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CULTURAL DIFFERENCE......HUGE ISSUE !

2019-07-10T09:46:00.000-07:00

Cultural difference is a huge problem causing suspicions between people; this happens due to ignorance which can be overcome only by feeding the brain with the right stuff possible only through reading and that is what is especially lacking in new generation : averse to reading due to its time consumption and efforts involved !

SINCERITY MISTAKEN AS SELF INTEREST !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2017-03-08T07:09:00.000-08:00

People mistake sincere intentions for self interest of the sincere....
.....When some one does things for the good of all parties involved, often it is mistaken as selfish/self interest !!!!!!!!!!!!!

..better not involve too much with any ............

NO NECESSITY / ROOM FOR EMOTIONS

2017-03-05T08:18:00.000-08:00

Just do any thing as duty to the best of sincerity and get out of it....no need to look back with emotions - won't help any one, rather will hurt to the worst ! That's the way the modern thought process is taking place any where.............so, why get hurt?...well we need to live active way and so perform ! Can't be passive because that will cause more harm !!!

'' EQUALITY '' OH, NEVER EVER ..................................

2017-02-17T09:05:00.001-08:00

If any one in the world is looking for a world where every other human being will be treated on ' equal ' footing.....that would never happen unless the Almighty himself descend on us and rule this world- this part is for only those who believe in him !

We created the divide as higher and lower, and the higher class oppressed the lower one.

In order to grab power some groups used the lower class and it has been going on for long....so far so good, but look at the sudden turn around almost all around us.......the higher class feel their loss of superiority and is hitting hard to regain the past glory ( achieved by shrewd ways )................

These struggle will keep circling without any finish........... no hope for equality.......................

If at all feed the brain with right stuff...but who can/will ?

HOP IF YOU DON'AT FIND HOPE

2017-01-01T18:41:00.001-08:00

Happy New Year to all the followers and viewers here !

In the new year , if you are not hopeful of hopes , hop from your negatives till you reach the hopeful state !!!

This is a world of perception............even the mediocre create a world of 'wonderland', and fool the whole new generation......the generation who is not willing to think for themselves - they put their thinking faculty in cold storage !

Thinking is the hardest thing , for it takes away .easy pleasure from doing nothing !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Try 'hoping' so as to keep oneself healthy and in the loop of things

BEYOND '' GOALS ''

2016-12-26T09:45:00.000-08:00

If 'happiness', is what any one looks for in life , on a constant basis, it can be achieved if only one looks beyond mere goals!!

One has to define the purpose of living/life on a constant basis ....this alone can take any one to the real path to ''happiness''.

'' INFATUATION'', ONE SHOULD FEEL WITHIN/SELF !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2016-11-11T09:43:00.001-08:00

'' Infatuation'', is one of the most important human emotions that should be experienced spontaneously/naturally by all............this is one of the most beautiful feelings human beings are capable of experiencing !!!!

Unfortunately, many are denied, to experience, this by others........ in many cultures, for the sake of following and retaining the so called stupid values !!!

Imagine , how happy or unhappy such people will be in their whole life time ........

culture , for whom ?

NEED A BIG HEART TO CONTRIBUTE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2016-11-06T08:25:00.000-08:00

People are averse to changes, but changes are inevitable.......positive changes have to be speeded up if the world has to be turned into better place-in all aspects.

For such acts , we need competent people with real big hearts who have the passion to pursue matters that matter to the human beings !

Along with competence and passion a strong sense to contribute is necessary.

RESISTANCE TO POSITIVE CHANGES !!!!!!!!!!!!!

2016-10-31T10:30:00.001-07:00

"Change" is scary for all human beings........the moment one feels that some changes are beginning to happen within, he/she will make an obvious effort to rebel against it by re-positioning either by words or actions; the very attempt itself is the proof/sign of changes happening within.

""WON'T/CAN'T " MIND SET !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2016-09-17T09:51:00.000-07:00

Imagine , 'stammering/stuttering'( a particular category, may be)could be cured without any medicines-only by changing the mindset.....happened with a student at Karimba School, in Kerala, India !

Yet, others, who would like to have the same experience would not believe it, or bother that such a thing happened- that is the fixed/obstinate mindset, thus living with the problem !!!!!!!!!!!

Many things can be changed with minor adjustments in belief system, obviously not all and everything .

There is no magic here !

THE POWER OF ANY LANGUAGE (ESPECIALLY ENGLISH) !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2016-08-07T09:16:00.000-07:00

Met many brilliant students who have immense potential and have vast knowledge,but are incapable of expressing themselves with ease-this incapability instill inferiority complex that kills their enthusiasm and energy.

This causes searching for pleasure somewhere else and often lead to under-performance;the talents(human resource) are being wasted thus.

A simple focus shift can correct the situation............

The "K B C " programme hosted by different,almost equally popular, mega stars gave very,very different results.

What single factor made the huge difference?, the ultimate command over the language by the best of them ! The ease and flow of language by the best presenter was an eye-opener to the power of language.

Students at IITs, IIMs and such institutions cannot afford to side-line the importance of languages, especially English in this global scenario, if they want to feel the ultimate happiness and sense of success !

BRILLIANT BRAINS RUINED BY.....................

2016-07-23T09:39:00.001-07:00

It's a pathetic situation happening to the young generation widely in many parts of many countries:unbelievably very sub-standard education is provided to them-young brilliant minds are not guided as to how to put their intelligence in to use;they are not even informed of their potential !!

A few privileged and lucky get to go to places.

If only the most valuable resource on earth-human resource-is used appropriately, countries can progress and achieve the happiness quotient at the highest level......it's time to wake up, better late than never !

THE BEAUTY OF LIFE .............

2016-07-19T10:57:00.001-07:00

Human beings face difficulties: these are only perceptions;change perception - change life, it's that simple and quick, that is the beauty of life !

Scared of changing perceptions?, oh yes: perception change, for that matter any change, is scary: it changes not just one thing,but the whole world around us!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Who want to take such a huge risk?, only the ones who are in full control of their thinking faculty ! just may be 3% of the whole population-the only successful people who find the beauty
of life .

CAN'T WRITE OFF TALENTED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2016-07-17T09:35:00.000-07:00

Talents are developed over the years with hard and sincere work with lots of passion. Talents so developed are forever and that cannot be taken away or suppressed, especially by morons, who think themselves the know-all.

When confronted, the talented will turn the the tables on those who try to dominate them-that could be suicidal for the precipetators.

Handle with care : the best to keep the talented sporty !

THE CONCEPT OF ''EQUALITY'' MISUNDERSTOOD !!!

2016-07-16T10:09:00.002-07:00

No two individuals look the same, behave the same way or want to do same things , same ways and do not have same interests in any particular matter . This is quite normal ; every one understands it , and do not have any qualms about it.

People are worried or annoyed only when they are discriminated in any walks/aspects of life. Acknowledging their very existence without any bias is more than good enough to sooth their annoyance .

Hence efforts from all quarters should be co-ordinated to eradicate the biases of any kind directed towards any gender, sect or groups.....happy living !

MORE ASSUMPTIONS THAN REASONING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!s

2016-07-15T11:05:00.001-07:00

We, the human beings, are gifted with the 'thinking faculty';this, and only this separates us from other beings !

Yet, we do not use all parts and options available to us- we enjoy using the easy route(effortless one)- the assumption route.

No wonder , we end up in all sorts of mess ourselves and create chaos around all people including the caring ones. After creating such nuisance , we go into our safety shell and shut our
ears for others.

This unwillingness to further opening up causes many wounds for ever : major cause for all unhappiness within and around; therefore, stop assuming when we have better option-'think' using 'reasons'.

SHOPPING -- AN ESCAPISM ?

2016-07-13T10:13:00.001-07:00

It is very difficult to understand why people,especially a particular group, are addicted to shopping.

Shopping is a way of life for such people;it fetches a lot of pleasure,though materially nothing much is acquired !

Not how much is shopped that matters here-what matters is the process and time spend on it.

Perhaps, it is whiling away the boring hours which is a motivation to do so !

So also, the process involved brings a sense of satisfaction: a sort of winning - thus a virtual escapism !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LET'S MOVE ON....................

2016-07-10T11:34:00.001-07:00

Getting stuck in life is fun for negative people:something they get pleasure from; they often look for such situations or create them.

Positive people too may be dragged into such situations-a bit awareness about that will help to press escape button; well, need to push on the positive pedal thereafter.

Moving on, at times , is difficult due to weariness . A good introspection is all that is necessary for recovering.

Moving on in life is the most satisfying and pleasing experience any one can have, without which life will become motionless-like leading a vegetable life .

Therefore, let's all move on and on and on............

'' MEDIOCRITY '',THE PROBLEM OF THE DAY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2016-07-09T11:19:00.002-07:00

Every body wants easy way out in all aspects of life; no body has the patience or perhaps the willingness to go deep into any aspects seriously !
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Mediocre people go deep into the subject of survival for themselves and that they master very well; they , thus prevent the progress taking place.

Sweet talk is a sharp weapon ( beware of sweet takers ! ) they use 'sweet talk' to win the confidence and trust of others who matter to them for their survival - such people would rather play any dangerous game rather than letting good things happen.

'' Survival'', that too at the highest level is in the air : those who are not aware of this are bound to be doomed .

Logic rather than emotion may help in this highly competitive world !

THE ONLY THING THAT IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR MANY !!!!!!

2016-07-07T10:27:00.001-07:00

What comes so easy to a handful of people in the whole world - may be that assumption too is wrong - is impossible for the rest : Self Acceptance !

It is quite evident : every one is frightened to accept himself/herself ; for this impose a heavy burden on them.....the burden of being independent and individualistic.

Practically every one is apprehensive about the consequences of welcoming personal achievements, successes and happiness !!!!

Moreover , people with vested interests won't allow others to
be '' individualistic '' - because such people fear that they would lose control over others ; that's where they play the 'cultural card ' to deter them .

Should we lead such a passive life controlled by others, or begin to accept self and lead a happy life is the question of the day !

'HAPPY', ALL THE WAY !

2016-07-06T10:13:00.001-07:00

Happiness is ' the ' thing that is being sought after by every human being without any exception -day after day, night after night. It is never found as much as one would like to..

It frequently visits and vanishes ; makes one wonder what really is the route to the ever lasting bliss .

This happens due to one's inability to define ' happiness ' !!! Although every one experiences it through feelings , even when not sought after, the very definition escapes our faculty .

Some thing worth pondering over - damn sure it is within everybody's reach if only we use the grey matter that every one has between the two ears !

TAKING SELF ' BEYOND '.................

2016-07-04T11:30:00.002-07:00

Although we have the capacity to take ourselves to any level -mentally, we are attached to the pleasure of being where we are - lazy state provides pleasure enough for our ordinary state of mind- good enough reason to feel content and satisfied.

Is that all we the higher being should look for and live for? ; sad leaving this universe in such manner if it is allowed to happen so .

Should we thrive to go beyond, or not is a matter of choice that is to be taken by every one from an appropriate state of mind !

OBSTINACY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2016-07-03T09:48:00.000-07:00

Obstinacy is a protection cover - it protects one from changes !
Change is uncomfortable for almost all ; comfort zone is the most precious place one cherish the most.

Blocking and resisting changes are the functions performed by stubbornness . Effective unlearning process along with new learning only can bring necessary transformations .

Even after making positive changes, people do not want to acknowledge it for fear of the unknown !

People will try hard to retain the known style which made them feel comfortable for long ; however, a well installed new learning process will automatically take care if it is done effectively. Therefore, it is worth investing in new learning process .

PARENTING PROBLEMS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2016-07-02T10:47:00.000-07:00

Parenting problems cause all problems:parenting more often is reactionary or precautionary, at times proactive !

Reactionary since nobody gives himself/herself the time to learn what parenting is all about, thus leaving things to the mercy of reactions:reactions do not solve problems or prevent them. They may help to suppress the issues which will erupt later with all might-very visible every where !

Reactionary method suppress problems where as precausionary method creates suspicions and utter confusions in children's mind : destroys self esteem.

Proactive methods create restrictions which force the children to go into their shell only.

It takes lots of time and effort to learn good parenting;however, it is not impossible.Therefore, allow some quality time to self.

CONFIDENCE ?,NO, THANKS !!!!!!!!!!!!!

2016-07-01T10:24:00.002-07:00

Confidence , oh yes, every body wants to have....yet it is not welcome: it has an unpleasant attachment -responsibility !

Responsibility is a huge put off for all human beings- it's an unbearable burden that kills the spirit of life ! Living with this baggage gives a feeling of heaviness which makes oneself immovable holistically - a better option is : just keep an unreachable distance from it !

Is worth considering so? Well, it's matter of perception and choice - a choice that makes the life sweet or bitter!

It may sound hard initially; however, it's worthless leading an irresponsible life. Therefore, let's welcome the big word 'Confidence' and keep it within us that makes our life worthy !