Life as we know it.....!!!

Happy Valentine's Day

2014-02-14T05:33:00.001-08:00

FOR ALL THE PEOPLE WHO LOVE SOMEONE AND ARE LOVED BY SOMEONE. BE HAPPY ALWAYS

How Do I Love Thee?

How Do I Love Thee? Let me count the ways.
I LOVE thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when FEELING out of sight
For the ends of Being an ideal Grace.
I love thee to the level of everyday's
Most quiet need, by sun and candlelight.
I love thee freely, as men strive for Right;
I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise.

I love thee with the passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood's faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints,- I love thee with the Breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life!- and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death..

Story of MY LIFE..... We fell in love "UNEXPECTEDLY" ...!!!

2013-11-03T07:28:00.002-08:00

I have always been a man with a plan

Always prepared never once leave it to chance

But it's all unscripted when I'm with you

It seems familiar yet it all feels so new

All of the sudden I miss you thinking bout

All of the things that we've been through

Oh no it's not that I planned to

But I think it feels like

Maybe I'm falling for you and me

I just don't know oh

Were we ever meant to be?

Suddenly oh you caught me so off guard

We fell in love so unexpectedly

So unexpectedly

I've known it for five years and a day

Never once thought I'd have these words to say

I wanna hold you and kiss you

Till the end of time

And when you're out of sight ow

All of the sudden I miss you thinking bout

All of the things that we've been through

Oh no it's not that I planned to

But I think it feels like

Maybe I'm falling for you and me

I just don't know oh

Were we ever meant to be?

Suddenly oh you caught me so off guard

We fell in love so unexpectedly

The one I'm searching for was right here all along

Now I see I see you standing right in front of me

The one I'm searching for was right here all along

How did we we fall in love so unexpectedly

I just don't know oh were we ever meant to be?

Suddenly oh you caught me so off guard

We fell in love so unexpectedly

So unexpectedly

We fell in love so unexpectedly..!!!

A note...!!!

2013-03-21T08:04:00.000-07:00

-Paulo coelho

Words get alive in these novels...

2013-03-21T07:55:00.000-07:00

" To write is very lonely activity.When i write a book, I'm face to face with my soul, and this sometimes leads me to path that I never imagined existed within myself. When I finish a book, I have a feeling I gave a birth to something that now is independent of me, something that carries my soul away from my imagination and into the minds and hearts of my readers.. "

-Paulo Coelho

Missing Relationship....!!!

2012-10-23T02:21:00.000-07:00

My life isn't going right

Why is it like this?

Why can't I have what I want from you

Just one simple kiss?

Why won't you hold me in your arms

Like I want you to?

Why does it have to be so difficult

All I want is you.

I feel for you what I never felt

All of this is new.

What can I say

Except I really love you.

I love your eyes

And how you look at me

I wish for nothing more

Except that I had the key.

The key to your heart

That you would be mine.

How did this start?

Before this happened, everything was fine.

I love your smile

You don't know what you do to me

Why do I feel like this?

Like I will love you until eternity.

I love your personality

which is so rare.

I could never find another guy.

You used to really care.

I love you so much

I'll never stop trying

But it seems tonight

All I am doing is crying.

I'm sorry that you're so confused

I didn't mean to cause this.

I love you so much

our relationship I miss.

Dedicated to all those people who really miss their relationship... .

which was the only thing they wanted to stay with them forever.. .

Hope you get your relationship back...

YOU DESERVE IT... .

Sometimes little things hurt....

2012-09-27T22:39:00.001-07:00

SOMETIMES LITTLE THINGS HURTS....

No Reply from your Love ones,

Sometimes waiting for their reply,

LAUGHING of Friends at YOU...

When your Best Friend is Busy with

ANOTHER Friend,

Just when you DESPERATELY need to share something crazy with him/her..

When you REALIZE that your friend is only with you when he/she needs you,

Not when you need him/her...

When you secretly love someone,

you care for them,

But they don't give a shit...

When you realize the people who describes you as their best friends forever,

Are the once backstabbing you,

And trying to let you down in every possible way....

When you help your friends in every possible way,

But they don't when you are in need of help....

When you want your Friend to be with YOU,

But they don't have time for you...

When you love someone deeply,

And just because you have made a small mistake,

doesn't talk to you for weeks,

Avoiding the pain he/she might be going through...

When you EXPRESS your DEEPEST FEELINGS to someone Special,

But HE/SHE doesn't try to understand...

It does hurt even more when you realize they are avoiding you...

When you want to talk to HIM/HER,

But they say "I AM BUSY"...

How truly said- Heart is soft and can be

Pinched Easily... ? ? ?

Thank you...!!!

2012-09-26T22:29:00.002-07:00

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Just wait...

2012-09-22T00:57:00.003-07:00

Sometimes...we just have to let our happiness go away just to make someone happy and get what they want, what they desire...

If your love is burden for someone else....you have to take your love back...and just WAIT..

Wait for that one day....

when they realize that your love for them was always true...

Wait for that one day...

when they realize...that your love for them is forever..

Let them feel your absence in their life...

Wait for that one day...

when they let you know by themselves....

"They want you back in their life....and they need you and your love which is and always be only for them...they want that love back...they want you to be with them again as you both were...and above that they love you too a lot...".

Wait for that one day..

JUST WAIT......

The Desolate

2012-09-20T23:26:00.001-07:00

"Sometimes we have to give up wonderful things just to make every thing alright..We have to bleed alone for somebody to smile.. We need those tears flow just to save the tears of others.. We have to break our own heart to feel somebody else's emptiness, and there are times when we have to give up our own happiness just to rescue someone else's burden.. That's what you call love.. It was never fair and will never be.."

Smile...!!!

2012-09-14T04:36:00.000-07:00

It's amazing how seeing the special person in your life can put a smile on your face that everyone notices!!!

What is love?

2012-09-13T23:15:00.001-07:00

some people believe it is a feeling of lifetime..

some just say its all i give to my better half...

Some people believe it is a gift from above...

and some just say it is the moment we spend with our loved ones...

Some other people say it brings nothing but pain...

which is very much same as crying in the rain,

no one can see your tears...

its just you who is burning with fear..

of losing someone for all coming years...

Maybe it is a one way train..

When you take your path..

You could never go back again..

It may take you to the happiness door

Or maybe make you taste life's sore!

Maybe love is just like the rain

You never know how hard it would be

Or how long it would last..

Love could put you into darkness

And could bring you the brightest light!

Love is like the fire

Such a mysterious desire

But you don't really know weather it is going to warm your heart

Or burn your home....!!!

Love could take you from the cold

And make you feel so warm..

Love is like a rose

Beautiful but also with thorns that could harm!

Love could be like glass

If you drop it, it shatters

And never be put completly back together..

It is so strange

How could such a small word hold so many contradictories?

A small word but with so many question marks

It is such a complicated feeling same as a roller coaster ride...

u never understand what is going to come next...

That confuses any human being!

Every one has a different version of love...to consider, isn't it !!!!

As for me.. I'm just a guy

Trying to know what is Love?

Simply for me

Love is like a white dove

Flying so high

Up.. Up in the baby blue sky..

So far for me to reach

But If I only understand it

To the whole world I would teach..

Love is so precious

Love is a treasure

Love is not cheap

Love is when you can't fall asleep

For reality is better than dreams

And life is sweeter than it seams..

Love comes from the heart

Not the brain

You don't know when it starts

You don't think about it

You just feel it over and over again..

Love is not Just the saying of words

But the giving of one self

Love is caring

Love is daring

And most of All

Love is sharing....

Love is not to live in fears

Love is not a matter of counting years

But making the years count...

Love is

Telling, listening, understanding,

Respecting the truth and never pretending

True love does NOT have a happy ending!

True Love does NOT have an ending!

Love.. some say it is blind

But I say

Love gives you a third eye

To make it easy for you to find

Who is worthy?

Come back to me...MY LOVE

2012-09-06T06:08:00.000-07:00

Now I need you the most you are so far away...

I just need to hear your voice telling me everything will be okay ...

That you still love me,

Right now I don't feel good enough for anybody

And certainly not for you...

You are so amazing, so great ,...

you always cared for me...

And I,

I am nothing but a failure ...

Someone who never understood you on the first place..

your care your love only for me..

You were right there beside me when I needed you.

n where was i when u needed me???

I was in a dark place being selfish...always thinking of my own things..

You only deserve the best ...

I don't want you to see me in a dark place.

See the person I can be at times...
now i have realized..

Therefore I need to be great and amazing...

Or at least try to be...

Even though I know I will fail...

"But yes here i am fallen in front of you...
the only person who makes me feel that i can fly"
"THAT YOU JUST YOU...."

Tonight I will be so lonely...

So cold...

Because I feel cold and lonely,

I feel worthless...

But you are worth everything so I will try to get you back in my life,

Keep working, working working, until I come near to the person you deserve to have...

I LOVE YOU...and i cant think of living without you anymore...
I want you in my life....miss u a lot my love..

That’s how it feels to lose someone you’re close to...

2012-09-03T08:40:00.000-07:00

When you meet someone new, you don’t want them to leave. You want them to stay with you forever and you want to make memories, and have new adventures with them. But is it true that everyone always stays forever? Sadly no. To me and a lot of other people, it seems like when you meet someone new, you become friends, you end up being best friends or in love, and before you know it, they are gone. You might have heard a saying close to “Even though you can’t see your best friend next to you, you can always feel them in your heart.” That is true, but that isn’t enough for you. You need them next to your side. But when you realize that they are leaving, you feel absolutely hurt inside, and you just don’t know what to do. You feel broken, you can hardly breathe, and you feel like your world has just ended completely. That’s how it feels to lose someone you’re close to, at least for me. But then its you who needs to think what's next we have to do, to bring them back. Its all about realization within yourself, let them know that you love them a lot..let them know that you cant stay without them anymore.. off course they love you too..n they want us to be there for them..so its all about you to realize that how much they are important for you in your life. Don't let them go...Love them even more.

I think of you always....!!!

2012-08-30T11:30:00.000-07:00

I wanted a Hugh mansion once...but after meeting you,
Now the only place I want to live is in your heart....
want to sleep in your arms....

I once desired something precious...but after meeting you,
Now the only precious thing I need is you...
The glitter in you is way brighter than a diamond itself..

I used to crave the finest clothing...but after meeting you,
Now I don't want a any piece of cloth to separate our souls...
Not a single thread can separate us from each other...

I once desired a dashing car... but after meeting you,
Now I want nothing that would take me away from you..

I once prayed for money... but after meeting you,
Now I want you...not the things that money can buy..

I once yearned for a sense of security... until I met you,
Now my only security comes is knowing you are near.........

I once dreamt of a prestigious job... until I met you..
Now I find my success in knowing that you are happy always being with me....

I once asked for the world on a silver platter... until I met you,

Now you are my world and I want for nothing but your touch....

Loving you has been my teacher; you taught me not to want..

Being with you has been my discovery; you are all that I need.........

Finding you has been my salvation, I now understand grateful

But perhaps of most importantly..

Your love in return has been my everything...... ♥♥♥

Dreams undefined....!!!

2012-08-25T23:38:00.000-07:00

It was one of those very common nights, yet it seemed so different. I was so elated for reasons unknown. I felt a tingling run through me. Just “she” was running on my mind. From the day we met, till today – every moment flashed through my mind and a smile ran through my lips instantly.

My eyes were open wide; I was awake, yet lost is some other world – a world of fantasy – where just the two of us existed. It felt so beautiful. I was lost in “future dreams”. I still think – ‘Will this dream come true?’

I dreamt her by my side. Her smile was everything- I felt so warm and embraced. It was our marriage day !! I could see the happiness in his eyes. The words were not at all required for both of us to describe our happiness. All was said by the eyes.

She held my hand, and my heart skipped a beat. This was the day I had been waiting for from years.She said those magical words to me. Finally my life seemed so complete. I had finally heard it from her.

The ceremony was over (I didn’t get much dreams about the ceremony. Probably that was least important for me, because for me all that mattered was her presence besides me). We then entered our room. I felt a bit scared but still it was worth it. The room looked so elegant with beautiful red roses and its fragrance all around. She then again held my hand and our eyes met for that moment. “Her eyes” revealed all that immense love that she always had for me in his heart.She then kissed me softly on my forehead and gently patted me off to sleep.

After this suddenly my mom gave me a call (in reality) and I was out of my dreams. I laughed at myself and wondered – Would such a dream ever come true? And this is all what I still wonder..!!

Seems it's been ages....!!!

2012-08-23T03:47:00.001-07:00

How very much I miss you

When I hear to those songs

It seems it’s been ages

Since we have last talked..

I miss you with every breath that I take in

I miss you so much more with every passing second

Seems it’s really been ages

Since I have heard your words..

We both are in two separate places

So far away and occupied with our daily chores..

It seems that time is running into eternity

And it really makes me feel blue..

How restless I get at times

When I really miss you..

It seems as if my heart lost a beat

And am still here waiting for you..

I really do miss you so very much.. No matter how hard I try..

I stay awake all through the night just thinking about you all night...

even i look upon my cell phone hoping to see you reply tonight....

but to my bad luck…………. I just keep waiting for you till the morning.. now knowing well enough that you might be busy with your work.

I wish I could really tell.. how much you are missed when you are not here..

Hope you realize this someday....

Because i'll be always Waiting For You...

Misssing youuuu.....♥♥

Feelings of my friend.....NN :-)

Written by meee......hope he likes it... :)

Forgiveness...

2012-08-22T22:24:00.001-07:00

"Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it".

By Mark Twain.

Realization...

2012-08-19T22:14:00.001-07:00

Today I came to the Realization..

It was a big one and a difficult one to realize and admit for someone like me...

I realized something that has been lingering for quiet some time now ...

You could say I have known all along,

And when i look back at the past i would need to agree..

It is just that i wasn't ready to face it...

Don't get me wrong I didn't shove it away on purpose,

I think that is the self preservation I had build up.

Therefore I have been breaking it down lately.

And i happy I did

Because now i realize that i need you,

cant live my life without you,

Wont even live my life without you if i could,

Because i wouldn't want to.

I need you by my side.

Close to me.

To hear your voice night and day.

And when I cant have you with me night and day i will cry,

For having to miss you another day.

Therefore I hope in my heart that you know...

I realize I love you.

And I hope that you realize that i don't see a live without you anymore...

I belong to you and if your not around there is simply nothing left in my life,

Then the only thing that ever made me happy and made me smile would be ripped away,

So realize I love you and belong to you as long as my heart will beat,

As long as I breath air,

I will be forever yours,

Because when you would leave there simply wont be anything left....

Just that moment counts...

2012-08-19T08:17:00.001-07:00

With the sunrise came your smile,

And as long as nobody is around everything is fine...

Then your mine and I am yours,

But when somebody else is around it is another story,

Then i feel so insignificant at times ...

Therefore i sometimes think there is no point of being close,

Because you have other things on your mind,

But i cant let go of you because your so perfect..

So perfect for me and i never want to let you go...

Therefore even when I feel so small,

So shattered and at a lose for words,

I know I want to be with you,

And i hope you will notice me soon when i am around ,

Wrap your arms around me and tell me everything will be fine ...

And no matter what moment, no matter what time ...

As long you wrap your arms around me

Everything will be fine ...

So remember this trick because it will serve you well...

If you want me happy just give me a smile ...

But as soon as the moon rises in the night sky..

It all doesn't matter ...

No matter how small i felt, or how insignificant.

If you wrap your arms around me,

Everything what hurt or shattered me i will forget,

Only that moment with your arms around me,

Nothing else but that moment matters at that point...

If you wrap your arms around me and smile towards }e and say goodnight..

only then i can close my eyes in peace

Because i know you will be watching over me tonight ...♥♥

Love is everything....

2012-08-18T07:07:00.000-07:00

There was a time when I didn't believe love existed..

And that if it was out there it would never be meant for me.

That is why I always thought that I would not go and try to find love,

Because if I would find it,

it would only hurt me,

or atleast so I thought...

But then there was you,

At first a bit anger young gal,

But when I got to know you with the purest heart...

When you smile at me I melt away,

But that is not everything you challenge me,

You understand me,

and you say you love me ....

The last one I can just hope for it to be true,

Because for the rest I know for sure,

You are special really one of a kind,

I sometimes even think I found one of the last good guys,

So sometimes I look back uppon the time,

that I did believe in love but not for me in this life time,

But then there was you and you changed everything,

Me loving you changed me,

My life got rearranged,

You are everything to me,

So know that I love you,

And I can just hope you really love me too...

I'm sorry for what I might have done wrong...

2012-08-18T01:02:00.004-07:00

It is horrible,

When you know that the person you love,

That the person you care about is mad at you or indifferent..

It is awful to feel that lost to wonder......

To just wonder is she still mad,

does she still love me,

am I still worth the things she thought I was worth before,

Because I know I was not worthy of it in the first place.

The thought of what she might be doing can be unbearable...

Did she found someone better then me ...

Because you just know she deserves better

and there are a lot of better things out there then you...

you just wonder ...

if she finally found something better to do then waste time on you...

when they become distant...

But even though these thoughts will keep me up all night...

I somewhere hope that she still loves me....

Still cares ... that the distance I feel is just a illusion..

Or do I just simply miss her so much that I imagine her being distant while she is in fact not...

All I know is that I love her and that she has my heart ...

So for whatever I did wrong ...

I hope that she could find within her heart the strength to forgive ..

That she may have sweet dreams tonight....

because I know I will be thinking of her...

and miss her tonight....

I'm sorry for what I might have done wrong...

I love you always......

2012-08-15T00:54:00.001-07:00

It has been a long time...

since I last came on here and wrote something.....

but yesterday I was provoked by sum of my friends to write something on a particular song (kal ho na ho) i know it might sound a bit funny and challenging....how can i write something with reference to some lyrics....bt yes ma friend told me to elaborate on some lyrics of that song.......soo i m tryin my best to elaborate on those lines....

Lyrics:

"Chaahe Jo tumhe poore dil se
Milta hai woh mushkil se
Aisa Jo koi kahin hai
Bas vahi sabse hasin hai"
These lines are all about them who loves you a lot....with all his/her open heart.....If there is someone in your life as such...That's the real way to happiness....Make her/him part of your life...
Now, this is the nice chance to say it all to my better half...

It is important that the person I love remembers that I did not forget him. That I love her just as much.. or even more then the day before ...

Even though I dont always show it I am always greatful that you are here with me, or when I can just hear the sound of your voice....

I know I can be stupid, or even a pain in the ass at times ...

But generally overall I just love you even if I do not show you that at times...

I do not have one bad feeling towards you at or in my heart ...
Sometimes I say awfull things, but that just means I lost my way... and lost the right words that belong to describe you....

Because if I would realise how awfull those words were which I was saying I would stop saying them.... Because even though you hurt me sometimes ... you are a lagoon of happiness in my life... and I would never want to loose you.... That is because I love you so much ...

Another reason why I should never be unkind to you is because you do not desereve any unkindness, or hardship in life.....after all you are the only one who can really make me feel myself...i can laugh with u...cry with...n above all...i can be in your arms which actually make me feel like am at home...

Because I just want your life to be full of light, love and happiness...

Let me just hope that lies with me.... your happiness... because I know my happiness is wherever you are... wherever you go and whenever I hear you speak....

Because no matter where I am... when I am in your arms I am home...
I love you....Chinu ♥♥(Now that's a secret....only my better half can guess it right....:-PPP)

Thought on long distance relationship....

2012-08-10T23:42:00.001-07:00

A long distance relationship is a special type of relationship, there's no other relationship quite like it. it's funny how a lot of people never seem to understand it and always look down upon it,thinking tht it's not a "real" relationship - what people fail to realise is than in a LDR, the bond you share with your significant other is incredibly strong (it has to be strong for it to last). That bond is special, it's not like what you have in a physical relationship. when the person can be right beside you. It's rewarding in the sense that there are moments in the relationship when you think about just how close you and your significant other are but at the time, you can be so far apart, even thousands of miles..

In a LDR, physical attraction cannot sustain a relationship...instead, it's the emotional and mental attraction and attachment between the two people that make it successful. It's a whole lot of hardwork when all you have are words,pictures, and occasionally phone calls/video chats. its where you can't just get by....you actually have to make effort to make things work..

Time is never on your side and it never feels that there is quite enough of it, especially with the time difference and distance is truly a bitch. Love,trust,understanding, and patience are tested on a daily basis in a LDR - only the presence of these in ample amounts will see the hard times through.

There are so many challenges and obstacles that must be overcome but it's also something that's very rewading because you share something with your significant other that is completely different from anything else you've experienced before and it is at another level compared to any other type of relationship.

Nobody ever 'choose' to be in LDR, it just 'happens'. People in these relationship arent lonely, have lives, and arent desperate. They dont go for something like this because they just want a person to like/love them - if somebody wanted that, there are much easier ways of getting it. When two people are absolutely perfect for each other, nobody else is good enough or worth the time, and if that person unfortunately lives half way across the world, then a LDR is bound to be formed.

In cicumstances like these,you realise that physical attraction is so insignificant compared to the connection the two people share. Even if the other person is oceans apart from you, the love between the two people can bridge any gap, whether it be a 3 hours drive of 15 hour plane ride away.

So yeah, thats 2 cents on a quite personal matter.

To those currently in LDRs, perhaps you'll understand what i am trying to say and i wish you the best of luck.

To those contemplating whether or not it's worth it - it is one of the best things you will ever experience.

To those that look down upon it, maybe it's time to become more open-minded to some things?????

Unrequited love

2012-08-08T23:40:00.001-07:00

I’ve heard the stories countless amounts of times, and I’m sure you have, too. As a matter of fact, maybe you’re in one of them right now. Two naive and innocent “Friends” think, believe, and hope that their gender difference will not play a part in their interaction. Yet, as a result of unguarded feelings and a couple of intimate nights, one of them (not both) suddenly begins to see the other in a new light. “Oh my…I never realized she is sooo veeerrryyyy beautiful....…..Man” the guy thinks. And with that thought comes crumbling down years and years of friendship. With that singular thought, disaster strikes. Because Guy isn’t happy with just being friends anymore. And this is quite a sad thing, beause, unfortunately, Gal does not reciprocate those feelings. As a matter of fact. She straight up thinks Guy is fugly(very ugly).

Unrequited love…FAIL!!

As a disclaimer, I want to say that the kind of relationship I am talking about here is the difficult cross gender “close” relationship. I’m not talking facebook friends, meet up once in a while and poke each other through facebook relationship. I’m talking about hanging out and being friendly or intimate on almost a day to day basis. With that out of the way, I’m going to answer this question as simply as possible. I personally believe that, for the most part, the answer is NO. I believe there is a slight possibility that “yes” is an option, however, most of the times when you combine two members of the opposite gender that are not currently dating, and put them in an environment where they are continuously interacting, one of them (if not both) will soon develop feelings for the other. It’s just pretty damn hard not to.

Most of the times, the guy is the one that caves in and develops feelings for the girl. The reason for this is because, if we go back to the ladder theory, girls will put their guy friends almost permanently on the “friends” ladder, and guys, having only one ladder, usually won’t hang out with a girl on a consistent basis unless they are attracted to her either consciously or subconsciously. In other words, most of the times, the guy wouldn’t be hanging out with the girl if he didn’t somewhat like her to begin with.

That’s why it’s so often that cross gender relationships end up becoming some sort of real life Drama. I can imagine it already. Movie starts. Director: ME!! The crowd’s applause is almost deafening…everyone knows who I AM! I am legendary! (just imagine :-P ) Opening Scene. In the movie, there’s a guy and girl who are friends. They do everything together! There’ll be scenes of them laughing, dancing, going to fairs, eating…all that good stuff! But the best scene is of them running together in the rain, both shielded by just one newspaper, that barely succeeds in sheltering them from the onslaught of rain. They are giggling, in ecstasy, happy and in their own little world. Two regular “carrots and peas”. The girl is convinced that this relationship is completely affectionate. But the guy starts looking at her in a new way. He starts falling in love. Pretty soon, the guy can’t stop thinking about her…BUT THERE IS A PROBLEM! There is another guy, whom the girl is madly in love with. The guy knows this, but the song “You Belong With Me” by Taylor Swift inspires him to act on his feelings. Unfortunately for Taylor Swift, BEYONCE HAS ONE OF THE BEST VIDEOS OF ALL TIME! OF ALL TIME!!!!

Anyways, guy tells the girl that he loves her. Unfortunately, girl does not feel the same. She gets mad. He tries to kiss her, she shoves him away, and starts yelling at him and gets even angrier at him and blames him for trying to ruin their friendship. She starts running. It’s in slow motion. She is crying tears of anger, as she dramatically runs away with make up smothering all over her face. Her fake eyelashes are falling off.

Guy is all alone now with rain falling down on him. He doesn’t try to shield himself from the rain anymore, but just soaks it all in. He watches girl as she runs. She’s so close…and yet….so far away. Guy is crying. These are real tears. Not just water that is put on his face in between filming. So sad.

Girl, in a state of rage and confusion, goes to see Alpha Male. Girl sees Alpha Male kissing another girl. Girl gets upset. She runs up to Alpha Male, and slaps him in the face. Alpha Male looks confused. Girl is crying now, and runs away. Rain falling. Girl goes to some secluded corner and starts to think. Maybe…just maybe…maybe I DO LOVE HIM (Friend)! SHE REALIZES SHE DOES! THERE’S HOPE! IT MIGHT WORK! THE GIRL STARTS RUNNING TO THE GUY WITH THIS REVELATION! THERE IS EXCITEMENT! IT’S GOING TO WORK! GIRL GETS TO GUY’S HOUSE!!

Girl tries to open the door. Guy hears her. IT JUST MIGHT WORK! BUT WAIT A SECOND. OH NO! Guy has a gun in his hand. He wants to commit suicide. AHHHH! (crowd gasps) Girl doesn’t know! She asks guy to “OPEN THE DOOR!” She is excited! She wants to tell him that she loves him! She should have yelled it at the door for him to hear! But for some reason, she wants to see him face to face first. Stupid movie irony. Guy yells at girl to “go away”. He doesn’t want to see her. Girl runs around to the other side of the house where there is a window so that she can tell him she loves him! Guy sees her. He looks at her. Points the gun at his head. And before girl can react, pulls the trigger.

GIRL STARTS SCREAMING AND CRYING (it’s not a good drama without a good measure of screaming and crying). SHE STARTS YELLING AT THE WINDOW, FRUITLESSLY. The blood from the gunshot wound is already drenching the ground. The girl falls to her knees, weeping. She cries till there are no more tears, MOANING as she does this. She lets out one more beastly roar from deep within her soul.

Okay. Maybe the situation won’ t be THAT dramatic. BUT HONESTLY. When there is unrequited love involved, there are some RETARDED things that happen. And although usually no one dies, hearts get broken, people get jaded, and feelings get turned upside down,some close people whom we olways cherish turns into some people we knew,To whom we used to share the evry part of our life,we just forcefully hide everything from thm even ourself....... It sucks. That’s why, if at all possible, it’s often better to avoid that sort of situation. It’s good to have friends of the opposite gender, but “close friend” is a difficult sell.....sooo nvr lose him\her....if at all this situation arrises....its ur responsibility to talk with ur opposite gender friend....n happily solve it...After ol...she is one n you are d one who cares for each other than any one else.....

So...Always remember....ITS THE WAY WE LIVE OUR LYF....:-) :-) -)

The Ladder Theory

2012-08-03T00:29:00.000-07:00

Here’s an interesting concept in the dating world, The Ladder Theory. The ladder theory is ultimately quite simple: men have one ladder, women have two ladders. The ladder represents our willingness to “date” someone. For instance, the higher someone is on the ladder, the more likely we are to date them. The lower they are, unfortunately, the less likely we would ever consider pursuing a relationship with them..

If both male and female had one ladder, it would make things infinitely easier! However, girls have both a friend’s ladder and a “potential” ladder, whereas guys put all their cross gender relationships on the same ladder.

Basically, when a girl meets Guy X and Guy Y, she quickly evaluates both and then determines that Guy X is a guy she sees as someone she could “hook up” with while Guy Y is a guy she would never hook up with. As a result of these conclusions, each guy finds a spot on their respective ladders. Guy X is on the “potential ladder”, and Guy Y is on the “friends ladder”.

Here’s the kicker, the part that (for many guys) sucks a heck of a lot in this theory. The Girl, generally speaking, is willing to spend just as much time and show just as much affection toward the guys on her friend’s ladder as she does with the guys on her potential ladder. The reason this sucks is because the guy who’s on the friend’s ladder can’t tell whether the girl is interested or not, because she’s willing to invest and spend so much time with him!

To make matters worse, the girl usually fails to adequately notify Guy Y that he is only a “friend”. This is usually because girls really like the attention that Guy Y’s would give her. She is in denial that he “likes her”, and puts off confronting that reality as long as possible. Because of this lack of communication, the guy on the friend’s ladder begins to shamelessly pursue this girl only to find out to his horrible misery that…SYKE. He got dissed. And he fails. At life. Sucks to be the guy on the friend’s ladder.

Guys on the potential ladder can usually make a move successfully on the girl, unless he does something stupid that turns the girl off.

Now, on the other side, guys have only one ladder. These are the rules: when a guy meets a girl, she is either on the top of the ladder, or the bottom of the ladder.

Although this seems similar to the girl’s ladder, the key difference is that girls on the bottom of his ladder will not get “special attention”. As a matter of fact, guys really only spend a huge amount of time with girls on the top of their ladder. Furthermore, while guys can almost never make it from the “friends ladder” to the “potential ladder”, girls adjust positions on the one ladder a lot easier based on which girl gives the guy the most attention.

So in summary, girls, when they first meet a guy, place him on one of the two ladders: friend, or potential. Guys place a girl on the top or bottom. Girls can shift positions on the ladder, but guys are pretty much stuck on whatever ladder they start on. Well, let me state that you can switch ladders, but it takes a LOT of work, effort, energy, depression…most of the times, it’s not worth it.

Good luck and happy hunting!!

Thnxx...for the short description i heard bout "THE LADDER THEORY".....which helped me to come up with this article.....N yes i can say tht i hav seen this very closely...:-)

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