<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="no"?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><rss xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" version="2.0"><channel><title>Post Office Box</title><description>EXPAT NEWSLETTERS</description><managingEditor>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</managingEditor><pubDate>Wed, 9 Oct 2024 13:30:30 -0700</pubDate><generator>Blogger http://www.blogger.com</generator><openSearch:totalResults xmlns:openSearch="http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/">241</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex xmlns:openSearch="http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/">1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage xmlns:openSearch="http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/">25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/</link><language>en-us</language><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>EXPAT NEWSLETTERS</itunes:subtitle><itunes:category text="News &amp; Politics"/><itunes:owner><itunes:email>noreply@blogger.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><item><title>Bolivia nationalized the company that runs the three largest airports in Bolivia because the government claims the company did not invest in improving the airports.</title><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/2013/02/bolivia-nationalized-company-that-runs.html</link><category>Bolivia nationalized the company that runs the three largest airports in Bolivia because the government claims the company did not invest in improving the airports.</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</author><pubDate>Tue, 19 Feb 2013 04:07:00 -0800</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5906961967399120349.post-3677676671921721448</guid><description>&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Servicios de Aeropuertos Bollivianos SA (Sabsa) is a division of Spain's Abertis Infraestructure SA but Sabsa is also partly owned by Aena Aeropuertos SA based in Madrid. Bolivian president Evo Morales said that the privatization of Sabsa in 1997 was equivalent to "robbery" and "looting". He claimed that since that time the company's profits have been exorbitant and investments "ridiculous".&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial, helvetica; font-size: 12px;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>real estate company Reyal Urbis filed for insolvency after failing to renegotiate debt with its creditors.</title><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/2013/02/real-estate-company-reyal-urbis-filed.html</link><category>real estate company Reyal Urbis filed for insolvency after failing to renegotiate debt with its creditors.</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</author><pubDate>Tue, 19 Feb 2013 03:53:00 -0800</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5906961967399120349.post-6812217519436092778</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Spain's property market crash claimed another victim on Tuesday, as real estate company Reyal Urbis filed for insolvency after failing to renegotiate debt with its creditors.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;span id="midArticle_5"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;p&gt;The move takes the property developer, which had 3.6 billion euros ($4.8 billion) of debt at the end of September, closer to becoming Spain's second-largest bankruptcy after Martinsa Fadesa, which defaulted on 7 billion euros of debt in 2008.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Dozens of property companies have collapsed in&amp;nbsp;Spain, where house prices have fallen around 40 percent since their 2007 peak. With the country locked in a deep recession, analysts expect prices to fall further still.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Spain's banks were crippled by the property market bust, eventually requiring the state to agree a European bailout for its lenders of almost 40 billion euros last year. Indebted property firms have asked banks for debt relief but patience is wearing thin among lenders saddled with soured property assets.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Reyal Urbis is 70 percent owned by construction magnate Rafael Santamaria and its creditors include Santander, BBVA, Bankia and Banco Popular.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The company, which valued its property portfolio at 4.2 billion euros in June 2012, said it would continue to operate as permitted by Spanish insolvency laws.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Its insolvency petition now goes to court and its fate will be in the hands of a judge.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Reyal Urbis said Santamaria would remain at the helm of the company and he still hoped Reyal Urbis could reach a deal with its creditors, given "the good will of all negotiating parties".&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The company had until Feb. 23 to reach a debt restructuring deal with the banks or file for insolvency. Sources close to the matter told Reuters on Friday that creditors had rejected the company's 3.6-billion-euro proposal.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Trading in the company's shares was suspended on Tuesday, Spain's stock market regulator said. The stock had plunged 99 percent since June 2007 to close at 0.124 euros on Monday.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;At the end of 2011, Reyal Urbis owned some 888 finished homes in a country where over a million homes lie empty. The company also had 8 million square metres of land for development and 237,000 square metres of commercial property, including offices, shopping centres, industrial property and hotels.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>Ms Sandiford to be executed for drug trafficking.</title><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/2013/01/ms-sandiford-to-be-executed-for-drug.html</link><category>Ms Sandiford to be executed for drug trafficking.</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</author><pubDate>Tue, 22 Jan 2013 02:25:00 -0800</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5906961967399120349.post-3384571402874614020</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;div class="widget storyContent article widget-editable viziwyg-section-1825 inpage-widget-6296795" style="outline: none; font-size: 1.2em; color: #444444; font-family: arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;"&gt;&lt;span class="storyTop " style="outline: none;"&gt;&lt;p style="outline: none;"&gt;A British grandmother has been sentenced to death by firing squad for smuggling almost 5kg of cocaine into Bali.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="widget storyContent article widget-editable viziwyg-section-1825 inpage-widget-6296940" style="outline: none; font-size: 1.2em; color: #444444; font-family: arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;"&gt;&lt;div class="body " style="outline: none;"&gt;&lt;p style="outline: none;"&gt;Lindsay Sandiford was arrested in May last year after she tried to enter the Indonesian holiday island with illegal drugs worth &amp;pound;1.6 million hidden in her suitcase.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="outline: none;"&gt;Local prosecutors had called for the 56-year-old housewife to be jailed for 15 years. But today there were gasps in the Bali courtroom when a panel of judges announced Ms Sandiford would be executed for drug trafficking.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="outline: none;"&gt;As the shock verdict was announced, Ms Sandiford, from Gloucestershire, slumped back in her chair in tears before hiding her face with a brown sarong as she was led out of the courtroom.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>Merry Christmas</title><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/2012/12/merry-christmas.html</link><category>Merry Christmas</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</author><pubDate>Sun, 16 Dec 2012 06:12:00 -0800</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5906961967399120349.post-3305083688891350166</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;img style="vertical-align: middle;" src="http://lh6.ggpht.com/-X46NBcGNfjk/UM3WMCcsYZI/AAAAAAAAMMI/Ax0CrC5IVRU/%25255BUNSET%25255D.jpg" alt="" width="512" height="326" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" height="72" url="http://lh6.ggpht.com/-X46NBcGNfjk/UM3WMCcsYZI/AAAAAAAAMMI/Ax0CrC5IVRU/s72-c/%25255BUNSET%25255D.jpg" width="72"/><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title/><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/2012/12/emotional-eating-is-when-people-use.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</author><pubDate>Mon, 10 Dec 2012 01:11:00 -0800</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5906961967399120349.post-4750586451904333247</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;div id="whichRead_1"&gt;&lt;p&gt;Emotional eating is when people use food as a way to deal with feelings instead of to satisfy hunger.&amp;nbsp;We've all been there, finishing a whole bag of chips out of boredom or downing cookie after cookie while cramming for a big test. But when done a lot &amp;mdash; especially without realizing it &amp;mdash; emotional eating can affect weight, health, and overall well-being.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;img title="emotional eating" src="http://kidshealth.org/image/ial/images/1415/1415_image.gif" alt="diets arent the answer emotional eating" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Not many of us make the connection between eating and our feelings. But understanding what drives emotional eating can help people take steps to change it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;One of the biggest myths about emotional eating is that it's prompted by negative feelings. Yes, people often turn to food when they're stressed out, lonely, sad, anxious, or bored. But emotional eating can be linked to positive feelings too, like the romance of sharing dessert on Valentine's Day or the celebration of a holiday feast.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Sometimes emotional eating is tied to major life events, like a death or a divorce. More often, though, it's the countless little daily stresses that cause someone to seek comfort or distraction in food.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Emotional eating patterns can be learned: A child who is given candy after a big achievement may grow up using candy as a reward for a job well done. A kid who is given cookies as a way to stop crying may learn to link cookies with comfort.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It's not easy to "unlearn" patterns of emotional eating. But it is possible. And it starts with an awareness of what's going on.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="rs_skip" style="outline: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 30.399999618530273px; background-color: #ffffff;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>ARE YOU ADDICTED TO BUSYNESS ARE YOU A SOCIAL MEDIA ADDICT</title><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/2012/12/are-you-addicted-to-busyness-are-you.html</link><category>ARE YOU ADDICTED TO BUSYNESS ARE YOU A SOCIAL MEDIA ADDICT</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</author><pubDate>Tue, 4 Dec 2012 04:33:00 -0800</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5906961967399120349.post-4146892508943367272</guid><description>&lt;div class="article-header" style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; display: table; text-align: center; width: 750px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;h1 class="title entry-title" style="margin: 0px; position: relative; font-size: 20px; font-weight: normal; padding: 0px 40px 0px 0px; color: #696f00; font-family: Georgia, Utopia, 'Palatino Linotype', Palatino, serif; width: 670px; display: table-cell; vertical-align: middle;"&gt;&lt;a style="color: #696f00; outline-style: none; text-decoration: initial;" rel="bookmark" href="http://galatictours.blogspot.com/2012/12/are-you-addicted-to-busyness-are-you.html"&gt;ARE YOU ADDICTED TO BUSYNESS ARE YOU A SOCIAL MEDIA ADDICT&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="article-content entry-content" style="margin: 10px auto 5px; outline: none; padding: 0px; clear: both; color: #333333; line-height: 1.4; text-align: justify; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;h3 style="margin: 0.83em 0px; position: relative; font-weight: bolder; padding: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;You may be lost in the addiction to busyness if&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;ul style="margin: 0.5em 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 0px 2em; list-style-position: initial; list-style-image: initial;"&gt;&lt;li style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;Your usual response to &amp;ldquo;how are you?&amp;rdquo; is &amp;ldquo;so busy&amp;rdquo;, &amp;ldquo;crazy busy&amp;rdquo; or &amp;ldquo;busy but good&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;You spend time worrying about how busy you are going to be tomorrow&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;You get angry when your spouse or friends aren&amp;rsquo;t as busy as you&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;Your busy life keeps you up at night thinking about everything you didn&amp;rsquo;t get done&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;You make a point of letting people know that you stay at the office after hours&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;You check email several times a day&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;You zone out during conversations thinking about everything you have to do&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;You volunteer for things you don&amp;rsquo;t care about&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;You spend time complaining about how busy you are&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;You make list after list to make sure you don&amp;rsquo;t forget anything during your busy day&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;You allocate time each day to clean your desk or organize your stuff&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;You regularly eat in your car&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;You use a phone in the car because &amp;ldquo;it&amp;rsquo;s the only time you have to talk&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>The joy of life for my Spanish Rainbow</title><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/2012/12/the-joy-of-life-for-my-spanish-rainbow.html</link><category>The joy of life for my Spanish Rainbow</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</author><pubDate>Tue, 4 Dec 2012 01:56:00 -0800</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5906961967399120349.post-6835046656910033480</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;The joy of life is living it and doing things of worth,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;In making bright and fruitful the entire desert spots of earth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;In facing odds and mastering them and rising from defeat,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;And making true what once was false, and what was bitter, make sweet.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;For only you know perfect joy whose little bit of soil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;Is richer ground than what it was when you began to toil.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>: People don&amp;#39;t really want to grow up, people don&amp;#39;t really want to change, people don&amp;#39;t really want to be happy</title><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/2012/12/people-don-really-want-to-grow-up.html</link><category>: People don't really want to grow up</category><category>people don't really want to be happy</category><category>people don't really want to change</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</author><pubDate>Sun, 2 Dec 2012 16:04:00 -0800</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5906961967399120349.post-9093024919808862801</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;Do you think I am going to help anybody? No! Oh, no, no, no, no, no! Don't expect me to be of help to anyone. Nor do I expect to damage anyone. If you are damaged, you did it; and if you are helped, you did it. You really did! You think people help you? They don't. You think people support you? They don't.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;There was a woman in a therapy group I was conducting once. She was a religious sister. She said to me, "I don't feel supported by my superior." So I said, "What do you mean by that?" And she said, "Well, my superior, the provincial superior, never shows up at the novitiate where I am in charge, never. She never says a word of appreciation." I said to her, "All right let's do a little role playing. Pretend I know your provincial superior. In fact, pretend I know exactly what she thinks about you. So I say to you (acting the part of the provincial superior), 'You know, Mary, the reason I don't come to that place you're in is because it is the one place in the province that is trouble-free, no problems. I know you're in charge, so all is well.' How do you feel now?" She said, "I feel great." Then I said to her, "All right, would you mind leaving the room for a minute or two? This is part of the exercise." So she did. While she was away, I said to the others in the therapy group, "I am still the provincial superior, O.K.? Mary out there is the worst novice director I have ever had in the whole history of the province. In fact, the reason I don't go to the novitiate is because I can't bear to see what she is up to. It's simply awful. But if I tell her the truth, it's only going to make those novices suffer all the more. We are getting somebody to take her place in a year or two; we are training someone. In the meantime I thought I would say those nice things to her to keep her going. What do you think of that?" They answered, "Well, it was really the only thing you could do under the circumstances." Then I brought Mary back into the group and asked her if she still felt great. "Oh yes," she said. Poor Mary! She thought she was being supported when she wasn't. The point is that most of what we feel and think we conjure up for ourselves in our heads, including this business of being helped by people.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;Do you think you help people because you are in love with them? Well, I've got news for you. You are never in love with anyone. You're only in love with your prejudiced and hopeful idea of that person. Take a minute to think about that: You are never in love with anyone, you're in love with your prejudiced idea of that person. Isn't that how you fall out of love? Your idea changes, doesn't it? "How could you let me down when I trusted you so much?" you say to someone. Did you really trust them? You never trusted anyone. Come off it! That's part of society's brainwashing. You never trust anyone. You only trust your judgment about that person. So what are you complaining about? The fact is that you don't like to say, "My judgment was lousy." That's not very flattering to you, is it? So you prefer to say, "How could you have let me down?"&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;So there it is: People don't really want to grow up, people don't really want to change, people don't really want to be happy. As someone so wisely said to me, "Don't try to make them happy, you'll only get in trouble. Don't try to teach a pig to sing; it wastes your time and it irritates the pig." Like the businessman who goes into a bar, sits down, and sees this fellow with a banana in his ear - a banana in his ear! And he thinks, "I wonder if I should mention that to him. No, it's none of my business." But the thought nags at him. So after having a drink or two, he says to the fellow, "Excuse me, ah, you've got a banana in your ear." The fellow says, "What?" The businessman repeats, "You've got a banana in your ear. " Again the fellow says, "What was that?" "You've got a banana in your ear!" the businessman shouts. "Talk louder," the fellow says, "I've got a banana in my ear!"&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;So it's useless. "Give up, give up, give up," I say to myself. Say your thing and get out of here. And if they profit, that's fine, and if they don't, too bad!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br style="font-family: Times; font-size: medium; background-color: #f9fcd8;" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title> The Four Steps To Spiritual Wisdom</title><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/2012/12/the-four-steps-to-spiritual-wisdom.html</link><category>The Four Steps To Wisdom</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</author><pubDate>Sun, 2 Dec 2012 15:54:00 -0800</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5906961967399120349.post-4388669220484466335</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;The first thing you need to do is get in touch with negative feelings that you're not even aware of. Lots of people have negative feelings they're not aware of. Lots of people are depressed and they're not aware they are depressed. It's only when they make contact with joy that they understand how depressed they were. You can't deal with a cancer that you haven't detected. You can't get rid of boll weevils on your farm if you're not aware of their existence. The first thing you need is awareness of your negative feelings. What negative feelings? Gloominess, for instance. You're feeling gloomy and moody. You feel self-hatred or guilt. You feel that life is pointless, that it makes no sense; you've got hurt feelings, you're feeling nervous and tense. Get in touch with those feelings first.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;The second step (this is a four-step program) is to understand that the feeling is in you, not in reality. That's such a self-evident thing, but do you think people know it? They don't, believe me. They've got Ph.D.s and are presidents of universities, but they haven't understood this. They didn't teach me how to live at school. They taught me everything else. As one man said, "I got a pretty good education. It took me years to get over it." That's what spirituality is all about, you know: unlearning. Unlearning all the rubbish they taught you.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;Negative feelings are in you, not in reality. So stop trying to change reality. That's crazy! Stop trying to change the other person. We spend all our time and energy trying to change external circumstances, trying to change our spouses, our bosses, our friends, our enemies, and everybody else. We don't have to change anything. Negative feelings are in you. No person on earth has the power to make you unhappy. There is no event on earth that has the power to disturb you or hurt you. No event, condition, situation, or person. Nobody told you this; they told you the opposite. That's why you're in the mess that you're in right now. That is why you're asleep. They never told you this. But it's self-evident.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;Let's suppose that rain washes out a picnic. Who is feeling negative? The rain? Or YOU? What's causing the negative feeling? The rain or your reaction? When you bump your knee against a table, the table's fine. It's busy being what it was made to Be -- a table. The pain is in your knee, not in the table. The mystics keep trying to tell us that reality is all right. Reality is not problematic. Problems exist only in the human mind. We might add: in the stupid, sleeping human mind. Reality is not problematic. Take away human beings from this planet and life would go on, nature would go on in all its loveliness and violence. Where would the problem be? No problem. You created the problem. You are the problem. You identified with "me" and that is the problem. The feeling is in you, not in reality.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;The third step: Never identify with that feeling. It has nothing to do with the "I." Don't define your essential self in terms of that feeling. Don't say, "I am depressed." If you want to say, "It is depressed," that's all right. If you want to say depression is there, that's fine; if you want to say gloominess is there, that's fine. But not: I am gloomy. You're defining yourself in terms of the feeling. That's your illusion; that's your mistake. There is a depression there right now, there are hurt feelings there right now, but let it be, leave it alone. It will pass. Everything passes, everything. Your depressions and your thrills have nothing to do with happiness. Those are the swings of the pendulum. If you seek kicks or thrills, get ready for depression. Do you want your drug? Get ready for the hangover. One end of the pendulum swings to the other.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;This has nothing to do with "I"; it has nothing to do with happiness. It is the "me." If you remember this, if you say it to yourself a thousand times, if you try these three steps a thousand times, you will get it. You might not need to do it even three times. I don't know; there's no rule for it. But do it a thousand times and you'll make the biggest discovery in your life. To hell with those gold mines in Alaska. What are you going to do with that gold? If you're not happy, you can't live. So you found gold. What does that matter? You're a king; you're a princess. You're free; you don't care anymore about being accepted or rejected, that makes no difference. Psychologists tell us how important it is to get a sense of belonging. Baloney! Why do you want to belong to anybody? It doesn't matter anymore.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;A friend of mine told me that there's an African tribe where capital punishment consists of being ostracized. If you were kicked out of New York, or wherever you're residing, you wouldn't die. How is it that the African tribesman died? Because he partakes of the common stupidity of humanity. He thinks he will not be able to live if he does not belong. It's very different from most people, or is it? He's convinced he needs to belong. But you don't need to belong to anybody or anything or any group. You don't even need to be in love. Who told you you do? What you need is to be free. What you need is to love. That's it; that's your nature. But what you're really telling me is that you want to be desired. You want to be applauded, to be attractive, to have all the little monkeys running after you. You're wasting your life. WAKE UP! You don't need this. You can be blissfully happy without it.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;Your society is not going to be happy to hear this, because you become terrifying when you open your eyes and understand this. How do you control a person like this? He doesn't need you; he's not threatened by your criticism; he doesn't care what you think of him or what you say about him. He's cut all those strings; he's not a puppet any longer. It's terrifying. "So we've got to get rid of him. He tells the truth; he has become fearless; he has stopped being human.'' HUMAN! Behold! A human being at last! He broke out of his slavery, broke out of their prison.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;No event justifies a negative feeling. There is no situation in the world that justifies a negative feeling. That's what all our mystics have been crying themselves hoarse to tell us. But nobody listens. The negative feeling is in you. In the Bhagavad-Gita, the sacred book of the Hindus, Lord Krishna says to Arjuna, "Plunge into the heat of battle and keep your heart at the lotus feet of the Lord." A marvelous sentence.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;You don't have to do anything to acquire happiness. The great Meister Eckhart said very beautifully, "God is not attained by a process of addition to anything in the soul, but by a process of subtraction." You don't do anything to be free, you drop something. Then you're free.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;It reminds me of the Irish prisoner who dug a tunnel under the prison wall and managed to escape. He comes out right in the middle of a school playground where little children are playing. Of course, when he emerges from the tunnel he can't restrain himself anymore and begins to jump up and down, crying, "I'm free, I'm free, I'm free! A little girl there looks at him scornfully and says, "That's nothing. I'm four."&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;The fourth step: How do you change things? How do you change yourselves? There are many things you must understand here, or rather, just one thing that can be expressed in many ways. Imagine a patient who goes to a doctor and tells him what he is suffering from. The doctor says, "Very well, I've understood your symptoms. Do you know what I will do? I will prescribe a medicine for your neighbor!" The patient replies, "Thank you very much, Doctor, that makes me feel much better." Isn't that absurd? But that's what we all do. The person who is asleep always thinks he'll feel better if somebody else changes. You're suffering because you are asleep, but you're thinking, "How wonderful life would be if somebody else would change; how wonderful life would be if my neighbor changed, my wife changed, my boss changed."&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;We always want someone else to change so that we will feel good. But has it ever struck you that even if your wife changes or your husband changes, what does that do to you? You're just as vulnerable as before; you're just as idiotic as before; you're just as asleep as before. You are the one who needs to change, who needs to take medicine. You keep insisting, "I feel good because the world is right." Wrong! The world is right because I feel good. That's what all the mystics are saying.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br style="font-family: Times; font-size: medium; background-color: #f9fcd8;" /&gt;&lt;br style="font-family: Times; font-size: medium; background-color: #f9fcd8;" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>And where is this heaven</title><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/2012/12/and-where-is-this-heaven.html</link><category>And where is this heaven</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</author><pubDate>Sun, 2 Dec 2012 15:50:00 -0800</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5906961967399120349.post-6950757081472007439</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;To a disciple who was obsessed with the thought of life after death, the Master said, "Why waste a single moment thinking of the hereafter?" "But is it possible not to?" "Yes." "How?" "By living in heaven here and now." "And where is this heaven?" "In the here and now."&lt;/p&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>more important than &amp;quot;asking for&amp;quot; things and &amp;quot;getting for&amp;quot; things and &amp;quot;getting&amp;quot; things.</title><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/2012/12/more-important-than-for-things-and-for.html</link><category>more important</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</author><pubDate>Sat, 1 Dec 2012 03:37:00 -0800</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5906961967399120349.post-3925856446109852690</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td class="td1" valign="middle"&gt;&lt;p class="p1"&gt;Celebration and praise, loving attention to the presence of God, become more important than "asking for" things and "getting for" things and "getting" things.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="p1"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="p1"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Contemplation in a World of Action:&lt;/em&gt; 159&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title> the long, slow, boring and often painful route</title><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/2012/11/the-long-slow-boring-and-often-painful.html</link><category>boring and often painful route</category><category>slow</category><category>the long</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</author><pubDate>Thu, 29 Nov 2012 16:36:00 -0800</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5906961967399120349.post-1651712759523226957</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', Times, serif; line-height: 21px; background-color: #ffffff;"&gt;When it comes to our development, when it comes to real change, the long, slow, boring and often painful route is quite reliably,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em style="color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', Times, serif; line-height: 21px; background-color: #ffffff;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;the most direct.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed people can change the world.</title><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/2012/11/never-doubt-that-small-group-of.html</link><category>committed people can change the world.</category><category>Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</author><pubDate>Thu, 29 Nov 2012 16:32:00 -0800</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5906961967399120349.post-8183417255646639528</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;p style="color: #0b175f; font-family: arial; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff; margin: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #000000; font-family: georgia; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed people can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has."&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="color: #0b175f; font-family: arial; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff; margin: 0in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: #000000; font-family: georgia; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="color: #0b175f; font-family: arial; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff; margin: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #000000; font-family: georgia; font-size: small;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="color: #0b175f; font-family: arial; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff; margin: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #000000; font-family: georgia; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;- Margaret Meade&lt;/strong&gt;, was an American cultural anthropologist.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>Rule of Life is an intentional pattern of spiritual disciplines that provides structure and  direction for growth</title><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/2012/11/rule-of-life-is-intentional-pattern-of.html</link><category>Rule of Life is an intentional pattern of spiritual disciplines that provides structure and  direction for growth</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</author><pubDate>Mon, 26 Nov 2012 18:16:00 -0800</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5906961967399120349.post-787613599412588289</guid><description>&lt;div&gt;Rule of Life is an intentional pattern of spiritual disciplines that provides structure and&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;direction for growth in holiness. &amp;nbsp;A Rule establishes a rhythm for life in which is helpful for&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;being formed by the Spirit, a rhythm that reflects a love for God and respect for how he has made&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;us. &amp;nbsp;The disciplines which we build into our rhythm of life help us to shed the &amp;ldquo;old self&amp;rdquo; and&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;allow our &amp;ldquo;new self&amp;rdquo; in Christ to be formed. &amp;nbsp;Spiritual disciplines are means of grace by which&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;God can nourish us. &amp;nbsp;Ultimately a Rule should help you to love God more, so if it becomes a&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;legalistic way of earning points with God or impressing others, it should be scrapped. &amp;nbsp;If the&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;traditional, ancient term &amp;ldquo;rule&amp;rdquo; concerns you because it sounds legalistic, think of &amp;ldquo;rule&amp;rdquo; as a&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&amp;ldquo;rhythm of life&amp;rdquo; or as a &amp;ldquo;Curriculum in Christlikeness&amp;rdquo; (Dallas Willard), or as a &amp;ldquo;Game Plan for&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Morphing&amp;rdquo; (John Ortberg).&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;In order to be life-giving, a Rule must be realistic! &amp;nbsp; It is not an ideal toward which you are&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;striving to soar. &amp;nbsp;Instead, your initial Rule should be a minimum standard for your life that you&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;do not want to drop below. &amp;nbsp;It&amp;rsquo;s a realistic level of engaging in the spiritual disciplines for which&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;you can honestly and truly be held accountable.&lt;/div&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>Practicing a Rule of Life with others moves us against the grain of our individualistic culture. </title><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/2012/11/practicing-rule-of-life-with-others.html</link><category>Practicing a Rule of Life with others moves us against the grain of our individualistic culture.</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</author><pubDate>Mon, 26 Nov 2012 18:13:00 -0800</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5906961967399120349.post-7062870404191241991</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Practicing a Rule of Life with others moves us against the grain of our individualistic culture. However, I believe that a Rule should grow from the positive aspects of our life, not what we perceive to be our failings.&amp;nbsp; We should discern it in conversation with God and others in our community, and we must make God the focus of our Rule (don't focus on&amp;nbsp; negative images of ourselves) and then we move in the directions in which we feel God's calling. A Rule of Life should be a response to being loved by God in the first place, and feeling moved to become what God calls us to be in this world.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Ever since St. Benedict's time, Christians have used a Rule of Life to provide an ancient yet powerfully consistent way to live into our present and future faith.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>an apocalypse on Earth on December 21, 2012</title><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/2012/11/an-apocalypse-on-earth-on-december-21.html</link><category>2012</category><category>an apocalypse on Earth on December 21</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</author><pubDate>Mon, 26 Nov 2012 14:55:00 -0800</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5906961967399120349.post-3730289972712552621</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="color: #323232; font-family: Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px; background-color: #ffffff;"&gt;an apocalypse on Earth on December 21, 2012&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>To live in communion, in genuine dialogue with others is absolutely necessary if man is to remain human.</title><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/2012/11/to-live-in-communion-in-genuine.html</link><category>in genuine dialogue with others is absolutely necessary if man is to remain human.</category><category>To live in communion</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</author><pubDate>Mon, 26 Nov 2012 08:56:00 -0800</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5906961967399120349.post-120124749796229932</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;To live in communion, in genuine dialogue with others is absolutely necessary if man is to remain human.&lt;/p&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title> Come, dervishes: here is the water of life. Dance in it.  </title><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/2012/11/come-dervishes-here-is-water-of-life.html</link><category>Come</category><category>dervishes: here is the water of life. Dance in it.</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</author><pubDate>Sun, 25 Nov 2012 14:35:00 -0800</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5906961967399120349.post-6045000324542915337</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;Come, dervishes: here is the water of life. Dance in it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>Benedict (like Bill W) realized we must understand our dependence on God before being  restored to sanity.</title><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/2012/11/benedict-like-bill-w-realized-we-must.html</link><category>Benedict (like Bill W) realized we must understand our dependence on God before being  restored to sanity.</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</author><pubDate>Fri, 23 Nov 2012 03:09:00 -0800</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5906961967399120349.post-588859477374373265</guid><description>&lt;div&gt;Benedict (like Bill W) realized we must understand our dependence on God before being&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;restored to sanity. &amp;nbsp;&amp;ldquo;We are like a child on its mother&amp;rsquo;s lap,&amp;rdquo; Benedict writes, &amp;ldquo;cut off from&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;nourishment, helpless, left without the resources we need to grow in the spirit of God.&amp;rdquo;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title> Police have several leads in the investigation of the large forest fire that started a week ago.</title><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/2012/09/police-have-several-leads-in.html</link><category>Police have several leads in the investigation of the large forest fire that started a week ago.</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</author><pubDate>Sat, 8 Sep 2012 07:14:00 -0700</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5906961967399120349.post-1991063639137225471</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Suspicions that it was started malicously has possibly strengthened. Sources claim that the fire spread quickly because there was more than one fire. Witnesses stated inter alia, have seen an unidentified jeep coming from a farm between Oj&amp;eacute;n and Marbella exactly where the fire then got an awesome course.  In Marbella, it was announced yesterday that it is now able to restore electricity, water and telephone networks in all affected areas. It is now under the companies just the kind of disruption that is "normal". In areas Elviria Ricmar has repaired water pipes, power lines and 3000 meters telephone and fiber optic cable.  It has also been launched several campaigns to restore nature and conduct tree plantings. Biologists say that tree planting may be necessary until next year. The hotel chain Fuerte Hoteles has among other things promised to donate a tree for every hotel guest you have in Marbella. The hotels have also started a fundraiser where guests can help by buying a tree, which will then be planted in the affected area.&lt;/p&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>experts believe we can actually become &amp;quot;addicted&amp;quot; to stress. </title><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/2012/09/experts-believe-we-can-actually-become.html</link><category>Addicted to stress</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</author><pubDate>Thu, 6 Sep 2012 22:41:00 -0700</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5906961967399120349.post-5910229469889749473</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Stress can be physical,And then there&amp;rsquo;s the kind that&amp;rsquo;s in our heads &amp;mdash; that&amp;nbsp;OMG I&amp;rsquo;m so overwhelmed right now&amp;nbsp;feeling. While psychological stress has some definite downsides (chronic freak-outs may increase our risk for cancer and&amp;nbsp;other diseases), take a moment to&amp;nbsp;exhale. In&amp;nbsp;moderate amounts,&amp;nbsp;stress can&amp;nbsp;boost our focus,&amp;nbsp;energy, and even our&amp;nbsp;powers of intuition.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Still, in some cases, stress does more than light a productivity-boosting fire under our butts. Both emotional and physical stress activate our central nervous system, causing a &amp;ldquo;natural high,&amp;rdquo; says Concordia University neuroscientist and addiction specialist&amp;nbsp;Jim Pfaus.&amp;nbsp;&amp;ldquo;By activating our arousal and attention systems,&amp;rdquo; Pfaus says, &amp;ldquo;stressors can also wake up the neural circuitry underlying wanting and craving &amp;mdash; just like drugs do.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This may be why, experts believe, some of us come to like stress a little&amp;nbsp;too&amp;nbsp;much.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Type A&amp;nbsp;and&amp;nbsp;Type D&amp;nbsp;personalities &amp;mdash; or people prone to competitiveness, anxiety, and depression &amp;mdash; may be most likely to get a high from stressful situations, says stress management specialist&amp;nbsp;Debbie Mandel. Stress &amp;ldquo;addicts,&amp;rdquo; Mandel says, &amp;ldquo;may also be using endless to-do lists to avoid less-easy-to-itemize problems &amp;mdash; feelings of inadequacy, family conflicts, or other unresolved personal issues.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Some stress junkies have difficulty listening to others, concentrating, and even sleeping because they can&amp;rsquo;t put tomorrow&amp;rsquo;s agenda out of their minds, explains Mandel. Others tend to use exaggerated vocabulary &amp;mdash;&amp;nbsp;craaazy busy right now, workload&amp;rsquo;s insane!!&amp;nbsp;And some begin to feel anxious at the mere thought of slowing down their schedule.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But psychologist and addiction researcher&amp;nbsp;Stanton Peele&amp;nbsp;cautions against labeling anyone a stress addict. &amp;ldquo;Only when that pursuit of stress has a significant negative impact on your life could it qualify as addiction,&amp;rdquo; he said, adding that many people are able to effectively manage &amp;mdash; and in fact thrive under &amp;mdash; high stress conditions. (Think: Olympic athletes or President Obama.)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;Study: Stress Shrinks the Brain and Lowers Our Ability to Cope with Adversity&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For budding stress &amp;ldquo;addicts&amp;rdquo; or for those who just, well, feel overwhelmed, here are some tips to dial down that anxiety:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Seek professional help&amp;nbsp;if you&amp;rsquo;re verging on&amp;nbsp;burnout. (Not only can hashing it out with a therapist take a load off your mind. Some studies suggest it also&amp;nbsp;boosts physical fitness.)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Do something creative.&amp;nbsp;Mandel recommends carving out a once-weekly time&amp;nbsp;not&amp;nbsp;to think about tomorrow&amp;rsquo;s agenda by painting, cooking, writing, dancing, or anything else that&amp;rsquo;ll take you off the clock temporarily.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Take it outside.&amp;nbsp;Numerous studies show spending time in nature improves&amp;nbsp;general well-being, lowers&amp;nbsp;anxiety, stress&amp;nbsp;and&amp;nbsp;depression, and even boosts self-confidence. Especially&amp;nbsp;for women. (As it turns out, most addiction recovery centers offer&amp;nbsp;outdoor-immersion programs.)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Calm down quickly.&amp;nbsp;If you&amp;nbsp;really&amp;nbsp;don&amp;rsquo;t have time for any of the above, these&amp;nbsp;40 tricks to chill take five minutes or less.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;Some of us may seek out stress a bit more excessively than others and struggle to just relax. It takes skill to handle hectic agendas and long lists of responsibilities &amp;mdash; without losing sleep or feeling frazzled. So try these tips and try not to freak out.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Worried that you or someone you know seeks out stress a little too much? Think stress addiction is a myth? Tell us about it in the comments section below.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 15px; vertical-align: baseline; font-family: Georgia, serif; line-height: 22px;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>For those red wine drinkers who’ve been feeling morally superior about all the health benefits of the relaxing glass or two sipped during dinner, there’s some bad news on the horizon.</title><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/2012/09/for-those-red-wine-drinkers-whove-been.html</link><category>alcohol in red wine actually weakens its ability to lower blood pressure.</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</author><pubDate>Thu, 6 Sep 2012 22:32:00 -0700</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5906961967399120349.post-5351944503984631323</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;Turns out, those glasses of wine would be a lot healthier if they were non-alcoholic, a new study shows.&amp;nbsp; Spanish researchers led by Gemma Chiva-Blanch of the University of Barcelona found that non-alcoholic red wine reduced blood pressure in men at high risk for heart disease better than standard red wine or gin, according to the study published in the American Heart Association journal Circulation Research. Although the reduction in both systolic and diastolic blood pressure was modest, decreases of just 4 and 2 mm Hg have been associated with a 14 to 20 percent reduction in heart disease and stroke, the researchers pointed out. &amp;ldquo;The daily consumption of dealcoholized red wine could be useful for the prevention of low to moderate hypertension,&amp;rdquo; they concluded. &amp;nbsp;Although there have been many studies on the impact of moderate drinking on health, the findings have been mixed, with some studies showing a benefit and others suggesting none. The new study found that 3 ounces of gin a day had no impact on blood pressure, while consumption of regular red wine led to a small, but not statistically significant, improvement. The new study suggests that if you&amp;rsquo;re going to have a drink, red wine would be the healthiest choice, said Dr. Kelly Anne Spratt, a heart disease prevention specialist and a clinical associate professor of medicine at the University of Pennsylvania.  Still, Spratt said, &amp;ldquo;while there are those of us in cardiology who believe in the benefits of red wine, we want to be wary. We&amp;rsquo;re not going like gangbusters recommending people go out and start drinking. There are a lot of problems associated with drinking, like weight gain, cardiomyopathy, alcoholism, an increased breast cancer risk in women who consume two or more drinks a day.&amp;rdquo; Chiva-Blanch and her colleagues suspect that blood pressure improvements were due to the impact of polyphenols, a red wine component, on nitric oxide. The theory is that nitric oxide molecules help blood vessels relax, which allows better flow and more blood to reach the heart and other organs. For the new study, Chiva-Blanch and her colleagues followed 67 men with diabetes or three or more cardiovascular risk factors. During the study, the men were all required to consume the same foods along with one of three drinks: 10 ounces of red wine, 10 ounces of non-alcoholic red wine or 3 ounces of gin. During the 12 week study, the men tried each diet/beverage combination for four weeks at a time. The researchers determined that the standard red wine and its nonalcoholic counterpart contained equal amounts of polyphenols, an antioxidant which has been shown to decrease blood pressure. Men who drank regular red wine saw minor reductions in blood pressure &amp;ndash; too small, in fact, to be statistically significant. Those who drank gin with their meals saw no change in blood pressure. But men who drank non-alcoholic red wine saw a blood pressure decrease of about 6 mm Hg in systolic and 2 mm Hg in diastolic blood pressure. Chiva-Blanch and her colleagues concluded that their findings show that the alcohol in red wine actually weakens its ability to lower blood pressure.&lt;/p&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>Dream Warriors Testament: PART 1 ROCK BOTTOM  Flash News best selling new addiction book</title><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/2012/09/dream-warriors-testament-part-1-rock.html</link><category>Flash News best selling new addiction book</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</author><pubDate>Sun, 2 Sep 2012 11:29:00 -0700</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5906961967399120349.post-4561935807347678642</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;div class="article-header" style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; display: table; text-align: center; width: 750px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;h1 class="title entry-title" style="margin: 0px; position: relative; font-size: 20px; font-weight: normal; padding: 0px 40px 0px 0px; color: #00b2b4; width: 670px; display: table-cell; vertical-align: middle;"&gt;&lt;a style="color: #00b2b4; outline-style: none; text-decoration: none;" rel="bookmark" href="http://galatictours.blogspot.com/2012/09/blackout-oblivion-was-where-my-advanced.html"&gt;Dream Warriors Testament:PART 1 ROCK BOTTOM&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;span class="blog-admin" style="display: inline;"&gt;&lt;a class="edit" style="color: #00b2b4; outline-style: none; text-decoration: none; background-image: url(data; cursor: pointer; display: inline-block; height: 21px; opacity: 0.8; position: relative; top: 3px; width: 21px; background-position: 50% 50%; background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat;" title="Edit" href="http://www.blogger.com/post-edit.g?blogID=3922196140932006510&amp;amp;postID=8579897959452871652&amp;amp;from=pencil" target="_self"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="article-content entry-content" style="margin: 10px auto 5px; outline: none; padding: 0px; clear: both; color: #333333; line-height: 1.4; text-align: justify; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;div style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: left;" dir="ltr"&gt;Dream Warriors&amp;nbsp;testament, Arriving at a time in my life after thirty years of not drinking to leave an honest account of what it was like, my experience the good and the bad, the addictions of which alcohol was but one, the&amp;nbsp;&lt;a class="zem_slink" style="color: #00b2b4; outline-style: none; text-decoration: none; display: inline;" title="Religious experience" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Religious_experience" target="_blank"&gt;spiritual experiences&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;and the formation of my personal program.The founding of&amp;nbsp;&lt;a class="zem_slink" style="color: #00b2b4; outline-style: none; text-decoration: none; display: inline;" title="Narcotics Anonymous" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcotics_Anonymous" target="_blank"&gt;Narcotics Anonymous&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;in&amp;nbsp;&lt;a class="zem_slink" style="color: #00b2b4; outline-style: none; text-decoration: none; display: inline;" title="Spain" rel="geolocation" href="http://maps.google.com/maps?ll=40.4333333333,-3.7&amp;amp;spn=10.0,10.0&amp;amp;q=40.4333333333,-3.7%20(Spain)&amp;amp;t=h" target="_blank"&gt;Spain&lt;/a&gt;.The trails and tribulations of the battles and failures with the ego.Many people need to remain&amp;nbsp;anonymous within my journal and many may see there rolls&amp;nbsp;differently.The writing is by a dyslexic this is not an excuse but a fact.Without the help of AA,NA,CA,ALANON,OA,SA and CODA this story would have not been possible.Many Angels have appeared in my life and I acknowledge you all.My sponsor and&amp;nbsp;authentic&amp;nbsp;founder of NA Spain remains my confident and long term friend.This person without any thought of reward spent endless time supporting me threw the early years of recovery&amp;nbsp; and whom I will be&amp;nbsp;eternally&amp;nbsp;grateful.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;PART 1 ROCK BOTTOM&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;Now cast your mind back thirty years.A hopeless drunk is staggering our of a nightclub set in an area known as over the border in a North East English town. The street lights&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;shimmering off the tarmac rushed towards me as I crumpled into unconsciosness My semicomatse head bouncing off the granite curbstones feeling like a gentle caress. Blackout, oblivion was where my advanced alcoholism always took me. The promise of a wonderous adventure filled illusions had long since disappeared.The idea that I could handle alcohol or drugs had seemed irrelevant the inevitability of my condition overcame me I dimmely felt hands rifleing threw my pockets. Hopelessly drunk I was incapable of doing anything even my bodily functions now took care of themselves. Death, whatever that was, would have been welcomed as yet another phase of insane bingeing ran its course.By know I was starting to understand that once I drank I had no control over the outcome.All the excuses had been used up and I was in utter bewilderment as to why my longtime friend alcohol had turned on me.Where had my friends disappeared to and the conviviality of there happy company.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;The answer crashed into my befuddled brain I had used up all there excuses as well as mine and had become the unfunny court jester who continuosly embarrassed them with drunken brawling heaping abuse onto those closest to me as the full reality of my condition became apparent to them all.The witty raconteaur had become the stinking drunk,bloated vomiting and unfunny.In reality I sorted out dark places where people like me sort the company of like minded others.The illegal blues clubs and shebeens the drinking dens for prostitutes and criminals.I could not resist the call to visit once I had, had that first drink.It did not matter what it was for I had long since recognised that if it was a weak shandy or a double whisky the results would be exactly the same.It came as no surprise to be lying in the gutter blacked out.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;What did come as a surprise was to be sitting in the back of a taxicab.What had happened had I met with a good Samaritan for they where a rareity in this area of dockland.I was over the years after this to try many times to attempt to rationalise this answer out. Had some golden lady of the night rescued me doubtful but possible or a kindly taxi driver even more improbable.Yet here I was being dropped off outside my front door in a small suburban village.My eyes fearfully scanned the street for what had become the inevitable results of my binges a police car.I thanked the taxi driver and searched for my keys.No police car but now the guilt and remorse the terrible psychical withdrawal from alcohol gripped my being. I must have another drink as my skin started crawling and the stomach wrenching vomit reflex took hold.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;It was at this time I recognised that all the lights were on yet there was no one in the house.I stopped I glanced at the red flock wallpaper with the glistening remains of the whisky glass catching the evidential reflection of the lights.Yes this was the right house.There was the drinks cupboard it was open nothing remained. Panic,fear my head whirled a neon red sign shown in my head NO DRINK.No drink nothing.I heard a car drive up my car, my wife.I needed to get what was left of the brain into gear.I wracked my brain for a solution something that would work something that would give one more drink anything.She was on the path give me an idea any idea nothing. The withdrawls were kicking in the shakeing was starting with the first tremors my fingers twitched as the withdrawls started.Its just a hangover.You used the magic word that would start the withdrawl HANGOVER. I didn&amp;rsquo;t do hangovers anymore I just got sick very sick very quickly.How the hell was I to get a drink I must have a drink.I needed a solution fast any solution.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>During experiments on the axons of the Woods Hole squid (loligo pealei), we tested our cockroach leg stimulus protocol on the squid&amp;#39;s chromatophores.</title><link>http://blogvine.blogspot.com/2012/08/during-experiments-on-axons-of-woods.html</link><category>During experiments on the axons of the Woods Hole squid (loligo pealei)</category><category>we tested our cockroach leg stimulus protocol on the squid's chromatophores.</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (LIQUID NEWS ENGINE)</author><pubDate>Sat, 25 Aug 2012 04:02:00 -0700</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5906961967399120349.post-5246347088361363124</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;The results were both interesting and beautiful. The video is a view through an 8x microscope zoomed in on the dorsal side of the caudal fin of the squid. We used a suction electrode to stimulate the fin nerve. Chromatophores are pigmeted cells that come in 3 colors: Brown, Red, and Yellow. Each chromatophore is lined with up to 16 muscles that contract to reveal their color.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Paloma T. Gonzalez-Bellido of Roger Hanlon's Lab in the Marine Resource Center of the Marine Biological Labs helped us with the preparation. 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