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Follow @ http://twitter.com/#!/AriellaBrown or on Google+ under Ariella Brown.  This is blog gets its name from the magazine I created in 2005. It is intended to allow interactive discussion for intelligent audiences.  Please note that comment moderation is on.  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See&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://www.examiner.com/jewish-bridal-in-new-york/jewish-marriage-workshops"&gt;http://www.examiner.com/jewish-bridal-in-new-york/jewish-marriage-workshops&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 19px;"&gt;Well, chazal picked up on that point a long time ago with the saying "&lt;i&gt;Kinas sofrim tarbe chachma."&amp;nbsp;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: x-small; line-height: 16px;"&gt;(Bava Basra 21a)- {Jealousy among scholars increases wisdom.]&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Also be sure to visit www.kallahmagazine.com and http://www.examiner.com/jewish-bridal-in-new-york/ariella-brown&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Visit my site www.kallahmagazine.com to read archived articles; you don't have to be a kallah to like it.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/29729528-1702739904231811019?l=kallahmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://kallahmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/catching-up-over-thousands-years-later.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Ariella)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29729528.post-408737112084091995</guid><pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 15:28:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-01-25T10:28:36.110-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Torah</category><title>Natural vs. Man-made</title><description>&lt;div style="background-color: white; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-top: 1em;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;We are now in the month of Shvat during which we give due consideration to the&lt;a href="http://www.examiner.com/jewish-bridal-in-new-york/tu-b-hvat-holiday-for-the-trees"&gt; trees&lt;/a&gt;. But the fact is that after the &lt;i&gt;cheyt&lt;/i&gt; in Gan Eden, our food supply is not defined as much by fruit as by bread that is made by man. Adam is told &lt;i&gt;bezeas apecha tochal lechem &lt;/i&gt;[by the sweat of your brow, you will eat bread], and bread become the quintessential form of sustenance.&amp;nbsp;We don't merely gather our food, we plant, water, tend, harvest, winnow, pound, knead, shape, and bake it. We may even experiment with new recipes to try to improve it.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-top: 1em;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;I was thinking about this in light of R' Akiva's argument with Turnus Rufus and the argument of intelligent design that Nassim Nicholas Taleb just hints at in a footnote on p. 170 in &lt;i&gt;The Black Swan. H&lt;/i&gt;e is in the midst of rattling off discoveries that resulted from the serendipity of randomness or "unintended consequences" rather than design, like the discovery of penicillin. Though he positions himself outside of the debate, he says: "creationists believe that the world comes from some form of design while evolutionary theorists see the world as a result of random changes by an aimless process. But it is hard to look at a computer or a car and consider them the result of aimless process. Yet they are."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-top: 1em;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Much as I like most of the book, I have to say that he clearly errs. here. Yes, there have been serendipitous discoveries that could play a role in the construction of a computer or a car, but the whole can only be assembled by design. Even the famously accidental discovery of penicillin required an intelligence to apply what had been observed to a form that could be administered to patients. Another thing is that one does not just sit back and wait for discoveries to show themselves&amp;nbsp;&lt;span style="background-color: transparent;"&gt;serendipitously. Alexander Fleming just happened to benefit from the fact that his own messy tendencies resulted in moldy bread in proximity to bacteria, but he was researching bacteria. If he had not been, the observation would not necessarily had registered. &amp;nbsp;Thomas Edison famously tested out 2,000 different substances in making his light bulb. Had he hit upon the working filament right away, we may have pointed to another random discovery, but that is not how it worked.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-top: 1em;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Let's go back to bread: (though the mold formation that was key to penicillin is a natural process) the loaves &amp;nbsp;don't come to be on their own. There is a consciousness at work in preparing and mixing the ingredients that go into it. There may be happy accidents along the way. For example, the bread may have baked too close to the fire, and the person who ate it may have discovered the appeal of toast. Or someone may have left it to rise longer than usual and found an improvement there. However, bread is still a human product, something that is key in&amp;nbsp;the famous debate between Turnus Rufus and R' Akiva recounted in&amp;nbsp; &lt;i&gt;Midrash&amp;nbsp;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;Tanhuma Tazria&lt;/i&gt; 5:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-top: 1em;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Turnus Rufus posed the question, "Whose works are superior, those of God or those of man?" R' Akiva answered unequivocally: "Those of man are superior."&amp;nbsp;Turnus Rufus persisted: "But look at heaven and earth, can man make their like?" Rabbi Akiva disqualified that argument by pointing out a type of apples and oranges flaw there: "Do not draw on what is above human experience and control, but rather on that which is within our range."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-top: 1em;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Then they got to the crux of the issue when Turnus Rufus asked, "Why do you circumcise?" R' Akiva saw that coming, as he replied, "knew you would ask this question, and so I anticipated you by declaring that human works are superior to those of God." &amp;nbsp;Rabbi Akiva then brought him sheaves of grain and rolls and said: "The former are the works of God, the latter of man. Aren't the rolls preferable?"&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-top: 1em;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;[Some accounts of this interaction end here, for the point has been made that the purpose of human beings is to improve on nature by application of intelligent design to work what is given into something better. But, in fact, Turnus Rufus did not concede the point so easily, and the debate continues.]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-top: 1em;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Turnus Rufus persisted: "If He requires circumcision, why is the child not born that way?"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-top: 1em;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;Rabbi Akiva replied: "Why indeed, does the umbilical cord come out with him and he is suspended by his navel and his mother cuts it? He is not born circumcised because the Holy one Blessed be He has given the commandments for the purpose of refining our character through them. This is why David declared: 'The word of the Lord refined'" (Psalms. 18:31).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;This is very consistent with the notion of &lt;i&gt;ha'adam nifal kefi peulathav &lt;/i&gt;[man is formed by his actions] which the &lt;i&gt;Sefer Hachinuch&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;offers as the reason why there are so many mitzvos to do. It also fits beautifully with the prohibition of declaring that heavenly mercy extends to the mother bird in the mitzvah of &lt;i&gt;shiluach hakan. &amp;nbsp;&lt;/i&gt;It seems that Turnus Rufus was willing to accept the fact that a Deity had created the world; in fact, he seemed to accept the concept of intelligent design and viewed the world as perfect. W&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;hat he was not prepared to accept was that the Creator was concerned with human actions. That is why R' Akiva pointed out the areas of creations that are not perfect in their natural state. They were made so to give human beings the task of improve them and in doing so improve themselves.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;related posts:&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a class="ot-anchor" href="http://kallahmagazine.blogspot.com/2008/05/quality-of-infinity-and-pardes.html" style="background-color: white; color: #3366cc; cursor: pointer; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 25px; text-decoration: none;"&gt;http://kallahmagazine.blogspot.com/2008/05/quality-of-infinity-and-pardes.htm&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoBodyTextIndent" style="color: #333333; line-height: 16px; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;During the &amp;nbsp;reign of Chezkeyahu, all across the country there was not a single child (&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;tinok o tinoket)&amp;nbsp;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;that were not thoroughly versed in&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;hilchos tuma&amp;nbsp;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;and&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;tahara&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;[the laws of ritual purity].&amp;nbsp; There is that wonderful picture of the king planting a sword in the doorpost to demonstrate his point that anyone who does not study the Torah would be stabbed by the sword.&amp;nbsp; Int hat case, strong tactics worked.&amp;nbsp; But what the king imposed was not his own authority or even blind obedience to other authorities; he imposed studying enough so that one knows on one’s own—even a female one—what the halacha is.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #333333; line-height: 16px; text-align: justify;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;In contrast, today many push for people—particularly female ones—not to really learn the principles and derivations of halacha.&amp;nbsp; The goal is not that one should know the halacha oneself but that one should know just enough to ask questions over every little thing.&amp;nbsp; The ideal is not well-educated Jews who can independently do the right thing but Jews—particularly Jewesses—taught to be ignorant, so that they would be dependent on asking rabbinic authorities for any move.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #333333; line-height: 16px; text-align: justify;"&gt;&amp;nbsp; Now, of course, there are times when real questions do arise, and a competent posek should be consulted.&amp;nbsp; However, there are many, many more things that are not real questions.&amp;nbsp; Their status has been established long ago and even recorded in &lt;i&gt;sforim&lt;/i&gt;. &amp;nbsp;In other words, they could be learned and internalized as they are not new questions. However, d&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;ependence is set up as an ideal because of an implicit fear that the female mind will mess up if left to her own devices.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;div class="MsoBodyTextIndent" style="color: #333333; line-height: 16px; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Personally, I don’t like to be told what to think, and I don’t want to tell others what they should think either.&amp;nbsp; However, this view is not one that is shared by all, particularly females.&amp;nbsp; I recall someone saying she liked being told what to think by seminary.&amp;nbsp; Now if you wonder why that is, consider that it is not a uniquely frum Jewish phenomenon.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br style="color: #333333; line-height: 16px; text-align: justify;" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="MsoBodyTextIndent" style="color: #333333; line-height: 16px; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;A classic work on gender differences is Carol Gilligan’s&amp;nbsp;&lt;em&gt;In a Different Voice: Psychological Theory and Women’s Development&lt;/em&gt;. Cambridge and London: Harvard UP, 1982.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="color: #333333; line-height: 16px; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="color: #333333; line-height: 16px; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoBodyTextIndent" style="color: #333333; line-height: 16px; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;She explains:&lt;br /&gt;
“When women feel excluded from direct participation in society, they see themselves as subject to a consensus or judgment made and enforced by the men on whose protection and support they depend and by whose name they are known.” (Gilligan 67)&amp;nbsp; So a patriarchy offers less individual control but more protection.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoBodyTextIndent" style="color: #333333; line-height: 16px; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;She proceeds to quote someone on her experience:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br style="color: #333333; line-height: 16px; text-align: justify;" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="MsoBodyTextIndent" style="color: #333333; line-height: 16px; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;“’As a woman, I feel I never understood that I was a person, that I could make decisions and I had a right to make decisions.&amp;nbsp; I always felt that that belonged to my father or my husband in some way, or church, which was always represented by a male clergyman.&amp;nbsp; They were the three men in my life:&amp;nbsp; father, husband, and clergyman, and they had much more to say about what I should or shouldn’t do.&amp;nbsp; They were really authority figures which I accepted. . . . . Well, I think in one sense there is less responsibility involved.&amp;nbsp; Because if you make a dumb decision, you have to take the rap.&amp;nbsp; If it happens to you, well, you can complain about it.&amp;nbsp; I think that if you don’t grow up feeling that you ever have any choices, you don’t have the sense that you have emotional responsibility.&amp;nbsp; With this sense of choice comes this sense of responsibility.” (qtd. in Gilligan 67)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br style="color: #333333; line-height: 16px; text-align: justify;" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="MsoBodyTextIndent" style="color: #333333; line-height: 16px; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;And back to Gilligan herself: “The essence of moral decision is the exercise of choice and the willingness to accept responsibility for that choice.&amp;nbsp; To the extent that women perceive themselves as having no choice, they correspondingly excuse themselves from the responsibility that decision entails” (Gilligan 67).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br class="Apple-interchange-newline" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Get updates by liking  http://www.facebook.com/KallahMagazine   Follow me on Twitter @AriellaBrown and circle me at Google+ under the same name and picture. Also be sure to visit www.kallahmagazine.com and http://www.examiner.com/jewish-bridal-in-new-york/ariella-brown&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Visit my site www.kallahmagazine.com to read archived articles; you don't have to be a kallah to like it.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/29729528-2036404830733490558?l=kallahmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://kallahmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/knowledge-decisions-and-responsibility.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Ariella)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29729528.post-7389506004218425003</guid><pubDate>Tue, 24 Jan 2012 19:45:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-01-24T14:46:44.788-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">representation</category><title>Was he pulling his leg?</title><description>I'm currently in the middle of &lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Black-Swan-Impact-Highly-Improbable/dp/1400063515/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;qid=1327433725&amp;amp;sr=8-1"&gt;The Black Swan: The Impact of the Highly Improbable&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;(&lt;/i&gt;which deserves more starts than Amazon gives it). On p. 131, the author relates being at a cocktail party where Yossi Vardi, whom he describes as "one of the most insightful thinkers I know, the computer entrepreneur" asks "to summarize 'my idea' while standing on one leg."&lt;br /&gt;
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The combination of the distinctly Jewish name of Yossi brought in connection to a reference to a summation while standing on one leg evokes Hillel and Shamai's different responses to that same request made about Torah (&lt;span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: x-small; line-height: 16px;"&gt;Shabbos 31a).&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&amp;nbsp;Though Nassim Nicholas Taleb comes across as very erudite, he doesn't indicate that he's familiar with the Talmudic account, though. He seems to focus on the problem of maintaining balance after downing a few glasses of wine: "It was not too convenient to stand on one leg after a few glasses of perfumed Riesling, so I failed in my improvisation." The next morning, he says, a formulation came to him as follows: &lt;i&gt;"the cosmetic and the Platonic rise naturally to the surface." &lt;/i&gt;Not quite as pithy as Hillel's formulation of all of Torah, and, certainly, less concrete or practically instructive. However, Taleb is more concerned with observing how people fall into errors of thinking and perception rather than in telling people how to live.&lt;br /&gt;
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But I happen to be seeing that choice all by itself protruding from the ripped corner of the envelope. Seeing &amp;nbsp;it in isolation, I finally realized how those who opt for the lower amount see it. That's the key: they see the choice of two amounts -- one small and easy, and the other large enough to give many people pause. They &amp;nbsp;do not pay attention to the larger picture that paying the smaller amount now will result in pay far more over time than paying off all that is owed on this bill. &lt;br /&gt;
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What struck me is how this is a prime example of what R' Shimon advocates as the trait a person should acquire: being &lt;i&gt;roeh es hanolad --&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;seeing the ramifications of one's actions. Sure enough the parallel bad trait he gives in the next Mishna is borrowing without paying back. &amp;nbsp;It's a simple enough idea, but so many people never internalize this notion of foreseeing the consequences of opting for the more tempting choice at present. They see it in isolation, not as something connected to other parts of their life.&lt;br /&gt;
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Related post:&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://kallahmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/check-your-impulse.html"&gt;http://kallahmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/check-your-impulse.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Get updates by liking  http://www.facebook.com/KallahMagazine   Follow me on Twitter @AriellaBrown and circle me at Google+ under the same name and picture. Also be sure to visit www.kallahmagazine.com and http://www.examiner.com/jewish-bridal-in-new-york/ariella-brown&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Visit my site www.kallahmagazine.com to read archived articles; you don't have to be a kallah to like it.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/29729528-7830659226257932082?l=kallahmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://kallahmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/difference-between-scrubbed-and.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Ariella)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29729528.post-7712127250384980599</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2012 02:36:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-01-19T11:01:34.230-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">books</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">literature</category><title>Are these the top 10 novels?</title><description>&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 15px;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;I read almost all of these. I'm not sure I agree that they sharpen the mind particularly, especially as they tend toward the best known works of these authors.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 15px;"&gt;I read most of them.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 15px;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 15px;"&gt;I'm not sure I agree that they sharpen the mind particularly. To that end, one of the works of Camus should have been included. &amp;nbsp;It's possible to argue for a place for Thackery's &lt;i&gt;Vanity Fair, &lt;/i&gt;also, if only because it challenges the notion that a novel must include characters one can admire or sympathize with.&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/i&gt;As for the novels selected, they tend toward the best known works of the featured authors.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 15px;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 15px;"&gt;For instance, If anyone reads only one book by Jane Austen, it usually is &lt;i&gt;Pride and Prejudice.&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;But the author herself, fond as she was of it, considered it nor so deep: "The work is rather too light, and bright, and sparkling; it wants shade; it wants to be stretched out here and there with a long chapter of sense, if it could be had; if not, of solemn specious nonsense, about something unconnected with the story: an essay on writing, a critique on Walter Scott, or the history of Buonaparté, or anything that would form a contrast and bring the reader with increased delight to the playfulness and general epigrammatism of the general style."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 15px;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 15px;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Persuasion &lt;/i&gt;is less "light, and bright, and sparkling." It was the one novel from Jane Austen selected for my comprehensive exams in grad school.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 15px;"&gt;As for George Eliot's &lt;i&gt;Middlemarch,&lt;/i&gt; I agree that there is much depth there in the stories of these characters and the long term effects of the choices that they make, though&lt;i&gt; Daniel Deronda&lt;/i&gt; has much of that, as well, along with the question of identity, background, and belonging.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 15px;"&gt;I would have liked for Charlotte Bronte's &lt;i&gt;Jane Eyre&lt;/i&gt; to be included. It does deserve recognition -- if only for depicting a plain woman as a fascinating and strong heroine who will not let her sense of right and self be swallowed up by another -- a sort of inverse of the heroine of &amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;Madame Bovary, &amp;nbsp;&lt;/i&gt;a book that make the list.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;br /&gt;
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related post:&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://kallahmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/utility-of-fiction.html"&gt;http://kallahmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/utility-of-fiction.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href="http://www.examiner.com/jewish-bridal-in-new-york/reasons-to-visit-the-met-on-monday"&gt;http://www.examiner.com/jewish-bridal-in-new-york/reasons-to-visit-the-met-on-monday&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://www.examiner.com/jewish-bridal-in-new-york/long-island-option-for-martin-luther-king-day-review"&gt;http://www.examiner.com/jewish-bridal-in-new-york/long-island-option-for-martin-luther-king-day-review&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href="http://www.examiner.com/jewish-bridal-in-new-york/free-admissions-to-national-parks-through-martin-luther-king-day"&gt;http://www.examiner.com/jewish-bridal-in-new-york/free-admissions-to-national-parks-through-martin-luther-king-day&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href="http://www.examiner.com/jewish-bridal-in-new-york/long-island-option-for-martin-luther-king-day-review"&gt;http://www.examiner.com/jewish-bridal-in-new-york/long-island-option-for-martin-luther-king-day-review&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;
Also the New York Historical Society is open on Martin Luther King Day:, find info on it here&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://www.examiner.com/jewish-bridal-in-new-york/yet-another-option-for-monday-entertainment-this-week"&gt;http://www.examiner.com/jewish-bridal-in-new-york/yet-another-option-for-monday-entertainment-this-week&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href="http://www.examiner.com/jewish-bridal-in-new-york/more-for-monday"&gt;http://www.examiner.com/jewish-bridal-in-new-york/more-for-monday&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;
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related posts:&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://www.examiner.com/jewish-bridal-in-new-york/joy-alert-tis-the-season-for-self-control"&gt;http://www.examiner.com/jewish-bridal-in-new-york/joy-alert-tis-the-season-for-self-control&lt;/a&gt;,&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://www.examiner.com/jewish-bridal-in-new-york/take-charge-part-1-of-2" rel="nofollow" style="background-color: white; color: #3e72a7; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;"&gt;http://www.examiner.com/jewish-bridal-in-new-york/take-charge-part-1-of-2&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Also see&amp;nbsp;&lt;span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;"&gt;the "Saver or Spender" quiz at&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://kallahmagazine.com/MoneyMatters.htm" rel="nofollow" style="background-color: white; color: #3e72a7; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;"&gt;http://kallahmagazine.com/MoneyMatters.htm&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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'&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"&gt;"Over the past decade, academic researchers such as Oatley and Raymond Mar from York University have gathered data indicating that fiction-reading activates neuronal pathways in the brain that measurably help the reader better understand real human emotion — improving his or her overall social skillfulness. For instance, in fMRI studies of people reading fiction, neuroscientists detect activity in the pre-frontal cortex — a part of the brain involved with setting goals — when the participants read about characters setting a new goal. It turns out that when Henry James, more than a century ago, defended the value of fiction by saying that "a novel is a direct impression of life," he was more right than he knew."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;blockquote class="tr_bq"&gt;Early detection through x-ray mammography has been the clarion call of Breast Cancer Awareness campaigns for a quarter of a century now.&lt;br /&gt;
However, very little progress has been made in making the public aware of the crucial differences between non-malignant lesions/tumors and invasive or non-invasive cancers detected through this technology.&lt;br /&gt;
When all forms of breast pathology are looked at in the aggregate, irrespective of their relative risk for harm, disease of the breast takes on the appearance of a monolithic entity that you either have, or don't have; they call it&amp;nbsp;&lt;em&gt;breast cancer&lt;/em&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;
The concept of a breast cancer that has no symptoms, which cannot be diagnosed through manual palpation of the breast and does not become invasive in the vast majority of cases, might sound unbelievable to most women.&lt;br /&gt;
However, there does exist a rather mysterious clinical anomaly known as Ductal Carcinoma In Situ (DCIS), which is, in fact, one of the most commonly diagnosed and unnecessarily treated forms of 'breast cancer' today.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href="http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2012/01/09/x-ray-mammography-screenings-finding-cancers-not-there.aspx?e_cid=20120109_DNL_art_1"&gt;This article&lt;/a&gt; corroborates a key aspect of the argument made in &amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;Pink Ribbon Blues, &lt;/i&gt;which I reviewed in&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://kallahmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/06/beyond-pink.html"&gt;http://kallahmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/06/beyond-pink.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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I actually offer a happy solution in my post&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://www.thecmosite.com/author.asp?section_id=1167&amp;amp;doc_id=237388&amp;amp;"&gt;http://www.thecmosite.com/author.asp?section_id=1167&amp;amp;doc_id=237388&amp;amp;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Earlier,&amp;nbsp;I&amp;nbsp;did a story on marketing what was considered feminine to men in&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://www.thecmosite.com/author.asp?section_id=1167&amp;amp;doc_id=236606&amp;amp;" style="background-color: white; font-family: tahoma, verdana, arial, helvetica; font-size: small; line-height: 27px; text-align: -webkit-left;"&gt;Manly Cupcakes: Real Men Don't Take Marketing Advice&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; color: #0045a0; font-family: tahoma, verdana, arial, helvetica; font-size: x-small; line-height: 27px; text-align: -webkit-left;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;*Note these are not kosher.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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In between the two, I wrote about &lt;a href="http://www.thecmosite.com/author.asp?section_id=1167&amp;amp;doc_id=237308&amp;amp;"&gt;KLM's social seating plan&amp;nbsp;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Watch for a couple of other blogs appearing on two other boards in the near future.&lt;br /&gt;
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and as proof of the many activities that are open to people at no cost at all in our fair city here, see&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://www.examiner.com/jewish-bridal-in-new-york/free-new-york-today"&gt;http://www.examiner.com/jewish-bridal-in-new-york/free-new-york-today&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;Menorah of Zechariah's Vision (Folio 316v), from the Cervera Bible, illuminated by Joseph the Frenchman, Spain, 1299–1300. Tempera, gold, and ink on parchment. Biblioteca Nacional de Portugal, Lisbon (BNP, IL.72)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="field field-name-image-credits field-type-text field-label-inline clearfix field-bundle-photo" style="background-color: #fafafa; color: #333333; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px;"&gt;&lt;div class="field-label" style="float: left; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Credits:&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-gwzlnaE6pyQ/TvZ5N32bxLI/AAAAAAAAAPQ/UlVdouHpewE/s1600/MenorahMet.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="400" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-gwzlnaE6pyQ/TvZ5N32bxLI/AAAAAAAAAPQ/UlVdouHpewE/s400/MenorahMet.jpg" width="306" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: #fafafa; color: #333333; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px;"&gt;http://www.metmuseum.org/exhibitions/listings/2011/cervera-bible&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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