoyable.

One of the main reasons you are ejaculating too early is caused by over sensitive penis head. You cannot last long if your penis head is too sensitive to stimulation and friction. You cannot sustain a prolonged stimulation. Add this condition with an eager young men without experience of sexual encounter, these men are sure to ejaculate way too early. After a few strokes, perhaps not more than three minutes, they will very quickly gushes with semen ejaculating out of their own control. No more hard penis after a few minutes. Very frustrating for both party.

Now, what you can really do to avoid premature ejaculation? Take control of your own self.

According to Masters and Johnson (famous American therapists), one of the technique you could use to control premature ejaculation is by using start and stop technique. Train yourself to know the exact moment when you are just about to ejaculate. Beware of all the sensation. When the moment is imminent, squeezes the penis hard enough to make it partially lose his erection. Stop the strokes and relax yourself. When you are further away from climax, START again. This technique allow you to delay the time to reach climax as long as you like or you have the strength to hold on. This technique need cooperation and discussion from your partner so that she also can contribute to achieve the desired result.

Masters and Johnson reported that, up to 98 percent of couple who used this technique are able to overcome premature ejaculation problem.

So now you know what to do? So take control and do it slowly, don't go straight to gear number five although you have the power to do it! Have control of your own self. Think about your woman happiness and satisfaction as well.

What can you do other than mind control? There are many other ways than you might think.

If you are not really too bothered, you could use condom to make it less sensitive. Using condom means less skin contact, so less friction and arousal. This result in a delayed ejaculation or climax. Make sure your penis in a full stage hardness and really warm condition before entering the penis into the vagina because the cold penis will be easier to climax. Some people don't like to wear condom though because wearing it could put the mood off. Nevertheless, condom is one of the most effective tool to delay ejaculation.

Exercise is also one of another important elements for sexual strength. Exercise such as Kegel Exercise is said to help a lot in retaining a strong and powerful sexual organ. According to research published in 2005 issue of BJU International, pelvic floor exercises ie, Kegel exercise could help men regain function of their penis in men with sexual erectile dysfunction problem. There are also reported to be significant benefits for the problem of premature ejaculation. Kegel exercise gives massive benefit to men's sexual health by having more muscular control of the pelvis, which means a better control of your own climax control or timing.

Healthy body comes from good food. So eat healthily and moderately. Take supplements if you could afford it. One of the good pill to make you stay hard longer that I should suggest is Priligy.

The other viable alternative treatment to delay ejaculation is to use anti sensitivity oil. Yes, it is not as natural as you can get, but at least it is only used outside your body only. Brutal31 is used as a cream to delay ejaculation by making your penis more stiff and less sensitive. It is also advisable to do lots of foreplay such as licking and caressing.

Other than those options mentioned above, you also need to play it a bit smarter with positions. Try to avoid doing positions that really make you ejaculate early out of being too excited or too aroused. Avoid position which gives you too much stimulants such as too blare the sigh of her vagina or hot body. It depends on individual. Others might be too aroused by the sigh of a##. Try to investigate our own weakness and try to rectify it. Normally the position of the wife at the top is the most sexy and also leaving men without much control. This usually will make ejaculation comes earlier.

What's more you could do?

Keep a good physical health. Good health leads to good sex. It's as simple as that! Take approved food supplements. Lead a balanced and healthy life. Eat and drink a proper food. Some herbs such as the famous Tongkat Ali (Eurycoma Longifolia) could help to boost man's vitality immensely. Drink such as Virgin Coconut Coffee is indeed powerful and can boost your sexual performance. Virgin Coconut Coffee makes your erection harder, increase semen volume and make you stay hard longer naturally. You also can take approved food supplements appropriately.

Last but not least, if you are still too aroused or excited, you could make it a bit less arousing by masturbating first earlier in the day before starting the real sex session at night. It will make your arousal level to be in control and you are more likely to have better mental control and strength.

Definitely, lasting longer will makes your sex life more colourful and lively. Needless to say, the couple usually will have stronger bond. Men who can last longer in bed is indeed a really strong man. He will be loved by her lover and he also shall leads a happy and fruitful life. A content life. Full of blessing. Full of happiness, and satisfaction.

A love life so great that LOVE itself is considered as a gift from GOD itself to us mortal human. So do something to appreciate love. Don't let it rot and and make your life miserable.

Premature ejaculation is a common phenomena among men, but you should do something about it rather than just let it be that way! You should not keep the problem to yourself. Seek professional help if possible. There are nothing to be ashamed.

Good luck man. Make your woman happy and she will stay loyal to you!

why there's pain during intercourse?

2011-01-15T23:42:00.080+08:00

Do you feel pain during intercourse? If that is the case, you must do something to correct the situation. Pain during intercourse technically called dyspareunia.

Sexual intercourse is meant to be enjoyed for both man and woman. In fact, sex is one the most enjoyable activity there is for human being. But in some abnormal cases, especially for woman, sex could be painful. In fact, sex is something of trauma for them.

Why painful sex could happen?

One of the main cause of pain during sex is the lack of natural lubricants. This lubricants usually come naturally when women are aroused. Without these natural lubricants, the friction is too painful to the point that sex is painful.

There are certain times when there is lack of this natural lubricants. Without lubrication, sex will be painful. There are a lot of factors involve that make natural lubricants become less to come out. Let's take a thorough look at this phenomena.

With lack of lubricants, not only woman will suffer with pain, but man also will not feel the smooth sensation he needed most. In fact the man will struggle when he is about to enter her. For a temporary measure, men could spit on the woman's private part to make it wet and penetrable. But it will leave you with an unhygienic situation.

The other causes of pain during sex:

1. Hormonal imbalance

2. Presence of scar tissue from surgery or sexually transmitted disease.

3. Endometriosis- a pelvic mass

4. Intercourse too immediate after childbirth or surgery.

5. Ovarian cyst

6. Vaginismes- a painful, involuntary spasm of the muscles that surround the vaginal entrance. It might happen in women who worry that penetration will be painful. This also may stem from a sexual phobia or traumatic, painful or humiliated experiences such as rape.
7. Menopause

8. Over reaction due to skin sensitivity to latex of condom or diaphragm.

9. Urinary tract infection

Pain during intercourse for woman, which is caused by vulva itch arising from lack of lubricant is not an out of this world problem. It actually could be treated with real medication such as by using cream for vulva itch, alongside with some counseling, and therapy about sex itself.

Physically, the lack of sexual lubricants could be related with the man who is intolerable or too self centered or too brutal or perhaps having some sort of sadism mentality in sexual relationship. Psychologically, patient might be suffering from sexual trauma of past events such as rape or sexual abuse.

In some cases, woman will feel the pain when the man does the stroke with position unsuitable or uncomfortable for her such as coming roughly from behind or stretching her too much of positions that she does not like at all or doing it extremely hard or too brutal strokes.

Let's take a look at what really cause lack of sexual lubricant.

1-Lack of sexual hormones.

This usually occurs to older women, especially aged 35 years and above (cougars) and more significantly at the age of 45 years and above. This age factor is actually more closely related to the natural process of aging, stress, fatigue, malnutrition, breastfeeding, or the effect of taking certain birth control pills. But still, younger woman with hormone imbalance could also face lack of lubricants problem.

2-The lack of stimulation before the real sex session.

Lack of stimulation or lack of "foreplay" to heighten the arousal level is another cause of the dryness of the vagina during sex. We should understand that vaginal fluids naturally occurs a lot when there is the stimulus that brings a sense of passion in women, the stimulus could includes verbal stimulation, touch or sight.

Women also need a fairly long period of around 30 to 45 minutes to be thoroughly aroused during foreplay prior to be ready for vaginal penetration of actual sexual activity.

Solution for pain sexual experience.

For a woman, what she can do? First of all, woman should be open and honest about sexual relationship. Do not feel shy to tell your partner what you really want during sex, tell your man either verbally or by act of what to do, and what not to do during foreplay, where should the husband touch or stroke, how contact should be made, either soft or rough and so on.

Talk to your man honestly and use some common sense. Try to jointly explore the enjoyment of the husband and wife relationship. Give suggestion to your husband to use sexual lubricants. In some cases, sexual therapy is a good option.

Suggestions to reduce sexual pain:

1-You can try to take traditional medicine or alternative treatment such as:
Kacip Fatimah and Manjakani herbs for woman's stamina to increase libido and sensitivity of the vagina.
-Food supplement such as Evening Primrose Oil Pills, Lobata pills, Mas Cotek, etc are good to raise the female sex hormones indirectly.

2-You could also try the following ways:

-Try something new and passionate, do lots of foreplay and caress one another to improve passion.

-Diversify sexual positions or places to avoid sexual boredom.

3-Use sexual lubricants such as KY Jelly or Kama Sutra lotion.

4-Do hormone replacement therapy treatment.

Hormone replacement therapy is widely used in modern medicine, it is proven to improve the synthetic sex hormone, promotes the production of vaginal fluids, provide energy and enhance overall sexual libido.

Sexual pain could be experienced by women of all ages but most frequently happen at a stage near menopause stage or at a later stage of aging. Normally the middle age couples are more prone to experience pain during sex. It might also happen to pregnant or nursing women and women with hormone replacement therapy. But woman that still in productive period could also suffer from dry vagina.

Vaginal dryness will cause painful sexual session, itching, blisters and sometime produce small air and the irritated feeling. This can cause your sexual relationship to became vapid, thus leading to the reduction of libido (sexual desire) and frustration or confusion, which can lead to feelings of emotional and physical stress.

A normal couple who play "normal" intercourse usually will not have any hurt or pain. If the woman was in pain, chances are rather high that she has "dyspareunia". Dysparaeunia is the medical term for the pain during sex. The main reason for the occurrence of "dyspareunia" is the lack of foreplay activity such as kissing, caressing or stimulation techniques from her male partner.

In general, dry sex happen because the man do not do enough foreplay and cannot wait a bit longer to insert his penis into the vagina. At the same time, the woman did not obtain adequate sexual stimulation. So she did not ready physically, not really aroused, and her vagina is not really in wet condition to be penetrated without itch. In other words, her vagina is not ready to receive the vertical penetration. This make the vagina not fully prepared and pain occurs when friction is intensified when penetrated by the penis. This eventually will be painful for woman.

Dry vagina could also show as a sign of decline phase of female sex hormones, or estrogen, which helps in keeping the acidity, lubricates the vagina, maintaining elasticity and grip and also for protection against infection. It is as nature way to tell the woman to have less sex as you age. But still, sex is still important thing no matter how old are are. Actually, there is a natural method for treating a dry vagina that you can try at home.

How to treat Vaginal dryness with naturally:

1. Dip a cotton pad in sesame oil and then squeeze onto vaginal wall. This treatment should be done every day for about at least a week to restore lubricants.

2. Apply Aloe Vera gel to the vagina. It is a versatile herb which possessed with natural moisture property and helps to keep the female reproductive organs in superb health.

3. Take Ginkgo Bilbao supplement which is a good herb that is widely used in the treatment of anxiety and depression because of its wonderful properties to enhance sexual organ as well.

4. Drink enough water everyday. You should also drink at least 8-10 glasses per day. If you have a lot of water, it helps to remove harmful toxins from the body and to make you dehydrated.

5. Eliminate vaginal dryness problems with Kama Sutra lotion.

Kama Sutra lotion provides you with almost natural sexual lubricants and helps to restore internal vaginal rejuvenation to its original shape and increase sensation and improve the sensitivity of your vagina so that whole sexual relationship back again to be ultimate pleasure and happiness state. It would also help you to restore lubricants and solve problems related with vaginal dryness.

Other benefits of using sexual lubricants

Sexual lubricants help to reduce the friction and making sexual experience better. It also could prolong your sex session because the smoothness makes it you to feel better and comfortable. It reduce friction and could help you to feel more sensation during sex or during masturbation.

Gift ideas for women

2010-11-24T22:46:00.019+08:00

Are you looking for gift ideas for women? or maybe your wife birthday anniversary is fast approaching but you still thinking what is the best gift to give to her? Make it simple but meaningful.

So here is a good suggestion. Give her a special treatment on bed. Get her a Kamasutra lotion. A Kamasutra lotion is made especially for woman to really feel loved. Use it for a happy new experience. A new sensation. No more pain during sex. No more dry vagina. Best of all, no more struggle when you try to use condom.

Woman, are the most precious thing on earth. You are also the most beautiful thing on earth. Without woman, this world is no different from any prison. In fact without woman, there is no meaning being in heaven!

Why women need Kamasutra lotion?

Because there is one secret that all of you women should know.

This is one of the big secret any typical doting husband would hide from his wife!

This is the secret:

After the first nigh of sex with your husband and after a delivery of the very first son, sex will never be the same again for man, with you, ever.

Why? Because your vagina is not the same vagina as when you are still a virgin! You are having a wider vagina with a loose hole that cannot satisfy your man! That's the most painful truth!

Still, because he did not want their woman to feel dissatisfied or discouraged, or for whatever other reasons, often men will not comment or speak any further about his sex dissatisfaction, even after some time you and him been staying together in a long marriage. He will keep quite so as not to break your heart.

But the truth is, right in the corner of the heart of a man so longing that his partner who owns the vagina a bit narrower or tighter as yet not been touched or just like you and him having sex for the very first time when you are still a virgin.

BECAUSE of this unknown secret, there are some men who cheat and find another woman and go to the extend of marrying her, either blatantly or secretly. Why? Purely because man need a satisfying sex life to fulfil his lust and desire.

This is so very natural because God created man with a high desire for sex! AND THEIR MAIN choice for this purpose certainly is woman STRICTLY with narrow ..... Woman who could please him in bed, that's all! Narrow ... means better sex. That is undeniable fact. Without good sex, men cannot be settled down, absolutely! Even the most religious among them will not be spared!

Listen women,

Why do most men think so much about sex? ... The answer is very simple .. These are actually quite obvious facts. Men are so natural to have a high sexual desire... a high level of craving to have great sex ... always playing in mind man is sex and beautiful woman. Man always think about sex all the time! They are wired like that. That's the most natural thing a natural man could ever have! Men will always fantasizing with a beautiful and great body.

Therefore, my sincere advise is this:

Do not underestimate the importance of this matter. You should give an opportunity for your partner to enjoy the first night for the second time with you and I'm sure your spouse would have satisfied smile but your relationship will be much more beautiful than before.

And most importantly your spouse have had no reason to look for another women other than yours truly.

So please women, do something. Don't blame your husband when things go wrong.

A funny Inspira?

2010-11-13T22:06:00.002+08:00

Would you buy a Proton Inspira? It is a Waja Replacement Model by Proton. With a price tag of a whopping RM80k.
Yes it is a cool car but I cannot afford to buy it. Too pricey. And I don't have that much money. I don't want to live in debt.