love

Do you love to Play Games

2007-10-21T09:49:00.001-07:00

Playing games with your lover is fun. Don't play games with cheat and hacks like the man did. Or else you will broke up.

Get the love Halo3 Cheat Code here.

women - problems

2007-10-17T02:24:00.000-07:00

Woman will always causing problems to us. women is equal to problem.

by xbrain

Are You Marry The Right Person

2007-07-25T08:10:00.000-07:00

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?
( Dr. John C. Maxwell )

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?" I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.
Here's the answer: EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU. Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades . It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, church, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could.

And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):
THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND. SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the expression "the labor of love." Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships.
Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can "make" love.

Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling. "Though you cannot go back and make a brand new start, my friend. Anyone can start from now and make a

Dato Khalid Jiwa Gaduh Dengan Siti Nurhaliza

2007-07-14T23:44:00.000-07:00

Where is the love between them if dato Khalid jiwa can punched his wife dato siti nurhaliza. What the fuck of their doing, fight and fight all day long.

i love xbrain

2007-06-15T09:09:00.000-07:00

xbrain inspiring world i love so much

walla walla walla

2007-05-23T02:32:00.001-07:00

inspiring world
inspiring world

Fun Facts For those Born 1929 - 1979

2007-05-15T12:29:00.000-07:00

Here are some fun facts if you are born from 1929 - 1979. They are really hiliarious and they certainly bring back many memories! Oh those feelings of nostalgia...

Those Born 1929-1979!

TO ALL THE KIDS WHO SURVIVED the
1930's 40's, 50's, 60's and 70's !!!

* First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they were pregnant.
They took aspirin, ate blue cheese dressing, tuna from a can, and didn't get tested for diabetes.
* Then after that trauma, we were put to sleep on our tummies in baby cribs covered with bright colored lead-based paints.
* We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets and when we
rode our bikes, we had no helmets, not to mention, the risks we took hitchhiking.
* As infants & children, we would ride in cars with no car seats, booster seats, seat belts or air bags.
* Riding in the back of a pick up on a warm day was always a special treat.
* We drank water from the garden hose and NOT from a bottle.
* We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and NO ONE actually died from this.
* We ate cupcakes, white bread and real butter and drank koolaide made with sugar, but we weren't overweight because... WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING!!!
* We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the streetlights came on.
* No one was able to reach us all day. And we were O.K.
* We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then ride down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into the bushes a few times and wiping out, we learned to solve the problem.
* We did not have Playstations, Nintendo's, X-boxes, no video games at all, no 150 channels on cable, no video movies or DVD's, no surround-sound or CD's, no cell phones, no personal computers, no Internet or chat rooms... WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them!
* We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits from these acccidents.
* We ate worms and mud pies made from dirt, and the worms did not live in us forever.
* We were given BB guns for our 10th birthdays, made up games with sticks and tennis balls and, although we were told it would happen, we did not put out very many eyes.
* We rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and knocked on the door, or rang the bell, or just walked in and talked to them!
* Little League had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't had to learn to deal with disappointment. Imagine that!?
* The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law!
* These generations have produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers and inventors ever!

The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas.

We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned

HOW TO DEAL WITH IT ALL!

If YOU are one of them . . . CONGATULATIONS!

-No Sex Tonight-

2007-05-09T01:00:00.000-07:00

I never quite figured out why the sexual urge of men and women differ so
much. And I never have figured out the whole Venus and Mars thing. I have
never figured out why men think with their head and women with their heart.

FOR EXAMPLE: One evening last week, my girlfriend and I were getting into
bed.

Well, the passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says

"I don't feel
like it, I just want you to hold me."

I said "WHAT??!! What was that?!"

So she says the words that every boyfriend on the planet dreads to hear...
"You're just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me
to satisfy your physical needs as a man." She responded to my puzzled look
by saying, "Can't you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in
the bedroom?"

Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night, I went to sleep.

The very next day I opted to take the day off of work to spend time with
her. We went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at a big, big
unnamed department store. I walked around with her while she tried on
several different very expensive outfits. She couldn't decide which one to
take so I told her we'd just buy them all. She wanted new shoes to
compliment her new clothes, so I said lets get a pair for each outfit. We
went onto the jewelry department where she picked out a pair of diamond
earrings. Let me tell you...she was so excited. She must have thought I was
one wave short of a shipwreck.
I started to think she was testing me because she asked for a tennis bracelet when she doesn't even know how to play
tennis. I think I threw her for a loop when I said, "That's fine, honey."
She was almost nearing sexual satisfaction from all of the excitement.
Smiling with excited anticipation she finally said, "I think this is all
dear, let's go to the cashier."

I could hardly contain myself when I blurted out, "No honey, I don't feel
like it."

Her face just went completely blank as her jaw dropped with a baffled
WHAT?"

I then said "honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a while. You're
just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy
your shopping needs as a woman." And just when she had this look like she
was going to kill me, I added, "Why can't you just love me for who I am and
not for the things I buy you?"

Apparently I'm not having sex tonight either.

12 Ways on how To be A Good Dad -xBrain-

2007-05-08T11:10:00.000-07:00

1. Put their interests first, always. Do you enjoy drinking or smoking? Guess what — it’s not good for them, and you’re setting an example with everything you do. I quit smoking about 18 months ago not for my sake, but for my kids. Now, it is still important to take care of yourself (otherwise you can’t take care of them), but you should still have them in mind.

2. Protect them. As a dad, one of your main roles is protector. There are many ways you need to do this. Safety is one: child-proof your home, teach them good safety habits, set a good example by using your seatbelt, make sure they use a car seat if below a certain age & weight, etc. But financial protection is also important: have life insurance, car insurance, an emergency fund, a will.

3. Spend your spare time with them. When we get home from work, often we’re tired and just want to relax. But this is the only time we have with them during the weekdays, often, and you shouldn’t waste it. Take this time to find out about their day, lay on the couch with them. On weekends, devote as much time as possible to them. While work may be your passion, it won’t be long before they’re grown and no longer want to spend time with you. Take advantage of these years. The thing kids want most from their dads is their time.

4. Give them hugs. Dads shouldn’t be afraid to show affection. Kids need physical contact, and not just from their moms. Snuggle with them, hug them, love them.

5. Play with them. Go outside and play sports. Do a treasure hunt. Have a pillow fight. Play Transformers or Pokemon with them. Don’t just watch TV. Show them how to have fun. See 100 Ways to Have Fun with Your Kids for Free or Cheap.

6. Do the “mom” stuff. Things that are traditionally considered “mom” duties are not just for moms anymore — changing diapers, feeding, bathing, rocking them to sleep in the middle of the night. Dads should help out as much as they can, sharing these types of duties equally if possible. And in fact, if you’re a dad of a baby, this is the perfect time to bond with your child. You should leap at the chance to do these things, because that’s how you start a life-long close relationship with your child.

7. Read to them. This is one of the most important things you can do for your child. First of all, it’s so much fun. Kids books are really cool, and it’s great when you can share something this wonderful with your child. Second, you are teaching them one of the most fundamentally important skills (reading) that will pay off dividends for life. And third, you are spending time with them, you’re sitting or lying close together, and you are enjoying each other’s company. See the Best All-Time Children’s Books.

8. Stand by mom. Don’t contradict their mother in front of them, don’t fight with her in front of them, and most definitely don’t ever abuse her. How you treat their mother affects their self-esteem, and the way they will treat themselves and women when they grow up. Be kind and respectful and loving of their mother. And always work as a team — never contradicting statements of the other.

9. Teach them self-esteem. Maybe this should be No. 1. Well, these aren’t in any order, but this is one of the most important points. There is nothing you can do that is better than giving them high self-esteem. How do you do this? A million ways, but mainly by showing them (not telling them) that you value them, by spending time with them, by talking and listening to them, by praising things they do, by teaching them (not telling them) how to be competent. Praise and encourage, don’t reprimand and discourage.

10. Teach them about finances. This is a point often missed in articles about dadhood. You might not need to teach your 1-year-old about index funds or portfolio diversity, but from an early age, you can teach them the value of money, how to save money to reach a goal, and later, how earn money and how to manage money properly. You don’t want your child to go into the world knowing as little as you did, do you?

11. Be good to yourself. You shouldn’t give up your entire life when you become a dad. You need to take care of yourself, give yourself some alone time, and some time with your buddies, in order to be a great dad when you’re with your kids. Also take care of your health — eat healthy, exercise — because
1) you can’t take care of your kids if you’re sickly,
2) you are teaching your kids how to be healthy for life, and
3) you want to enjoy those grandkids someday.

12. Be good to the mom. This isn’t the same as No. 8 — you should be good to their mom even when they’re not looking. Take her to dinner, give her a massage, do chores around the house for her, give her some time alone and babysit while she goes out, show affection to her, give her little surprises. Because when mom’s happy, the kids are happy. And dad will be happy too!

Love Spell

2007-05-03T12:06:00.001-07:00

This is love - Married for 30 years already

Anything can goes

2007-05-02T14:41:00.000-07:00

found this cool blog today

2007-05-02T03:33:00.000-07:00

Female Orgasm 101

Men, hold on to your hats! You are about to be let in on a whole new world of secrets! A world that has the power to confuse, mystify, and bewilder…

Woman's SexualityThe world of the female orgasm!

The female body is a complex work of art – beautiful to look at, but difficult to figure out… especially when it comes to orgasm.

Many men find it difficult to understand the female sexual response cycle simply because it differs so much from their own.

Here is a brief overview of what happens during a female orgasm:

* Stimulation of clitoris
* Tension build-up is caused within pelvis
* Tension is finally released and orgasm is experienced
* Series of involuntary (yet pleasurable) muscle contractions sweep through body
* Contractions are felt in the vagina, uterus, and/or rectum

Unlike with the male orgasm, women have the ability to feel many different types of climaxes. These climaxes are dependent on the types of stimuli used, and whether the orgasm is clitoral or vaginal.

Female OrgasmSo, before you start poking and prodding in all the wrong places, learn all there is to know about the female orgasm – how it happens, and most importantly, how to make it happen.

This site will answer every question you’ve ever had about the female orgasm, but were too afraid to ask – from positions to toys, from G-Spots to multiple orgasms…

You’ll surely impress her with “sexpertise” the next time you’re in the bedroom.

Bring Me All Your Love

2007-05-01T01:15:00.000-07:00

Please don't bring me flowers
Tied up in a pretty bow
I'd trade a thousand roses
For just one hand to hold

And I don't want no candy
Sugar hurts my teeth
All I want is you tonight
That'd be really sweet

(Chorus:)
There's nothin' and the five and dime
That I really need
Your kiss is the only gift
That means a thing to me
Bring me all your lovin'
That's somethin' you ain't tried
Bring me all your lovin'
And I'll be satisfied

I don't want a poem
Written fancy on a card
I'd rather have "I love you"
Scribbled on my heart

And I won't wear a new dress
From the downtown store
Wrap me up in your arms
And, baby, I'll be yours

(Repeat chorus 1)

(Chorus 2:)
There's nothin' and the five and dime
That I really need
Your kiss is the only gift
That means a thing to me
Yeah, bring me all your lovin'
Somethin' you can't buy
Bring me all your lovin'
And I'll give you all of mine

Yeah, bring me all your lovin'
Throw your presents in the creek
Bring me all your lovin'
And I'll be tickled pink

Take A Break

2007-04-30T13:34:00.000-07:00

Best Florist In Malaysia

2007-04-30T11:09:00.000-07:00

http://www.love.com.my/

Suddenly i just type in www.love.com.my and i hope it is a dating site like www.love.com, but surprisingly i found out that the website belong to a florist in Malaysia.

This is the quote from the shop :

LOVE.com.my Sdn Bhd is a MALAYSIA FLORIST specialising in free delivery of fresh flowers, Hand Bouquets, Flower Basket, Fruits & Flowers, Gifts & Flowers, Congratulatory Flora Stands and Cakes to most areas within Kuala Lumpur, Selangor, Klang Valley and main cities in Malaysia. We provide better designs of fresh flowers bouquets and arrangements and supply them at cheaper prices than other florists in Malaysia.

Please browse through our online florist catalogue to select the bouquet or arrangement of your choice. In the event that you fail to find that special something, you may call us or email us to tailor make your gift. We will also be willing to go all the way to grab your special cake, message card, teddy bears or anything you like. Try us out today!

Delivery on the same day is possible provided order is received before 3p.m. local time.

WOW! Man Pulls His Entire Eye Out of its Socket and Looks Around

2007-04-27T22:36:00.001-07:00

Freakishly cool-But This should be included in the Ripley`s Believe it or not

read more | digg story

a GOOD idea to give your loves One

2007-04-27T12:57:00.000-07:00

Love Spell

2007-04-25T03:56:00.001-07:00

Every time I look at you
my heart skips a beat
I wonder if you know, my love,
that my heart is at your feet
I leave it there for you to do
whatever that you wish
You could take my heart,
and love me,
Or just leave me in this bliss.

- Ana Martinez -

I Love You- Many Different Language

2007-04-24T01:11:00.000-07:00

Afrikaans	Ek is lief vir jou!
Albanian	Te dua!
Amharic	Afekrishalehou!
Arabic	Ohiboke / Nohiboka
Armenian	Yes kez si'rumem!
Basque	Maite zaitut!
Bengali	Ami tomake bahlobashi!
Bosnian	Volim te!
Bulgarian	Obicham te!
Catalan	T'estimo!
Creole	Mi aime jou!
Croatian	Volim te!
Czech	Miluji te^v!
Danish	Jeg elsker dig!
Dutch	Ik hou van je!
English	I love you!
Esperanto	Mi amas vin!
Estonian	Mina armastan sind!
Farsi	Tora dost daram!
Filipino	Iniibig kita!
Finnish	(Mä) rakastan sua!
French	Je t'aime!
Frisian	Ik hald fan dei!
Galician	Querote!
German	Ich liebe dich!
Greek	S'ayapo!
Gujarati	Hoon tane pyar karoochhoon! tane chaahuN chhuN!
Hawaiian	Aloha wau ia 'oe!
Hebrew	Anee ohev otakh / Anee ohevet otkha / Anee ohev otkha / Anee ohevet otakh
Hindi	Mai tumase pyar karata hun / Mai tumase pyar karati hun
Hungarian	Szeretlek!
Icelandic	Eg elska thig!
Indonesian	Saya cinta padamu!
Irish	t'a gr'a agam dhuit!
Italian	Ti amo!
Japanese	Kimi o ai shiteru!
Korean	Dangsinul saranghee yo!
Latin	Te amo!
Latvian	Es tevi milu!
Lithuanian	As tave myliu!
Malaysian	Saya cintamu!
Mandarin	Wo ai ni!
Marshallese	Yokwe Yuk!
Norwegian	Jeg elsker deg!
Polish	Kocham ciebie!
Portuguese	Eu te amo!
Romanian	Te iubesc!
Russian	Ya tyebya lyublyu!
Sanskrit	twayi snihyaami
Serbian	Volim te!
Sesotho	Kiyahurata!
Slovak	Lubim ta!
Slovenian	Ljubim te!
Spanish	Te amo!
Swahili	Nakupenda!
Swedish	Jag älskar dig!
Tagalog	Mahal kita!
Thai	Phom rug khun / Chan rug khun
Turkish	Seni seviyorum!
Ukrainian	Ya tebe kokhayu!
Urdu	Main tumse muhabbat karta hoon!
Vietnamese	Anh yeu em / Em yeu an
Welsh	Rwy'n dy garu di!
Yiddish	Kh'hob dikh lib!
Zulu	Ngiyakuthanda!

Online Soulmate - Poem

2007-04-24T01:08:00.000-07:00

She was the yin to his yang.
He was the dot to her "i".

When she was black or white,
he was her colors in between.

He finished her sentence
she felt his thoughts.

They understood from the inside out
because that's how they began.

She was the words and he the notes
together, an endless song.

He was her real after surreal dreams
she the pier where he anchored his soul.

He was the rope when all else pulled her away
she was his lamp in the dark.

Hers were the blue that mirrored the brown
in the looking glass eyes of the heart.

She was the soft to his hard
and when the door had closed
oh, when the lights blinked out ...

they were as both fire and ice
blurring the lines
between the she and the he

until he was time
she the clock
and together, an eternity.

So, what is Cyberlove?

2007-04-24T00:44:00.000-07:00

Thanks to the late 20th century technology the Danish Maria and Martijn of Holland met on a chatline. For months they've talked and sent letters to each other with the help of their computers as they found themselves falling head over heels in love. It was then they've decided to meet in the real, not only the virtual, world. It was not easy to arrange as the young man and his lady were separated by 700 very real kilometers, but the date was a success and Maria and Martijn have been living together happily ever since. They've created a home page to let the world know how they've found happiness via the Internet and introduce couples who've met under similar circumstances.

MsGreenFields had hoped for a similar romance when she met her love on the internet. They've arranged to meet. The lonely young woman felt she'd finally found the man with whom she can live with in harmony and realize her dreams. Their personalities and interests were so similar and even their goals seemed to match well. She was not disappointed in his physical appearance either - the man was elegantly dressed, and the romantic champagne dinner, dance and the man's compliments and attention toward her during the evening all served to fuel her feelings of happy expectation. What could have been the happiest of nights turned into a nightmare when they got to her apartment. The man she just spent a wonderful evening with turned into Mr. Hyde and brutally raped her and disappeared. She didn't even have the opportunity to report the incident to the police. What could she have said about the man she knew only as StandByMe through electronic contact and who supposedly, just arrived from Las Vegas. More than likely, StandByMe continues to prowl cyberspace looking for new victims probably under a new nickname and, of course, unpunished.

These two stories are merely two samples of the many experiences you may find on different web sites that feature the topic cyberlove.

Throughout history men and women had used a variety of means to find each other. Internet romance according to some is a bizarre method, and others it is a 'natural' for the 90's, to meet potential mates. Reading enough pages of people's experiences one could consider a decent length novel, has formed an interesting picture in me of internet romance.

Romances formed on the internet follow a characteristic script. The development of emotional intimacy is a long process, sometimes taking several months. "Love at first byte" is rare although there are examples (Steven J. Baumrucher wrote a book by that title recounting his own experiences details of which may be read on the net). The initial light exchanges, whether by e-mail or in chat rooms, are generally followed by increasingly self revealing topics, where after a while the two strangers perceive each other as a true friend. Hearts open and an avalanche of e-mail crosses cyberspace carrying literary quality, electric messages are even enhanced with verses, virtual gifts (flowers, kisses, animated pictures). Could any heart with romantic inclinations resist? When you reach for the mouse with sweaty palms and butterflies in the stomach to look in the in-box for new mail - there's just no way to escape the fact - love has arrived.

In more fortunate cases the couple exchanged digitalized photos of themselves through the course of correspondence. This helps to ease the jolt of the initial meeting - which is a critical moment in every cyber love story. It is easy to understand if you realize what hopes and ideals our hero nursed up to that moment. (This reminds me of my colleague who showed up to meet his blind date - through a newspaper ad. He stood on the corner as agreed with a bouquet of roses when the girl approached. Poor Bela could not have slipped away unnoticed, but had a quick escape by saying - 'hello, unfortunately my friend could not come, but he wanted you to have these flowers.) Mr. Romeo must have felt far worse when after corresponding with his e-mail love for the past six months stepped off the plane to find out that she is not really a she, but a transvestite. That was the one minor detail his 'sweetheart' neglected to mention.

Whether in real life or in cyber space, there is real pain and disappointment that accompanies love or what was presumed as love. Many chose anonymity of meeting electronically thinking the distance provides a cushioning from the usual pains of a relationship. This is not true. Those who don't observe the rules of caution can suffer real and long healing scars. If we want to protect ourselves from the possible traps it would be useful to visit the romancesite.com website, where we can find many good advice and useful tips on 'how' and 'how not' to meet or flirt on the net. The web page contains real stories giving an opportunity to learn from the mistake of others and have a better chance to recognize the suspicious characters lurking in cyberspace.

Don't think the only danger to your emotions is the lies your partner may tell. Sometimes it may be what we do to delude ourselves that bring negative consequences. While these internet relationships are real enough the invisibility of the partner must be countered somehow and this results in generous doses of fantasizing for some people. There are those who easily lend themselves to daydreaming and loose their sense of reality. These people are prone to adorn their loved one with characteristics and appearance of a hero from a novel. It is difficult to escape from this dream back into reality unharmed. After the first kiss the prince turns into a frog and the story comes to an unexpected conclusion.

How does a cyber romance vary from a real life romance? Perhaps one significant difference is that communication plays such a large part. Words that convey feelings have enormous effect. While before a real date we fix our hair and our clothes, on the internet we polish our intellect, imagination and personality. In essence the sequence is reversed - first we show our inner beauty and only after it had won victory does the veil fall off the physical vehicle of that personality at the time of that first meeting in person.

It is a popular topic in cyberspace to debate whether or not true love can develop merely on an intellectual level, that is without the physical attraction, the familiarity of the other's appearance? To put it another way: is the physical appearance of the man or woman play a part in the relationship if through the exchange of thoughts and feelings they already fell in love?

Many say it is against the nature of love to be deprived of the sense of sight, the look, the movement, the body language being present. There are those, of course, who favor internet relationships claiming that the intensity of the emotional relationship that develops in such a way is superior to the mere stirring of the flesh.

Whatever the opinion may be on cyberlove - it must be said in favor of the internet that it puts people in touch with people that otherwise would never have met. I never would have suspected that the first person I met by e-mail would be a German chimney sweep to whom after a year of correspondence, although no emotional, but a common interest still binds.

There are examples where a real life relationship is damaged because one party gets entangled in a virtual romance that may turn serious. I remember a local newspaper carrying a story of a mother of three, who left her husband and children to live with a man who webbed her heart through cyberspace. Her story is not singular by any means. Ann Landers established a club for men and women who perceive the net as the demon that destroyed their marriage or lost their partner because they discovered Mr. or Ms. Right on the web. These letters and Ann Landers' responses may be found online at the Chicago Tribune web site.

It is silly to perceive the net as a demon, when we determine how we meet its challenges. While there are those who can use the net to their advantage extracting useful information, there are those who become addicts losing common sense, hopping from chat room to chat room, writing piles of e-mails full of lies to chosen victims and the virtual reality, the flirtations become a part of their everyday lives as some disease. One thing is true - the net is very addictive. According to the confession of a multiple substance addict, it was easier to give up cocaine than the IRC.

If, despite all we've said, there are those who still chose the internet as the means to find a partner, they can try the numerous IRC channels, Java chat rooms, the ICQ, online matchmaking services, correspondence groups or in a variety of mailing lists and newsgroups (alt.romance, alt.soulmates) or place their graphically constructed personal home page on-line through which one may convey to the world any information desired. There are many available choices, one need only live with the opportunity.

In any case - be cautious that you don't end up like Mr. Romeo. Keep your eyes open off-line as well - turn off the machine and go to a dance or a club, because most women still expect to be courted in a real, old fashioned, romantic way.

Question, question and question

2007-04-22T20:09:00.001-07:00

After you have had a few dates with someone and you think it might be going somewhere, you begin to ask more serious questions about their childhood, family, job etc.
Eventually the relationship might progress to where the really tough questions must be asked. Like "have you ever slept with someone without using a condom" or "how much debt do you have"? There is no easy way to bring up these questions.
Recently, I received a copy of Michael Webb's newest book, 1000 Questions for Couples: What you absolutely must know about the person you are with. This book is going to make those difficult questions much easier to ask.
The questions start off easy like "Has anyone dear to you died? How did you handle it" and "About what things are you most selfish." They slowly progress (just like your relationship should) until you get to those questions that you simply can't avoid if you are going to commit your life to living with someone. There are questions on drug addictions, abuse, child rearing, finances and lots of questions about sex. And because these questions are coming from a book, you don't feel like "you" are asking them.
A special bonus that I really liked was the option to get 3-5 of the book's questions emailed to me each day. That way I could forward the questions on to my beloved and we could each read over them and forward the answers to each other that night. I can see where this would be very valuable for those in long distance relationships.
While there are a lot of questions in this book that are crucial for couples in the dating stage, the majority of the questions are useful for people who are already married. If you value your relationship, I urge you to ask these 1000 Questions for Couples. Click here.

How to drive your men wild

2007-04-22T20:07:00.000-07:00

If someone were to offer you more love, more romance, and more passion... each and every day for the rest of your life... would you be willing to give up just one dinner out with your partner?
I work together with Rassiter Romance Research to bring you some great books about how to improve your love life. Their books are mostly written for women but being a SNAG (Sensitive New Age Guy) I also got my fair share of information out of their books...
When ever I tell my readers, like yourself, about a great book, I make sure that I've read it first and also like it. If it doesn't pass my standards, then it's no good. I've got several other books and products lined up which I wanted to promote but I'm still undecided. The cell phone booster which I ordered arrived last week and I'm still testing it. If the results are good, I'll let you know how to get one. Anyways, I'm rambling again.
Ok, lets get back to that romance advice. The main book has tells you 17 different romance techniques. Those secrets show you how to drive your partner wild. It's some good stuff. If you'd like to take it one step further, then you must read the 69 ways to tantalize your partner (a free bonus). Herbs for lovers is the third book in the package.
For less than the cost of a nice dinner out for you and your mate, we'll reveal to you the secrets and techniques that will help your relationship soar... and let you enjoy the kind of togetherness and romance you've always longed for.
Take all the time you need to put this wonderful 3-book package to work for you and your mate. If for any reason... any reason at all... you are unhappy with your purchase... we will promptly refund every penny you paid. The books are yours to keep! Click here.

Love Test

2007-04-22T20:00:00.000-07:00

This is the link to do the Love Test :

http://www.lovetest.com/loveteststart.html

This is for the numerology Love Test
http://www.lovetest.com/numerology.html

This is for the termometer for Love:
http://www.lovetest.com/thermometer.html

This For the Love Fortune:
http://www.lovetest.com/lovefortune.html

Check your compatibility with your patner:
http://www.lovetest.com/compatibility.html

Wanna calculate your love:
http://www.lovecalculator.be/

Language of the love:
http://www.lovetest.com/languageoflove.html

How to Appologize

2007-04-21T23:06:00.000-07:00

How to Apologizeby haQ ©In the last few years, it has come to my attention that some people are really bad at apologizing. I’m not entirely sure why this is, but has become increasingly obvious to me. Apologies can easily seem half-assed and meaningless, but a real apology is priceless. It’s not about groveling for forgiveness; it’s about showing remorse and trying to make the situation better.
Below, you will find some key points of how to apologize to a woman. Men usually don’t comment on the quality of an apology, nor do they seem to criticize an apology when they receive one; therefore, it is safe to assume that this form works for both genders, although I would be happy to hear if any men contradict this.
1) The first step is to actually utter the words “I’m sorry”. Now, this may sound rather simple, but it’s almost scary how many people have a hard time with those words. Of course, the words themselves are not enough. If you scream them, or say them in a way that sound devoid of emotion, these words will be meaningless. They only have power when they are uttered with a tone of remorse.
2) Next, you must acknowledge what you did. This can be a range of things, but should always include the action/words that caused this apology to be necessary, as well as whatever pain and suffering came along with that. It is not enough to just apologize for some vague thing — this step is necessary for making the person who has been hurt (sometimes both parties) feel that their concerns have been heard.
3) Beyond that, you must admit that your actions were wrong. Sometimes just using that word can make all the difference. If you skip that part, the other person will assume that you feel justified in your actions, and the apology will be nullified. Of course, there are situations where you do not think all your actions were wrong. In this case, state those actions you do believe were wrong, and clarify your others in the next step.
4) Now, it is necessary to explain your intent. Usually, when people do something that necessitates an apology, they were trying to do something else and something went wrong. As such, it is important to explain what you were trying to do when things went awry. Of course, it is important to explain that this is NOT AN EXCUSE! You are not trying to get away with what you did, but just make it clear that it was not your intention to upset the other person. You can even say outright, “This is not an excuse. I want to explain why I did what I did, but I am not trying to say that what I did was the right thing to do.”
5) This is the part that most people forget to do. This when it is important to explain what the person means to you, and how much you want to make amends. This makes any apology go above and beyond, to the point of actually helping to move towards reconciliation. You wouldn’t apologize if you didn’t want the other person to accept your apology, so make sure they know what your relationship (working, friendship or otherwise) means to you, to let them know that it has some value to you and is worth fixing. If appropriate, this can be a good time to give the person a compliment (that is in some way connected to the precipitating incident) and explain the importance they have in your life; you have hurt this person, it’s time to try to make them feel better.
6) Repeat these steps until your apology is accepted and you are able to make peace with the person.
7) Be open to letting them say what hurt/bothered them. Even if they’ve already told you before. Sometimes they will need to say again why they are upset. PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT THEY SAY! This is what you must mention again in steps two and three. If they feel the need to repeat it, it is probably because they do not feel that you have heard them/understood. If, after repeating step two twice or more, ask them if you have covered everything or left anything out. Remember, you want to make sure they know that they’ve been heard, and sometimes just checking will make them know that this is important to you and that you really want to make sure you understand why they are upset.
At the beginning of the next conversation, it is helpful to just make sure the person is feeling okay. Sometimes, new things bubble up after an apology, and if you want to move forward in peace with that person, just make sure that everything is still as you left it at the end of your apologetic conversation.
Of course, every person has their own style, and specific things that may be more or less important to them. However, if you follow these steps, your apology is more likely to be successful. Now remember, if it is insincere, the other person will know! These steps will only work if you truly feel remorse, and are just unsure of how to express it.

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